1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: Somebody on this show needs your help. It's a Jewble show. 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: And look, if you listen to the Jewel Show, we're 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: one big, weird family. So if you were fill alone 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: out there, remember you're not alone, because you've got a 5 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: bunch of strange brothers and sisters and aunts and uncles 6 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: and kissing cousins out there who listen to this show 7 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: on a daily basis, and we help our listeners out 8 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: from time to time. But now one of the people 9 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: on this show desperately needs your advice. Who is it 10 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: and what do they need your help with? You'll find 11 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: out right after this. It's the Jewble Show. Someone in 12 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: your family needs help right now. It's a Jewele show. 13 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: And I say that because everybody that listens to the 14 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: show is part of one big family. From all the 15 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 1: creepy truck driving uncles to the nosey bus driving aunts 16 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: who want to tell us how to live our lives 17 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 1: we love them, to our nine to five office working 18 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: brothers and sisters who steal our undies because theirs we're 19 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: in the wash. Oh well, by the way, I need 20 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: my favorite pair back. I got plans tomorrow, so these 21 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: return them to the radio station. That's not weird anyway. 22 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: As part of our family, from time to time, one 23 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: of our try needs help. And today that's none other 24 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: than our own Victoria Ramirez challenge. 25 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 2: Not even I didn't say that. It was like, why 26 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: am I even listening to begin with? You're a virgin, 27 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 2: you can't try, So. 28 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: What's the issue that you're dealing with? They need our 29 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: help with. 30 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 2: Look, I need your help because I'm not I'm not 31 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 2: really sure if I have a date tonight or not. 32 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 3: I'm very confused about the whole things tonight. 33 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 2: Well we yes, yes, I cancel on this man so 34 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 2: many times. Oh my gosh, you can't give here. 35 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: Victorian made a comment earlier today in studio that she's 36 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: not sure if she has a date tonight. I still 37 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: don't know what that means. What do you mean you're 38 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: not sure if you have a date tonight? 39 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 2: Well, okay, so let me explain. So there's a guy 40 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: that I met when I got this job, right like 41 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 2: we all like moved here for our jobs. He has 42 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 2: a pretty good job. But that but so I met 43 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: him way back when a few years ago and normally 44 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 2: only see him whenever we're like big parties. Happened, But 45 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 2: one hadn't happened in a while, and so then I 46 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 2: saw him like a month ago. It was very random, 47 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, hey, how's it going. And 48 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: he's asked me to like hang up before for like 49 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 2: happy hour, but we just never did. And then when 50 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: I was at this party, like he asked me again. 51 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: He's like, hey, like we should like hang out get 52 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: some happy hour or something else, like yeah, cool, Like 53 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 2: I'm down. 54 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: Then you're thinking, just he's just a friend, Yeah, the 55 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 1: dude that you know. 56 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 2: Yes, I was thinking he just like wants to like 57 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: hang out more like be friends, like he's more people 58 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: to hang out with. So I said yes, and then 59 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: thinking it probably wouldn't have on, but then he actually 60 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 2: hit me up about it, so I agreed. That was 61 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: the first time we're supposed to get happy hour. Then 62 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 2: I think I canceled the first time, he canceled the 63 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:49,839 Speaker 2: second time. It was kind of going back and forth, 64 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,679 Speaker 2: and now it's like we're on number five and I've 65 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 2: canceled for a sixth last weekend, and I felt bad. 66 00:02:55,880 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 2: But also he suggested like recently going to Frozen yog 67 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 2: at like four o'clock. That's cute. 68 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: Though those who get frozen yoga at four o'clock. Honey, 69 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: that's cute. But so wait, so you're not sure if 70 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: it's a date or not? 71 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:08,119 Speaker 3: Though? 72 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 2: And yes, I'm not sure because like, originally it was 73 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 2: happy hour drinks, like I don't know, workers restferral, let's 74 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 2: just like let loose, But now it's frozen yogurts. Me 75 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 2: feels different. 