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Speaker 1: What's up y'all?

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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex peak?

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Speaker 3: Any sugarls ray in the.

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Speaker 1: Call and you are tuned into another episode of poor.

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Speaker 3: Mind where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 4: Baby.

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Speaker 2: Oh fuck, no, don't start.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know why.

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Speaker 1: You know, you're not even asking me how my day wing.

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Speaker 1: Let me take this whole off, because you ain't about

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Speaker 1: embarrassed us today. First of all, let me just.

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Speaker 2: Say we had a good time in Miami for your birthday.

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Speaker 4: We did.

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Speaker 2: I've had a great birthday.

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Speaker 4: No you did.

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Speaker 1: Let me see, No, like we ain't used to. I

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Speaker 1: am don't do that well speaking up, bitch, I said,

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Speaker 1: you're very alroly. Remember on Sex and the City, my

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Speaker 1: very old Llois a time, I.

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Speaker 2: Said, I know that that's like the.

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Speaker 4: Price to me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's like it's cute.

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Speaker 1: I got the diamonds and everything, but you got doing

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Speaker 1: little business. I know it's crazy.

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Speaker 2: That's okay, you know, shout out to you know, my

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Speaker 2: my giftsgiver.

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Speaker 1: He gonna get a nickname?

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Speaker 4: No why not?

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Speaker 2: Because I feel like niggas when they get a nickname

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Speaker 2: on the show.

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Speaker 1: You've made it to a certain part.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, So I feel like, you know, thank you, but.

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Speaker 4: Yo, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that because you that man just.

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Speaker 2: Got you a roller.

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Speaker 4: What am I doing?

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Speaker 1: You don't even be letting me finish what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: All I was about to say is like thank you.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate the gifts because I do, but it's just

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Speaker 1: kind of like you ain't even took.

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Speaker 2: Me on a day.

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Speaker 4: Mm.

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Speaker 2: We talked about these though.

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Speaker 1: I gotta act like I don't know for the audience.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but yeah really.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like okay, so like this guy, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? He how long he's been having

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Speaker 1: my number for probably like three months. I watched now

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Speaker 1: he've been having my number for like two three months,

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Speaker 1: and we be texting all the time, and like he

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Speaker 1: was supposed take me on a day like five times,

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Speaker 1: but it's just always something ended up happening, and then

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Speaker 1: we don't go on to day and then he'll ask

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Speaker 1: me do I want to link and go like smoke

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Speaker 1: hookah and stuff and then to be late at night

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Speaker 1: and it's like, no, I don't want to go smoke

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Speaker 1: cooler and stuff. I want to go on a day.

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Speaker 1: And even like you know that invited me to his

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Speaker 1: house a few times. I'm not coming to your house.

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Speaker 1: We ain't even went on a day. So when he

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Speaker 1: when he bought me the watch for my birthday, I

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Speaker 1: was really shocked because I had text him. He had

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Speaker 1: told me happy birthday, and I was like thank you.

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Speaker 1: And then he was like, oh, uh what he said.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think what he said. He said, how's

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Speaker 1: your birthday going? And I was like he's going good.

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Speaker 1: And then he was like, you being cheating on me

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, I haven't. And he was up

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Speaker 1: with what the other nigga got you? Because I got

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Speaker 1: to talk about it. You need to not worry. But

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Speaker 1: that wasn't a birthday gift though, well, ship don't mean

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Speaker 1: because it wasn't the.

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Speaker 4: Dawn like that waite s I gave.

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Speaker 2: I hated it here. So I finally got me my Uh.

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Speaker 2: I had a good time too.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean to interrupt your story, but I need

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Speaker 1: to tell them why I'm calling myself to Dawn.

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Speaker 2: So when Big Papa came out here, he gave me

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Speaker 2: a much money and.

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Speaker 1: Then he bought me a little bag. I got me

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Speaker 1: a little Louis bag. So I said, my name is

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Speaker 1: Louising then done. And the whole time I was in Miami,

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Speaker 1: this hog was calling herself for done.

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Speaker 2: Anytime anything would happen, She's talking about the done.

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Speaker 4: Don't like this, didn't she show?

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Speaker 1: Didn't anyone? Keep going, keep going going. So yeah, so

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Speaker 1: like you know, he was like, oh, I got to

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Speaker 1: you don't need to worry about what somebody else got me.

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Speaker 1: Just worry about what you getting. So when I pulled

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Speaker 2: I was honestly shocked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he want that coochie bad. He want that coochie bad.

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Speaker 2: He want he little coochie.

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Speaker 4: He going up Cliff.

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Speaker 2: I had to play it off like I wasn't in praid.

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Speaker 1: Was like, bitch, I got a roll.

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Speaker 2: I know he was excited. I'm talking about bitch like

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Speaker 2: me said.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: When I opened the box, I said, oh, he's cute.

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Speaker 3: Thank you you are the.

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Speaker 2: Worst he's talk about. It's cute. I said, yeah, he's cute.

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Speaker 1: But yes, I mean, I don't know he called oof, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, he he'll call a nigga.

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Speaker 2: But he needs to take me on the day, So

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Speaker 2: I hope he's hed.

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Speaker 1: So you said he was inviting you the hookah Lounges.

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Speaker 1: Does he smoke hookah? I don't think he. No, he does,

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Speaker 1: he's smoke hooks. He kind of like niggas we do

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Speaker 1: not like guys who are small. I just realized this, Like,

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Speaker 1: I hate when I'm somewhere and I'm smoking to hook

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Speaker 1: and the nigga like pass me to now big blunt

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Speaker 1: roll that ship up. Nigga, you was fucking ordering U.

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Speaker 1: Can I get a watermelon?

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Speaker 4: Mint?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 4: Where is your blood?

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Speaker 2: Speaking of niggas that smoke hookahs.

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Speaker 1: So like, I went to Dallas this past weekend for

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Speaker 1: my best friend Jasmine birthday. Yes, well her birthday actually

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Speaker 1: next week.

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Speaker 2: Well my sister birthday was yesterday, so I had to

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Speaker 2: relight it to the other Jade.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, girl, So we went to Dallas and we

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Speaker 3: We turned up in the section. I bought two hookahs for.

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Speaker 1: Big money, period like that. So that episode, like that,

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Speaker 1: I got to hookahs for the section or whatever. It

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Speaker 1: smoke hookahs, So I got two of them, and then

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Speaker 1: know she lived there for a year, right, so I'm like,

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Speaker 1: she didn't even know these niggas. One of them was

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Speaker 1: like the boyfriend of her homegirl sister. And like, the

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Speaker 1: whole time that they was there, they kept begging to

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Speaker 1: smoke the hookah. Passed me to hooka, passed me to hookah,

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Speaker 1: Why did you buy one? No? But then they kept

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Speaker 1: asking me to pass and it's like, my nigga, I

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Speaker 1: paid for this sheet. If you want to hookah, order

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Speaker 1: one are better? Yet, why the fuck is you smoking hookah?

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Speaker 1: Where is your blunt? At least have a black and

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Speaker 1: mouth at Lena want something? God, damn damn watermelon men

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Speaker 1: hogging the sheep from all the beaches. You scaring the bitches, bro,

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Speaker 1: You scaring the bitches away off.

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Speaker 2: That's their favorite activity.

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Speaker 1: Then they had bought a bottle right like for her

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Speaker 1: birthday and They was like, well, what do you drink?

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Speaker 1: And she talked to me tequila. Why does niggas gonna

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Speaker 1: order Crown Apple? And nobody at the table drink Crown Apple?

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Speaker 1: That drink Crown Apple? Oh, Crown Apple thinking of me.

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Speaker 1: I hate that ship. I remember when Crown Apple first

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Speaker 4: I used to love some Crown Apple.

