WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Fetching Feelings

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. I was watching a clip on

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<v Speaker 1>to B the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>Was this music plan my dad.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great, it's brooking Jeffy in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>We're not on to be by the way, but you

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<v Speaker 3>can find us on other more reputable platforms. But the

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<v Speaker 3>clip was a single lady, an attractive single lady, talking

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<v Speaker 3>about dating in the modern world and how it's so

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<v Speaker 3>rare now that guys actually plan anything for their dates.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what, just hot women complaining the.

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<v Speaker 1>Algorithms doing what it wants to do. Watches it all.

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<v Speaker 3>She was really upset because a guy wanted to go

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<v Speaker 3>on a walk and get to know her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, am I.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, alexis a walk, she's.

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<v Speaker 4>Job.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean plan something, pay for something, put in some

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<v Speaker 3>actual effort.

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<v Speaker 2>We could through the mall America.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something.

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<v Speaker 2>And you need to watch less touby jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying that's why I'm proud to talk to

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<v Speaker 3>our caller today, because he actually planned something for his date.

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<v Speaker 2>He would be celebrated on the platform.

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<v Speaker 3>He absolutely His name is Cole Cole. It is an

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<v Speaker 3>honor and a privilege to have you join us today.

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<v Speaker 4>How you doing Mare, Well, Thanks, it's an honored privilege

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<v Speaker 4>to be here against up.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you're just going to tell us that

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<v Speaker 2>you took her to dinner. Yeah, which is fine, that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you bought her a too Be subscription? Too good man?

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<v Speaker 3>What's the premium to get the good content? Like I

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<v Speaker 3>get so Cole tell us about this girl that she

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<v Speaker 3>meant what's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Jamie?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how'd you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 4>We met through one of the dating apps, and it's

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<v Speaker 4>pretty typical, but I really went out of my way

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<v Speaker 4>to make this a special experience for her.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I ask before we find out what you did?

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<v Speaker 4>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, why were you.

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<v Speaker 2>So motivated to do something special for Jamie?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we were talking before we met and she had

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<v Speaker 4>mentioned she hadn't been very social in the last six

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<v Speaker 4>months because her dog would run away and she's taken

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<v Speaker 4>her Amy Bard. Oh no, Yeah, she was really devastated.

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<v Speaker 4>So I told her that we're going to go to

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<v Speaker 4>a restaurant. But instead, when I picked her up, I

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<v Speaker 4>actually took her to a pet shelter.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, pet shelter.

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<v Speaker 2>Risky moved? You didn't tell her at all?

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<v Speaker 4>No, Because I figured just being around dogs would help

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<v Speaker 4>cheer up, you know, happened at the time of the animals,

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<v Speaker 4>and would be to know each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, or she could be totally re traumatized seeing dogs

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<v Speaker 3>with no families.

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<v Speaker 1>Again.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I was worried at first because she was

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<v Speaker 4>a little hesitant. I think she was a little weirded out.

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<v Speaker 4>But then she really seemed to warm up to the

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<v Speaker 4>whole thing, and then I really felt like she bonded

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<v Speaker 4>with a few of the dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really good.

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<v Speaker 2>So you got to play with the dogs.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you weren't like going to adopt one, right,

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<v Speaker 5>you were just going to see them.

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<v Speaker 4>Well. I wasn't planning on it, and I thought neither

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<v Speaker 4>was she. But she told me she thought she might

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<v Speaker 4>come back and adopt one.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, but you're kind of like the hero in

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<v Speaker 3>that sense, and that you've reopened her mind to the

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<v Speaker 3>idea of owning another.

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<v Speaker 4>Pet, I thought. So we left the shelter, we went, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we had great conversation. Of course, we talked a lot

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<v Speaker 4>about dogs because we also love dogs, and I could

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<v Speaker 4>feel the vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you try to kiss her?

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<v Speaker 4>I did lean in. We did have a little peck.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's cute, not.

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<v Speaker 1>A dog kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Kiss many humped the table chair leg.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well that's sweet.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm just surprised I have not heard from her

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<v Speaker 4>and we're not already hanging out, you know more.

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<v Speaker 5>No kidding, because if she went back and actually adopted

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<v Speaker 5>the dog, it'd be such an easy way to be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>you have to come walk the dog, you have to

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<v Speaker 5>come meet the dog.

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<v Speaker 1>And so is there any chance that her dog that

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<v Speaker 1>ran away came back?

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<v Speaker 4>Why would that be bad? I think about that.

