WEBVTT - and Natalie Eva Marie

0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Hello, gorgeous people. It is La La Kent with Randall

0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:15.440
<v Speaker 1>and this is Give Them La La with Randall the podcast.

0:00:15.960 --> 0:00:19.200
<v Speaker 2>Yes, finally you fucking remember my name. I gotta stop.

0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:22.439
<v Speaker 1>Cursing, babe. We got we had notes, but said that

0:00:22.520 --> 0:00:23.360
<v Speaker 1>you cursed too much.

0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:25.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah. By the way, I got a note from

0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:27.760
<v Speaker 2>the studio that says I say the F wort too much.

0:00:27.800 --> 0:00:30.760
<v Speaker 2>So the goal in this podcast I've already failed is

0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:32.720
<v Speaker 2>to not curse, so I am gonna wor up. My

0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:36.120
<v Speaker 2>mother raised me to not curse. She is very disappointed,

0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:37.680
<v Speaker 2>so I'm not going to curse anything.

0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:40.760
<v Speaker 1>When when you read the email to out loud to

0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:42.640
<v Speaker 1>me and it was like, hey, just a few notes

0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:44.920
<v Speaker 1>like don't curse as much and we were gonna listen

0:00:45.440 --> 0:00:47.760
<v Speaker 1>to the episode we did with Jackson Britt, I was like,

0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:49.960
<v Speaker 1>oh no, I cursed too much. And then it ended

0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:51.840
<v Speaker 1>up being you saying the F word the whole time.

0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:54.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I felt Yeah. When I saw the only note

0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:56.360
<v Speaker 2>was to me, I actually thought I was getting cut

0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:59.120
<v Speaker 2>for the podcast again. But I made it to episode three,

0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:00.800
<v Speaker 2>so I'm excited. I'm here still.

0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:03.360
<v Speaker 1>And by the way, you're such a rookie that you

0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:04.400
<v Speaker 1>have your phone on right now.

0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:06.840
<v Speaker 2>Listen, it's with Randall. That's why I'm not a give

0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:08.920
<v Speaker 2>them lalla. I'm on the sidekick.

0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:11.440
<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. Turn the damn phone off.

0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:13.640
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I did. I just want to tell you that

0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:16.280
<v Speaker 2>we we and it is important because we're sitting here

0:01:16.319 --> 0:01:20.440
<v Speaker 2>now twenty four hours back from Sundance, and I am

0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:22.959
<v Speaker 2>so proud of you. You crushed it. You had the

0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:24.679
<v Speaker 2>premiere of your movie, and I think you should talk

0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:27.199
<v Speaker 2>about that because that was your first time ever having

0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:30.200
<v Speaker 2>a premiere at Sundance, and I was so moved and

0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:32.160
<v Speaker 2>so excited for you, as like a kid in a

0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:34.120
<v Speaker 2>candy shop. So why don't you tell everybody about that?

0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:38.640
<v Speaker 1>The experience in Sundance was absolutely amazing. I've been going

0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:41.240
<v Speaker 1>there for so many years when I lived in Utah,

0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.480
<v Speaker 1>and I would like pass out goodie bags or like

0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:44.399
<v Speaker 1>serve drinks.

0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:47.000
<v Speaker 2>You were, but I mean explain to people like you

0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:50.960
<v Speaker 2>were like five dollars six dollars an hour? You know, yeah, no,

0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:52.880
<v Speaker 2>had a party, your help.

0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:55.760
<v Speaker 1>We're not making mad money. I mean if you were

0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:57.760
<v Speaker 1>making two hundred dollars for the night, you were like,

0:01:57.880 --> 0:02:02.720
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I'm rich. But it was amazing and

0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:05.880
<v Speaker 1>not only was the experience great, when I went to

0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:10.720
<v Speaker 1>the premiere of the film Spree, it was just unbelievable.

0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:11.600
<v Speaker 1>It was a great no.

0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:14.040
<v Speaker 2>And I'll just when I say like, because I know,

0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:16.880
<v Speaker 2>because look, I started as an assistant. I worked, you know,

0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:19.160
<v Speaker 2>all these odd jobs to get you know, come up

0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:22.040
<v Speaker 2>and babe and try to you know, become you know,

0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:25.440
<v Speaker 2>in the business and become successful. And you've done the

0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:27.320
<v Speaker 2>same thing, and I don't think people really understand, like

0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:30.400
<v Speaker 2>you fit modeled and you worked, you know, hosting gigs

0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:32.520
<v Speaker 2>and all that stuff. For you to show up on

0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:35.520
<v Speaker 2>a red carpet at the Sundance Film Festival, it's got

0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:37.960
<v Speaker 2>to be pretty. I mean, I know what it meant

0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:39.800
<v Speaker 2>to you. But I mean I think people, you know,

0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.360
<v Speaker 2>don't realize how epic that one moment is when you

0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:43.720
<v Speaker 2>get it.

0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:46.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, it's like when you sit there and you've been

0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:50.560
<v Speaker 1>thinking about something your entire life, and you know, things

0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:51.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't always.

0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:51.720
<v Speaker 3>Go my way.

0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:54.120
<v Speaker 1>Of course, I'm so grateful for vander pump roles, but

0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:55.800
<v Speaker 1>you have to understand, as a kid, like I was

0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:59.240
<v Speaker 1>never thinking I want to do reality TV, right, and

0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.240
<v Speaker 1>when I signed on to vander Pump, I never wanted

0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:04.040
<v Speaker 1>to lose the vision of wanting to become an actress

0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:06.720
<v Speaker 1>and working on my craft. Of course, So to go

0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:10.440
<v Speaker 1>back to my home state to a film festival that

0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.799
<v Speaker 1>I've been going to for years and actually have a film,

0:03:12.919 --> 0:03:13.600
<v Speaker 1>it was surreal.

0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:16.519
<v Speaker 2>And what I what I love about vander Pomp and

0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:20.000
<v Speaker 2>I think people know this probably is that it's it's

0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:22.600
<v Speaker 2>been such a springboard for you. It's given you so

0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:26.280
<v Speaker 2>many cool opportunities, and it continues. So I think that's cool,

0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:28.440
<v Speaker 2>you know, And then.

0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:30.400
<v Speaker 1>So you get to like turn I love you vander

0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:32.280
<v Speaker 1>Pump Rules plug.

0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:35.720
<v Speaker 2>Lisa Vanner Pump. No, but I think I think it's cool.

0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:37.080
<v Speaker 2>I think you get to do reality, you get to

0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:38.240
<v Speaker 2>go do your acting. Well.

0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:40.440
<v Speaker 1>If someone asked me that rand when when I was

0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:43.040
<v Speaker 1>doing press, they were like, so are you thinking like

0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:44.720
<v Speaker 1>you're just going to focus on acting and not do

0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:47.240
<v Speaker 1>vander Pump. I'm like, we live in a world where

0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:50.480
<v Speaker 1>you can do it all. Like I'm not canceling anything out.

0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.160
<v Speaker 1>I love acting and I love doing vander Pump Rules. Like,

0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:55.840
<v Speaker 1>let's rock it all till the wheels fall off.

0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:59.360
<v Speaker 2>I think it's cool. And now we're here working together.

0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:03.560
<v Speaker 1>But let's talk about one thing. Because I can't not

0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:08.000
<v Speaker 1>talk about this. We had an amazing sun dance. We're

0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:12.120
<v Speaker 1>living our best life. We're on the PJ on Sunday,

0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:16.520
<v Speaker 1>flying from Utah to to Ohio, and we see online

0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.960
<v Speaker 1>that Kobe Bryant has passed away with his daughter.

0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:22.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, and here here's a crazy thing. And this is

0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:25.799
<v Speaker 2>I mean, obviously everybody in the world has been affected

0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:29.680
<v Speaker 2>by this. We're on the plane and we get a text,

0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:31.600
<v Speaker 2>and I mean we see on our thing it says

0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:34.960
<v Speaker 2>TMZ reports it, and you go into that complete denial,

0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:38.640
<v Speaker 2>like it's this didn't happen, there's this is bullshit reporting.

0:04:39.080 --> 0:04:42.080
<v Speaker 2>And then everybody on the plane starts googling. And within

0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:45.520
<v Speaker 2>eleven minutes, eleven minutes from the time we saw the TMZ,

0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:50.960
<v Speaker 2>it was everywhere. And that plane ride, that last hour

0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:53.920
<v Speaker 2>and a half from when we found out it was

0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:59.760
<v Speaker 2>jaw dropping disbelief, heartbreak, by the way, and I just

0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:01.919
<v Speaker 2>want to put this out there. I was never a

0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:03.760
<v Speaker 2>big sports person, you know that, baby, I mean I

0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:07.039
<v Speaker 2>don't even I barely know, but I mean Kobe Bryant

0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:10.080
<v Speaker 2>what I've watched, I've gone to a lot of Laker games.

0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:13.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is this is the icon of the

0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:18.680
<v Speaker 2>hero of basketball, and even myself tears and heartbreak and

0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:21.920
<v Speaker 2>emotional and then you and I mean this with love.

0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:23.279
<v Speaker 2>And I'm sitting right next to you, and I know

0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:26.280
<v Speaker 2>you gonna get upset. And I'm not laughing. I'm I mean,

0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:28.360
<v Speaker 2>I have to laugh. I have to find some humor,

0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.560
<v Speaker 2>but there really is none right now. But I watched

0:05:31.600 --> 0:05:34.479
<v Speaker 2>you all night. You couldn't leave the hotel. See you

0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:36.320
<v Speaker 2>have tears over your eyes, and I love you and

0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:39.599
<v Speaker 2>gonna get me upset now, But I watched you all

0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:43.760
<v Speaker 2>night and and and it's just Kobe Bryant has had

0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:48.000
<v Speaker 2>the effect on the world that that he's had. You're

0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:50.800
<v Speaker 2>sitting here with tears in your eyes right now, and

0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:54.680
<v Speaker 2>that to me shows this is a legend that the

0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:58.000
<v Speaker 2>world will honor his. And then and then the heartbreak

0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:01.320
<v Speaker 2>of the other victims. I love. It's okay, I know,

0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.200
<v Speaker 2>and I want to say there are other people. Obviously

0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:07.360
<v Speaker 2>we know there were, you know, other people on the helicopter.

0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:09.680
<v Speaker 2>Other families that are I've watched the news with all

0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:11.080
<v Speaker 2>these different families.

0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:14.240
<v Speaker 1>Alto with his wife and his daughter, but all of

0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.000
<v Speaker 1>the victims of.

0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:20.320
<v Speaker 2>This, of this horrific, horrific, but you can't even process

0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:23.880
<v Speaker 2>it as somebody like myself who isn't connected to Kobe

0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:27.240
<v Speaker 2>Bryant in that way as a family member. I feel

0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:30.359
<v Speaker 2>for for the victims, for the families, for the heartbreak,

0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:33.680
<v Speaker 2>for the children, and and and and I don't even

0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:35.359
<v Speaker 2>know what to say. And I'm watching you with tears

0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:39.520
<v Speaker 2>and ears, but I want to say this, Kobe Bryant

0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:43.000
<v Speaker 2>and all of the people, but Kobe Bryant, what an

0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:47.000
<v Speaker 2>effect he has had on me, somebody who's not even

0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.880
<v Speaker 2>a sports person. And I'm gonna let you jump back

0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:51.040
<v Speaker 2>in here because I want you to. I want you

0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:52.839
<v Speaker 2>to share your feelings because you shared them with me

0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:56.960
<v Speaker 2>last night, the last two days. Yesterday, sorry, yesterday, you

0:06:57.720 --> 0:07:00.240
<v Speaker 2>couldn't really get out of bed. I mean you were

0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:02.960
<v Speaker 2>laying in Betterson. I'm maybe let's go to dinner. You said,

0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:05.400
<v Speaker 2>I am really in a dark place right now. That's

0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:06.080
<v Speaker 2>what you said to me.

0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:09.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And for me, like Kobe Bryant, when when you

0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.560
<v Speaker 1>think about like your first love, when you're a kid,

0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:14.920
<v Speaker 1>you see someone on TV and you're like, I'm in

0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:17.680
<v Speaker 1>love with that person. Kobe Bryant was that for me.

0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I was a basketball player up until junior high and

0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:25.760
<v Speaker 1>like I just wanted to be athletic like him. I

0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:29.320
<v Speaker 1>thought he was the most fascinating human being. I used

0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:31.400
<v Speaker 1>to google him twenty four to seven. I knew everything

0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:34.000
<v Speaker 1>about him. I would make books about him. And I

0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:37.320
<v Speaker 1>just you know, the night that it happened, or the

0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:39.760
<v Speaker 1>morning that it happened. That night, I just kept waking up,

0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:43.440
<v Speaker 1>and you were next to me, and it was just like,

0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:48.240
<v Speaker 1>I know, baby, it's okay to think about his wife, who.

0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:53.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's left behind to be strong up with him again. No,

0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:56.880
<v Speaker 2>and to be and and her daughter led all.

0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:59.560
<v Speaker 1>These people, but that I can kind of the families

0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:03.840
<v Speaker 1>lost their sister, their mom and their dad. It's just truly.

0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:07.480
<v Speaker 2>Well, I listen, I listen. I listen to the coach

0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:10.240
<v Speaker 2>and and and and I listened to the coach who

0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:13.600
<v Speaker 2>lost his wife and has has I think four kids.

0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:15.440
<v Speaker 2>And he said, I just don't know how I'm going

0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:17.800
<v Speaker 2>to go on without without a wife, without a mother

0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:21.880
<v Speaker 2>for my children. I cannot and I cannot and I

0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:24.360
<v Speaker 2>and I've shed a lot of tears over this, watching

0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:29.520
<v Speaker 2>you and myself just emotionally how catastrophic this is. I

0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:33.760
<v Speaker 2>cannot imagine, uh, what these people, how they're going to

0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:35.880
<v Speaker 2>pick the pieces up, and I just want to send

0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:38.880
<v Speaker 2>prayers to each and every one of them, every family member,

0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:40.960
<v Speaker 2>and to the world and to the world for the

0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:43.840
<v Speaker 2>compassion that our world has showed these people.

0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:45.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh, we're all getting choked.

0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:49.400
<v Speaker 2>It's uh, it's it's just it's heartbreak. I just want

0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:52.720
<v Speaker 2>to say that, I just everybody. It seems like the

0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:57.280
<v Speaker 2>world is coming together over this and and and there's.

0:08:56.679 --> 0:09:00.320
<v Speaker 1>Very like cliche to be like, live every day grateful,

0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:02.360
<v Speaker 1>but I'm telling you you guys, as someone who has

0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.200
<v Speaker 1>lost a parent, which I'm sure there are many of

0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:04.760
<v Speaker 1>you who.

0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:05.280
<v Speaker 3>Have had that.

0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:10.800
<v Speaker 1>Sister, just lost a friend, it is earth shattering and

0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:13.840
<v Speaker 1>for real, you just have to walk this earth with

0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:17.480
<v Speaker 1>your head held high and be so grateful every day moment.

0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:21.199
<v Speaker 1>So Kobe Bryant, you will be extremely missed, brother, and

0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:22.920
<v Speaker 1>your beautiful daughter, and.

0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:26.800
<v Speaker 2>All the families and all the victims families. We just

0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:30.400
<v Speaker 2>send our love, and everybody listening just take off second

0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:35.360
<v Speaker 2>and and send your love outside. I'm gonna segue here.

0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:37.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how we sege be your note, We're

0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:38.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna try.

0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:38.520
<v Speaker 2>YEA.

0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:44.199
<v Speaker 1>So we are in Ohio filming a movie called Open Source.

0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:49.559
<v Speaker 1>We have yours truly, La La Kent. We have Jesse Metcac,

0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:53.360
<v Speaker 1>we have the infamous Bruce Willis, but we also have

0:09:54.000 --> 0:10:01.600
<v Speaker 1>the badass of all bad asses. Oh God, Natalie Eva Marie.

