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Speaker 1: What's up, Bachelor Happy Hour listeners? You know what today is?

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Speaker 1: It's Wednesday, and you know what that means. Wednesday. Wednesdays

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Speaker 1: have a new meaning this go around with the Bacherette season,

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Speaker 1: but like very fitting, very fitting for twenty twenty. So

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Speaker 1: it's Wednesday, and that means that another Bachelorette episode aired

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Speaker 1: last night, and that means we owe you a recap

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Speaker 1: and something that you can't get on other podcasts, but

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Speaker 1: you can't get here on Bachelor Happy Hour. Another guest,

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Speaker 1: not a guest you've heard from before, A new guest,

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Speaker 1: a new contestant from this Bacherette season. So you guys,

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Speaker 1: don't worry, because we have both of those coming up

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Speaker 1: for you very shortly. We're going to kick off this podcast,

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Speaker 1: of course, with a recap of last night's episode of

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Speaker 1: the Bachelorette, and then we'll have a very very special

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Speaker 1: guest joining us, somebody that I think you guys are

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Speaker 1: really really gonna want to hear from for multiple reasons, right,

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Speaker 1: But this is a first for us, Becca because a

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Speaker 1: first because we've never talked to this person before, but

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Speaker 1: also first because it's the first ever Harvard graduate coming

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Speaker 1: on the podcast. Yes, Rachel I'm so happy you dropped

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Speaker 1: the age bomb because if there's one thing we know

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Speaker 1: about Bennett, and I think it's at this point, probably

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Speaker 1: the only thing we know about Bennett is it's that

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Speaker 1: he went to Harvard, And so, I know, did I

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Speaker 1: ever tell you that I used to date a guy

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Speaker 1: from Harvard? What happened back? You know, I answer your question, no,

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Speaker 1: you did it. So like I have a soft spot

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Speaker 1: in my heart for Bennett because yeah, he uh years

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Speaker 1: ago before I went on on Aris season. I call

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Speaker 1: him what is it called, like the one that got away?

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Speaker 1: Like the white Rhino. It's like the one that got away.

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Speaker 1: Probably you should not even be adviting that on here,

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Speaker 1: but um, yeah, well, if you're listening Harvard, you know, No,

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Speaker 1: he's in a very happy relationship and I truly want

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Speaker 1: the best for him. So it all worked out. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: back to Bennett, my other Harvard man in the life.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm excited to have him on, not only to

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Speaker 1: get his thoughts on last night's episode, but I really

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Speaker 1: want to quiz him a little bit. You know, he

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Speaker 1: went to Harvard. I'm hoping he's good at tests, but

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Speaker 1: we will see. So we'll wait for the quiz at

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Speaker 1: the end. M we know he knows a lot about finance,

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Speaker 1: obviously face masks. Also, where what did he call his

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Speaker 1: home Chateau Day Bennett? Is that where he's living at Laquita?

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Speaker 1: I can't It's almost like it's ruined when you say

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Speaker 1: Chateau Day Laquinta. It's just like Rose the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: You know what I want to ask Spin it how

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Speaker 1: the hell did you get on this show? Like why

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Speaker 1: are you here? The number one question at the top

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Speaker 1: like how are you doing? How are you hanging in?

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Speaker 1: Like during quarantine? But I just think we need to know,

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Speaker 1: like how the hell he got on about Shirrette. I'm

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Speaker 1: very intrigued to know the why, the why behind the Bennett. Yes, um,

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Speaker 1: so you know he knows a lot about out some things,

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Speaker 1: but we do have to give him a lesson to

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Speaker 1: see how well he knows her bad short Claire Crawley.

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Speaker 1: So we have that coming up. But before all that,

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Speaker 1: we have to dig into last night's episode. And you know,

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Speaker 1: at this point original I just have to start this

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Speaker 1: recap with is it Claire season or is it Dale's season? Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's both of their seasons, you know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's it's the Clarien Dale Show. And I can't even

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Speaker 1: it because we're watching it, and I know we're watching

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Speaker 1: it in a way that the men who were living

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we're watching the Clarendal Show. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: Clarien Joseph. Obviously, last week before this episode aired, we

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Speaker 1: that about her. But anyways, Okay, Joseph when he said

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Speaker 1: I know everything I need to know about Joseph in

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Speaker 1: that statement. What a self centered, selfish asshole he is.

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Speaker 1: He is truly a scary man. Like there were so

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Speaker 1: Have we been building up to this for two episodes

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Speaker 1: it's actually quite scary more than it is entertaining. Claire

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Speaker 1: oh no, I was gonna say everything you're saying that.

