1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to this week's episode of the PhD podcast. 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: It is Your Girl, and I'm here with another exciting episode. UM. 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people really like episode one. 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: I Fought Bankruptcy, and today we're gonna do a quick 5 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: queue and a with my guests from episode one. UM, 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: a lot of people were listening to me emails text 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: messages asking me questions for her to give to my guests. 8 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: I figured we can do a live episode of it 9 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: for you guys to have an idea if you're ever 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: in a situation where you feel like bankruptcy is an 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: option for you. So before begin this, doing a little housekeeping, UM, 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: make sure you've following me on all my social media platforms. 13 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: Is the Professional home Girl. Also, the website for the 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 1: Professional Homegirl is www dot the Professional Homegirl dot com. Um. 15 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: Also for the podcast. 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So, 26 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: the process is really as long as you wanted to be, 27 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: especially if you're following the way that I did, which 28 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: was pro se. So if it's really as soon as 29 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: you can get your documents together. I filed in the 30 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: state of New Jersey, so I'm not exactly sure, um 31 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: at how long it will take to get the It's 32 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: a meeting of the creditors, which is basically like where 33 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: they bring you in a room and they like ask 34 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: you questions about like do you have a job, and 35 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: then you know, um or did you file taxes last year? 36 00:01:56,360 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: And none of your creditors really show up, um none 37 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: that I've heard of in any cases, Like my friend 38 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: that told me about it, in his case, it didn't happen. 39 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: I did tons of research online. A lot of people 40 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: just said at the meeting of the creditors is literally 41 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: just you know, a time where they just verified like 42 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: your income whenever you put on the paperwork they're just 43 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: verifying whatever you said like in person, and it's recorded. 44 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: So I guess that's where like the court records and stuff, 45 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 1: just to verify that whatever you put down when following 46 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: the paperwork is actually true. So once you submit the paperwork. Um, 47 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: for me personally, it took me like maybe a week 48 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: and a half to get my meeting of the creditors. Yeah, 49 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: so I would say that the whole process in total 50 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: maybe took me about two months in total, um. And 51 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 1: that was from yeah, and I mean I work full 52 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: time and i'mun the business, So that was between me 53 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: getting together all of my documents and you know that's 54 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: my own personal stuff. Um. And also you know, going 55 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: up to the actual place to following the paperwork. So 56 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: I had to go up to the courts um. And 57 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: and actually, like in in my situation, I had a 58 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: bunch of mistakes, Like I had to go up to 59 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: the court at least three times. So I mean not 60 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: two months. This is like elongated in some ways. Now. 61 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: Question number two I had a listener on says, in essence, 62 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: do you start over with no credit or do you 63 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 1: start over with some credit? Yeah, in essence, you're really 64 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: starting over from the bottom. So it's not even really 65 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: like you have no credit because now the bankruptcy is 66 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: on your credit. However, it's reporting that you have zero 67 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: balances with all of your creditors, which looks good because 68 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: now you don't owe anybody and the debt to income 69 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: ratio is you know, more fixed. It looks a little 70 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: better now. Um. But another thing also like that I 71 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: found out in which is a process that I'm in 72 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: now because it's been a year since I've officially like 73 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: fouled bankruptcy. I discharged in March of last year, so 74 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: it makes one full year in March, and what I'm 75 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 1: in the process of now doing is deleting like bankruptcy. 76 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: So I've been spending my beginning of February getting together 77 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: all of my documents for that, which is basically like 78 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: dispute letters to dispute it um with the credit card agencies, 79 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: because technically the credit card and the credit reporting agencies 80 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: need to have they they just report stuff that they 81 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: find out, you know what I mean. So it's like 82 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: if you dispute a lot of the stuff that they 83 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: find out, or if I say, like, how did you 84 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: verify this bankruptcy? Like I know the court didn't tell 85 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: you about it because the records are still the court 86 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 1: isn't allowed to tell anybody about it. So how did 87 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: you get this information? They can't verify it through the court. 