1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 2: Hey everyone, welcome to the Almost Nice Podcast. Today we 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: have Sidney Warner on the podcast. You guys may remember 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 2: her from Highlot Pede season when she was Sidney high 6 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 2: Tower and now she's married to an NFL star, Fred Warner. Welcome, Sydney. Hello, 7 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: sed Dunning creature. I was gonna put makeup on for 8 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: you today. I was like, I can't be on Zoom 9 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: with Sydney, who's like a girl crash of mine, and 10 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 2: not look decent. And then I just got lazy and 11 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm taking nap time to just sit 12 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: on the couch and watch a crime documentary. 13 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: How are you? 14 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 2: After my ramble about how beautiful and wonderful you are, 15 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 2: You're so nice. 16 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 4: Seriously that means a lot, especially right now, and you 17 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 4: look stunning. 18 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 3: So I'm ready. 19 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 4: I had so much stuff to do later, but I 20 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 4: am so good. I feel like I haven't talked to 21 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 4: you or. 22 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 3: Seen you in so long. 23 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 4: And I remember, like when you were pregnant that I 24 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 4: would like always I wasn't pregnant, but I was just 25 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 4: talking to you about it because I like lived through 26 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 4: your experience. 27 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,839 Speaker 3: Yes, I remember that. Yeah, but I'm good. I'm doing great. 28 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 5: Everything's really good over here. 29 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. Okay, So how many months pregnant are you right now? 30 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 5: So I'm my sixth month. I am twenty four weeks. 31 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 3: All right, how are you feeling. How's the entire thing been? 32 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, So I'm feeling totally good. 33 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 4: I mean everything starting off, pregnancy is like than the 34 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 4: number one scariest thing to me. 35 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 5: I've never been more scared of anything in my life 36 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 5: than pregnant. That was me. 37 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 3: Okay, I was terrified and then it was as awful 38 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 3: as I thought it was. 39 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 2: But I was particularly scared about birth, Like that was 40 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: my number one fear. And everybody has a different story 41 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: and experience, but like, my my encouragement to you is 42 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 2: that it's that's not as scary as you think it's 43 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 2: going to be. 44 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 4: And that's honestly, I'm more scared. I was more scared 45 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 4: about pregnancy, and then I'm just kind of like the 46 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 4: mindset of like what goes in must come out, So 47 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 4: I was like, what it is, Yeah, the birth part, 48 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 4: So just pregnancy is what I was most scared of. 49 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 4: So finally me and my husband like talked about it. 50 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 4: He wanted to get pregnant way before I did, but 51 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 4: I finally was like, Okay, I feel. 52 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 5: Like it's time. 53 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 4: So we decided to do it, and ever since then, 54 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 4: I've had the best experience. I mean, I was scared 55 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 4: about my skin because we had talked before, like our 56 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 4: lackdown from before, and I was like so scared because 57 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 4: I had to get off of it before we even 58 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 4: started trying and all of that. But fingers crossed, knock 59 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 4: on wood, everything has been so good and I feel 60 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 4: like I'm just like this weird chameleon like everything. I 61 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 4: work out five times a week, Like, I've had a 62 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 4: little bit of this thing called round ligament pain, but 63 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 4: kind of normal with everyone, so I haven't. My skin's 64 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 4: been primarily totally fine. So I've really just been extremely blessed. 65 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 4: And I'm not take this for granted because this is 66 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 4: probably I don't know if this is normal. 67 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 5: So I don't know. I'm just hoping. 68 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 4: I'm not in my third trimester yet, so you know, 69 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 4: things to get crazy, but right now, everything's okay. 70 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, USh, I'm really happy for you that it, like 71 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: specifically because you weren't scared. I mean, because because you 72 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 2: were so scared and it just turned out to be 73 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 2: not that scary. 74 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 5: I'm scared. 75 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 3: What were you for? 76 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 2: What specifically were you scared of, like if it was 77 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 2: not just your skin, but beyond that, So beyond that. 78 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 4: I think i'm really uh internally, like I work out 79 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 4: a lot, and I'm really I'm really like health focused 80 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 4: and I work a lot about just being like not. 81 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 5: Being able to move and being a Yeah. 82 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 4: Also, I don't think people some everyone's different, but the 83 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 4: weight in is very gradual, and for some reason, I 84 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 4: just thought that I was immediately going to gain all 85 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 4: of this weight and not recognize myself and feel crazy 86 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 4: and not be able to like be as mobile as 87 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 4: I wanted. But I think just everyone's different, but me 88 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 4: being able to still work out and feel like myself 89 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 4: has been helped me a ton. So I was just 90 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 4: kind of scared of just everything changing at once and 91 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 4: me not feeling like myself and being in pain and 92 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 4: throwing up and my skin going crazy and just feeling 93 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 4: like nuts for nine months. 