0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:04.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh Natalie. Anyway, Natalie. I got to tell you, this

0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.600
<v Speaker 2>is my second movie with Natalie. We did another movie

0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:10.040
<v Speaker 2>called Inconceivable, and that's where we met. And she is

0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:13.520
<v Speaker 2>such a talent, first of all, an any woman that's

0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:17.040
<v Speaker 2>wrestling and could kick any man's ass.

0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:21.640
<v Speaker 1>She's I did my fitting with her, you guys, and

0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:24.320
<v Speaker 1>as she was like putting her stuff on, I was like,

0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:29.680
<v Speaker 1>I really need to stop eating Nacho's Belgrande at one

0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:33.720
<v Speaker 1>in the morning because that bod that she works on

0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:37.280
<v Speaker 1>twenty four second, she's just a freaking athlete, dude.

0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:40.120
<v Speaker 2>She is. It's so crazy because her Instagram, you know,

0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:43.640
<v Speaker 2>obviously we're friends with her and we follow her. You know,

0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:46.520
<v Speaker 2>I get pissed off because I'm like, dude, I'm like

0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:49.960
<v Speaker 2>chunky monkey and I look at her on this Gram

0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:52.840
<v Speaker 2>and she's got i mean, like inverted body fat. She's

0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:57.160
<v Speaker 2>got inverted body fat. I've got extroverted body fat, like

0:10:57.440 --> 0:10:59.640
<v Speaker 2>I have a six pack. I know what's beneath about

0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:01.600
<v Speaker 2>the eight and a half pounds of fat on my stomach.

0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:05.640
<v Speaker 2>But but the thing is, she is like, I mean,

0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:06.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what it is.

0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:09.840
<v Speaker 1>It's she works hard, dude, but hardy.

0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:11.520
<v Speaker 2>Herd is like hard is like you go to the

0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:14.600
<v Speaker 2>gym and you like I, I flex a few times.

0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:18.640
<v Speaker 1>This bitch tells me she's like squatting two hundred pounds.

0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:21.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what, Yeah, she told us that. By the way,

0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:23.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what that means because I don't

0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:24.960
<v Speaker 2>go to the gym. It's obviously clearly looking and I

0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:26.880
<v Speaker 2>was like, what is a squat No, I know how

0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:28.520
<v Speaker 2>to get the dunkin donuts about.

0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:31.400
<v Speaker 3>That's a me.

0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.319
<v Speaker 2>But listen, listen. I give her respect. But here's the thing.

0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:36.760
<v Speaker 2>She's gonna bust my balls a little bit because I

0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:39.640
<v Speaker 2>call her up in panic when my fat role gets

0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:41.440
<v Speaker 2>to be too much. And I okay with that.

0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:43.840
<v Speaker 1>She said it in the car, bro you don't do anything.

0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:44.720
<v Speaker 3>You don't go to the gym.

0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:46.199
<v Speaker 1>You try to eat healthy like stuff.

0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:48.680
<v Speaker 2>I made plants. Wait, I made baby, I made plans.

0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:50.240
<v Speaker 2>I made plans with all of you to go to

0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:52.079
<v Speaker 2>the gym the other day. And here's the thing. I

0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:53.440
<v Speaker 2>went to the store and I bought all the ship

0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:55.920
<v Speaker 2>I bought the shoes, the shirts. Look in the other room,

0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:56.760
<v Speaker 2>I have all the sweatpants.

0:11:56.760 --> 0:12:00.000
<v Speaker 1>I'll show you the shoes. You're wearing those geriatric motherfuckers.

0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.679
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's fucking that's hateful. You're pissing me off. Now

0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.960
<v Speaker 2>you're doing that bullshit again. Lalla. Those are those are

0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:10.160
<v Speaker 2>hookahs or hookahs or hookahs? Those are Yeah, those are

0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:14.480
<v Speaker 2>professional running shoes. Why don't you get la la right? No, no, no,

0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:16.319
<v Speaker 2>I want to I'm not letting you get off this point.

0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:18.520
<v Speaker 2>Listen to me real quick. No, you can't just take

0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:20.480
<v Speaker 2>a dig and move on. I want to say something

0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:23.440
<v Speaker 2>about my shoes. Okay, okay, we don't all have to

0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:27.040
<v Speaker 2>look like a runway model every single day. Sometimes I

0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:30.199
<v Speaker 2>want to just feel comfortable. So my hookah shoes or

0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:34.520
<v Speaker 2>hookah wherever they're called, are bad ass, and you should

0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.920
<v Speaker 2>be respectful that I have to walk around a lot

0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:39.679
<v Speaker 2>on the set and I need comfortable shoes. I am

0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:43.240
<v Speaker 2>not in a runway model show. And second of all,

0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:47.840
<v Speaker 2>I have the effort and commitment to work out mentally

0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.760
<v Speaker 2>up here just physically. My body doesn't go to the gym,

0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:53.320
<v Speaker 2>so Natalie, and you need to back off on this

0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:55.760
<v Speaker 2>episode and not talking about it.

0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:59.480
<v Speaker 1>I've off for a long time, you guys.

0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:01.600
<v Speaker 2>All right, wait, can I ask you a question?

0:13:01.800 --> 0:13:03.679
<v Speaker 1>Ask me the question, and I want to get these voices.

0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:05.880
<v Speaker 2>We can I ask you a question. What do you think?

0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:08.520
<v Speaker 2>Don't okay this fucking attitude, I't het. Here's tell me,

0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:10.880
<v Speaker 2>I am never recording a podcast with you ever again

0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:14.119
<v Speaker 2>during your time in the month. I swear on myself.

0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.120
<v Speaker 2>Never you think I'm joking, I will not do this again. Now,

0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:20.120
<v Speaker 2>I want to tell you one thing. I put on

0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:24.840
<v Speaker 2>my jeans today, but my loose ones, okay, and they

0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:29.080
<v Speaker 2>became skinny jeans. That's a problem. We have a problem, Houston.

0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:30.520
<v Speaker 1>We have a problem.

0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:32.800
<v Speaker 2>So I'm ready for an intervention in.

0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:35.080
<v Speaker 1>All right, should we podcast your intervention?

0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:37.280
<v Speaker 2>That'd be no, no, no, I'm not looking to go

0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:39.160
<v Speaker 2>publicitive you think.

0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:42.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, honey, I'm an alcoholic. An intervention that kind of

0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:46.880
<v Speaker 1>intervention is like child part right. All right, you guys,

0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:52.240
<v Speaker 1>we have amazing voicemails. Let's start with number one.

0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:55.320
<v Speaker 4>Hi, Lala, Hi Randall. I'm a huge fan of the show.

0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:59.200
<v Speaker 4>So my question goes out to both of you. When

0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:01.960
<v Speaker 4>you guys first late eyes on each other. What was

0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:04.240
<v Speaker 4>the first thought that came through your mind.

0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:08.440
<v Speaker 2>It's like, let me think about that.

0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Remember me when I didn't show you my PMS bitch face,

0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:16.199
<v Speaker 1>when you've ripped my head off the very first time ever, let.

0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:18.160
<v Speaker 2>Me go back in time. I have to really think.

0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:21.400
<v Speaker 1>I remember.

0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:22.440
<v Speaker 2>I'll definitely sleep another.

0:14:22.960 --> 0:14:28.360
<v Speaker 1>I remember you, Like when I first saw you, you

0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:31.600
<v Speaker 1>had like your voice is very sexy. I've always said that,

0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:35.520
<v Speaker 1>and you had the face for radio No, but let's

0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:38.040
<v Speaker 1>be for real. And then your mannerisms. I was like,

0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:41.240
<v Speaker 1>this guy has a lot of swag. You always so

0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:42.120
<v Speaker 1>that white guy.

0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:43.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay, well you didn't say that.

0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:48.200
<v Speaker 1>No, you had mad swag and you were so sweet

0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:49.800
<v Speaker 1>to me. And I was like, all right, I need

0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:51.080
<v Speaker 1>to hit that. And then I hit that.

0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:53.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah this is what you thought.

0:14:53.640 --> 0:14:58.720
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and I think this is nice that. I was like,

0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:01.800
<v Speaker 1>he's been look is this. I got to hit that,

0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:04.200
<v Speaker 1>and then I need to bag that. And after we

0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:05.240
<v Speaker 1>were in separate.

0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:06.480
<v Speaker 2>So your line was I got to hit it and

0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:08.640
<v Speaker 2>then bag it. Yeah, so that's how you looked at me.

0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:10.160
<v Speaker 1>I got to put in that good good so that

0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:11.200
<v Speaker 1>I can really you know what that.

0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:13.400
<v Speaker 2>Sounds like what, you're robbing a fucking bank.

0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:17.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, it was kind of like, oh, this

0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:18.360
<v Speaker 1>is so whacked.

0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:21.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right now, I guess that's your what. Well

0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:23.960
<v Speaker 2>mine was a little different because I'm a romantic. Oh

0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:27.400
<v Speaker 2>tell me, I saw you, and I I felt a

0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:31.120
<v Speaker 2>very deep connection to you, and I felt very connected

0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:35.640
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't want to be away from you. Oh

0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:40.760
<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to hit it and bag it. I mean,

0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:42.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean I never ever heard of that. I mean,

0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:44.240
<v Speaker 2>you know, what, do me a favorite next time, bab

0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:45.920
<v Speaker 2>when somebody asked something like that, can you just drop

0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:50.200
<v Speaker 2>both those? Yeah, just say something romantic and then I'll

0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:53.160
<v Speaker 2>do the next question and I'll start the answer because

0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:55.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm freaked out right now you want to hit and

0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:57.320
<v Speaker 2>bag me? I mean it's like hit it and tag

0:15:57.360 --> 0:16:00.480
<v Speaker 2>it or bag it and tag it. The question is

0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:01.640
<v Speaker 2>Kai Lala.

0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:05.440
<v Speaker 5>I'm a huge fan from Connecticut. I was just calling

0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:09.240
<v Speaker 5>in because I was wondering. I know you and randall

0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:12.000
<v Speaker 5>got a lot of shit when you first started dating.

0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:16.320
<v Speaker 5>For your age different and my boyfriend is significantly older,

0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:19.320
<v Speaker 5>and I was just wondering if you had any advice

0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:23.960
<v Speaker 5>for dealing with family and friends, which is don't approve it. Again,

0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:26.720
<v Speaker 5>huge fans of both of you. I'm so happy that

0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:31.320
<v Speaker 5>Rand's on the show, and so congratulations on your wedding. Thanks.

0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:33.720
<v Speaker 1>This one is a little hard for me because my

0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:37.000
<v Speaker 1>family always approved, didn't have that issue. I didn't have that.

0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:40.120
<v Speaker 1>My family's very much like I brought home some sketchy

0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:42.440
<v Speaker 1>dudes before Rand, and they were like even accepting of that.

0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:46.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so but yes, I mean, but the truth is

0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:48.640
<v Speaker 2>your family and I met I remember meeting your family.

0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:53.240
<v Speaker 2>They were they were as welcoming like they didn't even

0:16:53.320 --> 0:16:54.880
<v Speaker 2>there was no they didn't even think. There was never

0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:56.320
<v Speaker 2>a conversation about their age.

0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:58.880
<v Speaker 1>They knew if he's good to you, that's what it is.

0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:00.320
<v Speaker 2>But let me but let me give you my advice

0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:01.840
<v Speaker 2>because because even though.

0:17:01.720 --> 0:17:04.320
<v Speaker 1>We haven't had parents, we've got a lot of people

0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:06.280
<v Speaker 1>that I like a lot. I think it's so weird.

0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:07.520
<v Speaker 2>I agree with that, and a lot of people have

0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.320
<v Speaker 2>talk shit. But but here's what I want to say.

0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:11.920
<v Speaker 2>At the end of the day, in your life, you're

0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:13.840
<v Speaker 2>gonna put your head down on the pillow with the

0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:18.159
<v Speaker 2>person you love. And if you're living for other people's opinions,

0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:21.199
<v Speaker 2>those people obviously have their own issues. And if you

0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:24.320
<v Speaker 2>love your man the way I assume you do, and

0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:26.000
<v Speaker 2>you put your head down next to him and that's

0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:29.360
<v Speaker 2>where you feel the safest, then then you then you

0:17:29.560 --> 0:17:31.399
<v Speaker 2>do that, and you do you because at the end

0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:33.280
<v Speaker 2>of your life, you're gonna have a smile on your

0:17:33.280 --> 0:17:34.520
<v Speaker 2>face and the rest of this.

0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:36.920
<v Speaker 1>They're all going to fall into place, exactly. They're all

0:17:36.920 --> 0:17:39.480
<v Speaker 1>going to see you happy. And it may take some time, but.

0:17:39.480 --> 0:17:41.679
<v Speaker 2>It eventually goes away. It goes away.

0:17:41.920 --> 0:17:44.440
<v Speaker 1>But if you have your soulmate, the time is worth it.

0:17:44.480 --> 0:17:46.560
<v Speaker 2>And let me say one last thing. People talked a

0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:49.480
<v Speaker 2>lot of shit, as you guys all know. Baby, I mean, oh.

0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:53.560
<v Speaker 1>He's like your dad, but you didn't that's my favorite one.

0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:55.280
<v Speaker 2>Well, law, you also didn't help the cause with all

0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:58.160
<v Speaker 2>the bullshit you say. I was like, ooh, daddy, all right,

0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:00.080
<v Speaker 2>maybe okay, this is the part where I want to

0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:02.119
<v Speaker 2>make it. Give them laala without Randall.

0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:04.120
<v Speaker 1>No, you're stuck with me, all right, babe.

0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:06.439
<v Speaker 2>But what I'm saying is that a lot of people

0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:08.480
<v Speaker 2>said a lot of shit to us, and I think people,

0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:10.760
<v Speaker 2>over time, we prove them wrong. And I hope that

0:18:10.800 --> 0:18:14.160
<v Speaker 2>you stick with your boyfriend and whatever people give you.

0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:16.440
<v Speaker 1>Prove them wrong the fling in the world.

0:18:16.800 --> 0:18:18.800
<v Speaker 2>And I agree, and it's it's just you know what,

0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:20.320
<v Speaker 2>people will fall on line and at the end of

0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:21.120
<v Speaker 2>the day.

0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:24.040
<v Speaker 1>That's that I am so when they were like, you

0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:26.600
<v Speaker 1>guys are never gonna make it. He's never going to

0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:28.040
<v Speaker 1>marry you, and then I was like, that was like

0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:32.800
<v Speaker 1>this rigged bitch. Okay again, there's still time for him

0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:34.440
<v Speaker 1>to leave me. We better head to the court house.

0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:39.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's do this, because I am so excited that

0:18:39.400 --> 0:18:42.000
<v Speaker 2>a friend of both of ours and also an incredible actress,

0:18:42.040 --> 0:18:45.240
<v Speaker 2>an incredible ww superstar.

0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:48.400
<v Speaker 1>Great actress everything, our friend, a sober sister of.

0:18:48.359 --> 0:18:52.720
<v Speaker 2>Mine, sober sister of yours, our friend Natalie Eva.

0:18:59.400 --> 0:19:02.680
<v Speaker 6>Natalie Eva Maria.

0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:04.600
<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's right.

0:19:08.440 --> 0:19:11.360
<v Speaker 1>We knew right off the bat. I was like, we're

0:19:11.400 --> 0:19:16.199
<v Speaker 1>having Eva do this because you're a freaking badass. You're

0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:19.280
<v Speaker 1>like what you're like wrestling? Then I've read that you

0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:23.320
<v Speaker 1>like played soccer. Your body's banging like no.

0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:24.359
<v Speaker 3>I can't no hold on man.

0:19:24.440 --> 0:19:26.560
<v Speaker 7>First of all, for everybody that's listening, first of all,

0:19:26.600 --> 0:19:29.200
<v Speaker 7>you guys were on like literally location right, I'm doing

0:19:29.240 --> 0:19:30.080
<v Speaker 7>a movie with Laala.

0:19:30.160 --> 0:19:30.640
<v Speaker 2>First of all.

0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:33.680
<v Speaker 7>Second of all, the full circle of everything. Randall gave

0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:35.760
<v Speaker 7>me my first movie, shout out, shout.

0:19:35.440 --> 0:19:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Out to out.

