WEBVTT - How's Your Marriage?

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the solid verbal. Hell that for me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a man, I'm forty. I've heard so many players say, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be happy. You want to be happy

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<v Speaker 1>for Dake Edith State? Is that woo woom? And Dan

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<v Speaker 1>and Tye.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to the Solid Verbal boys and girls. My

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<v Speaker 2>name is ty Hildebrand. His name is Dan Rubinstein. Solid

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<v Speaker 2>Sir mister Rubinstein, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. I am currently looking at the college football

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<v Speaker 1>subreddit on reddit dot com, which is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>two subreddits I look at. It's this in the pizza one,

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<v Speaker 1>which I'm now posting on. By the way, Oh, you've

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<v Speaker 1>made it to the to the posting state. Okay, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, yeah, absolutely, I have it. It doesn't look like

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<v Speaker 1>there's a bunch of news to talk about. Michigan loses

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<v Speaker 1>Giles Jackson, who is sort of there speedy all purpose

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<v Speaker 1>weapon a lot of reverses, was a promising receiver, so

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<v Speaker 1>he looks like he's in the transfer portal. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think there's a lot of current stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about unless you want to get into Murray State,

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<v Speaker 1>Eastern Illinois, Tennessee State, UT Martin. I'm okay, Yeah, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm I think I'm good. Actually, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad the kids are playing football, he says, as an

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<v Speaker 1>ancient human. But no, I mean, aside from there's some

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<v Speaker 1>recruiting news. I saw. I think Miami got a blue

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<v Speaker 1>chip quarterback, Arkansas got a top tier safety. It's it's March.

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing too much we can talk about right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess quarterback recruiting is somewhat interesting because that's where

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<v Speaker 1>the dominoes tend to fall pretty far ahead of signing day.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm all right, and I'm very excited for today's show.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also have early reviews of YouTube coaching clinic speeches.

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<v Speaker 2>YouTube coaches clinic speeches. Okay, yeah, if you look for

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<v Speaker 2>coaches you enjoy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, head coat coaches, sometimes coordinators. There's a good chance

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<v Speaker 1>that a video of them giving a coaching clinic is

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<v Speaker 1>on YouTube. And I watched Kirby Smart, I watched Lincoln Riley,

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<v Speaker 1>I've watched Sark There's a number i've watched Nick Saban.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a number of really good ones you can watch,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like an hour long, and you get a

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<v Speaker 1>who's cheek inside her head?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's let's stay here for a second because he's not

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<v Speaker 2>sending me these links and I've been watching. I think

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<v Speaker 2>I watched the Sark once he sent over who is

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<v Speaker 2>the best that you've watched? Just from an entertainment standpoint.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw Chip Kelly want a long time ago. That

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<v Speaker 1>was really good. I think it was at an old

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<v Speaker 1>Nike clinic because he was so plain and direct and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, yeah, this is what he runs, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I run, and this is how we just

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<v Speaker 1>f up teams with it. It's not that difficulty. He

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<v Speaker 1>was just very frank and that was a fun watch.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed the Sark one, which I had sent to you, Reese.

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<v Speaker 1>Sark was good. Yeah. The thing so it's college coaches

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<v Speaker 1>reviewing their offenses or defenses or philosophies about coaching in

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<v Speaker 1>general to a room packed full of there are smaller

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<v Speaker 1>school like smaller level college coaches or a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>high school coaches. I think is the target audience. It's

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<v Speaker 1>about coaching development. It's a coaching ted talk is what

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<v Speaker 1>it is. It totally is, and it's also I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good for high school coaches to learn from these

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<v Speaker 1>guys who have succeeded and also to network because, as

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<v Speaker 1>we know, a number of prominent head coaches and coordinators

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<v Speaker 1>have come from the high school ranks up. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>always just guys starting out as low level college guys

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<v Speaker 1>and working their way up. A lot of time it's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Art Briles and Gus Malsan and Chad Morris,

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<v Speaker 1>guys like that. So though it's fascinating to watch, they

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<v Speaker 1>all start out the same way, which is complementing the

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<v Speaker 1>hell out of the coaches. You guys are doing the

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<v Speaker 1>real work. That's right. You guys are the fronkbone of

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<v Speaker 1>this sport. Yes, so I've been watching some of that,

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<v Speaker 1>but really there isn't a ton to talk about. We've

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<v Speaker 1>had some. I saw some Pac twelve schools are wrapping

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<v Speaker 1>up spring practice. I think Oregon starts in a week

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<v Speaker 1>or two, so not too much. I'm excited to see,

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<v Speaker 1>not excited, but eager to see what the transfer portal

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<v Speaker 1>looks like after the spring season.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, on today's show, we're going to do something that

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<v Speaker 2>we've wanted to do for a long time. Yeah, this

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<v Speaker 2>is the How's your Marriage?

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<v Speaker 1>Show? Dan?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is the How's your Marriage Show? Except we're

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<v Speaker 2>not talking about our marriages. Well you want to, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know you it will end up there. But here's

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<v Speaker 2>where we're going to start. Where we're going to start

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<v Speaker 2>is by looking at marriages between coaches and programs, coaches

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<v Speaker 2>and institutions. We're going to evaluate the health of said relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>So we've got a big list here. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if we'll get through all of these, but some guys

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<v Speaker 2>might be on the hot seat, some guys maybe are

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<v Speaker 2>doing pretty well or have been in a state of

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<v Speaker 2>stagnation for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>Some are very much on the rise.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're really going to run the gamut here evaluate

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<v Speaker 2>the health of some of these relationships. Coaching standpoint, maybe more,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, right, and we're going to see where

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<v Speaker 2>we stand here. We're two married guys. We can evaluate

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship, right.

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<v Speaker 1>We absolutely I want to. We did this what twenty

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen way back when you till you found it, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know we did. Yeah, we tied it to steaminess,

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<v Speaker 1>And I got to tell you once again this is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be a sexist landmine for us, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to do our best to avoid any pratt falls here.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I think we're going to evaluate relationship, marriages,

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<v Speaker 1>steam factor, and whether or not everything you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>charcoal is still burning bright between these two entities, be it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we've got mostly coaches in schools, but also

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<v Speaker 1>maybe bigger, broader ideas and bigger broader relationships, if that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. Why don't we start out very broad? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have us? Do you have a sound to lead

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<v Speaker 1>us in?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, the only one I have is on set.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like spicy is a pretty good right here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's pretty good, such a versatile sounded. Indeed, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>where are we starting.

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<v Speaker 2>We're starting with Power five football and its marriage, its

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<v Speaker 2>open relationship with the NC Double A.

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<v Speaker 1>Dan, it's open it.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to you want me to explain what

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<v Speaker 2>that term me. I'm aware of what the term means,

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<v Speaker 2>thinking I'm older than you. Keep that in mind.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true power five football in the n C Double A.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is this is an interesting space to be

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<v Speaker 2>in right now. The NC Double A. How would we

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<v Speaker 2>describe its relationship with Power five football?

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<v Speaker 1>Rules? It's organizational on some level, but it's mostly there

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<v Speaker 1>to organize the structure of eligibility and enforce rules that

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<v Speaker 1>affect eligibility. So it's a I suppose, very concerned security guard.

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<v Speaker 2>And power five football strikes me as a kind of

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<v Speaker 2>the kind of person that's been working out, looking in

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<v Speaker 2>the mirror, feeling real good about itself. Oh okay, and

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<v Speaker 2>starting to look at that NC double A and wonder, hmm,

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<v Speaker 2>do we really want to stay do we really want

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<v Speaker 2>to have the old ball and chain here? The NC

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<v Speaker 2>DOUBLEA be kind of with us forever? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Are we out growing?

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<v Speaker 2>Are we getting too good for the NC double A?

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<v Speaker 2>And I worry that these two may be headed for

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<v Speaker 2>Splitsville at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think I don't think you're necessarily incorrect. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that they've been together for so long and

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<v Speaker 1>grown a parts? Like dinner parties can get pretty uncomfortable. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there are a couple that at a dinner party, one

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<v Speaker 1>of them says something that the rest of the tables like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, did he say this is how he feels

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<v Speaker 1>about this group of people? I'm sorry? Did he just

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<v Speaker 1>talk about? What? What is he? What is he going

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<v Speaker 1>off on? And the partner in that relationship, the spouse

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<v Speaker 1>in that relationship is getting more and more embarrassed all

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<v Speaker 1>the time and wondering as they they glide into their

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<v Speaker 1>elder stage of their lives into the twilight years, is

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<v Speaker 1>this who they really should be spending time with. Is

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<v Speaker 1>are they still aligned as personalities as a couple. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the type of relationship right now now. It's very difficult

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<v Speaker 1>to find that person later in life. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>really have to be able to come across a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of personalities. And now maybe you're just in the case

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<v Speaker 1>of powerfive Football, you just want to be single. You

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<v Speaker 1>just want to be a bachelor or bachelorette, and you

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<v Speaker 1>just want to enjoy your life, and you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go on the vacations you want to go on. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to the restaurants you want to go to,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to buy the car you want to buy,

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<v Speaker 1>You want to decorate your house the way you want

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<v Speaker 1>to decorate your house. That's what I feel like we're

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<v Speaker 1>in right here. I feel like this.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a relationship that may need counseling. And Power five

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<v Speaker 2>is looking at the NC DOUBLEA is saying Spark's gone,

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<v Speaker 2>and the ncublea doesn't want to hear that, and so

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<v Speaker 2>they're willing to go to counseling. They're willing to do

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<v Speaker 2>whatever they can to rekindle that old flame. I just

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of times you get to that point there

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<v Speaker 2>is no rekindling to be had, Dan, So I worry

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<v Speaker 2>about this relationship, I really do.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand where both are coming from. But Power five,

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<v Speaker 1>Power five, man, it's got room to grow, It's got

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<v Speaker 1>on its own. The nc DOUBLEA, the NCAA has gotten

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<v Speaker 1>used to a certain lifestyle. Yeah, I do, and are

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<v Speaker 1>now worried that, oh, we're gonna have to move from

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<v Speaker 1>this this lakeside cottage, this lakeside mansion into the condo

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<v Speaker 1>in the city. Yeah, they don't want that without Power five,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't. Mark Emmerton does not want that. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think so. So, Yeah, I think counseling or just they

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<v Speaker 1>really have to to spice things up and change their ways.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's even possible. It's late in life. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's jump to what I think is the opposite side

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<v Speaker 2>of the spectrum. Dan, Okay, let's talk about Dan Mullen

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<v Speaker 2>and University of Florida right as opposed to Power five

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<v Speaker 2>In the NCAA, which I feel like maybe two ships

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<v Speaker 2>drifting in opposite directions. I feel like the Mullen Florida

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<v Speaker 2>relationship is one of those deals where they start wearing

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<v Speaker 2>matching jackets, like, okay, each way back, they go way back.