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Speaker 1: Now when Crown Apple came out, everybody was so hype.

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Speaker 1: I'm about when it brought me a little person about it?

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Speaker 1: Who because I ain't need nothing too big. I ain't

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Speaker 1: drink like this big thing. You was very class I

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Speaker 1: was very classy. It was very much classy. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: why would he ask her and what she drinks it?

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Speaker 1: And then to order right to order Crown Apple? Like

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Speaker 1: that's a whole another topic for another time.

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Speaker 2: We can go in.

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Speaker 3: So we had a great We had a great time.

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Speaker 2: Then Miami was cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Miami was literal, like a relaxing vacation. We went

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Speaker 1: people think all me and Drea do together is be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: poor minds, poor minds, but bitchl we be out of town.

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Speaker 1: We don't ever really.

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Speaker 1: We just turn.

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Speaker 2: It was very lea in Miami. We ate very very good.

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Speaker 2: What y'all Let me tell y'all about this girl.

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Speaker 1: Wait, what happened to me?

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Speaker 2: No, you better than I tell them.

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Speaker 1: I'll beat trouble, I'm saying for the Patriot, I will

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Speaker 1: beat I'm ryan.

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Speaker 4: You need to go to jail.

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Speaker 1: You just need to go to jail. But we ran

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Speaker 1: but I was drunk. She was like y'all was, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I was like waving at her. And then

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Speaker 1: when she said your name, I realized, oh, she's a

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Speaker 1: listener of the show. She was like, hey, Dre, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh hey, but I looked the mess.

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Speaker 1: I was drunk, So if that was you, girl, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I was just drunk as fuck. We met a few listeners.

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Speaker 1: I had a girl at Opera and Dally's with jazz me.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday I met a girl there. She walked up to

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Speaker 1: me in the club and was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I love Poor Minds. I listen to Poor mind Oh

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Speaker 1: I love Like at this point, we can't go nowhere.

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Speaker 2: But I like that. But dude like this, I like

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Speaker 2: this too. Okay, let's get to these topics, bitch.

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like we haven't recorded for a week.

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Speaker 2: We haven't so much to talk about. Okay, Like we

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Speaker 3: These We wouldn't just on the phone on the way here.

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Speaker 1: When I walked into the meeting last week, Chad was like,

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Speaker 1: why are y'all on the phone on the way to

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Speaker 1: a meeting?

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Speaker 2: Just like just now we got when I got here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So let's get into these topics. So this first

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Speaker 1: topic came from a close friend of mine. I won't

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Speaker 1: say her name because I know how he nigga be

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Speaker 1: watching the show. You know what's crazy. A lot of

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Speaker 1: girl actually tweeted he was that she was like, I

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Speaker 1: found out about this show from my ex boyfriend. I've

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Speaker 1: been dealing with him for a long time and he

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Speaker 2: If you're playing me, Please don't let it show.

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Speaker 1: Ignorance is bliss. I want to be happy. I want

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: Even I've been honest before, I've been a side chick

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I'm not trying to be the only

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yes, if your man is cheating and you're

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Speaker 1: I don't respect that. Like I think that's the lamely

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Speaker 2: Never again, and.

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Speaker 1: I will not And I will say this once a

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Speaker 4: Like it was kind of.

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Speaker 2: Like he was like, why do you keep taking me back? Bitch?

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Speaker 1: Literally, so you feel like he was cheating because he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a turnoff to him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I absolutely think that, like that shit is trash, you

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Speaker 1: because then like if you don't leave, you just making

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Speaker 1: I knew it was given desperate hunt.

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Speaker 4: But it's okay, cause.

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Speaker 1: It's like, why were you allowing that?

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Speaker 4: Just like we just said.

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Speaker 1: But I think that, I mean, I do feel that way,

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Speaker 1: but it's like I don't want to get into that

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Speaker 2: Let me keep my comming.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all is your girl Lexp and it's Sugarl

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Speaker 1: Drea Nicole and we are here to talk about better help.

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Speaker 3: Y'all know how much we love better help.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I always say, at this point, I

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Speaker 1: feel like we be beating it in their head because

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Speaker 3: You know, we both have counselors.

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Speaker 1: We both talk to our counselors every single week, and

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Speaker 1: they've been helping us a lot get through a lot

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Speaker 1: of our daily and past traumas and things that we've

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Speaker 2: Somebody has a counselor.

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Speaker 1: His name is Hughes Jeene Marcelin and after working with

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's my experience as well. Like I

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Speaker 1: love my counselor. She helps me. Whenever I'm feeling in

443
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Speaker 1: my week moments, I'll be texting her. She'll text me back.

444
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Speaker 1: It's super quick, super easy, and you get from the

445
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Speaker 1: comfort of your own home. Yes, So make sure that

446
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Speaker 1: y'all go to Betterhelp dot com backslash poor Minds. That's

447
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Speaker 1: better h g LP dot com backslash poor minds and

448
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Speaker 1: you know.

449
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Speaker 2: Get your little for the first place.

450
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Speaker 1: Me. Okay, So I'm ready to talk about this next topic.

451
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Speaker 1: So honestly, I really do want to know what y'all

452
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Speaker 1: feel about that topic. I know a LEXI don't clip

453
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Speaker 1: it up for us because that was an interesting topic.

454
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Speaker 1: But so we're gonna talk about in cell culture now.

455
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Speaker 1: If you don't know what an in cell is, dreg

456
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Speaker 1: go aheam give him that good old definition. Roll that

457
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Speaker 1: beautiful bean footage, bitch, you know, yeah, but like what

458
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Speaker 1: roll the beautiful the beautiful bean footage?

459
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Speaker 2: So fucking dead, okay.

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Speaker 1: In cell a member of an online community of young

461
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Speaker 1: men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically

462
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Speaker 1: associated with views that are hostile towards women and men

463
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Speaker 1: who are sexually active. So literally, in cel stands for

464
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Speaker 1: and voluntarily celibates, involuntarily celibates.

465
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Speaker 2: So I need y'all to under niggas ain't getting no pussy,

466
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Speaker 2: and it ain't by choice.

467
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Speaker 1: So I need y'all to understand niggas. I need y'all

468
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Speaker 1: to understand the type of men that we're talking about

469
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Speaker 1: before we get this started, because you know what, I'm

470
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Speaker 1: about to get in my bag on this one for

471
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Speaker 1: a second, because I don't know who the fuck has

472
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:37,719
Speaker 1: gave y'all the audacity to fucking speak. For a long time,

473
00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 1: y'all used to hide behind these fake accounts, and I

474
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Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know who told y'all it was

475
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 1: okay to be out in the open like this, but

476
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Speaker 1: it needs to stop.

477
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Speaker 2: It does need to stop. Your niggas are lame.

478
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 1: But not only that. Let me make something very that's

479
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,400
Speaker 1: most of it. Yeah, but it's But what I'm saying is,

480
00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: y'all treat us. I can just speak for me Andrea.

481
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 1: Y'all want to believe so bad that we're here because

482
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:09,520
Speaker 1: we suck somebody's dick, We fuck somebody off of the

483
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Speaker 1: way we look.

484
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Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all something.

485
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 1: We are both educated, but we both have personalities, and

486
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 1: we both are ambitious women.

487
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:19,640
Speaker 2: So no matter how to fuck.

488
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Speaker 1: We fine ahead are. But I'm just saying, no matter

489
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 1: how to fuck you feel, we're gonna be here and

490
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: we're gonna get posted on the eighty five South page.

491
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 1: So y'all need to get over that for the first

492
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 1: and post it everywhere else for that matter. But it's

493
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 1: just so crazy because if we didn't look like this,

494
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,120
Speaker 1: the opinion would be different.

