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Speaker 1: One h three five KIM, Chicago's number one hit music station,

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Speaker 1: Fred Nancy are on Today. We learned the Florida residents

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Speaker 1: and visitors might be surprised to see Christmas decorations before July.

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Speaker 1: Some Orlando area home improvement decorations stores already setting the

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Speaker 1: mood for the big holiday, not Independence Day, but Christmas.

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Speaker 1: There are several stores. Hobby Lobby, for example, hasn't gone

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Speaker 1: full blown Christmas. Fifteen percent of the decorations are out already,

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Speaker 1: though in a few weeks though, they'll be shouting it

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Speaker 1: from the chimney with the holiday decor on display. So

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Speaker 1: we're talking July they're gonna have the Christmas decorations. Home

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Speaker 1: Depot already has some decorations in their stories lows and

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Speaker 1: Orlando most decorations available on the website for at home pickup.

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Speaker 1: So we're talking about and then I don't know why

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Speaker 1: this is an article from Orlando, but they're talking about

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Speaker 1: how July they're already gonna be Christmas decorations on display.

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Speaker 1: Which even though it's my favorite time of year, my

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Speaker 1: favorite fall is my favorite time year. I love Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: I love Halloween, I love Christmas, I love all that stuff,

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Speaker 1: everything about it. I love the weather. I love the

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Speaker 1: leaves if you get leaves, I love everything. But I

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Speaker 1: don't want to see it until. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: see it till October one. I don't want to see

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Speaker 1: it untill after Halloween, like up until Halloween, like let's

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Speaker 1: have appropriate holiday themed displays, and then after Halloween go

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Speaker 1: for it, and then I don't want to see it

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Speaker 1: past January. First. It's okay. I'm a little bite in

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Speaker 1: the air, and I'm okay with starting to see Christmas

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Speaker 1: stuff just kind of all all together fall I kind of,

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Speaker 1: you know, clump it together, show me some leaves, show

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Speaker 1: me some reaths. Stuff can start smelling like pine. I'm fine,

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Speaker 1: okay with this as we transition. But when when is

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Speaker 1: when are we cool with the holiday decorations because I

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Speaker 1: don't want to see it in July, November, first day

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Speaker 1: after Halloween. I don't want to see it in August.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see in September. I don't want

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Speaker 1: to see it in January either. For sections, I think

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Speaker 1: you'd have until January seventh, by the way, yeah, to

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Speaker 1: take down. Yeah, I think you got a full week.

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Speaker 1: I think it's three kings day, you get a full

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Speaker 1: week to take your Christmas stuff down. Because if my

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Speaker 1: mom doesn't take the Christmas tree down like immediately after Christmas,

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Speaker 1: she waits a couple of days. I think she waits

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Speaker 1: to like maybe after New Year's I wait till New

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Speaker 1: Year's Day, Yeah, and take it all down New Years tad.

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Speaker 1: I'm too hungover on New Year'sday to do anything, so

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Speaker 1: I need the extended the next couple of days, um,

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Speaker 1: right down. She's like the grint. I can't I can't

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Speaker 1: wait once Christmas is over. I can't wait to take

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Speaker 1: is coming. A lot of money for that Christmas first

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Speaker 1: sat Sucker's going to stay up till you get a

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Speaker 1: live tree that's a couple hundred bucks or whatever it is. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hey Taylor, Hey Taylor, wayn should be Christmas decorations go out? Um.

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Speaker 1: I think Andrew's right. Probably after Halloween is when I

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Speaker 1: want to see them. Yeah, but I understand why they're

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Speaker 1: out right now, because like, as a broke college kid,

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Speaker 1: I totally get the fact that I want to start

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Speaker 1: early to buy stuff little by little. Well that makes sense,

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Speaker 1: I guess it's ridiculous. And if you're doing like a

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Speaker 1: Griswold style light display, you probably have to start planning

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Speaker 1: that early. You want to start putting because you don't

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Speaker 1: want to say if you're gonna have the full animatronic

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Speaker 1: like you know, music match lights, that takes a while.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna start buying gifts soon because I'm expensive that

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Speaker 1: I do. And actually I buy gifts kind of like

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Speaker 1: all year, and I have this like area where I

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Speaker 1: put little gifts in case I need them for somebody. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wish I were that would organized, Thank you, Taylor,

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Speaker 1: have a good day. You know what happens, I'd wind

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Speaker 1: up buying gifts for people and then keeping them like

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Speaker 1: it's too early for me. I'm keeping this one. Hey, Brittany, Brittany,

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Speaker 1: you want to see Christmas decorations year round? I mean no,

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Speaker 1: I love them up all the time. I actually at

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Speaker 1: not trying to see a Christmas wreath right now. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to Santa Clause inflatable in your yard right now.

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Speaker 1: Christmas is my favorite time with a little same at

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Speaker 1: Christmas in July. I'm all about it. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Brittany, thank you. I feel like it loses

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Speaker 1: its specialness when we like do it way early. You

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Speaker 1: seventy five days of Christmas, not quite ninety, not quite

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Speaker 1: three months. I'm talking two and a half months at Christmas.

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Speaker 1: I'm okay with that. One or three five Kids FM,

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Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. It's Fred and Angie.

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Speaker 1: I want to know, have you ever ghosted a job?

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Speaker 1: Because this is a trend. Apparently more professionals than ever

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Speaker 1: are ghosting at work? Did you ever just stop going

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Speaker 1: which no discussion about it, like, oh here comes rufio. Yes,

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Speaker 1: did you ever? I think MJ did this? Well. I

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Speaker 1: have a lot of stories about MJ. For some reason.

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Speaker 1: Our a former producer, he um, I think he ghosted

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Speaker 1: his Abercrobbie and Fitch job. Yeah, if they asked him,

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Speaker 1: he got Abercrobbie and Fitch. He I talked about him

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Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about him. But he Um. He went

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Speaker 1: They told him to fold shirts and he walked out.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what he thought. He was the man

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Speaker 1: and the guy, the shirtless guy in the doorway. Yeah

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Speaker 1: you know, no, No, you ghosted a job. Yeah. When

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Speaker 1: I worked at McDonald's, so um. I made it all

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Speaker 1: I didn't go. And you never went back to the

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Speaker 1: other story either. No, like they didn't want me to

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Speaker 1: go back to the thist. I was just like, wow, done.

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Speaker 1: Did they call you? Like, oh yeah, They're like you

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Speaker 1: I never went. More professionals are ghosting at work, which

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Speaker 1: apparently is frustrating many companies as labor markets tighten recruiters

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Speaker 1: and hiring managers that they're experiencing a surge of workers.

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Speaker 1: There are no showing interviews or accepting a job to

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Speaker 1: never appear for the first day of work, giving no reason.

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Speaker 1: Some employees are even quitting by walking out and saying

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Speaker 1: absolutely nothing an explanation. Why. Where Once it was companies

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Speaker 1: ignoring job applicants or snubby candidates after interviews, the world

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Speaker 1: has now flipped. Apparently, candidates agree to job interviews, then

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Speaker 1: no reason given. Of course, instead of formally quitting, enduring

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Speaker 1: and never return. Bosses realize they've quit only after a

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Speaker 1: begins again. Among younger generations, ghost has almost become a

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Speaker 1: new vocabulary in which no response is a response. Now

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Speaker 1: the same behavior is happening in the job market as well.

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Speaker 1: M When I was nineteen, I did it. I went

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Speaker 1: I never took it. But it wasn't the same as

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Speaker 1: like just not showing up. Ever. Yeah, I don't think

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Speaker 1: I don't think I ever just didn't stop going. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to think I've ever done that, because then I

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Speaker 1: feel so bad. I guess there's no repercussion though. Really,

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Speaker 1: if you already have another job, But the problem with

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Speaker 1: gonna have a reference, you know, because like you're I

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Speaker 1: don't know, if we hired somebody here, I'd probably be like, well,

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Speaker 1: But if they did and then you had ghosted the job,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that would be very good on you.

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Speaker 1: I would be afraid I wouldn't get my last paycheck

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Speaker 1: I don't know if they're gonna mail it to me

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Speaker 1: out of spite. Um. I guess there's a real thing

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Speaker 1: But do you get the Sunday Evening Blues? No? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I used to get the Sunday Evening Blues. Um, I

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Speaker 1: did she did she did your job? Did she goes

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Speaker 1: I love you guys. You work in HR. People do this,

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Speaker 1: they ghost jobs. I would call people for interviews and

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Speaker 1: that's what it isn't There just is a surplus of job.

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Speaker 1: I think so. But at the same time, then I

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Speaker 1: hear back from this person again like oh, I'm so sorry,

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Speaker 1: Like I adn't see your email or your or your message.

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Speaker 1: It is just also very unprofessional. That means I didn't

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Speaker 1: get the other job and exactly. But I think the

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Speaker 1: position where I'm still in HR. But this girl that

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Speaker 1: then she goes to un an hour lunch, she just

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Speaker 1: never comes back. Where is this person and her name

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Speaker 1: was which worse? So I'm like, Susan, Why is it

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Speaker 1: worse where? Yeah? Like than Susan, Susan. Um, go back

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Speaker 1: to work, Susan, thank you? So I have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Take off for lunch never comes. Um. So this is

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Speaker 1: I invite you to my house a bunch of people

425
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 1: were nosy as people I work with, and I don't

426
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 1: get there first. I say, go ahead, just go in

427
00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:10,840
Speaker 1: my house. I assume you're going to go through something

428
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,359
Speaker 1: I do. Why would you do that? Now, let me

429
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 1: ask you this question, Like and you say you've never

430
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 1: done it. You say you've never done it. I have

431
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 1: definitely been at a girl's house before, and like, open

432
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 1: the medicine cabinet, I don't open. When I started dating

433
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 1: my husband, I went in his drawer when he got

434
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,199
Speaker 1: him to go to the bathroom. One time. I went

435
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 1: through his drawer, found a bunch of condoms whatever. I

436
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 1: don't care, but I was dating him. Girls do that

437
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 1: with adicine anybody. For the record, I won't go under

438
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 1: the sink because the uh, the tampons are there. That's

439
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. The under the sink area, I don't

440
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: mess with that because you'll see a bunch of feminine

441
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:48,879
Speaker 1: gannet mess that. But I will go in the medicine

442
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 1: cabinet and look just just just kind of peak, see

443
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:54,159
Speaker 1: what's in there, See what somebody you're dating. Oh, but

444
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 1: you're not gonna go you go into my house and

445
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 1: go through my medicine cabinet. I don't know. No, I

446
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 1: will not, I wouldn't. I'm not gonna do it with

447
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 1: people that you're like friends with. But it's just my question,

448
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 1: is it any different? Is it any different if if

449
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 1: a friend, if you if you're in someone's bathroom and

450
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: you just kind of peak peaks snoop. From an invasion

451
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 1: of privacy standpoint, versus if you're dating somebody and you

452
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 1: peak peak snoop, it's the same thing. I don't think

453
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: it's the same invasion of privacy. You don't have any

454
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 1: more or less of a right to do that. Oh,

455
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 1: you're right, Well, if you're dating, or if you're just

456
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 1: a friend, or if you're just a guest, you have

457
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 1: no no more or less of a right to snoop.

458
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's cool. Correct, So we agree on that.

459
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 1: We agree on that. I just would never know. It

460
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: was my only point. It's different. You're saying you've never snoop,

461
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 1: but it turns out you have, and then what you

462
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: did is no different. Consider that the same. We just

463
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: agreed it is well the same my definition, it's the same.

464
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 1: But I don't I don't feel it's the same. Get

465
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:57,400
Speaker 1: out of here. It's the same invasion of privacy. Hey, Karen, Hi, Karen, Karen.

466
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 1: If you go through somebody's stuff without their knowledge, friends

467
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 1: or otherwise, it's the same invasion of privacy. Yeah, I

468
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: would never do anything like that, Okay, but if you did,

469
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 1: it's no different. You're not any more justify it because

470
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 1: you've dated them than if you're not. It's not cool

471
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 1: either way. I mean, if something, yeah, it's be a

472
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 1: different story. But I will tell you something. It feels

473
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 1: worse to me for some reason that if you fred

474
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: invite me to your house and I go through your things,

475
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 1: then if I'm sleeping over at my boyfriend's house he

476
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:31,719
Speaker 1: gets up to go to the bathroom and I look

477
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 1: in his nightstand, I think I feel like it's different.

478
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 1: Let me tell you why what you're saying is worse.

479
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 1: What you're saying is worse because if I'm dating you,

480
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 1: then then there's a certain level of trust that I'm

481
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: allowing for you to be in my home, right so

482
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 1: I might give you a little more leeway. Let me

483
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:49,360
Speaker 1: tell you something right now, I have nothing to hide,

484
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 1: But I am sure as hell not inviting all of

485
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 1: you over to my house to arrive, especially Rufio before

486
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 1: before I get there, you guys, I am not ever

487
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 1: handing you guys the keys and say go to my house.

488
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: I'll be there in twenty minutes, because I can guarant

489
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: damn te, Ruffy, we're gonna go through all my stuff.

490
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. Yeah, I would do that with

491
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: I would do that with someone I'm dating. And now,

492
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: while in the back of my mind I would anticipate

493
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: they are going to snoop on all my stuff, I

494
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 1: would hope that you wouldn't and if you did that,

495
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 1: you wouldn't hold it against me because we have a

496
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: higher level of trust because we're romantically involved. Is rife

497
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: as a post to my friends. I assume my friends

498
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: are gonna look for some sort of blackmail on me.

499
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I could show that could be bad people.

500
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: I can just tell you right now that if my

501
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: friends found a seventeen foot double doogger in my house,

502
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: that they would love to be able to use that.

