1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: I inherited four hundred thousand dollars of my mom's money 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:07,119 Speaker 1: plus the house, and then I kicked out my stepdad 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: and his kids. 4 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 2: They're in a homeless shelter now, the a hole. You know. No, no, 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 2: you're totally good. You know you should, you know what 6 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: you should. 7 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 3: You should buy yourself a boat for being so swift 8 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 3: in your decision making. You should reward yourself for that, 9 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 3: of course, you know. 10 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you gotta when you have a windfall, Yeah, 11 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: you get to do two things YEA. 12 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: Treat yourself of course and over others. Wow. You know 13 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 2: that's that's. 14 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: The golden rule of being rich. Name one rich person 15 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 1: that does not treat themselves and over others. Jeff Bezos 16 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 1: treats himself, makes his employees be in a bottle. 17 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 2: Hello. 18 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: Warm Buffett treats himself to a mistress and a third partner. 19 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 1: Warm Buffett actually is is like polyamorous. Oh goodness over 20 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: his wife. 21 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 2: Hello. 22 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 3: Elon Musk buys Twitter, brings in a sink, and fires everybody. 23 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: Mark Zuckerberg goes to a jiu jitsu tournament and gets 24 00:00:58,040 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: his ass kicked though actually. 25 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 3: And he's also Lord of the Lizard people. He is 26 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 3: Lord of the Lizard people kind of bug Zuckerberg. At 27 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 3: the ju jitsu tournament, No, he went to just like 28 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 3: some random jiu jitsu tournament tournament and like face someone 29 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,199 Speaker 3: who's been practicing jiu jitsu? 30 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: Is that funny? 31 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: Like imagine like like going against Marc as you're tricking jjs. 32 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 3: He just hire like a thousand practice meat bags. Just 33 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 3: like all right, all right, Jeeves, Like come on, all right. 34 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: James, let's go, all right, let's get into it. They 35 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: went to a homeless shelter. I really don't know if 36 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: I'm the a hole in this case. My nineteen male 37 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: parents divorced when I was six. My mom got a boyfriend, Josh, 38 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: and they started living together when I was nine. He 39 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: had twin daughters who were four when they moved in. 40 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: Their mother was not in their lives anymore. 41 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 2: Sad. 42 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom took them in as their own. I 43 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: admit that I was a little jealous because they had 44 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: her full time and me only fifty percent of the time. 45 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: I think my mom loved them more too. 46 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 2: Ouch. 47 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, pavoitism. I was a quiet kid most of 48 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: my time in my room when my mom had me. 49 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: I didn't want any siblings, and my mom tried to 50 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: no avail. I swear Josh was just dumping it in 51 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:13,079 Speaker 1: my mom on a daily basis, but nothing came of it. 52 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: Oh geez, something came of Josh. Something came from Josh. 53 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:19,839 Speaker 1: Josh came to be clear in my mom. To set 54 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: the record straight, To set the record straight. My mom 55 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: was filled like a cream donut, but had no children, 56 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: oh besides me, who was a failure. By the time 57 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: I was sixteen, I rarely spent any time at my 58 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: mom's place, and when I went to college, I got 59 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 1: an apartment even though my mom lived in the same 60 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: city as my college. My mom tragically passed in December 61 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: because Josh and her never got married for some reason, 62 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 1: I inherited everything, including her house. 63 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 3: Wow, just the default. W Yeah, damn my goodness. 64 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: Hey, you might have not been your your mom's favorite 65 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: fake child, but at least you got the money. 66 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 2: Come. Money's better than love. That's what they always say, right, 67 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 2: that's what they always say. 68 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 1: They say they can't you can't buy money. Yeah, you 69 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: can't buy love. 70 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 2: Nope. 71 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: But it's better to have money and be inloved than 72 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: to be unloved and not have money exactly what they 73 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: say exactly. So if you're not going to be loved 74 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: by your mother, at least you have her money. That's right, 75 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: silver lining. My mom died, but at least I got 76 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 1: all our money. 77 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 2: Did I hope say that? Huh? Did say that? 78 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: No? 79 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 2: No, that's what he's thinking. I was like, my goodness, Sophie. 80 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: I allowed Josh and the kids to still live there, 81 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: which I guess they were living in the mom's house, right. 82 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 1: I paid half the bills as he is struggling because 83 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: of a low paying job at least ends in December, 84 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: and decided to move into my house after I sat 85 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: down with Josh and told him I was moving in January. 86 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: Since this is my house, I will take the bedroom 87 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: and he will move into my old room, which low key, 88 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: way more like, way nicer than what I thought was 89 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: going to happen. 90 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 91 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought he was going to be like, yo, 92 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: just get the fuck out. Yes, my house, my rules. 