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<v Speaker 2>Each's identity is has so much in common with the

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<v Speaker 2>other that they just sort of morph into the same

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<v Speaker 2>entity altogether. You ever met a couple like that where

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<v Speaker 2>you know they're maybe they're they're wearing like matching Jean

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<v Speaker 2>jackets or something. They become one and the same.

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking about like the Brad pittization of a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>where he's he's with Aniston and his hair is blonde.

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<v Speaker 1>He's with Jolie his hair is black. Like he takes

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<v Speaker 1>on he's a shape shifter. Yeah, as it relates to

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<v Speaker 1>his relationship partner. Yeah, in this case, I guess, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'm feeling about the Mullen Florida union here is

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<v Speaker 2>that Florida is just going to take on all the

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<v Speaker 2>characteristics of Dan Mullen, that he's going to be successful there.

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<v Speaker 2>He's been successful there in the past, so he knows

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<v Speaker 2>the school. They have a lot in common.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a weird way to talk about a side of

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship, I know, isn't it. It's very strange.

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<v Speaker 2>He's been successful there, so yeah, I didn't even notice

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<v Speaker 2>that when I said it, but I know, think, where

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<v Speaker 2>do you stand on the mull in Florida thing?

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<v Speaker 1>There is an element to Mullen and Florida. Not to

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<v Speaker 1>say that Dan Mullen cheated by leaving Mississippi State in

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<v Speaker 1>his wake, because he accomplished a lot of very impressive

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<v Speaker 1>things in Mississippi State and in Starkville, but there is

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<v Speaker 1>an element where his name keeps coming up, keeps coming

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<v Speaker 1>up for jobs, even at Florida, where he just won

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<v Speaker 1>the East. They just broke through the Gators did under

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<v Speaker 1>Dan Mullen, beat Georgia, ended up scoring a ton of

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<v Speaker 1>points on Alabama, and even though Kyle Trask is gone,

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<v Speaker 1>Kyle Pitts is gone, what do you call him? K

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<v Speaker 1>pop that I think there is some doubt among Florida

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<v Speaker 1>fans that he's sort of had his ceiling and that

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<v Speaker 1>it'll be more difficult to break through the Alabama side

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<v Speaker 1>of things. There's also a side to me that with

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<v Speaker 1>Dan Mullen's name coming up for so many jobs so often,

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<v Speaker 1>I think Dan Mullen has a lot of emotional friendships

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<v Speaker 1>with other schools, and that is a tricky relationship to

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<v Speaker 1>be and almost like you got together with somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on you with their who cheated on their spouse

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Now you're together, but you're still like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>this person is a cheater that I'm now with, and

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<v Speaker 1>so what does that say about our relationship? I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's an element to that. With Dan Mullen and Florida.

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<v Speaker 1>Things are going great, charming and really getting the most

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<v Speaker 1>out of the relationship, but there is that element that,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, it's got to be his way, and

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<v Speaker 1>is his way always the best for the relationship? Not

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<v Speaker 1>so sure? Hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not expect you to explore the cheating side

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<v Speaker 2>of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I mean, does his name not come up?

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<v Speaker 1>Dan Mullen would be interested in an NFL job? Should

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<v Speaker 1>one come up and be interested in Dan Mullen's services. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that was all smoke, but there seems to always

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<v Speaker 1>be smoke with Dan Mullen and jobs in college football.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really interesting angle Dan. Emotional friendships.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't. I didn't consider that before. I think

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<v Speaker 2>we're still a little bit of ways off from that.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like Florida, Florida needs to get to the

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<v Speaker 2>top of the sec before before that's a real conversation,

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<v Speaker 2>a real worry now from the from the Florida side.

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<v Speaker 1>But is there an element of Florida having a tremendous

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<v Speaker 1>relationship for a stretch though it did go south with say,

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<v Speaker 1>Dan Mullen's brother, and now Florida. You know, they were

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<v Speaker 1>with Stan Mullen. Mullen sure, and Dan's always going to

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<v Speaker 1>be compared to Stan because they're tied together. And now

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<v Speaker 1>Florida is like, well, Stan is off doing his thing

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<v Speaker 1>and it didn't work out. Let's go with Dan Mullen,

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<v Speaker 1>the lesser of the Mullins, but a terrifically impressive Mullen.

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<v Speaker 2>Still a Mullon nonetheless. Okay, correct, you really threw me

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<v Speaker 2>for a loop, So I want to move on. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to go a different direction.

0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:26.080
<v Speaker 1>I would have for a long walk a little while

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<v Speaker 1>ago and thought these throw continue.

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<v Speaker 2>Ken, Neo, Matalolo and Navy. So look, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>say something here Lis that listen. I would anticipate a

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<v Speaker 2>large chunk of our listening audience would take some umbrage too,

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm gonna say it anyway, because we're all friends.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all friends here. I feel like with the frequency

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<v Speaker 2>that Ken Niamatolo, I can't even say his name, that

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<v Speaker 2>his name comes up with Ken, Ken, thank you, with

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<v Speaker 2>other jobs, that there must at least be some interest

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<v Speaker 2>from his side.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that fair to say? I know he's interviewed of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, of course, of course, yes, And

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<v Speaker 1>yet he's still at Navy.

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<v Speaker 2>Navy's going to keep him for as long as he's

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<v Speaker 2>willing to stay. This to me, has the element of

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<v Speaker 2>a high school relationship that it's just sort of always been,

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<v Speaker 2>and now as we get a little bit later in life,

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<v Speaker 2>there may be one of the two partners that's willing

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<v Speaker 2>to just explore, test the waters and see what's out there.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like that might that maybe Ken in

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<v Speaker 1>this case. Dean, Okay, yeah, I think you're onto something.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought about this in terms of Ken new Modololo

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<v Speaker 1>and Navy. You know, notice how I just nailed the

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<v Speaker 1>name right there. Casually. Ken is Ken and Navy are

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<v Speaker 1>from a small town. They have a very specific relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and specific history and specific accent and way of doing things.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not saying that Ken is tired of Navy,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe Ken wants to take the train into the

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<v Speaker 1>big city and understand a way of life that's different

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<v Speaker 1>than what he's used to. And not that Navy's holding

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<v Speaker 1>him back, because Navy understands Ken like they have a

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<v Speaker 1>great rapport, But there is something about their very specific

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and references and preferences that Ken Neamadololo is saying,

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<v Speaker 1>this has been a great relationship. I wouldn't change a thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know I come at things from a very

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<v Speaker 1>specific perspective.

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<v Speaker 2>But.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe I'd like to take a siesta

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<v Speaker 1>before a late dinner at ten pm and see what

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<v Speaker 1>that's like. Yeah, this you know what this is Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>now that I think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>H Ken on his Facebook profile still has listed when

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<v Speaker 2>it says interested in he still has interested in small

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<v Speaker 2>mid major college football programs. Has that listed? He does

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<v Speaker 2>not have any entry though at least not publicly in

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<v Speaker 2>that married field, and so you might be passing by.

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<v Speaker 2>He might be Ken's friends say, Wow, he's okay, he's

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<v Speaker 2>still interested in X. We know he's married to X,

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<v Speaker 2>but we don't see any listing of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why that's true, I think that's a good comparison.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not overt, it's not in your field, not trying

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<v Speaker 2>to cause a ruckus. And it's very easy for Ken

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<v Speaker 2>to just say, look, I don't go on Facebook that much.

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't mean anything to me. Probably means a lot to Navy, though,

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't it. Navy might not even know about it. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>they can't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was on a very similar mind path. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember when Instagram would let you see somebody's likes, Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh he accounts that they've liked. Oh yeah, and first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, hilariously evil feature, just incredible. But then you

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<v Speaker 1>would you would hear about politicians, or you would hear about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, big famous people that are in relationships but

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<v Speaker 1>liking all of the posts of this person that they're

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<v Speaker 1>not in a relationship with, and all those posts are

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<v Speaker 1>that person. It's scantily clad on a beach somewhere, or

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<v Speaker 1>it's a politician who's like the sexualization of our youth.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you look at their likes and it's maybe

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<v Speaker 1>some adult film stars maybe, and they didn't realize that

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<v Speaker 1>they were being kind of overt with who they truly are,

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<v Speaker 1>which is fine, but there is that element to ken neomodololo.

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<v Speaker 1>His quirks and preferences are on display, whether he knows

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<v Speaker 1>it or not. Yeah, he's looking. He's open for business. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is, somebody in a bigger city with

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<v Speaker 1>a different job, from a different background, are they going

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<v Speaker 1>to be into his delco accent? Right? It's unclear, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's a very specific personality that he has that

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't know how it's going to play somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's willing to roll that dice. I can evolve,

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<v Speaker 1>I can change, I can fit in. I'm a chameleon.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of which, Dan, But by the way, the delco

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<v Speaker 1>accent is just my favorite sound in America. Yeah, yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a thing that's suburban Philly, suburban Delaware County. Yeah yeah, a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot of water, a lot of thone phone talk on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it well.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, speaking of aggressive personalities, let's talk about Herm Edwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, let's do it here.

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<v Speaker 2>We are so Herm Edwards Actually when he now's his

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<v Speaker 2>marriage to Arizona State made some waves because it was

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<v Speaker 2>almost like.

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<v Speaker 1>An online type of thing. Remember he got was it

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<v Speaker 1>the was it the fight song wrong or the mascot wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>He got some right, what was that, something about sun

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<v Speaker 1>devils and being Catholic. Yeah, oh no, it was somebody

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<v Speaker 1>said they asked him a question and they announced that

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<v Speaker 1>they were from Devil's digest. He was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know about that. I'm a Catholic. Yeah it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just a weird, a weird thing where he

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<v Speaker 2>had been thrust into the situation and still didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>enough about the partner, and so that made some waves.

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<v Speaker 1>That made some waves. He also had a very weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Philosophy at the time, you'll recall that also made waves.

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<v Speaker 2>We got like three months worth of content out of that.

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<v Speaker 1>That was awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how ASU felt about that, but they were.

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<v Speaker 2>They were kind of reinventing the wheel in a sense.

