1 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: Hello. 2 00:00:16,820 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 2: Hello. 3 00:00:17,579 --> 00:00:19,500 Speaker 3: And welcome. To My Favorite Murder. 4 00:00:19,620 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 1: That's Georgia Hardstark. 5 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 3: That's Karen Kilgara. 6 00:00:21,860 --> 00:00:24,980 Speaker 1: And this is our bonus advice episode where we solve 7 00:00:25,060 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: all of your problems by answering the questions that you 8 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:31,260 Speaker 1: submitted to us. We call it Advice with Karen and 9 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: Georgia brought to you by Cars.com. 10 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:35,639 Speaker 2: Because whether you're trying to find the right car or 11 00:00:35,740 --> 00:00:38,300 Speaker 2: need life advice, having a trusted source makes it a 12 00:00:38,380 --> 00:00:39,180 Speaker 2: whole lot easier. 13 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 3: Just to be clear, we're the trusted source. 14 00:00:41,820 --> 00:00:42,300 Speaker 1: That's us. 15 00:00:42,540 --> 00:00:43,460 Speaker 3: In this situation. 16 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: All right. 17 00:00:45,310 --> 00:00:47,410 Speaker 2: This one's so hard. The first one's like the hardest question. 18 00:00:47,870 --> 00:00:51,290 Speaker 2: I can't even imagine answering this. It's from Emily Jane McGinnis. 19 00:00:51,850 --> 00:00:55,170 Speaker 2: What advice would you give someone turning 30? 20 00:00:55,170 --> 00:00:59,070 Speaker 3: Give us the 30 era reel reel. 21 00:00:59,070 --> 00:00:59,230 Speaker 1: 30. 22 00:00:59,230 --> 00:01:01,250 Speaker 3: That's hard. 30. 23 00:01:01,250 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: I'm almost double that. So let me think. I think 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:11,020 Speaker 1: 30 is like You start to believe you know a 25 00:01:11,060 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: bunch of stuff. And we may have talked about this before. 26 00:01:13,459 --> 00:01:13,539 Speaker 2: Yeah. 27 00:01:13,620 --> 00:01:16,090 Speaker 1: This is my theory on when you're in your 30s. 28 00:01:16,750 --> 00:01:20,330 Speaker 1: It's a real setup because you've got through your 20s, right? 29 00:01:20,830 --> 00:01:22,610 Speaker 1: You know you're a dipshit when you're 18. 30 00:01:22,610 --> 00:01:22,830 Speaker 2: Yes. 31 00:01:23,450 --> 00:01:25,410 Speaker 1: When you go through your 20s, you get to the 32 00:01:25,450 --> 00:01:27,770 Speaker 1: end of that and you think, now I know everything. 33 00:01:27,830 --> 00:01:28,030 Speaker 2: Right. 34 00:01:28,150 --> 00:01:30,580 Speaker 1: And then you become one of those insufferable people who 35 00:01:30,610 --> 00:01:31,750 Speaker 1: thinks they know everything. 36 00:01:31,780 --> 00:01:32,060 Speaker 3: Yeah. 37 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,580 Speaker 1: And you're actually just 30. 38 00:01:34,580 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 2: Right. 39 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:38,870 Speaker 1: Where you actually start to realize that you don't know anything. Right. 40 00:01:38,890 --> 00:01:41,290 Speaker 3: But you should know things. You should. 41 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,020 Speaker 1: But you won't till probably your early 40s. 42 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 2: Right. 43 00:01:45,819 --> 00:01:48,260 Speaker 1: You're still as dumb as you were when you were 18. 44 00:01:48,260 --> 00:01:50,190 Speaker 1: But now you just have like a bunch of bills 45 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,690 Speaker 1: and a shitty job or maybe a great job. 46 00:01:52,750 --> 00:01:54,750 Speaker 3: You think you're supposed to be doing things with your life, 47 00:01:54,910 --> 00:01:56,230 Speaker 3: which you don't. You're not. 48 00:01:56,430 --> 00:01:58,890 Speaker 1: No, it's still too early for all that. Now you're 49 00:01:58,930 --> 00:02:01,830 Speaker 1: just like solidified some stuff. Like now there's ground under 50 00:02:01,850 --> 00:02:02,230 Speaker 1: your feet. 51 00:02:02,290 --> 00:02:02,590 Speaker 2: Right. 