93 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: I want to masturbate in every single room. 94 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: I need my Pokemon cards room. I need my sleeping room. 95 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: Yep, I need my my cuddle room. Yep, got a 96 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: cuddle Oh yeah you do. Yeah, if you come to 97 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: the house. You're cuddling. Yeah, thanks for fifteen minutes. 98 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 3: There's no way that I'm going to be the little spoon. 99 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: M M big spoon all the way. Yeah went that 100 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: booty pressed into my ball sack. 101 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 3: Uh oh. 102 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: He started crying how his bedroom in his safe space 103 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: and all my mom's things are there, which gives him peace. 104 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: Where else am I going to put your mom's de collections? 105 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 2: We are terrible humans. I told him he can move 106 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 2: a few of her things to my old room. My 107 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: room is one third of the bedroom. 108 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 1: He started crying even more and say he doesn't want 109 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: to abandon their bedroom. It's all like, I don't want 110 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 1: to aband in the bedroom. If you take a black 111 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: light in there, it looks like the night sky. 112 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 3: Brings me peace thinking of her all the way up 113 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 3: there in the c Yeah. 114 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that spot right there, that's when your mother and 115 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: I tried that new position. Oh man, Mark, that's spot 116 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: over there. That's when we introduced bluetoo into the bedroom. 117 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 1: God in forever change from there forever Change. I heard 118 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: about it from okop Wow. I was pretty pissed at 119 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: that moment, so I told him to get out of 120 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: the house. 121 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 2: As I don't have the energy to deal with his kit. Yeah. 122 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: I've since cooled down. But three days later he sent 123 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: me a message to notify me where he left his 124 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: keys and that they moved out, which I feel like 125 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: it escalated kind of fast. 126 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 2: It escalated super like. 127 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 1: He's like, hey, you can stay in the other room. 128 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: He's like, oh, like I'm really sad, Like he's just 129 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 1: like sad about like. 130 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 2: His partner dying. Yeah, yeah, I didn't like that room 131 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 2: special to him. 132 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: And then he's like, actually I don't want to give 133 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: you my room, get the out of here. 134 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. 135 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: Like that basically does not seem like an escalator, Like 136 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: that seems like a rather fast fast. He might be 137 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: a little a hole right there. Oh so all right. 138 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: Three days later he sent me a message to notify 139 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: me where he left his keys and that they moved out, 140 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 1: and I found out that they moved to a homeless shelter. 141 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 2: Good job, good job, buddy. 142 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: I would feel like a massive a toll of that outlet, 143 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: just a complete piece of kid. Yeah, because it's not 144 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: like it doesn't seem like the dad, the stepdad is 145 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: like necessarily a bad. 146 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 2: Guy or anything. 147 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 3: No, I think there's so much going on in so many, 148 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 3: so much. 149 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: He's trying to deal with the process. 150 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so there's more to the story. I got 151 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: messages from my mom's side of the family how I 152 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,919 Speaker 1: am heartless and cruel to kick them out, how the 153 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: twins lost mom and home in less than a year. 154 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: The twins texted me they can't believe their own brother 155 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: made them homeless and asked me what they did wrong. 156 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 1: My dad and his family told me I did nothing wrong. 157 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: I do feel bad for them, but I still think 158 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 1: I decide who gets what room in my house? Am 159 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: I the a hole? And there is an update? There 160 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: is an update, But John, what do you think? 161 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 2: I mean? Like it is Opie's house. But he is 162 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 2: making them hobless. 163 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 3: So sometimes you know your ash catch him. You're going 164 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 3: through all the bushes, all of the grass, all of 165 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 3: the miscellaneous places, and then something starts shaking and then 166 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 3: it pops up a tight sphinctered Harry A hole I 167 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 3: think we might have run into as of right now. 168 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 2: No, p that is the a hole. Really, That's what 169 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 2: I'm saying right now. 170 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: I don't think Ope, he is an a hole for 171 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: telling the people to move out. I think like it 172 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: is his place, and I think eventually he can say that, 173 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: but to do it so suddenly seems like a dick move, 174 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: especially to his sister, like like, I give it some time. 175 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, there's I feel like there's a configuration 176 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 3: that can totally work and kind of at least kind 177 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 3: of like a pease and and maybe it's, you know, 178 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 3: a temporary thing three six miles I don't know. 179 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 1: Give them some time to work something out so they 180 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: don't have to go to a homeless shelter. My goodness, 181 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: And like, how heartbreaking to hear from your sisters, like 182 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: what did we do wrong? 183 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 3: Oh? 184 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: I mean that would yeah wo killed me? But I 185 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: guess if you're an athle, you're impervious feelings. Yeah, okay, 186 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: but there is an update. Let's get into it. I 187 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: will call Josh and ask them to meet. I will 188 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: try to sort things through and I hope you will 189 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: come to an agreement. Also, some more info. I let 190 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: them live in the house and paid half the bill 191 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: as a way to share with them. I will probably 192 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: give them what's left of my mom's savings after the 193 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: lawsuit is completed. I left that money alone because my 194 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: mom was responsible for an accident and left one person disabled. 