88 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: Like even if you send a letter through the court 89 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,919 Speaker 1: asked telling the court like, oh, you know, I'd like 90 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: to verify my bankruptcy, they're gonna say, we don't do that. 91 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: And then you can take that letter and send it 92 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 1: to the credit card bureaus and say, well, how did 93 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: you verify my bankruptcy or how did you get this information? 94 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: Because the agency themselves is saying that they can't verify it, 95 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: which means that you had to go through a third 96 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: party agency to get this information. And I dispute that. 97 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: M hm. So that's what I'm in the process of 98 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 1: doing now. But you virtually start with nothing. However, you 99 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: are very appealing now to tons of new credit cards, 100 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: tons of car loans, sons of personal loans. Like I 101 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: would say that a soon as I filed, I got 102 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 1: tons of things in the mail. Um. And that was 103 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: I mean I got approved for like three credit cards, um. 104 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: And I've been it pretty much been working up from there. 105 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: But yeah, you're virtually starting over. Yeah. The next question 106 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: was how do you rebuild your credit from another from 107 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: another listener? Yeah, so pretty much. Um. Three things that 108 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: really helps you to build your credit is one your utilization. 109 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: Always making sure that whatever loans or credit cards or 110 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: whatever it is that you have out what mostly credit 111 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: cards mainly is that your utilization is always on the 112 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: thirty percent. So when I get a credit card, I 113 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: hook it up to something small like an auto paid 114 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: bill or something like my phone bill or my wife 115 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 1: fat bill, because it's really they're like the other building 116 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: I really pay, So I hook it membership or something exactly. Um. So, 117 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 1: depending on whatever that amount is of that um, whatever 118 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 1: the mountain is of the total amount of the total 119 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: card you like limit, you want to make sure that 120 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: your thirty always on the thirty percent of that because 121 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 1: that keeps your utilization down. The second thing is your payments, 122 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: like your late payments, so making sure that you never 123 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: pay late, like even if you're only paying the minimum, 124 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 1: always make sure that you're paying the credit card or 125 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,559 Speaker 1: or even the loan or whatever it is on time. 126 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: And then like for me, what I did was also 127 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: like just produce activity of mixed different types of loan 128 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 1: so like I was in forbearance with my student loan, 129 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: but I oh, I basically put it so that I 130 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: can start to make payments again because that looks good 131 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: in the eyes of my creditors. I make sure that 132 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 1: I pay all of my credit card bills on time 133 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: because that looks good in the eyes of your creditors. Um. 134 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: There's even tons of like other apps now that can 135 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 1: help you to report certain things, like rent reporters dot 136 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: Com helps you to report your rent. So like let's say, 137 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 1: if you live in a place where your landlord and 138 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: you know you always pay your rent on time, but 139 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 1: that never gets reported to your credit brutals, rent reporters 140 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 1: dot Com can help you to basically um be able 141 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 1: to report that. Or there's another thing called self lender 142 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: dot Com. Self lender helps you to basically create like 143 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: a personal loan, but it's really you're savings. So it 144 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: looks like you're paying towards a loan, which produces activity 145 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: and looks good in the eyes of the creditors and 146 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: brings your credit score up. But in reality, you're really 147 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: just putting money towards a savings because they're gonna give 148 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,119 Speaker 1: you that money back at the end of that whole 149 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: um process, which is usually anywhere from six months to 150 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: twelve months, so that they don't give you any money. 151 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: You literally just paying them to hold the money. Yeah 152 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: for you, uh huh. It's pretty cool. But that produces 153 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: activity and in turn, looking like you're paying down and 154 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,119 Speaker 1: mix different types of loans and looking like you're paying 155 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: them on time or definitely it's not looking like but 156 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: definitely paying them on time bhasically allows your credit score 157 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: to go up. Um, So that's pretty much been my strategy. 