Speaker 1: Second dat dating. I feel like a big part of
Speaker 1: dating is learning from your past mistakes. Oh boy, yes
Speaker 1: it is. We're all gonna make right. But for example,
Speaker 1: I learned, if you take a girl out to brunch,
Speaker 1: do not try to butt chug your bloody mary Okay,
Speaker 1: obvious thing for you. Well found out she's not going
Speaker 1: to be impressed. That celery stick has got to be
Speaker 1: uncomfortable stings, and then afterwards your pants make it look
Speaker 1: like you have a serious medical problem. But hey, you
Speaker 1: know that's how you learn. And one of our listeners, Brennan,
Speaker 1: said he really tried his best to learn from his
Speaker 1: previous dating experiences so that he could improve. Oh at
Speaker 1: least tell me it was a mimosa. I don't think
Speaker 1: there was any of that happening, but he did say
Speaker 1: he felt like things went a lot better. Okay, improvement,
Speaker 1: although he has emailed the show for help, so maybe better.
Speaker 1: It wasn't better enough, but let's find out what's up Brennan. Hey,
Speaker 1: thanks for having me. Everybody. Did you learned growing becoming
Speaker 1: a better person? Well, tell us about the girl you
Speaker 1: want us to call today. What's her name? Her name
Speaker 1: is Serena? Okay? Okay, how'd you meet? We went on
Speaker 1: Tinder like most people do in my generation. Oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: So what did you like about her? What stood out? Oh? Man, Well,
Speaker 1: she was pretty cute, but she was really sweet and
Speaker 1: that's kind of exactly what I'm looking for right now.
Speaker 1: And so for our date, I decided to do something
Speaker 1: kind of cute and a little different. So we went
Speaker 1: many dolphins together. Why that's a solid date, solid first date.
Speaker 1: Sweet girls like more activities, more of the wild. Girls
Speaker 1: just want to get to the drinking. What I'm saying
Speaker 1: is that she just wants to drink. That's different. So
Speaker 1: this is a good activity. Brother, So you're you're looking
Speaker 1: for like a relationship, then yeah, exactly. But I don't
Speaker 1: want you guys to think to lame or anything. Like
Speaker 1: you mentioned, you can drink and play mini golf. Your
Speaker 1: producer that I email told me to tell you everything.
Speaker 1: So to be completely honest, I did sneak a flask
Speaker 1: into the mini golf course on the I love that.
Speaker 1: Why is that bad? Because he wants like a nice
Speaker 1: sweet girl. You you're not going to meet that if
Speaker 1: you're just drinking, drinking, partying all the time, that you're
Speaker 1: gonn meet a girl like Alex. No, she is a nice,
Speaker 1: sweet girl. Yes, both things can exist at the same time.
Speaker 1: Hold on. So, so Brennan was the flask a turn
Speaker 1: on or a turn off for her? I showed it
Speaker 1: to her. I didn't want to be like, you know,
Speaker 1: getting drunk on the sly weird, so I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: I brought this in if you're interested. If not, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to drink this either, and she kind of
Speaker 1: smiled and said, Oh, it's gonna be a really fun time.
Speaker 1: Then she liked it. Yeah, yeah, okay, that's good. So
Speaker 1: how did drunk mini golf go? I thought it went
Speaker 1: really well, you know, it made it definitely a more
Speaker 1: fun time. And we actually finished the course and decided
Speaker 1: to play through the course a second time just so
Speaker 1: we could continue spending time and talking with each other.
Speaker 1: Oh good, I mean that's all great. Side Yeah, did
Speaker 1: anything change or was it just as good the second
Speaker 1: time around? Oh? It was even better the second time around.
Speaker 1: They were drunk, so it started I wouldn't say heavy,
Speaker 1: but it started getting kind of real when she was
Speaker 1: mentioning to me that apparently at one point she was engaged. Okay,
Speaker 1: and she actually called off her wedding not terribly long ago,
Speaker 1: and so just telling me, you know, all of this,
Speaker 1: I gotta feel like, either she wouldn't tell this to
Speaker 1: me if she didn't see any potential in me moving forward,
Speaker 1: or I don't know, if maybe she's like, i'll never
Speaker 1: see this guy again anyways, might as well tell him.