495
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 2: It's only it's only because we're beautiful women.

496
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: They feel like we only got this opportunity because of

497
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Speaker 1: how we look, and that's just not the fucking case.

498
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Speaker 3: It's not the case.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like That's something that always is just

500
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 1: so disheartening to me, ever since you know, our show

501
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,400
Speaker 1: started blowing up. I just hate that people always try

502
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 1: to discredit us and dumb us down and try to

503
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Speaker 1: make it seem like the way we look is the

504
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: only reason why we hear, Like, absolutely not. We definitely

505
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: grind it for this sheet. And on top of that, beach,

506
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 1: look at the material, and I'm not talking about the looks.

507
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the material, the content. Look at what

508
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: we put out every week, like, don'tee having us fucked up,

509
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,399
Speaker 1: don't make me get in my bab M. So the

510
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 1: reason we wanted to talk about this thing because it's

511
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: just a lot of stuff, and we don't address online

512
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 1: stuff ever really, but it needs to be addressed. The

513
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,360
Speaker 1: reason I feel it needs to be addressed because it's

514
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: not only happening to us, though we have friends that

515
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 1: have podcasts on predominantly men ran you know, podcast stations

516
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: and things like that, So I see it happening to everyone,

517
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 1: even women online just if they want to post a

518
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: sexy picture or post this and post that it's always

519
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: men and the comments going in. So a few weeks ago,

520
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 1: we had posted a conversation talking about we don't like

521
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: when men button women's business or men that argue with women.

522
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 1: This was last week, right, Well no, well see how

523
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 1: I'll be trying to and she don't be.

524
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 2: I forget it.

525
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 4: I forget every time.

526
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 1: So anyways, but it was a few weeks ago, and

527
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 1: when they posted this clip, it was literally like eight

528
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: hundred comments of angry men. All I was saying is

529
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 1: if me and you were talking about women shit or

530
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: things that pertain to us, lashes, periods, makeup, getting pregnant,

531
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 1: anything like that, you don't need to butt.

532
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 2: In our conversation. Do you know how many times we

533
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 2: even sit here and talked about lipsticking?

534
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: Tight here just sitting over there, minding his fucking business

535
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 1: setting up the camera doing men shit.

536
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Speaker 2: Because what would he have to offer that conversation?

537
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:37,880
Speaker 4: This nigga don't.

538
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: Know what the fuck Ruby Will is. He don't. So

539
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Speaker 1: I wanted to read some of the comments got just

540
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 1: so y'all can understand the things that you know, we

541
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: hear a lot so.

542
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Speaker 2: Soon as we go through.

543
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: One man literally said, just off of a comment, these

544
00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: women will never be will never be married. Another comment,

545
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: they sound so ratchet, and this is actually a woman

546
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: in cell. Now women can be in cells.

547
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 2: Now, these bitches be in cells.

548
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 1: She said, they sound so ratchet. I'm a woman and

549
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 1: I know females that start the argument. So this goes

550
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 1: both ways. If you want to if you don't want

551
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 1: to argue, just walk away. First of all, like girl

552
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: that wasn't even let me tell you how in cells work.

553
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: They don't. They don't even try to understand your logic.

554
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 2: They think you're dumb. They don't have anything to say.

555
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: I really feel like people let that clip play for

556
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: ten seconds and they were just like, fuck these holes.

557
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 2: A lot of times when people see our faces even pop.

558
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Speaker 1: Up, they don't want to hear. They don't want to

559
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 1: hear what we have to say. But I said this,

560
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 1: Actually I responded to somebody's comment under the video, and

561
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Speaker 1: I said, like, the problem is people people respond because

562
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 1: they just want to have something to say. They're not

563
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: really trying to understand you. People don't they're responding to Yeah,

564
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 1: you're not trying to comprehend. You're listening to just so

565
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,959
Speaker 1: you can send a response this nigga said. So basically,

566
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 1: just let the woman say whatever she wants and shut

567
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: the fuck up. Yeah, motherfucking right, since your end of

568
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: now no accountability taking at talking ass down, stop being mad.

569
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 1: I peeped you wrong. It's okay.

570
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 2: So if I.

571
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: Say, we're talking directly to you, he said this in

572
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Speaker 1: the comments, but that's what I'm saying, like I said it,

573
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 1: like he talking directly to you, like.

574
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Speaker 2: He was very pressed.

575
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: If I say I don't like how fucking Ruby Woo

576
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: looks on my lips and you're that pressed to tell

577
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 1: me that it looks good or you want to debate

578
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: with me about that shit, more power to you. But

579
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: all I'm saying, all we were saying was shut up

580
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: and listen to women.

581
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: Listen to women. You don't even have to listen. Just

582
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 2: don't say she you know.

583
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: But it's but no, it is about listening because obviously

584
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: y'all are going to be watching.

585
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 2: The content, and y'all are gonna have an opinion. That's okay.

586
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: I love a good debate, male or female. I love

587
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: to have a good debate. That's not what I'm talking about.

588
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: But my thing is just because a woman is beautiful

589
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 1: and you feel like she has a certain like a

590
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: certain state that you can't fucking meet, that doesn't mean

591
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: that she's a dumb bitch and she's a slough that

592
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,679
Speaker 1: was calling a slunt whore.

593
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 2: If they're calling us everything but a child of God, Okay.

594
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 1: It be so funny that when people be saying all

595
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: this shit, because I'll be like, damn, I would love

596
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: for you to find somebody that you know the daur food.

597
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 1: But you know, it's all so crazy. These are the

598
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,719
Speaker 1: same men that if they were in the position of

599
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: making money, or if they were in a position to

600
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: be on our level to date us, we would be

601
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: the first woman that they were, the first women that they.

602
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 3: Absolutely But that's why it's so crazy.

603
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: It goes back to like being in elementary school, like

604
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 1: when little boys would have Cristians on you. Yes, and

605
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: it's probably an adult level. It's really crazy as fuzz.

606
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 2: And as a woman.

607
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: For y'all to sit there and agree with shit like that,

608
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: it's giving desperate.

609
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 2: Well that's peak me culture.

610
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 1: But again definitely that's another topic for another time. The

611
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 1: way the girls be peak me's in the comments is

612
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 1: really fucking speak me and y'all don't understand. These are

613
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: the type of men that are controlling. They don't want

614
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: you to have a voice, They want you to be

615
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: at home, cooking and cleaning and not doing shit, and

616
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 1: even with you still agree disagreeing with the things that

617
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: we say and feeling like that's gonna make a nigga

618
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: choose you. He's still not about to treat you no better,

619
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 1: no better.

620
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 2: It be the same girls that you won't They be

621
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 2: looking at us on the y'all.

622
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 1: You remember that little squid word meme where he like

623
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: looking out the windows sand with the bars, yes, and

624
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 1: like SpongeBob and Patrick down there turning up. That's definitely

625
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,640
Speaker 1: mean you down there turning up well, because I feel

626
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 1: like that's.

627
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 3: What women in cells are too. It's the same thing.

628
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: It's like women who would love to be in the

629
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: position are be doing certain.

630
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 2: Things, but they just can't, right. It's just so then

631
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: they choose to pick the other side.

632
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: It's so crazy because the people who have the most

633
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 1: shit to say about us have never even tuned into

634
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 1: the show, never even watched the show, never even gave

635
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: it a chance. They just saw big booties, titties and

636
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: small ways. The people who have the most shit to

637
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: say about us ain't got no bankrop, but.

638
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 2: They never even gave gave it a chance.

639
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: They just felt like oh, which one of y'all suck

640
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: Carlos Dick to get up there.

641
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: So much in the comments and it'd be like neither.

642
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: That's the crazy part.

643
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 4: We did not.

644
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 2: Suck, no, not have sucked a lot of nick in

645
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 2: my day.

