WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mini-Golf Love

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat dating. I feel like a big part of

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<v Speaker 1>dating is learning from your past mistakes. Oh boy, yes

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<v Speaker 1>it is. We're all gonna make right. But for example,

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<v Speaker 1>I learned, if you take a girl out to brunch,

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<v Speaker 1>do not try to butt chug your bloody mary Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>obvious thing for you. Well found out she's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be impressed. That celery stick has got to be

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable stings, and then afterwards your pants make it look

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<v Speaker 1>like you have a serious medical problem. But hey, you

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<v Speaker 1>know that's how you learn. And one of our listeners, Brennan,

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<v Speaker 1>said he really tried his best to learn from his

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<v Speaker 1>previous dating experiences so that he could improve. Oh at

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<v Speaker 1>least tell me it was a mimosa. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there was any of that happening, but he did say

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<v Speaker 1>he felt like things went a lot better. Okay, improvement,

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<v Speaker 1>although he has emailed the show for help, so maybe better.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't better enough, but let's find out what's up Brennan. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for having me. Everybody. Did you learned growing becoming

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<v Speaker 1>a better person? Well, tell us about the girl you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call today. What's her name? Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Serena? Okay? Okay, how'd you meet? We went on

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<v Speaker 1>Tinder like most people do in my generation. Oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you like about her? What stood out? Oh? Man, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she was pretty cute, but she was really sweet and

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of exactly what I'm looking for right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And so for our date, I decided to do something

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cute and a little different. So we went

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<v Speaker 1>many dolphins together. Why that's a solid date, solid first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet girls like more activities, more of the wild. Girls

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<v Speaker 1>just want to get to the drinking. What I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>is that she just wants to drink. That's different. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is a good activity. Brother, So you're you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>for like a relationship, then yeah, exactly. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want you guys to think to lame or anything. Like

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<v Speaker 1>you mentioned, you can drink and play mini golf. Your

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<v Speaker 1>producer that I email told me to tell you everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So to be completely honest, I did sneak a flask

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<v Speaker 1>into the mini golf course on the I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that bad? Because he wants like a nice

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<v Speaker 1>sweet girl. You you're not going to meet that if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just drinking, drinking, partying all the time, that you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonn meet a girl like Alex. No, she is a nice,

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<v Speaker 1>sweet girl. Yes, both things can exist at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on. So, so Brennan was the flask a turn

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<v Speaker 1>on or a turn off for her? I showed it

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<v Speaker 1>to her. I didn't want to be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting drunk on the sly weird, so I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I brought this in if you're interested. If not, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to drink this either, and she kind of

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<v Speaker 1>smiled and said, Oh, it's gonna be a really fun time.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she liked it. Yeah, yeah, okay, that's good. So

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<v Speaker 1>how did drunk mini golf go? I thought it went

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<v Speaker 1>really well, you know, it made it definitely a more

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<v Speaker 1>fun time. And we actually finished the course and decided

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<v Speaker 1>to play through the course a second time just so

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<v Speaker 1>we could continue spending time and talking with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh good, I mean that's all great. Side Yeah, did

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<v Speaker 1>anything change or was it just as good the second

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<v Speaker 1>time around? Oh? It was even better the second time around.

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<v Speaker 1>They were drunk, so it started I wouldn't say heavy,

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<v Speaker 1>but it started getting kind of real when she was

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<v Speaker 1>mentioning to me that apparently at one point she was engaged. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and she actually called off her wedding not terribly long ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and so just telling me, you know, all of this,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta feel like, either she wouldn't tell this to

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<v Speaker 1>me if she didn't see any potential in me moving forward,

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<v Speaker 1>or I don't know, if maybe she's like, i'll never

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<v Speaker 1>see this guy again anyways, might as well tell him.

