1 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: Transmitting good, Ay, what do you have over there? 2 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: Well, so, my daughter and I've been talking about college 3 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: a lot because she's a junior in high school, and 4 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 2: so it's just led to a lot of conversations. She 5 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 2: was talking to me about my major and if I 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 2: would redo anything, and I'm like, I didn't even know 7 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: what I wanted to do when I was in college, 8 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: and just got me thinking about what I would redo 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 2: if I could redo anything, and I would totally have 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: a different major. 11 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 3: Well, no, I was first. 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 2: I was political science till my junior year. And then 13 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 2: I why that, I don't know. I just thought I 14 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 2: liked it. I wanted to go to DC. I thought 15 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 2: I wanted to work in the space, not into politics 16 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 2: myself as a politician. I just saw myself working in 17 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 2: some capacity, like my mom worked at the Capitol for 18 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: a little bit, and I would go up there, and 19 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 2: I guess I always thought that that was kind of cool. 20 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 2: I liked the energy until I got to the upper 21 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: level classes and I was like, this is horrible. I 22 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 2: actually do not like this at all. And I went 23 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 2: to my guidance counselor and I said, what can I do? 24 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 2: Because I've taken all these classes and I don't want 25 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 2: them to go to waste and I still want to 26 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: graduate on time ish And she said, well, you can 27 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 2: go get an agricultural development degree because you have to 28 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 2: have an emphasis in something. An emphasis is just short 29 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 2: of a minor. And so all my polypsy classes went 30 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 2: to that. So I have a degree in agricultural development 31 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 2: with an emphasis in polypsci. Interesting, and I would totally 32 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 2: redo that, like I would have done like a psychology 33 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 2: major or something that was like interesting to me because 34 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 2: I don't know that I was going to college for 35 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: anything specific, because I didn't know what I wanted to do, 36 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: and here this is my career and I still want 37 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 2: to do this. So if I could redo college, I 38 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 2: would have learned more about us and our bodies and 39 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: why we are, our minds, why we are the way 40 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: we are. 41 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: If I were going to redo, I think I wouldn't 42 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: go to college, okay or that or that? Oh man, 43 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: I am happy I did. No one in my family 44 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: ever went to college, nobody ever graduated high school. So 45 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: that's the reason I finished school, the reason I did 46 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: it all because no one ever had and that was 47 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: a goal for me. But not everybody needs college I 48 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: don't feel like to do what I've done. I need college. 49 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:21,239 Speaker 1: I started doing this when I started college, so I 50 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: wouldn't redo it. But if I were to redo it, 51 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: I don't think I would because let's take away the 52 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: factors of like I want to be the only one 53 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: to graduate school. 54 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 4: I want to go to. 55 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 3: College school her school. But also, you didn't have a mind. 56 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: And I know that not everybody has this experience, but 57 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 2: I think most of us in this room did have 58 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 2: like a college experience, like of. 59 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 3: Like you didn't have that. You worked and studied twenty 60 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 3: four to seven. 61 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: That's why I would I never sucked, dude. 62 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 5: The best years of our lives were in college. 63 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: That kind of sucked for me. It was Yeah, that's 64 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: interesting getting back. I drove an hour and a half 65 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 1: to work every day. 66 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm not. 67 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 2: That's why I'm saying you would probably skip college. But 68 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 2: like for some people, it's like, oh, college is fun. 69 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 5: I would never skip college. I would do college again 70 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 5: just the way I did it. Oh dude, it was awesome. 71 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I probably would have studied more. 72 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: What would you but change? Because my change is going 73 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: to be I wouldn't have gone Yeah, Okay, Eddie, what 74 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: is your change? Man? 75 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 5: I have to think hard about this because I mean, 76 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 5: my major was good. It was radio television film, so 77 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 5: I'm still kind of in it, you know, like I 78 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 5: did want to be a reporter, Like that's what I 79 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 5: really wanted, a news reporter. Then when I graduated, it's 80 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 5: just that didn't happen, and so like whatever. But I 81 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 5: think I would have liked to take business classes. I 82 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 5: did waste so lot of time taking classes that I'm 83 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 5: never like I took weather and climate three times because 84 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 5: you loved it so much. Because I failed. 85 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 6: I failed two times, and it's like so stupid. 86 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 5: Why did I just quit the first time and just 87 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 5: do business classes. 88 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: I would finance. 89 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 4: It's tough. 90 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 5: I would have loved to go back and do that lunchbox. 91 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 6: I wouldn't have double major. You didn't graduate, I know, 92 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 6: but I did double major. I did speech, communication and 93 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 6: public relations. Too different, Like that's that the same thing. No, 94 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 6: it's too different, And so it was so stupid because 95 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 6: the counselor makes it sound so awesome. But I didn't 96 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 6: get to take any like bowling or like any stupid classes. 97 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 3: I did power walking, Like that's what. 98 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 6: I'm saying, I didn't get to take any of those 99 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 6: because I was double majoring. I'm like, why did I 100 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 6: do that? How stupid was I? I should have been 101 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 6: taking basketball like my roommate took golf and got credit 102 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 6: for it. 103 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,679 Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, do you have the same passion 104 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: that you wish? You just would have finished the three 105 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: hours and got your same passions? And how I thought 106 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: this change would have been? I took one more class 107 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: and graduated. 108 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, no, no, it wouldn't. I would have not double major. 109 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 4: That was just absolutely stupid. 110 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: You need three hours to graduate. 111 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 6: I mean speech, communication, public relations, and a minor in 112 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 6: general business. I mean I didn't take any blowoff class. 113 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 6: How stupid was I? 114 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: But did you blow off the classes that you were taking? 115 00:04:58,760 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 116 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 6: I mean, but still you got it in. 117 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 3: Do you remember your gpa I was passing. 118 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 1: I know. 119 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 6: I know that I didn't get how many times shit 120 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 6: weather in climate. 