WEBVTT - Jesse Tyler Ferguson - Modern Family Issues

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<v Speaker 1>Really now, really, really.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, really Hello, and welcome to Really Know Really with

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<v Speaker 2>Jason Alexander and Peter Tilden, who asked you and your

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<v Speaker 2>entire Modern Family to please subscribe. And speaking of Modern Family,

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<v Speaker 2>today we meet actor, author, philanthropist, restaurant tour activist, and

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<v Speaker 2>star of Modern Family Jesse Tyler Ferguson. He reveals why

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<v Speaker 2>he had to come out as gay to his dad

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<v Speaker 2>three different times, and whether straight actors should be cast

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<v Speaker 2>as LGBTQ characters. He'll explain why he said yes to

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<v Speaker 2>appearing in Cocaine Bear and who the supposed documentarian was

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<v Speaker 2>that was filming Modern Family. Plus, we'll explore the strange

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<v Speaker 2>commonalities between Jason and Jesse and who lost the Primetime

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<v Speaker 2>Emmy Better. And lastly, we'll ask why there's a version

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<v Speaker 2>of Modern Family produced by the Islamic Republic of Iran

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<v Speaker 2>Broadcasting Company. Really No, really, really, we're rolling now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, we're rolling, Peta.

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<v Speaker 3>We're rolling, Don It's like the worst, it was the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>We're rolling.

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<v Speaker 3>We're rolling.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not live. Jason going down it really is?

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<v Speaker 3>He really?

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<v Speaker 5>I have that actor thing about rolling business.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, dance for Grandma.

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<v Speaker 3>Boy. That voice we got a special guests. I would

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<v Speaker 3>say special guest, but this is truly I was excited

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<v Speaker 3>about this wonderful, wonderful. You were very wonderful human being.

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<v Speaker 3>Who were you so excited? Because he was on a

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<v Speaker 3>hit show? Wow, and he's beloved. Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Two for.

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<v Speaker 3>You know everybody knows I love you. We just came

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<v Speaker 3>back from a We just took.

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<v Speaker 5>A fantastic trip through the Miami Beach area.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to Hollywood, we went.

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<v Speaker 3>To Florida, and Jason's so funny. We booked the gig

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<v Speaker 3>and Jason goes good so we can leave fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 3>before I said, not no, wrong Hollywood. Jason. By the way,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if everybody listening has this a friend

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<v Speaker 3>like this, I can Jason doesn't read the second line

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<v Speaker 3>of a text, the second rune of an email. I

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<v Speaker 3>could write, hey man, I hope you're well. Second line

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<v Speaker 3>I just had a massive heart attack on at Cedars,

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<v Speaker 3>and you would write back, I'm doing good. I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>So I have to put stuff, color code it and

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<v Speaker 3>read it. He goes we never discussed that. He didn't

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<v Speaker 3>write that, And I can pull it up and he'll go,

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<v Speaker 3>oh yeah, oh yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to say.

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<v Speaker 5>Of all the things that you have claimed that I

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<v Speaker 5>am good, bad at dude, don't do this is.

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<v Speaker 1>The first one where you're right.

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<v Speaker 5>I will cop to the fact I am a bad

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<v Speaker 5>text and email reader. I feel like if it's not

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<v Speaker 5>there in the first two lines, it's probably not important.

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<v Speaker 3>And I love that you're honest about This is the

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<v Speaker 3>first time acknowledge.

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<v Speaker 5>You've called me, You've you've ragged me on my driving.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm I'm a perfectly lovely driver. I don't know where

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<v Speaker 5>you pull that up to get me as being a

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<v Speaker 5>bad driver.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want me to bring up you actually you have?

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<v Speaker 3>Won't bring up the a I've had a few acts, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying I.

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<v Speaker 1>Haven't one of them totally not my fault. One of

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<v Speaker 1>them not my phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, sure, Oh boy, all right, Wow, you're hurtful. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just pointing out fasts.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like family, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>So our guest, our guest right now is Jesse Tyler Ferguson.

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<v Speaker 3>You know from Modern.

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<v Speaker 5>I knew Jesse Tyler Ferguson when he was a pup

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<v Speaker 5>back in his theater days.

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<v Speaker 3>Well he still has. So let's talk about this for

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<v Speaker 3>a second. He's doing a lot of a lot of theater,

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of Broadway, minor family. We know him from

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<v Speaker 3>eleven years.

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<v Speaker 1>Eleven years and Emmy, oh wait wait.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait stop, you know something. You have to step on everything,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what. We prepare things and then you ruin them. That.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't see that in the email. So let's bringing.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't don't mention, so let's not.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's bring. So let's start with that. You guys have

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<v Speaker 3>a lot in common. Hello Jesse, Hello Peter, Nice to

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<v Speaker 3>see yourself. Here's the deal. Let's open with this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you have a lot in comment so much, both

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<v Speaker 4>in the.

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<v Speaker 6>Producers, both both Tony Award winners, Yes, and both nine

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<v Speaker 6>years playing a role, eleven years playing a role, and

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<v Speaker 6>now ever got an Emmy for that role.

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<v Speaker 7>You were nominated though, right, I was nominated many times?

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<v Speaker 4>How many times? Seven more than me? Five?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>And you must really suck?

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<v Speaker 4>So I suck, but you must really, I really do.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's here's here's the talk. Here's the talk. The Emmy

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<v Speaker 3>voters every year for eleven years went still not buying him. Jason, Jason,

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<v Speaker 3>George Costanza. You know what I just if he just.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's good, he's good.

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<v Speaker 5>But David Hyde Peers, boy, you nemphasis I had you

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<v Speaker 5>know who? I lost you every time either and I

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<v Speaker 5>totally get it. Yeah, either David Pears or Michael Richards.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah you know I lost. I lost my stars. I

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<v Speaker 4>lost to Eric.

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<v Speaker 7>Twice twice and then Tony Hale, who I also adore once,

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<v Speaker 7>so you know, I can't complain.

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<v Speaker 5>And we're always in the first category up. So then

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<v Speaker 5>you sit there, I haven't changed. God give me a

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<v Speaker 5>kind bar or or a night.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you work yourself up? Like eleven years every time

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<v Speaker 3>did you go? It's got just by the math the

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<v Speaker 3>mass alone.