52 00:02:02,610 --> 00:02:04,130 Speaker 1: But you still don't know anything. 53 00:02:04,390 --> 00:02:07,250 Speaker 2: I think the thing, my thing would be to not 54 00:02:07,270 --> 00:02:10,770 Speaker 2: think about yourself in your 30s. Think about yourself older, 55 00:02:10,990 --> 00:02:13,150 Speaker 2: like in your 40s. And where do you want to 56 00:02:13,190 --> 00:02:15,950 Speaker 2: be then? So everything you're doing in your 30s isn't 57 00:02:16,050 --> 00:02:19,130 Speaker 2: as important as you think, except for the fact that 58 00:02:19,350 --> 00:02:21,169 Speaker 2: whatever you're doing, you want it to be so that 59 00:02:21,190 --> 00:02:23,250 Speaker 2: your 40s person will thank you. 60 00:02:23,410 --> 00:02:26,190 Speaker 3: Because that's the more important part. Perfect advice. 61 00:02:26,330 --> 00:02:29,270 Speaker 1: Yes. It's just like be aiming in the direction of. 62 00:02:29,830 --> 00:02:30,010 Speaker 2: Yes. 63 00:02:30,169 --> 00:02:34,460 Speaker 1: But know that isn't one singular path. Right. So that 64 00:02:34,510 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: you like if you get to the neighborhood of where 65 00:02:36,900 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: you want to be. Yeah. Right. I thought I wanted 66 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:43,170 Speaker 1: to be a sitcom actress when I was 24 years old. Wow. 67 00:02:43,510 --> 00:02:45,770 Speaker 1: And I moved here to do that. Yeah. And then 68 00:02:45,870 --> 00:02:48,550 Speaker 1: I went and actually started auditioning for things. I was like, 69 00:02:48,750 --> 00:02:51,109 Speaker 1: I want no part of any of this. But I 70 00:02:51,210 --> 00:02:53,790 Speaker 1: sure did run my mouth about all my dreams and whatever. 71 00:02:53,810 --> 00:02:56,570 Speaker 1: And it's like, you get to step back and reassess 72 00:02:56,850 --> 00:02:58,980 Speaker 1: and then go, okay, well, I tried that. It didn't 73 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,380 Speaker 1: work and or I didn't like it. Yeah. So now 74 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to start again and do something. Like, know 75 00:03:04,180 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: that your five-year plan has to be broken down and 76 00:03:06,620 --> 00:03:08,549 Speaker 1: rebuilt again. Every three years. 77 00:03:08,570 --> 00:03:12,459 Speaker 2: Totally. And don't judge your own life based on everyone 78 00:03:12,500 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 2: else's life, even your best friend. Totally different trajectories. And 79 00:03:15,700 --> 00:03:18,460 Speaker 2: it doesn't matter what your trajectory is right now. It's 80 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:19,820 Speaker 2: not going to be what you think it is. It's 81 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,380 Speaker 2: going to be something totally different for everyone. 82 00:03:21,700 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 83 00:03:22,060 --> 00:03:22,870 Speaker 3: So just relax. 84 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:27,010 Speaker 1: And look at yourself from big picture outside of yourself 85 00:03:27,770 --> 00:03:30,070 Speaker 1: through the eyes of your grandma or someone that really 86 00:03:30,290 --> 00:03:32,010 Speaker 1: loved you and be nice about it. 87 00:03:32,110 --> 00:03:32,250 Speaker 2: Yeah. 88 00:03:32,810 --> 00:03:34,230 Speaker 1: And remember, you could die at any second. 89 00:03:35,250 --> 00:03:37,980 Speaker 3: It's so dark. It's true, though. Okay. 90 00:03:38,940 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: Do you think we did that one? 91 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 3: I think so. Okay. 92 00:03:42,780 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: Oh, this is hilarious, and I relate to it very much. 93 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,930 Speaker 1: This one's from at little engine that can't even on Instagram. 94 00:03:48,990 --> 00:03:49,590 Speaker 3: It's good. 95 00:03:50,070 --> 00:03:53,170 Speaker 1: And they wrote in asking, how do you convince a 96 00:03:53,210 --> 00:03:55,170 Speaker 1: cantankerous older father to. 97 00:03:55,150 --> 00:03:57,830 Speaker 3: Go to the doctor? Oh, I had to do that recently. 98 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:58,500 Speaker 1: Did you really? 