646
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: But I didn't want to have Carlos and what I

647
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: didn't have to not riding, not to hear, not chat,

648
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 1: not nobody, nobody that we worked with. It was hard

649
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: work and y'all don't but people don't want to give

650
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 1: us our things here. So yeah, all right, I just

651
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: need y'all to know that we just want you'all niggas

652
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: to stay out of women's business. Continue to sleep on

653
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: your mother's couch, continue to use the Wendy's Wi Fi

654
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: to send your tweets out, And we're still gonna be here, broke.

655
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 3: Niggas talking because it's free WiFi.

656
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

657
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 2: That's all that it is. Not shout out to she

658
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: was gonna beat me if I see it, say.

659
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: So yes, and so pacher, let me tell y'allself, we're

660
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Speaker 1: not going nowhere.

661
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Speaker 2: We're gonna be here.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to all the beautiful women with brains out

663
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Speaker 1: there that are ambitious and doing y'all thing, whether you're

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Speaker 1: a lawyer, only fans, podcasts, whatever, keep doing that shit.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we all here for a reason.

666
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Speaker 4: We are.

667
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 2: These niggas be so mad. I love it here. It's

668
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Speaker 2: a saltiness to me.

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Speaker 1: And that's the thing about me, like one thing about me,

670
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: like the hated sheep, It just be motivating. It just

671
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: motivates me to keep glowing up on people all the time.

672
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: Like it's like that.

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Speaker 1: She's not gonna stop me from doing what I'm doing.

674
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: It's not gonna makes me want to go harder. It's

675
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Speaker 1: not gonna make me feel like, oh I should quiet

676
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: myself down or dumb myself down.

677
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 2: And I have a voice like.

678
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Speaker 1: If anything, it just makes me want to keep turning up.

679
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna turn up on a head of every chance

680
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: I get, not turn up on a hater.

681
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 2: That's a song, every chance I get a period. Let

682
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Speaker 2: me write there down. It's a little coasty in here.

683
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 4: It is, girl, I'm here. Sweet is the one clothes

684
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Speaker 4: all to day.

685
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 2: I'm not sweet?

686
00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 4: Look now we go.

687
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: Where was that from you?

688
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 4: It was from I thought it was from heath Club legs.

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00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: Anyway, Now we're gonna.

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Speaker 2: Get into the bow.

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00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: Bow Bow Bow. So today we're gonna talk about how

692
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Speaker 1: to properly spank someone because I feel like you niggas

693
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: do not know how to smack an ass, Like you

694
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: know what, the most embarrassing thing is when a nigga

695
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: tried to smack your ass and he missed all this

696
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: ass like you got your ass make the recently, No,

697
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: I wish you did. Oh I did.

698
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Speaker 2: Okay, y'all. Let me tell you what real quick before

699
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 2: we get into this topic.

700
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: I was leaving the club in Miami and this drunk

701
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 1: ass nigga just came up behind me and smacked my

702
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: ass and I was so fucking mad. Don't get a twisted.

703
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: I was mad as fuck. I really wanted to say something,

704
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: but you know, I don't know who I'm dealing with.

705
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 2: Niggas be hitting women, so I didn't want to do so.

706
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: But I just know, like if I was in the

707
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 1: club it was like, you know, a nigga or somebody

708
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: was with me, that wouldn't have happened. But I will

709
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: say he did smack my ass good. He got a

710
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: good grip on it, and I was like, hold on,

711
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: I thought it was you at first.

712
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 2: Call me tomorrow.

713
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 4: I thought it was you.

714
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: At first, but I'm not gonna lie. He didn't know

715
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: how to smack a mew.

716
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 2: To smack an ass.

717
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 1: So let's talk about the form. When you smack an ass,

718
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: especially from the back, you have to kind of get

719
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta rev back a little bit cause

720
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: if you just.

721
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 4: Yes.

722
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: And that's why Juvenile said on that song, what my

723
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: fingers keep slipping, I'm trying to.

724
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 2: Grip that ass, good one. Did you grip.

725
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 1: Your hand gonna slip? I feel like when you back

726
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: that ass, it gotta follow with a grip.

727
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta you know, slide that.

728
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: You gotta slide that hand down there to catch a

729
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: little kouchie. You do gotta catch a little.

730
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

731
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 2: So I finally, if you know her like that though,

732
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 2: well if you're fucking her or hope that you know

733
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 2: her like.

734
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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I'm just saying we're not eavigating because we

735
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Speaker 3: just talked.

736
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 2: About it talking about.

737
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 1: Well, I'm talking about smacking your ass during sex to

738
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: That's what I was talking about, Okay, like making it durance.

739
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: I mean, I know, but I just wanted to clarify because.

740
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: That situations don't smack somebody ass and drab in the

741
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: club if you don't know her. Now, if you know me, that's.

742
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 2: The different story.

743
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 1: So yes, I feel like whenever you smack somebody ass

744
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: and needs to have a little force behind it.

745
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 2: Like did you ever watch Fifty Shades of Gray? Yeah?

746
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: And I read the books before, so they made it

747
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: seem like Christian Gray was this masculine man who liked

748
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: to do this and do that and bed and the girl.

749
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: When I seen that movie, he was smacking my ass like, yeah,

750
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: he wouldn't do any right. I'm like, he wouldn't do

751
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 1: any right. Let's do a demonstration. Hey, I'm fucking deed. Okay,

752
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: you won't spank me?

753
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you ain't want to spank me. I got jeans on.

754
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: You should have watched him tight. Okay, come on, get up,

755
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: I'm scared.

756
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 4: Sit down. You're gonna sit.

757
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 2: Down, okay, okay, okay, all right, there's a lot.

758
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: Of booby Jesus. Let me get a position.

759
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: The niggas be seeing from behind, yi they okay, okay, so.

760
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,359
Speaker 1: What you gotta I'm scared. I didn't want to stand

761
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: up because I'm looking ticky, because you know, it's waist there.

762
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm scared, okay, so you gotta put your hand way

763
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 1: back here, hold it for a minute. You gotta leaky me,

764
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: I mean grippy rub because you know my stinger and

765
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: my sting a little bit after you got a rub

766
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Speaker 1: on the Kreese wheezy.

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Speaker 2: Some old just been bod.

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Speaker 1: Mom. I'm sorry, call me later, I will.

769
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 4: That was a good space.

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Speaker 2: It was.

771
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: My watch came off the don like that.

772
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 2: Well, now y'all know how to smack that ass as

773
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 2: smack that ass.

774
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Speaker 1: If a girl likes her ass, smack, she wants it

775
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Speaker 1: fucking smack. Don't be over there talking about one that

776
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Speaker 1: shut up leg I should spank you. It is.

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Speaker 2: It's given very much salt.

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Speaker 3: Okay, period, what we're gonna call it a level, I

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Speaker 3: don't know, but then.

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Speaker 1: Level we do gating kids tootorious they y'all a spaking sutorial.

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Speaker 4: What the fuck is nick dad?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so now we're gonna get into the bop.

812
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Speaker 1: Hey oh you sounded exotic. Okay, So I'm so excited

813
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 1: to talk about this bop of the week. We're bringing

814
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:45,720
Speaker 1: her on the show period.

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00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, we gotta have her on the show. Gotta have

816
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 2: her on the show.

817
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 1: So the show about the other week too, right, No,

818
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Speaker 1: I've never made this my bob. Why don't people because

819
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: somebody else said that to me? To you had about body,

820
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 1: well not by but by the same person. Right, No,

821
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 1: this is no song on know by her anyways. You know,

822
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: I haven't had a rap song at my bop in months,

823
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,959
Speaker 1: So I have a rap song as my bop today.