158 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: Um And I mean, life happens like you know. One 159 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: of the tricks that I learned as well, it's even Yeah, 160 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: one of the tricks that I learned is like even 161 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 1: if you have to, um like use your credit card 162 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: above that thirty percent utilization because it happens like I 163 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: had family emergencies and bills that came out of nowhere 164 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: that I had to use that credit card up. But 165 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: making sure that you pay that credit card down back 166 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: before the statement date is what counts because that's when 167 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: they're going to report it to the credit card. So 168 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: even if you really like you know, mess up, or 169 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: if you know you have to do a little make 170 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: a boo boo. And you gotta you know, use your 171 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 1: credit card up to where you know you shouldn't be 172 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: using it. You can always alter that by just knowing 173 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: certain tricks. I think the biggest thing is just education. Um. 174 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: I joined the Facebook group and like I've literally joined, 175 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: like put my mom, my friends, everybody into this Facebook group. 176 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: But the group is just amazing, has so many people 177 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: in it. It's called Credit Warriors. I would recommend it 178 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: to anyone. I'm in that group, to a very good group. Yes, 179 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: very good group. They dropped all the jewels. You know 180 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: what's so funny because I'm looking through these questions and 181 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, a lot of this stuff you can google 182 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 1: to get the knowledge, But I also feel like when 183 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: you actually hear somebody that already done it, or that 184 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,439 Speaker 1: that's actually doing or in the process, and you hear 185 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: their story and the outcome, it makes it a little 186 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: bit more relatable. Yeah, you know, That's why I always say, like, 187 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: that's why we do what we do is because Google 188 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: is good. But Google doesn't always give when when you're 189 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: a specific person, whoever the target market is, you're looking 190 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 1: for information to be given to you in the way 191 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 1: that you like it to be given. So and a 192 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: lot of times Google was just overwhelming and you can't 193 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: really find the answer that you necessarily need, Like if 194 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: you were supporting the Google, like can I delete my bankruptcy? 195 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 1: You get a bunch of false answers, and you know, 196 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 1: when you really get that you've never done before, exactly 197 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: exactly and honestly, Google spots go to the highest bidder. 198 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: So you know, like I said, it's a game. If 199 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: if somebody is paying to get their information in front 200 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: of you, then that information will look like it's the 201 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: truest or you know, the most common one. It's probably 202 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: not even true. It's just paid for. Right. So, I 203 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: feel like you touched on the next question, but I 204 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of people help ask me about 205 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 1: so I just put it in a question for you 206 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 1: to answer. UM. The next question is how does one 207 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: start the process of filing for bankruptcy? Yeah, so in 208 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 1: order to begin to file UM, you have to do 209 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: two three, three things too. I stually hands in your 210 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: paperwork so you can go online and get all of 211 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 1: the forms. You can download them. They're all accessible by 212 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: your state, UM all free. You can go online, get 213 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: the forms, fill out the forms, you have to also 214 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:16,319 Speaker 1: have your personal identification information so like your I D 215 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: stuff like that. UM, you have to have the payment 216 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: for the filing see in a money order, and you 217 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,119 Speaker 1: have to have had what the is it one particular 218 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: online web address or no. So you have to take 219 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: this stuff to the court, to the bankruptcy court. So 220 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 1: every every state or every county has their own bankruptcy 221 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 1: court or has their own court, and then they'll tell 222 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: you where you file your bankruptcy yet depending on your county. 