WEBVTT - Sorry For Being A Bitch 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:03.280 We've thought that women are soft and we're dainty and 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:07.560 we're emotional, But no, nigga, that's you. You are soft 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:10.720 and dainty, and that's the problem. Your emotions are so 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:13.440 fucking fragile you couldn't handle if the shoe was on 0:00:13.440 --> 0:00:15.960 the other foot. So instead you take your insecurities and 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:18.120 you fuck the next bitch, And if this shoe were 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:20.520 all on the foot, you would literally melt. And then 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:22.799 that's why you project, and you spew hate, and you 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:25.639 disrespect us, and you label us whorees or this or that, 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:28.319 even though you were in love five minutes ago. But 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:31.080 now I'm a whore and you're a saint because I've 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:34.280 done exactly what you've done. And men generally can't handle 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:37.440 that shit because they're weaker than us. And you know, 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:40.000 to any other cheating ass niggas listening, if you just 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:41.839 happen to tune in, if you've got a cheating ass 0:00:41.880 --> 0:00:43.239 nigg in the house, go ahead and just take your 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:45.120 earplugs out and turn up the radio so they can 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:50.199 hear me. Hello, it's me for all the cheating ass niggas. 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:52.280 Let me tell you what it is. It's not the 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:57.560 cheating that pisses bitches off, it's your lack of ability 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:00.560 to stand ten toes down and who wherever the fuck 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:00.959 you are? 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:17.959 M hm. 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.920 No, welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. I'm Erica 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:27.679 and I'm Mila. 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:34.840 Happy Wednesday, Happy hump Day. Bitches, how are you not? Bitches? Queens? 0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:40.840 Grand rising queens? Are you triggered? Maybe? Yeah? 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.959 I don't really love that one either. I definitely sound 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:46.080 like a hotep. What is the female version? I was 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:47.720 the second woman be a hotel? I was gonna say, 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:49.440 what's a female version like HOTEPA. 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:51.840 A pho tep like a female tep? What is hotel like? 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:53.480 It should be a hotep hotep? 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:56.840 Oh, I'm a hoe tip a hole on that tip, 0:01:58.320 --> 0:01:59.120 bouncing on the tip. 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:04.240 Baby. What does hotep even mean? I don't know. Let's 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:04.720 look it up. 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:09.320 Okay, that's a good idea. Let's google the meaning of 0:02:09.360 --> 0:02:09.880 the hotel. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:12.040 I said, I'm a forever student, and that's what Google 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:19.560 is for. Hotep means this is not You're gonna go 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:20.640 to the urban dictionary. 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:25.320 Okay, looked up hotep meaning Okay. 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:26.600 Hoteps. 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:30.640 Hoteps are members of an afrocentric African American subculture that 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.440 focuses on ancient Egypt as a source of black pride. 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:38.720 The group has been described as promoting pseudohistory and pseudohistory 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:42.079 like fake history and misinformation about black history. 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:45.440 Of course they have because or did the white man right? Yeah, 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:47.400 of course, or did the man write that? I don't know. 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:49.360 I don't know how to believe the hoteps or google 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:50.000 ho tech. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:56.040 Hoteps espouse a mixture of black radicalism and social conservatism. 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:59.240 I don't really believe in black radicalism, but social yeah, 0:02:59.280 --> 0:02:59.760 you know what. 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:01.880 I just that's sure. That's the hoteps want their bitches 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:02.400 to like. 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.960 To wear wear certain wear, robes, wear long skirts. But 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:06.600 they also want to fee the black people. 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:06.960 Wait the turn. 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:10.000 Hotep comes from the ancient Egyptian word for to be 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:13.800 at peace, and is sometimes used in contemporary black culture 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:18.480 as a greeting hotep Hotep sister. How do you use 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:19.480 hotep in a sentence? 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:20.480 It's a hoptep sister. 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:23.960 Sometimes it's the same sentence. Example, I didn't realize he 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:26.520 was a hotep until I friended him on Facebook and 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:28.919 he kept sharing hotep memes on my timeline. 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:33.600 Why the fuck is this on the internet? This is 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:39.720 the root you know this is true. This is a problem. 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:41.240 I just saw this on the you know what shout 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:43.880 out to I met these with the girls in Philly 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:46.760 and they were like young podcasters and they were like 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:51.320 looking up to us. They're called oh my god, shit. 0:03:52.920 --> 0:03:53.040 God. 