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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, some upcoming live shows that I Matt want

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Speaker 1: Think So Honey Live in New York. Then December five

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Speaker 1: you at our upcoming live shows, folks, We cannot wait. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Tickets are on sale for all these events right now.

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Speaker 1: Look may oh, I see you? Why why? And look

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Speaker 1: over there? How is that culture? Yes? Goodness? Something just

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Speaker 1: where Literally every single one of our hundred plus episodes,

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Speaker 1: we started the episode the same way. It goes three

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Speaker 1: But I kind of was into it. I was I

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Speaker 1: liked the little spice, you like the spontaneity, honey. But

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Speaker 1: can I tell you something. Tell me this girl in

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Speaker 1: high school, Leilanie, I forgot her last name. She's very sweet.

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Speaker 1: But one time she posted on my MySpace, but when

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Speaker 1: I love your spontaneity, spy, oh my god, the word

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Speaker 1: Correct someone, I'll be like, it's actually spotanuity, and then

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Speaker 1: it's the stupidest word. Number nine. It's spontanuity. I'm not

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Speaker 1: repeating that. We have to, ok, it is, it's spontaneity.

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Speaker 1: And also it's kind of like I declare that this

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Speaker 1: It is tragic. It's not tragical. I think tragical is

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Speaker 1: this tragedy and she was like, it's so tragical, it's

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Speaker 1: so tragical, butting it like she's like it's tragical, and

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Speaker 1: it's a great way to add levity to like a

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Speaker 1: came from nowhere, but I hear to say certain comments

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Speaker 1: about a word. You say, Oh my god, this poet,

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Speaker 1: this rhythmical girl. And I'd also like to add to Leilani,

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Speaker 1: I hope she listening and correcting. She has been using

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Speaker 1: that word without correction until this episode of Hold On,

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Speaker 1: Who is this? Who is this? This is? She's truly

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Speaker 1: like the coolest, the coolest, one of the coolest stars,

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Speaker 1: and and many cool stars in the galaxy. Yeah wait,

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Speaker 1: why are you talking about the other cool stars? We

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Speaker 1: see you out there, We're not talking about you for

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Speaker 1: the net nine. We love her so much. Check out

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Speaker 1: her Netflix special Right now, the comedy line up our

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Speaker 1: space is really blowing up, really blowing up the quarter

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Speaker 1: hour space. I don't want to do stand up for

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Speaker 1: longer than fifteen minutes. I agree, Yes, you gotta be honest.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see it for minutes. Literally, give

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Speaker 1: me seven minutes in a year. I'm killing you know.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna make my seven minutes count. It's gonna be

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Speaker 1: a starch party, right for search starger for a good show,

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Speaker 1: of I got an acting on it too. Oh really yeah?

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Speaker 1: And there it involves stunts and I'm so it involved stunts. Yes,

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Speaker 1: love Wolfie, we love life. I'm a daddy type mom.

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Speaker 1: Daddy type mom. Welcome our guest. Hell, hello everybody. It's

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Speaker 1: nice to be here. I feel that I'm supported if

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Speaker 1: this room, including Emma, is part of the lgbt Q

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Speaker 1: own family. We have our first queer hot producer. It's

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Speaker 1: it's fabulous. You're for did you kick someone out for somebody? Was?

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Speaker 1: with Emma, so we're so excited to have her. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: was like walking over here and thinking should I say it?

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Speaker 1: I don't know who who are they? Okay, just like

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Speaker 1: thinking about it. But um, obviously everyone from Search Party,

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Speaker 1: She's totally queen. But then Ellen Page casually the best

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Speaker 1: friend that she does. Yes, um, but I didn't talk

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Speaker 1: That person was Thompson. That person was Tessa Thompson. Who else?

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Speaker 1: I mean probably there was like directors speaking in accents.

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Speaker 1: It was just like amazing, I just like, can I

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Speaker 1: tell you what my instinct was? That who should be

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Speaker 1: this party. Fucking Anne Hathaway. I was like, I bet

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Speaker 1: Anne Hathaway was at the party. Wasn't Is Anne Hathaway's

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Speaker 1: his last name was Hathaway, and everybody knew that his

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Speaker 1: uphill battle for him to talk about literally anything other

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Speaker 1: and I think there's honestly, over the past twenty four hours,

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Speaker 1: there's been tons of like personal failings. We failed to

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Speaker 1: have loved Monica Lewinsky was at the party, hold her

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Speaker 1: apologizing on behalf of this entire nation. I hope at

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Speaker 1: and I wonder, what was it was it this year

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Speaker 1: that people shifted when it was? It was it was

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Speaker 1: There it was about like online bullying and she considers

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Speaker 1: means it means religious flower. It means religious religious flower.

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Speaker 1: Than I'm back to your side. I'm understanding away from Lei.

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Speaker 1: LEI gives me khlua. Do you think that saying blessing

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Speaker 1: it gives me? It gives me, Like Leilani, it's like

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Speaker 1: What are you saying about blessing? Oh? I want to

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Speaker 1: say blest and blessing, but I don't want anyone to

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Speaker 1: think I'm religious. To come for you, that's my I

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Speaker 1: think this is a struggle. It's a true struggle because

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Speaker 1: there's nothing that replaces it. How do we d how

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Speaker 1: do we de associate, dissociate? Yeah, you're gonna come from

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Speaker 1: how do we dissociate? I have the mechanism, bitch to

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Speaker 1: religious words from religion? I think we I think that

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Speaker 1: I want to be able to say alms without like

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Speaker 1: I want to be able to say, like use that

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Speaker 1: in everyday conversation with that evoking religious immestry. I agree.

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Speaker 1: without being pinned as a Christian. Yeah. Absolutely. I also

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Speaker 1: I have one. Anyway, I'm excited, and you can be

421
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Speaker 1: excited too if you go to everline dot com slash

422
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423
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Speaker 1: first order. That's everline dot com Forward slash ding Dong.

424
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: Everline dot com Forward slash ding Dong. But I wanted

425
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: to before we run too far away from Wolfie tell

426
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: you this amazing magic thing, which is that. Um, so

427
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 1: she had this dream eight years ago. Um, our kid's

428
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: name is Wolfe. When we we didn't know how we

429
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: were going to make our kid. We were just like

430
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,639
Speaker 1: sort of scoping things out, asking questions about adoption and

431
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 1: asking questions about our friends that conceived and um, Shanna

432
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 1: gets sick in uh Saylita Mexico. When we're on vacation,

433
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: I take a surf lesson and my instructor is this

434
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 1: gorgeous angel that like if I was casting the mail

435
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,160
Speaker 1: me in the movie. Oh my God, Jeffrey self told

436
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: us about this. It's and it was just in So

437
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: I met him. We drank mes cow after started chatting.

438
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 1: His dad as a police chief, his mom is a chemist.

439
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 1: He is an amazing just like chill soul picks up

440
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 1: like a piece of garbage casually on the beach, keeps walking.

441
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 1: I'm just like I want like, I'm just like it

442
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: was him yearning for that, and I knew it was him,

443
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: And then I asked Shanna. Shawna is like, you're crazy.

444
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,439
Speaker 1: She meets him in a second, She's like, you can

445
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 1: ask him. And then so I take another lesson and

446
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: I asked him in the water, and in the water

447
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: I see as we're going out for the first time,

448
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: on his back is a tattoo of a wolf shut

449
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:50,879
Speaker 1: up and arms, arms, the crop of the wolf, the

450
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: like face of the wolf, and the style is exactly

451
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 1: the same as a year before. Same time. We're taking

452
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 1: a vacation in Palm Springs and our friends happened to

453
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: be there. We do like a joke Christmas present exchange

454
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: and they give us a plate that has a wolf

455
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: on it. They know nothing about this, like wolf plan um.

456
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: And in the corner it says mom, like someone had

457
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: drawn it for their mom. Wow, that's fucking crazy. Same crop. Yeah,

458
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: oh my god. Wow. Okay, so then you got to

459
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: take a picture just to have it on the ready

460
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: of the plate. The thing the tattooed. You need to

461
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: put it a little bit, get a trip to because honestly,

462
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: like that is that's like some ship. And today I'm

463
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: getting a tattoo of a wolf. That's universal tattoo. I'm

464
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: getting These are fake tattoos from last night. I was

465
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: dressed up Ashana. But I'm getting a tattoo right here.

466
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 1: It'll be a wolf a girl. And then on top

467
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: a little owl. It's a big tattoo. I'm very nervous,

468
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: but I'm playing it cool. Yeah. Yeah, It's like you

469
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: got to be like when people are like, aren't you

470
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 1: nervous to get on stage in front of all those people,

471
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 1: It's like, no, bitch. But then you're like, you know,

472
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 1: you look through your set list of course, and then

473
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: but yeah, okay, so you ask it riff, just riff.

474
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: You you asked him for his spurt? What's his reaction? Beautiful?

475
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: It's just like all meant to be, Like it's in

476
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,880
Speaker 1: the water and it's I mean, it's felt the same

477
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: way like when I saw Shanna and I knew that

478
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: she was important in my life, and you know, like

479
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: it's just like you see someone and you're like, this

480
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 1: is the stakes could not be higher. You know, It's

481
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: like this is like and and meet, Like when you

482
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: want to meet someone and you want to come off

483
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: as or like, you know, you wanna come off as chill,

484
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: but what you're asking or what you want is so

485
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: big chill, so not chill, my daddy. Surfing lessons are

486
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: also the most fraud okay, but I guess was it

487
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 1: one on one? It was one on one. Yeah, because

488
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 1: what I pictured was like blue crush, like Michelle Rodriguez

489
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: will be like on the waves together, just like high five,

490
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: and it'll be like, you know, tip your nose up

491
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, I can't hear you over the whip.

