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Speaker 1: the God peace to the plane of this Tuesday. Yes,

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Speaker 1: poor Man's Podcast. Good morning for the Poor Mons Podcast.

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Speaker 1: We were just in here talking about the morning routine,

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Speaker 1: like what's your morning routine? Are yea ready to leave

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Speaker 1: here with all this snow or y'all tired of this

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Speaker 1: snow round? I'm gone, I'm going tonight. We live first thing.

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Speaker 1: I'm the first one on the flight. Yes, surprisingly though

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Speaker 1: I'm kind to us to the snow while I used

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Speaker 1: to be out here, like yeah, no, my best friend

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Speaker 1: went to Saint John. I mean I did, but that

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Speaker 1: ain't used to be here. Okay, but yeah, New York,

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Speaker 1: New Jersey got hit with a little storm. This is

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Speaker 1: probably the first storm of the of the year right now.

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Speaker 1: The winter say went to season. Yeah, there was no storm.

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Speaker 1: The kids are off school. My kids don't have school today,

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Speaker 1: might have late later. What's that thing called later? Lay

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Speaker 1: closed the school because they had bad snow days because

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Speaker 1: just closed the school today for the kids. Okay, it

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Speaker 1: isn't like snowing in La and early this week. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: out there. Did everybody do their daily routine this morning?

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Speaker 1: Did you get to do yours? I did? What's your

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Speaker 1: daily routine? Stretched? A little bit stretch? Yeah, I get up.

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Speaker 1: I had this book called Master Your Emotions that I've

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Speaker 1: been reading, so I usually get up read something from that.

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Speaker 1: Took me a little breakfast, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: No breakfast this morning, right, Absolutely not. Yeah, I've been

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Speaker 1: it's been out of wack because I've been waking up

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Speaker 1: I'm backwards backwards right now. Yeah, I didn't get to

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Speaker 1: do my whole little routine, but you know, I listened

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Speaker 1: to a little gospel, I prayed. Okay, man, I didn't

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Speaker 1: drink my tea, but I definitely in my routine this morning.

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Speaker 1: My routine. Simple. I get up, I pray, shower, then

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Speaker 1: read out of my Daily Affirmations book, you know, and

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Speaker 1: then we were off to the races. What about you? You

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Speaker 1: You did you hohoka this morning, bad Dominican bitch. You

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Speaker 1: are right, I didn't do my hohoka this morning. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm just posting man whoka pictures because y'all straight you're

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Speaker 1: straight man shame man right now, y'all y'all straight man shaming,

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Speaker 1: y'all straight. I can't be the surgeon general or Saucy

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Speaker 1: said Tana. Okay, both of them say who can't good

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Speaker 1: for ya? But for different reasons. I can't straight man

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Speaker 1: If I want to put something in my mouth, that's

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Speaker 1: Joining us this morning, Madure Glover to Wob drama free

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Speaker 1: out right now a guy to managing unhealthy family relationship.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you someth about Nadre to wob. Y'all

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Speaker 1: know I talked about her book set Boundaries Fine Piece

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Speaker 1: quite often, going into two thousand and twenty two and

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Speaker 1: now Drama Free is setting that tone again. Bro Okay,

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Speaker 1: because you gotta manage these unhealthy family relationship you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, because I'll just be cutting you off.

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Speaker 1: You you ain't gotta tell me, okay? All right, well,

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Speaker 1: So this morning, all right, let's get in some front

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Speaker 1: page news. We gotta talk about your president, Joe Biden.

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Speaker 1: He said, I'm a white boy, but I ain't stupid.

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Speaker 1: You could have fooled me. I We'll talk about it

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Speaker 1: when we come back at the Breakast Club the morning morning.

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Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ m V Charlomagne the guy. We are

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We got our co host Drey and

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Speaker 1: Lex p from The poor Man's Podcast with us this morning,

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Speaker 1: and let's get in some front page news. Now. Joe

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Speaker 1: Biden was speaking out of Black History Month reception. Today

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Speaker 1: is quote unquote the last day of Black History Month,

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Speaker 1: That's what I said, quote unquote, And he was talking

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Speaker 1: can't just choose to learn what we want to know

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Speaker 1: the bad, the truth, and who we are as a nation.

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Speaker 1: That's what great nations do. That's what great nations do,

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Speaker 1: certain kids feel a way because of how we were treated,

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Speaker 1: right ancestors were I'm saying, wow, yeah, and coming from

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Speaker 1: So does black equity. That's what I want to hear

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Speaker 1: you talking about. You know. Well, he also says he's

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Speaker 1: not a stupid white boy. You know, I'm not. I

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Speaker 1: know where the power is. I know where you thinking.

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Speaker 1: I'm joking. I learned a long time ago about the

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Speaker 1: Divine nine. That's why I spent so much time at

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Speaker 1: Delaware State campaign and organizing my campaign in Delaware, not

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Speaker 1: the Divine Nine. I mention, you'd told him the name

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Speaker 1: of the Divine Nine. Let me say it sounds good,

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Speaker 1: But I kind of get over, like all the politicians

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Speaker 1: him to the cookout man, ready to run through the

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Speaker 1: wall for him right now. Also, the scientist is taking

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Speaker 1: over the Disney district. Now, I was really into this

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Speaker 1: because every time I go to Disney. Of course, I

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Speaker 1: and I'm always intrigued how Disney ran. It's it's it's property.

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Speaker 1: So if you don't know, Disney owns hundreds of thousands

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Speaker 1: controlled by them. Well, I guess you know, the scientists

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Speaker 1: now the scientists has taken everything over, so that everything

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Speaker 1: that's an overreach of power. Government shouldn't have that kind

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Speaker 1: of control over over Disney, right, and that's this was

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Speaker 1: what's happening here? What's going on bothering him about Disney?

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Speaker 1: what that means. Disney, you know, invested too many billions

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Speaker 1: and billions of dollars to move, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: how that affects everything. Now, you know that's crazy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's an overreaching government pod if you ask me. All right,

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Speaker 1: well that is your front page news. Now, next hour,

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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you about this white student who is

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Speaker 1: suing Howard University. Brother, Yeah, so we'll tell you about that.

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Speaker 1: Next Hour's y'all get for me. So accepted racial discrimination? Right,

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Speaker 1: we'll talk about does he go to Howard I talk

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Speaker 1: about the next hour. But he did go when UH

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Speaker 1: does it? I mean, I'm saying it makes sense considering

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Speaker 1: you imagine him going to class every day? What you mean?

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Speaker 1: I mean, but if you're a white person going into Howard,

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Speaker 1: you're accepting the fact that you're different, right. But he

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Speaker 1: it was all people pressed them. Yeah, all day out

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Speaker 1: of here. But get it off your chest. Eight hundred

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Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Now they want to see where it

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Speaker 1: was going first. Okay, so you need two beautiful black

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Speaker 1: Why while taking craps out, I'll be trying to go

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Speaker 1: the great Callers Miller Maid for Awards fan was about

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Speaker 1: to say that I don't cheat. I know a lot

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Speaker 1: what's up? Brother? Get it off? He ch bro. I

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Speaker 1: like to talk about the Disney fan because a lot

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Speaker 1: of people don't notice. I ain't help get that land

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Speaker 1: for real, when you read that at the same place

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Speaker 1: you read Bill Cobb you were trying to buy MBC

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Speaker 1: actually not looked it up. I'm being completely honest. CIA

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Speaker 1: not surprise that doesn't. I'll come back to grab that

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Speaker 1: the CIA helped Disney get that land in Florida. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I gotta look that up. I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: So what's what's the point on it? Brother? What's your

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Speaker 1: point on that? I'm just standing like the government that

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Speaker 1: I take whatever it is, no matter what. So it's

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Speaker 1: not surprised. I do see an article on the Daily

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Speaker 1: Beasis says how the CIA helped Disney conquer Florida. I

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Speaker 1: What's up in the Netflix? But I brother, get you

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Speaker 1: off your chest. I just want to say, man, looks

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Speaker 1: up to you, man, Charlemagne, the Laddin's in the building.

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Speaker 1: So I'm I just turned forty and I just had

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Speaker 1: a baby, right, okay, brother, thank you man. It's my

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Speaker 1: it is I'm tired. Man, like, oh my god, man,

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Speaker 1: like getting up in the middle of the night taking

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Speaker 1: diacor is making bottom. It's a lot. Yeah, it's a lot.

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Speaker 1: Dy XP. You ever had to do any community services? You,

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Speaker 1: at audible dot com. Slash Breakfast Club. Everybody is DJ Envy,

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Speaker 1: Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: We have the ladies from The poor Man's Podcastria and

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Speaker 1: Lex Peace joining us to our co host today and

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Speaker 1: let's get in some front page news. Now. We have

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Speaker 1: a white student that is ensuing Howard University University School

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Speaker 1: of Law. He is seeking two million in monetary damages.

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Speaker 1: He got a name for pain. His name is Michael Newman.

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Speaker 1: He's suing for pain, suffering, emotional anguish and the damage

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Speaker 1: to his reputation. He suffered depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts.

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Speaker 1: He's playing this out. He had this planning for a

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Speaker 1: long time, and I'm gonna claim emotional discress. He's saying

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Speaker 1: vilification and humiliation. The laws of the laws of the

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Speaker 1: legends that Howard breeched this contract with Newman, who says

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Speaker 1: the university gave him a scholarship for twenty six thousand

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Speaker 1: per year for three years. What after a series of

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Speaker 1: incidents that led to his him being expelled scholarship for what?

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Speaker 1: I don't know any basketball? What do you dotball? What

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Speaker 1: did he do? Damn it? I didn't know why he

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Speaker 1: got all that money from ABCU. Now this is we

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Speaker 1: got a loserport because I want to read somebody's gango.

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Speaker 1: The plantiff Michael Newman, is asking for two million dollars

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Speaker 1: in damages for his alleged pain suffering and emotional anguish.

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Speaker 1: He says he became a target for discrimination following his

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Speaker 1: comments in a group chat with other students after showing

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Speaker 1: the picture of a slave's beaten and Bruce bat he said,

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Speaker 1: but what did the slave do? Come on? Newman says

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Speaker 1: he repeatedly apologized. He also says he faced hostility on

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Speaker 1: chemist which students calling him mayaway panther. In a statement,

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Speaker 1: the school says the school is prepared to vigorously defend

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Speaker 1: itself in this lawsuit, as the claims provide a one

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Speaker 1: sided and self serving narrative of the events leading to

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Speaker 1: the end of the students enrollment at the university. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna set up all my brothers and sisters. Who was

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Speaker 1: in that group chat, y'all got set up. Ain't no

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Speaker 1: way that man. I know the picture he sent out

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Speaker 1: that the picture of the brother that Will Smith just

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Speaker 1: played in the man's patient. I'm sure you said that

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Speaker 1: picture to a group chat full of black people and say, now,

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Speaker 1: what did the slave do? You're trying to get a

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Speaker 1: reaction on. What did the slave do? Is a wild

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Speaker 1: that's nuts. You got what you desire? A game, they

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Speaker 1: said him as he was walking to class. Uh. Then

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Speaker 1: we said, what do they say called the male king?

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Speaker 1: Man is king cracker allegedly cracker ass crackers. Let me

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Speaker 1: hear how they say mode and cracker ass cracker ass

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Speaker 1: cracker allegedly. I like that earlier? Well, you know, how

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Speaker 1: did I just feel like, especially now that we know

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Speaker 1: more contexts, he is he got what he desires. Game.