824
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: So this girl is from Houston. She's a rapper, and

825
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 1: let me just say Houston is doing a damn thing

826
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: right now musically, especially with the women. So this song

827
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: is called Beating Down Your Block by Mona Leo. She

828
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: came in that bitch talking shit like came on the track,

829
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 1: used the beating down the Block beat. So if you

830
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: don't know beating down the Block, that's a classic knock

831
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: your bitches after while, like if you that's a classic

832
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: kissing song. Iffy from Houston. So if you use this

833
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: beat like you gotta come in hard. So she came

834
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 1: in roll that beat, hard talking shit, young pretty. I

835
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: love to see a young pretty bitch rapping me too.

836
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: I love pretty bit.

837
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's that young rich bitch.

838
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 4: They're like, I got.

839
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 1: Something to prove. Slap the shit out me, a nigga

840
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,720
Speaker 1: if you acting like a fool and on fucking period.

841
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: I just she got a lot of swag to her

842
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 1: and to say this is her like first big single,

843
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,919
Speaker 1: I see it. I said the same thing about Meg

844
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 1: when she had that freestyle. I'm gonna go find the

845
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: poor mind's episode. It was like tweet Kelly did talk

846
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 1: about Meg. We talked about we talked about CD girls

847
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: before they got it.

848
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 2: And everybody was like, I'm telling y'all, nah, people was.

849
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 3: Hating on the city girls a Meg.

850
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 2: They was hanging on the city girls and May.

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00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, she got it. This Mono Leo girl, she

852
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 1: definitely got it. So yeah, that's my bapa. The bop

853
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: of the week, Mona Lea. It is the yagg it's

854
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: starting to talk. But so yeah monal Leo beating down

855
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: your block. Shout out to Houston, h Tom so you

856
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 1: So my mop up the week is sorry, not sorry,

857
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: It's not for DJ Kelly new album Fire with its

858
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 1: featuring nas in jay Z.

859
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 2: If you know me, you know I love jay Z.

860
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 3: So in jay Z's verse, he said, hatter or no,

861
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 3: not to touch me.

862
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: I'm with the fuckery humbly no respectfully period, no for

863
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: real though I like to be popping his shep.

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00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 2: Fit the bee line, the first line when he said

865
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Speaker 2: something about bees.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, that's another beat. Had to still recover from the

867
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Speaker 1: other beat. That's a double bee. Now that's a triple be.

868
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 1: Can't forget about the other beat.

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Speaker 4: Bitch, I'll shout the queen out.

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Speaker 1: We love to see jay Z. We love it.

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00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 4: Yes, I feel like ja.

872
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 1: Z was talking to ship in the fact that the

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Speaker 1: nods collapsed because it's been so long, like.

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00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 2: In the day still to this day, like it was

875
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Speaker 2: just like safe.

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Speaker 1: Still it's still like a little competitive thing because I'm

877
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. Nod's verse was fired, but jay Z

878
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: came with that heat because he knew he Z. But

879
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 1: I'm just saying he went too hard, Nigga, his love

880
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 1: was hard. You went too hard. But he can always

881
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,800
Speaker 1: do That's why he jay Z. I mean true, But

882
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 1: like I said, it's been a long time fucking coming.

883
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: I actually like the song where I come from with

884
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: Bouju banting. I hope I said right, Bounty Killer and

885
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: all like the Jamaican legends on there.

886
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:14,439
Speaker 2: That ship is so fucking hard.

887
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: One thing I think DJ Kelly know how to do

888
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: is put together a great collaborative album.

889
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 2: Not my personal opinion. I always like his album.

890
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: Nah, he'd be missing sometimes. I ain't gonna say that

891
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: you didn't like the last one. No, I'm not saying

892
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: like the album is missed. I'm saying some of sometimes

893
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: it's tracks being oh yeah, some of the tracks. Yeah.

894
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: But I will say he loves reggae. I can tell

895
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: he loves reggae music. For the video he went back

896
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 1: to Jamaica, had everybody in that bitch. That whole is hard.

897
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, that song is fucking hard, like.

898
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: It gave me chill.

899
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 4: J Kelly be doing with me.

900
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: I started the ductye one.

901
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 2: Do you know how the duttye one? No, but we

902
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 2: bring Lean on the show and.

903
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: Are Jamaican queen.

904
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 2: Okay, So I wanted to talk do a quick movie topic,

905
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 2: real quick.

906
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: Yes, let's do it, y'all go. We love to talk

907
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 1: about movies, thank y'all. Let me tell you Amazon cut

908
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: the check my son got for real. I swear to

909
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: God because when you told me to rewatch it, I

910
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: went on first. I went on Netflix, woodn't on there.

911
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: Then I went on Hulu, woodn't on there. I went

912
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: to Amazon everything, Amazon prom got everything. But I'm talking

913
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,399
Speaker 1: about some ads with Amazon needs to cut the check

914
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 1: for Secret Society because everybody watched that hole. Literally we

915
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 1: had many cut the check. We ain't doing no more

916
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 1: free promo now we not.

917
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 3: Y'all needs to go out head and give us a

918
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 3: little sponsorship.

919
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,320
Speaker 1: But anyway, so I wanted to talk about the devil

920
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 1: Ware's product because when I first watched that movie, and

921
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: watching it as an adult, I was so fucking baffled.

922
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: You don't understand why I'm baffled. No, what do you

923
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 1: think about the movie? Before I get into my my spiel. Okay,

924
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: so the movie came out in two thousand and six.

925
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:07,879
Speaker 1: Little Neck Story came out in two thousand and six,

926
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: so I was like fourteen.

927
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,280
Speaker 2: It used to be one of my favorite movies.

928
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's a great movie.

929
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 2: I think it's a great movie.

930
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 4: Why are you bad? That's MARYL.

931
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 2: Streep didn what needed to be and Hathaway and Hathaway.

932
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 4: I think it was a great movie.

933
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:23,360
Speaker 1: Let's talk about.

934
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 2: No Jennifer Huzzy withity and I'm thinking about six and

935
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 2: the Seium Tree. But let's talk about.

936
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 1: How her friends and her boyfriend were fucking haters, because indeed,

937
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 1: I think when the movie came out, everybody was like, Oh,

938
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,399
Speaker 1: she chose her man and her friends, and fuck that shit.

939
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 1: You got an opportunity at the biggest fucking magazine in

940
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: the world, and youre talking about No and you want

941
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: to go back to New York with your broke ass

942
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: boyfriend who makes sandwiches.

943
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 2: Hell no, Because you know, her character was after what's.

944
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: The bold lady name, what's the Vogue lady name? With

945
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: the short hair and the glasses. I know he's talking

946
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 1: about Anna Wintour, So her character was modeled after Anna

947
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: Wintour or whatever. So in our term, she was working

948
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: at Vogue and the boyfriend was like, Oh, you're changing,

949
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 1: You're different, she is. That's what happened when you level up.

950
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:22,320
Speaker 1: That's what happens when you fucking level up. Then remember

951
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 1: when the Bee definitely leveled the funk Ember when the

952
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: bd B was liking her and her friend was like, oh,

953
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 1: my God, you've you've changed.

954
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.

955
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: Why they made her black? That's what I'm like, Why

956
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 1: I had to make a up blake girl, because if

957
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: it was me Queen her Man was saying when her

958
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: man was working at the sandwich shop, and then the

959
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 1: new man was like trying to get her job, get

960
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 1: her opportunities. He didn't do nothing behavior. It was very

961
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: much badb behavior. Because when I was thinking about it,

962
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: whenever I watched the movie, I was like, Oh, he's pushy, he's.

963
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 2: This he no, he just wanted to see her win

964
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 2: and he liked her. It was there carrying them out

965
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 2: back in the day.