492
00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: But what it is is it's a lot of like

493
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: sit standing in the water. You're laying on top of

494
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: the board. He's holding the nose of the board and

495
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: looking at the ocean and looking into your eyes and

496
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 1: waiting to like release you into the right wave at

497
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: the right time. And it's very much like bringing up

498
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 1: this like big thing out of nowhere. You're waiting for

499
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: like the right conversational energy to be like and this

500
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: is me. I'm getting up on the board of what

501
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 1: I'm asking you, you know. So I said, um, would

502
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: you I said, I've I mean, I want to ask

503
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: you something. And I don't feel any pressure. This is

504
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: maybe going to be a strange thing. And I've never

505
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: asked anyone this before but you. But you know, like

506
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 1: my wife and I would like to have a baby,

507
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: and we were wondering if you would be interested in

508
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 1: helping us. Wow, And he looked at me and he

509
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: smiled and he was like, that sounds interesting. He's like,

510
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,719
Speaker 1: I don't know how that works, but you guys are

511
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 1: a beautiful couple, and if I can help you, then

512
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: that sounds interesting. So then I just like took the

513
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: next wave in and ran up to Shanna. I was like,

514
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: oh my god, though, that was like I ran up

515
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: to Yeah. I ran up to Shanna, told her, ran back,

516
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: and you know, like did a couple more waves. It

517
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: was just like, you know, like in my mind putting

518
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 1: together prototypes of like how to get the jis inside Shanna.

519
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: I also knew nothing about ovulation. I knew nothing about

520
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: the process. So I was just like running to bodegas

521
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: and saw you leader like emptying tampons, like trying to

522
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 1: like will the applicator work, or like taking a dish

523
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: glove and like cutting the thumb that was my best

524
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: prototype and then duct taping it and then cutting a hole.

525
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: I just I didn't know Also, how little sperm came

526
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,719
Speaker 1: out of it pain. I thought like I'd be piping

527
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: icing into Sean, just like how did it work. The

528
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: way that it actually did work was no, we did

529
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: it ourselves. And this is like I want to talk

530
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: about it all the time. Because I want people to know, like, um,

531
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 1: that you can do you can try this. I know

532
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: that like no one is entitled to like a specific

533
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: birth path it's gay or straight. It's like you just

534
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: sort of like wiggle into whatever door opens. But um,

535
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: but basically we just calculated Shaanna's apulations. Went back to Mexico. Um,

536
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: and he came into a sterile cup Shanna made like

537
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: an altar in our airbnb. He so he came into

538
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: the No, that wasn't the order. He came into the cup.

539
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: Shawna makes the everyone knows um and then he leaves.

540
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: I put it into a sterile syringe like needle without

541
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 1: a needle. Put that in my arm under my arm pit. Um,

542
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: and so it stays warm. Shanna and I made love, yea.

543
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: I put the sperm inside of her, so orgasm to

544
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: get warm and wet inside, and then sperm and then

545
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: orgasm again to wow for good luck because I'm all

546
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: under pressure. Yeah, that's what I prefer it exploding around me. Um,

547
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: and then you can and the blessings game and the

548
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 1: Lord left it, and the and the Lord was like

549
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: and the Lord and the universe and the like. We

550
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: all agree right on except the recipe. That's amazing. And

551
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: then the first time we did that, the that's you know,

552
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: she got pregnant, amazing, gorgeous. It was truly gorgeous, and

553
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: we got to like we when we went back, we

554
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: got to spend a lot of time with him around. Yeah,

555
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: he's actually coming to visit in a few weeks with

556
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: his girlfriend who he met in the water, like weeks

557
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: after we met him. Amazing, And so has he met Wolf?

558
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: He is not, but we've faced time. Actually his mom

559
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: is flying to So what's his relation What do you

560
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: feel like his relationship is to I think it's like

561
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: he's his biological father, but he's not his parental father.

562
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: Of course, I feel like more of the parental father Wolf.

563
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: He's gonna call me baba love or do for that

564
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: gorgeous la lu baba sounds so cute. Um. Then yeah,

565
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: and and like you know, we'll just like see what

566
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: the flow of the ocean is in terms of like

567
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 1: there's no pressure on him to be anything, but he

568
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: definitely I think like just the way the puzzle pieces

569
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: fit together is kind of perfect where he wants he

570
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: wants to be around, and that's perfect for the way

571
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: we want wolfie, you know, to understand this amazing story

572
00:32:54,880 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: and how like how intentional and how magic and from

573
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: the ocean he is it really? And you know, the

574
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: crazy thing is the day that I asked him, because

575
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: after Sean, I was like, you can ask him. It

576
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: wasn't like it's on. It was like, Okay, this is

577
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 1: still a crazy thing, Like I'm just still in crazy town.

578
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: Like we had the chances of someone being super receptive

579
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 1: to this wild kind of like proposition is it's not

580
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: even that it's smaller bigots that you have no way

581
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,239
Speaker 1: of knowing. Yeah. So so so we had like one

582
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: last day and we were supposed to go out on

583
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 1: this deep sea fishing trip and so that would have

584
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: kind of like taken our day and the chances of

585
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: bumping into him. Anyways, the trip got canceled because the

586
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,239
Speaker 1: ocean was too rocky, and so we as we were

587
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: walking back from that canceled boat trip on this like

588
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: only time that we could lock this in, he was

589
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: walking out to teach a lesson and I was like,

590
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: can I take one after? That's that's amazing? Yeah, tell

591
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: the story all the time. Yeah, I want to write

592
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: a movie about it. You really should or it sounds

593
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: like at least like maybe even like a limited serious

594
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,800
Speaker 1: television because you know they were like episode honest book

595
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: or not to like raw graphic novel, graphic novel, not

596
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: to draw the straight line. But it feels like that

597
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: was also fully in Diabolo's wheelhouse to this kind of story.

598
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Yeah, so cool, yeah cool, yeah,

599
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, I mean totally she does these like

600
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 1: honest yeah real, yeah, yeah, like I always refer to.

601
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: Did we talk about Diablo on the podcast? We briefly

602
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: talked about her before we got record, but we did.

603
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: We just spoke about it, but we haven't talked about her,

604
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: but we were saying that, like it's true, she really

605
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,959
Speaker 1: tully is what I haven't seen. And you were talking

606
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,399
Speaker 1: about how it's so great to like beble to see

607
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 1: this movie. That really yeah, like just that shot it

608
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: was in the preview, but the shot of the breast

609
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: milk bag like just slowly falling. It's like just like

610
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 1: a thing that means so much to an audience too.

611
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: That is just like it's wild that I mean, like

612
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: gay stories, stories about women. It is so exciting for

613
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: us right now because we're at like just this forefront. Actually,

614
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 1: when I saw you guys in Montreal and you were

615
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: having so much fun, um, it was like just this

616
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 1: heart like this, like you know, it's just amazing and

617
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: wild to think, but it is kind of the we're

618
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: at the forefront of like just being able to like

619
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: celebrate and be received in that way and not be

620
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: like pigeonholed into a thing, but just like you know,

621
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: like not be having to be conscious of how gay

622
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: or not gay you are. I think I think now

623
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: whenever I notice how gay I am, I'm like, oh,

624
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 1: that's weird. Whereas I used to notice how gay was

625
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: all the time. Like I used to I used to

626
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: feel other and the verdict around it was I'm being

627
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: so gay fun. But now it's like yeah, now it's

628
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 1: like it's honestly, it's cool too for that to be

629
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 1: the thing that people like about what you do, know

630
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah, Well, just that you're just intrinsically

631
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 1: laying in your truth is nice because I think. I

632
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: mean when when I was younger too, I started stand

633
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: up when I was sixteen, and there was this it

634
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: was more about race, but it was the exact same

635
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 1: thing of like being conscious of like how brown am

636
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: I being? And what you know, like how much race

637
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: stuff am I doing? And it's just like you you

638
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: get older, wiser and develop as an artist and you realize, like, oh,

639
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: all of that ship, none of that ship mattered at all.

640
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 1: It was always just like how me am I being?

641
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: How honest about what I actually want to be talking

642
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: about on stage? That's like all a for me, Like

643
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: I would rather just I would rather watch anyone just

644
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 1: talk about truthfully what they feel on stage. Then And

645
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: so in Montreal, the thing I don't know, They're not

646
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: to name any names or anything, but like there is

647
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: just like it because of the way things worked, Like

648
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: even when I started stand up there, it was just

649
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: inescapable that gay acts would have to There's just like

650
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: a pain. There was like a pain that was there

651
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: that is just like I feel like not, it's like

652
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: it's still there, you guys, as we are here in

653
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: this like new era where it's like it's really fun. Yeah,

654
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 1: it feels like it only just happened over the past

655
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 1: three or four years. Yeah, And that's something I owed

656
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 1: Monica Lewinsky. I was gonna say that was what I

657
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,919
Speaker 1: was like, this is a queer momentum. But what what's

658
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: interesting about it though, is it's like I always tell people, like,

659
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: it's crazy how much has changed in a short period

660
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: of time, because if you even go back like five years,

661
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: six years, like which doesn't seem too long ago, but

662
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: so much sh it has changed, Like I really feel like,

663
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: and we talked about about this a lot with Mateo

664
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 1: actually when he did our show, Like how Mateo had

665
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: like a little relationship with Joel because they never got

666
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: to see each other because they never were booked on

667
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: the same shows, you know what I mean, just the

668
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 1: one of and people would never yeah, and just like, um,

669
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 1: how that's sort of change a little bit over the past.