94 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 5: But I think that. 95 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 4: Now I'm going through it, it's so gradual change, it's 96 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 4: not all at once, just for me specific, Yeah, I 97 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 4: was just just terrified. 98 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 5: I'm not a good person with change. 99 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 4: So I was extremely terrified of just the change of 100 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 4: pregnancy and all of the body craziness that comes with. 101 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 3: It, but also just I don't know. 102 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 5: I was also really. 103 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 4: Scared of just like my baby being like healthy and safe, 104 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 4: because that's something I don't really talk about much, is 105 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 4: like every milestone, you get all these updates, and it's 106 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 4: scary because you're not in control, so you never know. 107 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 5: But it's just a lot. I'll think all of it 108 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 5: was just scary, all of it. 109 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, as somebody who did have an awful pregnancy, but 110 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 2: I have I have encouraging words for anybody out there 111 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:03,799 Speaker 2: in the midst of a pregnancy or thinking about going 112 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: through it. Even if you're like me, where it's nine 113 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 2: months of misery and you do lose yourself for nine months, 114 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 2: you will come back. 115 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 5: Yeah. 116 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 2: I was so scared that I'd be like, am I 117 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 2: ever like feel pretty again? 118 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 3: And you feel pretty before you know it. 119 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 4: That's so good. That's so I mean, everyone's not. It's 120 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 4: just so wild how you can have completely different experience. 121 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 4: Everyone is so different, every presence, everybody, everyone, It's just 122 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 4: it could be you know, you're you're miserable for nine months, 123 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 4: you know, like you're throwing up all the time. 124 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 5: I feel like, so that just sucks. 125 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 126 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 2: On a personal note, lots of people ask me about 127 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 2: Sporona lactone right now or like all the time actually 128 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 2: in my DMS, because iways talking about my acting and 129 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 2: how that I think is like the number one band 130 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 2: aid for it I have. I've been off of it 131 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 2: for four months now, and I've been very pleasantly surprised 132 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 2: that I also haven't broken out from the withdrawal. Yeah, 133 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 2: so just like you and not celebrating some clear skin. 134 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 3: I think it's something. 135 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 5: It's something to give herselfs some classic and the Lord's drug. 136 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 5: It really is. It's incredible, like changed the game for me. 137 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 4: So when I and I experienced it, I was like, 138 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 4: this is this is incredible And then it was so scary. 139 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 5: I was so scared. 140 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 4: I know, like, everything's good so far. I can't wait 141 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 4: to get back on it after the feeding. But yeah, 142 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 4: so far it's been fine. 143 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 3: But that's good. 144 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 5: I'm so happy that you've been cool too. 145 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 3: That's yeah. 146 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 2: I don't know who knows what it is, but I'm 147 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 2: happy that it's clear right now. Okay, So fred Is 148 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 2: seems on Instagram to be like such a supportive, wonderful, 149 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 2: sweet soul husband. Is he as wonderful as he seems 150 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 2: on Instagram with your pregnancy and taking care of you 151 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 2: and all that. 152 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, No, he actually is. 153 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 4: He's like he's this He's an incredible human being. And 154 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 4: even more so I get to say that because he's 155 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 4: my husband and he's never wanted anything more than to 156 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 4: be a dad and I did not experience that until I. 157 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 5: Never wanted to be a mom until like literally this year. 158 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 3: So he is like, help, yeah, we got to dive 159 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 3: into this. 160 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, so he is like helps me be like happy 161 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 4: and excited and not scared. But he is so excited. 162 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 4: This is like he's never wanted anything more in his 163 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 4: life than to be a dad. So he is like 164 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 4: counting down the days. I could not have like lucked 165 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 4: out with the most supportive partner through this, especially being 166 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 4: someone that's scared of pregnancy. So I'm so lucky and 167 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 4: he's so excited. 168 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 3: So that is so so sweet. 