0:19:38.920 --> 0:19:41.679
<v Speaker 2>By the way, I gave her first movie Badass. I

0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:44.280
<v Speaker 2>was lucky to get you early on, and I just

0:19:44.359 --> 0:19:47.080
<v Speaker 2>want to say that we became friends, you and your husband,

0:19:47.480 --> 0:19:50.359
<v Speaker 2>and I want to say that now this is full circle.

0:19:50.400 --> 0:19:52.960
<v Speaker 2>As you say, we're sitting here in the hotel room

0:19:53.040 --> 0:19:56.000
<v Speaker 2>of another production that we're doing together with my fiance.

0:19:56.119 --> 0:19:57.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is just cool as shit.

0:19:57.760 --> 0:19:59.360
<v Speaker 3>It is. It's actually very very cool.

0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:01.960
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, only that, But I have to say, inconceivable is

0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:03.000
<v Speaker 7>bomb so bomb.

0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:04.360
<v Speaker 3>You can watch it on Netflix.

0:20:04.359 --> 0:20:09.040
<v Speaker 7>Holler, and it's with Nicholas Cage.

0:20:09.240 --> 0:20:11.840
<v Speaker 2>Wait wait wait, and then you just go down that

0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:13.600
<v Speaker 2>and then you just go from that, you jump back over.

0:20:13.680 --> 0:20:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Now you with Bruce Walls and.

0:20:16.480 --> 0:20:19.960
<v Speaker 1>Little stars out here, you're gonna be like the female

0:20:20.040 --> 0:20:21.359
<v Speaker 1>version of the Rock Stop it.

0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:25.800
<v Speaker 2>Yes right, yes, yes, so so a couple of things,

0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:27.680
<v Speaker 2>because you know, I was intrigued because IVE asked you

0:20:27.680 --> 0:20:29.840
<v Speaker 2>one hundred questions back in the day. For sure, I

0:20:30.000 --> 0:20:32.920
<v Speaker 2>just want you just get a snapshot of like how

0:20:32.960 --> 0:20:36.359
<v Speaker 2>did you be calm? W W fucking because I just

0:20:36.359 --> 0:20:39.080
<v Speaker 2>think it's the most intriguing story because people see you

0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:40.879
<v Speaker 2>you're a superstar and they think, oh, you just jumped

0:20:40.880 --> 0:20:42.640
<v Speaker 2>in a Superstarum no, yes.

0:20:42.800 --> 0:20:46.080
<v Speaker 7>Tell us how kind of the evolution short story version

0:20:46.080 --> 0:20:51.000
<v Speaker 7>because it's long. Obviously the grind, the hustle is real.

0:20:51.119 --> 0:20:54.080
<v Speaker 7>So the the goal was to be a professional soccer player.

0:20:54.400 --> 0:20:57.600
<v Speaker 7>So that was like the whole youngest of three boys,

0:20:57.640 --> 0:21:02.560
<v Speaker 7>like very much tomboy. But w W came in because

0:21:03.000 --> 0:21:05.560
<v Speaker 7>after I finished school, tore my legm into my ankle,

0:21:05.840 --> 0:21:08.359
<v Speaker 7>so that dream was shattered, right, So then moved to

0:21:08.520 --> 0:21:10.320
<v Speaker 7>LA because I wasn't ready to go and dabble in

0:21:10.359 --> 0:21:14.000
<v Speaker 7>the business corporate world. Moved to LA and dabbled in

0:21:14.040 --> 0:21:15.840
<v Speaker 7>a little bit of modeling and acting, and I was like, oh.

0:21:15.760 --> 0:21:16.480
<v Speaker 3>I like it over here.

0:21:17.200 --> 0:21:20.440
<v Speaker 7>I like like I like this. My dad always being

0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:21.680
<v Speaker 7>like when are you gonna.

0:21:21.440 --> 0:21:22.720
<v Speaker 3>Get a real job?

0:21:23.400 --> 0:21:23.720
<v Speaker 2>You know that.

0:21:24.960 --> 0:21:27.800
<v Speaker 7>So that whole thing, and especially because education to my

0:21:27.840 --> 0:21:31.280
<v Speaker 7>parents was like every like it's just like they didn't

0:21:31.320 --> 0:21:33.360
<v Speaker 7>they didn't go to college. So it was very much

0:21:33.480 --> 0:21:36.680
<v Speaker 7>something that I feel like parents just want to give

0:21:36.720 --> 0:21:39.000
<v Speaker 7>whatever they did not have, you know.

0:21:39.920 --> 0:21:41.560
<v Speaker 3>So, and obviously as I.

0:21:41.600 --> 0:21:43.560
<v Speaker 7>Get older and older, I really appreciate my parents. Like

0:21:43.680 --> 0:21:52.520
<v Speaker 7>day I'm with them, so moved to l A and

0:21:52.600 --> 0:21:57.960
<v Speaker 7>like literally was getting just enough gigs to hold on

0:21:58.119 --> 0:22:03.640
<v Speaker 7>to the pipe drink just scrap because technically not really

0:22:03.680 --> 0:22:06.520
<v Speaker 7>because I was doing the bottle service and waitress, doing

0:22:07.119 --> 0:22:11.200
<v Speaker 7>auditioning and during the day doing it off Hollywood dream yeah.

0:22:11.160 --> 0:22:12.399
<v Speaker 3>Right up, straight up.

0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:15.800
<v Speaker 7>So then all of a sudden, boom w W came

0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:17.560
<v Speaker 7>into town and I got and by this time I'd

0:22:17.600 --> 0:22:19.240
<v Speaker 7>already been on so many auditions, so it was just

0:22:19.280 --> 0:22:22.159
<v Speaker 7>like another one, no big deal, nothing, like I did

0:22:22.280 --> 0:22:26.399
<v Speaker 7>not see casting open call, Well I got it.

0:22:26.480 --> 0:22:28.120
<v Speaker 3>I was in a minor.

0:22:27.920 --> 0:22:32.200
<v Speaker 7>Like boutiquish type agency because I had done a fitness

0:22:32.200 --> 0:22:36.080
<v Speaker 7>competition and I want it, so that was like the perk.

0:22:36.200 --> 0:22:38.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but let me ask question. So you go to

0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:39.040
<v Speaker 2>an open call with.

0:22:39.920 --> 0:22:43.200
<v Speaker 3>Hundreds hundreds, how does the audition? So I walk into

0:22:43.200 --> 0:22:46.200
<v Speaker 3>the HQ right and then I'm looking around and I'm like, oh, holdly, what.

0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:49.840
<v Speaker 7>The I'm like, whoa, This is straight up w w

0:22:50.240 --> 0:22:52.480
<v Speaker 7>F that I used to watch with my brothers back

0:22:52.480 --> 0:22:54.800
<v Speaker 7>in the day. So then it's starting to like really click,

0:22:54.880 --> 0:22:56.280
<v Speaker 7>like what's really going on here?

0:22:56.600 --> 0:22:57.560
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like damn.

0:22:57.720 --> 0:23:00.000
<v Speaker 7>Because I shared a room with one of my brothers

0:23:00.240 --> 0:23:03.000
<v Speaker 7>and we had bunk beds, so we're dropping, like, you know,

0:23:03.080 --> 0:23:04.680
<v Speaker 7>doing the whole deal.

0:23:05.000 --> 0:23:07.800
<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, wow, this is wild. So immediately I'm

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:09.200
<v Speaker 3>like on Google.

0:23:08.960 --> 0:23:11.600
<v Speaker 7>Right, trying to do a little research, and I'm like, wow,

0:23:11.760 --> 0:23:15.520
<v Speaker 7>this actually has everything infused into one spot. So I mean,

0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:17.359
<v Speaker 7>at this point in my time, I had nothing to lose.

0:23:17.520 --> 0:23:18.280
<v Speaker 3>So here we go.

0:23:18.400 --> 0:23:20.040
<v Speaker 2>Now you're on the stage. Audition.

0:23:20.200 --> 0:23:24.240
<v Speaker 7>Audition, got a call back, totally left thinking like, there's

0:23:24.280 --> 0:23:27.320
<v Speaker 7>so many girls you know, and like and it's la,

0:23:27.480 --> 0:23:29.000
<v Speaker 7>there's so many so you never know.

0:23:29.040 --> 0:23:31.560
<v Speaker 3>And so anyways, call back, call back, call back, in front.

0:23:31.480 --> 0:23:34.520
<v Speaker 1>Of multiples, multiple Yeah, there were like four.

0:23:34.440 --> 0:23:37.119
<v Speaker 7>You said, yeah, four and then an interring Uh no,

0:23:37.240 --> 0:23:39.680
<v Speaker 7>the fourth one wasn't injuring physicality.

0:23:39.080 --> 0:23:41.080
<v Speaker 2>Tryout, Oh my god, how does that work?

0:23:41.200 --> 0:23:42.840
<v Speaker 7>Well, first, let me get to the one I don't

0:23:42.840 --> 0:23:44.800
<v Speaker 7>want to go the one prior to that one, I

0:23:44.840 --> 0:23:48.240
<v Speaker 7>walk into all the yes men. So those those those

0:23:48.280 --> 0:23:51.480
<v Speaker 7>guys are the ones that are like literally hammering me

0:23:51.640 --> 0:23:53.440
<v Speaker 7>questions and lights, camera action.

0:23:53.720 --> 0:23:56.560
<v Speaker 3>You walk into a room and I'm like this with

0:23:56.600 --> 0:23:58.360
<v Speaker 3>a mic standing up there.

0:23:58.640 --> 0:23:59.240
<v Speaker 1>How many people?

0:23:59.240 --> 0:24:01.840
<v Speaker 3>How many dudes were there's uh, there's women in there

0:24:01.880 --> 0:24:02.160
<v Speaker 3>as well.

0:24:02.359 --> 0:24:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, people waiting for your answer maybe twelve.

0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:11.320
<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's including cameramen. They're just firing, firing like.

0:24:11.440 --> 0:24:14.320
<v Speaker 7>Left and right, left and right, like like literally, you know,

0:24:14.600 --> 0:24:17.600
<v Speaker 7>it was It was so wild because I'd never experienced

0:24:17.600 --> 0:24:18.239
<v Speaker 7>something like that.

0:24:18.800 --> 0:24:21.919
<v Speaker 3>But I do think God puts you in a.

0:24:21.960 --> 0:24:25.280
<v Speaker 7>Place at the right time, right. It's just like timing

0:24:25.280 --> 0:24:26.879
<v Speaker 7>in my life and everything. And I was like, bringing on,

0:24:27.080 --> 0:24:29.919
<v Speaker 7>let's go because I had nothing to hide. I had

0:24:29.960 --> 0:24:33.560
<v Speaker 7>already been through a ton in my life. So and

0:24:34.119 --> 0:24:36.560
<v Speaker 7>I have tough skin, like I have all older brothers,

0:24:36.600 --> 0:24:37.359
<v Speaker 7>So you don't think.

0:24:37.200 --> 0:24:39.560
<v Speaker 3>They pick on me. I don't think that I got.

0:24:44.040 --> 0:24:49.480
<v Speaker 7>Totally you're trying to prove like, no, I'm alpha, I'm alpha.

0:24:47.320 --> 0:24:53.160
<v Speaker 7>I'm so it was totally easy, breezy, and I walked

0:24:53.160 --> 0:24:54.960
<v Speaker 7>out of there not really feeling like, oh I think

0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:56.280
<v Speaker 7>I nailed it or anything like that.

0:24:56.320 --> 0:24:58.040
<v Speaker 3>I just kind of gave it up.

0:24:58.080 --> 0:25:00.240
<v Speaker 1>And well, like you said, it was just like any

0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:02.240
<v Speaker 1>other audition you had been totally money that. It was

0:25:02.280 --> 0:25:04.840
<v Speaker 1>just like another yeah, for.

0:25:04.760 --> 0:25:07.520
<v Speaker 3>Sure, checkbox now.

0:25:07.760 --> 0:25:12.040
<v Speaker 7>So then, and it was wild because the separation and

0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:16.600
<v Speaker 7>time was insane. It was super long, so like it

0:25:17.000 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 7>was months what so by the third to the in

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:22.040
<v Speaker 7>ring physicality.

0:25:22.080 --> 0:25:25.440
<v Speaker 3>Tryout was like maybe two and a half three.

0:25:25.240 --> 0:25:26.840
<v Speaker 2>Oh, at this one, I would think he gets ship.

0:25:26.960 --> 0:25:28.080
<v Speaker 3>I would I forgot about it.

0:25:28.080 --> 0:25:29.440
<v Speaker 2>No, I would even I forgot about it.

0:25:29.480 --> 0:25:31.320
<v Speaker 3>What I mean completely do you get a phone call?

0:25:31.359 --> 0:25:32.240
<v Speaker 3>So I get a phone call?

0:25:32.440 --> 0:25:36.080
<v Speaker 7>And I made it back to the fourth and final audition,

0:25:36.160 --> 0:25:38.479
<v Speaker 7>which is in ring physicality and what that means. They

0:25:38.560 --> 0:25:40.639
<v Speaker 7>narrowed it down to I believe it was at the

0:25:40.680 --> 0:25:43.000
<v Speaker 7>time fourteen or fifteen girls.

0:25:43.320 --> 0:25:45.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I have a question. I have a question. Well,

0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:48.320
<v Speaker 2>first of all, going in, do you feel, not knowing

0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:51.600
<v Speaker 2>about this, that you are fit enough for this? Like

0:25:51.600 --> 0:25:53.720
<v Speaker 2>were you already an athlete like you are now, meaning

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:55.560
<v Speaker 2>were you still in the shape ready to go?

0:25:55.800 --> 0:25:57.919
<v Speaker 3>Fitness was definitely like still a part of me.

0:25:58.200 --> 0:26:02.879
<v Speaker 7>However, when it comes to a sport wrestling, never in

0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:05.760
<v Speaker 7>my life except like horsing around with my brothers, you know.

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:10.320
<v Speaker 7>So that was definitely intimidating and scary because I've never

0:26:10.320 --> 0:26:11.639
<v Speaker 7>in my life like.

0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:17.720
<v Speaker 3>Hit ropes Like what No, that is totally and I

0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:22.280
<v Speaker 3>was like intimidated in that manner. But then the first

0:26:22.400 --> 0:26:24.679
<v Speaker 3>day it was wild.

0:26:24.880 --> 0:26:28.000
<v Speaker 7>So we're doing like four rolls, backward roles and for me,

0:26:28.040 --> 0:26:28.959
<v Speaker 7>I'm a field athlete.

0:26:29.000 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 3>I like both seet on the floor. So immediately I.

0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:38.800
<v Speaker 8>Was like, what the this is so hard?

0:26:39.080 --> 0:26:45.320
<v Speaker 7>Like it was insane. And then four girls immediately right yeah,

0:26:45.359 --> 0:26:46.400
<v Speaker 7>because they're they're not.

0:26:46.720 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 2>They can't even they couldn't even hold well.

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:51.199
<v Speaker 7>And like not and I don't if anything, I'm like,

0:26:51.280 --> 0:26:53.320
<v Speaker 7>good for you because they're like, yeah, not happening.

0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:55.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to get slapped. Cool, I'm not going

0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 3>to take a clothes line. No, you want me to

0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:57.960
<v Speaker 3>do a back bump, I don't think.

0:26:58.080 --> 0:26:59.520
<v Speaker 1>So they left on their own.

0:26:59.520 --> 0:27:01.280
<v Speaker 3>They were like yeah, they're like no, no, you're down to

0:27:01.320 --> 0:27:02.280
<v Speaker 3>eight or seven now.

0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 7>Now we're down to I think eight, okay yea, and

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:06.240
<v Speaker 7>how long does this?

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:09.640
<v Speaker 3>So four weeks?

0:27:09.720 --> 0:27:12.760
<v Speaker 1>Four weeks, four weeks of U after a.

0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:14.760
<v Speaker 3>Day and they're teaching you literally like.

0:27:17.000 --> 0:27:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Keep going.

0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:24.000
<v Speaker 7>You were very wait, actually, you guys, I love your

0:27:24.040 --> 0:27:25.119
<v Speaker 7>goddamn podcast.