99 00:03:58,510 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. What'd you do? I said, I'm making you an 100 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 3: appointment with this doctor that I have. He's amazing. And 101 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:05,220 Speaker 3: I'll meet you there. 102 00:04:05,810 --> 00:04:05,990 Speaker 2: Yes. 103 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,530 Speaker 3: Because I knew he wouldn't come if I just told 104 00:04:08,570 --> 00:04:08,910 Speaker 3: him to. 105 00:04:08,930 --> 00:04:09,010 Speaker 1: Nice. 106 00:04:09,550 --> 00:04:11,570 Speaker 3: And then I said, I'll make you the appointment. But 107 00:04:11,590 --> 00:04:12,340 Speaker 3: he was like, I got it. 108 00:04:12,350 --> 00:04:12,740 Speaker 2: I got it. 109 00:04:13,390 --> 00:04:15,170 Speaker 3: And he went. I was really surprised he did. But 110 00:04:15,430 --> 00:04:17,310 Speaker 3: what about you? You're probably the same. Your dad probably 111 00:04:17,330 --> 00:04:18,590 Speaker 3: doesn't want to go to appointments. 112 00:04:18,730 --> 00:04:21,539 Speaker 1: No. But here's the thing about old Jim. He is 113 00:04:21,570 --> 00:04:24,380 Speaker 1: a rule follower. And he, I think he still has 114 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:28,310 Speaker 1: my mother's voice in his head because that's, If anybody 115 00:04:28,350 --> 00:04:30,750 Speaker 1: avoided stuff like that or wasn't going to do their, 116 00:04:31,089 --> 00:04:34,310 Speaker 1: you know, when you have to get a colonoscopy when 117 00:04:34,330 --> 00:04:36,550 Speaker 1: you're 40, all those kinds of things, she would just 118 00:04:36,570 --> 00:04:39,660 Speaker 1: be like, oh, really? So just you're going to be 119 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:43,740 Speaker 1: a rebel with this? And then so-and-so goes undiagnosed. Like 120 00:04:44,060 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: she would argue that logic all the time. 121 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 3: Be right him a little bit. 122 00:04:48,339 --> 00:04:48,460 Speaker 2: Yeah. 123 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:48,870 Speaker 1: Yeah. 124 00:04:49,550 --> 00:04:50,950 Speaker 3: I think that, and then you have to make it 125 00:04:50,970 --> 00:04:52,690 Speaker 3: seem like not a big deal. Like, just go to 126 00:04:52,730 --> 00:04:53,710 Speaker 3: this doctor. It's not a big deal. 127 00:04:53,750 --> 00:04:56,410 Speaker 2: And then step by step, like, start from the beginning. Like, 128 00:04:56,570 --> 00:04:58,510 Speaker 2: did you make the appointment? I'll meet you there. 129 00:04:59,130 --> 00:05:00,510 Speaker 3: Like, all of those little steps. 130 00:05:00,900 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 1: Yes. 131 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 3: You have to be there, unfortunately. They're like children. 132 00:05:03,460 --> 00:05:03,820 Speaker 2: Yes. 133 00:05:04,100 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: I mean, and also, this modern life is very difficult 134 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,250 Speaker 1: for people that grew up in the fucking 50s or 60s, 135 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:13,740 Speaker 1: where like, Just just download the app, dad. It's like 136 00:05:13,860 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: they don't know what you're talking about most of the time. 137 00:05:16,580 --> 00:05:18,580 Speaker 1: And be honest, you kind of don't either. 138 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 2: Right. 139 00:05:19,060 --> 00:05:21,700 Speaker 1: So like anything that's like the technical part. 140 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 141 00:05:22,180 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: I think that's great. You were just like, hey, I'll 142 00:05:24,779 --> 00:05:27,250 Speaker 1: just be there if you have questions. Yeah. 143 00:05:27,410 --> 00:05:29,450 Speaker 3: Or like I'll take notes. Or I said, would you 144 00:05:29,470 --> 00:05:31,210 Speaker 3: feel better if I were there? And he said, yes. 145 00:05:31,310 --> 00:05:33,430 Speaker 2: And like so I went and that was like. 146 00:05:33,730 --> 00:05:33,870 Speaker 1: Yeah. 147 00:05:34,390 --> 00:05:34,969 Speaker 3: Important part. 148 00:05:35,010 --> 00:05:36,550 Speaker 1: It's good. That's really nice. 149 00:05:36,670 --> 00:05:36,870 Speaker 2: Yeah. 150 00:05:37,029 --> 00:05:39,790 Speaker 1: You body doubled for old Marty. I know. Because also 151 00:05:39,850 --> 00:05:42,620 Speaker 1: it's like my dad goes in and won't let us 152 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:43,380 Speaker 1: go inside. 