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Speaker 1: Live from America's Greatest City, w k Chicago, Kiss FM

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Speaker 1: and I Heart Radio station. It's French Ship. Good morning everybody. Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: May seventeenth, The Fred Show is on h Klin Honor Bona.

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Speaker 1: Jason Brown is here, Rufio, Hello, Paul in a Row,

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Speaker 1: Hello Shelby, Shelley in a little bit. Glad you hear,

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Speaker 1: the entertainer reported about fifteen minutes after headlines and trending stories,

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Speaker 1: what are you're working on? Caitlin? After a week off,

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Speaker 1: Amber heard was back on the stand yesterday. I will

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Speaker 1: give you an update on what all went down. That's

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Speaker 1: not over them, it's not. We gotta keep we gotta

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Speaker 1: keep doing that. Yeah, okay, wow, great cool. It's a

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Speaker 1: back courtside or door court side, that'd be more fun.

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Speaker 1: Boy will court side next to the court. Our reporters there.

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Speaker 1: Doka Fretshow is on six seven one h three five

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago, Number one y music station and I

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Speaker 1: our radio app. You're listening there. You can click on

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Speaker 1: a microphone. I've never actually done this, of course, but

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Speaker 1: I'm told there's a microphone there. I mean, it would

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Speaker 1: be weird if I did talk back to our own

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Speaker 1: show that would be kind of strange. You could do

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Speaker 1: talk backs to my show on Saturday? Yeah? Oh really,

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Speaker 1: so you haven't had enough of me by Saturday? You

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Speaker 1: want me to do talkbacks? Should he use a guest appearance? Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well you never invite me on the program.

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Speaker 1: I'd invite you on this program every day, but you

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Speaker 1: never let me come on your Saturday morning program. You know,

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Speaker 1: upsetting you know, it's so successful. I'm not trying to

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Speaker 1: touch I understand that. No, you don't want to mess

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Speaker 1: with the formula one time? Is it on six to ten,

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Speaker 1: seven to ten, seven to ten on Saturday morning? That

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Speaker 1: Jason what we call it Saturday Morning Tea with Jason

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Speaker 1: Brown obviously because we have to have a name for

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Speaker 1: everything around here. I'm surprised he doesn't rise, it doesn't ry.

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Speaker 1: And what are some of the things that we do

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Speaker 1: on the Saturday Morning Tea? No, this is good. I'm

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Speaker 1: usually not an up in time, but I think I'm

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Speaker 1: sure listen back to it somehow. So what are some

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Speaker 1: of the things that we do on that show? We

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Speaker 1: play my Brittany is Free song of the Week. I

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Speaker 1: get to play a new Britney Spears song every Weekend.

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Speaker 1: Did I get to choose wow? Sighting from the Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how deep were you able to go? How deep are

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Speaker 1: you able to go? They don't give me access to

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Speaker 1: the whole catalog because they'd be dropping some This is

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Speaker 1: from her forgotten fourth Town cut, number seven target exclusive exactly,

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Speaker 1: Japanese version exactly. It's never reached the United States, but

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Speaker 1: I hear him Jason Brown down with Jason Brown rebrand.

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Speaker 1: I would listen to the deep cut, Brittany. I would

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Speaker 1: listen to that. Just think about it. You're the morning

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Speaker 1: show on the weekend. Wow, Yeah, it's a lot of me.

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Speaker 1: You are the superstar of Saturday morning, because everybody knows

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Speaker 1: they put the superstars in the morning. Everybody know, well

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Speaker 1: in most places they do that. Some places they do that,

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Speaker 1: not every place. Um so the talk back on the

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Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app. And by the way, Rufio goes through these,

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Speaker 1: so I have no idea how many there are, which

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Speaker 1: ones gets skipped over. If there are any that say,

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Speaker 1: like Fred, you're so good looking and talented, that may

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Speaker 1: not make it to me, of course that would make it.

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Speaker 1: I know that this one here about Rufio's laugh made

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Speaker 1: it over. Though. This must be a compliment. It must

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Speaker 1: get how compliments come on, guys, it must be a compliment.

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Speaker 1: Here a whole lot of a second. I want to

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Speaker 1: make sure I captured the whole thing. Must start changing

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Speaker 1: the description of the audio whatever, I'm still playing it.

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Speaker 1: Good morning everyone, I'm Chris. I just wanted to say,

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Speaker 1: you guys are a blessing. I love listening to you guys.

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Speaker 1: I may way to work. You guys can really turn

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Speaker 1: around any mood that I come into this car with

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Speaker 1: which y'all don't know me, but I can be really

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Speaker 1: irritated first thing in the morning. But I just want

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Speaker 1: to say thank you. And Rufio's laugh is probably the

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Speaker 1: best part of the show for me. Make me laugh,

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Speaker 1: dam or anything. Yeah, of course this one made it through.

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Speaker 1: The one that was like Fred, You's sexy, unbelievably sexy

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Speaker 1: beast in Kaylin one of the best looking radio people

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Speaker 1: I've ever seen Britain. You know what, she didn't even

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Speaker 1: Kaylin's one of the best looking people that she's ever seen. Somehow,

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Speaker 1: I actually had my mom do that one and it

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Speaker 1: didn't make it through. That's all we should do. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what we should do. I'm gonna start having people.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna start planting them. Job somehow that one got

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Speaker 1: that this is about Kaylin though. Listen, hey fri show.

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Speaker 1: This is Sarah Um listening to the podcast on Kiln's

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Speaker 1: blog about the eed ads. Um. When I'm listening to

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Speaker 1: I mean from your guys's app so that might be

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Speaker 1: why which one of us is putting out d that's

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Speaker 1: my endorsement. I got a lot of problems in the bedroom,

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Speaker 1: but that's not one of them. I'll kill you, Cait disease,

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Speaker 1: they got struck carrot. Hey man, those are the kinds

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Speaker 1: of messages I get. The money is great, The money

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Speaker 1: is great. Show one. This is what's trending. I bought

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Speaker 1: this bubble for my niece Polly to live in until

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't understand. I got Maybe I gotta

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Speaker 1: with all the different stuff to see what's wrong with, like,

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Speaker 1: it's not pleasant, but it doesn't hurt. It's just more

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Speaker 1: They were like, look at this guy, you know bender

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Speaker 1: you met? Uh huh, yeah, you know what. I actually

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Speaker 1: taist is what that is? No, that's it the other

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Speaker 1: guy's shop liver, because otherwise you say no, right, like,

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Speaker 1: she initiated the slide. Yeah, so you would say it's

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Speaker 1: get uncomfortable with what to say. Well, then you can't

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Speaker 1: I'm really trying to not exist. And I made that up.

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Speaker 1: That was a yes han that I regret. But whatever. Um,

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Speaker 1: The FDA, the head of the FDA is insisting that

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Speaker 1: by distribute distribution issues. If you're worried about baby formula,

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Speaker 1: which a lot of people aren't, despite his agency's shutting

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Speaker 1: down the nation's largest baby formula factory for months, the

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Speaker 1: concerned about the parents that are struggling to find formula

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Speaker 1: but you know, the number of stock on shelves is

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Speaker 1: about ninety percent before the recall dropped to about seventy

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Speaker 1: and the company that has been shut down has reached

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Speaker 1: an agreement with US health regulators to restart production at

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Speaker 1: its largest domestic factory, Shervin Shelley. All the baby formulas

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Speaker 1: she knows her way around them, because especially if I

421
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Speaker 1: were wearing a bikini while I was fly fishing, that

422
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,199
Speaker 1: would be very offensive. That would be amazing. We Colina,

423
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 1: we need to photoshop her fishman. Yeah right, LLL bead

424
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 1: Vladimir Putin's shirtless riding on a horse. People be like,

425
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 1: this man's ever ridden a horse in his life. Over

426
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: a rare contrary, I have, in fact ridden a horse

427
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 1: tale ranch camp that I hated so much I wrote

428
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 1: a horse It was called Cotton Tale Ranch. That was like,

429
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 1: that was the camp in California that I that I

430
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: accuse my parents of sending me to. And you're like

431
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: Cotton Tale Ranch, that's hilarious. Like Rod Stewart's kid and

432
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: a bunch of other people. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I

433
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 1: have stories, but I won't tell them because they have

434
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 1: a lot more money than me and I could get sued.

435
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 1: But oh yeah, yeah, I mean people can shoot rolling

436
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 1: up in a limo, dropped their kid off and stuff.

437
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 1: My mom thought it was the nicest thing she could

438
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: possibly do for me and saved up for money sent

439
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: me out to this thing because it was like my

440
00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 1: parents are getting a divorce. I just cried the whole time,

441
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: like a little wild I love that story though. That's

442
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 1: a cute name. Real quick, Eatie felco Ak. Carmela Soprano

443
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 1: com has been cast with Pete Davidson in his upcoming

444
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: peacock show bub Kiss. You also know her from Nurse Jackie,

445
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 1: and most recently, she played Hillary Clinton in the third

446
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,400
Speaker 1: season of American Crime Story on Fax Impeachment. I'm watching

447
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 1: it right now. She's amazing at playing Hillary. It's a

448
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 1: really good show. She'll be playing Pete's mom in the show,

449
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: which is a heightened, fictionalized version of his life, so

450
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: should be good. I love her. She's an amazing after

451
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: just more to check it online today. The person who

452
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: wore underwear to the grocery store and I'm not even joking.

453
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 1: Underwear and a bra to the grocery store. It's on

454
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 1: French radio dot com. Well, I wouldn't give to go

455
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 1: to cutt until Ranch today. SAME's still around. No, actually no, no,

456
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 1: you should buy it and reopen it. No, somebody we

457
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 1: know did buy it. Actually, oh yeah, this is a

458
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: story there. But um no, it was this horty torty

459
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: little summer camp for California kids and oh my god,

460
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 1: it kills down in two thousand and seven. Yeah, well

461
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 1: there were wildfires all over the place there, so it

462
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: was like not really safe a couple times that things

463
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: should have burned down because of all those you know,

464
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 1: California Calabasas, Malibu Hills whatever. Famous alumni. Oh Fred cried

465
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: the whole time. You think we can find a picture

466
00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 1: of you, I don't think it can need a sung

467
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 1: Brewster went there. I know, I just won't talking about

468
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:10,119
Speaker 1: he was a little twisted. Everybody had these, like all

469
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 1: the counselors had these nick I don't know if a

470
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: lot of camps were like this, because a lot of

471
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 1: people in the Midwest went to like church camp and

472
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: various kinds of summer camp. I know, I know a

473
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: guy who went, um, a bunch of guys went to

474
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 1: some summer camp. But then every summer they opened it

475
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: up for the or spring they opened it up for

476
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: like the alum, the people that now have money, and

477
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:28,719
Speaker 1: then they get to go back as like forty year

478
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 1: olds and drink and like relive their summer camp days. Um.

479
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, my parents were getting a divorce. I felt

480
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: like I was being shipped away. I had serious separation anxiety.

481
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: I still do. I cried night for my mom. It's

482
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: one of the reasons why the girls don't say to

483
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: night and um and yeah, no, I don't know. And

484
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 1: I look back on it now and I'm like, what

485
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: I wouldn't give to go shoot a rifle in the

486
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 1: mountain or I don't know what else we did there,

487
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: go to the beach and it was not there. It

488
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: was a horse there archery one horse. I had arch.

489
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 1: But I will say that over time they had to stop.

490
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: They had to start getting rid of all the fun

491
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: traditional camp stuff because like one kid got shot, didn't

492
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 1: he didn't die, but they had to get well. They

493
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: had to get rid of the rifles after that, and

494
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 1: then some kid got shot with the bow and arrow,

495
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,199
Speaker 1: so they had to get rid of that. And then

496
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: slowly but surely there was like no traditional camping like

497
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,239
Speaker 1: they had like computer coadingers. I don't know what they

498
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: had at the summer camp, but the counselors, I guess

499
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: they would go out that was That's my biggest regret

500
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 1: is I should have been a counselor because apparently that

501
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 1: was just one big being a counselor is you hook

502
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: up with exactly? That was just one big party. And

503
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: so they would go out like the week before the

504
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: campers showed up and they would get all hammered on

505
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: the beach. And then they would give each other nicknames,

506
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 1: so we had to call them. We didn't get to

507
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: call them by their first name. They had to call

508
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: them by their Like one guy's name was like chubby

509
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 1: and he wasn't fat, so can only imagine why children

510
00:25:55,480 --> 00:26:02,239
Speaker 1: were calling this man no. But like we were never

511
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: told what the what the meaning behind the nicknames were,

512
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: but we had to call them all this and it's

513
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: like that's a little messed up if you think about it. Well,

514
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: I was like calling this man chubby allso I don't know.

515
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: Um So Jacob, Happy birthday to Cheese at twenty six

516
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: years old. And she's apparently likes the bar rescue voice,

517
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: which I don't. I don't know, I don't know why,

518
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,640
Speaker 1: but but Cheese, I think he should have a sex

519
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: on the beach cocktail. It's known as much for his

520
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: provocative name is it's fruity, refreshing tarries. Have you seen

521
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: Bar Rescue yet, Jason, you have to watch this show.

522
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: You know exactly what I mean. It'll be like, you

523
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: have to watch we gotta make a cocktail program at

524
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 1: this bar. You guys don't know how to make drinks.

525
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,119
Speaker 1: And there's some guy that Fedora comes in and he

526
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 1: knows how to make a sex in the beach. And

527
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: then the announcer guy comes on when there's an animation

528
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 1: about what a section the beach cocktail is? What you

529
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: need it in Florida in nineteen eighty it includes announcing

530
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 1: a half of vodka, announcing a half a beach, knots

531
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 1: to have a shamboard, and it's carnage with a cocktail umbrella.

532
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: That's fun section of the beach rocks glass. You have

533
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: to you have to watch the show. You know what

534
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. I'm sure that just really woke everybody

535
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: up and they're like, why did you have to do that?

536
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 1: But if you watch Bar Rescue. You know, I don't

537
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: know where this guy lives in some caves somewhere in

538
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: Canada or something. He does the voice, but he has

539
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 1: to explain what everything is, okay, So like Taffer will

540
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: roll something out and then he'll give you like a

541
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 1: little historical fact about it, you know, like uh uh,

542
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 1: whatever the name of the bar is the I'm trying

543
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: to think of what the name one of the cheesy

544
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 1: ass names or one of the bars on Bar Rescue

545
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: off the Spot, you know, like the Crazy Cantee. Now

546
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 1: I think he's a fifteen hundred square foot bar with

547
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: a patio, a bar, two seed wow in one POS

548
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: system And that's the thing. The Bar Rescue goes in.

549
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: They paint the place, they put a bunch of TVs

550
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: up there, they put an orange door sound system in.

551
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: They put like two or three of those POS systems in,

552
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 1: and he adds like a speedwell and a turbo tap,

553
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: and then he gives everybody a Taffer Virtual Teaching and

554
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 1: um oh, he gives a membership to that bartender thing

555
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 1: where you apparently used the iPad. It takes a picture

556
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: of all the bottles in the bar and it will

557
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: tell you how much the inventory you have and then

558
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: like a couple of days later, you go through and

559
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: you take pictures again, and then you can see how

560
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: much alcohol was sold versus how much money you made. Oh,

561
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: I would have been busted my bartending days. Have you

562
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: seen the TikTok of him where he's like watching someone

563
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: make a drink and he's just like seven shot. He's

564
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: like going crazy over this. One guy's poor is like,

565
00:28:53,560 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: you're gonna kill this man. I would saw one yesterday.

566
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: He's got it. Yeah, he does have a TikTok. Now

567
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: where he was it was like an adult Capri son

568
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 1: that he was sambling, and he was very offended that

569
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: it looked like something that children should drink. Did. I

570
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: mean it was like a fifteen It was a thirty

571
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: proof drink, like a like a fruity drink and a

572
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: Capri soun pouch for adults that's popular though I like those.

573
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: But but it did look I mean, if you looked

574
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: at it from afar, you would not know that it

575
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: wasn't intended for adults and nut kids, like if you

576
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: had a kid in the house, they would grab I

577
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 1: think it was like a free son. So he was

578
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: right about that, But he was very upset about that,

579
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 1: about the way that it was marketed. John Taffer was

580
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: because he's out here saving lives. I just I need

581
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 1: him to come back to Chicago, because I think we're

582
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: going on as experts. Yeah, Fred and Rufio have a

583
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: large social media influence. They could shut down a bar

584
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: the stroke of a key. She's thought, I want to

585
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: be a six forty eight The Fresh Show. He's on

586
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: one of three five kids FM, Chicago's number one hit

587
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: music stage. So I think maybe the Taffer a voiceover

588
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: guy was too abrasive for this early. I don't think

589
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: anyone's listening anymore. I think everyone turned it off. I

590
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: think so. I think so. I think it was too embrasive.

591
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: I think it was too much. I went too far.

592
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: I went to fire spot on. It's a spot on impression.

593
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: It's really not bad. And I do think that Tafhor

594
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: needs to hear it one of these days, because it's

595
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: very well possible if that guy were to fall ill

596
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: for some reason. I don't wish that upon him, But

597
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: then I could take over and do that voice. I could.

598
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 1: I it's a dream come true. They add that to

599
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 1: the list I'd like to throw out the Cub's first pitch.

600
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: I'd like to be the vo guy in bar Rescue,

601
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: one of my favorite shows. Yes, in that voice or

602
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: in your voice? No, my voice. I'm not gonna would go.

603
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: I would kill myself trying to do that all day.

604
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to sound it sounds so angry. Why does

605
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: he sound so angry? He does sound angry, he does sounding.

606
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: And I met a couple of people yesterday and they

607
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: were like, oh my god, like the people I was

608
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: with Kathy Beemer, world famous Kathy Beemer. I'm spitting everywhere today.

609
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was wrong, like everywhere anyway. Um,

610
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: And she was with some people who listened to the show,

611
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: and I guess they I had never met them before.

612
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 1: And I I walk over to where they are and

613
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: they're like, oh that voice, you know, because they hear

614
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: me talk and they never didn't see me in person before.

615
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: And and my joke, I have a joke for you know,

616
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: face for radio joke, I have a comeback for all

617
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: the lines I've heard before, and it's I'm sure it's

618
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: better to listen and not have to see I say

619
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: that all the time. But I saw the guy because

620
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: Taffer used to do a show. It didn't last very long,

621
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: where he would like he was in a bar and

622
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: he had an audience, and then they would like it

623
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: was almost like a talk show. And then I forget

624
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: what was called like after the bar, after the l Yeah,

625
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: And it was a couple of seasons, a couple of

626
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,719
Speaker 1: years ago, and he would bring people on from past seasons,

627
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: and he would like to like sit on a stage.

628
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: But the guy who does that voice did it live.

629
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 1: So they would show him this guy and he has

630
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, he didn't look anything like I thought

631
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: he would look, and I kind of ruined it for me,

632
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: which is why sometimes I think, if you, if you

633
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: have any affinity from my voice, maybe it's better if

634
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: you don't have to look at me, you know, maybe

635
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,959
Speaker 1: it's better that way. Maybe you should just imagine all

636
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: of us what you think we look like and not

637
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: what we actually look like. You know, I mean, like

638
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: Kill and Pauline are good looking people. Jason's a good

639
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: looking good I'm saying a lot of radio people are

640
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: not good looking. And the voice is sometimes it used

641
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: to be this way. The voice was better than that.

642
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: What you know, you'd have this sexy guy and sexy

643
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: radio guy. And then you'd look at him and he

644
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: was like, you know, a circle, a human circle. Yeah,

645
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Nothing wrong with that, but

646
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: it's like you imagine in your head something different and

647
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: then but these days, you know, you got to look

648
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 1: at us because of all the social media and whatever.

649
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: Our whole team is beautiful, every single one of them.

650
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 1: I think all of you guys are very beautiful. Guys

651
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: are beautiful. Come on, now, you're a good looking good dude. No,

652
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think i've ball in that category.

653
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: I think I am a face for radio person or

654
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: the voice for radio. Oh no, people think that I

655
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: don't look the way I do. I think one dude's

656
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: like years ago, he's like, I thought you were a

657
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: blonde bombshell, when I was like, furthest thing from it, Honey,

658
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: I'm a bombshell, just not blonde. Oh yeah, but like

659
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: one that the way you did that was a better

660
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: than the way you started. Yeah, that's the kind of

661
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: confidence I need you to put out. Thank you. I

662
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: love me. But I guess my point of that was

663
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: like I don't think I matched my voice at all. Well,

664
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 1: a lot of people thought or think I'm black, So

665
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: a lot of people do a lot of people thought then, So,

666
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: I mean I couldn't be any whiter. I'm wearing a

667
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: sea foam colored shirt there. Yeah, they better than they

668
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: the radio blocks. I mean, you know, I think it

669
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: would make me whiters if I had like a golf club,

670
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: country club membership or something. That'd be the only thing

671
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: that would make me whiter. Look coming from a bowling

672
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: alley from my you know, if you know anybody wearing

673
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: c foam with the old bowling alley over at Diversity Lanes,

674
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,959
Speaker 1: if you know anybody wearing c foam, then they are

675
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: whale at well ahead of their time in the fashion game. Okay,

676
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: just because I had my signature on the back of

677
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: the ship the shirt, why we weren't sunglasses and a

678
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: glove right now? Just because it says storm Bowling on

679
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: the front of my shirt does not mean this is

680
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: a golf sponsorship. Unbelievable. All of my outfits have my

681
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: signature on the back of it. Come on, people, it's

682
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm a trend center over here. And if you don't

683
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,839
Speaker 1: want PBA bowling mab you have no idea what we're

684
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 1: talking about. All the bowlers have their signature on the

685
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: back of the shirts for some reason. I don't know why.

686
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: That is, just it's like a bowler thing. You gotta

687
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: you gotta have the signature in the back of the shirt.

688
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't know why. It's like like a real tour

689
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: has to have their their photograph on the business card.

690
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: I don't know why the signs oftentimes too, I don't

691
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 1: I'm sure there must be a reason why. I don't

692
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: know the reason why. But realtors do more photoshoots than

693
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 1: media personalities. I'm not even finish your real estate license. Man,

694
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: I can't pass that test. Have you tried to get

695
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: pass it? Yeah? I've taken it. Really, I haven't passed.

696
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: Don't take it once. But I have a pass. I need.

697
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:54,800
Speaker 1: You need to finish. I know I already got it,

698
00:34:55,000 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: so I need to pass. Cross my mid section. Summertime

699
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: is coming. I'm gonna be shortly soon. It says my

700
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: girls are real tour and you're not. What am I

701
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 1: gonna do When people come over to me and they go, oh, really,

702
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 1: give me her card. I'm looking to buy a property.

703
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: It scot Paulina's face with the phone number, and you're

704
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: blonde in on the tattoo, which is the worst part

705
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: your blonde bombshell. You are like ninety where people think

706
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: I'm a blonde bombshell. Okay. Paul Kalyn do a blog

707
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 1: audio journals at six fifty and eight fifty dear blog.

708
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: So Um, I am continuing to live vicariously through my sister.

709
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: She is a senior in high school and she's just

710
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 1: reminding me of like all the things we did. She is,

711
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,720
Speaker 1: she's committed to Michigan State. She's having a grad party.

712
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: She had prom over the weekend. She looks like she

713
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 1: was twenty five in those pictures. It's very up. And

714
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: you know what's funny is waiters will when we all

715
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 1: go out to dinner give her the wineglass and not me.

716
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,479
Speaker 1: Like they'll be like, oh, do you want to pop?

717
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 1: And I'm like, sir, I'm thirty. They literally like she

718
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: does look Yeah, she looks grown up. She's but she

719
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: doesn't like when she gets made up, she looks grown

720
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 1: up when she's like just chilling, less grown up. But

721
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: like she can she can convert herself into like the

722
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 1: twenty five year old. Yeah, it's frightening, which is terrifying. Yeah,

723
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: so she looked beautiful at from um and she I've

724
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 1: just learned that you guys don't do water wars here,

725
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: or you didn't do it in Arizona. Right now, what

726
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: is it? Okay? So she just made it to the

727
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 1: final round of water wars. I'll tell you what it is, okay.

728
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,399
Speaker 1: So every team puts in money and then if you win,

729
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 1: you get all that money. So you could win like

730
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: hundreds of dollars individually, and you form a team and

731
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 1: the goal is to get no laughter the other team wet.

732
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: But you you you get people out by squirting them,

733
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 1: okay with a square gun or a sprinkler or whatever.

