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Speaker 1: know that's how you learn. And one of our listeners, Brennan,

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Speaker 1: It wasn't better enough, but let's find out what's up Brennan. Hey,

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Speaker 1: thanks for having me. Everybody. Did you learned growing becoming

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Speaker 1: is Serena? Okay? Okay, how'd you meet? We went on

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Speaker 1: Tinder like most people do in my generation. Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: So what did you like about her? What stood out? Oh? Man, Well,

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Speaker 1: that's kind of exactly what I'm looking for right now.

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Speaker 1: And so for our date, I decided to do something

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Speaker 1: Sweet girls like more activities, more of the wild. Girls

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Speaker 1: Hold on. So, so Brennan was the flask a turn

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Speaker 1: if we can get him a mulligan on the date. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a dollar number right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for Serena. Yeah, this is Serena. Hi Serena.

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Speaker 1: My name's Jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. How you doing? Okay, this is a

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Speaker 1: radio We're a morning radio show and we're reaching out

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Speaker 1: second Date Update. Why are you calling me? Great question? Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: because you recently went out on a date with a

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Speaker 1: what happened? Because Brennan has no idea what what's going

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Speaker 1: he told you he sent me flowers. Yeah. We all thought, well,

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Speaker 1: Alexis and I thought that was maybe a bit much.

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Speaker 1: the flowers that he sent. He also sent a little

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Speaker 1: gift with it. Oh, okay, he didn't mention that to us.

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Speaker 1: What did he send? Oh he didn't tell you, no, No, Well,

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Speaker 1: it was actually more than a little gift. Um. This

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Speaker 1: The note said that I know that this weekend was

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Speaker 1: an air fire. No, those things are nice, I know,

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Speaker 1: but oh no, that's a modern day toaster. And your

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Speaker 1: your wedding registry is something that you created with your fiance.

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Speaker 1: Dreaming on those things, no life together, dreaming what your

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Speaker 1: when you saw that? I mean I forgot that registry

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Speaker 1: don't think he meant anything malicious by it? Oh? I

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Speaker 1: I mean if I respond to that, I mean, was

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know you've already gotten a bunch of surprises,

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Speaker 1: that's that Brennan. Brennan's been on the other line listening

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Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you. You're joking, right,

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Speaker 1: You are not serious, I'm afraid not. Yeah, serious as

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Speaker 1: it air Friar Brennan. The new saying I came up

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Speaker 1: with for this situation. Yeah, send that maytag. Okay, Brendan,

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Speaker 1: you should be. You did this, but listen, I did

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Speaker 1: it would have been with someone you knew a little

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Speaker 1: bit better. You're thinking that I'm just going to let

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Speaker 1: think that her opening the box too early is the

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Speaker 1: biggest problem here. It's it's where you got the gifts

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Speaker 1: do you mean stalk you online? You told me what

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Speaker 1: the first thing that popped up. But Brendan, you all

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Speaker 1: of two seconds, did that feel weird for you? Brennan

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Speaker 1: I would feel? Awfen? I know, and it usually shows

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Speaker 1: I'm not, you know, intimidated by that. I thought I

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Speaker 1: did something nice for her. I can understand your thinking there,

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Speaker 1: can't you think, Brenan, why don't you just apologize and say,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm sorry, I understand your boundary now

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Speaker 1: I went too far. No, you're absolutely right, you know what.

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Speaker 1: I apologize that I went out of my way to

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Speaker 1: of wonderful treasents and flowers for you. I can't imagine

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Speaker 1: my god, Well that was really nice of you, Serena.

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Speaker 1: Do you accept his apologies? Let me get this straight.

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to feel bad and guilty because you was

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Speaker 1: the air. And that's why I would love to offer

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Speaker 1: to send you guys on another date. We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sure will pay for it. Over here, Serena,

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Speaker 1: what do you say, what if you give Brennan one

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Speaker 1: more chance? I mean absolutely not, And I don't even

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Speaker 1: know what to do with the gifts. I mean, do

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Speaker 1: I put them in the trash. I don't want them

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Speaker 1: I will send them because I don't want that amazed.

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Speaker 1: So I can give them the someone who'd actually appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: You can always send them to the radio station. We're

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Speaker 1: doing air friar Mondays starting next week, so well, if

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Speaker 1: he says great, they're yours. Whoa jo Wait, this was

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Speaker 1: successful for us, all Apano poppers next week for everybody.

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Speaker 1: You guys all suck Broke and Jeffrey in the morning