Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show,
Speaker 1: Lisa is on the phone today for it to Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater, and she thinks that her boyfriend named Tom,
Speaker 1: they've been together for five years, might be messing around. Lisa,
Speaker 1: thank you for thank you for your email, Thank you
Speaker 1: for coming on the show. It's always hard to do
Speaker 1: this segment, but obviously we're trying to help you out.
Speaker 1: And I'm sure you're kind of at the end of
Speaker 1: your rope. That's why you emailed us. Tell us what's
Speaker 1: going on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really appreciate it, you guys giving me the opportunity.
Speaker 2: So what's been going on is, like you said, my
Speaker 2: partner and I have been together for five years, and
Speaker 2: to me, I feel like he's just becoming a lot
Speaker 2: more distant than yoursual And whenever he receives calls, he's
Speaker 2: always super harsh when he receives them, so.
Speaker 1: Like, describe what happens? What do you mean by that?
Speaker 2: So whenever he picks up calls, he always says it's work,
Speaker 2: but he always has to go into the next room
Speaker 2: or he like noticeably lowers his voice when he answers.
Speaker 3: It okay, So he's hiding his conversations from you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was never really liked that before.
Speaker 1: Could it be like a work thing?
Speaker 2: He always says his work.
Speaker 1: And you're sure that he's like hiding the conversation.
Speaker 2: It really does feel that way because he has changed
Speaker 2: his voice so much to answer these particular work calls.
Speaker 2: I swear he never used to do that before.
Speaker 3: Have you asked him about it? Or is there anything
Speaker 3: else that's happening that makes you feel like, aside from
Speaker 3: those phone calls that he could be cheating on you?
Speaker 2: Just this distant behavior that I had previously mentioned. And yes,
Speaker 2: I have definitely brought it to his attention and he
Speaker 2: tells me that I'm overreacting.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's not a good sign when people say you're overreacting. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, usually like a good sign in that situation
Speaker 1: is if they hear you out and then respond to
Speaker 1: reassure you that nothing's going on right. Hey, it's a
Speaker 1: bad sign if they say you're being dramatic, you're overreacting,
Speaker 1: and then or if they have like a reaction that
Speaker 1: is angry or something to get you to kind of
Speaker 1: like shut up. You know, like usually that's a sign
Speaker 1: of somebody doing something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thankfully, he hasn't gotten angry at anything. But he's like, Oh,
Speaker 2: I think you're just thinking to look too much into
Speaker 2: it again Devil's advocate.
Speaker 3: Maybe he's just got something else going on. It's not
Speaker 3: cheating that he is hiding from you. It sounds like
Speaker 3: something is being hidden, but it might not be another person,
Speaker 3: So that would be the hope, right, they will be
Speaker 3: the hope.
Speaker 1: Like, how have things been when your relationship or things
Speaker 1: different than they've been normally. You guys have been together
Speaker 1: for five years, so that's a long time. I mean,
Speaker 1: you obviously know each other very well.
Speaker 2: I definitely believe I know him very well. It's just
Speaker 2: this recent behavior has me kind of, you know, shook,
Speaker 2: because it's been extremely recent, like only a couple of
Speaker 2: months now, and he was never liked that before.
Speaker 3: So, not to get too much into your business, but
Speaker 3: are you guys intimate?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was still intimate. That has not changed at all.
Speaker 2: We still go out regularly together, we still see friends,
Speaker 2: we have mutual friends, things of that nature.
Speaker 3: So when he when you're out with friends, does he
Speaker 3: get these phone calls that he needs to hide from you?
Speaker 3: Or is it only when you guys are at home
Speaker 3: or during certain hours.
Speaker 2: Those calls have also happened. We were out with friends too.
Speaker 1: This is a new thing.
Speaker 2: It's literally been match three months.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I mean that is kind of suspected.
Speaker 3: But like what other call would you always have to answer,
Speaker 3: like if the phone rings and you need to excuse yourself, Like,
Speaker 3: I mean, you didn't say anything about this, But if
Speaker 3: he was like a sponsor to somebody, I could see
Speaker 3: not missing a call, you know, to be there for somebody, even.
