1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: You were listening to Ruthie's Table four in partnership with Montclair. 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: My family has been in New York since nineteen sixties 3 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: and I lived there until I was ten. From ten 4 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: to seventeen, I was in Dominicam Republic. And you went 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: back to when I was seventeen. My mom is working, 6 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: my stepdad is working, my sisters and I were finding 7 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: our afternoon sort of placements. I was working also on 8 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: the weekends at Burger King and stop there, what were 9 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: you doing? I worked at Burger King and what did 10 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: you do here? I did the drive through. You know, Hi, 11 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: welcome to Burgleem, I take your order. There was a 12 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: lady from Guyanese lady who is like my boss, and 13 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: I just loved her accent. Welcome to burger Que, Ma 14 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: take Yorda. And I would like, I wasn't making fun 15 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: of her. I would just try to kind of acquire 16 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: this this accent because it was also like, now that 17 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,319 Speaker 1: I'm back in New York, I'm reconnecting with all these 18 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: multicultures all over the place, and a lot of a 19 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: big part of them was connecting with other Caribbean people. 20 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: You know, we're from Spanish Antillas, so the West Indies's 21 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: English and Tillas and the British Islands or whatever, like. 22 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: We didn't really have that in Dominican Republic. So now 23 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: I'm connecting with Jamaicans, I'm connecting with people from Maru. 24 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 1: Buta Saint Lucia Grant came and cool so I and 25 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: Queens is definitely a very big West Indian and so 26 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: is Brooklyn, West Indian melting pot. So I was going 27 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: bananas for the food. It was so good. And so 28 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: I worked with a whole bunch of Caribbean people, but 29 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 1: we were from different parts than at Barriking, and it 30 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: was fun. I feel like that's when my curiosity over 31 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: human behavior and who we are as people began. I 32 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: think a restaurant does teach you that. Absolutely would say that, 33 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: walk into a restaurant, look at the tape of everybody 34 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: having fun, and everybody has a story. That's why. Absolutely. 35 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: And one of my managers was this woman who must 36 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: have been in her late thirties, but she drove to 37 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: work in a motorcycle. You know, she was just toping 38 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: I get them up junor like she would just talk 39 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: like a brought during here. She just had a way 40 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: of talking. And I just remember I would have like 41 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: just doze off observing people and hearing their accents. Because 42 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: now I'm in New York again, I'm getting to hear 43 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: the world again. My life was very multicultural. It was 44 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: from the beginning. I think growing up in New York, 45 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:31,399 Speaker 1: you're just around just the world at all times. Pick 46 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:35,119 Speaker 1: a block and you'll have like three continents and ten 47 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: different countries and you can eat, and I feel like 48 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: you do get to know people and communities through their food, 49 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: And a lot happens when you break bread with individuals 50 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: you just I don't know, there's an unspoken word that 51 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,119 Speaker 1: makes it permissible for you to connect with people that 52 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: look obviously different, speak differently, smell differently from you, and 53 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: yet through the food that they're sharing with you, you get 54 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: a piece of who they are and vice versa. So 55 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: New York is that special still to this day for me, 56 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: Did you have Chinese food? Did you have any? Oh? 57 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: My god? Did you Every Sunday? You I'm like the 58 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: American families they go like every Sunday to like a 59 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: diner and they'll have like pancakes. Oh god, why would 60 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: I start the day eating cake? Like I don't you know, 61 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: But like I said, I have a savory tooth. So 62 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: we would wake up and go either to Flushing in Queens, 63 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:32,360 Speaker 1: which is the second biggest sort of like Chinatown Asian 64 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: community outside of Chinatown in downtown Manhattan, or we would 65 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: just go to Chinatown and we would have dim sum. 66 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: You know, on Saturday nights you have Korean barbecue. Friday 67 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: nights you have Korean barbecue. Or or sometimes if my 68 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: family that was visiting from from Dominican Republic that are 69 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: half Dominican half Japanese, they were in town, we would 70 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: go have Shabu shabu, or you go you go to 71 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: Seventhiet Street in Roosevelt and you would have like Indian food. 72 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: That was our community there for Indian food. That shows 73 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: a real curiosity that they really cared. It was always 74 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: through food, mind you, there was still a simplicity. We 75 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: didn't go any deeper than that. But by the time 76 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: I would meet someone that comes from that part of 77 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 1: the world, and if I've tried their dish before, I 78 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: felt like I already knew half of them. Eating other 79 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: world's foods feeds your curiosity and you do remain open 80 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: going okay, so I know your dishes. Some of your dishes, 81 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 1: like I want to know more about you. Thank you 82 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: for listening to Ruthie's Table four in partnership with Montclair