Speaker 1: But I thought it more as a good son because
Speaker 1: when we got to the lighthouse, which is, you know,
Speaker 1: towards the end of the course, I figured this is
Speaker 1: a pretty good moment to kiss her. So I actually
Speaker 1: kissed her and she kissed me back. Nice. You never
Speaker 1: a good thing if you kiss her and she doesn't
Speaker 1: kiss you back. Yeah. Yeah, that's a weird thing. A
Speaker 1: few things are more romantic than making out in front
Speaker 1: of a little tiny yea. Yeah. So I honestly wanted
Speaker 1: the date to go on even longer, but I promised
Speaker 1: my brother I would help him move later that day
Speaker 1: and I had to leave. Oh this is a daytime day, Okay,
Speaker 1: So how did you end it? I told her, you know,
Speaker 1: I had to go help my brother move, but I
Speaker 1: told her that I would love to see her again. So,
Speaker 1: you know, we said we'd make plans soon, and I
Speaker 1: wanted to be a little romantic. She told me where
Speaker 1: she worked, and so I decided the next day to
Speaker 1: send some flowers to where she worked. Nice. I mean
Speaker 1: normally when you're in a relationship or you've been on
Speaker 1: a few days, right, I don't know, man, that's pretty soon.
Speaker 1: If she just got out of an engagement, maybe she's not.
Speaker 1: I mean, it seems to me that she would maybe
Speaker 1: be looking to have more fun on Tinder and less
Speaker 1: of a serious thing if she just ended a super
Speaker 1: serious relationship. Yeah. I mean, I hadn't send like red
Speaker 1: roses or anything too over the top. It was just
Speaker 1: like a normal flower bouquet. And it was like a
Speaker 1: really tiny one too. It wasn't it's rabbiting. I'd spend
Speaker 1: a lot on it to her work. See when you
Speaker 1: send it to work, all her coworkers see it. He's
Speaker 1: making more of an announcement. You send her to her house.
Speaker 1: At least it's a moment between you guys. So I
Speaker 1: don't know. It also depends on where she works, that's true.
Speaker 1: She just work by herself at home. If I were
Speaker 1: all like woman, I'd be like, yeah, and all the flowers,
Speaker 1: but I had hot men with me, I'd like those
Speaker 1: are not mine. Also, if she works at a flowershop,
Speaker 1: it's not very impressive. Very good point, Jeffrey. I bet
Speaker 1: he knew that before. I'm speculating. I don't know. So
Speaker 1: after that, you've had a hard time getting in touch
Speaker 1: with her. I've had an impossible time getting in touch
Speaker 1: with her. Zero, Like after the flowers, you haven't heard anything,
Speaker 1: not a word. No, could be the flowers could be.
Speaker 1: What do you think is the problem? What do you
Speaker 1: think they have gone wrong? I mean, I didn't know,
Speaker 1: but based on your guy's reaction, I'm starting to think
Speaker 1: it might be the flower. I'm in sweet and you're
Speaker 1: a sweet guy. We're doing it. I don't think that
Speaker 1: it's bad. I just think that maybe it freaked hero out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I can't untake the flowers. But I didn't
Speaker 1: promise to not send her flowers ever again. Answer away, Well,
Speaker 1: but maybe you'll get a chance to explain. Then she'll understand. Right, Okay,
Speaker 1: So let's give you that a shout. We're going to
Speaker 1: play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Serena for you,
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get you your second date. Update. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. All Right, hold on him if
Speaker 1: you're just joining us for the second date update. One
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Brennan had all the ingredients for a
Speaker 1: great first date. Yeah. There was humor, booze, and a
Speaker 1: couple of balls paired with a short stick because he
Speaker 1: went mini golfing. Oh yeah, and he went with a
Speaker 1: girl named Serena. Brennan also snuck in a flask for
Speaker 1: them to share, and he says they had a really
Speaker 1: fun time. They opened up to each other, shared a kiss,
Speaker 1: and afterwards he sent her some flowers to her work.
Speaker 1: But after that move, things have suddenly gone ice cold
Speaker 1: and he can't even reach Serena anymore. So we're going
Speaker 1: to try and help him figure out why and see
Speaker 1: if we can get him a mulligan on the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: sports references. Yeah, it wasn't even a joke. I was
Speaker 1: just you know, yeah, that's just how I talk. Yeah, Okay, Brennan,
Speaker 1: we didn't ask you. I mean you said, you know,
Speaker 1: you said, of the flowers. Did you like in and
Speaker 1: dater with text messages or something? Or did you just
Speaker 1: send one or two? I just sent like two, three
Speaker 1: maybe tops. You know. I didn't want to come off
Speaker 1: a desperate or creepy or anything, but long as you
Speaker 1: were aware. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, because that coupled with
Speaker 1: the flowers may have been too much, but I think
Speaker 1: you can recover. All right, Well, I think we're ready
Speaker 1: on our end. Are you feeling ready to do this? Brennan? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just you know, I don't really meet any girl's life,
Speaker 1: her up a tender or she's just genuine, you know,
Speaker 1: sweet kind It's just if I did something to mess
Speaker 1: us up, I want to see if I can correct
Speaker 1: it and if she would give me up their chance.