503
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 1: A yest me that they would love to be able

504
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: to use that against me. And I don't mean that

505
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: as like to be horrible people. I think they would

506
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: do it to be funny. But I'll be damned if

507
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna let people in my house before I

508
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,959
Speaker 1: get there, and I'm also like my guest bathroom, I'm

509
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: seeing that, Ruffy, you're gonna learn about woman on this

510
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 1: shuff my guest bath room. There's nothing in there incriminating

511
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 1: because I assume that people open the thing because people

512
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 1: have We are nosy people and we have an infinite curiosity.

513
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: Man never inviting anybody to my house ever. Again well

514
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: again again, I don't think it's any different. I just

515
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: I really don't why they get blown off. You will

516
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: find out now in waiting by the phone with Fred

517
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,239
Speaker 1: and Nanjie. How you doing, Greg? Very well? Thanks? Are

518
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 1: you guys very well? Welcome to Fred, Nanjie Kalin's here

519
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: as well. We're doing waiting by the phone and I

520
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 1: have your email here about Macy. Tell us how you

521
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 1: met and about you know, your date or dates and

522
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 1: where you guys stand now. Yeah, so we met like

523
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 1: a few months ago, but we didn't actually start you know,

524
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: we didn't actually like go on a date until probably

525
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 1: ago week ago. And I mean it was just a

526
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: regular day. You know. We went out for drinks. Um,

527
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 1: well we had we went to a restaurant, had something

528
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 1: or went then we went out for some drinks and

529
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: you know, we're having a great time. I thought we

530
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: had really good chemistry and yeah, I mean we ended

531
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: up kind of going back to her place. Looked up. Okay,

532
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: I hung out. I hung out for a little while,

533
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: and uh yeah, I just I don't know. I haven't

534
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: heard from her. I have no idea what's going on. Wow.

535
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,719
Speaker 1: So and you thought the hook up went well, I mean,

536
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 1: no weird stuff like you didn't pull any kind of

537
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: I don't know wild animals or I don't know any

538
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: sort of weirdness. It was all just sort of I

539
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 1: don't know, status quo. Yeah. I mean my thing is

540
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: I always I always think that I say something that's

541
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: gonna ruin it. But I mean I was like, I

542
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: felt like I was a spot on the entire night.

543
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 1: Like I said, I mean, everything felt, you know, like

544
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: it went really well. Just yeah, yeah, Greg was in this.

545
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: He was in all right. Well, this is where we

546
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: come in. We're gonna call Macy. You'll be on the phone.

547
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: We'll ask her a few questions. We'll see if we

548
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 1: can figure out what's going on straight out whatever the

549
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: problem is, if there is one, Maybe she's been busy,

550
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 1: who mean, took you while to get together. Maybe you know,

551
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,640
Speaker 1: she's just a slow mover. Who knows. But we asked

552
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 1: these questions. At some point definitely jump in. Hopefully we

553
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 1: can straighten this whole thing out and get you guys

554
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,479
Speaker 1: going on another date and pay for that. Okay, all right,

555
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: perfect Part two waiting by the phone. You've got to

556
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: hear what ghost out? We'll do it in three minutes

557
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: on Kiss one of three five, Kiss FM, Chicago's number

558
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: one hit me as a station. Good morning, it's Fred

559
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 1: and Angie waits on. Greg wants to know what happened.

560
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: He was in the zone. He thought this date was

561
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:26,360
Speaker 1: going so well, except well he's been ghosted. Why Hello, Hey,

562
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 1: is this Macy? Yes, this is I may see. It's

563
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 1: Fred and Angie and Kaylin calling from the morning radio

564
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 1: show on Kiss FM. I'm sorry to bother, but I

565
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: have to tell you before we go any further with

566
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 1: the call, that we are on the radio and I

567
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: need your permission to keep talking, is said, Okay, if

568
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: we keep going. Um sure, okay, well thank you. Um

569
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 1: what was that second part? What'd you say? I said,

570
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: as long as I'm that because you are. I just

571
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 1: want to make sure you know. Um. We'll get right

572
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,199
Speaker 1: to We're calling about a guy who says he met

573
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 1: you on a dating app named Greg. You guys went

574
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: on the date and uh, he says, he hold out

575
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: at your house for a while. Do you remember this guy? Yes,

576
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: I do remember Greg very well. Okay, Well, what's going

577
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: on with Greg? Because he wanted to know he thought

578
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: the day went well and he thought everything was was

579
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: was fine and he hasn't heard from you, and he

580
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 1: was hoping a week you kind of interviewed and find

581
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 1: out why you haven't called him. Well, the reason Okay,

582
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 1: the date was super fun. Um, he's a great guy,

583
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: and I mean, you believe the city has to do,

584
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 1: but he's a great way. Oh, these are all good says.

585
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: So what's the problem. Well, the problem, guys is that, um,

586
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: when I left for work, we stayed at my place.

587
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: We came back to my place, Um, and I worked

588
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: in the morning and I thought I would be cool

589
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: and I let him sleep in and he's like, oh yeah,

590
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 1: I just you know, because I had to get up early.

591
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 1: And that's fine. Um, he stayed in my apartment all day. Okay,

592
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: when yeah, when did he finally leave? Oh until I

593
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: got home around like at night, Yes, at night. Oh,

594
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: I was getting text messages throughout the day, like because

595
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,239
Speaker 1: the first time I was kind of cute it's like, oh, hey,

596
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: where's the coffin? You know that's okay? So um, you know.

597
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: So I was like trying to help him get coffee

598
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: and things. And then it was like two an afternoon

599
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: and he was like, hey, so what's up? This cheese

600
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 1: looks bad? Can I just scrape off the bolt? Like?

601
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: For real? Wait? Are you serious? Eating you guys? I

602
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 1: have the text. I can show you the text message

603
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: I was showing my girlfriends on the whole week after

604
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: So he just stayed all day. So then you get

605
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: home and then what do you say then? Like, what

606
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: are you still doing here? Well, it would have been

607
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: I first of all, in my mind, I was like,

608
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: maybe he's like cleaning, you know, I thought maybe he's

609
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: It was the opposite. I came. I got home at

610
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: seven thirty. I promise you he was in my bed,

611
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 1: in your bed eating? Who's eating? Okay? I forgot to

612
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: mention macgreg is here? Let me bring Greg and Greg?

613
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Like at some point you're supposed

614
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: to leave? Yeah? I mean, I just I didn't think

615
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: it was a big deal hanging out like all day? Yeah,

616
00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: I mean, did you have no place to beat? The

617
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: She's good that she's good, like you're not supposed to

618
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: move in, like you know maybe I don't know. I

619
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: have some coffee and then you leave and then you

620
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: go about your day at your place too. It was insane.

621
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: So how'd you find him out? I just welly the

622
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: promise of another date, but I thought I had to

623
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: shower for oh my god. So he finally left, dude,

624
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: So I guess that's like way beyond sort of boundaries

625
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: for that point. I mean, like at that point of

626
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: you guys just Matt just hooked up, Like it's one thing.

627
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: I actually think it's pretty generous. She let you stay

628
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: at her bed and left kind of a stranger in

629
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: her house, not to mention twelve hours later you're still there, right.

630
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: I started like, dude, this is just insane. You don't

631
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: get the head Like I was like, oh well, what

632
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: another time obviously, like it's like getting him out of

633
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: the bed, But this is like, do you have a

634
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: place to live? I'm not sure to be intensitive, but

635
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Speaker 1: do you have a place to live? Like I felt badly,

636
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Speaker 1: but it's wear are you are you actually hopeless or something? Greg?

637
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: Do you have your own place? Yeah? Place? Going there?

638
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: All right? Look, so she didn't like it. Greg. It

639
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 1: felt like, you know, you didn't know your boundaries. Is

640
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: there any way may see that we can look past

641
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: that now he knows what's up. Can we send you

642
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 1: guys on another day. Didn't pay for it. I'm gonna

643
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: give that a hard pass, but thank you so much.

644
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: Hard pass? All right, Greg? All right, Well, I mean

645
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Speaker 1: I appreciate you guys trying. I mean, I'm happy, I

646
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: know now I did. I just I honestly just did

647
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: not think is that big of a deal. But don't

648
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: do that again. Yeah. Sorry, I had to set outside

649
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: of my office, stakes the call, Greg. That was I

650
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: walked outside of the building, stake the call, and then

651
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: to leave the building. See, oh wow, how easy it

652
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: is to leave the building. You see she just showed

653
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: you how to do it. Well. Like I said, guys,

654
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: I mean, time just kind of escaped me and I

655
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: was just you know, I was just hanging out. I

656
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: honestly just did not think it was a big deal.

657
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: But oh now I know, now I know for the

658
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: all right, best elected both of you. Thank you for

659
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Speaker 1: your time. All right, Thanks thanks so much. One three

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Speaker 1: five KM, Chicago's number one hit music station. Fred Nancy

661
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Speaker 1: are on. This is from Slate. It's a website, Slate

662
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 1: dot com, and just like an advice column, I guess

663
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: they have it here. The Slate Parenting Facebook group is

664
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: where this is from. It says, my husband and I

665
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: have always been fairly fashionable and working fields that reflect that.

666
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 1: I'm an interior decorator and he spent twenty years in

667
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: the skate surf fashion industry. Our children, however, are drawn

668
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: towards the most heinous clothing, so I was pulled up

669
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: to their knees, glittery, bedazzled application shirts, patterns on patterns

670
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: on patterns. Where do you draw the line between self

671
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: expression and bad taste? I feel like they know that

672
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: we're bummed out about their clothing selection, and I'm afraid

673
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: that we're going to give them a complex. But I

674
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: also don't want my six year old daughter to look

675
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: like she dressed herself by running through a salvation army.

676
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: Should we draw the line somewhere or keep putting him

677
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Speaker 1: dress like the dude from Lebowski. I was thinking about

678
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: this because I remember that I was my parents when

679
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 1: I was young. They would like, I don't think I

680
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: had anything that I couldn't have put together and looked

681
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: somewhat somewhat organized. I think. I don't think I didn't

682
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: have anything too too crazy. But I don't know that

683
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: they would have told me that I couldn't wear certain stuff.

684
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: But there would have been certain times to wear certain things.

685
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Speaker 1: In certain times not so weird things like to go

686
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: to school, I had to look a certain way. But

687
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: maybe on the weekend, I could, you know, wear whatever

688
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: shoes I wanted or whatever socks I wanted. I don't

689
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: think they would have told me you look bad, you

690
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Speaker 1: shouldn't do that. So I see both sides of this.

691
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Speaker 1: I see how you want your kids to be creative

692
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: and free spirits and to you know, express themselves how

693
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: they want to. At the same time, I understand how

694
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Speaker 1: it is a reflection on you as a parent, and

695
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: so there probably has to be some form of like

696
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: time and place and moderation, right, I mean, not a parent,

697
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I am like all about where would

698
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 1: you want to wear? I mean unless it's like, unless

699
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: my daughter's like boobs or her buddies hanging out. I

700
00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: mean she I don't care if she wears mismatch Salvation

701
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 1: Army big Lubowski. She can dress However, she wants anytime anytime,

702
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: I mean school. She has she has a uniform that

703
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: she has to wear for school. So since she has

704
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: to wear a uniform every day, she likes to get

705
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Speaker 1: a little bit more expressive when she finally does get dressed.

706
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Speaker 1: And it makes sense. So I'm all your out. You

707
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: know you should be a kid. But I guess at

708
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 1: the same time you do want to instill in your child.

709
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Speaker 1: I would guess that there are times to wear certain

710
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Speaker 1: things and times that you don't. I would think, you know,

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Speaker 1: Jessica high, good morning, Good morning, Jessica. So this this

712
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,399
Speaker 1: mom is upset because she thinks that her kids dress

713
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Speaker 1: poorly in it to reflection on them as parents. What

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Speaker 1: do you think, Um, I don't think it's there a

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Speaker 1: time parents. I don't either. My parents had no saying

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Speaker 1: what I wore and I weren't all that um outfit

717
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: was overall and kind of mess. I was in middle school.

718
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: It wasn't like I was funny I wear that. Now? Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: where do you where do you like transition? Like, at

720
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Speaker 1: what point do you tell it? Tell your kids okay now?

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Speaker 1: Or are they supposed to come to that conclusion on

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Speaker 1: their own? If they want to look a certain way. Yeah,

723
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Speaker 1: I think there's SUPs to come to a conclusion on

724
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Speaker 1: their own. I'm a teacher and my kids come to

725
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: school wearing all sorts of things. Yeah, and I know,

726
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: you know, kids. I think it's a great way for

727
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: for kids to you know, have a voice when they're

728
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: you know, kids don't have a lot of saying what

729
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 1: goes on in the world, but they do have like

730
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: a say of how they want to look, and I

731
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Speaker 1: think it's a great way for them to express themselves.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Jessica, Hi, good day, Thank you. If you call, Hey, Brenna,

733
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: good morning, how are you? Hi? Very well, glad you called.

734
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 1: This mom is all upset about her kids and the

735
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: way they dress. They don't have very good taste. I mean,

736
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Speaker 1: don't don't. Isn't that taste sort of shamed by you

737
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: then too? I mean, like if they go if they

738
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Speaker 1: go wearing Mitch mat missmatched stuff into their teens or something,

739
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: is that is that on you for not showing them

740
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: or encouraging them to dress in a different way. You know.

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00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 1: I think if they're young, you gotta let them, you know,

742
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: dress kind of funky. Then they can look back and

743
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: laugh at those pictures left. Yeah, I gotta have a

744
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,720
Speaker 1: blackmail for their wedding. Yeah. Kids are trying to figure

745
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: out who they are, and I think you know, your

746
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: fashion is an expression of that, and they're all just

747
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: trying to find out what their style is and who

748
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: they want to be, what they want to look like. Oh, definitely.

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Speaker 1: I have three younger sis. We used to all wear

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Speaker 1: if pink and green. It was like pink and green

751
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 1: camouflies shirt and skirt, and all three of us we

752
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: would all wear it together. And it looks awful that

753
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 1: she was wondering if you habits, she can have it.

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00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 1: Oh for sure, I'll think it up. I'll set it

755
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 1: over perfect. Thank you, Bretta. Have a good day. Yeah,

756
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 1: glad you called Annie. Hi Annie, Hi, how are you.

757
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: We're doing great? Thanks so much for calling you. This.

758
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: This woman's very upset about the way her kids dress

759
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: and she wants to know how she's supposed to intervene.

760
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: If she's supposed to intervene, I see, personally, I don't

761
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 1: think you need to intervene. When I was younger, I

762
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: had a lot of self The steam is shoes, and

763
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 1: with my children, I let them wear whatever they want.

764
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: As long as they're mud. It's like I taught my daughter.

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00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: You know, if you're leatar doesn't cover it, then you know,

766
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 1: if you're leotard covers that nobody else, right, Okay? And

767
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: I teach them how to match like I do my best,

768
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: Like don't we try to have matching colors, and you

769
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 1: know there's a stripe of block and and everything else

770
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: as neon. But I don't care. My consarn is. I

771
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 1: let them go to school and there the jamas, and

772
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 1: I do make them aware of listen, no one else

773
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:25,879
Speaker 1: that's going to be in their pajamas. Are you sure

774
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: you want to see? Like maybe that's That's what I'm

775
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: thinking about, is exactly that? Like at what point did

776
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: Maybe it's not the style but the kind of clothes,

777
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 1: like the classification of clothes. You can suggest, you know,

778
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: one thing and another, you can try to lead them

779
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: in a certain traction. But I don't think I would.

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00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: I don't think I would straight up be like, no,

781
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: your style is stupid, because honestly, like think about when

782
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: you were okay, when do kids really ever have the

783
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: same style as their bed? I did, exactly, And I

784
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: want my kids to be able to um, I have

785
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 1: self respect and have self expression. And if that's how

786
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,839
Speaker 1: they want to themselves, go for it. I'd rather than

787
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 1: be I'd rather than be healthy in mind and positive

788
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: mental attitudes, ye, and self steam than anything else. I mean,

789
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: I'll make them aware. He and I feel like as

790
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: them if I'm telling them, Okay, you're gonna be the

791
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: only one in pajamas? Are you cool with that? And

792
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: they say yes, And it's my It's just closing them

793
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: and give it and encourage them with the all right,

794
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: It's just I'm a big Doctor SEUs fan, so my

795
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: kid's gonna have all Doctor SEUs everything. So that's the

796
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 1: way it's gonna be. Yeah, they're gonna look like little

797
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,439
Speaker 1: characters from the from hoo Hill every day. It doesn't

798
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 1: matter with them. Yeah, have a good day. Glad you called. Hey, Jeremy,

799
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning Jeremy. You don't let your kids

800
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,799
Speaker 1: choose that they're gonna wear. No, I mean, like, they

801
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: can wear whatever they want, but I'm not gonna like

802
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 1: buy a crazy thing. But they're not having cake for

803
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: breakfast because I don't have take around for breakfast. I see, Okay,

804
00:38:57,160 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: So you you let them choose within parameters, right, I

805
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,760
Speaker 1: think how my mom was too. If you go shopping

806
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: with them and they want to get something that you

807
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: don't approve of, you just don't buy it for them.

808
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: Like if they like a certain style and you're like no, right,

809
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: like I mean with a reason, like they can express themselves.

810
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna buy like a gold sequen backet for

811
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 1: a four year old. Why that's amazing. I don't know

812
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 1: where do they have that I'm making I know, I know,

813
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 1: but that makes sense. I do feel like that was

814
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 1: kind of my upbringing, and I'm probably a little a

815
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: little more intense, a little more anal about things that

816
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: I should be. I'm not necessarily as free spirited as

817
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: I could be. But that was the deal in my house.

818
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: Like if if it was in the house, I could

819
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: wear it, um. But but I didn't have stuff that

820
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: was like really out there because my parents didn't buy

821
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: it for me exactly. Yeah, that makes sense. I thank you, Jeremy.

822
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: I have a good day. As you call they Karen

823
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 1: god I, Karen, welcome to Fred Nancy. How are you great?

824
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: How are you very well? This woman on this slate

825
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: Facebook parenting pages upset because she feels like she and

826
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Speaker 1: her husband have great taste in clothing and her kids

827
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 1: young kids do not, and she's wondering if she's supposed

828
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 1: to intervene or just let them go. I think that

829
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 1: there needs to be intervention, especially when you have a

830
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 1: girl and I have a twelve year old and I

831
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: have a fifteen year old son. I feel like it

832
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Speaker 1: was a daughter because she is maturing. She didn't chip

833
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: some stuff that she didn't have last year. So when

834
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: you have somebody who is developing like that, you can't say, Okay,

835
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Speaker 1: you can't wear or whatever because of it being too tight,

836
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: or if it looking like you're older than what you

837
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: actually are. I think the fit is a little different

838
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 1: than you like the style, you know what I mean? Like,

839
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't want my thirteen year old ass hanging out

840
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 1: of her shorts. That's not going to fly. But right,

841
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: if you want to wear shorts with like elephants and

842
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: like leprecns all over them, I don't care. Right where

843
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: do they have those sorts like the little ragged and

844
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Speaker 1: jaggeds and things like that. I don't care if you

845
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: wear that, But if you start looking like you're in

846
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 1: that versus twelve, yeah, thinks it's different. You know you're

847
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 1: going to be protective of them in that regard for sure, Karen.

848
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: I'm so distracted because tomorrow I'm trying my best to

849
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 1: wear its a gold sequence jacket and leptons and elephants

850
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: on them. I mean, those are amazing shorts. I hope

851
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: I can find them somewhere. Thank you, Karen, those and

852
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 1: your HR policy. People don't say that. Thank you by

853
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: all the wait what we have that you kidding me?

854
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: Thank you, Karen, have a good day. Thank you so

855
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: much for calling one h three five Kiss FM, Chicago's

856
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 1: number one hit music station. Fred Nancy are here. They've

857
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: had this on my list forever. I don't know who's

858
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: brought this up. Was it talking about being cheap and

859
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: when it's okay to be cheap? Was this uk Oen

860
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 1: or somebody else? Was Paulina right here? What is it

861
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: okay to be cheap in your life? Because this is

862
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: what you wrote. Um, as you're getting older, you're realizing,

863
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: Paulina's that spending a few extra dollars to take care

864
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: of yourself, invest in better clothes, were a better brand makeup,

865
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 1: whatever is worth it. But when is it okay to

866
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: be cheape? And when is it and when do you

867
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: splurge and why I'll take both extremes of this. When

868
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: when is it worth it to splurge? And when is

869
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 1: it okay to be cheap? I think it's worth it

870
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: to splurge on like shoes and handbags for women, because like,

871
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: you can dress everything down and be cheap with your outfit,

872
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: but if you got like the right shoes and the

873
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: right back, I mean, it makes it all looks a

874
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: look and then it all looks good. That's true. But

875
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:30,839
Speaker 1: then you know, I was talking to somebody the other

876
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: day and we're talking about gifts for my mom for

877
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: her birthday, and Caitlin Head suggested a gift that I loved.

878
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: Then I went and I would up getting in and

879
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:41,839
Speaker 1: it was sort of a high end and we're talking

880
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: about a different option in the high end shoe area,

881
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: and she was like, yeah, except so many people have

882
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:51,359
Speaker 1: not this particular one off. Yeah that at this point,

883
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,919
Speaker 1: I don't know what which one is the really really

884
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: expensive one and which one is like the you know

885
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: the one that you like, get it, you know, a

886
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: quarter of the value less or whatever, because it's like, oh,

887
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: those are those Gucci. No, there's Steve men that there's

888
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: something wrong with either one, of course, but like why

889
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: would I spend eight hundred dollars when I could get

890
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: the version that looks almost exactly the same, Because you

891
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 1: don't want that one, well, not the status symbol for

892
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: like one hundred and fifty bucks, but either of those

893
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 1: shoes that because well that could be But you could argue, well,

894
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: I would be over it would be okay because I

895
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: can get the same style for a whole lot less.

896
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: You could say that some people would say, I don't

897
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:26,800
Speaker 1: need to buy name brand whatever because I can go

898
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 1: to TJ Max, or I can go to H and

899
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: M R I and go to some of these lesser

900
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: value places and it may not last is long by

901
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:35,320
Speaker 1: the time it wears that I may not want it.

902
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: I do high low with my clothes, but my shoes,

903
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: like you can't do cheap shoes because like you can't

904
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: do that. I don't know, they just fall apart, they

905
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: don't look right. They just look cheap a lot of times.

906
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: Like you know, you if you want to pair of Nikes,

907
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 1: you're not gonna go to like get a pair of

908
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: Snikes that look like, oh, that's true. But but you

909
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 1: know what nikes are like, you know, you're talking one hundred,

910
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars, which is expensive. It is expensive, but

911
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: it's not a thousand, you know, It's not like buying

912
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 1: easies or whatever, which one thousand and twelve hundred bucks.

913
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 1: Well not some of them are when if you can

914
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: get them the first time around, if you have to

915
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: wind up buy them aftermarket, then you're gonna pay a

916
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: whole bunch of money for that. But when is it

917
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: okay to be cheap? And when do you think you

918
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: should splurge? Did you have something? Yeah? Well, I first

919
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:18,879
Speaker 1: of all, I mean I always say this, but it's

920
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: never okay to be cheap. You can be smart with

921
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: your money or frugal, but I can't stand cheap people.

922
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 1: Like if we go out for a birthday dinner or something,

923
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 1: they're like, how much is this? If the birthday you

924
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: you have to just suck it up and spend I

925
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:32,359
Speaker 1: cannot handle people who are accounting things. I think there's

926
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: a difference between cheap, yeah, and just being smart with

927
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: your money. But yeah, cheap drive, Yeah, I mean I don't.

928
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,479
Speaker 1: I don't spend on as much stuff that other people

929
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: I know do, But when I do spend, I'll spend. Yeah, yeah,

930
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 1: I think that's different. You know, it's different to be

931
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: you're right, cheap, being like well I only had the

932
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: salad and I only had one glass of one. You

933
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,800
Speaker 1: had two, so you know which. Probably I get screwed

934
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:57,760
Speaker 1: on that every time because I'll go to couple's dinners

935
00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: by myself and then it's like, well that's what, you know,

936
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: two couples in me. Let's put it three ways. But

937
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna say anything. If they were nice, though,

938
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: they'd be like, well, you know, if I didn't have this,

939
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: or you know, he's not paying for two. But it

940
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: all comes out in the wash eventure because then sometimes

941
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 1: I'll go out with a couple and then they'll pay

942
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: for you know, whatever it is. Whatever. A second, when

943
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,720
Speaker 1: is it okay to be cheap? When should you splur?

944
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:23,280
Speaker 1: J Jason? Yeah, Jason, what do you think? So me personally,

945
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: when whenever I'm going on vacation, that's mostly when nice splur.

946
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: Like if I'm setting a side money for this, like

947
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: I'm going, oh yeah, like you're gonna get the real

948
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: nice hotel. Yeah, that's true. Vacation that often, so you

949
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: may as well treat yourself that yeah. Yeah, Like I

950
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: mean my girlfriend is like the exact offen that, like

951
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: she'll try to like gave by and I'm just like no,

952
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:48,399
Speaker 1: like like through that. Let's but let's let's go buy

953
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: first class ticket and then let's go look at you. Wow. Yeah.

954
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 1: I mean if you want to go once you twice

955
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 1: a year, you may spend some money. I guess if

956
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 1: you got it. Yeah, yeah, I don't feel the same way.

957
00:45:58,440 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 1: I like to treat myself like out of town, I'll

958
00:45:59,920 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 1: go nice restaurant, I'll get a nice hotel, because some

959
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: people would argue, well, don't get a nice hotel, get

960
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 1: a crappy hotel. You're not there that often. And I'm like, noo,

961
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna do it, I like a nice hotel.

962
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I love a nice hotel. Thank you, Jason,

963
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: have a good day, man. Glad you called aliy Hi Ali?

964
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: When's it okay to be cheap? When is it okay

965
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: to splurge? So, being fresh out of college, I found

966
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 1: it's definitely expensive to get business clothing, and nine out

967
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: of the time times when I'm looking for a specific

968
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: outsit or ida, if I hit up good Wheel or

969
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 1: favors or whatever. Um, it's typically I find what I'm

970
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 1: looking for and I'm not stunning an arm and like.

971
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: But I have found that when it comes getting your

972
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: nails done to like your celic from predictors, don't go

973
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 1: anywhere else because otherwise you're gonna end up having to

974
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: pay for what you're getting for and then you're gonna

975
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 1: end up hating it. Yeah, and nails are cheapers, they

976
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 1: absolutely got often don't don't. I don't like the cheap

977
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: the cheaper peep um eyebrow lay because you've getting bad.

978
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 1: Trust me, Regga takes the last time to girl your eyebrows.

979
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 1: They can really f up your whole look, your whole grill.

980
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: Like all thank you, jac have a good day. Glad

981
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: you called Jacqueline. Yeah, hey, whinch it okay to be

982
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 1: cheap winch you splurge Um, I think you should. Definitely,

983
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm a mix between it because being care for women

984
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: or for months, like you can buy the high edge

985
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: and now low suits and products and this is that

986
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 1: and you know what, it doesn't work. It doesn't work

987
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 1: that Walker. I'm a ride er, diet a veno girl

988
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: all day, every day. That's my favorite. I've been wearing

989
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: it for like fifteen years. I'll never switch. Yeah, I mean,

990
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 1: you know what, it's just one of those things where

991
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 1: it's it's not worth twenty dollars or hundred fiky bucks

992
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: to buy a little thing a motion as ye pretty months,

993
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: maybe you get some krend for two thousand dollars a

994
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: jaw and oh you're not supposed to do that exactly.