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Speaker 1: And of course Dale as the night in shining armor

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Speaker 1: what she did? She say, bachelor atte twelve years ago,

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Speaker 1: At this point, this is gonna sound terrible, but I

433
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:24,439
Speaker 1: don't like I would hope by now I would know

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Speaker 1: everyone's names, and I don't. I know Dale, I know

435
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 1: easy because we had him on the podcast. I know

436
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,919
Speaker 1: Bennett and Blake. Like there's only a handful that I

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Speaker 1: know at this point, because I feel like it's, like

438
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 1: I said, it's turned into the Dale Show, Like that's

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00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,199
Speaker 1: all we hear about. All right, one last thing I

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Speaker 1: want to say about Dale and this whole cocktail party

441
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: that went down. We see him go back and basically

442
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Speaker 1: have this conversation with all the dudes and he says

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Speaker 1: that he's the best man suited. Now, I was watching

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Speaker 1: this back just kind of confused, like, obviously it's no surprise.

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00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: I think he knew he's a front runner. I think

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Speaker 1: to any of the guys watching his interactions with Claire,

447
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Speaker 1: they know he's a front runner. But that the wording

448
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: he chose, I just again, it rubbed me the wrong way,

449
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Speaker 1: Like I didn't know why he chose to say that,

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00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 1: unless it's like something that he heard in an interview.

451
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Speaker 1: What were your thoughts on that conversation that comment. I

452
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 1: guess it's confusing because Dell has given a lot of

453
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 1: toasts and he's addressed the group, so we've seen him

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Speaker 1: speak and he is very careful with his words and

455
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Speaker 1: he doesn't really stammer over what it is that he's saying.

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Speaker 1: So it's odd that when he gets called out you

457
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Speaker 1: see him kind of fumbling with his words, which makes

458
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: me feel like he's bssing. To be honest with you,

459
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Speaker 1: the fact that he and when he said he flat

460
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Speaker 1: out before Jason, who side note loving this episode. Before

461
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 1: Jason called him out and was like wait, wait, now,

462
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Speaker 1: go ahead, finish your sentence, he was flat out saying

463
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Speaker 1: I'm the best man. He wasn't. It was when Jason

464
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Speaker 1: called him out and then he couldn't find gather his

465
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Speaker 1: words together, so he meant what he said. He felt

466
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Speaker 1: he was the best man suited. I mean it, Dell's

467
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 1: fell in himself. And to be honest, why is why

468
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Speaker 1: wouldn't he was all the time and attention that Claire's

469
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Speaker 1: giving him, he knows he has us in the bag. Yeah,

470
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Speaker 1: but I will say this, he is now starting to

471
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Speaker 1: walk the fine line between you know, going all in

472
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Speaker 1: in his relationship with Claire and knowing that he is

473
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Speaker 1: a front runner and then really aggravating the guys on

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Speaker 1: the other side. So it's just like this weird awkward tension, Like, yeah,

475
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Speaker 1: I think he's trying to play the game that he

476
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Speaker 1: is concerned about the men, but by his actions he's not.

477
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Speaker 1: I mean, he's there for Claire, he's there to you know,

478
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Speaker 1: navigate that relationship, but then trying to play the other side,

479
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Speaker 1: and the reason it's not working is because you really

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Speaker 1: don't care about the other side. I guess we'll just

481
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Speaker 1: have to see how it plays out. But onto the

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Speaker 1: next date, we see the one on one SPA date

483
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Speaker 1: with Zach Jay. Overall, the entire day clearly was awkward.

484
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 1: He was very much into Claire feeling her. She obviously

485
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: was not because she's sitting in her interview chair talking

486
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 1: about Dale, which I think just basically plays into the

487
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Speaker 1: whole kiss communication where, you know, cringeworthy watching it back,

488
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Speaker 1: But truly I think like it looks like she went

489
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Speaker 1: in id he went in ten, and I think she

490
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Speaker 1: just realized, like this isn't Dale, Like I can't get

491
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Speaker 1: there with somebody else's it's not Dale. She can't like

492
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Speaker 1: pretend that she wants to kiss anyone else. Yeah, I yeah,

493
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Speaker 1: it was. You're definitely right. It was an awkward day.

494
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Speaker 1: And all I'll say about this day. The one thing

495
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Speaker 1: that I loved is that I saw something I've personally

496
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Speaker 1: never seen before. It's probably happened with as many seasons

497
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Speaker 1: as there have been, but I've never seen Chris Harrison

498
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Speaker 1: come in and send somebody home on a one on

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Speaker 1: one day. And let me tell you, I'm here to

500
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Speaker 1: say I loved it, every bit of it. They are

501
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,959
Speaker 1: working Chris Harrison this season in a way that he

502
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: has not worked in a while. Normally people are complaining

503
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 1: and they're like, how many times will Chris Harrison pop

504
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 1: up this episode? Well, Claire's like, you know what, He's

505
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 1: going to be a part of every single episode, every day.