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:54.200 I was trying to give him a shout out and 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:57.560 I can't remember. It's something ho. 0:03:59.160 --> 0:03:59.400 Shit. 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.440 Anyway, there, I was looking in there there. We follow 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:07.480 them and they were talking about black men, like all 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:09.840 these like very conservative black men who are like free 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:13.119 the black people but also like imprison the women. It's 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:17.520 so contradictory, you know, it's like the nineteen Keys. 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:19.680 And the fucking what's then other nigga's name. He wasn't Hotep. 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:23.400 He was just like conservative, the one who died, Kevin Samuels. 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:25.680 But it's like, how are you like into the liberation 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:29.960 of our people but also the incarceration of the women. 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:31.839 It's just like you can't do both them. 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.440 I mean, they want the women to behave a certain way, 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:39.320 and you know, we feel like a lot of feminism 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:43.240 is pushing us back, like the female rappers that are 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:45.080 talking about getting money in the bag. 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.480 Because niggas have never done that. Well, I don't think 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:50.320 they co sign that either I'm not supporting that either 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:52.120 those how teps be listening to and he will take 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:53.799 a picture with one of niggas, so you better stop 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:57.440 back nineteen keys in a picture with Rick Ross, you did, 0:04:57.560 --> 0:04:59.680 I don't know if I do, I mean future any 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:01.880 of those. Well, that's the thing. It's the it's the 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:03.000 idea that. 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:07.800 There's acceptability for men and there's like a wide range 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:10.039 for men to show up because they're men. But like 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.960 for women, it's like, wear that fucking head wrap, don't 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.040 suck any dick, don't talk about sucking dick on the internet. 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:17.280 Don't talk about second ticket all you never happened. It's 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:18.800 always like my dick, don't always t like my dick. 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:23.920 But don't tell anybody in the dark. But yeah, it's 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:29.360 it's just interesting because I think, actually I just scrolled. 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:30.480 Upon I didn't get the fuck off the internet. 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:34.240 I was scrolled by this other uh shock bars have 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:37.800 posted this girl. And there's always like five prominent pick 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:40.159 me black women on the internet, and I. 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:42.039 Don't know why. They're always like six feet tall too. 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:45.800 But she was like, Okay, ladies, if your man cheats 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:48.159 on you, are you gonna leave him if he provides 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.080 and particts and he is good to you, are you 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:51.839 gonna leave him? And everyone in the comments is like, 0:05:52.000 --> 0:05:55.599 uh yeah, I've bring a monogamous relationship and he breaks 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:58.680 the fucking agreement. But it's like, what's up with these bitches. 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:02.359 It's like, dude, do women want men so badly that 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:07.960 they're like latantly just ignore, disrespect and like defaulting on 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:08.800 a commitment. 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:11.800 I'm here to say, yes, we do. 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:13.600 I mean, we've all done it. We've all done it, 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:16.840 but like to advocate for it on the internet. It's crazy, 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:18.560 like most of the people like I did some you know, 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:21.760 I turned the other cheek. I allowed some shit to 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:23.839 happen to me, and then you know, I moved on 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:24.800 and I learned my lessons. 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:26.719 Those women haven't moved on. They're still in the relationship, 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:27.679 so of course they're gonna. 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:29.520 I think they're seeking a relationship and they're like, please 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:31.440 pick me. If you cheat on me and you're still 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:38.920 a good man and you provide for me, I'm a stay. 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:37.520 Because they're slaves. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:42.160 Literally, they are in the field. I'm i gonna pull it. 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.680 It's gonna piss me off. It was so it was 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:48.760 very you know, because we talk so much in this space, 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:51.200 and we pick who we talk about and talk to, 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:53.800 I feel like I'm kind of like I'm not in 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:56.640 reality about the world. And so sometimes I scroll and 0:06:56.680 --> 0:07:01.159 I hear ridiculous antics about Christianity and I'm in wearing turtlenecks, 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:03.359 and I'm like, who the fuck believes this anymore? But 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:07.279 most of the population, Oh my god, he fucking posts 0:07:07.320 --> 0:07:09.560 so much. I can't even fucking find the bitch. He's 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:10.520 always trick posting. 