995
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 1: It's just not what the ola and our veto and

996
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 1: all that other stuff. Just so much better. There you go,

997
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Jacqueline. Also, food, I swear because

998
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: you're putting it inside of your body, you know stuff.

999
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,719
Speaker 1: I use it as a positories. You're not supposed to

1000
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 1: do that. Kelly, Hi, Yeah, I was gonna say that.

1001
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,479
Speaker 1: I personally think that there's a difference between being cheap

1002
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: and stin cheap um because you know, some people could have,

1003
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 1: like be poor and need to really watch their finances,

1004
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: so they need to be cheap in order to kind

1005
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 1: of survive. But there's a difference between that and being

1006
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 1: stinchy for the birthday, you know, like, I think it's

1007
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: a different birthday go out. You don't have to be smart,

1008
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 1: I think is when you have the money, and yet

1009
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: you sort of scamp on stuff like cheap. Well it's

1010
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: a different kind of cheap though, Like it's like I'm

1011
00:48:57,080 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 1: I I couldn't do this nice thing for you, but

1012
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna not do it, or I'm gonna do a

1013
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: cheaper version, or I'm gonna I don't know, because I

1014
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 1: don't want to be out of the money myself, and

1015
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna mask it as being cheap. But really you're Stingye.

1016
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: I think I think I know what you mean. Yeah,

1017
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Have a good day, Kelly. Or

1018
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: like if you get the expensive thing and then don't

1019
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 1: tip or something that's stingy, it's like, well you just

1020
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: you just got an expensive things so you can obviously

1021
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: afford it a JP. Hello, Um, I think that's what

1022
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: spurs after liked working really hard because I just gotta

1023
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: keep I feel like I needed to spurse on myself. Yeah,

1024
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: because you can feel like you you feel like you

1025
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 1: earned it, you know, like, yeah, you worked hard and

1026
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: now you're doing something for you. Ye, thank you, thank you, Jayne.

1027
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: That's take that too far. First checking you just start

1028
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: a new job two weeks, man, Like you gotta have

1029
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:52,359
Speaker 1: that first check. You need to go to bills. Yeah,

1030
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: you gotta go light that you could take it too far?

1031
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: You Yeah, trust me. I can come up with a

1032
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: reason every day to think I earned something. Oh yeah,

1033
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,360
Speaker 1: I need to get these. Totally earned it today. The

1034
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: next day, I totally earned it today. Hey Cheryl, Hey Cheryl.

1035
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: When is it okay to be cheap? And when should

1036
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: you splurge? Um? I personally don't think I'm okay to

1037
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: be cheap. I recently just switched over from porn clever

1038
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: girl for uh twenty five years too, and I finally

1039
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 1: went to Sephora. Oh big shopping. Yeah so. But most importantly,

1040
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: you should never be cheap when it comes to concert tickets. Okay,

1041
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: if you're gonna go to the show, then spend the

1042
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: extra and get the better seats the aperio. Okay, Well,

1043
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 1: you get spoiled once you start getting the good seats

1044
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 1: at shows, and then you're like, oh, I can't go,

1045
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: and I don't know what is it like if you

1046
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,279
Speaker 1: spend if it's like sixty bucks versus one hundred and twenty,

1047
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:51,919
Speaker 1: like if you spent double, but you got way better,

1048
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 1: way better experience, and you may never see that artist again.

1049
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: So that makes sense, right, Yeah, thank you, Cheryl. If

1050
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 1: you ever want to do dinner like you know, I

1051
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 1: usually get stuck ways too. Oh oh, I think she

1052
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: just slip up in my radio show. Yeah yeah, she

1053
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: just stood up used the radio shore to get a day.

1054
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: I respect that move. Five kiss in Chicago's number one

1055
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: hit music station, Fred Nancy are on Good Morning. What

1056
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: would you do? This was on a British website, like

1057
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:29,439
Speaker 1: an anonymous advice column, question and answer type thing. Whatever.

1058
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 1: It has gone away for the weekend with friends. It's

1059
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: two couples got ready for bed. But my friend is

1060
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,840
Speaker 1: quite happy to walk around in what is basically a

1061
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: short nighty. Now. I've offered to lend her one of

1062
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: mine to wear that covers a little more, but she's

1063
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 1: quite happy as she is. My domestic partner is quite

1064
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: happy looking at her too. I believe the word ogling, ogling, oogling,

1065
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: googling is the word um that she used. Should I

1066
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 1: say something a bit stronger to her? So there's both

1067
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: sides of the of the coin here, Like there are

1068
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: people slamming this woman going do you let her wear

1069
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: what she wants? Yeah? Whatever? And stopping and if he

1070
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: looks he looks whatever other people are saying. When you're

1071
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: in a public setting, like when you, I don't know,

1072
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 1: share a house, so you get you get one of

1073
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 1: those Airbnb is with somebody, two couples. You know that

1074
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: you kind of need to be tasteful and and maybe

1075
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 1: you cover up. You know, you don't get to walk

1076
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 1: around like it's your house. Um, you know, maybe not.

1077
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 1: Maybe don't do that and have some respect for the

1078
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: other people around, like your friend, so she doesn't has

1079
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 1: to feel insecure. Yeah, well that's on her then if

1080
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 1: she's insecure, I don't know that, she's just rese It's

1081
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 1: like public decency, Like like, you know, what I walk

1082
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: around isn't hanging out. It sounds like it's it's short nighty.

1083
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:47,919
Speaker 1: It sounds like you're ass could be hanging out. Kin,

1084
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: My friend was actually kicked out of a wedding for

1085
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: wearing too tiny of shorts in front of her friends.

1086
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 1: That is insane, insane, Yeah happened to her. So what

1087
00:52:58,320 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: would you do in this situation? You go away in

1088
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 1: weekend and if my if my husband can't keep his

1089
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: like jaw off the floor, I would punch him in

1090
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 1: the face. It's not her fault. It's his fault, like

1091
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: stop being a creeper. And and by the way, even

1092
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 1: if he is looking, he maybe she wants him to look.

1093
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 1: I mean, then is it that big of a deal,

1094
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 1: Like yes, I mean, let's be honest, it's going to

1095
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 1: act on it. That's a different story. That's right. I'm

1096
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: married a woman. You know, your your hot friend watched

1097
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: by an nighty. I'm gonna look and I might like it,

1098
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean I'm gonna cheat on you. It

1099
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 1: doesn't mean I'm being disloyal to you. Exactly. At the

1100
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 1: same time, you could argue, you, look, we're in a

1101
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: public this is a relatively public setting here. You were

1102
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: all the house friends you're That doesn't mean I can

1103
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 1: have my junk hanging out Well no, probably not all

1104
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: your show. You know. Hey, how about we all agree

1105
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 1: that we're we're gonna have some decency here. And I'm

1106
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 1: saying using the word decency with air quotes because I

1107
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 1: don't think it's indecent. But let's not. But but let's

1108
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: say we're just This isn't about her being indecent or

1109
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: a little risque. This is about her, the friend here,

1110
00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: being insecure. I would not roll around the house with

1111
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: friends in my boxer briefs. Yeah, I wouldn't do it.

1112
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 1: You wouldn't. It's that, but it's not but and the

1113
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: thing is insecure or otherwise it would be inappropriate. It

1114
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: would be rude. It would be uncouth of me to

1115
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: do that. So forget about the emotions or or the

1116
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 1: or the things you know that that might result from

1117
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: my could trust me when I walk around in box

1118
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: of briefs. Some people go to oogle, like why would

1119
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: it be rude? Though? Where? Because it's the same. I

1120
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: feel like the same rules apply when we're when we're

1121
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 1: all staying together in a home. That would that would

1122
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:31,880
Speaker 1: apply if I'm at home with my family or otherwise.

1123
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,399
Speaker 1: I just I don't wear anything that's gonna like show

1124
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 1: off too much because not everybody needs to see that. Well,

1125
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,919
Speaker 1: that's your thing, But some people are irrelatable and don't care,

1126
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: and I don't think it's inappropriate. I think what's inappropriate

1127
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 1: is like her being so offended and so jealous or

1128
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 1: not jealous, but so insecure and like, so should I

1129
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,359
Speaker 1: say something like don't don't tell her what to wear?

1130
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 1: You could argue that it's not an appropriate setting for

1131
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 1: that sort of clothing regard lists of insecurity or otherwise.

1132
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: Maybe he didn't look at all. You could still say, yo,

1133
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 1: put something on like what I would never say showing

1134
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: watching the TV here, Hey Brenna, Brenna, Hello, Hi, Hi.

1135
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 1: What would you do? You stay the weekend with two

1136
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 1: some couples, friends, whatever, and all of a sudden, you know,

1137
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: your girl comes out and she's worn a nine. That's

1138
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: very short nighty, very uh, lots of exposure. What would

1139
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 1: you say? All right? So if my friend and like

1140
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: boyfriend or whatever, was it paying attention and he was

1141
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:35,320
Speaker 1: like looking at her and stuff, I put one on myself.

1142
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:38,800
Speaker 1: Here you go, okay, all right, here we go and

1143
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, now there you go, all right? Yeah,

1144
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: I mean maybe it inspires something. Hey Erica, Eric, your

1145
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: friend comes out in the room in the living room,

1146
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:55,760
Speaker 1: you all watching some uh you know, you're all watching

1147
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:57,919
Speaker 1: some TV because you're hanging out in this this house

1148
00:55:57,920 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: she rents it together, and she's wearing this really short

1149
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 1: night What do you say, where'd you get it from? Yeah? Right, No,

1150
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 1: But if it's a little short and a little like,

1151
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: you know, untasteful, I'd be like, hey, you know, can

1152
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: you change I mean really, I don't know. I'm like,

1153
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 1: it's like a swingers thing. Then, hey, I walk for it.

1154
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: If you would ask your friend to change your clothes. No,

1155
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would ask her to change,

1156
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: but I think I would like sarcastics. I mean, if

1157
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 1: my man cannot stop looking at her and you should

1158
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: punch her man, you know, said, I do feel like

1159
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: it's fair to say as a setting for certain types

1160
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:34,320
Speaker 1: of things, like yes, a bikini is sure by the pool,

1161
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 1: but like I'm you know, we're just showing different And

1162
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:39,479
Speaker 1: now now I'm looking at your thong and your nighty

1163
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: or whatever, like, really, she's not here, snail trailing the

1164
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 1: coffee time, short Night. We didn't need to hear that,

1165
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 1: And we don't know that she's not We don't know what.

1166
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: We don't know what's going on down neither. Yeah, I

1167
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:55,879
Speaker 1: mean I are hanging out, then said short Night. It's

1168
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 1: just a cute, little nice then you know what it's

1169
00:56:58,480 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: I guess it'd be fine, you know what I mean.

1170
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: Thank you, Erica, have a good day. Thanks for calling. Hey, Natalie, Natalie,

1171
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 1: what do you think. I think there's a time and

1172
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 1: place for everything, And I wouldn't let my fiance walk

1173
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:15,799
Speaker 1: aron and his tidy whities, having his junks all outlined

1174
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 1: and part of everybody. Yeah, so then why should she

1175
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 1: be walking around like that? Look, yeah, I look at it. Well,

1176
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: I wouldn't really like it if the girl for looking

1177
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: at him. So even if he's not trying to look

1178
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: at the girl, I still wouldn't like it that she

1179
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 1: doesn't have the common decency to kind of, you know,

1180
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: maybe wear something a little bit longer so we don't

1181
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: have problems arguing later on and saying that there would

1182
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: be a problem in an argument, there's a kind of

1183
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 1: attention seeking on the part of the friend, though, I mean,

1184
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: this has nothing to do with the reaction, Isn't it

1185
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 1: kind of about like what the person's behavior to begin with?

1186
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: What if she's just comfortable that way? Like what if

1187
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: that's what she wears every day, wearing like tidy whities

1188
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: with his junk out line in a front house. Um,

1189
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: he walked out of the room, and he was like,

1190
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: he wouldn't okay, But if he did, okay, he walked

1191
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 1: out in his boxers or something like something that was

1192
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 1: really exposed everything, and he just walks out and plops

1193
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: down on the couch and all your friends and watching

1194
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 1: think we'd all laugh, we should be like hey, but

1195
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 1: out of jealousy or like not at an insecurity I'd

1196
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: be like what I'm like, I'd be like you okay,

1197
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 1: fam like is he wrong? Thank you, Natalie, have a

1198
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 1: good day. But I wouldn't like ever, you know, have

1199
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 1: an issue being insec her Alison, Hi, Hi, Alison. So

1200
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 1: this woman wrote to an advice column in the UK.

1201
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: She's upset because her friend in a like a like

1202
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: a couple's weekend, was walking around at a very short nighty.

1203
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:44,960
Speaker 1: She mentions that her boyfriend, domestic partner whatever, was quite

1204
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 1: happy to look at her, and she suggested to her friend,

1205
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: why don't you cover up a little bit? And she

1206
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: didn't do it. What would you do? I agree with friend.

1207
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: I was put one on and on. Oh then yeah,

1208
00:58:56,360 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: here comes above break glass inside her boyfriends. Yes, her

1209
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend's gonna be like I really like this. I'm sure

1210
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: ninety contest we have going on. Say this is my

1211
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 1: kind of couple's vacations. Next I need to choose a

1212
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: couple of vacations partners better. Thank you, Alison, Thank you.

