WEBVTT - Second Date Update: High Effort Andre

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. Let's take a moment to talk about effort.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>In the last ten years guys are making more of

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<v Speaker 1>an effort on first dates or less?

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<v Speaker 2>You need to ask less you were dating ten years ago?

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<v Speaker 3>How did you know.

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<v Speaker 2>It can't be any worse.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm beaten down. I don't even try anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you what I remember from doing this show

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<v Speaker 1>over the past decade before, we heard about some pretty

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<v Speaker 1>extravagant dates on this show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hot air balloon ride.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember the Castle guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that the same rented out of castle fireworks shows?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that was when the Bachelor was really hot, though,

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<v Speaker 2>and everybody's trying to emulate it, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like that stuff. That's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course they like that stuff, but now it's more

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<v Speaker 1>of Hey, let's go to target and pick out our

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<v Speaker 1>five favorite chatschki so we can play with them later.

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<v Speaker 3>You're bye way to.

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<v Speaker 1>Play with So to answer the question, yes, more creative,

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<v Speaker 1>but not necessarily more impressive.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay in your opinion, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, my opinion is lost. So luckily we have a

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<v Speaker 3>guy on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Phone, though, who's putting in full effort into his first day.

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<v Speaker 2>Him.

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<v Speaker 1>I am very impressed. Without even knowing what he did.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk to Andre.

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<v Speaker 3>Andre. Welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, hey, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you let her get a sixth tratchkey? Is that

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<v Speaker 2>what you said?

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<v Speaker 4>I wish I wanted to get to a few different basis,

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<v Speaker 4>but home girl won't call me back.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, okay, Well, what's homegirl's name?

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<v Speaker 4>Regina?

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<v Speaker 2>Regina? Okay, And so it sounds like, I mean, just

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<v Speaker 2>in the setup of all this, that you really wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to impress Regina on this date. Where did you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so we met online and when I've swiped through

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<v Speaker 4>the picture, she was real cute. But the selling point, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>what the toes? The toes?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh what about the toes?

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<v Speaker 3>What did they were all there? Brooke?

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<v Speaker 4>That was one thing that makes a difference.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, so she's well out.

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<v Speaker 4>Missing some things. But now all the solds were there

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<v Speaker 4>and they were painted really nice. She just they accentuated

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<v Speaker 4>the caps. She had these hills on. It's just I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not like a foot fetish guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you shot?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, but they were speaking to me like if

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<v Speaker 4>they have mouths, they'd be like, hey, come pick us up.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did I set dress sexy little toad talking with

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<v Speaker 2>the little lips.

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<v Speaker 1>But some people, some people would say that says a

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<v Speaker 1>lot about who a woman is, how she takes care

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<v Speaker 1>of her feet and her body.

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<v Speaker 4>I think they weren't crusty. They were pretty. They were

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<v Speaker 4>well manicured.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying makes sense in combat boots

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<v Speaker 2>right now. So I don't know any girl with crusty toes.

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<v Speaker 2>But then I look at Brookes.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so she won you over with her photo.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you end up doing for your date?

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<v Speaker 4>This is the thing. First of all, you talk about effort.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a gold tool. You can't have just one

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<v Speaker 4>spot picked out you go out with money, you have

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<v Speaker 4>to have at least three three.

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<v Speaker 3>Three different places.

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<v Speaker 2>That ends up a long night.

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<v Speaker 3>You mean before the reservation or like for the whole night.

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<v Speaker 3>You're ready to go.

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<v Speaker 4>For the whole night, for the whole night. This is why.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a theory. This is why because if the

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<v Speaker 4>vibe falls down on one spot, you got another spot

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<v Speaker 4>to go to. Soon is the meter drops, you go

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<v Speaker 4>to another spot, guessing yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You keep the energy up. You never let things stall

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<v Speaker 2>out by hanging out at one place for too long.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly exactly it would be nice if you could find

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<v Speaker 1>a place with like multiple like stories and levels and

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<v Speaker 1>you could just go up and down the stairs.

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<v Speaker 2>And easy effort. I thought you wanted effort.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I'm also not in as good shape as

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<v Speaker 3>I used to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I want to know these three spots.

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<v Speaker 4>So for Regina, I didn't just have three because reginas

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<v Speaker 4>the toes are right, So I have to keep the spot.

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<v Speaker 4>Keep your guessing that I have four places in mind? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow? Extra special girls, it's a planning.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it does. Tell me about it. I'll put it

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<v Speaker 4>in my effort. Don't forget. Andre puts in his effort.