169 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 2: So I always knew I wanted to be a mom, 170 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 2: but I never had what I would call baby fever, 171 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 2: Like what even when I was like thirty three and 172 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 2: I was like Okay, that's probably about the time that 173 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 2: we like because I got prignant when I was thirty three. Yeah, 174 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 2: it's like, yeah, okay, we're trying, but it's not like 175 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 2: like I could still deal without it for right now, 176 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 2: Like I love my life, Like I'm so sick scared 177 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 2: of this change and responsibility. So I guess I know 178 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 2: what you feel when you say that, like you didn't 179 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 2: want to be mommy. 180 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 3: I wanted to be a mom but like but it 181 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 3: was just so intimidating. So is that how you felt? 182 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 3: Is that what you mean? 183 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 2: Yes? 184 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 4: And like I always knew I wanted a family. I 185 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 4: like grew up in Alabama, so like it's very like 186 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 4: just like get pregnant, have babies, get pregnant, have babies, 187 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 4: get married. 188 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 5: And I just kind of broke out of that cycle 189 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 5: a bit. 190 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 4: And when I put out of it, it was almost like 191 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 4: a rebel of like no, like I'm not going to 192 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 4: settle down, I'm not going to have kids. But then 193 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 4: I meet my husband, and of course you when you 194 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 4: fall in love with someone, all you want to do is, 195 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,839 Speaker 4: you know, make something beautiful together. So thinking of that 196 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 4: in that aspect of something that's going to add to 197 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 4: my life and not take away and like bog me down. 198 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 4: You know, it's just a complete shift of mindset when 199 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 4: I did it the way that I think I was 200 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 4: supposed to do it, because before then I was just like, 201 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, like I just don't want to have kids, 202 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 4: to have kids and to settle down just because it's 203 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,559 Speaker 4: what you're supposed to do. But when I finally found 204 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 4: that that's what I that's the trajectory by how my 205 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 4: life was going, and it this is what was making 206 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 4: me happy and just the. 207 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,839 Speaker 5: Thought of making something with him, and it's just now 208 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 5: it like. 209 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 4: Brings tears in my eyes, Like I I am so 210 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 4: excited to be a mom and like have a baby 211 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 4: and a best friend and like someone just like it's 212 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 4: just like incredible. But what you know, also what my 213 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 4: body's doing right now is just incredible. So it's just 214 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 4: funny how you go from one mindset and then as 215 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 4: soon as you soon as I decided like okay, no, 216 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 4: like I'm ready, like I want to do this complete 217 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 4: complete shift of your mindset, so you know, yeah, and 218 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 4: also just not like change like I'm so used to 219 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 4: just like getting up and doing what I want and 220 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 4: being so bigy. Yeah, the complete life change. You have 221 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 4: to be ready for that, and I take it very seriously. 222 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 4: I think that's why I waited. 223 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 5: Until I was fully ready, so that I could not 224 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 5: have fear and be excited and not worried. 225 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 3: You know, yes, yes. 226 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 2: What is one thing that people say to you, whether 227 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 2: it's a comment or a question about pregnancy or motherhood, 228 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 2: that just like gets under your skin. 229 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 3: That happened to me often for some reason. 230 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 4: I think whenever I talk about, like, you know, the 231 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 4: newborn minds, and they're just like, oh, man, get Freddie, 232 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 4: You're gonna oh, just like kind of like I'm just like, okay, 233 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 4: Like I know it's gonna be hard, but let's you know, 234 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 4: instead of going that route like tell me the positives 235 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 4: about how it's only eight weeks and like you need 236 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 4: to cherish these eight weeks of this your baby being 237 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 4: that tiny, and not so much about like you're never 238 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 4: gonna sleep, you're never gonna see your partner, you're never 239 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 4: gonna get like all these negatives. That's truly scary. And 240 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 4: I know I'm gonna go through those things, which is fine. 241 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 4: I'm I'm a realist, but also like, maybe let's not 242 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 4: make it as negative, and I don't know. 243 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:57,719 Speaker 5: Just when they say that. 244 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 4: I'm like, I know totally, I'm totally ready for all 245 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 4: those hardships, but also I'm also going to be able 246 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 4: to be with my you know, eight week old baby, 247 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 4: and then after that, they're not like newborns anymore. So 248 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 4: I try to think of it like that, but that's 249 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 4: always like kind of scary when people really talking about 250 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 4: that born stage and how you're going to like be 251 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 4: a zombie. 252 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 3: I don't know, but let me just tell you something. 