670
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: Like now when I see a bill, I'm like, I'm

671
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: so embarrassed for people that put these lineups together if

672
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,399
Speaker 1: there are no if there's not like more than one,

673
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: because it used to be like, wow, there's no woman

674
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: on this list. Now it's like if I see one

675
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: woman on the list, I'm like, seriously, Like when I

676
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 1: when I see the cast of like a movie and

677
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 1: there's one woman, I'm like, I'm not watching any movie

678
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: where there's one woman. I'm sorry, I'm not. I don't

679
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: care what the story is. I don't care what the

680
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: situation is, what you're depicting. I'm just not interested. Not

681
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: only Partment did some speech recently. It was for like

682
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: it wasn't for the human rights campaign might even where

683
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 1: she was like, you should be embarrassed, like this is

684
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 1: how things should be going forward. You should be embarrassed

685
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: if you have like some homogeneous cast or some homogeneous

686
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: group of whatever, like be embarrassed. This is you know.

687
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 1: That's how kind of how I feel about the movie

688
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: First Man, Like Danil Armstrong movie. I heard it's a

689
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 1: great movie, but I'm not interested in seeing it because

690
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: Claire Foy is the only woman in it. And it's

691
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: just like it's it has nothing to do with whether

692
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,320
Speaker 1: or nothing movie is good. It's just like I've seen

693
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 1: this story so many times. Yeah, and like a man

694
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 1: going into space put upon wife. Yeah, you know what,

695
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 1: and is just it's from that Shooter movie too. It's

696
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 1: from like every time a man is doing like the

697
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: big hero thing and the way it's like you're gonna

698
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 1: do what space? It's like, bitch, this has been how

699
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: far space for dinner? The thing like what am I

700
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: going to tell our children? It's like, well, This also

701
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 1: is a fucking stupid question because if it was you

702
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,360
Speaker 1: going out there, would you want your husband saying the

703
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,439
Speaker 1: same thing to you. It's like this, this writing is dumb,

704
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 1: Like these are not the kinds of questions people ask,

705
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,879
Speaker 1: like and like if yeah, a cool badass space dude

706
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: is gonna marry a cool badass earthly give your your

707
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: male hero more credit. I feel like, but these were

708
00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 1: actually you know, like to tie it back to the

709
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 1: roles in the way that we like envision UM like

710
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: our mates and what our life will look like. It's

711
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 1: like these are these were the options, these are the

712
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:13,879
Speaker 1: menu items before and now it's like amazing to to say, like, yeah,

713
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: it's obvious that this is like an old way of thinking.

714
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 1: These are like old and there's like so there's so

715
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: many people in um TV writing like old school people

716
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: that are like back in the day, yes, you used

717
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 1: to make a hundred million dollars in episode, and now

718
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 1: you've got these you know, one million dollar a year

719
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: situations and it's like, bitch, you're rich, like and now

720
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 1: there's more people making more money. That's good. You know,

721
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: like a show like Search Party can exist and it

722
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 1: doesn't have to draw you know, forty million people. Everyone

723
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: doesn't have to like the same thing, but like, let's

724
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 1: get more menu items going. And and also I really

725
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 1: there's something. There's a very few things I hate than

726
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 1: the than the phrase like back in the day, like

727
00:40:58,200 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 1: or like when I was young, it's like that Megan

728
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 1: Kelly bullshit of like when I was young used to

729
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: be able to do this and it wasn't a big deal.

730
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: It's like, just put your red hat on and walk right.

731
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: Just because something is nostalgic to you doesn't mean it

732
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: was right. It doesn't make you like tougher or braver,

733
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 1: like when like when like old white guys say, well,

734
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: back in my day, it's like that actually doesn't make

735
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: you tougher, it makes you more limited. Sure, I'm just

736
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: always worried that we're going to fall into that trump

737
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: some day two of like wow, I just feel like

738
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: when people talk about polyamory, I am like, uh, the

739
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: right way, I'm like, yeah, which is fine, I guess.

740
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: I mean, like I just think I haven't because I

741
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: haven't personally seen people gay men can do it well.

742
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: And that is that's again a generalization, but I see

743
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 1: successful couples playing in that way. Um, but I have

744
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: not really seen it, and to generalize it is, I mean, yeah,

745
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: and I wonder what it is about out. I wonder

746
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,919
Speaker 1: what it is because it's like, yes, it's my own fear.

747
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 1: Well I and I think that it's it's a it's

748
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: it's it's our own fear. It's also like again, I

749
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 1: do think it is like the patriarchy and traditionalism eaking

750
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: in which I think none of us can deny that

751
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:17,320
Speaker 1: it does eke in, and it does affect our choices subconsciously.

752
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: It works. It's very low, it's one of the most

753
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: low things about life. But I also think like gay

754
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: male sexuality, I think is a male sexual life about life,

755
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: about life about life. Um, but in gay male sexuality

756
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,320
Speaker 1: and male sexuality, I think is just different than and

757
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: then you involve female sexuality. And I do think there

758
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: are differences in the two. I'm not like, like well

759
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: versed enough in in both to like talk about why

760
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: that is. But it feels like in heterosexual relationship, not

761
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: only do you have like the traditional like in the patriarchy,

762
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: kind of creeping in psychologically, but also there's got to

763
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: be something there that like me because like maybe because

764
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: it's more like intimate and connective, like the actual like

765
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but then Sabrina for

766
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 1: you for a gay female female relationship, like is yeah,

767
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: I mean is that does that go against like general

768
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: generalizations people make about how it's so monogamous, how those

769
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 1: are so like unusually passionately like emotional. That's like I

770
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: guess like the like the stereotype about like lesbians is

771
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: like yeah, it's like we look at each other in

772
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: the eyes and it's always like that. Whereas game out

773
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: or like yeah we came, now we can go do

774
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 1: it with someone else, Like what yeah, I mean, well,

775
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: I guess we can be conscious now as after we

776
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 1: just had this conversation of like we get it, I

777
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,760
Speaker 1: want to just put it out there that like gender

778
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: fluidity everything everyone, Like I do think that like in

779
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: a future future world, if we really really like trust

780
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: fell back into openness and truth, we we could be

781
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 1: in relationships to each other, you know, like gay men

782
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 1: gay went like just like I do think that haves

783
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: to have to make a hole in this way that oftentimes,

784
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: like like when I was saying that, I was like

785
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 1: on the back of the motorcycle wanting to grab the polls.

786
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: It's like i am like I'm in that moment. I'm

787
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 1: basically I'm like, it's kind of like a two bitches

788
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 1: don't make it right type attitude. Um, but I think

789
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: that there's you know, like there's also there's nothing wrong

790
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: with just uh, things become traditional and think patterns repeat themselves,

791
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: and that's like, you know, at the end of the day,

792
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 1: when we go to the airport, one of us needs

793
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: to carry the bags, you know, and it's not like

794
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm dying to carry the heavy bags when

795
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: it's like I'm the butcher one, so I will do it.

796
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: And then when it came time to carry a baby,

797
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: it's like, bitch, get those hips cracking U. And it's

798
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: like so we get to like go on family vacations

799
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 1: because we're all doing our role. I think that like

800
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 1: you're right about like if we trust fell into what

801
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 1: we truth, like what you're saying, like, if we all

802
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 1: actually like let ourselves be attracted to what we're all

803
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 1: really attracted to, everyone would be fucking their minds would

804
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 1: be blond. Like if we all were just like yeah,

805
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,879
Speaker 1: really let everything go and allowed ourselves And maybe that's

806
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: like impossible, but to just do that, it would be crazy. Yeah.

807
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: And then at the same time, I think it's like

808
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: when it comes to maybe there's a thing about polyamory

809
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: or or openness that is like to me, it's like,

810
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 1: I am like, so, um, I feel so lucky to

811
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: be with my wife, and I feel like I got

812
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: a really good, you know deal, like like I exchange

813
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: rated myself to like a really awesome, great person hot

814
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 1: sweet uh connected when like such a great that I

815
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: don't want to like go back into the market and

816
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, you grab something, I'll grab something. I'll

817
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:56,240
Speaker 1: may be back here at noon. It's like I'm terrified

818
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: I come back at noon and there's like just a

819
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: harem of people around, like one weirdo that I'm just

820
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: like with someone that I felt bad for and like

821
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 1: I've been talking to for four hours since she's been

822
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 1: fucking every cool model. Wow, that's that's really Yeah. I

823
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:20,479
Speaker 1: don't know. My boyfriend and I ex boyfriend, we tried

824
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 1: um being open and it did not work. It seems complicated,

825
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 1: frustrated because I was like, why does this work for

826
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: everyone else? But then I also think there is like

827
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: the production not I think everyone not to say that

828
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 1: there aren't some open relationship that are just seamless. I'm

829
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:35,919
Speaker 1: good for you, that's true, But like, I think there's

830
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: struggles in a relationship that we don't necessarily hear about. Yes,

831
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: it probably adds a layer of complication, regardless, it's another

832
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: thing to manage. And the and the mental model of

833
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: success in a polyamorous relationship or in an open relationship,

834
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: which is I guess it's different, but um oh yeah

835
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 1: it doesn't. It doesn't really exist. I mean it's the

836
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: witch model like like like like when when you hear

837
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 1: Monique talk about how like, yes, my husband and I

838
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: are open and it's been great, Like you don't really

839
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: know what like to the public, that isn't like you

840
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 1: don't like to me. Let's say to the lay person,

841
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means? Yeah, like is it

842
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 1: is it great? And that no one gets jealous? Is

843
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: it great? And that you are also connected with other people? Now?