0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:26.840
<v Speaker 3>First of all, I didn't even say that.

0:27:27.080 --> 0:27:28.960
<v Speaker 7>I didn't even say thank you so much for having

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:32.520
<v Speaker 7>me on, because when I watch or watched, I feel

0:27:32.520 --> 0:27:32.760
<v Speaker 7>like I.

0:27:32.800 --> 0:27:35.359
<v Speaker 3>Actually visioning you guys.

0:27:35.680 --> 0:27:37.880
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you guys actually need to throw this on YouTube

0:27:38.119 --> 0:27:41.600
<v Speaker 7>so people can see it, because they would be that's

0:27:41.600 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 7>another little money little thing, Randall.

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:52.840
<v Speaker 8>I know you like my nave that, but it is

0:27:52.920 --> 0:27:56.720
<v Speaker 8>seriously so good, Like I hadn't seen you guys in

0:27:56.720 --> 0:27:59.560
<v Speaker 8>in a minute, and so I just listened to your

0:27:59.560 --> 0:28:01.800
<v Speaker 8>little sneak peek, like what's it come, you know?

0:28:02.600 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 7>And then obviously the first episode and I was like,

0:28:05.119 --> 0:28:08.400
<v Speaker 7>oh my god, they're the same, like straight up.

0:28:08.440 --> 0:28:11.359
<v Speaker 1>You're like by you love it.

0:28:11.440 --> 0:28:13.359
<v Speaker 2>People understand that this is no.

0:28:13.440 --> 0:28:15.840
<v Speaker 3>I know, it is so good to it.

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for being on it.

0:28:17.560 --> 0:28:20.160
<v Speaker 3>It is Oh no, I'm super stoked.

0:28:20.400 --> 0:28:23.280
<v Speaker 2>You're like family. So it's like you already Mexican Italian.

0:28:23.320 --> 0:28:25.720
<v Speaker 3>I love to talk, give me a give me a mic.

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:32.639
<v Speaker 2>We are dropping the mic. Okay here more. Okay, you're

0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:34.840
<v Speaker 2>exciting for people because I mean, come on, become a

0:28:34.960 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 2>w W superstar and they.

0:28:36.240 --> 0:28:38.640
<v Speaker 3>Don't do the Diva search anymore. They don't know they

0:28:38.720 --> 0:28:40.160
<v Speaker 3>took it out. They don't even we're not even called

0:28:40.200 --> 0:28:43.680
<v Speaker 3>divas anymore. We're all called w W superstars. Wow, you

0:28:43.720 --> 0:28:48.480
<v Speaker 3>know equality, equality you go so now, so.

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 7>Now we're in the in in ring part right, and

0:28:50.640 --> 0:28:53.440
<v Speaker 7>it's like, okay, each day is obviously different. But the

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:58.280
<v Speaker 7>first like three days after my initial first week, I

0:28:58.400 --> 0:29:01.840
<v Speaker 7>literally cannot lift my like I was staying with at

0:29:01.840 --> 0:29:04.320
<v Speaker 7>the time when I got the job. I was living

0:29:04.360 --> 0:29:06.720
<v Speaker 7>with my girlfriend and she had those little baby gates

0:29:06.800 --> 0:29:08.120
<v Speaker 7>or the doggy gates or whatever because she.

0:29:08.040 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 3>Had little dogs.

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 7>I could not get over it. I had to lift

0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:16.840
<v Speaker 7>my leg with my that's how bad. And new muscles,

0:29:17.320 --> 0:29:19.720
<v Speaker 7>all new muscles that were being worked that I had

0:29:19.800 --> 0:29:22.080
<v Speaker 7>never in a million years even thought I even had.

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:25.000
<v Speaker 3>Wow, So it was insane.

0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 7>But anyway, so basically, you do the in ring, try

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:29.840
<v Speaker 7>out to see if you can handle the physicality and.

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:31.720
<v Speaker 3>If they like you and see potential.

0:29:31.960 --> 0:29:34.960
<v Speaker 7>And all that really promised you was you could hopefully

0:29:35.040 --> 0:29:37.960
<v Speaker 7>at the end get a developmental deal. You got a shot,

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 7>a shot right to learn how to wrestle. They take

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:44.640
<v Speaker 7>the acting classes, create your character will help guide you.

0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 7>And then you're also traveling and doing live shows for

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 7>like ten people, setting up a ring like doing the deal.

0:29:51.040 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 3>So that's the development. It's a grind. It's a grind.

0:29:54.320 --> 0:29:57.480
<v Speaker 7>So then after those four weeks, that's what everybody's trying

0:29:57.480 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 7>out for, that's what everyone's.

0:29:58.480 --> 0:30:01.640
<v Speaker 3>Hoping for, just that development. Yes, okay, four of us

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:02.200
<v Speaker 3>got it.

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:04.920
<v Speaker 2>The developmental contret so you're cell right, and that's a

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:07.400
<v Speaker 2>big deal. I'd i'd be off the chop the charts.

0:30:07.760 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all like so like life changing. This was everything.

0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:16.360
<v Speaker 7>Meanwhile, I had met Jonathan now my husband, four weeks,

0:30:16.400 --> 0:30:19.120
<v Speaker 7>five weeks before I started my in ring physicality.

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:21.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh so two months you've been dating at this point, right,

0:30:21.840 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 2>four or five weeks before?

0:30:22.840 --> 0:30:26.680
<v Speaker 3>Four week probably now three months, two two months.

0:30:26.840 --> 0:30:32.520
<v Speaker 7>So I met him like right, like literally right before.

0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:33.760
<v Speaker 2>Just because he's, by the way, the nicest human being

0:30:34.040 --> 0:30:39.880
<v Speaker 2>on the planet. And another, by the way, those of

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:42.479
<v Speaker 2>you that don't know Natalie's husband, you look him up

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 2>on the ground. Okay, dude is shredded superstar like superhero

0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:50.560
<v Speaker 2>Superman again, not like my jelly rolls, but nicest guy

0:30:50.600 --> 0:30:52.960
<v Speaker 2>on the planet. Nice. I love him, And I know

0:30:53.000 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 2>he's your business partner. And you guys, you guys have

0:30:55.160 --> 0:30:57.440
<v Speaker 2>a huge brand company and all that stuff. But but

0:30:57.520 --> 0:30:58.800
<v Speaker 2>go ahead, so how did you guys meet?

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:00.800
<v Speaker 3>We met actually on the gram.

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:04.600
<v Speaker 7>He has a whole nother story like how how I

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:10.360
<v Speaker 7>went down, But basically it started with a like and

0:31:10.360 --> 0:31:12.760
<v Speaker 7>this was and this was right before Instagram, but you

0:31:12.760 --> 0:31:16.680
<v Speaker 7>couldn't even DM anybody, and and and you couldn't. Uh,

0:31:17.040 --> 0:31:18.840
<v Speaker 7>Instagram was only four Apple phones.

0:31:19.120 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you remember that? I know that I didn't know.

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:23.120
<v Speaker 2>I didn't. I got it late late the game.

0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 7>So it was like super brand, like super I remember

0:31:26.880 --> 0:31:28.520
<v Speaker 7>how many followers he had because I was like, who

0:31:28.600 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 7>is he had twenty five k and I was like.

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:31.600
<v Speaker 3>Who is he?

0:31:31.840 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 2>Wow?

0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:32.920
<v Speaker 5>I had?

0:31:33.160 --> 0:31:40.640
<v Speaker 3>I had? I had, I had five? Yeah, see you doubles? Okay, baby,

0:31:40.720 --> 0:31:41.480
<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying.

0:31:41.800 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 7>So I saw all of a sudden, I saw this

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 7>dude that I had never seen before, like a couple

0:31:47.800 --> 0:31:50.280
<v Speaker 7>of photos and they weren't like the thirst photos of

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:56.400
<v Speaker 7>like bikini like nah, it was it was the book

0:31:57.000 --> 0:31:58.360
<v Speaker 7>the Five Level Languages.

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Can I tell you? He liked the fact that I

0:32:00.520 --> 0:32:02.600
<v Speaker 1>posted probably didn't have his many likes, so he's like,

0:32:02.640 --> 0:32:04.840
<v Speaker 1>I got to like the ones because then she'll notice.

0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:08.680
<v Speaker 3>Something he had. Ye jan smart.

0:32:09.080 --> 0:32:11.600
<v Speaker 7>That's why I literally married the guy because he's smart.

0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:14.920
<v Speaker 2>I know him. I don't look at thinking, yeah, it's

0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 2>all up here besides the fact that it's a flawless physique,

0:32:18.640 --> 0:32:20.400
<v Speaker 2>but yes, the guy is very upstairs.

0:32:20.440 --> 0:32:21.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh he's going to love you guys for this.

0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 7>He's going to be like, yeah, make sure you tune into.

0:32:27.880 --> 0:32:28.040
<v Speaker 2>Love.

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:32.440
<v Speaker 3>But so that's kind of how it went down.

0:32:32.480 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 7>And then he likes linked up shot me his email

0:32:35.840 --> 0:32:38.560
<v Speaker 7>in a comment, and then we were emailing back and forth.

0:32:39.680 --> 0:32:41.960
<v Speaker 3>No, we might not actually across the gym.

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 2>Real, so ship, I would never meet it a freaking

0:32:46.520 --> 0:32:48.400
<v Speaker 2>gym for a day because I couldn't get through six.

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:50.720
<v Speaker 1>When I was dating. If you weren't giving me alcohol,

0:32:50.840 --> 0:32:51.760
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't showing up.

0:32:51.800 --> 0:32:54.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, well that okay again, things some things could be

0:32:54.880 --> 0:32:59.400
<v Speaker 2>left unsaid. Thank you very much for that, la la okay.

0:32:59.720 --> 0:33:00.000
<v Speaker 3>Question.

0:33:01.240 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 1>When you were auditioned to WW, were they casting that

0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 1>you know of four Total Divas? Were they looking for

0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:12.560
<v Speaker 1>the next Total Diva?

0:33:12.760 --> 0:33:15.800
<v Speaker 7>No, so I did not know of Total Diva, so

0:33:16.120 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 7>that all kind of goes into the same timeframe. So

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:23.120
<v Speaker 7>they were casting at that time, but they did not

0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:25.840
<v Speaker 7>make it like public. It was more in house. So

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:29.040
<v Speaker 7>WW was trying to decide whether or not they already

0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 7>had who they were going to have on the cast.

0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 7>So they really only needed two more girls, and they

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 7>were originally going to bring up two NXT girls up

0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 7>on the main roster as well as be a part

0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 7>of Total Divas. Then I have no idea where the

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:47.640
<v Speaker 7>shift happened. But the shift happened, thank God in my favor.

0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:54.000
<v Speaker 7>Else I want to be sitting where somebody somehow said,

0:33:54.040 --> 0:33:57.040
<v Speaker 7>you know, what would be great is to have two

0:33:57.480 --> 0:34:02.080
<v Speaker 7>brand new girls, fresh that know nothing about the business.

0:34:02.120 --> 0:34:05.160
<v Speaker 2>How long wa WD are you a developmental girl? When

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:05.880
<v Speaker 2>they make this call?

0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 3>I got my job within forty eight hours, so I

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:10.319
<v Speaker 3>got my developmental deal. So they got offered four.

0:34:10.600 --> 0:34:13.640
<v Speaker 7>So I told Jonathan like, oh my god, kay whatever

0:34:13.719 --> 0:34:15.040
<v Speaker 7>you know, like, I got it, I got it, I

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:17.239
<v Speaker 7>got it. Then I get a call saying, hey, by

0:34:17.280 --> 0:34:19.600
<v Speaker 7>the way, since you live in La, do you mind

0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:22.680
<v Speaker 7>going in on this audition slash interview can't really tell

0:34:22.719 --> 0:34:24.200
<v Speaker 7>you exactly what it is.

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:25.920
<v Speaker 3>Is that in the other And I was like, yeah, sure,

0:34:26.200 --> 0:34:26.719
<v Speaker 3>so I go in.

0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:32.799
<v Speaker 7>It's being a Murray, so everybody knows Murray's makes road

0:34:32.880 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 7>rural road rules.

0:34:33.920 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 3>Kardashians, Kardashians. That's all you got it, That's all I

0:34:36.200 --> 0:34:38.000
<v Speaker 3>gotta do, say.

0:34:38.360 --> 0:34:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Murray, the original, original and real World, the pioneer of reality.

0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:44.839
<v Speaker 3>Totally there.

0:34:44.840 --> 0:34:54.920
<v Speaker 2>You go. Tell us because when I met you at

0:34:54.960 --> 0:34:59.719
<v Speaker 2>your agent William wore Brad a mutual friend, he had

0:34:59.800 --> 0:35:02.000
<v Speaker 2>told because he represents the rock ye and brought the

0:35:02.080 --> 0:35:05.400
<v Speaker 2>Rock up. Just tell me kind of your Rock like

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 2>relationship history, like it's cool like whatever mentor whatever it is.

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:15.440
<v Speaker 7>It honestly like the whole WWE kind of experience. I

0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:19.279
<v Speaker 7>guess how I walked into that specific job at that

0:35:19.320 --> 0:35:21.800
<v Speaker 7>specific time was all I guess.

0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:23.720
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to say dream because that's so cliche.

0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:26.200
<v Speaker 3>It is, but it's so not like it will not

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:26.920
<v Speaker 3>happen again.

0:35:27.280 --> 0:35:29.200
<v Speaker 7>So some like to someone when they don't do the

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:31.839
<v Speaker 7>Diva searches number two Total Divas is on.

0:35:31.920 --> 0:35:34.320
<v Speaker 3>It's probably way out right.

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:39.040
<v Speaker 1>As long as vander Pump eight eight Wow.

0:35:39.440 --> 0:35:43.080
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so that world is different today. But came into

0:35:43.120 --> 0:35:46.000
<v Speaker 2>it like the Rock was just like like just explaination.

0:35:46.239 --> 0:35:49.239
<v Speaker 7>No, he wasn't because he was already transitioned, so he

0:35:49.320 --> 0:35:49.840
<v Speaker 7>was never.

0:35:49.920 --> 0:35:50.439
<v Speaker 3>On the road.

0:35:50.560 --> 0:35:51.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, she had John Cena.

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:54.920
<v Speaker 7>John Cena was on the road with us wow constantly.

0:35:55.360 --> 0:35:57.480
<v Speaker 7>So he was the only one. Rock would only come

0:35:57.520 --> 0:36:00.920
<v Speaker 7>back like radical exactly for like a big moment.

0:36:00.920 --> 0:36:04.360
<v Speaker 2>What do you mean, like you're you're you're an actress

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:07.319
<v Speaker 2>or a brand, a wrestler or everything, and the Rock

0:36:07.400 --> 0:36:11.439
<v Speaker 2>shows up twenty million dollar movie stars slash wrestlers. Does

0:36:11.440 --> 0:36:12.920
<v Speaker 2>he just come to hang out with you and like

0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:14.279
<v Speaker 2>shoot the ship. Do you go to the gym and

0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:16.200
<v Speaker 2>pump iron? Do you lift weights? What do you do?

0:36:16.320 --> 0:36:17.920
<v Speaker 7>I mean not when I was there. I mean he

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:20.200
<v Speaker 7>might have been. He might have, but not my days.

0:36:20.600 --> 0:36:23.759
<v Speaker 7>My days is he has his you know, room, and

0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:27.440
<v Speaker 7>he it's like social to get in and do his

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:30.640
<v Speaker 7>job and then get out because Simon is money and

0:36:30.680 --> 0:36:35.360
<v Speaker 7>he's busy totally. So I remember like passing out a

0:36:35.400 --> 0:36:39.239
<v Speaker 7>WrestleMania and I'm this when I passed Brad.

0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 3>But I didn't know it was Brad at the time.

0:36:41.239 --> 0:36:43.200
<v Speaker 7>And that was like the first time that I said hello.

0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:46.280
<v Speaker 7>So it was like an awesome like just a normal

0:36:46.920 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 7>encounter instead of you don't want to be like.