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<v Speaker 2>So quirky new partner comes in a lot of enthusiasm,

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<v Speaker 2>happy to be there, trying to change the world. I

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<v Speaker 2>understand how you get caught up in that. And I

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<v Speaker 2>would say to some extent herm Edwards for sure has

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<v Speaker 2>exceeded expectations at Arizona State, because at least initially I

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<v Speaker 2>thought it was going to be a train wreck.

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<v Speaker 1>That has not been the case.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how if there's been a whole lot

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<v Speaker 2>of progression, but at least to date, I would say

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<v Speaker 2>it's been it's been a good experience. What is the

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<v Speaker 2>state of affairs now with herm at Asu Dan because

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<v Speaker 2>we you'll recall, talked a few weeks back about Arizona

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<v Speaker 2>state and how do they get over the hump? How

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<v Speaker 2>do they get to that next level? Where are we

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<v Speaker 2>at here? Where do you stand on herm Have.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever been to dinner with a couple, a new

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<v Speaker 1>couple where you had been to dinner with one of

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<v Speaker 1>those people that with another long term spouse or partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're just like kind of skeptical that they've moved

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<v Speaker 1>on to this new person, maybe younger, and you're just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder how this is gonna go. I wonder what

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<v Speaker 1>they have in common. I wonder what their vibe is,

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<v Speaker 1>their chemistry is like that vibe. I think I've been

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<v Speaker 1>that person who has had like a lot of dinners

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<v Speaker 1>with friends with one person and then I moved across

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<v Speaker 1>the country and what things changed? I think herm Edwards

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<v Speaker 1>was introduced to a much younger spouse by a good

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<v Speaker 1>friend of his agent and Adie Ray Anderson Vasio, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people were skeptical of the

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<v Speaker 1>generation gap. We're talking longtime adult NFL professional coach out

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<v Speaker 1>of the dating game, and everybody just assumed if he

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<v Speaker 1>were to get back in the game, it would be

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody more mature, more his age. But he goes

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody noticeably younger. But he's also trying to correct

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<v Speaker 1>the errors of his ways, trying to approach things in

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<v Speaker 1>a more modern way. He's dressing better, he's more thoughtful,

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to improve. And yes, this spouse is younger

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<v Speaker 1>and people are talking, there are whispers, but when you

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<v Speaker 1>spend time with them, you could see that they're a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good match. So hold on, hold, let me pause

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<v Speaker 1>you there for a second. I want to, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to unpack a little bit of this generational dynamic

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<v Speaker 1>here that you've uncovered. Of course, do we feel that

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<v Speaker 1>it's more of the old guy trying to improve himself

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<v Speaker 1>to be a better fit, or do we think that

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<v Speaker 1>it's the older guy almost doing the cool substitute teacher thing,

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<v Speaker 1>where like he's just being being edgy for the sake

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<v Speaker 1>of it, Like maybe he bought a leather jacket and

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't fit anything with his persona, but he's doing

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<v Speaker 1>it to try and play younger.

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<v Speaker 2>What side of the coin here are we on with Herm?

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<v Speaker 1>I think Herm Edwards is somebody who has gotten a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a bit older, is divorced, not by

0:24:07.359 --> 0:24:09.800
<v Speaker 1>his own doing, but realizes perhaps some of the error

0:24:09.800 --> 0:24:11.359
<v Speaker 1>of his ways, airs of his ways.

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<v Speaker 2>And.

0:24:13.680 --> 0:24:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Realizes that he's no good single. He needs someone needs

0:24:18.400 --> 0:24:21.800
<v Speaker 1>and he has a very specific energy to him. And

0:24:21.840 --> 0:24:24.040
<v Speaker 1>he was like, listen, I'm just going to find somebody

0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:26.320
<v Speaker 1>that's a good match. If they're tall, if they're short,

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<v Speaker 1>if they're old, if they're young, if they're loud, if

0:24:28.119 --> 0:24:31.040
<v Speaker 1>they're quiet, I'm going to find somebody who I work

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<v Speaker 1>out well with. And it just so happens this person

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<v Speaker 1>is young and lives in the sunshine, and there's not

0:24:38.560 --> 0:24:42.920
<v Speaker 1>a ton of big expectations of him. They just want

0:24:42.920 --> 0:24:46.359
<v Speaker 1>to have a good time. Their personalities match. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we like to look down on when we see that

0:24:48.720 --> 0:24:50.919
<v Speaker 1>famous people. You know, maybe an older man and a

0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:53.800
<v Speaker 1>younger woman or an older woman, whatever combination you're looking

0:24:53.840 --> 0:24:56.719
<v Speaker 1>for you have in mind, and we like to look

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<v Speaker 1>down and be like, what could they possibly have in common? Well,

0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:01.760
<v Speaker 1>here's the reaction if a seventy year old is with

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<v Speaker 1>a thirty year old, Say it's about a forty year

0:25:04.280 --> 0:25:09.080
<v Speaker 1>age gap. Thirty year old still an adult, right, we

0:25:09.080 --> 0:25:13.600
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't discount somebody. So I think we got to give

0:25:13.600 --> 0:25:17.040
<v Speaker 1>them a chance, even though it seems unconventional. I think

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:20.359
<v Speaker 1>once you hang out with them and you see the

0:25:20.480 --> 0:25:24.480
<v Speaker 1>experience of herm and his younger partner, ASU, you get it.

0:25:24.760 --> 0:25:27.520
<v Speaker 1>You understand what they're what they're doing together. I think

0:25:27.560 --> 0:25:30.040
<v Speaker 1>what you're saying, and I sort of vibe with this

0:25:30.240 --> 0:25:34.320
<v Speaker 1>as well. Yeah, this is they have uncomfortable double dates

0:25:34.320 --> 0:25:35.080
<v Speaker 1>with Michigan State.

0:25:35.080 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 2>They do, they do, They absolutely do. This is a

0:25:37.800 --> 0:25:46.200
<v Speaker 2>new age relationship. Maybe they don't believe in the label marriage. Okay,

0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:46.919
<v Speaker 2>they're just together.

0:25:49.560 --> 0:25:51.320
<v Speaker 1>No, I think they're getting something out of each other.

0:25:52.000 --> 0:25:54.800
<v Speaker 2>Common law to some extent, I don't know.

0:25:54.960 --> 0:26:00.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think there's companionship. I think there's fun. Yeah, experimentation.

0:26:00.840 --> 0:26:07.160
<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, speaking of companionship, speaking of fun, Speaking

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:13.480
<v Speaker 2>of experimentation, let's talk about Brett Bilima.

0:26:14.600 --> 0:26:20.440
<v Speaker 1>Let's do it. Let's absolutely do it. Oh no, okay.

0:26:21.240 --> 0:26:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Bilamas from the Midwest.

0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:28.400
<v Speaker 2>He was at Wisconsin, had a stint at Arkansas.

0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:29.360
<v Speaker 1>Been out of the game.

0:26:29.160 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 2>For a couple of years now, he's coming back to

0:26:31.760 --> 0:26:35.240
<v Speaker 2>the Midwest, going to Illinois after they part of ways

0:26:35.240 --> 0:26:38.800
<v Speaker 2>with love Smith. I have no idea how to feel

0:26:38.800 --> 0:26:43.119
<v Speaker 2>about this, Okay. I feel like, if you are Illinois,

0:26:43.680 --> 0:26:46.920
<v Speaker 2>you're in the situation where you're looking for a warm body.

0:26:47.720 --> 0:26:53.000
<v Speaker 2>You're looking for a warm body. You've heard all the stuff.

0:26:52.680 --> 0:26:55.120
<v Speaker 1>About Brett Bilima, mm hmm.

0:26:55.880 --> 0:27:01.080
<v Speaker 2>You kind of just don't care though, You're kind of

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:04.840
<v Speaker 2>just cool with it because you're in the market.

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:06.600
<v Speaker 1>You're willing to give.

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:08.160
<v Speaker 2>It a shot.

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Incomes Brett Bieloma.

0:27:09.520 --> 0:27:14.720
<v Speaker 2>He's interested, willing to go to you know, the pub

0:27:14.800 --> 0:27:19.439
<v Speaker 2>with you, throw a few back, tell some jokes, have

0:27:19.480 --> 0:27:21.360
<v Speaker 2>a good time, make you feel young again.

0:27:21.440 --> 0:27:24.960
<v Speaker 1>Dan. So, in this situation, if I'm to understand you,

0:27:25.359 --> 0:27:28.240
<v Speaker 1>and please correct me if I'm wrong, is the background

0:27:28.320 --> 0:27:29.520
<v Speaker 1>check a chlamydia test.

0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:34.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going quite to that extreme. Okay, all right,

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:37.520
<v Speaker 2>but you've heard you know, you've heard rumblings. If you're Illinois,

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:41.040
<v Speaker 2>you've heard rumblings and you're just willing to look past

0:27:41.080 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 2>it because you're tired of being lonely.

0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:47.760
<v Speaker 1>Man. You're tired of being lonely. I think there's an

0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:52.159
<v Speaker 1>element of familiarity with Brett Bielahma and that division that

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:56.560
<v Speaker 1>school that maybe Brett Bilama maybe this was similar. What

0:27:56.640 --> 0:27:59.560
<v Speaker 1>was the movie Just Friends Ryan Reynolds? Is that the

0:27:59.600 --> 0:28:01.840
<v Speaker 1>movie Ryan Reynolds Amy Smart where he sings all for

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:04.760
<v Speaker 1>one Gosh, you know what I'm talking about. No, I don't.

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:08.480
<v Speaker 1>You've never seen Just Friends. I don't think so. Oh

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:11.159
<v Speaker 1>it's a good movie. I think it's Anna Faris plays

0:28:11.160 --> 0:28:15.440
<v Speaker 1>like a Britney Spears type. Anyway, Ryan Reynolds wears a fatsuit.

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:19.920
<v Speaker 1>It's funny. There is that element of familiarity returning home

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Ish and Brett Bielma tried to make it out in

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:27.200
<v Speaker 1>the big cities, out in the world and see how

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:32.439
<v Speaker 1>far he could go. And Illinois, I've been through some

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:37.199
<v Speaker 1>tough relationships. Yeah, and it's sort of everybody's hoping it's

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:40.480
<v Speaker 1>right place, right time. Brett Bielima coming home. This is

0:28:40.520 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 1>who he always was, big ten kid Illinois looking for

0:28:44.400 --> 0:28:47.160
<v Speaker 1>somebody who gets them, understands their references. Went to high

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:51.280
<v Speaker 1>school together, always sort of circled around each other, but

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:55.360
<v Speaker 1>never really made it official. Coming together, and everybody's rooting

0:28:55.440 --> 0:28:59.120
<v Speaker 1>for it, right and hoping for the best that you know,

0:28:59.160 --> 0:29:02.479
<v Speaker 1>Illinois has been down on their luck. Everybody's just they

0:29:02.520 --> 0:29:05.760
<v Speaker 1>want the best for Illinois. Rett Bielama had a rough

0:29:05.760 --> 0:29:09.959
<v Speaker 1>go of things outside of Big ten West. Everybody just

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:12.440
<v Speaker 1>everybody just wants it to work out. There's a real

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:15.920
<v Speaker 1>Hallmark movie quality to this, islearly there is, Yes, there is.