734
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 1: But it's played by the seniors. You can win a

735
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: ton of money. And they keep getting through the rounds

736
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: though on technicalities, and it's making me very upset. My

737
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 1: set dad called me and he's like, I'm a little ashamed,

738
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 1: Like she's not getting anybody out, She's she's just avoiding

739
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 1: getting wet. Yeah. So the first round they got a

740
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: team member out because on the opposite team because they

741
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,439
Speaker 1: ran a red light that's not allowed, Like you can't

742
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: shoot anybody at school, you can't shoot anybody going into

743
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,839
Speaker 1: their job, only coming out. It's like a whole thing.

744
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 1: So I'm very complicated, and who's the judge? Are you

745
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: like self policing this kind of yeah, and you can

746
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 1: send videos and stuff, but it's like who I mean

747
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,959
Speaker 1: now with ring cams. My mom sends me every morning

748
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: like boys and our bushes, trying to get them out

749
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: because yeah, it's very competitive. It sounds fun actually borderline

750
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 1: like we're teaching kids out of stock stuff like I

751
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: don't know about. Well, there's roles like you can't go

752
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: into somebody's house uninvited. Well that's nice. Our friend Mojo

753
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: Son is playing right now though, and he got mad

754
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: at him and I heard him on his Show'll be like, listen,

755
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 1: come over, I'll let you right in the house to

756
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: shoot him because if somebody in the house then you

757
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 1: can water wars. Yeah, we never had that. You never

758
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: did this roof, No guy. You guys all grew up

759
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: a yeah. Maybe it's some Michigan thing. So it's like

760
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: a senior thing. So they advanced to one round, but

761
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: they did it on a coin toss. I'm very like,

762
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 1: you gotta get people. Did you guys have any senior

763
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 1: traditions like that? We had a senior skip day, but

764
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,320
Speaker 1: we asked for permission for it before we did it.

765
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: You asked for permission to skip school. Yeah, I hope

766
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: they know. I went to school with forty two by

767
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: two shoes. They're all like scientists and doctors now. And yes,

768
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 1: we had a senior skip tab, but we asked if

769
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: we could do it. Did you have an all night party?

770
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: We had a lock in after prom, but you only

771
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: went to that like because again you had to go

772
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 1: to prom all four years at my school because you're

773
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: one enough people to fill a room otherwise you can

774
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: go three at mine. And so like freshman year, we'd

775
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: go to the lock in or whatever. But then then

776
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: we discovered alcohol. It was like you went to the

777
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: this case, it was the gym and they had like

778
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: food and games and music music, but you went there

779
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: after problem you didn't. You couldn't leave until like six am,

780
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: so it was like they entertained you. But it was

781
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: also so you weren't at all night drinking, right, so

782
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: you and all your friends could hang out, but like

783
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 1: you know, you were supervised. Basically, did you have to go? No,

784
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 1: but everybody did because there was nowherelse because noe of

785
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: us could drive at the time, but then once everyone

786
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: could start driving and then we discovered booze, then um,

787
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 1: we started doing other things. Yeah, parties. Yeah, we had

788
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: an all night party, but that was separate. But yeah,

789
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: I don't know she. I'm living through her, so it's

790
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: sart to see now graduation is coming up. Well, but yeah,

791
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 1: she could win like a ton of money. You didn't

792
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 1: have on the South side, Paulina. You didn't have any traditions.

793
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 1: We do Senior Ditch Day, so that was already got

794
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,800
Speaker 1: You didn't ask for permission. She didn't animation. We're like

795
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: right there by the Oblaski train station, so that would

796
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: just get filled with seniors and juniors too would come.

797
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: We went to Roosevelt Beach, twelve Street Beach, that's where

798
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 1: we would go. But that was it. I mean, we're

799
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: kind of lame. Yeah, yeah, there's no like lockups. So

800
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: whatever you guys did, are you planning? You know? That

801
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: was what was it? Locked up? That was a different thing.

802
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: So we did have our reunion, but it was during

803
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: the pandemic. Oh so yeah, I didn't get to go

804
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 1: to it, and I think like there was two different

805
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 1: groups planning and it was weird. It was like a battle.

806
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: It was like nasty. Get those bicebook groups get weird

807
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 1: because everybody's like an adults now with jobs, but you're

808
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 1: arguing over like where to have your It was at

809
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: your reunion, you remember, I was busy for mine. I

810
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: didn't Oh my god, that was a whole topic on

811
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 1: the show for a while. I didn't go. Yeah, I

812
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: didn't go to either one of mine either. I did.

813
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: I missed the ten and the twenty. Yeah. I was

814
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: gonna bring a blonde bomb show with hat. But it

815
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: was busy though. Yeah, she was busy. Couldn't go stair

816
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: go friend shows back after these words. Show life from

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Speaker 1: America's Greatest City UK Chicago five Kiss FM and my

818
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: heart radio station. It's a Friendshi morning everybody, thank you

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00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: for being here. We love you, appreciate you. Seven eleven,

820
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: It's Tuesday in May seventeenth. Kalns here, Hi, Hello owner Butter,

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823
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Speaker 1: seven game win streak going through the old dms. Here

824
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825
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: the show insta the fred show TikTok. That's up there too.

826
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: Fred on Aara's mind. I went to a small this

827
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: is from my ellen, and went to a small Catholic school.

828
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: Our principal was so amazing that we were the class

829
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: to skip senior skip day. He ended up giving us

830
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: a second school picnic. Wow, that's nice. He had like

831
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: an endorsed day, said Romero says, we had the same

832
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: thing here too, talking about euro water Wars. Oh yeah,

833
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: instead of water guns, we use nerf guns played by

834
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: all the seniors, and we used to win lots of money,

835
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 1: or we win lots of money. Let's see what else here.

836
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 1: Mallory says, never too early for the bar rescue stuff.

837
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: I love it. But Freddie forgot to mention Taffer's famous

838
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 1: butt funnel. It's true. Have you seen the episode about

839
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 1: the butt funnel. He doesn't talk about it as much anymore,

840
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 1: but it was a He claims he patented this invention

841
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: where if there was like a passageway in a bar,

842
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 1: like where people would go from the dance floor to

843
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 1: the bar, he put like a like a pipe sort

844
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,399
Speaker 1: of rail in so that people were forced to sort

845
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: of brush each other as they passed. As a way

846
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: of like he saw it. I mean, I think now

847
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: maybe it's come off come off a little like sexual,

848
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: so maybe he stopped putting them in. But it was

849
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: a way for people to like pass each other and

850
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 1: like actually physically brush each other, so that he said

851
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: that it promoted human contact in communication or something. But

852
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: he called it the butt funnel, and in early seasons

853
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 1: of the show he used to put him in all

854
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 1: the bars. It was like, look, you know, people are

855
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:41,320
Speaker 1: forced to kind of like bump into each other. I

856
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: don't know he stopped doing it, so there must be

857
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: no sort of legal reason or something. Alice said, My

858
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,800
Speaker 1: high school would make announcements all the week before. Remember

859
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: when you feel sick on Monday, have your parents call

860
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: you out. They didn't want to deal with all the

861
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 1: unexcused phone calls. So there you go. A lot of

862
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 1: people do this. I'm trying to think of anything we did.

863
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: You guys didn't. We didn't do anything like that. I

864
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: don't know why did you do? Like those awards, what

865
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: are they called most Reclusive? Yeah? Yeah, I didn't get

866
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: any of them, though. I think I was most likely

867
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: to be a loser or something. But it didn't work.

868
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 1: Stop that I'm kidding. Well, maybe I'm the know. How

869
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: big was your yearbook? To three pages? I was more

870
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: of a leaflet. It's more of a pamphlet, like a

871
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: little kindergar because school, well, the yearbook was the whole school.

872
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: The yearbook was cater twelve, so it was everybody. Did

873
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: you have a kindergarten? Say? Can you sayd my yearbook?

874
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: That would have been cute. No. I actually found it

875
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 1: your book recently, and I was like looking back at

876
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: all the funny things that I mean, like people you

877
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: write in the yearbook like have a good everyone, have

878
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: a good summer next year. The one is addition to

879
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: too cool to be forgotten. I was like, okay, oh

880
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: there was stuff like that, and then oh yeah yeah,

881
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: and then like you're good friends sometimes like or a

882
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: girl that when you were really close with, he would

883
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: like exchange your books for the weekend so you could

884
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: actually write like a real thing. Like there were a

885
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 1: few like real notes in mine from people that I

886
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 1: was closer with. Ye, And then I assumed that I

887
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: wrote in theirs too. There was always that person they

888
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: wanted to sign at their picture. I'm like, god, sign

889
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: in the back where everyone else is signing. Why you

890
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: got to put an autograph in front of your picture.

891
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: I feel like I probably wrote some weird stuff. I

892
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: feel like that too. I feel like you did too.

893
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 1: Yet have you ever done the exercise? And I actually

894
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 1: did this recently because I found that yearbook where I

895
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 1: went and tried to look some of these people up

896
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: to see what they look like now, like I had

897
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: a crush on actually in the yearbook I found was

898
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 1: my freshman yearbook, and I had some major crushes on

899
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: girls that were older than me. Oh yeah, And so

900
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: I tried to find that some of them are impossible

901
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: to if. I don't know what happens to people, but

902
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 1: some people are like they disappear, and I don't. I

903
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: don't know how you do that in this Maybe I'm

904
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: just not a very good sleuth. Maybe I should give

905
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: it to Rufio and he'll find out. But I guess

906
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 1: people you know, that would be their maiden name and

907
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: they've changed their last name. And some people I can't find.

908
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: But a couple of people I found, and well, you know,

909
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: and some people age better than others. I'll put it

910
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: that way, I believe, and this is not an egostatement,

911
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: but I believe if you were to look at a

912
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: picture of me my freshman year in high school, in

913
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: a picture of me now, even though I gained probably

914
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 1: fifty pounds sixty pounds, I think I look better now

915
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: than I did then. Like I filled out, I was

916
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: a stick my ears, like you know, we're stuck way out,

917
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: and I don't know, a little weight, A little weight

918
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 1: helped me out a little bit. Um. But some people

919
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: I think peaked in high school. Yeah, and we know

920
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 1: who those people are, you know, because I've also looked

921
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: up some of those folks, like either were always and

922
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: I don't know if in bigger schools, I'm sure it

923
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 1: was this way, but there are always the people who

924
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 1: were like the jocks or the ones that we're gonna go,

925
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: like the really like classically good looking kids that every

926
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 1: every girl wanted and whatever, and and and they got

927
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: to they got in their head so they started to

928
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 1: have swag and feel like they were, you know, whatever,

929
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: and it's like they're not really doing anything now, you know,

930
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: it's like but in high school, and it's kind of sad,

931
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: I mean thinking, but like high school was probably their

932
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 1: most popular era because now you look at what they're

933
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: doing and it's like they're not actually doing anything now,

934
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 1: so they didn't really live up to the hype, right.

935
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 1: And the worst ones are the ones that still live

936
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: in your hometown. They're still there thinking they're raising the

937
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: next generations of them. I'm like, oh, God, get a life.

938
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 1: That bar you go back, like what are you doing?

939
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: I remember my parents used to say that to me

940
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: growing up too. They're like, because and I can tell

941
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: you they're a couple of their names. I won't say them,

942
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 1: of course, but like this one guy in particular, I

943
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: can remember his I remember the name of the guy.

944
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 1: He was good looking, tall, athletic, good at all the sports.

945
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: All the girls liked him. Uh, And it was like,

946
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 1: you wait, that guy. You're going to do more than

947
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 1: that guy, we promise you. And you never want to

948
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: hear that because it doesn't help you then at the

949
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: time yet you know, and it's like, I whatever, you're

950
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 1: just saying that, and it's you know, I can't say

951
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: that it's true. He's a lawyer. He did, okay, But

952
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 1: like at the same time, I just remember he was

953
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: and he was mean. He was he was like the

954
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: mean good looking guy too, you know. Um, And it

955
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 1: was just wait. You know your time will come here

956
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 1: and it will come later and you'll like it better

957
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,399
Speaker 1: this way. And I'm like, I don't believe you. Tell

958
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: my sister that too. Like the things that you think

959
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: matter now, they just won't, you know, because I was

960
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: scrawny and I had bad teeth, and like it was

961
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: like someday you're gonna fill out, you know, your teeth

962
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: will be perfect and the whole thing, and and you'll

963
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: be successful and you won't you'll look back on these days.

964
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 1: And just thought it was my mom just trying to

965
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 1: make me feel better, but she was right, because what

966
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: are the parents. I wonder what the parents tell the

967
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: kids that on the other side, Like, you're peaking right now,

968
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 1: so like this is as good as it's gonna get to, Like,

969
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:39,400
Speaker 1: soak it up, kid, Like you're probably not gonna be

970
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 1: that cool, but like right now, if this is it, Yeah,

971
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: enjoying the moment honestly, Like we're so proud of you

972
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: right now. It is a good chance that you're gonna

973
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 1: fall off, so like, just soak it all in. Take

974
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: a lot of pictures, yell, save that exactly. Yeah, that

975
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 1: high school football ring. Make sure you keep that thing polished, right,

976
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: You're never gonna take it off. I'm sure that's not

977
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: with the parents. Tell those kids. Most of the people

978
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: in this maybe not you, Calin, but I feel like

979
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,879
Speaker 1: most of the people in the room were that kid,

980
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,720
Speaker 1: Like most of the people were in broadcasting in radio.

981
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: We were the kid that would didn't peak. Yet I

982
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:21,959
Speaker 1: think you, no, you're still peaking. I'm the same person

983
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: I was ten fifteen, still peaking though. I think Calin

984
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: was cool in high school though, and I'm not saying

985
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: that you peaked them, but I think of all of

986
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: us you, I think we're probably actually cool. In high school.

987
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: I was not. I was just in the middle. I

988
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: was not cool. I wasn't done cool. Same yeah, I

989
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: was just there, like we just existed. But at a

990
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: high school. Like it's weird because in movies I thought

991
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: going to high school because I watched a lot of

992
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 1: like those you know, nineties, I was like, oh, we're

993
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: gonna be eating lunch outside and ten things I hate

994
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: about everyone's gonna be like, you know, clicky, and like

995
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: my high school was so cool. We're like I mean that. Yeah.

996
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, I guess we're pretty diverse,

997
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 1: Like we had a majority of other races, but I

998
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 1: still felt like everybody was just really cool. It was

999
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 1: so dope. Yeah, Like I wish I for everybody because

1000
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:03,479
Speaker 1: I've been you know, in movies. I was like, we're gonna,

1001
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: you know, be driving in the parking lot and all

1002
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 1: these things. The nerds it over there. Yeah, I wonder

1003
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: how I would have done in an environment like that,

1004
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 1: because I I was cooler and got better looking girls

1005
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: at the public school near my house than I did

1006
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 1: at my school. Yeah. Like, but think there were fifteen

1007
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: hundred people per class at that school, right, so like

1008
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 1: I met people over there, So I mean there was

1009
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 1: this there was a spot for everybody. I feel like

1010
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: like I wasn't you know, I don't know that the

1011
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 1: groups were so much bigger as far as like I

1012
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 1: went to school with forty two people, so there were

1013
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,839
Speaker 1: like four jocks and they were like four loser kids.

1014
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:40,839
Speaker 1: And those loser kids, by the way, are like tech

1015
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: millionaires now, so whatever. But then like I would go

1016
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 1: to like I would hang out at public school parties.

1017
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: I would do so much better. I don't know. It's

1018
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: just one of those things. It's hard to get the perspective.

1019
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: It's wild. It is, and I'm glad that wasn't the

1020
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 1: best time in my life. I'll tell you that that.

1021
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: In like college, people are like, this is the best

1022
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: time of your life. Man, I'm like, I really hope

1023
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 1: not the same college they used to say that in

1024
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:02,919
Speaker 1: high school. Like, yeah, man, these are the best days

1025
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: of our lives. College was pretty great, but I miss

1026
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: it every day. It was pretty good. I can think

1027
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 1: of a few nights in college where I wish I

1028
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 1: could relive those times. But I think my thirties were

1029
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 1: the best. Yeah, the past ten years are probably the

1030
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: best years of my life. The thirties have been great.

1031
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 1: Forties have been great. Thirties brought me here. I mean,

1032
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,800
Speaker 1: I got this job right after my thirtieth birthday, and

1033
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: I was not too excited about being thirty. Oh wow,

1034
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: I was less excited about being forty for some reason.

1035
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: But yet it just keeps getting better. It's awesome, it

1036
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: really does. And I'm not just saying that to make

1037
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,360
Speaker 1: people feel better, Like it really just it continues to

1038
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: get better. I don't know, a little bit of expendable income,

1039
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: that's right, you know, a little salt and pepper hair

1040
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 1: in high school, Like, nothing will compare to the feeling

1041
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: when you knew like a friend's parents were out of

1042
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 1: town for the weekend, Like I will never be that

1043
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 1: excited again. I will say that I had this conversation

1044
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: with somebody else. I don't mean to make this depressing,

1045
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: but it's like there are certain firsts, there are certain

1046
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: like feelings that you just can't get back. Like Friday

1047
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 1: at three o'clock, you're six teen years old, you have

1048
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: a driver's license in a car, and you're like driving

1049
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: away from school and it's like the world's your oyster,

1050
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,760
Speaker 1: you know, like I can do whatever I want or whatever,

1051
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: like the last day of school and you got the

1052
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 1: whole summer and it's like I don't have to do

1053
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And I don't know, and

1054
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,440
Speaker 1: you can't you can't recreate that, and I know it's

1055
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: like different stuff, but like, remember this is worse. Maybe

1056
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: you guys still feel this way, but remember how you

1057
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,839
Speaker 1: felt about like a girl, you know, like and how

1058
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 1: nervous you were to talk to her, and like how

1059
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 1: nervous you were to ask her out, and like certain

1060
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 1: physical things that you might do that were sort of

1061
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: like new and fresh at the time, like's it's not

1062
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: that way anymore, Like it's it doesn't feel that way anymore.

1063
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 1: I kind of still feel that way if I have

1064
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: a crush. I mean, I don't have any first left,

1065
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 1: but I don't here. I thought taking all that magic,

1066
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 1: you know, no first left here. Well I could think

1067
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: in one or two, but that's for the podcast. The

1068
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 1: next West of Tom trolling me on Twitter. Sometimes I

1069
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 1: wonder if he's my friend or if he does an

1070
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: it like me. But I do appreciate that he doesn't

1071
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: miss anything I wishes. You know what, what I've grown

1072
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,879
Speaker 1: to expect from everybody. I expect all thirteen to listen

1073
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: to each minute. Yes for Peel, speaking of West of Tom,

1074
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: what was your first car when you were sixteen? What

1075
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: was it? I had a Mustang? Whoa, And he goes

1076
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: sweet brag saying that you're rich enough to have a

1077
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:30,320
Speaker 1: car at sixteen, And there's a correction there. It's sweet

1078
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: brag saying my parents had good enough credit to buy

1079
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 1: me a car at sixteen. I had nothing. I had

1080
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 1: nothing back, notch back, you must oh. No, I had

1081
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: a sweet car. I had a Mustang convertible. Oh like

1082
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 1: vanilla ice style. Yeah, yeah, well it was slightly newer

1083
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: than that. Yeah I was. I was late nineties. Yeah.

1084
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,240
Speaker 1: Oh oh no, I had a nice car, the rounded,

1085
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,840
Speaker 1: the rounded US. Oh no, they hooked me up my

1086
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:02,399
Speaker 1: parents out. I was the drop top ten drop top

1087
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 1: tang had a little stereo system in there. Oh yeah,

1088
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 1: I was. I was doing okay. Yeah. My parents were

1089
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,840
Speaker 1: not dumb though, because they got me that car. And

1090
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 1: as soon as they got and they got it from me,

1091
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: and I'm very grateful, but as soon as they did,

1092
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: I was amanda shuttle. Oh yeah, I was the Amanda's shuttle. Hey,

1093
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: go pick up your sister at dance, like I don't

1094
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,720
Speaker 1: want to, okay, well, then give it the keys here, okay,

1095
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,439
Speaker 1: all right, they go pick up go take her sister

1096
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,479
Speaker 1: to her friend's house. Go do they take a sister

1097
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: to school? Pick her up at school? They're not dumb, No,

1098
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: they were smart. It was a good it was a

1099
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: good trade off. At a damn car seat in my

1100
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: back seat. It looked like I was a teen mom,

1101
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: because you guys are eleven years apart, right, thirteen thirteen,

1102
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: So I was driving around. Sometimes she wouldn't be in there,

1103
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 1: but i'd have a car seat. People be like, yo,

1104
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:45,839
Speaker 1: what's up? Well pick up boys. By the way, two

1105
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: teachers have hit me up in the DM saying that

1106
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: they still get that three thirty Friday feeling leaving school.

1107
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a school, So I don't know. I just

1108
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. When I roll out of hear it

1109
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 1: whatever time on Friday. I mean, yes, it's nice, but

1110
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel quite the same. It's not this is

1111
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: that quite the same level of freedom. But I wouldn't

1112
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: trade I wouldn't trade it, Like I like the adult

1113
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: freedom better than the kid freedom, and says something could

1114
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: do with that expendable way, a little couple of bucks,

1115
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 1: you know, couplet eight five five three five. Grace has

1116
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 1: been hanging on for like forever. Hi, Grace, Sorry, good morning, Hi,

1117
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: good morning. Hey. So sir goo um and we're over

1118
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: here reminiscing about yesteryear. But instead I would like to

1119
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 1: hear about you and your boyfriend, and we'd like to

1120
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:36,720
Speaker 1: solve all of your life's problems right now. Please go ahead. Okay,

1121
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 1: So I was actually calling about my boyfriend Michael. Um.

1122
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: So we've been dating for like two years about like

1123
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: a little under Um. I love him so much, and honestly,

1124
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: like I see myself with him brober Um. But I

1125
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 1: have this issue that he was married before meeting and

1126
00:54:57,440 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: so he actually has kids with his wife, and they

1127
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 1: just finalize the divorce a few months ago, and it

1128
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 1: was fresh and still like when we started dating, like

1129
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: their divorce was fresh. They were still co parenting, and

1130
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: so they have like a good relationship. The kids have

1131
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: a good relationship with the acts. They still take trips

1132
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: together and everything. But it makes me really uncomfortable, And

1133
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 1: I hate this because like I'm listening to myself say this,

1134
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:26,839
Speaker 1: and I know that it's petty. And they do stay

1135
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 1: in separate rooms. They're very respectful, like when it comes

1136
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: to overnight trips, you know, they don't sleep in the

1137
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: same bed. They both feel it's important for the kids

1138
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 1: to see them together and getting along because they are

1139
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 1: mom and dad. Michael like makes it clear that he

1140
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: the only reason why I met invited is because like

1141
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: it might make things complicated with the kids, and so

1142
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: once that once we are married, things might change, you know,

1143
00:55:56,280 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 1: like once we start to start our journey, like as

1144
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: a married couple, things may change. But they've been on

1145
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: two trips already since we started dating, and they have

1146
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: one more planned and so he checks in like with

1147
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: her when or I'm sorry when he's gone, Like he

1148
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:20,239
Speaker 1: calls me all the time and says, you know, like

1149
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: I miss you, I love you. Everything's fine, like the

1150
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: kause they're good, you know, like there's nothing I have

1151
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 1: to worry about. But I still have this gut feeling

1152
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 1: like I'm jealous and I hate it and I don't

1153
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 1: know how to overcover. And so you think you should

1154
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 1: be included then on this stuff, Well I do, because

1155
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 1: it's like that's the past, right, Okay. I love the children.

1156
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: I understand they're not my kids. But at the same time,

1157
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 1: like I am of the opinion that like you can't

1158
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: really if you have that past relationship with a person,

1159
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 1: you cannot. I mean you can, but you can't just

1160
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 1: forget the past, you know, sexual encounters and that kind

1161
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: of stuff. And so for me, I'm like, is there

1162
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:05,360
Speaker 1: always rooming for that to happen again when I'm around

1163
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: and you are involved with their lives like for example, yes, yes,

1164
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 1: but you just don't get invited on the trips, probably

1165
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: because I don't get I don't get to come with. No,

1166
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: I never get to come with And he's he's very transparent, Like,

1167
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 1: it's not because she doesn't like me, it's because they

1168
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 1: want to keep this, you know, this image of you know,

1169
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 1: mom and dad are still you know, the biggest part

1170
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: of your life. And I'm not invited. She still loves

1171
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 1: include me by calling me and letting me know everything's okay,

1172
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: but I'm never invited. Yeah, I'm sure that's hurtful, but

1173
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I wouldn't leave a relationship for

1174
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 1: that because I don't. If they wanted to be together,

1175
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 1: they would be. And I also I can understand and

1176
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 1: appreciate what they're trying to create or what they're trying

1177
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 1: to show their children. And also would you want to

1178
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 1: be with a guy who had had a completely dysfunctional

1179
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 1: relationship with his ex wife? I mean, like, imagine what

1180
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 1: does that mean for you? You know, if if there's

1181
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: hatred and venom and they can't they can't you know,

1182
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:03,919
Speaker 1: even feigned the idea of being together for their kids.