Speaker 2: Answering his own parents or other relatives, like they all
Speaker 2: know me already, so I goes going to.
Speaker 1: Hide, right, so it but it definitely seems like he's
Speaker 1: hiding something mm feels like to me. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: well we'll see if we can figure it out. Then you
Speaker 1: already told us what a grocery store he's a rewards
Speaker 1: card member at. So we'll do the usual and call
Speaker 1: from there and say that every single month to choose
Speaker 1: one awards card member at random who gets free flowers
Speaker 1: delivered from our brand new floral department. We'll see if
Speaker 1: he sends them to you or somebody else.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: Plays don't come back and get your to Catch a
Speaker 1: Teeter next, if you're just joining us for today's to
Speaker 1: Catch a Teeter. Lisa is on the phone. She thinks
Speaker 1: that her boyfriend of five years named Tom might be
Speaker 1: cheating on her. So we're about to call him and
Speaker 1: see if he is, if we can catch him. And
Speaker 1: before we make the phone call, lease, so why don't
Speaker 1: you just remind everybody why you think Tom might be cheating?
Speaker 2: So I've become percious of my boyfriend's behavior because he's
Speaker 2: been answering the phone and being very hushed when he
Speaker 2: picks up the phone. Sometimes he leaves the room, so
Speaker 2: he's just been generally distant, and he was never like
Speaker 2: that before.
Speaker 1: All right, So we're about to call him, and we're
Speaker 1: gonna pretend to be from the grocery store that he
Speaker 1: shops at and say that every single month, we choose
Speaker 1: one Roads Card member at random, he gets free flowers
Speaker 1: delivered from our beautiful, brand new floral department, and we're
Speaker 1: doing delivering now, So we'll tell him that and see
Speaker 1: if he buys that load of crap. And if he does,
Speaker 1: then we'll see who he sends a flowers to, either
Speaker 1: you or someone else. All rightly, So are you ready
Speaker 1: for us to call him? I am all right, here
Speaker 1: we go.
Speaker 2: Hello.
Speaker 1: Is this Tom?
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is Tom Tom.
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jorbin from I was calling
Speaker 1: to let you know that congratulations you're this month's winner.
Speaker 4: Hey, hey, what what I win?
Speaker 1: The flowers? Of course? Aren't you excited?
Speaker 4: Flower? Like like Marijuan?
Speaker 1: Uhm, No, we don't give that away. I wish we could, though,
Speaker 1: What what is it?
Speaker 4: What is this conversation?
Speaker 1: I'm calling from the grocery store where you're Awards card member. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're doing a thing I don't know if you saw.
Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one Awards Card member at
Speaker 1: random to say thank you very much for shopping with
Speaker 1: us and being a loyal customer. You just want thirty
Speaker 1: six long stem red roses, a box of chocolates, and
Speaker 1: a card to be delivered anywhere in the United States
Speaker 1: for free. It's actually a three hundred and eighty dollars value.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 5: Basically, I'm gonna give you an address and you send
Speaker 5: it to it.
Speaker 1: I will absolutely do that. Are these going to you?
Speaker 1: I just need to put a name on it as all.
Speaker 4: I want them to go to Rosemary.
Speaker 5: Okay, Rosemary, Rosemary.
Speaker 4: She lives in Florida.
Speaker 5: I can I'll call you guys back to get the
Speaker 5: address for it.
Speaker 4: But it's Rosemary. That's my grandmother.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's her grandma.
Speaker 5: I think she'll enjoy those more than any woman I
Speaker 5: can mean in the world.
Speaker 1: Okay, and it is there any love interest? You might
Speaker 1: want to send some flowers to two. We can maybe
Speaker 1: hook you up on that with an extra bouquet.
Speaker 4: Oh you will give me a double?
Speaker 1: I mean why not? Sure? You know you shop here?
Speaker 4: Alop? Yeah? Sure, Well, I mean it's a girl. I
Speaker 4: kind of like her, but she's kind of ugly a
Speaker 4: little bit.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Tom, are you drinking again? You sound like
Speaker 2: you've been hanging off and that train.
Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.
Speaker 1: This is actually the Jubil Show. This is Jewbil Hi Hi, Nina.