506
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Speaker 1: And I'm loving it because he's right there. He's on

507
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: the premise. He's probably like a villa way. They just

508
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: need him to walk over. I was like, let me

509
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Speaker 1: get off this float and come on over here. And

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Speaker 1: I will say this, so like going into the night portion,

511
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Speaker 1: you see Zach sitting at the dinner table. Obviously there's

512
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Speaker 1: an empty chair next to him, which you usually never see.

513
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Speaker 1: You usually see the couple walking up together sitting down

514
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: like toasted or whatever. So to see Zach sitting there

515
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Speaker 1: for a few seconds, I literally said, what if Chris

516
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Speaker 1: Harrison walked in right now and sat down and then

517
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Speaker 1: Chris Harrison walks and I was losing my mind. I

518
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Speaker 1: would love it. It was so funny, like, oh my gosh,

519
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 1: and yeah, like you said, I've never seen that before.

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00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: And I found it very interesting because usually I think

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Speaker 1: like Claire doesn't hold back. I don't think she's afraid

522
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 1: of confrontation. She's not afraid to say what she has

523
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: sued to these men, and so it was very interesting

524
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: to see her being like on number one deal fit,

525
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: like just sending Chris like he's gotten on it. I'm

526
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: gonna go to so refreshing every every every time there

527
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: has been conflicts on this season so far, the way

528
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: she handles it, there's no flip flopping, there's no confusion,

529
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: everything is matter of fact. This is how it should be.

530
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: I love it every single time. I don't even get

531
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: worried as to how Claire is going to handle it.

532
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: I'm always like she's gotten this. I know she's got this. Situation.

533
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, that was that was an interesting twist. Every

534
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: everything with this season has been has had an interesting twist.

535
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: With that one, I wasn't ready for you called it.

536
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 1: Kudos to you, Becca for calling it. So let me

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Speaker 1: get to the group date, which I'll be honest, I'm

538
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: jealous that I did not have a roast date on

539
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 1: my season. So this one we saw. It was with

540
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 1: Margart Trow, which was pretty cool that they were able

541
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 1: to bring somebody into the bubble to experience, you know,

542
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 1: the show, because usually there is a celebrity on the show,

543
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 1: and so I'm glad that Claire was able to have

544
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: that experience with Margaret. I thought the rose fl a

545
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:11,399
Speaker 1: fantastic idea. I'm telling y'all lived for this moment and

546
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,239
Speaker 1: the fact that they brought in the other men from

547
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: the house. Yes, he genius, Janius genius. Loved every bit

548
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: of it. Love that at the end of it all

549
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 1: that Claire gave herself the rose. I mean, I just

550
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 1: I thought it was funny. It sucked for the men,

551
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: and I think that's a theme here. That's the through

552
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: line through this recap. It sucked for the men unless

553
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 1: your name is Dell. But I feel like there's so

554
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: much to get into with the Ross that. Since we've

555
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: already said we're having been It from Harvard on and

556
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: he clearly was a scene stiller and dropped the mic

557
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: at the end of it, we're gonna let him pick

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00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: the mic back up and tell us all about the

559
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: rose and everything that went into that. Yes, and without

560
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: further ado, let's go ahead and bring on the man

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00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: himself Been It from Harvard. Please welcome this Rosmaster, you

562
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Speaker 1: guys to the show. I want to welcome you to

563
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: our podcast. Thank you for being with us today. Before

564
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: we get started, though, I have to ask, your face

565
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: is glowing, so did you do a face mask for this?

566
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Speaker 1: You know, I've got a kind of a bad ZiT

567
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 1: to be honest, I'm like a little self conscious about it.

568
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: And my skinner routine has not It's been slepting a bit,

569
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: you know, since being out in the desert. But I

570
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: have plenty packed here thanks to me. I'm always, you know,

571
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 1: pretty prepared, and I'm heading from Charlotte here where I'm

572
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: seeing kind of my godson and best friends, and going

573
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 1: down to Atlanta from here to see my family and

574
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: for the first time, you know, since COVID and everything. So, um,

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00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: you know, I'll have some rest of relaxation and can

576
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Speaker 1: get back into the skincare routine. For sure. We're expected

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Speaker 1: auto updates. Okay, we'll do, we'll do. You're from the

578
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: South minute, I am? I am. I'm from Atlanta. I

579
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: was actually born in Chattanooga, Tennessee, and then have lived

580
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 1: in Atlanta more or less my entire life before you know,

581
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: becoming a Yankee and moving up to the North and

582
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: then in you know, Boston and New York. Now, um,