223 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: So being that I live in Jersey, I had to 224 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: go to my county. But if you were to live 225 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: like in New York, you'll go downtown the King's County 226 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 1: or UM to Manhattan down to UM Central, where's that place, 227 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: um civil, where's the place downtown? You know the place 228 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: Manhattan where theyfore you can file like um city Hall. 229 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: There you go. You will go down to like city 230 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: Hall exactly. So you'd go to like city hall to 231 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: do stuff like that, I believe so UM for me personally, 232 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 1: I went to Jersey. So you can just google your 233 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: county UM and look up what court you'd go to 234 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: in your specific county for your zip code and UM, 235 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: the paperwork and Everything is usually by state, so make 236 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: sure that you're clicking on your state whenever you go 237 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: to click out fill out the paperwork. Um. Once you 238 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 1: have your paperwork, your ide, your filing fee. You also 239 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: have to take an online debt. It doesn't have to 240 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: be online, but it usually you could take it online 241 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: for super cheap. It's super easy, but you have to 242 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: take it right exactly. Um. So you have to take 243 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: an online like a financial course. So during the bankruptcy process, 244 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: you have to prove that like you've learned from your mistakes. 245 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 1: So the way that you do that is basically through 246 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: they make you go through classes. Now you don't have 247 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: to really give your classes if you can get rid 248 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 1: of my credit and all this ship is that did 249 00:11:54,800 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: he exactly? So it's like if I all that I 250 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: do is go to a class, than sure. But what 251 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: they do is you can go to an in person 252 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 1: class or you could do online class. They have online 253 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: classes and with the online classes that allows you to 254 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 1: you know, basically sit there at your computer take the classes. 255 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: It was super cheap, so I paid like fifteen dollars um, 256 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: sat there at the computer, just forwarded it you know, 257 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: um every time when it went forward or when the 258 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: video was done and that was it, they give you 259 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: a certificate, you print it out, and you hand that 260 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: whole packet in when you go up to the court. 261 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: So you could go in any day to the court 262 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: nine to five, whenever they open and just simply bring 263 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: up that paperwork and file it right there with that clerk. 264 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: Get it at the way, even though I know it 265 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: sounds easier sitting them, but it sounds super easy if 266 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: you just get started. Okay, yea. So the next question 267 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: is I'm a listener um or there is there more 268 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: than one type of bankrupts bankruptcy to foul? And why 269 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 1: did you choose the one that you foul? Yes, so 270 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: there's definitely more than one type of bankruptcy. You have 271 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: chapter seven, chapter thirteen. Um. So for me personally, I 272 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 1: have no don't own anything, And quite honestly, I didn't 273 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: have any crazy debt Like I just was being sued 274 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: by someone and wanted to personally believe that debt and 275 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:09,839 Speaker 1: it just so happened. I had another bunch of little 276 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: stuff that came on with it. But it wasn't like 277 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: I owed any like huge, um crazy debt or it 278 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: wasn't like I still had anything that I wanted to keep. 279 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: So when you are in bankruptcy, you're basically saying like, 280 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm so broke um that I can't afford to pay 281 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 1: any of my bills. Now, if you own property, like 282 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: if you have certain things like a house or investments 283 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: and things like that, they're gonna ask you like, well, 284 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 1: why can't you just liquidate those things to pay off 285 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: your debt um. In a lot of cases, you don't 286 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: have to do it, So that's why you may want 287 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 1: to file a different type of chapter. What I would 288 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: do real RealD talk is every lawyer gives you free 289 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 1: consultations when it comes to bankruptcy. Go to a few 290 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: of them. Due to free consultation. They don't sign up 291 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: with none of them exactly, don't sign up with none 292 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 1: of them. Pick their brain, let them recommend what they think, 293 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: whether it's thirteen or seven, and then go forward like 294 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 1: that and then fill your own protect Let's see with 295 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: the overall responses, and then that helped you narrow it 296 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: down mm hmm definitely. Um. Another question is what were 297 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: some of the challenges you face whole fell in bankruptcy? Oh? Man, Um. 298 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: For me, it was like the language. I mean, like 299 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 1: I'm a professor, like I'm would consider myself pretty smart, 300 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: but the language was a little bit mixed up. So 301 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 1: you know, you gotta remember this is all laws and 302 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: court stuff that these documents and stuff have been around 303 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: for over hundreds of years because it's all part of 304 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: like constitutional law. Um, so it's like a lot of 305 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: the things, um I didn't I didn't always understand, so 306 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: a lot of googling, like Google was my best friend. 