966
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 4: It really was.

967
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 1: But now I always was like, why she didn't why

968
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: she didn't go with him? He didn't do anything wrong.

969
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: He didn't do anything wrong. I will say this. And

970
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: what was her character's name?

971
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: And anyways, Anne.

972
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 1: Hathaway's character was dumb, stupid, how they stayed in New York.

973
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 1: And I just feel like, if y'all ever rewatched The

974
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: Devil War's product now her her character was very dumb.

975
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: She sacrificed the life. You sacrificed that you could have

976
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 1: been a Vogue editor by now and now.

977
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 2: But I will say this too.

978
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 1: I will say this, I think the movie ended up

979
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 1: the way that it ended up because initially that was

980
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 1: never what she wanted to do anyways, So I think

981
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 1: it was kind of like trying to portray that she

982
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: got lost in the sauce a little bit and like

983
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: lost in you know, knowing who she is, and then

984
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,360
Speaker 1: she ended up coming back to that the end of

985
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 1: the movie. That's cool, but I mean, right, but I'm

986
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I believe that that's why I ended

987
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 1: up that way because in the beginning of the movie, Remember,

988
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 1: she never wanted to be like working in the fashion industry.

989
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: She just wanted to be a reporter. Well I never

990
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: wanted to be a podcaster talking about sucking dick. But

991
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 1: here the fuck we are. But you always like sucking digs,

992
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: so here we are.

993
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 2: See where I'm going with this.

994
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:26,280
Speaker 1: I don't.

995
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 2: Fashion wasn't never her fortake, So this is your I know,

996
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

997
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 1: So I think that's why I ended up Okay, And

998
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: I will say this, when it comes to life, I

999
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 1: do feel like if you're not if it's not what

1000
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 1: you want to do, then sometimes you got to pass

1001
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: up opportunities because it's like you might get a better

1002
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: opportunity and it might be something that you actually want

1003
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,479
Speaker 1: to do, Like she passed it up, but then she might.

1004
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 2: End up working for CNN. I would rather work for Vogue.

1005
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,320
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, but they all said, like

1006
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: during the movie, they were like, if she doesn't like you,

1007
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,439
Speaker 1: it's hard to get opery. Sometimes you gotta do shit

1008
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: you don't want to do to get where you need

1009
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: to be. Though, That's where I'm at with it.

1010
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 2: I think she did that, but then she want that

1011
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 2: nigga to leave.

1012
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 3: Hug can't relate because I'll tell a good.

1013
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: Bye about to hold a nigga that at making pepperoni

1014
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: sandwich is down. I'm sorry, meet ball fubsby.

1015
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 4: No, ma'am.

1016
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So I just talk about that real quick. So

1017
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: now we're going to get into my favorite say. I

1018
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: love this. If you want your question answer on the show,

1019
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 1: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at

1020
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. This is called pour your Heart out,

1021
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: where we give you the best advice that we can. Okay,

1022
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 1: we try, you know, we do try. Okay, you want

1023
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: to go first. If a man wants to just be

1024
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: friends with you, but the woman really wants to be

1025
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,919
Speaker 1: in a relationship and the man continuously shoots you down.

1026
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: Do you put your pride aside and just be friends

1027
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 1: or do you put him off completely? I feel like,

1028
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: if you can handle being friends and be friends, but

1029
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: don't be like no Nikki Parker professor Oglevie type, she like,

1030
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:12,800
Speaker 1: don't do that. That was a little excessing, That's what

1031
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

1032
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 2: So if I'm cringe that, don't get me wrong.

1033
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: That's always so folk if any but I literally cringe

1034
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: watching it because it's so cringe. Don't get me started.

1035
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 1: You know, I watched that show every day.

1036
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,840
Speaker 3: It's so cringey. Like Nikki used to be trippy and.

1037
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: She was too good for him if you really was

1038
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: for real. But anyways, but yeah, I feel like, if

1039
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 1: you can handle that, I'm dead. She was. She was

1040
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:43,360
Speaker 1: doing Lady and Jeep. She had us together, entrepreneurial queen,

1041
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: and you weren't. After this community college profess, he literally

1042
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 1: he wrote her a letter and said, dear Nikki. She said, dear,

1043
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 1: my man loved me. Oh but anyways, back to the question,

1044
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you can handle being just his

1045
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 1: platonic friend, then you can do that. Sometimes you do

1046
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: want people in your life rather than not at all.

1047
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: So as long as you can handle being a platonic friend,

1048
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: I don't see nothing wrong with it. But if you're

1049
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: gonna be making him uncomfortable, trying to flirt with him,

1050
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: trying to make him change his mind, then you need

1051
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: to cut him off. I mean, as a woman, I

1052
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: feel like you should. You shouldn't be running after or

1053
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 1: trying to be with a man that doesn't show genuine interesting.

1054
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 2: Men don't like to be chased. I don't care what

1055
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 2: y'all saying.

1056
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know why some women think that. That's

1057
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: why the whole bitch is proposing to Nigga. Shit is weird.

1058
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,399
Speaker 1: Is weird to me that as well, But but I'm

1059
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: taking it a step further with the proposing. She like,

1060
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: men don't like to be chased. I feel like, if

1061
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: a man want to marry you, if a man wants

1062
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 1: to be with you. Christy Lipkin said, now why am

1063
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 1: I in it? Who? Christy jim Jon girlfriend married? No?

1064
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:50,359
Speaker 1: But she proposed to him?

1065
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 2: She said, are married?

1066
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: Now why am I in it?

1067
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 4: Are they married?

1068
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: No?

1069
00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 2: Points we are proven.

1070
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: That's the point I'm making like that's cool and all

1071
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: to take the first step to propose to somebody. But

1072
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 1: I feel like, if a man really want to marry you,

1073
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: he's gonna propose to you and then y'all all be married.

1074
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just feel like, why are you worried

1075
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:14,959
Speaker 1: about somebody who's not showing interest in you. It's plenty

1076
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: of men out here who will show genuine interest in

1077
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: you who do want to date you. Stop wasting your

1078
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: time running behind somebody who don't want you, you know

1079
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: what I mean. And then if you do start dating

1080
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: somebody else and then he starts showing entries.

1081
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 2: To whatever the case may be, then maybe y'all could

1082
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:31,320
Speaker 2: explore that.

1083
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,839
Speaker 1: But then I wouldn't even want to At that point,

1084
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,720
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even want to because it's like you didn't

1085
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: want me, you didn't want people don't want you to

1086
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: be with nobody else. It's just weird. So the dawn

1087
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: don't like that question. Two. Me and my best friend

1088
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: have different schedules and live in different states. I do

1089
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,479
Speaker 1: everything I can to see her when we both have time,

1090
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: but lately it seems as though things have been on

1091
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: a rapid decline because of our communication skills. She is

1092
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: a November ski and I'm in August leo. Hey, so

1093
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 1: things can get crazy. I was thinking about asking her

1094
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 1: to go to therapy. I remember y'all talking about going

1095
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: through a rough patch in y'all's friendship.

1096
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 2: Can you give me a few pointers on which I

1097
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 2: should do?

1098
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: Please help? The love is still there, but we are

1099
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: going through with rough patch.

1100
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 2: Gonna be mad because I get tad it's talking about

1101
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 2: these but we don't here.

1102
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 4: I'm here to tell you right now, we don't care.

1103
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 1: I love that ficking we are so hid.

1104
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 4: Stop what okay?

1105
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 2: So I will say this. We just had this conversation

1106
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 2: the other day.

1107
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: I feel like in order to move past anything, when

1108
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 1: you're dealing with anyone, mom, dad, friends, you have to

1109
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: take accountability. A lot of times people don't want to

1110
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: see what they've done wrong and they want to continuously

1111
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 1: blame the other person. So I mean, I don't mean

1112
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: to bring this back to me and you, but I

1113
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 1: feel like the first step in me and you healing

1114
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 1: and our friendship was like, you know what I was

1115
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,720
Speaker 1: doing this to Drea. I was purposely saying things, purposely

1116
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 1: pushing your buttons. So I antagonized it I was definitely

1117
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: doing a lot, but you also was like admitted to

1118
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 1: the things that you were doing for sure, you know

1119
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I think the first thing is,

1120
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 1: y'all both have to be on the same pages, like

1121
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 1: recognizing what you've done to hurt the other person and

1122
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 1: be really wanting to change it. Because you said, the

1123
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 1: love is still there, and I think that was the

1124
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 1: most important thing with me and you, even though we

1125
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: like could not get along, there was still love there

1126
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 1: outside of business. I'll continue with the show though we

1127
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: say that all the time, Like it was just kind

1128
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 1: of because it got to a point in our friendship

1129
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: where like we really wasn't fucking with each other to

1130
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: the point that like the only communication we would have

1131
00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: was every week when she would come over to my

1132
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: house and that was it. We wouldee each other right

1133
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,320
Speaker 1: and that would be it. So I think that, you know,

1134
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: because we loved each other so much and we didn't

1135
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 1: just want everything to completely be done, we still held

1136
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 1: on to like that little piece that kept us together,

1137
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: which was the show.

1138
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 2: So I one hundred percent agree with Lex.

1139
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, both parties have to take accountability,

1140
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 1: and then you have to do the work to excuse

1141
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:25,320
Speaker 1: me to have a better friendship and a better relationship.

1142
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 2: I think that's the problem with a lot of people.

1143
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: People just give up on things or you know, throw

1144
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: things away because a lot of people don't want to

1145
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:34,319
Speaker 1: do the work because it's much harder to do work

1146
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 1: than to just be like like the toll what did

1147
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: he say on the verses?

1148
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 2: But no, shut up to we.

1149
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 4: Keeping that way.

1150
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's much easier to just you know, give

1151
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: up on she to actually do the work to make

1152
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 1: things work out. So I think that if you, like

1153
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:08,839
Speaker 1: you say, the friendship is still I mean, the love

1154
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 1: is still there and the friendship, then I definitely think

1155
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: that y'all should We didn't never get to the points

1156
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: where we had to go to therapy, but I think

1157
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 1: that would have been an option. If it was an

1158
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,839
Speaker 1: option for us, you know, then financially I had three

1159
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: dollars there, I couldn't go to therapy.

1160
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 2: But if like now, we weren't getting along and like

1161
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 2: we need to be out, definitely would all right.

1162
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 3: Questions, y'all are very intense people.

1163
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:34,359
Speaker 1: Very intense, and meeting you said, you're obviously Oh I'm

1164
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: an obviously Oh so I know you be and your

1165
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:38,760
Speaker 1: feelings about it. You be overthinking a lot of things.

1166
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: And so and I have dated a November scorpio even

1167
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: though this is a friendship. So I was friends with

1168
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: a November scorpio. We're not friends nowhere not to you know,

1169
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: make you feel bad or who the girl? Because I

1170
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: was saying I'm not friends with the girl who I

1171
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 1: was friends with it was a November scorpio.

1172
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 2: It was just it was too intense. It was a

1173
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 2: way too intense. I didn't have time for this shit.

1174
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 1: But anyways, next question, I'm newly single and saying this

1175
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: way for a while. I haven't been in years, and

1176
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: I owe it to myself to chill out a bit.

1177
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: I want to have some fun, even though I'm going

1178
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 1: to be blad and numb for a while from the breakup.

1179
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: I'm not even referring to sex, but freeing fun like

1180
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 1: dancing and darn near flirting with whoever. I don't even

1181
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: want to hit up anyone yet because I'm not even

1182
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 1: trying to entertain someone right now. If slash when I

1183
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 1: do get ready, do y'all recommend actually hitting up a

1184
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: number that was given to me?

1185
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 3: Do y'all give y'all numbers out to guys or take theirs?

1186
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 3: Do y'all play koy?

1187
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 1: When a guy first introduces himself to you, and if

1188
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,839
Speaker 1: I do reach out first, what the heck do I say? Besides, hey,

1189
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm a terrible texter, But I also don't like talking

1190
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: on the phone, so that someone isn't a stranger anymore.

1191
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:49,080
Speaker 2: I guess this is an oxymor run.

1192
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 1: If I'm trying to get to know a person, well,

1193
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 1: I'll say the first thing you said is if and

1194
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 1: when I do, get ready, So don't even do this

1195
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 1: until you're ready, cause you be wasting your time and

1196
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: wasting somebody else's sign. It's okay to take your time

1197
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 1: out and heal. I think a lot of people are

1198
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 1: scared to be alone. They don't like to be alone.

1199
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 1: There is so much power and healing because let me

1200
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: tell you something, I went through a situation where I

1201
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: was dating somebody that wasn't healed and it was hell

1202
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: for me. So I feel like that's not fair to

1203
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 1: yourself or fair to the other person if you try to,

1204
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 1: you know, open a door when the other one isn't closed.

1205
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 1: So definitely make sure you're healed to take your time.

1206
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: But Yeah, once you're ready to get out there. If

1207
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 1: somebody gave you their number, come up, Hey, what's up?

1208
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 1: This is Lex You gave me your number as such

1209
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 1: and such? What you up to? M H easy way

1210
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: to start a conversation. But I feel like whenever you're

1211
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,439
Speaker 1: ready it is, that conversation is gonna flow. It's gonna

1212
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 1: be easy, she said. But you do you give your

1213
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: numbers out to guys or take theirs? I typically, if

1214
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 1: it's somebody I won't I'll give If it's somebody.

1215
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:54,839
Speaker 2: I don't want, I'm gonna take you all number.

1216
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, because sometimes I just think that's easier because some

1217
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 1: niggas be just way too adamy and too so it's

1218
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 1: just easier to get to at your face if you just,

1219
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,320
Speaker 1: you know, go out ahead and take that number. But

1220
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 1: she said, I'm a terrible texter, And I also don't

1221
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 1: like talking on the phone until that someone isn't a

1222
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 1: stranger anymore. But it's like, how do you get to

1223
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 1: a point to where you get to know somebody If

1224
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: you're not texting them or talking to them on the phone,

1225
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 1: how are you gonna get to know them? So I

1226
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: think you kind of yeah, she did say it was

1227
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 1: an oxymoron, but I like, you can set up dates then, No,

1228
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be a day or y'all could

1229
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 1: just go to happy hour during the day, something like.

1230
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: Not a lot of pressure, you know what I'm saying.

1231
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: So I get it though, because unless like I really

1232
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: fuck with you in the beginning stages, I'm not a

1233
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: good texter either. And I don't like to be on

1234
00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 1: FaceTime either, like I gotta I like to I'm a

1235
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 1: face to face person. So I definitely feel her on that.

1236
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 1: We just got to get to the points where we're

1237
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 1: seeing each other, so I definitely feel you on that.

1238
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 1: And she also said, do y'all play koy when a

1239
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: god first introduced himself to you? Coy ain't in the

1240
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: dawn vocabulary.

1241
00:57:56,960 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, if I'm interested, it.