153 00:05:43,740 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 3: Right. 154 00:05:44,180 --> 00:05:47,940 Speaker 1: And my sister's like, right, but he can't repeat anything 155 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:48,870 Speaker 1: that the doctor tells him. 156 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 2: Exactly. 157 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:50,350 Speaker 1: Because he doesn't hear anything. 158 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,090 Speaker 3: He doesn't hear it or remember. 159 00:05:52,210 --> 00:05:52,430 Speaker 2: Yes. 160 00:05:52,490 --> 00:05:52,910 Speaker 3: Right? 161 00:05:53,050 --> 00:05:53,310 Speaker 1: Yeah. 162 00:05:53,350 --> 00:05:53,570 Speaker 2: Yeah. 163 00:05:54,310 --> 00:05:54,890 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's tough. 164 00:05:55,070 --> 00:05:58,250 Speaker 2: It is tough. We received a bunch of requests asking 165 00:05:58,330 --> 00:06:00,970 Speaker 2: our advice about baby names of all things. 166 00:06:01,050 --> 00:06:02,789 Speaker 1: I mean, they're going to come to the source. Because 167 00:06:02,870 --> 00:06:04,210 Speaker 1: what are we known best for? 168 00:06:04,850 --> 00:06:07,550 Speaker 3: Naming babies. All those babies that we name. 169 00:06:07,570 --> 00:06:11,890 Speaker 2: Okay, the first one is Golly Hilligan from Instagram says, 170 00:06:12,010 --> 00:06:13,750 Speaker 2: what should my wife and I name our baby? 171 00:06:13,910 --> 00:06:15,810 Speaker 1: Golly Hilligan, obviously. 172 00:06:15,830 --> 00:06:19,190 Speaker 3: No info. Like, we don't know anything about the baby. 173 00:06:20,070 --> 00:06:21,450 Speaker 1: No gender. Pick a name. 174 00:06:21,630 --> 00:06:22,289 Speaker 3: Pick one name. 175 00:06:23,370 --> 00:06:24,930 Speaker 1: I mean, Golly is a cute first name. 176 00:06:24,950 --> 00:06:28,460 Speaker 3: Golly? What about Mortimer? Like, if you're going to give 177 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:30,219 Speaker 3: us nothing, we're going to give you nothing. 178 00:06:30,660 --> 00:06:31,839 Speaker 1: What about Richie Rich? 179 00:06:32,339 --> 00:06:32,460 Speaker 2: Yes. 180 00:06:32,660 --> 00:06:33,380 Speaker 3: Boy or girl? 181 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,660 Speaker 1: Okay. Because then people think they're rich, which is all 182 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: people need these days. 183 00:06:37,820 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 3: Okay, boom, we did that one. 184 00:06:39,850 --> 00:06:42,890 Speaker 2: Shmeca from Instagram says, at least give us a little 185 00:06:42,910 --> 00:06:45,570 Speaker 2: more information. My baby boy is due in two months, 186 00:06:45,610 --> 00:06:46,990 Speaker 2: and we cannot agree on a name. 187 00:06:48,170 --> 00:06:51,390 Speaker 3: You decide, please. But no, like, suggestions. 188 00:06:51,410 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 2: Yes. 189 00:06:52,089 --> 00:06:53,930 Speaker 1: Can I say the first thing that popped in my head? Yeah. 190 00:06:54,690 --> 00:06:56,380 Speaker 1: I was just trying to think of a man's name. 191 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:56,620 Speaker 2: Yeah. 192 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:59,060 Speaker 1: Of like, what's a good name? Which I would say 193 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,140 Speaker 1: a name like Mike is a good name, like a 194 00:07:01,339 --> 00:07:03,140 Speaker 1: solid old-fashioned name. 195 00:07:03,170 --> 00:07:03,500 Speaker 2: Okay. 196 00:07:03,670 --> 00:07:05,469 Speaker 1: But I'll be honest, the first name that popped into 197 00:07:05,490 --> 00:07:07,690 Speaker 1: my head was Buster Posey, who used to be the 198 00:07:07,730 --> 00:07:09,029 Speaker 1: catcher for the Giants. Buster. 199 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:10,340 Speaker 3: Buster Posey. Buster Posey. 