0:36:50.440 --> 0:36:53.520
<v Speaker 2>You want to be door, No, I don't want to be.

0:36:53.920 --> 0:36:54.879
<v Speaker 3>No, you don't you.

0:36:54.840 --> 0:36:59.040
<v Speaker 2>Don't genuine totally interest. Sure, please take me or pick

0:36:59.800 --> 0:37:00.040
<v Speaker 2>get it.

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:01.879
<v Speaker 3>I really get that for sure.

0:37:01.960 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 7>So I was like, you know, lucky enough to just

0:37:04.040 --> 0:37:08.080
<v Speaker 7>like even coincidentally run into Rock and then it was

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:10.080
<v Speaker 7>Brad and then kind of like a little bit of

0:37:10.200 --> 0:37:13.040
<v Speaker 7>entourage guys that happened to be because he was performing

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 7>for WrestleMania got to introduce say what's up hello, introduce

0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 7>myself and kept it pushing. But then like but then

0:37:21.160 --> 0:37:24.279
<v Speaker 7>I think about four or five months later, I get

0:37:24.280 --> 0:37:28.320
<v Speaker 7>a call. I'm doing a shoot and it's our I

0:37:28.360 --> 0:37:31.680
<v Speaker 7>can't remember her position. I think it's public relation maybe,

0:37:31.880 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 7>but anyways, gives me a call and says, hey, even

0:37:35.719 --> 0:37:39.280
<v Speaker 7>would you take a meeting with this guy Brad Slater?

0:37:40.239 --> 0:37:43.160
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, you're like what After.

0:37:44.680 --> 0:37:47.760
<v Speaker 7>We got into w W, that's when like business started

0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:51.080
<v Speaker 7>really like like no, no, no where Jonathan and I

0:37:51.239 --> 0:37:53.960
<v Speaker 7>really wanted to utilize the platform.

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:55.439
<v Speaker 3>Yes, because it's like.

0:37:55.400 --> 0:37:57.759
<v Speaker 2>So that's where you started saying let's try to brand.

0:37:57.680 --> 0:38:01.279
<v Speaker 7>Yes of course, yeah, right, well and not only that

0:38:01.719 --> 0:38:05.880
<v Speaker 7>going into w W as well, Jonathan is smart and

0:38:05.960 --> 0:38:09.480
<v Speaker 7>he with my contract he was he helped you totally

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 7>where like I had my whole website and everything. That's

0:38:13.040 --> 0:38:15.360
<v Speaker 7>why I was able to have my name and stuff

0:38:15.360 --> 0:38:16.400
<v Speaker 7>like that, which is alous.

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:19.440
<v Speaker 2>It's like it's like I I created la There was

0:38:19.480 --> 0:38:20.160
<v Speaker 2>no LAA before.

0:38:20.560 --> 0:38:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Give me a break.

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:24.839
<v Speaker 3>That's what they all think.

0:38:25.160 --> 0:38:28.759
<v Speaker 1>Definitely getting voted getting voted off Mom and my dad.

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:30.799
<v Speaker 3>There you go, Hey.

0:38:30.360 --> 0:38:31.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm getting voted off the island.

0:38:31.560 --> 0:38:36.680
<v Speaker 1>You're getting voted off the island with Laala.

0:38:36.040 --> 0:38:39.040
<v Speaker 3>Give them.

0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:42.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait get back to wait back the business.

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:45.479
<v Speaker 1>We can go back to business. But there's a big

0:38:45.560 --> 0:38:49.439
<v Speaker 1>question that I have. Yes, at what point in your

0:38:49.520 --> 0:38:52.560
<v Speaker 1>life did you say I got to get sober?

0:38:52.840 --> 0:39:01.080
<v Speaker 3>M m oh into I got sober when?

0:39:01.960 --> 0:39:06.000
<v Speaker 7>Well, first, I was raised so in a really really strict,

0:39:06.120 --> 0:39:10.640
<v Speaker 7>strict household. So once I ended up leaving my parents,

0:39:10.680 --> 0:39:13.680
<v Speaker 7>that was almost like where it was like all bets

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:15.480
<v Speaker 7>are off where I'm like, wait a minute, I don't

0:39:15.520 --> 0:39:19.200
<v Speaker 7>have a curfew, like it is poppin' right, and then,

0:39:20.080 --> 0:39:21.720
<v Speaker 7>you know, bad decision after another.

0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:24.640
<v Speaker 3>I got into, you know, a lot of trouble.

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:30.400
<v Speaker 7>And then my oldest brother actually ended up getting sober,

0:39:30.640 --> 0:39:35.360
<v Speaker 7>and he basically in a sense I always looked up

0:39:35.400 --> 0:39:38.279
<v Speaker 7>to him, so I was like, damn, well, I mean

0:39:38.320 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 7>if he's doing it, and I'm I'm I was depressed

0:39:40.600 --> 0:39:42.720
<v Speaker 7>and my life was like you know, I was throwing

0:39:42.719 --> 0:39:44.799
<v Speaker 7>it literally away, and I was not raised the way

0:39:44.800 --> 0:39:46.960
<v Speaker 7>that I was. Some of the decisions that I was

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:51.160
<v Speaker 7>making where you know, for anyone that's listening to, like

0:39:51.400 --> 0:39:55.239
<v Speaker 7>especially parents and stuff like I feel so bad to

0:39:55.320 --> 0:39:56.200
<v Speaker 7>this day, like.

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:59.920
<v Speaker 3>My parents are rock stars, They're my everything. They they.

0:40:01.520 --> 0:40:05.239
<v Speaker 7>Had no like input in the sense of like where

0:40:05.280 --> 0:40:08.080
<v Speaker 7>they should feel bad because a parent is always going

0:40:08.160 --> 0:40:09.759
<v Speaker 7>to feel bad if their child's not.

0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:13.160
<v Speaker 1>Doing well, wealthy right, maybe they had done something wrong total.

0:40:13.000 --> 0:40:16.720
<v Speaker 7>Or something or didn't do went left or right, whatever

0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:18.319
<v Speaker 7>you want to say, you know what I'm saying. And

0:40:18.360 --> 0:40:21.040
<v Speaker 7>he addiction runs like deep in my family too. So

0:40:21.640 --> 0:40:23.520
<v Speaker 7>I got sober originally at twenty three.

0:40:24.120 --> 0:40:25.400
<v Speaker 1>Wow, you were young.

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:26.840
<v Speaker 3>That's a baby.

0:40:26.920 --> 0:40:28.800
<v Speaker 2>So that what that means that she had a really

0:40:28.840 --> 0:40:32.360
<v Speaker 2>good time from fifteen to twenty three, I would.

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:36.360
<v Speaker 7>Say eighteen to twenty three when.

0:40:36.239 --> 0:40:38.359
<v Speaker 3>She moved out once I moved out to my parents.

0:40:38.600 --> 0:40:40.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, And I have to make light because obviously

0:40:41.000 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 2>I've been with Laala, you know for a long time,

0:40:43.280 --> 0:40:45.720
<v Speaker 2>and and and and you know, I've been through her addiction.

0:40:46.239 --> 0:40:50.080
<v Speaker 2>My dad's sober like twenty plus years, so he runs.

0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:53.239
<v Speaker 2>It runs in my family. Yeah, but I gotta say, so,

0:40:53.480 --> 0:40:56.279
<v Speaker 2>when you got sober that young, similar to her, because

0:40:56.280 --> 0:40:59.640
<v Speaker 2>she got sober late twenties, what was the challenge and

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:02.920
<v Speaker 2>what got you through being staying sober? Because you I've

0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:06.720
<v Speaker 2>read quotes from you where you say most people fail once,

0:41:07.200 --> 0:41:09.640
<v Speaker 2>but don't give up, like so what, so what does

0:41:09.680 --> 0:41:10.000
<v Speaker 2>that mean.

0:41:10.239 --> 0:41:13.239
<v Speaker 7>It's kind of like one of the things where I

0:41:13.719 --> 0:41:15.719
<v Speaker 7>know that I put a lot of like because I

0:41:15.719 --> 0:41:18.680
<v Speaker 7>work a program, like I work a twelve step program,

0:41:18.960 --> 0:41:20.839
<v Speaker 7>so I feel like I infuse that in a lot

0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:22.000
<v Speaker 7>of aspects of my life.

0:41:22.040 --> 0:41:23.560
<v Speaker 3>So if you fail.

0:41:23.800 --> 0:41:28.200
<v Speaker 7>So when I first got into a or my program,

0:41:28.560 --> 0:41:30.319
<v Speaker 7>I do the whole deal. I have a sponsor, I

0:41:30.360 --> 0:41:34.160
<v Speaker 7>sponsor women, I go to meetings. It sucks, it's super annoying,

0:41:34.320 --> 0:41:37.319
<v Speaker 7>it's super hard. It's so it's I'm not it's so

0:41:37.840 --> 0:41:39.759
<v Speaker 7>like not what I want to do. I never want

0:41:39.800 --> 0:41:41.560
<v Speaker 7>to go to a meeting, but I always feel better after.

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:44.640
<v Speaker 7>I never want to, Like I love all my girls

0:41:44.680 --> 0:41:47.239
<v Speaker 7>that I sponsor, but like a lot of times I

0:41:47.320 --> 0:41:52.080
<v Speaker 7>want to be like not doing yeah, because of course,

0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:54.239
<v Speaker 7>because that's like I don't want to lose what I

0:41:54.280 --> 0:41:58.279
<v Speaker 7>have now, because I never want to go back to

0:41:58.320 --> 0:41:59.600
<v Speaker 7>the dark moment.

0:41:59.360 --> 0:42:01.360
<v Speaker 3>That that I used.

0:42:01.160 --> 0:42:05.399
<v Speaker 7>To dabble in, you know, But it is, it's it's

0:42:05.400 --> 0:42:08.160
<v Speaker 7>definitely that's why they always say, like a simple program,

0:42:08.200 --> 0:42:10.680
<v Speaker 7>but it takes a lot of hard work. But in

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:13.160
<v Speaker 7>how I infuse it into all aspects of life is

0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:16.080
<v Speaker 7>we're going to fail, We're gonna get told no so

0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:19.279
<v Speaker 7>many times, like I've gotten told no way more than

0:42:19.320 --> 0:42:23.080
<v Speaker 7>I've ever been told yes. So it's it's just making

0:42:23.120 --> 0:42:26.359
<v Speaker 7>sure that you do all the cliche ship we always hear,

0:42:26.760 --> 0:42:30.080
<v Speaker 7>get back up, keep going, believing in yourself and kind

0:42:30.080 --> 0:42:31.240
<v Speaker 7>of like keep.

0:42:31.080 --> 0:42:32.480
<v Speaker 3>The engine going totally.

0:42:33.200 --> 0:42:35.960
<v Speaker 7>But I think I was super cocky too, and I

0:42:36.000 --> 0:42:38.279
<v Speaker 7>was like, I'm never gonna relapse. I'm like, what these

0:42:38.280 --> 0:42:42.319
<v Speaker 7>people are crazy, like super judgmental like this, I am

0:42:42.480 --> 0:42:44.279
<v Speaker 7>not one of these, like you know what I mean.

0:42:44.320 --> 0:42:47.640
<v Speaker 7>On my little poney, So I lasted three years?

0:42:47.800 --> 0:42:48.879
<v Speaker 2>What yep?

0:42:50.320 --> 0:42:51.480
<v Speaker 3>So I lasted three years?

0:42:51.480 --> 0:42:55.920
<v Speaker 7>And I called up my sponsor, who is still my sponsor.

0:42:56.239 --> 0:43:01.640
<v Speaker 7>Now from the beginning, I've noted for like, damn fourteen years.

0:43:02.000 --> 0:43:03.560
<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's amazing, so.

0:43:04.400 --> 0:43:08.600
<v Speaker 7>Would technically I should be celebrating thirteen. She's about to celebrate.

0:43:08.239 --> 0:43:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Fourteen, so I can three years sober.

0:43:10.480 --> 0:43:11.359
<v Speaker 3>So I'm three years sober.

0:43:11.360 --> 0:43:12.839
<v Speaker 7>I call her up, MO, I love you so much,

0:43:12.880 --> 0:43:15.960
<v Speaker 7>thank you for everything, because sometimes as well as you know,

0:43:16.080 --> 0:43:19.160
<v Speaker 7>like you know the promises that if anybody doesn't know,

0:43:19.200 --> 0:43:20.840
<v Speaker 7>like if you work a program, certain things are to

0:43:20.840 --> 0:43:23.160
<v Speaker 7>happen in your life, like normal people get like I

0:43:23.160 --> 0:43:24.120
<v Speaker 7>got my license back.

0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:28.800
<v Speaker 3>Good thing. Yeah, I started paying taxes, you know what

0:43:28.840 --> 0:43:30.440
<v Speaker 3>I mean, like a normal like.

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:34.840
<v Speaker 2>Lowood like Lala was like like once she got sober

0:43:34.880 --> 0:43:37.359
<v Speaker 2>and God bless her. I tell her every day her

0:43:37.360 --> 0:43:41.840
<v Speaker 2>biggest accomplishment in life will be this. Sure and thirteen

0:43:41.960 --> 0:43:46.319
<v Speaker 2>fourteen months she's been sober. I mean fifteen eighty see,

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:50.160
<v Speaker 2>but fifteen months been definitely. Miracles have happened daily, weekly,

0:43:50.400 --> 0:43:51.440
<v Speaker 2>and she acknowledged.

0:43:51.440 --> 0:43:53.279
<v Speaker 7>So I, hey, that's what they say. They say, don't

0:43:53.360 --> 0:43:54.560
<v Speaker 7>leave until the miracle happens.

0:43:54.840 --> 0:43:58.560
<v Speaker 3>Legit like as that is you're preaching that big book.

0:44:02.640 --> 0:44:07.120
<v Speaker 7>Okay, three years in and so I start like, obviously,

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:09.520
<v Speaker 7>you know, getting my life back. I'm feeling good, like

0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:11.880
<v Speaker 7>being great. And so I called him and I was like, oh,

0:44:11.920 --> 0:44:13.400
<v Speaker 7>I love you so much to thank you for everything,

0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:15.600
<v Speaker 7>but I'm good. And she's like, what do you mean good?

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:16.479
<v Speaker 3>Like what?

0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 7>And then she's like, well, you know, I don't suggest this,

0:44:21.600 --> 0:44:26.279
<v Speaker 7>but okay, sure enough. Within like nine months, I think,

0:44:26.280 --> 0:44:28.879
<v Speaker 7>I like white knuckled it or so they say, that's

0:44:28.920 --> 0:44:32.359
<v Speaker 7>a phrase. I guess without working a program, without having

0:44:32.400 --> 0:44:36.879
<v Speaker 7>a sponsor, just like living like just a sober dry

0:44:37.120 --> 0:44:38.560
<v Speaker 7>they called right.

0:44:38.719 --> 0:44:40.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And within nine months.

0:44:40.920 --> 0:44:43.240
<v Speaker 7>Just it was just like on and popping, like once

0:44:43.320 --> 0:44:45.759
<v Speaker 7>I had a little it was just.

0:44:45.719 --> 0:44:48.480
<v Speaker 3>Like I never stopped. So then I was out for

0:44:48.520 --> 0:44:52.719
<v Speaker 3>like two years, for two years and we're really bad.

0:44:52.480 --> 0:44:56.319
<v Speaker 2>Rehab rehab, and then never that was it.

0:44:56.520 --> 0:44:59.800
<v Speaker 3>No, And then so I met Jonathan straight out of rehab.

0:45:00.320 --> 0:45:00.680
<v Speaker 1>Wow.

0:45:00.920 --> 0:45:03.440
<v Speaker 7>Wow, I know this is like kind of mic drop stuff.

0:45:04.120 --> 0:45:05.799
<v Speaker 7>I haven't dropped any of this stuff.

0:45:05.480 --> 0:45:07.600
<v Speaker 2>But this is the stuff I think that that matters

0:45:07.640 --> 0:45:10.160
<v Speaker 2>because all the other ship, like you know, success and

0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:12.040
<v Speaker 2>all that, but this is the stuff that I think

0:45:12.080 --> 0:45:15.719
<v Speaker 2>people like Laala gets so many so much love for sobriety,

0:45:16.000 --> 0:45:17.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, and and I give her more.