0:29:15.960 --> 0:29:18.760
<v Speaker 1>There's a Hallmark quality to this where the investment banker

0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 1>from Chicago goes on a retreat, no one of those

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:25.960
<v Speaker 1>no phone retreats, right, just kind of home in Alabama

0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:31.440
<v Speaker 1>and reconnect and meets someone that runs like a very

0:29:31.560 --> 0:29:36.960
<v Speaker 1>rural tree farm, Yeah, and decides gonna give it all

0:29:37.040 --> 0:29:42.440
<v Speaker 1>up and help run the tree farm instead. Yeah. I

0:29:42.520 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 1>like that. So in this instance, maybe Brett Buelama worked

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:50.640
<v Speaker 1>in corporate lumber, Yeah, and came home. It was like,

0:29:50.680 --> 0:29:53.360
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Illinois. I don't know. We come from

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 1>different but at the same time they have so much

0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:58.280
<v Speaker 1>in common. Yeah.

0:29:58.760 --> 0:30:00.280
<v Speaker 2>People are either going to love this sh show or

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:03.320
<v Speaker 2>that's what's gonna happen. That's true of most shows.

0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:05.200
<v Speaker 1>That's what's that's what's gonna happen here.

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you like this marriage? By the way, just like

0:30:08.240 --> 0:30:13.040
<v Speaker 2>superficially speaking, do we like Bilma and Illinois together.

0:30:13.760 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 1>I think I think they can open up a charming

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:20.480
<v Speaker 1>used bookstore. They're never gonna hit the riches, but I

0:30:20.480 --> 0:30:23.360
<v Speaker 1>think they could become a staple of their community, and

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 1>so I'm rooting for that. Maybe serve some scones and tea.

0:30:27.600 --> 0:30:30.800
<v Speaker 2>I like it does not strike me as a scone

0:30:30.840 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 2>kind of guy.

0:30:31.320 --> 0:30:39.479
<v Speaker 1>Dan Oh multiple scones. I've seen the pictures of him.

0:30:39.560 --> 0:30:44.480
<v Speaker 1>He's doing no fat shaming here. I just imagine he

0:30:44.520 --> 0:30:46.760
<v Speaker 1>likes multiple scones. I like multiple scones.

0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 2>Sure, I just don't strike him as refined enough to

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:51.600
<v Speaker 2>be into scones.

0:30:51.880 --> 0:30:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm so insulting. He needs red meat.

0:30:54.600 --> 0:30:59.280
<v Speaker 2>That's what he needs. Okay, he's a growing boy. Uh

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:02.280
<v Speaker 2>where do we want to go next?

0:31:02.320 --> 0:31:05.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you get to pick next? Let's go Miami in

0:31:05.120 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 1>Manny Diaz. Great hair, great hair.

0:31:08.040 --> 0:31:12.320
<v Speaker 2>I know you, yeah, yeah, great head of hair. Familiarity

0:31:12.360 --> 0:31:15.840
<v Speaker 2>with the area, Manny Diaz. If you're Miami, you're looking

0:31:15.880 --> 0:31:19.440
<v Speaker 2>at Manny Diaz has been there before. You've always sort

0:31:19.480 --> 0:31:22.840
<v Speaker 2>of known about Manny Diaz. He's always been in your circles.

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:26.880
<v Speaker 2>Knows your hometown. Dad was the mayor your hometown.

0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:31.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, who wouldn't want to have many Diaz in their arm.

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Great head of hair.

0:31:35.640 --> 0:31:38.880
<v Speaker 2>Has definitely been somebody who has been talked about in

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:42.440
<v Speaker 2>circles for many, many years. So whoever gets Manny Diaz

0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 2>like they got it made? Where are they lucky now?

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:50.360
<v Speaker 2>Now Miami's got Manny Daz correct. I don't know if

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:54.040
<v Speaker 2>the early going with the Many Diaz thing has been

0:31:55.720 --> 0:32:01.680
<v Speaker 2>quite the the envious experience that the Hurricanes had expected

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:05.040
<v Speaker 2>or hoped for. Now they were able to get dear King,

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:09.560
<v Speaker 2>We're able to attract some talent, some flash trying to

0:32:09.600 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 2>recapture that that swagger.

0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 1>No, I think it was more than that though though

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:17.320
<v Speaker 1>great defensive line last year, got after the quarterback, really

0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:22.720
<v Speaker 1>fun aggressive defense. Jalen Phillips Rochet, Yeah.

0:32:23.280 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean I feel like the best is yet to

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 2>come of this relationship. I remain very hopeful here that

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 2>this is a relationship with a lot of unrealized potential.

0:32:36.680 --> 0:32:40.600
<v Speaker 2>It just might take some time. Like many relationships, it

0:32:40.640 --> 0:32:44.600
<v Speaker 2>has to develop organically over the course of time. Many

0:32:44.640 --> 0:32:48.760
<v Speaker 2>Diaz is still trying to find his way here as

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:55.000
<v Speaker 2>Hurricanes football coach. I I feel optimistic.

0:32:54.480 --> 0:32:57.440
<v Speaker 1>Here, Dan. Do you remember have you seen the movie

0:32:57.440 --> 0:33:01.920
<v Speaker 1>The Graduate? Yes? I have remember the ending scene with

0:33:01.920 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 1>stop the weddings, stop the window. It was also spoofed,

0:33:04.800 --> 0:33:07.959
<v Speaker 1>and I think it was Wayne' World two. There is

0:33:08.040 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>that element of Miami watching many Diaz as the coach

0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:17.240
<v Speaker 1>of Temple, knowing that they were more perfect for each

0:33:17.320 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 1>other as a couple banging on the glass, stop the

0:33:21.160 --> 0:33:26.880
<v Speaker 1>running away together themselves getting married, but not fully knowing

0:33:26.920 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 1>the rhythms of what a marriage would be like. I

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 1>think there's been a lot of swings, a lot of

0:33:30.520 --> 0:33:33.200
<v Speaker 1>ups and downs, and you look at some of the

0:33:33.240 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 1>downs last year, the Clemson game, the North Carolina game,

0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 1>a lot of downs, and while the highs are high,

0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:45.360
<v Speaker 1>the lows are can be pretty embarrassingly low. And so

0:33:46.000 --> 0:33:50.760
<v Speaker 1>I think there's still a couple figuring things out that

0:33:51.560 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 1>some of the lunches together on double dates couldn't have

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:58.520
<v Speaker 1>gone better. Some of the brunches, some of the dinners

0:33:58.960 --> 0:34:02.440
<v Speaker 1>really awkward for another couple or two that they're going

0:34:02.480 --> 0:34:05.240
<v Speaker 1>back at each other, and that's just it's it becomes

0:34:05.360 --> 0:34:08.719
<v Speaker 1>very awkward sort of the scene and breaking bad, you

0:34:08.760 --> 0:34:10.399
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm talking about? The dinner with the dinner

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:13.359
<v Speaker 1>and Paul sort of sipping the water uncomfortably looking back

0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:16.320
<v Speaker 1>and forth. There is that element to Miami and Many Diaz,

0:34:16.440 --> 0:34:18.840
<v Speaker 1>especially when you look at what quarterback look like before

0:34:19.280 --> 0:34:21.640
<v Speaker 1>Dearic King this year with the offense has done on

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:23.719
<v Speaker 1>the ground or not done on the ground, committing too

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:28.719
<v Speaker 1>many penalties. So I think people think they're going to

0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:31.960
<v Speaker 1>work it out, They're going to find their way. There's

0:34:32.000 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 1>too much that they love about each other for it

0:34:34.640 --> 0:34:38.200
<v Speaker 1>not to work out. But at the same time, you

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:40.799
<v Speaker 1>never know if something's going to come up and bite them. Yeah,

0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:43.399
<v Speaker 1>because there's just so much there's a lot of raw

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:45.920
<v Speaker 1>energy and passion between the two of them. Yeah, you

0:34:46.040 --> 0:34:46.920
<v Speaker 1>got to explain that.

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:49.640
<v Speaker 2>It just sort of emanates off the two of them.

0:34:50.000 --> 0:34:53.200
<v Speaker 2>I do wonder if there is a quality to Miami

0:34:54.320 --> 0:34:56.600
<v Speaker 2>where they are more in love with the idea of

0:34:56.719 --> 0:34:59.200
<v Speaker 2>a many Daz than Many Daz himself.

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I see what you're saying, you know, And.

0:35:04.480 --> 0:35:09.240
<v Speaker 2>That worries me that if a year or two from now,

0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:13.879
<v Speaker 2>Miami has a bunch of friends sit it down and say, look,

0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 2>they just not go anywhere.

0:35:17.160 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, is he gonna propose? Is he not going to propose?

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:21.640
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they're not.

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:26.319
<v Speaker 2>Even really married yet. I don't interesting, And I could

0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:30.279
<v Speaker 2>see Miami's friend group having a heart to heart with it, saying, look,

0:35:31.880 --> 0:35:35.600
<v Speaker 2>this isn't going anywhere, right, and that forces Miami to

0:35:35.640 --> 0:35:38.400
<v Speaker 2>a choice, a heartbreaking choice at that, because again, everyone's

0:35:38.480 --> 0:35:39.360
<v Speaker 2>rooting for this couple.

0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:40.359
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm.

0:35:41.920 --> 0:35:46.080
<v Speaker 2>But I do worry that Miami may be more infatuated

0:35:46.080 --> 0:35:48.880
<v Speaker 2>with the idea of a many Diaz and maybe not

0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:51.200
<v Speaker 2>just maybe not this one.

0:35:51.480 --> 0:35:54.520
<v Speaker 1>But then again, you see Miami and Manny Diaz do

0:35:54.640 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 1>karaoke together. They sing Islands in the Stream at Louisville,

0:35:58.400 --> 0:36:00.759
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh my god, what a couple. What

0:36:00.840 --> 0:36:01.280
<v Speaker 1>a couple.