121 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 4: I didn't take any of that. I didn't take any 122 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 4: of that. 123 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 6: I do not know, amy, but I know that I 124 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 6: didn't maintain I high enough GPA to get my scholarship 125 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 6: renewed for a second year, which scholarship Austin Livestock and Rodeo. 126 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 5: How much was that? 127 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 6: I was like, fifteen hundred dollars. I want to shout 128 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 6: out Chasco Contracting. Oh, they are the ones that sponsored me. 129 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 6: And I didn't know this, but once the freshman year ended, 130 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 6: they send you a letter and they say, hey, if 131 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 6: you maintained this GPA, show us and we will continue 132 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 6: your scholarship for a second year. And I'm like, why 133 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 6: didn't they tell me that beforehand? 134 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: Why why did you get that scholarship? Like achievement, I 135 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: can make achievement. 136 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 6: No, Austin Livestock and Rodeo. I just filled out all 137 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 6: that application. Mom did No, No, I filled out the scholarships. 138 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 6: She filed out the college application. 139 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm stupid. 140 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 3: Come on, sorry, sorry, I forgot so much spots. 141 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 5: When you got accepted, you didn't even know you had 142 00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 5: applied there. 143 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:00,359 Speaker 6: Your mom and no, she asked me, She said, what 144 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 6: do you think about ut s A? And I was like, 145 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 6: I'd run a couple of cross country meets there and 146 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 6: I was like that's fine. She goes, all right, heiled 147 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 6: it out, and she goes. 148 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 5: Well you got in. 149 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 6: I'm like, I guess that's where I'm goinghere. 150 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: You applying didn't get in. 151 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 6: No, that was only an application she filled out. 152 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 1: Oh, I said to you, No, No, I didn't feel 153 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: any none, the only one. 154 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. 155 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 3: I only applied to one college and I didn't get my. 156 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 6: Counselor in high school. She I mean, she was such 157 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 6: a she sucked. But she was like, it's just the 158 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 6: same shame. You're just gonna go to a CC, you 159 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 6: know what I mean? You should be more motivated. 160 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: Which is a community college for everybody? 161 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 6: And there's and I was like whatever, And I was like, 162 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 6: my mom's gonna fallut the application. We're gonna be good. 163 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: You know. 164 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 5: My dad told me that I can go wherever I wanted. 165 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 3: I was like, you knew that it was limited. 166 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: I don't know he knew penthesies. You can try to 167 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: go everything because. 168 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 6: My parents so many. Not everybody goes to college. College 169 00:06:58,480 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 6: is not for everyone. You might want to just get 170 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 6: a off. 171 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 5: And my dad said, if you get into any college, 172 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 5: I will help you go to that college. 173 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: Knowing I don't know, you wouldn't get into anything. 174 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 2: Where'd you apply your CLA, baby, did you get in? 175 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 5: No? Yeah, I want to go to LA That's where 176 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 5: I want to go. So and I did a USC 177 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 5: film school, didn't get it, didn't get accepted. 178 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: Your dad was like, wherever you go, I got you 179 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: gotch I probably knew would be taught to can good. 180 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: Lunchbox's parents were like, you. 181 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 6: Don't have to go to college, man, Like, you can 182 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 6: just work. It's okay to just get a job after 183 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 6: high school. 184 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: Amy, what were your parents like. 185 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 2: I don't really remember my dad having any opinion. I 186 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 2: lived with my mom, and I remember my sister went 187 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: to Texas A and M, and so I liked. So 188 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 2: She's like, if that's where you can go, that's where 189 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: you should apply. But she didn't go to college, so 190 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 2: she just sort of helped me a little bit. But 191 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I'm just applying to Texas A 192 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 2: and M and that's it. And then I didn't get in, 193 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: and I was like, well, what do I do now? 194 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 2: So then I went to Blynn, which was community college 195 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 2: that feeds. Yes, it's right next to it. It's in Brian, 196 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 2: which is right next to College Station. And I left 197 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 2: Blynn with a three point nine GPA, got into A 198 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: and M my sophomore year. Then I rushed and did 199 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 2: the whole the sworty thing. And then I lived my 200 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 2: college life. But that just showed me if I like 201 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: really hunkered down and applied myself. Like once I felt 202 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 2: that embarrassment of like I didn't get into college, I 203 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 2: was like, okay, I'm going to prove that I can 204 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 2: do this. So I left, I got the three nine, I. 205 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: Got in and then pretty solid three nine. 206 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, No, I was on fire. And then once 207 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 3: I got in, I was like, okay, I'm here party time. 208 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 1: When I moved off to college, my parents even know 209 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: I was going to college, so they just always figured 210 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: I would or something. And I remember just being like, 211 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 1: all right, guys, tomorrow, I'm leaving. And they were like 212 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: cool and they were like where. I was like, I'm 213 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: moving to college, and so I picked up super and 214 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: drugs just left. 215 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 5: Wow. 216 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 3: So mayus you did all that on your own. 217 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: There wasn't you can't do it. There wasn't you can 218 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: do it. There was just no conversation about it. And 219 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: so yeah, I was just like I'm leaving tomorrow, But 220 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: how did you know to apply in all that? 221 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 5: Like your counselors, what they tell you about it? 222 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: We counselors, What about mind? Dude? 223 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying like, how did you even know 224 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 5: that college was an option? 225 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 3: I didn't have, like any guidance. 226 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: Surely, I'm telling I don't sure. In the office, how 227 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: did you notice I don't take the SATs and stuff 228 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: I took a month before school. I turned mine in 229 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: seventh grade, my first one in seventh grade, because they 230 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: were like, if you want to get into a good college, 231 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: this will be the test you want to take. And 232 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: I was in GT, which was a Gift and Talented program, 233 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 1: and so I think that's probably where I was told 234 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: that you should start doing this young. So I took 235 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 1: it in seventh grade, the ACT, and I scored high 236 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: enough I got a scholarship in seventh grade for like 237 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: I guess, scored like twenty three or twenty four. 238 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 5: And seventh grade you could have gone to UCLA. 239 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: Man, I don't know if that's true or not. USC 240 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: film that I could have gotten in any Arkansas school 241 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: paid for in seventh. 