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Speaker 1: There was like a list of like, um, something happened

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Speaker 1: at a university and black people like in the chat,

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Speaker 1: and they were like calling white people different names, and

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Speaker 1: one of the names was milk cricket milk cricket is fired.

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Speaker 1: Dropping the clues from milk cricket like miltle cricket is fire,

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Speaker 1: Like little cricket. You get back when you put out

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Speaker 1: Okay to me, that's like a slur for a slur,

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Speaker 1: all right. Not everybody subscribing to Michelle Obamas when they

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Speaker 1: go low, we go high mantres. Some people when you

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Speaker 1: go low, they're gonna meet. Yeah, all right, So you

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Speaker 1: want to put those type of pictures in the group chat,

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Speaker 1: You got exactly what you asked for, and it was

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Speaker 1: gonna be safe on camp. I think I still think

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Speaker 1: this was a setup. This is set up. He had

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Speaker 1: this in mind. He's like, I'm gonna put this in

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Speaker 1: this group chat and then they're gonna attack me, and

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Speaker 1: then I'm gonna play victim, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And they can go in too, like an all black school,

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Speaker 1: Like everybody know how black people are with each other anyway,

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Speaker 1: like we get on each other. Like yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. She was gonna be safe after that. And

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Speaker 1: what was the screenshot? I know somebody got the screenshot

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Speaker 1: for that was looking for. I can't. I hope that

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Speaker 1: the brothers and sisters in that group chat. Didn't try

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Speaker 1: to explain to him, you know anything about slavery. There's

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Speaker 1: nothing to respond to. After somebody does something like that,

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Speaker 1: there's only one accurate response, and that response is indeed

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Speaker 1: crack ass cracker period milk milk crack cricket. Is there's

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Speaker 1: a noisy ass milk cricket. It's making all this noise

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Speaker 1: at night. We can't even sleep. That's exactly what they do.

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Speaker 1: Just be a rowdy. That is your front page news.

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Speaker 1: Now when we come back, let's open up the phone

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Speaker 1: lines five eight five one o five one. This comes

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Speaker 1: from the Drake conversation. That's right. We're asking, you know,

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Speaker 1: Drake said he regretted name dropping his ex girlfriend's in song.

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Speaker 1: So we're asking, what do you regret doing to your ex? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was something you did to your ex you absolutely

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Speaker 1: regret doing. Now look at them. Look, let's look at them.

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Speaker 1: Just look at look like yes, we'll talk about it

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Speaker 1: when we come bat. A couple of milk crickets on it,

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Speaker 1: especially after the BLM movie. Eight five eight five one

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Speaker 1: oh five one. Let's talk about it. It's the breakfast club.

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Speaker 1: Come morning, the breakfast Club. It's topic time. The phone

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Speaker 1: called eight hundred five A five one oh five want

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Speaker 1: to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: talk about it. Everybody is dj n V Charlemagne the guy.

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Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining

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Speaker 1: us eight hundred five eight five one oh five one,

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Speaker 1: we're asking this comes from the Drake Conversation. Drake said

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Speaker 1: he regrets name dropping his ex girlfriends in this song.

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Speaker 1: So we're asking what do you regret anything that you've

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Speaker 1: done to your ask we have Dre and Lex Pete

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Speaker 1: from the Poor Moms podcast co hosting with us. So

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Speaker 1: let's start. What you lady, when you got a question?

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Speaker 1: I would want to ask Drake? But before we go

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Speaker 1: to them, like, you regret mentioned in your exits and songs,

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Speaker 1: But do you regret mentioning other people's girls and songs?

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Speaker 1: Do you regret other people's girls who now? Are they

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Speaker 1: excess because of you? I'm sure he doesn't go ahead, So,

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Speaker 1: so do you regret doing anything to any of your exes?

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Speaker 1: You know, I haven't really done a lot of crazy

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Speaker 1: things to my No, I don't listen to podcast. I

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Speaker 1: don't really be hearing enough to do crazy stuff. I

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Speaker 1: really don't. But when I was in high school. My

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Speaker 1: high school boyfriend he broke up with me and I

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Speaker 1: found out he was cheating on me, and I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: SPEC's in my house toilet paper. Yeah, me and my

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Speaker 1: homegirl and we used like silly strings and his mama nu,

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Speaker 1: it was mean. She called the nixt day. I know

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Speaker 1: you came in tp my house and you telling me

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Speaker 1: that that didn't escally you did. You had the mind

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Speaker 1: to do that and hide and come on that that's

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Speaker 1: what you mean to tell me. Future exes didn't get

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Speaker 1: worse coming there, for I did. But it wasn't an

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Speaker 1: ex card though it was a strange. It was a

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Speaker 1: stranger's card. As they saw my parking spot. Oh lord,

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Speaker 1: I was like, girl, what about you? Honestly, I'm i'

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Speaker 1: gonna keep it one hunted This morning, the coffee kicked in.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to lie before. This is crazy because I

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Speaker 1: was with my ex and I was not a great partner,

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Speaker 1: and I used to, um, I've done some things. We're

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Speaker 1: like what we He would make me mad and I

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Speaker 1: would just go off and just you know, not cheat

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Speaker 1: because we were kind of like on and off, and

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Speaker 1: I regreted for so long. But honestly, I found out

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Speaker 1: some tea last night that he did recently, and I'm

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Speaker 1: just like, I don't regret nothing. Everything I put him through.

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Speaker 1: He deserved it. With every he is just not a

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Speaker 1: good person. So what did you do? Um? You know, like,

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Speaker 1: for example, one time, he had made me really mad

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Speaker 1: and we worked together. At this point, we were still

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Speaker 1: dealing with each other, and UM, I was like, you

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Speaker 1: know what, I'm leaving and I'm never talking to him again.

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Speaker 1: So I left and the next day I flew out

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Speaker 1: and I went to combos with somebody, Yes, and I

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Speaker 1: had a ball cheating because we weren't to get you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But it's like, you know, I

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Speaker 1: used to play games because we were we were never

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Speaker 1: really like together together, but like when we got together,

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Speaker 1: I was trying to be a good person and make

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Speaker 1: up for the things I had done in the past.

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Speaker 1: But now do I look back and feel bad about it? No,

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Speaker 1: he deserved all that all I did, and I didn't

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Speaker 1: regret it though, Yeah, yeah, I thought I regretted it.

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Speaker 1: I thought I regretted it before yesterday. I'm feel that

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Speaker 1: all right, well, doing Hey what's your name? Angelica? Hey? Angelica?

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Speaker 1: What did you do that you regret? Well, I can't

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Speaker 1: really don't regretted. But I heard my name into besides

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Speaker 1: this pretty little sup wheel draft and it was daddy

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Speaker 1: Dad passed away. So are you saying that you called

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Speaker 1: You're saying that you called your name into that man's

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Speaker 1: paint and called, huh you keyed is called what you're

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Speaker 1: saying I did, But it was his dad who passed

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Speaker 1: the waves cars while he was still driving. Something are

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Speaker 1: you going to do now? Wan? You did that to

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Speaker 1: Herbert Trump? You need to go to jail, Dre. You

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Speaker 1: better not say nothing. He forgave me for it. I

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Speaker 1: did it twice twice. Well, we would talk about a

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Speaker 1: trip together and he decided not to come and I

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Speaker 1: had to drive myself down there crime by myself. So

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Speaker 1: I did it before the tripping on. I came back

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Speaker 1: at these again, and you sound so happy. I hope

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Speaker 1: that man Daddy was haunting you from a grade one

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Speaker 1: more year, Edges. I know that much you want to

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Speaker 1: project him right now, projecting I ain't never had no

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Speaker 1: X to doing. You had to, definitely, I know. I

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Speaker 1: just look at this Lisa from Harris pa heye, Lisa,

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Speaker 1: what's something you did to your X that you regret.

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Speaker 1: I found this phone on top of the phrase and

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Speaker 1: I thought a text someone for the girls. So I

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Speaker 1: popped up at his job. What are you work? And

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Speaker 1: what you do at his job? I called the sea.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to embarrass him and I had up embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: Why I haven't you slipped on the floor and done

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Speaker 1: stupid birdhouse? And everybody could see us arguing to the

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Speaker 1: glassdoord all that at a birdhouse? Warehouse? Ware house? Our

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Speaker 1: warehouse together? Now? I'm sure, no, absolutely not. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Now I think forbody a little would you said dref?

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Speaker 1: I said, you know, I'm a little crazy, not gonna

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Speaker 1: think about it because I forgot. How do you popple

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Speaker 1: up on somebody once tide? This was a recent? How recent?

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Speaker 1: Like twenty twenty recent? Yeah? What happened? It wasn't on purfect?

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Speaker 1: So I ran into him outside the club and I've

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Speaker 1: seen him and I ran up on him, like I

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Speaker 1: started going off. I was like, you got me missed up?

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Speaker 1: Why if he wasn't calling you back? You know we

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Speaker 1: were going through some things. He definitely can't block me.

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Speaker 1: You deserved it. Why do you at un? I don't

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Speaker 1: even know what happen or whatever he said? Dre, did

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Speaker 1: she do? I need to get her? Eight hundred five

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Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. We're asking, did you

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Speaker 1: ever do anything to your ex that you regret? Call

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Speaker 1: us up right now? Is the Breakfast Club? Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Call me into the Breakfast Club top one morning. Everybody's

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Speaker 1: d J n V Charlemagne the guy. We are the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. We got Dre and lex P from the

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Speaker 1: Poor Mons podcast. Here why somebody online three saying lex

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Speaker 1: P live because I know something. Some guys saying why

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Speaker 1: calling in? Oh, what's your next name? It doesn't even matter,

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Speaker 1: It don't even matter. Hello, Hello, yeah, Hi, listen what

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Speaker 1: you do to your X that you regret? Um soon

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Speaker 1: as I said my name, I said, I should have

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Speaker 1: said it was anonymous. But I regret you on him?

632
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,839
Speaker 1: That means you still with him? No? No, no, I'm

633
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: with my husband on him? What you see? Why? Stop? No?

634
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: But he was such a nice guy. She just said

635
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Speaker 1: she regrets her husband broke up. Now, if I'm your husband,

636
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: I'm mad you regret that? That means you were not

637
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 1: together anymore? No, No, that sounds bad, dude. I should

638
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 1: you shouldn't tell you something you don't deserve happiness. You

639
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I'm gonna tell you why you

640
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: don't deserve happiness. She She says she regrets being married

641
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: to her husband and talking about she missed her ex.

642
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: He's a good guy. He's a good guy. Come on, man,

643
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 1: First of all, don't be living a fing out here.

644
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: That's not true. What happened. What happened was I feel bad,

645
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,360
Speaker 1: just took He's a nice guy. We were friends first

646
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,320
Speaker 1: and I seated on him. But I love her husband.

647
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 1: I'm happy you still thinking about him. Don't see him

648
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:06,839
Speaker 1: one time? Girl? So what made you marry the husband? Oh?

649
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,439
Speaker 1: Because he's amazing? You know, nice times finish? Uh live?

650
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: My husband is like you know, I like that. If

651
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: you get man, so fat you if you cheat on

652
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 1: me and married a guy, you cheating on with me?