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<v Speaker 2>Appreciate that I know, and she probably appreciated it too.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you tell her that that was what was going

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<v Speaker 2>to happen?

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<v Speaker 4>See what that happened was we made it to the

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<v Speaker 4>third place. I took it to a restaurant. We have

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<v Speaker 4>some really good food, and I look into a wine

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<v Speaker 4>bar have some even better food. Then as we're heading

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<v Speaker 4>to the dive bar, things started acting funny. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>understand why she was acting weird. We get to the

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<v Speaker 4>dive bar. She doesn't know I have a fourth place

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<v Speaker 4>already picked up in case the energy goes alow here,

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<v Speaker 4>but she started acting weird in it.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean by weird? Can you give us

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<v Speaker 2>an example?

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<v Speaker 4>Like she was a little skittish, She was like a

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<v Speaker 4>little stay at office, and she was like looking at

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<v Speaker 4>me different, like I was somebody different, Like I changed

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<v Speaker 4>and did something. But you know, we were having a

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<v Speaker 4>good time in the first two spots. I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>what happened between moving over to the third.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, go to the first restaurant?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, could it be that maybe she's not

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<v Speaker 2>a dive bar type lady, Do you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>like like wine and shacotereriy to like dive bar.

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<v Speaker 4>After I don't think it was a dive bar because

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<v Speaker 4>we have the wine bar. She was already trying to

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<v Speaker 4>act a little strange and I couldn't tell what it was.

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<v Speaker 4>So in my mind, you know, I'm thinking, go to

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<v Speaker 4>the next place.

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<v Speaker 2>I see. So you were taking it as a cue

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<v Speaker 2>to find a new spot, but really it was a

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<v Speaker 2>cue that she didn't want to be there anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>My bidy sences went off, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure there couldn't have been anything that Andre himself did.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean at what point did you bring up her toes.

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<v Speaker 4>I just let her know that on the app. I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't keep it up on the date, but I was

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<v Speaker 4>checking them out. I was looking at my toe. She

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<v Speaker 4>had nice shoes, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, you were making comments? Yeah, weird as

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<v Speaker 2>you're eating the olives from the charcooteries. Do you know

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<v Speaker 2>what these remind me of?

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<v Speaker 4>Girls?

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<v Speaker 2>It was like a plump, little pinky right there.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's not go down any far that this path. I

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<v Speaker 3>think we have enough information. Let's come back.

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<v Speaker 1>We will call Regina for you and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you your second date update and hopefully send you out

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<v Speaker 1>to finish your four locations so you can finish it off.

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<v Speaker 5>Kind of four.

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<v Speaker 2>We only have so many gift cards. Yeah, we'll give

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<v Speaker 2>you one spot at the end of the that we'll.

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<v Speaker 3>See this works. We'll come back and do it right

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<v Speaker 3>after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, all right, man, hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. Let me say a couple of things

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<v Speaker 1>to start things off here. First, that I like our

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<v Speaker 1>listener Andre. He sounds like a guy that cares not

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<v Speaker 1>just about toes, but about planning fun dates and making

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<v Speaker 1>sure the girl actually.

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<v Speaker 3>Has a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like we talked about right.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I step back and think about him taking

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<v Speaker 1>her to four different places in one night, which they

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<v Speaker 1>never made it to the force by the way, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that he just took her to a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and then two different bars.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, and are planned it?

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<v Speaker 1>But Audrey, did you think of maybe switching it up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit and throwing in an activity somewhere in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle instead of just drinking at three different spots?

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<v Speaker 2>Drinking wine is an activity? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, maybe that shit, Maybe that's the one doubt. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>let her brother know, you know, like at.

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<v Speaker 2>The dive bar. Maybe you could have played pool or

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<v Speaker 2>done ski ball if she would have.

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<v Speaker 3>Stayed, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is he could already tell at spot

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<v Speaker 1>number two even before that she was acting a little

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<v Speaker 1>strange and only reluctantly agreed to go to that dive bar.

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<v Speaker 3>And after that the date was over. So here we are.

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<v Speaker 2>We never asked what was the fourth place you had planned?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's what we can entice her with when we

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<v Speaker 2>talked to her.

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<v Speaker 4>All about surprises. I don't know if I should let

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<v Speaker 4>the cat out the bag.

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<v Speaker 3>You get your second day, you can use that place

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<v Speaker 3>next to Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly exactly, my man.

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<v Speaker 3>Allright, us romantic guys got to look after each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Planning four bars romantic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we don't know if the fourth thing was a bar,

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<v Speaker 3>but it could have been.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we won't tell her what you had planned, but

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see if she even answers the phone, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to dial her number right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Try and get your second date update. All right, here

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<v Speaker 3>we go.