1183
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 1: And in this case, it sounds like it's not feigning.

1184
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 1: It sounds like they actually maybe care for and like

1185
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 1: each other enough to to to do this for their kids,

1186
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 1: you know, to they're not together anymore, and and obviously

1187
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 1: he has a girlfriend and that's you. But I mean,

1188
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 1: at the same time, it sounds like for them, my

1189
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 1: parents got divorced, they could have never pulled this off.

1190
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: They would have killed each other. Yeah, terrifying, but um

1191
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, And so I don't know, I don't. I

1192
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: feel like maybe what it requires is a little just

1193
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 1: a little more time, you know, maybe once you guys

1194
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 1: are married and that relationship is is uh, it's you know,

1195
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: I don't legally established or really like I'm morally established

1196
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 1: or whatever it is, then you start getting included. But

1197
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: if you if you didn't get included, then then I

1198
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 1: would say something really weird is going on, because once

1199
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 1: you're married, like then I don't know, it's a package

1200
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: deal in my opinion. But girlfriend boyfriend, I don't know.

1201
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: You could say those boyfriend and girlfriends they come and

1202
00:58:56,960 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: go sometimes, so it's you know, and they have that

1203
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 1: history together too, And I understand, I am. I agree.

1204
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 1: We're on the same page as far as like, you know,

1205
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: we're both a girlfriend husband wife means something else. You

1206
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 1: cannot erase their history that they have together. I do understand,

1207
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: you know, I suppose that is a good point. You know,

1208
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: wait to see what things look like after we get married,

1209
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: because if they continues them, that sending a different message.

1210
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 1: I don't think they're going on vacations to go sleep together.

1211
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:29,600
Speaker 1: It's you know, I think they're going on vacations because

1212
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:32,959
Speaker 1: they have kids together and it's healthy for their kids

1213
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 1: to see. I think they're going on vacation because it's

1214
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 1: healthy for their children to see that they can still

1215
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: get along and that they can, you know, collectively love

1216
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: the kids, and you know, there can be some form

1217
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 1: of a unit. Um. I guess at some point, yeah,

1218
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 1: you need to be included in that. But I don't

1219
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: know if i'd leave quite yet. But let me take

1220
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 1: some phone calls on this nine one one on three

1221
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 1: to five. Grace. I hear what you're saying, and I

1222
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: wish you the best of luck. Okay, thank you, Carol,

1223
00:59:57,800 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: Which you want to say, Oh, I mean, I was

1224
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,440
Speaker 1: just gonna tell her her feelings are valid. I think

1225
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: those are just some feelings that you need to kind

1226
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 1: of deal with on your own. I mean, obviously, you know,

1227
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 1: we've been the kid in that situation. But I understand

1228
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: why she would feel a little uneasy that she's going

1229
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 1: on vacation with her act However, I don't think she

1230
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: should say anything or do anything about it. I agree

1231
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:16,560
Speaker 1: with you, but I don't know the kids. I don't

1232
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: think it's because they're sleeping together. No, but but I

1233
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 1: think anyone would feel a little like odd or I

1234
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: would feel so left out. Yeah, but like, but when

1235
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 1: do you change it up? Like? How long are you

1236
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 1: going to keep this? They just got divorced, though, and

1237
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,440
Speaker 1: those kids are young. But I think it engagement or

1238
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: a marriage. There's something more permanent, I think. But but

1239
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 1: what was his name? She was raced, She she was involved.

1240
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 1: She's been involved with these kids for two years now.

1241
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 1: As it pertains to the relationship with the wife, I mean,

1242
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: it's not it's not like they can't have their own

1243
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: life over here. Now we're talking about blending an entire unit, right,

1244
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 1: And I don't know, Maybe the wife's uncomfortable with that

1245
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 1: because she wants to see more stability, she wants to

1246
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: see longer term out of that relationship. Awesome for the kids, though,

1247
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 1: I mean I would dream of a situation like that

1248
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 1: with parents' and I think I think, you know, as

1249
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:08,919
Speaker 1: I've said, I feel like maybe this woman, maybe maybe

1250
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 1: this woman just wants to show the kids that mom

1251
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 1: and dad still care enough about each other, which is

1252
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 1: because the girlfriend wasn't you know, she's not the mom

1253
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 1: of these kids. She's the stepmom, and that's important and

1254
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: sounds like she's active and involved. But I guess I

1255
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 1: can understand why she doesn't like it, But I also

1256
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 1: don't necessarily think it's a reason to go Antonio. You

1257
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 1: don't like it, Antonio? Right morning? How you gotta doing today? Hey,

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01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 1: thanks for calling, man, But you don't like this. I

1259
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 1: know I don't like your First of all, you're giving

1260
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 1: the kids a false idea of what a real family is.

1261
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: I mean, you're gonna vacation together, but you can come

1262
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 1: home and you got different ladies, different places. For two,

1263
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 1: she really believes nothing's going on with baby mama. Did

1264
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:55,040
Speaker 1: you know she got assisted? Wait? Wait, you want to go?

1265
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 1: But woman, is that what you're saying. I'm just saying,

1266
01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 1: if she's that golable, come on, man, you gotta come

1267
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 1: on man, because you too. I don't okay, I'm just

1268
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:07,959
Speaker 1: saying you can't. You can't really be that gullible. You can't.

1269
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: I mean you canna have I mean, if you can't

1270
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 1: go on vacation, then you can't come on, Okay, come on,

1271
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 1: come on, all right, Antonio, thank you, have a good day. Yeah,

1272
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,400
Speaker 1: he's kind of right, Like if you go on this vacation,

1273
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 1: how do you keep that dynamic? Like if you're trying

1274
01:02:23,200 --> 01:02:26,720
Speaker 1: to keep this family vision together? Are the parents being

1275
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 1: in the same bed no separate rooms? They said, oh yeah,

1276
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 1: how does that word matter? Like this was like, all right,

1277
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: Dan's gonna go in his other room. Well, I don't.

1278
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't think your wife. I don't think they're trying

1279
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: to promote a false sense of family. I think they're

1280
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 1: promoting a sense of family, right. I don't think it's false.

1281
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:42,560
Speaker 1: They're not lying to their kids, aren't. They're not. They

1282
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 1: kind of are lying to the kid. They're not. They're

1283
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:46,760
Speaker 1: going on a family vacation and the parents are not

1284
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:49,760
Speaker 1: even together. They're sleeping in separate rooms. And it's better

1285
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 1: than them trying to throw stuff at each other in

1286
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 1: saying all their names. Yes, but Grace is part of this.

1287
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 1: I feel like Grace is part of this family now too.

1288
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 1: We don't know for how long. Though they've been dating

1289
01:02:58,160 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 1: for two years, we don't know how long into the

1290
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 1: relationship she met the kids, But she said she she

1291
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: said that she's she does everything with the kids, right.

1292
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 1: It also sounds like there's some mending offenses to be

1293
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: done in that family unit without including another person. Right.

1294
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:13,840
Speaker 1: They got divorced, So they got divorced for a reason.

1295
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: And I think, you know, as the child, and Calin

1296
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 1: is too of a divorce family, it would have gone

1297
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: a long way for me to see respect among my

1298
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: parents that had nothing to do with my stepdad now

1299
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 1: adopted that. It would have gone a long way from me.

1300
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 1: And there was never any effort to do that on

1301
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 1: either side, really, and for good reason, I think. But

1302
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: I don't I don't fault my mom for that. I

1303
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 1: just think I don't know if if if we were trying,

1304
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 1: if they were trying to show us, look, we shouldn't

1305
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 1: be married, but we still love each other, and we

1306
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 1: love you, and we can still continue to parent you,

1307
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 1: and there's still stability here. We don't need the girlfriends

1308
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 1: and boyfriends involved in that, in my opinion. And you know,

1309
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 1: I just think it's going to be a worse situation

1310
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,280
Speaker 1: when these family vacations stop and then you got to

1311
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: answer these questions and there are other people. I think eventually,

1312
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 1: once both of them are engaged, start adding people. I think,

1313
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 1: once this woman's here, I think, once this woman's here

1314
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 1: to stay, right like my mom did plenty with me

1315
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 1: without my adopted dad, they got engaged pretty quickly. I mean,

1316
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,800
Speaker 1: he was here to stay from the beginning, right. But

1317
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 1: but if she had had random boyfriends, which I'm glad

1318
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: she never had, then I don't think they would have

1319
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: been included in stuff as quickly as my dad was,

1320
01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 1: because because he was, it was one and done for them,

1321
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But if she had not.

1322
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: My father, on the other hand, had all kinds of

1323
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: girlfriends and they'd come and go, and that was about him.

1324
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:31,919
Speaker 1: That had nothing to do with us. That was about

1325
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: his needs. But I'm just saying it was weird because

1326
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't know, am I ever going to

1327
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 1: see you again? Lady? And it had nothing to do

1328
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 1: with Again, my mom wasn't there. It's two different things.

1329
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 1: I think. I think two years in is pretty solid.

1330
01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 1: I think it's this doesn't sound like a you know,

1331
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 1: two month relationship. But my new girl's coming with this

1332
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: is she's they both say what they are in this forever,

1333
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 1: they want to stay, and once there's a ring I think, okay,

1334
01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 1: But see here's the argument about that too, Like sometimes

1335
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 1: we know we talked to couples who don't choose to

1336
01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 1: get married, right, they just want to be in a partnership,

1337
01:04:58,920 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: And we told her though, once we are engaged or married,

1338
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,360
Speaker 1: you can come. I think this woman has of He

1339
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 1: may disagree with me, as long as she's being reasonable. Yeah,

1340
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: and she's not harboring some kind of possessive possessiveness over

1341
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: her ax. I think she gets a vote on who

1342
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:17,920
Speaker 1: gets included in this family unit children. Yeah, I believe that.

1343
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 1: Now if she holds out forever, or if there's no

1344
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: end in sight, or she refuses to knowledge her or

1345
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 1: doesn't like her, as mean to her or speaks badly

1346
01:05:25,360 --> 01:05:27,760
Speaker 1: about her to the kids, that's one thing. But this woman,

1347
01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 1: Grace said that they get along and everything's fine. But

1348
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 1: I think at this point it's like again, I think

1349
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: they're trying to do the best they can to establish

1350
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: a family unit where there isn't you know, where it's

1351
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 1: where it's a little bit fractured. I just find it.

1352
01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 1: I just find it difficult for these kids, like they've

1353
01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: they're just gonna get this false sense And then they'll

1354
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 1: never accept Grace. You know what I'm saying, Like if

1355
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 1: they keep going to these family vacations without her, and

1356
01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 1: then they're just gonna put on an act because if

1357
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: she starts coming along, but you know, Mom is still there.

1358
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 1: But I think all can exist. I think all can

1359
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 1: exist mutually exclusive and one an until a certain point

1360
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: when it all needs to be merged. But maybe we're

1361
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: not there yet. Hey Laurie, Hi, Fred I'm back. Hey

1362
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 1: you're what did you want to say? I wanted to say, Um,

1363
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 1: I hope that Grace Um just kind of I don't

1364
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: think she should split up with him, but I think

1365
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,800
Speaker 1: she needs to. She needs to kind of check herself

1366
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: a little because she's gotten involved with a man who

1367
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: has children from a previous relationship. And if she starts

1368
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: putting herself in some sort of competition or she said

1369
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:39,520
Speaker 1: she feels jealous, Um, those kids have to come first, absolutely,

1370
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 1: And maybe the parents are doing this now and then

1371
01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 1: pursuing these other relationships, and then when the kids are

1372
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: a little older and they have a voice and they

1373
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 1: have some acceptance, then the parents can turn to the kids. Hey,

1374
01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 1: what would you think? I agree? If they're married, that's

1375
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 1: a whole different story. But in this case, they're trying

1376
01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:02,280
Speaker 1: to get these children used to home and family dynamic

1377
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:04,880
Speaker 1: and they want they want them to know, they want

1378
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 1: the kids to know mom and dad are still here.

1379
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:09,360
Speaker 1: Mom and dad still love you and trust me. I

1380
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:12,360
Speaker 1: think that is so healthy. Most divorcest don't work that way.

1381
01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:15,800
Speaker 1: And you get yourself and yeah, if you get yourself

1382
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:18,520
Speaker 1: into a position where you're competing with your boyfriend's kids,

1383
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 1: that's that's selfish and you're not in the relationship for

1384
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: the right reasons. And those kids are always going to

1385
01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:26,480
Speaker 1: be his. And if you choose to be in a

1386
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:30,960
Speaker 1: relationship with someone who have kids, you have to you

1387
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 1: have to grow grace in your heart for the past.

1388
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 1: And I'm with you. I want to give these people

1389
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 1: to benefit of the doubt. I want to believe they're

1390
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 1: doing this for the kids and not out of spite

1391
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:43,080
Speaker 1: or control for one another. I want to believe that. Laurie.

1392
01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:46,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, have a good day. Thanks fight glad you called.

1393
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:50,000
Speaker 1: Tanya is here? Good morning, Tanya. How are you? I'm good?

1394
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:52,480
Speaker 1: How are you good? Tanya? Sarah Goo. This is just

1395
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:55,240
Speaker 1: to recap Pierra Grace is a woman who's been dating

1396
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:56,920
Speaker 1: a guy who has two kids for a little while now,

1397
01:07:57,160 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 1: and apparently this gentleman and his ex wife have a

1398
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 1: good relationship. They're co parenting together, they go on trips

1399
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 1: together from time to time, stay in separate rooms. But

1400
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: the girlfriend has not yet been included in that, and

1401
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 1: she's wondering if this is a sign of you know,

1402
01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:13,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, peril, Like maybe she should think of

1403
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 1: like he's not all that committed, or maybe maybe he'll

1404
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:19,640
Speaker 1: never be fully invested, or that is the wife up

1405
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 1: to something or is he up to something with the wife?

1406
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 1: A lot of a lot of different variables here, What

1407
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,880
Speaker 1: do you think? So I'm gonna give you the perspective

1408
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:29,560
Speaker 1: of the wife, the X wife. I'm going to the

1409
01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 1: situation right now. My soon to be X has had

1410
01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:38,840
Speaker 1: a side piece for two years and we split and

1411
01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:43,120
Speaker 1: we go on college visits and everything with our son together,

1412
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 1: and stuff happens. Now we share rooms, we share a room,

1413
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:50,759
Speaker 1: we don't share a bed. But when they're stuff happening,

1414
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 1: it happens. Whether you know the kids are smaller, big,

1415
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:56,160
Speaker 1: it's gonna act. So you're saying you still sleep with

1416
01:08:56,240 --> 01:09:00,200
Speaker 1: your X on college visits. There are times, Yes, there

1417
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 1: are times. So you still sleep with your ex. But

1418
01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 1: he has a girlfriend, Well he has a well yeah,

1419
01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:10,080
Speaker 1: he has a side side And what do you have nothing?

1420
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 1: Do you have a boyfriend? Well do I have a boyfriend? No,

1421
01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:19,120
Speaker 1: I don't. You're a side piece girl, hold on, hold on, Tanya,

1422
01:09:19,920 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 1: you're right, but Tamiya, this is a different situation, Tanya,

1423
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,880
Speaker 1: this is different though. He has a side piece that's

1424
01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 1: not his girlfriend. At least if you're described to get

1425
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: hold on a girlfriend, she has a girlfriend. You're right,

1426
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:35,640
Speaker 1: she is a girl. Okay, So he cheats on his

1427
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 1: girlfriend actively with you on college visit, Gina's listen. All

1428
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying is that happens, Man, it happens. You can't

1429
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 1: get rid of feelings like that, just you know, even

1430
01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 1: like when you're together, emotions come back, feelings come back

1431
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:54,840
Speaker 1: like you you wow again. I suppose that's possible, but

1432
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. At first, she's a side piece. Now

1433
01:09:57,280 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 1: it's the girlfriend, it's not the whole thing. Sounds a

1434
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 1: little dysfunct. And I don't know how many people get

1435
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 1: divorced and still want to sleep with their exit. I

1436
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:06,920
Speaker 1: would say it's not as many as you might think. No,

1437
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:09,679
Speaker 1: I'm sure I'm sure, but I'm saying, when you're together

1438
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 1: and you're taking vacations together, you're also giving the kids

1439
01:10:13,160 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 1: the wrong idea because my kids also will sit there

1440
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:19,360
Speaker 1: and think and get confused. And they're older. They're older kids,

1441
01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 1: so they understand, they know what's going on, and they

1442
01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 1: do get confused when you're taking these vacations. You could

1443
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 1: sit there and have this whole family dynamic and be

1444
01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 1: all happy, and then it hits them, what's reality one?

1445
01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 1: They're not together tany girl. I'm not criticizing you. You

1446
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:36,000
Speaker 1: do you, but of course your kids are confused. You're

1447
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:39,559
Speaker 1: still sleeping with the guy, right and they you still

1448
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 1: sleep with the same Batu said, they can tell the difference.

1449
01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:44,560
Speaker 1: Sleep in the same bad. Well, you are at some

1450
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:48,840
Speaker 1: point weather veins for emotions. They can tell something's gone.

1451
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:51,559
Speaker 1: I'm telling you older kids, I'm divorced. Seeing my parents

1452
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:55,560
Speaker 1: get along would not be confusing. And I'm not criticizing you,

1453
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:57,680
Speaker 1: but you don't have boundaries. It sounds like they're no

1454
01:10:57,760 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: bound I think that there's a there's a boundari approach

1455
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:03,960
Speaker 1: to this. It sounds like maybe they have it. Okay, well,

1456
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: and I'm not criticizing you. You do you he got

1457
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:08,679
Speaker 1: that thing? You got that thing gold plated? I don't

1458
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:11,439
Speaker 1: know your heart, girl, but I also feel like, why

1459
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,360
Speaker 1: are you still hanging onto this if you know that

1460
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 1: he has a girlfriend and it sounds very messy, Tanya.

1461
01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 1: It is messy. I didn't say it wasn't messy. It's messy.

1462
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:23,560
Speaker 1: And if he's got a girlfriend in you and you

1463
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:25,840
Speaker 1: don't have a boyfriend, I'm sorry to keep interrupting you,

1464
01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 1: but I feel like maybe you haven't let it go.

1465
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 1: I'd let it go. I've let him, stopped doing him.

1466
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 1: Keep doing you, Tanya, keep doing find to find a

1467
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,640
Speaker 1: guy who's pretty clear. You know we sh I was

1468
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:42,120
Speaker 1: just giving you a perspective of what he could be,

1469
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 1: as he could be. It could happen, Yeah, a lot

1470
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,600
Speaker 1: of things could happen. Sure, um, Tanya, I want to

1471
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:50,840
Speaker 1: see you go find a guy who's dedicated to you

1472
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 1: and only you and doesn't and he isn't treating you

1473
01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 1: like the side piece. You're the mother of his children.

1474
01:11:56,360 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: Come on, queen, Wow, yeah, you deserve better. You're bad.

1475
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:02,800
Speaker 1: I bet he gets pissed too. If you find somewhere

1476
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:05,000
Speaker 1: Betty would I bet he won't like it. I bet

1477
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:07,880
Speaker 1: you cal's right. Yeah, I know you keep going on

1478
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 1: those vacations, girl, but that means he's controlling what's best

1479
01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 1: for you. You gotta decide what's best for you. You can't.

1480
01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:19,680
Speaker 1: He's got a girlfriend he's taken care of. If he

1481
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:21,599
Speaker 1: wanted you to be the girlfriend, you'd be the girl.

1482
01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:25,760
Speaker 1: I don't like this. Yeah, well I don't like it either. Man.

1483
01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:28,400
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that's what happened. Yeah, it's possible. Hear

1484
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:30,679
Speaker 1: It's what can happen. You're right, I hear you. Okay,

1485
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 1: thank you, Tany. You have a good I got all

1486
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 1: heated about this time. You go, love go, you go,

1487
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: she says, you go, Tanya, Yeah, exactly from her baby daddy.

1488
01:12:42,680 --> 01:12:44,600
Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm gonna take one more male perspective on this,

1489
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:50,000
Speaker 1: and we gotta go. Uh Mike, Mike. So you're the

1490
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 1: You're you're a grace, you're the dude. You're the boyfriend

1491
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:56,240
Speaker 1: in this situation. So you're in the exact same position

1492
01:12:56,320 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 1: that she is in. I was, and once my new

1493
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 1: fiancee voiced her opinion early when she was just my girlfriend,

1494
01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:09,040
Speaker 1: it was up to me to set that boundary. You

1495
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 1: could still show the kids they you're there for them

1496
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 1: that you love them, but there has to be a

1497
01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 1: boundary where it's you have your life with the kids

1498
01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 1: and I have mine. Okay, So wait which person were

1499
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,519
Speaker 1: you though? Are you the guy with the girlfriend and

1500
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 1: the ex wife or with the kids with the ex wife. Okay,

1501
01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:30,680
Speaker 1: I see, And so what are you what are you

1502
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:33,840
Speaker 1: advocating for? You're saying, I need to have this family

1503
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:36,040
Speaker 1: relationship over here, and then I need to have the

1504
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 1: relationship with you, and we need to separate them, like

1505
01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm advocating for. Is that what you're saying. Yeah. Yeah.

1506
01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 1: When my girlfriend told me how she felt the same

1507
01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:49,559
Speaker 1: way Grace did, I stopped doing things together. Oh okay,

1508
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 1: all right, fair enough, and my ex understood, and I said, hey,

1509
01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 1: you know this has got to stop. We could show,

1510
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: we could still show the kids that we loved and

1511
01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:04,120
Speaker 1: then we respect each other. But I cannot go on

1512
01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 1: trips and do things together. And it's almost pretending they

1513
01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 1: were still together. Yea, the kids are false. I don't know,

1514
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: but your parents were together. I don't. I don't think,

1515
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:18,200
Speaker 1: and I'm not I don't mean to disc thank you, Mike,

1516
01:14:18,280 --> 01:14:20,800
Speaker 1: have a good day. I don't mean to discredit your perspective,

1517
01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:24,920
Speaker 1: But like, we went through this right, and I understand that.

1518
01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 1: So I saw it, and I think there would have

1519
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:30,000
Speaker 1: been a way for my parents to show respect for

1520
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 1: one another and and also show that they collectively loved

1521
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:37,120
Speaker 1: us and that they could coexist at like even a

1522
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:39,680
Speaker 1: public event. They couldn't even sit next to each other

1523
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 1: at the same time. You would rather have a false

1524
01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:47,160
Speaker 1: sense of my parents are gonna get back, wouldn't. I

1525
01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:49,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't have gotten that set. I think it's possible that

1526
01:14:49,800 --> 01:14:51,560
Speaker 1: I could have known that each of them moved on,

1527
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: but that each of them loved one another and respected

1528
01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:57,800
Speaker 1: one another enough to at least go to at least

1529
01:14:59,080 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 1: to at least co example. Yeah, but I'm just saying,

1530
01:15:00,880 --> 01:15:02,200
Speaker 1: like you, if you would have went on a family

1531
01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 1: vacation with your mom and dad for the next ten

1532
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 1: years and they both have significant others, and I wouldn't

1533
01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 1: have thought they were getting remarried. I would have thought

1534
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,040
Speaker 1: they just liked each other. Yeah, well, what I think

1535
01:15:11,040 --> 01:15:13,400
Speaker 1: they're gonna get remarried. They have boyfriends and girlfriends on

1536
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:16,000
Speaker 1: the side. I think after the room, your kids, right,

1537
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:18,640
Speaker 1: you're just your children, So as kids, like, did you

1538
01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:21,519
Speaker 1: have any kind of like hope or whatever. Confusion. No, no,

1539
01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 1: but even if they respected each other, it's pretend they

1540
01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,519
Speaker 1: did right like your parents respected each other. They were

1541
01:15:25,560 --> 01:15:27,720
Speaker 1: gray would have loved it, and you went on vacations again,

1542
01:15:27,960 --> 01:15:30,639
Speaker 1: everything looked beautiful. She's actually rooms. I would have known,

1543
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 1: I would have, and they could have been eating other people.

1544
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:34,920
Speaker 1: I would have never gotten false sense. Of course, when

1545
01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:37,320
Speaker 1: my parents first got divorce, I would like for them

1546
01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:40,200
Speaker 1: to have not gotten divorced. And I was nine years old,

1547
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:43,080
Speaker 1: and of course I felt like anybody who came in

1548
01:15:43,160 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 1: on either side. When when my step dad now adopted dad,

1549
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:47,920
Speaker 1: came in, I thought he was getting in the way

1550
01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:50,800
Speaker 1: of that reconciliation. And I thought, any of these flosies

1551
01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: over here, we're getting in the way of that whole thing.