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<v Speaker 7>It is only one year where I thought I had

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<v Speaker 7>a shot. The other years I really thought I was

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<v Speaker 7>lucky to be nominated, truly. And then the last time

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<v Speaker 7>I was nominated was that the season where I got married,

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<v Speaker 7>and I just I I The episode I submitted was

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<v Speaker 7>one of the wedding we had episode two, part wedding episode,

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<v Speaker 7>and it just had a lot of there was a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of great stuff. There a lot of great stuff

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<v Speaker 7>with my dad, Jay Jay Pritchett, who's played by the

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<v Speaker 7>brilliant Ed O'Neill, and I just I thought, well, if

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<v Speaker 7>there's if there if they were ever going to give

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<v Speaker 7>it to me, this would be the time and then

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<v Speaker 7>tie one again.

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<v Speaker 3>And how how long do you have to act like

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<v Speaker 3>you are thrilled for him? Is it the day? Two

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<v Speaker 3>days a week? How long you have to go congratulations

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<v Speaker 3>against it? Like New Year's Like Larry David says, after

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<v Speaker 3>January fourth, you can stop saying having New Year. When

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<v Speaker 3>do you say thy it's enough already?

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<v Speaker 7>I thought I said it immediately, immediately high enough is

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<v Speaker 7>enough while he was up there doing his acceptance speech,

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<v Speaker 7>So enough time.

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<v Speaker 4>Obviously I was thrilled from but you know, it's it is.

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<v Speaker 7>It was one of those things like remember I think

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<v Speaker 7>as Amy Poehler after like her eighth nomination for Parks

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<v Speaker 7>and Recreation, she was.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, oh, okay, I get it. I see what's happening here,

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<v Speaker 4>jokes on me.

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<v Speaker 7>Ahaha, That's kind of what I was starting to feel.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, did Cort Nelson almost get Did he turn down

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<v Speaker 3>the other on your room?

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<v Speaker 4>He did?

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<v Speaker 3>Really, that's a real thing first, really know? Really? Is

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<v Speaker 3>that you guys between you, I love to do the

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<v Speaker 3>accumulatively twenty years and no, Emmy, that's nomination. That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Although I have.

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<v Speaker 6>An Emmy, I'm sorry, that doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 5>I read it in Wikipedia, which means it has to

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<v Speaker 5>be true that you kind of gravitated to the idea

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<v Speaker 5>of acting when you were eight.

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<v Speaker 4>Around that age, I was a little I was twelve

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<v Speaker 4>or thirty.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but when you were fantasizing about, hey, if this works,

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<v Speaker 5>I will be a what was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it theater? Did you think the whole.

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<v Speaker 4>That we have so much in common? Jason?

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<v Speaker 7>Actually, you've been on my mind a lot recently, and

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<v Speaker 7>apart for many reasons, but one of the reasons is

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<v Speaker 7>because I went and saw that fabulous production.

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<v Speaker 4>Merrily we Roll Along.

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<v Speaker 7>It's on Broadway right now, and I just think about

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<v Speaker 7>you every time I hear that music, and you know

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<v Speaker 7>that you are such a you know, part of part

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<v Speaker 7>of an iconic show like that, and obviously they had

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<v Speaker 7>a very turbulent past, and but I just love that

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<v Speaker 7>you were part of its history. And then also just

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<v Speaker 7>that you your roots are in the theater, and that's

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<v Speaker 7>like I could I know that's where your love is.

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<v Speaker 7>And then also just because I'm having I'm running to

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<v Speaker 7>a lot of people now who are discovering modern family

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<v Speaker 7>for the first time, and I think your show is

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<v Speaker 7>very similar in that it lives on this platform now

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<v Speaker 7>and people are they they'll discover Seinfeld and watch it

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<v Speaker 7>and fall in love with it all over again, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>fifty years later.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. No, I mean it's almost we're getting there.

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<v Speaker 4>We're getting really close. But yeah, theater was always my

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<v Speaker 4>first love.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, here's here's the question.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a weird question, and I don't want it to

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<v Speaker 5>sound like I'm not grateful or anything like that, but

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<v Speaker 5>did you when you were up for the Emmys? Did

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<v Speaker 5>it was it important to.

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<v Speaker 1>You to win it?

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<v Speaker 7>I want to I'm going to say no, but I'm

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<v Speaker 7>also going to I'm going to say that I was

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<v Speaker 7>disappointed not to win it. Yeah, but when the first

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<v Speaker 7>time I was nominated for an Emmy, I really was

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<v Speaker 7>so shocked that I was being recognized because I was

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<v Speaker 7>in this ensemble of six brilliant adults, and also the

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<v Speaker 7>kids were so fantastic. I knew Eric would be recognized.

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<v Speaker 7>I knew Tibe I would be recognized. I really kind

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<v Speaker 7>of had a I couldn't make a case for any

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<v Speaker 7>of the other people, but then the fact that I

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<v Speaker 7>was included was just sort of a surprise, And so

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<v Speaker 7>for me, it just sort of felt like that was

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<v Speaker 7>the win and the I mean, I never like stood

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<v Speaker 7>in front of my bathroom mirror imagining winning an Emmy

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<v Speaker 7>or even an Oscar.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was always a Tony.

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<v Speaker 5>That's exactly all I when I'm asked about this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>and so now I'm going to ask you the follow

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<v Speaker 5>up questions. Yeah, I won my Tony when I was

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<v Speaker 5>twenty nine, and I thought I had very Robin you

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<v Speaker 5>bet you. I thought I had really realistic dreams about,

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<v Speaker 5>oh maybe when i'm forty, I'll get to Broadway and

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<v Speaker 5>maybe i'm sixty, I'll play some great role and I'll

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<v Speaker 5>be nominated for Tony. And then at twenty nine it

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<v Speaker 5>hits me and I again, I don't want to lead

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<v Speaker 5>the witness.

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<v Speaker 1>You win the Tony. Did it meet your expectations?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm going to say yes, only because I did a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of theater before that, and I did some roles

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<v Speaker 7>that I felt like were Tony nominational worthy?

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<v Speaker 4>Right, But I was, I had been.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't want to say ignore because everyone that was

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<v Speaker 7>nominated was obviously very worthy about there was some disappointment there,

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<v Speaker 7>and so when I was nominated, just being able to

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<v Speaker 7>stand in front of it. I'm kind of glad that

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<v Speaker 7>it did happen later in my career, not not when

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<v Speaker 7>I was in my twenties, but like I was able

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<v Speaker 7>to stand in front of this community that meant so

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<v Speaker 7>much to me and meant so much to me before

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<v Speaker 7>I even got to New York, like I dreamed of

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<v Speaker 7>being on Broadway when I was a kid in Albuquerque, Mexico,

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<v Speaker 7>listening to Cast albums in my bedroom, like to stand

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<v Speaker 7>in and like, you know, Patty Lapone and Bernard Peters

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<v Speaker 7>are in the front row, and like, these are some

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<v Speaker 7>of the people that I would listen to in my

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<v Speaker 7>They rescued me from situations when I was a kid,

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<v Speaker 7>like they meant so much to me. And to stand

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<v Speaker 7>in front of that community and say thank you so

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<v Speaker 7>much for allowing me in that meant everything to me

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<v Speaker 7>so in that in that respect, Yes, it did mean

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<v Speaker 7>as much as I thought it would. It probably meant

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<v Speaker 7>more than I thought it was going to me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>because I got to thank the community the ward itself.