195 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: He is suing me right now, I think I am generous. 196 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: And also some more info. Josh didn't get any inheritance 197 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: and is struggling with money, so the least I can 198 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,239 Speaker 1: do was help them out with that. They live rent 199 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: free and half the utilities paid. Now a lot of 200 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 1: people may wonder where I get the money from. My 201 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: dad is actually paying for my apartment and house utilities. 202 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: Mom did have savings, but the civil lawsuit is pending, 203 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,559 Speaker 1: so it might be taken up. Okay, okay, So now 204 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: there's an update. 205 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: Ten days later. 206 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: Oh, a lot has happened since my first post. We 207 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 1: had first a mediation meeting about the lawsuit. 208 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 2: And we reached an agreement. There we go. 209 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 1: I will have to pay one fourth of the savings 210 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 1: my mom left to me, which is a lot less 211 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: than I thought. I met with Josh a day later 212 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: after my post. It went well unexpected. I apologize for 213 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: my hot headed response. I told him I didn't really 214 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: mean it and invited them back into my home. He 215 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: told me no, no, yeah, no, explain. He admitted that 216 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: it was actually very hard for him to live there. 217 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: He saw my mom everywhere he looked and it was 218 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: hard for him. He took my kicking them out as 219 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: an opportunity to leave the house without his daughters resenting him. 220 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: He basically made me the bad guy, and he apologized 221 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,359 Speaker 1: for that. He didn't know his daughters called my grandparents 222 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: and me when he found out. He confessed to his 223 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: daughters and to my grandparents what he told me. I 224 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: don't care either way about my grandparents as we have 225 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 1: no relationship. 226 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 2: I'll give a shit about my grandfather. Get out of 227 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 2: the old beg of bones thing. 228 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: I feel like Opie is a little better to day. 229 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: He can just like really, how he found out, my 230 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: dad talked to him before me. My dad wanted to 231 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 1: help him, so he called him. He even got Josh 232 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: ten free sessions with his good friend who's a gree therapist. 233 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: And it's my dad that convinced him to talk to me. 234 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: My dad is my hero and in this case is 235 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,439 Speaker 1: the real master of the puppet. So Josh will move 236 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: in temporarily to my grandparents. Talk to my dad about 237 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: the money. I decided to give Josh the rest of 238 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: my mom's savings. Wow, that's seventy five percent of what was. 239 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 2: Left after Wow. After the settlement. Yeah, at one hundred 240 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 2: percent of what was left after this. Okay, yeah, one 241 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 2: hundred percent of what oh he would have received. Yeah, 242 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 2: my goodness. 243 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 1: Okay, he can buy a nice apartment and still has 244 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: some leftover. He can buy an apartment. That's pretty like outright, 245 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: that's insane. 246 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 2: Josh can Yeah. Wow. 247 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 1: Josh was very happy and thank me over and over again. 248 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: I did it for the peace of mind. We probably 249 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 1: won't have much of a relationship moving forward. For me, 250 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 1: this is a chapter of my life that is closed. 251 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: I will probably sell the house after my graduation from college. 252 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: It has no sentimental meaning to me. 253 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: OPI is like the least sentimental person ever. 254 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: Kicks out his sisters to the street, yep, doesn't have 255 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: any relationship with his grand bears. 256 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 2: Like, ah, Stepdad's out of my life. 257 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 3: After this, he goes goes into the house of his 258 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 3: mother and he's like, I don't see anything. 259 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 2: I want to sell it, putting that cash in my pocket. 260 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, I mean, okay, all right. I want to 261 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 1: know all of you think, like, is OPI the a 262 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: hole or not? Did he redeem himself by the end, 263 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: and what what would you have done? 264 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 2: As well? 265 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: You have done, Like if if your mom, Like if 266 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: your mom died left you with a bunch of money 267 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: and your stepdad was struggling and was living in the house, 268 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: Like would you kick him out? 269 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 2: Would you give them money? 270 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 3: Like? 271 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: What would you do in this situation? I want to know, 272 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: But John, I'll pass it to you. Who is the 273 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: A hole and what would you have done? 274 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 3: This is one of the rarest kinds of stories. I 275 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 3: think op was the a hole in the beginning. Yeah, 276 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 3: and then OPI kind of redeemed himself. 