WEBVTT - Harvard Grad Bennett Stops By 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:05.600 What's up, Bachelor Happy Hour listeners? You know what today is? 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:09.480 It's Wednesday, and you know what that means. Wednesday. Wednesdays 0:00:09.480 --> 0:00:13.480 have a new meaning this go around with the Bacherette season, 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:17.200 but like very fitting, very fitting for twenty twenty. So 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:21.040 it's Wednesday, and that means that another Bachelorette episode aired 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:23.640 last night, and that means we owe you a recap 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:27.280 and something that you can't get on other podcasts, but 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:31.440 you can't get here on Bachelor Happy Hour. Another guest, 0:00:31.800 --> 0:00:35.000 not a guest you've heard from before, A new guest, 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:39.280 a new contestant from this Bacherette season. So you guys, 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:41.720 don't worry, because we have both of those coming up 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:44.479 for you very shortly. We're going to kick off this podcast, 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:47.519 of course, with a recap of last night's episode of 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:50.800 the Bachelorette, and then we'll have a very very special 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:53.000 guest joining us, somebody that I think you guys are 0:00:53.040 --> 0:00:55.880 really really gonna want to hear from for multiple reasons, right, 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:57.880 But this is a first for us, Becca because a 0:00:57.960 --> 0:01:00.560 first because we've never talked to this person before, but 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:05.960 also first because it's the first ever Harvard graduate coming 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:09.559 on the podcast. Yes, Rachel I'm so happy you dropped 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:12.200 the age bomb because if there's one thing we know 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:15.680 about Bennett, and I think it's at this point, probably 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:18.280 the only thing we know about Bennett is it's that 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:20.200 he went to Harvard, And so, I know, did I 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:21.640 ever tell you that I used to date a guy 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:26.000 from Harvard? What happened back? You know, I answer your question, no, 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:29.320 you did it. So like I have a soft spot 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:33.320 in my heart for Bennett because yeah, he uh years 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:36.039 ago before I went on on Aris season. I call 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:39.160 him what is it called, like the one that got away? 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:41.840 Like the white Rhino. It's like the one that got away. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:45.480 Probably you should not even be adviting that on here, 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:50.240 but um, yeah, well, if you're listening Harvard, you know, No, 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:53.560 he's in a very happy relationship and I truly want 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:56.360 the best for him. So it all worked out. But yeah, 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:59.320 back to Bennett, my other Harvard man in the life. 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.560 I'm I'm excited to have him on, not only to 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:05.480 get his thoughts on last night's episode, but I really 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:07.200 want to quiz him a little bit. You know, he 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:10.639 went to Harvard. I'm hoping he's good at tests, but 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:13.040 we will see. So we'll wait for the quiz at 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:16.639 the end. M we know he knows a lot about finance, 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:20.560 obviously face masks. Also, where what did he call his 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:25.359 home Chateau Day Bennett? Is that where he's living at Laquita? 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:28.799 I can't It's almost like it's ruined when you say 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:34.639 Chateau Day Laquinta. It's just like Rose the whole thing. 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:37.280 You know what I want to ask Spin it how 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:39.720 the hell did you get on this show? Like why 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:44.079 are you here? The number one question at the top 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:46.120 of the episode before we always kick it off of 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:48.000 like how are you doing? How are you hanging in? 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.320 Like during quarantine? But I just think we need to know, 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:52.840 like how the hell he got on about Shirrette. I'm 0:02:52.919 --> 0:02:58.000 very intrigued to know the why, the why behind the Bennett. Yes, um, 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:00.720 so you know he knows a lot about out some things, 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:03.200 but we do have to give him a lesson to 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.480 see how well he knows her bad short Claire Crawley. 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.519 So we have that coming up. But before all that, 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:13.600 we have to dig into last night's episode. And you know, 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:16.000 at this point original I just have to start this 0:03:16.120 --> 0:03:21.400 recap with is it Claire season or is it Dale's season? Well, 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:24.679 I mean it's both of their seasons, you know. I mean, 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:28.799 it's it's the Clarien Dale Show. And I can't even 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:31.400 imagine what it was like to be there and live 0:03:31.440 --> 0:03:34.400 it because we're watching it, and I know we're watching 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:35.839 it in a way that the men who were living 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:40.120 there didn't get to see it, but it's so painfully obvious. 