1552
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:55,080
Speaker 1: I really did. But then at some point you come

1553
01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:59,559
Speaker 1: to the realization that that everyone's moved on. But then

1554
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 1: layard on top of that was the fact that they

1555
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:05,320
Speaker 1: hated each other, right, and then you feel that energy

1556
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:08,160
Speaker 1: and now you're in the middle of it now, and

1557
01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:10,640
Speaker 1: I don't I don't blame my mom or really my

1558
01:16:10,760 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 1: father for this, but I'm a nine year old now

1559
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:17,640
Speaker 1: hearing he sucks, she sucks. It's unfair. It's unfair to

1560
01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:19,560
Speaker 1: me as the kids. So what I'm saying is what

1561
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:21,800
Speaker 1: is fair is for you all to shut your mouths

1562
01:16:21,840 --> 01:16:25,640
Speaker 1: and be adults and coexist because you can be in

1563
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,680
Speaker 1: the same place. At least for me, that's all I'm

1564
01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:32,559
Speaker 1: asking for, without any of these other ancillary things. That's

1565
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:34,639
Speaker 1: nothing to do with the full sense of them getting

1566
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:36,840
Speaker 1: back together. It has all to do with, don't put

1567
01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 1: this crap energy on me. That's that's a different situation

1568
01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:43,759
Speaker 1: than the situation that Graces in like the her boyfriend

1569
01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 1: and his ex wife. Obviously, it sounds like they get

1570
01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:48,800
Speaker 1: along together. They don't have any problems. They're not the animosity,

1571
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:50,519
Speaker 1: there's no animosity of each other. They're going on family

1572
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:53,400
Speaker 1: vacations with each other. It seems like they still love

1573
01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:56,720
Speaker 1: each other. If you're a child, a young child, like

1574
01:16:56,800 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 1: they say, it seems like my parents are still together.

1575
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:03,680
Speaker 1: We're going on family patients. That puts a different than

1576
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:06,360
Speaker 1: the prayers I'm getting along at all. And is there

1577
01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:09,720
Speaker 1: more than one kind of love? Is there more than

1578
01:17:09,760 --> 01:17:11,920
Speaker 1: one kind of love? Yeah? Yeah, for sure. And I

1579
01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 1: think that's a good lesson to teach your kids about

1580
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:16,400
Speaker 1: how you can love and care for someone and not

1581
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:20,599
Speaker 1: romantically love them anymore. I don't think that. I think

1582
01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:23,400
Speaker 1: it is possible to not want to be and responsible

1583
01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 1: when you have children, to not love somebody anymore romantically,

1584
01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:30,000
Speaker 1: but love them enough because of the product of because

1585
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:32,719
Speaker 1: you have you have children now and they you created

1586
01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:35,160
Speaker 1: that together. Can we at least have enough respect for

1587
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:39,200
Speaker 1: one another to allow our kids to see what could

1588
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 1: be even with the fracture, and the trips could be

1589
01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:44,240
Speaker 1: just to ease the transition, which is my biggest thing.

1590
01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:46,200
Speaker 1: They're going through a divorce. They could be saying, after

1591
01:17:46,280 --> 01:17:49,640
Speaker 1: this last trip, we're done, but just to ease the transition.

1592
01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 1: It's so much change for little kids, and they don't

1593
01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 1: understand why they now have two houses and have to

1594
01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 1: have a bag every weekend. It could end. There could

1595
01:17:57,120 --> 01:17:58,880
Speaker 1: be an end in sight, which is for now. It

1596
01:17:58,960 --> 01:18:01,080
Speaker 1: might be nice. Imagine how you feel as a kid.

1597
01:18:01,439 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 1: This is getting really deep, but like your mom is

1598
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:07,320
Speaker 1: the most important woman in your life, that your dad

1599
01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:09,280
Speaker 1: is the most important man in your life, and all

1600
01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 1: you hear from both sides is how awful they are

1601
01:18:12,400 --> 01:18:15,559
Speaker 1: as people, and maybe by the way, maybe they are,

1602
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 1: but they're not to you right and so I don't

1603
01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 1: need so. I would have much rather there have been

1604
01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:24,719
Speaker 1: a respectful dynamic, because it's a selfish thing for adults

1605
01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:27,960
Speaker 1: to take out. They're adult problems on kids, and in

1606
01:18:28,120 --> 01:18:30,920
Speaker 1: this case, what it sounds like is they're trying to

1607
01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:34,000
Speaker 1: show their kids that they could continue to coexist while

1608
01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:37,120
Speaker 1: still moving on. Yeah, and I think that's super valuable.

1609
01:18:37,160 --> 01:18:38,800
Speaker 1: I'm not saying they don't move on, but I don't

1610
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:40,720
Speaker 1: think just because time is sleeping with their ax means

1611
01:18:40,760 --> 01:18:44,160
Speaker 1: that everybody who takes their kids on vacation is banging

1612
01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 1: at each other. A trip to Disney it could be

1613
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 1: a milestone trip. Your kids never went to Disney. It

1614
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 1: would be nice to have both parents there, you know

1615
01:18:49,880 --> 01:18:52,640
Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah, maybe, like you said, like you

1616
01:18:52,720 --> 01:18:54,880
Speaker 1: know the keyword, like they've moved on, Which is why

1617
01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:57,760
Speaker 1: I think that if you have a serious boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, wife,

1618
01:18:57,800 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 1: whatever may be. You know, wife is difference than a

1619
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:01,800
Speaker 1: girl friend. I think fiance, but you know what I mean,

1620
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: like to have her joint I don't think is the

1621
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:05,519
Speaker 1: worst thing, especially if you are with her long term

1622
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:07,880
Speaker 1: you see her as your future wife, possibly the mother

1623
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 1: of your next child. Areas two separate things, And yes,

1624
01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:14,920
Speaker 1: eventually needs to be blended, but she usually maybe if

1625
01:19:14,960 --> 01:19:17,880
Speaker 1: the process is mending fences with the immediate family. I'm sorry.

1626
01:19:17,880 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 1: The kids come first, and whatever makes the kids feel

1627
01:19:19,960 --> 01:19:22,840
Speaker 1: the most comfortable is way more important than uh, you know,

1628
01:19:23,240 --> 01:19:25,160
Speaker 1: whatever you're doing on the side, that comes first. One

1629
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:27,679
Speaker 1: with kids, you gotta know that that comes first the kids.

1630
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:29,600
Speaker 1: The kids and what's best for them. And if this

1631
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:31,800
Speaker 1: is what they as parents believe is best for their kids,

1632
01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 1: then that's what they're doing and that's what they should

1633
01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:35,599
Speaker 1: be doing. And I don't necessarily think it has anything

1634
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 1: to do with them still sleeping together. No, I don't.

1635
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 1: I think that's a closed minded I think I can

1636
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:43,759
Speaker 1: see why it's uncomfortable. If they wanted to sleep together,

1637
01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:46,679
Speaker 1: they could just be married. Yeah. I think my biggest

1638
01:19:46,680 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 1: issue was just like her feeling left out. I feel

1639
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:50,320
Speaker 1: bad for her, especially if she wants to be, you know,

1640
01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:52,200
Speaker 1: a stepmom figure to them and wants to be involved.

1641
01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:53,840
Speaker 1: It seems like she does. She loves Sam, she loves

1642
01:19:53,880 --> 01:19:56,360
Speaker 1: the kids. That's why they get there. Hopefully they get there.

1643
01:19:56,360 --> 01:19:58,600
Speaker 1: But I can tell you to Klein's point, when you

1644
01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:01,280
Speaker 1: date somebody with kids, you have to accept terms that

1645
01:20:01,400 --> 01:20:03,960
Speaker 1: are abnormal and that you may not like because again,

1646
01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 1: it is not about you, at least initially and frankly,

1647
01:20:08,520 --> 01:20:10,160
Speaker 1: even when it is about you in the in the

1648
01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:12,840
Speaker 1: adult part of the relationship, it's usually going to be

1649
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:15,080
Speaker 1: about the kids, and it shouldn't be. It should be

1650
01:20:15,120 --> 01:20:17,599
Speaker 1: about about the kids, not at that. Okay, sheolby Shelley

1651
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:19,120
Speaker 1: a little bit late. We'll do it next showdown Fred

1652
01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 1: Show one h three five, Shelley, you away there. I know.

1653
01:20:28,439 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 1: That's why I'm seeing if she fell asleep. That's why

1654
01:20:30,479 --> 01:20:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm asking. You're not in the bathroom yet, are you.

1655
01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 1: That's why I'm asking. I know we're approaching poopy time

1656
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 1: eight thirty time. You guys, the things I know about

1657
01:20:40,400 --> 01:20:43,800
Speaker 1: all of you, it's unbelievable. Um, your parents were divorced, Shelley.

1658
01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:46,880
Speaker 1: I mean, did they like each other? No, not at all.

1659
01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:50,800
Speaker 1: Would you would you have liked it if they did? Yeah,

1660
01:20:50,920 --> 01:20:53,760
Speaker 1: it would have been I was thinking. I'm on a

1661
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:56,040
Speaker 1: team Kalen for that. I agree. I wish if they

1662
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:59,360
Speaker 1: could have. I mean, when we were in public settings,

1663
01:20:59,400 --> 01:21:01,240
Speaker 1: they could pull it together, you know, like they can

1664
01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:03,640
Speaker 1: be very cordial towards each other, but the way that

1665
01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:06,760
Speaker 1: they talk about the way that they attack behind each

1666
01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:09,160
Speaker 1: other's backs was not It was not a good thing.

1667
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 1: Like I wish that they could have just you know,

1668
01:21:12,880 --> 01:21:15,000
Speaker 1: played nice for us at least, even if they didn't

1669
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 1: really mean it. I guess, I don't know, it would

1670
01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:19,559
Speaker 1: have been better. I think so, I hear that, Yeah,

1671
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:21,720
Speaker 1: a couple of people here are really heeded. On the

1672
01:21:21,800 --> 01:21:24,680
Speaker 1: other side, Andreas saying, you're gullible if you think those

1673
01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:26,559
Speaker 1: two are not sleep in the other on vacation. I mean,

1674
01:21:26,600 --> 01:21:29,280
Speaker 1: I honestly believe there's such a thing in self control, right.

1675
01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:31,639
Speaker 1: I also believe there's such a thing as people who

1676
01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:34,919
Speaker 1: don't have to sleep each other with each other anymore

1677
01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:38,840
Speaker 1: just because they did. Yeah, I mean, I think of

1678
01:21:38,880 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: all the people in your life. I mean I don't

1679
01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:44,519
Speaker 1: really have this as much, but kind of people I've

1680
01:21:44,560 --> 01:21:46,599
Speaker 1: slept with who I won't sleep with anymore. But who

1681
01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 1: are I'm friends with? Yeah? Who? I respect them as people,

1682
01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:51,840
Speaker 1: but we're not romantically. You know, if I saw him,

1683
01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:53,400
Speaker 1: I'd love to see him, we'd have a drink, I'd

1684
01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 1: give him a hug. I could be in a relationship

1685
01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 1: and I could not sleep with them just because I

1686
01:21:57,640 --> 01:22:00,360
Speaker 1: have once before or one hundred times before. I mean,

1687
01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:03,360
Speaker 1: I do think there is such a thing as compartmentalizing relationships.

1688
01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:05,240
Speaker 1: I don't think everybody who ever slept with is an

1689
01:22:05,280 --> 01:22:10,760
Speaker 1: automatic magnet. But um, anyway, what do I know? I

1690
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:12,920
Speaker 1: think kids come first. Two Like that one caller said,

1691
01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:15,040
Speaker 1: the kids are going to be the priorities, so whatever

1692
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:17,920
Speaker 1: they think is best for them. And kids aren't stupid either.

1693
01:22:18,120 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 1: I don't think you're I mean, I don't think you're

1694
01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:23,720
Speaker 1: fooling anybody if you if you established Hey, mom and dad,

1695
01:22:23,840 --> 01:22:25,280
Speaker 1: you know we love each other. We're not going to

1696
01:22:25,360 --> 01:22:27,479
Speaker 1: be married anymore, but we still love each other. Plus

1697
01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:28,880
Speaker 1: just dude's got to grow frond on the side, and

1698
01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 1: she knows about it. And the kids are involved in

1699
01:22:31,120 --> 01:22:34,920
Speaker 1: that relationship. They know. Kids aren't that stupid? All right,

1700
01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 1: let's come back show mid Shelley Show Down eight five, five, nine,

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Speaker 1: one one three five New players today five hundred bucks

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01:22:40,080 --> 01:22:42,400
Speaker 1: is the prize is waiting by the phone, Good news

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01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:51,879
Speaker 1: stories all that Fred Show Life from America's Greatest City, Chicago,

1704
01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:56,639
Speaker 1: Kim and I heart radio station. It's so frendship needed

1705
01:22:56,680 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 1: on that one PTSD. I Camlon did too. Here's the

1706
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:01,559
Speaker 1: thing I'm gonna listen to this later, because she listened

1707
01:23:01,560 --> 01:23:03,720
Speaker 1: to the podcast A couple of hours later. Here we go,

1708
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:06,120
Speaker 1: and she's gonna call me and say, you think I

1709
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 1: ruined your life, which I definitely don't. I definitely don't.

1710
01:23:10,200 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 1: I think my mom did an amazing job. And then

1711
01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:17,760
Speaker 1: you know, she married my stepdaddy, adopted us. He did

1712
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:19,920
Speaker 1: an amazing job with kids that aren't his blood, that

1713
01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: he treated like his blood. And I'm not cleaning up now.

1714
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 1: But if you want to talk about what would have

1715
01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 1: been ideal, and I think she would agree with this too,

1716
01:23:27,560 --> 01:23:32,120
Speaker 1: I almost constomle. I don't know. I don't know what

1717
01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 1: my father thinks, But you want to talk about the

1718
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:38,479
Speaker 1: ideal situation. The ideal situation is two people that are

1719
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:41,200
Speaker 1: dysfunctional and don't like each other, and they may even

1720
01:23:41,240 --> 01:23:45,840
Speaker 1: hate each other. One of them could have cheated, stolen, robbed, whatever, decide. Look,

1721
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:50,920
Speaker 1: this is our problem. We have kids. We we respectively

1722
01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:53,000
Speaker 1: love these kids and don't want to screw up their lives.

1723
01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:55,559
Speaker 1: So we're gonna go our separate ways. We're gonna live

1724
01:23:55,600 --> 01:23:57,960
Speaker 1: our own new lives. We're now going to be happy,

1725
01:23:58,640 --> 01:24:02,120
Speaker 1: and we're gonna reflect that downward. Mutual respect and happiness

1726
01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:04,560
Speaker 1: down on to our children. I gotta think that's the

1727
01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:07,800
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the perfect scenario, and there probably is

1728
01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:12,400
Speaker 1: rarely a perfect scenario, but as a kid who was

1729
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:14,080
Speaker 1: once there and came and I think you would agree

1730
01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:18,360
Speaker 1: that would be perfect. And so you know, if that's

1731
01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:20,080
Speaker 1: the idea, and if you can get anywhere close to that,

1732
01:24:20,120 --> 01:24:23,880
Speaker 1: because again, like if you're happy, then you are you're

1733
01:24:24,040 --> 01:24:26,760
Speaker 1: you're projecting that energy down onto your kids. If you

1734
01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:28,680
Speaker 1: could at least see in the other person what you

1735
01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 1: once saw in him, that resulted in the reason for

1736
01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:34,120
Speaker 1: which the kids exist and we can just go to

1737
01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 1: events together and we don't have to say Dad's coming

1738
01:24:36,880 --> 01:24:39,200
Speaker 1: to this one because Mom can't and Mom's going to be.

1739
01:24:39,600 --> 01:24:41,320
Speaker 1: It's part of the reason I was trained with my father,

1740
01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:45,040
Speaker 1: because they couldn't coexist. Yeah, because he wanted he wanted to.

1741
01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:49,760
Speaker 1: He wanted to, he was he was my father, so

1742
01:24:49,920 --> 01:24:53,600
Speaker 1: he deserved all he deserved, all respect and what he

1743
01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:55,840
Speaker 1: thought was due to him. But he didn't do the job.

1744
01:24:56,760 --> 01:24:58,200
Speaker 1: So like, and I don't mean to get too deep

1745
01:24:58,200 --> 01:25:00,519
Speaker 1: about it, but it's like, dude, you could have done

1746
01:25:00,520 --> 01:25:02,719
Speaker 1: the job she could because because your issues are your issues.

1747
01:25:03,040 --> 01:25:05,040
Speaker 1: But y'all could have just stand stood, you know, not

1748
01:25:05,160 --> 01:25:07,400
Speaker 1: hand in hand, but you could have at least coexisted

1749
01:25:07,439 --> 01:25:09,400
Speaker 1: and that made it weird. But instead it was no

1750
01:25:09,680 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 1: if if she's there, I'm not coming. If he's there,

1751
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:14,800
Speaker 1: I'm not coming. And my mom was the bigger person

1752
01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:16,840
Speaker 1: in all of that, by the way. Yeah, but I

1753
01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:19,760
Speaker 1: don't think it means that because you can have that

1754
01:25:20,360 --> 01:25:23,200
Speaker 1: that there are lingering feelings or at least sexual feelings, right,

1755
01:25:23,240 --> 01:25:25,160
Speaker 1: And also, staying together for the kids is not a

1756
01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:26,920
Speaker 1: good scenario for the kids because no matter how young

1757
01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:28,840
Speaker 1: they are, they can sense the tension. So if you

1758
01:25:29,200 --> 01:25:31,640
Speaker 1: do need to separate but can still act cordial in

1759
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:35,040
Speaker 1: front of them, that's the dream. Yeah. Yeah, and I

1760
01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:38,160
Speaker 1: need to go back to therapy immediately. I had therapy yesterday.

1761
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:41,120
Speaker 1: But maybe I need to schedule another The Fresh show.

1762
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:46,120
Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes? The Battle show Fish

1763
01:25:46,160 --> 01:25:53,960
Speaker 1: Shelley in the Shows Showdown showby Morney. Yeah. Maybe maybe

1764
01:25:53,960 --> 01:25:56,479
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my therapist and book another one for

1765
01:25:56,560 --> 01:25:58,560
Speaker 1: this week. I'm all fired up today. Do you know

1766
01:25:58,600 --> 01:26:00,600
Speaker 1: what I was thinking about the other day? Do you

1767
01:26:00,640 --> 01:26:06,759
Speaker 1: think it'd be funny if you could somehow like charge

1768
01:26:06,840 --> 01:26:10,880
Speaker 1: your parents for therapy that like, you have to go, girl, girl.

1769
01:26:11,520 --> 01:26:13,280
Speaker 1: I was thinking about that the other day. I wonder

1770
01:26:13,320 --> 01:26:14,640
Speaker 1: what my mom would do if I sent her the

1771
01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:17,920
Speaker 1: bill for the year. Yeah, honestly, she'd probably pay it.

1772
01:26:18,240 --> 01:26:21,240
Speaker 1: She'd probably pay it because she's happy that I'm going

1773
01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:23,160
Speaker 1: and that I've been going for a long time. She

1774
01:26:23,200 --> 01:26:27,320
Speaker 1: would probably pay it because the insurance combody certainly doesn't. So, yeah,

1775
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:29,800
Speaker 1: your mom would sit in the session be like that's

1776
01:26:29,840 --> 01:26:35,639
Speaker 1: not right, No, that's not how it happened, fran hud happen.

1777
01:26:35,920 --> 01:26:39,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes it'd be really transparent. Now, sometimes I think my

1778
01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:42,320
Speaker 1: mom well as happy as she is that I'm working

1779
01:26:42,400 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 1: through stuff. Sometimes I think she's afraid, not threatened by

1780
01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:50,639
Speaker 1: the therapy. But sometimes I think it's like I think

1781
01:26:50,680 --> 01:26:52,800
Speaker 1: it's like, well, what if something's what if something I

1782
01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:55,120
Speaker 1: did wrong? Or what if what if some aspect of

1783
01:26:55,200 --> 01:26:58,920
Speaker 1: our relationship is exposed and things change, which has never

1784
01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:02,439
Speaker 1: happened and wouldn't happen. But like I can see that,

1785
01:27:02,520 --> 01:27:05,320
Speaker 1: I can I've had therapy weaponized on me before, Like

1786
01:27:05,400 --> 01:27:07,479
Speaker 1: I can see how that could be, but but no,

1787
01:27:07,760 --> 01:27:11,559
Speaker 1: it doesn't. My therapist doesn't think that there's anything wrong

1788
01:27:11,600 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 1: with any of my primary relationships. But I can see

1789
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:18,360
Speaker 1: how from the outside you might be threatened by that, Like, well,

1790
01:27:18,400 --> 01:27:20,639
Speaker 1: what if, what if it's determined that you're too close

1791
01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:22,600
Speaker 1: to me and you should be more distant from me

1792
01:27:22,640 --> 01:27:25,040
Speaker 1: in order to accomplish XYZ or something like. I don't

1793
01:27:25,080 --> 01:27:28,160
Speaker 1: know that that could be threatening, I suppose, but I've

1794
01:27:28,200 --> 01:27:30,160
Speaker 1: had people come I've dated people who come home from

1795
01:27:30,200 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 1: therapy and say, I shouldn't be dating you. Oh yeah,

1796
01:27:33,400 --> 01:27:35,280
Speaker 1: my ex used to say that my therapist says we

1797
01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:39,280
Speaker 1: shouldn't be together. And I took that very personally. I'm like,

1798
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:41,920
Speaker 1: wait a minute, this is your therapist who's never met

1799
01:27:42,000 --> 01:27:45,280
Speaker 1: me and and counseled you with your ex. It's telling

1800
01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:47,200
Speaker 1: you that you shouldn't be with me. No, what the

1801
01:27:47,320 --> 01:27:51,480
Speaker 1: therapist was saying was this woman shouldn't be with anybody.

1802
01:27:52,160 --> 01:27:54,880
Speaker 1: It had nothing to do with me. It wasn't. It wasn't.

1803
01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:58,120
Speaker 1: It was an assessment of her and her state and

1804
01:27:58,280 --> 01:28:01,280
Speaker 1: what she needed to work on. But yet the way

1805
01:28:01,320 --> 01:28:04,599
Speaker 1: that it was being portrayed to me is that I'm

1806
01:28:04,720 --> 01:28:07,760
Speaker 1: no good for her, which I thought was really screwed up.

1807
01:28:08,800 --> 01:28:10,560
Speaker 1: But I think I can see how therapy can be

1808
01:28:10,640 --> 01:28:14,479
Speaker 1: weaponized on people. My therapist says, you know, you go home, Well,

1809
01:28:14,520 --> 01:28:17,280
Speaker 1: my therapist says that you were wrong about this. Really,

1810
01:28:17,920 --> 01:28:20,240
Speaker 1: your therapist says that, well, you did your therapy. Did

1811
01:28:20,280 --> 01:28:23,880
Speaker 1: your therapist hear from me on this? And by the way,

1812
01:28:23,920 --> 01:28:27,160
Speaker 1: no good therapist, no good therapist, would do that. No

1813
01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:29,960
Speaker 1: good therapist would tell you you won that argument and

1814
01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 1: he's a loser. They might say your feelings are valid

1815
01:28:34,520 --> 01:28:36,040
Speaker 1: and here's a better way to communicate it. But I

1816
01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:38,560
Speaker 1: don't think any good therapist is going to say consistently

1817
01:28:39,360 --> 01:28:42,559
Speaker 1: that another person is a bad person, unless they really

1818
01:28:42,600 --> 01:28:44,479
Speaker 1: are a bad person. Maybe, but they're not supposed to

1819
01:28:44,520 --> 01:28:46,679
Speaker 1: give opinions like that. It's supposed to help you talk

1820
01:28:46,760 --> 01:28:48,559
Speaker 1: through things and work through it on your own, your

1821
01:28:48,560 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 1: own right exactly. But no, I don't think any good

1822
01:28:51,080 --> 01:28:54,160
Speaker 1: therapist is going to say, no, no, you need to

1823
01:28:54,240 --> 01:28:56,920
Speaker 1: dump that guy. He sucks. It's like unless maybe they

1824
01:28:57,000 --> 01:29:01,200
Speaker 1: have the perspective of of knowing you both because again,

1825
01:29:01,280 --> 01:29:03,560
Speaker 1: like R, it's like when you call your friend and

1826
01:29:03,680 --> 01:29:06,639
Speaker 1: you say you're gonna fight with somebody or something's happening,

1827
01:29:06,680 --> 01:29:10,000
Speaker 1: and you tell your more than likely as hard as

1828
01:29:10,040 --> 01:29:11,920
Speaker 1: you might try, and the thing is as hard as

1829
01:29:11,960 --> 01:29:14,080
Speaker 1: you might try, to be objective. You probably don't even

1830
01:29:14,120 --> 01:29:15,840
Speaker 1: want to be objective, because what you want your friend

1831
01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:17,519
Speaker 1: to tell you is that you're right. And most of

1832
01:29:17,560 --> 01:29:19,160
Speaker 1: the time, your friend's gonna tell you that, which is

1833
01:29:19,200 --> 01:29:21,000
Speaker 1: why a lot of times people I think are armed

1834
01:29:21,120 --> 01:29:24,680
Speaker 1: with information that they get from the home team, you

1835
01:29:24,760 --> 01:29:26,839
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Which is why I go to therapy,

1836
01:29:26,960 --> 01:29:29,519
Speaker 1: because it's like, I think she does advocate for me.