200 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,380 Speaker 1: How about we bring back, like, Buster is a fucking 201 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:14,420 Speaker 1: great name for a boy. 202 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,410 Speaker 3: Lucky. Or Sharky. 203 00:07:17,650 --> 00:07:18,010 Speaker 1: Sharky. 204 00:07:18,350 --> 00:07:18,570 Speaker 2: I know. 205 00:07:18,610 --> 00:07:19,210 Speaker 3: I did. 206 00:07:19,370 --> 00:07:20,730 Speaker 2: There was a name in a book I was listening 207 00:07:20,750 --> 00:07:23,330 Speaker 2: to recently that I liked, a boy's name, that I 208 00:07:23,350 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 2: thought sounded strong and normal, but not everyone would have it. Caden? 209 00:07:28,300 --> 00:07:30,540 Speaker 3: That's a good one. No, everyone has that name, right? 210 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 3: Everyone has that name. 211 00:07:31,420 --> 00:07:31,820 Speaker 1: Oh, my God. 212 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:32,420 Speaker 3: Corbin. 213 00:07:33,180 --> 00:07:33,700 Speaker 2: Corbin. 214 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 3: Do you like that? Sure. 215 00:07:35,780 --> 00:07:39,110 Speaker 1: After Corbin Bernson from Law & Order. Sure. I mean, L.A. 216 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: Law. 217 00:07:39,500 --> 00:07:39,770 Speaker 1: Sure. 218 00:07:40,410 --> 00:07:41,130 Speaker 3: Okay, we got that one. 219 00:07:42,170 --> 00:07:45,490 Speaker 2: ActiveTip082 from Instagram asks, I need a name for my 220 00:07:45,530 --> 00:07:50,050 Speaker 2: baby girl. I have a daughter, Elena, E-L-E-N-A, and I 221 00:07:50,110 --> 00:07:52,110 Speaker 2: am due with my second in August. 222 00:07:52,350 --> 00:07:53,470 Speaker 3: Okay, girl's name. 223 00:07:53,910 --> 00:07:57,730 Speaker 1: What if they want to do E's, like match Elena's name? 224 00:07:57,750 --> 00:08:01,340 Speaker 3: Do you like that? That's fun. So what's an E name? 225 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:01,620 Speaker 1: Eleanor. 226 00:08:02,340 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 3: Eleanor. 227 00:08:04,130 --> 00:08:05,470 Speaker 1: That's a great name, too. 228 00:08:05,490 --> 00:08:07,290 Speaker 3: Yeah, and they call her Lenny. 229 00:08:07,310 --> 00:08:11,910 Speaker 1: And then she can go, the rabbits. And like later on, 230 00:08:11,950 --> 00:08:13,670 Speaker 1: you can have a really funny mice and men joke. 231 00:08:13,810 --> 00:08:14,390 Speaker 3: That'd be great. 232 00:08:14,630 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: Eleanor and Elena. That's a nice combination. 233 00:08:17,140 --> 00:08:17,580 Speaker 2: Yeah. 234 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: And Lainey is a very cute. Lainey. You nailed it. 235 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: I was going to say, you know, Michaela with M-I-C-K-A-Y-L-I-Y-A. 236 00:08:32,660 --> 00:08:33,330 Speaker 3: You're canceled. 237 00:08:33,380 --> 00:08:38,210 Speaker 1: I'm canceling you. It's all canceled. Okay, this one's from 238 00:08:38,270 --> 00:08:42,730 Speaker 1: Casey Lane B., who wrote into the Discord asking, I'm 239 00:08:42,790 --> 00:08:46,890 Speaker 1: a millennial who got into the tattoo game later in life. 240 00:08:47,550 --> 00:08:51,430 Speaker 1: The tattoo game. I want a ridiculous tramp stamp to 241 00:08:51,570 --> 00:08:54,490 Speaker 1: add to my collection. Oh, wow. How come? 242 00:08:54,570 --> 00:08:55,110 Speaker 3: Why? 243 00:08:55,929 --> 00:08:59,350 Speaker 1: And so the question is this. Spice Girls tribute or 244 00:08:59,390 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: my favorite animal, a humpback whale. Those are the choices. 245 00:09:03,660 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: So let's first of all, we'll go back and forth 246 00:09:06,300 --> 00:09:08,740 Speaker 1: and we'll talk about that choice and what choice we 247 00:09:08,780 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: would make. And then what's the third option they're not 248 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:14,050 Speaker 1: considering that maybe would help that choice? 