0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.520
<v Speaker 2>Even when they're not doing kara they finish each other's sentences.

0:36:04.840 --> 0:36:05.879
<v Speaker 2>They are a very good match.

0:36:06.520 --> 0:36:11.000
<v Speaker 1>The best of them is just so easy. Yeah, but

0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:12.160
<v Speaker 1>there are those down moments.

0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:19.400
<v Speaker 2>Mac Brown in North Carolina, Dan, mm hmm. Yeah, let's

0:36:19.480 --> 0:36:21.319
<v Speaker 2>let's unpack this one a little bit more.

0:36:21.480 --> 0:36:22.120
<v Speaker 1>Mac Brown.

0:36:23.000 --> 0:36:28.520
<v Speaker 2>You talked earlier about the relationship between herm Edwards and

0:36:28.560 --> 0:36:37.279
<v Speaker 2>Asu the older gentleman, maybe right, younger spouse. Is that

0:36:37.360 --> 0:36:38.319
<v Speaker 2>not true for mac Brown?

0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:47.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes? I think they were. They were high school sweethearts

0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:51.719
<v Speaker 1>and for whatever reason doesn't work out, they are going

0:36:51.800 --> 0:36:53.479
<v Speaker 1>to get married and have kids in their their town,

0:36:53.520 --> 0:36:55.799
<v Speaker 1>their hometown. But then mac Brown wanted to go away

0:36:55.840 --> 0:36:58.239
<v Speaker 1>to college. Maybe he went away to war war and

0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:06.160
<v Speaker 1>things just changed. Am I comparing the University of Texas

0:37:06.719 --> 0:37:12.520
<v Speaker 1>to went to war? Oh, a combat zone abroad, somewhat

0:37:13.239 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 1>somewhat went to war. He's not one hundred years old.

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 1>But Okay, I know, I know. No, I think it's

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:25.120
<v Speaker 1>one of those things. Of course that mac Brown thought

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:26.920
<v Speaker 1>he was going to have it better elsewhere, and for

0:37:26.960 --> 0:37:30.520
<v Speaker 1>a long time he did. But there's just there's nothing

0:37:30.600 --> 0:37:35.040
<v Speaker 1>like coming home. There's nothing like coming home ty, coming

0:37:35.080 --> 0:37:37.040
<v Speaker 1>back where the people appreciate you for who you are,

0:37:37.320 --> 0:37:40.879
<v Speaker 1>not for who you aren't. How about that? I do

0:37:41.040 --> 0:37:41.279
<v Speaker 1>you know?

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:46.239
<v Speaker 2>So if we if we look at herm in ASU,

0:37:46.360 --> 0:37:51.760
<v Speaker 2>you talk about one partner who is generations older.

0:37:52.120 --> 0:37:54.080
<v Speaker 1>M hm than the other.

0:37:55.160 --> 0:37:57.200
<v Speaker 2>I feel like that is the case to some extent

0:37:57.239 --> 0:37:59.480
<v Speaker 2>with Mac and UNC. But UN sees more of an

0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:02.239
<v Speaker 2>old soul like it sort of fits. And plus there

0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:06.000
<v Speaker 2>is more familiarity there. They do know each other, and

0:38:06.040 --> 0:38:09.800
<v Speaker 2>I think Mack Brown has proved an adaptability. He really

0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:13.560
<v Speaker 2>has these first couple of years where he's been with

0:38:14.000 --> 0:38:18.080
<v Speaker 2>UNC or back with UNC. Now it's been really successful.

0:38:18.640 --> 0:38:23.520
<v Speaker 2>They have for sure gone places, gone to new heights

0:38:23.560 --> 0:38:26.600
<v Speaker 2>in these first couple of years in a way that

0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:29.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't think many of us in college, forble media expected.

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:33.319
<v Speaker 2>Everybody likes mac Brown. Everybody is rooting for mac Brown.

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:36.440
<v Speaker 2>No one was rooting actively against mac Brown unless you're

0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:38.200
<v Speaker 2>maybe a Duke fan. I don't even know if Duke

0:38:38.239 --> 0:38:42.560
<v Speaker 2>fans care about this football rivalry. But Mac Brown has

0:38:42.680 --> 0:38:48.120
<v Speaker 2>clearly I think, proven his metal here. So I root

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:53.799
<v Speaker 2>for this couple. Mac Brown is damn likable. UNC has

0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:57.040
<v Speaker 2>had flashes over the years, They've had stars move through

0:38:57.680 --> 0:39:01.600
<v Speaker 2>that football program. Going to pretend that it's been like

0:39:01.880 --> 0:39:06.239
<v Speaker 2>a sustained chain of success at Chapel Hill in the

0:39:06.280 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 2>football field, it hasn't right, kind of an unknown quantity there.

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:16.040
<v Speaker 2>So I feel a sense of joy and optimism for

0:39:16.080 --> 0:39:16.920
<v Speaker 2>this relationship.

0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 1>I think you're leaving out something important. I think the

0:39:21.239 --> 0:39:23.839
<v Speaker 1>fire is burning. Yeah, I think so. I'm not even

0:39:23.880 --> 0:39:27.760
<v Speaker 1>talking embers. I'm talking big flames.

0:39:27.840 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 2>Tie.

0:39:30.040 --> 0:39:35.200
<v Speaker 1>I think people expected happy little marriage, see the grandkids,

0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:39.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, have fun, But there is so much more

0:39:39.640 --> 0:39:41.040
<v Speaker 1>passion behind closed doors.

0:39:41.239 --> 0:39:43.880
<v Speaker 2>You're thinking this is a Viager commercial, aren't you.

0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:47.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking this is can remember the commercial with the

0:39:47.640 --> 0:39:52.239
<v Speaker 1>couple each in their own bathtub side by side. I

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:54.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know if we're talking about two bathtubs tie.

0:39:56.160 --> 0:39:58.120
<v Speaker 2>And that's that's a little weird for this show. But

0:39:58.160 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 2>I get you, is that a visual you want to

0:39:59.640 --> 0:40:03.120
<v Speaker 2>go to? But no, I did get a visual there,

0:40:03.760 --> 0:40:05.440
<v Speaker 2>and it does disturb me at least.

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:05.799
<v Speaker 1>A little bit.

0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:10.640
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, a lot of like flirtatious glances, you know,

0:40:10.800 --> 0:40:13.680
<v Speaker 2>just vague flirtatious glances like you'd see on one of

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:16.320
<v Speaker 2>those lagger commercials.

0:40:16.719 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Yep.

0:40:17.280 --> 0:40:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I think that's what we're talking about here where it's

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:20.640
<v Speaker 2>like they don't come out and say it because that

0:40:20.800 --> 0:40:23.360
<v Speaker 2>be too much for a commercial, but you know, you

0:40:23.440 --> 0:40:24.239
<v Speaker 2>know what they're getting at.

0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:28.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, No, I think the sparks of flying TI

0:40:28.880 --> 0:40:37.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah hmm, okay. Scott Frost and Nebraska Dan, I worry

0:40:37.719 --> 0:40:41.520
<v Speaker 1>about this relationship. I worry there. I mean, they're what

0:40:41.640 --> 0:40:42.479
<v Speaker 1>on again, off again?

0:40:43.440 --> 0:40:47.520
<v Speaker 2>I worry there's double heartbreak on the horizon. I worry

0:40:47.520 --> 0:40:51.120
<v Speaker 2>that Scott Frost went back home. It was comfortable and

0:40:51.239 --> 0:40:54.480
<v Speaker 2>made a lot of sense. May have felt pressured into

0:40:57.320 --> 0:41:01.040
<v Speaker 2>this marriage either by his parents someone else. Parents don't know.

0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:06.160
<v Speaker 2>And on the flip side, Nebraska, look, it made a

0:41:06.200 --> 0:41:09.480
<v Speaker 2>lot more sense for Nebraska than maybe it ever did

0:41:09.560 --> 0:41:13.560
<v Speaker 2>for Scott Frost. Sure, here we are all the success

0:41:13.560 --> 0:41:16.120
<v Speaker 2>he had. Yeah, here we are a little bit on

0:41:16.160 --> 0:41:18.480
<v Speaker 2>the rocks. Dan Fair to say a little on the rocks.

0:41:20.360 --> 0:41:22.920
<v Speaker 1>I think Nebraska in this situation or Scott Frost in

0:41:22.920 --> 0:41:26.240
<v Speaker 1>this situation. One of them is did you watch Parks

0:41:26.239 --> 0:41:26.760
<v Speaker 1>and rec.

0:41:28.520 --> 0:41:33.000
<v Speaker 2>Sorry taking a sip? No, not, not to the extent

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:33.520
<v Speaker 2>that you did.

0:41:33.760 --> 0:41:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I have seen a lot of volatility. There's there's a

0:41:36.120 --> 0:41:41.160
<v Speaker 1>tammy Tooo situation plagued by Megan Malley and then Ron Swanson,

0:41:41.200 --> 0:41:43.759
<v Speaker 1>of course Nick Offerman there it's just an on again,

0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:47.040
<v Speaker 1>off again relationship. Of course, Scott Frost initially goes to Stanford,

0:41:47.080 --> 0:41:52.719
<v Speaker 1>comes back home to Nebraska where he succeeds, leaves, you know,

0:41:53.120 --> 0:41:56.880
<v Speaker 1>he's at what Northern Iowa and Oregon and UCF and

0:41:56.960 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 1>comes back home. Can't quit each other on again, off

0:42:00.080 --> 0:42:05.319
<v Speaker 1>again coming home. But what's the adage? Ty, you can

0:42:05.360 --> 0:42:09.400
<v Speaker 1>never truly go home. And there is that element that

0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:13.759
<v Speaker 1>volatility there as well, where they just didn't think about

0:42:13.800 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 1>what they were getting into with each other. Yeah, they

0:42:17.800 --> 0:42:21.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't realize the baggage involved when they thought, well, this

0:42:21.200 --> 0:42:25.440
<v Speaker 1>is perfect we have all the same old friends, same

0:42:25.480 --> 0:42:29.720
<v Speaker 1>old stomping grounds, but they didn't realize same old issues.

0:42:30.160 --> 0:42:33.160
<v Speaker 2>Issues Scott Frost didn't know about like the forty thousand

0:42:33.160 --> 0:42:36.200
<v Speaker 2>dollars in credit card debt, Like just little things like that.

0:42:36.880 --> 0:42:39.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that's attached to me now too. That's the rule?

0:42:40.200 --> 0:42:43.120
<v Speaker 1>What Yeah?