1242
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: Ain't no planning cormon here. It's either hey or let

1243
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 1: me say it. It ain't no in between, all right,

1244
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: Question number four. Okay, I recently went through a situation

1245
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 1: where a friend of mine misinterpreted a tweet. In hindsight,

1246
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 1: I understood how she could have taken a tweet personally. However,

1247
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 1: in the moment I was not thinking about her when

1248
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: I wrote the tweet. Apparently a mutual friend of ours

1249
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 1: decided to send her the tweet and discuss my intentions

1250
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: with her instead of me. At no point did anyone

1251
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 1: come to me, and I didn't realize the tweet was

1252
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 1: an issue until I reached out to the friend and

1253
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: realized she was ignoring me. I reached out again to

1254
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 1: make sure I wasn't tripping, and that's when I realized

1255
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 1: she blocked me on social media. It was odd to

1256
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 1: me that she talked to everyone else except me about

1257
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 1: the issue. I reached out to apologize. However, she never

1258
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 1: apologized for going so far as blocking me and telling

1259
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 1: everyone accept me what the issue was. Am I wrong

1260
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: for officially ending our friendship? I just think that if

1261
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: you're talk, if you're if you're someone I talk to

1262
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: on a regular basis, it was over dramatic and very

1263
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: unnecessary to handle the things that she did over a tweet.

1264
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: I agree, Yeah, I agree to it, especially considering that

1265
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 1: she was reaching out to other people and talking to

1266
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: them about it instead of talking to you about it. Because,

1267
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 1: like we've been through this before. You had posted someone

1268
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: on social media and I didn't run to this person

1269
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: to run and go look with dre I.

1270
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 2: Said, is this about me?

1271
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 1: So?

1272
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 4: And I said yeah, and you know.

1273
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,080
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, Like, that's how the conversation went. But

1274
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 2: that's what friends do. If we're friends, we gonna talk

1275
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 2: about it.

1276
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 1: If I ever see dram post something or any killer Lauren,

1277
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: anybody Ali, I'm going to ask you. Yeah, I'm gonna

1278
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 1: be like, hey, what's up? What We got a problem?

1279
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 2: And it could have been nifting above right now.

1280
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 1: You could have been like, oh no, girl, this is

1281
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 1: about such a search because I did this and then that,

1282
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 1: and that would happen and it could have ended.

1283
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 3: I think that's the problem with a lot of people.

1284
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 3: People take shit way too far.

1285
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: It's like you're taking shit too far in my personal opinion,

1286
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: when you start involving other people, because other people don't

1287
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 1: need to be involved in a friendship that is two people.

1288
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: It's me and you, so we should be able to

1289
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: handle our problems accordingly and deal with in between the

1290
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 1: both the buds. Why do you gotta get all of

1291
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 1: these other people involved? And I think that's one thing

1292
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: that helped with us too, because we would confide in

1293
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: our friends, but our friends never got involved, right because

1294
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 1: like Jordan, Jordan never like blocked me or used to

1295
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 1: shake like Jordan never got involved, Lauren never got involved,

1296
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: like none of our friends ever got involved in us

1297
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 1: not getting along. Right, So I feel like you're not

1298
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: wrong for internet friendship. Some people just don't be solid. Yeah,

1299
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 1: some people don't be solid and people be childish. It's hell,

1300
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Because to me, that's childish

1301
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: behavior that's not moving like a ground on me. So

1302
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: get ready.

1303
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 3: I don't be knowing if I'm ready, I don't know.

1304
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 1: So first of all, let me say this was a

1305
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: request from who from whoever runs the poor Crew page?

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01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 4: I don't know who it is.

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01:00:53,360 --> 01:01:00,240
Speaker 1: Shout out to the person that runs is important under

1308
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:05,000
Speaker 1: score crew. Okay, make sure I'll follow poor Crew. Yes

1309
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 1: that when the audio drops they be posting when.

1310
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 2: Sometimes they put them on payroll.

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01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So, yes, they actually requested

1312
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 1: this song, and it is so funny because I have

1313
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: a story about this song. Ask me the one.

1314
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 4: Okay, what's wrong?

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01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 1: No? Thank you? All right, Well, I need to get

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01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 1: my vocals, so.

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01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 4: I y'all.

1318
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 1: I told y'all, I used to be in the studio, right,

1319
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: and I used to want to be a singer.

1320
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 4: So bad.

1321
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,959
Speaker 2: When I was in fourth grade, I sang this song at.

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01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:51,919
Speaker 1: The talent show. Damn ma'am. Anyways, I sang this song

1323
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: fourth grade at the talent show. So when they asked

1324
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 1: me to say this, I said, you ain't said nothing

1325
01:01:57,360 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 1: but the word. You ain't said nothing, but I'm sorry.

1326
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 1: That's what you get for trying to look you know,

1327
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 1: these are weapons of masters. So yes, I sang this

1328
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: at fourth grade, and I just remember after I sang it,

1329
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: everybody was like, Wow, the voice of an angel. The

1330
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 1: next Whitney Houston, if you will a.

1331
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 2: Super won't a superstar in her own right?

1332
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: So I know you. I say thank you to my fans,

1333
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: my family, the supporters of my singing career because it's

1334
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 1: coming back period.

1335
01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 4: You ready?

1336
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Because you're gonna You're gonna join in.

1337
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 1: I know you know this song? Do you might be

1338
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 1: assuming I know stuff and I don't know you ready?

1339
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 1: You ready nod your head and I'm the start Just

1340
01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 1: why not?

1341
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 4: How day got buz?

1342
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 2: No, that is supposed to be here.

1343
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to love thing for.

1344
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 4: The last time.

1345
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 3: My heart says no, no, hearcane talk.

1346
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:10,920
Speaker 2: Nobody's supposed to be here.

1347
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 4: Nobody's supposed to be he he came up long and changed.

1348
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 1: I swear to God, I guess it was googly bitch,

1349
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 1: not before I was really interrupted.

1350
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 4: I've spent whole mon.

1351
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: Honer search to fun. Oh oh, love will stay for

1352
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 1: return of tea, then hell and see it to fulfill

1353
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 1: my knees. But when I turn right, huggin love has

1354
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:50,800
Speaker 1: knocked many die. My fuck broking. Though it hurts so bad,

1355
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm sad to say love winds again.

1356
01:03:56,160 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 2: So I placed my heart under locking. He take some

1357
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 2: time and take care of me.

1358
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 4: But I turn around and you're standing.

1359
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: All right?

1360
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 4: All right?

1361
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: No no oh nobody, no no no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

1362
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 1: no nobody, nobody.

1363
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:37,120
Speaker 4: Try shot the dever Cocks.

1364
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 1: That was a fucking bob, missc carry. Yes, it was

1365
01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:43,120
Speaker 1: fourth grade for me. You were a child.

1366
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:47,280
Speaker 2: I swear I'll pay. Maybe it was either fourth grade

1367
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 2: or fifth grade.

1368
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 1: I remember. Only reason I said it was at fourth

1369
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 1: grade for you is because you're only two years older

1370
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 1: than me, and I remember being I'm telling you what

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01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 1: I did a little kid on the bus. Okay, like

1372
01:04:58,600 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 1: I say, I say.

1373
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 2: When I heard this song for the first I sang

1374
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:03,080
Speaker 2: a tamar and Braxton song.

1375
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:05,479
Speaker 1: What was the other song? It was a Tamar either

1376
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 1: I sang Tamar first or debraa Cops first. But I

1377
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 1: know it was either fourth or fifth grade. I promise you, bru.

1378
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 4: I mean maybe it was.

1379
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 3: Maybe y'all was saving because second grade you were like saving.

1380
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1381
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 2: Shut up to.

1382
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: Thank y'all so much for tuning in. Make sure y'all

1383
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: get that new merch. That's about the already dropped at

1384
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:29,160
Speaker 1: this point, the pick in the pack in. Make sure

1385
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 1: y'all get y'all merch poor mindes dot com, ask poor

1386
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 1: minds at gmail dot com, and we'll see y'all next week.

1387
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 4: By y'all, let me looking

1388
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:44,800
Speaker 2: When this song was because excuse me, I just burned