1 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back a 2 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: suit on, looking back to back down, giving the move 3 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: like themking buck bus things and its cubs me through 4 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: good it. Steve har listening to mother for ste please by, 5 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 1: I don't join joined me to be doing me. Have 6 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: you gotta turning in them? You gotta turn the turnout, 7 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,559 Speaker 1: got to turn out to turn the water the water. 8 00:01:55,400 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: Come come on your back at it. Uh huh, I 9 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: shall will a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, 10 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 1: Come on dig me now one it only Steve Harley 11 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: got a radio show today. I want to just share 12 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: something with you along your way to wherever it is 13 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: you're trying to get to. You know, everybody has a 14 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: different definition for success, and I'm not. I'm not here 15 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 1: to tell you what joy should be. I mean, please 16 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: pursue whatever you think success He is aim as high 17 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: as you can though, that's for sure. My father used 18 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 1: to say all the time. I'm sure you all have 19 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: heard it in different variations, but he used to always say, 20 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: aim for the moon. Just in case you miss, you'll 21 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: still be amongst the stars. Just say that to me 22 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: all the time. So that always was in me to 23 00:02:56,480 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: aim high. Now he wasn't saying aim with the intent 24 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: to miss. He was just saying aim In case you miss, 25 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: you're still amongst the stars. If you aim for the moon. 26 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: But if you just aim for that first flow wind 27 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: and you miss it, you know, usually run into some 28 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: type of wall and nothing happens. You slither down. You know. 29 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: In my book, act like a lady, think like a man. 30 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: I told her people that men love three ways. They profess, 31 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 1: they provide, they protect, and that's the core essence of 32 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: a man's love. Well, there's some other peas in life too. 33 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: The number one thing you have to understand about trying 34 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: to be successful, and I guess I call this the 35 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: four peas. I may come up with five along the way. 36 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just talking as is given to me. 37 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna summer start by saying, as these are 38 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: the four peas of success that you have to get 39 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: ready for. Number one, it's pressure. A lot of it 40 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: is applied by the circumstance of what you're trying to 41 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: go for and what you're trying to do, but a 42 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: lot of it also is self imposed pressure. It's what 43 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: you put on yourself to make it. It's a sense 44 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 1: of urgency, it's a sense of necessity. But pressure is 45 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 1: the first thing I want you to be ready for. 46 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: And pressure comes in a lot of different forms, but 47 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: it's going to be pressured. As an old saying that 48 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,359 Speaker 1: pressure buster pipe. See, that's why most people turn around, 49 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: because of the pressure of trying to be successful. I 50 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: want you to get it in your mind that it 51 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: is going to be a pressure rized situation on your 52 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: rise to the top. Pressure, but understand that that it 53 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: is what it is, is not going to change. That's it. 54 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: Prepare yourself, get ready for there to be pressure. The 55 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: second thing I want you to understand is when you 56 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: receive this pressure, you have to persist. You got to 57 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 1: stay at it. You got to develop a dog getness 58 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 1: has a There's a song that says, why must I 59 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: feel like that? Why must I chase the cat? Nothing 60 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 1: but the dog in me? That's a funny line in 61 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: that song, because really I was thinking about it one day. 62 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: I was humming it and and it, and it occurred 63 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 1: to me, said, why must I feel like that? Why 64 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog get me? 65 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 1: And you know, now you could take it into literal 66 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: sense that the cat chases the dog because it's innately 67 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 1: is in his spirit. That cats and dogs are a 68 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: lot of time enemies. Now people have pets in him, 69 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: proving that if you show love on both sides, they 70 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: can exist. And that happens too, but naturally innately, when 71 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 1: your cat goes by a dog and your dog don't 72 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: recognize him, that some barking going on. I'm talking about 73 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 1: just walking through the neighborhood or something. So, but the 74 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: reason that this dog's so persistent towards this cat is 75 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: just cause it's in him. It's innately in him. And 76 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you, just using that as an analogy, 77 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 1: is that you got to be you got to be 78 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: persistent in that. You got to develop some dog in 79 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: you now because pressure takes some fighting back. See if 80 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: you don't fight back against pressure, pressure buster pipes, So 81 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: what you think it will do to you? Pressure crack walls, 82 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: pressure calls, explosions. So if you don't fight back to 83 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: hold it in, you understand pressure does most people in 84 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: the simple thing called pressure, the weight of what it 85 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: feels like to want to be successful every single day, 86 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: over and over and over and over and over. It's 87 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: just too much pressure. People crack. You got to persist. 88 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: You have to persist. You can the thought of giving 89 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: up can come, but you got to get it out. 90 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: You got to persist. The next thing I want you 91 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: to think about is another something that I've been thinking 92 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: about for years and learn for years. It's called perseverance. 93 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: To persist means to insist. Its keyword in insist and 94 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: persistence insists you must. You must insist that this is 95 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: going to happen. Now, the persist I'm assuming means it's 96 00:07:56,520 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: a proaction. It's some type of proaction that you go towards. 97 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: Is it to make it? You know, persist, you gotta 98 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: be persisted. You gotta be constantly at it, insisting that 99 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: it happens. You gotta be constantly at it. But the 100 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: next thing I want you to remember is perseverance. Perseverance 101 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: is important. Perseverance means that when you've done your best, 102 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 1: when you've persisted, when you're fighting back against the pressure. 103 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: Perseverance simply means I'm going to hang in here when 104 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: if a crack come into pipe, I'm gonna hang in there. 105 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: If the pipe bust, I'm gonna keep going if I 106 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: gotta put duct, take mud, whatever I got to put 107 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: on this thing. Man, I'm gonna use perseverance. I'm going 108 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 1: to stay with it no matter what. So we're looking 109 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: at the three things again. You got to understand that 110 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: it's gonna be pressure that you're gonna have to persist. 111 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: Keyword and persistence insist. You have to insist that no 112 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: matter what the pressure is, I'm gonna stay with it. 113 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: But then perseverance. If it goes wrong, man, you got 114 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: to get in there and keep fighting. But then Lord 115 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: Him Mercy. Nothing helps you handle the three peas better 116 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: than the fourth pea. You got to pray. You got 117 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: to use prayer. You gotta talk to God. You gotta 118 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: use faith. You gotta have some conferences with him late 119 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: at night, early in the morning, in the middle of 120 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: the afternoon, when you own the train, when you're driving. 121 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: You got to talk to God. Man, you gotta get 122 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: yourself some help along the way. Nothing is bigger than prayer. 123 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: There is nothing bigger than prayer. Prayer will help you 124 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: overcome the pressure. Prayer will help you stay persistent, and 125 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: Lord Him Mercy, prayer will help you persevere. Them as 126 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: the faux pas that just came to me today. God 127 00:09:54,280 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: gave that to me. I'm passing it on. Ladies and gentlemen. 128 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: It is time that Steve Harvey Morning Show is upon us. 129 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: It is a really really good show. Man. Let me 130 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 1: tell you the objective here every day. First of all, 131 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: we try to enlighten people, just to make your day brighter. 132 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: And then we try to entertain. Man. We just believe 133 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: that to get your day started, you you ought to 134 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: draw a little entertainment. You ought to do a little 135 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: couple laughs. Man, just get something on your head. It's 136 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: enough news out there. We're not seeing in. We're not 137 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: hl and we're not offit to be all that you want. 138 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: The news. Cut the news on. We got some news 139 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: for you. We try to be informative. We keep your 140 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: breast to the major issues. But we really man want 141 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: you to enjoy yourself before you get into that. Damn y'all. Man. Entertained, 142 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: empower lay keyword entertained, Ladies and gentlemen. Shelley Strawberry, Hello, Stein, Hello, 143 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: that's a part of the enlightening part of the show. 144 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: Calin Pharrell, Good morning, sir. What's up crew. This is 145 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: a part of the information section of the show that 146 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: provides us with stories and content. And now after we've 147 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: enlightened you and we've empowered you with some knowledge, ladies 148 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, we start with what we were born to do. 149 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, low level ignorance, killed junior space. Hell, 150 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: I just got in here. Let me put my bag down. 151 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: The ladies and gentlemen, high level stupidity and ignorance. Nephew, tummy, 152 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,439 Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. This department I've control it is 153 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: called the stupid Department. We're on the sixth plow fixed 154 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: twenty is my office. Different department. Yeah, that's what I've brought. 155 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: And last but not LEAs oh kc ok original And 156 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: we're getting ready. Man, we're trying to put together some stuff. 157 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:29,319 Speaker 1: We've got a couple of surprises. But next year, twenty twenty, 158 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 1: we'll mark the twentieth anniversary other original Kings of Comedy, 159 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 1: the movie do something Special and the original Steve Morning 160 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: Show for it. Yep. Wow, congratulations, that's awesome. Yep. So 161 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 1: we're gonna see who wants to do some business with 162 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:54,839 Speaker 1: us and throwing it out there. I've talked to said, 163 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,679 Speaker 1: I've talked to d L. I've talked to Walter Latham. 164 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: We all on the same page age. You want to 165 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:04,839 Speaker 1: do something great. You ain't talking to me, but no, no, 166 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: we didn't. Okay, you want to see it in deal 167 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: and see what. No, you don't have to. You don't 168 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 1: have to, okay, Steve, Yeah, no is that a no? 169 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: So see why? Why why is he in this show? 170 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: I ain't see him in the movie? Well, I mean 171 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: bing bim bing bing big being I'm on side occurring 172 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: when he walked out there. All right, we have to 173 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: move on that. The job coming up at thirty two 174 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 1: after the hour. You know what, we're gonna talk about 175 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 1: biggest regrets. What are our biggest regrets? Oh my god? Okay, 176 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: I think about that and uh, we'll be back right 177 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening. Well, you know, some people regret 178 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 1: getting married. A lot of people say that. Some people 179 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: regret divorce. Some people regret leaving a job. I said, 180 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: some people. Okay, we're not using any names here. Some 181 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: people will regret leaving a job, or cheating, uh, not 182 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,719 Speaker 1: saving enough money, not going to college. It goes on 183 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: and on and on. You know, I regret you regret it. 184 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: You don't regrets it. What they're doing it. You know, 185 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: you don't put conditions on the cheating. Glad you cleared 186 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: that up, married man. But when you get away, way 187 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: do it again. It seems only saying wow. He's not 188 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: saying you're wrong, but he'd be saying that. He's saying yes, right, 189 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: all right, Well, Tom Joyner, we all know Tom Joyner. 