242 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 3: Grade, probaly would have gotten in A and m No. 243 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, out of state. Who knows. Probably being 244 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: in GT because there was an expectation that was put 245 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: on me. But also I was like, I gotta get 246 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: out of this place. So I don't know. I don't 247 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: know the real answer, but I would say probably that. 248 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I just left. I was like all right. 249 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: But it wasn't like it. There was no attachment, sad 250 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: or happy. It's not like I'm like wow, wow, or 251 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: like look at me. It was just all right, I 252 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: guess I'm off. I guess I'll you want to see it. 253 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to college now, all right? 254 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 5: Did they think like at first, oh, he's going to 255 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 5: the store, like you're just. 256 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: Gonna I wasn't like dad for cigarettes and didn't come back. 257 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: I don't think that was it. 258 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 5: No, I don't. 259 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: It's just honestly, I don't have a memory of anything 260 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 1: other than hey, I'm going to college tomorrow. 261 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 5: Wow. 262 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: And they were like oh yeah. Really like yeah, yeah, 263 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: so I'll be moving out. I lived on the couch. 264 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: I still on the couch. That was like, I took 265 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 1: my clus from underneath the couch, put in the back 266 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: of subaru. That's it, moved down to the dorm, drove 267 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: them out. 268 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 5: Were you scared excited? 269 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: Oh god no, uh no, more like business trip, Let's 270 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 1: go get this. 271 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 5: I gotta get it, dang at eighteen business trip, that's crazy. 272 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, no, but I wasn't dreading it. But I 273 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 1: wasn't excited. It was like, Okay, I only got four 274 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: more years of this crap and I'm done with school, 275 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna do it. I'm done with school and 276 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: I'll be the one that does it. And then one 277 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: day when I have kids, I'll be like, look, people, 278 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: people can do this. But no, no, it was no excitement. 279 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: It was just like time just going in to business. Stop, 280 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: let's finish this up and get out of here. Is 281 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: no no, no, not sad bow. 282 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 5: No, it's just why it's crazy. It's just different than 283 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 5: our stories. 284 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:27,439 Speaker 1: But everybody's stories. Your story about your dad's hilarious. Yeah, 285 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: he's like, dude, you want to go to Harvard, you 286 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: go for it. 287 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 5: But but that was it was so late too because 288 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 5: I didn't know about college. So the reason I found 289 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,080 Speaker 5: out about college because none of my family had ever 290 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 5: gone to college, like extended family cousins and everyone to 291 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 5: college and his uncles in college. There's that wasn't a 292 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 5: thing for us. But when all my friends started, like 293 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 5: I remember being a senior and they're like wow, like 294 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 5: so and so is going to Texas A and M 295 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 5: like what like, how did you even do that? 296 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: That's cool you were applying to UCLA, but like no, no, no, DeLine. 297 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 5: No, no, no no. I didn't even know think about applying anything. 298 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 5: And then I graduated and that's when my dad was like, hey, 299 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 5: you know all your friends are all gone. 300 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,719 Speaker 1: But you graduated then applied for the first time. 301 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, so it was a transfer application. 302 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 4: Wow. 303 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 5: I had no idea, Like, I was like, how do 304 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 5: you do that? Like, you guys are going to Texas? 305 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 5: Like that's cool. How did you do that? Like did 306 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 5: we apply it when you were like last year? 307 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 7: Right? 308 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 5: Didn't know that. 309 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 1: So I'm fortunate that where you didn't have somebody explaining it. 310 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 1: I'm fortunate that I. 311 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 3: Was in a class somehow you knew. 312 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I'm I would bet money that it was 313 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 1: like the Gift and Talented instructors that were like everybody 314 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: that's in this class and only a few of us 315 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 1: each year, this is how you go to college. I'm 316 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: sure that was part of of the teaching there. 317 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 5: And so they may have said that in my class. 318 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: I didn't You're crazy that you didn't apply to after 319 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: you graduate? 320 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 5: No clue. And I have taken SAT because I think lunchbox. 321 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 5: You're right, I think you did have to take it. 322 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 6: I mean I took it the last like in March 323 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 6: of my senior year. 324 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: I mean I only took to act. 325 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 4: You did, I didn't. 326 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 3: I took sad Well, maybe I took both. 327 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 6: Just go ten ten. 328 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: Maybe you'd be better at one. 329 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 3: Your secret sale I took three times. 330 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: That's crazy. Didn't apply until after graduation. 331 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 5: I had no idea. 332 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:11,359 Speaker 3: Yeah. 333 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: I think another factor, if I think about it, was 334 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: part of my environment in school. I was like captain 335 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: of the quiz bowl team from seven, the senior high team, 336 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: So I was there on other kids that were yeah, 337 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: smart or nerd or whatever you want to call however 338 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: you want to define them. But they were all education 339 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: oriented people. So you are your environment, and that was 340 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:29,559 Speaker 1: a big part of my environment. I think's probably where 341 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: I was exposed to it. 342 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 5: There. 343 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: So I can't Eddie's like twenty eight. I can go 344 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 1: to college. 345 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:35,679 Speaker 5: I mean, I mean I did. Yeah, I graduated six 346 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 5: years late. It was a six year degree. 347 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's on you for going six years. I'm saying, 348 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: you know, I was looking to go to college for 349 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 1: the first time. 350 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, because when I graduated that summer. Like well, they're like, well, 351 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 5: you're going to go to school at all? And I'm like, well, 352 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 5: there's one down the road, University of Texas PA, and am. 353 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 4: Do you do that? 354 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 5: Yeah? So I took a couple classes there and it 355 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 5: took me two years to actually get accepted to sam 356 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 5: Houston State, which where I eventually went to. But I 357 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 5: would just apply and apply, get turned down, applying, and 358 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 5: then finally they said yes, and I went U c L. 359 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 5: I said no, the. 360 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: In film school. 