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:12.040 Okay, hear it here. This is I don't know if 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:13.640 this is this is a trick post. This is a 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:17.760 real one, though. If your man comes home, pays all 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:18.840 the bills, takes care. 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:21.400 Of the kids, deals with your ups and downs, and 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:25.680 he sets out, you're gonna leave him. 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.000 You're gonna leave him for the next woman who might 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:28.560 put up with it. 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:31.680 And all he's gonna do is find another woman who 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:34.120 do the same thing, and you're gonna be independent. 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:39.760 Ah, yeah, well this is the thing, not be independent. 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:41.360 That's the worst thing you could be. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.800 Well, okay, I understand, But I also have to say 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:47.200 that we've even talked about this that like is infidelity, 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:49.440 Like is it a non negotiable for you. 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:51.640 Like if you're like, if Orlando cheated on you, are 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:52.320 you gonna leave him? 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:54.320 I'm gonna cut off one ball and then I'll think 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:54.600 about it. 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:55.560 You're not gonna leave him? 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:58.080 No, I think so that's really what it is. It's like, 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:01.520 it's not gonna fucking ideas, Orlando. But I'm just saying, like, 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:04.520 give me my naked production, I'll come, I'll cut off 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:08.520 the other ball. But I'm just saying that. I think 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:10.520 I don't know how deep, how much, how much cheating 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:13.040 we're talking about, how much disrespect we're talking about, right, 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:14.600 But Like, I think that there's a lot of women 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.080 listening that probably are still in relationships with their husbands 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:20.000 or partners that have cheated, and they have been providers 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:22.600 and they have been great overall in the relationship, and 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:26.520 they let their manhood overcome them, which is very fucking 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:27.680 standard in this society. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:30.640 Right, Like, No, I agree, and I understand what you're saying. 0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:32.680 I think we're all human, and I think we're all 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:36.040 subject to fuck up, like physically because it's the flesh. 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:37.199 However, I think it's. 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:41.000 Dangerous and I think it's it's proactive to put these 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:44.240 messages on the internet just because there are women who 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:47.280 are getting dogged the fuck out and like, well, he 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:49.920 pays all my bills, and like I've seen friends do it, 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:52.360 Like bitch is getting taken care of, has a nice car, 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:55.880 has a nice place, and she's accepting the bottom of 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:58.480 the barrel because there's security, and so like, I just 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:02.440 don't I don't agree with advocate for being in a 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:06.120 monogamous relationship and then just pretending like the disrespect is 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:09.600 not happening and in order to be taken care of. 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:12.239 It's like that that is not the way to happiness, 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:13.680 that's actually the way to disaster. 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:17.599 Well, I think that the internet perpetuates these messages a 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:21.880 because usually there's only like between sixty to ninety seconds 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:24.160 to share your thoughts. And I would even I would 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:27.840 even argue that some of our messages because their only clips, 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:31.560 could trigger people and say that's a dangerous message. But okay, well, bitch, 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:32.880 go listen to the full Epio's gonna have. 0:09:32.880 --> 0:09:34.120 A full episode has. 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:39.280 Reels and I did. I like them, and I'm just trying. 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:41.000 I was just trying to play Devil's advocate that maybe 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:42.920 she was like had more to say past the end 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:43.640 of that statement. 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:44.640 I don't know. 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:47.960 I definitely don't co sign a women staying in toxic 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:51.880 ass relationships. I do think that relationships are hard work. 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:53.520 I know that it's not always going to be easy. 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:55.679 I know that people fuck up, and that's why it's 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:58.800 important for you to be friends first and really love 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:02.000 that person as a friend so that you can humanize 0:10:02.000 --> 0:10:03.160 them and that you can. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.280 Forgive them and move on. 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:08.760 However, if there's no if there's nothing to stand on, 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:10.400 then you have to let that shit go. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:14.120 And and I think my problem with those messages is 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:17.199 we don't see niggas on the internet talking about if 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:19.120 you got a good woman and she cooks and she 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:21.160 bared all the children and she cheat on you one time, 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:21.760 oh girl. 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:23.240 I mean, it's the patriarchy. 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.560 I know, it's a patriotchy every day we can we 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:27.600 can go do this shit all day long. Niggas don't 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:30.480 do a lot of shit that bitches would do, including taking. 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:32.080 Care of the kids. Yeah. 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:35.080 I just think all of the things need to be shifted, 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:38.040 all of the ideas, all the ideologies. I think we 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.880 all have to get out of our own way and 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:43.840 consider that we do need each other and in order 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:46.840 to really function and flow. We have to accept each 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:50.240 other as humans and we're all just like humans wanting 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:53.160 to get one off and figure shit out and you know, 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:56.400 be at peace and make money and have good sex, 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:59.520 you know, and sometimes there's are temptations and things will 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:03.160 come up. But ultimately, like it's about respect and if 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:07.240 you're like getting disrespected, I think that's really you know. 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:10.640 Well, cheating is disrespectful period, it is. 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:11.880 But then it's like did he come and tell you 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:13.800 and say fucked up? Like you know what I mean? 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:16.040 Is it like you said, is it a serial cheater? 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:18.600 Is it like blatant? Like if you fuck up and 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:20.520 you're like, listen, I fucked up, you know, and you 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:21.880 can stand in I would love. 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:27.240 To know how many men actually do that, like actually 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:30.880 go to their woman and say, hey, I fucked up, 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:34.040 Like can we just pull on the internet. I did 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:36.080 a poll to happen, and I needed to really be 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:38.120 like I need the women to vote and say my 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:41.880 man actually told me this, because I don't think that 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:43.760 ever happens. I don't know if it really I feel 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:45.719 like maybe women we might do it more. I think 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:48.200 that we also are really good secret keepers as well. 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:51.640 We'll keep some shit down, like to the grave. But 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:55.760 I have never ever in my lifetime heard of no 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:59.199 nigga coming to their bitch and saying, hey, baby, guess oh. 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:01.679 The only time it's a happened is if they had 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:05.319 a baby on you. That is the only and the 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:08.640 bitch you gotta tell you. The bitch told me yeah, 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:11.280 like that is the only time in which like, there 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:13.760 is now a whole other human that is coming northside 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:15.520 and I cannot run from this any longer. 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.880 In the great words of Shaggy, it wasn't me. 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:22.679 You remember that song came out. I was like, Wow, 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:23.439 niggas sam shit. 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:27.520 Twenty years later, it still rings true because they'll never 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:28.600 omit that they cheated. 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:30.440 It's a fact. Yeah. 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.320 I just like, if there's any men listening who are 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:34.800 cheating on their partners right now, just go tell them 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:38.520 now because you probably will be okay, you'll probably keep 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:41.400 your bitch, but if you lie to her. And I 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:44.840 think men just don't believe women when they tell them this, Like, Hey, 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:47.640 I really just need you to be honest. I swear 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:50.840 to God, like we probably would stay and respect you 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:54.200 more if you just had the fucking balls to say 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:56.840 I fucked up, like I would respect that. 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:02.240 I think the problem is too, is that, like, well. 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:05.400 Then there's also it's the it's it's it's the fear 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:07.320 that they're gonna leave you. It's the fear that this 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:10.000 is giving them permission now to go do their own thing. 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:11.439 And I think that's really what it is. 