1837
01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:31,600
Speaker 1: She'll say that, like it's might I advocate for you?

1838
01:29:31,600 --> 01:29:34,439
Speaker 1: You're my client, Like if, as it pertains to other people,

1839
01:29:34,880 --> 01:29:37,280
Speaker 1: my only interest in this is you. But if she

1840
01:29:37,479 --> 01:29:39,240
Speaker 1: lied to me and told me I was right about everything,

1841
01:29:39,240 --> 01:29:41,559
Speaker 1: I wouldn't grow. But if I call my best friend

1842
01:29:41,640 --> 01:29:43,240
Speaker 1: and go, my boss is an a hole, And here's

1843
01:29:43,280 --> 01:29:46,240
Speaker 1: why he's gonna go, what an a hole? More than

1844
01:29:46,320 --> 01:29:48,120
Speaker 1: likely he's not gonna he's not my friend because he's

1845
01:29:48,120 --> 01:29:49,840
Speaker 1: gonna go, well, wait a minute, maybe you're an a hole.

1846
01:29:50,240 --> 01:29:54,240
Speaker 1: No someone friends, do you know? It's like people come

1847
01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:56,439
Speaker 1: home when my mom says, well, really your mom who

1848
01:29:56,479 --> 01:29:59,880
Speaker 1: made you? My mom says you're the person who claims

1849
01:29:59,880 --> 01:30:02,360
Speaker 1: you was her protest accomplishment, said that you were right

1850
01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:07,400
Speaker 1: about something. No, that's too funny. What do you think, Shelley,

1851
01:30:07,520 --> 01:30:09,880
Speaker 1: any thoughts. That's all good stuff. I mean there's a

1852
01:30:09,920 --> 01:30:12,560
Speaker 1: lot to unpack here. Yes, there, No, that was a

1853
01:30:12,600 --> 01:30:16,360
Speaker 1: lot teaper than I anticipated. I love therapy. I don't

1854
01:30:16,400 --> 01:30:18,080
Speaker 1: know either. People are like really turned on by this,

1855
01:30:18,160 --> 01:30:22,479
Speaker 1: so they're disgusted, like you're a terrible unlicensed therapist. Fred

1856
01:30:22,640 --> 01:30:25,280
Speaker 1: and Kaylin and Rufio and Paulina and Owner Bonner and

1857
01:30:25,320 --> 01:30:29,519
Speaker 1: Shelby Shelley. Hey, Jordan, how are you doing? Jordan? I'm good.

1858
01:30:29,680 --> 01:30:32,280
Speaker 1: How are you so excited? We're excited to have you

1859
01:30:32,320 --> 01:30:33,559
Speaker 1: have to see on the couch. You want to work

1860
01:30:33,600 --> 01:30:37,719
Speaker 1: through any issues? I'm here for you. Oh well, I'm okay,

1861
01:30:37,840 --> 01:30:39,479
Speaker 1: but thank you. It sounds like you might need it

1862
01:30:39,600 --> 01:30:46,680
Speaker 1: more than I. Well, I think here was some money, bro.

1863
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:48,960
Speaker 1: I think I keep the lights on. I pay it

1864
01:30:49,000 --> 01:30:52,240
Speaker 1: for the lights on, the phone bill for my therapist too,

1865
01:30:52,320 --> 01:30:56,519
Speaker 1: for that matter. Good lord, Yeah, you're right. Well you're

1866
01:30:56,560 --> 01:31:00,360
Speaker 1: not wrong, Jordan. Five litter bucks just surprise. I erased

1867
01:31:00,400 --> 01:31:02,320
Speaker 1: the record. But it's a lot too, a little five

1868
01:31:02,439 --> 01:31:04,080
Speaker 1: hundred bucks. Let me see here, I'll go back and

1869
01:31:04,160 --> 01:31:08,600
Speaker 1: find it. Six or nine and forty one is the

1870
01:31:08,680 --> 01:31:10,920
Speaker 1: record seven game win streak with Shelley five hundred bucks.

1871
01:31:11,000 --> 01:31:15,360
Speaker 1: Let's play the game. Hey, Jorty, good luck. Thanks Shelly,

1872
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Speaker 1: you too, right, with all due respect, if you will

1873
01:31:17,320 --> 01:31:20,160
Speaker 1: get the hell out shell mis Shelley. Question number one

1874
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Speaker 1: for you, missus Jordan and Streamwood. Which member of the

1875
01:31:23,000 --> 01:31:28,720
Speaker 1: Kardashian Jenner clan got married in Santa Barbara over the weekend? Me?

1876
01:31:29,240 --> 01:31:31,720
Speaker 1: All right, Gwen Stefani. And now she'll be returning to

1877
01:31:31,840 --> 01:31:37,479
Speaker 1: this reality competition show as a coach next season the voice,

1878
01:31:37,560 --> 01:31:39,760
Speaker 1: And I don't think Jason Brown's very happy about it. Yeah,

1879
01:31:39,800 --> 01:31:43,479
Speaker 1: you know she's married to Blake Shelton. Wait what what? Yeah?

1880
01:31:44,080 --> 01:31:46,200
Speaker 1: They met on that show. Tell are too much? I

1881
01:31:46,280 --> 01:31:48,439
Speaker 1: think for a couple of years. Fred, Where are you

1882
01:31:50,400 --> 01:31:53,120
Speaker 1: love her? No? This is you know we're getting her?

1883
01:31:54,439 --> 01:31:59,719
Speaker 1: Where are you Fred? It's so over publicized, that's anyway.

1884
01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:02,479
Speaker 1: I'm not going to explain the joke. Um, the late

1885
01:32:02,520 --> 01:32:05,200
Speaker 1: Bob Saget has a birthday today? In which year did

1886
01:32:05,320 --> 01:32:10,679
Speaker 1: he die? Two thousand and twenty two. This year, Todd

1887
01:32:10,800 --> 01:32:13,400
Speaker 1: and Julie Chrisley are set to go on trial for

1888
01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 1: charges to bank fraud and evading taxes and bad hair.

1889
01:32:17,600 --> 01:32:22,040
Speaker 1: What is the name of their reality show? And nearly

1890
01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:26,120
Speaker 1: six years after getting engaged on national television, Bachelorette Joejoe

1891
01:32:26,200 --> 01:32:32,519
Speaker 1: Fletcher married the winner of her season name him. Oh god,

1892
01:32:32,560 --> 01:32:35,000
Speaker 1: I don't watch The Bachelor, Is it Pilo Pete? Oh no,

1893
01:32:35,520 --> 01:32:38,160
Speaker 1: not a bad guess. But that's a four that was

1894
01:32:38,240 --> 01:32:40,160
Speaker 1: going to score. But I do think number five is

1895
01:32:40,200 --> 01:32:43,040
Speaker 1: going to get you. We'll see Shelley's coming back. Yeah here,

1896
01:32:43,160 --> 01:32:45,160
Speaker 1: I'm definitely going to get me. Yeah, but guess what

1897
01:32:45,240 --> 01:32:50,559
Speaker 1: you win free therapy anyway, A foe A foe is yeah,

1898
01:32:50,640 --> 01:32:53,480
Speaker 1: it's good. Question Number one. Which member of the Kardashian

1899
01:32:53,560 --> 01:32:56,320
Speaker 1: Jenner clan got married in Santa Barbara over the weekend?

1900
01:32:56,840 --> 01:33:00,240
Speaker 1: Courtney's correct quens. The Fani announce she'll be rich learning

1901
01:33:00,240 --> 01:33:03,120
Speaker 1: to this reality competition show as a coach next season.

1902
01:33:03,880 --> 01:33:06,280
Speaker 1: Um the voice, uf you tell her what you found out?

1903
01:33:06,760 --> 01:33:09,080
Speaker 1: Did you know, Shelley that Gwen Seffani and Blake Shelton

1904
01:33:09,120 --> 01:33:11,479
Speaker 1: are married. I don't think I did know about. No

1905
01:33:11,640 --> 01:33:15,400
Speaker 1: kidding crazy right, people about these people don't talk about like,

1906
01:33:15,479 --> 01:33:16,640
Speaker 1: I don't know how they've been able to be so

1907
01:33:16,760 --> 01:33:19,160
Speaker 1: download ask about that. I would have known that. I know,

1908
01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:21,040
Speaker 1: I know there's a lot of people don't know because

1909
01:33:21,040 --> 01:33:24,639
Speaker 1: they never ever are like spotted with each other's tongues

1910
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:26,920
Speaker 1: down each other's throats. They don't have an extra coach

1911
01:33:26,960 --> 01:33:29,040
Speaker 1: on the voice because they sit in the same chair together. Yeah.

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01:33:29,080 --> 01:33:32,080
Speaker 1: I wonder how their kids deal with it. I don't

1913
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:35,240
Speaker 1: think there's any real question there. Yeah. Um, the late

1914
01:33:35,320 --> 01:33:37,360
Speaker 1: Bob Saget has a birthday today. And which year did

1915
01:33:37,439 --> 01:33:42,280
Speaker 1: he die? Oh um? It would have been three this year,

1916
01:33:42,360 --> 01:33:47,519
Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. Yeah, trick question. Todd and Julie Chrisley

1917
01:33:47,600 --> 01:33:49,559
Speaker 1: are set to go on trial for charges at bank

1918
01:33:49,640 --> 01:33:52,000
Speaker 1: fraud and evading taxes. What is the name of their

1919
01:33:52,080 --> 01:33:56,320
Speaker 1: reality show Chris knows us? And nearly six years after

1920
01:33:56,360 --> 01:34:00,120
Speaker 1: getting engaged on national television, bachelorette Jojoe Fletcher married the

1921
01:34:00,200 --> 01:34:11,040
Speaker 1: winner of her season. Am Jordan, that's right? Yeah, right,

1922
01:34:11,439 --> 01:34:17,439
Speaker 1: come on, Jordan, right? Think I don't think he attended

1923
01:34:17,479 --> 01:34:20,640
Speaker 1: the wedding. Oh um, all right, Jordan. I like you,

1924
01:34:20,720 --> 01:34:21,920
Speaker 1: You know, you get a little sass to you, A

1925
01:34:21,920 --> 01:34:27,479
Speaker 1: little sassafrast know what I mean. I've told me too.

1926
01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:29,519
Speaker 1: I get my Jason Brown book here and see what

1927
01:34:29,560 --> 01:34:33,360
Speaker 1: I can actually giving you something? Uh what I want

1928
01:34:33,360 --> 01:34:35,320
Speaker 1: to give you, I don't know. Normally I don't give

1929
01:34:35,360 --> 01:34:37,920
Speaker 1: away consolation prizes, but I'm gonna do it. Do you

1930
01:34:38,040 --> 01:34:41,840
Speaker 1: want to go to Kendrick Lamar or do you want

1931
01:34:41,880 --> 01:34:43,200
Speaker 1: to go to Pride in the Park with the chain

1932
01:34:43,240 --> 01:34:48,960
Speaker 1: smokers A less soda and more. I need an answer.

1933
01:34:49,280 --> 01:34:54,639
Speaker 1: That's a good one. We've had good prizes lately. Uh,

1934
01:34:56,200 --> 01:35:00,320
Speaker 1: I need an answer. Three? Would you like? I love

1935
01:35:00,360 --> 01:35:04,040
Speaker 1: you and I do the change smokers? Yes you can.

1936
01:35:04,240 --> 01:35:07,360
Speaker 1: You're going uh Pride in the Park with all those folks.

1937
01:35:07,439 --> 01:35:10,200
Speaker 1: June twenty fifth and twenty six, Pride Park, shy dot com.

1938
01:35:10,320 --> 01:35:13,760
Speaker 1: Thanks to dream Bright Presents, You've got free tickets. Congratulations,

1939
01:35:13,800 --> 01:35:18,880
Speaker 1: we love you, Thank you, Love you. Guys. Lady told

1940
01:35:18,920 --> 01:35:21,640
Speaker 1: me to go to therapy. I already there, girl, I

1941
01:35:21,680 --> 01:35:24,080
Speaker 1: already there. Hold on a second, Shelly, what's coming up

1942
01:35:24,080 --> 01:35:26,360
Speaker 1: on your show later on today? Oh wait a minute,

1943
01:35:26,400 --> 01:35:28,680
Speaker 1: Hold on a second. Yeah, hold on, I need I

1944
01:35:28,760 --> 01:35:31,439
Speaker 1: need her, Jason, let me talk to her again. Hold on,

1945
01:35:31,880 --> 01:35:36,160
Speaker 1: I need her, sassafrast to tell me. Sorry, Jason, Jordan,

1946
01:35:36,200 --> 01:35:38,200
Speaker 1: you've gotta do the thing I need. Yeah, you so sassy.

1947
01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you do it, okay, you all. I

1948
01:35:41,200 --> 01:35:44,559
Speaker 1: knew it was coming. Yeah, Okay, forgot my name is Jordan.

1949
01:35:45,000 --> 01:35:47,160
Speaker 1: I got sewn up on the showed out and I

1950
01:35:47,400 --> 01:35:52,920
Speaker 1: can't hang with the gorilla. That was good, nice, that

1951
01:35:53,040 --> 01:35:54,439
Speaker 1: was nice job. All right, good, I'm glad I got

1952
01:35:54,479 --> 01:35:55,920
Speaker 1: you back. All right, hold on a second, stare right there,

1953
01:35:56,000 --> 01:35:58,519
Speaker 1: enjoy the Chance Smoker Shelley ten to noon one or

1954
01:35:58,560 --> 01:36:01,040
Speaker 1: three point five FM for that as what's coming up? Yeah,

1955
01:36:01,200 --> 01:36:04,479
Speaker 1: so did Pete Davidson quote SNL. I will tell you

1956
01:36:04,520 --> 01:36:06,760
Speaker 1: about that. And also I too have tickets for the

1957
01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:08,920
Speaker 1: Chain Smokers for Prett in the park. Okay, good, we'll

1958
01:36:08,920 --> 01:36:12,960
Speaker 1: talk to you in a little bit. Thank you. The

1959
01:36:13,080 --> 01:36:21,960
Speaker 1: French show is on. It feels good out United Otto

1960
01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:24,680
Speaker 1: Insurance seven seven three two O two five thousand. They

1961
01:36:24,720 --> 01:36:27,479
Speaker 1: got she covered Chica. No, thank you, rufine good news

1962
01:36:27,520 --> 01:36:29,800
Speaker 1: stories every day on the show. We can't miss out

1963
01:36:29,840 --> 01:36:31,720
Speaker 1: on these. What she got Kalin? So, I actually saw

1964
01:36:31,760 --> 01:36:34,240
Speaker 1: this story last week, but I really wanted to mention it.

1965
01:36:34,360 --> 01:36:38,800
Speaker 1: So J Cole attended Rowan University's graduation ceremony and kept

1966
01:36:38,920 --> 01:36:41,760
Speaker 1: his promise to a fan he met nearly a decade ago.

1967
01:36:42,080 --> 01:36:45,200
Speaker 1: So Sierra Bossage first spoke to j Cole in twenty

1968
01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:47,920
Speaker 1: thirteen when she called a radio station, saying she wanted

1969
01:36:47,960 --> 01:36:50,160
Speaker 1: him to wish her a happy birthday. Three months later,

1970
01:36:50,439 --> 01:36:52,479
Speaker 1: she got a phone call from him and he invited

1971
01:36:52,520 --> 01:36:54,800
Speaker 1: her to meet up in person. When they finally met up,

1972
01:36:54,880 --> 01:36:57,479
Speaker 1: she handed him a letter she wrote for him years earlier.

1973
01:36:57,920 --> 01:37:00,240
Speaker 1: In the letter, it says all I went through, she said,

1974
01:37:00,280 --> 01:37:02,800
Speaker 1: with being adopted, my parents, being hooked on drugs, in

1975
01:37:02,920 --> 01:37:05,240
Speaker 1: and out of prison. At the time, both parents were

1976
01:37:05,320 --> 01:37:07,519
Speaker 1: in prison. So I asked him if he could come

1977
01:37:07,600 --> 01:37:12,599
Speaker 1: to my graduation since they couldn't since then. He told her, Hey,

1978
01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:15,680
Speaker 1: if you get into a four year college, I will

1979
01:37:15,720 --> 01:37:19,240
Speaker 1: go to your high school graduation. She did so last week.

1980
01:37:19,280 --> 01:37:21,720
Speaker 1: He fulfilled his promise and went. After the ceremony, the

1981
01:37:21,880 --> 01:37:24,360
Speaker 1: college grad and j Cole took photos in her cap

1982
01:37:24,479 --> 01:37:27,240
Speaker 1: and gown. She shared her excitement on social with the

1983
01:37:27,360 --> 01:37:34,280
Speaker 1: lyrics from his song Nobody's Perfect as the caption oh yeah,

1984
01:37:34,280 --> 01:37:36,719
Speaker 1: well this is pretty cool So the UK. The public

1985
01:37:36,840 --> 01:37:41,240
Speaker 1: Health services in Britain are officially prescribing stand up comedy

1986
01:37:41,280 --> 01:37:44,240
Speaker 1: classes to men at risk of suicide from mental trauma

1987
01:37:44,360 --> 01:37:48,400
Speaker 1: or depression after a pilot program proved outrageously successful. While

1988
01:37:48,439 --> 01:37:50,479
Speaker 1: stand up is one of the hardest and scariest things

1989
01:37:50,520 --> 01:37:52,160
Speaker 1: that most people could think to do, and it is

1990
01:37:52,479 --> 01:37:54,800
Speaker 1: I tried it once and ever again, not because I

1991
01:37:54,840 --> 01:37:56,560
Speaker 1: thought it was funny. It was a dare and it

1992
01:37:56,720 --> 01:38:00,560
Speaker 1: was miserable. It is a miserable thing to think that

1993
01:38:01,080 --> 01:38:03,040
Speaker 1: you're telling funny jokes while everyone stares at you and

1994
01:38:03,120 --> 01:38:05,960
Speaker 1: you're not funny like me. Humor, though, is one of

1995
01:38:06,000 --> 01:38:10,639
Speaker 1: the most innate ways that human beings process trauma. Despite

1996
01:38:10,640 --> 01:38:13,240
Speaker 1: what social activists have for decades said about some topics

1997
01:38:13,320 --> 01:38:16,400
Speaker 1: being off limits, British comedian and He Belcher is showing

1998
01:38:16,439 --> 01:38:19,760
Speaker 1: that people exploring their personal history through comedy often makes

1999
01:38:19,800 --> 01:38:22,640
Speaker 1: them stronger and more resilient. I think that's why a

2000
01:38:22,680 --> 01:38:25,400
Speaker 1: lot of radio people do case in point the last

2001
01:38:25,439 --> 01:38:29,000
Speaker 1: hour of the show. Belcher is the pioneer of comedy

2002
01:38:29,120 --> 01:38:32,880
Speaker 1: on Referral, a six week course for trauma survivors in

2003
01:38:33,040 --> 01:38:36,880
Speaker 1: Bristol that's now receiving National Health Service funding to expand

2004
01:38:36,920 --> 01:38:40,120
Speaker 1: its programs to London and help men at risk of suicide.

2005
01:38:40,439 --> 01:38:44,120
Speaker 1: So interesting. My course for trauma victims encourages them to

2006
01:38:44,200 --> 01:38:46,519
Speaker 1: process their trauma in a different way, so they can

2007
01:38:46,600 --> 01:38:49,680
Speaker 1: change who the victim is and choose the narrative they

2008
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:52,519
Speaker 1: can actually go right down into this is what I

2009
01:38:52,680 --> 01:38:55,439
Speaker 1: was thinking when this happened to me. This enables survivors

2010
01:38:55,479 --> 01:38:59,000
Speaker 1: to consciously use comedy to change their perspective of their experiences,

2011
01:38:59,280 --> 01:39:02,280
Speaker 1: but it also puts them in a physically powerful position,

2012
01:39:02,400 --> 01:39:06,040
Speaker 1: because being on stage is very powerful. I think that's

2013
01:39:06,080 --> 01:39:08,200
Speaker 1: why you'll find a lot of comics have a lot

2014
01:39:08,240 --> 01:39:12,560
Speaker 1: of deep drauma, some of which goes, you know, unhealthfully

2015
01:39:12,640 --> 01:39:17,000
Speaker 1: dealt with, but yet they are able to find relatability

2016
01:39:17,080 --> 01:39:20,880
Speaker 1: and humor and some bad things that have happened to them. Anyway,

2017
01:39:20,880 --> 01:39:24,080
Speaker 1: that's a very cool thing. Let's do waiting by the phone?

2018
01:39:24,120 --> 01:39:26,719
Speaker 1: Why did somebody get ghosted? That's next, the Entertainment Report

2019
01:39:26,960 --> 01:39:29,479
Speaker 1: and fun fact trending stories all coming up on the

2020
01:39:29,600 --> 01:39:37,960
Speaker 1: Fred Show. Why were you left waiting by the phone? Joustin,

2021
01:39:38,120 --> 01:39:41,120
Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning, Welcome to the show. This is

2022
01:39:41,200 --> 01:39:43,040
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, of course, trying to figure out

2023
01:39:43,080 --> 01:39:46,120
Speaker 1: why you got ghosted, or seems that way at least.

2024
01:39:46,160 --> 01:39:48,760
Speaker 1: So explain to us how you met Becky, about any

2025
01:39:48,840 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 1: dates that you've been on, kind of fill us in

2026
01:39:50,479 --> 01:39:53,559
Speaker 1: on the backstory and what's happening now. Yeah, absolutely, Um,

2027
01:39:53,920 --> 01:39:57,600
Speaker 1: so we I was on the app. Um and we

2028
01:39:57,720 --> 01:40:01,200
Speaker 1: met on bumble um And honestly, we talked for a

2029
01:40:01,280 --> 01:40:04,519
Speaker 1: while and you know, we we were texting and we

2030
01:40:04,600 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 1: would talk on the phone, and I was really exposed to, like,

2031
01:40:08,040 --> 01:40:10,679
Speaker 1: you know, get together and meet in person. We finally

2032
01:40:10,760 --> 01:40:14,040
Speaker 1: like set up a date to meet in person, and uh,

2033
01:40:14,439 --> 01:40:16,840
Speaker 1: she just kind of ghosted me. Um, And I'm not

2034
01:40:16,960 --> 01:40:18,880
Speaker 1: sure why she stood me up. Okay, so you never

2035
01:40:19,000 --> 01:40:21,519
Speaker 1: met then, like you were just chatting and then the

2036
01:40:21,880 --> 01:40:24,920
Speaker 1: date never happened even Yeah, No, we like, like I said,

2037
01:40:24,960 --> 01:40:28,080
Speaker 1: we were, we were having fun and yeah, she just

2038
01:40:28,200 --> 01:40:31,760
Speaker 1: out of nowhere stopped talking to me. And I'm I'm

2039
01:40:32,280 --> 01:40:34,840
Speaker 1: your guest is as good as mine. Why we stopped talking? Wow?

2040
01:40:34,840 --> 01:40:36,519
Speaker 1: Because I guess it's one thing if you meet in

2041
01:40:36,600 --> 01:40:39,080
Speaker 1: person and the date doesn't go well, you do something

2042
01:40:39,120 --> 01:40:41,559
Speaker 1: weird or something strange happens, that's one thing. But you're

2043
01:40:41,640 --> 01:40:44,360
Speaker 1: saying never, you guys never even met, Like she just

2044
01:40:44,520 --> 01:40:48,760
Speaker 1: disappeared from communication, Yeah, out of the blue. Wow. Okay, Well,

2045
01:40:48,800 --> 01:40:50,559
Speaker 1: let's call this woman Becky. We'll see if we can

2046
01:40:50,600 --> 01:40:52,200
Speaker 1: get her on the phone and ask some questions and

2047
01:40:52,240 --> 01:40:54,519
Speaker 1: see what's going on, see why she disappeared. Hopefully we

2048
01:40:54,600 --> 01:40:57,040
Speaker 1: can straighten things out. Set you guys up on a date,

2049
01:40:57,080 --> 01:40:59,120
Speaker 1: a first date. In this case, you can meet and

2050
01:40:59,200 --> 01:41:02,240
Speaker 1: we'll pay for that. Right, I'm gonna play one song.