653
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 1: We don't ever think about me ever, ad I don't

654
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: want to ever hear yourself talking about him. You're all

655
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: thinking about him with your real name? Yeah, that's her

656
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: last name? We got car I d terriford name. What's

657
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: your full name? Yeah? What's her full name? What's her

658
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: full name? Tell me you want to know? Yes, you really, yes, yes,

659
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 1: cash dollars right now. I don't putting your full name

660
00:35:46,840 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: out there? What all rights? How does she get? That's

661
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 1: what you get? Miss, I'm not messing with Hello. Who

662
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: this is? Kaysha Kayisha? Good morning? What's something you did

663
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Speaker 1: to extra regret? I don't regret nothing I've ever did

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Speaker 1: any of my extration period of You don't even know

665
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Speaker 1: the story qu you did, Kaysha. Well, um, I put

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Speaker 1: a twig and my baby daddy, um da tank twig

667
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: hired windows to a brick through his mama window, my mama.

668
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: You need to stop listening to the Poor of Mind podcast.

669
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: They're bad influence. Clearly you put a twig. What does

670
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 1: a TwixT in the gas tank do? Same thing of

671
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 1: banana do? I'm sure banana sugar does. Oh yeah, ok, yeah,

672
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: you are in jail on you just the one man

673
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: or multiple men? No? Well so too when you when

674
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: your lifetime movie coming up? Oh it's not Were you

675
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: from Florida? I asked Miami? You single? Yes? Yeah? You

676
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: ever wonder why you look in the mirror? Actually I'm nice,

677
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 1: but I want to ask people my actions are reacted. Okay,

678
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: tell me what? Tell me what some whoa, tell me

679
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 1: what some of those men did to you? My heart

680
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: is very fresh. You ain't answered the question what did

681
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: the man do to you? Sure she's like her heart, mama.

682
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: So since the mama want to go God, Yeah, you're

683
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: going down to I feel that these mamas be messy.

684
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 1: You're going down, Mildred? What's your name? Man? I already stood, yeah.

685
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to you no more. I

686
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: try not to have conversations with people I know going

687
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: to hell, So I don't want to talk to you. Okays,

688
00:37:55,120 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: talk to you like this, stalling name hell right across

689
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: from the milk, crazy away from me? What story, lady?

690
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: Men deserve the worst treatment. I don't regret anything. I

691
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 1: don't regret nothing when you do something to me. First,

692
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 1: I'll say that I wish nothing every every time it's

693
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: been a reaction to something. I don't just jump off

694
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:35,720
Speaker 1: of the deep end and just do things just because

695
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 1: it's always a reaction. So we all just need to

696
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,720
Speaker 1: do better, so it's premeditated. I wish nothing but happiness

697
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: with the men who've done Lex and dre wrong. Okay,

698
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: I hope. I wish nothing but the best for why

699
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: down I won't listen. I'm gonna make sure he never

700
00:38:53,280 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: sees success. Jesus, look we come back. We got your

701
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: rumor report. We gotta talk as hell. Yeah, do y'all

702
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 1: have an only fans money chance? No? Baby, what's the

703
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: craziest thing somebody asked you guys to do the craziest

704
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 1: thing somebody asked me to like shame them? Yeah, I

705
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 1: think it's um people want to see. I had a

706
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 1: guy who was constantly my DM's asking me to eat

707
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: food like he wanted me to eat food like and

708
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: just like an as mr thing. Yeah, it was very weird.

709
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 1: We'll tell you what gets your only fans. I got

710
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: a special announcement right before Dankey of to Day too, okay,

711
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: and so man has a special announcement after the rooms,

712
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: So don't move. It's the breakfast Club of Mona. Everybody

713
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: put it in Baku from Black Panther on his own here. Yes,

714
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: does anybody realize he's not rapping on this? You don't

715
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: need to, Yeah, I just want to. I remember when

716
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: we used to clown people for having stiff hips. Now

717
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 1: it's a whole TikTok challenge. Ain't the whole point to

718
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: have you both have stif hips with this. All Yeah,

719
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: it's my time to shine. Let me see, let me see,

720
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Speaker 1: this is the benefit of going to an all white school.

721
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: The milk Cricket stiff as hell. If I ever seen

722
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Speaker 1: you do at the club, I might call the police.

723
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: I might think something on the sees you or something

724
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, is that the name of that dance? The

725
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 1: milk Cricket? The milk Cricket? We don't call it. That's

726
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: why it's pop on till the little white kids doing it?

727
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: A little white kids. Jesus. All right, well we all

728
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Speaker 1: the Breakfast club. We have our our guest co host,

729
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Speaker 1: dra A lex Pete, of course from The Poorman's Podcast,

730
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 1: joining us. If you haven't subscribed to The Poormon's podcast,

731
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 1: you need to. Yeah, didn't need to. And now when

732
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: we come back, we got to talk Iggy Azalea. She

733
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 1: talks about some of her weirdest request on Only Fans.

734
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Speaker 1: Interesting and I want to hear some of you guys

735
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: weirdest requests. I can't believe you not the only fans

736
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: faed I would think that put only fans we are

737
00:40:55,800 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 1: classy doesn't have to be sexual, you know that. Ye,

738
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: People like y'all. I mean, you're right. You know what,

739
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: we do have Patreon. We have so we do give

740
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 1: bonus content of us talking. Okay, okay, okay, and I

741
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: want to see that I enjoyed it, and y'all talk.

742
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:20,759
Speaker 1: All right. We'll get to the rumors when we come back.

743
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: And let's I got a special announced at eight o'clock

744
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: right before Donkey too. Man, all right, so don't move.

745
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. God, Morning morning everybody. It's DJ

746
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: Envy Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We

747
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: got our co host Drea and Lex p from the

748
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: Paul Man's Podcast. Let's get to the rumors. Let's talk

749
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: on Marion or you gossiping or chatting the rumor report.

750
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess we're on the Breakfast Club. This

751
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 1: is were the tea spills, right right on the Breakfast Club.

752
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 1: Ah Man shout to Simone and Rachel from the Bronx. Now, Simone,

753
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 1: I thought that she was in a relationship with Omarion.

754
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: She was being catfished. She even paid the gentleman of

755
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: the person's phone bill and everything. She had no clue

756
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 1: that it wasn't last because come on, NH, why would

757
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:15,240
Speaker 1: you pay a millionaire's phone bill? Like, y'all gotta think? Amen,

758
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 1: you donna discern mean I'm hitting on the city boys, man,

759
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 1: something I don't understand. They hate for the city boys.

760
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: I had getting bill paid by any means necessary. Let's listen.

761
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: She was on doctor film. Why have you never met

762
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: his manager? To pay three thousand dollars to meet him?

763
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: His manager wants you to pay three thousand dollars to

764
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:43,360
Speaker 1: meet someone that you're engaged to. Actually, right, does that

765
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 1: sound logical to you? No? It doesn't. That's why I

766
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: want to find out the truth. Where he rides his

767
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 1: bike and goes to the mall his manager, what is

768
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: your uncle? You all get on this radio and tell

769
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: y'all every other day the craziest people, craziest people in

770
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 1: America come from the Bronx in all of Florida. Oh

771
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: my gosh. You know what, whoever took advantage of that lady?

772
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: Because she didn't sound all the way there? Yeah, so

773
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: I think it's not like somebody took advantage of her.

774
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: Y'all should be ashamed. You think all the men that

775
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: y'all got money out of had had it all game

776
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 1: and emotionally they had it all the other Yeah. Yeah,

777
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: and they deserved it. He didn't deserve that. I mean,

778
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: I think I do agree with you. That's you know,

779
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 1: probably something there. You know, mentally that's a little bit off.

780
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 1: But I also feel like people that believe those type

781
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 1: of things want to believe those kind of things. She

782
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: wants to believe that fantasy. That probably what got her

783
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: through the day. She probably woke up every day happy

784
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 1: to be talking to what she believes to be well.

785
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 1: Marion did a video for the Young Lady. It's crazy

786
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 1: how far these people will go to convince and manipulate

787
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: my fans to think that they are actually speaking with me,

788
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 1: from seeming fake driver's license and passports, even face timing

789
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: them claiming that there was a bad connection when they

790
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: never even seen me. I'm so sorry, simone. I haven't

791
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: been speaking with here, not in a relationship. You haven't

792
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: sent me any money. I want everyone to be aware

793
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: that if someone is online claiming to be me and

794
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: asking for money, that you are not speaking with me.

795
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: I will never do that. Poor young lady man. I

796
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: was with him though, but I feel like some people

797
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: just wouldn't even return. You think he should have get

798
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 1: if not. No, I don't wanted to reward the throw.

799
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm about to say, you think he should have given

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00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 1: her the money back? That would have been nice. That

801
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: would have been nice nice. I mean, I mean, it's

802
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 1: not his fault in any way, shape or form, but

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Speaker 1: it just been in a nice jest to say, here

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Speaker 1: take the but something something he might be like, well,

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00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 1: maybe you know she didn't really didn't give a three grand,

806
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: you know, I mean maybe she's halfway, you know, halfway

807
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 1: faking in line. Do you feel like she might not

808
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 1: be telling half a little bit? I wouldn't, you know,

809
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 1: I wouldn't send a video. But how I know she

810
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: really sent three grand? That's real. You know it's true.

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00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: I don't know it's not true. Stop my situation. I'm

812
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: sorry for it, but that's true. Right, I did the video.

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00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: I need a screenshot of the wire. And sometimes you know,

814
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: doctor Phil be making stuff up too. He might have

815
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: just wrote that because you trying to make a good show.

816
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: I don't see some stuff. I'm like, she got a point.

817
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 1: I give her ticket to the next show, yeah, backstage

818
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: fast as we take a shot for the Instagram. But

819
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: other than that, well, that young lady lit Man it's

820
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: the final episode of Doctor Phil. Okay, you made it.

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Speaker 1: She made it, shed the Bronx right now. She's hot

822
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:37,760
Speaker 1: in the Bronx right now now, he wrote, Now Eggzella,

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00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 1: you know she has he only only fans account that

824
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: she started I think like a month ago, and she's

825
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,360
Speaker 1: making some money and she's talking about some of the

826
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 1: weirdest things people ask for. Tell me I'm worthless. Somebody

827
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,840
Speaker 1: doesn't work. Oh okay, if you want to hear a

828
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: little thing like some of us my stuff, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.

829
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: They'll be like, oh god, uggy, please please please. I

830
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 1: know that you don't have time for my tiny little thing,

831
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: but please can you just tell me like what you

832
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 1: think about it? And then I'll be like, oh, that's disgusting?

833
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: Is that even a you call that a gouts on?

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Speaker 1: Why are you wasting my time with the semififty dollars

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Speaker 1: right now? Don't you message me again unless you give

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Speaker 1: me fifty dollars next time. Don't waste my time like

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Speaker 1: this again. Maybe me like it, but also some guys

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Speaker 1: I just talk to them about what the fuck you

839
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Speaker 1: on Netflix, and I eventually likes to talk. I'm a

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Speaker 1: chatting bitch, like all, am I chatting I do on

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Speaker 1: Twitter now I just do it on Okay, do micro

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Speaker 1: penis is get that same type of treatment from y'all?

843
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Speaker 1: I have been fortunate in nots and I have to

844
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Speaker 1: deal with it. Okay, Um, you know, I had a

845
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Speaker 1: situation where I encountered a micro penis like housemalls micro

846
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Speaker 1: it was. It was really it was like the milk crecket.