190 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 1: Tom Joyner was on a panel at the National Association 191 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 1: of Black Journalist conference moderated by Roland Martin, and Tom 192 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: said one of his biggest regrets Steve was not working 193 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: with you. Take a listen. I've got a couple of regrets. 194 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: We had the opportunity to put Steve under the umbrella, yep, 195 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: and egos got in the way, and we weren't that 196 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 1: far apart on money. It was all egos and and Steve. Um. 197 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: We we're gonna, We're gonna. Steve was gonna come under 198 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: the reach umbrella and we were gonna do a twin tower, 199 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 1: uh kind of strategy where it would be me and 200 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: me in the mornings and Steve in the afternoons. Egos 201 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: got in a way that deal didn't happen. Uh Noah didn't. Wow, man, 202 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: that was humbling parents that's a wow. That's a true statement. 203 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: Though that's exactly what happened. It was. It was egos 204 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: got in a way, and and I don't think it 205 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: was on Tom's Paul, I really don't. I think it 206 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: was on uh partnerships fault, you know, because I think 207 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: Tom and I had talked about it and it was 208 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: an idea that Tom bought to me, and uh, I 209 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: thought it was a good idea, and as we got 210 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 1: to talking about it, like he said, I think egos 211 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: got in the way. I don't. I don't think it 212 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: was Tom at all, because it was Tom's original idea 213 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 1: and uh, I think we were really talking about farming 214 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: a powerhouse, and I think egoes did get in the way. 215 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 1: I think people started talking about, you know, we don't 216 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: need him and you know he'll never Oh yeah, I 217 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: remember somebody from that side said in a roundabout way, 218 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 1: and it got to me, who who who on that side? 219 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: You don't know? Let me know who says something. It 220 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: wasn't Tom. It wasn't Tom, because I think this was 221 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: original idea. I think, I really do think Tom had 222 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: came up with the original idea and we were talking 223 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 1: about it. But I think what happened was somebody on 224 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 1: that side kind of got worried out that you know, 225 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 1: we don't need him and let him go. There's nowhere 226 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 1: him to go in mornings anyway, so we ain't got 227 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 1: to put up with this and we ain't got to 228 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 1: pay that, you know. And like Tom said, you know, 229 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 1: the money wasn't that far apart. You know, he's trying 230 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 1: to work it out, but you know, it takes some 231 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: more negotiating. But just some people up top started talking 232 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 1: and it kind of got back and you know, then 233 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,199 Speaker 1: egos go, well, you know, he can't do this in 234 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 1: the mornings, and then uh wow, s yes I can. 235 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: But you know, I'll say this because I've heard of 236 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: Tom talking about retiring. But Tom Joiner man on the reel, 237 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 1: one of the great radio men, oh yeah, in African 238 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: American radio. A matter of fact, in all of radio, 239 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 1: Tom Joiner was doing it before any of us got started. 240 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: Oh he did it. At he did it, and awaited 241 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: none of us would ever even dream or boys and 242 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 1: afternoons himself from down I mean Chicago flying. Yeah, I 243 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: mean he was a bad boy. So you know that 244 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: a lot of props have to go to him being 245 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:23,479 Speaker 1: the giant that he became in radio, and it's one 246 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 1: of the reasons I got into radio. Be honest, I'm 247 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: glad to hear you say that. Yeah, I'm glad to real. Yeah, 248 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: and we never knew this story. Actually, we never knew 249 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: the story, so to hear that. But stee, if you 250 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: have any regrets, I mean, Tom talked about regrets, and 251 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: I guess because he's retiring, you know, any and it 252 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be with that particular deal or that partnership. 253 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: Just what are some of your biggest regrets? Do we 254 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 1: have time? Yeah? That was like how much time do 255 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: we have? Yeah? Yeah, man, let me think, let me, 256 00:18:55,760 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: let me, let me think for real. But then, you know, 257 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 1: sometimes people say they don't have any regrets because if 258 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 1: they do, then they wouldn't be the person they are today. 259 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: So there are two schools of thoughts on the regret. 260 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: You'd have done something you regret, though, come on, oh absolutely, man, 261 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: I mean, look, I understand that you know that that 262 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 1: statement does hold true, that if you hadn't have done 263 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: everything you did in the order that you did it, 264 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:26,719 Speaker 1: you wouldn't be who you are today. And I definitely 265 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: adhere to that. But I'm telling you tho, Man, I 266 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 1: have regrets. Man, I regret. One of the first regrets 267 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 1: I had was the disappointment that I provided my mother 268 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: and father. Man, I really really disappointed them. Man, A 269 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:52,880 Speaker 1: couple of times in life. It was just so disheartening. Man, 270 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: I lost five thousand dollars of my father's one time, 271 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: and Man, all that ripped his heart out, in my 272 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: heart out. And I saw how heard he was when 273 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 1: I lost his five thousand dollars. It was all he had, 274 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 1: and he gave it to me on the loan to 275 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 1: buy a carpet cleaning machine, and I lost it because 276 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't make the bill, and so he got tired 277 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: of the bank calling, so he relinquished his CD. I 278 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: lost five thousand dollars my father. That's one of my 279 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 1: great regrets. And I spent the rest of my life 280 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,120 Speaker 1: trying to make it up to him. I paid him 281 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 1: a lot more than five thousand back. I bet you did. 282 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll hold it right there. I think 283 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: everyone has a regret. We'll find out what Tommy's regret is, 284 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 1: what Junior's regret is, Carla's and mine. We'll talk about 285 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening all right. Before we 286 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 1: went on break, Steve, we were talking about the fact 287 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 1: that Tom Joyner, one of our colleagues and friend, had 288 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: said that one of his biggest regrets was not going 289 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: into a deal with you at one time. He said 290 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: that it was almost done. Money wasn't even the problem, 291 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: but egos got in the way. And he didn't even 292 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: mean your ego or his ego. He just meant some 293 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 1: egos got in the way. And then we went on 294 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: from there to ask you what was one of your 295 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: biggest regrets, and boy, you told us yeah, Oh, a 296 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 1: heart wrenching story about I disappointed my father and my mother. Man, 297 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:27,159 Speaker 1: I was one of my great hurts. I think. I 298 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: don't know, man, I've had a bunch of things I 299 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 1: wished I had not done. You know. I wish, man, 300 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:42,199 Speaker 1: I had paid attention to my mother sooner about a 301 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: relationship with God. I really do, man, I could have 302 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: saved myself so much pain. Oh my goodness, man, have 303 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 1: I done a number on myself by not adhering to that. 304 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: But then we get right back to the fact that 305 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 1: had I not gone through what I went through, I 306 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to have the testimony that I have today. 307 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 1: So you know, it's it's tough when you got to 308 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: deal with regrets. Oh yeah, yeah, it really it's it's heavy, 309 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: it really is, and you'll end up beating yourself up 310 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 1: over something that you really can't change. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. 311 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: But I mean, like you said, you spent the rest 312 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,199 Speaker 1: of your life trying to make it, make it up 313 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: to him, and and your intentions were great, and I'm 314 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 1: sure you did, and I'm sure he forgave you, but 315 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: you never forgave yourself. No, yeah, and oh he forgot 316 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:38,360 Speaker 1: all about it? Yeah, Or that boy shild so much 317 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 1: money to this house. I remember my mama sitting my 318 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 1: daddy out to LA when I was on me and 319 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: the boys, because I was sending money to the house. 320 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 1: My mom said, Slick, go out there and see what 321 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 1: that boy and got itself into because they ain't no 322 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,959 Speaker 1: where in the will you telling jokes and making this 323 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 1: kind of money and us all this money every week. 324 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 1: And my daddy flew out there, she said, he said, son, 325 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 1: that talked to me. What you didn't got yourself into 326 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 1: is you're hustling or you're doing something like that. You 327 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 1: and in the streets with what you're doing so no. 328 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: I took him to the show and everything. Then I 329 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:20,680 Speaker 1: showed him my paychecks though he said, you can't say 330 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 1: you want to stay on. I don't get the blank. 331 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 1: What you got to be bulled? No, I can't say it. 332 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: You make that a week? Yes? So what? I look 333 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 1: at him, Why didn't more money? I'm making a yell? 334 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: They pay you this a week? Yes? So that was it? Man? 335 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 1: What about y'all? You know what, Steve? My biggest regret regret, 336 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 1: if I'm honest, because I didn't finish college. If I 337 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: didn't go my whole four years. That my biggest regret. 338 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,200 Speaker 1: And I always wanted to do that before my mom. 339 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 1: My mom passed away and I started going back to 340 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: school and I still, you know, haven't finished. But that 341 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 1: was my biggest regret that I didn't finish my yeah, 342 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 1: my four year degree. That was That's my biggest biggest regret. 343 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I still have time to do it, but 344 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 1: that is my biggest regret. It is. I mean, I 345 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: wanted to be in radio so badly, I really did, 346 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 1: and I got the opportunity to be in radio while 347 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 1: I was in school. So I dropped out and took 348 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 1: a radio job and from there, it just you know, 349 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 1: exploded and that still dear good, that's what happened, you know, 350 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: but still, you know, you talk about regrets, that's my 351 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 1: big That is my biggest regret in life. That really 352 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: is surely I floked out of school. I ain't thought 353 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: about it. Three shirts made people feel better, yeah, right, 354 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: But you know I was her firstborn. I wanted to 355 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 1: make her proud and every and I think I eventually 356 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 1: I did that. But that, you know, that's my one regret. 