76 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 3: But this is the seventh redo. Well that's a great sign. 77 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 3: But I think that's a great What do you want 78 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 3: to date him? Or do you want to be friends? 79 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 3: Because if you don't want to date him, then you 80 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 3: don't want to be going on a date, right, Yeah, but. 81 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 2: Like I don't want to date. I've never had it 82 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 2: in my head to date this man. But I'm not. 83 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to close myself. Are you sure if 84 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: it's a date? 85 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 2: No, that's my issue, Like are we going happy hour 86 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: or we have only been flirty with you anything that 87 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 2: would make you think that it's a date? 88 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: Or are you just assuming that because he asked you 89 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: out it's a date. 90 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 3: No, that's not just me, No, it's also me jubol. 91 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,119 Speaker 3: Come on, let's think about this. How many men yourself 92 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 3: included do you know that would consistently hit up a woman, 93 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: and if he didn't have intentions to spend more time 94 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 3: or explore what your relationship could possibly I've known a 95 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 3: few it would. 96 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: I've had some friends that just hang out with women 97 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: all the time, and they really actually don't, they're actually 98 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: just friends. It always surprised me when I meet them 99 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: because they're like, I'm hanging out with my friends. I 100 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: show up, it's a girl. I'm like, you're trying to yeah, Like, no, 101 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: it's my friend. What are you talking about? I'm like, 102 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: you're a weird dude. Okay, but most guys probably yeah, 103 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 1: it's a date, but you're just not sure. 104 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 2: But what if he's asking me, like during the weekdays 105 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: in between he's like, oh, like, how's your week going? 106 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 2: He'll ask me how my weekend was, how's work? 107 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: Like okay, so he's starting to talk to you like that. 108 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: He definitely wants to date. 109 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 2: He he asks me, this is a date? How do 110 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 2: you know it's a date? Again? 111 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 3: In my experience, there is no man that is going 112 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 3: to consistently hit like hit you up to ask about 113 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 3: your day and give you a seventh chance. If he's 114 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 3: not in seventh chance to reschedule a date seven times 115 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 3: is excessive, but I don't need to do that with 116 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 3: my best friends. And when you have a guy that's 117 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 3: texting you, he'll really that is the sign. And when 118 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 3: I say if he's into you, you will know this 119 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 3: is one of those moments. You're just being a little 120 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 3: knife in my opinion. 121 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: Okay, but he also canceled a few times, like I 122 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 2: did not cancel seven just so we're all clear, but 123 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 2: I will say I told him I was going to 124 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 2: text him back. So I canceled this last weekend because 125 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 2: I went on a trip. Okay, who cares about all that? 126 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 2: Can you read the date him or not? Like it 127 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: would it be bad if you went out with them? 128 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 2: Would or do you want to be friends with him? 129 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: Like? 130 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: Are you interested in him? 131 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 2: He made? I mean, he's funny and he makes me laugh, 132 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 2: so like I yes, yes and no, yes, yes I 133 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 2: don't Okay. 134 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 3: The reason why she says no, just to like translate, 135 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 3: is because you just don't date even though you want to. 136 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: Anytime a man comes in, you're like, I don't have 137 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 2: time for this. Usually I don't have time. I got 138 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 2: things to do, and they annoy me too much. They 139 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 2: like always want to hang out or always want to 140 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 2: hit me up, or always want to go to the moment, right, 141 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 2: So yeah, that kind. 142 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 3: Of But you're crying when's no nobody's doing that. You're like, 143 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 3: nobody wants to see me, nobody. I'm not dating anybody. 144 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 3: I want to date somebody. So do you want to 145 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 3: go out with him? If it is a date? I? Yeah, 146 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 3: I I know, No I yeah, So are we doing 147 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 3: it anyway? 148 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: So it doesn't matter. 149 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:18,799 Speaker 1: So we're gonna find out how it goes. 150 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 2: Oh it's so true. Yeah. 151 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: So like if he kisses you and. 152 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: They wouldn't pull back, I'd run. 153 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie