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Speaker 1: I just found out my real father is a drunk

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Speaker 1: that tried to kidnap me and send me to foster care.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of a bummer, Like, it's kind

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Speaker 1: of kind of such. Only does your dad not want

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Speaker 1: a functional liver? He doesn't want you either.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't want to function.

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Speaker 1: This literally happened yesterday, or at least the conclusion up

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Speaker 1: until now. Did me and my brother took twenty three

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Speaker 1: metasts for fun around Christmas time? Which is like, again,

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Speaker 1: you never do twenty three and me tats for fun

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Speaker 1: unless you want family drama.

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Speaker 2: Yes, never, it never ends.

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Speaker 1: Well no, no, it never does. When the results came back,

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Speaker 1: it suddenly showed us as being half siblingsoo dude, that

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Speaker 1: that is such a terrible real like such.

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Speaker 2: You literally think someone is your family still family, but

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Speaker 2: like you think someone is your your full brother, and

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Speaker 2: then they're just not just.

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Speaker 1: Not, which thinking on it out makes sense. Is I

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Speaker 1: have dark hair and blue eyes and am relatively fan He,

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Speaker 1: on the other hand, has a blonde hair and green

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Speaker 1: eyes and is of a stocky build.

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Speaker 2: What's your user name, boy.

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Speaker 1: Stock Man? What stock Man stuck Man.

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Speaker 2: Stockman sixty Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Confusion decide we had completely different HAPLO groups, which I

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Speaker 1: guess just means different dads. It ain't good.

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Speaker 2: He ain't your daddy.

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Speaker 1: Ain't your daddy. Now, growing up, I never had any

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Speaker 1: clue or reason to believe the man who raised me

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Speaker 1: was not my biological father. So last night I confronted

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Speaker 1: my mother about it, right, Mom? So like, also, like

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Speaker 1: when you're confronting your mom about this stuff, like, is

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Speaker 1: it just like like instane, Like I'm going to confront

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Speaker 1: my mom about this. I feel like I would want

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Speaker 1: more like information. I would do some sleuthing solo first

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Speaker 1: before like bringing it to the to the family.

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Speaker 2: Maybe just the emotional reaction, Yeah, emotions, just like my

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Speaker 2: dad is a lie.

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Speaker 1: Damn, my whole life is a lie. Basically, it's I imagine,

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Speaker 1: imagine realizing your whole life is alive. Terrible, dude, awful terrible.

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Speaker 1: At first, it was flat denial and she claimed the

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Speaker 1: test had to be wrong. Twenty three and meters ain't wrong, bro,

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Speaker 1: But after some pushing and prodding, she did admit that

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Speaker 1: my real father is not, in fact the man who

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Speaker 1: raised me.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: See, this is why you need public data check. You

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Speaker 1: did at check the facts before you go to mom,

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Speaker 1: so you actually have the receipts exactly.

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Speaker 2: Like you can instantly look up to see people's real

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Speaker 2: names or addresses, relatives, even if they have a criminal record.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So if you think you're adopted, or you want

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Speaker 1: to search for your real family and know if your

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Speaker 1: fake family is your fake family, look it up on

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Speaker 1: public data check. Do it check Public data check dot

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Speaker 1: com if you want to do some snoopin' my real father,

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Speaker 1: this is the reveal, the big reveal. Uh oh was

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Speaker 1: a doctor, lawyer, and astronaut all at the same time. Yes,

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Speaker 1: buzzle doctor, buzzalter. Yeah, it's just that he was so

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Speaker 1: famous and good looking that like like his mom wanted to.

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Speaker 2: Keep he filed his identity. Women would just be banging

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Speaker 2: on their door all night like they couldn't the kids

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Speaker 2: couldn't get any sleep.

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Speaker 1: So actually, no, he's not an astronaut, lawyer, doctor, unfortunately.

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Speaker 2: Are you sure?

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Speaker 1: I'm sure. I'm sure. My real father was a drifter,

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Speaker 1: not out in space, but just through the lands. I'd

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Speaker 1: be seeing who was raised in the foster system and

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Speaker 1: who never knew his real family. He wanted me aborted

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Speaker 1: when he found out my mother was pregnant with me. Yikes.

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Speaker 1: My mother described him as a deeply lost person, but

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Speaker 1: also as an extremely intelligent individual, but the foster system

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Speaker 1: left him broken. She apparently tried when I was a

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Speaker 1: baby to let him forge a bond with me, but

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Speaker 1: he had very little urge to do so and eventually

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Speaker 1: threatened to kidnap me and bond with me. Oh kid father,

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Speaker 1: and eventually threatened to kidnap me and drop me off

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Speaker 1: somewhere like as in foster care.

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Speaker 2: Jesus insane.

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Speaker 1: He worked a variety of jobs in the oil industry

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Speaker 1: of Louisiana and later became a worker for carnivals. Interesting.

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Speaker 1: He died in two thousand and eight when I was nineteen,

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Speaker 1: from liver damage. Apparently the state wanted me to identify

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Speaker 1: the body at the time, but she stepped in and

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Speaker 1: stopped it because he had given up his parental rights

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Speaker 1: when I was young. So now I know my real father,

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Speaker 1: but all I have is a name and date of

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Speaker 1: birth and a date of death. And due to him

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Speaker 1: not knowing any of his family from being raised in

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Speaker 1: foster care, I have no idea if I have any

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Speaker 1: living family on my biological father's side. Oh God, and

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Speaker 1: this kind of saddens me because my entire life I

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Speaker 1: have been very into my heritage and chasing my family tree.

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Speaker 2: Man get like that. That sucks even harder. It's like

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Speaker 2: I never even thought about that, but it's like the

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Speaker 2: whole side of the family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, but he doesn't know, doesn't have anyway, Wow,

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Speaker 1: no way of contacting, Sad said. I imagine like like,

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Speaker 1: but I imagine that the family maybe probably like it

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Speaker 1: probably wasn't that great if they put a kitten foster.

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Speaker 2: Probably yeah, not or least there some issues Family of

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Speaker 2: the Year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so hey, you know, just love the family. You

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Speaker 1: got op.

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Speaker 2: That's right, that's right.

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Speaker 1: And there's a little comment, Oh, we're gonna read. My

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Speaker 1: mother told me that my birth could help my biological

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Speaker 1: father change his life, and when he wanted nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with me, my real father, the man who raised me,

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Speaker 1: told her, well, if he can't change his life, then

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Speaker 1: he can change mine. Damn stand up, Father of the frickin' Year.

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Speaker 2: Gonna make gonna gonna make me shed a thug tear

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Speaker 2: over here.

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Speaker 1: Back then, my mother was a bartender and my dad,

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Speaker 1: who raised me, was in and out of jail constantly

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Speaker 1: for fighting bar fights and such. After that, they moved

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Speaker 1: to the country and raised me and my brother and

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Speaker 1: never really set foot in bars again.

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Speaker 2: Wow, and wait was it the was it his like

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Speaker 2: foster dad that was getting in the fights or the.

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Speaker 1: This was the real dad or like the dad that

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Speaker 1: raised Yeah, so like I guess like both fathers were

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Speaker 1: kind of fucked up. The dad that raised Op cleaned

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Speaker 1: up his act right good. Hey hey, hey, you use

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Speaker 1: use use it to change yourself. I like it. You

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Speaker 1: You change your dad's your thought, you change your dad's life.

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Speaker 1: Hey that's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: There we go. Gotta love it.