Speaker 3: I'm here too, Victoria.
Speaker 4: Well, I love y'all, man, y'all.
Speaker 1: You too. I don't know what's going on though, I.
Speaker 2: Can't understand your grandmother. But who is the girl that's
Speaker 2: a little bit ugly? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I want to know that too.
Speaker 5: It's just it's just it's just something to like a
Speaker 5: little bit ugly.
Speaker 2: She like real ugly.
Speaker 4: She's just a little bit like Lisa.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry because I don't think right now we're
Speaker 3: gonna get what we need out of time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, whoa, whoa.
Speaker 4: No, I'm just trying to make you stupid. I just
Speaker 4: wanted to make you stupid. It's good when it was stupid.
Speaker 2: You know you want to have no hammer.
Speaker 5: No, I'm not drinking at all. I mean, I'm just like,
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to make you stupid. You feel me
Speaker 5: to make you cool.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. You're drunk.
Speaker 1: So are you out with your buddy night Train that
Speaker 1: Lisa says that you go drinking with.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're together right now.
Speaker 1: Okay, at lista, there's your answer. I don't know what's
Speaker 1: going on. I don't either, At least if I i'd
Speaker 1: be pretty mad. But right now this was an entertaining conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I am an idea. He is like this when
Speaker 2: he's drunk. At least at least he's at home.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm not trying to bother anybody.
Speaker 1: Well, No, we bothered you, We called you. You're in
Speaker 1: the middle of enjoying your afternoon with night train. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? So, Tom, are you cheating on
Speaker 1: your girlfriend? I just have to ask you. I'm just asking.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah we are?
Speaker 2: Are you?
Speaker 1: Are you for real? Come on, you're over wants to know?
Speaker 4: Man. Oh No, I'm not really cheating. I'm just having sake.
Speaker 5: Sometimes I'm saying, I'm laughing, Lisa, I don't know what
Speaker 5: to do.
Speaker 1: I don't think he is. I mean, I think he's now,
Speaker 1: he's just messing with us.
Speaker 4: No, I'm not feeling like it's not all the time.
Speaker 4: It's just like part.
Speaker 1: Time, Lisa. I don't feel good about this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know because I don't know if you're
Speaker 2: joking or not. I really don't.
Speaker 4: You know, I'm serious. I'm not cheating. I'm just part
Speaker 4: time cheating.
Speaker 2: That means it's like sometimes I have.
Speaker 5: Sexual another woman, and then sometimes I won't. Tom, I'm
Speaker 5: just trying to make it funny, that's all.
Speaker 2: Like.
Speaker 5: I'm a comedy I'm a comed That's what I do
Speaker 5: for a living. I'm a comedian. So like I'm just
Speaker 5: trying to make it funny.
Speaker 1: Okay, So are you cheating on your girlfriend?
Speaker 4: Yes? I mean what are you wanting me? Yes, I know.
Speaker 1: Well, we'll let you get back to hanging out with
Speaker 1: Night Train and then Lisa sure wants to talk to
Speaker 1: you later. Lisa, I just don't know about him because
Speaker 1: I don't know if we're going to get anywhere with that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, me neither. I think he's really been pounding
Speaker 2: the butterweis is a little too much. Well, you know what,
Speaker 2: at least I actually am pretty sold on the fact
Speaker 2: he is not cheating on me. But I think he's
Speaker 2: associating with someone I'm just not fond of. And that's
Speaker 2: why now he's been so secretive.
Speaker 1: That's what you got out of that.
Speaker 2: Yes, that explains why he's been hiding to who he's
Speaker 2: talking to on the phone. Night Train got to be
Speaker 2: in town. They love to go out to drink together,
Speaker 2: and I hate.
Speaker 1: That damn a night Train. Well, at least you know
Speaker 1: he's not cheating, he's just hanging out with Night Training again,
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, we once you find out, once you
Speaker 1: have a once he silver's up and you have a
Speaker 1: conversation with him, let us know for sure. If you
Speaker 1: guys get to you know the bottom of it, good luck.
Speaker 2: I will definitely let you know.
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, thank you.
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