361 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 6: Sorry, were you a freshman in the dorms? Like at 362 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 6: twenty two. 363 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 5: I never stay at the dorms. I stay at my parents' house. 364 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: Oh oh, kids, we're close enough to home. 365 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 3: And then when I went to what do we call that? 366 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 3: Was he an unconvintied non traditional. 367 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 1: He was two years older and he had been to 368 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: junior college. 369 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 5: I was nineteen eighteen nineteen, living at home. 370 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: Hey, give the guy a break over here. 371 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 5: Okay, well, unconventional dorms. 372 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 6: You're saying, you're like the five year old. 373 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 5: It's a class. That's not funny. It's not funny. 374 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, Okay, we're. 375 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: Done here, all right. 376 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 3: So it's like, whenever you want to go. 377 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: Let's get started, thank you guys for being here. The 378 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: question to Ben, Hello, Bobby bellaes. My husband and I 379 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: have a close friend we hang out with all the time. 380 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: What he doesn't know is that this friend and I 381 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 1: briefly dated years ago, long before I met my husband. 382 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: It wasn't too serious, so I never felt the need 383 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: to bring it up. Now that we are all so close, 384 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: I sometimes wonder if I should come clean just in 385 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: case he finds out from someone else. But I'm afraid 386 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: it can make things awkward or create tension. Should I 387 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 1: tell him or is it better to let the sleeping 388 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: dog lie? Signed the dating secret keeper. So here are 389 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: the two things you have to weigh. One. If he 390 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: finds out at a later time, how bad is that 391 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: going to be? You know your husband, I'd feel pretty 392 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: betrayed that you didn't tell me. Some men may not. 393 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna have to judge your husband's reaction 394 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 1: to him finding out at a different time, because I 395 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: think eventually, at some point it is going its head 396 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: is going to whack him a whoop bellow. It's just 397 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: gonna happen. Maybe not, maybe not, but I'm going to 398 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: say probably somehow it will. So you might as well 399 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: get it out of it well versus how mad will 400 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: he be if you just tell them now, because if 401 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: you wait two years, eight years, twelve years, it could 402 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: possibly get a lot worse. If you tell them now, 403 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: probably not gonna be fun. It's an uncomfortable conversation. You 404 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: have done this, though, so before you start to feel 405 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 1: sorry for yourself in the situation that you go through, 406 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: you have done this the dating secret keeper. If it 407 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: were me, I think it's going to be uncomfortable anyway. 408 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: I think I just tell them immediately as soon as possible, 409 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: because it's gonna suck, and you might as well get 410 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: suck over with. It's why when I work out, if 411 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 1: it's a day that I don't have some schedule and 412 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, I gotta get something in, I will go 413 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: do it immediately as fast as possible because I hate it. 414 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: But I want it to be over with as fast 415 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: as possible because it's gonna suck. But I would rather 416 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: that that suck is gonna happen regardless, I'd rather go 417 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 1: out and get it over with. All the time leading 418 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: up to the suck, you're going thinking about it a lot. 419 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 1: It's trusting you out once in a while. Yep, absolutely, 420 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: you did this though, so don't feel sorry for yourself. 421 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: But you have to tell him. 422 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 2: But you're right that everybody's different and you don't think 423 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 2: how they'll respond. 424 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 1: I have a feeling the response will not be like 425 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 1: it's hilarious. I have a feeling that won't be the response. 426 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 1: But it could be a level of hurt or anger 427 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: even at the friend, Like how the friend not say anything? 428 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 1: There's going to be drama. It just needs to be 429 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:40,680 Speaker 1: said now. But even if you get into like a 430 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,159 Speaker 1: packed with that other friend, like we're never going to 431 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 1: say anything. You can't trust anybody to not You can't 432 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:53,360 Speaker 1: even trust him, this new friend, because he's got something 433 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: against you. Can bit annoy you. Oh gosh, that went, Yeah, 434 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 1: you know there are any pictures you took about them? 435 00:17:57,760 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: He could John, Oh sorry, I'm going to play. My 436 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 1: real advice would be to immediately, immediately, immediately say it, 437 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 1: and don't do a whole thing where it's like I 438 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 1: got something to say, I got something. You just say, 439 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 1: stand them up, sit them down, whatever the case is, 440 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: send on the couch like, hey, I need to tell 441 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: you something. And the reason I haven't told you just 442 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: because it just felt awkward and awkward, and I want 443 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: to get this over with. But a long time ago, 444 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,639 Speaker 1: like Jonathan, I went on like three days and it 445 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 1: was so nothing. It's like when you meet somebody and 446 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: you don't know their name, and then you start hanging 447 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: around them a lot, and then like a month later, 448 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:31,120 Speaker 1: you still don't know their name, but you don't want 449 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:32,439 Speaker 1: to ask them their name because you kind of know 450 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: them now get everything. They Oh, no, just me. Well, 451 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: so it feels like that situation. So you got to 452 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,199 Speaker 1: just do it with the band it off because eventually 453 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 1: it's gonna be the worst. It's gonna be worse the 454 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: longer you wait. That's it. Do it, or just hold 455 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 1: on forever and hope it never comes out. But that's 456 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 1: like a it just sits in there, in that gut 457 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 1: that's on you though. This is stressful, man, that's right, 458 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: Just say it and get it over with. I hope 459 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: you didn't do it with them. Oh she didn't say 460 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:04,360 Speaker 1: that she did, but if she because some people get 461 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: us kind of date but they still do it. If 462 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: you did it with them, do you have to say 463 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: that part? He'll ask, he will, Oh, for sure, has 464 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: you seen your naggad he's just like okay, And if 465 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 1: that's the case, this guy's no longer going to be 466 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 1: a friend anymore. It never should have been without it 467 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: being set up front, so good luck. Let's know how 468 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 1: that goes. Only crap, all right? That's it. A voicemail 469 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: from Kelsey and North Dakota. 470 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 8: Since you and Eddie are pretty good friends with Kit Moore. 471 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: I see he's got. 472 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 8: An album coming out at the end of the month 473 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 8: in February, and it looks like he's self producing it 474 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 8: and has released some new music. 