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<v Speaker 7>Probably not like I think all awards like never mean

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<v Speaker 7>as much as you want them to mean. I don't

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<v Speaker 7>change your career in ways that you want them to change.

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<v Speaker 7>But for me that personal moment of being able to

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<v Speaker 7>stand in front of the New York theater community and

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<v Speaker 7>thank them was really powerful.

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<v Speaker 5>It's so interesting I hear and understand everything you just said.

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<v Speaker 5>And you know, my experience was. I was young enough

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<v Speaker 5>that I kept thinking, well, when I win the Tony Award,

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<v Speaker 5>I will be someone, or my life will achieve something,

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<v Speaker 5>or I'll be a I will have gotten to the

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<v Speaker 5>there that I dream about. And I remember same thing going,

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<v Speaker 5>I can't believe I'm here. I can't believe this is happening.

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<v Speaker 5>Tommy Toon gave me the award. He hugged me, his

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<v Speaker 5>belt buckle went into my face. And I made the speech,

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<v Speaker 5>and I went to the party, and I went home

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<v Speaker 5>and there were twenty messages on my machine.

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<v Speaker 1>And twenty messages was a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, the normal day is three four messages, but

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<v Speaker 5>it wasn't a hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>It was twenty.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And I went to bed that night, and my wife,

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<v Speaker 5>who knows how much I love the show Pippen, says

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<v Speaker 5>to me, how do you feel? And I went I

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<v Speaker 5>thought there'd be more plumes, and it was a lead

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<v Speaker 5>great lesson about it's not the destination, it's the journey

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<v Speaker 5>and yes, and that's why when when I start, when

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<v Speaker 5>I started getting nominated for Emmy's, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Thought, well, that's a lark.

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<v Speaker 1>I never even thought i'd be on TV.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know, and sure you get there and you go, well,

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<v Speaker 5>this would be cool. I guess you wanted, but it

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<v Speaker 5>was never I never had that sort of crushing Oh geez,

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<v Speaker 5>I should or why not me?

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<v Speaker 7>Or you know, I think if you're starting to feel

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<v Speaker 7>that you're you're obviously for the wrong reason. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sure we can always be disappointed, but like, think

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<v Speaker 7>about how many people are on television and just you

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<v Speaker 7>were one of five or six showsen to be honored

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<v Speaker 7>by just the nominat.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, let me ask you about that. You guys

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<v Speaker 3>decided we're all going to be supporting actress. They got

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<v Speaker 3>together and said, nobody's going to be the breakout. We're

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<v Speaker 3>going to do this because you're a thompl Seinfeldt also

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<v Speaker 3>shared those guys would say, like, I know, Jason would

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<v Speaker 3>say to Juliet, you know, I think this line's funnier

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<v Speaker 3>for you than me. It was very much that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean that was the you know, to the

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<v Speaker 5>extent that I can explain Why are ensemble became an

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<v Speaker 5>ensemble was very early on when the show was struggling

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<v Speaker 5>and we thought, let's just get some good tape for

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<v Speaker 5>our next audition. We couldn't help but enjoy with each

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<v Speaker 5>other we're doing. And there were instances where, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>George would have a bit and I'd say, wouldn't this

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<v Speaker 5>be better on a lane? I mean, if it's really

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<v Speaker 5>a coin toss, it'd be funnier on our Or we'd

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<v Speaker 5>have a thing going and we'd go, you know, we

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<v Speaker 5>could we don't need this whole section of Michael just

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<v Speaker 5>falls on, you know, the trips over the thing. We

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<v Speaker 5>just started thinking of passing the ball right, and I

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<v Speaker 5>would have to assume you guys were you know, you

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<v Speaker 5>were the Harlem Glove drotterers.

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<v Speaker 1>When it comes to that.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just there were so many Well it.

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<v Speaker 7>Was a big cast, yeah, I had just I had

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<v Speaker 7>done a show a few seasons previous where it was

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<v Speaker 7>also a big cast. You know, the character is kind

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<v Speaker 7>of got lost, and so when I was part of

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<v Speaker 7>a big cast again, I was like, oh, I've been

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<v Speaker 7>through down this road before, but for some reason, the

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<v Speaker 7>writers were so good about for some reason, that's what

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<v Speaker 7>the Emmy Awards. But like they they they were so

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<v Speaker 7>great about like really carving out moments and really clarifying

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<v Speaker 7>who these people were a very efficient amount of time.

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<v Speaker 7>And so the reason why there was so much richness

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<v Speaker 7>that I think it's because we were a great ensemble,

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<v Speaker 7>and like I think if you took a single person

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<v Speaker 7>out of that that group of six adults, like we

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<v Speaker 7>wouldn't have been as strong as a as a team.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, as a stupid question, sure, who were you all talking?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the documentary the car where's is the guy going on?

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<v Speaker 5>You can do so storytelling and really trunk.

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<v Speaker 7>There was an early version of the show where the

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<v Speaker 7>documentarian was actually a character and it was a a

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<v Speaker 7>Nix change student that had stayed with the Pritchetts when

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<v Speaker 7>they when he was young, like a Dutch exchange student,

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<v Speaker 7>and so he came back and he was doing a

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<v Speaker 7>documentary about this family that he used to live with

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<v Speaker 7>when he was a kid, and so they had actually

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<v Speaker 7>honored that character as well, so he was part of

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<v Speaker 7>the story. Then it came to the point where like

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<v Speaker 7>we need to cut some there's too many people, and

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<v Speaker 7>he was the most natural person to cut, so but

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<v Speaker 7>they still kept the device of the documentary, so you know, none.

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<v Speaker 1>Of us know.

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<v Speaker 3>Good.

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<v Speaker 4>But also in the first.

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<v Speaker 7>Season we really were like, okay, well if this is

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<v Speaker 7>a documentary crew and we're coming in from outside and

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<v Speaker 7>we're going inside, and then like season three, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>we'll like you know, come home from picking up groceries

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<v Speaker 7>and like open our door and there's already a cruise

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<v Speaker 7>us like we've you know, we lost that device.