253 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 2: I love the newborn phase to me, And yes, I 254 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: think I was different. Like you're saying that you're pregnancy 255 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 2: eas easy, well I thought I think perhaps my postpartum 256 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 2: was easy because I realized that like, yeah, I was 257 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 2: sore as hell, like I couldn't like first, like are 258 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 2: you kidding me? For like a couple of weeks I could, 259 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 2: like I could not walk around the house. But I 260 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 2: don't remember that. I just remember how honestly, yeah, he 261 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 2: would wake up every couple hours, but like then you 262 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: have an easy fix. You feed them and it's like 263 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 2: all right now, like in the toddler years, they're freaking 264 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 2: out and you don't know why because they're trying to 265 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 2: communicate and they can't do it effectively. So I just 266 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,599 Speaker 2: that the new and days were amazing because all you 267 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 2: got to do is like lie around and snuggle. Like, 268 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 2: does lying around and snugglings sound bad? 269 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 5: No, Like I'm excited for that. 270 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 4: Of course, I'm nervous because there's a whole these challenges 271 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 4: of breastfeeding, and that's another scarity. Yeah, will come to 272 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 4: me about and they're like, oh, breastfeeding and you need 273 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 4: to and I'm like, I know, I've heard it's really scary, 274 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 4: like just yeah, so I just but I know I've 275 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 4: totally cherished as moments of just like being alone with 276 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 4: your baby and just not having to really like do anything, 277 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 4: of being kind of just in your house with your 278 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 4: husband and they're not you know, so. 279 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 3: It's the best. 280 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: See I didn't breastfeed, which is probably why that part 281 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 2: was a little bit easier for me. Well yeah, so 282 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 2: that's that should be said. Okay, fred is going to 283 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 2: be in a great position of the year right when 284 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 2: you give birth, because the season will just be about over. 285 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, so we will be just about over, depending on 286 00:12:58,040 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 4: how long we go in playoffs. 287 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 5: If we make it to the Super Bowl. 288 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:02,719 Speaker 4: If we do make it to the Super Bowl, I'll 289 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 4: be around thirty six thirty seven weeks. Yeah, I know, 290 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 4: we'll see. I can't worry about things that aren't here yet. 291 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 4: But you know, of course that's the objective of the year, 292 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 4: so we'll see. I mean, I it's in Vegas, so 293 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 4: we live in NorCal So if we you know, I 294 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 4: would just drive today. Yeah, if that was happening. But 295 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 4: also it's just those are our challenges. We'll deal with 296 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 4: when we get there. But I'll definitely go into all 297 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 4: of the I'll try to go to all of the 298 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 4: playoff games if we make it there. But once the 299 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 4: baby is actually here, yes, it will be off season 300 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 4: and we'll be able to have those, like you no 301 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 4: fun newborn months together, which was amazing. 302 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, that could not have been That could not have 303 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 3: been more prevarently planned. 304 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, and we've planned it out because we did, Okay, 305 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 5: we had. 306 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 4: We knew if we didn't get pregnant within two more 307 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 4: months of trying, then we would just have to stop 308 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 4: and just try next off season. 309 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 3: So do you mind me asking how long it took? 310 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 3: How many months were trying? 311 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, So we started trying and we got pregnant with 312 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 5: them three. 313 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 2: Months, okay, yeah, so I just I only ask to 314 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 2: ask because I get DMS about from people asking me 315 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:17,359 Speaker 2: like how long it took us, which was seven months, 316 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 2: and they're starting to feel discouraged around. 317 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 3: The three month point, and it's just like, you know, just. 318 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 4: It's funny because every you know, it's not it's of 319 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 4: course you get discouraged always like, but we started trying 320 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 4: and I had no I didn't expect us to get 321 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 4: pregnant that bath, but I did have that little ounce 322 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 4: of discouragement that third month, and I'm like, you're being easy, Sidney, 323 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 4: like it's only three months, but then that was the 324 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 4: month that we did get our positive. 325 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 5: But yeah, I can't seven. 326 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 3: That's it's ever. 327 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 4: It's so tough, and I didn't realize that until I'm 328 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 4: like in this new world of mothers and fertility and pregnancy, 329 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 4: and it's like it's it can be intense. 330 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 3: But I also, I'm. 331 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 5: Sure it has nothing to do with it. But I've 332 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 5: never been on birth control, so yeah, body. 333 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't have anything to do with it. But 334 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 4: I was in my mind, I was telling myself that 335 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 4: it was a positive. 