307 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: Um for me, I suffered, like it wasn't really sufferment, 308 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: but I went through a lot of like doubt, so 309 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: I didn't know, like, oh I need a lawyer. Should 310 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: I just do this myself? Exactly because I never did 311 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: it before. So it wasn't until it took me a 312 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: while to actually hands in that packet. But it wasn't 313 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: tail I actually hands in it in the packet that 314 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm good, like when she when 315 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: I went up to her and she was like, you know, like, oh, okay, 316 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 1: you're good. Like it was literally me handing in my 317 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: paperwork to the clerk was like thirty minutes. I'm like, 318 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 1: oh my god, Like this was just so fast, like 319 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: so easy, Like I was just stressing out over it 320 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: for no reason. She literally went to my paperwork. I 321 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: felt everything out correctly, like everything was fine, like you know, 322 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: like it was just I was freaking out for no reason. 323 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: So that was a piece of the drama me. Also, um, 324 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: just for me, my county clerk was like not like 325 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: the closest thing ever. So the transportation to get down 326 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: to the courthouse to physically have to give it my documents. Now, 327 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: you can mail in your documents if you want. I 328 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: would probably just go that route. But because I'm like procrastinating, Patty, um, 329 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: like they usually give you a down negative. I'm procrastinating 330 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: Patty jail. Um, there's like you know deadline that they 331 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: give you so that they'll say like something like you 332 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 1: have to hand in this piece of document document h 333 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: Form number three Aindy by February third at five pm. 334 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 1: And like for me, I wouldn't start on a document 335 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: until February seconds, so you know, procrastinat the pat you 336 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 1: have to run to the courthouse on February three before 337 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: five pm. But um, if you're not like me and 338 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: a procrastinator, um, then you'll do fine. You can just 339 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: mail in those documents. Make sure you always get a 340 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: certificate with the mailing so that you can prove that 341 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: you mailed it to them and you'll be fine. Yeah, 342 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: I know you're gonna like this is like by'm me 343 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: listening to you and like before we started recording, I 344 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: was listening to the first episode and I'm just like Dan, 345 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: like and by the way, this is like the episode one. 346 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: Please make sure you listen to it if you haven't 347 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: listened to it before, you listen to this part because 348 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: it has been doing really well. And I'm just thinking, 349 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: like damn, I can just I can't even imagine how 350 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: many people you are like really helping with this knowledge, 351 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: because a lot of people if you're not familiar with 352 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 1: how to use Google or the Bourbige bankruptcy, like this 353 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: is really helping. And you know what's so crazy, like 354 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 1: not for nothing, but like I don't want to give 355 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: him too much about my contentity, but like I teach, 356 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm just seeing the whole craze of 357 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 1: like online courses and stuff. I swear I could not 358 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 1: find one course on how do I file bankruptcy because 359 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 1: I would have paid for it. I'm by my started 360 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 1: tell you the truth, because I would have said sorry, 361 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 1: I would have paid fifty dollars to join you in 362 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 1: your course and you're taking me step by step or 363 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 1: how to file pro say, I would have took that, 364 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 1: and about how it starts, about how you finish, and yeah, 365 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,639 Speaker 1: I think that this. It's like somebody wasn't really yours, 366 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 1: like if you were sorry of course, because you're really 367 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: good at stuff like this and like really like everything 368 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,679 Speaker 1: you're saying and put it on paper for people can 369 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: download and used as a reference book. Girl, Yeah, I 370 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 1: got people. I'm telling you. I had. I mean, this 