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<v Speaker 1>But I thought it more as a good son because

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<v Speaker 1>when we got to the lighthouse, which is, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>towards the end of the course, I figured this is

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty good moment to kiss her. So I actually

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<v Speaker 1>kissed her and she kissed me back. Nice. You never

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing if you kiss her and she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>kiss you back. Yeah. Yeah, that's a weird thing. A

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<v Speaker 1>few things are more romantic than making out in front

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<v Speaker 1>of a little tiny yea. Yeah. So I honestly wanted

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<v Speaker 1>the date to go on even longer, but I promised

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<v Speaker 1>my brother I would help him move later that day

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to leave. Oh this is a daytime day, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you end it? I told her, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go help my brother move, but I

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<v Speaker 1>told her that I would love to see her again. So,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we said we'd make plans soon, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be a little romantic. She told me where

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<v Speaker 1>she worked, and so I decided the next day to

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<v Speaker 1>send some flowers to where she worked. Nice. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>normally when you're in a relationship or you've been on

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<v Speaker 1>a few days, right, I don't know, man, that's pretty soon.

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<v Speaker 1>If she just got out of an engagement, maybe she's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it seems to me that she would maybe

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<v Speaker 1>be looking to have more fun on Tinder and less

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<v Speaker 1>of a serious thing if she just ended a super

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<v Speaker 1>serious relationship. Yeah. I mean, I hadn't send like red

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<v Speaker 1>roses or anything too over the top. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>like a normal flower bouquet. And it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>really tiny one too. It wasn't it's rabbiting. I'd spend

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<v Speaker 1>a lot on it to her work. See when you

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<v Speaker 1>send it to work, all her coworkers see it. He's

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<v Speaker 1>making more of an announcement. You send her to her house.

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<v Speaker 1>At least it's a moment between you guys. So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It also depends on where she works, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>She just work by herself at home. If I were

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<v Speaker 1>all like woman, I'd be like, yeah, and all the flowers,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had hot men with me, I'd like those

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<v Speaker 1>are not mine. Also, if she works at a flowershop,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not very impressive. Very good point, Jeffrey. I bet

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<v Speaker 1>he knew that before. I'm speculating. I don't know. So

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<v Speaker 1>after that, you've had a hard time getting in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with her. I've had an impossible time getting in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with her. Zero, Like after the flowers, you haven't heard anything,

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<v Speaker 1>not a word. No, could be the flowers could be.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think is the problem? What do you

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<v Speaker 1>think they have gone wrong? I mean, I didn't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but based on your guy's reaction, I'm starting to think

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<v Speaker 1>it might be the flower. I'm in sweet and you're

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<v Speaker 1>a sweet guy. We're doing it. I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>it's bad. I just think that maybe it freaked hero out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I can't untake the flowers. But I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>promise to not send her flowers ever again. Answer away, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe you'll get a chance to explain. Then she'll understand. Right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's give you that a shout. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Serena for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll try and get you your second date. Update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much. All Right, hold on him if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just joining us for the second date update. One

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Brennan had all the ingredients for a

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<v Speaker 1>great first date. Yeah. There was humor, booze, and a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of balls paired with a short stick because he

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<v Speaker 1>went mini golfing. Oh yeah, and he went with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Serena. Brennan also snuck in a flask for

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<v Speaker 1>them to share, and he says they had a really

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<v Speaker 1>fun time. They opened up to each other, shared a kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards he sent her some flowers to her work.

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<v Speaker 1>But after that move, things have suddenly gone ice cold

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<v Speaker 1>and he can't even reach Serena anymore. So we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to try and help him figure out why and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get him a mulligan on the date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sports references. Yeah, it wasn't even a joke. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, yeah, that's just how I talk. Yeah, Okay, Brennan,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't ask you. I mean you said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you said, of the flowers. Did you like in and

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<v Speaker 1>dater with text messages or something? Or did you just

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<v Speaker 1>send one or two? I just sent like two, three

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<v Speaker 1>maybe tops. You know. I didn't want to come off

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<v Speaker 1>a desperate or creepy or anything, but long as you

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<v Speaker 1>were aware. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, because that coupled with

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<v Speaker 1>the flowers may have been too much, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>you can recover. All right, Well, I think we're ready

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<v Speaker 1>on our end. Are you feeling ready to do this? Brennan? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just you know, I don't really meet any girl's life,

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<v Speaker 1>her up a tender or she's just genuine, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sweet kind It's just if I did something to mess

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<v Speaker 1>us up, I want to see if I can correct

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<v Speaker 1>it and if she would give me up their chance.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I agree? I never meet girls that like to

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<v Speaker 1>day drink off Tinder either to day drink. He said

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<v Speaker 1>some really nice things about her. That's awesome. Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>find out. Yeah, let's see what's going on. I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>a dollar number right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Serena. Yeah, this is Serena. Hi Serena.