Speaker 1: Did I agree? I never meet girls that like to
Speaker 1: day drink off Tinder either to day drink. He said
Speaker 1: some really nice things about her. That's awesome. Okay, let's
Speaker 1: find out. Yeah, let's see what's going on. I'm on
Speaker 1: a dollar number right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Serena. Yeah, this is Serena. Hi Serena.
Speaker 1: My name's Jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. How you doing? Okay, this is a
Speaker 1: radio We're a morning radio show and we're reaching out
Speaker 1: to you today because we're doing a segment called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update. Why are you calling me? Great question? Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: because you recently went out on a date with a
Speaker 1: guy and you're not calling him back. His name's Brennan, thinking,
Speaker 1: oh my god, Yeah, you do know who Brennan is.
Speaker 1: You're not just saying that to appease us. No, I
Speaker 1: do know, okay, who he is. I mean the date
Speaker 1: was good. I mean it was really nice and he
Speaker 1: is refreshing to hang out with him. Been a while
Speaker 1: since I've been on dates and stuff, so I mean
Speaker 1: it was really good. I hope it's not too much information,
Speaker 1: but he did share that you were recently engaged and
Speaker 1: had to break it off. I mean, maybe you're just
Speaker 1: not looking to date anyone seriously right now. Is that
Speaker 1: why you're not calling him back? I really, I mean
Speaker 1: that's true. I recently broke off an engagement and I'm just,
Speaker 1: you know, honestly, I just want to date and have
Speaker 1: fun and right you know, Brennan is. He's funny and
Speaker 1: he's considerate, and I thought he had some potential. But
Speaker 1: something happened and I just I'm not sure I want
Speaker 1: to continue this. Oh okay, would you mind telling us
Speaker 1: what happened? Because Brennan has no idea what what's going
Speaker 1: on the last thing that he knows is that he
Speaker 1: tried to send you some flowers as a thank you
Speaker 1: for the date, and then afterwards you've basically been ignoring him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he told you he sent me flowers. Yeah. We all thought, well,
Speaker 1: Alexis and I thought that was maybe a bit much.
Speaker 1: It was a little much, okay, because it wasn't just
Speaker 1: the flowers that he sent. He also sent a little
Speaker 1: gift with it. Oh, okay, he didn't mention that to us.
Speaker 1: What did he send? Oh he didn't tell you, no, No, Well,
Speaker 1: it was actually more than a little gift. Um. This
Speaker 1: box came with the flowers and there was a note
Speaker 1: on it that said don't open until and it had
Speaker 1: a date on it. Okay, okay, he wasn't inside the box,
Speaker 1: was it. It wasn't that it wasn't that big of
Speaker 1: a box. But I was like, what the heck is this? Though,
Speaker 1: I mean, I opened the box and you didn't. You
Speaker 1: didn't heed the don't open til. I wouldn't either, because
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the heck is this? I just met
Speaker 1: this guy yesterday. Yeah, and sure, so inside the box
Speaker 1: there was this note and the note said, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: The note said that I know that this weekend was
Speaker 1: supposed to be your wedding date. So I went to
Speaker 1: your registry and I got you a few things off
Speaker 1: of your list to help make you feel better. Gosh, no,
Speaker 1: my hands. When you said that I'm nervous, he like
Speaker 1: bought you a toaster or I mean there were wine
Speaker 1: glasses in there. There was a towel set, there was
Speaker 1: an air fire. No, those things are nice, I know,
Speaker 1: but oh no, that's a modern day toaster. And your
Speaker 1: your wedding registry is something that you created with your fiance.
