Speaker 1: Second date update. Let's take a moment to talk about effort.
Speaker 2: Okay, you feel like.
Speaker 1: In the last ten years guys are making more of
Speaker 1: an effort on first dates or less?
Speaker 2: You need to ask less you were dating ten years ago?
Speaker 3: How did you know.
Speaker 2: It can't be any worse.
Speaker 3: I'm beaten down. I don't even try anymore.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I remember from doing this show
Speaker 1: over the past decade before, we heard about some pretty
Speaker 1: extravagant dates on this show.
Speaker 3: Hot air balloon ride.
Speaker 2: Remember the Castle guy?
Speaker 1: Was that the same rented out of castle fireworks shows?
Speaker 2: I mean that was when the Bachelor was really hot, though,
Speaker 2: and everybody's trying to emulate it, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like that stuff. That's not true.
Speaker 1: Of course they like that stuff, but now it's more
Speaker 1: of Hey, let's go to target and pick out our
Speaker 1: five favorite chatschki so we can play with them later.
Speaker 3: You're bye way to.
Speaker 1: Play with So to answer the question, yes, more creative,
Speaker 1: but not necessarily more impressive.
Speaker 2: Okay in your opinion, Yeah.
Speaker 3: Sure, my opinion is lost. So luckily we have a
Speaker 3: guy on the.
Speaker 1: Phone, though, who's putting in full effort into his first day.
Speaker 2: Him.
Speaker 1: I am very impressed. Without even knowing what he did.
Speaker 1: Let's talk to Andre.
Speaker 3: Andre. Welcome to the show man.
Speaker 4: Hey, hey, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2: Did you let her get a sixth tratchkey? Is that
Speaker 2: what you said?
Speaker 4: I wish I wanted to get to a few different basis,
Speaker 4: but home girl won't call me back.
Speaker 1: Now, okay, Well, what's homegirl's name?
Speaker 4: Regina?
Speaker 2: Regina? Okay, And so it sounds like, I mean, just
Speaker 2: in the setup of all this, that you really wanted
Speaker 2: to impress Regina on this date. Where did you guys meet?
Speaker 4: Well, so we met online and when I've swiped through
Speaker 4: the picture, she was real cute. But the selling point, Yeah,
Speaker 4: what the toes? The toes?
Speaker 2: Oh what about the toes?
Speaker 3: What did they were all there? Brooke?
Speaker 4: That was one thing that makes a difference.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so she's well out.
Speaker 4: Missing some things. But now all the solds were there
Speaker 4: and they were painted really nice. She just they accentuated
Speaker 4: the caps. She had these hills on. It's just I'm
Speaker 4: not like a foot fetish guy.
Speaker 3: Are you shot?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I mean, but they were speaking to me like if
Speaker 4: they have mouths, they'd be like, hey, come pick us up.
Speaker 2: Why did I set dress sexy little toad talking with
Speaker 2: the little lips.
Speaker 1: But some people, some people would say that says a
Speaker 1: lot about who a woman is, how she takes care
Speaker 1: of her feet and her body.
Speaker 4: I think they weren't crusty. They were pretty. They were
Speaker 4: well manicured.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying makes sense in combat boots
Speaker 2: right now. So I don't know any girl with crusty toes.
Speaker 2: But then I look at Brookes.
Speaker 1: All right, so she won you over with her photo.
Speaker 1: What did you end up doing for your date?
Speaker 4: This is the thing. First of all, you talk about effort.
Speaker 4: I have a gold tool. You can't have just one
Speaker 4: spot picked out you go out with money, you have
Speaker 4: to have at least three three.
Speaker 3: Three different places.
Speaker 2: That ends up a long night.
Speaker 3: You mean before the reservation or like for the whole night.
Speaker 3: You're ready to go.
Speaker 4: For the whole night, for the whole night. This is why.