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:47.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a lot of situations where his name is the

0:42:47.200 --> 0:42:50.120
<v Speaker 2>only one on the car loan and he's fine with

0:42:50.160 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 2>it because there is a genuine love there. But should

0:42:53.719 --> 0:42:56.919
<v Speaker 2>he choose to go elsewhere it doesn't wash off?

0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:01.040
<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, you're not wrong.

0:43:02.680 --> 0:43:07.279
<v Speaker 2>Scott Frost, nebrascal, watch out. SAME's headed for splitzwell crazy kids. Yeah,

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:09.719
<v Speaker 2>not Mike Gundy in Oklahoma State. They've been together a

0:43:09.719 --> 0:43:14.640
<v Speaker 2>long time. Yeah, Mike Gundy may fall a little bit

0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:19.840
<v Speaker 2>into that category where the partner's wondering, Okay, what'd you

0:43:19.840 --> 0:43:23.600
<v Speaker 2>say out in public? What you wear out in public?

0:43:25.480 --> 0:43:28.200
<v Speaker 2>Maybe not the proudest of that, but yeah, it's they've

0:43:28.239 --> 0:43:29.000
<v Speaker 2>been together.

0:43:28.719 --> 0:43:32.840
<v Speaker 1>For so long. Mm hmm, you sort of accept the

0:43:32.880 --> 0:43:34.040
<v Speaker 1>other for who they've become.

0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:37.680
<v Speaker 2>It's okay for the most part.

0:43:38.960 --> 0:43:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I think they've been snappy with each other at family functions,

0:43:41.719 --> 0:43:44.799
<v Speaker 1>you think, and it embarrasses the hell out of their

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:45.879
<v Speaker 1>kids and grandkids.

0:43:47.920 --> 0:43:50.640
<v Speaker 2>So I'm assuming you're saying that Mike Gundy is the

0:43:50.640 --> 0:43:53.200
<v Speaker 2>one who's been the embarrassing party.

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:58.719
<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah for the most part. Yeah, Mike Gundy in

0:43:58.760 --> 0:44:00.480
<v Speaker 1>front of the worlds, in front of you know, the

0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:06.120
<v Speaker 1>family functions, weddings, confirmations, bar mitzvahs, you name it. So

0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:09.680
<v Speaker 1>it's just you gotta take what he says with the

0:44:09.680 --> 0:44:12.880
<v Speaker 1>grain of salt, because people are gonna get a little

0:44:12.880 --> 0:44:17.560
<v Speaker 1>bit riled up about him and his kids. His grandkids

0:44:17.640 --> 0:44:20.399
<v Speaker 1>know that, like, well, that's just that's just old pop Pop.

0:44:21.520 --> 0:44:24.799
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna say some stuff. But at the same time,

0:44:25.040 --> 0:44:30.200
<v Speaker 1>like he's losing friends. M h cousins stops showing up

0:44:30.200 --> 0:44:33.400
<v Speaker 1>at the functions, right one of the kids makes up

0:44:33.760 --> 0:44:35.279
<v Speaker 1>it makes up an excuse. A kid makes up an

0:44:35.320 --> 0:44:38.560
<v Speaker 1>excuse not to come. I think there's that element where

0:44:39.520 --> 0:44:44.359
<v Speaker 1>maybe Oklahoma State and Mike Gundy, behind closed doors, it's

0:44:44.400 --> 0:44:47.560
<v Speaker 1>been more of a marriage of convenience. They both have

0:44:47.640 --> 0:44:50.240
<v Speaker 1>these great jobs. You know, they got this great house,

0:44:51.040 --> 0:44:53.200
<v Speaker 1>everything's going with, the kids are great every you know,

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:55.960
<v Speaker 1>they seem like they have a good life publicly, but

0:44:56.040 --> 0:45:00.239
<v Speaker 1>behind closed doors, there's a lot of concern. There lot

0:45:00.320 --> 0:45:07.279
<v Speaker 1>of animosity. This is a situation where maybe, like Mike

0:45:07.320 --> 0:45:11.800
<v Speaker 1>Gundy's a little too active on Facebook. Oh yeah, definitely.

0:45:12.480 --> 0:45:14.799
<v Speaker 2>All the family members are friends with him, but maybe

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:15.640
<v Speaker 2>have muted him.

0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:18.600
<v Speaker 1>They have all muted him. They've all muted.

0:45:18.400 --> 0:45:22.000
<v Speaker 2>You know, yeah, to the extent where there's big news

0:45:22.080 --> 0:45:26.040
<v Speaker 2>in the Gundhi family and a lot of those closest

0:45:26.080 --> 0:45:28.439
<v Speaker 2>to him family members don't actually know about it because

0:45:28.440 --> 0:45:31.400
<v Speaker 2>they've just they've muted that social media feed.

0:45:32.080 --> 0:45:32.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh definitely.

0:45:33.760 --> 0:45:35.800
<v Speaker 2>And I'm not saying this, you know, I'm not even

0:45:35.840 --> 0:45:38.520
<v Speaker 2>touching up against the political angle here, which we know exists.

0:45:38.560 --> 0:45:43.960
<v Speaker 2>But maybe he's just an oversharer yep. Uses Facebook like

0:45:44.000 --> 0:45:45.480
<v Speaker 2>it's Twitter. We all know people like that.

0:45:46.080 --> 0:45:49.439
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. Got to get every thought out there, got

0:45:49.440 --> 0:45:54.320
<v Speaker 1>to get it out there. A lot of uncomfortable memes. Yeah,

0:45:54.719 --> 0:45:56.640
<v Speaker 1>you feel a little bit for Oklahoma State because nobody

0:45:56.680 --> 0:45:59.080
<v Speaker 1>can really remember or picture them with anybody else. But

0:45:59.160 --> 0:46:02.359
<v Speaker 1>also appears Oklahoma State has a track record of not

0:46:03.040 --> 0:46:06.640
<v Speaker 1>having the best spouses, having the best taste, and.

0:46:06.600 --> 0:46:11.719
<v Speaker 2>Maybe Oklahoma States liked the couple of those posts has

0:46:11.840 --> 0:46:14.080
<v Speaker 2>encouraged some of that social media behavior.

0:46:14.120 --> 0:46:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Yeah, I think that's right. Yeah, I

0:46:17.600 --> 0:46:22.399
<v Speaker 1>think they're you know, we can remember the good year

0:46:22.440 --> 0:46:26.080
<v Speaker 1>as well, but it's hard to ignore the full picture.

0:46:26.880 --> 0:46:30.840
<v Speaker 2>I still don't ever see this going for Splitsville. Wow, Okay,

0:46:31.920 --> 0:46:33.320
<v Speaker 2>I really don't.

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:37.399
<v Speaker 1>Could you see Gundhy cheating on Oklahoma State or sort

0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:42.719
<v Speaker 1>of ending things? Ending things? Maybe? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? Which

0:46:42.760 --> 0:46:46.759
<v Speaker 1>do you think would end things? First? It seems like

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:51.040
<v Speaker 1>Gundhi's tried to end things. Gundhi's had wandering eyes and

0:46:51.560 --> 0:46:55.719
<v Speaker 1>just thinking that, you know, maybe this spouse isn't good

0:46:55.800 --> 0:47:01.080
<v Speaker 1>enough for him. Yeah, maybe there's a better spouse in Knoxville.

0:47:01.400 --> 0:47:06.520
<v Speaker 1>But ultimately, Oklahoma State has been the most familiar. Ultimately,

0:47:06.520 --> 0:47:09.640
<v Speaker 1>he's a still water guy, has the long track record.

0:47:10.440 --> 0:47:14.239
<v Speaker 1>But at this point, I think he may have missed

0:47:14.280 --> 0:47:17.320
<v Speaker 1>his window. I think he's got a little saggy saggy

0:47:17.440 --> 0:47:19.560
<v Speaker 1>watch out. Yeah, I think his hearing's going a little bit.

0:47:19.840 --> 0:47:23.200
<v Speaker 1>I just think the appeal of Mike Gundy to another

0:47:23.320 --> 0:47:28.359
<v Speaker 1>school perhaps wasn't what it was in twenty fourteen. Final two.

0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:30.440
<v Speaker 1>Mature and gravity have taken its course.

0:47:30.880 --> 0:47:34.279
<v Speaker 2>Final two, and I feel like each is on a

0:47:34.360 --> 0:47:36.960
<v Speaker 2>different side of the relationship spectrum.

0:47:37.239 --> 0:47:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm.

0:47:38.280 --> 0:47:40.480
<v Speaker 2>On one hand, we've got Luke Fickle and Cincinnati. On

0:47:40.520 --> 0:47:45.120
<v Speaker 2>the other we've got gusmels On and UCF. Yeah, so

0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:47.399
<v Speaker 2>of course we know the drill here. Luke Fickle has

0:47:47.440 --> 0:47:52.680
<v Speaker 2>been tremendously successful in his relationship with Cincinnati, so much

0:47:52.719 --> 0:47:56.000
<v Speaker 2>so that definitely a lot of wandering guys out there,

0:47:56.640 --> 0:48:00.000
<v Speaker 2>people asking the questions on him though, on him, on him,

0:48:00.640 --> 0:48:02.799
<v Speaker 2>do you want to be the fouk Fickle? And on

0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:07.200
<v Speaker 2>the flip side, with gusmels On, who was a darling

0:48:07.680 --> 0:48:13.000
<v Speaker 2>for many years with Auburn Tigers, that relationship recently dissolved,

0:48:13.080 --> 0:48:16.600
<v Speaker 2>UCF was in a position needed that warm body quick

0:48:17.320 --> 0:48:18.759
<v Speaker 2>they're able to pick up Gus mels On.

0:48:19.400 --> 0:48:25.960
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm, I have I'm going to try to be

0:48:26.120 --> 0:48:30.000
<v Speaker 1>vague about this, okay, please do. I have a friend

0:48:30.880 --> 0:48:37.360
<v Speaker 1>who's friends with a or friendly with a moderately famous actor,

0:48:38.480 --> 0:48:44.000
<v Speaker 1>and when that actor was younger and began dating his

0:48:44.120 --> 0:48:49.600
<v Speaker 1>now wife, his friends all said, she's real nice, not

0:48:49.719 --> 0:48:55.120
<v Speaker 1>what I expected from somebody he would date. Oh, very different, okay,

0:48:55.920 --> 0:48:59.840
<v Speaker 1>real sweet, just not what we'd expected for them for

0:49:00.120 --> 0:49:03.800
<v Speaker 1>him in a long term relationship. So that's not a compliment.