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<v Speaker 5>Because I'm such a linear thinker, the minute they cut

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<v Speaker 5>the documentary character, I'd go, why are we doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>He would be doing So they're in the bedroom, so

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<v Speaker 3>they went into the bedroom really and the guy guy sitting.

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<v Speaker 7>Here scenes in the the night like wake up a

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<v Speaker 7>dream or something. I'm like, why is the camera over you?

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<v Speaker 5>Over you guys on the ceiling?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I just we just want to know that this

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<v Speaker 3>isn't really no, really, in Iran they took your sitcom.

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<v Speaker 3>They took the gay characters and made them heterosexual. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>But they do basically a word by words shooting of

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<v Speaker 3>modern family. Can China really know? Really they have shows

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<v Speaker 3>and in Russia they have It's always Sonny in Moscow,

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm wondering either a couple of things and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know the answer, but I'd like to explort. Is

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<v Speaker 3>it because other countries are just as non creative as

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<v Speaker 3>we are that they do that they have to do

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<v Speaker 3>something they've.

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<v Speaker 7>Seen We took the office and the pilot of the office.

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<v Speaker 7>The American office is exactly the same as the British.

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<v Speaker 3>But these are there are countries that hate us, that

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<v Speaker 3>are taking our cultural families and putting them on. So

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<v Speaker 3>there must be something resonating.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just gonna be I'm going to give you a

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<v Speaker 5>little life lesson because you haven't been in as much

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<v Speaker 5>of the world as I have.

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<v Speaker 1>When you say a country, hey, the country doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Understood, I'm just saying people you know, but that's the

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<v Speaker 3>governments might not do understand. But the fact that they

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<v Speaker 3>understand to talk then, but like in Russia to allow

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<v Speaker 3>that and Iran to allow that and openly.

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<v Speaker 1>Iran Mitchell and camera bay Ruse and Elham.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, a husband and wife, so what do you think

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<v Speaker 5>and you are to have children because Bayrus is infertile.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, different problems.

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<v Speaker 5>So I want to because you have been a huge

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<v Speaker 5>gay right to advocate, especially when we were advocating for marriage.

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<v Speaker 5>So I just want to get your feeling in this,

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<v Speaker 5>and this is the way I'm gonna I have two

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<v Speaker 5>questions about it, and then I just want to see

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<v Speaker 5>where you go. I have two friends that are directors

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<v Speaker 5>that are gay, and you know, there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>in all of our unions, a lot of focus now

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<v Speaker 5>on diversity and inclusion and all this stuff. Gay is

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<v Speaker 5>no longer consider diversity g GA. It's not a diversity

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<v Speaker 5>higher right thoughts.

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<v Speaker 3>Because apparently all the boxes have been checked, so it's China.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, okay, here are my thoughts. I think it's

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<v Speaker 7>great because that means that there's been progress. And I

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<v Speaker 7>think that like the fact that you know, the Modern

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<v Speaker 7>Family started, this gay couple was a really revolutionary thing, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I think so, yeah, and on at least on network television.

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<v Speaker 7>And and you know, the fact that by the time

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<v Speaker 7>this show was ending, we weren't so revolutionary, I think

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<v Speaker 7>is actually really great. And you know, there was a

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<v Speaker 7>time when I feel like you know that it was

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<v Speaker 7>there was a great stigma around being openly gay and

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<v Speaker 7>trying to find work in this business. And I still

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<v Speaker 7>think that that actually exists. I'm not gonna save art.

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<v Speaker 7>We're completely free from that but I do think that

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<v Speaker 7>there are other there are other groups that we need

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<v Speaker 7>to be helping along, specifically a trans community. I mean,

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<v Speaker 7>you look at all these wonderful trans stories that are

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<v Speaker 7>being told, and there is a there's a plethora of

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<v Speaker 7>really talented transactors and actresses, and I you know, they

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<v Speaker 7>need to be given opportunity.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean M J.

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<v Speaker 4>Rod Rigers was nominated for an Emmy.

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<v Speaker 7>Because she's fantastistic and you know, so, I think there's

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<v Speaker 7>a laziness around trying to find people in these communities

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<v Speaker 7>that can you know, be part of the work that

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<v Speaker 7>that they live. So I'm I'm fine saying like we're

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<v Speaker 7>good for right now, let's like put that energy that

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<v Speaker 7>you were putting on us on university.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm are you as as a character like a

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<v Speaker 3>gay man? And do you get judged by the community,

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<v Speaker 3>Like do you get a hate mail that says you're

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<v Speaker 3>doing this and it says and you're going, wait, what

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<v Speaker 3>do you mean? Well?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't get hate mail, but I do I do

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<v Speaker 7>feel like, you know, I I I think there's a

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<v Speaker 7>pressure of representing an entire community and I'm representing one

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<v Speaker 7>person in that community. It's like if you know in

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<v Speaker 7>mitchellin cam you know, first of all, almost every character

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<v Speaker 7>on sitcom, and a sitcom specifically, is a stereotype. You

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<v Speaker 7>can't you have to be your broad strokes and like

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<v Speaker 7>you color in, like you obviously bring the nuance to

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<v Speaker 7>to to the character, but you know on the page

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<v Speaker 7>that they're going to be pretty bad.

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<v Speaker 3>But I wondering because I thought, that's that's a responsibility,

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<v Speaker 3>an added level of responsibility of how am I coming

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<v Speaker 3>off not only to comedy to the ensemble, but to

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<v Speaker 3>an entire well.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, Oprah made me feel really good because I

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<v Speaker 7>heard her say one time that she sometimes feels like

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<v Speaker 7>she's representing the entire black community. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 7>if she feels that way, then I certainly am okay

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<v Speaker 7>feeling that I can feel. I feel like I can't

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<v Speaker 7>represent the entire gay community, right.

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<v Speaker 5>I have played at least one notably overtly out gay

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<v Speaker 5>flamboyant character in the movie of Love Alur Compassion Lane's Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>So I prefaced that with your partner on Modern Family,

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<v Speaker 5>Eric was as a straight man playing a gay character.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he was wonderful.

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<v Speaker 5>So at the Academy, I think the entire audience thought

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<v Speaker 5>he was wonderful. If he were cast as that today,

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<v Speaker 5>I think there would be a lot more noise because

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<v Speaker 5>there is an outcry for authenticity in casting. And I

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<v Speaker 5>know I've had many conversations with friends about you know,

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<v Speaker 5>how that extrapolates out and plays out. I remember Neil

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<v Speaker 5>Patrick Harris saying, well, I hear that, and I respect that.