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<v Speaker 2>You're nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>I want this to work for.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, Thank you, be with me on your side.

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<v Speaker 4>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, is this Regina?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this This is a radio show. My name is

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<v Speaker 1>jeff and the show is called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Regina, we're all here. Welcome to the show. Okay, Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>that's pretty fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, was right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're in for the experience of a lifetime right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's not oversell it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, how'd you get my number?

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<v Speaker 2>Great question?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we actually got it from one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>who you know pretty well because you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>him the other night.

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<v Speaker 3>His name is Andre. Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sorry, Andre sounds like a pretty cool guy.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh well, I got a strange vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really, seems like he has a lot of good energy.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we talked to him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think Andre picked up on the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you were getting a strange vibe because he said you

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<v Speaker 1>were acting a little bit different as the night went on.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I don't know exactly what he told you, but

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<v Speaker 6>from my perspective, it was very strange and unsettling.

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<v Speaker 2>Subtly, are you talking about one specific thing or just

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<v Speaker 2>his overall energy?

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<v Speaker 6>No, So we went to this restaurant and then how

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<v Speaker 6>is that?

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<v Speaker 5>That was fine?

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<v Speaker 6>I noticed this person and they kept on looking at us,

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<v Speaker 6>and I thought that was weird.

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<v Speaker 3>So, but sometimes that's a good sign.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a lot of times, if there's a cute couple

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<v Speaker 1>that's out on a first date and other people notice

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<v Speaker 1>that they're having good chemistry, you tend to look over

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<v Speaker 1>at them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and sometimes I was like, can you talk louder

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<v Speaker 2>so I can eaves drop easier?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Is that well?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I did.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought nothing of it for at first, but then

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<v Speaker 6>once we got to the wine bar, that same person

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<v Speaker 6>was there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean it's the same neighborhood though, right, it

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like these places were close by each other.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, Like, I was like, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ask Andre?

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<v Speaker 5>Or did he notice he looked over when I looked

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<v Speaker 5>over at the guy and kind of was like wondering

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<v Speaker 5>why I was looking, and like totally disregarded it and

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<v Speaker 5>then just kept talking.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, sometimes men are very good at details.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know he made was the guy looking at

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<v Speaker 1>you at both places, but.

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<v Speaker 4>Like trying to hide it.

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<v Speaker 6>And then we went to the dive bar, and you're

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<v Speaker 6>not going to believe this. He was there too, and

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, what, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>God, that's did you say you're observant?

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<v Speaker 4>You did, you know, pay attention to details? Over here?

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody slow down. You need to tell me Regina.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, that's Andre who is on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this conversation wanting.

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<v Speaker 2>To talk to you, which isn't a good look at

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<v Speaker 2>the story. You just yeah, idea, why didn't you tell me?

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to be more like Yo, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>he's kind of too much.

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<v Speaker 3>He's too cute for me.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I don't know what he was trying to do there.

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<v Speaker 6>It's really scary.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Andre, now's your chance, man, get in here.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't trying to scare nobody up. He was a

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<v Speaker 4>get a little complicated.

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<v Speaker 2>Look here, Wait, did you know the guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean kind of like I didn't. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know that you recognized him. I'm a filmmaker

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<v Speaker 4>on the side, right, and like I had a surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, look.

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<v Speaker 4>The person that you had seen was my homeboy Sam,

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<v Speaker 4>right and and damn Bear, wear me hold on. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>trying to hold on. Sam, you know, is my homeboy,

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<v Speaker 4>trusted homeboyd we we we worked together at a photo shop,

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<v Speaker 4>so weird. I'm sorry, I'm telling you, Bear, Okay, before

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<v Speaker 4>I get to the final detail, I need y'all to

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<v Speaker 4>be with me on this.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, benefit.

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<v Speaker 1>Not sounding great so far. You and your buddy dude

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<v Speaker 1>like secret films together.

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<v Speaker 3>But keep going, Okay, everyone let them talk.

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<v Speaker 4>It's good intention. It's good intention. So Sam was taking

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<v Speaker 4>candid photos of us, and like I said, I have

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<v Speaker 4>multiple spots planning. So by the time we got to

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<v Speaker 4>the fourth spot, surprise, Sam was going to have the

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<v Speaker 4>photos developed so that we could have a memory of

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<v Speaker 4>our first date. Why would you do that? Because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>in the filmmaking business and like I like to remember stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>And you didn't ask my permission.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I mean it was a public place. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Your friend wasn't just taking pictures only of Regina. It

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<v Speaker 1>was of like both of you together on the date, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And he didn't have a telephoto lens on her toes,

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<v Speaker 2>did he?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well let's pause for a second because I need

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<v Speaker 1>to ask the girls in the room. Is having a

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<v Speaker 1>scrap book of your first date ready at the end?