0:49:03.840 --> 0:49:06.960
<v Speaker 1>It's different. No, no, no, not a compliment. Hard to take

0:49:06.960 --> 0:49:10.120
<v Speaker 1>that as a compliment. If somebody's immediately talking about your

0:49:10.120 --> 0:49:17.960
<v Speaker 1>personality and not necessarily the full picture, then not full compliment.

0:49:18.040 --> 0:49:20.120
<v Speaker 2>Now it doesn't feel like a compliment the way that

0:49:20.160 --> 0:49:20.719
<v Speaker 2>you describe it.

0:49:20.800 --> 0:49:26.560
<v Speaker 1>But everybody thinks this pseudo famous actor is great, great looking, charming, funny,

0:49:27.360 --> 0:49:31.080
<v Speaker 1>just like huh, that's a different direction than what I

0:49:31.120 --> 0:49:39.400
<v Speaker 1>would have expected. And Luke Fikele clearly loves Cincinnati, feels

0:49:39.400 --> 0:49:42.880
<v Speaker 1>like Cincinnati is great for him, has turned down the

0:49:42.920 --> 0:49:48.719
<v Speaker 1>wandering eyes of others, and Luke Fickel is he's done

0:49:48.800 --> 0:49:55.239
<v Speaker 1>such a great job in this relationship. Super attentive, organized, considerate,

0:49:55.960 --> 0:49:59.600
<v Speaker 1>still brings the fire. I mean, Luke Fikele and Cincinnati

0:49:59.600 --> 0:50:01.279
<v Speaker 1>and arrest on bathroom. You didn't hear it from me,

0:50:02.880 --> 0:50:07.160
<v Speaker 1>but is the complete complete package. The concern, though, is

0:50:09.160 --> 0:50:11.800
<v Speaker 1>Luke Fikel wants to build a bigger house. Luke Fikel

0:50:12.200 --> 0:50:16.920
<v Speaker 1>wants to go on bigger vacations, and Cincinnati's just like, well,

0:50:16.960 --> 0:50:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I like our little cottage. Well, you know, I like

0:50:20.680 --> 0:50:23.160
<v Speaker 1>going to the Poconos, I like going to the Adirondacks.

0:50:23.239 --> 0:50:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know about Europe, I don't know about Asia.

0:50:25.640 --> 0:50:29.080
<v Speaker 1>You're saying this is an introvert extrovert. I think there

0:50:29.120 --> 0:50:32.920
<v Speaker 1>is that element where it plays really well. There's a

0:50:32.960 --> 0:50:38.560
<v Speaker 1>good yin and yang to Luke Fickle Cincinnati, but maybe

0:50:38.640 --> 0:50:42.279
<v Speaker 1>there's a more pronounced yang to Fickle's y. Have you

0:50:42.280 --> 0:50:46.960
<v Speaker 1>ever taken the Myers Briggs test? I haven't, and I'm terrified. Yeah.

0:50:47.040 --> 0:50:50.840
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't think it's a real scientific measure,

0:50:50.880 --> 0:50:54.520
<v Speaker 2>but it's a measure of something, and I think it's

0:50:54.520 --> 0:50:56.640
<v Speaker 2>something like they say you're a good match if you've

0:50:56.680 --> 0:51:01.040
<v Speaker 2>got three of the same letters, but each of you has,

0:51:02.239 --> 0:51:03.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, or maybe it's two of the same letters.

0:51:03.960 --> 0:51:07.640
<v Speaker 2>There's some overlap there that if you get your four

0:51:07.760 --> 0:51:11.000
<v Speaker 2>letters and it's relatively the same as somebody else, that

0:51:11.200 --> 0:51:12.920
<v Speaker 2>it's usually a good measure that it's going to be

0:51:12.960 --> 0:51:15.400
<v Speaker 2>a decent match. I feel like maybe only one of

0:51:15.400 --> 0:51:19.200
<v Speaker 2>the letters is a match here, and Luke Fickle's happy

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:22.799
<v Speaker 2>where he's at doesn't mean everything to him. But over

0:51:22.840 --> 0:51:26.759
<v Speaker 2>the long haul, that's when the personalities come out. That's

0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:28.839
<v Speaker 2>when Luke Fickle starts looking in the mirror and saying,

0:51:28.840 --> 0:51:30.799
<v Speaker 2>do I really want this?

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:34.879
<v Speaker 1>Is what's You're also talking about Cincinnati being the one

0:51:35.800 --> 0:51:40.080
<v Speaker 1>to notice him he's flying beneath the surface, beneath the radar.

0:51:40.800 --> 0:51:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Nobody's considering Luke Fickle to be the next great husband,

0:51:45.920 --> 0:51:48.120
<v Speaker 1>but Cincinnati's had their eye on him for quite some

0:51:48.239 --> 0:51:54.680
<v Speaker 1>time and he completely fulfilled and beyond Bearcat's expectations. And

0:51:54.760 --> 0:51:57.520
<v Speaker 1>so there's that sense of loyalty that lists the pop singar.

0:51:57.840 --> 0:52:01.759
<v Speaker 1>This is the pop star who had the high school spouse.

0:52:01.960 --> 0:52:04.080
<v Speaker 1>I guess not high school spouse, maybe I don't know. No,

0:52:04.239 --> 0:52:07.120
<v Speaker 1>do your thing, Jerry Lee Lewis this one the high

0:52:07.160 --> 0:52:10.680
<v Speaker 1>school partner? Yeah, and then blew up and got famous.

0:52:11.920 --> 0:52:15.120
<v Speaker 1>And in this case, Luke Fickle to pop stars still

0:52:15.120 --> 0:52:19.760
<v Speaker 1>with that high school sweetheart. Sure. Interesting, but you kind

0:52:19.760 --> 0:52:23.640
<v Speaker 1>of know, you kind of know that with Luke Fickle

0:52:23.719 --> 0:52:28.719
<v Speaker 1>going on tour and it's just gonna be tough. It's

0:52:28.719 --> 0:52:32.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna be there in two different wavelengths in terms of

0:52:32.600 --> 0:52:34.440
<v Speaker 1>how well known each entity is.

0:52:34.840 --> 0:52:37.279
<v Speaker 2>They're going to have a come to Jesus moment where

0:52:37.280 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 2>they both just get it out in different places in life.

0:52:41.600 --> 0:52:42.520
<v Speaker 1>Get it out in the open.

0:52:42.640 --> 0:52:44.320
<v Speaker 2>I feel like this is going to be an amicable

0:52:44.360 --> 0:52:48.160
<v Speaker 2>breakup when it happens, it will happen, It's gonna be

0:52:48.200 --> 0:52:52.600
<v Speaker 2>amicable and they're both publicly and I think genuinely going

0:52:52.600 --> 0:52:55.600
<v Speaker 2>to root for each other, stay friends with the kids,

0:52:56.120 --> 0:52:59.480
<v Speaker 2>stay friends for the kids. It's going to be a

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<v Speaker 2>good religationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Luke Fikel has a good relationship with new Dad at Cincinnati.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, hey, here's where the circuit breaker is.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe he has extra tickets to the game and invites

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<v Speaker 2>him a long.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a seamless transition.

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<v Speaker 2>Meant the new dad too, Yeah, sure, could be a

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<v Speaker 2>friend of his, could be yeah, could be interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting. I think we're on the same page. I think

0:53:27.200 --> 0:53:29.680
<v Speaker 1>we're lying there. Do we have any other names here

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<v Speaker 1>that we need to come I think Gus Malson is

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<v Speaker 1>clearly somebody who was in a very trying relationship ultimately

0:53:39.400 --> 0:53:42.920
<v Speaker 1>was dumped but got a great beach house out of

0:53:42.960 --> 0:53:48.920
<v Speaker 1>it and just just wants to boogie board, drink a

0:53:49.000 --> 0:53:54.320
<v Speaker 1>cold beer with somebody, toes in the sand and found

0:53:54.360 --> 0:53:59.319
<v Speaker 1>somebody who just wants to be chill. Founds that that

0:53:59.440 --> 0:54:04.120
<v Speaker 1>match and I think easy to get along with bunching.

0:54:04.200 --> 0:54:08.040
<v Speaker 1>They love the same stuff on Netflix. She loves that

0:54:08.080 --> 0:54:13.480
<v Speaker 1>he has glasses, like there's just it's just easy. Is

0:54:13.520 --> 0:54:16.840
<v Speaker 1>he easy to ree the character from forgetting Sarah Marshall.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh interesting, he wasn't a love story participants in that movie,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, just a free spirit. There's some pain behind

0:54:29.520 --> 0:54:33.120
<v Speaker 1>those eyes. He saw it with UCF. Yeah. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I'll go a different Paul Red movie if

0:54:35.600 --> 0:54:38.360
<v Speaker 1>you will allow me to. What if he is the

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<v Speaker 1>Jason Siegel character from I Love You Man. It's living

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<v Speaker 1>in Venice, eating fish tacos, doing his thing. Doesn't have

0:54:47.719 --> 0:54:51.479
<v Speaker 1>to worry about the rat race downtown. Been there, done

0:54:51.480 --> 0:54:57.279
<v Speaker 1>that right, living in a cottage. H Will he get

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<v Speaker 1>put into a headlock and put to sleep by the

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<v Speaker 1>Hulk Lufarigno? Maybe? Maybe in that case, I guess that

0:55:04.000 --> 0:55:09.160
<v Speaker 1>is Luke Fickle in Cincinnati. But yeah, I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>a big sigh of relief from gustmels On. Yeah, he

0:55:14.200 --> 0:55:17.440
<v Speaker 1>was walking on eggshells with his ax, didn't want to

0:55:17.440 --> 0:55:20.600
<v Speaker 1>say the wrong thing, didn't want to put the remote

0:55:20.640 --> 0:55:23.480
<v Speaker 1>control in the wrong place. She was always going to

0:55:23.560 --> 0:55:27.160
<v Speaker 1>yell at him for something. And now he just has

0:55:27.160 --> 0:55:31.520
<v Speaker 1>a weight off of his shoulders. Boogie board, eat fish tacos,

0:55:32.440 --> 0:55:36.160
<v Speaker 1>and exhale. This has been one of the weirdest shows

0:55:36.160 --> 0:55:40.719
<v Speaker 1>we've ever done in Orlando, Florida. Nowhere near the beach.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh no, okay, so right in solid Verboat gmail

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<v Speaker 2>dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Let us know your thoughts on each of our breakdowns

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<v Speaker 1>as well as the concept here. I think people are

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<v Speaker 1>going to have very strong opinions.