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<v Speaker 3>Because in that sense it would be like good for

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<v Speaker 3>her that she's reunited with her old friend, but bad

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<v Speaker 3>for you because now your whole pet shelter dog thing

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<v Speaker 3>is totally out the window. Yes's true, you sell a

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<v Speaker 3>pet of yeah, yeah, but not the experience doesn't mean.

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<v Speaker 1>As much to You're not replacing anything. So what's the deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she like ghosting you?

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<v Speaker 3>Completely total ghosts?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? And how many times have you texted or called?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to be obsessive about it, but that's

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<v Speaker 4>same about three or four.

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<v Speaker 6>Nothing crazy happened at all, Like you took her to

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<v Speaker 6>a dog sheltered to pet puppies, and you were kind

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<v Speaker 6>and you made sure she was I mean, we've heard

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<v Speaker 6>so many awful stories. I don't see anything crazy that

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<v Speaker 6>stands out here.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean not sound like I'm patting myself on the

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<v Speaker 4>back here, but I was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>You felt.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when they're I know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called confidence.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's really sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's going on here.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe it's something simple, you know, maybe she lost her phone.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>We're so jaded.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like, could it be that taking a woman

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<v Speaker 3>to a pet shelter is more romantic than buying a

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<v Speaker 3>woman a bunch of free drinks?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you don't get to have it all.

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<v Speaker 3>We're hopefully going to find out an answer from Jamie

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<v Speaker 3>and see if she picks up when we call her

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<v Speaker 3>and try and get you your second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Update right after this, And I really appreciate it that man.

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<v Speaker 1>Just hold on. Second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Two daters bonded over their shared love of animals.

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<v Speaker 1>So sweet. Where did they end up at a pet shelter?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's probably what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Petting dogs getting their faces licked, hopefully not getting their

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<v Speaker 3>rear sniffed. To save that for date number three? And

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<v Speaker 3>now where does our listener Cole stand? Well, he feels

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<v Speaker 3>like he's in his own cage shelter right now, all alone,

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<v Speaker 3>crying because his date Jamie isn't coming to pick him up.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a whimpering stray in the back of a dirty shelter.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how he feels. That's how it feels to get

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<v Speaker 3>ghosted like this. Well, guess what, Cole, We're gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>throwing you a bone today, buddy. We're gonna help you out.

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<v Speaker 3>We are gonna call Jamie hopefully she picks up, and

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna try and find out what happened. I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>praying that she's been so busy rolling around on the floor,

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<v Speaker 3>play and fetch with her brand new adopted puppy that

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<v Speaker 3>she just hasn't had the time, I mean to pick

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<v Speaker 3>up her phone and respond.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, getting a new puppy is like getting a baby

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<v Speaker 5>in a lot of ways. You're up all night, you

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<v Speaker 5>gotta deal with pee and all other sorts of things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, write that on the mom blogs, say, Cole, is

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<v Speaker 3>that a possibility? Do you think maybe there's a chance

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<v Speaker 3>that she just has a new pet and that's taken

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<v Speaker 3>up all of her attention.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm really trying not to make a doggie

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<v Speaker 4>style joke.

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<v Speaker 1>Here overmind you cold. This is a family show. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of kids that listening.

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<v Speaker 4>I was thinking, call you're good. We have the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Pressure that you're really not helping us here. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>just sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's close to losing your bone, really going into bed

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<v Speaker 3>territory with the.

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<v Speaker 4>Got it?

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<v Speaker 1>More horrible things are said. Let's just call Jamie.

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<v Speaker 3>Pass everybody down. Okay, here we go right now. Hello,

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<v Speaker 3>Hey is this Jamie? Yes, hey Jamie, thanks for picking up.

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<v Speaker 3>We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 3>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, what is this?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh surprise, that's for sure it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a fun surprise. It's a segment that we do

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<v Speaker 3>called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 7>So why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 3>We are calling because one of our listeners has asked

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<v Speaker 3>us to reach.

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<v Speaker 1>Out to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Who called you?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's a guy that you went out with recently

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<v Speaker 3>and he you have kind of ghosted him, at least

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<v Speaker 3>that's what he thinks.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Cole.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you kidding me? That piece of crap called you?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? Are we talking about the same person? The guy

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<v Speaker 2>that took you to the dog shelter?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Really? He told you that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Is that wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that not right?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you not go to a pet shelter?

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<v Speaker 7>No, we did, And I can tell you exactly why

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not calling him back.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that makes our job so easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Honestly, Cole is very confused. From his perspective, the

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<v Speaker 3>date went really well, and you guys had a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of fun and we did.

