1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to keep lists of things you want 4 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: to discuss with the professionals in your life. That way, 5 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: when you are asked if you have any questions or concerns, 6 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: you will be ready to bring them up. There are 7 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: probably numerous professionals you see from time to time. Your 8 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: family doctor, your dentist, various specialists, maybe a financial advisor, 9 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: a vet, various contractors, an arborist who knows if something 10 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: big comes up in between periodic visits, you would make 11 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: a special appointment. But there are plenty of questions that 12 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: come up that aren't worth a visit on their own. 13 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: They are simply things you intend to bring up at 14 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: your next visit. To make sure that you remember these 15 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: questions by the time that next visit rolls around, you 16 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: need to keep a specific list of them. If you 17 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: use a digital calendar, one obvious place for this list 18 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: is the calendar event for the appointment. In the notes 19 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: or description section of the calendar event, record any questions 20 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: you would like to discuss. You can add to this 21 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: over time. For your dermatologist, you might make a note 22 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 1: about a new mole that showed up in your arm, 23 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: plus the date when you first noticed it. For your accountant, 24 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: you might make a note to ask about electric car 25 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: tax credits if you are pondering buying one in the 26 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:55,919 Speaker 1: next year. The morning of your appointment, you can open 27 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: the calendar item and refresh your memory of the topics 28 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: want to discuss. If you use a paper calendar, you 29 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: can record questions on a blank page in your planner 30 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: or in a bullet journal, or on a sticky note 31 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 1: affixed to the calendar page for the day of the appointment. 32 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: Or you can keep a digital list of questions, perhaps 33 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: on your phone, and put a note on your paper 34 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: calendar reminding you to see notes. Keeping a list, whether 35 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: paper or digital, can be helpful for more frequent appointments too. 36 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: You may keep noticing a spot on the stove that 37 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: you would like your cleaning service to try to remove, 38 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: but you won't necessarily remember that when you are racing 39 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: out the door to work as they are coming in. 40 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: You need somewhere to remind yourself for the morning when 41 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: the service always comes, or at least to remind you 42 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: to text the crew leader. In my case, we are 43 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: finishing up renovations on our house, and sure enough I 44 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 1: wound up being a running list of issues to bring 45 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: up with the contractors. The supervisor for the renovation project 46 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: recently stopped by to check on things, and alongside the 47 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 1: freezer leak and a plastering issue, I was able to 48 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: ask about a toilet handle that wasn't working quite right. 49 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: Even though I will acknowledge that perhaps the toilet handle 50 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: was a bit out of his purview, he was handy, 51 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 1: and he was here, and I had a list, and 52 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: my toilet handle is now fixed. To make the most 53 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: of time with professionals, we have to be ready to 54 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: bring important topics to their attention when we have the chance. 55 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: We are often asked if we have any questions or concerns, 56 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: and it is frustrating to remember your questions and concerns 57 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: in the car when you are driving home. If you 58 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: record your questions and concerns somewhere you can remember them, 59 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: you will be ready to bring them up when the 60 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: moment arises. In the meantime. This is Laura, Thanks for listening, 61 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: and here's to making the most of our time. 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