1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: Well, guys, this is from Kendra in Chattanooga. She needs 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: some advice. She says. Two of my ex boyfriends showed 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 1: up at my family reunion last month, and my husband 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: still brings it up as if I personally invited them 5 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,119 Speaker 1: to be there. I can't make my dad and my 6 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: brothers stop bring friends with my exes. I don't ever 7 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: talk to my exes, but when I see them, I 8 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,479 Speaker 1: speak to them because it's childish not to Why is 9 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: my husband so upset when he knows I don't deal 10 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: with them at all? Will he ever let this go? 11 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 2: No? No, he not finna let that go. And your 12 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: family wrong for that. Just out of respect to the husband. 13 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: All they was was boyfriend. This man made a total commitment. 14 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 2: Your father and your brother need to say, hey, man, 15 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 2: look we can hang out, but we can't be at 16 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 2: the family union when they over here. Y'all go go 17 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 2: fishing together, go play golf, whatever y'all doing, But you 18 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: can't bring these two boyfriends around here because y'all cool 19 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 2: with them, Because that's a slap in the face to 20 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 2: the new hospital. Now he not gonna be all right 21 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,759 Speaker 2: with that, and your daddy and your brothers is out 22 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:06,279 Speaker 2: of line. 23 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Let me ask you this, 24 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,919 Speaker 1: and I agree with you. What if the exes brought 25 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: their wives or their significant others with them, what that 26 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: makes they don't? They don't, They don't. They just come single? Yeah, 27 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: they coming single thinking they have a shot at her, 28 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: another shot, you know, rubbing it in his face and 29 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: over there, trying to see her. 30 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 2: How she doing? Now? Yes, I know me and no men, man, 31 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 2: men think about that stuff. Me and no, Me and no. 32 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 1: All right, So the family, your daddy and your brother, 33 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: no too, Okay, all right, we have time for another one. 34 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: This is from Brittany in Starkville. Brittany says, I'm in 35 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: graduate school and I have a one year old. My 36 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: child's daddy is my stepdad's cousin, and no one knows 37 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: about us. I told my mom that the baby's father 38 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: is one of my classmates, and she never said anything 39 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: else about it. It makes me think she doesn't care, 40 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: or she already knows who the father is. Should I 41 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: bring it up to her or not? 42 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm so, who's your daddy's cousin, baby? 43 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: Her stepdad's her mother's husband's cousin. Yeah, her stepdad's cousin. 44 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,119 Speaker 2: Well, step dance cousin, you ain't related to him. 45 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: Uh uh. 46 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: If this man that you're pregnant by is your stepdance cousin, 47 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: you're not. 48 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: Related to them. No, she's not. She's not the baby 49 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: here right, Yeah, the babies a year old? Yeah, and 50 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: your mom ain't met the daddy yet. She told, you know, 51 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: one of her classmates. She just said, mom asked to 52 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:51,959 Speaker 1: meet the boy the baby daddy. 53 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: That don't make no sense. 54 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: I know, I don't know how she could get away 55 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: with this. Yeah, the babies a year old? Yeah, she lies. 56 00:02:58,440 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: How mamma said this classmates? 57 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 2: Right? 58 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: But yeah she did. She told the mom it was 59 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: her classmate. Right. But now she's wondering why her mother 60 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: hasn't said anything. Does she already know or does she 61 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: not just just not care? 62 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,279 Speaker 2: Didn't you tell her it was your classmate? 63 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: She did? She did? 64 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 2: Maybe the line worked, Maybe you did? 65 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: Right? Oh, the mama knows. 66 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:22,839 Speaker 2: She lying? 67 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: And wait on, so that's what she's asking. Should she 68 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: bring it up to the mother or not. That's what 69 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: she wanted to know. You don't know, he said. That's 70 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: the second time he said that. 71 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 2: Well, here's what you ought to do. 72 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: Okay, come on, since. 73 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 2: Y'all love the truth so much, going in there and 74 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 2: tell the truth. 75 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: Uh huh, okay, see what they gets you. Well, she 76 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: doesn't want to be judged because she's had a baby 77 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: by her stepdad's cousin. Is that what this is? Yeah, 78 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: that's why she lies. 79 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 2: I'm assuming that must be it. Yeah, probably, but it 80 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 2: don't make no difference the baby here. You're not related 81 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 2: to the man. How old is your daddy stepdaddy. 82 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: Couzin's say, well, she's in graduate school, so he. 83 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: Got to step up and take care of his baby. 84 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: Man. Now, if he's sixty six, if he's let's hope not. 85 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 2: If a stepdaddy's club one year old, he's sixty six, 86 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 2: good listen, we at least hoping he makes the graduation. 87 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.