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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: If you want to win the jubil Shows trip to

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Speaker 2: the Caribbean, you got to listen at eight ten. Britt

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Speaker 2: is on the phone today for a first day follow up.

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Speaker 2: She's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean, So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we're going to get him on the

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Speaker 2: phone and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: her and maybe get her another date if she still

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Speaker 2: wants one. But Britt, before we talk about your date,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Sean?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Freagain?

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Speaker 4: Twelve days?

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Speaker 5: You're not counting her. I'm sorry that sucks. Where how

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Speaker 5: did you meet Sean online?

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Speaker 6: On an app or something else?

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Speaker 4: Oh? And it's the only dating up I've ever really tried.

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Speaker 7: And then I've heard good things.

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Speaker 5: No, I have to that makes sense.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, let's go back.

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Speaker 5: Let's go back to the date. Can you tell us

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Speaker 5: about that?

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Speaker 8: Well, it was good at first because we like met

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Speaker 8: one of those like fun bars where there's like, you know,

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Speaker 8: bar games, and he was paying for stuff, you know,

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Speaker 8: like he was getting or drinks and.

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Speaker 4: I was winning a fool.

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Speaker 1: So it was fun and it.

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Speaker 4: Was like a flirty good time and you know we

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Speaker 4: even like kissed. Okay, well we made out at the bar.

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Speaker 2: Oh was there any moment where's something weird happened? Why

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I didn't plan this or anything at all,

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Speaker 4: but a group of my friends showed up and uh,

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Speaker 4: they you know, came and played a round of darts

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Speaker 7: And that's the only thing.

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Speaker 4: I can think of because I mean he left shortly after,

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Speaker 4: but he had to. He said he had like get

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Speaker 6: Like how are the vibes?

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Speaker 4: When he left, he like kind of just was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I realized the time it is, I have to go.

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Speaker 4: So he like left kind of abruptly, but like you know,

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Speaker 4: I was definitely like including him and then like it

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Speaker 4: was I thought it was like going fine. So I

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Speaker 4: didn't think that would have been.

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Speaker 5: It were your friends kind of monopolizing your time at

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Speaker 5: that point?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: No, So I was like, I think, like we were

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Speaker 4: just all hanging out, like the only reason it could

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Speaker 4: have been off or it's just because they have never

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Speaker 4: met before because it was like a first date. But

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Speaker 4: I think it went fine, Like I even like text

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Speaker 4: them that night to apolog as that they shut up,

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Speaker 4: but I thanked him for like being cool and said

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Speaker 4: I couldn't like to see him again.

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Speaker 6: Did he say anything back to that or was that

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: He text me back the next morning.

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Speaker 7: So that's why I was like, oh, yeah.

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Speaker 4: You must have gone home gone to sleep early, because

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Speaker 4: he woke up texted me. He's like, yeah, I had

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Speaker 4: fun and then ghost.

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Speaker 6: Is it possible he's did any of your friends? Uh?

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Speaker 7: None of them said anything about that, So I.

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Speaker 5: Mean it also could be just awkward. I mean, Victoria,

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Speaker 5: remember when you had that date and you ran into

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Speaker 5: your friends. Oh, it almost feels like pressure in that moment, right, like, yeah.

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Speaker 6: You're already meeting their friends.

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Speaker 5: And you're just not ready to go that far.

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Speaker 2: Well, so it's a very first state, So like you're

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Speaker 2: meeting their friends and you're like, Okay, this is weird,

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Speaker 2: but hi, like you're introducing yourself and yeah, that's kind

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Speaker 5: Well that's besides the point though. So if that's what

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Speaker 4: No, I'm with a group of girls.

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Speaker 6: And what was the last thing he said to you?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: He said that he had fun and I did, like

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Speaker 4: try texting him within those twelve days, like one or

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Speaker 4: two more times.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it

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Speaker 2: out for you. Then we'll play a song come Back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, thanks,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll play a song come Back. Get your

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Speaker 2: first Day follow Up.

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Speaker 1: Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first Day follow Up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Britt is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if he'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Britt, why don't you remind

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Speaker 2: everybody of the situation with Sean.

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Speaker 4: Okay, guys, I went out on a date with Sean,

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Speaker 4: who I met online, and we were having a super

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Speaker 4: fun first day at a bar and then randomly ran

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Speaker 4: and then Sean left, briefly texted me back once and

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Speaker 4: then goes to me and I don't know why because

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Speaker 4: it's a great first date.

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Speaker 6: Well, we're about to get him on the phone and

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Speaker 6: find out why. You're ready?

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Speaker 4: I'm ready?

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Speaker 6: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Sean. Please, Picky.

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Speaker 6: Who is Sean? How are you? My name is Jubel

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Speaker 6: and I'm on a radio show called The Jubil Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Sean, I'm Nina also on the show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, and I'm Victoria. So this is a radio show

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Speaker 6: called The Jubil Show. How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm okay, I haven't talked to the radio. What's this about?