1213
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. Hey. Phil yeah, Phil, what would

1214
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 1: you say. I don't understand that most of those women,

1215
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 1: but I don't understand you. You go to the beach

1216
00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 1: as bikinis. These girls are so insecure, right, that's bikini

1217
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: probably is showing way more than that. People who wear

1218
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: a bikini by the pool. Yeah, in that setting may

1219
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: not wear a neglige to hang out with their friends

1220
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: in the living room of a shared at home. If

1221
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: we're close as friends, if we're close enough as friends

1222
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: that we're going and renting a house together for a

1223
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 1: weekend or something, then it should be the same as

1224
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: wearing a bikini in front of those friends. You know.

1225
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: All right, thank you by the pool with the friends. Right,

1226
00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:58,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear a neglish out of the pool today. Well,

1227
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: there you go, there you I think it's always about

1228
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 1: the setting. Is it's having place for everything? I thank

1229
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 1: you sexing, they're in a house, they're going you know,

1230
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: hey Michael, Hey, good morning. Hey Michael, you heard the scenario.

1231
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: What would you do? Agree with you? It is all

1232
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,600
Speaker 1: about the setting. I mean, you know, when you're hanging

1233
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 1: out with your friends. You know, women they put on

1234
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 1: a negligee to get its excited, to get us in

1235
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: the bood, So how would that be? All right? It

1236
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 1: wasn't really a negligee short night shirt, and agreed I

1237
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: would have to see it. I mean, if it's like

1238
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 1: mid time, it's probably okay. If a little bunchee thing out.

1239
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what you guys wear to get our

1240
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: juice flowing, so or we just wear it to kick

1241
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: it on the couch and watch TV. It's not always

1242
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 1: about to get your juices flowing. No, I mean I

1243
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: don't even even put that on to get them juices flowing.

1244
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 1: I get the juices flowing in a snowmobile sea right right,

1245
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: have a good day, gleg you call the man. Hey, Jessica, Hi, Jessica.

1246
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: Last you get the final say on this. Your friend

1247
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 1: comes walking in the room full of other friends, y'all

1248
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: just staying in the house together, whatever, and she got

1249
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 1: this side what's being described as a short nightey on.

1250
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 1: What would you do? So? I've had a similar situation.

1251
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: I lived with one of my best friends and her boyfriend,

1252
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend and one of her friends would come

1253
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: over and just start changing in our living room, like

1254
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 1: taking off her shirt, which I wouldn't have had a

1255
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 1: problem with and neither would have my friend, but it

1256
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 1: made my boyfriend and her boyfriend uncomfortable, which is why

1257
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 1: we had to say something. Were they uncomfortable because they

1258
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:33,919
Speaker 1: thought you guys were going to stab them for looking

1259
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: in that direction? It could be no, and it really

1260
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 1: it really didn't bother us. It just sort of was like,

1261
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,439
Speaker 1: why is she naked in our living room? It puts

1262
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 1: in this situation. It puts the guys in a bad

1263
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 1: spot because like, what am I supposed to do? Like

1264
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: if I look the wrong way and then you're gonna

1265
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: be mad, Like if I don't look at all, I

1266
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 1: don't know. I just how about we don't do that

1267
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 1: and then I don't get in trouble for just being there. Yeah,

1268
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,439
Speaker 1: so I don't necessarily think like a night because I'll

1269
01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:00,720
Speaker 1: wear a ninety before they're comfortable. I don't think that's

1270
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 1: necessarily inappropriate, and I wouldn't have had a problem with it.

1271
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: I think it definitely has a bit of an insecurity

1272
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 1: issue with the woman presenting the problem, But otherwise, Nah,

1273
01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Jessica, thank you. Three Chicago's number

1274
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 1: one hit me as a station. Good morning, It's Fred

1275
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: and Angie Paulish Paulina. Um we heard you had a

1276
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 1: wild weekend. Wow, wow, Wow, I did have a wild weekend.

1277
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 1: It was amazing weekend. But a little wild you were. Wow.

1278
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 1: Your stories get a little loquaciousious. What does that mean? Loquacious?

1279
01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 1: I know somebody names loquacious? What does it mean? What

1280
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: does it mean? It's word aquacious? Time explaining my hands.

1281
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 1: We've noticed, um so, Paulina or a word smith you

1282
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 1: you were out drinking all day for some reason, decided

1283
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 1: to come to the radio station. Correct, No, that is incorrect.

1284
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: Then what happened. I was working and my friend met

1285
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 1: me outside and then we went out. So I lasted

1286
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:09,120
Speaker 1: my items here, like my laptop and my work bag.

1287
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 1: I left it all here. So we drinking, and you

1288
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: came back to the radio stage, came back. That's what

1289
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: they said. The way he tells story, it's exactly the

1290
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 1: way they happen. You were not drinking and then came back.

1291
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 1: I did, okay, So you got out drinking, you came

1292
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 1: back to get your stuff. You were inebriated, and you

1293
01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: got sick at work in a bag. No no, no,

1294
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: I got sick in an uber. I thought you got

1295
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 1: sick in a bag because you left the bag here, yea,

1296
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 1: Why she came back stuff? Why wouldn't you have put

1297
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:45,120
Speaker 1: it in a garbage on the street? Why would in

1298
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 1: Jeoffrey's office? But she puked in the Uber. I thought

1299
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: that happened after But why wouldn't you Look there's dumpsters outside,

1300
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 1: there's trash. I still had all my stuff in it,

1301
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 1: my phone, my key, stuff. I didn't I was very smart.

1302
01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 1: I opened my bag to the little side power and

1303
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: I just vomited in my side pouch. So it's all

1304
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 1: in a little area, all right. Anyway, all I know

1305
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 1: is there was a bagful of puke, and Joffrey, do

1306
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: you know this? By the way, Jeffrey, there was there

1307
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: was a bagful of puke in your office all week?

1308
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:14,240
Speaker 1: So you know also claims that she calls me. I

1309
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 1: never answered my phone. She's only a different number because

1310
01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: there's no evidence of it. All right, Well, this is

1311
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 1: where I'm going with this. So you puked in your

1312
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: bag in an uber. I did a lot of uber

1313
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: and taxi drivers listen to us, and I'm just wondering

1314
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: if you if you can beat that story? Did you

1315
01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 1: did your uber driver know? Did you know game? Because

1316
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 1: all you hear is and I was with and I

1317
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 1: just met and my friend with two guys that you

1318
01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 1: share the Uber from Hyde Park too. It was a

1319
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: search art. Did they still smash after all that? No,

1320
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta go. I ran out the

1321
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: Uber and the Uber driver turns around and goes, I

1322
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 1: check now, And I was like, please do I didn't.

1323
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 1: I'm not disrespectful. I will throw up in my purse

1324
01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 1: or my shirt before I throw up on your floor.

1325
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: So there's no charge, then, I hope, I hope not.

1326
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 1: So you did not. Yeah, I can't give you. I

1327
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:07,920
Speaker 1: gave you a one. I'd give you a one if

1328
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 1: you puke in my car. Oh, I would too. But

1329
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: for to all our Uber driver friends out there, and

1330
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 1: and taxi drivers and and and professional drivers whatever, the worst,

1331
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: the worst or craziest thing that happened in the back

1332
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: of your car man, And so if it was Paulina,

1333
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: then you don't have to call because I already know

1334
01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 1: taxi cab confessions, right, like the driver confession. I hear

1335
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: stories all the time. I mean because I'll ask. I'll

1336
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: ask guys, you know, we'll be driving around. I'd be

1337
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 1: like to tell me something big. Oh you knows six

1338
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 1: am on Saturday is always fun. You know, people holding

1339
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 1: their heels or whatever out or or a guy is

1340
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:42,440
Speaker 1: still wearing a suit that's all like disheveled and undone,

1341
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: out of fun of some apartment complex or whatever else.

1342
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,680
Speaker 1: I would love to hear your your your great Uber

1343
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: story one or three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one

1344
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: hit music station. It's Fred and Angie. Paulina had a

1345
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: wild night and uh drank a little too much and

1346
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 1: and got in the back of an uber could supposedly

1347
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: in her bag though, which she then proceeded to bring

1348
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 1: into the radio station and leaving Jeffrey's office all weekend

1349
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 1: surprise there for him a Monday. That's why you tried

1350
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 1: calling him? Hey, Sid, Yeah, I said, how are you doing?

1351
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 1: Are you an uber driver? Uh no, my friend is

1352
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 1: an uber driver. Friend, Okay, what happened? The crazy thing

1353
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 1: that happened at the back of the uber um He

1354
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 1: said that he caught a woman snorting crack in the

1355
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 1: back of his car. WHOA, So, what do you do?

1356
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,560
Speaker 1: Then like pull over and say get out? Yeah, he

1357
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 1: when he realized what she was doing, he instantly pulled

1358
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 1: over and had her get out, and he was like

1359
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 1: terrified because the last thing you need is a cop

1360
01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 1: floming you over while you have crack in your the

1361
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 1: back of your Yeah right, He drove as carefully as

1362
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:50,680
Speaker 1: he could to the nearest car wash could find and

1363
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 1: just vacuum the back of his car out. I would

1364
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,480
Speaker 1: I would too. Yeah, no kidding, thank you, said, have

1365
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 1: a good day. I'm sure. I had an uber driver

1366
01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: the other day was telling me story that she took

1367
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 1: some side to a really sketchy area and realized he

1368
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 1: was out on the street like doing a drug deal.

1369
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 1: Because he's like, wait for me right here, and she's like,

1370
01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: by chancel, yeah, get out of here. Hey Parker, Hey Parker, Hey,

1371
01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:18,919
Speaker 1: this happened in an uber right, yeah, oh yeah, what's

1372
01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:22,480
Speaker 1: the story. It was my my buddy's twenty first birthday

1373
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 1: and we took him out for like Thursday night dish

1374
01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 1: bowls in college was my senior year, and uh, on

1375
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: our way back, it was like an orange fishbowl and

1376
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 1: then he three blocks from our college. He opened the

1377
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 1: shirt and he's just the entire shirt and he tried

1378
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 1: to catch it all in his shirts. Yeah, he tried

1379
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: to catch it. He respired sacks turn turned dark dark

1380
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 1: khaki and then, uh, the entire sea was covered in orange.

1381
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:54,880
Speaker 1: What did you do? Give the guy like fifty bucks

1382
01:07:54,880 --> 01:07:56,880
Speaker 1: one hundred bucks and just run? I get Yeah, I

1383
01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:59,360
Speaker 1: give the guy like I think fifty one hundred bucks

1384
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: and then I you know, he definitely hit me. It's

1385
01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:08,720
Speaker 1: a charge too. Yeah. Twenty first birthday, Thank you, Parker.

1386
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 1: Have a good day. Yeah, oh god. Jose, Hey, Hey,

1387
01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 1: how's it going? Jose you're an uber driver. You're an

1388
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,840
Speaker 1: actual uber driver. Went back at your car. I had

1389
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 1: a female wake up in the middle but drunk his

1390
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:22,640
Speaker 1: sleep and threw up all over the middle console and

1391
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 1: my whole back. I can't think of anything nastier than vomit,

1392
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:30,720
Speaker 1: especially from a stranger. The worst part, the worst part

1393
01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: was I just got on from the Congress on the

1394
01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 1: highway and I had a driver all the way to

1395
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 1: sixty third. You have a boombox with this polish music

1396
01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: that he plays the whole time. Thank you, Oh god,

1397
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:50,840
Speaker 1: I could have done with that. Hey, Caesar, Caesar, actual

1398
01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 1: uber driver, Good morning, man, thanks for listening. What happened

1399
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 1: to the back of your car? Hey, good morning, first day.

1400
01:08:55,880 --> 01:09:00,320
Speaker 1: I love you guys, guys are thank you. I picked

1401
01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: up a couple and they say on the way there, Hey,

1402
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 1: are you okay with us doing the nasty back here?

1403
01:09:07,240 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 1: What did you say? Yes, you're like out for it.

1404
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 1: I further was I know, like please don't. But I

1405
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: realized the long drive and then you know, I gonna

1406
01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:15,960
Speaker 1: make some good money outfit. But I was like, I

1407
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,720
Speaker 1: just follow this up. You roll the window down and

1408
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:20,400
Speaker 1: say have at it. It's like, let me address my

1409
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 1: did you sit and watch? I turned my best not

1410
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 1: to look in the re view mirror. Were they? Were

1411
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:30,760
Speaker 1: they an attractive couple? She was, But I don't know.

1412
01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: A boy him, I would be looking. Probably watched you.

1413
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 1: I would have watched. Give my mirror right here. Somebody

1414
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 1: asked me, do you mind if we have sex? I'd

1415
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 1: be like, do you mind? If I watch? I would

1416
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 1: I would watch. Don't get mad if I don't even

1417
01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: care if they're ugly, I'd probly right just to see that.

1418
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:46,640
Speaker 1: Take you at all? How are you guys doing it?

1419
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:50,280
Speaker 1: Did you do well? They were like, hey, it will

1420
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: be as fine as possible, but they completely ignore that.

1421
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:55,680
Speaker 1: They were very louder, Oh well, try sees, Thank you man,

1422
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 1: have a good day. I feel bad to be people

1423
01:09:57,479 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 1: had to sit in that car after that, right next,

1424
01:09:59,240 --> 01:10:02,880
Speaker 1: people to back of the Hey, Jessica, actual uber driver

1425
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:05,960
Speaker 1: and people did have sex in the back of your car? Oh? Yes? Uh?

1426
01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:10,680
Speaker 1: Actually was I drive downtown and I do a part

1427
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 1: time so I picked up this guy, business guy and uh,

1428
01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 1: this was on the phone and he actually had phone

1429
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: sex with his wife. Oh it was phone sex. Yeah.