357 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: That is my biggest regret. What about you? I think 358 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 1: my biggest regret is my mother when you know, just 359 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 1: growing up, you know, I was raised by my mom. 360 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 1: She encouraged me to try to have a better relationship 361 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 1: with my father, but I was very very angry and 362 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 1: my dad for a long time, you know what I mean, 363 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:32,679 Speaker 1: and just thought my dad was trifling or you know 364 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: what we go through, you know, the issues that I 365 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 1: had with my father, and then when my father passed away. 366 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: You know, my mom passed away first, but when my 367 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: father passed away, I kind of you know, when I 368 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 1: went to his funeral and I spoke and it was like, dang, 369 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: I wish I had done you know, got to know 370 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: my dad a little bit better. And it wasn't that 371 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 1: long ago to Carla that your dear dad passed away. Yeah, 372 00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,920 Speaker 1: he passed away. My mom passed away in two thous 373 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 1: and four, and my dad passed away ten years later, 374 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:08,439 Speaker 1: twenty fourteen. Yeah, wow, wow, yeah, this is but I 375 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: have a closer But you know what, but you know 376 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: what came from that. Though, I have a very very 377 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: close relationship now closer. I've always was close to my aunt, 378 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: my dad's sister. She lives in La. Yeah. Yeah, my aunt, 379 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: so we are that's my girl now so close and 380 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,639 Speaker 1: she's teaching me so much about my dad's family. And 381 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 1: guess what, guys, my dad set me up when he died. 382 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 1: I'm talking checks were coming in from my dad and 383 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: I had no look at God, look at God. Yeah. Yeah, 384 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 1: so that's my regret, that the anger and trying, you know, 385 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: just to get to know my dad. But my mother 386 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: always try to encourage that. Then I mentioned I was 387 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 1: always in gifted and talented classes through school too, so 388 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 1: there was no excuse for me not to send me 389 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: that I did. I mention that, I mention that, you know, 390 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 1: they accidentally put me in special ed class for three weeks. 391 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: They had got some paperwork mixed up. I was down now, 392 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 1: raising my hand every time to teach your ass something. 393 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:35,719 Speaker 1: I knew everything. Pop quiz is a test, A group 394 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 1: leader reading, group leader. Man, I'm the smartest boy. My 395 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,159 Speaker 1: teacher went down in the office said, I think we 396 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: made a mistake. This boy does not appear to be 397 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: a special ed. They came to my room and told 398 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: me to come down and go the room fall six. 399 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 1: I went, what what is we going down the fall? 400 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 1: I'm getting all age? You don't even want understanding folk 401 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:11,160 Speaker 1: plus folk. Oh you liked it down there, you got it? 402 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 1: Got it at something else? What's your biggest My biggest regret? 403 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 1: I think it is my grandmother not here to see 404 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: me today because she didn't believe Oh she didn't believe you. No, No, 405 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 1: I just wanted to show that I'm not making a mistake. 406 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 1: I know there's something different about me. Huh. And this 407 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 1: is what I'm born to do. And I wish first 408 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 1: comedian because I meant when I came in the house, 409 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 1: but I first thoughted. She said, how much we make 410 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: this week, mister comedian? Thirty five dollars hold a dough 411 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: and I wanted to see me today. Yeah, yeah, Julian, Yeah, 412 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 1: can I tell you something she sees you. That's the 413 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: good thing she sees man. All Right, we come back. 414 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 1: We're gonna hear from the food. We have to. We 415 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 1: have to all right, biggest regrets when we come back 416 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to all right, uh wow, 417 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: this morning turned interesting to an interesting turn. We're talking 418 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: about our biggest regrets in the morning show. Um, everyone 419 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: has something they regret, they wish they had done different 420 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 1: or better, not at all. And we've all been pouring 421 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 1: out our hearts basically about what our biggest regrets are. 422 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: And we've heard from everyone, and so now I just 423 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,320 Speaker 1: tell everyone, you know, hold on because it's time for 424 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: the nephew and we want to find out. Nephew, what's 425 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: your biggest regret? My biggest regret. Yes, I'm gonna have 426 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: a regret for him. What is it? I think his 427 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 1: biggest Come on, come on, Betty, I think one of 428 00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: him his biggest blass was not being as tall. I'm 429 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 1: pretty sure he can look back on his life all 430 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 1: this shot that little feeding small hands, you know, little 431 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: last Gi Joe clothes he's been wearing Joe control over 432 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: that scene. I know. That's how I know that's one 433 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 1: of his biggest regrets because he wished he could have 434 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: controlled that out there for a timing, because I know 435 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:35,320 Speaker 1: where he's fitting to go. I said, okay, yeah, light low, 436 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 1: take this off my dog. You know, don't don't want 437 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 1: him down. They're hurting too bad, you know, because of Man, 438 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 1: I listen. But you know, it's a it's it's it's 439 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 1: a it's a thing man, when you are when you 440 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: talk about regrets, and because like we all know, you 441 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 1: can't redo any of it now. And if it had 442 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 1: not happened in the exact order that it did, none 443 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: of us would be who we are. True. And it 444 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 1: is these regrets that that tire us to a humbleness, 445 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: that tire us to a hunger, that tire us to 446 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 1: a memory that causes us to be better for it, 447 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: All of these regrets that we've expressed, the memory of 448 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 1: these regrets has caused us to change and become better people. Yeah, 449 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 1: all of us. And that's why people some people say 450 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: they have no regrets, No, because you gotta get it 451 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 1: in that it all had to happen, man, Yeah, yeah, 452 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 1: you know you you you. You had to leave school. 453 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: You you had to not give your father a chance. 454 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: You had to your grandmother had to not see you 455 00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: make it for you to really get that. Tommy dealing 456 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 1: with his father, the loss of his father. But his 457 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 1: father made him who he is a day. Yes, without 458 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: without tommy father, he ain't to do what he is today. 459 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 1: All the mass whip presumed checks and balances. Yeah, them 460 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 1: tough fans, moments many pick forcast. You know, I think 461 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 1: I thank God for all these ass whippers, every las 462 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 1: one of the walls I thought I unfairly got. Yeah. Yeah, 463 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 1: guess what that teaches you to understand that life ain't 464 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: always not always some time he jeff fucking man. But 465 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 1: get up and get on with it all right. See, 466 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 1: we're in a good place, but we got to move on, 467 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 1: keep the show moving. Time from Missan ladies and gentlemen, 468 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 1: Miss Ann Tripp, thank you very much, everybody. Good morning. 469 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: Yes we do have our regrets, but they do make 470 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 1: us better. This is a trip with the news. President 471 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 1: Trump has called off plans plan talks with the Taliban, 472 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: and some Middle East observers say there might be another 473 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 1: wave of violence because of it. In Afghanistan, at least 474 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,959 Speaker 1: as a result, but Trump said he had to cancel. 475 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 1: Jim David would have been a good place. But I 476 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 1: don't want to meet under circumstances where they go around 477 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 1: to try and make themselves a little bit more important 478 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: by killing a soldier by actually also a great NATO 479 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: soldier in addition to our soldier, and also a total 480 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 1: of twelve people. I don't want that. It might also 481 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 1: been inconvenient because it was supposed to take place this 482 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 1: week in September eleventh around that time, so that might 483 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: have also not had a good look to it. The 484 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,480 Speaker 1: Talban was supposed to be finalizing a deal with the 485 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 1: US to close eighteen years of fighting. No word now 486 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 1: when or if it talks of resume. Fifty state attorneys 487 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 1: general have launched an investigation to Google to see if 488 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 1: Google's been acting like a monopoly, in other words, too 489 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 1: good at squashing its opponents. Thousands of Bahamians are now 490 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 1: on US soil after being evacuated from the devastation left 491 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 1: by Hurricane Dorium. Meanwhile, Behaming UN officials say there is 492 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 1: no clean drinking water or electricity, and only one functioning 493 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 1: ambulance on Grand Bahama Island. Us AID administrator Mark Green 494 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: says it's tremendous suffering and devastations. There are parts of 495 00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 1: Abaco and the Bahamas that own show a great deal 496 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 1: of damage, and then there are clusters and communities that 497 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 1: were devastated, almost as though nuclear bombs were dropped on them. 498 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,760 Speaker 1: Green says that USAID has sent about three million dollars 499 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 1: to the islands to help provide clean water, sanitation, and 500 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: emergency shelters and communities in South Florida trying to help. Also, 501 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,399 Speaker 1: Dorian took a slap at Canada on Sunday, heading out 502 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 1: to sea, where it's expected to fizzle out today. A 503 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 1: federal judge in California has reinstated his nationwide injunction against 504 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: new Trump administration policy that denies asylum to migrants who 505 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:35,800 Speaker 1: arrive at our southern border after traveling through a third country. 506 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,720 Speaker 1: Trump officials want to deny asylum to people from Central 507 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,879 Speaker 1: America and elsewhere who passed through other countries, in other words, 508 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: without asking for protection in those countries before coming to 509 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 1: the United States. Americans civil the Americans CIVILIPTI Junior ACLU 510 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: is praising the judge's injunction. Is praising that he's stopping that. 511 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 1: The US Coast Guard began pulling trapped crew members out 512 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,920 Speaker 1: of a Chicago ship that capsize off Georgia Coast on 513 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 1: Sunday in court fire. As of yesterday, twenty people have 514 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 1: been rescued from that sinking vessel in Chicago. This is 515 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 1: a sad one, now horrible one. Jury selection, though, does 516 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 1: begin this week in the murder trial for two of 517 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,400 Speaker 1: the three men charged with the deliberate murder of a 518 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 1: nine year old boy, the nine year old son of 519 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 1: a purported gang member in twenty fifteen and attacked that 520 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,799 Speaker 1: prosecutors say was meant to send a message to the 521 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: father they killed. They say his nine year old child. 522 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 1: The killing of Tayshawn Lee shocked and disgusted the community 523 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,840 Speaker 1: in Chicago. Authorities say the fourth grader was actually lured 524 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 1: away from a playground and into an alley that he 525 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:42,760 Speaker 1: was shot and killed. Again. Jury selection begins this week 526 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 1: in that case. Former strongman south Zunbabwe strongman mcgabe Robert 527 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 1: mcgabey is being He's going to be funeralized this week 528 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 1: on Sunday. Actually he died in Singapore. His body due 529 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:01,040 Speaker 1: back in Zimbabwe tomorrow today National Trial. It look day, 530 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 1: So you vote, okay, and now back to the Steve 531 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening too well. President Trump took 532 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:14,399 Speaker 1: to Twitter to bash Justice for All for not giving 533 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 1: him and the Republicans credit for passing the First Step Act. 534 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 1: When all of the people pushing so hard for criminal 535 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: justice reform were unable to come even close to getting 536 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 1: it done, they came to me as a group and 537 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,160 Speaker 1: asked for my help, he wrote, after bragging about getting 538 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,240 Speaker 1: it done and saying that President Barack Obama couldn't come close. 539 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 1: Then he started in on John Legend. Guys like boring 540 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: music musician John Legend and his filthy mouth wife are 541 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,440 Speaker 1: talking now about how great it is. But I didn't 542 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: see them around when we needed help getting it passed. 543 00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:51,360 Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? So this is from the President 544 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 1: of the United States, Then I hate to tell you this. 545 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 1: Then your last six buildings, yeah, well they mostly with 546 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna just tell you the truth. Now, John 547 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: Legend has made money man, and he's a great, very 548 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 1: successful Yeah. But the activists, yes, but you're right, and 549 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,320 Speaker 1: that's the issue. But but the fact that the President 550 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,040 Speaker 1: of the United States has time and how do you 551 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 1: say something negative about his wife, Come on, low, can 552 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,360 Speaker 1: you go? But you know Chrissy Tigan, now she's not 553 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 1: gonna let that stand. She will clap back. She clapped 554 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,760 Speaker 1: back at the president. She tweeted, Lol what a blank 555 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: blank b word tagged everyone but me and honor mister President. 556 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 1: She went in, Yeah she did, since she wanted nasty mouth. 557 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 1: Here it is. Yeah now this is according to TMZ, 558 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 1: Trump blocked Chrissy Tigan on Twitter back in twenty seventeen. 559 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 1: The Federal Appeals Court has since rule Trump can't block 560 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,719 Speaker 1: people from his official Twitter account, but it's unclear if 561 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 1: he is unblocked Chrissy. John Legend posted a message to 562 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 1: Melanie A. Trump to base, come get her man and 563 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 1: give him the attention to praise. He's so desperately craving 564 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:12,279 Speaker 1: woe right now because see what you don't do is 565 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:16,360 Speaker 1: you can't come for a cash wife now. Now. But 566 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 1: you know, man, this president, did you hear this stuff? 567 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:23,719 Speaker 1: He don't want the Bohemian refugees that are trying to 568 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:28,800 Speaker 1: come to America because they're all drug dealers and gang members. 569 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: Everybody that's a color is a drug dealer and a 570 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:40,960 Speaker 1: gang banger. Yeah, question mark, like like they're escaping the 571 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:45,919 Speaker 1: brutality of a dictator in the Bahamas. No, sir, they 572 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:52,919 Speaker 1: have no where to go. Land was decimated and now 573 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:57,720 Speaker 1: he don't want to receive them because they are drug 574 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,919 Speaker 1: dealers and gang bangers and way to get your base. 575 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 1: Ryle too, that's the way to get your base riled up. 576 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:08,680 Speaker 1: That's exactly what is full. Coming up at thirty four 577 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 1: after the hour, Junior is here with his Trump predictions. Okay, 578 00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 1: we can't wait for that, right, I've been thanking you're 579 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:22,920 Speaker 1: listening to all right, So Steve, people are still shaking 580 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 1: their head about Trump's claim that Hurricane Dorian was going 581 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:30,440 Speaker 1: to hit Alabama, and they're also saying that Commerce secretary 582 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 1: the Commerce Secretary threatened to fire people if they contradicted 583 00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:37,240 Speaker 1: Trump's hurricane claim. Well, with all of that being said, 584 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 1: Junior is here with more Trump predictions. Let's see him. Well, 585 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 1: you know, Trump took the sharpie and extended the cause 586 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,879 Speaker 1: and saying it's go hit Alabama. Now, if you wanted 587 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 1: to do that, you're gonna tell us all that were crazy. 588 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 1: We see what Dorian's going, But you want to say 589 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 1: that there's some most ignorant statements you'll make, like, for one, 590 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:04,799 Speaker 1: what Netflix is going to make up with Monique that's 591 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 1: not gonna have He's say it, He's say. Here another 592 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 1: prediction he will probably make. There will be an old 593 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:16,800 Speaker 1: school sampness party at the White Hot. Can't been a 594 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 1: black person that since you've been there. He got another prediction. 595 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 1: New Year's Day will now start on September twenty eight. 596 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 1: If you think we'll be okay, he got another. He'll 597 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:40,040 Speaker 1: probably make black people will stop talking in movies. Black 598 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,439 Speaker 1: people us at the movie then he thought were really 599 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:48,280 Speaker 1: gonna stop. He got another. All black churches will cut 600 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:51,280 Speaker 1: their services down to thirty five minutes and no longer 601 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 1: that ain't for the half wrong mister president. Yeah, he asked, 602 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 1: you probably predict this ugly men and will no longer 603 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 1: approach fine women. That has never happened. They're coming. Oh 604 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:10,880 Speaker 1: you believe, what the hell are we gonna do after club? 605 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 1: He'll probably another prediction. Now Mike Tyson and Jedeth Brown 606 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 1: will all stop smoking weed. And it's probably what he 607 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 1: really want to say. Trump will that man he has 608 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:33,439 Speaker 1: a man crushed for Barackobamba. Yes to say it, Yeah, 609 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: don't say every day it really is jealous of the 610 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 1: love that Barack Obama had. Yes, true, Why he just 611 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 1: don't say it? Go ahead and say it. Here go one. 612 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 1: The Eastern Body will now take over Christmas for Santa Claus. 613 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:57,399 Speaker 1: Just lying. But he predicted this. Chick fil A will 614 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,840 Speaker 1: not be up and on Sunday, the hell that for 615 00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,399 Speaker 1: whatever happened. Oh, he probably gonna confess. He probably gonna 616 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 1: predict this too. He'll confess OJ did it? Who? Yeah? Yeah, Well, 617 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 1: you know he ain't gonna ever say that. He'll never 618 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:25,440 Speaker 1: say that. Mega Pastors will now fly commercial aliss Yeah, 619 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 1: where you're gonna get on Delta. Apple will come out 620 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:41,279 Speaker 1: with an iPhone that costs one hundred dollars. Yeah, comes 621 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:47,560 Speaker 1: to me that it does. Yeah, no, No, And since 622 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:55,399 Speaker 1: he's so egotistical, seventy will be the new twenty. Well, 623 00:42:55,880 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: he's in his seventies. That's not true. Already be a 624 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 1: Nick mcnige will do a Buddet movie. I ain't head, 625 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 1: ain't gonna get on the same screen, ain't no where 626 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:15,520 Speaker 1: in the world. I just been thinking just by something 627 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:19,760 Speaker 1: he might predict. Uh, he just might predict I don't know. Okay, 628 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:23,040 Speaker 1: he'll go one. Spirit Airlines will now give you more 629 00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 1: leg room and fresh peanut. Ain't no work, ain't the 630 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,479 Speaker 1: where the word there, gonna do it and he's gonna 631 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,879 Speaker 1: last one, last one. I got what DJ Kellett will 632 00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:40,880 Speaker 1: produce a song without saying we're the best, and another 633 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:46,839 Speaker 1: one and another one. Hell it ain't gonna have get 634 00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 1: this something he may predict if he think the dory 635 00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:56,200 Speaker 1: go hit Alabama like it when you think president like yeah, 636 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,200 Speaker 1: I just be thanking Wow. I just don't prove that 637 00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 1: he was telling the truth getting yeah, getting folks, Yeah, 638 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:06,800 Speaker 1: you just lie, You just lie. All right, thank you, 639 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 1: Junior for that. Coming up next, Nephew in the building 640 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:13,040 Speaker 1: with the prank phone call right after this, you're listening 641 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,879 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top 642 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:19,239 Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my 643 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 1: strawberry letter for today, the subject I can't help it. 644 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:30,359 Speaker 1: I'm a hater, right, I can't honest? Yeah? All right? 645 00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,200 Speaker 1: Uh but right now, Nephew in the building with today's 646 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,200 Speaker 1: frank phone call. What you got for us? Nap, I 647 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:41,400 Speaker 1: got to Facebook? Bandy oh? Facebook bandikay? Alright, kad do 648 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:46,319 Speaker 1: let's go Facebook bad lovell. I'm trying to reach Maurice. Yeah, 649 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,880 Speaker 1: that's Marie. How you doing, man? My name is Dorsey. 650 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach out to you. You. You're on 651 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,440 Speaker 1: Facebook quite a bit. I'm I am I right. I mean, 652 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:58,680 Speaker 1: I'm on the computer a lot, man, That's what I do. Okay, Uh, 653 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,480 Speaker 1: my wife's some reason, Manum. It seems that you've been 654 00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 1: having a lot of back and forth on Facebook with 655 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:09,319 Speaker 1: my wife Denise, and I'm trying to figure out you know, uh, 656 00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,400 Speaker 1: you know, at first it was kind of cute or whatever. 657 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,359 Speaker 1: You know, I'm seeing your name on the wall all 658 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,040 Speaker 1: the time. You keep I end and my wife back 659 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,239 Speaker 1: and forth, and I'm like, you mean, I am an 660 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,759 Speaker 1: instant message, That's what I mean. You know what I'm 661 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,839 Speaker 1: talking about. So my thing is what what is all 662 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:29,400 Speaker 1: this here with um? With Denise? You know, he's a 663 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:34,359 Speaker 1: little what you said your name was my name Dorsey? Okay, 664 00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 1: Dorsey checked this out. Man. I got over fourteen hundred 665 00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:42,440 Speaker 1: plus friends on Facebook. I don't know who your wife's is, Okay, 666 00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,440 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't recall. I am in tho Denise 667 00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:50,440 Speaker 1: right now, and hey, I don't know who she is. Man. 668 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 1: I think you got me. Let me, let me let 669 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 1: me let me bring it to you. What so we 670 00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,640 Speaker 1: can refresh your memory because you're constantly asking her about 671 00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 1: how things used to be. I remember when we did this, 672 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,040 Speaker 1: Remember when we did that. You know, it's a whole 673 00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:06,920 Speaker 1: lot of remember this and not and and you asking her, 674 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,759 Speaker 1: you know, about hooking up whenever she got time. Okay, See, 675 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,600 Speaker 1: I don't even know that. Man. I don't even do that. 676 00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:14,800 Speaker 1: I don't do that. Man, I got too much to lose. 677 00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 1: I don't do nothing like that. Man. You know I could. 678 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't have over thirty out of fourteen 679 00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:23,640 Speaker 1: hundred friends. Man, I can't have over thirty Denises on that. Man. Okay, well, 680 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:25,759 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Man. Are you telling all the 681 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:27,680 Speaker 1: deniss that you want to hook up with them? Are 682 00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 1: you telling all the Denisians remember this? Remember that. I 683 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,359 Speaker 1: ain't telling nobody nothing. Man. Look, I try to live 684 00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:37,360 Speaker 1: my life as peaceful as possible. Man, I'm not on that. Okay. 685 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 1: So I you know, Darius, whatever your name is, man, 686 00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 1: name is Dorsey. And let's explain something to you. Man. 687 00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:48,719 Speaker 1: I didn't seen pictures brother of high school, pictures of 688 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,320 Speaker 1: you and a group on the on the site, so 689 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,040 Speaker 1: I know exactly what you look like. Okay, you say 690 00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 1: me and who? I didn't seen a group of you 691 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 1: all and went to high school together, and evidently you 692 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 1: know you wanted these guys. So I'm gonna figure out 693 00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,080 Speaker 1: exactly which one bar so what I was tagged on 694 00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,799 Speaker 1: a photo or something like that, what however you want 695 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,200 Speaker 1: to call. I don't know much about the damn All 696 00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,880 Speaker 1: I'm letting you know is that I got a problem 697 00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,919 Speaker 1: with you, Maurice hitting my wife trying to see about 698 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 1: can't she get out what you? Can't she do this? 699 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 1: Can't she do it? Look, Darius, Darius, you need to Darcy. Man, 700 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:26,600 Speaker 1: it's don't give a what your name is. Man. First 701 00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:29,840 Speaker 1: of all, I'm gonna toilet, and you calling me early 702 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:33,759 Speaker 1: in the morning when I already got Look, I'm peaceful, man, 703 00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:36,239 Speaker 1: I don't even cust no mo man, you got me 704 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:39,040 Speaker 1: out of my out of my zone. Man. Look, I 705 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 1: don't know who your wife is. I don't be on 706 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: Facebook like that. It stayed up in the corner while 707 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm on the computer doing others, so it looks like 708 00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:50,439 Speaker 1: I'm born here. You understanding My wife is Deny. You're 709 00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,719 Speaker 1: talking to Darcy. You understand me? Now, let me tell 710 00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 1: you something. If I see y'all on the wall, if 711 00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,640 Speaker 1: I see you, I end and my wife. It's gonna 712 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:03,759 Speaker 1: be my races. You don't even know where I live, dude. 713 00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:05,960 Speaker 1: Oh so I don't know who I will find that 714 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,840 Speaker 1: if I found your number. Don't think I won't fire you. 715 00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,480 Speaker 1: Fot you find you? Right? You? Right? You do? Got 716 00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,800 Speaker 1: my number? How the hell did you get my number? 717 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,759 Speaker 1: Don't worry about that. You're gonna be saying that when 718 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,239 Speaker 1: I get on your front doorstep. Hell you find my 719 00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,439 Speaker 1: eye dress? Yeah, you come to my door and see 720 00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 1: what's gonna happen? Man? And when I leave you? Why 721 00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,920 Speaker 1: the hell did you whop my? That's what you're gonna be? 722 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 1: I got you. Come on, Hello, I'm gonna say this 723 00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,239 Speaker 1: one more time, and I'm gonna say it clear my race. 724 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:36,719 Speaker 1: If I see your name on my computer dealing with 725 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,360 Speaker 1: my wife Denise again, I'm coming to your house and 726 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm whooping your Okay, Look, look garious, I'm an artist. 727 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:50,080 Speaker 1: You listen, man, it's Botsey Man, Dorsey, I'm I apologize, Dorsey. Look, man, 728 00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:53,239 Speaker 1: I feel for you, you know, I you know it 729 00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,520 Speaker 1: seems like your wife is on the computer a lot 730 00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 1: of hayes. She I am in people whatever, But I'm 731 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,440 Speaker 1: the wrong cat to talk to. Man. You need to 732 00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,800 Speaker 1: talk to your wife. Man. You know y'all need to 733 00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 1: settle that. Man. Maybe y'all need to go to church, man, 734 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:09,080 Speaker 1: talk to the past or something. But I'm the wrong cat. Man. 735 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,759 Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna tell you something. Man. You can't 736 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,080 Speaker 1: tell me what you feel for me. You understand. Let 737 00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: me tell you something I feel for you. If I 738 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,400 Speaker 1: see your on my white computer one more time, if 739 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,520 Speaker 1: I see a baby picture, a high school picture, a 740 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:25,320 Speaker 1: high school sweetheart pictures, I don't give a if you 741 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 1: play football ran track. If I see any picture anything 742 00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:32,840 Speaker 1: dealing with your name, my reaess on my white computer, 743 00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm kicking y'all. Wow, wow, wow, you know, women, I 744 00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 1: don't give up who you is, dare is whoever? I 745 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,800 Speaker 1: can't even remember what your name is. Man, do not 746 00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:48,719 Speaker 1: call my house moo mo. I don't know who your 747 00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 1: wife is, and you know what my high dresses. Trill. Man, 748 00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 1: you come on down here to Kada, Georgia. You come, son, 749 00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying to you and get you to talk. I 750 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,040 Speaker 1: told you where I live at, so you bring to 751 00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,319 Speaker 1: my door and you see what happened. I got one 752 00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,480 Speaker 1: more thing I want to say to you. Hello, you 753 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:09,880 Speaker 1: ain't guys take up to me? Man, Yes, I do 754 00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,399 Speaker 1: my ref before I get in my car. Head over Now. 755 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:14,600 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I want to say. Did 756 00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:17,920 Speaker 1: you listening? I'm hanging up? Are you listening to make 757 00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:21,880 Speaker 1: what you got to say? This is neph you Tommy 758 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:25,600 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked 759 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:34,040 Speaker 1: by your boy Chris. Hello, Well you say who who? 760 00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,680 Speaker 1: This is? Nephew Timmy Man from the Steve Harby Morning Show. 761 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:41,160 Speaker 1: Your boy Chris got me the prank phone? Call you dog? 762 00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:50,920 Speaker 1: Who called Chris? Man? Oh? Believe it? Man? So real? Man, Man, 763 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 1: you're gonna make me close my Facebook account? Man? Wow? 764 00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,440 Speaker 1: Let me ask you, man, what is what is the 765 00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:02,879 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land? Steve Harvey Morn Show? 766 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,279 Speaker 1: All right, all right, what y'all think? Facebook? Bad? You 767 00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:15,640 Speaker 1: play too much? You know what we think? It's stupid 768 00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,040 Speaker 1: and order. That's all I want to know. I just 769 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,879 Speaker 1: want to make sure it's an all. I gotta thank Greenville, 770 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,359 Speaker 1: North Carolina went down there this past Saturday. He did 771 00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,000 Speaker 1: the show. Twenty five hundred seated the boy, the nephew 772 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:30,560 Speaker 1: sold that thing out at the convention Center sixty five minutes, 773 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,959 Speaker 1: flat footed. The nephew put it down, and I'm proud 774 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 1: of that. So you're all good man, Yeah yeah, because 775 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:39,319 Speaker 1: you know the Kings, you know tune, youre getting ready 776 00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:42,640 Speaker 1: to do something, so you know, I know gonna want 777 00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,360 Speaker 1: me to be with I know, but the Justice is 778 00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:51,439 Speaker 1: doing something too. You don't know, the Justice Justice Justice. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 779 00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,040 Speaker 1: you can be on that. I wanted to be with 780 00:51:53,120 --> 00:52:00,239 Speaker 1: the were your food? Okay, well Greensboro, No, I'm carell line. 781 00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:03,080 Speaker 1: I ain't a king get but I'm I'm going I'm 782 00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 1: working at it like a print. Yes, yes, okay, that's cool. 783 00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:10,920 Speaker 1: September twenty first, the Nephew coming to Greensboro, North Carolina, 784 00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:15,160 Speaker 1: Carolina Theater, Baby getting ready. Greensborough might of fact called 785 00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,480 Speaker 1: green Beel to find out what happen. I promise you 786 00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,560 Speaker 1: they're gonna tell you exactly that the nephew was a fool. 787 00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:24,120 Speaker 1: I'm coming to Greensboro. That's the twenty twenty first of September, 788 00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:28,320 Speaker 1: Carolina Theater. Take his own sale, red nap and what 789 00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,080 Speaker 1: do you mean about steal? You know the king ooms 790 00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:35,759 Speaker 1: that's what they've been. I know it's like him and 791 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,279 Speaker 1: a han over there for what's going on with you? 792 00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:45,960 Speaker 1: Are you sure? Okay? All right? Well, thank you, nephew. 793 00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,160 Speaker 1: Up next it is the Strawberry Letter, subject I can't 794 00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:52,840 Speaker 1: help it. I'm a hater. We'll get it right after this. 795 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:57,479 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 796 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 797 00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:06,440 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, on sex, on dating, on work, on parenting, 798 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:10,840 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 799 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,920 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. You could be 800 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 1: we could be reading your letter on the air, and 801 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,400 Speaker 1: you could be hearing your letter on the air because 802 00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:21,600 Speaker 1: we're gonna read it right here, right now. Let's do it. 803 00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:23,640 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight. We got it for you here. 804 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:26,879 Speaker 1: It is subject to I can't help it. I'm a hater. 805 00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 1: H Dear Stephen Shirley, Harry time I say that she 806 00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:36,399 Speaker 1: left Charlett, Dear Stephen Shirley. I love myself very much, 807 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,960 Speaker 1: and I love most of my family, but I developed 808 00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:43,960 Speaker 1: this deep, dark hatred for my sister. You see, my 809 00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 1: sister has the life I prayed for. I turned to 810 00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,360 Speaker 1: God and asked God to bless me with the husband 811 00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:54,040 Speaker 1: with all the qualities her husband has. God gave this 812 00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 1: wonderful man to my sister, and my sister has never 813 00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:01,000 Speaker 1: prayed for anything. She did not even want to be 814 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,759 Speaker 1: in a relationship. When she met her husband. He is 815 00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:06,480 Speaker 1: a good man and they are talking about starting a 816 00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 1: family soon. She prayed for it nothing. She's not very 817 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,200 Speaker 1: religious and she sends all the time, but God still 818 00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,200 Speaker 1: gave her the life I prayed for. Because of that, 819 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:21,279 Speaker 1: I developed this deep jealousy for her, and it just 820 00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 1: turned to hate. It's hard for me to be in 821 00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,359 Speaker 1: the same room with my sister and her husband. They 822 00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,800 Speaker 1: made a joke recently about me being single and in 823 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,520 Speaker 1: my mid thirties, so it caused me to hate her 824 00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:34,359 Speaker 1: even more. I have a lot of friends that are 825 00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:37,279 Speaker 1: in relationships and married, but I don't feel this way 826 00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,719 Speaker 1: about them. I have a little jealousy towards them, but 827 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,920 Speaker 1: it's not as bad. I've dated a few guys here 828 00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,440 Speaker 1: and there, but they aren't looking for a serious relationship, 829 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,880 Speaker 1: and after I sleep with them, there is usually no 830 00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:52,920 Speaker 1: more communication after that. I'm not picky at all, but 831 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,560 Speaker 1: I haven't gotten anywhere in my prayers for a good man. 832 00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:59,239 Speaker 1: My sister has received all of my blessings with her 833 00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:03,080 Speaker 1: sinful I'm losing my faith now because God ignores me. 834 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 1: I am still single with no real possibilities of finding love. 835 00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:09,920 Speaker 1: Please tell me how I can get back on track 836 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:12,799 Speaker 1: with my faith and stop hating my sister for having 837 00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:18,359 Speaker 1: the ideal life that's mine. Wow. All right, Well, first 838 00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:20,759 Speaker 1: of all, you lied to us, okay, in the very 839 00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,719 Speaker 1: first line you lied to us in this letter, it says, 840 00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:28,120 Speaker 1: dear Stephen Shirley, I love myself very much. No you don't. No, 841 00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:31,239 Speaker 1: you don't. And this letter is full of receipts that 842 00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:35,920 Speaker 1: prove you don't love or respect yourself at all. For instance, 843 00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:40,440 Speaker 1: self respect, you say you're not picky at all, You're 844 00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:43,600 Speaker 1: not looking guys, aren't looking for a serious relationship. And 845 00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,759 Speaker 1: after you sleep with them, so sounds like you're just 846 00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:50,919 Speaker 1: sleeping with guys, they don't communicate after all, And that's 847 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:55,000 Speaker 1: okay with you. You couldn't love yourself and let yourself 848 00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:58,919 Speaker 1: be treated this way, Okay, So contradictions all in this letter. 