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Speaker 1: It's time to go around the room with Elvis Duran

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Speaker 1: in the morning show. Are we going to go around

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Speaker 1: the room? You won't do that? Yeah? Okay, sorry about that.

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Speaker 1: I would have had I run back to the studio.

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Speaker 1: I've left like a foot like duty footprints all across

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Speaker 1: the house, and so I thought you guys can carry

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Speaker 1: on without me. Let's let's start with Nate. Okay, who's

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Speaker 1: getting his voice back from screaming and having so much

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Speaker 1: fun at Universal. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The thing with losing your voice is sometimes it just

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Speaker 2: happens because you've overused your vocal cords.

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a vocal coach, but I keep getting people

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Speaker 2: asking me or emailing me. You're texting me, I hope

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Speaker 2: you feel better? Yeah, I feel fine. I just don't

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Speaker 2: have a voice. So don't don't automatically assume somebody that

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Speaker 2: sounds like this, you feel awesome?

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Speaker 1: Sick?

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Speaker 4: Are you wishing you well?

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Speaker 1: I'm not yelling? Is that what you're doing. It's actually

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Speaker 1: the reason why you are a horse is because you're

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Speaker 1: in a great mood and scream. It's a good time.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, don't assume I had a great time that's

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Speaker 1: why I sound like this party girl voice is always

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Speaker 1: like a blue ribbon from the night before. It's all good. Hey, God,

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Speaker 1: what's up with you today?

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Speaker 4: So I recently read something about how you know, everybody thinks, oh,

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Speaker 4: the generations below us are so soft, and what the

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Speaker 4: reasoning for that is. And it was interesting. It was because,

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Speaker 4: according to psychologists, people don't want to see their children

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Speaker 4: or friends or you know, relationships. You don't want to

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Speaker 4: see people struggle. So you do more for your child

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Speaker 4: than you should be doing. You're supposed to let them struggle,

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Speaker 4: fall on their face, get back up. That is where

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Speaker 4: self esteem comes from. But instead of letting them build

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Speaker 4: yourself as their self esteem, you're building your own self

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Speaker 4: esteem by constantly doing things for them that make you

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Speaker 4: feel good. And that's not a great thing for all

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Speaker 4: of the people growing up right now. You have to

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Speaker 4: let them fail to get self esteem and not just.

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Speaker 1: Build your own. So I thought that was really interesting.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm very a good point, very nice.

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Speaker 1: I like that, so repeat the heats the most important line.

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Speaker 1: But I want people to hear.

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Speaker 4: That, stop stealing your kid's self esteem by not letting

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Speaker 4: them fall on their face, because it builds your ego

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Speaker 4: to save them. You're hurting them, let them fall.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you got to you gotta just be on your

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Speaker 1: own and learn to swim. I know, either it's it.

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine what it's like being a parent.

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Speaker 4: I can't either. I think it'd be really tough. You

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Speaker 4: see them struggle, you want to help, but sometimes you

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Speaker 4: just gotta let.

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Speaker 1: Them figure it out, all right. My parents they pushed

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Speaker 1: me in the water and told me to swim. They

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Speaker 1: literally did. They literally did. I I know, I sunk

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Speaker 1: to the bottom of the pool and they had to

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Speaker 1: save me. So there's there was a learning mess in

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Speaker 1: there for every way. Hey Scatery, what's on your mind today?

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Speaker 5: Well, just an observation from the weekend, and I think

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Speaker 5: that a lot of us should adopt this.

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Speaker 1: We should all do this.

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Speaker 5: Carry a celebration candle with you wherever you go, like

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Speaker 5: Gandhi does, indeed, because it makes its appearance at the

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Speaker 5: most interesting of times, and you just never know when

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Speaker 5: you need a celebration candle. I saw that no list

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Speaker 5: than three times this weekend. Gon He's like, oh, let's

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Speaker 5: do the celebration candle and she pulls it. A candle

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Speaker 5: out of her purse and whatever it is, she sticks

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Speaker 5: it in something and then we all have a moment

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Speaker 5: with the candle.

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Speaker 1: We did it for Abby's birthday, where else it was awesome.

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Speaker 4: We did it to celebrate dessert one night, just to

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Speaker 4: have dessert.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very nice.

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Speaker 5: Carry celebration candle with you, because, let's face it, I mean,

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Speaker 5: why should you throw them out after.

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Speaker 1: You use them on a cake light? It was a

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Speaker 1: lot of fun. She whipped that candle out at every

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Speaker 1: fun and some really sad situation. I support this celebration cue.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate that it's important to celebrate things.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna say. I love that. It's my number one

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Speaker 1: real Hey Danielle, what's up with you today?

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Speaker 6: I would just like to thank everyone with their pay

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Speaker 6: for their patients.