336 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 2: No, yeah, definitely some positive thinking I feel like always 337 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: kind of sort of helps. Soh man, I just I 338 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 2: follow your Instagram quite closely. 339 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 3: I really just enjoy everything you post. I just like 340 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 3: love your Like, is it weird for me to say 341 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 3: that I really enjoy following your wag life? No, No, 342 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 3: I appreciate that. 343 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 2: Okay, everything you do is like so it's like so 344 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 2: pretty and so like just like just seems quite blissful. 345 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 2: And can you let us in on just what the 346 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 2: social life is with the team and all the wives 347 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 2: and girlfriends. 348 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 3: What's the wag life like at the forty nine ers. 349 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 4: So there's a lot of wives and girlfriends on the tea. 350 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 4: There's so many guys on the teams. You don't really 351 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 4: realize that until you're in it. 352 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 5: So many guys. 353 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 2: Olivia girlfriend, Olivia Colpo, is also a fellow she is. 354 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, she's a fiance. 355 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 3: Wife. 356 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 4: And you know, it's different because there's some there's a 357 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 4: lot of women somewhere in the depths of their you know, 358 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 4: having babies and being pregnants where I'm at right now. 359 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 4: But before that, I was just like, you know, you know, 360 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 4: young and going out with that group. It's kind of 361 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 4: like grouped off a little bit to where a little 362 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 4: bit like that, who like with ever season of life 363 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 4: you're in, But there's so many of us. We all 364 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 4: have crazy schedules we do. There's so many things that 365 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 4: the team actually plans for us to get together and do. 366 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 3: Which is nice. 367 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 4: It's the Niners is a really like tight knit community. 368 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 4: There's so many teams and I talk to some girls 369 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 4: that are like come here from other teams and they're like, 370 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 4: the Niners are just so close knit. It's really big 371 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 4: on community and getting us all together. So it's it's 372 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 4: a lot of us, but it's good. Like everybody has 373 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 4: their own lives and everything's going on, but whenever we 374 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 4: do have like social things, we have parties at coach 375 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 4: Shanahan's house and so we all get together. So yeah, 376 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 4: it's yeah, we're all pretty close. 377 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 3: That's really nice. You have a nice building community and 378 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 3: supports system there. Yeah. So how did you guys meet Fred? 379 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 5: And I? 380 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, so we met. 381 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 4: Because his family watched my season of The Bachelor. 382 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 2: No, because I remember, didn't you did you have a 383 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 2: football boyfriend before the show? 384 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 3: No? I didn't know. 385 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 2: Okay, I thought that you had an athlete boyfriend for 386 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 2: some reason or maybe it was just because like I 387 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 2: was thinking that when you got with Fred that maybe 388 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,640 Speaker 2: you guys had been in touch with before the show. 389 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 3: But anyway, can continue. 390 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 4: No, Yeah, so we met because his family watched the 391 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 4: show and they were just watching and then he was 392 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 4: single and his brother like or something reached out to 393 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 4: him and was like, hey, there's this girl on the 394 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 4: show that she seems like your type. 395 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 3: D da da da dah. I guess physically, but you're 396 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 3: everyone's type physically. 397 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 4: He like watched a little bit of the show and 398 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 4: all that just that he ended up like dming me 399 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 4: and I was like the week where was the woman tall? 400 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 5: And we ended up meeting. 401 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 4: In Orange County because that's where the Wintell was and 402 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 4: then that's where he was training for his off season 403 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 4: football training. So we met there, had dinner, and then 404 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 4: that was kind of it. We just knew we wanted 405 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 4: to like date and get to know each other and talk, 406 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 4: and then it just like progressed, progress progressed, and now 407 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 4: we were expecting our first child. 408 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:21,239 Speaker 2: Together, so my gosh, So it was quick like it 409 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 2: was right after the show when the show. 410 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I had like already like signed my contract 411 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 4: to go to Paradise. 412 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 5: And I was like, you know, like of course I'm going, like. 413 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 4: I'm so excited, and then like COVID hit and that 414 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 4: he keeps the date kept getting pushed back, and then 415 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 4: I'm only like talking to Fred and dating him more 416 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 4: because I don't know if I'm going, like I don't know. 417 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 4: So all that to say, COVID got canceled everything. It 418 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 4: was all everything happened exactly the way it was supposed 419 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 4: to because I'm not going to go to guys when 420 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 4: I'm dating this guy, and it was actually serious at 421 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 4: that point, so that wasn't on the table. And then 422 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 4: after that we just like dated. I always say we 423 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,479 Speaker 4: kind of dated with a purpose. We knew that we 424 00:18:58,520 --> 00:18:59,479 Speaker 4: wanted it to be serious. 425 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 3: We just didn't know. 426 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 4: How long or like how to navigate it. But we 427 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 4: did long distance for a while, and then we decided 428 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 4: to just like go full in, so we did. 429 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 3: Were you a football fan before, Yeah. 430 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 4: Because I'm from Alabama and I went to yeah, Blabama, 431 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 4: so like it's always been a huge. 432 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 5: Part of my life. So it's just funny I ended 433 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 5: up marrying when that played football. 434 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 2: It's amazing because if you weren't on the show, like 435 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 2: The Bachelor. You got married from the Bachelor too, because 436 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,159 Speaker 2: if you weren't on, you wouldn't have connected never. 437 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 4: Ever ever crossed paths with him. We would have never 438 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 4: known each other. So I am so thankful for that 439 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 4: show and like doing it and meeting all the people 440 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,440 Speaker 4: that I did. It was so fun and I'm just 441 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 4: like so thankful because I would have never met my 442 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 4: husband if it wasn't for The Bachelor. 443 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 3: So yeah, I love that. 444 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 2: So on your TikTok, you're sharing some NFL secrets, anything 445 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 2: you can tell us, Oh my gosh, anything that you 446 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 2: haven't put up there yet. 447 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,680 Speaker 5: I feel like I've said a lot, almost too much. 448 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 3: Do you want to know anything? 449 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 5: Going over and check it out because it's all there. 450 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,199 Speaker 2: Okay, Now I feel like I have a question. I 451 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 2: just really I need to come up with a question. 452 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 5: I have a question for you. 453 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 4: I know yours is a huge Tom Brady fan and 454 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 4: now retired, Like for sure, who's your husband's team. 455 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 2: And you're not, like it's just so sad, like it's 456 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 2: just not the football season is not the same whatsoever, 457 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 2: especially because his team, which will still you know, is 458 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 2: the Patriots. 459 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 3: They're so shy that it's like really hot. 460 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 2: It's been a really depressing season, letting go of calm 461 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 2: because there's just not much root for because I'm a 462 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 2: Giants fan and they're just as crappy. So it's just 463 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 2: like a really sad football season in our house. 464 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 5: He did you watch the Bucks at all because of Tom? 465 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 2: You know? 466 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 3: No? 467 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:01,399 Speaker 2: No, the Bucks was solely just because of Tom being there. 468 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 2: But we have like we have Bucks merch around the 469 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 2: house too, just like and can remember to. 470 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 4: Switch over from the Patriots to the Bus. He's a 471 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 4: true Patriots fan. 472 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a true page. Oh no, no, no, we we did. 473 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 2: We declare her Yeah yeah, we declared herself Tom over team, 474 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 2: and we were we were more Bucks fans for those 475 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,720 Speaker 2: three years than we were Patriots fans. Like when they 476 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,199 Speaker 2: did go ahead to head, we rooted for Tom. Okay, 477 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 2: but he really got me, like he got me into 478 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 2: the Tom spell. 479 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 4: The Patriots was Mac Jones, who was football for Obama. 480 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,919 Speaker 4: He was a product for Alabama for a while. Okay, 481 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 4: I wanted him so bad selfishly to come to be 482 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 4: to be with the Niners, and then we passed on 483 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 4: him and we al was like my gosh, like we 484 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 4: passed on him. We got brought party and it's working out. 485 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, it's working out quite well for you guys. 486 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 2: I think it worked out for the best. I know, 487 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 2: how many more years does he have on his contract? 488 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 3: Fred? 489 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 4: So right now he's in like his second contract and 490 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,439 Speaker 4: so not this offen, but next offseason they'll kind of 491 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 4: reevaluate and we could get like five more. 492 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 5: Years here or if we get zero years here, who knows. 493 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 2: Does that stress you out that like you you for 494 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 2: the foresee, the future won't have like your your home 495 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 2: place could just change basically anytime because he could be 496 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 2: traded and such too. 497 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,679 Speaker 3: Right, yeah, absolutely so. 498 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 4: Right now, he's been with the Niners his whole career, 499 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 4: this is his he's in his sixth year now, which 500 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 4: is like pretty solid. 501 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 5: To be with a team six years. 502 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 4: So we feel really, you know, good, and he's playing 503 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 4: great and he you know, he's the captain of the team, 504 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 4: so we feel pretty solid now. 505 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 5: But football, it's business. Anything can change at any moment. 