2051
01:41:02,320 --> 01:41:04,519
Speaker 1: We'll come back and do it. Can you hang on? Yeah? Absolutely,

2052
01:41:04,760 --> 01:41:07,240
Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next. In three minutes after Travis

2053
01:41:07,320 --> 01:41:10,880
Speaker 1: Scott and then this just in, we have more Pride

2054
01:41:10,960 --> 01:41:14,240
Speaker 1: in the Park, tickets for you next Chain Smokers Day

2055
01:41:14,439 --> 01:41:17,200
Speaker 1: and more in Grant Park. You win in a couple

2056
01:41:17,240 --> 01:41:19,320
Speaker 1: of minutes on The Fred Show. Forty minutes commercial free,

2057
01:41:19,360 --> 01:41:23,120
Speaker 1: one oh three five Travis Scott The Fred Show. He

2058
01:41:23,240 --> 01:41:26,040
Speaker 1: is on one three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one

2059
01:41:26,120 --> 01:41:29,960
Speaker 1: hit music station. Hey justin, Yeah, welcome back. Let's call Becky.

2060
01:41:30,160 --> 01:41:32,880
Speaker 1: You guys met on bumble, you chatted for a while,

2061
01:41:33,479 --> 01:41:36,280
Speaker 1: planned a date, but the date never happened because she

2062
01:41:36,360 --> 01:41:40,240
Speaker 1: ghosted you before you could even go out. Yeah, it's weird.

2063
01:41:40,360 --> 01:41:42,479
Speaker 1: We don't hear about that very often. But let's call Becky.

2064
01:41:42,479 --> 01:41:44,080
Speaker 1: We'll see if we can figure this out and straighten

2065
01:41:44,160 --> 01:41:57,280
Speaker 1: things out for you. Good luck. Hello? Hi is this Becky? Yes, Becky,

2066
01:41:57,360 --> 01:41:59,040
Speaker 1: good morning Fred from the Fred Show. The whole crew

2067
01:41:59,160 --> 01:42:01,360
Speaker 1: is here one h three five Kiss FM in Chicago,

2068
01:42:01,439 --> 01:42:03,000
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to bother, but I do have to

2069
01:42:03,120 --> 01:42:05,559
Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now

2070
01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:07,840
Speaker 1: and I would need your consent to continue with the call.

2071
01:42:08,000 --> 01:42:11,160
Speaker 1: Can we chat for a minute off the show? Oh

2072
01:42:11,280 --> 01:42:14,200
Speaker 1: my gosh, Okay, thank you that's a yes. Thank you

2073
01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:16,920
Speaker 1: very much for calling out half of this dude I

2074
01:42:17,040 --> 01:42:19,720
Speaker 1: named Justin, who I guess you met on Bumble. You

2075
01:42:19,840 --> 01:42:22,320
Speaker 1: chatted with Justin a little bit, maybe talking about going

2076
01:42:22,360 --> 01:42:25,880
Speaker 1: on a date that never happened. Well that's not what

2077
01:42:25,960 --> 01:42:28,840
Speaker 1: I was expecting. I really, I can't believe I have

2078
01:42:28,960 --> 01:42:31,360
Speaker 1: to talk about this guy. Are you for real? I'm

2079
01:42:31,360 --> 01:42:33,040
Speaker 1: not sure what you were expecting, but yeah, no, he

2080
01:42:33,360 --> 01:42:35,679
Speaker 1: reached out to us and told us to be matched

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01:42:35,680 --> 01:42:37,439
Speaker 1: with them. It was excited about the match that you

2082
01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:40,000
Speaker 1: guys have been chatting and we're talking about going on

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01:42:40,080 --> 01:42:42,240
Speaker 1: a date, and then you disappeared. So why no date?

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01:42:42,360 --> 01:42:46,280
Speaker 1: What happened? I was hoping it was for something else?

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01:42:46,360 --> 01:42:51,200
Speaker 1: I guess. Okay, Well, yeah we met on Bumble only.

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01:42:51,479 --> 01:42:53,360
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not this girl that goes out with

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01:42:53,479 --> 01:42:55,599
Speaker 1: every guy in Mattress because I really try to avoid

2088
01:42:55,720 --> 01:42:59,600
Speaker 1: like weirdos and I like to get to know the

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01:42:59,640 --> 01:43:01,479
Speaker 1: person a little bit. That's why I know what I'm

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01:43:01,520 --> 01:43:04,400
Speaker 1: getting into. So he did talk a little bit leading

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01:43:04,560 --> 01:43:09,080
Speaker 1: up to the date, but he he qulled me like

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01:43:09,360 --> 01:43:12,400
Speaker 1: right before our date, like right before we're supposed to meet,

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01:43:12,840 --> 01:43:15,600
Speaker 1: and he asked me for gas money so that he

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01:43:15,680 --> 01:43:21,800
Speaker 1: could get to the restaurant. And I had never had

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01:43:21,880 --> 01:43:24,439
Speaker 1: that happen before. It was so weird, Like I was

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01:43:24,640 --> 01:43:27,559
Speaker 1: deplored that he would even ask for that. I mean,

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01:43:27,560 --> 01:43:30,200
Speaker 1: it's almost five dollars ago, and it's it is true. Yes,

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01:43:30,520 --> 01:43:33,000
Speaker 1: I mean, Becky had spending. He charge you a search charge,

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01:43:33,360 --> 01:43:36,200
Speaker 1: he charged you a date searcharge. You gotta pay him

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01:43:36,240 --> 01:43:38,400
Speaker 1: fifteen books because it costs more to get around these

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01:43:38,479 --> 01:43:42,120
Speaker 1: days than before. Um, it's so ridiculous. How much did

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01:43:42,160 --> 01:43:45,760
Speaker 1: he want you to venmo him? He asked me if

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01:43:45,760 --> 01:43:47,479
Speaker 1: I could just help him out with some gas money,

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01:43:47,520 --> 01:43:50,720
Speaker 1: you know, ten, sixteen, twenty dollars whatever so he can

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01:43:50,960 --> 01:43:52,800
Speaker 1: get there. Though, like, how was he going to pay

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01:43:52,800 --> 01:43:54,439
Speaker 1: for the date? Or what is he what is it

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01:43:54,520 --> 01:43:56,600
Speaker 1: going to pay for the date? Yeah, I mean I

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01:43:56,720 --> 01:43:59,680
Speaker 1: don't want to date someone that I have to support financially,

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01:44:00,200 --> 01:44:02,840
Speaker 1: so that would have been nice to know ahead of time.

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01:44:02,960 --> 01:44:04,840
Speaker 1: You got to put your best foot forward on a

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01:44:04,920 --> 01:44:07,080
Speaker 1: first date, and that is not doing that. Let me

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01:44:07,120 --> 01:44:09,280
Speaker 1: bring Justin in. I forgot to mention the Justin's here.

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01:44:09,840 --> 01:44:12,280
Speaker 1: You you failed to mention to us that you asked

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01:44:12,760 --> 01:44:15,840
Speaker 1: for gas money. I mean, I guess that's were you

2115
01:44:15,920 --> 01:44:17,600
Speaker 1: gonna go pick her up? Or was this just for

2116
01:44:17,720 --> 01:44:22,080
Speaker 1: you to get there? Uh? Yeah, you know I did.

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01:44:22,200 --> 01:44:24,880
Speaker 1: I did ask her. Um was it was for me

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01:44:24,960 --> 01:44:26,479
Speaker 1: to get there? But I was in my mind, in

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01:44:26,560 --> 01:44:30,120
Speaker 1: my defense, I was like, I was saving the money

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01:44:30,200 --> 01:44:31,880
Speaker 1: for I was saving the money for the dinner. So

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01:44:32,200 --> 01:44:35,439
Speaker 1: and I realized, don't know, I was out of Yeah, yeah, okay,

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01:44:35,560 --> 01:44:38,360
Speaker 1: so we're balling on a budget over here, which you know, Hey,

2123
01:44:39,479 --> 01:44:41,280
Speaker 1: that's all right, but you gotta don't you have to

2124
01:44:41,320 --> 01:44:44,280
Speaker 1: take that into consideration when you're dating, especially when you

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01:44:44,360 --> 01:44:47,080
Speaker 1: first meet somebody. I mean, when you first meet somebody,

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01:44:47,360 --> 01:44:49,519
Speaker 1: don't you want to plan something that you can afford

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01:44:49,880 --> 01:44:51,400
Speaker 1: so that you can go. I mean, because if the

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01:44:51,560 --> 01:44:54,439
Speaker 1: very first thing that you do is ask her for money,

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01:44:55,040 --> 01:44:58,720
Speaker 1: that doesn't send a very good least pay for the

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01:44:58,760 --> 01:45:02,760
Speaker 1: whole dinner. Would you rather him ask hey, you want

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01:45:02,800 --> 01:45:05,320
Speaker 1: to split this dinner? And then you know, she ends

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01:45:05,360 --> 01:45:09,400
Speaker 1: up paying like neither instead of paying you. I would

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01:45:09,439 --> 01:45:13,639
Speaker 1: say splitting a dinner is probably more justifiable than asking

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01:45:13,720 --> 01:45:15,560
Speaker 1: for gas money, and I don't. I don't do it

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01:45:15,680 --> 01:45:18,040
Speaker 1: when I asked somebody out, I pay even if it

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01:45:18,120 --> 01:45:22,719
Speaker 1: doesn't go well, that being sad. If if I'm already

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01:45:22,840 --> 01:45:25,519
Speaker 1: asking for money and we've never even met, I mean,

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01:45:25,640 --> 01:45:28,960
Speaker 1: come on, yeah, you're supposed to like act like you're not,

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01:45:29,360 --> 01:45:32,320
Speaker 1: you know, your best version of yourself. Have you done

2140
01:45:32,320 --> 01:45:35,080
Speaker 1: this before? Justin have you have you asked women to

2141
01:45:35,120 --> 01:45:39,480
Speaker 1: give you money before you even mean? I listen, I'll

2142
01:45:39,520 --> 01:45:41,880
Speaker 1: be honest, I've done it once or twice. But it's

2143
01:45:41,920 --> 01:45:43,519
Speaker 1: not like I'm not showing up at the like, if

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01:45:43,560 --> 01:45:45,800
Speaker 1: I wasn't showing up at the day, then that's one thing.

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01:45:45,840 --> 01:45:49,880
Speaker 1: Well that's called stealing. That's called saft, so that that's

2146
01:45:49,880 --> 01:45:54,439
Speaker 1: called the scam. Oh exactly. So you're not scamming people,

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01:45:54,479 --> 01:45:57,479
Speaker 1: So that makes it okay? Then right? Well I told

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01:45:57,520 --> 01:45:59,639
Speaker 1: her I was getting paid. I got paid the next day,

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01:45:59,680 --> 01:46:02,080
Speaker 1: and I you know, I set it back, And well,

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01:46:02,080 --> 01:46:03,920
Speaker 1: why don't you just schedule the dates for the next day?

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01:46:04,120 --> 01:46:06,320
Speaker 1: How about you? How about this from movie forward? Schedule

2152
01:46:06,400 --> 01:46:11,400
Speaker 1: your dates on paid date? Yeah, yeah, I think that's

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01:46:11,520 --> 01:46:13,040
Speaker 1: reason and B that's what I'm saying. It's like or

2154
01:46:13,160 --> 01:46:15,920
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, I mean, it's only twenty four hours.

2155
01:46:15,960 --> 01:46:17,240
Speaker 1: You could have had the date the next day. You

2156
01:46:17,240 --> 01:46:18,720
Speaker 1: would have been fine. You wouldn't have had to ask

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01:46:18,760 --> 01:46:20,720
Speaker 1: her for money. And then down the road, if you know,

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01:46:20,800 --> 01:46:23,400
Speaker 1: if you're tight, if budgets tight, and she really likes you,

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01:46:23,520 --> 01:46:25,719
Speaker 1: then maybe you start doing things that aren't as expensive,

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01:46:26,080 --> 01:46:29,600
Speaker 1: like driving. You weren't even going to pick her up,

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01:46:29,880 --> 01:46:31,360
Speaker 1: you know, I guess at least go pick her up

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01:46:31,400 --> 01:46:33,400
Speaker 1: if she's paying for the gas in the car on

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01:46:33,560 --> 01:46:38,600
Speaker 1: her dime. Ya okay, Becky, So I don't know. It

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01:46:38,680 --> 01:46:41,479
Speaker 1: sounds like dude maybe had good intentions, but it didn't

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01:46:41,479 --> 01:46:45,240
Speaker 1: come off right. You know, he's a tender swindler. His

2166
01:46:45,439 --> 01:46:47,599
Speaker 1: enemies are coming after him. All of his bank accounts

2167
01:46:47,600 --> 01:46:49,920
Speaker 1: are frozen. He needed you to send money for guess.

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01:46:50,000 --> 01:46:53,360
Speaker 1: But he's actually a millionaire. He's very very wealthy, this guy. Sure,

2169
01:46:53,840 --> 01:46:56,599
Speaker 1: sure it felt like that, it felt like he was wealthy.

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01:46:56,760 --> 01:46:59,920
Speaker 1: I'm really just not interested in dealing with that anymore.

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01:47:00,479 --> 01:47:04,560
Speaker 1: It's fair, okay, Um, justin I'm sorry, man, not not

2172
01:47:04,640 --> 01:47:07,240
Speaker 1: a good move. But best of luck to you. Okay, yeah,

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01:47:07,439 --> 01:47:09,680
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, Becky for your time. Good luck

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Speaker 1: out there. I'm a big fan of the show, so

2175
01:47:11,840 --> 01:47:14,120
Speaker 1: thanks for calling me. I wish it was for something

2176
01:47:14,160 --> 01:47:18,400
Speaker 1: else though, maybe next time, something else, maybe maybe next time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Okay. More Pride than part tickets Next, The

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Speaker 1: Entertainer Report, Fun Fat trending stories, blogs all coming up.

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Speaker 1: The Fred Show is Thank you for waking up with

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01:47:27,600 --> 01:47:32,800
Speaker 1: us one h three five Kiss FM, Kiss FM. The

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01:47:33,000 --> 01:47:36,040
Speaker 1: latest entertainment news is on The Fred Show. Stephen Andrew

2182
01:47:36,080 --> 01:47:38,439
Speaker 1: Walter has been sentenced to more than seventeen years in

2183
01:47:38,520 --> 01:47:41,640
Speaker 1: prison for directing fentanyl lace pills to be given to

2184
01:47:41,760 --> 01:47:44,960
Speaker 1: rapper mac Miller before he died of an overdose in

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01:47:45,120 --> 01:47:48,000
Speaker 1: November of last year. He flied guilty to one count

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Speaker 1: of distribution of fentanyl. The offense carries a twenty year

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01:47:52,240 --> 01:47:56,240
Speaker 1: mandatory minimum prison term, but in his plea agreement, he

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01:47:56,320 --> 01:47:59,120
Speaker 1: will just serve seventeen not just, but less than that

2189
01:47:59,240 --> 01:48:02,799
Speaker 1: initial twenty. He did know that the pills had fentanel

2190
01:48:02,880 --> 01:48:05,360
Speaker 1: and is one of three people charged in the overdose

2191
01:48:05,800 --> 01:48:08,519
Speaker 1: of mac Miller. A man named Ryan Michael Reeves was

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01:48:08,560 --> 01:48:11,120
Speaker 1: sentenced to eleven years last month, and then a case

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01:48:11,160 --> 01:48:14,640
Speaker 1: against a man name Cameron, Petit, Petit. I don't know.

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01:48:14,720 --> 01:48:16,120
Speaker 1: I don't really care about his name because he's a

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01:48:16,160 --> 01:48:19,519
Speaker 1: bad person. Is still pending like that, we don't really

2196
01:48:19,560 --> 01:48:24,000
Speaker 1: get the names of bad people right around the right exactly,

2197
01:48:24,120 --> 01:48:26,680
Speaker 1: Peace Cameron, but his case is still pending. I'll let

2198
01:48:26,720 --> 01:48:28,960
Speaker 1: you know what happens with that. Margot Robbie is in

2199
01:48:29,040 --> 01:48:32,200
Speaker 1: Talk two star in a female lad spinoff of Pirates

2200
01:48:32,240 --> 01:48:35,160
Speaker 1: of the Caribbean. There's actually two scripts out there in

2201
01:48:35,240 --> 01:48:38,960
Speaker 1: the works. Um so one is to reboot the main series,

2202
01:48:39,320 --> 01:48:42,519
Speaker 1: but unless there's a drastic change in Johnny depp situation,

2203
01:48:43,280 --> 01:48:45,200
Speaker 1: he's not going to be in it. So the director

2204
01:48:45,280 --> 01:48:46,720
Speaker 1: did say, hey, I don't know if he's going to

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01:48:46,760 --> 01:48:48,800
Speaker 1: be in it as of right now. He's not, but

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01:48:48,880 --> 01:48:50,400
Speaker 1: it could be. And then the other one is a

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01:48:50,520 --> 01:48:53,639
Speaker 1: female lad Jack. She would be the Jack Sparrow Pirates

2208
01:48:53,680 --> 01:48:56,040
Speaker 1: of the Caribee. So there's two going on. I think

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01:48:56,040 --> 01:48:57,839
Speaker 1: it's a hell of a time to reboot the original,

2210
01:48:57,960 --> 01:49:01,240
Speaker 1: but hey, I mean we'll see popular franchise for it

2211
01:49:01,360 --> 01:49:03,439
Speaker 1: is yeah, oh yeah, for sure. I know they've got

2212
01:49:03,479 --> 01:49:06,880
Speaker 1: to be conflicted. Pirates of the Caribbean. Do I say

2213
01:49:06,920 --> 01:49:09,559
Speaker 1: it weird? No, you said it right, no, I think

2214
01:49:09,560 --> 01:49:10,960
Speaker 1: you can say however you want. But I think it's

2215
01:49:10,960 --> 01:49:13,760
Speaker 1: funny when people say Pirates of the Caribbean. Yeah, am

2216
01:49:13,800 --> 01:49:16,240
Speaker 1: ipso saying Cards of the Caribbean. That's how it is. Yeah,

2217
01:49:16,280 --> 01:49:18,400
Speaker 1: I think that's most people say, that's what you said,

2218
01:49:18,600 --> 01:49:21,599
Speaker 1: But I was making fun of not you. Oh listen

2219
01:49:21,840 --> 01:49:24,160
Speaker 1: people who say it that. Yeah speak ever, so I

2220
01:49:24,200 --> 01:49:27,120
Speaker 1: thought maybe I said it wrong. Speaking of new shows

2221
01:49:27,120 --> 01:49:29,799
Speaker 1: that are coming back, Black Mirror is returning to Netflix

2222
01:49:29,920 --> 01:49:33,920
Speaker 1: after a sixth season, so nearly three years after season

2223
01:49:34,000 --> 01:49:36,720
Speaker 1: five premiered with just three episodes. The new season will

2224
01:49:36,800 --> 01:49:40,000
Speaker 1: have more than that, thankfully, and they're going to treat

2225
01:49:40,040 --> 01:49:42,320
Speaker 1: each one like an individual movie, so it's going to be,

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01:49:42,560 --> 01:49:47,320
Speaker 1: you know, super well done. But for me, I don't

2227
01:49:47,360 --> 01:49:49,679
Speaker 1: know that those episodes get a little too real. Yeah.

2228
01:49:49,880 --> 01:49:53,040
Speaker 1: I didn't watch the first season's anxiety. I don't want to.

2229
01:49:53,080 --> 01:49:54,280
Speaker 1: And a lot of the stuff on the old like

2230
01:49:54,360 --> 01:49:57,719
Speaker 1: original BBC show has come true in some way, shape

2231
01:49:57,760 --> 01:49:59,720
Speaker 1: or forms, so I don't know about that. And then

2232
01:49:59,800 --> 01:50:01,640
Speaker 1: this one is for you, Rufy. If you're going to

2233
01:50:01,760 --> 01:50:05,400
Speaker 1: this year's PGA Championship at Southern Hills Country Club in Tulsa,

2234
01:50:05,880 --> 01:50:07,800
Speaker 1: you want a beer you better be ready to pay up.

2235
01:50:07,920 --> 01:50:11,080
Speaker 1: So a michaelov Ultra is eighteen bucks and estella and

2236
01:50:11,200 --> 01:50:15,120
Speaker 1: cocktails are nineteen dollars for a beer. Yeah for Survesa.

2237
01:50:15,320 --> 01:50:17,280
Speaker 1: Even some of the golfers, like Justin Thomas was of

2238
01:50:17,720 --> 01:50:19,400
Speaker 1: one of the popular golfers. He's like, yo, we can't

2239
01:50:19,439 --> 01:50:21,400
Speaker 1: cheat our fans like this, like eighteen dollars for a

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01:50:21,640 --> 01:50:24,280
Speaker 1: year beer, right, and then a mixed drink is nineteen Like,

2241
01:50:24,320 --> 01:50:26,360
Speaker 1: give me the mixed drink, bro, you get a twelve

2242
01:50:26,400 --> 01:50:30,519
Speaker 1: pack three a twelve lesson. I'm bringing up flask, okay,

2243
01:50:30,600 --> 01:50:32,040
Speaker 1: because I can't afford that. And then they were like

2244
01:50:32,120 --> 01:50:34,120
Speaker 1: the salads or sixteen dollars. I was like, okay, well

2245
01:50:34,160 --> 01:50:37,280
Speaker 1: that sounds more like every salad, but the beers are ridiculous.

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01:50:37,840 --> 01:50:40,639
Speaker 1: I always where is it again? It is in Tulsa. Yeah.

2247
01:50:40,920 --> 01:50:42,920
Speaker 1: What's the name of the club, Mouthern Hills contract rufe

2248
01:50:42,960 --> 01:50:45,240
Speaker 1: and I always sang in as Southern Hills Country Club, Yeah,

2249
01:50:45,280 --> 01:50:47,400
Speaker 1: as opposed to Northern Hills Country Club. Now we don't

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01:50:47,400 --> 01:50:50,519
Speaker 1: go to that one. We're total south side. We're on

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01:50:50,600 --> 01:50:53,519
Speaker 1: the south side of that one. Twenty bucks for a beer, fan, Well,

2252
01:50:53,720 --> 01:50:55,280
Speaker 1: when you got it, like Rufio that's what we did.

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01:50:55,400 --> 01:50:58,200
Speaker 1: We don't care. You got a pregame. The pregamefel and

2254
01:50:58,240 --> 01:51:01,719
Speaker 1: I are bringing beer like in our golf. I'm gonna

2255
01:51:01,760 --> 01:51:03,760
Speaker 1: buy you, guys that bro that you can put fine in.

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01:51:04,680 --> 01:51:08,240
Speaker 1: We're wearing a camel back. You need that full of vodka.

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01:51:08,920 --> 01:51:12,520
Speaker 1: I can't afford to park at the Southern Heels Tulsa, Oklahoma.

2258
01:51:13,160 --> 01:51:18,080
Speaker 1: We're a second online today Megan Fox did something maybe

2259
01:51:18,200 --> 01:51:21,240
Speaker 1: wilder for MGK than drinking his blood. If you want

2260
01:51:21,280 --> 01:51:23,840
Speaker 1: to know what it is, it's on French radio dot com.

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01:51:24,000 --> 01:51:37,720
Speaker 1: Rade you all, why might do all sex facts this week?

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01:51:37,840 --> 01:51:41,160
Speaker 1: I might ye say, oh yeah, thirty miles an hour.

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01:51:42,200 --> 01:51:45,280
Speaker 1: You know what I next time? Next time get out

2264
01:51:45,320 --> 01:51:47,160
Speaker 1: to wait. You gotta get a speeding ticket for that

2265
01:51:47,240 --> 01:51:50,920
Speaker 1: one third that wouldn't pass into school zone. Oh no,

2266
01:51:51,160 --> 01:51:56,639
Speaker 1: don't even bring it up together in a lot of places,

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01:51:59,120 --> 01:52:05,120
Speaker 1: an empty school. I was referring more to the not

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01:52:05,640 --> 01:52:11,240
Speaker 1: twenty whatever. I was referring more to that enough was present.