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<v Speaker 5>But by the same token, I've done an awful I've

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<v Speaker 5>made an awful lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>So does this cut both ways?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you have any particular feelings about the specificity of

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<v Speaker 5>straight actors playing gay or how this also like, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>my friend Brian Cranston got some flak for playing a

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<v Speaker 5>disabled character.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he's not you know, where are you on all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff?

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<v Speaker 4>It's all about for me, it's about.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are you on all that stuff?

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<v Speaker 7>It's all about for me, it's about representation and it's

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<v Speaker 7>about opportunity.

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<v Speaker 4>So I tend to agree with Neil on this.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, as actors, I think we all want to

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<v Speaker 7>be able to play all different types of roles. If

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<v Speaker 7>you're telling me I can only play gay roles, I

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<v Speaker 7>think that's that's even worse than like the opposite, like saying, like,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, gay men currently represent other gay men. I've

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<v Speaker 7>had this conversation with Eric Stonestry too. He and I

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<v Speaker 7>both feel if we were casting Modern Family today, he

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<v Speaker 7>might not have been allowed to play camera. However, I'm

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<v Speaker 7>looking back and let you know this now fifteen years

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<v Speaker 7>when I I was and he loves when I tell

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<v Speaker 7>people this, But I was cast before Eric was, and

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<v Speaker 7>so I did a lot of the chemistry reads with

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<v Speaker 7>different actors, and I read with gay actors, I read

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<v Speaker 7>with black actors, I read with tall actors in short like,

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<v Speaker 7>I read so many different types of people. I was

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<v Speaker 7>like speed dating, you know, and Eric was the one

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<v Speaker 7>who I had the chemistry with, and that's most.

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<v Speaker 3>That's more.

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<v Speaker 7>Then there was some gay actors who were wonderful, but

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't have chemistry with them. And I didn't know

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<v Speaker 7>if Eric was gay straight, Like I mean, he came

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<v Speaker 7>in like you saw him what he does, damn, Like

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<v Speaker 7>that's what I saw.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was like, I don't know, maybe he's gay.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>And then when I met him for coffee, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>after we both got cast, is like, oh, you're obviously straight,

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<v Speaker 7>but like the chemistry was there, and that's what I

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<v Speaker 7>cared about I was like, we want the best shop

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<v Speaker 7>for the show.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's that.

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<v Speaker 7>But when I'm but when I talk about representation and opportunity,

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<v Speaker 7>I just feel like when there was a point where

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<v Speaker 7>I think a lot of these roles were being written

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<v Speaker 7>and there wasn't great opportunity for the people who represent

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<v Speaker 7>who are who live these roles to even audition for

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<v Speaker 7>for some of these parts. You know, there's I thought,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm thinking back to that that role of a there's

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<v Speaker 7>a trans character that that Scarlett Johansson decided to back

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<v Speaker 7>away from. I don't I don't know the ins and

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<v Speaker 7>outs of all that. I know that you know, she was,

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<v Speaker 7>She's a huge star, and like there was a reason

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<v Speaker 7>that maybe the story wasn't gonna be told it all

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<v Speaker 7>because she is not in it. But I don't know

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<v Speaker 7>how many transactors were actually seen for that if are

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<v Speaker 7>they just offered it to Scarlett Johnson. I tend to

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<v Speaker 7>think that maybe they did maybe a very brief search

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<v Speaker 7>and then.

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<v Speaker 4>Said okay, let's get Scarlett Johnson to do this like

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<v Speaker 4>the talent.

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<v Speaker 3>But then again, because it's monetary, I know that Scarlett

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<v Speaker 3>Mhanson's name above the credit is going to get people

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<v Speaker 3>to watch, so they're they're torn.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm but you know what well, I mean, like Hillary Swank,

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<v Speaker 7>she had done like one show and then obviously we

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<v Speaker 7>put her in Boys Don't Cry, and like that's you know,

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<v Speaker 7>that might be a bad example. She's not queer, but like,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, there's so many people who we've discovered Barbara

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<v Speaker 7>streisand okay, let's go there. Like, I mean, no one

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<v Speaker 7>really knew who she was when you know, they were

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<v Speaker 7>casting Funny Girl. They had a list of huge stars

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<v Speaker 7>who would have sold that film. But like she played

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<v Speaker 7>the part, and now she's iconic for it. Like we

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<v Speaker 7>have to get we have to assume that there are

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<v Speaker 7>people out there who like can handle it, and sure,

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<v Speaker 7>you hire an unknown to play the lead, then bolster

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<v Speaker 7>with like find other people that are fantastic to act

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<v Speaker 7>around them, to support them, and like give the talent

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<v Speaker 7>a shot to grow.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, well, man, it's monetarily driven. So I got

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<v Speaker 3>to ask you the storyline. You probably talked about this,

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<v Speaker 3>but I just want to know how it happened. They

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<v Speaker 3>used your life story that you came out to your

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<v Speaker 3>father three separate times, right, I try to get my

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<v Speaker 3>head around how did he after the first time being

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<v Speaker 3>the father, how did you have to do it? The

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<v Speaker 3>second time? Was he like, Okay, I think I heard it,

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<v Speaker 3>I say, he said, did he say? I mean, how

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<v Speaker 3>did that happen to? You? Said? You know what, A

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<v Speaker 3>I think I got to do this again because it

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<v Speaker 3>didn't take. And then the third time you went it

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<v Speaker 3>really didn't take. I got to do it a different way.

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<v Speaker 7>Wasn't that funny? Me and my dad both laugh about it.

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<v Speaker 7>Now He's like, I get it now, believe me, I

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<v Speaker 7>get it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>The thing is I didn't advertly come out to him

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<v Speaker 7>the first time. I was caught stealing some materials from

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<v Speaker 7>a bookstore that suggested I might be of interest, and

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<v Speaker 7>so I was caught with that, and so like he

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<v Speaker 7>saw the nature of the materials I had stolen, so

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<v Speaker 7>I for me, I felt like, well, there you go,

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<v Speaker 7>like I don't need to come out now, like that's it.

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<v Speaker 4>And then and then later.