847
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 1: It wasn't a milk cricket either. I'm just about to

848
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Speaker 1: side yes. And it's crazy because me and my homegirl

849
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: actually found out that we both had messed around with him,

850
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: so we started calling him led. It was like for

851
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Speaker 1: a little Yeah, that learning disability. But that funny what

852
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But I think it's fifty dollars talking. You

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Speaker 1: got you're doing all that fited dollars. I feel like

854
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Speaker 1: you're eggy, like you get to charge a little you

855
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: can charge. I don't agree. You don't know her financial situation,

856
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: I don't, but I think it's good. I think only

857
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: fans is really her lane, Like she's really attractive. Yeah, yeah,

858
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 1: she's the alldest guy. She's talented. Yeah, I mean, I

859
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: mean she's good at like you know, I'm not gonna

860
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 1: lie to you. When was the last time somebody got

861
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: in the car? Was like, man, put on that new

862
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: Iggy bro. Well, we don't know if it has been

863
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 1: new Iggy. Yes see, I don't know. Let me look up.

864
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And I'm not dissing her music.

865
00:47:56,800 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that nobody gets in the car. No,

866
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: I did it. I'm from the South. I listened to different,

867
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: you know, type of music. But I'm just saying, like

868
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: me and my friends, we don't get in the car.

869
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: But I feel like only fans is good for her.

870
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: Damn it, man, you double down all right. Let me

871
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: see the last thing you put out with twenty twenty one.

872
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:22,320
Speaker 1: It was called the End of an Era. Did you

873
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 1: listen to it and it came up? All right? Exactly? No.

874
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: August thirteen, twenty twenty one, on em Party. I don't think.

875
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,919
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like she gonna She's obviously making

876
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,720
Speaker 1: a killing on it. Like I said, she's very attractive

877
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 1: thinking only fans. A lot of a lot of the

878
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: grab girlies are starting to do that, and they eating money. Yeah,

879
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 1: Erica Banks just started only only fans. Y'all keep trying

880
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: to clean this up. We just keep your having her

881
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: nigg is in a long time. We're gonna place him

882
00:48:56,080 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 1: now a four after the hour. We need to from

883
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: Chicago named James Taylor to come to the front of

884
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 1: the congregation. We'd like to have a word with him.

885
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: But before Donkey, I got a special announcement in a

886
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: couple of minutes. Can we do that? Can we do

887
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: it after Iggy? If you go ahead, let Meg Rock

888
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 1: turn Iggy back up. Come on every Day. I wait

889
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:17,439
Speaker 1: your ass up. Breakfast Club on Power What old five

890
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: point one is this thing on? It's on? Listen man.

891
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: We told y'all last year we was rescheduling, and the

892
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: time for rescheduling has come. Okay, Saturday, April twenty second,

893
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,720
Speaker 1: we shall all come together as a family at Pullman

894
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: Yards in Atlanta, Georgia for the first ever Black Effect

895
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:40,399
Speaker 1: Podcast Festival. Okay, Okay, Yes, sponsored by ATNT, Blue Moon,

896
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Speaker 1: Coors Light, Nissan Simply Spiked in State Farm. You know,

897
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Speaker 1: The Black Effect has a very diverse group of podcasts,

898
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Speaker 1: everything from mental health to comedy, and this show will

899
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: reflect that. Okay, hitting that Black Effect Podcast Festival stage

900
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 1: will be Carlos Miller, Chico Bean and DC Young fly

901
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Speaker 1: to eighty five SOP Show dropping a clues bombs for

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Speaker 1: the five South Show, eighty five Self Show, Your lips

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Speaker 1: is messing us up? Eighty five seven. I'm trying to

904
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Speaker 1: get through this without spitting. I got my new in

905
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Speaker 1: visit line in dB and Wheezy Hartful Decisions will be

906
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: hitting that Black Effect Podcast Festival stage. Yea, we in

907
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Speaker 1: atl So you know we can't do atl without having

908
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Speaker 1: DJ Scream, Big bank In Baby Jay, the Big Facts podcast,

909
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Speaker 1: and one of our podcasts that stays in the news,

910
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Speaker 1: Just Sell. Brian and Robin Dixon of the Reasonably Shading

911
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 1: podcast will be hitting that Black Effect Podcast Festival stage.

912
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 1: And you know I will not do an event like

913
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:34,320
Speaker 1: this without checking in on my folks mental and emotional

914
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: well being, and nobody does that better than Michelle Williams

915
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: from the Checking In podcast. Okay, and this event will

916
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: be hosted by me and my dear good System. It

917
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Speaker 1: is Jesse Hilarious dropping a clue bomb for Jesse Hilarious.

918
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:50,280
Speaker 1: Just Saturday, April twenty second, Pullman Yards in Atlanta, Georgia,

919
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: the first ever Black Effect Podcast Festival. It's not just

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Speaker 1: the day of entertainment It's a day of education because

921
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,359
Speaker 1: we have a woman in business, a woman in podcasting,

922
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Speaker 1: and this a podcasting panel with Kylleen Wit, Teslin, Figureo, Tesla,

923
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Speaker 1: Tamika Mallory, Weezie and Alex, the owners of WTF Media,

924
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Speaker 1: and my good brother Chad from the eighty five South Show,

925
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Speaker 1: Hawks and Chad last Man chadou Bray from the eighty

926
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Speaker 1: Flox Stop Show. Okay, soundtrack will be provided by my

927
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Speaker 1: guy DJ, Louis v v Right. There's gonna be food,

928
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,359
Speaker 1: a gaming area, and a Black Effect marketplace featuring local

929
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 1: Atlanta businesses. Tickets go on sale tomorrow. Okay, Tomorrow, March first,

930
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: at twelve pm. I said. Tickets go on sale tomorrow

931
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: at twelve pm. To learn more, visit black Effect dot

932
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 1: com and thank you to our sponsors again ATNT Blue

933
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Speaker 1: Moon Chords like Nissan, Simply Spiked, and State Farm. We'll

934
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: see you Saturday, April twenty second at Pullman Yards in

935
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:49,320
Speaker 1: Atlanta for the first of a Black Effect Podcast festival,

936
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Speaker 1: Drop a Bomb, hosted by myself and Jesse Hilarious. Louis

937
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Speaker 1: v Let's set up some after parties. Louis Vie. That's

938
00:51:55,760 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: my birthday, so that's your birthday. No, I'll pull up then. Yeah,

939
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 1: don't get a day up. Next, Let's go Maine. Say

940
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 1: the game. Don't get out the shame man you are.

941
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:19,800
Speaker 1: Donkey Today does not discriminated. I might not have the

942
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: song to today, Bro, I got to don't do day

943
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Speaker 1: we feel I need to be a Donkey man practice

944
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Speaker 1: club bitches. He just don't give to day today. Wow,

945
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: don't here Today for Tuesday, February twenty eight is going

946
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 1: to a young man from Chicago named James Taylor. Okay,

947
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: he's twenty years old, and I'm highly upset. I'm just

948
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 1: finding out about this story. But some people amongst us

949
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 1: might feel this is the perfect way to end black history.

950
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: Mom see, James Taylor allegedly robbed a man at gun point. Okay. Now,

951
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,479
Speaker 1: I have fully embraced the fact that I'm old school. Okay,

952
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 1: I was born in the nineteen hundreds, nineteen hundred and

953
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: seventy eight to be exact. So the way twenty year

954
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 1: old to do things is not the way we did things.

955
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: The people I knew who committed arm robberies actually tried

956
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: to not get caught. I mean, believe it or not, kids,

957
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 1: that was the whole point of an arm robbery to

958
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: not get caught, probably only second so you know what

959
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 1: you were stealing from the person, all right? Not getting

960
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: caught is the one B to the one A of

961
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 1: the arm robbery. But this generation is a little different. Okay.

962
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: This young man twenty years old from Chicago allegedly robbed

963
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: the thirty five year old man who was parked in

964
00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: front of his house around one thirty am. Now, listen,

965
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 1: you pull up to your place of residence around one

966
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: thirty am, you might, you know, be a little high.

967
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 1: I had a couple of trains. You know, it's a

968
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: Saturday night. I know it's freezing in Chicago. You just

969
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 1: want to get in the house, right. Not only do

970
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: you want to get in the house, this thirty five

971
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 1: year old man had just gotten some fried chicken. Now

972
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of fried chicken it was,

973
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna just assume him. On a Saturday night

974
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: in Chicago, it had to be Harolds. You know what

975
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 1: I mean? Correct me if I'm wrong. Chicago, but don't

976
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 1: don't wanted the Harrolds stay open until like five am. Am.

977
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: I making this up. I feel like one of those

978
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 1: Harrolds in Chicago stays open until five am. But just

979
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 1: imagine you got a four wing four shrimp combob water.

980
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, some hushpuppies, all right. Well,

981
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: if you got a ten piece wing and a mac

982
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: and cheese bowl with chicken mixed in, all right, I'm

983
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 1: just trying to paint the picture for you. Okay, you

984
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: got this fried chicken from Harold, and you just want

985
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 1: to get in the house on a Saturday night, be high,

986
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: full and happy and go to sleep. But no, here

987
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: comes James Taylor, just disturbing your piece, all right, asking

988
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: for a light. One thirty in the morning. You walking

989
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: in Chicago and some man with dreads walk up to

990
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:26,280
Speaker 1: you asking for a light. You might want to run, okay,

991
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: but the man just said he ain't got no light.

992
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: All right. But then this twenty year old tapped a

993
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 1: man on the shoulder, okay, tapped the man on the shoulder,

994
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: and you know, put a gun in his face. Okay.

995
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 1: And when the man turned around, James put a gun

996
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 1: in his face and told the victim to run it.

997
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: And all the victims hat on him was his keys. Okay,

998
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: two dollars in cash a debit card and the fried chicken. Now,

999
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 1: I've told y'all before that fried chicken is a symbol

1000
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: of freedom right for black people in America, especially black

1001
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: women in Virginia, because after the Civil War, black women

1002
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: understood their freedom meant they could fully grasp some agency

1003
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:01,280
Speaker 1: over their lives. All will created the sustaining economic freedom

1004
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: put themselves through their culinary tallenge. So sisters used to

1005
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: carry fried chicken and other big goods on their heads

1006
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: waiting around at the train stations, and when the trains

1007
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 1: would pull up, they would tell their fried chicken and

1008
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,720
Speaker 1: bake goods. And since so a few jobs are readily

1009
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: available or even accessible to black women, that's how they

1010
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 1: made their money, using their culinary talents to provide for

1011
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: their families after the Civil War. So, once again, stop

1012
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: letting white supremacist food y'all in thinking fried chicken to

1013
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 1: the negative stereotype of black people, because it's not. It's

1014
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 1: a symbol of economic freedom. What does that have to

1015
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 1: do with to Dave donkeyre today? Absolutely nothing, okay, Because

1016
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 1: in this situation, fried chicken didn't lead to someone's freedom.