849 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,719 Speaker 1: This letter is not about your sister. You got to 850 00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:05,320 Speaker 1: understand that this letter is about you. You're a relationship 851 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:07,839 Speaker 1: with God, You're a trust of God. You're judgmental. You're 852 00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,240 Speaker 1: not supposed to be judgmental. You know that you're hateful. 853 00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:14,400 Speaker 1: You don't understand. You don't understand. What's for you is 854 00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:17,239 Speaker 1: for you. Okay, God loves us all the same. It's 855 00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:19,480 Speaker 1: what's for you is for you, don't you know? You're 856 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,040 Speaker 1: supposed to be happy for your sister that she's happy 857 00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,640 Speaker 1: with her husband, she's happy in her marriage. And your 858 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:26,719 Speaker 1: friends that are marriage you're hating on them too. You're 859 00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,759 Speaker 1: supposed to be happy for them, not saying they got 860 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:33,520 Speaker 1: all my blessings. Those are their blessings. Okay, they're not 861 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:39,360 Speaker 1: your blessings. You are a miserable person. You're a miserable person. 862 00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,920 Speaker 1: You hate yourself, and you hate everyone else around you. 863 00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:45,680 Speaker 1: You're looking at their lives and wondering why you don't 864 00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 1: have that. Maybe that's why, because you're too busy paying 865 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,239 Speaker 1: attention to what they got going on and not paying 866 00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:57,319 Speaker 1: attention to what you have going on. This girl, get 867 00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:00,719 Speaker 1: it together. That's your sister. You're not supposed to be 868 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,319 Speaker 1: hating on her like that, or anyone else for that matter. 869 00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:06,520 Speaker 1: Learn how to love yourself first, and then you can 870 00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:10,600 Speaker 1: love other people. It won't be so hard. Steve. Wow, 871 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:14,799 Speaker 1: this letter right here, this crazy. It's got so much 872 00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:20,880 Speaker 1: crazy stuff in it. It just starts crazy. Shirley, you 873 00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:24,080 Speaker 1: said something about she lied in the letter, she doesn't 874 00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,960 Speaker 1: love herself very much. I agree with you, but let me, 875 00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,120 Speaker 1: let me, let me take a different look at this. 876 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:36,120 Speaker 1: I love myself very much right there, And then you said, 877 00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:40,120 Speaker 1: and I love most of my family, but right what 878 00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:44,959 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, hold up, you remember how your mama 879 00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,880 Speaker 1: told you once? You say, but it negates everything you 880 00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:51,960 Speaker 1: said prior to that for it. I love myself very much, 881 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:55,200 Speaker 1: and I love most of my family, but I've developed 882 00:57:55,240 --> 00:58:00,880 Speaker 1: this deep, dark hatred for my system. This whole statement 883 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:07,000 Speaker 1: is filled with contradiction. I love myself very much, I 884 00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:11,520 Speaker 1: love most of my family. I've developed a deep dog 885 00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:16,480 Speaker 1: hatred for my sister. Wow. Okay, you see, you trip it. 886 00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,760 Speaker 1: You see my sister has the life I prayed for. No, 887 00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:27,040 Speaker 1: she don't. No. Okay, if your sister has the life 888 00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:31,000 Speaker 1: you prayed for, do you understand how this works? Right here? 889 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:36,960 Speaker 1: You hated your sister so much that the life you 890 00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:42,720 Speaker 1: prayed for God gave it to her. Because you're so 891 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:46,000 Speaker 1: dog gonna hateful. Why would he give it to you? 892 00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:49,240 Speaker 1: What your heart feel? With all this hate you, God, 893 00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:52,240 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be able to treat it right. I 894 00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:54,640 Speaker 1: turned to God and ask God to bless me with 895 00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:58,240 Speaker 1: her husband, with all the qualities her husband had. God 896 00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:02,920 Speaker 1: gave this wonderful man to my sister. This man didn't 897 00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:09,720 Speaker 1: won't you? The man didn't won't you. You just say 898 00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:14,080 Speaker 1: it in your letter. When you sleep with men after 899 00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:19,120 Speaker 1: you sleep with him is no communication. Not only don't 900 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,800 Speaker 1: this man won't you, but none of the men you 901 00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:29,280 Speaker 1: slept with won't you? Girl? Girl, I got so much 902 00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:32,480 Speaker 1: to pick out of this letter. I know, all right. 903 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:34,480 Speaker 1: We'll hold it right there, Steve, hold it right there. 904 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:37,840 Speaker 1: I know this letter is upsetting. It is because she's crazy. 905 00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:40,520 Speaker 1: We'll let part two of Steve's response coming up at 906 00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Today's subject, I can't help it. 907 00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:48,760 Speaker 1: I'm a hater. We'll be back right after this. You're 908 00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:54,080 Speaker 1: listening to, all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's 909 00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:56,800 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Subject I can't help it. I'm a hater. 910 00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,880 Speaker 1: It's hard to recap. Here's a woman whose sister has 911 01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,600 Speaker 1: the life she wants. And now she hate her sister, 912 01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:06,840 Speaker 1: and she mad at God. She said, your sister has 913 01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:09,120 Speaker 1: the life I prayed for. I turned to God, ask 914 01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:11,440 Speaker 1: God to bless me with her husband, with all the 915 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:14,800 Speaker 1: qualities her husband has. God gave this wonderful man to 916 01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:17,720 Speaker 1: my sister. My sister has never prayed for anything. How 917 01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:21,560 Speaker 1: you know? How do you know? Your sister ain't prayed 918 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:23,640 Speaker 1: for nothing. She did not even want to be in 919 01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:26,760 Speaker 1: a relationship when she met her husband. That's usually how 920 01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:30,919 Speaker 1: it happens. Love just walks up to you. She wasn't 921 01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 1: out there looking for nothing, she wasn't hunting. She got found. 922 01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,840 Speaker 1: He's a good man, and they talking about starting a family. 923 01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,280 Speaker 1: That's what people do when they get married and they 924 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 1: in love with each other. She prayed for nothing. How 925 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,880 Speaker 1: do you know that? She's not very religious? How do 926 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:54,000 Speaker 1: you know that? And she sinds all the time, and 927 01:00:54,320 --> 01:01:03,640 Speaker 1: everybody do everybody do what you? You? You're tripping. She 928 01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:07,360 Speaker 1: prayed for nothing. She's not very religious and she sins 929 01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:13,040 Speaker 1: all the time. You just described everybody else, including your 930 01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 1: damn self. But God still gave her the life. I 931 01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:20,840 Speaker 1: prayed fault. God ain't finna give you nothing. Because you're 932 01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:25,240 Speaker 1: too hate fault. Because of that, I developed this deep 933 01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:30,080 Speaker 1: jealousy for her. Oh, you hateful and you're jealous for her, 934 01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:33,520 Speaker 1: and it just turned to hate. Let me ask you something. 935 01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:37,240 Speaker 1: When you type this letter, did you read it? Did 936 01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 1: you did you read this? Twe to God. This letter 937 01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:47,680 Speaker 1: is so damn crazy. There's not a breath in this letter. 938 01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:51,480 Speaker 1: There's not a line where you breathe. Because of that, 939 01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:54,520 Speaker 1: I developed this deep jealousy for her to turn into hate. 940 01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:58,200 Speaker 1: It's hard for me. Listen, every letter is filled with hate. 941 01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:01,040 Speaker 1: It's hard for being the same room with my sister 942 01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:07,600 Speaker 1: and her husband. They made a joke recently, Oh some lefty, 943 01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,440 Speaker 1: Here comes some levity, y'all. They made a joke recently 944 01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:13,440 Speaker 1: about me being single and then my mid thirty so 945 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:18,320 Speaker 1: it caused me to hate her even more. Hate for 946 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:26,360 Speaker 1: help you is a hate for help. And then here 947 01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:29,000 Speaker 1: we go. Oh, here's a bright spot. I have a 948 01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 1: lot of friends that are in relationships and married. That's 949 01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:35,200 Speaker 1: a bright spot ready, But I don't feel the same 950 01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:39,080 Speaker 1: way about them. Oh, I have a little jealousy towards him, 951 01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,880 Speaker 1: but it ain't as bad. I only have hate their ass. 952 01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:48,560 Speaker 1: Here we go. You're ready for some more. I've dated 953 01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:51,400 Speaker 1: a few guys here and now, but they are looking 954 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:54,440 Speaker 1: for a serious relationship, and after I sleep with him, 955 01:02:54,640 --> 01:03:00,560 Speaker 1: there's usually no more communication after that. Damn. So now 956 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,439 Speaker 1: you so you so hate for you? Your your sex 957 01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:13,600 Speaker 1: ain't even good? You have hate for sex? Have hey, 958 01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:19,680 Speaker 1: take it, take it, get it to love me? Loving me? 959 01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 1: Yet you want to stay with me the rest of 960 01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:27,280 Speaker 1: your life? Take this thing I'm giving you. Y'all. Y'all, 961 01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:31,760 Speaker 1: y'all want to go buy me a rain? Now? Wow, 962 01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:35,120 Speaker 1: I've dated a few guys serious relationship. I sleep with them. 963 01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:38,360 Speaker 1: There's usually no more communication of that. I'm not picky 964 01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:43,040 Speaker 1: at all. What so now you're sleeping with anybody anything? 965 01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: But I haven't gotten anywhere in my prayers for a 966 01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:51,160 Speaker 1: good man. Okay, excuse me, Where in your prayers for 967 01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:54,760 Speaker 1: this good man does God tell you to go out 968 01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:58,240 Speaker 1: and sleep with men that you ain't even picky or 969 01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,959 Speaker 1: particular about and have sex with them which ain't gonna 970 01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:09,000 Speaker 1: be good sex? Because you you have angry sex. You're evil, 971 01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:14,720 Speaker 1: you have hateful I don't want no more. My sister 972 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:18,160 Speaker 1: has received all my blessings. No she didn't. Your sister 973 01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:20,680 Speaker 1: got the blessings that God was gonna give her. What 974 01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:24,840 Speaker 1: God has for her is not for you. God ain't 975 01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:27,560 Speaker 1: gave nothing to her that He intended to give to you. 976 01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:31,480 Speaker 1: He not giving you nothing because you hateful. My sister 977 01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:36,360 Speaker 1: received all my blessings with her sinful self. Wow, I 978 01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:39,720 Speaker 1: am losing my faith now because God ignores me. You 979 01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:42,800 Speaker 1: don't have no faith. You ain't losing it. It's gone. 980 01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,800 Speaker 1: God ain't in you at all. You've taken, You removed 981 01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 1: the space for God to exist in you with hatred. 982 01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:54,720 Speaker 1: I'm still single with no real possibilities of finding love. 983 01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:58,320 Speaker 1: And because of that statement right there, you never will. 984 01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 1: You keep putting negative everybody out in the universe and 985 01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:05,240 Speaker 1: you expect positivity to return. Are you? Are you crazy? 986 01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:08,080 Speaker 1: Please tell me how I can get back on track 987 01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:09,920 Speaker 1: with my faith. You need to go to a good 988 01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,840 Speaker 1: faith based church, just like Joel Osteen say. You need 989 01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:15,240 Speaker 1: to pick up your Bible. You need to stop hating 990 01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:18,200 Speaker 1: your sister. You have the life that you've thought and 991 01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,640 Speaker 1: prayed yourself to. Let me give you a scripture right quick. 992 01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:26,240 Speaker 1: James four and three says you ask and receive, not 993 01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:30,800 Speaker 1: because you ask a miss You know what that means 994 01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:33,720 Speaker 1: when you keep asking God for something and God don't 995 01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,440 Speaker 1: give it to you. It's because you keep asking with 996 01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:42,880 Speaker 1: the wrong of intentions. That's right, wrong, the wrong motivation. 