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Speaker 4: Today.

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Speaker 6: I am struggling with this foot. I don't know what

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Speaker 6: I did to it. I did it yesterday. I'm not

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Speaker 6: sure what it is. This is a foot that's always

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Speaker 6: given me a problem for years. So now today I'm

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Speaker 6: gonna have to go and looked at because it's crazy.

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Speaker 6: But it's taking me two times the amount of time

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Speaker 6: to get to the damn bathroom and back. And so

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Speaker 6: thank you for your patients kind people. I don't know

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Speaker 6: what to do about my walk today. I'm gonna have

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Speaker 6: to peloton it with the other part of my foot.

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Speaker 1: We'll cover for you.

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Speaker 6: Thanks, I appreciate it. But yeah, foot doctors. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 6: coming to somebody today who will.

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Speaker 1: Take me all right? Yeah get that taking care because

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Speaker 1: I know you love your daily walk, Foggy, what's up

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Speaker 1: with you?

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm not normally a winker like somebody who

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Speaker 3: winks at people normally, Well, there's no way to do

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Speaker 3: the wink that's not creepy. So this morning I did

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Speaker 3: something for someone here at the radio station, and I

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Speaker 3: went in to give them what I had picked up,

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Speaker 3: and they were on the air. I couldn't say you're welcome.

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Speaker 3: They gave me like a like you know, they now

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Speaker 3: thank you, and so I kind of nodded my head

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Speaker 3: and I realized I inadvertently winked at them. I went

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Speaker 3: back and apologized. There is no way to wink that

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Speaker 3: is not creepy. I feel like the only person on

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Speaker 3: this show that still winks is Nateker.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, charming and no, in the right situation, it works.

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Speaker 2: I feel Okay, when does that because do you nod

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Speaker 2: your head when you wink.

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Speaker 1: I kind of cock my head as well, But you're

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Speaker 1: supposed to do that thing where you're like cock your

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Speaker 1: head a little like you do and make a big

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Speaker 1: wink like a but ah like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's we kind of having another stroke when I do,

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Speaker 2: I can't really do.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 1: Next time you wink, we're gonna ask if you're having

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Speaker 1: a stroke or just being charming? Uh, scary? What's up

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Speaker 1: with you? I already went, Oh you did? What're you

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Speaker 1: talking about?

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Speaker 5: I talked about the celebration candle that got the other

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Speaker 5: is that way you did?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was the best one. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm out of it. I'm still cleaning my toes. I

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Speaker 1: love I love how people assume here's where we're all

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Speaker 1: guilty about something in life. Sometimes we assume we know

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Speaker 1: why things happen, and we paint the picture in our

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Speaker 1: minds and we so it's like, uh, where did the

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Speaker 1: text go? Where did it go? Why aren't Elvis's dog's

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Speaker 1: potty trained and not pooping in the house? Well, first

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Speaker 1: of all, I'm I don't potty trained dogs. I've never

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Speaker 1: heard that term with a dog before. Secondly, are you

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Speaker 1: sure you know exactly what the circumstances were were my

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Speaker 1: dog pooed in the in the house, because please let

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Speaker 1: me know, because I'd like to know what you There

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Speaker 1: are people assuming my dogs are just crapping all over

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Speaker 1: the house. I guess so, yes, but yeah, well they're not.

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Speaker 6: Remember the Osbournes back in the day, we watched the Osborne's.

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Speaker 6: They all those dogs pooped everywhere in the house. It

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Speaker 6: was crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, one of my dogs was in a room and

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Speaker 1: for some reason, the door closed and they were locked

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Speaker 1: in the room. It was a bathroom, so they pooed

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Speaker 1: on the on the floor and there. So no, it's

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Speaker 1: not a situation where I have dog crap all over

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Speaker 1: my house. I can squalor not telling people. I love

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Speaker 1: being a squalor. But my point is this. You know

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Speaker 1: when we we read about celebrities doing this and that

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Speaker 1: we allmanatically assume that what we're reading is true, and

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Speaker 1: it sometimes isn't and sometimes we like to finish the

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Speaker 1: stories ourselves, and when you don't know what we're talking about,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, I think this is a lesson.

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to teach myself stop assuming things, because

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Speaker 1: assuming is not always good for you. It makes an

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Speaker 1: ass and me, thank you scary. I was gonna try

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Speaker 1: to get through that without saying that, but you did,

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Speaker 1: and it's fine, totally fine. But how many times have

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Speaker 1: you assumed something and then you learn later that you're like,

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Speaker 1: oh wow, my assumptions were way off on that. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna go back to cleaning the crep

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Speaker 1: between my toes? Is your toenail?

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Speaker 4: Do you have a long enough toenail?

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Speaker 1: No? No, no, no no no, I'm good there. It

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Speaker 1: was just between the toes