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<v Speaker 7>My mom and I finally had a discussion about I

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<v Speaker 7>think after I moved to college, and I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>I kind of officially or she said, I know you're gay,

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<v Speaker 7>and like she was, she was having a hard time

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<v Speaker 7>with it as well. You have to also understand this

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<v Speaker 7>is a time we're still in the AIDS epidemic, and like,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, there's a danger and an assumption that you know,

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<v Speaker 7>if if you're if you're gay, you're gonna and especially

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<v Speaker 7>if you moved to New York like yikes. And uh so,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, I think she mentioned to my dad, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>I've had this conversation with Jesse and you know, this

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<v Speaker 7>is a competition we had, so she sort of came

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<v Speaker 7>out for me to him. And then my dad was

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<v Speaker 7>visiting me in college. This is how I remember it,

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<v Speaker 7>and he asked if I had a girlfriend, and I

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<v Speaker 7>was like, Dad, why would I have a girlfriend? And

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:55.400
<v Speaker 7>he and I was like, you know, I'm gay.

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<v Speaker 4>He's like, mother. So I just feel like those were

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<v Speaker 4>the three shot.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh okay, you know I didn't I don't think i've

0:27:02.680 --> 0:27:04.600
<v Speaker 7>verbally ever said like I'm gay, and he's like, I

0:27:04.640 --> 0:27:06.000
<v Speaker 7>didn't hear it, but like, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, okay, I I had to know how I had

0:27:09.119 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 3>to break it down for yeah, yeah, because it's not like, ah,

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<v Speaker 3>did you say that and then totally totally ignoring that.

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<v Speaker 7>And I did feel that way to feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>stealing a gay pornography magazine is pretty much as clear

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<v Speaker 7>as you can get.

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<v Speaker 5>It's such a stupid question the way I'm gonna ask it.

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<v Speaker 5>But you're living a version of modern Family. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>you and Justin and you have two chicks now.

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<v Speaker 1>And how how how is that? How is life?

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<v Speaker 7>It's in the Modern Family. It's fantastic. It's it's not

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<v Speaker 7>as well written, not as funny. Uh longer, it feels longer. Uh,

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<v Speaker 7>it's so interest because people had always ask me, I,

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<v Speaker 7>do you feel like you're ready for fatherhood having done

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<v Speaker 7>it on television? But you know, and I, uh, I

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<v Speaker 7>don't know. I just feel like it was always something

0:27:57.880 --> 0:27:59.240
<v Speaker 7>I knew I wanted to do. I knew I wanted

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<v Speaker 7>to be a father and and we're having a really

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<v Speaker 7>a great time doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>You played in in a Broadway show where you played

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<v Speaker 3>forty characters. I don't understand that at all. I've seen

0:28:09.280 --> 0:28:11.800
<v Speaker 3>him play a number of characters. How do you keep

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<v Speaker 3>straight forty?

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<v Speaker 7>I played ten of them? Well, okay, the other thirty

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<v Speaker 7>were like kind of iffy?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that accurate?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. It's it's a play called fully Committed.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know the play Jason?

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<v Speaker 6>I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw Jason groddu Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>It's it's about a reservationist at a very very fancy restaurant,

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<v Speaker 7>and the play is about the preservationist and he's been

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<v Speaker 7>left alone with the lines all day. His co worker

0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:38.400
<v Speaker 7>has not shut up to work, and so you watch

0:28:38.480 --> 0:28:40.000
<v Speaker 7>him sort of like work through this hectic day and

0:28:40.040 --> 0:28:42.760
<v Speaker 7>he plays obviously himself, but then also the people on

0:28:42.800 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 7>the other end of the line. So all these different

0:28:44.400 --> 0:28:48.280
<v Speaker 7>people trying to get reservations, the chef, the hostess. You know,

0:28:48.280 --> 0:28:50.160
<v Speaker 7>he plays all these characters. It's all done through phone

0:28:50.160 --> 0:28:52.480
<v Speaker 7>calls and phone conversations. And what's different about it though,

0:28:52.520 --> 0:28:55.600
<v Speaker 7>is because you know he is having dialogue with these people.

0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:58.880
<v Speaker 7>There's never like a monologue of one character, Like no

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:02.320
<v Speaker 7>character is is present for more than like maybe three sentences,

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<v Speaker 7>So you're basically in conversation with yourself for an hour

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<v Speaker 7>and a half.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>By the way, Jason Grat told me the funniest interaction

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<v Speaker 5>with the audience story happened to him on that show

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<v Speaker 5>that he's playing it out here in a mid size theater. Yeah,

0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:17.800
<v Speaker 5>a huge theater, so he's well aware of yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>and he's doing a matina and he goes it's a

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<v Speaker 5>dead house.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just oh and nothing is worse that house. It's

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:24.440
<v Speaker 7>like trying to surf in a lake.

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<v Speaker 5>So a phone goes off in the audience. That's the

0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 5>first thing is you go, huh God, and now he

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<v Speaker 5>hears this is what he hears. And I'll do it

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<v Speaker 5>in real time. Imagine you're doing the show and you hear.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, I can't talk to you right now.

0:29:40.520 --> 0:29:41.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm watching a play.

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<v Speaker 5>How he didn't leap off the stage and killed this

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<v Speaker 5>person before we.

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<v Speaker 3>Go because we gotta wrap. I gotta ask you something, okay, cocaine,

0:29:57.120 --> 0:30:00.360
<v Speaker 3>barry your plate in theater. Now, two things about this.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, tell you tell your story. You told

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:07.280
<v Speaker 3>about somebody saw you in it in common well.

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<v Speaker 7>So the first of all, Cocaine bears as a ridiculous

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:12.560
<v Speaker 7>premise of ridiculous movie. It's it's a lot of fun.

0:30:12.680 --> 0:30:16.200
<v Speaker 7>If you want something serious, just steer away. But the

0:30:17.200 --> 0:30:19.080
<v Speaker 7>trailer itself got a lot of buzz when it came

0:30:19.080 --> 0:30:21.040
<v Speaker 7>out because everyone's like, what the hell is is this

0:30:21.080 --> 0:30:22.800
<v Speaker 7>a real movie? Like people thought it was something that

0:30:22.800 --> 0:30:26.120
<v Speaker 7>that the Onion created. It's about a barrow on cocaine.

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<v Speaker 3>The titles based on a truth thing where cocaine out

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<v Speaker 3>of there.

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<v Speaker 7>Is a real situation where all this cocaine from the

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<v Speaker 7>cartel was lost in the woods and a found it

0:30:35.760 --> 0:30:37.680
<v Speaker 7>and made it and then went into cardiac arrest and died.

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<v Speaker 4>But in our version.

0:30:40.600 --> 0:30:44.040
<v Speaker 1>Got it the exact before the right.

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<v Speaker 7>So the trailer came out and it was, you know,

0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 7>this very buzzy thing, and I tend to think that

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:51.400
<v Speaker 7>the trailer actually got more attention than the movie itself.