Speaker 4: This is a theory. This is why because if the
Speaker 4: vibe falls down on one spot, you got another spot
Speaker 4: to go to. Soon is the meter drops, you go
Speaker 4: to another spot, guessing yeah.
Speaker 2: You keep the energy up. You never let things stall
Speaker 2: out by hanging out at one place for too long.
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly it would be nice if you could find
Speaker 1: a place with like multiple like stories and levels and
Speaker 1: you could just go up and down the stairs.
Speaker 2: And easy effort. I thought you wanted effort.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm also not in as good shape as
Speaker 3: I used to be.
Speaker 2: Okay, so I want to know these three spots.
Speaker 4: So for Regina, I didn't just have three because reginas
Speaker 4: the toes are right, So I have to keep the spot.
Speaker 4: Keep your guessing that I have four places in mind? Right?
Speaker 2: Wow? Extra special girls, it's a planning.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it does. Tell me about it. I'll put it
Speaker 4: in my effort. Don't forget. Andre puts in his effort.
Speaker 2: Appreciate that I know, and she probably appreciated it too.
Speaker 2: Did you tell her that that was what was going
Speaker 2: to happen?
Speaker 4: See what that happened was we made it to the
Speaker 4: third place. I took it to a restaurant. We have
Speaker 4: some really good food, and I look into a wine
Speaker 4: bar have some even better food. Then as we're heading
Speaker 4: to the dive bar, things started acting funny. I couldn't
Speaker 4: understand why she was acting weird. We get to the
Speaker 4: dive bar. She doesn't know I have a fourth place
Speaker 4: already picked up in case the energy goes alow here,
Speaker 4: but she started acting weird in it.
Speaker 2: What do you mean by weird? Can you give us
Speaker 2: an example?
Speaker 4: Like she was a little skittish, She was like a
Speaker 4: little stay at office, and she was like looking at
Speaker 4: me different, like I was somebody different, Like I changed
Speaker 4: and did something. But you know, we were having a
Speaker 4: good time in the first two spots. I don't know
Speaker 4: what happened between moving over to the third.
Speaker 3: Wait, go to the first restaurant?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, could it be that maybe she's not
Speaker 2: a dive bar type lady, Do you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: like like wine and shacotereriy to like dive bar.
Speaker 4: After I don't think it was a dive bar because
Speaker 4: we have the wine bar. She was already trying to
Speaker 4: act a little strange and I couldn't tell what it was.
Speaker 4: So in my mind, you know, I'm thinking, go to
Speaker 4: the next place.
Speaker 2: I see. So you were taking it as a cue
Speaker 2: to find a new spot, but really it was a
Speaker 2: cue that she didn't want to be there anymore.
Speaker 4: My bidy sences went off, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: And I'm.
Speaker 3: Sure there couldn't have been anything that Andre himself did.
Speaker 2: I mean at what point did you bring up her toes.
Speaker 4: I just let her know that on the app. I
Speaker 4: didn't keep it up on the date, but I was
Speaker 4: checking them out. I was looking at my toe. She
Speaker 4: had nice shoes, you know.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, you were making comments? Yeah, weird as
Speaker 2: you're eating the olives from the charcooteries. Do you know
Speaker 2: what these remind me of?
Speaker 4: Girls?
Speaker 2: It was like a plump, little pinky right there.
Speaker 3: Let's not go down any far that this path. I
Speaker 3: think we have enough information. Let's come back.
Speaker 1: We will call Regina for you and try and get
Speaker 1: you your second date update and hopefully send you out
Speaker 1: to finish your four locations so you can finish it off.
Speaker 5: Kind of four.
Speaker 2: We only have so many gift cards. Yeah, we'll give
Speaker 2: you one spot at the end of the that we'll.
Speaker 3: See this works. We'll come back and do it right
Speaker 3: after this.
Speaker 4: Thank you, all right, man, hold on.