277 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that is in the first half, but 278 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: he brought it home in the sid Yeah, So I 279 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: will say that op Op was was not the a hole. 280 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 3: Honestly, can't quite give it to him. You can almost 281 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 3: almost give a hole to to Josh the step dad, 282 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 3: because because he lied to his children and brought them 283 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:05,679 Speaker 3: into a homeless shelter to try and kind of save 284 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 3: face from them, when I feel like he could have 285 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 3: like he. 286 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: Could have pushed back and be like please, like let 287 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 1: me stay for a little bit. 288 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 3: Let me stay, or just like I don't know the 289 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 3: grandparents were willing to take him in there. 290 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's just like just like I think 291 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:18,199 Speaker 2: he Okay. 292 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 3: Maybe he was like, Okay, like I can handle the 293 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: homeless shelter, but have your kids go through that. 294 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 2: I mean, that's not a good environment, you know what 295 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 2: I mean. 296 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 3: So I'm not going to give it to him, but 297 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 3: you could one could, I think, make an argument. 298 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: Finally, a little bit of the Ale which he admits to, 299 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: which he admits that he made a bad move. 300 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:35,079 Speaker 2: What would I do? 301 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 3: I I would have I would have let Honestly, I 302 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 3: think I would have let Josh stay. Yeah, I don't 303 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 3: think I would have given him all of the money. 304 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 3: So I would have been I think more generous than 305 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 3: OP he was in the beginning, but not as generous 306 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 3: as OPI was toward the end. 307 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. 308 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 1: I mean I would just wait long enough to get 309 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: for Josh to get on his feet. 310 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 311 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: Like I like if if if my mom left the 312 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 1: money to me, then my mom left the money to me, 313 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,559 Speaker 1: right title to it. Yeah, like to help Josh add 314 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: a little bit, but yeah, one hundred percent of it. 315 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 2: Is I would say, overly generous. 316 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 3: Yeah right, Yeah, maybe maybe he's trying to kind of 317 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 3: maybe he kind of knows he's like. The other thing too, 318 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 3: is like OPI just has kind of like a whole 319 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 3: jerky vibes. Yeah, he's like, I don't want this guy 320 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 3: in my life anymore. This money is yeah, this money 321 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 3: is worth never having to talk to this dude again. 322 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,319 Speaker 2: Wow, what a story, What a story? 323 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: I mean, let us know what you would do, and 324 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: also like, thanks for just not being an a hole. 325 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: We love you and we feel sentimentally towards you, so 326 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 1: give us that love right back, give us a big 327 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 1: thumbs up, and just tell us how you feel. Put 328 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: it in the comments. Come on right there, right there, 329 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: tippy tap on your little cute little fingers so you 330 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 1: know what you're thinking. 331 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 2: We love you. I see you next time. I told my. 332 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: Mom that I was in labor for sixteen months and 333 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: then got the punishment. 334 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 2: Of a lifetime. 335 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 1: Oh, my brother eighteen and I sixteen, female are in 336 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: the same year, both in year twelve, and when we 337 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: used to go to the same school not anymore, thankfully, 338 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: people used to ask us if we were twins, and 339 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: I'd explain that no, I skipped a year. 340 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 2: Pretty much everyone. 341 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: Got confused and people always thought we were twins, and 342 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: I got tired of explaining, so I just gave up 343 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 1: and told everyone yeah, we're twins. I'd explain it, then 344 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: once more I'd get asked by the same people what 345 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: it was like to have a twin. I just got 346 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: tired of it. We've been in different schools for three 347 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: years now. I've mentioned I was sixteen a billion times, 348 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: and I thought everyone knew it was just a thing. 349 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: I say, as then they're likely to work it out 350 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: that he is eighteen. It's a running joke in my 351 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: whole school. People asked me, how's your twin. It's a joke. 352 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: Basically. 353 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: A girl who came from my brother's school kept asking 354 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 1: what my birthday was, so I told her, and she 355 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: gave me a confused look and said, but his is 356 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: in November. I guess she didn't realize I was sixteen, 357 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: and I was not in a moved to explain it. 358 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: I was in the middle of homework and she found 359 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: me in the library, so I said, yeah, my mom 360 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: was in labor for months. 361 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 2: And that was that. She f and believed me. 362 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 3: She's just sitting there, which is a baby just freaking 363 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 3: dangling out of there. 364 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 2: You know. 365 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 1: Her mom ended up calling my mom because the whole 366 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: school is making fun of her for believing my mother 367 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 1: was in labor for months, and her mom started complaining 368 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: to my mother, who got mad at me for not 369 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: explaining the joke to her. My brother thinks it's Evan hilarious. 370 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: He laughed about it for absolute ages and told her 371 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: whole family and his whole school, how this school must 372 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 1: be pretty small to like tell everyone in the school 373 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: all these ye In my defense, who the f would 374 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 1: believe that ridiculous? 375 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 2: Okay, the eight