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:43.720 So yeah, we're watching the Clarendal Show. Yeah, you know, 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:47.400 I mean, aside from Dale. We start the episode with 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:52.560 Clarien Joseph. Obviously, last week before this episode aired, we 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:57.120 saw Yoseph bashing on the Dodgeball date and the stripping 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.840 of it, and you know, in our minds were like, 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.160 why does he care he's not on this date? Like 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.160 the men could have said no if they didn't want 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:08.720 to do this. Whatever, What were your thoughts on the 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:11.560 I just want to ask your thoughts on the way 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:17.280 you thought Joseph handled the interaction. If you guys could 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:21.120 see my face, let me let me just think for 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:25.920 a second, because the only notes I took we're during 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:30.800 the top of this episode with Joseph. Okay, Joseph is 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:36.919 his entire speech. I just people, A lot of my 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:39.320 friends like to say that I'm the type of person 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:43.200 where when something's going down, whether it be myself or 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:45.719 my friends, I'm that person who's like, I'm sorry, excuse me, 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.960 do we have a problem? Like when most people run 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:51.440 away from confrontation. I love it, Okay. I love to 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:56.279 like approach the situation head on. I would love to 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:59.760 have been clear in this moment. Oh love to have 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:01.640 But but you know what, but Claire didn't need me 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:04.320 because Claire definitely handled it on her own. I love 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:09.559 that about her. But anyways, Okay, Joseph when he said 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:12.640 I know that, you know we're supposed to be here 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.080 for you, and you said that, but you're here for us, 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:17.840 I know everything I need to know about Joseph in 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:25.800 that statement. What a self centered, selfish asshole he is. 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:30.719 I mean, he's controlling, he's dominating, he's manipulative. It is. 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:33.000 He is truly a scary man. Like there were so 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:36.080 many red flags. It's problematic. Like was it good TV? Yes? 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:38.840 Have we been building up to this for two episodes 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:41.680 to finally get to this moment? Yes, But in my 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:45.080 mind I kept thinking how problematic his behavior is, and 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:48.680 it's actually quite scary more than it is entertaining. Claire 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:52.320 was trying to relate to him, and he was talking 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:54.640 about how he feels, and he was saying his daughter 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:57.000 and how he sacrifices time, and she was like, yeah, 0:05:57.000 --> 0:06:01.960 I know. She said my mother is dying, and he 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:06.719 shushed her. Ladies, this is like, this is a prototype 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:08.640 of what you need to run away from there. So 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:12.240 you could literally take yusef Joseph. I'm not I don't 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.599 even give a fuck about pronouncing his say. You could 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:18.200 literally take him as a prototype of what not to 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:21.760 look for in a man. He shushed her. He didn't say, 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:23.880 I'm so sorry about that, you know, like, and I 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:25.920 definitely want to keep talking to you about that, but 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:27.480 you know, I just want to I want to continue 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:28.840 because I don't want to lose my thought. But I 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:30.520 obviously want to talk to you about your mother because 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:32.680 I can only imagine how hard that is. Didn't say 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:34.839 that shushed her so he could speak because he said, 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.480 I'm talking. Blair held her composure, totally shocked by that. 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:41.480 Didn't respond to her mom not go ahead, Oh god, 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:43.440 oh no, I was gonna say everything you're saying that. 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:46.080 Like the one note I took was when she made 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.200 that comment about her mom and he goes, I'm speaking 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:51.560 right now, and I was like, you do realize you're 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:53.760 on the show called the bauch Shorrette, and she is 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.960 the bouch Schhorrette and you truly are here for her. 0:06:57.200 --> 0:07:00.520 And when a woman is talking about anyone who's or 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:03.520 ill or sick or trying to relate to you, do 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:07.400 not shush them. Oh, it was so bad. This man 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:10.200 doesn't know how to relate to people. He doesn't know 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.480 how to empathize. I don't want to touch on the 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:15.720 relationship he has with his daughter, but my gosh, like 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:19.840 he has such problematic behavior. I swear, if you live 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:24.920 in Joseph's town, State Towny, you need to be putting 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:28.880 up pictures of him everywhere that says beware of the dog, 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:34.240 dangerous dog in town. This man is dangerous. And what 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.520 really got me is not just how he was talking 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:39.240 to her to her face when she got up and 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:41.480 she told him to get out, and you could tell 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:43.600 she was just she was grimacing. She was she was 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.720 trying to be classy about the situation, but she was seething. 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:50.160 He still continued to talk to her while she was 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:54.000 walking away, he was following her. This was truly alarming 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:57.200 to me, so alarming. I mean, it's I've never seen 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:59.600 anything like it on the show. We thought Luke Pe 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:03.680 was bad. Oh god well, And the part that I 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:09.160 can't fathom is like he was getting that angry on 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:11.760 something he was not even part of, Like he wasn't 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:14.320 even on that date. He did not witness it. He 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:17.000 did not see the interactions between Clear and the men. 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:19.400 So for him to get that mad over something he 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:22.640 wasn't even involved in that wasn't affecting him baffles me 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:24.960 because then I think, what if he was part of 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:27.240 something like that, Like how angry would he actually be 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:29.640 if he took part in it? Like, it's just it's 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:33.880 very scary, very scary behavior. Thank god she sent his 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:36.440 ass packing, like, and I'm glad that the guys all 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:38.280 her to go down to where they could have her back. 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:41.040 And of course Dale as the night in shining armor 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:44.760 for her. What you know, my notes say, where the 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:48.200 fuck did Dell come from? I literally wrote that in 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:51.120 my notes out of nowhere. I put my head down 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:54.200 for something and I look up and then there's Dell 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.599 And I was like, okay, you know there were I 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.880 didn't like it. I gotta be honest, obviously they sent 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:03.120 and Dell. She was really distraught. She was upset rightfully, 0:09:03.200 --> 0:09:06.520 so he said some really terrible things to her, and 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:09.199 they wanted her to feel good about herself, and they 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:11.640 wanted her to feel comforted. And they know they knew 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:14.840 how she felt about Dell. I get it, but just 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:18.360 being there, like when I'm thinking that, when I'm thinking 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:21.760 about this from them other men and their perspective, they 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:24.280 were there to comfort her. You know, they saw it. 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.880 They took up for her. One guy was like, man 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.360 like I'm about to Like he looked like he was 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:32.040 gonna fight Joseph. I really wish they would have let 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:35.000 that happen like that's like somebody like Joseph meets their 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:37.600 ass beach just like one good time. So you know, 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:39.960 you don't need to continue talking about that. Let me 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:41.760 just put you in your place one good time. But no, 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:45.040 I thought that there were so many men there that 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:47.760 also wanted to do that for her, and I think 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:50.480 it would have been just as great for her to 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:53.280 feel that it's not just one man that wants to 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:55.600 be here for you. There's several men that want to 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:58.280 have your back and let you know your worth. Yeah, 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:01.920 missed opportunity, and it's like it was the beginning of 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:03.800 me just feeling really bad for the rest of the 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:08.000 men this entire episode, to be honest, and I wonder, 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:10.120 and I even was thinking when I was watching Dale 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:11.840 walk in, I was like, I wonder if they would 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:15.160 have sent another man in, would she have formed a 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:18.640 somewhat strong connection with this other man? Like it just 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:22.120 but yeah, like I said, the beginning, the beginning of 0:10:22.160 --> 0:10:26.680 the Dale show took place that in there. So basically 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:29.400 what we see come next is Dianna comes in the 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:33.319 next day, has a girl chat with Claire. Dianna who 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.160 what she did? She say, bachelor atte twelve years ago, 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:39.120 thirteen years ago. I didn't get the number, but it's 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:42.680 it's definitely more than you know, yeah, ten years. But 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:45.000 I think it was good. I think she needed some 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:47.640 girl time to just clear her head after all of 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:49.920 the Joseph drama from the night before. But of course 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:54.080 Gosh is about about Dale and makes a comment when 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:56.679 you know, you know, and Dianna bach rip because I 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.440 think when Dianna met her husband she said the same thing. 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:05.200 So I mean, the show it isn't even trying to 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:08.920 cover up like how how can you there's no I 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.560 just at this point, I'm just watching it all this 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:14.480 go down, and I'm like, oh man, the woman has 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:20.040 his pants. Okay, it's like another lost opportunity. How declare 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:22.880 get his pants? Did she get them? Did he take 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:27.520 them off in front of her? To her he was 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:33.400 he wasn't on the dodgeball day? Oh how declare get 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:35.920 the pants? But they had a bow on them too, 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.160 That's what gobby is. They still had a bow. And 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:43.319 these Peo women are smelling his pants because he's probably 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:45.439 sprayed them with cologne. I think I've told you this before, 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:47.520 that there Brian gave me when we went to the 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:50.960 Ellen Show. He gave me his Ellen underwear and sprayed 0:11:51.000 --> 0:11:52.960 the one says cologne and wrapped him up as a 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.440 present day. It was a deleted scene. They didn't show it, 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:58.120 thank god, because people really would have been talking about Brian. 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:00.720 I still have those Ellen underwear. I loved it, and 0:12:00.760 --> 0:12:02.640 I would keep them with me when we travel because 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:05.040 I could smell Brian. So I get it, Claire, but 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:07.520 I'm more mad than we don't have the story behind 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:09.800 the pants. Did he spend the night with you? Did 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:12.800 he strip down in front of you, Claire, we need 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:18.160 to know the answers. What I thought was funny in 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:22.160 this moment though, too, was that she's talking about Dell 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:25.120 and the men are waiting for her to go on 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:28.320 a group date, and they're all talking about like, you know, 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:31.080 she knows what she wants, like she knows what she wants, 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.400 and I'm like, you, guys, Claire wants you to go home, 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:35.840 Like that's really what she wants. And it's sad to 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:39.839 see the juxtaposition of them hopeful about what could possibly 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:42.760 be and that she got rid of a Joseph so 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:44.800 it's like now she can concentrate on the men that 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:46.640 are here, and it's like, no, she's just concentrating on 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:50.079 the man, the one person. Yeah, it was so funny 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:53.160 to me, and it's so sad because going into this 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:55.520 group date, I mean, obviously the date DA didn't happen 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:59.080 because she's with Diana talking about daily entire time. Let 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:03.000 me just for anyone listening, like the show, especially when 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:06.040 you're a contestant, is so much stop and go. There 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:09.040 is so much waiting around to begin with, like you 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:12.320 were constantly just waiting. There's already enough waiting and the 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:14.320 fact that they had to wait. I think they mentioned 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:17.880 like three or four extra hours thinking that they were 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:19.800 going to go on this state and just sitting there, 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:22.920 I would have, honestly, I would have done one or 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:25.360 two things. I would have lost my mind and probably 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:28.559 like gone berserko, or I would have just fallen asleep 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.559 and we're like, well, wake me up whenever in seventeen 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:35.320 hours when the state is actually happening, it's so sad, Yeah, 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:39.040 to make them wait, And you know, I feel like 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.440 I'm at this point where like I'm trying to see 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:44.160 both sides, Like kudos to Claire for knowing what she 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:47.120 wants and you know, like trying to figure out what's 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.559 best for her heart, but also too, there's still are 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:51.960 twenty plus men who are waiting to get to know 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.560 you and waiting for conversations and to have this time, 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:58.760 and I'm just feeling so bad for them. Yeah, it 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:01.880 must have sucked to been on this, like to been 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:04.800 a dude unless you were Dale. Right, for you, Dale, 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:07.400 it was fantastic, you know, like you and Claire it 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:09.760 was often it was great. But if you were the 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:12.679 other man, it must have sucked. You knew you weren't 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:15.240 one and you didn't get to travel. You know, you're 0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:18.720 getting COVID tested every few days. You don't even get 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:20.920 to live in the mansion. You don't get to run 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:23.680 around and do things like you normally would. It's almost 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:27.000 like you were trapped. Like the Bachelor bubble is something 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.600 we used to talk about as like a metaphor, but 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:33.400 now it's an actual thing. That's all I kept thinking, geez, 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:36.440 it really must suck to be on this season. I 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:39.800 hope all these men, you know, whoever Claire doesn't choose, 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:41.880 I hope you go to Paradise so you can get 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:44.320 some type of experience as to what this show is about, 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:47.520 or just reapply, or just like some sort of conversation 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:51.960 with a person of the opposite sex, because I feel 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:53.840 like these men at this point aren't really getting it 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:55.840 with Claire. And it's so sad because they wait, wait, 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:58.320 wait all day, and then what happened at night? They 0:14:58.360 --> 0:15:00.880 go to this cocktail party and who does she spend 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:05.760 the entire night with Dale? Like yes, it's a fact. 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:09.720 Oh my god. I was cringing when Easy walks to 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:12.400 her room and Dale was already in there and he 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.960 just just tried to have a conversation and she had like, 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:19.040 oh at that point, I'm like, it's done, it's over now, 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:22.560 this is what I want to talk about. Honestly, you guys, 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:26.560 this was the most entertaining part to me more than Joseph. 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:29.280 And you know why because we had seen it tease 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:31.920 for weeks and weeks and weeks. Okay, he's an asshole, Great, 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:35.040 we got him out of here. This part with Dell, 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.400 not the time he spent with her, the bs that 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:41.720 he spit out to the guys, and then that Claire 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:44.240 didn't get to see. This to me was the most 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:48.400 entertaining thing because it's something we haven't we don't really 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:52.080 know about, right, Like we haven't. This isn't a rumor 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:55.280 that's been out there. This isn't hasn't really been teased 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:58.720 that much. So Claire, I'm Claire. That's what I was 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:02.600 about to call you. Becca. What were your thoughts with 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:06.760 the way Dale handled this entire group day start to finish? 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:11.080 So I'm not gonna lie. He really started to rub 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:12.680 me the wrong way. And I want to say this, 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:17.240 I think the way that he handled himself with the 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:19.720 men when they confronted him after the time, when he's 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:21.320 like oh, I went to the bathroom and then I 0:16:21.360 --> 0:16:24.200 didn't know where she was, and like the BSD spending 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.800 it felt very very juvenile and immature to me, Like 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:30.760 and that's why I think it was easy or Riley 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:32.120 that called him out and they're like, dude, if you 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:34.280 just want to spend time with her, just say that 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:36.520 we get why you're here, Like, don't beat around the 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:39.720 bush and dance around the fact that like you into 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:41.800 the bathroom when you didn't know, but like you just 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:44.160 spent forty five minutes with her. I just it felt 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:46.640 very immature to me, which I wasn't expecting from him, 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:48.800 to be honest, because I feel like he's been so 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:53.360 hyped up this entire time. If you were Claire and 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:56.440 you've seen this episode, because at this point you have right, 0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:59.200 Claire didn't get to see this in person. If you're Claire, 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:04.080 if you let's do hypothetically speaking, you chose del and 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:07.840 you saw this same, would you be concerned after this? Yes? 