1017
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:37,319
Speaker 1: It actually led to James Taylor's arrest. James Taylor right now,

1018
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,720
Speaker 1: it's charged with arm Robbie with a firearm, aggravated unlawful

1019
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 1: use of a weapon, aggravated possession of a stolen motor vehicle,

1020
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 1: and a legal possession of a debit card to judge

1021
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:49,840
Speaker 1: or the tailor to pail fifteen thousand dollar bell deposit

1022
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:53,240
Speaker 1: to go home on an electric monitor, and a judge

1023
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: told Taylor, who has no criminal background, that he faces

1024
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 1: a minimum of twenty one years in prison if convicted

1025
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 1: of the armed robbery charge. Now, I know y'all liked Chicken, right,

1026
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: and I know y'all like, damn, that's criminal, okay, and

1027
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,839
Speaker 1: being criminalist corny, So I understand why you're getting dunky

1028
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 1: of today. But you know, dunky to day is all

1029
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,320
Speaker 1: about giving people the credit they deserve for being stupid. So,

1030
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 1: of course, on robbery is stupid, but it's a little

1031
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:19,760
Speaker 1: bit more than that. Okay. How exactly did James Taylor

1032
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: get caught? What y'all think? What he used the debit card?

1033
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 1: You use the debit card to stop and get gassed? Yeah, okay, Well,

1034
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: according to the prosecutor, after James Taylor took this man's keys,

1035
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:37,439
Speaker 1: his debit card, his two dollars and the fried chicken.

1036
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: James Taylor got into the victim's car. He didn't start

1037
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 1: the car. He started eating that devil grand fried chicken.

1038
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,959
Speaker 1: Literally got into the victim's car and started eating the chicken.

1039
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you drive away? You gotta eat it hot,

1040
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 1: You gotta eat it while it's hot. Got to eat

1041
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 1: it whiles's hot. Come on, now, this makes perfect sense

1042
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 1: under normal circumstance. Yea, But when you just committed an

1043
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,640
Speaker 1: armed robbery and you're sitting in the car the person

1044
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 1: you just robbed, you don't sit there and eat the chicken. Okay,

1045
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 1: this man sat in the car so long eating the

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00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: food that the victim had time to dial nine one

1047
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:15,720
Speaker 1: one and the police pulled up a few minutes later. Okay,

1048
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 1: I'm really sitting there thinking to myself, was this man

1049
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 1: committing the crime or was he just hungry? I mean,

1050
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 1: of course there's a crime, but damn for you to

1051
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 1: not even think of getting the way you had to

1052
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: stop and eat right then and there. It might be

1053
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: some nuance to this niggatry because maybe, just maybe this

1054
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 1: man really needed a meal. But that won't stop him

1055
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 1: from getting the credit he deserves. To being stupid. Please

1056
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: give James Taylors the sweet shouts of the Hamletones. Oh no,

1057
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: you are dogee, the damn the do gee. Oh the

1058
00:57:50,760 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 1: day that sounded like fried chicken. That's the Helmettons. You

1059
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 1: got a picture the guy? Yes, I do have a

1060
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 1: picture of guy. But come on, he's from Chicago. You

1061
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: know what he looks like? What does that mean? You

1062
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 1: want to play game? Believe it was not. We don't

1063
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: need to play a game. Why you want to play

1064
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 1: a game? Yes? Oh god, let's play a game off? Yes?

1065
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 1: What rac right? James Taylor, twenty years old of Chicago,

1066
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 1: one thirty in the morning, robbed a man of some

1067
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: fried chicken, two dollars, a debit card in the man's car, keys,

1068
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: and did not even try to get away, sat in

1069
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 1: the car and ain't the fried chicken? DJ? Yes? What

1070
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: race is? Most people are gonna think black, right, because

1071
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 1: it's fried chicken, it's Chicago, and it's one thirty in

1072
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: the morning. Right, But I'm not thinking that way what

1073
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 1: you're thinking, see, I'm thinking heroin at him? Oh r

1074
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: r R. Could be two maga guys with maga hats

1075
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 1: on exactly. Remember what happened before, that has happened before exactly.

1076
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 1: And because of that, I'm going white. I'm going Caucasian. Okay.

1077
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: Lex James Taylor, twenty years old from Chicago, all right,

1078
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,959
Speaker 1: robbed a man of two dollars, a debit card, his car, keys,

1079
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 1: and some fried chicken. It didn't even try to get away.

1080
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 1: Sat in the car. They the pride chicken. Guess what, racy.

1081
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to end Black History Month like this,

1082
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 1: but I'm sorry anybody that's sitting in the car. They

1083
00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 1: smell that chicken and way they can't even start the car.

1084
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 1: It's not giving milk cricket. It's tonight. It's definitely giving

1085
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: a black man. Okay, Okay, I would have to agree.

1086
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, black man, come on, please, please don't

1087
00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:57,600
Speaker 1: be I'd like all three of y'aller though, that y'all

1088
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 1: are absolutely positively wrong. Okay. Reason that y'all are wrong

1089
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 1: it's because, okay, y'all forget this another option. But this

1090
01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: is not a black person, but this is a nigga.

1091
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 1: I can I believe that your opinions on a black person.

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01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 1: I didn't know I could. Oh wow, hungry and that

1093
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: picture one thing he wasn't hungry. No my out. Can

1094
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 1: this can this? Can this nigga evolve to a black man? Yes? Okay,

1095
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: but right now nigga's nigga. Okay, you don't get the

1096
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 1: full sentence. No, I hope he first charge charge. Thank

1097
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 1: you for that. Donkey to day. Now when we come back,

1098
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: knee Drug Glover to WHI will be joining us. She

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01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: has a new book, Drama Free. We're gonna came home.

1100
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: When we come back, she don't move. It's to breakfast Club.

1101
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 1: Go morning, the breakfast Club, Breakfast Club. Your morning's will

1102
01:00:56,400 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 1: never be the same. Morn everybody see and v Charlemagne

1103
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 1: the guy. We are to breakfast Club. We got a

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01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: special guests in the building. She's back Nature Glover to

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01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 1: ave welcome. How are you? First of all new book

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01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 1: coming out, Drama Free of dramatory Managing unhealthy family relationships.

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01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 1: You have no idea how on time this book is?

1108
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: What does the title mean? Ah? What doesn't it mean?

1109
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 1: What is an unhealthy relationship? It's anything that is problematic

1110
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 1: and persistent. You know, it's not just childhood trauma. It's

1111
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: also issues with in laws and lended families and some

1112
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 1: of these cousins and all sorts of things to what

1113
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 1: made you write this book. Do you get some problems

1114
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: in your family that you have to sort out? Well,

1115
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 1: you know, I'm a therapist, so I help people with problems,

1116
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: and I think we all to some degree have something.

1117
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 1: Why why are boundaries always such a focal point for

1118
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 1: your book? Because I think it is a focal point

1119
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: for relationships. We have to create new expectations, and with family,

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01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: we do give a lot of passes. It's like, well,

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01:01:58,320 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 1: this is so and so so they should always answer

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01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 1: the phone when I call. Well, that person has a

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01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 1: job and the thing that they're doing right now is

1124
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 1: more important than hearing about your court show or whatever

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01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 1: that is. You know. I think sometimes we have to

1126
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 1: set a new standard within families, especially with a level

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01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:20,400
Speaker 1: of awareness we have now. I think this is now

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01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 1: the time when people are more aware of Oh I

1129
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 1: don't have to call them back, I don't have to

1130
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: visit them. We are woke and we are aware of

1131
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:31,520
Speaker 1: where we want to be and where we don't want

1132
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 1: to be. How can you tell the difference between like

1133
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: family dysfunction and that's just how we've always been. Well,

1134
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: the norm can be normal for you can still be unhealthy.

1135
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:42,920
Speaker 1: There are a lot of things that I hear, oh,

1136
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: we used to get beat or oh you know, this

1137
01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 1: is how my mam wad talk to me, and it's like, well,

1138
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 1: cussing you out. It can be the norm in your family,

1139
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: but it's not healthy. And so some of those things

1140
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 1: we have to think about in general. Is this behavior

1141
01:02:56,800 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 1: that should be tolerated by anyone, behavior that I would

1142
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 1: except from a friend. Is this behavior that I would

1143
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 1: see as suitable from a partner? What's the biggest misconception

1144
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 1: you see when it comes to family, that you have

1145
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 1: to like people there you go. I think a family

1146
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 1: is like a class, right, Like when you start a

1147
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: new grade, but it's thirty people in your class and

1148
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 1: maybe three or four you vibe with, right. I think

1149
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: it's the same with families. Like it's some people it's

1150
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 1: whatever their personality. Your personality is, like this cousin and

1151
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 1: this uncle, come on, y'all and the rest of them.

1152
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, no, they're all cool. I really like them.

1153
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: But they are just certain people personality wise. And that's

1154
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 1: the part we're not considering that there are people, even

1155
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: with your children, there are certain you know, certain kids,

1156
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: you're like, this is my guy, you know, based on personality,

1157
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 1: based on how much they seem to be like you

1158
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 1: or interested in your life. My oldest daughter likes to

1159
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 1: tell me that my third daughter is my favorite, and

1160
01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: that bothers me is true. I don't think so, you know.

1161
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 1: But it's like, I don't like it if you don't

1162
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: think it's true. I don't think so because I don't

1163
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 1: feel like I have a favorite child. And I'll be

1164
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 1: trying to explain that to her. Did your third daughter

1165
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:14,920
Speaker 1: remind you of yourself? No, actually my second daughter does. Okay,

1166
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 1: So I wonder, I wonder why they're seeing this allegiance.

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01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, Well, something is happening. I find that

1168
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:23,920
Speaker 1: with parents sometimes they will deny no, I don't have

1169
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: a favorite. To know, I treat everybody to say when

1170
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 1: clearly they are not. And that's okay because we don't

1171
01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 1: treat all people to say, and it's okay to recognize that, like, hey,

1172
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: I am giving this person more attention because of X,

1173
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:37,680
Speaker 1: Y Z or I noticed that too, and you know,

1174
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 1: maybe try to be fair or maybe not, you know,

1175
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: but I think to deny it sometimes can be problematic

1176
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:46,080
Speaker 1: for the sibling relationship. I just feel like that could

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01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 1: lead to an unhealthy family relationship amongst the siblings. I'm

1178
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 1: playing favorites and I'm not. You know, I think that's

1179
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 1: in everybody's family when they have when you have a

1180
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: bunch of kids, it's like I catered to my daughters

1181
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: more than my sons. Why because my daughter is catered

1182
01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: to me loving. They're cuddling with daddy. If I get sick,

1183
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 1: they're gonna lay in bed and rub Daddy's back and

1184
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 1: then my daddy, you know, I mean from my third daughter.

1185
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: That's that's what they do. That's it, you know what

1186
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: I mean. The rest of the black your dad, you're good.

1187
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: I see that, Like, but the rest of what they're

1188
01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 1: gonna lay there like they're gonna they're gonna come for

1189
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 1: dad and take a liking to that. Yeah, but do

1190
01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 1: you acknowledge that? Do you say that to them? Like,

1191
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 1: you're right? And this is why. So here's an opportunity

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01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 1: for you to come cuddle with me. Yeah, but you

1193
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: know what, and this is gonna sound crazy. My son

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01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 1: is a nineteen year old football play. If he got

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01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: in the bed and cuddle with me, it would just

1196
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 1: feel awkward to me. At me like that. Wow, bro,

1197
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 1: we got six kids, yes, three of them a cuddle age.

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01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 1: But you referenced the nineteen year old son. No, because

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01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: my daughter's cud of with me, my son. They're two, three,

1200
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: my daughters, the dogs getting the bed and cuddle with dad,

1201
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 1: My nine, my eight, my six, my my one year old.