Speaker 1: Dreaming on those things, no life together, dreaming what your
Speaker 1: home will look like, dreaming of making all these things
Speaker 1: like that was weird for you. How did you feel
Speaker 1: when you saw that? I mean I forgot that registry
Speaker 1: was up. I forgot to take it down. And I
Speaker 1: mean I just sat there thinking, oh my god, who
Speaker 1: does this? I mean, did you tell him like? I
Speaker 1: don't think he meant anything malicious by it? Oh? I
Speaker 1: couldn't respond to him after that. There's just so much
Speaker 1: I mean if I respond to that, I mean, was
Speaker 1: he going to get the rest of the stuff off
Speaker 1: the registry? I mean, what that'd be nice? Well, Serena
Speaker 1: I mean, I know you've already gotten a bunch of surprises,
Speaker 1: but I have one more to lay on you, and
Speaker 1: that's that Brennan. Brennan's been on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you. You're joking, right,
Speaker 1: You are not serious, I'm afraid not. Yeah, serious as
Speaker 1: it air Friar Brennan. The new saying I came up
Speaker 1: with for this situation. Yeah, send that maytag. Okay, Brendan,
Speaker 1: you there, Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm just taking a back
Speaker 1: by this. I don't see why this is such a
Speaker 1: big deal. You're taking a back. That's not the response
Speaker 1: you should be. You did this, but listen, I did
Speaker 1: it for you. I was trying to make you feel
Speaker 1: I told you specifically in the note not to open
Speaker 1: it until that state, because I figured we would have
Speaker 1: a few more dates in between, so by that point
Speaker 1: it would have been with someone you knew a little
Speaker 1: bit better. You're thinking that I'm just going to let
Speaker 1: a box from a person i've met one time just
Speaker 1: sit there without opening it. Yeah, Brennan, because I don't
Speaker 1: think that her opening the box too early is the
Speaker 1: biggest problem here. It's it's where you got the gifts
Speaker 1: from we met one time and then you stalked me
Speaker 1: online and bought me an air frier. I mean, what
Speaker 1: do you mean stalk you online? You told me what
Speaker 1: your ex's name was. I just googled it. It was
Speaker 1: the first thing that popped up. But Brendan, you all
Speaker 1: of two seconds, did that feel weird for you? Brennan
Speaker 1: to be going on to her old wedding registry with
Speaker 1: some other guy and buying gifts off of it like
Speaker 1: I would feel? Awfen? I know, and it usually shows
Speaker 1: like a picture of the loved up couple from their
Speaker 1: like engagement shoot. And I listen to your Guys show
Speaker 1: all the time, people look up the people they go
Speaker 1: on dates with. What I did is not out of
Speaker 1: the ordinary. And look, I saw what her past was.
Speaker 1: I'm not, you know, intimidated by that. I thought I
Speaker 1: did something nice for her. I can understand your thinking there,
Speaker 1: I really can. But can you then put yourself in
Speaker 1: her shoes and see how that must have felt like
Speaker 1: almost like an invasion of privacy to her. When I
Speaker 1: put myself in her shoes, I would be thinking, why
Speaker 1: am I not grateful right now for this guy who
Speaker 1: went out of his way to be considerate and fine grateful,
Speaker 1: can't you think, Brenan, why don't you just apologize and say,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm sorry, I understand your boundary now
Speaker 1: I went too far. No, you're absolutely right, you know what.
Speaker 1: I apologize that I went out of my way to
Speaker 1: learn what you would like and buy you a bunch
Speaker 1: of wonderful treasents and flowers for you. I can't imagine
Speaker 1: into how hard that must have been for you. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, Well that was really nice of you, Serena.
Speaker 1: Do you accept his apologies? Let me get this straight.
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to feel bad and guilty because you was
Speaker 1: being creepy in stock no online, and you are not
Speaker 1: supposed to apologize. You have every right to feel the
Speaker 1: way you do. But just listening to the way that
Speaker 1: you said that makes it sound like there's love in
Speaker 1: the air. And that's why I would love to offer
Speaker 1: to send you guys on another date. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sure will pay for it. Over here, Serena,
Speaker 1: what do you say, what if you give Brennan one
Speaker 1: more chance? I mean absolutely not, And I don't even
Speaker 1: know what to do with the gifts. I mean, do
Speaker 1: I put them in the trash. I don't want them
Speaker 1: to come to my house or my work to pick
Speaker 1: them up. I mean, we're going to send them, and
Speaker 1: I will send them because I don't want that amazed.
Speaker 1: So I can give them the someone who'd actually appreciate it.
Speaker 1: You can always send them to the radio station. We're
Speaker 1: doing air friar Mondays starting next week, so well, if
Speaker 1: he says great, they're yours. Whoa jo Wait, this was
Speaker 1: successful for us, all Apano poppers next week for everybody.
Speaker 1: You guys all suck Broke and Jeffrey in the morning