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01:52:11,920 --> 01:52:14,800
Speaker 1: We put on a list of that. You ain't a lot,

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01:52:15,760 --> 01:52:21,720
Speaker 1: You ain't a lot into school. No, she wouldn't be

2271
01:52:21,760 --> 01:52:29,559
Speaker 1: able to to get somebody else again. All right, here's

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01:52:29,560 --> 01:52:32,880
Speaker 1: the fact of the day. The fun fact, remember the

2273
01:52:33,000 --> 01:52:36,880
Speaker 1: name of this stupid segment so stupid, I can't remember

2274
01:52:36,920 --> 01:52:41,920
Speaker 1: what it's called. People who sleep face down with their

2275
01:52:42,120 --> 01:52:48,200
Speaker 1: arms above their heads have more sexual dreams, according to research.

2276
01:52:48,680 --> 01:52:50,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what the source is on this, but

2277
01:52:50,640 --> 01:52:52,719
Speaker 1: it just is. It's on the internet. So I believe

2278
01:52:52,760 --> 01:52:57,040
Speaker 1: in people who who sleep face down with their arms

2279
01:52:57,200 --> 01:53:02,960
Speaker 1: above their heads have more sex dreams. You do you sleep?

2280
01:53:03,040 --> 01:53:05,280
Speaker 1: I sleep on my stomach and my side. I cannot

2281
01:53:05,320 --> 01:53:07,160
Speaker 1: sleep on my back. You sleep on your stomach. You

2282
01:53:07,200 --> 01:53:09,439
Speaker 1: sleep face down? Yea? With my head like that? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wish I could. My grandfather used to be able

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01:53:12,360 --> 01:53:14,960
Speaker 1: to do that. He just sleeped like this, just straight back,

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01:53:15,000 --> 01:53:16,519
Speaker 1: and he would just sleep his head on the pillow

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01:53:16,560 --> 01:53:18,320
Speaker 1: and he would just do this thing or whatever and

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01:53:18,439 --> 01:53:20,320
Speaker 1: he just fall asleep. I can't sleep on my back,

2288
01:53:20,640 --> 01:53:24,599
Speaker 1: my side, or my stomach, stomach a wild one. I'm

2289
01:53:24,600 --> 01:53:27,360
Speaker 1: a side and back sleeping and then I just drool

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01:53:27,439 --> 01:53:33,360
Speaker 1: all over the pillow. Oh yeah, sex dreams. Well, well,

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01:53:33,400 --> 01:53:34,760
Speaker 1: my heads are on about my my hands are on

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01:53:34,760 --> 01:53:37,320
Speaker 1: about my head. If that's the case. But this right,

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01:53:38,240 --> 01:53:41,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what, dude, I don't know. I'm just

2294
01:53:41,200 --> 01:53:45,679
Speaker 1: telling you what The fact is the pillow. You guys

2295
01:53:45,720 --> 01:53:47,920
Speaker 1: can figure out the logistics. Okay, I'm just a fact

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01:53:47,960 --> 01:53:54,240
Speaker 1: starian over here. I'm up. Yeah, here we go, Here

2297
01:53:54,320 --> 01:53:56,880
Speaker 1: we go. He's gonna go home. Who are you dreaming about?

2298
01:53:56,920 --> 01:54:01,080
Speaker 1: Having sex with it? Better being on one three five?

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01:54:01,320 --> 01:54:06,080
Speaker 1: Kiss at them. This is what's trending our guys morning, Tuesday,

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01:54:06,160 --> 01:54:11,160
Speaker 1: May seventeenth, eight fifty two. The FDA insists that the

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01:54:11,439 --> 01:54:16,640
Speaker 1: baby formula's shortage is caused by distribution issues. Despite the

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01:54:16,680 --> 01:54:19,880
Speaker 1: agencies shutting down the nation's largest baby formula factory for months,

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01:54:19,920 --> 01:54:22,080
Speaker 1: they did recently come to an agreement to reopen. At

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01:54:22,120 --> 01:54:24,800
Speaker 1: the head of the FDA, Food and Drug Administration blamed

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01:54:24,840 --> 01:54:28,840
Speaker 1: a distribution problem for empty store shelves across the US.

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01:54:28,920 --> 01:54:34,200
Speaker 1: So hopefully that is resolving or being resolved. They say,

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01:54:37,360 --> 01:54:40,040
Speaker 1: let's see, it dropped two about seventy nine. It's lowest

2308
01:54:40,080 --> 01:54:41,560
Speaker 1: on the way back up now, so if you're in

2309
01:54:41,640 --> 01:54:45,440
Speaker 1: need a baby formula, hopefully the supply will become more prevalent.

2310
01:54:46,680 --> 01:54:49,080
Speaker 1: This is some major stuff going on between Elon Musk

2311
01:54:49,160 --> 01:54:52,080
Speaker 1: and Twitter, very high level mature conversations going on between

2312
01:54:52,120 --> 01:54:56,920
Speaker 1: them over the forty four billion dollars acquisition yesterday in

2313
01:54:57,080 --> 01:55:01,240
Speaker 1: high level talks, Musk tweeted to the social media company

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01:55:01,400 --> 01:55:05,120
Speaker 1: with a poop emoji and that was all. Apparently, he's

2315
01:55:05,200 --> 01:55:09,840
Speaker 1: upset because he doesn't know how many users there really are,

2316
01:55:10,480 --> 01:55:14,440
Speaker 1: because he and many others are challenging the amount of

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01:55:14,680 --> 01:55:18,440
Speaker 1: real users versus spam or bot. They say it's fewer

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01:55:18,480 --> 01:55:21,880
Speaker 1: than five percent, and Musco, of course recently cited his

2319
01:55:22,000 --> 01:55:24,800
Speaker 1: doubt of that percentage as the reason that his takeover

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01:55:24,880 --> 01:55:26,360
Speaker 1: of Twitter is on hold because he wants to know

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01:55:26,440 --> 01:55:28,560
Speaker 1: how many real people are using this thing and a

2322
01:55:28,640 --> 01:55:31,120
Speaker 1: lot of fakes on there. And while on a Delta flight,

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01:55:31,240 --> 01:55:34,000
Speaker 1: a woman exposed a man on social media who was

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01:55:34,040 --> 01:55:37,560
Speaker 1: seated next to her for taking and editing a photo

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01:55:37,640 --> 01:55:41,560
Speaker 1: of her feet without permission. The woman recorded the unidentified

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01:55:41,600 --> 01:55:44,560
Speaker 1: foot fanatic as he angles his phone towards her feet

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01:55:44,600 --> 01:55:46,760
Speaker 1: and takes a picture. He then opens his photo gallery

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01:55:46,800 --> 01:55:48,800
Speaker 1: to the image and photoshops a picture to his liking.

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01:55:48,840 --> 01:55:52,640
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you nice filter? You know? More contrast maybe

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01:55:53,280 --> 01:55:55,320
Speaker 1: commentators who jumped in with hot takes on how she

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01:55:55,400 --> 01:55:58,520
Speaker 1: should have handled the footfelon, one person writing I would

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01:55:58,560 --> 01:56:00,720
Speaker 1: call over the flight attendant and loud. You'd be like, hey,

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01:56:01,120 --> 01:56:02,960
Speaker 1: this guy keeps taking picts of my feet. Can I

2334
01:56:03,000 --> 01:56:05,680
Speaker 1: have a different seed? Another one said I would have

2335
01:56:05,760 --> 01:56:08,560
Speaker 1: said pay me and I won't tell on a buzz

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01:56:08,600 --> 01:56:10,080
Speaker 1: the lady and be like, yo, tell this lady to

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01:56:10,120 --> 01:56:13,400
Speaker 1: put shoes on. I took a picture of this r

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01:56:13,720 --> 01:56:16,120
Speaker 1: a picture of her feet is because this is a crime, yes,

2339
01:56:16,440 --> 01:56:20,560
Speaker 1: could being committed right here right um. National cherry cobbler Day.

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01:56:20,720 --> 01:56:24,640
Speaker 1: It's National Idaho Day, National pack rat Day, and National

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01:56:24,760 --> 01:56:29,760
Speaker 1: walnut Day today. Let's see. I like those days. I

2342
01:56:29,880 --> 01:56:32,760
Speaker 1: do Idaho and walnut do it for you? They really do?

2343
01:56:32,880 --> 01:56:35,480
Speaker 1: These days do good? Yes, so amazing. I do like

2344
01:56:35,520 --> 01:56:38,400
Speaker 1: walnuts and salads in brownies. Have you ever been to Idaho?

2345
01:56:38,440 --> 01:56:41,840
Speaker 1: A lot of celebrities are moving to Idaho Montana. Oh yeah,

2346
01:56:42,520 --> 01:56:45,000
Speaker 1: like in California, going to Wyoming, all those kind of places.

2347
01:56:45,040 --> 01:56:47,560
Speaker 1: Idaho too. Yeah, this is what is it? Court court

2348
01:56:47,600 --> 01:56:51,360
Speaker 1: delaying Quarto. There's some fancy place there, hume. Rich people

2349
01:56:51,400 --> 01:56:53,760
Speaker 1: go to huge market for that. Yeah, yeah, I've been

2350
01:56:53,800 --> 01:56:58,360
Speaker 1: thinking about him. No, go to Idaho, Wyoming right, Hyeah?

2351
01:56:58,440 --> 01:57:04,320
Speaker 1: You knowho Idahoe? I mean Idaho. I belong there. Let's

2352
01:57:04,320 --> 01:57:06,080
Speaker 1: come back and do blogs. I got some talk backs

2353
01:57:06,080 --> 01:57:07,960
Speaker 1: to get you from the iHeart Radio App. Got a

2354
01:57:08,040 --> 01:57:12,120
Speaker 1: chip to la, I've got gas money, I've got Pride

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Speaker 1: in the Park, tickets, all that show life from America's

2356
01:57:17,080 --> 01:57:24,680
Speaker 1: Greatest city, Chicago, Kiss FM and I Heart Radio station.

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Speaker 1: It's a French Did mister Nasty's wife hit you guys

2358
01:57:27,480 --> 01:57:30,320
Speaker 1: all up? Yeah? Yeah, she hit me up? So that's

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01:57:30,360 --> 01:57:35,360
Speaker 1: my husband. Yeah, she is a dime piece. I got

2360
01:57:35,480 --> 01:57:37,040
Speaker 1: a look at her. I was like, good for you,

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01:57:37,160 --> 01:57:39,800
Speaker 1: mister Nasty. Okay, but then when you saw her and

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01:57:40,000 --> 01:57:41,960
Speaker 1: you thought of what she could die, I could only

2363
01:57:43,560 --> 01:57:47,240
Speaker 1: I could only think of what he does. I thought

2364
01:57:47,240 --> 01:57:49,640
Speaker 1: about you know, her tooth sleas like a four hundred

2365
01:57:49,680 --> 01:57:53,960
Speaker 1: pound man. I only thought of what he's doing, yeah,

2366
01:57:54,120 --> 01:57:58,920
Speaker 1: instead or hitting me. Yeah. Yeah, no, we Yeah, there

2367
01:57:59,000 --> 01:58:03,040
Speaker 1: was a cartoon yesterday, our Pixar illustrators back from vacation,

2368
01:58:03,120 --> 01:58:06,240
Speaker 1: so we got we got that up a Fritzi radio.

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01:58:06,320 --> 01:58:08,920
Speaker 1: You can go check it out there morning. Caitlin Marning, Horner,

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01:58:08,960 --> 01:58:13,160
Speaker 1: Boner Ship Rufio, Paulina Shelley as well. I got some talkbacks.

2371
01:58:13,200 --> 01:58:16,440
Speaker 1: iHeartRadio App. A little microphone there you can leave us

2372
01:58:16,440 --> 01:58:21,440
Speaker 1: some message. Let's see. Hey everyone, I'm listening from Fort Wayne, Indiana.

2373
01:58:21,600 --> 01:58:24,160
Speaker 1: But you guys are talking about like the Water Wars,

2374
01:58:24,200 --> 01:58:25,800
Speaker 1: and we had something similar to that. I went to

2375
01:58:25,880 --> 01:58:29,480
Speaker 1: school in Naperville and we call it Senior Assassin. There

2376
01:58:29,560 --> 01:58:31,920
Speaker 1: was no teams. It was just you played individually. But

2377
01:58:31,960 --> 01:58:34,800
Speaker 1: everyone had to put in money as well, and the

2378
01:58:34,840 --> 01:58:37,840
Speaker 1: same rules applied. You can't get somebody at school when

2379
01:58:37,880 --> 01:58:41,120
Speaker 1: they're going into work, you can get out of work. Um,

2380
01:58:41,320 --> 01:58:44,040
Speaker 1: it's a lot of fun. It's just such a huge

2381
01:58:44,080 --> 01:58:47,280
Speaker 1: senior tradition and I love it listening again, Yeah, thank

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01:58:47,320 --> 01:58:49,800
Speaker 1: you Fort Wayne. HU that's our like fake syndication, the

2383
01:58:49,880 --> 01:58:52,160
Speaker 1: I Heart Radio app. You could listen to us from

2384
01:58:52,160 --> 01:58:56,760
Speaker 1: anywhere in the country. So who needs syndication? Forget about it,

2385
01:58:56,800 --> 01:58:59,400
Speaker 1: We don't need it. Just listen on that thing instead

2386
01:58:59,400 --> 01:59:03,400
Speaker 1: of your local more show. Who cares use more talk backs?

2387
01:59:03,920 --> 01:59:06,400
Speaker 1: She needs to go, she needs to run that You're

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01:59:06,440 --> 01:59:08,600
Speaker 1: not a priority. In two she's a staego. By the way,

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01:59:08,680 --> 01:59:12,360
Speaker 1: this is about the woman who has been with a

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01:59:12,960 --> 01:59:16,240
Speaker 1: divorced father for a little while now does have a

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01:59:16,320 --> 01:59:20,400
Speaker 1: relationship with his kids, but he and his ex wife

2392
01:59:20,440 --> 01:59:23,160
Speaker 1: still take the kids on trips together and she's not invited.

2393
01:59:23,720 --> 01:59:25,560
Speaker 1: So with that in mind, if he didn't hear staego,

2394
01:59:25,640 --> 01:59:28,440
Speaker 1: here's their feedback. She needs to go, she needs to

2395
01:59:28,600 --> 01:59:31,040
Speaker 1: run that you're not a priority in two years and

2396
01:59:31,120 --> 01:59:33,800
Speaker 1: you're old enough already where you have relationships and can

2397
01:59:33,960 --> 01:59:37,280
Speaker 1: establish you know, um boundaries and the I love you.

2398
01:59:37,840 --> 01:59:40,880
Speaker 1: She's not a priority for this guy. His ex wife

2399
01:59:41,000 --> 01:59:43,840
Speaker 1: still is. And come on, guys, like, can we not

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01:59:43,960 --> 01:59:46,080
Speaker 1: be naive and not think that they're not sleeping together

2401
01:59:46,200 --> 01:59:47,920
Speaker 1: here or there or have made some kind of like

2402
01:59:48,040 --> 01:59:51,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, reminiscing like moments. Let's not be stupid,

2403
01:59:51,960 --> 01:59:55,200
Speaker 1: please just go. I really don't think that. But anyway,

2404
01:59:55,440 --> 01:59:58,000
Speaker 1: she called us stupid, I think, yeah she did. That's okay.

2405
01:59:58,280 --> 02:00:00,880
Speaker 1: I want to add a different despective to the same

2406
02:00:01,400 --> 02:00:05,320
Speaker 1: or go segmentum. Thinking of it in a practical sense,

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02:00:05,360 --> 02:00:08,280
Speaker 1: that mother also probably wants the act cousin to either

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02:00:08,400 --> 02:00:11,160
Speaker 1: to help with the kid certification. Otherwise it's not really

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02:00:11,160 --> 02:00:14,640
Speaker 1: a vacation for her. And another thing is if she

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02:00:14,760 --> 02:00:17,000
Speaker 1: were to bring or he were to bring the girlfriend,

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02:00:17,520 --> 02:00:19,680
Speaker 1: he might be distracted. And so I think it's to

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02:00:19,800 --> 02:00:23,200
Speaker 1: maximize the time with the kid. I think that's that

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02:00:24,080 --> 02:00:26,480
Speaker 1: to be there. That's just my thought. I think those

2414
02:00:26,520 --> 02:00:28,720
Speaker 1: are good points. I think those are a good point.

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02:00:28,880 --> 02:00:32,200
Speaker 1: I got more Yo, Sam three sixteen. Here I was

2416
02:00:32,280 --> 02:00:35,080
Speaker 1: responding to that should I stay, should I go? Situation

2417
02:00:35,200 --> 02:00:37,680
Speaker 1: this morning, and from personal experiences, man, it's not a

2418
02:00:37,720 --> 02:00:40,600
Speaker 1: good idea. I went through up with my parents. Man,

2419
02:00:40,680 --> 02:00:44,200
Speaker 1: my mom and dad broke up. My dad kept would

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02:00:44,240 --> 02:00:46,440
Speaker 1: come around. It would come around, doing certain things, would

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02:00:46,480 --> 02:00:48,560
Speaker 1: come to the house, he would spend nights sometimes and

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02:00:48,760 --> 02:00:50,920
Speaker 1: one time I was sick and they would just spent

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02:00:51,000 --> 02:00:52,640
Speaker 1: the whole day together. And I had a falseness of

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02:00:52,720 --> 02:00:54,600
Speaker 1: hope that my dad would come back, and he never did.

2425
02:00:54,680 --> 02:00:57,040
Speaker 1: I mean, we still have a great relationship, but he

2426
02:00:57,160 --> 02:00:59,720
Speaker 1: never came back. Common idea, well, I mean I also

2427
02:00:59,800 --> 02:01:01,600
Speaker 1: think that there has to be Pauline and I were

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02:01:01,600 --> 02:01:03,200
Speaker 1: talking about this off the year, like, as a parent,

2429
02:01:03,240 --> 02:01:05,800
Speaker 1: you got to communicate with your kids too. I mean,

2430
02:01:05,880 --> 02:01:08,240
Speaker 1: the dad or the mom can't just come around hang out.

2431
02:01:08,240 --> 02:01:11,040
Speaker 1: It's never discussed. Yeah, the sleeping over is kind of

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02:01:11,080 --> 02:01:14,320
Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, I mean, yeah, I agree. I mean

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02:01:14,400 --> 02:01:16,800
Speaker 1: if if my parents were still hanging out together after

2434
02:01:16,880 --> 02:01:18,880
Speaker 1: they got divorced or broke up, and then nobody was

2435
02:01:18,960 --> 02:01:21,640
Speaker 1: talking about what the ground rules were and they were

2436
02:01:21,640 --> 02:01:24,920
Speaker 1: sleeping together. Our childhood in the same bed and acting

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02:01:24,960 --> 02:01:26,840
Speaker 1: like they were together. Then I understand that. But like

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02:01:26,960 --> 02:01:30,520
Speaker 1: if they're boundaries and you and you communicate that to

2439
02:01:30,640 --> 02:01:32,520
Speaker 1: the kids, like, hey, you know, mom and dad still

2440
02:01:32,560 --> 02:01:34,120
Speaker 1: like each other, but we don't sleep in the same

2441
02:01:34,160 --> 02:01:37,320
Speaker 1: bed anymore. We don't you know, we're not married anymore.

2442
02:01:38,240 --> 02:01:39,800
Speaker 1: We love each other in a different kind of way.

2443
02:01:39,840 --> 02:01:41,920
Speaker 1: We love each other. We love you all that, I think.

2444
02:01:42,160 --> 02:01:44,760
Speaker 1: I think you just have to you just have to

2445
02:01:44,840 --> 02:01:48,240
Speaker 1: let the kids know about them. Yeah, they talk better

2446
02:01:48,320 --> 02:01:51,040
Speaker 1: than they tie. These are the radio blogs on the

2447
02:01:51,120 --> 02:01:54,280
Speaker 1: Friend Show. Okay, like we're running in our diaries, except

2448
02:01:54,320 --> 02:01:56,080
Speaker 1: we stayed them allowed six fifty and eight fifty. We

2449
02:01:56,200 --> 02:01:58,920
Speaker 1: do a little bit late this morning. Imagine that Pauline

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Speaker 1: has got one go. Thank you so much, dear blog.

2451
02:02:01,480 --> 02:02:04,520
Speaker 1: So we're a couple of days away from an incredible season,

2452
02:02:05,000 --> 02:02:08,560
Speaker 1: probably the best season known to mankind. I'd like to

2453
02:02:08,600 --> 02:02:12,839
Speaker 1: call this the Gemini season, Gemini's Rise from the Ashes

2454
02:02:12,880 --> 02:02:16,720
Speaker 1: of Hell. Wow, we are here. We're almost here, though,

2455
02:02:16,920 --> 02:02:18,440
Speaker 1: so the rest of the year you're in the ashes

2456
02:02:18,440 --> 02:02:20,880
Speaker 1: of Hell. Yeah, the people don't like us. We always

2457
02:02:20,880 --> 02:02:23,200
Speaker 1: get the bad rep you know, Geminis are two faced,

2458
02:02:23,240 --> 02:02:25,120
Speaker 1: and you guys are crazy, but I just like to

2459
02:02:25,160 --> 02:02:27,360
Speaker 1: think we are very complex humans. But I'm a lot,

2460
02:02:27,760 --> 02:02:29,840
Speaker 1: so you're a Gemini. Let's just make that clear. Yes,

2461
02:02:29,920 --> 02:02:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm a Gemini. And my birthday is June third. It's

2462
02:02:32,600 --> 02:02:35,560
Speaker 1: a Friday this year. It's late, and I'm turning thirty,

2463
02:02:36,000 --> 02:02:38,840
Speaker 1: and I'm excited and I love how you guys earlier

2464
02:02:38,880 --> 02:02:40,560
Speaker 1: in the show said, you know, thirties are so great.

2465
02:02:40,600 --> 02:02:43,960
Speaker 1: They were my best years. I'm excited a little nervous

2466
02:02:44,120 --> 02:02:47,160
Speaker 1: because I feel like everybody has, you know, like a

2467
02:02:47,240 --> 02:02:49,160
Speaker 1: plan or like in their heads, some ideas of things

2468
02:02:49,200 --> 02:02:51,560
Speaker 1: they wanted to do before thirty. And I'm not sure

2469
02:02:51,560 --> 02:02:54,160
Speaker 1: if I accomplished those. And I'm not mad or anything,

2470
02:02:54,240 --> 02:02:56,040
Speaker 1: but I'm just like, I had a couple of goals

2471
02:02:56,080 --> 02:02:57,680
Speaker 1: and I don't know if I've ever really done them

2472
02:02:57,760 --> 02:03:02,200
Speaker 1: before thirty. I got trying really weeks. In two weeks,

2473
02:03:02,320 --> 02:03:04,640
Speaker 1: I really really wanted to eliminate all my debt. I

2474
02:03:04,800 --> 02:03:07,000
Speaker 1: was like, my thirty, I want to be clean. That

2475
02:03:07,240 --> 02:03:09,480
Speaker 1: was kind of a little bit of a goofy, you know, idea,

2476
02:03:09,560 --> 02:03:12,120
Speaker 1: because life happens. It's a good one, though, I think so,

2477
02:03:12,400 --> 02:03:14,920
Speaker 1: and I probably could have if I worked harder towards it.

2478
02:03:15,000 --> 02:03:17,280
Speaker 1: So maybe I'll focus like the year of thirty to

2479
02:03:17,360 --> 02:03:19,360
Speaker 1: do that because I need that needs to be like gone,

2480
02:03:19,520 --> 02:03:22,040
Speaker 1: like bye bye. UM. As far as like being in

2481
02:03:22,080 --> 02:03:25,880
Speaker 1: a serious relationship, I have that. UM. I think I

2482
02:03:26,120 --> 02:03:29,080
Speaker 1: always saw myselfing a mom before thirty, but now you

2483
02:03:29,120 --> 02:03:33,040
Speaker 1: have two dogs, no, one hundred percent. But also too

2484
02:03:33,200 --> 02:03:35,120
Speaker 1: because I hate that, you know, like women, we have

2485
02:03:35,240 --> 02:03:37,880
Speaker 1: it where it's like sigmatized, not sigmatized, but like they say,

2486
02:03:37,880 --> 02:03:40,120
Speaker 1: it's more difficult when you're older, in your thirties, you

2487
02:03:40,200 --> 02:03:41,560
Speaker 1: know what I mean, like when it comes to like

2488
02:03:41,640 --> 02:03:43,000
Speaker 1: pregnancy and all of that. So that made me a

2489
02:03:43,040 --> 02:03:45,400
Speaker 1: little nervous. I was like, I really hope that's not true.