1202
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: But my nineteen. It would just feel a little off.

1203
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 1: That's messed up, man. That's why men feel. That's why

1204
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 1: we'd be so closed off and don't know how to

1205
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 1: show emotions, you know what I mean? Get that made

1206
01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:01,360
Speaker 1: a little cuddle time my son? How value today? What

1207
01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 1: is That's not? That's not that's horrible. Brow. Let's talk

1208
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: about cycle breakers. Yes, now, that's very important, especially when

1209
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: it comes to our dynamical family, right, yes, yes, yes.

1210
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 1: Cycle breakers are people who are the first in their

1211
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 1: family to do a thing, the first in their family

1212
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: to be rich, to go to college, to maybe not

1213
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,959
Speaker 1: go to college, to be married, all sorts of things.

1214
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: And I think when you are a cycle breaker, there

1215
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 1: is a lot of pushback from the people who have

1216
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 1: not changed, from the people who are still in you know,

1217
01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 1: maybe some of those unhealthy relationships because you know, it's

1218
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 1: hard to see people do something that you couldn't, or

1219
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: do something that feels like a threat to who you are,

1220
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 1: or do something that you know makes you think, gosh,

1221
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: am I supposed to change too. So being a cycle breaker,

1222
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 1: I think a lot of their support comes from people

1223
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 1: outside their family. Sometimes it comes from you know, that

1224
01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:00,080
Speaker 1: chosen family, and may come from you know, some of

1225
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 1: those other family members that you don't see us. Often

1226
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 1: it may come from watching TV shows and identifying with

1227
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 1: you know, some influencer or all sorts of things. But

1228
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 1: you know, I think cycle breaking is important. It's also

1229
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: really tough because you have to figure out a way

1230
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 1: to be supported. How important is chosen family? Oh my gosh,

1231
01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: it's everything. You know. In our families, we sometimes choose.

1232
01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 1: Remember I said, you know it might be these three

1233
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:30,120
Speaker 1: people that you pick. But you know, when we are

1234
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 1: outside of that family system, we have the ability to

1235
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 1: go to work and say, Okay, I really like this person,

1236
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 1: and I really like this person, come on, you're you're

1237
01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: my family now. And we can do that with our

1238
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 1: friends and it's just easier. The relationships are based on

1239
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:47,480
Speaker 1: not blood, but just how we feel about each other.

1240
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 1: They're more authentic, and I think that is the really

1241
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 1: important piece with the chosen family. Now, troubleshooting relationships with siblings. Yes,

1242
01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 1: let's talk about that sibling aspectcause how many brothers and

1243
01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 1: sisters you have? Five are? You're all good as it's

1244
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:07,160
Speaker 1: something that you like more than the others. So how

1245
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 1: do you tell siblings to deal with that? You know,

1246
01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:12,840
Speaker 1: I think it goes back to that, you know, it's

1247
01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 1: based on your personality. It's based on who you feel

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Speaker 1: you can have that authentic relationship with. And we don't

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Speaker 1: feel like that with everyone, even if they're related to us.

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Speaker 1: And with siblings. Sometimes I see impacting siblings is when

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Speaker 1: the oldest sibling had to be a caretaker for the

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Speaker 1: younger siblings, and they have this idea of like, this

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Speaker 1: is my sister, but it's my child, This is my brother,

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Speaker 1: but this my baby. You know, here it is you

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Speaker 1: forty and a thirty five and you mother and them,

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01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:45,160
Speaker 1: and then there's this issue of well, they don't want

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01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 1: your mothering anymore now they want a sister. So how

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Speaker 1: do we transition out of that role and really into

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Speaker 1: a sibling relationship. You know, we can redefine our relationships

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Speaker 1: with people at any point and talk about some of

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Speaker 1: the resentment if there is a favorite child situation, because

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Speaker 1: you're right, it's not one child's thought that that happens.

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01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 1: It's you know, really based on the parents choice. But

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Speaker 1: it is easier sometimes for them to be mad at

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Speaker 1: the siblings. So those are conversations to have, all right.

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Speaker 1: We got more with Nee Drug Lover to War when

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Speaker 1: we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club, Good

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Speaker 1: Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ and V Charlomagne the guy.

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Speaker 1: We all the Breakfast Club. We also have our co

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Speaker 1: host with us Portman's podcast, Drea and Lex p. All Right, Charlemagne,

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Speaker 1: you know you can't force sibling relationships, right, Like, I'm

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Speaker 1: the second oldest, but it's such an age gap between

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Speaker 1: me and my oldest sister, and it's such an age

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01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,280
Speaker 1: gap between my two younger brothers and younger sisters, so

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Speaker 1: I love them. We didn't necessarily have that relationship growing

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Speaker 1: up because everybody was busy doing their own things. Like

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Speaker 1: my two younger brothers the super close because they close

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Speaker 1: her in age. So is it a parents job to

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Speaker 1: like force those relationships to have it? No? I think

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Speaker 1: sometimes parents think they're supposed to, right, You know, this

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01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 1: is your brother. Y'all have to stick together. This is

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01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,360
Speaker 1: your sister. You have to sleep together. But a lot

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01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 1: of that is just natural. You'll see small kids like

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01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 1: I want to hold my baby brother. I want and

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01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:10,640
Speaker 1: another kid might be like, I'm going outside, you know.

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01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: So how do we allow people to select their people?

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01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:16,679
Speaker 1: So we shouldn't force them because I forced my kids, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Like like I have a nineteen year old and I

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Speaker 1: have an eight year old, and I would be like,

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Speaker 1: when you go to football practice, taking brother with you,

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01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:24,519
Speaker 1: to let him hang out with his brother, you know, man,

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Speaker 1: and my sound like taking to me. No, no, no,

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01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 1: it's not because I want him. I want him to

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Speaker 1: experience that because there's some things that I didn't. I

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Speaker 1: didn't play football as a kid. My nineteen year old does,

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Speaker 1: and he's a good player. And I could tell that

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Speaker 1: my eight year old looks up to him as a

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Speaker 1: football player. So I'd like, go out with your brother,

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Speaker 1: go play with your brother. Play logan going to college

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Speaker 1: next year? How about to see he keeps saying nineteen

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Speaker 1: in high school? No, no, you go to college next year?

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Speaker 1: Oh my birthday December twenty eight. But that's what I do,

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Speaker 1: even with you know, with whatever it may be playing

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Speaker 1: video games. I don't play video games, my nineteen year

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Speaker 1: old does, so I'd be like, go in the room

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Speaker 1: with your brother. I forced him to do it, and

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Speaker 1: I noticed it keeps him close. So now my my

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Speaker 1: eight year old of coming to my own bay, Dad,

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01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:03,360
Speaker 1: can I sleep in logan droom? And I'm like, go

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Speaker 1: ask him, but like he's starting to develop that bond

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01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:07,680
Speaker 1: where it is go, so I kind of force him

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01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:11,000
Speaker 1: to do it. You help them foster a relationship by

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Speaker 1: making these suggestions, and it sounds like over time they

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01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 1: have both grown to appreciate that forcing is when you

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Speaker 1: say take this kid with you and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do it right. So you're helping

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Speaker 1: them learn to have a relationship together and that is healthy. Now,

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Speaker 1: when you're forcing your children to be close, I think

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Speaker 1: that's different. It's not really closeness. It is you know,

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Speaker 1: we can do this while we're here. But when people

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Speaker 1: leave your home, like, how do you want those relationships

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Speaker 1: to be? And that's what you need to think about, Like,

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Speaker 1: when they leave home and they're out in the world,

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Speaker 1: who's going to force it? Then? No One. Another question

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Speaker 1: that people always ask is the closeness between mom and child.

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Speaker 1: People say you can't be your child's best friend, right

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Speaker 1: because that's the one thing people say that, that's my

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Speaker 1: best friend. My daughter is my best friend, best friend.

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Speaker 1: I'm people, how do you feel about that when someone

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Speaker 1: is a child. I don't think so because it's one sided.

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Speaker 1: You certainly wouldn't share with your child. Girl, we went

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Speaker 1: to the club. Not appropriate, mom, But you can listen

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01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:17,920
Speaker 1: to a lot of what your kid is saying, and

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01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: you can give them some feedback, and hopefully they have

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01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 1: a relationship where they trust being able to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't necessarily call that a best friendship, as much

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Speaker 1: as I would say that is a healthy relationship with

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Speaker 1: your child. You don't want to be in a best

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01:12:35,120 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 1: friendship where you're oversharing with your child. Your child is

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01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 1: hyper focused on your needs because you have so much

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01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 1: stuff going on. That's where it gets a little murky.

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01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:48,800
Speaker 1: It's like, Okay, what is this What is the definition

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01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:52,519
Speaker 1: of this best friendship? If it's you caring for your

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01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 1: child and your child is just being open with you, okay, cool,

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01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:58,600
Speaker 1: that's best friendship for you. But if it's you know

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Speaker 1: this person is always here for me where they're eight.

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01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 1: You know, they should not always they shouldn't always be

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01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 1: there for you find you some friends at work know

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01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 1: when your daughter is sexually active. I guess that's okay.

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01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:16,200
Speaker 1: Details it depends on the father's comfort. Like yeah, Now

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Speaker 1: you refer to family as a cultural system in the

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01:13:18,920 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 1: book Drama Free. What did that mean? So families have

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01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:25,280
Speaker 1: their own thing. You know, in your family it might

1354
01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:27,479
Speaker 1: be you know, when you have a baby, the baby

1355
01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:30,160
Speaker 1: go live with your grandma for three months, or you know,

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01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 1: whatever your program is. It is how you learn to be,

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01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 1: how you learn to exist. When we get married, we

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01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:41,720
Speaker 1: do this, when we whatever, this is what happens. It

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01:13:41,920 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 1: is a whole culture. I think what's interesting is when

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01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:47,880
Speaker 1: we take our culture and we try to move that

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01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 1: culture into the world. When we try to get married

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01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 1: and we try to get into relationships and we're telling

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01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: our partner was normal, and they're like, no, this is

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01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:59,120
Speaker 1: what we did in my family. That's where you start

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01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:01,960
Speaker 1: to see like, oh, this is how my family was,

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01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:04,120
Speaker 1: and now we have to figure out a new culture

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Speaker 1: for ourselves. You know. The cultural piece is only problematic

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01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 1: when somebody sort of breaks away from it and the

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01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 1: others disagree because for a lot of especially our families,

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01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:18,680
Speaker 1: it's more I told you so, syndrome right, throwing up

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01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:20,240
Speaker 1: as a kid is that? Can I go there and

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01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 1: know why because I told you so? My wife is

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01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 1: a little different. It took me a long time to

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01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 1: get to it because I was the same way. My

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01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 1: wife likes to have conversations, right. I don't like the

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01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 1: conversations because if I tell you something, to do it,

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01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:33,920
Speaker 1: but my kids like, but why can't I, Well, why

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01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:35,720
Speaker 1: doesn't that make sense? And she'll sit there and have

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01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:38,400
Speaker 1: conversations with them all day. I guess it's a better

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01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 1: way because they understand the reason why and they don't

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01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:44,280
Speaker 1: leave being mad and don't leave being hateful. But it's

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01:14:44,800 --> 01:14:46,680
Speaker 1: when it comes to that. I'm a mom, so I

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01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:49,080
Speaker 1: do a little exploited. I also over talked to my

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01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 1: dog so you know, get off of their go and

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01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 1: the it's like sit could have helped, all right, I'm

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01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:04,519
Speaker 1: saying way too much so talking back never thankfully. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think with kids it is helpful sometimes to give

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01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 1: them some reason. You know, kids are people, and it

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01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 1: is hopeful for them to know why and how and

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01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:18,520
Speaker 1: what this means because in the future Hopefully with that understanding,

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01:15:19,040 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 1: they'll be able to tap into that conversation and say, oh,

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01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 1: this is why I shouldn't do that. Without that level

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01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:29,280
Speaker 1: of understanding, you may not know next time. So it

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01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 1: can be helpful to just explain things. And that is

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01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: a cultural shift, right when you come from just because

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01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:37,960
Speaker 1: I said so, well, all the because I said souls

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01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:40,519
Speaker 1: weren't healthy for us. We have some adults telling us

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01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:42,120
Speaker 1: stuff and it's like she didn't I know what she

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01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:46,120
Speaker 1: talking about, you know. So so if somebody can explain

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01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:48,800
Speaker 1: their why, sometimes it could be really helpful for them

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01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 1: in the future. And sometimes you will hear them talking

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01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: to their friends and you're like, oh, those my words.