249 00:09:16,270 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 3: The third option? Not doing that. 250 00:09:18,250 --> 00:09:18,449 Speaker 2: No, no. 251 00:09:18,460 --> 00:09:21,340 Speaker 1: Between, if you had to, live or die, Spice Girls, 252 00:09:21,380 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 1: Humpback Whale, Tramps, yeah. 253 00:09:22,860 --> 00:09:26,300 Speaker 3: Well, obviously Humpback Whale because Spice Girls mean nothing to me. 254 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 1: Oh. 255 00:09:26,900 --> 00:09:28,179 Speaker 3: What's the... Wow. 256 00:09:28,540 --> 00:09:30,300 Speaker 1: I think we just started some beef here. 257 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,780 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't hate them, but there's nothing. Spice 258 00:09:32,850 --> 00:09:35,450 Speaker 3: Girls mean nothing to me. I was in high school 259 00:09:35,470 --> 00:09:37,710 Speaker 3: at that time. I was on drugs. I didn't care 260 00:09:37,790 --> 00:09:39,420 Speaker 3: when they, you know, it was just like.. 261 00:09:39,530 --> 00:09:42,310 Speaker 1: I have a feeling... That you got with lovers, but 262 00:09:42,350 --> 00:09:44,170 Speaker 1: you didn't care about your friends. Is that true? 263 00:09:44,210 --> 00:09:46,510 Speaker 3: Maybe that's the problem here. Is it that? That could 264 00:09:46,530 --> 00:09:46,750 Speaker 3: be it. 265 00:09:46,910 --> 00:09:48,860 Speaker 1: You felt really called out by that song. 266 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:54,220 Speaker 2: Okay, so ask someone with a sea-themed tramp stamp, an 267 00:09:54,340 --> 00:09:55,530 Speaker 2: ocean-themed tramp stamp. 268 00:09:55,570 --> 00:09:55,910 Speaker 1: Oh, yes. 269 00:09:56,050 --> 00:09:56,870 Speaker 3: How do you feel? 270 00:09:56,890 --> 00:09:58,699 Speaker 1: I thought you were thinking about yourself i'm like what 271 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:03,100 Speaker 1: is it no you have a salmon my salmon on 272 00:10:03,380 --> 00:10:06,140 Speaker 1: in my tramp stamp i would say this don't go 273 00:10:06,179 --> 00:10:10,070 Speaker 1: blue whale yeah uh you can have favorite animals and 274 00:10:10,090 --> 00:10:12,709 Speaker 1: not put them on yourself sure if i had a 275 00:10:13,290 --> 00:10:15,730 Speaker 1: if blue whale was my favorite animal i would be 276 00:10:15,770 --> 00:10:17,839 Speaker 1: putting it like somewhere I could see it. 277 00:10:17,980 --> 00:10:20,860 Speaker 3: Actually, I think Jonah Ray has a blue whale tattoo 278 00:10:21,059 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 3: on his arm. 279 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: Well, I was just going to say, if it's your 280 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 1: favorite animal, you should put it in a place where 281 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:30,209 Speaker 1: you can see it. Because I don't realize I have 282 00:10:30,270 --> 00:10:32,650 Speaker 1: that stupid tramp stamp on my back anymore, and I 283 00:10:32,670 --> 00:10:35,329 Speaker 1: would love to have it removed. Because it is just 284 00:10:35,390 --> 00:10:36,990 Speaker 1: dumb and is for nothing. 285 00:10:37,250 --> 00:10:39,489 Speaker 2: I think there's something to be said for a simple 286 00:10:40,250 --> 00:10:44,230 Speaker 2: design that's pretty or, you know, cool or whatever as 287 00:10:44,309 --> 00:10:46,260 Speaker 2: a tramp stamp rather than an actual.. 288 00:10:46,770 --> 00:10:47,130 Speaker 3: Thing. 289 00:10:47,890 --> 00:10:50,410 Speaker 1: So what you're saying is the silhouette of all five 290 00:10:50,490 --> 00:10:51,110 Speaker 1: Spice Girls. 291 00:10:51,910 --> 00:10:53,610 Speaker 3: Yeah. 292 00:10:54,110 --> 00:10:55,349 Speaker 1: But in the shape of a whale. 293 00:10:57,070 --> 00:10:58,010 Speaker 3: Get both. 294 00:10:58,090 --> 00:11:00,030 Speaker 1: What if the five of them are riding a whale? 295 00:11:00,100 --> 00:11:02,939 Speaker 3: Oh my God, you fucking solved it. Get that immediately. 296 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:04,979 Speaker 3: Send us a photo. We need to see that. 297 00:11:05,260 --> 00:11:05,979 Speaker 1: Amazing. Okay. 298 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 3: We just did that one. We're so good at this. 299 00:11:07,700 --> 00:11:10,020 Speaker 1: Because you know why? We care. We're really trying to 300 00:11:10,059 --> 00:11:10,540 Speaker 1: help people. 301 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 3: We do care. 302 00:11:11,380 --> 00:11:13,140 Speaker 1: But we don't want you to get a dream stamp. 