2490
02:03:45,440 --> 02:03:47,400
Speaker 1: But I see moms who are like thirty five, you know,

2491
02:03:47,520 --> 02:03:49,840
Speaker 1: thirty six, and they're getting pregnant and doing great, you

2492
02:03:49,880 --> 02:03:51,320
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So I'm hoping like that's my

2493
02:03:51,400 --> 02:03:53,040
Speaker 1: situation too in the future, like I won't have a

2494
02:03:53,120 --> 02:03:55,280
Speaker 1: difficult time because I hate that that's been engraved in

2495
02:03:55,360 --> 02:03:57,840
Speaker 1: my head, like you know, I have family members. Maybe

2496
02:03:57,840 --> 02:04:00,840
Speaker 1: because like culturally too, it's like half engraved in your head.

2497
02:04:00,880 --> 02:04:04,360
Speaker 1: It's ingrained and grained well and grains and gramm. I

2498
02:04:04,440 --> 02:04:07,120
Speaker 1: also hope. It wasn't hope, it wasn't engraved or mamograms.

2499
02:04:07,160 --> 02:04:08,840
Speaker 1: It's right here, it's momo gram in my brain. I

2500
02:04:08,880 --> 02:04:11,080
Speaker 1: love you so much, but let's not engrave anything in here.

2501
02:04:11,920 --> 02:04:14,160
Speaker 1: I see that like prison shows and stuff like that.

2502
02:04:14,240 --> 02:04:16,920
Speaker 1: I don't think those don't heal Well, No, I like,

2503
02:04:16,960 --> 02:04:18,800
Speaker 1: we can't say that because the listeners are probably like,

2504
02:04:18,840 --> 02:04:20,360
Speaker 1: what the hell is she talking about? Like that one

2505
02:04:20,400 --> 02:04:21,960
Speaker 1: time you said that we went shooting the range and

2506
02:04:22,000 --> 02:04:25,160
Speaker 1: your bullets competting me. It's not the it was the

2507
02:04:25,240 --> 02:04:29,160
Speaker 1: shell casing. Shell casings were hitting, not your bullets shooting.

2508
02:04:29,800 --> 02:04:35,200
Speaker 1: The bullets kept hitting me. Yeah, we don't want that. Yeah, no, no, no,

2509
02:04:35,720 --> 02:04:39,880
Speaker 1: that would have been I was shooting. Yeah, that's not why. Okay,

2510
02:04:39,960 --> 02:04:43,240
Speaker 1: So I'm sorry. So um, the idea that if he

2511
02:04:43,280 --> 02:04:44,840
Speaker 1: didn't have a kid by a certain age has been

2512
02:04:44,880 --> 02:04:48,120
Speaker 1: ingrained in your head, like like it's been grave and

2513
02:04:48,160 --> 02:04:50,840
Speaker 1: graves obviously, I just feel like, yeah, culturally they say like, oh,

2514
02:04:50,920 --> 02:04:52,760
Speaker 1: you know, you should have like three kids before you're

2515
02:04:52,800 --> 02:04:54,520
Speaker 1: twenty five, Like, no, I don't. I never believe that,

2516
02:04:54,640 --> 02:04:56,960
Speaker 1: And luckily my mom never was like that. Well you know,

2517
02:04:57,040 --> 02:04:59,520
Speaker 1: you got like grandma, you got your aunt's opinions and

2518
02:04:59,640 --> 02:05:01,760
Speaker 1: like all the little signora. I was like, everybody's got

2519
02:05:01,800 --> 02:05:03,680
Speaker 1: their opinions, which I respect. But you know what they

2520
02:05:03,720 --> 02:05:06,880
Speaker 1: say about opinions. Everyone's gone one. They like booty a booty,

2521
02:05:07,000 --> 02:05:09,160
Speaker 1: booty hole, mister nasty gets up in all of it.

2522
02:05:09,800 --> 02:05:13,400
Speaker 1: That's what they always say. No, everyone's got an opinion,

2523
02:05:13,480 --> 02:05:16,400
Speaker 1: but it's your life to live, and you're doing great.

2524
02:05:16,840 --> 02:05:18,720
Speaker 1: You got lots of time for all this stuff. Yeah,

2525
02:05:18,840 --> 02:05:20,680
Speaker 1: thank you. No, I feel really good, like I'm not

2526
02:05:20,720 --> 02:05:22,680
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I feel good. I think on my list,

2527
02:05:22,720 --> 02:05:24,240
Speaker 1: it was like I don't like button gee jump or

2528
02:05:24,280 --> 02:05:28,080
Speaker 1: something stupid that I wrote years ago, but I'm good

2529
02:05:28,120 --> 02:05:29,720
Speaker 1: on that. I'm not going to do anything caught me

2530
02:05:30,560 --> 02:05:32,640
Speaker 1: guide dive. Nope. I love my life. I want to

2531
02:05:32,640 --> 02:05:35,440
Speaker 1: see thirty Mountain. I want to see thirty Thank you,

2532
02:05:37,360 --> 02:05:39,640
Speaker 1: but I'm excited. I'm gonna join you guys. I'm the

2533
02:05:39,720 --> 02:05:46,120
Speaker 1: club soon two boys seven seconds too, and I love

2534
02:05:46,760 --> 02:05:55,800
Speaker 1: deeper and sweeter. That stuff. It's stuff Paula was saying earlier.

2535
02:05:56,040 --> 02:05:57,760
Speaker 1: She said you peaked in high school. I don't think

2536
02:05:57,760 --> 02:05:59,800
Speaker 1: that's true at all. I think thirties, I think you're

2537
02:06:00,360 --> 02:06:02,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna enjoy your thirties a lot. You're gonna get married,

2538
02:06:02,600 --> 02:06:05,320
Speaker 1: You're gonna have kids. We'll see, ye see what else

2539
02:06:05,800 --> 02:06:07,600
Speaker 1: thirties haven't started working? The good news. You've got it

2540
02:06:07,600 --> 02:06:09,680
Speaker 1: all planned. I'm already, so all you gotta do is

2541
02:06:09,720 --> 02:06:11,400
Speaker 1: just do it. No, I don't have plans. I've got

2542
02:06:11,440 --> 02:06:13,800
Speaker 1: the puzzle pieces. And it's it's really, you know, God's

2543
02:06:13,840 --> 02:06:15,960
Speaker 1: way of putting it together because I don't listen. I

2544
02:06:16,040 --> 02:06:18,680
Speaker 1: can make plans all day, but God laughs, He laughs

2545
02:06:18,680 --> 02:06:21,280
Speaker 1: and laughs and laughs and makes things happen on his time.

2546
02:06:21,360 --> 02:06:23,360
Speaker 1: You're starting to sound like me now. All this has

2547
02:06:23,360 --> 02:06:25,120
Speaker 1: been what I've been telling you. This is my thirties.

2548
02:06:25,200 --> 02:06:26,840
Speaker 1: It see what I've been telling I'm not sure of

2549
02:06:26,960 --> 02:06:30,040
Speaker 1: you now is let it happen. Let me enjoy the ride.

2550
02:06:30,160 --> 02:06:32,480
Speaker 1: Let it happen. Enjoy the moment. Be in the moment.

2551
02:06:32,720 --> 02:06:34,960
Speaker 1: I am the moment. Don't be thinking about the future

2552
02:06:35,080 --> 02:06:38,320
Speaker 1: all the time. Live right now. Yes, Amen to that

2553
02:06:38,560 --> 02:06:40,880
Speaker 1: se present. Thank you. That's what I'm always telling you,

2554
02:06:40,960 --> 02:06:42,440
Speaker 1: here for you, and I feel like you're saying that

2555
02:06:42,560 --> 02:06:46,480
Speaker 1: right now. But we'll see how on that laughs, dear blocks.

2556
02:06:46,520 --> 02:06:49,480
Speaker 1: I watched a few shows, a few TV shows, update

2557
02:06:49,520 --> 02:06:56,000
Speaker 1: you on. I finished Ozark. Um. I mean it was good.

2558
02:06:56,440 --> 02:07:00,600
Speaker 1: The ending was it was good. I recommend what is

2559
02:07:00,640 --> 02:07:05,600
Speaker 1: the premise of the show. So I'm trying to remember

2560
02:07:05,960 --> 02:07:07,640
Speaker 1: Vince the long since I watched the beginning of it,

2561
02:07:07,720 --> 02:07:11,360
Speaker 1: But essentially, it's a family that gets wrapped up money

2562
02:07:11,400 --> 02:07:17,640
Speaker 1: laundering for a drug cartel in the Ozarks and oh

2563
02:07:17,800 --> 02:07:21,120
Speaker 1: here's Chicago, right, Well, well they started they lived in Chicago,

2564
02:07:21,240 --> 02:07:24,080
Speaker 1: they moved to the Ozarks. Yeah, it started here with

2565
02:07:24,200 --> 02:07:29,200
Speaker 1: the show's primarily there h in wherever that is, Missouri

2566
02:07:29,320 --> 02:07:34,600
Speaker 1: or wherever the Ozarks. Um, it's a good show, got it.

2567
02:07:34,800 --> 02:07:38,200
Speaker 1: The ending was, well, it was okay, it was all right.

2568
02:07:38,280 --> 02:07:40,120
Speaker 1: I'm fine with it. So if you if you're an

2569
02:07:40,120 --> 02:07:43,200
Speaker 1: Ozark person, I recommend you finish it out. Um. I

2570
02:07:43,280 --> 02:07:46,960
Speaker 1: watched a documentary Netflix called Our Father. This is screwed up.

2571
02:07:47,560 --> 02:07:49,680
Speaker 1: This is a screwed up thing. This is about a guy.

2572
02:07:49,720 --> 02:07:52,240
Speaker 1: You may have heard about. This guy. He was an

2573
02:07:52,280 --> 02:07:56,240
Speaker 1: obg y in and a fertility expert and women would

2574
02:07:56,280 --> 02:08:00,360
Speaker 1: go to Apparently was very good at helping women who

2575
02:08:00,400 --> 02:08:03,560
Speaker 1: were having issues conceiving getting pregnant. He was able to

2576
02:08:03,680 --> 02:08:06,440
Speaker 1: help them. It turns out, though, that he was using

2577
02:08:06,600 --> 02:08:10,880
Speaker 1: his own specimen in which to do it and lying

2578
02:08:10,960 --> 02:08:14,200
Speaker 1: about it. And he said when he got caught and

2579
02:08:14,240 --> 02:08:16,480
Speaker 1: they started to investigate it, that he did it no

2580
02:08:16,600 --> 02:08:20,720
Speaker 1: more than fifteen times. But he has over ninety children.

2581
02:08:21,160 --> 02:08:25,120
Speaker 1: WHOA and that's just when that's just based on like

2582
02:08:25,480 --> 02:08:28,120
Speaker 1: twenty three and me and just based on at the

2583
02:08:28,200 --> 02:08:30,320
Speaker 1: time of filming it. Numbers keep going up and up

2584
02:08:30,360 --> 02:08:33,920
Speaker 1: and up. So he would literally tell these women that

2585
02:08:34,000 --> 02:08:35,680
Speaker 1: he was even using their hut And then here's the thing.

2586
02:08:35,840 --> 02:08:37,880
Speaker 1: He would tell these women he was using their husband's sample,

2587
02:08:37,920 --> 02:08:40,240
Speaker 1: but then he'd use his own instead. So there are

2588
02:08:40,280 --> 02:08:43,440
Speaker 1: families now with grown children who were finding out that

2589
02:08:44,120 --> 02:08:47,560
Speaker 1: the guy they thought was their biological father is indeed not.

2590
02:08:48,120 --> 02:08:51,040
Speaker 1: They're not blood relatives because of course their mom was

2591
02:08:51,080 --> 02:08:54,000
Speaker 1: their mom, right, But he was using his sample, and

2592
02:08:54,080 --> 02:08:56,240
Speaker 1: he was telling these people and then in other cases

2593
02:08:56,280 --> 02:08:58,360
Speaker 1: that he was using metic dudents and that they would

2594
02:08:58,400 --> 02:09:00,480
Speaker 1: never be used more than three times. But what he

2595
02:09:00,480 --> 02:09:03,480
Speaker 1: would do is literally go in the other room. He

2596
02:09:03,560 --> 02:09:06,800
Speaker 1: would he would he would thirty miles an hour and

2597
02:09:06,880 --> 02:09:10,880
Speaker 1: then go in there and and implant that into women,

2598
02:09:11,160 --> 02:09:13,360
Speaker 1: and then they would wind up having his kid unknowingly

2599
02:09:13,720 --> 02:09:16,520
Speaker 1: and without their consent. Did they say why like even

2600
02:09:16,560 --> 02:09:18,120
Speaker 1: if they had the sperm of the dead, like, why

2601
02:09:18,280 --> 02:09:21,240
Speaker 1: was he He never really explained why, and he denied

2602
02:09:21,280 --> 02:09:23,120
Speaker 1: it for a long time. And then but you know,

2603
02:09:23,160 --> 02:09:24,960
Speaker 1: there are women who think that he should have been

2604
02:09:25,120 --> 02:09:27,800
Speaker 1: charged with rape because it was you know, basically, he

2605
02:09:29,200 --> 02:09:32,800
Speaker 1: his DNA, his specimen was put inside of them without consent.

2606
02:09:33,360 --> 02:09:35,600
Speaker 1: There is at the time there were no laws against it.

2607
02:09:35,680 --> 02:09:37,520
Speaker 1: There is a law against it in Indiana now, but

2608
02:09:37,600 --> 02:09:41,080
Speaker 1: there isn't a national law preventing it. Is apparently not

2609
02:09:41,240 --> 02:09:45,280
Speaker 1: illegal nationally for a doctor to do that. And I

2610
02:09:45,320 --> 02:09:47,800
Speaker 1: guess his argument was, these babies are all born, you

2611
02:09:47,880 --> 02:09:50,280
Speaker 1: all had kids, and they're all healthy, so what's your problem.

2612
02:09:50,480 --> 02:09:53,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but their father's not the father. Now here's

2613
02:09:53,720 --> 02:09:58,520
Speaker 1: the only, the only sort of wrinkle that I have

2614
02:09:58,640 --> 02:10:02,080
Speaker 1: on this, And first of all, the whole thing's wrong,

2615
02:10:02,320 --> 02:10:04,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, right, I mean, make it really clear.

2616
02:10:05,040 --> 02:10:07,800
Speaker 1: These women should have had complete and total consent over

2617
02:10:07,920 --> 02:10:10,720
Speaker 1: what was going in their body and what the terms were,

2618
02:10:11,080 --> 02:10:13,280
Speaker 1: and they should have had complete and total knowledge over

2619
02:10:13,400 --> 02:10:17,920
Speaker 1: whose specimen was being used. That being said, there are

2620
02:10:18,000 --> 02:10:21,280
Speaker 1: people who are heartbroken now to find that the man

2621
02:10:21,360 --> 02:10:25,400
Speaker 1: who raised them is not their blood relative, and I

2622
02:10:25,480 --> 02:10:28,560
Speaker 1: can understand why on a lot of levels, that's very traumatizing,

2623
02:10:28,760 --> 02:10:32,320
Speaker 1: but it does not negate the fact that they raised

2624
02:10:32,440 --> 02:10:36,160
Speaker 1: these people. It's nature over nurture or nurture over nature

2625
02:10:36,160 --> 02:10:39,240
Speaker 1: in this case. And so I don't think that any

2626
02:10:39,320 --> 02:10:43,040
Speaker 1: of these men should feel lesser than as a father

2627
02:10:43,880 --> 02:10:48,360
Speaker 1: or dad because it's not their DNA. I mean, these

2628
02:10:48,400 --> 02:10:51,440
Speaker 1: people were duped and deceived, and that is absolutely immoral

2629
02:10:51,480 --> 02:10:54,080
Speaker 1: and wrong. But in some ways, some of these guys

2630
02:10:54,160 --> 02:10:57,640
Speaker 1: are having and women and men sons and daughters. They're

2631
02:10:57,680 --> 02:11:00,240
Speaker 1: having these identity crises because it's like, well, the guy

2632
02:11:00,280 --> 02:11:01,960
Speaker 1: that I thought was my dad's not my dad, but

2633
02:11:02,080 --> 02:11:03,960
Speaker 1: he is. Yeah, he raised you, but he is your

2634
02:11:04,040 --> 02:11:06,960
Speaker 1: dad right now. I understand there are medical implications and

2635
02:11:07,040 --> 02:11:08,400
Speaker 1: you don't you don't know you're you don't know your

2636
02:11:08,400 --> 02:11:11,560
Speaker 1: true medical history. There are so many reasons why it's wrong.

2637
02:11:12,160 --> 02:11:13,560
Speaker 1: But there were a few times in this thing where

2638
02:11:13,600 --> 02:11:17,120
Speaker 1: you see these heartbroken dads and and it's like there

2639
02:11:17,160 --> 02:11:18,840
Speaker 1: and their kids are staying out loud, well he's not

2640
02:11:19,000 --> 02:11:22,240
Speaker 1: my father, he's your dad. He raised you, he did

2641
02:11:22,320 --> 02:11:25,480
Speaker 1: all the work. None of that's changed. So I guess

2642
02:11:25,520 --> 02:11:28,200
Speaker 1: the only thing that I that I saw that I

2643
02:11:28,360 --> 02:11:31,240
Speaker 1: didn't agree with was the idea that that some of

2644
02:11:31,280 --> 02:11:33,640
Speaker 1: these guys felt like they were lesser than as men

2645
02:11:33,760 --> 02:11:36,000
Speaker 1: because it turned out that they were duped and deceived

2646
02:11:36,040 --> 02:11:38,280
Speaker 1: by this doctor because they're not and they were still

2647
02:11:38,360 --> 02:11:41,360
Speaker 1: exceptional fathers, right, I mean, they raised these kids. I

2648
02:11:41,480 --> 02:11:43,800
Speaker 1: know what you're saying, but that was my only issue

2649
02:11:43,800 --> 02:11:46,680
Speaker 1: as the rest of it completely screwed up. Yeah, as

2650
02:11:46,720 --> 02:11:48,920
Speaker 1: one of the children saying that that's that's kind of

2651
02:11:48,960 --> 02:11:51,040
Speaker 1: messed up because that guy's been there since day one.

2652
02:11:51,120 --> 02:11:53,480
Speaker 1: But as a father, if you find out, like your

2653
02:11:53,520 --> 02:11:57,360
Speaker 1: kids a teenager and that's not your that's not it.

2654
02:11:57,840 --> 02:11:59,880
Speaker 1: That's kind of heartbreaking for the dad. No, it's heart

2655
02:12:00,000 --> 02:12:02,080
Speaker 1: I get all around, you know it. Then again, like

2656
02:12:02,120 --> 02:12:05,320
Speaker 1: I want to be really clear, like there's no excuse

2657
02:12:05,400 --> 02:12:08,440
Speaker 1: for what he did, but it did make me, it

2658
02:12:08,520 --> 02:12:10,720
Speaker 1: did break my heart to see like maybe some of

2659
02:12:10,760 --> 02:12:14,720
Speaker 1: these dads who raped, you know, successfully loved and raised

2660
02:12:14,760 --> 02:12:17,400
Speaker 1: and nursed these children. Now they somehow get to feel

2661
02:12:17,800 --> 02:12:20,800
Speaker 1: like that that that child's less of them because of it.

2662
02:12:20,920 --> 02:12:23,600
Speaker 1: And it's like if they never knew that information, then

2663
02:12:23,640 --> 02:12:26,240
Speaker 1: they probably if they didn't investigate, then they probably never

2664
02:12:26,280 --> 02:12:27,960
Speaker 1: would have known and never would have you know what

2665
02:12:28,000 --> 02:12:31,880
Speaker 1: I mean. Um, one screwed up example though, is that

2666
02:12:32,000 --> 02:12:33,600
Speaker 1: this guy, I mean, he was an older guy. He'd

2667
02:12:33,600 --> 02:12:38,040
Speaker 1: been an OBGN for a long time. So it turned

2668
02:12:38,080 --> 02:12:41,400
Speaker 1: out that one of the babies, one of the one

2669
02:12:41,440 --> 02:12:44,400
Speaker 1: of the babies that was part his and she didn't

2670
02:12:44,440 --> 02:12:47,760
Speaker 1: know grew up to be an adult, went to him

2671
02:12:49,040 --> 02:12:52,600
Speaker 1: as an obgy like he was her obgyn. So it

2672
02:12:52,720 --> 02:12:56,920
Speaker 1: turned out that her own father was doing like pelvic

2673
02:12:57,000 --> 02:13:00,640
Speaker 1: exams and pap smears on his own daughter, and so

2674
02:13:00,840 --> 02:13:06,480
Speaker 1: she felt massively violated as he might expect. Yeah, I mean,

2675
02:13:06,520 --> 02:13:09,160
Speaker 1: it's really And the other problem that you have is

2676
02:13:09,240 --> 02:13:11,040
Speaker 1: that this guy was he had done it so many

2677
02:13:11,120 --> 02:13:14,640
Speaker 1: times that there's a there's a chance that you know,

2678
02:13:14,720 --> 02:13:16,720
Speaker 1: and a lot of these people didn't leave the community.

2679
02:13:16,840 --> 02:13:18,880
Speaker 1: So the community and they may have left, like you know,

2680
02:13:19,000 --> 02:13:21,480
Speaker 1: branched out a little bit, but it was Indianianapolis, a

2681
02:13:21,560 --> 02:13:23,920
Speaker 1: suburb of Indianapolis. So they did like a map and

2682
02:13:24,000 --> 02:13:26,560
Speaker 1: they showed where all of his you know, part fifty

2683
02:13:26,640 --> 02:13:29,000
Speaker 1: percent in DNA is And so there's a chance that

2684
02:13:29,040 --> 02:13:31,480
Speaker 1: you could have gone to high school and dated somebody

2685
02:13:31,520 --> 02:13:33,960
Speaker 1: who was actually your relative and you didn't know it

2686
02:13:34,320 --> 02:13:36,760
Speaker 1: from a DNA standpoint because you didn't know who the

2687
02:13:36,840 --> 02:13:40,240
Speaker 1: real father was. It's really really screwed up and impactful,

2688
02:13:41,160 --> 02:13:44,400
Speaker 1: and you'll think about it until you see a situation

2689
02:13:44,480 --> 02:13:47,840
Speaker 1: like this, almost a hundred people and h and his

2690
02:13:47,960 --> 02:13:50,320
Speaker 1: family apparently standing by him. And I don't know what

2691
02:13:50,440 --> 02:13:53,120
Speaker 1: kind of story he spun up, but he was convicted

2692
02:13:53,160 --> 02:13:56,080
Speaker 1: of something, uh, lying. He was convicted of lying to

2693
02:13:56,200 --> 02:14:00,480
Speaker 1: the authorities, that's all. So he wasn't that law or right. Yeah,

2694
02:14:00,480 --> 02:14:03,440
Speaker 1: So he wasn't actually convicted of any crime related to

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Speaker 1: the to this. He was convicted to lying to investigators

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Speaker 1: when they asked him about it. So so a lot

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Speaker 1: of people don't feel vindicated even because it's like what

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Speaker 1: you weren't even you know, you weren't charge for you're

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Speaker 1: not paying it. There's no atonement for anything that you've

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Speaker 1: done related to this. It's simply because you lied about it.

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Speaker 1: So the whole thing is really screwed up. And then

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Speaker 1: Lincoln Lawyer on Netflix. That's the third show that I've

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Speaker 1: been watching. Uh, it's a David E. Kelly ish he's

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Speaker 1: involved with it. Um so it's one of those like

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Speaker 1: lawyer shows. It's good though, and it's good like you know,

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Speaker 1: it's a little corny. It's a little like if you

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Speaker 1: like Boston Legal or the Practice that show, all those

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Speaker 1: David E Kelly like legal dramas. Who stars in that one? Anyone?

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Speaker 1: What's the guy's name? Let me look it up. I

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Speaker 1: should know who's in it. But um, there's ten episodes.

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Speaker 1: I don't It looks like it was it on network

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Speaker 1: TV first and then now it's on Netflix. I don't

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Speaker 1: know the story because it it looked it clearly was it,

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Speaker 1: Like it has like breaks in it, but you don't

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Speaker 1: see on Netflix. So it was clearly made for television,

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Speaker 1: but it's on Netflix. So I don't know if that

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Speaker 1: Netflix bought it because nobody aired it. I don't know

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Speaker 1: the whole story behind it, but um, David E. Kelly

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Speaker 1: is a creator, Manuel Garcia Rulfoe, Becky Newton, Nev Campbell

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Speaker 1: is in it as well. I don't see the whole

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Speaker 1: backstory here on how it wound up on Netflix. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was pretty clearly supposed to be a TV show.

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Speaker 1: But it's good if you liked those kind of shows,

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Speaker 1: you like those like legal dramas. It's and it's based

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Speaker 1: well known crime authors. So anyway, it's some stuff to watch.

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