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<v Speaker 1>My name's Jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. How you doing? Okay, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>radio We're a morning radio show and we're reaching out

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<v Speaker 1>to you today because we're doing a segment called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update. Why are you calling me? Great question? Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>because you recently went out on a date with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy and you're not calling him back. His name's Brennan, thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Yeah, you do know who Brennan is.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not just saying that to appease us. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>do know, okay, who he is. I mean the date

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<v Speaker 1>was good. I mean it was really nice and he

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<v Speaker 1>is refreshing to hang out with him. Been a while

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<v Speaker 1>since I've been on dates and stuff, so I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was really good. I hope it's not too much information,

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<v Speaker 1>but he did share that you were recently engaged and

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<v Speaker 1>had to break it off. I mean, maybe you're just

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<v Speaker 1>not looking to date anyone seriously right now. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>why you're not calling him back? I really, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. I recently broke off an engagement and I'm just,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, honestly, I just want to date and have

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<v Speaker 1>fun and right you know, Brennan is. He's funny and

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<v Speaker 1>he's considerate, and I thought he had some potential. But

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<v Speaker 1>something happened and I just I'm not sure I want

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<v Speaker 1>to continue this. Oh okay, would you mind telling us

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Because Brennan has no idea what what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on the last thing that he knows is that he

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<v Speaker 1>tried to send you some flowers as a thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for the date, and then afterwards you've basically been ignoring him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he told you he sent me flowers. Yeah. We all thought, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis and I thought that was maybe a bit much.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a little much, okay, because it wasn't just

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<v Speaker 1>the flowers that he sent. He also sent a little

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<v Speaker 1>gift with it. Oh, okay, he didn't mention that to us.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he send? Oh he didn't tell you, no, No, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was actually more than a little gift. Um. This

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<v Speaker 1>box came with the flowers and there was a note

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<v Speaker 1>on it that said don't open until and it had

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<v Speaker 1>a date on it. Okay, okay, he wasn't inside the box,

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<v Speaker 1>was it. It wasn't that it wasn't that big of

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<v Speaker 1>a box. But I was like, what the heck is this? Though,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I opened the box and you didn't. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't heed the don't open til. I wouldn't either, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what the heck is this? I just met

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<v Speaker 1>this guy yesterday. Yeah, and sure, so inside the box

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<v Speaker 1>there was this note and the note said, oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>The note said that I know that this weekend was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be your wedding date. So I went to

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<v Speaker 1>your registry and I got you a few things off

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<v Speaker 1>of your list to help make you feel better. Gosh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>my hands. When you said that I'm nervous, he like

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<v Speaker 1>bought you a toaster or I mean there were wine

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<v Speaker 1>glasses in there. There was a towel set, there was

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<v Speaker 1>an air fire. No, those things are nice, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but oh no, that's a modern day toaster. And your

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<v Speaker 1>your wedding registry is something that you created with your fiance.

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<v Speaker 1>Dreaming on those things, no life together, dreaming what your

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<v Speaker 1>home will look like, dreaming of making all these things

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<v Speaker 1>like that was weird for you. How did you feel

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<v Speaker 1>when you saw that? I mean I forgot that registry

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<v Speaker 1>was up. I forgot to take it down. And I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I just sat there thinking, oh my god, who

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<v Speaker 1>does this? I mean, did you tell him like? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think he meant anything malicious by it? Oh? I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't respond to him after that. There's just so much

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if I respond to that, I mean, was

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<v Speaker 1>he going to get the rest of the stuff off