844
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 1: Is it? Like? Is it great? And that you guys

845
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: haven't fought about the parameters? I think I think the

846
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,839
Speaker 1: thing the reason we're having this discussion in the first

847
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 1: place is because the parameters aren't set in general for

848
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: everybody anyway. Is that people are just are just making

849
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: up their own I will say that was the most

850
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,320
Speaker 1: difficult thing about being in the open relationship is agreeing

851
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 1: on the rules. Yeah, I think it's I think I

852
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 1: guess so then rather than say, like game it works

853
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 1: for gay men, It's like it's got to be some

854
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 1: It's got to be two people who are have like

855
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 1: supreme have supremely master their security and communicating that to

856
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: each other. Which is or the other thing is like

857
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: I think being a part of something together. I'm not

858
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: saying that like in my life, I'm that I'm like

859
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 1: so narrow that I'm like, you know, if Sean and

860
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 1: I were like in by the way, you know, or

861
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: like we're like off away and there's someone with that

862
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: like doesn't have an Instagram, is so hot and wants

863
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: us both equally, like yeah, let's do you know? Like

864
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: I'm not that's that seems like the same someone and

865
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: a different way for sure. Um oh wait, okay, did

866
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: you mention off off the mic, off the here that

867
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 1: you had this stunt moment and tomorrow tomorrow you have

868
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: an acting role in the and the wedding episode and

869
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 1: I have a stunt double that I can't wait to meet. Okay,

870
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: and you wrote that the wedding I read the episode. Yeah, amazing, incredible. Okay,

871
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: so did you know that you were going to be

872
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: performing the stunt of the role that No, they didn't.

873
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: I read it at the table, but then they didn't

874
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: tell me till last week. And I'm so happy. I

875
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: can't believe so much happens. This season is so fucking good.

876
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: It felt so good. I've been writing on shows for

877
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 1: the past few years now, and like writing on Search

878
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: Party just such a dream to write on a show

879
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 1: that I watched because I came in on the third

880
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 1: season for the first time and just like be a

881
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 1: part of like playing with the dolls of the story

882
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: is just good and it's such a good there's such

883
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: good dolls. There's such good dolls. Charles and sv that

884
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 1: create who created it, like just no, you know the

885
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: world of the show and they know what they want

886
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 1: and and that was like so special because I had

887
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: been working in network where it's like there's like so

888
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: much pressure and so many people telling you kind of

889
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: what the story is that oftentimes it gets lost. You know.

890
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 1: It's like the stories that way, that way, that way,

891
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: and it's like what are we Why did we even

892
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: step on stage to tell the story? Um? But yeah,

893
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 1: Charles and sv are perfect and the um Lily's in

894
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: the room, Lily's having a baby really burns. I didn't

895
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: know Lily was having a brushing through her belly and

896
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: soon through somewhere. Oh wait, now I'm actually remembering vividly. Yes,

897
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: I do know that she is truly the best, like

898
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: the coolest, smartest. Yeah, very cool, very smart. Fun to

899
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 1: be part of it, fun to be good. In the

900
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:31,320
Speaker 1: fourth episode, not right. First season, I just this is

901
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 1: such a weird thing to be obsessed over. But I

902
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 1: just loved the promo art style. I love it. Where

903
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 1: the first season was like hardy boys Nancy Drew, second

904
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: season was hedgecock. I don't have to tell me. I

905
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 1: just I can't wait for what? When is it premiere?

906
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 1: When does it start? I don't know when. We don't know.

907
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: I think I'm shooting, like I think they've got one

908
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: more months left of shooting, because I remember last year

909
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: it started around November around this time. But it seems like, yeah,

910
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 1: you guys are well trying to do some editing after this, Yeah,

911
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 1: just get because we wanted to rather later. Thank you.

912
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 1: The second season is so fucking Let's face it, Matt,

913
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914
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916
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917
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,520
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918
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,560
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Speaker 1: your next appointment. So wait, okay, so the stunt have you?

946
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 1: Have you met with the stunt double You have not?

947
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: I have not, But let me just tell you about

948
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 1: Mary LB. So. I don't give away anything about the

949
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:00,279
Speaker 1: episode because I feel like I can't tell you what

950
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: my character parent does. But I met Okay, So back

951
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: in the day, when did you leave Canada? Oh like

952
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: a long time? Okay? Cool? Um, so a little bit

953
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: after that, when I guess it was like probably I

954
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 1: was nineteen years old. I'm thirty three now, So that

955
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,799
Speaker 1: many years ago, I was the host of a kids

956
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 1: show on y TV called in TV. Oh my God,

957
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 1: would you word what TV? Yeah? And it was three

958
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 1: seasons of like running around North it was like amazing

959
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 1: race buff for kids. And one episode they learned how

960
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 1: to be stunt drivers stunts doubles, stunt doubles on Paramount Lot.

961
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 1: And I met this lady Mary Alby. Wait so you

962
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 1: might hear about then yes, do you guys do any

963
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: editing of music? Because I feel like this would be

964
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,240
Speaker 1: like a good place for like the Mary I'll be moment,

965
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 1: we'll cut that in. Okay, good and we're back. Tell

966
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 1: us more about Mary. Um, first, raise your expectations, because

967
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 1: I'm getting nervous about how good the conversation was. Basically,

968
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 1: we were having lunch and she taught me about like

969
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: She's like, look, this is a crazy industry. You got

970
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: to diversify your investments. You got she had an avocado

971
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 1: farm and she invested in real estate. But I really, uh,

972
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: you know, that stuck in my head and then I yeah,

973
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: and then and then now she's fucking she's your stunt double.

974
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: No she's not. She is, No, just did not know.

975
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 1: I think it was dun for you for tomorrow. I've

976
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 1: been I was out till four in the morning, and

977
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 1: I literally literally I know I met this woman in

978
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: the eighties, like way back in what I met her

979
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 1: in real life on the show. In real life. It's

980
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 1: not now that I'm saying it. It's like not a

981
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 1: good story, Like she didn't really she literally told me

982
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 1: to buy an avocado farm. I didn't buy one. So

983
00:54:56,440 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: it's not like it's like I anyway stunts, Oh my god,

984
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 1: I really wasn't that. Also, like I wasn't even invited

985
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:07,240
Speaker 1: on the show yet, and I was like Mary Alby.

986
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 1: I don't even know if that's her real name. I mean,

987
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: the thing about stunts is it's in It's like, have

988
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 1: I ever done a stunt. I've only worked with stunt

989
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: doubles on a stunt people on Broad City Because the

990
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: people that I like, these two women who are fighting

991
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 1: at this pop up sale where these stunt women in

992
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: one I had this clamming in the face, but they

993
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:34,360
Speaker 1: were just catching like they know it's such a small

994
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: industry where everyone knows each other. Like think of like

995
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 1: how incestuous people say comedy is, but it's like no,

996
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:42,720
Speaker 1: it's like scale it down even more. It's like that's

997
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: and maybe if it's like the Olympics, they all have

998
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 1: sex with each other just to add a little sex

999
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: I think. I think about like all the Olympic athletes

1000
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 1: fucking and it really drives me. That's all I do.

1001
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:58,399
Speaker 1: It's all I remember. I remember during London, um, someone

1002
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 1: told me, told me who it is, Like have you

1003
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: heard about this this grinder? Just so many cart wheels

1004
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: in their sex grinder? What like in London there was

1005
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 1: this like grinder. Traffic was spiked in London at the

1006
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: Olympic village because all these athletes were sucking each other

1007
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:15,800
Speaker 1: and there were so many gays, so many gay athletes

1008
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: just fucking. Okay, And that's all I've been able to

1009
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: think about. When the Olympics roll on, I'm like, oh,

1010
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:26,320
Speaker 1: they're all bodies are It's so wild. Let's do a

1011
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: competition and then your listeners have to vote in which

1012
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: is the best fucking moment of two Olympic athletes. I

1013
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:40,919
Speaker 1: will start, Okay, Bradley walks up to the horse bar,

1014
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: he mounts it. He does a front and lands on

1015
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 1: Tatiana's lap. She is wearing a strap on that that's great. Okay,

1016
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 1: that's good. Should I go next and talk to you

1017
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:07,800
Speaker 1: the real people that I should know about? Okay, told May.

1018
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: Standing on the diving board, he is being watched by millions,

1019
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: So good he take He He crouches down sort of

1020
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 1: like sort of like a pop star and slowly runs

1021
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: his hands up his body and it's so central, and

1022
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: he rises up with his hands until he puts his

1023
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: hands above his head like a gymnast like this, and

1024
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: you just see his hands go pink like his little hands.

1025
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: They go down like when a gymnast lands, and they go.

1026
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: It's at this moment that someone comes up behind him.

1027
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 1: It's Roland, and Roland kind of grabs him and like

1028
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 1: they Roland kisses his ear like and he starts to

1029
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 1: bite his ear a little bit, and millions are watching.