1430
01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 1: Now was he doing and we have to be pg

1431
01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 1: about this? Was he assisting himself? He was? Did you

1432
01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:38,000
Speaker 1: say something? Did you say something to him? Yeah? After

1433
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 1: I actually looked in my room view mirror and I

1434
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:44,640
Speaker 1: saw it. And that's after a minute. I pulled over

1435
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:48,960
Speaker 1: and I said, you got to get out. Yeah, glad

1436
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:52,719
Speaker 1: you called. Have a good day. Disgusting. Ali, Hi, Ali,

1437
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:57,120
Speaker 1: Ali's an ober driver. What happened the back of your car? Wow?

1438
01:10:57,200 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 1: I picked up the morning she took to get out.

1439
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 1: She ran out the house like pretty much neck it.

1440
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 1: She had all his pants. Apparently she hooked up with

1441
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 1: some guy like regretted it. They called her called me

1442
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:17,360
Speaker 1: to come get on get her the house topless. Huh

1443
01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: right yeah, yeah, like, oh my card, I can't believe

1444
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: I did this. And she was I'm like it's okay,

1445
01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, she's basically putting on her clones in

1446
01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:28,640
Speaker 1: the back of my car. Oh great, so you got

1447
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,800
Speaker 1: to be a psychologist that day? Too, good for you? Yeah, well,

1448
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:34,640
Speaker 1: thank you, ali as you called. Have a great day.

1449
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 1: Hey Blake, Blake, the actual Luber driver, what happened at

1450
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 1: back your car? Okay? So this guy gets into my car.

1451
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:44,640
Speaker 1: It's like ninety degrees outside, right, and he hops in

1452
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:46,599
Speaker 1: the front seat. And I'm thinking that the best should

1453
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 1: have been the first red flag. Yeah, you know, but

1454
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:52,880
Speaker 1: it's cool sometimes. But you know, this guy, you know,

1455
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:56,120
Speaker 1: perfectly normal looking guys, gets in the front seat. Ninety

1456
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:58,760
Speaker 1: grees day, We have a conversation. The guy wants to

1457
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:05,600
Speaker 1: row her on the window. Okay, right, yeah, AC's blowing snowballs,

1458
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 1: you know. So he rolls down the window. He's telling me, like,

1459
01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 1: you meet some air. So I'm singing like this guy

1460
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:13,479
Speaker 1: is kind of weird here, you know. So as we're rolling,

1461
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:16,560
Speaker 1: the guy like sticks his head out the window and

1462
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 1: he's trying to get air, and I'm like, what's going

1463
01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 1: on with you? Man? You know. So I'm looking at

1464
01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 1: his seat and he's pressing his steed against the floorboard.

1465
01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 1: Oh no, Like, what what's going on? Man? You know.

1466
01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:28,400
Speaker 1: And so he's telling me, I'm about going these girls

1467
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 1: from last night and everything. And as I'm looking at him,

1468
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:35,000
Speaker 1: the guy reaches back behind his neck top the people

1469
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:38,560
Speaker 1: on the back of his neck. Oh god, and like,

1470
01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:42,280
Speaker 1: what what's going on? Man? What what's going on? Tripping? Yeah?

1471
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:45,000
Speaker 1: He was tripping. Come to find out, the guy was

1472
01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:49,120
Speaker 1: high off math first time you met the girl to

1473
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:53,519
Speaker 1: night before the free game using Master. Next day, Oh god,

1474
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 1: talking the afternoon and he's tripping off mess so hard

1475
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 1: that he has to get out in the middle of

1476
01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:01,960
Speaker 1: the intersection on Hostage. It just gets out, gools over

1477
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 1: the buck stop, just sits on the ground and this

1478
01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:11,920
Speaker 1: was like what You're like, what, thank you, Blake? Have

1479
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:14,840
Speaker 1: a good day, man. Oh my god. I can only

1480
01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:16,880
Speaker 1: imagine if you're an uber driver, the kind of people

1481
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,240
Speaker 1: that you would come across. Anthony. Hi, Hey, what's going

1482
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 1: on man, Anthony? What are you an uber driver? Yeah?

1483
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: An what happened to back of your car? So I

1484
01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 1: get this kid, I'm picking him up and he has

1485
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:29,640
Speaker 1: like a package with him. He gets in my car,

1486
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,280
Speaker 1: you know, I drive him whatever. I take him to

1487
01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 1: the house. And so he's getting out of the car

1488
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:35,800
Speaker 1: and closing the right out and then I hear a

1489
01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 1: bunch of yelling sorry, look outside of my window, and

1490
01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:40,400
Speaker 1: he can't tackled by like three cars. So I'm like,

1491
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:42,960
Speaker 1: what the hell? It was a drug deal? Yeah, the

1492
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:44,600
Speaker 1: drug deal. I looked my left and there's a car

1493
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 1: pointing a gun at me, saying deal. Tell me he

1494
01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 1: got out of the car. I'm just putting my hands

1495
01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:49,840
Speaker 1: on my Oh my god. I look behind me. There's

1496
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 1: three squad cars. So you know, they pulled me out

1497
01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 1: of the car, handcuffed me and everything. I'm like, hey,

1498
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 1: you know you can guys can search my car, but

1499
01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 1: I'm just an uber driver. Yeah, I just dropped this

1500
01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:00,919
Speaker 1: guy off. I had nothing to do with it. Yeah, exactly.

1501
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,160
Speaker 1: So did you get all that they'll let you go? Yeah,

1502
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:06,679
Speaker 1: they let me go bust on my stepdad at the cops,

1503
01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 1: so I got yeah, I would think that kind of

1504
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 1: stuff happens to Like how how how do you know

1505
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 1: you're just driving? Yeah? I was just thinking. I'm like,

1506
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 1: I hope you didn't leave anything in my car. Do

1507
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:18,200
Speaker 1: you ever going to pick somebody up? And then they

1508
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:20,640
Speaker 1: walk out of the house and you're like, no, I

1509
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,680
Speaker 1: am not taking this person. Just based on the way

1510
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: they look or something. Yeah. Yeah, there happens a lot.

1511
01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't know whatever whatever is going on here, I'm

1512
01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 1: not interesting. Yeah yeah, thank you anything. You have a

1513
01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 1: good day, all right? Oh my god. No, I was

1514
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:41,160
Speaker 1: contemplating an uber career, but now I'm not gonna do it.

1515
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:43,519
Speaker 1: Were you really? I really was? I was gonna. Yeah,

1516
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:45,160
Speaker 1: I was like a little board sometimes. I was just

1517
01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 1: gonna start driving people to back down a lot of

1518
01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 1: you know where a lot of people do that because

1519
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:50,600
Speaker 1: they're bored. I've met a lot of retired people that

1520
01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 1: are like, I'm bored, so I'm just doing this. Oh yeah,

1521
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 1: yeah a lot. Do you see it all the time? Yeah, no,

1522
01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:59,120
Speaker 1: not happening. One three five kids from Chicago's number one

1523
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 1: hit music station, Fred Nancy are here. I asked Polin

1524
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 1: off the air, what are you into that other people

1525
01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 1: wouldn't get? And she says spending unnecessary money? I know.

1526
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:12,920
Speaker 1: The question wasn't what are you into that every single

1527
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:16,200
Speaker 1: person on Earth can get? It was what are you

1528
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:20,519
Speaker 1: into that people won't get? Everybody on Earth knows what

1529
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:23,519
Speaker 1: it's like to spend unnecessarily Yeah, I am the queen

1530
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 1: of that, though everybody on Earth knows what it's like

1531
01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 1: to buy something and then come home and be like,

1532
01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 1: why did I do that? Or buy something online or

1533
01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 1: go to the mall or whatever and be like and

1534
01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:35,400
Speaker 1: then later go what I have. I'm super into like um,

1535
01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 1: like thrift stores and like garage sales. Like if I

1536
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:39,880
Speaker 1: see a garage sale, I have to pull over and

1537
01:15:39,920 --> 01:15:41,880
Speaker 1: everybody's like, oh my god, you and your junk, You

1538
01:15:41,960 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 1: and your junk. I'm like, I just love. I feel

1539
01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 1: like I'm there's something I think. Yeah, I always feel

1540
01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:48,400
Speaker 1: like I'm going to be that dude that finds like

1541
01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 1: the million dollars Jackson Pollock painting that the old lady

1542
01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:53,040
Speaker 1: doesn't know that she has, and then you're going to

1543
01:15:53,080 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 1: go on Antiques road show and oh, because they're always

1544
01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:03,280
Speaker 1: talking like that. They're always have a stand and they

1545
01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 1: talk all like all took me like they could bring

1546
01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:08,000
Speaker 1: the issue, you know, like all smart, like a professor

1547
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 1: or whatever. And I have on my DVR. It is

1548
01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 1: unbelievable what you have in coma tell you where this

1549
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:24,040
Speaker 1: is coming from. They published a list in the in

1550
01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 1: The Rolling Stone of the top one hundred greatest metal

1551
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:30,600
Speaker 1: albums and I gotta tell you something and This is

1552
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:33,600
Speaker 1: gonna upset a lot of people. I don't understand this.

1553
01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:36,639
Speaker 1: I can't distinguish one metal song from another metal song,

1554
01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:39,040
Speaker 1: and so maybe I have bad We know I have

1555
01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:41,880
Speaker 1: bad taste in music, but I it doesn't sound like

1556
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:46,679
Speaker 1: anything to me. This does. This is fine. Black Sabbath, which,

1557
01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:49,040
Speaker 1: by the way, paranoid number one from nineteen seventy on

1558
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 1: the list, but like some of it, Black Sabbath was

1559
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,960
Speaker 1: the number one number one metal album, Greatest metal album

1560
01:16:57,000 --> 01:17:01,400
Speaker 1: of all time, Number two, Master of Puppets Metal Metallica,

1561
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:04,320
Speaker 1: I gets sort of number one, me too, Number three,

1562
01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:08,759
Speaker 1: British Steel Judas Priests, number four, the number of the Beast,

1563
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 1: Iron Maiden, Black Sabbath, Black Sabbath at five, Raining Blood

1564
01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:17,640
Speaker 1: Slayer at six, No Remorse, No Remorse, No Remorse, Motorhead

1565
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:20,920
Speaker 1: at seven, Piece Cells but who's buying Mega Death at eight,

1566
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:25,040
Speaker 1: Blizzard of Oz Ozzy Osbourne at nine, and Volgar Display

1567
01:17:25,080 --> 01:17:27,519
Speaker 1: a Power Pantera at number ten. Then there's a full

1568
01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 1: list of their one greatest metal album and Azzi, Yeah,

1569
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 1: well Ozzie made that list. Well black Azzie was Black

1570
01:17:36,200 --> 01:17:41,280
Speaker 1: Sabbath too, Yeah, it's true, Auzzi everything, Yeah, yeah, he

1571
01:17:41,320 --> 01:17:44,400
Speaker 1: made like fourtuns. Yeah, that's true. That's true. I don't

1572
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:46,200
Speaker 1: know anything about it because it's not my thing. I

1573
01:17:46,320 --> 01:17:48,240
Speaker 1: really I don't didn't go through a moment like in

1574
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:51,440
Speaker 1: the eighties. Fans were like I was in a Metallica

1575
01:17:51,640 --> 01:17:54,439
Speaker 1: and Motley Crewe and like Van Halen, it was like

1576
01:17:54,520 --> 01:17:57,439
Speaker 1: six of the eighties. I enjoyed Metallica. I think I

1577
01:17:57,520 --> 01:18:00,560
Speaker 1: was still watching Doctor SEUs and Mister Rodgers when I

1578
01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:04,559
Speaker 1: was in the eighties. Hey, Rina, Hi, Hi, Rina, how

1579
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 1: are you? I'm God? I love you guys, thank you,

1580
01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:10,840
Speaker 1: love you too, thank you, thank you so much. So

1581
01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:13,760
Speaker 1: this is the question. You're into it, and other people

1582
01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:15,800
Speaker 1: don't don't get it. They don't seem to understand. What

1583
01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:24,479
Speaker 1: is it that you were No, No, I can't do it.

1584
01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:27,439
Speaker 1: I don't want things on my feet. I don't get fungus. Girl,

1585
01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:32,479
Speaker 1: you can get fun you can fingus. No, it's something

1586
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:36,799
Speaker 1: about it's like my just feeling cleaner with like something

1587
01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:39,840
Speaker 1: on them when I go to the opposite was socks

1588
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 1: on it ye, wedding? And now what happens if you

1589
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:44,680
Speaker 1: get like a little freaky time do you get the

1590
01:18:44,720 --> 01:18:46,280
Speaker 1: freaky time on with the socks on, or do you

1591
01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:48,960
Speaker 1: put the socks on after the freaky time. No, the

1592
01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:52,080
Speaker 1: freaky time is without socks. Okay, without socks, that's nice.

1593
01:18:52,120 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 1: Could that be a little weird if you were like

1594
01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 1: completely naked except for you tube socks or something, I'd

1595
01:18:55,920 --> 01:19:04,320
Speaker 1: be like scratchy on my back. Thank you, Rita, have

1596
01:19:04,400 --> 01:19:07,040
Speaker 1: a good day. Thank you, glad you called. Have a

1597
01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 1: good one. Hey Julia, Hello, Hi Julia, good morning. How

1598
01:19:10,160 --> 01:19:15,240
Speaker 1: are you? You're into it and other people don't get it? Ye?

1599
01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:19,439
Speaker 1: What is it? Reptile? You're into reptiles? What is the

1600
01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:22,320
Speaker 1: deal with reptiles? They don't talk to you. They don't

1601
01:19:22,720 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: You can't really what, they can't really like, They don't

1602
01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:28,600
Speaker 1: really give you. I've never seen any emotion out of

1603
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:40,640
Speaker 1: a spider before or a rat. What are insects? An?