Speaker 1: Second date update. Let me say a couple of things
Speaker 1: to start things off here. First, that I like our
Speaker 1: listener Andre. He sounds like a guy that cares not
Speaker 1: just about toes, but about planning fun dates and making
Speaker 1: sure the girl actually.
Speaker 3: Has a good time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like we talked about right.
Speaker 1: And when I step back and think about him taking
Speaker 1: her to four different places in one night, which they
Speaker 1: never made it to the force by the way, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I realized that he just took her to a restaurant
Speaker 1: and then two different bars.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and are planned it?
Speaker 1: But Audrey, did you think of maybe switching it up
Speaker 1: a little bit and throwing in an activity somewhere in
Speaker 1: the middle instead of just drinking at three different spots?
Speaker 2: Drinking wine is an activity? Okay?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Sure, maybe that shit, Maybe that's the one doubt. I mean,
Speaker 4: let her brother know, you know, like at.
Speaker 2: The dive bar. Maybe you could have played pool or
Speaker 2: done ski ball if she would have.
Speaker 3: Stayed, you know.
Speaker 1: But the thing is he could already tell at spot
Speaker 1: number two even before that she was acting a little
Speaker 1: strange and only reluctantly agreed to go to that dive bar.
Speaker 3: And after that the date was over. So here we are.
Speaker 2: We never asked what was the fourth place you had planned?
Speaker 2: Maybe that's what we can entice her with when we
Speaker 2: talked to her.
Speaker 4: All about surprises. I don't know if I should let
Speaker 4: the cat out the bag.
Speaker 3: You get your second day, you can use that place
Speaker 3: next to Okay.
Speaker 4: Exactly exactly, my man.
Speaker 3: Allright, us romantic guys got to look after each other.
Speaker 2: Planning four bars romantic.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't know if the fourth thing was a bar,
Speaker 3: but it could have been.
Speaker 1: Well, we won't tell her what you had planned, but
Speaker 1: we'll see if she even answers the phone, I'm going
Speaker 1: to dial her number right now.
Speaker 3: Try and get your second date update. All right, here
Speaker 3: we go.
Speaker 2: You're nervous.
Speaker 3: I want this to work for.
Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you, be with me on your side.
Speaker 4: Here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hey, is this Regina?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: Is this This is a radio show. My name is
Speaker 1: jeff and the show is called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning.
Speaker 2: Hey Regina, we're all here. Welcome to the show. Okay, Wow,
Speaker 2: that's pretty fun.
Speaker 4: Wow, was right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're in for the experience of a lifetime right now.
Speaker 2: Let's not oversell it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, how'd you get my number?
Speaker 2: Great question?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we actually got it from one of our listeners,
Speaker 1: who you know pretty well because you went out with
Speaker 1: him the other night.
Speaker 3: His name is Andre. Hello.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, Andre sounds like a pretty cool guy.
Speaker 6: Uh well, I got a strange vibe.
Speaker 3: Oh really, seems like he has a lot of good energy.
Speaker 2: I mean we talked to him.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think Andre picked up on the fact that
Speaker 1: you were getting a strange vibe because he said you
Speaker 1: were acting a little bit different as the night went on.
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know exactly what he told you, but
Speaker 6: from my perspective, it was very strange and unsettling.
Speaker 2: Subtly, are you talking about one specific thing or just
Speaker 2: his overall energy?
Speaker 6: No, So we went to this restaurant and then how
Speaker 6: is that?
Speaker 5: That was fine?
Speaker 6: I noticed this person and they kept on looking at us,
Speaker 6: and I thought that was weird.
Speaker 3: So, but sometimes that's a good sign.
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times, if there's a cute couple
Speaker 1: that's out on a first date and other people notice
Speaker 1: that they're having good chemistry, you tend to look over
Speaker 1: at them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and sometimes I was like, can you talk louder
Speaker 2: so I can eaves drop easier?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Is that well?
Speaker 2: I mean I did.
Speaker 6: I thought nothing of it for at first, but then
Speaker 6: once we got to the wine bar, that same person
Speaker 6: was there.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean it's the same neighborhood though, right, it
Speaker 2: sounds like these places were close by each other.
Speaker 6: I don't know, Like, I was like, what's going on?
Speaker 2: Did you ask Andre?
Speaker 5: Or did he notice he looked over when I looked
Speaker 5: over at the guy and kind of was like wondering
Speaker 5: why I was looking, and like totally disregarded it and
Speaker 5: then just kept talking.
Speaker 2: Well, sometimes men are very good at details.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know he made was the guy looking at
Speaker 1: you at both places, but.
Speaker 4: Like trying to hide it.
Speaker 6: And then we went to the dive bar, and you're
Speaker 6: not going to believe this. He was there too, and
Speaker 6: I was like, what, oh.
Speaker 2: God, that's did you say you're observant?
Speaker 4: You did, you know, pay attention to details? Over here?
Speaker 3: Everybody slow down. You need to tell me Regina.
Speaker 1: Uh, that's Andre who is on the other line listening
Speaker 1: to this conversation wanting.
Speaker 2: To talk to you, which isn't a good look at
Speaker 2: the story. You just yeah, idea, why didn't you tell me?
Speaker 2: I was going to be more like Yo, you know,
Speaker 2: he's kind of too much.
Speaker 3: He's too cute for me.
Speaker 5: Well, I don't know what he was trying to do there.
Speaker 6: It's really scary.
Speaker 3: Well, Andre, now's your chance, man, get in here.
Speaker 4: I wasn't trying to scare nobody up. He was a
Speaker 4: get a little complicated.
Speaker 2: Look here, Wait, did you know the guy.
Speaker 4: Well, I mean kind of like I didn't. I didn't.
Speaker 4: I didn't know that you recognized him. I'm a filmmaker
Speaker 4: on the side, right, and like I had a surprise.
Speaker 3: Oh god, look.
Speaker 4: The person that you had seen was my homeboy Sam,
Speaker 4: right and and damn Bear, wear me hold on. I'm
Speaker 4: trying to hold on. Sam, you know, is my homeboy,
Speaker 4: trusted homeboyd we we we worked together at a photo shop,
Speaker 4: so weird. I'm sorry, I'm telling you, Bear, Okay, before
Speaker 4: I get to the final detail, I need y'all to
Speaker 4: be with me on this.
Speaker 3: All right, benefit.
Speaker 1: Not sounding great so far. You and your buddy dude
Speaker 1: like secret films together.
Speaker 3: But keep going, Okay, everyone let them talk.
Speaker 4: It's good intention. It's good intention. So Sam was taking
Speaker 4: candid photos of us, and like I said, I have
Speaker 4: multiple spots planning. So by the time we got to
Speaker 4: the fourth spot, surprise, Sam was going to have the
Speaker 4: photos developed so that we could have a memory of
Speaker 4: our first date. Why would you do that? Because I'm
Speaker 4: in the filmmaking business and like I like to remember stuff.
Speaker 6: And you didn't ask my permission.
Speaker 4: Okay, I mean it was a public place. I don't
Speaker 4: have to.
Speaker 1: Your friend wasn't just taking pictures only of Regina. It
Speaker 1: was of like both of you together on the date, okay.
Speaker 2: And he didn't have a telephoto lens on her toes,
Speaker 2: did he?
Speaker 4: I mean?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Okay, Well let's pause for a second because I need
Speaker 1: to ask the girls in the room. Is having a
Speaker 1: scrap book of your first date ready at the end?
Speaker 3: Sweet or creepy?
Speaker 2: Do you know what's crazy? My husband actually has a
Speaker 2: video from the very first night we met, because it
Speaker 2: was an event that we met at and he's a
Speaker 2: he's a videographer and he was taking video. Yeah, he
Speaker 2: had a big camera up to my face. But we
Speaker 2: have video of the first night and it's pretty magical.
Speaker 2: And I down at a bar and a man photos
Speaker 2: he's been taking to me all night. I would call
Speaker 2: it the key is I knew?
Speaker 3: Vot creepy there.
Speaker 4: Speaking of your husband now?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, if I think where you messed up
Speaker 2: Andrea's you didn't tell her? If you would have told her,
Speaker 2: then there's no surprise, I know.
Speaker 1: And the weird part about Brooks One was the video
Speaker 1: through the bathroom door.
Speaker 3: But like Regina, can.
Speaker 1: You see how Andre's intentions were sweet in doing this.
Speaker 3: It wasn't malicious. He was trying to do something nice
Speaker 3: for you.
Speaker 4: Yes, I thought he wanted me to do or something.
Speaker 3: That I thought.
Speaker 2: The stranger was just waiting at the dive bar.
Speaker 3: Guy keeps looking at me. Were go to sleep with him?
Speaker 3: Or get out of here? There's no think is Regina.
Speaker 2: You can see his intentions were pure.
Speaker 1: And now that you understand, we've learned Andrea's all about effort. Yes,
Speaker 1: and if he gave this much effort on the first date,
Speaker 1: just imagine what he's going to do on your second date.
Speaker 1: And we would actually pay to set you guys up
Speaker 1: to go out again.
Speaker 4: He pitches this. Andre cares about the women. You know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. Andre would never intentionally disrespect, but try
Speaker 4: and go too far to make someone feel uncomfortable. I
Speaker 4: believe Andre is just asking for one more chance, baby, baby, baby, Please.
Speaker 2: Give up a chance for Ga.
Speaker 3: You have somebody else in this room.
Speaker 6: What do you think, Regina, Just because you're going above
Speaker 6: it beyond, I'll give you another chance.
Speaker 4: Go.
Speaker 2: I can't wait to see those awkward photos and congratulations.
Speaker 3: To commemorate this experience. You can go back and listen.
Speaker 1: To it up on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: and relive it over and over it.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, hey hey, and just when you were
Speaker 4: talking about the threesome thing. There's no chance there, right
Speaker 4: because like if you willingly.
Speaker 2: Which is every.
Speaker 1: Man rookie Jeffrey in the We've been getting more texts
Speaker 1: coming in at seventy five nine to two from women wanting
Speaker 1: to date andre in case this doesn't work out with Regina.
Speaker 1: Half of them are from Alexis's phone number, the other
Speaker 1: half are from her mom barb.
Speaker 2: Okay, can blame me, but it just what the energy is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little extra effort planning a date can actually
Speaker 1: go a long long way.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean he needed to just come clean at
Speaker 2: the beginning about the photos, but.
Speaker 3: That would have ruined the surprise.
Speaker 2: If she looked good in those photos, like she might
Speaker 2: be happy about it. You know, I'd be excited. Some
Speaker 2: candidates for free, I mean trying to take a candid
Speaker 2: and look naturally.
Speaker 1: As the lighting in the bar is perfect too, starting
Speaker 1: Yeah it's dark and sexy. Okay, so now we all
Speaker 1: agree higher strangers to follow you on.
Speaker 3: We all have our support.
Speaker 1: Another thing that helps is having four radio hosts badgering
Speaker 1: you till you break down and finally say yes, I'll
Speaker 1: go out with him one more time.
Speaker 2: I was a smart man.
Speaker 3: See, this is.
Speaker 1: Why people reach out to us. We can badger like
Speaker 1: no other. We are the honey Badgers of Radio, vicious
Speaker 1: and relentless.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know that that's the thing. We want
Speaker 2: to hang out.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm branding us at right. We can be
Speaker 3: the honey badger for you.
Speaker 1: If you ever need help getting that person go out
Speaker 1: with you again, email the show.
Speaker 3: We'll call that person who wasn't calling you back Brook
Speaker 4: And Jeffrey in the morning.