475 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 5: Just wondering if. 476 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:46,640 Speaker 8: You can tell us anything about what's going on with him, 477 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 8: or if he's coming into the studio to talk about 478 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 8: new music and his upcoming album. Thanks Bobby, love the show. 479 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: That's a chance a trug trug Kid Moore will be 480 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: coming in the studio next month to talk about this. 481 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: Eddie's probably a little closer to Kip than I am. 482 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 5: Although I haven't heard from kippen a few years. 483 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: I think even Kip's closest people can say that he 484 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 1: just disappears. Kip will be in in February, so we'll 485 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: know when you know, we haven't talked to him a 486 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 1: little bit though, but I appreciate that call, thank you 487 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: very much. 488 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 5: Amy's pile of stories. 489 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 2: Well, apparently seven out of ten men what better Valentine's 490 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 2: Day gifts. 491 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 1: Hmm. 492 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 5: Interesting. 493 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I've been conditioned to have no expectation 494 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: of Valentine's Day gifts. 495 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 2: Well, some men are opening up, they're getting vulnerable, and 496 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 2: they're saying, we actually want to be a part of 497 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 2: this day, and they're dropping hints like we want to 498 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: feel special too. 499 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 1: I think guys just want presents, let's be honest, and 500 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: my wife does a really good job of getting me 501 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 1: a gift for Valentine's Day. But I don't think guys 502 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 1: care about feeling special in the Valentine's at romantic sense. 503 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: I think this is just their spot to go. I 504 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: want a prize. I want to treat like we're just 505 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 1: getting you stuff. I saw this place called Manly man Co. 506 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:03,280 Speaker 2: And they've got lots of Valentine's Day gift options for guys, 507 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 2: like a beef jerky flower bouquet. 508 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: Those are always lame, I would recommend, yeah, I would 509 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 1: recommend not that that's lame specifically, but don't try to 510 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: match in the theme of man of what guys are 511 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: getting girls. Okay, like you guys get flowers, but I 512 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:21,880 Speaker 1: would just get something that would actually use, Like get 513 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:26,360 Speaker 1: your guy, like, I'll be extremely basic and sexist. Get 514 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:28,919 Speaker 1: him like tickets to a game. They say video game, No, 515 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:30,959 Speaker 1: I'll get it. Just get him something that he likes. 516 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: It's like fun, you know, more than like flowers made 517 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: of whiskey handles. So good to know, yes, But I 518 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 1: would say the same thing, like get your wife or 519 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: your girlfriend a little thing of flowers if you can. 520 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: As long as you didn't get him, why're way marked up? 521 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: But like, get her something that she'll actually use and like, 522 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 1: not like a vacuum. Yeah. 523 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 2: Apparently multitasking is turning us into half wits, according to 524 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 2: a neuroscientist named doctor James Turner. He said the concept 525 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 2: of multitasking is a myth because the human brain isn't 526 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 2: designed to handle more than one task at a time. 527 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 2: So when we do this, we take on simultaneous tasks. 528 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: It reduces our memory. We have poor decision making skills, 529 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 2: and there's long term brain decline. 530 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 1: Never thought about it like that with the brain decline, 531 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: but I don't think as much anymore and now because 532 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: my brain is declining. I don't know why, because multitask 533 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: exactly exactly. 534 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but we've we've been conditioned to believe that, oh yeah, 535 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 2: we can multitasker. 536 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm a bad multitasker. 537 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 2: But the long term effects now they're starting to see 538 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 2: research that's like, ooh, maybe multitasking not so good. 539 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 1: I've been conditioned to believe that I must multitask. I 540 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 1: would rather not. I would rather focus on one thing. 541 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,640 Speaker 1: But I think a lot of us. In order to 542 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 1: be good at a job, be a good parent, be 543 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 1: whatever it is, you have to do two or three 544 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: things at once. And some of that half wet stuff. Okay, 545 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: welcome to the show. That's the life we live. 546 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:55,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you can retrain your brain too late. 547 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:55,439 Speaker 7: No. 548 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 2: Blake Shelton said that back in the day, he was 549 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 2: known to hey when it came to partying, like he 550 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 2: could be the one that could like last all night, 551 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 2: and now that he's become friends with post Malone and 552 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 2: hung out with him, he has next level party skills. 553 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 7: He says, I used to. 554 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,920 Speaker 9: Think I could go pretty hard back in the day. 555 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 9: Nobody I've ever met has anything on post Malone. I mean, 556 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:24,919 Speaker 9: he is he is, he is living a stereotypical country 557 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 9: song of life. 558 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: When I was with him in Dallas, we were rehearsing 559 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 1: for something later that night, and it was like, what 560 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: did you do last night? He was like, I went 561 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,719 Speaker 1: to the bar, and they I think kept the bar 562 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: open from him till like five am. And our rehearsal 563 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,679 Speaker 1: was at like ten, and I'm assuming he didn't just 564 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: stop at five. I thought, like, close it down, and 565 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 1: so I think, yeah, I think post Go was pretty hard. 566 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 2: Was a long term brain impact on That clip is 567 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 2: from Blake Shelton talking to CMT. By the way, I'm Amy, 568 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 2: that's my pile. 569 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the 570 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: good news producer already. 571 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 5: This is cool. Carissa Fisher, she's twenty one years old. 572 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 5: She's a member of the US Air Force, but she 573 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,360 Speaker 5: used to be a daycare teacher and she found out 574 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 5: recently that one of her students, he's five years old now, 575 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 5: is suffering from a liver disease and needs a donation. 576 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 5: So what does she do. She went to the doctor, 577 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 5: got tested, she's a match, and she donated a piece 578 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 5: of her liver and now it's inside of Ezra, and 579 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 5: Ezra's recovery and he's doing great. 580 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: Human body is crazy, first of all, great job by 581 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 1: her selfless saving changing a life. Human body is crazy. 582 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 1: One Just imagine we get a cut. That thing heals itself. 583 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:40,880 Speaker 1: It happens all the time, every day, so we don't 584 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 1: think about it much. It heals itself. Like cut, Jill, 585 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 1: watch this you' I was gonna show you guys how 586 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 1: it worked. No, but no, like if I watch, we 587 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,719 Speaker 1: can look at this all day. That will hell not 588 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: heal itself. The human body heals itself. It's wild. 589 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 5: Well you know, yeah, cut is one thing. But a 590 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 5: liver You can cut a piece of the liver and 591 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 5: then it again generates, regenerates as a whole liver. Amazing. 