1604
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 1: I don't know what? Right? I put them all in

1605
01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:45,040
Speaker 1: the same category. So you're talking about you're talking about

1606
01:19:45,080 --> 01:19:50,200
Speaker 1: lizards and snakes. Yeah, basically, okay, I've never seen a

1607
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 1: lizard smile at me. Okay, well yeah, yeah, but I

1608
01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:00,800
Speaker 1: talked to them and a talk about and they have

1609
01:20:00,920 --> 01:20:05,280
Speaker 1: personalities and you can take them for walks and will

1610
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:07,200
Speaker 1: sit in my hands and they'll let me at him

1611
01:20:07,240 --> 01:20:09,280
Speaker 1: for hours. You can have pupper nickel. What is it

1612
01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:18,879
Speaker 1: pard Leopard? And there's some Swiss eat that as delicious

1613
01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:23,360
Speaker 1: pupper nickel. I love that. Okay, so whatever, so you

1614
01:20:23,479 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 1: like you like lizards and say they tried to get me.

1615
01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:28,439
Speaker 1: I got an email yesterday about flying what what is

1616
01:20:28,439 --> 01:20:30,639
Speaker 1: the aescentic land say they want me to fly two snakes,

1617
01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:35,280
Speaker 1: completely harmless snakes. It says, no, I'm not doing it.

1618
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it snakes on a plane. Right, So

1619
01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:45,960
Speaker 1: what happened snake? You saw what happened on a Monday

1620
01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:53,360
Speaker 1: to Friday playing plane? Julia? I'm not even taking you

1621
01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:55,960
Speaker 1: with me to fly these snakes. I don't like snakes.

1622
01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:59,280
Speaker 1: Why are you into it? Okay? Well I get the

1623
01:20:59,360 --> 01:21:04,400
Speaker 1: stakes from I want people get it like people. But

1624
01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:13,759
Speaker 1: I just eat, eat your face off, can't eat anything.

1625
01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:17,000
Speaker 1: I just want you to know, Julia, that your little

1626
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:20,439
Speaker 1: pumper nickel um get go. Whatever it is is, it's

1627
01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 1: secretly when I send your lap is going. If I

1628
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:25,680
Speaker 1: were big enough, I would eat you. Yeah, I like

1629
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:30,360
Speaker 1: you know. If he's not big enough to fit your hand,

1630
01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:36,560
Speaker 1: eat stop. I'm worried about it. Okay, Well you just

1631
01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:39,040
Speaker 1: wait till I'm never going to own him like a crocodile.

1632
01:21:39,160 --> 01:21:42,720
Speaker 1: So I'm not scared of getting another thing. I like crocodiles.

1633
01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:45,439
Speaker 1: I like crocodiles. I think they're cool. But these guys

1634
01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:47,719
Speaker 1: that put their head in the crocodile, what the hell's

1635
01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:50,640
Speaker 1: wrong with you? What? What happens if it goes? I

1636
01:21:50,760 --> 01:21:56,000
Speaker 1: just don't feel like it today. Question I would know.

1637
01:21:56,360 --> 01:21:59,479
Speaker 1: I'm not one of those guys. Anyway, I don't get it.

1638
01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:02,679
Speaker 1: Thank you, I have a good day, Julien. I don't understand.

1639
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I could not date

1640
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 1: a girl seriously right now. I could not date a

1641
01:22:07,040 --> 01:22:10,840
Speaker 1: girl who had a snake or a parrot. I don't

1642
01:22:10,880 --> 01:22:13,800
Speaker 1: get birds. I don't get birds. Do woop everywhere? They

1643
01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:15,439
Speaker 1: make a bunch of noise. Should be sitting in a

1644
01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:18,840
Speaker 1: little cage. I think they're cowards. Like I walk by

1645
01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:21,000
Speaker 1: a bird, I'll say, what's up to the bird? I

1646
01:22:21,040 --> 01:22:22,840
Speaker 1: ain't living with one, though. As soon as you go

1647
01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:27,840
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, I'm letting your bird out. No. Pat Patrick,

1648
01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 1: good morning. You're into it and other people don't get it.

1649
01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 1: What is it? That's what really jumped out to me.

1650
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:34,559
Speaker 1: It's kind of for the guy who puts my beard.

1651
01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 1: My wife hates it, the family hates it. They don't

1652
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: get it. And you got a big beard, right, like

1653
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:41,639
Speaker 1: you're committed. I'm assuming we're talking about a like long

1654
01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:45,479
Speaker 1: hair beard right. Well, it's been just like April. I've

1655
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:48,200
Speaker 1: turned it back a few times, but it's yeah, I

1656
01:22:48,280 --> 01:22:50,640
Speaker 1: mean it's because I've got a beard. But it's like

1657
01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, half an inch quarter of an inch long,

1658
01:22:53,080 --> 01:22:54,760
Speaker 1: Like I'm not talking like I don't have like an

1659
01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 1: inch or longer beard, like another form of like hair

1660
01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:01,040
Speaker 1: on my head, on my mouth kind of thing, you

1661
01:23:01,080 --> 01:23:04,200
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's like two inches, but it's

1662
01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:06,800
Speaker 1: not full ezy top. I mean, it's like it's got

1663
01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 1: some link to go. But I'm a little that I

1664
01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:11,719
Speaker 1: kind of wish I could grow one that looked just dope.

1665
01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:13,920
Speaker 1: But it gets to about where mine is right now,

1666
01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:15,879
Speaker 1: and then start I start to look a little homeless.

1667
01:23:16,240 --> 01:23:18,439
Speaker 1: So I got a video and that's what they're saying.

1668
01:23:18,439 --> 01:23:20,560
Speaker 1: They're saying, it's kind of like a little homeless, like

1669
01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:22,800
Speaker 1: I might not be able to fall into my neighborhood

1670
01:23:22,880 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 1: safely anymore because of your beard. You sound like a

1671
01:23:27,840 --> 01:23:33,080
Speaker 1: menacing individual. Patrick. I think your beard is, Otherwise you're

1672
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:34,639
Speaker 1: gonna be in the next making a murder or a pack.

1673
01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 1: Have a good day, man, Glad you called. Hey, Shelley. Yeah, Shelley,

1674
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:42,479
Speaker 1: you're You're way into it and other people don't seem

1675
01:23:42,520 --> 01:23:43,960
Speaker 1: to get it. And this whole thing started, by the way,

1676
01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 1: because I read the top ten list of death metal bands.

1677
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:49,160
Speaker 1: I know nothing about death metal, and I realized I

1678
01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:52,040
Speaker 1: don't appreciate it. I don't get it. I don't understand

1679
01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 1: people who listen to it. And I mean one of

1680
01:23:54,520 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 1: the stuff on this list, I think I do, but

1681
01:23:56,640 --> 01:23:59,439
Speaker 1: some of it is just honestly, it's just banging. I

1682
01:23:59,560 --> 01:24:05,720
Speaker 1: don't are you're any melodic anything? Yeah, but what are

1683
01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:10,360
Speaker 1: you into? I know she's saying, I'm not a fan

1684
01:24:10,439 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 1: of dust metal either, so I can't your favorite. But

1685
01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:20,000
Speaker 1: you are into murder? Murder murder? Steve Avery hello, Like what? Like?

1686
01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 1: What are we talking about? How are you murple or no? No,

1687
01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:27,360
Speaker 1: I'm into all things to crime. Um. It started years

1688
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:31,120
Speaker 1: ago with Nancy Grace. I know everyone most people despise her,

1689
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:34,040
Speaker 1: but I was false thing to Nancy Grace. I still

1690
01:24:34,200 --> 01:24:37,000
Speaker 1: have to turn on the TV every night to forensic

1691
01:24:37,080 --> 01:24:41,400
Speaker 1: files or Dateline. It drives my husband nuts. Us like Dateline.

1692
01:24:41,560 --> 01:24:43,760
Speaker 1: I don't like the forensic file stuff when it gets

1693
01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:45,960
Speaker 1: into the actual blood and guts and like you know,

1694
01:24:48,120 --> 01:24:50,479
Speaker 1: trajectory and things like that. That doesn't do anything for me.

1695
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:52,680
Speaker 1: But I like them. I like the Dayline stuff. I

1696
01:24:52,840 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 1: like the storytelling. Yes. Um, the latest craze which I'm

1697
01:24:56,640 --> 01:25:00,360
Speaker 1: a huge fan of is a podcast called My Favorite Murder. Oh.

1698
01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:03,280
Speaker 1: There's a huge following with that. I saw them live

1699
01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:07,120
Speaker 1: in Milwaukee. Uh, They're amazing. It's an amazing podcast. They

1700
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:11,639
Speaker 1: talked about the serial killers and the killers and there's

1701
01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:14,880
Speaker 1: a great community that they've created. So I am into

1702
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:18,360
Speaker 1: all things Favorite Murder. Okay, I have to check that out. Okay,

1703
01:25:18,479 --> 01:25:19,960
Speaker 1: I kind of like that stuff too. Maybe we'd be

1704
01:25:20,120 --> 01:25:22,360
Speaker 1: when we should be friends, Shelley, thank you for calling.

1705
01:25:23,240 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 1: Thank you. Maybe I found my match because I like

1706
01:25:25,880 --> 01:25:28,400
Speaker 1: to sit at home and watch deal and then that

1707
01:25:28,479 --> 01:25:32,160
Speaker 1: she has snakes and birds. Sorry, too bad, I never mind,

1708
01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:38,400
Speaker 1: just kidding. Invite rescinded. Hey Katie, this is random. You're

1709
01:25:38,439 --> 01:25:40,600
Speaker 1: really into this and other people don't get it. What

1710
01:25:40,800 --> 01:25:43,080
Speaker 1: is it? Yeah? So I like get crap for it

1711
01:25:43,120 --> 01:25:46,240
Speaker 1: all the time. But I like my coffee to be

1712
01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:49,479
Speaker 1: room temperature. You'd like room temperature coffee, So you'll pour

1713
01:25:49,600 --> 01:25:52,479
Speaker 1: coffee for yourself out of the coffee pot that's hot typically,

1714
01:25:52,680 --> 01:25:54,639
Speaker 1: and then you'll let it sit until it's not hot,

1715
01:25:54,720 --> 01:25:57,280
Speaker 1: and then you'll drink it correct Or I'll like make

1716
01:25:57,320 --> 01:25:59,400
Speaker 1: a pot of coffee and turn it off. Wait like

1717
01:25:59,479 --> 01:26:01,599
Speaker 1: an hour, an hour and a half. It's like perfect,

1718
01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:04,760
Speaker 1: because I hate that either has to be cold with

1719
01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:08,720
Speaker 1: ice or really hot. It cannot be room temperature. Now, yeah,

1720
01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:11,680
Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm in between. I mean, I'll

1721
01:26:11,760 --> 01:26:14,760
Speaker 1: drink it ice, but I just prefer it like not ice,

1722
01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:17,760
Speaker 1: not hot. Interesting. Okay, all right, well there you go,

1723
01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:19,880
Speaker 1: Thank you, Katie. See this is what I was looking for.

1724
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:21,479
Speaker 1: I was thinking we were unning a little like some

1725
01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:23,519
Speaker 1: at least something really really weird, like oh, I'm in

1726
01:26:23,600 --> 01:26:27,280
Speaker 1: a Japanese anime porn that features parrots and snakes. Of course,

1727
01:26:27,320 --> 01:26:29,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, just something really obscure. I don't know. Hey,

1728
01:26:29,360 --> 01:26:32,840
Speaker 1: sherryn Hi, how are you? How are you? What's going on?

1729
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:34,720
Speaker 1: Tell us all about the weird thing that you're into

1730
01:26:34,760 --> 01:26:37,599
Speaker 1: that nobody else seems to understand. Um, Actually, two things.

1731
01:26:37,640 --> 01:26:40,439
Speaker 1: So one is I do not ever use silverware. You

1732
01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:43,639
Speaker 1: don't use silverware, So what do you use your hands? Sports?

1733
01:26:44,560 --> 01:26:50,200
Speaker 1: If I have to use my hands, why padusting case?

1734
01:26:50,560 --> 01:26:53,760
Speaker 1: Because the silverware has a weird taste. Doesn't have that

1735
01:26:53,880 --> 01:26:56,880
Speaker 1: weird taste. Interesting, it has a taste to it. The

1736
01:26:57,240 --> 01:27:00,720
Speaker 1: plastic ware isn't as durable. And plus you're you know,

1737
01:27:00,880 --> 01:27:03,080
Speaker 1: let's we won't even talk about your carbon floor, Pryan.