1030
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: They never jump in the water, and they just fuck

1031
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: on the board. They and they don't even penetrate. It's

1032
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 1: just raw sensuality, and it's so romantic that gays are

1033
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 1: accepted everything. I'm so jealous, I'm so embarrassed. About mine?

1034
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 1: Why did I do kind of sex that I've never

1035
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 1: been involved in? Why did I give shitty names? You've

1036
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 1: just heard? Is my actual sexual fantasy just being watched

1037
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 1: by millions of people? And then song comes up behind

1038
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 1: me and bites my ear and like fucking whispers in

1039
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 1: my ear, and I'm like, I can't follow this. Yeah,

1040
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: that's really hard. You're a writer on these shows. Um,

1041
00:58:54,920 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: it's the opening ceremony. Oh god, the flags are being

1042
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: wheeled out and carried out. I should say, Um, you

1043
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: have Ding Ding in the Chinese delegation, the Chinese team.

1044
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: Who is who is um a nineteen year old? He's

1045
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: also a gymnast, male gymnast, rippling muscles, hot hot stocky

1046
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: or like lean stocky stocky, dude stocky Dinging the Chinese

1047
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: gymnast got it. And by the way, like every every year,

1048
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 1: the Chinese male gymnasts are like in my book, like

1049
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 1: the hottest people. And then the whole fucking can I

1050
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 1: can I say? Can I say one more thing about line? Wait,

1051
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying something about mine. If you see something finished,

1052
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, unconscionable. Okay, so is gonna be so mad

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00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: that Ing Ding Ding walks out with the flag and

1054
00:59:56,960 --> 01:00:04,439
Speaker 1: then three three three delegations ahead is Egypt and oh

1055
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 1: my god is named after the Egyptian singer Um. And

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01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 1: he is, he's in the he's he's he's on the

1057
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 1: hockey team. This is a weird like winter summer, sort

1058
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 1: of like confusion and then love affair. And then Coultum

1059
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: runs back because he just sensed something, a sensuality pouring

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01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: out of ding Jing. And then they sixty nine while

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01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 1: holding each other's flags, so so Dingjing standing like like

1062
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 1: wraps his legs around, his neck, slips around, goes down

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01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,480
Speaker 1: the sixty nine as they carry their flags. Mary all,

1064
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: he's gonna need to get off. Then Mary Albi is

1065
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 1: watching from home being like I should have I should

1066
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: have sold the farm. I should have been there, and

1067
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 1: then then and then and then uh millions. That's it's

1068
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: the most watched moment in the entire and the entire operation. Right,

1069
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: but it's so so impressive but also so jarring the people.

1070
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 1: Uh the gays are put in jails. Everywhere has the

1071
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 1: opposite it has. Let me just col her my story

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01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 1: about one more time. Of course, I forgot to say

1073
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 1: Toma and Roland each Thomas competing for Mexico and Roland

1074
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 1: is competing for America, and therefore it is a political statement.

1075
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:23,560
Speaker 1: Is fuming okay? And Trump actually, when he sees this,

1076
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 1: turns to sand got beautiful. He turns to sund Did

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01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 1: you have anything? Yeah, that's gorgeous. I already thought of

1078
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 1: her as gorgeous. Describe her gender fluid, Yes, okay, No

1079
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 1: one cares about the bio. It's all steam on the face.

1080
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: Gorge She sounds essential. Real name is blanc Get the

1081
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: last name how Pegistani her? Yes, I say Tomas last

1082
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 1: name Roma? And what's Roland's last name? Williams Roll? Tatiana?

1083
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:25,439
Speaker 1: Tatiana's anonymously Ta Changings. Full name is went Dingjing because

1084
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 1: last names go first and China and Um and Kutum

1085
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: is kutum, which is a reversal of umkutum, which is

1086
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:37,440
Speaker 1: in Egypt, is actually apt. She was like the Madonna

1087
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 1: of she was She was bigger than Madonna. She was

1088
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 1: like huge. She was like the biggest selling artist in

1089
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: like all of Africa and Europe. Like just what happened

1090
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 1: to her? Why haven't I she like she died in

1091
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 1: the fifties or the sixties, or so oh this she

1092
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 1: was very very long. How do you know that I

1093
01:02:55,600 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 1: took a musicology his last culture? Maybe you've heard um,

1094
01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:04,000
Speaker 1: maybe you've heard. Wait, we have to ask Sabrina this question. Yes,

1095
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 1: we do, you ask it. Okay, So Sabrina, this is

1096
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: the question that we ask all of our guests when

1097
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 1: they rolled through UM, which is what was the culture

1098
01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: that made you say? Culture was for me, like the

1099
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 1: pop culture that you experienced as a youngster that made

1100
01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 1: you kind of step into who you were, Like it's

1101
01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 1: a movie, book, a show, a person that was like

1102
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: a celebrity, like a culture that you grew up with.

1103
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: What was the defining thing that you're like, Oh, that

1104
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 1: was kind of like what defined me. I've just been

1105
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 1: so nervous ever since you said, we asked this to

1106
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 1: everybody is finally racing away from that, stepping forward. It

1107
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 1: could just be like a Canada, or it could be

1108
01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 1: like just any big broad thing. Um, like seeing Ellen

1109
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 1: degenerous to stand up amazing that was really big for you. Yeah, yeah,

1110
01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: because she was and I didn't know that I was gay,

1111
01:03:56,680 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: And the first time you saw her, um, I knew

1112
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 1: she was like me and something, you know, like just

1113
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 1: seeing this woman be in her power and not be

1114
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 1: um like yeah, breaking out of whatever anyone was supposed

1115
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: to be like and just being so cool and fun

1116
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: and and then are you I'm curious, well not to

1117
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: like I'm curiously do you feel like Ellen has lived

1118
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: up to that power like that now she's like a

1119
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 1: huge company And I don't think it's like a secret

1120
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 1: that like people say she's not that, which is but

1121
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 1: also like everybody can't be everything, like Sarah Silverman is

1122
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 1: also someone that I like love and admire. And then

1123
01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 1: last week that quote that she said was like, I mean,

1124
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 1: no matter what was attached before and after the thing

1125
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 1: about like Luisinka masturbated in front of me, it's like

1126
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 1: why why that? So it's like if you just keep

1127
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 1: on talking, I guess you will get caught up in

1128
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: some silliness. And yeah, I mean that's kind of what

1129
01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 1: we always say, Like there's literally now hundreds of hours

1130
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,120
Speaker 1: of us just talking, especially in the beginning, and we

1131
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 1: thought no one would listen to this. Yeah, well they'll

1132
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 1: get us, um, but yeah, there is that thing of like, Yeah,

1133
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 1: to Ellen's credit, I think like at least she's in

1134
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 1: complete control of everything that she does. So you would

1135
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 1: never know because of something she does that she wasn't great.

1136
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 1: It's just like leaking people that I guess like have

1137
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 1: experiences with her. And I will say also, I think

1138
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: the people are always excited for a take on on

1139
01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: an icon. You know, like every every single person she meets,

1140
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:32,040
Speaker 1: they have a takeaway of like the time they met Ellen.

1141
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:35,920
Speaker 1: And she has like a hundred million and one business

1142
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 1: things to do in a day, So you can't be everything, you're, right, Yeah,

1143
01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 1: And does she do more great than bad? For sure? Right,

1144
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 1: every day genuinely and generally has used her powers for good.

1145
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 1: And I guess that is the ultimate question that if

1146
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 1: you ask if you go to bed every night and

1147
01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 1: you say, did I use my powers for good today?

1148
01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:01,040
Speaker 1: And yeah, you know what we're We're we've sort of

1149
01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 1: taken Ellen to task in very fun, facetious ways. No,

1150
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 1: I actually have a real problem with you, Like, like

1151
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: my my issue with Ellen is that I often think

1152
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:13,600
Speaker 1: she gives problematic and sometimes maybe even dangerous celebrities platforms

1153
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 1: to kind of like look good. So I think that's

1154
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 1: something that's an issue that I personally have. The example

1155
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 1: that I cite is Matthew Fox from Lost he like

1156
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 1: punched a bus driver, a female bus driver. Yeah, it

1157
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 1: was like it was Matthew Fox was also on Party

1158
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:31,080
Speaker 1: of five. I didn't even know that about it. He

1159
01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 1: apparently was like a little bit or maybe even a

1160
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: lot of bit abusive towards people. And I think that

1161
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 1: the very first talk show that he was that he

1162
01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 1: went on was like Ellen Show and this is kind

1163
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:43,600
Speaker 1: of before the whole era of like times at me

1164
01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 1: to believe women being the kind of thing it is.

1165
01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 1: But she didn't not give him a platform to be like,

1166
01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:53,680
Speaker 1: this isn't who this, this is, this can't possibly be true,

1167
01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:55,920
Speaker 1: when it like very much possibly could be true. And

1168
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 1: there was footage of him. No, I don't know if

1169
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 1: that there was footage. I don't know about like what

1170
01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:02,800
Speaker 1: the specificity was. I know that his co stars from

1171
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: Lost also step forward and said he's an abuser, like

1172
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 1: came forward, and the way she framed the interview is

1173
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 1: very much like come on. It was like wait, this

1174
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 1: is we know this isn't you? So what happened? And

1175
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 1: then he was able to say his story. Meanwhile, like

1176
01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 1: this woman that made the allegation, like I don't think

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01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: she was afforded the same opportunities definitely. Also, I guess

1178
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 1: you just like you, it is inevitable that you get

1179
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 1: your you lose touch with certain right aspects of being

1180
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 1: a regular person when you're famous for most of your life.