0:55:56.880 --> 0:55:58.239
<v Speaker 2>It will go one way or the other. I can

0:55:58.280 --> 0:56:01.239
<v Speaker 2>tell you yeah, they're going to love it or hate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe not to the Moana extreme.

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<v Speaker 1>We've done this show before. I think like twenty seventeen

0:56:08.719 --> 0:56:10.920
<v Speaker 1>maybe I think that might have been more risque the

0:56:10.960 --> 0:56:16.480
<v Speaker 1>twenty seventeen probably. Yeah, now we're old. Can I ask

0:56:16.560 --> 0:56:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you a question? It depends. Here's what we're to do here.

0:56:20.400 --> 0:56:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I want to ask you a question, but here's what

0:56:21.960 --> 0:56:25.799
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do. You've been dodging my podcast within a

0:56:25.800 --> 0:56:29.400
<v Speaker 1>podcast called How's Your Marriage for so long. What I

0:56:29.400 --> 0:56:30.919
<v Speaker 1>want you to do is I want you to start

0:56:30.920 --> 0:56:34.480
<v Speaker 1>answering this question. But as you start answering the question,

0:56:35.200 --> 0:56:38.480
<v Speaker 1>I want you to in post fade out your answer

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<v Speaker 1>and put on some sort of Divorgeac track as an

0:56:41.360 --> 0:56:44.040
<v Speaker 1>ode to Jade hoy Socer producer in the NBA universe.

0:56:44.840 --> 0:56:47.239
<v Speaker 1>And we are only going to put this podcast within

0:56:47.239 --> 0:56:51.440
<v Speaker 1>a podcast available. We're going to make it available to

0:56:51.760 --> 0:56:55.520
<v Speaker 1>our patrons. W You can learn more for Ballers dot

0:56:55.520 --> 0:56:56.560
<v Speaker 1>com for a limited time.

0:56:56.640 --> 0:56:58.440
<v Speaker 2>This is the first I'm hearing of this, but so

0:56:58.520 --> 0:56:59.440
<v Speaker 2>far I'm okay.

0:56:59.200 --> 0:57:01.160
<v Speaker 1>With This is the plan I thought about when we

0:57:01.160 --> 0:57:03.600
<v Speaker 1>were walking, because I have so many questions for this

0:57:03.600 --> 0:57:06.920
<v Speaker 1>podcast within a podcast for some people How's your Marriage?

0:57:07.400 --> 0:57:11.680
<v Speaker 1>And I want you to I think we we can

0:57:11.760 --> 0:57:14.560
<v Speaker 1>use whatever language we want to use. And I don't

0:57:14.560 --> 0:57:18.040
<v Speaker 1>think this will become available to anybody. You don't want

0:57:18.080 --> 0:57:19.520
<v Speaker 1>it to become avail, won't I want?

0:57:19.520 --> 0:57:21.640
<v Speaker 2>On my end, this is a huge bear trap that

0:57:21.680 --> 0:57:23.040
<v Speaker 2>I inadvertently walked into.

0:57:23.600 --> 0:57:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Correct. Yeah, so here's what we're gonna do. Because we

0:57:26.960 --> 0:57:31.560
<v Speaker 1>we love hanging out with everybody in our Patreon dot

0:57:31.560 --> 0:57:35.600
<v Speaker 1>com ors dot com. This secret podcast within a podcast

0:57:36.320 --> 0:57:39.040
<v Speaker 1>called How's Your Marriage is only going to be available

0:57:39.080 --> 0:57:46.280
<v Speaker 1>there if people want to learn about our marriages. That's

0:57:46.320 --> 0:57:48.000
<v Speaker 1>that's all? Is that? Okay? So? Can I can I

0:57:48.000 --> 0:57:50.760
<v Speaker 1>ask you how's your marriage? Is it good? My marriage

0:57:50.800 --> 0:57:54.800
<v Speaker 1>is terrific? Yes? How about you? Well, I'm glad you asked.

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<v Speaker 1>I have some thoughts. Okay, that's the end. How I

0:58:11.840 --> 0:58:13.840
<v Speaker 1>don't know how long that went, twenty minutes or so

0:58:14.880 --> 0:58:19.760
<v Speaker 1>of How's your Marriage? Yeah? I honestly, this is this

0:58:19.840 --> 0:58:21.720
<v Speaker 1>is totally true. I'm not just saying this to say it.

0:58:22.200 --> 0:58:25.040
<v Speaker 1>That was probably the most open you've ever been. Yeah,

0:58:25.400 --> 0:58:30.120
<v Speaker 1>most vulnerable and revealing. I cried a little bit. I'm

0:58:30.200 --> 0:58:32.720
<v Speaker 1>totally serious. This is not a bit. I learned stuff

0:58:32.800 --> 0:58:35.080
<v Speaker 1>during that about your marriage. I'm not glad to learn

0:58:35.120 --> 0:58:38.840
<v Speaker 1>it and me of you. But hold on, can we

0:58:38.880 --> 0:58:41.600
<v Speaker 1>dive in real quick? We just got done. We just

0:58:41.640 --> 0:58:43.760
<v Speaker 1>dove out. Oh okay, fine, fine, it'll be part two,

0:58:43.800 --> 0:58:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Part two, Part two, Okay, cools dot com. That was intense.

0:58:49.040 --> 0:58:51.880
<v Speaker 2>So look soliverbal at gmail dot com. Again is the email,

0:58:52.040 --> 0:58:55.480
<v Speaker 2>follow us on social the Patreon forballers dot.

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<v Speaker 1>Com where you can go to fund the goods.

0:58:58.360 --> 0:59:00.680
<v Speaker 2>Also going out to the website seliverbal com. We got

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<v Speaker 2>a newsletter. Sign up form there says join the newsletter.

0:59:05.360 --> 0:59:07.720
<v Speaker 2>It's in a big yellow box. It gives your email.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not gonna spam you. We're gonna send you fun stuff,

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0:59:13.440 --> 0:59:15.480
<v Speaker 1>I like hearing that. I think that's all I have. Dan.

0:59:16.240 --> 0:59:19.440
<v Speaker 1>Should we do a housier marriage newsletter written by our spouses?

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<v Speaker 1>The top and bottom five things about Ty and Dan? Yeah,

0:59:26.440 --> 0:59:28.400
<v Speaker 1>that could be sign up for the newsletter of intenth.

0:59:29.680 --> 0:59:31.560
<v Speaker 1>My guess is that both would say we're not as

0:59:31.560 --> 0:59:33.920
<v Speaker 1>funny as we think. Oh my god, do you have

0:59:34.000 --> 0:59:35.560
<v Speaker 1>the thing where they tell you that you recycle the

0:59:35.600 --> 0:59:39.560
<v Speaker 1>same jokes. It's so I've made this joke to you

0:59:39.640 --> 0:59:42.040
<v Speaker 1>and you think it's funny, which might mean that we're

0:59:42.080 --> 0:59:45.520
<v Speaker 1>a better parent we are with our spouses. But my

0:59:45.640 --> 0:59:49.160
<v Speaker 1>webinar goof the webinar, I love the webinar goof Jody

0:59:49.200 --> 0:59:52.360
<v Speaker 1>does not no and have I done it on the show?

0:59:52.480 --> 0:59:54.200
<v Speaker 1>I think you've done it multiple I think I have

0:59:54.440 --> 0:59:58.160
<v Speaker 1>yeah where I get something. Yeah, I get something mildly right.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I explained to you that you can be

1:00:00.240 --> 1:00:03.880
<v Speaker 1>as bright as I am by taking my webinar. Jody

1:00:03.960 --> 1:00:08.200
<v Speaker 1>is not a fan. Wow really where like I explain

1:00:08.280 --> 1:00:10.280
<v Speaker 1>something that turns out to be true. I may explained

1:00:10.320 --> 1:00:12.960
<v Speaker 1>Dan explain something obnoxiously, but it turns out to be true.

1:00:12.960 --> 1:00:14.960
<v Speaker 1>And then I say, you know there's more here that

1:00:15.040 --> 1:00:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I can share knowledge wise. If you just go to

1:00:17.640 --> 1:00:21.240
<v Speaker 1>Santa Humstein dot net, there's my webinar. I can get

1:00:21.240 --> 1:00:24.320
<v Speaker 1>the free webinar. Hates that with a fiery passion.

1:00:24.640 --> 1:00:29.280
<v Speaker 2>I like that goof and I find that she's not

1:00:29.440 --> 1:00:31.680
<v Speaker 2>wrong when she says that I recycled the same content

1:00:31.680 --> 1:00:34.880
<v Speaker 2>over of course, I just continue to think it's funny.

1:00:34.640 --> 1:00:42.280
<v Speaker 1>And she does not. That's the issue. Okay, that's Jody.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't lave us, Yeah, please don't.

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<v Speaker 2>This has been our marriage show, yes, our steamy marriage

1:00:50.560 --> 1:00:51.520
<v Speaker 2>college football show.

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<v Speaker 1>Indeed right in let us know your thoughts. We will

1:00:54.480 --> 1:00:54.840
<v Speaker 1>be back.

1:00:55.000 --> 1:00:57.480
<v Speaker 2>It is our public Q and a episode do one

1:00:58.080 --> 1:01:01.680
<v Speaker 2>every month here in the office season. You can find

1:01:01.680 --> 1:01:04.880
<v Speaker 2>out more about that on the Thursday download, which is

1:01:04.920 --> 1:01:08.040
<v Speaker 2>coming your way. Dan, you put a call out to

1:01:08.120 --> 1:01:12.920
<v Speaker 2>folks asking what do you and I continuously get wrong?

1:01:13.840 --> 1:01:20.080
<v Speaker 1>Yes, about your team, about any team, about any college

1:01:20.080 --> 1:01:23.080
<v Speaker 1>football topic, or about any non college football topic. What

1:01:23.240 --> 1:01:29.680
<v Speaker 1>do Tye and Dan get annoyingly and consistently wrong on

1:01:29.760 --> 1:01:32.640
<v Speaker 1>the show, and be specific because we get a lot wrong.

1:01:32.880 --> 1:01:34.800
<v Speaker 1>So we are going to address this. This is our

1:01:35.720 --> 1:01:38.600
<v Speaker 1>either maya Kulpa or double down show.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll be fun for that guy over there, my good

1:01:41.160 --> 1:01:44.200
<v Speaker 2>friend Dan Rubinstein, for myself, Tie Hildebrand. We'll talk to

1:01:44.240 --> 1:01:46.960
<v Speaker 2>you all on Thursday in the meantimes day Sung Peace,