0:30:51.560 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 7>But there was all these think pieces on the trailer,

0:30:54.240 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 7>and like people were dissecting it. And I remember reading

0:30:56.840 --> 0:30:59.760
<v Speaker 7>this one that was like cocaine Bear has everything. Eighties

0:30:59.800 --> 0:31:03.560
<v Speaker 7>fauns and Carrie Russell, Margot Martindale is a is a

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:07.120
<v Speaker 7>park ranger. Jesse Tyler Ferguson in a fat suit. I

0:31:07.240 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 7>wasn't wearing a fat suit. You in the middle of

0:31:14.000 --> 0:31:16.400
<v Speaker 7>the pandemic, and I was not. I was just you know,

0:31:16.480 --> 0:31:19.719
<v Speaker 7>living and not going to the gym. And I was

0:31:20.160 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 7>slightly heavier, yes, And then I was also wearing harnesses

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 7>because I was.

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<v Speaker 3>So In the trailer, you can see Jesse, a young

0:31:30.120 --> 0:31:32.360
<v Speaker 3>kid is up a tree to avoid the band. Yeah,

0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:36.360
<v Speaker 3>and Jesse climbs the tree also very hot. Yes, were

0:31:36.400 --> 0:31:38.520
<v Speaker 3>you really that high in the tree. It was very high.

0:31:38.760 --> 0:31:40.719
<v Speaker 3>It was extremely high. I was, I was on wires

0:31:40.760 --> 0:31:42.520
<v Speaker 3>and they had a stunt double for me. But I

0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 3>was really wanted to do the sense myself. And I,

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:47.920
<v Speaker 3>you know, because it's like, when am I going to

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:48.160
<v Speaker 3>do this?

0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 4>I don't.

0:31:48.440 --> 0:31:48.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm not.

0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:50.880
<v Speaker 4>I don't get to do stuff like that scale building.

0:31:51.760 --> 0:31:52.440
<v Speaker 3>I'm scared of heights.

0:31:52.640 --> 0:31:53.760
<v Speaker 4>I am too, but I was like.

0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:54.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to do it.

0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:57.320
<v Speaker 7>Let me tell you what they when I was up

0:31:57.320 --> 0:31:59.080
<v Speaker 7>there in rehearsal, because I had a whole de of rehearsal.

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<v Speaker 4>First, I'm all the way up in this tree.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm very very high up, Like if I fell, I

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<v Speaker 7>would be dead for sure. They start putting down mattresses

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<v Speaker 7>at the bottom of the tree, and it was like

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<v Speaker 7>that actually makes me more nervous.

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<v Speaker 4>That makes me more nervous.

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<v Speaker 7>Because that means like something could go wrong, and I

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<v Speaker 7>know that mattress is not gonna save my life. If

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<v Speaker 7>I bought this tree, I'm going to bounce off that

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<v Speaker 7>and hit that other rock that I see right there,

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<v Speaker 7>cover the rock. Like I really was like, please don't

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<v Speaker 7>put the mattresses, Please just don't let me fall. Let's

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<v Speaker 7>just I had a harness.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a tied to something, so if you fell,

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<v Speaker 3>you're hanging there.

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<v Speaker 7>And I don't know all the details, but I was

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<v Speaker 7>told I was very safe. I didn't feel unsafe. I

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<v Speaker 7>felt very taken care of.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the big question, the most important, cal Swift

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<v Speaker 3>still in TOUCHI were in her video.

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<v Speaker 5>We created her by the way, do you know that

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<v Speaker 5>we put her in the breath, put her in her

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<v Speaker 5>first video ever?

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<v Speaker 3>You know not?

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<v Speaker 4>I think she was going to do good. Regardless, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Think wepening for him in the twenty thousand Seed arena.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you're very lucky that.

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<v Speaker 3>You got his video. Jason got hired to direct. She

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<v Speaker 3>was a backup singer and she was an open She

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<v Speaker 3>was the opener, but we put in a video where

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<v Speaker 3>she was the Jason director, where she was the backups.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, she was foteen at that time. God, I love her.

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<v Speaker 7>I just I really admire her so much. I just

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<v Speaker 7>went and saw her errors tour. Yeah, I mean, does

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<v Speaker 7>she do you go backstage after I have before gone

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<v Speaker 7>backstage after her concert, but with the airs, she was

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<v Speaker 7>on stage for three and a half hours. I don't

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<v Speaker 7>think she Yeah, yeah, she paid on first, so I needed.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm tired now I can't, I can't stay any longer.

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<v Speaker 4>I got.

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<v Speaker 3>She made a billion, one billion dollars on that. Good

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<v Speaker 3>for you, Yeah, for her, amazing, the fact that she's

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<v Speaker 3>man good. But for her, I remember she was thirteen.

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<v Speaker 3>She convinced she was good enough that she convinced her

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<v Speaker 3>parents to move out from Pennsylvania to National for a

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<v Speaker 3>publishing contract. Yeah. And even as a little gir because

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing country music at that time. Yeah, yes, mister,

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<v Speaker 3>so she was on it, just on it. But to

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<v Speaker 3>have a career this long, yeah, and not waiver.

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<v Speaker 4>And she reinvents herself and her family.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean her dad, you know, still is like at

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<v Speaker 7>all her shows and came into the Hello to me

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<v Speaker 7>and brought me some of her guitar pecks to get

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<v Speaker 7>to my kids, Like you know there.

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<v Speaker 3>That he gave you guitar. That's it, guitar guitar.

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<v Speaker 7>And actually some swag I got I gotta tell And

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<v Speaker 7>the concert people are waiting in line for like ten

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<v Speaker 7>hours to get swag.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know he saved me.

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<v Speaker 5>What I tell you what I love and admire about

0:34:30.080 --> 0:34:32.320
<v Speaker 5>her aside of the talent, and I do love her talent.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a fan, but man, she at any given moment,

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<v Speaker 5>she's the biggest star in the world. She can't blow

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<v Speaker 5>her nose without it making national news. And under that microscope,

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<v Speaker 5>I think she has managed to live an honest, agreed,

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<v Speaker 5>and and rather extraordinary life of of real service.

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<v Speaker 1>She's always for my money.

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<v Speaker 5>She's always speaking out about the right things, standing up

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<v Speaker 5>for the right things.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's extraordiny.

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<v Speaker 7>Two of her background and backup singers are are friends

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<v Speaker 7>of mine, and they have nothing but the kindest things

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<v Speaker 7>to say about her. They all it's a family unit.

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<v Speaker 7>That that entire tour is such a family unit. She

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<v Speaker 7>does so much, so many good things for them, and

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<v Speaker 7>she gave him all these crazy bonuses when the guitar pics.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and thank you for being with the show. I

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<v Speaker 3>will tell you everything now.

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<v Speaker 1>That now that we've been here, can we be best friends?

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<v Speaker 4>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love that too.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you invite us? I know I'm not a star,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'll tag along to one of your your your podcasts?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we pick?

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<v Speaker 3>I can never afford would be great watching him interview

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<v Speaker 3>Good Jesse on your podcast. When we eat together? Break bread?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? David.

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<v Speaker 5>We just spent a lovely time with Jesse Tyler Ferguson,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't know, is there anything we didn't find

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<v Speaker 5>out anything We don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you got very comprehensive.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you very.

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<v Speaker 8>There was one thing about Jesse Tyler Ferguson that I

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<v Speaker 8>just didn't quite under like, why the Tyler?

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<v Speaker 1>Because there was a Jesse Ferguson.

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<v Speaker 8>In the Union, right, So who are the other Jesse

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<v Speaker 8>Ferguson's out there? So I wanted to play a little

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<v Speaker 8>game called Jesse or not Jesse. These are Jesse's that

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<v Speaker 8>don't have the Tyler? And are they real or.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I just make them up? Okay, they're not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>just actors.

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<v Speaker 3>These are Jesse's.

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<v Speaker 8>They could be They're they're Jesse Ferguson.

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<v Speaker 1>I do not understand.

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<v Speaker 3>I tell you right now, Frailer fit real effect.

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<v Speaker 2>This.

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<v Speaker 8>Jesse Ferguson is a retired heavyweight boxer who is best

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<v Speaker 8>known for beating the then undisputed heavyweight champion of.

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<v Speaker 1>The World, Buster Douglan.

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<v Speaker 3>True or false? True?

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<v Speaker 1>He does exist. I think that's how you play.

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<v Speaker 3>No no chills, Okay, go.

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<v Speaker 9>Ahead, almost get you Jesse Tickler Ferguson is an American

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<v Speaker 9>drag performer who is known for celebrating and fabulolizing classic

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<v Speaker 9>Jesse Tyler Ferguson characters.

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<v Speaker 8>Such as Mitchell Pritchett, Marvin from High School, Musical Ugly,

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<v Speaker 8>Betty's Doctor, Gabe Parcas, and of course the fan favorite

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<v Speaker 8>Francis's True.

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<v Speaker 3>Would work so hard, it wouldn't work so hard.

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<v Speaker 5>And also you would be, you would be. You don't

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<v Speaker 5>want to step on drag performance.

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<v Speaker 3>So also, do you think David is going to take

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<v Speaker 3>all the time to make up all that true?

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<v Speaker 5>False?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, sh Along Jesse Ferguson.

0:37:55.320 --> 0:37:58.560
<v Speaker 10>It's the real life cowboy who inspired the classic nineteen

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<v Speaker 10>fifties Western character Sure pop Along Cassidy, known for his

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<v Speaker 10>clean cut appearances, sasparola, drinking, and of course, his pension

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<v Speaker 10>for never shooting first.

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<v Speaker 3>So it should have been hop Along first. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think this, I don't care, I don't think

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<v Speaker 5>so false false, that is false.

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<v Speaker 1>That is I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I can feel the love.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm only gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>I can feel people tuning out like Drew knocking eat

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<v Speaker 3>over again.

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<v Speaker 1>People love a good game.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll play all right, doesn't exist, so I jumped a

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<v Speaker 3>gun go ahead.

0:38:38.280 --> 0:38:40.400
<v Speaker 1>Known as the Bard of Cornwall.

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<v Speaker 8>This Jesse Ferguson is a Canadian and writes folks song.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I believe it absolutely, if you could read my mind,

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<v Speaker 3>that's that's one hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>That was lovely.

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<v Speaker 3>And strong.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know, by the way, do you know that Jesse? Honestly?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean he does musicals, A lovely singer. Really again,

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<v Speaker 5>big Broadway store?

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<v Speaker 3>Right, yeah, there's no right, yeah, David, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe next week we'll play people named David hop along.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's one. Here's one. Earl Ferguson will be calling you

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<v Speaker 3>later to say, don't do that again or false. Thank you, David,

0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:31.479
<v Speaker 3>thank you, Laurie, thank you, Jesse, Jason and Jesse Jesse

0:39:31.760 --> 0:39:32.960
<v Speaker 3>Tyler Ferguson.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, really, really, that's another episode of really, no really

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<v Speaker 2>comes to a close. You may be wondering other than

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<v Speaker 2>Jason and Jesse won other big stars never won a

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<v Speaker 2>Primetime Emmy Award that Outstanding List in a moment. But first,

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<v Speaker 2>let's thank our guest, Jesse Tyler Ferguson. You can follow

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<v Speaker 2>Jesse at his website Jesse Tyler Ferguson dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>On Instagram, TikTok, and threads.

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<v Speaker 2>He is at Jesse Tyler and you can always check

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<v Speaker 2>out his podcast Dinners on Me with Jesse Tyler, ferguson

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<v Speaker 2>what famous actors doing wonderful work have never been able

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<v Speaker 2>to snag a Primetime Emmy Award?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, other than Jason and Jesse.

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<v Speaker 2>This glorious list of losers includes e Ers, George Klooney,

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<v Speaker 2>Girls creator and star, Lena Dumms, star Trek, the Next

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<v Speaker 2>Generation's Captain, Sir Patrick Stewart, Game of Thrones, Kalisi, Emelia Clark, Ozarks,

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<v Speaker 2>Jason Batedon, House of Guards, First Lady Robin Wright, Both Matts,

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<v Speaker 2>LeBlanc and Perry of Friends Killing Eves, Sandra Oh and

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<v Speaker 2>some of the Biggest Losers SNL's Christian Wig with nine Losses,

0:41:13.520 --> 0:41:16.400
<v Speaker 2>Hugh Laurie of House with ten Losses, House of Lies,

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<v Speaker 2>Don Cheadle Tying with Steve Carell of the Office for

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<v Speaker 2>eleven losses each, and Our Biggest.

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<v Speaker 1>And most Beloved Loser, Star of Murder.

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<v Speaker 2>She wrote, the Late and Great Angela Lansberry, who lost

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<v Speaker 2>a grand total of eighteen Emmy Awards. They may not

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<v Speaker 2>have statues, but they have our hearts. Really No, Really

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