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Speaker 6: Do you ever listen to the show at all?

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Speaker 3: I am not familiar with your guys? With you guys

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Speaker 3: this show? No?

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Speaker 2: All right, well now you will be I guess. We

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Speaker 2: do a segment on the show and it's called the

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Speaker 2: First Date follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then it end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, they can email us to get you on

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Speaker 2: the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay, we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from a girl named britt.

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Speaker 7: Oh Rit Okay, Wow, that's a uh yeah, I can

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Speaker 7: understand why she might wanna might want to get some answers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, it's been twelve days since you guys

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Speaker 2: went out, and the last thing you texted her was

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Speaker 2: had fun.

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Speaker 6: So what's that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I uh definitely did have to take a step back.

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Speaker 3: And just give her some space after the last time

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Speaker 3: we went out.

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Speaker 6: Why is that?

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Speaker 3: It's not her? It's uh and I'm not sure if

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Speaker 7: The friends, and uh, she wasn't giving them more attentions

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Speaker 7: she was giving me. She was making sure that she's

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Speaker 3: Both parties and being you know, being on a date

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Speaker 3: with me. She just happened running to her friends.

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Speaker 7: But uh, it is because of her friend, Sabrina.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we used, Yeah, we used to.

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Speaker 7: Hook up, and Sabrina at one point in time, yeah I.

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Speaker 3: Know, it was just like two years ago. But Sabrina

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Speaker 3: at one point in time cornered me and basically was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm so good to see you. I'm

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Speaker 7: And then yeah, oh asked me if I wanted to

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Speaker 6: What with her friend or.

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Speaker 7: Well, well, well Sabrina and Brittany both at the both

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Speaker 6: I wonder if she knows that, yeah, you want to.

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Speaker 3: Need a little bit of space. It's a little weird.

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Speaker 5: Wait, so you think Britton knows about that?

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Speaker 7: I would I would guess that she does, because you know,

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Speaker 5: I don't really know what to say about that.

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Speaker 6: You don't get down like that or I.

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Speaker 3: Get competitive during uh during those types.

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Speaker 7: Of things, and uh, yeah, I'm not good at sue projects,

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Speaker 7: all right.

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Speaker 2: I can see that. Yeah, you know, Hey, thank you

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Speaker 6: Also, no, not at all.

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Speaker 2: And I want to let you know that britt is

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Speaker 3: Uh what, okay, brut.

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Speaker 4: Hey, I wish someone would have told me that I

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Speaker 5: You had no idea that he used to suck up

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Speaker 4: Neither. I'm not that good at friends with Sabrina. She's

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Speaker 4: I only really see her in group setting. I don't

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Speaker 9: It's just like of course everybody, she's like, I'm not

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Speaker 9: going to technically steal her date if I include process,

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Speaker 9: I'll ask him first because guys will be down, and

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Speaker 4: Wo And the only thing we've ever done together is

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Speaker 3: But that's a little different than a reason. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: so you didn't know anything about that at all.

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Speaker 4: No, I didn't hear that from our mutual friend. I

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Speaker 4: didn't hear anything from her like if anything, I feel

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Speaker 4: like I would have hurt for her Instagram. But no, nothing,

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Speaker 4: And really, like I said, she's not back with her friends.

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Speaker 4: So that's like whenever you guys have like, I don't care.

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Speaker 4: I still love a second chance.

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Speaker 2: With you, John, Are you like gonna hook up with Sabrina?

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Speaker 3: Uh, I've done that already. I didn't didn't want to

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Speaker 3: keep doing that.

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Speaker 7: Would like to would like to go on a second date,

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Speaker 7: just just the two of us though, no, don't know her.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, sa Sean, you would like to go out with

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Speaker 6: Britt again? Yeah, we'll pay for.

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Speaker 3: That. Would be awesome, especially after the holidays.

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Speaker 7: But if that, if that could be a thing, you guys,

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Speaker 7: the whole thing about is just you know, me and

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Speaker 6: I think that would be Britt.

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Speaker 5: You don't care that he's hooked up with Sabrina.

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Speaker 4: No, he said in the past.

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Speaker 6: And okay, you want another date, Britt?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe we could do dinner or something where there's

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Speaker 4: only room for two of us. In the books, you of.

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Speaker 2: This wholesome dinner, they're going to be the only person

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Speaker 2: going on a second date in the restaurant is demanding

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Speaker 2: that they just make sure it's a table for two.

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Speaker 6: That's it. Nobody else at this table.

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Speaker 2: The waitress comes up, They're like, no, yeah, no, we

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Speaker 2: know what you're after. No, we're trying to go out

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Speaker 2: with each other. Well, Congratulations, you guys got another date.

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