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Speaker 1: In the words of a never you buckle up and

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Speaker 1: hold on tide. Here we go, William, thank you all right.

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Speaker 1: This one says young stepmother trying to get away. Good morning, Steve, Shirley, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: and Carla. I need some serious health. See. I used

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Speaker 1: to be involved with an older man. See I like

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Speaker 1: older men. I'm twenty nine, he's forty nine. We dated

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Speaker 1: for five years, and in between that time, I got

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Speaker 1: pregnant with our sons. But we are not together anymore.

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Speaker 1: I bought a house and he has his own place.

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Speaker 1: Our problem is he has daughters that are older than me,

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Speaker 1: and they don't respect me. When he and I used

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Speaker 1: to live together, that's when things went downhill. I attended

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Speaker 1: one of his daughter's baby showers and one of his

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Speaker 1: daughters told me to leave because I don't do nothing

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Speaker 1: but sit there. Then he embarrassed me in front of

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Speaker 1: everybody by calling me by his ex wife's name. I

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Speaker 1: was humiliated. Then when they call the house, they don't

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Speaker 1: use words like hello or good morning. It's just put

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Speaker 1: my father on the phone. I told their father, but

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Speaker 1: he always comes to their defense. The fighting got so

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Speaker 1: bad that I had to move out and stay with

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Speaker 1: my sister. When I left, I thought it would be over.

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Speaker 1: But now they show up at my house, walk in

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Speaker 1: without speaking, and bring all the nonsense that they do

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Speaker 1: back to my house. I told their father we are

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Speaker 1: not together anymore. Tell your children to leave me alone.

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Speaker 1: He says, they love me and that's their way of

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Speaker 1: showing it. I want him to just drop my son

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Speaker 1: call my phone and show up at my house. His

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Speaker 1: whole family is crazy. How do I stay away from

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Speaker 1: these people without denying my son the right to see

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Speaker 1: his father? Because if they don't leave me alone, I'm

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Speaker 1: going I'm gonna go crazy. Please help, seriously. You know

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Speaker 1: we're your relatives, but where's your family support? These people,

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Speaker 1: including your baby daddy, are just jumping on you for

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Speaker 1: no reason. I mean, I gotta ask you, how are

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Speaker 1: you allowing this stuff to happen? How are you allowing

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Speaker 1: them just to come in your house and call your

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Speaker 1: you gotta stand up to these people. Uh, you know

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Speaker 1: you don't have to take this. You don't have to

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Speaker 1: take this just because you have a son with this man. First,

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Speaker 1: you know, change your phone number so they can stop

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Speaker 1: calling you and disrespecting you. I mean, just don't let

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Speaker 1: them walk all over you. Stop letting your son see

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Speaker 1: them treat you like this. I mean to me, just

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Speaker 1: say stop and and don't have them do this, you know.

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Speaker 1: Cut somebody else, Get some relatives up in there that

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Speaker 1: are strong, you know, and uh that can handle this.

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Speaker 1: If you can't, somebody can have to take this from

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Speaker 1: these people. Did I think they are? He's not your man,

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Speaker 1: he's not your husband. You guys broke up? Go ahead, Steve,

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Speaker 1: how to fix all this for you? But you got

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Speaker 1: cover basic problems. Young stepmother trying to get away. Um,

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Speaker 1: here's your whole problem. I used to be involved with

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Speaker 1: the older man. See I like older man, see right there,

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Speaker 1: Why don't you start liking somebody own you all up

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Speaker 1: over here for we alreat that our way and you're

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Speaker 1: dare right. We're gonna hear kids same age as you here.

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Speaker 1: We Oh that's what they do, old man here, old

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Speaker 1: ass kid? What you want? Surprise? You know? He dated

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Speaker 1: somebody twenty years coming to him. He had a baby

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Speaker 1: twenty years old. That's all you know. I bought a house.

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Speaker 1: He has his own place. You bought a house, he

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Speaker 1: got a partner. That's what I read is my problem

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Speaker 1: is he has daughters that are older than me and

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Speaker 1: they don't respect me. Now they ain't it now don't

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Speaker 1: gotta like respect. I can't come in front of that.

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Speaker 1: They don't like you. It didn't win past that you

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Speaker 1: ain't they mama? Didn't he embarrass you? Would call you

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Speaker 1: his ain't wife name? You know? Okay, ain't got that.

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Speaker 1: But that ain't the worst of Then when they call

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Speaker 1: the house, they don't use words like hello, a good morning,

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Speaker 1: just putting my father on the phone. Hell, hang on,

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Speaker 1: you know what? Who was that? I don't know anybody

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Speaker 1: say hello, I can fix that. What's your real brom

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Speaker 1: You need to fix these help us that's coming by

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Speaker 1: that when we come back, come on, how to fix

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Speaker 1: a help for coming by your house? The subject we're doing?

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Speaker 1: How to fix them? Help for us when they come

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Speaker 1: by your house? Because I'm gonna get you some respect

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Speaker 1: because you can't go no, no, no, that ain't what happened.

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Speaker 1: A yeah, two of Seves responds, coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: three after the hour, All right, come on Steve, what

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Speaker 1: Your problem is these grown daughters. Is that's steady making

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Speaker 1: your life? Really? You know hand, I don't even know

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Speaker 1: why they're still coming over your high read. They're just

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Speaker 1: walking in. Don't knock call and talking about putting my

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Speaker 1: father on the phone. The word is hello, Hello. Here's

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Speaker 1: what I do. Call it hello, put my father on phone?

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Speaker 1: Click hello? Is my father that click? Until you learn

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Speaker 1: how to say hello, you're not talking to me. Don't

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Speaker 1: let people disrespect you in your own house. You went

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Speaker 1: coming that disrespecting your how it's women listening to this

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Speaker 1: going that's impossible, you know. And in it he says

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Speaker 1: that they love me and that's their way of showing it.

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Speaker 1: I don't want this low. This ain't working for me

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Speaker 1: to Then you say they still call my phone, show

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Speaker 1: up at my house. His whole family is crazy, That

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Speaker 1: is whole. His whole family crazy now and everybody's family missing.

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Speaker 1: Your whole family may not be crazy, but you have

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Speaker 1: somebody in your family that's crazy. I have him in mind.

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Speaker 1: Everybody got here, the one in yours. Sometimes I'm in

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Speaker 1: sometime it's time. But you can call your crazy family

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Speaker 1: too to help you out. Number one, if these girls

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Speaker 1: after dough every time they come through it and don't

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Speaker 1: your dough after that. But but at least fow bullet

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Speaker 1: more that we three now that like that that I'm

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Speaker 1: That's it. That'll stop. That's how you get off your dough.

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Speaker 1: The other thing you could do is have some of

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Speaker 1: your ignorant cousins old more they come there. Yeah, them

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Speaker 1: boys in your family, that's ignorant, And when they come

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Speaker 1: to treat the stripper. You're gonna stop all this from

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Speaker 1: you know, like sometimes I'm ignorant, but then when Tommy

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Speaker 1: me down because his igness is overwhelmed. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show.