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01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 1: So it helps. I want people to go pick up

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01:15:56,400 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 1: the book Drama Freeze. I don't want to, you know,

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01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:00,160
Speaker 1: give too much away, but I love to read just

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01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:04,799
Speaker 1: thing the urge to operate in dysfunction chapter because sometimes

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01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:06,439
Speaker 1: I wonder, I don't think people can help it if

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01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:09,000
Speaker 1: they haven't done the work to even recognize this is

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01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:12,720
Speaker 1: dysfunctional to them, they just operating in normalcy. So what

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01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:15,280
Speaker 1: does that mean? Resisting the urge to operate in dysfunction

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01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:17,280
Speaker 1: if you don't know what the function it's learning to

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01:16:17,360 --> 01:16:19,560
Speaker 1: be different. I think we have so many times in

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01:16:19,680 --> 01:16:23,720
Speaker 1: life where we are shown different things and it's up

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01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 1: to us to pick it up, whether that's visiting a

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01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:28,960
Speaker 1: friend's house, see or something on TV. If we just

1416
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:32,559
Speaker 1: process some of that information like wow, that's what they

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01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:35,519
Speaker 1: do in their house, and have those conversations even with

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01:16:35,640 --> 01:16:38,640
Speaker 1: our siblings, with other family members, with our friends, you

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01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 1: will learn less some of the things that you are experiencing.

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01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:43,680
Speaker 1: They may be normal for you, but they are not

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Speaker 1: necessarily the healthiest. Right. We appreciate you for joining us

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Speaker 1: this morning that the book drop Drama Free and listen.

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Speaker 1: This Wednesday, I'm gonna be in conversation with miss Nature

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Speaker 1: It might be sold out already. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: think it's pretty sold out. It is, right, Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess from more information and tickets visit najor twab

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Speaker 1: but definitely go out there and pick up the book.

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Speaker 1: Purchased a book book that's right, Drama Free A guy

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Speaker 1: that managing unhealthy family relationships always a pleasure talking to you,

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Speaker 1: thank you. All right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club one, and everybody is DJ Envy Charlemagne

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Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now we got

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Speaker 1: our guest co host Dreya and Lex p from the

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Speaker 1: Poor Mas Podcast joining us. And let's get to the rumors.

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Speaker 1: Let's talks India from my Name or you Gossip and

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Speaker 1: chatting is the Ruble Report. I mean, I guess we're

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Speaker 1: on the breakast Club. This is where the tea spills,

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Speaker 1: right on the Breakfast Club. Now, can we drop a

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Speaker 1: bomb for Zenda talk to me. You know they're about

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01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 1: to do season three of Euphoria. They're not well. I

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Speaker 1: guess though we're not getting into like twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I wait, great show twenty four yeah,

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Speaker 1: I supposed to come out. Well, it looks like she's

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Speaker 1: gonna be getting a million dollars an episode for seasons.

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01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:10,559
Speaker 1: She deserves it. Facts how many episodes in the season?

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Speaker 1: I thought it was teen, right, it's not that men,

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Speaker 1: He's like eight yeah, yeah, yeah for you four you.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure Jesus, I don't know, but either way,

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Speaker 1: dropping the clumps in dare she deserves it. You don't.

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Speaker 1: You can't do that show what I was in, dare

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Speaker 1: right and E remember we were talking to the other

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Speaker 1: day about Drake and he was like, I'm he was.

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Speaker 1: I think he was saying, like, damn surprise, Drake hasn't

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01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,640
Speaker 1: do much outside of rap. But he's also ep on

1457
01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 1: the show. Right, I mentioned that, Yeah, EPs EU four,

1458
01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 1: you and uh a top Boy on Netflix. Yeah, because

1459
01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:43,400
Speaker 1: the music on you four is great, Right, I don't

1460
01:18:43,400 --> 01:18:46,160
Speaker 1: know if he doesn't music like picking the songs like

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01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:49,240
Speaker 1: it create SURVIVEE. You know he EPO for the actual show.

1462
01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:53,639
Speaker 1: I see. I didn't know that, but it's not coming

1463
01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:56,320
Speaker 1: out until the second half of twenty twenty four, which

1464
01:18:56,320 --> 01:18:57,760
Speaker 1: is gonna be weird because they ain't supposed to be

1465
01:18:57,760 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 1: in high school. They are right, they should have been

1466
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:02,360
Speaker 1: grabb situated by now college. Hopefully by the time they

1467
01:19:02,439 --> 01:19:04,360
Speaker 1: come back, you would think they graduated. And and we

1468
01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 1: got to wait that long to see if home he died. Yeah,

1469
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:10,639
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, that's crazy. There's a lot of things

1470
01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:12,439
Speaker 1: we gotta wait to see. What you gotta see if

1471
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:28,880
Speaker 1: she's still on crack crack. She was sure that you're

1472
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:33,160
Speaker 1: still crack. Yes, my face is going she was down.

1473
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:37,080
Speaker 1: I really can't talk to nobody on crack calmly like

1474
01:19:37,320 --> 01:19:39,519
Speaker 1: you really? Are you still on crack? Yeah? No, they

1475
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:44,600
Speaker 1: don't understand unless you say it like that, like that

1476
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:47,400
Speaker 1: man on the on the show be trying to help her.

1477
01:19:47,479 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 1: He used to be talking to her like man like that.

1478
01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:54,160
Speaker 1: Remember Joe, how about to say Joe Rogan, Remember Morgan

1479
01:19:54,240 --> 01:20:07,720
Speaker 1: Freeman on you they jump by the way, That's how

1480
01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:08,920
Speaker 1: I used to be. My dad used to talk to

1481
01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:11,720
Speaker 1: me just like that, because you know, you're just throwing

1482
01:20:11,760 --> 01:20:14,519
Speaker 1: your life away anyway. And why was he Smoky Craig,

1483
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:17,200
Speaker 1: the little Boy. I mean, I don't know, maybe know

1484
01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:21,560
Speaker 1: we was around. I don't know. That was during the

1485
01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:23,280
Speaker 1: crack era, And that was crack was bigger than in

1486
01:20:23,280 --> 01:20:25,000
Speaker 1: New York. Job it was crack was big everywhere, but

1487
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:27,960
Speaker 1: it was very big here. You started off recreational. Yeah,

1488
01:20:28,160 --> 01:20:30,360
Speaker 1: so people were smoking crack because they didn't know no better.

1489
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:35,000
Speaker 1: It was a party drug, right. But I'm just saying,

1490
01:20:35,120 --> 01:20:43,920
Speaker 1: like you at work is why this wild? And lastly,

1491
01:20:44,320 --> 01:20:46,680
Speaker 1: you know Carl Crawford of course, uh And I was

1492
01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:49,759
Speaker 1: gonna say NBA major League Baseball player. He also owns

1493
01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 1: a fifteen oh one certified. That's the label that making

1494
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:56,040
Speaker 1: the stallion is sign too. He seems like he regrets

1495
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:57,760
Speaker 1: everything that they've gone through. And this is what he

1496
01:20:57,800 --> 01:21:00,639
Speaker 1: had to say, fortunate man, making We have and talk since,

1497
01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 1: you know, since two thy nineteen. So like, like I said,

1498
01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:06,920
Speaker 1: that's unfortunate too as well, because I never wanted to,

1499
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,200
Speaker 1: you know, have a situation where I was, you know,

1500
01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:12,040
Speaker 1: um going back and forth on the internet. You know,

1501
01:21:12,120 --> 01:21:14,720
Speaker 1: I have to take responsibility for anything that happens over

1502
01:21:14,760 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 1: here in fifteen o one, Like I say, I got

1503
01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:19,559
Speaker 1: a lot real real fast, you know, coming from another

1504
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:21,640
Speaker 1: lane and all that type of stuff. So a lot

1505
01:21:21,680 --> 01:21:23,840
Speaker 1: of a lot of things came at me a real,

1506
01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:26,439
Speaker 1: real fast, and then I had to learn real real quick.

1507
01:21:26,479 --> 01:21:28,360
Speaker 1: And in the process of that, you might make a

1508
01:21:28,400 --> 01:21:31,040
Speaker 1: few mistakes you in there. And I never never had

1509
01:21:31,080 --> 01:21:33,280
Speaker 1: any problems with making the stallium, you know, I just

1510
01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:36,240
Speaker 1: it's just this social media stuff. It really just turned really,

1511
01:21:36,360 --> 01:21:39,360
Speaker 1: really really sour. You take this this social media part

1512
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:41,280
Speaker 1: out of it. We don't have a problem. I'm done

1513
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:43,240
Speaker 1: with that. You won't hear me mentioned making the stallium

1514
01:21:43,840 --> 01:21:45,800
Speaker 1: in the media the list, you know, I'm doing something

1515
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:47,720
Speaker 1: like this. Yeah, the sad thing about that. I think

1516
01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:51,800
Speaker 1: it's like too little, too late, social media read each

1517
01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:53,880
Speaker 1: other out. It's kind of like the relationship is done

1518
01:21:54,240 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 1: now to the point it's business. I'm sure when you

1519
01:21:56,479 --> 01:22:00,280
Speaker 1: finished her contract, she's out. Yeah, because I feel like,

1520
01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:02,760
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes it's hard run, you know, being in

1521
01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:04,479
Speaker 1: the business, in the contract and y'all don't like where

1522
01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 1: things is going. But things got taken too far with

1523
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:10,400
Speaker 1: that Tory situation, and that was your moment to really,

1524
01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:12,400
Speaker 1: you know what all this is going on with us

1525
01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:15,680
Speaker 1: business wise, But it's like her mental health. There was

1526
01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:17,200
Speaker 1: a lot of things going on with her, and that

1527
01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 1: was his moment to be like, you know what, let

1528
01:22:19,479 --> 01:22:21,360
Speaker 1: me take care of this girl. We started from day

1529
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:24,120
Speaker 1: one together. So, like you said, it's kind of too little,

1530
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:26,200
Speaker 1: too late. But I'm glad the truth finally came out

1531
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 1: with everything. And I really like prayers to her because

1532
01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 1: she went through a lot she did, like losing your

1533
01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:32,560
Speaker 1: mom and having to go through all this, like the

1534
01:22:32,680 --> 01:22:36,120
Speaker 1: world really turned on her. So I'm glad that the

1535
01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:37,960
Speaker 1: truth came out, and I just hope that her mental

1536
01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:40,800
Speaker 1: health is Like good, are you stealing in court? I'm

1537
01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 1: not sure. I don't think so. I don't know. I

1538
01:22:43,479 --> 01:22:46,559
Speaker 1: don't know what's going on with that far like they

1539
01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:49,240
Speaker 1: definitely it was a time to just not or you

1540
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:51,439
Speaker 1: could have just not said anything, right, you could have

1541
01:22:53,320 --> 01:22:58,040
Speaker 1: people egos. Yeah, it is interesting, like you know, you

1542
01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 1: see everybody apologize in the minor, but we know that

1543
01:23:02,200 --> 01:23:04,200
Speaker 1: if the verdict hat went another way, it wouldn't be

1544
01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:07,479
Speaker 1: that any of course not. But it's crazy because even

1545
01:23:07,520 --> 01:23:10,400
Speaker 1: though the verdict verdict was what it was, people were

1546
01:23:10,479 --> 01:23:12,600
Speaker 1: still being like, oh well, it's not that, it's not

1547
01:23:12,720 --> 01:23:14,920
Speaker 1: that like some people just like the same time down

1548
01:23:14,960 --> 01:23:19,720
Speaker 1: being wrong. Who said I think said eagle? Yeah, for sure.