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<v Speaker 3>Sweet or creepy?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what's crazy? My husband actually has a

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<v Speaker 2>video from the very first night we met, because it

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<v Speaker 2>was an event that we met at and he's a

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<v Speaker 2>he's a videographer and he was taking video. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 2>had a big camera up to my face. But we

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<v Speaker 2>have video of the first night and it's pretty magical.

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<v Speaker 2>And I down at a bar and a man photos

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<v Speaker 2>he's been taking to me all night. I would call

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<v Speaker 2>it the key is I knew?

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<v Speaker 3>Vot creepy there.

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<v Speaker 4>Speaking of your husband now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like, if I think where you messed up

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<v Speaker 2>Andrea's you didn't tell her? If you would have told her,

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<v Speaker 2>then there's no surprise, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>And the weird part about Brooks One was the video

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<v Speaker 1>through the bathroom door.

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<v Speaker 3>But like Regina, can.

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<v Speaker 1>You see how Andre's intentions were sweet in doing this.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't malicious. He was trying to do something nice

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<v Speaker 3>for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I thought he wanted me to do or something.

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<v Speaker 3>That I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>The stranger was just waiting at the dive bar.

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<v Speaker 3>Guy keeps looking at me. Were go to sleep with him?

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<v Speaker 3>Or get out of here? There's no think is Regina.

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<v Speaker 2>You can see his intentions were pure.

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<v Speaker 1>And now that you understand, we've learned Andrea's all about effort. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and if he gave this much effort on the first date,

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<v Speaker 1>just imagine what he's going to do on your second date.

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<v Speaker 1>And we would actually pay to set you guys up

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again.

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<v Speaker 4>He pitches this. Andre cares about the women. You know

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying. Andre would never intentionally disrespect, but try

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<v Speaker 4>and go too far to make someone feel uncomfortable. I

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<v Speaker 4>believe Andre is just asking for one more chance, baby, baby, baby, Please.

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<v Speaker 2>Give up a chance for Ga.

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<v Speaker 3>You have somebody else in this room.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you think, Regina, Just because you're going above

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<v Speaker 6>it beyond, I'll give you another chance.

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<v Speaker 4>Go.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to see those awkward photos and congratulations.

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<v Speaker 3>To commemorate this experience. You can go back and listen.

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<v Speaker 1>To it up on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>and relive it over and over it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, hey hey, and just when you were

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<v Speaker 4>talking about the threesome thing. There's no chance there, right

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<v Speaker 4>because like if you willingly.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is every.

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<v Speaker 1>Man rookie Jeffrey in the We've been getting more texts

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<v Speaker 1>coming in at seventy five nine to two from women wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to date andre in case this doesn't work out with Regina.

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<v Speaker 1>Half of them are from Alexis's phone number, the other

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<v Speaker 1>half are from her mom barb.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, can blame me, but it just what the energy is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a little extra effort planning a date can actually

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<v Speaker 1>go a long long way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean he needed to just come clean at

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning about the photos, but.

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<v Speaker 3>That would have ruined the surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>If she looked good in those photos, like she might

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<v Speaker 2>be happy about it. You know, I'd be excited. Some

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<v Speaker 2>candidates for free, I mean trying to take a candid

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<v Speaker 2>and look naturally.

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<v Speaker 1>As the lighting in the bar is perfect too, starting

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's dark and sexy. Okay, so now we all

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<v Speaker 1>agree higher strangers to follow you on.

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<v Speaker 3>We all have our support.

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<v Speaker 1>Another thing that helps is having four radio hosts badgering

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<v Speaker 1>you till you break down and finally say yes, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him one more time.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a smart man.

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<v Speaker 3>See, this is.

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<v Speaker 1>Why people reach out to us. We can badger like

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<v Speaker 1>no other. We are the honey Badgers of Radio, vicious

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<v Speaker 1>and relentless.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't know that that's the thing. We want

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<v Speaker 2>to hang out.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm branding us at right. We can be

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<v Speaker 3>the honey badger for you.

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<v Speaker 1>If you ever need help getting that person go out

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<v Speaker 1>with you again, email the show.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll call that person who wasn't calling you back Brook

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<v Speaker 4>And Jeffrey in the morning.