303 00:11:13,179 --> 00:11:15,349 Speaker 1: But if you insist... Then it has to be a 304 00:11:15,390 --> 00:11:16,650 Speaker 1: whale with all five spice cups. 305 00:11:16,670 --> 00:11:18,510 Speaker 2: Isn't it funny that it's like kitschy now to get 306 00:11:18,570 --> 00:11:21,030 Speaker 2: a tramp stamp? It's like been so long that we 307 00:11:21,050 --> 00:11:23,410 Speaker 2: got our tramp stamps that it's now like ironic to 308 00:11:23,429 --> 00:11:24,100 Speaker 2: get a tramp stamp. 309 00:11:24,660 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: The feelings that I'm feeling watching all the clothes get 310 00:11:27,780 --> 00:11:30,339 Speaker 1: big again. Yeah. Where it does. I don't care about 311 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,780 Speaker 1: any of it anymore. Yeah. And for so long, the 312 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: pants were so tight on me. 313 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 2: I know. 314 00:11:35,020 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: And now they're big. With a big shirt. Right. And 315 00:11:37,420 --> 00:11:38,969 Speaker 1: that's the height of fucking fashion. 316 00:11:39,020 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: No, don't. 317 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:40,370 Speaker 3: And like belting it. 318 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:40,850 Speaker 1: What? 319 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:41,729 Speaker 3: That's stupid. 320 00:11:42,290 --> 00:11:46,090 Speaker 1: I have a complaint to Father Time and he doesn't care. Okay. 321 00:11:46,950 --> 00:11:51,949 Speaker 2: Okay, this one is from Renifer Coolidge on Instagram. Okay, 322 00:11:51,990 --> 00:11:54,970 Speaker 2: here's my drama. I can see the face on the moon. 323 00:11:55,190 --> 00:11:58,150 Speaker 2: My girlfriend can't. Can y'all see it? Yes. 324 00:11:58,330 --> 00:11:58,610 Speaker 1: Yes. 325 00:11:59,070 --> 00:11:59,410 Speaker 2: Yes. 326 00:11:59,550 --> 00:11:59,790 Speaker 1: Boom. Boom. 327 00:12:00,740 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 3: That's our advice to you. 328 00:12:01,780 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: Your girlfriend's wrong. Break up. End that relationship, Renifer. Yeah. 329 00:12:06,530 --> 00:12:07,630 Speaker 3: Your girlfriend needs glasses. 330 00:12:07,650 --> 00:12:10,930 Speaker 1: Sorry. Or your girlfriend is fighting whimsy. 331 00:12:11,210 --> 00:12:12,689 Speaker 3: I was just going to say. Were you going to 332 00:12:12,710 --> 00:12:14,469 Speaker 3: say that? There's like a whimsical problem here. 333 00:12:14,690 --> 00:12:16,750 Speaker 1: Yes. It's like I used to have a boyfriend that 334 00:12:16,770 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: would do stuff like that where they're like they love 335 00:12:19,500 --> 00:12:25,100 Speaker 1: to argue. Like I had a tote bag that had 336 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 1: like a saying on it. Yeah. It was like if 337 00:12:27,059 --> 00:12:29,380 Speaker 1: you hang around a a barbershop, you're going to get 338 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 1: a haircut. Yeah. You'd be like, that doesn't mean anything. 339 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 1: And I'd be like, it literally absolutely means. 340 00:12:34,780 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 341 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: And it's a good piece of advice. And it's also 342 00:12:37,380 --> 00:12:40,490 Speaker 1: kind of wise. And it's just like, it literally doesn't mean. 343 00:12:40,500 --> 00:12:41,350 Speaker 1: And it's just like. 344 00:12:41,390 --> 00:12:42,670 Speaker 3: Like, why are you being contrary? 345 00:12:42,890 --> 00:12:43,069 Speaker 2: Yeah. 346 00:12:43,170 --> 00:12:44,890 Speaker 3: Like, so you're saying break up. 347 00:12:45,429 --> 00:12:45,950 Speaker 1: Break up. 348 00:12:46,330 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 2: With a person who refuses to see the fun. Little 349 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,250 Speaker 2: character that isn't important. 