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:12.159 I would I And if I was in that position, 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:14.640 I would hope that she's had these conversations with him. 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:16.560 But yeah, I think I think the part that would 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:19.640 rub me the wrong way because I'm all about friendships 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:22.400 and maintaining a certain level of respect and honesty, and 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:26.080 to see how he was with the other men would 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:27.919 completely rub me the wrong way, and I would have 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:31.159 questions because it's like, I want somebody who respects the 0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:33.800 people he's around, who gets along with them, who can 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:38.199 maintain friendships, and it just it felt so off, like 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:40.320 it felt like he was trying to please Claire and 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:43.760 the guys, and it just like I understand he was 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:46.720 put in an awkward position, and it wasn't he was 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:50.760 not he put himself in that position. What awkward position 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:54.280 was he put in? Unless they unless he really did 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:58.040 think he was going to the bathroom and then walked in. 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:00.640 But let's be honest. He walked in and was like, 0:18:00.920 --> 0:18:03.760 can I talk to her? So obviously you were seeking 0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:06.800 her out. Here's the thing, Dell, I you know, I 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:09.760 gotta call bullshit when I see it, And that's exactly 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:12.280 what that was. And it wouldn't have been bad if 0:18:12.280 --> 0:18:15.159 you hadn't given that speech at the beginning, which also 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:19.160 was so unnecessary. Just pull her first, like you said back, 0:18:19.200 --> 0:18:21.000 and he was trying to be down with the guys, 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:24.040 but then also try to spend his time with Claire. 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:26.320 You all know what this game is at this point, 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:29.440 You're you're all trying to establish a relationship and end 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:31.560 up with Claire at the end of this just pull 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:34.240 her to the side. All that fluff in that talk 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:36.600 which I was with Riley on this one, the speech 0:18:36.920 --> 0:18:40.879 the group pub that cheesy, I get that cheesy stuff 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:43.199 out of here, Like that's so freaking corny to me. 0:18:43.280 --> 0:18:46.320 I'm sorry, I gotta call it like, I gotta call 0:18:46.320 --> 0:18:49.040 it dell out on this one. I was so Riley 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:52.320 like that was so corny. And then you spend your time. 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:54.040 Who cares if you spent if you spend forty five 0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:57.960 minutes with her, but with them deal, I'm not mad 0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:00.520 to Delle spent forty five minutes. It's the the speech 0:19:00.520 --> 0:19:02.480 that he gave it to the beginning and then coming 0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:06.239 back and then trying to say he was dazed and 0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:10.560 confused as he was like discombobulated. Oh I was. I 0:19:10.600 --> 0:19:12.240 didn't know what was going on, And I just walked 0:19:12.240 --> 0:19:15.200 in the room and then asked, interrupted somebody's day. Who 0:19:15.320 --> 0:19:17.280 was that guy? By the way, don't know who he 0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:19.359 was my first time ever setting him on the season, 0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:22.760 But the fact that he allowed dell to interrupt him 0:19:22.960 --> 0:19:25.600 and just was like yeah, man, and then came back 0:19:25.600 --> 0:19:28.040 and whined about it in the group. Now that that 0:19:28.119 --> 0:19:30.200 dude has to go home, like, that's I don't even know. 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:33.000 I don't people know his name, so I didn't even 0:19:33.000 --> 0:19:35.520 help you out of that dude. That dude, that's what 0:19:35.560 --> 0:19:39.240 we'll call him. Okay. Now that I'm finally getting settled 0:19:39.240 --> 0:19:42.920 in La, I'm loving where I live. Unfortunately, not all 0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:44.840 of the gyms are open, but I have been able 0:19:44.880 --> 0:19:48.080 to squeeze in some outdoor fitness classes. Now. The unfortunate 0:19:48.119 --> 0:19:50.199 part is that they're not every day, so on the 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:52.399 days that I can't go to the class, I still 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:55.359 have to hold myself accountable. I have to track my exercise, 0:19:55.440 --> 0:19:58.520 eat healthy, and stay active. Now since I don't have 0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:01.280 quite a regular workout, it's good UNUM has been the 0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:04.080 best assistant for me to help me track my exercise 0:20:04.119 --> 0:20:06.639 no matter how I'm squeezing it in, and it actually 0:20:06.680 --> 0:20:08.800 makes it a lot more fun. New is based on 0:20:08.880 --> 0:20:11.439 psychology and teaches you why you do the things that 0:20:11.520 --> 0:20:13.760 you do, and then it also empowers you with tools 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:16.520 to break bad habits and replace them with even better ones. 0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:19.000 And I know that everyone is busy and our schedules 0:20:19.040 --> 0:20:21.520 pile up. But that's why Noom doesn't demand too much 0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:24.240 of your time. It only asks for about ten minutes 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:26.720 a day, so it is so doable. You're assigned a 0:20:26.760 --> 0:20:29.560 goal specialist and matched up with a community of numerous 0:20:29.640 --> 0:20:32.360 so there's always a support system of people going through 0:20:32.359 --> 0:20:34.639 the similar things that you are. There's a science of 0:20:34.680 --> 0:20:37.439