592 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,360 Speaker 4: A couple weeks later you got your liver back. 593 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 5: I don't know if it's that quick, but it comes back. 594 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,360 Speaker 1: Human bodies wild. That's a great story. Good for her, 595 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 1: great for him. That is what it's all about. That 596 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: was telling me something good. Fill in the blank, Amy, 597 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 1: women reach full emotional maturity at blank age. It's twenty 598 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 1: six thirty two, okay men forty three? 599 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 5: Oh, I was closer. 600 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: It is the exact age difference with me and my 601 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 1: wife what's hilarious. Oh wow, so you're both mature because 602 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: we're like eleven years and seven months closer to twelve. 603 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: But we're the same, and she's still more mature than me. 604 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 1: I don't be honest with but still, I was reading 605 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 1: this story. So the big difference and emotional maturity between genders, 606 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 1: revealing that women typically full maturity by thirty two, men 607 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 1: continue to develop until forty three years old. The research 608 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: found that eighty percent of the world perceived men as 609 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 1: retaining childish behaviors, such as a picture for fast food 610 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:16,199 Speaker 1: and video games, well into their adulthood. What would your 611 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: explanation be if you had to make one, amy you're 612 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: presenting it a scientific conference, Please tell us why men 613 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 1: are far less mature? Good question. 614 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 2: I know that are alone for women, we mature faster, 615 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 2: but I wonder why y'all hold on to these child 616 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 2: like behaviors. 617 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: If I were to be giving the same speech at 618 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,639 Speaker 1: the same time in a different room. I think a 619 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 1: couple things are One. I think women have children, which 620 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: I think biologically hormonally okay, so I think that's the thing. 621 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: And also, whenever they say matures like, I think there 622 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 1: are different avenues of maturation, meaning for me, I am 623 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: a wildly mature person in certain parts of my life 624 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,640 Speaker 1: because I had to be as a dude. First of all, 625 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: you expected to be like masculine, take care, I have 626 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: all those, But as somebody who grew up without much means, 627 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 1: I had to mature. I had to work early. I 628 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 1: had to. But when it comes to like video games, dude, 629 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm twelve, or emotional maturity with like relationships, I'm probably 630 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: fourteen now, because that wasn't what was told to me 631 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: had to develop. Like as a kid, your dad or 632 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,639 Speaker 1: your male influences aren't like you really should get great 633 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 1: at having really personal emotional conversations. I think culture is 634 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: a big part of why. I don't think it's just 635 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 1: biology that makes women mature faster. I think I think 636 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 1: it's a standard, a cultural standard that's set on them. 637 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: But again, I also think they're not factoring in the 638 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: total three to sixty of mature and I just. 639 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:54,880 Speaker 2: Think generally women have more empathy and self awareness and 640 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 2: culture all of. 641 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 7: That the EQ and you don't enjoy. 642 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: Part jokes as much as we do because we're not 643 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 1: told by other guys be immature. Anybody that says that 644 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:17,360 Speaker 1: can't be anybody that screams I'm fun. 645 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 2: Sound like I'm breezy. I'm I'm mature. Wait, it didn't 646 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 2: work there because I am mamatere. 647 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: YEA are many parts of your life you're yeah, you're 648 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: but also immure. I can be very very immature. 649 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 2: What you say, guys, Yeah. 650 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: You're pretty mature all the time. Okay, for the most part. 651 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: I did want to scratch off this morning. You did, right, 652 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 1: breaking news hit me with the breaking news. So my 653 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 1: New Year's resolution has been to one one thousand dollars 654 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 1: on a scratch off. Come on, and I'm going to 655 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: scratch every almost every day, but sometimes I just forget. 656 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: I scratched. And this is my first winner of the year. 657 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 1: On a fifty dollars jump by oh Bucks went up 658 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 1: to five million dollar ticket. I have won one dollars. 659 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: So it is not the thousand dollars we're looking for. 660 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 1: It's okay, but it is it's something. 661 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 5: And you're going to stop when you hit one thousand dollars, 662 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 5: not when you get up to one thousand dollars, right. 663 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: And oh, up to doesn't count. I want to hit 664 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 1: a thousand. 665 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 5: There we go. 666 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: Because lunchbox plays all the time and has never no, 667 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 1: So that would be just the funniest bit, Like I 668 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 1: want a thousand dollars, I've won two fifty, so when 669 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: I went three hundred, that's going to be, oh my 670 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: good record there. So you're doing it just to annoy him. Yeah, basically, basically, 671 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,840 Speaker 1: let's be honest. This is a bit. Yeah, yeah, it's 672 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 1: just a bed dumb debate of the day. Amy, you'r up? 673 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 2: Do you keep your apples in the refrigerator or in 674 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 2: a bowl on the counter? 675 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 1: People put their apples in the refrigerator, Well I do, 676 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: I guess if their slices. I would like. 677 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 2: Whole apples, like right when you get home from the 678 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 2: grocery store, put them in the refrigerator, because that's what 679 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 2: I do. 680 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 1: And my friend thought I was crazy. 681 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 2: She opened up my fridge and she's like, you keep 682 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 2: your apples in the refrigerator. 683 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: That feels crazy to me. I'm okay, let's just oh wait, 684 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 1: I thought I was the norm? 685 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 7: Am I am? 686 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 1: I not. I don't know what we're gonna find. We 687 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 1: have a very accurate polling of representation of America in 688 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: this room here. I'm gonna go count. It's either counter 689 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: or refrigerator. I go counter, refrigerator. 690 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 5: No, Amy, you're crazy. They go on the counter, not 691 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 5: the refrigerator. 692 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: Morgan, you're not crazy. They go on the refrigerator. I 693 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 1: never would once think to put them in unles. 694 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 2: They're already slice so they're going to last longer if 695 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 2: you put them in the fridge. 696 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 1: And then they're like, oh crisp, I'm not trying to 697 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: keep them to July. Like I got an apple lunch bikes. 698 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 4: I've never seen an apple in the refrigerator. It is 699 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 4: on the counter. 700 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 1: Boom, Ray Mundo. If there's everyone on my counter, I 701 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 1: throw it away way too acidic, I would say, counter, 702 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 1: they're not a fridge item. Okay, you just confuse everybody. 