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:13.280 A lot of it is that is like, oh shit, 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:16.040 well now she's gonna go do that, and like men's 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:20.320 ownership over our bodies and are you know, are just 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:23.760 us in general? I feel like really negates how honest 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:26.240 they can be with us because they're always so concerned 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:30.400 because they're so ego driven around what their actions are 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:33.680 going to be, like how what is the cause of 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:38.320 their action? They cannot handle the they can't handle the 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:41.480 possibility that you could act out in the same way 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:44.360 that they've misbehaved because they can't handle if the shoe 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:46.040 was on the foot, they can fuck it and they 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:46.880 can say, you know, it's. 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:48.560 My dick, my dick been neat and she and you 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:50.800 know it wasn't me. But then if a bitch does it, 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:54.280 then like they can't handle it. The sluts they suck 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:56.640 dick demons. Even if you're just psyching histic now you're 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:59.080 a slut. But like, that's the problem, is that, like 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:02.480 when this is the we've gotten, we've gotten the gender 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:06.800 roles fucked up. We've thought that women are soft and 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:11.240 we're dainty and we're emotional. But no, nigga, that's you. 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:14.320 You are soft and dainty, and that's the problem. Your 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:17.400 emotions are so fucking fragile you couldn't handle if the 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:19.440 shoe was on the other foot. So instead you take 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:21.880 your insecurities and you fuck the next bitch, And if 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:24.640 this shoe were all on the foot, you would literally melt. 0:14:24.640 --> 0:14:26.720 And then that's why you project and you spew hate, 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:29.640 and you disrespect us, and you label us whorees or 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:31.520 this or that, even though you were in love five 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:34.680 minutes ago. But now I'm a whore and you're a 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.160 saint because I've done exactly what you've done. And men 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:40.680 generally can't handle that shit because they're weaker than us. 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:44.480 We are the head of household, we bear the children. 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:48.480 Because you are weaker than us, we have emotional intelligence, 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.200 and we also have that fucking I'll kill you, nigga, 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:54.720 because we are the superior fucking sex. 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.040 I don't know if you got the memo but it's us. 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.640 I mean, we're birthing babies, taking care of them and 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:01.400 also starting to make more money than you. 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:04.720 I'm the savior. I just it's Heyzusa, I know it's 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:09.080 triggering guys. I know. Yeah, it's your fault though. 0:15:09.680 --> 0:15:12.360 And you know, to any other cheating ass niggas listening, 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:14.080 if you just happen to tune in, if you got 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:15.600 a cheating ass nigga in the house, go ahead and 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:17.440 just take your earplugs out and turn up the radio 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:21.960 so they can hear me. Hello, it's me for other 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:24.200 cheating ass niggas. Let me tell you what it is. 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:27.920 It's not the cheating that pisses bitches off. It's your 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:32.920 lack of ability to stand ten toes down and whoever 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:35.560 the fuck you are, nigga. If you want to be 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:39.680 non monogamous, be a real nigga and say that, be 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.400 a man and set your grounds like the whole teps, 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:45.080 they start from the top. They say, I'm Polly and 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:47.680 I need lots of women's just do that so bitches. No, 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:50.880 But if you start to lie and cheat and pretend 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:53.560 like nigga, you're a bitch, because guess what if I 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:54.320 want another nigga. 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:56.240 I'm just gonna say it, but you. 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:58.200 Can't even be who you are and say what you 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:00.520 want and what you need and said you lie and 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:03.600 you pretend and you fake the funk about who you are. 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:06.040 And any nigga who doesn't like themselves is gonna lie 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.600 about who they are. So it's just weak nigga shit. 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:10.240 So if you want to be a real nigga and 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:13.760 you want to have multiple bitches, you wanna have multiple partners, 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:16.160 then lead with that and then be able to handle 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:18.360 it when your woman has to go do the same 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:21.000 thing because we are human and we have the same needs. 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:24.040 That's the end of my ted talk. I put the 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:31.560 headphones back in now. Anyway, you guys leave us a review. Yep. 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:33.600 We do this for free every week and we. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:36.440 Would really love if you would just leave a review 0:16:36.520 --> 0:16:37.480 on Apple podcast. 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:39.720 It means a lot to us. It does. It takes 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:42.160 two seconds, a matter of fact, pause right now and 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:45.400 just go do it. Okay, we're back. 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