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<v Speaker 8>And I felt a huge connection with one of the

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<v Speaker 8>dogs that we met. I went back to the shelter

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<v Speaker 8>the next day to adopt him.

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<v Speaker 7>And it's just a little guy. I even named him

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<v Speaker 7>Muffin already in my head.

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<v Speaker 1>Solid name.

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<v Speaker 2>What happened?

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<v Speaker 7>So the shelter worker that I saw there, who was

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<v Speaker 7>the same person we saw the day before? For me,

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<v Speaker 7>the guy I was with had come in and adopted

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<v Speaker 7>the dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait, Cole came in.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes.

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<v Speaker 7>I asked him if he was joking.

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<v Speaker 1>What the heck?

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<v Speaker 7>He said that he'd come in like an hour before me.

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<v Speaker 5>Cole didn't say anything about adopting the dog. He said,

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<v Speaker 5>you adopted the dog we ad He said.

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<v Speaker 3>She was thinking about adopting a dog, that they hadn't

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<v Speaker 3>done it yet.

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<v Speaker 2>You're kidding. I mean, this has got to be some

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<v Speaker 2>sort of mix up.

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<v Speaker 7>I know, I was shocked, and honestly, I thought maybe

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<v Speaker 7>he was going to text me and say that he

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<v Speaker 7>had a surprise for me, totally yeah, wanting to go

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<v Speaker 7>back out again.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but he didn't when but he said that he

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<v Speaker 5>called you and he texted you.

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<v Speaker 2>He wanted to get a hold of you. Maybe that's

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<v Speaker 2>still the case.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's the whole reason that we're doing this call

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<v Speaker 3>is to give you a huge surprise, because I need

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<v Speaker 3>to let you know, Jamie, that Cole is on the

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<v Speaker 3>other line right now wanting to tell you something.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Jamie, I didn't know you knew about that. Why

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<v Speaker 4>didn't you just text me about it? You just ghosted me.

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<v Speaker 4>That's terrible communication.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, shouldn't be the first.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Y is the dog for her? And not do you

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<v Speaker 2>have the dogs? You have Muffin?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I have Muffin and I feel like we've really bonded.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, wait, you're holding her for Jamie right to

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<v Speaker 3>give as like.

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<v Speaker 4>So shocked that she's even upset about this because I

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<v Speaker 4>knew she had a connection with one of the dogs,

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<v Speaker 4>but I thought she had a connection with that little

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<v Speaker 4>uglier one.

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<v Speaker 5>You plan a day for a woman who's grieving her

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<v Speaker 5>lost dog, and then you steal the new dog from

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<v Speaker 5>you didn't know?

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<v Speaker 7>Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 4>You stole my dog like your dog. I thought you

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<v Speaker 4>wanted that little ugly thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh they look cute, that's exactly they just why are

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<v Speaker 5>you insulting her?

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you not feel bad, Cole?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not insulting her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's insulting the little ugly dog.

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<v Speaker 4>The dog.

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<v Speaker 1>At least call the dog. That's what he said.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone's going to adopt the dog.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, it was an ugly dog.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys didn't see it, Okay, but you dog didn't you,

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<v Speaker 3>Chuck Muffin. We're too invested in this with little dogs

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<v Speaker 3>being involved. We all have to step away and let

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<v Speaker 3>Jamie and Cole talk to each other.

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<v Speaker 8>Cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Say something to Jamie because you She feels like you

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<v Speaker 3>knew that you liked that dog, and you came in

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<v Speaker 3>and swooped it out from under her.

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<v Speaker 4>I did not. I had no idea that she felt

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<v Speaker 4>that way about it. But I feel like I have

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<v Speaker 4>a way. We can all be happy already. Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>I told you at dinner that Muffin really touched on

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<v Speaker 7>my heart and that I didn't know already.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, what did you name it?

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<v Speaker 4>A different name?

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<v Speaker 5>So she's talking about how she loves muffin and you

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<v Speaker 5>didn't know who she was talking about, but.

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<v Speaker 1>You meant that you had some sort of solution to this.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a deal that can be made. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>how you felt about that dog, so I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm being very magnanimous here. How about if you want

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<v Speaker 4>to buy him off me, I'll give him to you

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<v Speaker 4>for three hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, got my god.

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<v Speaker 8>That's the adoption for you was only seventy five dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're so attached it.

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<v Speaker 2>Three hundred dollars is you? Is your price?