703 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: But what Abby? 704 00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:00,040 Speaker 7: Definitely the fridge, the fridge for sure. Maybe female face. 705 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 1: We know more. Nobody said that. 706 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 10: Nobody said a female in my house and she keeps 707 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 10: them on the counter. Own a female on my face 708 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 10: and she says, okay, let me write this. Okay, butter, 709 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 10: I've seen people leave their butter on the day days. 710 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 7: Yeah. 711 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: The fact that people don't keep it in the fridge 712 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 1: all the time. I didn't know that was the thing. 713 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, the cute little like butter tray where you can 714 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 2: keep it out that way when you cook with it's 715 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 2: easy to butter. 716 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 1: Always fridge, that would be my answer, fridge. You I 717 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 1: do both. I have fridge and a little butter tray. 718 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,479 Speaker 1: Then that would be count. If it's any counter, it's 719 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: counter crazy. 720 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 5: Hold on, hold on, I'm saying the butter is living 721 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 5: outside the refrigerator. 722 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying, mind blown. 723 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 5: No, that's crazy. 724 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 1: It's fridge right, Yes, it's in the fridge. 725 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:45,720 Speaker 2: On. 726 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 4: It doesn't melt on the counter. 727 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 1: No, that isn't well male, it's room temperature. Yeah, it's 728 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 1: more spreadable. I guess if the counter is the sun Morgan. 729 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 2: Mine's always in the fridge unless we're having like a 730 00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 2: meal out of dinner table. 731 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 1: It's out sense So ay, you might be the weird 732 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: one here, No, I'm not. 733 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 2: My sister does it too abby? 734 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 7: Sorry? Fridge? 735 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 1: Okay, fridge Ray? Who knows ray fridge launches fridge. 736 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 4: I mean I didn't even know butter because I mean 737 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 4: it gets all soggy. 738 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: You're the only one. 739 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 2: Well, no, I have both, but like the little butter 740 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 2: trick would be out. 741 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 5: Oh that's a good one. 742 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: Ketchup fridge for sure. I think I just keep everything 743 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: in the fridge. But what about the fridge? Oh, I 744 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 1: don't You're right, I'm an idiot. 745 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 5: Bones. Restaurants have ketchup out. 746 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: I know what they again, that's why I'm asking. I 747 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: go fridge at our house, fridge, fridge, fridge. 748 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 5: Eddie, fridge at the house. 749 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 1: Okay, fridge. 750 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 4: I don't even have ketchup at my house, ray. 751 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 1: Fridge, so we're all fridge. Yeah, restaurants have stuff out, 752 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: yeah for sure. Okay, guys. 753 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 2: The USDA says that butter is safe at room temperature, 754 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 2: but if it's left out for several days then it 755 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 2: can turn ransod. 756 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 1: What about ketchup? What does it say about what you're 757 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 1: supposed to be a ketchup? Because both are probably acceptable too, like. 758 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 2: Ketchup bottles churgery after no, no, but restaurants, Steady's point, 759 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 2: ketchup is. 760 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 1: Just out, and is it you only put in the 761 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 1: fridge after the seal's broken then has to go on. 762 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 2: The ketchup is generally considered safe to leave on the 763 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 2: counter for up to a month. 764 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 5: Yeah. Wow, that's crazy, and. 765 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 1: So restaurants are probably turning it over faster. 766 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,960 Speaker 5: Like sure, you know what I found out they do 767 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 5: restaurants is they have like, say that the Hines ketchup 768 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 5: bottle there on the table and it just lives at 769 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 5: all the tables. They just refill that same bottle. They 770 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 5: don't get new bottles. 771 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: And yeah, and they get it in a humongous yeah 772 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: a restaurant. We didn't get them in a little bottles. 773 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: We literally got humongous tubs. 774 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 5: Mind blown. 775 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 7: Really, they just go and REPI. 776 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna play you a nostalgic clip from the nineties. 777 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 1: It's a sound. Identify that sound for example, oh, influence. 778 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 1: That's very short, but you got it one more time, 779 00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 1: please you can say it. Sah. It's the Signfeld in 780 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 1: between scenes at the beginning. Now, Morgan, you're the youngest here. 781 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 1: That one may have been tough for you. Did you 782 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 1: know it? 783 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 7: Yeah? 784 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 1: No, I did. I recognize it, but couldn't place it. 785 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 1: And Eddie, you're the oldest here, so I knew that one. No, 786 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 1: I know you know that one, But like some of 787 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,439 Speaker 1: the you know, more current stuff, maybe you don't know. Okay, 788 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 1: here we go write your answers down. Number one. Name 789 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:30,959 Speaker 1: that nostalgic sound. Here it is again, and one final time, 790 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 1: I'm in. 791 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 4: I'm then how specific do I need to moon? 792 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: So, okay, lunchbox? Your answer Nintendo, Amy, I'm. 793 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 2: Nintendo, Mario Brothers, Morgan, I had Super Mario, Eddie. 794 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:56,239 Speaker 1: I wrote down Mario Brothers because the answer is Super Mario. Oh, Mike, 795 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,880 Speaker 1: what do we do with Amy's? I'll take Amy's one 796 00:34:58,920 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 1: table inches? 797 00:34:59,560 --> 00:34:59,840 Speaker 5: Okay? 798 00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 1: Well yeah, well, no, you can't have a lunchbox. You 799 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 1: didn't say, Mario, how specific do I need to be? 800 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 1: But I'm not answering your questions in the middle of 801 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:07,839 Speaker 1: a game where you have to answer questions, because that's 802 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 1: like when he eats the mushroom, right, like guess like 803 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,280 Speaker 1: multiple things that I was thinking about Amy, She's like Nintendo, Mario, 804 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 1: video games, controllers, cable TV. 805 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,880 Speaker 2: Doesn't guessing multiple things. I know that those are both 806 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 2: exist together. 807 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 1: But okay, so the answer Toup Mario. Well then I 808 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 1: don't get it. You do get it? Oh, and you 809 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,840 Speaker 1: accept it, you love it? Okay, and you're happy about it, 810 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: and you're very happy. You can't stop. 811 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 7: I'm happy. 812 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 1: Next up, go ahead, I'm in. I'm in. Nostalgic sounds 813 00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:37,919 Speaker 1: from the nineties, one more time. 814 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,760 Speaker 4: I'm in for the room. 815 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,720 Speaker 1: If you guess that Lunchbox and Eddie, you're correct. 816 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 10: That's Lunchbox and Eddie is pretty much Amy, but head Lunchbox, 817 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,360 Speaker 10: Beavis and butt head Morgan. 818 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 2: You guys maybe watch this shows and butt head Eddie's 819 00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:55,759 Speaker 2: and that's correct. 820 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 1: Good job, everybody. 