997 01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:46,280 Speaker 1: Your whole motivation in life is wrong. That's why God 998 01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:51,040 Speaker 1: ain't gonna bless you. Because you so hateful, love and done. 999 01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 1: Nobody won't know hateful set All right, guys, email us 1000 01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:58,520 Speaker 1: your Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at 1001 01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:03,120 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey as check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 1002 01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,120 Speaker 1: demand and coming up at forty six after the hour, 1003 01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:08,360 Speaker 1: We'll tell you how to come party with us at 1004 01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:12,320 Speaker 1: the Sand and Sell Music Festival in Cancoon, Mexico. Right 1005 01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:17,880 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, Steve, Let the 1006 01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 1: people know it is coming. It is coming in October. 1007 01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:24,400 Speaker 1: All right, y'all listen to this Sand and Soul. We 1008 01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:26,960 Speaker 1: have four thousand people. Last year down in the d'a. 1009 01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:30,480 Speaker 1: Things happened in the d'a. We moved it to a 1010 01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:34,600 Speaker 1: beautiful place in Cancoon, Mexico, at the Moon Palace Resort. 1011 01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:36,880 Speaker 1: You can go to Steve Harvey Saying and Soul and 1012 01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:39,000 Speaker 1: check it out. But I'll tell you what you're gonna do. 1013 01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a chance to get it. I've 1014 01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:43,920 Speaker 1: thrown in a big discount for anybody that wants to 1015 01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:48,040 Speaker 1: go at the last minute. Once again, to take advantage 1016 01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:51,800 Speaker 1: of our special discount, call this number one eight hundred 1017 01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,960 Speaker 1: six to eight four twenty eight twenty five. Y'all, just 1018 01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:56,960 Speaker 1: get on the phone. Just check it out. I'm telling 1019 01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:59,520 Speaker 1: you it's a big deal and keep talking. Try to 1020 01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:03,800 Speaker 1: ask for mote one eight hundred six eight four twenty 1021 01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:07,400 Speaker 1: eight twenty five. It's all inclusive, y'all. If you've been 1022 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:09,040 Speaker 1: trying to figure out a way to do it, this 1023 01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:12,360 Speaker 1: is it. This special right here is as good as 1024 01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,360 Speaker 1: it gets. We've got a special going on now through 1025 01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:18,440 Speaker 1: Friday that our phone operators are waiting to tell you about. 1026 01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:21,000 Speaker 1: So if your pockets were just a little bit tight 1027 01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:24,280 Speaker 1: after this summer getting them kids back in school, you've 1028 01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:26,480 Speaker 1: been trying to figure it out, I got a special 1029 01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:29,080 Speaker 1: right here. This about as good as it gets. We 1030 01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:34,240 Speaker 1: got all inclusive everything, foods, drink, live performances, comedy, pool, party, celebrities, 1031 01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:37,040 Speaker 1: you name it. Come on, y'all enjoy yourself with its 1032 01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:41,640 Speaker 1: Columbus Day weekend. Once again, the number to call to 1033 01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 1: take advantage of this very special discount one eight hundred 1034 01:07:45,640 --> 01:07:49,240 Speaker 1: six to eight four twenty eight twenty five. One eight 1035 01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:53,840 Speaker 1: hundred six eight four twenty eight twenty five. If you 1036 01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:57,920 Speaker 1: call that number, I'm telling you it's gonna be a 1037 01:07:58,080 --> 01:08:01,400 Speaker 1: deal that you won't be able to beat. I can't 1038 01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:05,360 Speaker 1: do no better than this. I'm just trying. I'm just trying. 1039 01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:12,680 Speaker 1: I done try one eight hundred six eight four twenty 1040 01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:16,240 Speaker 1: eight twenty five. That's all you gotta do. That's what 1041 01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:18,640 Speaker 1: we're trying to do. Do you understand? I tell her 1042 01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:24,200 Speaker 1: tenth through the fourteenth. Yes, Steve Harvey saying, Tosol dot Com, 1043 01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:26,599 Speaker 1: y'all call right now one eight hundred and six eight 1044 01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:29,800 Speaker 1: four twenty eight twenty five operators are standing by to 1045 01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:33,599 Speaker 1: take this very special discount. Call one eight hundred six 1046 01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:36,400 Speaker 1: eight four twenty eight twenty five, saying, and so we're 1047 01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:40,920 Speaker 1: gonna be jam all right, Steve, Yeah, we'll be there. 1048 01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:48,840 Speaker 1: I can't wait. Yeah, party, Yes, Margaretreaty does. Yeah, it's 1049 01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:52,200 Speaker 1: been a minute since we've been to Camcoon. Yeah, it's 1050 01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:54,599 Speaker 1: been a Minutesoe. It'll be fun to go back see 1051 01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:59,439 Speaker 1: all the payball we love who I'm a brush up 1052 01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:03,880 Speaker 1: on Ballanish dig all I ain't brushing up on no 1053 01:09:04,080 --> 01:09:11,759 Speaker 1: damn Spanish. I'm not leaving the resort. I remember with Stevie, 1054 01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:16,120 Speaker 1: Remember Tommy, what Steve had the Spanish teacher called All 1055 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:19,120 Speaker 1: he wanted to learn was the cuss words in Spanish. 1056 01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:21,880 Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 1057 01:09:21,960 --> 01:09:25,240 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening 1058 01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:32,240 Speaker 1: to the Steven Show, all right? Uh. An anti LGBT 1059 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:36,000 Speaker 1: group is boycotting Whole Foods. We all know Whole Foods, 1060 01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:39,360 Speaker 1: the chain, the grocery chain, Whole Foods. Uh. They're saying 1061 01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:44,680 Speaker 1: that Whole Foods is in doctrinating children into transgenderism and 1062 01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:51,200 Speaker 1: homosexuality by hosting a storytelling hour with drag queens. Uh. 1063 01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:54,679 Speaker 1: The group is called One Million Moms. It has previously 1064 01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:58,639 Speaker 1: protested Toy Story four for presenting a lesbian couple. Issued 1065 01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:00,960 Speaker 1: the call to action on his web site after a 1066 01:10:01,080 --> 01:10:03,879 Speaker 1: Drag Queen Story Hour took place at a public library 1067 01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:09,120 Speaker 1: in Atlanta. Whole Foods Drag Queen Story Hour, one Million Moms. 1068 01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:13,400 Speaker 1: Atlanta mayor Keisha Bottoms appeared at Pride Month edition of 1069 01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:16,639 Speaker 1: Drag Queen Story Hour with Miss Terra Cotta Sugar Baker 1070 01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:20,160 Speaker 1: and she was joined. They were joined at the event. 1071 01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:24,479 Speaker 1: After the initial complaints, the storytelling session was allegedly removed 1072 01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:28,960 Speaker 1: from the libraries public calendars listings, but was not canceled. 1073 01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:32,479 Speaker 1: Now drag Queen story Hours guys have taken place at 1074 01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:35,800 Speaker 1: libraries nationwide. This has been going on for the past 1075 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:40,000 Speaker 1: few years. They've had colorful performers reading fairy tales and 1076 01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:44,679 Speaker 1: other age appropriate stories, but opponents attacked the events as 1077 01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:48,320 Speaker 1: inappropriate for children. They're saying that children shouldn't be seeing this. 1078 01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:52,880 Speaker 1: They say disturbing events involved men dressed up as women 1079 01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:58,360 Speaker 1: who read LGBTQ themed books to young children under the 1080 01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:02,280 Speaker 1: guys of performing a pub like service. Now one million moms, 1081 01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:05,040 Speaker 1: this is their claim. They say. Some drag queens have 1082 01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:09,400 Speaker 1: admitted their goal is to groom the next generation. The 1083 01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:12,160 Speaker 1: group warned that those who continue to shop at Whole 1084 01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:16,519 Speaker 1: Foods they are supporting child exploitation, which this corporation apparently 1085 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:21,000 Speaker 1: contributes to and endorses. I gotta think I think called 1086 01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:25,400 Speaker 1: Whole food has really good grass fed beef. You know 1087 01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:27,599 Speaker 1: they do. Speaking of g I gotta cut my MoMA 1088 01:11:27,680 --> 01:11:31,000 Speaker 1: yard this weekend. You're cutting her grass this week year. 1089 01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:36,200 Speaker 1: I'm they down some turfet moms, did you? Yeah? Yeah, 1090 01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:38,040 Speaker 1: because you save a lot of time that way, you 1091 01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:41,000 Speaker 1: ain't got to cut the grass. We're talking about lawn. Yes, 1092 01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:43,800 Speaker 1: that's nice turf. They got in the super Donor at 1093 01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:47,599 Speaker 1: the same player. You know that I ain't never got 1094 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:51,120 Speaker 1: tackled on that before. I always played on natural grad. Yeah, 1095 01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:57,200 Speaker 1: we're talking about one million moms. They're a group. Yeah, 1096 01:11:57,320 --> 01:12:01,160 Speaker 1: they're Queen story. They want people in Atlanta to boycott 1097 01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:04,680 Speaker 1: Whole Foods because of the drag Queen story outward they 1098 01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:07,439 Speaker 1: had didn't say was my mama? Yo? Didn't I say that? 1099 01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:10,760 Speaker 1: You know? What would you do when your backage in 1100 01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:13,560 Speaker 1: the middle, Like I got a backscratch? I still have it? 1101 01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:19,840 Speaker 1: YEA can't tek Um. I used to do Little Tommish story. 1102 01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:25,720 Speaker 1: It was good too. You addressed as Steve Okay and 1103 01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:31,080 Speaker 1: other news. Um. I'm just gonna yeah. NBA star Blake 1104 01:12:31,160 --> 01:12:37,880 Speaker 1: Griffin has roast Caitlyn Jenner at the Alec Baldwin Comedy Central. Roast. Um, 1105 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:41,000 Speaker 1: take a listen, look for Rell. I know we're all 1106 01:12:41,080 --> 01:12:42,960 Speaker 1: here making fun of Caitlin, but honestly, I want to 1107 01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:46,160 Speaker 1: take this moment to publicly thank you as an athlete. 1108 01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:48,960 Speaker 1: I want to thank you for your bravery, um and 1109 01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:50,479 Speaker 1: as a as a human, I want to thank you 1110 01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:54,280 Speaker 1: for the doors you've opened and on behalf of the 1111 01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:57,800 Speaker 1: entire NBA and half of the rappers on the billboard charts. 1112 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:02,160 Speaker 1: I want to thank you for giving your daughters their 1113 01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:10,360 Speaker 1: daddy issues. Wow, m my mama had a daughter. Yeah, 1114 01:13:10,439 --> 01:13:13,000 Speaker 1: my mama had a daughter. I got one. I got 1115 01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:18,759 Speaker 1: a dough. Yeah, guess these guess these stories. It's just stories. 1116 01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:21,160 Speaker 1: Y'all don't want us to come in though, and we 1117 01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:25,759 Speaker 1: damn ain't gonna do it. This has been save your career. 1118 01:13:28,360 --> 01:13:31,760 Speaker 1: This is these last two stories have didn't come in 1119 01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:34,640 Speaker 1: if you want to. You notice we know how to 1120 01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:38,679 Speaker 1: hit the stop saying. Somebody listening gonna have a problem 1121 01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:42,080 Speaker 1: with any of the damn joke y'all do by these subjects. 1122 01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:47,880 Speaker 1: Writing this is calling have a comedian, keep a career. 1123 01:13:49,120 --> 01:13:56,280 Speaker 1: We'll be bad time coming up in twenty minutes after 1124 01:13:56,360 --> 01:13:59,120 Speaker 1: the hour, right after this, I ain't going back and 1125 01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:06,519 Speaker 1: frost you're listening to all right, here's something we can 1126 01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:09,360 Speaker 1: all comment on or think about. If you could be 1127 01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:12,680 Speaker 1: the best player in any sport, what sport would that be? 1128 01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:16,759 Speaker 1: We all know, the NFL is the most popular sport football. 1129 01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:18,800 Speaker 1: Of course, that's the most popular sport in the land. 1130 01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:23,360 Speaker 1: But the players are mostly unseen because they wear helmets. Okay, 1131 01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:28,040 Speaker 1: and they get hit a lot. Uh, it's not ideal. 1132 01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:32,040 Speaker 1: NBA players have a good gig, but playing basketball still 1133 01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,120 Speaker 1: involves a lot of running around, you know, a lot 1134 01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:37,160 Speaker 1: of running. So, guys, if you were to be the 1135 01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:40,240 Speaker 1: best player in any sport, what would that be? Steve 1136 01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:44,080 Speaker 1: got to be basketball? Give a damn what that survey said, 1137 01:14:46,720 --> 01:14:50,200 Speaker 1: you'd run around running around? What you want to do? What? 1138 01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:54,160 Speaker 1: I won't be no damn baseball player. Get out then 1139 01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:58,240 Speaker 1: you're out there every third inn. It won't be out 1140 01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:01,040 Speaker 1: there for that. What about junior? I want to be 1141 01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:03,280 Speaker 1: no damn hockey will run my ass up in that 1142 01:15:03,560 --> 01:15:08,920 Speaker 1: wall were fighting. Some teeth will be knocked out sitting 1143 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,679 Speaker 1: up here and playing no dry ass soccer one to nothing. 