371 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: conversation was way overdue, but I had just got back 372 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 1: to my birthday trip. But I'm pretty sure you've been 373 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: busy as well. And I had so many girls like 374 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: you know, and I was like, damn, like people really 375 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 1: want to know, because it's hard to find the answers 376 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 1: out there straight up point answer. You know. Yeah, it 377 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: was really hard, Like it was just difficult for me 378 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: to find the information that I needed, Like I had 379 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 1: to really sift it. I'm just one of those people 380 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: like you know, hundreds tabs open and you know, really 381 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: sifting into the information like that. But I was ready 382 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: to buy a bankruptcy for dummies book, like, you know, 383 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: just to understand like what do I do next? Like 384 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: do I hand this in at the same time as 385 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 1: this or should I hand this in first? And I mean, 386 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,479 Speaker 1: you know, you just gotta call around and and you know, 387 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: get down to it. But I understand, like if you're 388 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 1: not that type of person. I'm a very studious person. 389 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: So if you're not that type of person, I can 390 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: completely understand why people pay for lawyers and why the 391 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: lawyers charge. I was a pop girl. I'll be doing 392 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:38,400 Speaker 1: back on the old I would make good money about yeah, 393 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: because once you have the documents, all you're doing. Because 394 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: I fin wanted to go through a lawyer, and there's 395 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 1: free lawyers that you can get if your income is 396 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: under a certain amount, but I didn't qualify. But when 397 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to try to go to one of them 398 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: to get to the free lawyer, um, they actually they 399 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: just have a booklet that they have you fill out, 400 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 1: and once you fill out the booklet, they information for 401 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 1: you and then that's the paperwork that they have so 402 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 1: you submit to the judge. So it's basically like a 403 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,959 Speaker 1: bankruptcy preparation company to where you could pay people to 404 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 1: prepare the documents for you if you're not very still 405 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: on preparing them now, it's gonna make the time longer. 406 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,239 Speaker 1: But as opposed to paying a lawyer for like eight 407 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:18,880 Speaker 1: hundred hundred dollars, you could pay these people like four 408 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 1: hundred dollars. If I ever go broke, that might be 409 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: my new job. Girl. Let me know if you need 410 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: an assistance. Okay, charge, We're gonna charge you three hundred 411 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: dollars a pop. We got you, sis and bro. We 412 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: don't descriminate where we ain't discriminating. The next question is, 413 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 1: can you give us more insight on the fees. Yes, 414 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: so questions are good. Um, So one thing is that 415 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 1: don't let the fees too So for one, every fee, 416 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 1: we'm not gonna spit out exact numbers because honestly it's 417 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 1: subject to state. But it's gonna be around three d 418 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: and thirty five dollars or if you're gonna fail up 419 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: for Chapter thirteen, three hundred and ten dollars, so anywhere 420 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 1: from maybe three hundred. But yes, but for me it 421 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 1: was around I think three twenty five in my state, 422 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: if I want to say, um, but one thing about 423 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,479 Speaker 1: the fees that I will tell you is that if 424 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: you're filing close say, or if you're even if you're 425 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,719 Speaker 1: following with a lawyer, you can split up the fees 426 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: so you don't have to file like have all of 427 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 1: the money right then and there. When I fought started 428 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 1: up for my bankruptcy, I only signed up with fifty dollars. 429 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: I gave them exactly like a payment plan. So I 430 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 1: gave them the money. They split the money up for 431 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 1: three months. It could be in it was like, oh, well, 432 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 1: you know, two months or three months. I think it 433 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:37,440 Speaker 1: was over two months for me. So I split it 434 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: up over two months and it it was like, oh, you 435 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 1: give us half now a certain amount, now, you give 436 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 1: us the rest of it later. And if you don't 437 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,640 Speaker 1: give it by a certain date though, then they you're 438 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 1: in danger of having your kids to be dismissed. So 439 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: that's really important for you to like make sure that 440 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: if you are going to set the payment plan with them, 441 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: that you stick to it because if the court and 442 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:54,159 Speaker 1: you know, the court don't play when it comes to 443 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: dismissals and cases and judges and courts, but you can 444 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 1: don't let the fee it's her you. You can definitely 445 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 1: make it um payment schedule or on a payment type 446 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: of plan for the fees, and it's gonna be around 447 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: three dollars. So the last question is, but like before 448 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 1: I go some last questions, So pretty much three hundre dollars. 