821 00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:03,240 Speaker 7: Next one up, I'm in. I'm in men. 822 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 1: Oh interesting, hit it again, everybody in. I'm in for 823 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: the wim without the drum would have been a lot harder, 824 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 1: a little bit without the drum. One more time, Ray Morgan, 825 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,319 Speaker 1: I have saved by the bell, Latchbox, saved by the bell, 826 00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 1: Eddie saved by the bell. Amy, the bell that's into 827 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 1: the theme song. Their good job. Next one, I'm in. 828 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 5: I'm in, I'm in. 829 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:38,760 Speaker 4: I'm in for the whim. 830 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:46,600 Speaker 1: Eddie. That's the Simpsons, Amy, Simpsons, Morgan, the Simpsons, Lunchbox, 831 00:36:46,800 --> 00:37:03,840 Speaker 1: the Simpsones. Next up, I'm in nineties nostalgia game. Don't worry, 832 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:14,560 Speaker 1: you can get yourself another listen. Yes, I'm in. One 833 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 1: more run. Who's confident? 834 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 5: Who's not me? 835 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:28,720 Speaker 1: You go first? Jurassic Park, Amy, Jurassic Park, Latchbox, Jurassic 836 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 1: Park Organ. 837 00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 7: Jurassic Park. 838 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 1: Correct. 839 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 4: All right, I'm gonna lose because. 840 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,319 Speaker 1: I because you got it wrong that one? 841 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:37,879 Speaker 4: No, because I asked a question. Did you get the clarification? 842 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,080 Speaker 1: We don't answer questions in the middle of games about goats. 843 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 1: Next up, go ahead? Oh my gosh, one more time. 844 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: Oh that's funny to hear that one. Go again? 845 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 5: You know what I mean? 846 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 11: Oh? 847 00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you got that, that's good. 848 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 5: I'm in. But I don't. 849 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,520 Speaker 1: Morgan is staring at the ground. 850 00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 7: Can I hear it again? 851 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 1: Why not? Last one? 852 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 853 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 7: I guess I'm that. 854 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,040 Speaker 4: What you're guessing, Morgan? 855 00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:20,480 Speaker 5: What do you have? 856 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 7: Home improvement? 857 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 5: Oh? A little different? 858 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,520 Speaker 1: Incorrect? Eddie down friends. I don't. 859 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,760 Speaker 5: I don't know what that is, but I just guess friends. 860 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 1: Incorrect, lunchbox pee wee Herman incorrect that I have not 861 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 1: I know I would have got that. 862 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:44,400 Speaker 4: I don't know. 863 00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, did you guess p Herman? 864 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 7: I did? 865 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:52,879 Speaker 1: Played again? Okay, I can. But if you were Herman 866 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 1: didn't have studio audience, no, and he was yeah, but 867 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:01,719 Speaker 1: still no studio audience. Uncle, No, what is that? 868 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 7: I thought that? He doesn't go? 869 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: This is one Uncle Phili grab Jazz and throw him 870 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:10,720 Speaker 1: out the door. Every single again. 871 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 5: Man, that's hard. 872 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 1: That was a hard one, so we have a three 873 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,759 Speaker 1: way time, Amy Morgan and Eddie. This will be sudden death. 874 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,480 Speaker 1: Watch you boy, I'm sorry you've been eliminated. 875 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not even gonna get upset about it. 876 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 5: Good. 877 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 1: Let's go and last one. Buzz in when you know it, 878 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 1: it's a speed round. Go Amy, Amy, Power Rangers and correct. 879 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 1: Morgan organ Space Invaders and correct. 880 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,000 Speaker 5: And take my time on that. 881 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:43,640 Speaker 7: Can hear it again? 882 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:44,759 Speaker 5: To let me hear one more time? 883 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:58,719 Speaker 11: Buzz I mean, it could be any kind of war, 884 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 11: but I'm going to guess a. 885 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,120 Speaker 5: Star war Star Wars. 886 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 9: No, Morgan. 887 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 2: I thought it might be Galago Independence. 888 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 1: No, it's the matrix. You're not in the game. It's 889 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 1: the matrix. It's the it's the bullet dodging sound. 890 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 5: It's hard. 891 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,319 Speaker 1: The next one, sudden death, buzzing with your buzzing with 892 00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 1: your name. 893 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 5: Go ahead? 894 00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 1: What the nineties nostalgia? 895 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 2: Amy, Yep, super Mario. 896 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,880 Speaker 1: Didn't twice didn't sequel that one didn't. That's not the 897 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,239 Speaker 1: one where they get the coin. It wouldn't it be 898 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,399 Speaker 1: above me to do that. But it's not it. That's 899 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 1: what I was banking on. Hit it again, Eddie, go ahead, Pokemon, No, Morgan. 900 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,280 Speaker 10: Oh, this is something with a phone, but I can't 901 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 10: place it perfectly. 902 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,840 Speaker 2: I want to say a Blueberry, but I don't. 903 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:57,319 Speaker 7: Think it was that. 904 00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:05,000 Speaker 1: I need to answer Blueberry incorrect. Sonic the Hedgehog. Oh okay, 905 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:06,799 Speaker 1: we're still sudden death in it. Come on, buzs in 906 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 1: with your name. Here you go, Eddie, Eddie, that's Bompet. 907 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 1: Will you play bomp it against our listeners? Can hear 908 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:22,920 Speaker 1: it in its entirety? 909 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 5: What a fun game. 910 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:24,920 Speaker 1: This game was. 911 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:33,400 Speaker 9: It's time for the good news with Bobby. 912 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:34,880 Speaker 1: This is a tell me something good from one of 913 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,760 Speaker 1: our listeners on our voicemail line. 914 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 10: Hi, Bobby Bone Show. 915 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 5: I had to share with my favorite morning show. 916 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:43,959 Speaker 8: I officially survived my first day as a registered nurse, 917 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,560 Speaker 8: all on my own. As a registered nurse, you have 918 00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 8: a lot of weeks of preceptorship where you have like 919 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:49,880 Speaker 8: a trainer with you. 920 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:51,799 Speaker 5: Anyways, that worked really hard to be here. 921 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,080 Speaker 8: I'm twenty seven. I've been at this for the last 922 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,799 Speaker 8: five years, and I finally feel super accomplished and I 923 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,200 Speaker 8: can actually say I'm very proud of myself. Took really 924 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,319 Speaker 8: good care about my pay today and yeah, I just. 925 00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,759 Speaker 1: Had to call and share that I love it job 926 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 1: too many more days of taking care of your patients. 927 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 1: They're angels among us, and they. 928 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:15,320 Speaker 12: Are nurses, teachers, yes, in Arkansas, razorback athletes oh oh okay, 929 00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:18,040 Speaker 12: all right, those are the athletes through the I believe 930 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,319 Speaker 12: there are angels among us. 931 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:22,680 Speaker 1: We don't agree with all that. 932 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:26,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, especially the third one, especially the third one. 933 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 1: Yes, that's what it's all about. That was telling me 934 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 1: something good. And that is the end of the first 935 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:34,600 Speaker 1: half of the podcast. 936 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 5: Here is the end of the first half. 937 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:42,400 Speaker 1: Of the podcast. The podcast that the end of the 938 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:43,719 Speaker 1: first time of the podcast. 939 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 11: You can go to a podcast too, or you can 940 00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 11: wait till podcast to come out.