1181
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:32,760
Speaker 1: And also, you know what, I don't know, Ellen, I

1182
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 1: just know, like that's that's like I don't I also

1183
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 1: don't know that it was entirely her decision to have

1184
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 1: him on. I also find that she is usually the

1185
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 1: one to have like biberon or like I think, I

1186
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,680
Speaker 1: don't know if she's had Kanye on lately, but I

1187
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 1: feel like it's just like you can always kind of

1188
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 1: count on her to, like I think, be an advocate

1189
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:54,760
Speaker 1: for these extremely famous people that have problems, which is

1190
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:56,560
Speaker 1: I think having to do with the fact that she

1191
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 1: knows what it's like to be extremely famous and be scrutinized. However,

1192
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: or I don't always think these people deserve the kind

1193
01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:06,760
Speaker 1: of um retribution and repute, like that kind of platform

1194
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: to get retribution that she allows. Sometimes I think you

1195
01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:12,400
Speaker 1: call us spade a spade. The losing touch part is interesting. Oh,

1196
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: I was talking to someone about this um but very

1197
01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 1: funny and influential and good totally UM. There's this thing.

1198
01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 1: This is fun weird trend now where it's like these

1199
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:26,240
Speaker 1: actors turn directors are making these period coming of age

1200
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 1: movies right with like your Regretta Growiggs, Jenny Birds, your

1201
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,479
Speaker 1: Jona mid nineties. Um even I guess bow, I guess

1202
01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:34,760
Speaker 1: it's not period, but bou Burden with eighth grade. It's

1203
01:08:34,800 --> 01:08:36,639
Speaker 1: like there's this It's like a new, weird, new fun

1204
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 1: sub genre. It seems like a trend. Um, it's a trend.

1205
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 1: And then we were like what is that? And then

1206
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:44,400
Speaker 1: Sandy Honigg was like, I think it's because and Sandy

1207
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:46,760
Speaker 1: Sandy said that her brother Jake said this, it's like, um,

1208
01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 1: it's like the reason they're making these period movies and

1209
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 1: that the were that are coming of ages because that

1210
01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:54,799
Speaker 1: was the last time that they were like not famous

1211
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 1: and normal. They're like, wait, I was normal back then.

1212
01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 1: Let me make a movie about that. And at least,

1213
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:03,640
Speaker 1: like that's better than like fully losing touches to like

1214
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 1: create a touchdowne for that. But like I don't know, Yeah,

1215
01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 1: I mean, your ellens are your ellens aren't going to

1216
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:11,080
Speaker 1: be everything. But also I mean her standard back then

1217
01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 1: was like amazing. She's revolutionary. Yeah, like deal lover. She's

1218
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:22,280
Speaker 1: the Mary I'll be of comedy a lot of people.

1219
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 1: I also think that I also think Ellen could stunts.

1220
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,320
Speaker 1: She could do stunts. Mary is the oh one other

1221
01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:32,160
Speaker 1: thing about stunts. Please let this be better than The Advocate.

1222
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 1: Please just a podcast where you say what your inner

1223
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 1: monologue is about what you're thinking to say. Um, I

1224
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:46,600
Speaker 1: hope the hosts like it is that When I was

1225
01:09:46,680 --> 01:09:49,400
Speaker 1: on in real life on what I also learned from

1226
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:53,640
Speaker 1: her was that stunts, stunt people get paid, um like

1227
01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:56,720
Speaker 1: double or triple what actors get paid. And if you're

1228
01:09:56,720 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 1: ever on set and you're asked to do anything like

1229
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 1: and it doesn't have to act to be a stunt.

1230
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 1: If you're riding a horse, if you're like someone you

1231
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:06,759
Speaker 1: know punches but misses you like it's not it doesn't

1232
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:09,640
Speaker 1: have to be like a huge action thing, it qualifies

1233
01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:12,439
Speaker 1: as stunt pay. And now looking back, it's actually something

1234
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 1: that I was like, was I on the right side

1235
01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 1: of my own history on this? Because I found that

1236
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 1: out and then made my agent fight for stunt pay

1237
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:21,720
Speaker 1: like every time I like lifted a back, like every

1238
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:28,080
Speaker 1: time I did anything at all that And eventually one

1239
01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:30,320
Speaker 1: of the producers pulled me aside or the creator the

1240
01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 1: show pulled me aside. He was like, you know when

1241
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:34,600
Speaker 1: when your agent is talking to us about money, that

1242
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,320
Speaker 1: like it's actually a conversation between you and me. And

1243
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, but I'm doing it. I don't

1244
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 1: know what this is about. I actually wait, I'm not

1245
01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 1: comfortable with this. Wait hold on actually had a stunty

1246
01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:52,080
Speaker 1: to me somewhere is this that this conversation seems like

1247
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:54,640
Speaker 1: I should get paid stunt? But the whole show was

1248
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 1: like then you could always justify because we were like,

1249
01:10:57,240 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 1: you know, running around alligators and like just doing wild stuff.

1250
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:03,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, did you do? I was obsessed with

1251
01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 1: watched They liked it? They like that part, They like

1252
01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 1: that part. Did you ever watch oh on my TV

1253
01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 1: as a kid? With? I think? Did they invent that before?

1254
01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 1: Nickelodeon didn't know? I don't know. I wonder are you

1255
01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 1: saying are you attacking America by saying that Nickelodeon wasn't

1256
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:20,599
Speaker 1: the first to bring Google? Absolutely? How do you feel

1257
01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: about the new regime being like mad at Canada? It's

1258
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 1: just like a whole other layer of like, oh god,

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01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,759
Speaker 1: I'm brown, I'm gay, I'm an immigrant, and you hate Canada.

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01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:35,240
Speaker 1: Do they hate Canada? They say that the beautiful Prime

1261
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 1: Minister is being unreasonable. They're just like, like, it's it's

1262
01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:44,680
Speaker 1: the fact that the US is antagonizing Canada is highly unusual.

1263
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 1: It's I mean, it's so weird. It's like someone having

1264
01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 1: a problem with a partner, right having Like when she's

1265
01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: in the green room, I'm not in there. Can you imagine? Um?

1266
01:11:58,720 --> 01:12:01,760
Speaker 1: I was going to say that. Um wait, now I'm

1267
01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 1: thinking about fan pick of like Trudeau and Anthony, Oh Canadians.

1268
01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:11,320
Speaker 1: That's so, those are two people who word for me.

1269
01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 1: It's not even about viciality. I'd love to watch them

1270
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 1: like who's each other's ask? Okay, um, they're so hot. Also,

1271
01:12:19,560 --> 01:12:23,080
Speaker 1: Trudeau's butt is out of control. Have you seen his butt?

1272
01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: It's like photo of his ass. It's like takeing me.

1273
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:34,720
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say that, Um, Mary Albi is

1274
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 1: the tomorrow Tomorrow. I just want to say that. Tatiana

1275
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 1: after Bradley lands on her, by the way, the thing

1276
01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 1: that he jumps off is one hundred miles tall, I

1277
01:12:45,960 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 1: forgotten one hundred miles tall. Okay. She takes an avocado

1278
01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:55,600
Speaker 1: out of her butt, cracks it open like uses her

1279
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:59,320
Speaker 1: nails to like slice around it, opens it and inside

1280
01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 1: is the thick quack. The clock is already made. There's

1281
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 1: like it's made from the smashing from Bradley Landing. I

1282
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:11,439
Speaker 1: forgot to say that tomorrow Mile looks like like a

1283
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:16,240
Speaker 1: Latino version of Prime Minister Justin Trudeau, and um Roland

1284
01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 1: Williams looks exactly like Anthony, in fact that in fact

1285
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 1: it is Anthony. I forgot to say that, Um that

1286
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 1: Jing Jing also does. He is a gymnast after all,

1287
01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:31,280
Speaker 1: also does the one hundred miles Obama horse lands and

1288
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:34,959
Speaker 1: does unfortunately die as most people would. But but Bradley

1289
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:38,880
Speaker 1: lands perfectly on the strap on gets pegged and it

1290
01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: doesn't know and question about my fat. Someone told me

1291
01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:48,920
Speaker 1: recently that they sat on a dick and came immediately,

1292
01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, I imagine that, Oh my god,

1293
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 1: imagine that in fact, good good and came immediately. I

1294
01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:05,800
Speaker 1: oh really, I whispered over the mic. I think it's time.

1295
01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:07,479
Speaker 1: I think it might be time for I don't think

1296
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 1: so honey, is ever I don't think so honey. Okay,

1297
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:12,720
Speaker 1: are you ready? I'm sucking ready? So I don't think

1298
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 1: so honey. Oh, by the way, are you going to

1299
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 1: be You're going to be in December. I already harassed

1300
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 1: you on Twitter and I want to be on the show.

1301
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 1: You are on the shop. Um, so you're booked. Me

1302
01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 1: and Joel Kim Booster are going to host it together

1303
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:27,320
Speaker 1: because boy will be working, working, working. Leave. You should

1304
01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 1: leave a second. I could leave. You should stay in

1305
01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 1: your contract. When you want to go, you can go.

1306
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:32,559
Speaker 1: And I want to come back, you can come back.