0:45:18.080 --> 0:45:19.520
<v Speaker 3>Kind of love's ever given.

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:22.600
<v Speaker 2>She she loves that. Let me ask you a question.

0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:24.880
<v Speaker 2>Jonathan is sober not sober.

0:45:25.000 --> 0:45:28.360
<v Speaker 3>No, he's a normy. So we got on Friday.

0:45:28.640 --> 0:45:29.839
<v Speaker 2>We pay the next day.

0:45:30.200 --> 0:45:32.160
<v Speaker 1>This is what I love about normies. You can go

0:45:32.200 --> 0:45:33.880
<v Speaker 1>out and get drunk and the next day you'll be

0:45:33.960 --> 0:45:36.040
<v Speaker 1>like I'm done for a minute, like you had a

0:45:36.040 --> 0:45:38.160
<v Speaker 1>good time. It's like I got sucked up last night.

0:45:38.200 --> 0:45:40.440
<v Speaker 1>I better get it pop in so I can say normal,

0:45:40.960 --> 0:45:41.279
<v Speaker 1>Like we.

0:45:41.239 --> 0:45:43.319
<v Speaker 2>Went to Sunday. We went to Sunday. This is just me.

0:45:43.600 --> 0:45:45.799
<v Speaker 2>We went to Sundance Alie to sit here. We went

0:45:45.840 --> 0:45:48.879
<v Speaker 2>out and was it Friday Friday? And we got back

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:50.799
<v Speaker 2>to the house whatever, like two o'clock and we sat

0:45:50.840 --> 0:45:53.400
<v Speaker 2>in the kitchen and continue to drink. And then I

0:45:53.440 --> 0:45:55.480
<v Speaker 2>woke up the next day and I said to God, please,

0:45:55.520 --> 0:45:57.920
<v Speaker 2>where's the ivy doctor? Brought the IV doctor in? Oh,

0:45:58.080 --> 0:45:59.879
<v Speaker 2>got that. Then I had to go to tubing and sled,

0:46:00.160 --> 0:46:02.960
<v Speaker 2>followed by bloody Mary and then and then and then

0:46:03.000 --> 0:46:05.759
<v Speaker 2>I said, Okay, I'm good for like two or three months.

0:46:05.920 --> 0:46:07.759
<v Speaker 2>I don't need to have another, you know. Now It's

0:46:07.800 --> 0:46:11.400
<v Speaker 2>like right, no me? So yeah. The fact of like,

0:46:11.600 --> 0:46:13.759
<v Speaker 2>but but I what I'm saying is like I just

0:46:13.840 --> 0:46:15.759
<v Speaker 2>but I was with Law and obviously in her dark,

0:46:15.920 --> 0:46:19.520
<v Speaker 2>dark phase, I've never seen Listen, she's a little person,

0:46:19.880 --> 0:46:22.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, I've never seen somebody. She would get mad

0:46:22.200 --> 0:46:23.400
<v Speaker 2>at me. She would say we wereround. This is I

0:46:23.440 --> 0:46:27.319
<v Speaker 2>didn't understand until it got really really bad. She would

0:46:27.320 --> 0:46:29.279
<v Speaker 2>say to me like I'd say, babe, can we go home? Now?

0:46:29.320 --> 0:46:32.120
<v Speaker 2>It's like twelve thirty sep. You're a loser. Your drink

0:46:32.239 --> 0:46:34.720
<v Speaker 2>is half full. Nobody leaves a drink on the table.

0:46:34.800 --> 0:46:36.560
<v Speaker 2>A loser leaves a drink on the tail. I mean

0:46:36.560 --> 0:46:39.040
<v Speaker 2>it was it was a dark, dark, dark place. And

0:46:39.080 --> 0:46:42.440
<v Speaker 2>now now she's like, Babe, can we watch Friends today?

0:46:42.440 --> 0:46:43.160
<v Speaker 2>That teven fifteen?

0:46:43.560 --> 0:46:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Because I go to sleep at eight and go to

0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:49.440
<v Speaker 1>restaurants that that don't have alcohol.

0:46:49.560 --> 0:46:53.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, normally I would would sure, why would we go here?

0:46:54.000 --> 0:46:54.560
<v Speaker 2>She would not know?

0:46:54.640 --> 0:46:56.880
<v Speaker 1>Everyone else around me is like, they don't have alcoholic.

0:46:56.400 --> 0:46:58.600
<v Speaker 2>They've given your line my favorite line when the waiter

0:46:58.640 --> 0:47:00.719
<v Speaker 2>always comes to you and says, do you want to

0:47:00.760 --> 0:47:01.200
<v Speaker 2>drink tonight?

0:47:01.239 --> 0:47:03.759
<v Speaker 1>Tell them what you say or if you if you

0:47:04.600 --> 0:47:07.200
<v Speaker 1>don't want your restaurant burned down?

0:47:08.480 --> 0:47:11.560
<v Speaker 3>You know, because seriously, same light.

0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:12.000
<v Speaker 6>And ship up.

0:47:12.040 --> 0:47:13.800
<v Speaker 1>If you give me alcohol.

0:47:13.760 --> 0:47:19.880
<v Speaker 7>One hundred percent, lames are happening, games are going down,

0:47:20.080 --> 0:47:22.799
<v Speaker 7>We're kicking through doors like you you know, it's what

0:47:22.880 --> 0:47:23.920
<v Speaker 7>you want totally.

0:47:25.560 --> 0:47:25.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:47:26.040 --> 0:47:30.280
<v Speaker 7>So then right out of rehab. So then I don't

0:47:30.640 --> 0:47:33.880
<v Speaker 7>tell him. I don't know, I know, how could I

0:47:33.960 --> 0:47:36.840
<v Speaker 7>like all of a sudden, don't do this anybody that's listening.

0:47:37.120 --> 0:47:40.200
<v Speaker 3>But in my in my head, I'm thinking, like, there's

0:47:40.239 --> 0:47:42.120
<v Speaker 3>no way that, like the first couple of days, I'm

0:47:42.120 --> 0:47:42.520
<v Speaker 3>gonna be.

0:47:42.440 --> 0:47:45.279
<v Speaker 7>Like, oh, by the way, I just got out of

0:47:45.360 --> 0:47:48.279
<v Speaker 7>rehab and this is uh, you know.

0:47:48.360 --> 0:47:54.839
<v Speaker 3>I'm rock solid over here. You know, I have.

0:47:54.840 --> 0:47:57.560
<v Speaker 2>To laugh only because as somebody who's been and lived

0:47:57.560 --> 0:47:59.240
<v Speaker 2>through an alcoholic partner.

0:47:59.480 --> 0:48:04.080
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you know you for sure I could laugh now

0:48:04.200 --> 0:48:07.279
<v Speaker 7>because we went we through it, you know.

0:48:07.920 --> 0:48:11.680
<v Speaker 2>And you're standing here totally to inspire people. And by

0:48:11.680 --> 0:48:13.080
<v Speaker 2>the way, I have to laugh because I know that

0:48:13.120 --> 0:48:16.279
<v Speaker 2>both of you inspire people all over the world to

0:48:16.360 --> 0:48:18.799
<v Speaker 2>be sober, to be healthy if they if they need

0:48:18.800 --> 0:48:19.120
<v Speaker 2>that real.

0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:21.239
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you what if that's the only thing I

0:48:21.280 --> 0:48:25.320
<v Speaker 1>ever do in my life, yo, to inspire someone. I agree,

0:48:25.320 --> 0:48:26.879
<v Speaker 1>and like I that is.

0:48:27.080 --> 0:48:30.880
<v Speaker 7>Not only that, but because I think too for females,

0:48:31.080 --> 0:48:33.520
<v Speaker 7>and I feel like there's this like stigma with girls,

0:48:33.640 --> 0:48:38.120
<v Speaker 7>especially for just alcoholism or addiction in general. Like I

0:48:38.120 --> 0:48:39.480
<v Speaker 7>feel like I don't know why, but I feel like

0:48:39.520 --> 0:48:43.640
<v Speaker 7>I talk about it a little bit more. But with Jonathan,

0:48:43.680 --> 0:48:45.120
<v Speaker 7>I think the best thing that happened to me. So

0:48:45.160 --> 0:48:47.680
<v Speaker 7>I didn't tell him right and we ended up how long,

0:48:49.080 --> 0:48:52.640
<v Speaker 7>I only lasted a few weeks because his best friend

0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:53.480
<v Speaker 7>was getting married.

0:48:54.040 --> 0:48:57.239
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, it's a good song his I know.

0:48:57.239 --> 0:48:59.360
<v Speaker 7>I wish Jonathan was here because he would he would

0:48:59.520 --> 0:49:04.480
<v Speaker 7>literally tell you verbatim, because I there's moments that I

0:49:04.719 --> 0:49:11.520
<v Speaker 7>obviously don't remember. But so his best and I've only

0:49:11.600 --> 0:49:16.960
<v Speaker 7>known Jonathan, mind you, maybe we've gone on a couple dates,

0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:20.000
<v Speaker 7>that's dates, and so this is like the first time

0:49:20.040 --> 0:49:24.480
<v Speaker 7>that I'm actually sleeping over to. So like, uh, obviously

0:49:24.480 --> 0:49:27.200
<v Speaker 7>it was like a joint hotel room and stuff, but

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:31.600
<v Speaker 7>still first like yeah, and like meeting his best friend

0:49:32.000 --> 0:49:35.640
<v Speaker 7>and his best friend's wife and all her friends and stuff.

0:49:35.920 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, oh, yeah, so where do they go?

0:49:38.960 --> 0:49:39.120
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:49:39.320 --> 0:49:40.560
<v Speaker 3>Vegas? Cool?

0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:41.120
<v Speaker 5>God?

0:49:41.400 --> 0:49:44.120
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, So I'm not even thinking anything of it, right

0:49:44.520 --> 0:49:49.400
<v Speaker 7>because of course not. So we get we get.

0:49:49.160 --> 0:49:52.359
<v Speaker 3>There, first night. Cool, well, no, first night.

0:49:52.480 --> 0:49:55.920
<v Speaker 7>We get into the room and everybody starts doing a

0:49:55.960 --> 0:49:59.160
<v Speaker 7>round of shots around to Jack and so in my

0:49:59.239 --> 0:50:02.600
<v Speaker 7>head it's like, you know, the devil, the devil Nat

0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:05.000
<v Speaker 7>and then the angel Nat. The devil, the one that

0:50:05.000 --> 0:50:07.759
<v Speaker 7>always wants to take me down. She's a tough cooking man.

0:50:08.160 --> 0:50:09.879
<v Speaker 7>She is a tough she wants to take me out

0:50:09.880 --> 0:50:15.400
<v Speaker 7>every day. I'm like, I'm like, stay down, like dang,

0:50:16.239 --> 0:50:20.560
<v Speaker 7>Like she is tough. So she's strong and she just

0:50:21.000 --> 0:50:23.479
<v Speaker 7>she's strong armed, and I've ended up.

0:50:23.560 --> 0:50:26.560
<v Speaker 3>Okay I did. So then but now, but so I

0:50:26.600 --> 0:50:27.200
<v Speaker 3>took it down.

0:50:27.560 --> 0:50:28.919
<v Speaker 2>How long have you point?

0:50:29.120 --> 0:50:31.200
<v Speaker 1>She just got out of rehab at.

0:50:31.080 --> 0:50:35.080
<v Speaker 3>This point, I most probably maybe three and a half four.

0:50:35.280 --> 0:50:38.200
<v Speaker 7>Oh, okay, so I was fresh, right, so you would

0:50:38.200 --> 0:50:41.160
<v Speaker 7>think that it would be fresh in my brain, like yay,

0:50:41.440 --> 0:50:45.120
<v Speaker 7>you just what's wrong with you? And I paid rehab

0:50:45.160 --> 0:50:48.440
<v Speaker 7>for myself, so I it was a pretty penny.

0:50:48.760 --> 0:50:49.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:50:49.360 --> 0:50:52.279
<v Speaker 7>So I took the hit too where I'm like, what's

0:50:52.280 --> 0:50:56.200
<v Speaker 7>wrong with you? But addiction you do crazy things. So

0:50:56.520 --> 0:50:59.359
<v Speaker 7>first night, everything's good, have some drinks, we go out

0:50:59.360 --> 0:50:59.880
<v Speaker 7>to the club.

0:51:00.160 --> 0:51:03.800
<v Speaker 3>Everything's fine. Come back the next morning, I'm like, hey.

0:51:03.640 --> 0:51:07.000
<v Speaker 7>I was cool, like last night, right, like right, And

0:51:07.239 --> 0:51:12.560
<v Speaker 7>he kept thinking, but he was no, I did, but

0:51:13.000 --> 0:51:16.120
<v Speaker 7>kind of vaguely, but I still wanted to get that reassurance.

0:51:16.400 --> 0:51:21.920
<v Speaker 7>So he was like, yeah, everything was cool, it was good, good, good, Okay.

0:51:22.160 --> 0:51:23.480
<v Speaker 3>This is a like m.

0:51:25.160 --> 0:51:27.600
<v Speaker 7>I don't know, I can't remember exactly what time in

0:51:27.640 --> 0:51:32.719
<v Speaker 7>the morning. And then so that night comes, we go

0:51:32.760 --> 0:51:37.680
<v Speaker 7>out on and popping. It's like now one, two, three

0:51:37.719 --> 0:51:40.440
<v Speaker 7>in the morning. We go to some little buffet and

0:51:40.480 --> 0:51:43.560
<v Speaker 7>it's like all you can drink Mimosa's or something. So

0:51:43.680 --> 0:51:48.440
<v Speaker 7>I start going in there, go back to the room.

0:51:48.560 --> 0:51:50.200
<v Speaker 7>I think we fell asleep for like an hour, and

0:51:50.200 --> 0:51:52.160
<v Speaker 7>then all of a sudden, I woke up like a

0:51:52.160 --> 0:51:55.319
<v Speaker 7>bright idea and it was a pool party for her

0:51:55.840 --> 0:52:03.160
<v Speaker 7>like her, which is girl so terrible like impression. Yeah,

0:52:03.239 --> 0:52:07.960
<v Speaker 7>I decide cool, I almost start early. Yeah, it's six am,

0:52:08.000 --> 0:52:13.480
<v Speaker 7>so I down an entire bottle of jack, no.

0:52:13.239 --> 0:52:15.839
<v Speaker 2>The dome, an s higher bottle of jack.

0:52:16.320 --> 0:52:18.600
<v Speaker 1>That's like you would have had a lot of fun together.

0:52:19.520 --> 0:52:22.799
<v Speaker 3>So Jonathan he hears me, he's sleeping. He hears me

0:52:22.920 --> 0:52:24.880
<v Speaker 3>like all of a sudden, I'm all light loud.

0:52:25.280 --> 0:52:31.319
<v Speaker 7>I'm naturally loud anyways, so now I'm like yes, like

0:52:32.080 --> 0:52:34.799
<v Speaker 7>he comes out like and he like looks at me,

0:52:35.560 --> 0:52:38.000
<v Speaker 7>and I don't recall this, but he did like a

0:52:38.040 --> 0:52:39.800
<v Speaker 7>double take because he's.

0:52:39.640 --> 0:52:43.360
<v Speaker 3>Like, wait a minute, it's seven she is she drunk?

0:52:44.239 --> 0:52:47.200
<v Speaker 7>So anyways, long story short, we end up going to

0:52:47.480 --> 0:52:48.160
<v Speaker 7>that party.

0:52:48.400 --> 0:52:53.160
<v Speaker 3>I am like eighth, just a disaster like extensions kind

0:52:53.160 --> 0:52:54.480
<v Speaker 3>of like falling out of my head.

0:52:54.800 --> 0:53:00.200
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, like bad.

0:53:00.200 --> 0:53:04.320
<v Speaker 7>He called my mom and was like, like, your daughter.

0:53:04.120 --> 0:53:07.600
<v Speaker 3>Has an alcohol problem or moms like she just got

0:53:07.600 --> 0:53:09.919
<v Speaker 3>out of rehab. My Mom's like I know.