1738
01:27:03,320 --> 01:27:05,519
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, out of here. What you're saying, like, you know,

1739
01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:08,519
Speaker 1: you could break a plastic fork easily if something is

1740
01:27:08,880 --> 01:27:10,519
Speaker 1: I guess, I guess she has a backup one. Then

1741
01:27:10,600 --> 01:27:12,240
Speaker 1: so you carry with you when you go to So

1742
01:27:12,439 --> 01:27:13,920
Speaker 1: if I take you to a restaurant, you and I

1743
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:17,320
Speaker 1: go someplace super classy like California Pizza kitchen, and and

1744
01:27:17,520 --> 01:27:20,880
Speaker 1: we here we are super super classy. Well maybe you

1745
01:27:21,120 --> 01:27:23,360
Speaker 1: ordered plasta or a salad. Maybe you did, And so

1746
01:27:23,439 --> 01:27:27,760
Speaker 1: you're gonna bust out your own plastic fork and knife. Yeah,

1747
01:27:27,800 --> 01:27:29,840
Speaker 1: I've actually been sit in Italy and I really can't

1748
01:27:29,880 --> 01:27:32,120
Speaker 1: see restaurant. Yes, I busted out my own plastic wear

1749
01:27:32,439 --> 01:27:37,040
Speaker 1: really Okay, all right, I got sherry. You don't like silverware,

1750
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:42,920
Speaker 1: thank you? Yeah? And oh well you we got somebody

1751
01:27:43,320 --> 01:27:45,120
Speaker 1: by the phone. It would be perfect for you. Literally,

1752
01:27:46,160 --> 01:27:52,000
Speaker 1: I think he has the Santa Claus one. It's worth sent. Yeah, exactly. Wow,

1753
01:27:52,120 --> 01:27:55,120
Speaker 1: have a good day, Sherry. Than I have to hear

1754
01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:59,160
Speaker 1: this one. Omar, hi, omar. What are you into that

1755
01:27:59,200 --> 01:28:02,759
Speaker 1: other people don't seem understand? Um? So I like dipping

1756
01:28:02,840 --> 01:28:08,639
Speaker 1: my ice and ketch up. Yeah, dip your ice. Correct. Yes,

1757
01:28:08,920 --> 01:28:11,320
Speaker 1: it's so good. It's like it's kind of like a

1758
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:14,519
Speaker 1: sweep of sour taste and it's just one of the

1759
01:28:14,600 --> 01:28:16,280
Speaker 1: best things. You shoul definitely try it. But it has

1760
01:28:16,360 --> 01:28:18,479
Speaker 1: to be the clear ice, like the ice to get

1761
01:28:18,520 --> 01:28:21,759
Speaker 1: from Burger Keane or from like McDonald's. So you actually

1762
01:28:21,880 --> 01:28:24,519
Speaker 1: take ice and you dip it in ketchhip and you

1763
01:28:24,640 --> 01:28:27,679
Speaker 1: put it in your mouth. Correct, And sometimes it doesn't

1764
01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:29,160
Speaker 1: stay on the ice because you know, it's kind of

1765
01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:32,880
Speaker 1: slippery if it's a liquid, But it's so good that

1766
01:28:33,200 --> 01:28:35,360
Speaker 1: or just going in the fridge and just getting some

1767
01:28:35,479 --> 01:28:40,080
Speaker 1: butter on the knife and just eating it. Well, I'll

1768
01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:42,639
Speaker 1: tell you something done. I will tell you something salted butter.

1769
01:28:43,479 --> 01:28:46,280
Speaker 1: The bread is really only just the delivery method for

1770
01:28:46,360 --> 01:28:48,479
Speaker 1: the salted butter. Let's be really honest. It's like, most

1771
01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:50,880
Speaker 1: of the time I want the salted butter and the bread.

1772
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:54,600
Speaker 1: I will put a disproportionate amount of salted butter on

1773
01:28:54,760 --> 01:28:57,360
Speaker 1: bread because the bread is secondary. Now I'm with you

1774
01:28:57,479 --> 01:28:59,280
Speaker 1: on that. Okay, there you go, Almar you you were

1775
01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:01,240
Speaker 1: really weird first and then you've got a lot more

1776
01:29:01,320 --> 01:29:02,960
Speaker 1: normal all of a sudden. So I had to go

1777
01:29:03,120 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 1: go with some ice and catch up or something. By

1778
01:29:06,280 --> 01:29:07,840
Speaker 1: we're Fred. I know, we're trying to figure that one.

1779
01:29:08,080 --> 01:29:11,439
Speaker 1: Know where the saltiness comes from? Where's the butter? No

1780
01:29:11,720 --> 01:29:14,120
Speaker 1: in the kick like he says, the sweeten the salty

1781
01:29:14,760 --> 01:29:21,960
Speaker 1: like ice is not neither. Like Yeah, right, guy messed up.

1782
01:29:23,600 --> 01:29:29,120
Speaker 1: Oh that's pretty messtood Kiss one or three five? Kiss

1783
01:29:29,160 --> 01:29:33,320
Speaker 1: im Chicago's number one hit music station. It's Fred and Angie.

1784
01:29:34,040 --> 01:29:36,960
Speaker 1: Where's my Beethoven music? Someone cute the Beetoven music? Because

1785
01:29:37,600 --> 01:29:39,479
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys knew this, but there's

1786
01:29:39,479 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 1: a whole series of etiquette mistakes that you're making that

1787
01:29:41,960 --> 01:29:44,679
Speaker 1: you probably didn't know. According to an etiquette expert today,

1788
01:29:45,160 --> 01:29:47,560
Speaker 1: I saw this article this morning, and a lot of

1789
01:29:47,600 --> 01:29:49,280
Speaker 1: this stuff I didn't know I wasn't supposed to do,

1790
01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:52,080
Speaker 1: or that I was doing incorrectly. So here I am

1791
01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:54,040
Speaker 1: trying to save the day for you, guys, and in

1792
01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:58,920
Speaker 1: various situations where etiquette is required. Um. Number one, you

1793
01:29:59,000 --> 01:30:02,680
Speaker 1: are never to share hands with someone well seated. If

1794
01:30:02,760 --> 01:30:05,320
Speaker 1: someone walks up to your table, don't extend a hand

1795
01:30:05,400 --> 01:30:09,200
Speaker 1: while sitting. You should always stand, no matter the gender rights.

1796
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:14,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, pie, I don't stand up every time. You

1797
01:30:14,400 --> 01:30:16,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't less Enid shook someone's hand. If I have to

1798
01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:18,800
Speaker 1: shake your hand, I'll stand up. I wouldn't sit and

1799
01:30:18,840 --> 01:30:20,639
Speaker 1: shake your hand. That just shook my hand this morning,

1800
01:30:20,680 --> 01:30:25,840
Speaker 1: sitting down. I shook up with you. Then roll too

1801
01:30:25,840 --> 01:30:27,880
Speaker 1: when Fred enters the room, Polin, it is to stand

1802
01:30:29,640 --> 01:30:33,560
Speaker 1: every single time. Um. That's another thing, is I know,

1803
01:30:33,640 --> 01:30:35,320
Speaker 1: like you're supposed to stand with a woman, like at

1804
01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:37,000
Speaker 1: a table, at a dinner table, when a woman gets up,

1805
01:30:37,000 --> 01:30:39,160
Speaker 1: you're supposed to stand up. I think that winds up

1806
01:30:39,200 --> 01:30:41,560
Speaker 1: making a spectacle of you though, Like if I'm on

1807
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:43,800
Speaker 1: a date, no what I If I'm on a date

1808
01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:46,519
Speaker 1: in a restaurant, I think it's like an antiquated tradition.

1809
01:30:47,000 --> 01:30:48,519
Speaker 1: Like if if a woman stands up to go to

1810
01:30:48,520 --> 01:30:49,680
Speaker 1: the bathroom and I'm on a date with her and

1811
01:30:49,760 --> 01:30:50,920
Speaker 1: just the two of us at a table, and then

1812
01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:52,800
Speaker 1: I stand when she gets up and I stand when

1813
01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:55,559
Speaker 1: she gets back. I feel like that people wind up

1814
01:30:55,560 --> 01:30:58,200
Speaker 1: staring at us. I make a spectacle of us. You

1815
01:30:58,240 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 1: want you want people to stare at your girl? Yeah,

1816
01:31:01,560 --> 01:31:05,600
Speaker 1: because such a lucky guy. And he's a gentleman. So

1817
01:31:05,680 --> 01:31:11,719
Speaker 1: you can pull your chair out heard her chair, her eyebrow. Damn,

1818
01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:17,720
Speaker 1: you're gonna make him obsessed. I'm just gonna stare at you.

1819
01:31:19,720 --> 01:31:23,400
Speaker 1: Maybe you have many very long with you. I can.

1820
01:31:23,760 --> 01:31:25,320
Speaker 1: I brought you into this role. I'll take you out

1821
01:31:25,360 --> 01:31:29,160
Speaker 1: of it. Isn't that what my mom says, I'll take

1822
01:31:29,200 --> 01:31:31,639
Speaker 1: you out. I'll take you out of it. Um. Regarding

1823
01:31:31,720 --> 01:31:35,680
Speaker 1: the cheek kiss, it's one kiss, right cheek to right

1824
01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:37,840
Speaker 1: cheek in America. If you travel to Europe, it can

1825
01:31:37,880 --> 01:31:40,200
Speaker 1: be two or even three, depending on the country. I

1826
01:31:40,240 --> 01:31:41,920
Speaker 1: don't do that either. Oh, I guess I do, but

1827
01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:43,880
Speaker 1: I don't like it. That's a little weird for me.

1828
01:31:43,920 --> 01:31:45,720
Speaker 1: And you actually are you supposed to actually kiss or

1829
01:31:45,720 --> 01:31:47,800
Speaker 1: you're supposed to kiss the air? You kind of kiss

1830
01:31:47,840 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 1: the air and put your cheek up there and kind

1831
01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:53,240
Speaker 1: of kiss the air. Cheeks always kind of a weird thing. Um.

1832
01:31:53,479 --> 01:31:55,760
Speaker 1: The guest of honor and an event always sits to

1833
01:31:55,880 --> 01:31:58,000
Speaker 1: the right of the host or hostess. How do you

1834
01:31:58,040 --> 01:31:59,559
Speaker 1: know if you're the guest of honor, they gotta tell

1835
01:31:59,560 --> 01:32:03,519
Speaker 1: you that, yeah, right, like you are the rest of

1836
01:32:03,560 --> 01:32:07,759
Speaker 1: these people. From now on that every time I go somewhere,

1837
01:32:07,880 --> 01:32:13,920
Speaker 1: you should sit there to the right of the French.

1838
01:32:14,040 --> 01:32:16,400
Speaker 1: Don't say bone upetite at the beginning of a meal,

1839
01:32:16,520 --> 01:32:20,600
Speaker 1: and neither should we instead say please enjoy. It's a

1840
01:32:20,680 --> 01:32:24,320
Speaker 1: commonly misused phrase that means hope you digest everything, okay,

1841
01:32:24,840 --> 01:32:27,200
Speaker 1: instead of wishing guests and enjoyable meal. You shouldn't do that.

1842
01:32:27,240 --> 01:32:29,040
Speaker 1: I guess these are the etiquette ules that we're all

1843
01:32:29,040 --> 01:32:32,280
Speaker 1: screwing up, apparently, regardless of whether it contains wine or water.

1844
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:35,120
Speaker 1: If a glass has a stem, then that's where you're

1845
01:32:35,160 --> 01:32:37,559
Speaker 1: supposed to hold it. Yes, you're not supposed to hold

1846
01:32:37,560 --> 01:32:39,720
Speaker 1: the vase part of it, the cut part of it,

1847
01:32:39,800 --> 01:32:43,439
Speaker 1: whatever warms up your liquid from your hands. Soup should

1848
01:32:43,479 --> 01:32:46,160
Speaker 1: always be scooped away from you. I've never thought about

1849
01:32:46,200 --> 01:32:48,320
Speaker 1: that before. I just eat the damn sup What you mean?

1850
01:32:49,240 --> 01:32:53,080
Speaker 1: I don't know from as opposed to like this so

1851
01:32:53,200 --> 01:32:59,800
Speaker 1: it doesn't go on their own. It's gonna go all

1852
01:32:59,840 --> 01:33:01,439
Speaker 1: over you anyway, because eventually you got to lift it

1853
01:33:01,520 --> 01:33:03,559
Speaker 1: up and put in your mouth. Um. At the end

1854
01:33:03,560 --> 01:33:05,400
Speaker 1: of a meal, your napkins should be pinched in the

1855
01:33:05,520 --> 01:33:07,840
Speaker 1: middle and place to the left of your plate to

1856
01:33:07,920 --> 01:33:10,000
Speaker 1: signify that you were finished. I always throw it over

1857
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:13,519
Speaker 1: my food. Yeah, I'm not supposed to do that's how

1858
01:33:13,600 --> 01:33:16,280
Speaker 1: on how uncouth of you? I know? Other than marital

1859
01:33:16,400 --> 01:33:19,880
Speaker 1: or religious jewelry, diamonds should be worn only after six pm,

1860
01:33:21,160 --> 01:33:27,720
Speaker 1: these diamonds. But am I a farmer? My diamond show? Gut,

1861
01:33:27,800 --> 01:33:30,679
Speaker 1: it's five fifteen. I can't whear this. Somebody tell Mariah

1862
01:33:31,040 --> 01:33:34,280
Speaker 1: she is uncouth. Where's my product? Paper clip? Where are

1863
01:33:34,360 --> 01:33:38,800
Speaker 1: my diamond shoes? Um? When you send send out an invitation,

1864
01:33:39,000 --> 01:33:43,920
Speaker 1: never say please RSVP because it's redundant. RSVP in French

1865
01:33:44,000 --> 01:33:46,759
Speaker 1: stands for please respond. So you say please, you say please,

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01:33:46,880 --> 01:33:52,479
Speaker 1: please respond kindly RSVP. Right, Usually you will know because

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01:33:52,479 --> 01:33:54,960
Speaker 1: you would say kindly please. So you just say rs

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01:33:55,040 --> 01:33:59,200
Speaker 1: VP because that means please. That's very demanding. Yeah, because

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01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:02,200
Speaker 1: if you need to leave a room, say please excuse me.

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01:34:02,360 --> 01:34:05,439
Speaker 1: Never pardon me. Asking for a pardon is reserved only

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01:34:05,680 --> 01:34:11,360
Speaker 1: for the service staff. Darling my diamonds. It's nearly six pm.

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01:34:11,560 --> 01:34:14,479
Speaker 1: Part of me I didn't do any of this stuff

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01:34:15,400 --> 01:34:19,320
Speaker 1: and scoop your damn soup away from you doing it wrong.

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01:34:19,439 --> 01:34:22,880
Speaker 1: You've been still scoop it away. Can you still pick

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01:34:22,960 --> 01:34:25,679
Speaker 1: it up and slurp it down? While Hell yeah, especially

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01:34:25,760 --> 01:34:33,000
Speaker 1: with cereal milk slurp do star whatever your cheek, kiss

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01:34:35,040 --> 01:34:39,280
Speaker 1: your ass up, shake my hand, go fetch me my diamonds.