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<v Speaker 4>You guys can judge all you want, but he's my dog.

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<v Speaker 4>Now he's not in the shelter anymore. And we really

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<v Speaker 4>developed the bond, and I'm sorry, but it's going to

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<v Speaker 4>cost money to break that.

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<v Speaker 3>I will say now that he's not a shelter pet,

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<v Speaker 3>I see where he's coming from. They are more expensive

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<v Speaker 3>when they're not directing a good point, he's domesticating.

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<v Speaker 7>You got this dog for less than forty eight hours,

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<v Speaker 7>and now you're trying to make money off of the dog.

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<v Speaker 7>And that's Honestly, it just makes it so much worse.

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<v Speaker 7>I genuinely cannot believe you're doing this.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, I don't want any hard feelings, en, So how

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<v Speaker 4>about you pay me and I'll give you some of

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<v Speaker 4>those plastic bones that I already got for him.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, for the same three hundred dollars deal as before.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, thrown a bone, yeah, but actual plastic.

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<v Speaker 4>Bone, lea.

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<v Speaker 7>I genuinely just cannot believe that you would be doing

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<v Speaker 7>this to me. This is I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 7>to say to you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't understand why you're so upset. You've come out

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<v Speaker 4>ahead in this deal because for three hundred bucks, you

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<v Speaker 4>get the dogs, you get plastic bones, and you still

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<v Speaker 4>get me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow there too?

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<v Speaker 2>Can we train mummy you?

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<v Speaker 5>I totally sense the tension between you guys that you

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<v Speaker 5>were talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, with the whole dog dispute, I totally forgot about

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<v Speaker 3>your guys's blossoming love connection, which is the whole reason

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<v Speaker 3>that we're calling. We'd like to offer to send you

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<v Speaker 3>guys out on another date that we would pay for you.

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<v Speaker 6>We can put Muffin in the middle of you two

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<v Speaker 6>and then Muffing can choose. Like on those viral videos.

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<v Speaker 3>Muffins a little bit of a sore subject. Let's just

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<v Speaker 3>stick to the romance for now.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry you guys, but I'm going to hang up

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<v Speaker 7>and Cole you can text me when you're ready to

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<v Speaker 7>gift Muffin to me, because you know that that's my dog.

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<v Speaker 1>So he gives you the dog as you get a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, that ugly little one is still there.

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<v Speaker 2>She's gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she hung up, col col that's low man.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you do that?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know it was the same dog, but she love.

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<v Speaker 5>You, but you found out and then you tried to

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<v Speaker 5>charge her three hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I was being thoughtful. I could have charged her

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<v Speaker 4>a lot more. I mean, guess what I found out.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a pure bread.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh those are with thousands actually.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so oh man if you guys, you guys known

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<v Speaker 4>this a lot. Even though she hung up, do you

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<v Speaker 4>think she'd still want to go out?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She's hard to get right now, guys, I like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Rookie Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>In the morning, we're getting so many texts into seventy

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<v Speaker 3>eighty five nine to two asking.

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<v Speaker 1>How can I adopt that little ugly dog in the corner.

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<v Speaker 6>Little ugly Dogmies love uglier dogs get the cuter they get.

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<v Speaker 6>There's no such thing as an ugly dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Total me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but see this is what I was afraid of,

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<v Speaker 3>Like every dog needs to be adopted. Yes, but we

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<v Speaker 3>completely got away from the whole dating part of the

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<v Speaker 3>second date call, which is the reason that.

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<v Speaker 2>We do the second You need to give up on that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was way more invested in Muffin. Yeah, shelter calls all.

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<v Speaker 8>Day on here.

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<v Speaker 3>Book almost got in on the bidding war. She was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll throwing five hundred for the dog.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just trying to rescue Muffin.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, come on, But I.

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<v Speaker 3>Will say, it's just tough to come back to the

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<v Speaker 3>romance when you're bidding on pets and.

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<v Speaker 1>Dog toys, so a little tough to move on.

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<v Speaker 3>All in all seriousness, I do hope Cole does the

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<v Speaker 3>right thing and just gifts Muffin to Jamie.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I know you want that, we all want that,

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<v Speaker 5>but I just it's is not the vibe I'm getting.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, Jami, you're gonna have to go over to

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<v Speaker 1>Cole's house and steal that dog back. So do what

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta do to help.

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<v Speaker 3>So Alexis is here to help you, and we're here

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<v Speaker 3>to help all the daters out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Email the show.

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