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Tells ever tells him everything and now what does he do?

0:53:13.200 --> 0:53:18.440
<v Speaker 7>And now he's basically stuck because I'm obviously he's not

0:53:18.560 --> 0:53:21.840
<v Speaker 7>going to be a jerk and just say boom me

0:53:21.920 --> 0:53:22.919
<v Speaker 7>out the room.

0:53:23.200 --> 0:53:23.440
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:53:25.040 --> 0:53:28.359
<v Speaker 7>So the next day or no, later on that night,

0:53:28.400 --> 0:53:31.560
<v Speaker 7>I like totally sober up and he basically like looks

0:53:31.600 --> 0:53:35.440
<v Speaker 7>me in my face and gets kind of crazy, and

0:53:35.920 --> 0:53:39.280
<v Speaker 7>I felt like a little kid where I was like, yeah,

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:41.480
<v Speaker 7>all of a sudden, I was like, oh, my best

0:53:41.520 --> 0:53:44.399
<v Speaker 7>behavior for because we still had like thirty six hours

0:53:44.440 --> 0:53:45.120
<v Speaker 7>left at the trip.

0:53:45.280 --> 0:53:46.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh man, this is.

0:53:46.400 --> 0:53:48.200
<v Speaker 3>So those thirty six hours.

0:53:48.560 --> 0:53:51.080
<v Speaker 2>He is a rock star. Yeah, I know, I mean

0:53:51.120 --> 0:53:53.840
<v Speaker 2>to handle this because I thought anybody else would have

0:53:53.880 --> 0:53:56.799
<v Speaker 2>been like, here's your Southwest ticket, here's the driver.

0:53:56.880 --> 0:53:57.680
<v Speaker 3>Totally.

0:53:58.960 --> 0:54:02.560
<v Speaker 7>One hundred person we're going to get through. So well

0:54:02.719 --> 0:54:07.320
<v Speaker 7>he wasn't that nice. But but those thirty six hours

0:54:07.360 --> 0:54:12.040
<v Speaker 7>I was like, no, no, hell no, I wasn't need

0:54:12.520 --> 0:54:13.040
<v Speaker 7>that day.

0:54:14.239 --> 0:54:14.839
<v Speaker 3>Yes I was.

0:54:14.960 --> 0:54:17.799
<v Speaker 7>I actually was, because he said we had like a

0:54:17.840 --> 0:54:20.360
<v Speaker 7>big because everything was changing, so I had.

0:54:20.680 --> 0:54:22.759
<v Speaker 3>It was actually right before my w W tryout when

0:54:22.760 --> 0:54:24.000
<v Speaker 3>that happened to.

0:54:24.880 --> 0:54:28.239
<v Speaker 1>So god girl, yeah, this is yeah.

0:54:28.280 --> 0:54:29.800
<v Speaker 3>Could you imagine me drinking?

0:54:29.880 --> 0:54:32.640
<v Speaker 2>Well, well, none of that would you would have made

0:54:32.640 --> 0:54:37.520
<v Speaker 2>it through. So that is God's way because you after that,

0:54:37.600 --> 0:54:39.920
<v Speaker 2>I assume you both you get you know he he.

0:54:40.200 --> 0:54:43.160
<v Speaker 7>Gets ober, Yeah, because he he kind of in a

0:54:43.239 --> 0:54:45.840
<v Speaker 7>sense gave me an ultimatum if I wanted to continue

0:54:45.880 --> 0:54:48.959
<v Speaker 7>to date him or see where this relationship was going.

0:54:49.480 --> 0:54:52.120
<v Speaker 7>There was no way I would have to go back

0:54:52.160 --> 0:54:55.000
<v Speaker 7>to the way that because obviously my mom let him

0:54:55.000 --> 0:54:59.120
<v Speaker 7>in on I worked a program. She was sober, right,

0:54:59.200 --> 0:55:01.840
<v Speaker 7>So he told me that, and then that's when I

0:55:01.920 --> 0:55:06.560
<v Speaker 7>was like, all right, well that's it, that's from there.

0:55:06.640 --> 0:55:08.760
<v Speaker 3>Got you've just done. Yeah.

0:55:08.880 --> 0:55:09.200
<v Speaker 2>Wow.

0:55:09.920 --> 0:55:12.600
<v Speaker 7>It took me probably a little bit to hop on

0:55:12.760 --> 0:55:14.960
<v Speaker 7>and like I had to put my tail between my legs.

0:55:15.200 --> 0:55:18.239
<v Speaker 7>Call Mo my sponsor, because there was no way that

0:55:18.320 --> 0:55:19.880
<v Speaker 7>I was going to have a new sponsor and put

0:55:19.920 --> 0:55:21.359
<v Speaker 7>all my dirt out on the street like that.

0:55:21.719 --> 0:55:26.439
<v Speaker 3>No, I was like, I was like, no, no, no, Mo, Hey,

0:55:26.920 --> 0:55:29.960
<v Speaker 3>hey take me back. You already know how much up

0:55:30.160 --> 0:55:34.640
<v Speaker 3>high She knew it. She did, and so she picked

0:55:34.719 --> 0:55:35.680
<v Speaker 3>up phone and.

0:55:37.200 --> 0:55:40.239
<v Speaker 2>Literally a story. I mean, now I have now when

0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:41.879
<v Speaker 2>I see John that to give him like so much

0:55:41.920 --> 0:55:44.960
<v Speaker 2>more love, because you look at somebody's spouse just like

0:55:45.000 --> 0:55:47.200
<v Speaker 2>they look at us, and they don't know what. Nobody

0:55:47.280 --> 0:55:49.680
<v Speaker 2>knows what anybody's been through, like for sure, and relationships

0:55:49.719 --> 0:55:51.239
<v Speaker 2>like look if you look at Lala and I and

0:55:51.280 --> 0:55:52.680
<v Speaker 2>they look at us and they're like, you know, oh

0:55:52.800 --> 0:55:55.759
<v Speaker 2>their course and they fly on, it's all bullshit like

0:55:55.800 --> 0:55:57.879
<v Speaker 2>at the end of the day, you know. And that's

0:55:57.880 --> 0:55:59.520
<v Speaker 2>why I love this podcast because people get to see

0:55:59.520 --> 0:56:02.600
<v Speaker 2>how we are. I give Jonathan mad love and respect

0:56:02.640 --> 0:56:04.600
<v Speaker 2>because you know, I had been through it with her

0:56:04.680 --> 0:56:08.040
<v Speaker 2>for a long time. Again, she tricked me for a

0:56:08.040 --> 0:56:10.240
<v Speaker 2>long time because I didn't know she had like a

0:56:10.239 --> 0:56:11.000
<v Speaker 2>full alcoholic.

0:56:11.320 --> 0:56:15.359
<v Speaker 7>I tried to trick Jonathan, but.

0:56:13.360 --> 0:56:16.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't. He was quicker. He was quicker. He

0:56:16.480 --> 0:56:18.560
<v Speaker 2>was because already got out of Rehabit was a quicker

0:56:18.680 --> 0:56:21.080
<v Speaker 2>like heads up. Lala was just more like I was.

0:56:21.080 --> 0:56:23.560
<v Speaker 2>Like she would hide the day drinking, for sure. So

0:56:23.560 --> 0:56:25.120
<v Speaker 2>when the day she would.

0:56:24.960 --> 0:56:27.359
<v Speaker 1>Wake up and you're not down a party like that,

0:56:27.400 --> 0:56:29.319
<v Speaker 1>well then I'll just this in my coffee cup and

0:56:29.360 --> 0:56:30.160
<v Speaker 1>we'll call it good.

0:56:30.239 --> 0:56:32.480
<v Speaker 2>Right one day, and then one day she was a

0:56:32.520 --> 0:56:34.600
<v Speaker 2>little off in the morning. This is kind of the beginning.

0:56:34.719 --> 0:56:36.040
<v Speaker 2>One day you were a little off in the morning.

0:56:36.120 --> 0:56:38.080
<v Speaker 2>We were swimming in the pool and it was like

0:56:38.200 --> 0:56:40.680
<v Speaker 2>nine am, and I was like, you sound a little

0:56:41.040 --> 0:56:44.080
<v Speaker 2>off you Okay, I was already I was already onto

0:56:44.080 --> 0:56:45.920
<v Speaker 2>her at that point, and I said, let me, let me.

0:56:46.160 --> 0:56:48.040
<v Speaker 2>She put the cup down, I grabbed it and took

0:56:48.040 --> 0:56:48.400
<v Speaker 2>a sip.

0:56:48.520 --> 0:56:50.480
<v Speaker 1>No, you didn't know, you didn't. I remember this vividly

0:56:51.040 --> 0:56:54.719
<v Speaker 1>ident and I was so knocking threw over the what

0:56:54.760 --> 0:56:56.839
<v Speaker 1>happened the pool? Going to let him have a tape?

0:56:56.920 --> 0:56:58.640
<v Speaker 2>It was vodka. She threw it over the balcon of

0:56:58.640 --> 0:57:00.120
<v Speaker 2>the pool. And then at that point, you.

0:57:00.080 --> 0:57:04.280
<v Speaker 1>Know, it games up, games up, her.

0:57:04.239 --> 0:57:07.560
<v Speaker 2>Last, her, her last whatever, what do you call it?

0:57:07.680 --> 0:57:09.200
<v Speaker 2>Your last day out?

0:57:09.280 --> 0:57:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my last hurrah.

0:57:11.840 --> 0:57:14.399
<v Speaker 2>She she got on the plane we're coming back from

0:57:14.480 --> 0:57:15.839
<v Speaker 2>a Disney.

0:57:15.560 --> 0:57:17.480
<v Speaker 1>World, which I was black out the whole time.

0:57:17.680 --> 0:57:19.840
<v Speaker 2>And why didn't I didn't. I didn't even see her

0:57:19.880 --> 0:57:22.280
<v Speaker 2>because I was. It was so bad and I just didn't.

0:57:22.880 --> 0:57:24.880
<v Speaker 2>It was so bad that I for me at that point,

0:57:24.920 --> 0:57:26.760
<v Speaker 2>it was kind of the disconnected. It was the end

0:57:26.760 --> 0:57:28.720
<v Speaker 2>of our relationship, in my opinion. I'd written her a

0:57:28.800 --> 0:57:31.720
<v Speaker 2>letter and said that this is I can't do this anymore,

0:57:31.720 --> 0:57:33.720
<v Speaker 2>and if you can figure it out, I'll be there

0:57:33.720 --> 0:57:35.880
<v Speaker 2>for you, but for now we're done. And so I've

0:57:35.880 --> 0:57:38.120
<v Speaker 2>written this letter. So we got home. I was going

0:57:38.160 --> 0:57:39.520
<v Speaker 2>to read it to her, but we got on the

0:57:39.560 --> 0:57:42.040
<v Speaker 2>plane and and and uh and I remember she.

0:57:42.000 --> 0:57:43.960
<v Speaker 1>Had a bottle of was it Tennessee?

0:57:44.080 --> 0:57:44.480
<v Speaker 2>Tennessee?

0:57:45.080 --> 0:57:47.320
<v Speaker 1>All I cared about drinking.

0:57:47.000 --> 0:57:48.560
<v Speaker 2>From the morning all the way together the plane and

0:57:48.640 --> 0:57:51.480
<v Speaker 2>got on the plane. She's like out of a rap video,

0:57:51.720 --> 0:57:55.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, in her hand, and she drank herself until

0:57:55.040 --> 0:57:57.120
<v Speaker 2>she's passed out. And it's when she passed out, I

0:57:57.120 --> 0:57:59.439
<v Speaker 2>wrote this letter. And and then you know it came home.

0:58:00.120 --> 0:58:01.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh, don't get emotional.

0:58:02.320 --> 0:58:07.520
<v Speaker 7>I know it's super tough because it's one of those

0:58:07.520 --> 0:58:11.760
<v Speaker 7>things like that's why it's it's nice to laugh and

0:58:11.880 --> 0:58:16.520
<v Speaker 7>joke about it, because it was such a dark and serious.

0:58:16.160 --> 0:58:18.600
<v Speaker 1>While for me to be able to have him look

0:58:18.680 --> 0:58:19.240
<v Speaker 1>back on it.

0:58:19.240 --> 0:58:20.160
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't laugh for a long.

0:58:20.360 --> 0:58:22.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm so ashamed of that. Like for

0:58:22.480 --> 0:58:24.360
<v Speaker 1>sure now we look back on it.

0:58:25.680 --> 0:58:27.160
<v Speaker 2>But I'll tell you something there was like there was

0:58:27.160 --> 0:58:30.480
<v Speaker 2>like yeah, I also didn't believe like because I was

0:58:30.520 --> 0:58:33.400
<v Speaker 2>ready to be done with, you know, with everything, and

0:58:33.480 --> 0:58:36.360
<v Speaker 2>there was and there was so when when she walked

0:58:36.360 --> 0:58:38.120
<v Speaker 2>to my office that day, I was gonna read the letter,

0:58:38.400 --> 0:58:40.080
<v Speaker 2>she said, you know, I'm an alcoholic. She had never

0:58:40.120 --> 0:58:43.440
<v Speaker 2>said that before, and so then I said, okay, obviously

0:58:43.480 --> 0:58:45.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to turn my back on somebody. That's

0:58:45.520 --> 0:58:46.920
<v Speaker 2>so I was like, okay, let's go play this game.

0:58:46.960 --> 0:58:49.080
<v Speaker 2>Because she told me she's gonna stop righting. So we

0:58:49.200 --> 0:58:51.640
<v Speaker 2>and and and and I, you know, go where you

0:58:51.960 --> 0:58:53.959
<v Speaker 2>party and have a fun night. A couple of lines.

0:58:54.560 --> 0:58:57.200
<v Speaker 2>This is a different thing. This was seven days. But

0:58:57.640 --> 0:58:59.600
<v Speaker 2>so I wrote it out and I had such resentment

0:58:59.640 --> 0:59:03.080
<v Speaker 2>and such anger. So when she got sober, I couldn't

0:59:03.120 --> 0:59:06.120
<v Speaker 2>let it go. And so there was a couple months

0:59:06.160 --> 0:59:08.800
<v Speaker 2>and and to just say a love story short. When

0:59:08.800 --> 0:59:09.400
<v Speaker 2>we went to a.

0:59:09.440 --> 0:59:13.040
<v Speaker 1>Meeting, you know, I called him. I was like, which,

0:59:13.080 --> 0:59:14.960
<v Speaker 1>keep in mind there were many times where I would

0:59:14.960 --> 0:59:15.520
<v Speaker 1>tell him meet me.

0:59:15.600 --> 0:59:19.960
<v Speaker 2>She she couldn't show up, She'd fall down. It was mortifying.

0:59:20.000 --> 0:59:22.000
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't make plans. I'm talking about at the end

0:59:22.000 --> 0:59:22.960
<v Speaker 2>when it got really early.

0:59:23.200 --> 0:59:25.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but then I was like, hey, I need you

0:59:25.360 --> 0:59:29.600
<v Speaker 1>to meet me a meeting. I was like, they're early.

0:59:29.680 --> 0:59:32.120
<v Speaker 2>So she said, like seven o'clock. She said seven o'clock.

0:59:32.120 --> 0:59:34.280
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, this is another like and there's about

0:59:34.280 --> 0:59:36.480
<v Speaker 2>thirty days in and forty days in and I show up.

0:59:36.480 --> 0:59:39.640
<v Speaker 2>She's standing out front, like at six forty five waiting

0:59:39.680 --> 0:59:41.440
<v Speaker 2>for me, couldn't wait to walk be in there, two

0:59:41.440 --> 0:59:44.600
<v Speaker 2>steep people, and I'm like, what is going on? I'm confused.