1307
01:14:32,600 --> 01:14:34,519
Speaker 1: And you're not staying all night with those fools and

1308
01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:39,320
Speaker 1: do stump pay? Excuse me, I'm doing some stunt writing

1309
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:41,800
Speaker 1: and I'm feeling dangerous. Can someone put the money in

1310
01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:45,080
Speaker 1: my pocket? I'm not condorible with this conversation. I'm sun

1311
01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:49,920
Speaker 1: uh listen l A the region. It's just gonna be

1312
01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:51,920
Speaker 1: so much fun. Get your tickets now. It's downtown l A.

1313
01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:55,519
Speaker 1: I'm seething with jealousy. Today, November, we're doing one here

1314
01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 1: at the Bellhouse. That'll be fucking fun. Remembatory stix. We're

1315
01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:03,439
Speaker 1: doing Queers Live at pub Paperline Teeth. My birthday, My

1316
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 1: birthday just a little bit sooner six Selection dayDay. But

1317
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 1: I guess by the time this is over, by the

1318
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:13,679
Speaker 1: time this is episode is released, we'll already have voted.

1319
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that pit in my stomach feeling. We'll see. Okay, um,

1320
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 1: I actually have something. Um this is Matt Rodgers is

1321
01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:25,400
Speaker 1: I don't think so many as time starts now, I

1322
01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 1: don't think so. Honey. When people are arguing on the

1323
01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 1: subway and it gets physical, guys, it is never worth it.

1324
01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:34,439
Speaker 1: I don't care if you think you are right and

1325
01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 1: this argument, just dispute whatever. Do not touch another person.

1326
01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:39,799
Speaker 1: And if someone is trying to come for you physically,

1327
01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:42,280
Speaker 1: you get up and you walk the funk away. Over

1328
01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:44,760
Speaker 1: the past month, I have seen so many people just

1329
01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 1: like fucking do dick measuring contests, men and women alike.

1330
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:51,240
Speaker 1: And it's just like you, guys, it is you're gonna

1331
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,560
Speaker 1: hurt someone else. Like that's the thing is. It's like

1332
01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 1: if you're on the side of the subway, like when

1333
01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 1: you're waiting for something to come and you start having

1334
01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:00,640
Speaker 1: a physical altercation and screaming, you make people nervous, like

1335
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 1: if you push someone, like the subways are crowded, like, seriously,

1336
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:08,640
Speaker 1: put your dick away. Stop it. It is not worth it.

1337
01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 1: I understand you might feel like in the wrong, but

1338
01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:12,960
Speaker 1: it's like when you're in the subway. That's the fucking

1339
01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:15,559
Speaker 1: wild West. That to me is like a place where

1340
01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 1: you do not mess around. If someone gets pushed onto

1341
01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:20,960
Speaker 1: the tracks, that's a fucking nightmare scenario. Do not be

1342
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:23,479
Speaker 1: fighting on the subway. If it gets physical, you run

1343
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:26,519
Speaker 1: the other way. That's one minute. I know this is happening.

1344
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:29,719
Speaker 1: So I've been witnessing it happened so many times recently

1345
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:32,120
Speaker 1: where it's just like a stupid little fight, or like

1346
01:16:32,240 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 1: someone catches someone the wrong way where like they hear

1347
01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 1: something like I was on the subway that it actually

1348
01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 1: at the Fulton g stop and this woman like really

1349
01:16:42,040 --> 01:16:46,120
Speaker 1: started screaming at this other woman because um, she felt

1350
01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 1: that she was a nasty or her son or like

1351
01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:51,559
Speaker 1: like gave her son a weird look. And then it immediately,

1352
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 1: like two minutes into the conversation, of course, got like racial,

1353
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 1: and then it was like this weird thing where it

1354
01:16:56,720 --> 01:16:58,840
Speaker 1: was like I don't think this is gonna stop. And

1355
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 1: I actually ended up my subway came and I had

1356
01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:04,840
Speaker 1: driven away before um it got to there, but it

1357
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:07,640
Speaker 1: got both of them started physically threatening each other, like

1358
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 1: it was like one of them got up and then

1359
01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:11,720
Speaker 1: she slammed the coffee out of the other ones hand,

1360
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,519
Speaker 1: so it did get physical. I was like, there's kids there,

1361
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:19,160
Speaker 1: it's like you have to like stop. And also because

1362
01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:21,760
Speaker 1: it is a little bit about performing for people. I

1363
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 1: mean when you're fighting like that. And then she kept

1364
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:26,720
Speaker 1: saying like I will do whatever it takes to to

1365
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 1: like protect my kids, and I'm like, you are not

1366
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:31,680
Speaker 1: protecting your kids. And then it was this whole other

1367
01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:34,280
Speaker 1: issue of like this woman is clearly unstable, and the

1368
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 1: other woman like didn't have any sense in her fucking

1369
01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 1: brain because she wouldn't just get up and walk away.

1370
01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:43,280
Speaker 1: She just kept responding. And it's like someone's got to

1371
01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:46,799
Speaker 1: be the bigger person here, Like especially on the subway.

1372
01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:49,320
Speaker 1: It particularly bothers me there because it's like such like

1373
01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:53,519
Speaker 1: a weird, like a morphous situation, Like it's really dangerous

1374
01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 1: down there. I don't know, I really don't like physical, violent,

1375
01:17:58,800 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 1: like domestic e It's just like my whole body and

1376
01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:04,080
Speaker 1: my whole I can't get it out of my head.

1377
01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 1: It's like just the idea of not feeling safe and

1378
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:09,640
Speaker 1: just like what the least you can do is not

1379
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 1: fucking punch people and hurt people and make people unless

1380
01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:18,320
Speaker 1: it's a Nazi unless the Nazi and that you please

1381
01:18:18,400 --> 01:18:21,160
Speaker 1: be in the field. Please everybody, No fighting in the subway.

1382
01:18:21,240 --> 01:18:24,080
Speaker 1: Fighting fighting in the subway. It's not worth it. Also,

1383
01:18:24,080 --> 01:18:26,200
Speaker 1: you're not going to see each other literally ever again,

1384
01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 1: Like what are you getting? Only involving each other each

1385
01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:31,360
Speaker 1: other and you're each other's you're only involving the other

1386
01:18:31,400 --> 01:18:33,839
Speaker 1: person in your life forever. Don't be fighting in the subway.

1387
01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:37,400
Speaker 1: This is I don't think so, Honey, his time starts now.

1388
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: I don't think somebody this new trend of cord r

1389
01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 1: being back in Yes, I'm looking at my blue Corter

1390
01:18:41,160 --> 01:18:42,760
Speaker 1: I have. But also I got on the on the

1391
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:45,479
Speaker 1: ground floor with this trend back in two thousand five

1392
01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:49,200
Speaker 1: when I bought a brown corduroy blazer and I felt

1393
01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:52,479
Speaker 1: like fucking Mark from Rent Bitch. I felt like I

1394
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:55,599
Speaker 1: was so ahead of this trend, and now everyone wants

1395
01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 1: to hop on this thing now that I invented. I

1396
01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:03,800
Speaker 1: should say I basically I sewed this hat together. I

1397
01:19:04,040 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 1: truly did, and I might as well have. I mean,

1398
01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 1: it's not it's it's it's figured speaking. I don't know

1399
01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:11,839
Speaker 1: about this Cordarry thing. I know it's fall, but we're

1400
01:19:11,880 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 1: grasping against straws. Here we still have not given flannel

1401
01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:17,559
Speaker 1: it's full moment. I think there's plenty to be explored

1402
01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 1: in the area of flannels. And for people to start

1403
01:19:20,760 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 1: going crazy over cord over this rough, basically striped material

1404
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:31,160
Speaker 1: is patently stupid to me, and I don't think. I

1405
01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:33,920
Speaker 1: don't fashion will look back, History will look back on

1406
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 1: this with a discerning eye, and we will not be

1407
01:19:37,240 --> 01:19:40,160
Speaker 1: looking back on what's one minute, So he's attacked something

1408
01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 1: that he does. Um No, I'm wearing a corter right

1409
01:19:43,200 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 1: hat as well. But I'm saying this trend now of

1410
01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:49,400
Speaker 1: other people of the late person wearing corter right No, no, no,

1411
01:19:49,520 --> 01:19:52,840
Speaker 1: this is for this is for the patricians. No, not

1412
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:57,360
Speaker 1: for anyone else. That was true superiority, classism, classism, that

1413
01:19:57,520 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 1: you are classist, class um um. But everybody, I will say,

1414
01:20:02,200 --> 01:20:04,519
Speaker 1: you know who's a true flannel queen is me and

1415
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:06,600
Speaker 1: I have not been wearing my flannel. And also ar

1416
01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 1: gust Sabrina is wearing both. She's wearing flannel and fry.

1417
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: It's so thick, baby jelly. Which have you met study yet?

1418
01:20:17,920 --> 01:20:21,400
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, we met.

1419
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:25,040
Speaker 1: I met when I met you guys at Charles's other party. Yes,

1420
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:27,720
Speaker 1: she was beautiful. I feel like you guys, like that

1421
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:29,880
Speaker 1: was a gorgeous meeting and you were not there. And

1422
01:20:29,920 --> 01:20:32,560
Speaker 1: now sometimes we're on in each other's instead. I like

1423
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:37,879
Speaker 1: your picture. That's good. Wait, so we met and Sabrina,

1424
01:20:38,520 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 1: that wasn't one of them nights I danced the hardest

1425
01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:42,760
Speaker 1: in my life? Did you see me dancing that night?