1549
01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:22,080
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to just admit a I was wrong, you

1550
01:23:22,120 --> 01:23:24,519
Speaker 1: know what I mean? And sometimes people just gotta mind

1551
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:29,679
Speaker 1: your business until all the facts. So hard for people

1552
01:23:29,680 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 1: to do this because I gotta get these tweets all

1553
01:23:32,160 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 1: I gotta get this Instagram posting, these Instagram captions. Now,

1554
01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 1: come on, now, you know I wake up. You know

1555
01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 1: if people wake up in the morning, they got to

1556
01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:41,360
Speaker 1: feed their feed. Yeah, that's all it is. That's true.

1557
01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:45,400
Speaker 1: And be loud and wrong, loud and wrong, loud and wrong.

1558
01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:48,760
Speaker 1: A lot of people, oh me, and that is your

1559
01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:51,600
Speaker 1: rumor report. I want to shout out to Atlanta University

1560
01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:54,720
Speaker 1: a UCC. They're having their career fair. Uh, and you

1561
01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:56,240
Speaker 1: know I love going to talk to the college. It's

1562
01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:58,160
Speaker 1: about you know, what we do a pair and how

1563
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:00,640
Speaker 1: they can get into it. So I'm have conversation with

1564
01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:02,920
Speaker 1: them later on. And I just want to say one

1565
01:24:02,960 --> 01:24:06,320
Speaker 1: other thing this, Uh are you looking at me like

1566
01:24:06,400 --> 01:24:09,799
Speaker 1: that You're about to say something gay? This victim blaming

1567
01:24:09,840 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 1: of straight man has to stop that. I'm serious, it

1568
01:24:13,560 --> 01:24:19,040
Speaker 1: has to stop. Saucy Santana guy, Saucy baby trap that

1569
01:24:19,120 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 1: calls and all the time, I think they gave you

1570
01:24:20,960 --> 01:24:23,200
Speaker 1: some sound advice all Saucy said. Let me let me

1571
01:24:23,280 --> 01:24:27,200
Speaker 1: read what Saucy said. Want to put a plastic uh

1572
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:29,720
Speaker 1: piece in their mouth and blow. They should be able

1573
01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:34,479
Speaker 1: to do piece. That's who tip tip or the way.

1574
01:24:36,040 --> 01:24:38,760
Speaker 1: And I know NBA's Dominicans, So that's a Dominican, you

1575
01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:40,519
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like Dominicans in New York love

1576
01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:42,960
Speaker 1: to smoke hoogle. I believe it. So somebody posted a

1577
01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 1: picture look at it. Tell me on like a little

1578
01:24:44,479 --> 01:24:50,759
Speaker 1: batty right there. But that was like a five picture

1579
01:24:50,800 --> 01:24:53,519
Speaker 1: like that could be an album cover, right. DJ Shrimp

1580
01:24:55,680 --> 01:24:57,600
Speaker 1: posted this last night, and he said, envy not you

1581
01:24:57,680 --> 01:25:00,280
Speaker 1: blew the smoke out for the pick. I'm saying, bro,

1582
01:25:01,040 --> 01:25:03,960
Speaker 1: he said it like that. I'm sure he did. Okay,

1583
01:25:04,240 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 1: y'all gonna stop. Y're gonna leave you straight man alone.

1584
01:25:06,280 --> 01:25:07,960
Speaker 1: Let's straight man express and do what they want to

1585
01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:11,120
Speaker 1: do and allow them to grow to the surgeon Gerald,

1586
01:25:11,160 --> 01:25:13,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna listen to Saucy, said Tanner. Stop putting that

1587
01:25:13,680 --> 01:25:21,519
Speaker 1: little plastic tip to your mouth. Good that no one

1588
01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:24,840
Speaker 1: keep calling it the plastic one of you. If you

1589
01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:28,320
Speaker 1: saw one of your home girls, right, let's just say

1590
01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:32,400
Speaker 1: putting her mouth on a vibry. Okay, I've seen that before.

1591
01:25:32,560 --> 01:25:36,920
Speaker 1: You think wrong before, depend on what you mean by wrong.

1592
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, why would they be doing that? Why not?

1593
01:25:41,120 --> 01:25:43,080
Speaker 1: They might be making a video to send of somebody

1594
01:25:44,120 --> 01:25:46,600
Speaker 1: vibrate who exactly what it is? It's made out of

1595
01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:56,680
Speaker 1: the same material you who can just throw vibery. You

1596
01:25:56,720 --> 01:25:59,799
Speaker 1: see a man shaking the vibert that guy is crazy.

1597
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:04,599
Speaker 1: They got the lot. They got a lot of broom shaking.

1598
01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:06,439
Speaker 1: Who in the club and his mother to shake it

1599
01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:16,160
Speaker 1: to get that vibrating fitty straight man the breakfast club

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Speaker 1: and I first want to say thank you to everybody

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Speaker 1: that made season to a success. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: start naming folks because I'm gonna leave somebody out. But

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Speaker 1: if you listen, you help promote you shared. I appreciate

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Speaker 1: black history, not just in February, but all year long.

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Speaker 1: You did. Season one was February twenty twenty two, twenty

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Speaker 1: eight episodes. Season two February twenty twenty three, twenty eight

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Speaker 1: more episodes. You can find all fifty six episodes on

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Speaker 1: the Black Effect Podcast Network, So tap in. But I

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Speaker 1: would like to leave you with this. Did you know

1618
01:27:17,840 --> 01:27:20,560
Speaker 1: the KKK had their own language? Yes? Man, they be

1619
01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:23,799
Speaker 1: using words and acronyms and stuff. You can google KKK

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01:27:24,000 --> 01:27:27,439
Speaker 1: glossary and find some of these words. For example, a

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Speaker 1: kia ak i a that's a password. It means a clansman,

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01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:35,840
Speaker 1: I am. An alien is a person who does not

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01:27:35,960 --> 01:27:38,000
Speaker 1: belong to the clan. Now I don't really know how

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01:27:38,040 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 1: to pronounce this next one, but it's a yak. Is

1625
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:44,759
Speaker 1: that a yak ayak? Either way, it's a password meaning

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01:27:44,920 --> 01:27:47,599
Speaker 1: are you a clansman. You might hear two white dudes

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01:27:47,680 --> 01:27:50,400
Speaker 1: walk up. The one say iyak and the other one

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01:27:50,479 --> 01:27:54,000
Speaker 1: say ikia. He just said are you a clansman and

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01:27:54,120 --> 01:27:56,840
Speaker 1: the other one said a clansman? I am? And you

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01:27:56,960 --> 01:28:00,160
Speaker 1: had no clue why, because you are an alien, not

1631
01:28:00,240 --> 01:28:03,839
Speaker 1: part of the clan man. They got inner circles, imperial wizards,

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01:28:03,920 --> 01:28:07,400
Speaker 1: all types of Harry Potter normenclature, and they called themselves

1633
01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:11,040
Speaker 1: the Invisible Empire because they say they all over But

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01:28:11,200 --> 01:28:13,640
Speaker 1: you don't know who the hell is a clansman that

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01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:18,200
Speaker 1: makes them invisible until we meet again. Y'all be safe

1636
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Speaker 1: out there, because a lot of this stuff I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you didn't either. Get everybody in CJ n V

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Speaker 1: Scharlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club shout out

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Speaker 1: co host Drea and Lex p from the Poor Mind's

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Speaker 1: podcast for joining us this whole week, well not the

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Speaker 1: whole week, but Monday Enjoy. It was fun, it was fun,

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Speaker 1: we have a lot of stuff that we're working a

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Speaker 1: lot of exciting stuff. And what is what is Paul?

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Speaker 1: What is Peo? You are mean, poor month? What is it? Um? Playoff?

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Speaker 1: Because we'll be drinking you know, we need to drink

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Speaker 1: wine all the time. See next time we come back,

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Speaker 1: y'all gotta have some mimosas for us, a little morning mimosi.

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Speaker 1: We're good now, you got it on you if you do? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm doing the tour got and then we

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Speaker 1: got the Roots picnic. Of course we have some new

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Speaker 1: March coming out soon. And then I also have a

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Speaker 1: cosmetic line as well. Muse the beauty collection dot com.

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Speaker 1: It's huge or what if I got one in my parsonage. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's the one. I think this might be the Culler

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Speaker 1: you know he had glades. Okay, okay, but yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: doing really well. It's actually doing really well. I have

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Speaker 1: some new products that are actually about to come out,

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Speaker 1: um in like two weeks. Give me your instagrams and

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Speaker 1: everything too. My instagram is at Dre and Nicole with

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Speaker 1: three E so d R E A N I C

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Speaker 1: O L E E E yes, and you can follow

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Speaker 1: me at lex Underscore p Underscore and what's the poors Instagram?

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Speaker 1: And bo you are Underscore in my das We'll leave

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Speaker 1: it's on the Positive, Charlemagne, the Positive, No Man that

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Speaker 1: remind him about what's going on, Lanel Yes Man, and

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Speaker 1: I just want tell y'all tomorrow. Make sure to get

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Speaker 1: your tickets for the Black Effect Podcast Festival. Man Tickets

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Speaker 1: go on sale at twelve pm Saturday, April twenty second,

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Speaker 1: in Atlanta, Georgia at Pullman Yards, the first ever Black

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Speaker 1: Effect Podcast Festival to eighty five South show Horrible Decisions,

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Speaker 1: Big Facts, Reason will be Shady checking In with Michelle Williams,

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Speaker 1: hosted by myself and Jess Hilarious. So I'll definitely be

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Speaker 1: reminding y'all tomorrow to get them. Tickets at twelve pm Eastern.

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Speaker 1: Go to Black Effect dot com. Okay for more information.

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Speaker 1: All right, now, I want to tell y'all communicate, man,

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Speaker 1: we all need to talk more, Okay, because miscommunication leads

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Speaker 1: to misunderstanding, which rarely leads to anything good. A word,

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Speaker 1: breakface club finish for y'all dumb