506 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 4: So we're just going to cross our fingers and hope 507 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 4: he does great until next off season and hope that 508 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 4: the Niners want him to stay. 509 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 5: And if so, that's amazing. But if not. Then it's 510 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 5: part of a life. We got to pick up, we 511 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 5: got to go. 512 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's got to keep you on edge a 513 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 3: little bit totally, especially. 514 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 5: With the baby on the way. 515 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, now I need to be honest about this. 516 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 3: Next question as an NFL wife, Well, how do you 517 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 3: feel about this all the Taylor Swift attention with Travis Kelsey. 518 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 4: My gosh, So I didn't even think it was legit 519 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 4: in the beginning. 520 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 5: I was like, oh, like, there's no way, Like that's crazy. 521 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 3: Da da da da. 522 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 5: And then like it's totally legit, like they are in love, 523 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 5: like they. 524 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 4: Like yeah, very like this is this is for real, 525 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 4: which is so crazy, But I. 526 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 5: Think it's it's wild. I mean, I don't know. I 527 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 5: think now that I'm like. 528 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 4: In this, you kind of when you're in it, you're like, yeah, 529 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 4: these guys are athletes, but a lot of them are 530 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 4: also celebrities. Like it's kind of crazy how you get 531 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 4: they're like both and Travis is both. Yes, it's natural 532 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 4: for him to date someone that's, you know, celebrity as 533 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 4: well her being I think a little bit more so 534 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 4: than him on the celebrity. 535 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe the most famous celebrity in the entire world, right, 536 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 2: So it. 537 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 5: Totally makes sense, honestly, good for him. 538 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 4: That's incredible that he shot his shot and it is 539 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 4: working out great for him. 540 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 3: So yeah, it's it's good. 541 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 5: It's also really good for the Chiefs because their ticket 542 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 5: sales have like. 543 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 4: Skyrocketed even more. But yeah, I mean, I think everyone's winning. 544 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 4: Everyone's winning. 545 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 5: Really. 546 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 6: Okay, if you guys could have a celebrity of like 547 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 6: a tailor status date one of the Niners, who would 548 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 6: you want it to be? 549 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 2: Like? 550 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,880 Speaker 3: Who would you want to hang out in the box with? 551 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 4: I It's kind of like it's like on my mind 552 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 4: because she just performed with the super Bowl, But like Rihanna, 553 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 4: I know she's yeah, but she's taken, was available? Who's 554 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 4: not taken? I feel like everyone's taken that I would 555 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 4: want to hang out with. 556 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 2: What about one of the Kardashians would be really Arianna 557 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 2: has got a boyfriend that we all don't friend. 558 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 4: Everyone's taken Kim Kardashian, but like there's rumors that she 559 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 4: dating Obj's. 560 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 3: Right, the OBJ rumors. 561 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 2: They're out there, but we've never seen them together yet. 562 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 5: That would be nuts. 563 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 3: They need to see it. I can totally see it 564 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 3: me too. It kind of brings her back to her 565 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 3: you know, Reggie Bots. 566 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, you like, but I don't know, I like those 567 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 4: are two really good ones because everyone else has taken. 568 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well you and Fred just started a podcast, and. 569 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 3: I guess, like it's kind of almost. 570 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 2: Feels crazy that like the NFL players can have their 571 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,919 Speaker 2: own podcast, Like Travis Kelsey has his own podcast. He 572 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 2: puts a lot of things out there. You guys have 573 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 2: a podcast, it's called The Warner House. What are you 574 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:54,199 Speaker 2: talking about on there? And like, is there anything that 575 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 2: he is like off limits of talking about about, like 576 00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 2: what happens like at work? 577 00:25:59,600 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 3: Right. 578 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 4: So basically, what we decided to do was take this 579 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 4: opportunity to talk about my perspective as being his wife 580 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 4: and being someone that you know, is in this NFL 581 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 4: life with him, and then obviously his perspective of being 582 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 4: in the NFL, being on in the height of his career, 583 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 4: being the captain of the team, and like, you know, 584 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 4: just kind of getting to know us an aspect of 585 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 4: just like our family life, and then also just like 586 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,120 Speaker 4: making it about football too, because that's what people want 587 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,919 Speaker 4: to know. For Fred, he definitely doesn't There's certain things 588 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 4: like you can't really talk about, you know, the ins 589 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 4: and outs of injuries, or the ins and outs of 590 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,439 Speaker 4: like people, like you know, people's status on the team. 591 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 4: Those are the things that are completely off limits, of course. 