0:59:44.880 --> 0:59:47.480
<v Speaker 2>She could even make it some days, and so that

0:59:47.640 --> 0:59:49.600
<v Speaker 2>was probably the beginning for me and the excite. And

0:59:49.600 --> 0:59:52.320
<v Speaker 2>then and then about ninety days in or six days in,

0:59:52.400 --> 0:59:54.560
<v Speaker 2>when it still had a lot of resentment from things

0:59:54.560 --> 0:59:58.000
<v Speaker 2>that had been done, she she said, look, you you

0:59:58.120 --> 1:00:01.160
<v Speaker 2>have to make a decision, like like you can't like

1:00:01.280 --> 1:00:04.080
<v Speaker 2>either you have to like be with me and forgive me,

1:00:04.360 --> 1:00:06.880
<v Speaker 2>or you have to like walk away, because you know

1:00:07.000 --> 1:00:10.120
<v Speaker 2>you can't. And I did a lot of soul searching,

1:00:10.120 --> 1:00:12.920
<v Speaker 2>and my soul searching was that I can't punish somebody

1:00:12.920 --> 1:00:15.120
<v Speaker 2>who's in recovery either. I have to go off on

1:00:15.160 --> 1:00:16.760
<v Speaker 2>my own and be away.

1:00:16.920 --> 1:00:18.680
<v Speaker 1>And I told him that because for me, it was

1:00:18.720 --> 1:00:19.520
<v Speaker 1>like at that.

1:00:19.560 --> 1:00:21.320
<v Speaker 2>Moment, you had given me a lot of time and

1:00:21.360 --> 1:00:22.120
<v Speaker 2>I but I.

1:00:22.080 --> 1:00:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Also told him, I'm like, my recovery is more important

1:00:25.120 --> 1:00:28.440
<v Speaker 1>than you right now, my family, because I'm not helpful

1:00:28.480 --> 1:00:30.560
<v Speaker 1>to anybody. If I pick up a drink and I'm

1:00:30.560 --> 1:00:32.720
<v Speaker 1>already beating myself up, like I can't have.

1:00:32.800 --> 1:00:36.800
<v Speaker 7>You totally because there's so much that you like you

1:00:36.800 --> 1:00:39.520
<v Speaker 7>you bury and then not only that, when you and

1:00:39.560 --> 1:00:43.200
<v Speaker 7>it has to at some point through recovery, it's going

1:00:43.240 --> 1:00:46.120
<v Speaker 7>to surface and it's going to come to light and

1:00:46.200 --> 1:00:47.880
<v Speaker 7>you're going to walk through it. You're going to get

1:00:47.880 --> 1:00:51.040
<v Speaker 7>through it, and it's super painful and you're it's it's

1:00:51.080 --> 1:00:51.800
<v Speaker 7>a lot.

1:00:52.080 --> 1:00:58.680
<v Speaker 2>But eventually forgive yourself the addiction. And I also, you know,

1:00:58.760 --> 1:01:01.600
<v Speaker 2>have been through you know, my own recovery, not for alhostuff,

1:01:01.600 --> 1:01:04.160
<v Speaker 2>but like in life, just to work on myself and things.

1:01:04.200 --> 1:01:06.680
<v Speaker 2>I've totally and I'll tell you that. The final note

1:01:06.720 --> 1:01:09.000
<v Speaker 2>here I'll say is that like I woke up after

1:01:09.120 --> 1:01:11.080
<v Speaker 2>that and I kind of spent some time with myself

1:01:11.080 --> 1:01:13.680
<v Speaker 2>and I said, either this is the woman I love

1:01:13.760 --> 1:01:16.920
<v Speaker 2>and look at her. I've got the best version, or

1:01:17.640 --> 1:01:20.080
<v Speaker 2>I need to go on and move on. Because our

1:01:20.080 --> 1:01:24.200
<v Speaker 2>relationship was, you know, it was struggled for a long time.

1:01:24.560 --> 1:01:27.480
<v Speaker 2>And that's when we I think we finally just put

1:01:27.520 --> 1:01:30.240
<v Speaker 2>it together and we said, look, you know, in the beginning,

1:01:30.280 --> 1:01:32.920
<v Speaker 2>our relationship you know, was what it was. It was

1:01:32.960 --> 1:01:36.600
<v Speaker 2>not perfect at anyway, but now let's go try to

1:01:36.640 --> 1:01:40.160
<v Speaker 2>create a great relationshipship. We work every day and we're

1:01:40.200 --> 1:01:42.040
<v Speaker 2>still learning things about each other. But you know what,

1:01:42.240 --> 1:01:44.840
<v Speaker 2>like any relationship, we try to talk through things and

1:01:44.880 --> 1:01:46.880
<v Speaker 2>we try to work through things, right, babe. But I

1:01:46.920 --> 1:01:49.640
<v Speaker 2>am very proud, Like I tell her her greatest concimence.

1:01:49.640 --> 1:01:51.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't give a shit about TV shows, and I

1:01:51.560 --> 1:01:53.440
<v Speaker 2>don't care about movies, and I don't care about money

1:01:53.480 --> 1:01:55.880
<v Speaker 2>she makes and all the things that she does her

1:01:55.960 --> 1:01:59.360
<v Speaker 2>sobriety will be her greatest accomplishment. I give her a

1:01:59.360 --> 1:02:00.480
<v Speaker 2>matter respect. I love you.

1:02:00.600 --> 1:02:03.240
<v Speaker 7>Jonathan says the same thing, yeah, because and I think

1:02:03.600 --> 1:02:07.200
<v Speaker 7>it was so a monumental moment for him to actually

1:02:07.960 --> 1:02:11.000
<v Speaker 7>see what a change in me, because it's really hard

1:02:11.000 --> 1:02:14.960
<v Speaker 7>for somebody that does not understand either alcoholism or addiction,

1:02:15.600 --> 1:02:18.280
<v Speaker 7>for somebody to say that I am and not get

1:02:18.320 --> 1:02:21.120
<v Speaker 7>it because they're normal, so they don't understand.

1:02:20.680 --> 1:02:22.840
<v Speaker 3>The severity of like the disease.

1:02:23.160 --> 1:02:26.680
<v Speaker 7>So for him to actually witness full point blank like

1:02:26.840 --> 1:02:29.360
<v Speaker 7>this face in his face, just like wait a minute,

1:02:29.400 --> 1:02:32.760
<v Speaker 7>this is And then who like doctor Deckel and mister Hyde,

1:02:32.800 --> 1:02:36.520
<v Speaker 7>like that's who different people like you're cool?

1:02:37.280 --> 1:02:39.880
<v Speaker 3>This is I don't even know what this is, right, Like,

1:02:40.000 --> 1:02:40.920
<v Speaker 3>who are you?

1:02:41.160 --> 1:02:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Ag? I feel like I feel like our relationship honestly,

1:02:43.920 --> 1:02:46.280
<v Speaker 2>and I don't describe it things, but you know, we've

1:02:46.280 --> 1:02:48.120
<v Speaker 2>had a lot of hills and valleys. I feel like

1:02:48.160 --> 1:02:51.520
<v Speaker 2>the last year was really where it came together. Like

1:02:51.600 --> 1:02:55.160
<v Speaker 2>that's where our relationship. Our relationship before that was was

1:02:55.360 --> 1:02:58.360
<v Speaker 2>crazy and you know, break up and you get sure

1:02:58.560 --> 1:03:01.120
<v Speaker 2>we just were nuts. And now now I have somebody

1:03:01.160 --> 1:03:03.800
<v Speaker 2>who's like, Babe, you'll be here at eight o'clock and

1:03:03.840 --> 1:03:05.640
<v Speaker 2>you'll be here sharp, and I show up seven minutes later.

1:03:05.640 --> 1:03:08.640
<v Speaker 2>She's like, I said, a babe, I'm like, who are you?

1:03:08.840 --> 1:03:11.280
<v Speaker 2>It took me about six months to realize that I

1:03:11.360 --> 1:03:14.400
<v Speaker 2>better show up. Yeah. So I love her for that.

1:03:14.680 --> 1:03:19.120
<v Speaker 2>And you're an amazing badass badass woman, uh to do

1:03:19.200 --> 1:03:21.640
<v Speaker 2>what you've done, and and you both are women who

1:03:21.640 --> 1:03:24.760
<v Speaker 2>are like super successful and on top of the world

1:03:24.760 --> 1:03:27.880
<v Speaker 2>and to be sober in the world you're in. I

1:03:27.920 --> 1:03:30.920
<v Speaker 2>give you mad Cross because our world, you know, is

1:03:31.200 --> 1:03:34.000
<v Speaker 2>not an easy world to operate, you know, sober, so

1:03:34.200 --> 1:03:36.520
<v Speaker 2>real quick, So we're as we end this because this

1:03:36.560 --> 1:03:37.600
<v Speaker 2>will be our longest podcast.

1:03:37.640 --> 1:03:40.600
<v Speaker 7>Can do I know we all talk for I know

1:03:41.200 --> 1:03:43.280
<v Speaker 7>your summers just storing in the circus.

1:03:43.400 --> 1:03:46.200
<v Speaker 2>Real quick question and wraps up now, you know, because

1:03:46.200 --> 1:03:47.600
<v Speaker 2>you're coming to our wedding April eighteen.

1:03:47.880 --> 1:03:50.200
<v Speaker 7>Wait before you ask the question, I have to say

1:03:50.360 --> 1:03:54.240
<v Speaker 7>because it was too it's too sweet.

1:03:53.840 --> 1:03:57.320
<v Speaker 3>To even let it go. But going to your guys'

1:03:57.480 --> 1:03:58.400
<v Speaker 3>engagement party.

1:03:58.720 --> 1:04:02.120
<v Speaker 7>The first thing that he had said to me was

1:04:02.160 --> 1:04:05.040
<v Speaker 7>how proud he was of you because of your sobriety.

1:04:05.880 --> 1:04:07.520
<v Speaker 3>And you were and you were pretty fresh and.

1:04:08.160 --> 1:04:10.040
<v Speaker 2>So really fresh.

1:04:10.200 --> 1:04:11.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yep, so that was awesome.

1:04:12.640 --> 1:04:15.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're got sober in October another part, and

1:04:15.640 --> 1:04:16.400
<v Speaker 1>I was in December.

1:04:16.480 --> 1:04:19.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was. It was like sixty less than sixty days. Thanks,

1:04:19.360 --> 1:04:20.360
<v Speaker 2>and he was already proud.

1:04:20.640 --> 1:04:20.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

1:04:20.960 --> 1:04:25.400
<v Speaker 9>And I told you how much iran any wedding advice

1:04:25.760 --> 1:04:29.000
<v Speaker 9>for us, because it's a nightmare and I never want

1:04:29.040 --> 1:04:31.520
<v Speaker 9>to ever have to answer another question from my mother,

1:04:31.600 --> 1:04:33.600
<v Speaker 9>her mother, or the wedding planner about.

1:04:33.320 --> 1:04:35.160
<v Speaker 1>A freaking We've been enduring our mom all day.

1:04:35.240 --> 1:04:38.360
<v Speaker 2>Listen, a freaking tulip or a freaking point a tablecloth.

1:04:38.640 --> 1:04:41.280
<v Speaker 2>Put the friggin paper tablecloth on the friggin table. I

1:04:41.320 --> 1:04:43.240
<v Speaker 2>don't give a shit. What do what do you do

1:04:43.360 --> 1:04:44.000
<v Speaker 2>under the pressure.

1:04:44.720 --> 1:04:48.960
<v Speaker 7>I'm literally the worst person asked because I was on

1:04:49.000 --> 1:04:52.680
<v Speaker 7>the road so Jonathan and my mom did everything.

1:04:52.880 --> 1:05:05.000
<v Speaker 3>Wow, you're so lucky, I know. And then then.

1:05:02.040 --> 1:05:06.640
<v Speaker 7>I can't wait, we technically eloped really quick.

1:05:06.760 --> 1:05:09.520
<v Speaker 1>Wow you are so smart, just.

1:05:09.400 --> 1:05:10.600
<v Speaker 3>Because it was crazy.

1:05:10.600 --> 1:05:13.320
<v Speaker 7>But then I'm the only girl, and like I said,

1:05:13.360 --> 1:05:14.560
<v Speaker 7>a Mexican is telling ya, we did.

1:05:14.720 --> 1:05:18.440
<v Speaker 3>I had to have you.

1:05:18.000 --> 1:05:19.560
<v Speaker 2>And then had the wedding, but they didn't really know.

1:05:20.320 --> 1:05:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah they can't know.

1:05:21.520 --> 1:05:27.040
<v Speaker 3>Just so bad. Then your so we don't we don't

1:05:27.080 --> 1:05:27.920
<v Speaker 3>ever talk about that one.

1:05:28.000 --> 1:05:30.160
<v Speaker 2>Now it's out, Okay, Well.

1:05:30.320 --> 1:05:32.440
<v Speaker 7>It was no, no, no, no, it was out because the

1:05:32.480 --> 1:05:33.840
<v Speaker 7>total division like kind of showed it.

1:05:34.840 --> 1:05:35.439
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's cool.

1:05:35.480 --> 1:05:37.000
<v Speaker 3>And then we got married on the show and had

1:05:37.040 --> 1:05:37.520
<v Speaker 3>the big.

1:05:38.200 --> 1:05:43.400
<v Speaker 7>Yeah at my band. There's a Mariachi band at my wedding.

1:05:43.600 --> 1:05:45.919
<v Speaker 7>If you don't think I'm Mexican. Jonathan was like, oh

1:05:45.960 --> 1:05:48.880
<v Speaker 7>my gosh, there's got to like what is going on.

1:05:49.120 --> 1:05:51.400
<v Speaker 1>I tell everybody like, if you could be a part

1:05:51.440 --> 1:05:54.280
<v Speaker 1>of any culture in the world, I'm like, make me

1:05:54.520 --> 1:05:56.840
<v Speaker 1>a part of the Mexican culture, dude.

1:05:57.040 --> 1:06:02.040
<v Speaker 7>How many tell me, beautiful? How many guests were Jonathan's

1:06:02.320 --> 1:06:04.840
<v Speaker 7>thirty five? How many guests were my side of the family?

1:06:04.920 --> 1:06:05.320
<v Speaker 2>How many?

1:06:05.360 --> 1:06:05.880
<v Speaker 1>How many?

1:06:06.120 --> 1:06:09.000
<v Speaker 7>Two hundred and two and twenty five, and I was like,

1:06:09.040 --> 1:06:11.520
<v Speaker 7>skimming back, that is amazing.

1:06:11.920 --> 1:06:14.280
<v Speaker 2>A gang You're a real gangster, dude.

1:06:14.440 --> 1:06:16.280
<v Speaker 3>No Mexican will be having too many babies.

1:06:17.560 --> 1:06:18.520
<v Speaker 1>They're like Mormons.

1:06:18.680 --> 1:06:20.560
<v Speaker 3>Damn, my mom's one of thirteen.

1:06:20.960 --> 1:06:24.000
<v Speaker 1>That's amazing, dude. I'm so happy that you came on

1:06:24.040 --> 1:06:24.560
<v Speaker 1>a podcast.

1:06:24.600 --> 1:06:25.439
<v Speaker 3>No, I love you, guys.

1:06:25.560 --> 1:06:28.240
<v Speaker 2>I love God know that, and we love working with you.

1:06:28.280 --> 1:06:30.360
<v Speaker 2>But we also love being family with you. Guy. Yeah,

1:06:30.440 --> 1:06:33.040
<v Speaker 2>really are become family to us, and you really. I

1:06:33.080 --> 1:06:36.840
<v Speaker 2>love the story today because the sobriety hearing it, you know,

1:06:36.920 --> 1:06:40.400
<v Speaker 2>from you and and obviously knowing her story is really inspiring.

1:06:40.480 --> 1:06:42.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thank you for opening up to us. And again,

1:06:42.600 --> 1:06:45.320
<v Speaker 1>you guys, we love to hear from you. So make

1:06:45.360 --> 1:06:48.000
<v Speaker 1>sure you hit a boy and a Girl up at

1:06:48.080 --> 1:06:50.880
<v Speaker 1>eight six six La La Pod. That's eight sixty six

1:06:51.200 --> 1:06:53.360
<v Speaker 1>La La pod. Even Marie, you are the shit.

1:06:53.680 --> 1:06:57.400
<v Speaker 3>I love you, guys. Thank you