1426
01:20:42,840 --> 01:20:45,080
Speaker 1: I gave you the power to dance that night. Actually

1427
01:20:45,240 --> 01:20:47,360
Speaker 1: I chose one person to activate and it was you

1428
01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:50,720
Speaker 1: because she was hanging out with Lisa Trigger, and I said, oh,

1429
01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:54,320
Speaker 1: any friend of Tregger. Lisa Trigger is currently wheeling our

1430
01:20:54,360 --> 01:21:01,920
Speaker 1: son around set from that fucking high as the great

1431
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:07,679
Speaker 1: such a good I love her, honestly, I love Lisa.

1432
01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:14,160
Speaker 1: That's a great auntie, so weird to just immediately call her.

1433
01:21:15,040 --> 01:21:21,720
Speaker 1: She's a great nanny. Nanny. She's a wonderful maid. She's

1434
01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:26,280
Speaker 1: a wonderful maid. Nanny Tregar a professional comedian. I call

1435
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:28,880
Speaker 1: her Nanny Tregar. There should be a movie called Nanny Tregger.

1436
01:21:29,040 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 1: It's such a lovely time, the four of us on

1437
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:36,920
Speaker 1: that pool diogue and don't say the four of us

1438
01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: when also Joel I was going to mention Joel as well.

1439
01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:41,360
Speaker 1: Joel is also there. I'm Sabrina. Are you ready? I

1440
01:21:41,439 --> 01:21:43,360
Speaker 1: am ready? This is Sabrina Jolisa's I don't think so.

1441
01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:46,240
Speaker 1: Your time starts now. I don't think so, honey. When

1442
01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:48,639
Speaker 1: I came on this podcast and then I immediately started

1443
01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:51,639
Speaker 1: talking about what celebrities were at the party, I felt

1444
01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:54,720
Speaker 1: pressure from you guys to say it immediately. I don't

1445
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 1: think so, honey. It doesn't make me look cool. It

1446
01:21:57,240 --> 01:21:59,680
Speaker 1: makes me look like a fool. No, I don't think so.

1447
01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:05,280
Speaker 1: Do you not think so about rhyming there? I don't

1448
01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:07,800
Speaker 1: think so, honey. About any time that you get your

1449
01:22:07,840 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 1: mouth moving and then start too fast, and then you're

1450
01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:13,320
Speaker 1: like Bradley on that beam about to jump off, and

1451
01:22:13,400 --> 01:22:16,720
Speaker 1: you're going the gravity is pushing you down and you

1452
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:18,680
Speaker 1: cannot stop yourself from the riff that you were on.

1453
01:22:18,760 --> 01:22:20,920
Speaker 1: But you do not commit, You don't feel committed to it.

1454
01:22:21,160 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 1: You immediately already want to be just the girl that

1455
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 1: was at the party, and not saying that be cool

1456
01:22:26,400 --> 01:22:28,600
Speaker 1: people were there, just that makes you part of the

1457
01:22:28,640 --> 01:22:31,680
Speaker 1: cool people like you feel outside of the coolness. If

1458
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 1: you say that they were there, you could have just

1459
01:22:33,640 --> 01:22:36,960
Speaker 1: blended in people saw the photos on Instagram. I don't

1460
01:22:37,040 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 1: think so, honey, you didn't need to do that. And

1461
01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:41,280
Speaker 1: I don't think so honey. The way I feel right

1462
01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 1: now vulnerable and that's but here's the thing. I think

1463
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 1: it was super cool that you were at an out

1464
01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:59,280
Speaker 1: page party. Page Body and Ellen Page Body is Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, body on the page the page. She was

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Speaker 1: so good. An inception throws Mike, don't break And we

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Speaker 1: should mention that Tessa Thompson was also at the party.

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Speaker 1: But you're right about what if you didn't. I always

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Speaker 1: feel included. I don't know because Canadian. Is it because

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Speaker 1: I'm a cute little baby. I think it's because this

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Speaker 1: is last we we we we are the culture that

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01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:32,479
Speaker 1: we get to the bottom of culture, and that part

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01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 1: of that is finding out who was at the cool party.

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01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:37,760
Speaker 1: You're part of the culture now. You have to just

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01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:40,719
Speaker 1: name the thing when you see it. You are on screen,

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Speaker 1: you're behind the scenes, you were on the creams, you're

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01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:47,160
Speaker 1: on the deadline cream. Oh wait, I want to I

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Speaker 1: want to ask one thing about Diablo and yours, shake

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Speaker 1: Away what what? What can you tell us a little

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Speaker 1: bit about what's going to be about? Absolutely not there

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01:23:55,760 --> 01:24:03,800
Speaker 1: you go, we can't. It's a multicam great, okay, it

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01:24:04,120 --> 01:24:08,799
Speaker 1: is uh kind of based on a couple like myself

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01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 1: and my wife. What if the in laws bought the

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01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:15,719
Speaker 1: house right next to you. It was everybody loves Raymond,

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01:24:15,800 --> 01:24:19,920
Speaker 1: but just like you know my life. What if I

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01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:22,880
Speaker 1: wanted the love of my father in law so much

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01:24:23,000 --> 01:24:25,519
Speaker 1: that he didn't want to open up? And what if

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01:24:25,600 --> 01:24:27,880
Speaker 1: the mother in law wanted the love of their daughter

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01:24:29,000 --> 01:24:31,800
Speaker 1: too much? And what if every time you got him

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01:24:31,880 --> 01:24:35,320
Speaker 1: home they were there and all the characters loved each other.

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01:24:35,520 --> 01:24:38,080
Speaker 1: They were broken, but they really just wanted the love

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01:24:38,200 --> 01:24:40,479
Speaker 1: of one another, but they just damn bought it in

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01:24:40,600 --> 01:24:43,439
Speaker 1: the wrong way. Every time the act too drops, there's

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01:24:43,479 --> 01:24:46,879
Speaker 1: a lot of confusion and then act think everybody resolves

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01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 1: a bit by necessary set every single week because you've

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01:24:49,840 --> 01:24:52,759
Speaker 1: got to have a show because you gotta be great. Sorry,

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01:24:57,680 --> 01:25:05,880
Speaker 1: it's sorry, sorry, shot, and it's gonna be great. We

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01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:12,960
Speaker 1: ended on a song we always you know what. It's

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01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:14,680
Speaker 1: because she got so wet for her own show that

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01:25:14,760 --> 01:25:19,760
Speaker 1: she slept right off. Interesting. Honestly, we can't pay you

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01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:22,960
Speaker 1: at all for this. That you were almost on the ground.

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01:25:23,000 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 1: Hall just referenced my I don't think so, honey. I

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01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:33,200
Speaker 1: was bradly reference, well, this has been a fucking barrel

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01:25:33,360 --> 01:25:36,800
Speaker 1: as what a lovely, lovely time. I mean, listen, we

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01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:40,360
Speaker 1: talked to Coach, We talked um countries, we talked mulch.

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01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:43,920
Speaker 1: If you consider the baby rising out of the mull, yes,

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01:25:44,120 --> 01:25:48,800
Speaker 1: if you consider we talked bold and to hot Man.

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01:25:48,960 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god. We'll look out for Sabrina on the

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01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 1: upcoming Search Party season. Yes, please do also check out

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01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:57,120
Speaker 1: her Netflix comedy special to comedy Line. Now do my Instagram?

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01:25:57,200 --> 01:26:01,000
Speaker 1: I like attention. You can. You can find her on

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01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:05,000
Speaker 1: the ground like Wilfe. Just hard. Just if you see

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01:26:05,040 --> 01:26:06,840
Speaker 1: a picture of Wilf, give that too hard taps and

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01:26:06,920 --> 01:26:13,559
Speaker 1: comment la la lu ba la. We love you some much.

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01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:15,240
Speaker 1: Now before we go, I just want to us all

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01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:17,880
Speaker 1: to go because top about Mary. Everyone going out of

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01:26:17,920 --> 01:26:20,240
Speaker 1: the circle and say the hottest celebrity. Yes, Freddy is

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01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:25,720
Speaker 1: starting with um uh Matthew Fox. What do you know

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01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:28,040
Speaker 1: that I lined up to see him at Canada's Wonderland.

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01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:34,479
Speaker 1: Never mind Canada's Wonderland as a kid, No, I had

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01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 1: seasons passed to Wonderland and that's where my theft really started.

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01:26:38,479 --> 01:26:42,880
Speaker 1: Uh were as a child. We need to get We'll

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01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:46,320
Speaker 1: get into this next time. Putting everything up my sleeves. Really,

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01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:49,000
Speaker 1: you were like a little pickpocket in Canada's Wonderland. There

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01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:51,799
Speaker 1: was no real police. It was. It was a utopia

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01:26:51,920 --> 01:27:02,160
Speaker 1: for theft, which is I'm don't steal anymore. I'm atty. Celebrity.

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01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:09,880
Speaker 1: Where where's my shirt? Jennifer Um, I can't be Hum

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01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:14,760
Speaker 1: Hottest celebrity, Hottest? Can you do it for us? Scott Wolf? Um,

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01:27:14,960 --> 01:27:24,519
Speaker 1: hottest Celebrity. I'm gonna have to go with Ryan. There

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Speaker 1: you go, Well look her up. Bye bye, guys. Forever

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Speaker 1: This has been a Forever Dog production executive produced by

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