592 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 4: But he can definitely talk about. 593 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 5: His play, what he thinks of his teammates play, and 594 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 5: things like that. Other teams and how they're doing. 595 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,880 Speaker 4: We to talk about that, but yeah, I think off 596 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 4: limits would just be kind of like the obvious stuff, 597 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 4: you know, like the personal things with other players, and like, 598 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 4: you know, especially when playoffs come, things will have to 599 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 4: be dialed down a bit. 600 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 2: But yeah, m all right, Well this has been so 601 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 2: fun at talking to you. My last question is just like, 602 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 2: how are you staying in touch with The Bachelor? Do 603 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,679 Speaker 2: you have any ties to this show anymore? Do you 604 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 2: still watch as Fred get into it? 605 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, so we do watch the Golden Bachelor. 606 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 3: We love that. 607 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 4: That's amazing. I hope they do a Bachelor at version 608 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 4: of that. I talked to I talked to a lot 609 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 4: of girls in my season. I talked to Natasha Parker. 610 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,119 Speaker 4: I just got off the phone with Jasmine yesterday. I 611 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 4: have a few ties. Of course, It's not as close 612 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,920 Speaker 4: as it used to be. Because you know, life moves 613 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 4: on and people move out with their lives. But yeah, 614 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 4: I love the girls on my season, like we're all 615 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 4: so close still and it's uh, like I said, I 616 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,479 Speaker 4: wouldn't have been in this position and knowing my husband 617 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 4: and all of this if it wasn't for the show. 618 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 4: So I try to, you know, keep a few ties 619 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 4: in there. 620 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 5: But yeah, all right, well. 621 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:57,639 Speaker 3: Said third trimester. For me, it was actually the most tolerable. 622 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 2: But for a lot of people, I know, I know, 623 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 2: it's when everything, like I started to be able to 624 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 2: like did you get when. 625 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:04,640 Speaker 3: Did you get birth? What week? 626 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 5: If I can ask? 627 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,920 Speaker 2: Thirty eight, which was honestly ideal and. 628 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 5: You didn't have to be induced or anything? 629 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 3: Right, No, I don't want to. I don't want I 630 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 3: don't want that. 631 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 4: That's one of because fears, Like I'm totally okay with 632 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 4: getting a C section if that's well, obviously what you 633 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:18,120 Speaker 4: have to do. 634 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,440 Speaker 5: But my biggest fears is induction because we do. 635 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want that. 636 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:27,400 Speaker 2: Most I hear awful things about it, Like so many 637 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 2: people tell me like, oh, yeah, I'm getting induced, No 638 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 2: big deal, I'm getting induced, And I'm like every time 639 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 2: I hear somebody getting induced, like it just seems like 640 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 2: it was the worst, longest experience exactly. 641 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 5: So I want to avoid that more than anything. 642 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 4: Like if I'm like two weeks past my due date, 643 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 4: I would rather do that than be induced. And that 644 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 4: sounds crazy, but I'm being honest. 645 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 3: I know I was crazy. I had told my doctor. 646 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 2: I was like, is there any chance that maybe we 647 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 2: could just do an elective C section? Because I, in 648 00:28:53,520 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 2: my head can fathom surgery way more than a body total. 649 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 4: When I was in my first time ester, I don't 650 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 4: know what. It came up on my feet or something. 651 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 4: You did a podcast with your dad and your sister 652 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 4: explained epidurals, because I don't know. And I listened to 653 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 4: that podcast probably two times. 654 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 3: Over no way I have. I did, and it. 655 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 5: Helped me so much. 656 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 4: I know so much, many things that I had no 657 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 4: idea before. So that incredible. 658 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Sydney, thank you so much for listening 659 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 3: to I'm so glad. 660 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 5: It's helpful, so good, so so so good. 661 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 4: I learned so much and I'm like, okay, like low 662 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 4: key like my birth plan, okay, where I'm like what 663 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 4: your dad was saying, Oh my. 664 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 3: Gosh, that's so special. I'm gonna go tell them right 665 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 3: after this podcast. That's awesome. Yeah, all right, well this 666 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 3: is such an honor. 667 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 2: And reach out to me anytime about anything skin, pregnancy 668 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 2: all the time. 669 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 5: Things to your skin for the you know, off. 670 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 3: Of this prolactile. 671 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Thanksgiving, Bye, Happy Thanksgiving. 672 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: Followed the Ben and Ashley Almost Famous podcasts on iHeartRadio 673 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.