350 00:12:52,730 --> 00:12:53,050 Speaker 1: No. 351 00:12:53,330 --> 00:12:55,510 Speaker 3: But won't be there with you and go there with you. 352 00:12:55,690 --> 00:12:58,390 Speaker 1: Yeah, they got to go. And also, if you can't 353 00:12:58,450 --> 00:13:00,569 Speaker 1: see the face in the moon or you don't or 354 00:13:00,610 --> 00:13:03,650 Speaker 1: you're going to stand around arguing that there isn't one there. Yeah. 355 00:13:04,370 --> 00:13:07,550 Speaker 1: Go over to the fucking JPL or something and become 356 00:13:07,590 --> 00:13:08,829 Speaker 1: the rocket scientist that you. 357 00:13:08,770 --> 00:13:09,270 Speaker 3: Need to be. 358 00:13:09,429 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: But everybody else is just like, this is a human experience. 359 00:13:12,860 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 3: Totally. 360 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: Finding faces in. Or a cloud. Yes. 361 00:13:16,540 --> 00:13:17,140 Speaker 3: Or whatever it is. 362 00:13:18,130 --> 00:13:19,450 Speaker 1: Open your goddamn eyes. 363 00:13:19,630 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 3: Try it sometime. Break up with them. Okay, last one. 364 00:13:22,220 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 3: Someone wants us to pick lottery numbers? 365 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 366 00:13:25,380 --> 00:13:26,410 Speaker 3: Fuck, what if we did it? 367 00:13:26,420 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 1: I know. Let's really focus right now. Okay, how many 368 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: are there? We'll go back and forth seven. 369 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,060 Speaker 2: Seven numbers, one through 35. 370 00:13:33,059 --> 00:13:33,540 Speaker 1: One through 35. 371 00:13:33,540 --> 00:13:37,489 Speaker 3: Yeah, so let's pick. Okay, you pick three. I'll pick three, 372 00:13:37,590 --> 00:13:38,670 Speaker 3: and then we'll pick one together. 373 00:13:38,910 --> 00:13:39,130 Speaker 1: Eight. 374 00:13:39,150 --> 00:13:39,689 Speaker 2: Uh-huh. 375 00:13:41,050 --> 00:13:41,410 Speaker 1: Eleven. 376 00:13:41,429 --> 00:13:41,870 Speaker 3: Uh-huh. 377 00:13:42,670 --> 00:13:44,630 Speaker 1: I'm doing the low ones, and you can do the 378 00:13:44,670 --> 00:13:47,510 Speaker 1: higher ones. Okay. 23. Okay, and then I'll go. 379 00:13:47,390 --> 00:13:48,790 Speaker 3: 33, 42, 49, and then... I think you were over 35. 380 00:13:48,770 --> 00:13:48,890 Speaker 1: Right. 381 00:13:48,910 --> 00:13:59,859 Speaker 3: Okay, then... What did you say? 382 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,020 Speaker 1: I ended on 23, I believe. 383 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:07,959 Speaker 2: Okay, so 26, 31, 35, and then, no, we can't, 384 00:14:08,140 --> 00:14:08,710 Speaker 2: then that's it. 385 00:14:08,730 --> 00:14:09,809 Speaker 1: Do you want a Powerball in there? 386 00:14:09,870 --> 00:14:11,130 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah. 387 00:14:11,130 --> 00:14:11,709 Speaker 1: 11? 11. 388 00:14:11,710 --> 00:14:13,230 Speaker 3: Did we already do 11? I think we did 11. 389 00:14:13,230 --> 00:14:15,230 Speaker 1: Nine. Nine for the Powerball. 390 00:14:15,250 --> 00:14:17,290 Speaker 3: Whatever that was, we don't know, but you owe us half. 391 00:14:17,309 --> 00:14:17,850 Speaker 3: Good luck, America. 392 00:14:18,740 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 2: It says if I win, I'll share. So that's from 393 00:14:21,090 --> 00:14:24,190 Speaker 2: Chloe Ham on Instagram. So thank you and you're welcome, Chloe. 394 00:14:24,210 --> 00:14:25,030 Speaker 3: Chloe, you're welcome. 395 00:14:25,290 --> 00:14:26,830 Speaker 1: I hope. Please spend it wisely. 396 00:14:27,170 --> 00:14:30,500 Speaker 2: Don't. No, please just buckle on one crazy what the 397 00:14:30,510 --> 00:14:31,340 Speaker 2: fuck shopping spree. 398 00:14:31,860 --> 00:14:35,830 Speaker 1: On drugs. Just like really good drugs. Good drugs. Spend 399 00:14:35,850 --> 00:14:36,210 Speaker 1: the money. 400 00:14:36,230 --> 00:14:37,130 Speaker 3: Share them with us. 401 00:14:37,610 --> 00:14:40,930 Speaker 1: Also, absolutely get an Uber driver. Yes. Absolutely get a 402 00:14:40,950 --> 00:14:42,110 Speaker 1: driver that day and don't. 403 00:14:42,330 --> 00:14:44,710 Speaker 3: You know, please. That's our advice to you. 404 00:14:44,870 --> 00:14:45,110 Speaker 1: Yes. 405 00:14:45,370 --> 00:14:48,410 Speaker 3: Well, thanks for listening to our advice. 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