1144 01:15:11,840 --> 01:15:13,960 Speaker 1: Been out here ninety eight minutes running them down. I 1145 01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:16,720 Speaker 1: ain't even kicked the damn ball. Kick the man. Just 1146 01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:19,000 Speaker 1: get this ball in this net? Best, but you can't 1147 01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:23,559 Speaker 1: throw it in there? What about you, junior? Coming up? 1148 01:15:23,840 --> 01:15:28,640 Speaker 1: Basketball and the ladies they're comet win it? Okay? All right, Okay, 1149 01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:36,640 Speaker 1: what right about me? Honestly sumo wrestling, you know, at 1150 01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:43,240 Speaker 1: least you Nick Hand? All right, all right, coming up 1151 01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:45,920 Speaker 1: more fun, more music, more ignorance on the Steve Harvey 1152 01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:48,880 Speaker 1: Morning Show. We'll be back right after this. You're listening 1153 01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:54,439 Speaker 1: morning show. Well, President Trump took to Twitter to bash 1154 01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:58,640 Speaker 1: Justice for All for not giving him and the Republicans 1155 01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:02,080 Speaker 1: credit for passing the First Step Act. When all of 1156 01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:04,880 Speaker 1: you people pushing so hard for criminal justice reform were 1157 01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:07,680 Speaker 1: unable to come even close to getting it done, they 1158 01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:10,120 Speaker 1: came to me as a group and asked for my help, 1159 01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:12,920 Speaker 1: he wrote, after bragging about getting it done and saying 1160 01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:16,719 Speaker 1: that President Barack Obama couldn't come close. Then he started 1161 01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:22,080 Speaker 1: in on John Legend. Guys like boring music musician John 1162 01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:25,360 Speaker 1: Legend and his filthy mouth wife are talking now about 1163 01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:28,240 Speaker 1: how great it is. But I didn't see them around 1164 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:31,680 Speaker 1: when we needed help getting it passed. Are you kidding me? 1165 01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:38,120 Speaker 1: This is from the President of the United States. Oh then, 1166 01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:41,360 Speaker 1: I hate to tell you this. Then your last six buildings, yeah, 1167 01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:45,280 Speaker 1: well they mostly with bankrupt When I'm gonna just tell 1168 01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:47,960 Speaker 1: you the truth. Now, John Legend has made money man, 1169 01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:52,519 Speaker 1: and he's a great very successful. But the activists, Yes, 1170 01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:56,240 Speaker 1: but you're right, and that the issue. But but the 1171 01:16:56,360 --> 01:16:59,000 Speaker 1: fact that the president of the United States has time 1172 01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 1: and how do you say something negative about his wife? 1173 01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:05,920 Speaker 1: Come on, dude, low can you go? But you know 1174 01:17:06,080 --> 01:17:08,519 Speaker 1: Chrissy Tigan now she's not gonna let that stand. She 1175 01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:12,559 Speaker 1: will clap back. She clapped back at the President. She tweeted, 1176 01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:18,680 Speaker 1: Lol what a blank blank b word, tagged everyone but 1177 01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:23,240 Speaker 1: me and honor mister president went in. Yeah she did. 1178 01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:26,360 Speaker 1: He says she wanted nasty mouth. It is yeah, now 1179 01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:29,240 Speaker 1: this is according to TMZ, Trump blocked Chrissy Teagan on 1180 01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:32,720 Speaker 1: Twitter back in twenty seventeen. The Federal Appeals Court has 1181 01:17:32,800 --> 01:17:36,479 Speaker 1: since ruled Trump can't block people from his official Twitter account, 1182 01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:40,439 Speaker 1: but it's unclear if he is unblocked. Chrissy John Legend 1183 01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:43,680 Speaker 1: posted a message to Melania Trump to basically come get 1184 01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:46,040 Speaker 1: her man and give him the attention and praise he's 1185 01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:54,920 Speaker 1: so desperately craving. Wow. Yeah, See what you don't do 1186 01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:58,519 Speaker 1: is you can't come for a cash wife. Now, now 1187 01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:02,040 Speaker 1: you know, man, this president did you hear this stuff? 1188 01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:06,760 Speaker 1: He don't want the Bohemian refugees that are trying to 1189 01:18:06,840 --> 01:18:10,960 Speaker 1: come to it America because they're all drug dealers and 1190 01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:16,719 Speaker 1: gang members. Everybody that's a color is a drug dealer 1191 01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:19,600 Speaker 1: and a gang banger. Yeah. Yeah, and he's not a 1192 01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:25,000 Speaker 1: racist question mark like like they're escaping the brutality of 1193 01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:29,519 Speaker 1: a dictator in the Bahamas. No, sir, they have no 1194 01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:35,920 Speaker 1: where to go, right, the island was decimated and now 1195 01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:40,679 Speaker 1: he don't want to receive them because they are drug 1196 01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:44,000 Speaker 1: dealers and gang bangers. And way to get your base 1197 01:18:44,120 --> 01:18:46,360 Speaker 1: rile too. That's the way to get your base riled up. 1198 01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:51,240 Speaker 1: That's exactly what it's for. Coming up next, coming up, 1199 01:18:51,280 --> 01:18:54,000 Speaker 1: our last break of the day and some closing remarks 1200 01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:56,479 Speaker 1: from Steve Harvey at forty nine minutes after the hour. 1201 01:18:56,680 --> 01:19:01,640 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Skin Morning Show. All right, 1202 01:19:01,680 --> 01:19:04,400 Speaker 1: here we are, last break of the day, Another fine 1203 01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:07,080 Speaker 1: day on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Yeah, thank you 1204 01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:10,720 Speaker 1: so much listening. We appreciate your business every day. Yeah, 1205 01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:14,280 Speaker 1: thank you, We love you. All right, Steve, you're up 1206 01:19:14,560 --> 01:19:20,720 Speaker 1: closing remarks. What you got? Yeah, you know, um, more 1207 01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,920 Speaker 1: and more. I try to share things that I learned 1208 01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:29,400 Speaker 1: as I pick them up, you know, I try to, oh, 1209 01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:34,120 Speaker 1: you know, when I'm talking to people about my faith 1210 01:19:34,240 --> 01:19:38,000 Speaker 1: in my walk. I guess I used myself as an 1211 01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:41,120 Speaker 1: example because I want to I try to simplify it 1212 01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:45,599 Speaker 1: for people, because man, so many people are get turned 1213 01:19:45,680 --> 01:19:51,680 Speaker 1: off with a traditional religion. And there's nothing wrong with church. Man. 1214 01:19:51,760 --> 01:19:54,240 Speaker 1: I think that church is one of the great institutions, 1215 01:19:55,280 --> 01:19:58,519 Speaker 1: uh that that's that's ever been around, you know, But 1216 01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:01,120 Speaker 1: some people can't get there. Some people get turned off 1217 01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:05,200 Speaker 1: by people in the church when it's really the relationship 1218 01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:07,400 Speaker 1: with God that you try to foster. But there are 1219 01:20:07,479 --> 01:20:10,519 Speaker 1: some people in churches that can be quite a turn off. 1220 01:20:11,320 --> 01:20:14,560 Speaker 1: And you trying to find the peace you're looking for 1221 01:20:15,439 --> 01:20:17,600 Speaker 1: in your life or the answers you're looking for in 1222 01:20:17,680 --> 01:20:20,160 Speaker 1: your life because you go to this building and somebody 1223 01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:25,599 Speaker 1: in the building ain't really a good example of Christian 1224 01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:29,120 Speaker 1: or whatever your faith is, and all of a sudden 1225 01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:32,120 Speaker 1: they come in and they did they full of more 1226 01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:36,640 Speaker 1: devil than being at a club. Sometimes. So what I 1227 01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:40,400 Speaker 1: what I try to offer people through my own little 1228 01:20:41,120 --> 01:20:44,160 Speaker 1: form of testimonies, to show you that you can have 1229 01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:47,120 Speaker 1: this walk with God just the way you are, that 1230 01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:50,200 Speaker 1: you don't have to try to fix yourself to have 1231 01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:54,519 Speaker 1: this relationship that you got to start somewhere and God, 1232 01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:58,519 Speaker 1: God deal with regular people all the time. God just 1233 01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:04,200 Speaker 1: don't deal with the people that consider themselves holy. God 1234 01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:08,040 Speaker 1: deal with regular people. God take regular people in tournament 1235 01:21:08,120 --> 01:21:11,880 Speaker 1: the heroes. God take regular people. The Bible is full 1236 01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:15,720 Speaker 1: of stories of regular people that God are used as 1237 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:22,360 Speaker 1: an example, people who showed extraordinary exhibitions of faith and hope. 1238 01:21:23,120 --> 01:21:25,880 Speaker 1: And so I just try to share with the people 1239 01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:29,160 Speaker 1: stuff that I learned along the way. One of the 1240 01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:32,040 Speaker 1: things I was learning, man, was I had to really 1241 01:21:32,200 --> 01:21:36,120 Speaker 1: learn to accept each day just as it came to me. 1242 01:21:36,840 --> 01:21:38,719 Speaker 1: And that's what I want to share with you today. 1243 01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:42,680 Speaker 1: You gotta, people, we gotta start accepting the day as 1244 01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:46,120 Speaker 1: it comes to you. Do not waste your time and 1245 01:21:46,560 --> 01:21:52,240 Speaker 1: energy wishing for a different set of circumstances, because it's 1246 01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:55,400 Speaker 1: not going to happen. Do you know how much time 1247 01:21:55,479 --> 01:21:59,479 Speaker 1: and energy you burn wishing things weren't the way they were. 1248 01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:03,280 Speaker 1: Do you know how much time and energy you wished 1249 01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:08,360 Speaker 1: hoping something was different? And there's no way it can 1250 01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:12,240 Speaker 1: be different. We're spending too much time with that. You 1251 01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:15,840 Speaker 1: got to accept the things in the day that you 1252 01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:21,000 Speaker 1: can't do anything about, and and remember you and remember 1253 01:22:21,080 --> 01:22:26,040 Speaker 1: something man, that instead of that, start trusting in the 1254 01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:30,880 Speaker 1: process that God has a special design and a special 1255 01:22:31,000 --> 01:22:35,160 Speaker 1: purpose for you even with this difficulties. Man, you got 1256 01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:38,760 Speaker 1: to trust in the process. His plan for you is 1257 01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:42,040 Speaker 1: different from my plan. It's different from your mother's plan. 1258 01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:47,439 Speaker 1: It's different from all your friends plans. But don't so 1259 01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:51,599 Speaker 1: don't spend that much time and energy like so many 1260 01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:54,120 Speaker 1: of us do, like I've done. I can't count the 1261 01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:59,080 Speaker 1: times I did it, man, wishing certain circumstances weren't the circumstances, 1262 01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:04,120 Speaker 1: but they Oh it is what it is. Now what 1263 01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:08,560 Speaker 1: you're gonna do about it? This could be an opportunity 1264 01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:11,800 Speaker 1: for you to get closer to God. Sometimes trials and 1265 01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:15,639 Speaker 1: tribulations and things come out way because God just wants 1266 01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:18,240 Speaker 1: us to be closer to it. You know how people 1267 01:23:18,280 --> 01:23:20,559 Speaker 1: getting aggravated all the time. People kill me when they 1268 01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:23,400 Speaker 1: say this. He went to prison, he found the Lord. 1269 01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:25,120 Speaker 1: He had to wait till he went to prison and 1270 01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:32,679 Speaker 1: found the Lord. Okay, okay, but he found him. No. See, 1271 01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:34,800 Speaker 1: everybody ain't got to go to prison to find him. 1272 01:23:36,439 --> 01:23:39,160 Speaker 1: You know how I found him. I found him living 1273 01:23:39,200 --> 01:23:42,720 Speaker 1: in a car. You know how house I found him. 1274 01:23:42,840 --> 01:23:45,240 Speaker 1: I found him when he took everything from me twice. 1275 01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:48,800 Speaker 1: You know how I found him. I found him out 1276 01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:51,519 Speaker 1: to two divorces man, when when it just looked like 1277 01:23:51,600 --> 01:23:56,840 Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna rise no more. And guess what, I 1278 01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:59,439 Speaker 1: keep finding him over and over and over again. I 1279 01:23:59,560 --> 01:24:02,600 Speaker 1: keep finding how great he really is. Every time a 1280 01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:05,479 Speaker 1: hardship come in my life, I find out a little 1281 01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:09,760 Speaker 1: bit more about it. I find out just how powerful, 1282 01:24:09,840 --> 01:24:13,840 Speaker 1: how forgiving, how loving, how merciful, how graceful he really is. 1283 01:24:14,280 --> 01:24:17,720 Speaker 1: Every time something happened, when they write me off and 1284 01:24:17,880 --> 01:24:21,360 Speaker 1: he lift me up again. I keep finding out about 1285 01:24:21,439 --> 01:24:24,439 Speaker 1: him every day I wake up how good he really is, 1286 01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:27,040 Speaker 1: So don't worry about the brother. They go to prison 1287 01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:29,040 Speaker 1: and find it. And now he want to tell me 1288 01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:31,200 Speaker 1: about the Lord. He's been sitting in a cell. Well 1289 01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:34,639 Speaker 1: maybe that's what it took. Maybe that's what it took. 1290 01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:37,840 Speaker 1: But the same thing it took for him to find 1291 01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:39,519 Speaker 1: the Lord, something gonna happen to you to make you 1292 01:24:39,640 --> 01:24:42,880 Speaker 1: find him too. And sometimes, like I said, you need 1293 01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:45,479 Speaker 1: them trials and them tribulations to get you in a 1294 01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:49,160 Speaker 1: better place. These trials and tribulations ain't to break you in, 1295 01:24:49,240 --> 01:24:54,240 Speaker 1: to destroy you. It's to strengthen you. You need. All 1296 01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:57,720 Speaker 1: of this is to draw you closer. You think about it, 1297 01:24:58,640 --> 01:25:01,240 Speaker 1: you wouldn't even go to God if you didn't need him. 1298 01:25:01,720 --> 01:25:04,720 Speaker 1: Must be talking to myself. I know I wouldn't have 1299 01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:08,760 Speaker 1: if everything went right for me my whole life. You 1300 01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:11,200 Speaker 1: think I'll be talking to God all the time now 1301 01:25:12,600 --> 01:25:17,840 Speaker 1: because I got everything, But I need him know, and 1302 01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:20,920 Speaker 1: it pushed me to him, and I'm glad it did. 1303 01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:26,080 Speaker 1: So remember stop tripping about your circumstances. Man, get yourself 1304 01:25:26,160 --> 01:25:29,400 Speaker 1: in contact with your creator. God loves you, want some 1305 01:25:29,479 --> 01:25:33,120 Speaker 1: relationship with you. Sometimes these trials and tribulations is to 1306 01:25:33,240 --> 01:25:37,160 Speaker 1: get that relationship. Okay, those are my closing remarks. I 1307 01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:39,960 Speaker 1: hope I ain't step on nobody's told y'all have a 1308 01:25:40,080 --> 01:25:42,800 Speaker 1: great weekend. Talk to God. He'd loved to hear from 1309 01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:47,680 Speaker 1: your Kate for show for all Steve Every contests no 1310 01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:51,240 Speaker 1: purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US 1311 01:25:51,280 --> 01:25:54,800 Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For 1312 01:25:54,960 --> 01:25:58,800 Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're 1313 01:25:58,880 --> 01:26:01,439 Speaker 1: listening Rain Harday Morning showing