449 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: M hm, give or take. That's not bad. Ye. Yeah, 450 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 1: a lot of those who don't have it, and or 451 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 1: you can use that to her dolls or something else. 452 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 1: But if you're able to put on a payment plan, 453 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 1: that's not bad at all. Yeah, line not. Um. So 454 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: the last question is did it bother you mentally when 455 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: you had when you made the decision to foul bankruptcy. Um, 456 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 1: I mean it's still not something that I screamed from 457 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: the mountaintops. Um, it's not. I mean I have a 458 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 1: personal joke with like my friends and my family and 459 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: stuff like I like when I was going through it, 460 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,440 Speaker 1: like I'm filing bankruptcy, don't ask me for anything, like 461 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: you know, like why at the same time, like I 462 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: went to Paris, I didn't matter stuff. So I was like, 463 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 1: how broguard you? You know? I mean, listen, I guess 464 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: it's depending on what type of person that you are. 465 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 1: Like I said, I think in the episode before, it 466 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: really comes from education, Like when I started to really 467 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 1: like look into it, and I learned more about the process, 468 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 1: and I learned more about these people. The people do 469 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 1: like people file bankruptcy every day, like rich people, you 470 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: know what I mean. So it didn't and I realized that. 471 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 1: And they call it organizing exactly, girl, Like bye, that 472 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 1: just means me to rob and Peter and pay and Paul. 473 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,719 Speaker 1: My mama told me how to do that. I know 474 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 1: how to do that. Like that ain't no issue with me. 475 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: So it was like at the same time, we have 476 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: to look at it from the perspective of like, you know, 477 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 1: it's a start for me. I was looking at it 478 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 1: from press it was. It was a fresh start for me, 479 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: like you know, and I still how I look at it, 480 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 1: like my journey to me is not over because I'm 481 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,239 Speaker 1: not at my seven fifty credit school where I want 482 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 1: to be, but I'm definitely building towards it. And like 483 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:55,200 Speaker 1: that's just something that like exactly, like it was there 484 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: we go and I'm just one of those people like 485 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna look at the glass half fold because that's 486 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 1: just the type of person that I am. Um, So yeah, 487 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 1: for me, I was just looking into it like it's 488 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 1: a fresh start. For me, and if this is what 489 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: I've gotta do to get a fresh start, then here 490 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: I am like it is what it is than that 491 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,360 Speaker 1: within these that's what eight questions that you asked. I mean, 492 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: I feel like this is enough material to help anybody 493 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: get started. Um, you know, I think you'll find the 494 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,640 Speaker 1: time out to talk to my listeners because I'm telling 495 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 1: you girls, just like, girl, when are you gonna drop 496 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 1: this Q and A? And I'm like calling, let me 497 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 1: just give give me a second, get my parents together. Um. 498 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: So I don't think that anybody should have any more questions, 499 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 1: but if you do have any more questions, please email 500 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: me at hello at the Professional Homegirl dot com. Um, yeah, 501 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 1: they have questions. Man, I'm starting up that bankruptcy course. Yeah, 502 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 1: email me because I can definitely be because my guest, 503 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 1: you never know, you might see a bankruptcy course coming 504 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:59,919 Speaker 1: to you. Really might give y'all a discount. Got an 505 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,439 Speaker 1: off on my plate chat? Yeah, times is hard. You know, 506 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: I can look frustrated with some things, So I get it. 507 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:10,920 Speaker 1: Sis in bros. Um we are this. The PhD podcast 508 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: is now available on all major major streaming platforms, so 509 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 1: please make sure you rate us. Please make sure you 510 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 1: leave a comment review, positive negative. I'm a big girl. 511 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 1: I got my big girl draws on so I can 512 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: take care of it. And that's all I got for 513 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 1: y'all this week's episode. So until next week, y'all later,