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<v Speaker 1>the registry? I mean, what that'd be nice? Well, Serena

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know you've already gotten a bunch of surprises,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have one more to lay on you, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's that Brennan. Brennan's been on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to talk to you. You're joking, right,

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<v Speaker 1>You are not serious, I'm afraid not. Yeah, serious as

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<v Speaker 1>it air Friar Brennan. The new saying I came up

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<v Speaker 1>with for this situation. Yeah, send that maytag. Okay, Brendan,

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<v Speaker 1>you there, Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm just taking a back

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<v Speaker 1>by this. I don't see why this is such a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. You're taking a back. That's not the response

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<v Speaker 1>you should be. You did this, but listen, I did

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<v Speaker 1>it for you. I was trying to make you feel

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<v Speaker 1>I told you specifically in the note not to open

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<v Speaker 1>it until that state, because I figured we would have

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<v Speaker 1>a few more dates in between, so by that point

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<v Speaker 1>it would have been with someone you knew a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit better. You're thinking that I'm just going to let

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<v Speaker 1>a box from a person i've met one time just

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<v Speaker 1>sit there without opening it. Yeah, Brennan, because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that her opening the box too early is the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest problem here. It's it's where you got the gifts

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<v Speaker 1>from we met one time and then you stalked me

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<v Speaker 1>online and bought me an air frier. I mean, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean stalk you online? You told me what

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<v Speaker 1>your ex's name was. I just googled it. It was

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing that popped up. But Brendan, you all

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<v Speaker 1>of two seconds, did that feel weird for you? Brennan

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<v Speaker 1>to be going on to her old wedding registry with

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<v Speaker 1>some other guy and buying gifts off of it like

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<v Speaker 1>I would feel? Awfen? I know, and it usually shows

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<v Speaker 1>like a picture of the loved up couple from their

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<v Speaker 1>like engagement shoot. And I listen to your Guys show

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, people look up the people they go

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<v Speaker 1>on dates with. What I did is not out of

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<v Speaker 1>the ordinary. And look, I saw what her past was.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not, you know, intimidated by that. I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>did something nice for her. I can understand your thinking there,

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<v Speaker 1>I really can. But can you then put yourself in

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<v Speaker 1>her shoes and see how that must have felt like

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<v Speaker 1>almost like an invasion of privacy to her. When I

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<v Speaker 1>put myself in her shoes, I would be thinking, why

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<v Speaker 1>am I not grateful right now for this guy who

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<v Speaker 1>went out of his way to be considerate and fine grateful,

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<v Speaker 1>can't you think, Brenan, why don't you just apologize and say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm sorry, I understand your boundary now

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<v Speaker 1>I went too far. No, you're absolutely right, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize that I went out of my way to

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<v Speaker 1>learn what you would like and buy you a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of wonderful treasents and flowers for you. I can't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>into how hard that must have been for you. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, Well that was really nice of you, Serena.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you accept his apologies? Let me get this straight.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm supposed to feel bad and guilty because you was

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<v Speaker 1>being creepy in stock no online, and you are not

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to apologize. You have every right to feel the

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<v Speaker 1>way you do. But just listening to the way that

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<v Speaker 1>you said that makes it sound like there's love in

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<v Speaker 1>the air. And that's why I would love to offer

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<v Speaker 1>to send you guys on another date. We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm sure will pay for it. Over here, Serena,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say, what if you give Brennan one

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<v Speaker 1>more chance? I mean absolutely not, And I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do with the gifts. I mean, do

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<v Speaker 1>I put them in the trash. I don't want them

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<v Speaker 1>to come to my house or my work to pick

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<v Speaker 1>them up. I mean, we're going to send them, and

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<v Speaker 1>I will send them because I don't want that amazed.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can give them the someone who'd actually appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can always send them to the radio station. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing air friar Mondays starting next week, so well, if

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<v Speaker 1>he says great, they're yours. Whoa jo Wait, this was

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<v Speaker 1>successful for us, all Apano poppers next week for everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys all suck Broke and Jeffrey in the morning