583
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: since college, so it's kind of an even split. Eighteen

584
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: years up in the North, eighteen years in the South. Okay, okay,

585
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: you can't just say college. We already know you have

586
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Speaker 1: to go a stage bomb, you know. I mean, that's

587
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: all of those things that I actually didn't say it

588
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: that often on the show. Was kind of you know,

589
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: pulled out a bit um as you might imagine. But um, yes,

590
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: I went. I went to Harvard and it was a

591
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: fantastic experience. I wouldn't, you know, trade it for the

592
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: life of me, but it is just a school. It

593
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: was a great experience and it served me well. I

594
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: think the friendships, the relationships and kind of that alumni

595
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: network is really you know, on precedent, I think a

596
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: lot of people from other, you know, very elite schools

597
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: would probably poo poo on Harvard a little bit, um,

598
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: you know, in some respect. But it served me well

599
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 1: and I really enjoyed my time. What's up, Rachel, I said,

600
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: only in sports, and only they only WoT it's when

601
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: it comes. That's fair, That's totally fair. How does somebody

602
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 1: like you end up on the show? And why? Great question?

603
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: You know, um throughout um, you know, well, I don't know,

604
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: call up my more adult h you know, dating years,

605
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: I've had nudges from family and friends and uh, even

606
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: X is on the way out the door that you

607
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: should just go on the bachirette or you should check

608
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: that out. You never know, Um, you know, give it,

609
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: give it a shot. Why not? I think it would

610
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: be great for it. And I never really took it

611
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: seriously until I was kind of quarantine alone in New

612
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: York City in the you know, epicenter of the pandemic

613
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: and um, by myself for that entire time, and I

614
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: kind of got to thinking about it, and as you

615
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: might imagine, and you know, dating life got a little

616
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: bit you know, stagnant and this sort of day to

617
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: day just office you know, work at home and you know,

618
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: working out at home and ordering your groceries and you know,

619
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 1: working on every recipe you could imagine, doing every at

620
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: home project you could imagine. Got a little old and

621
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: sort of got me to thinking this might be the

622
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: time to do something like this, And so I gave

623
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Speaker 1: it a shot, and you know, rapidly you know, progressed

624
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: through the little process there, and was you know, super

625
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: excited to have an opportunity like this. It was was fantastic.

626
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: So you decided to go from living alone totally secluded

627
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: to living with thirty plus dudes in a one little

628
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: very resort. Just thinking about it, Yeah, well you had

629
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Speaker 1: a chateau. Yeah, you lived a little different. I was

630
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: really blessed with the chateau. And you know, I hope

631
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: that the chateau gets a little you know play and

632
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: airtime and that that makes it out onto the show.

633
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Speaker 1: But um, I was really fortunate to have such a

634
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: nice set up there. Not complaining. It was you know,

635
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: a nice little uh change of speed, I guess from

636
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: the Manhattan apartment. You know, it's probably much more spacious

637
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: for you there. A little bit, a little bit. You know,

638
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: I don't have a backyard and pulled a hot tub

639
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: in Manhattan, that's for sure. But it's gonna buy real

640
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: estate back at La Keinton now just because he misses it. Yeah,

641
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: no kidding, no kidding. Before we get into the episode,

642
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: over all your time on the show, what was your experience, like,

643
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: how did you feel about doing it all? Give us

644
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: a little bit about that. Sure, sincerely, I had the

645
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 1: absolute best time of my life doing And it's one

646
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: of those things you know, like Harvard Schmarvard Bachelorettes where

647
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: it's at. I had such a good time and it

648
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: was one of those things that I was, you know,

649
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: quite skeptical, you know, going in in terms of, you know,

650
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: are you really going to have a shot at a

651
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: genuinely making a connection and relationship and getting to the

652
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: point of finding someone that you can fall in love

653
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: with and um you know, find uh someone to marry,

654
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: right and and as you would imagine everyone sort of

655
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: questions that was obviously you guys know it. Well, it's

656
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: under this you know, hyper focused environment where you're put

657
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: into these situations that really drives those connections and the relationships.

658
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 1: Um in such an unbelievable way that it works. And so,

659
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: you know, I had a phenomenal time. I wouldn't trade it,

660
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: you know, for the world of me. And you know,

661
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: I guess, you know, stay tuned to see how things

662
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: pan out. But I heard you were one of the

663
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: coolest guys in the house. Wow, that is quite a compliment.

664
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,439
Speaker 1: I did, like not not can't say who I heard from,

665
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 1: but I heard that because obviously people have a lot

666
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: of questions about you, because you know, we we saw

667
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: the chateau, We saw you putting on the face mask.

668
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: You know, you have the scarf. Was it a Rolls

669
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: Rolls Royce you came in or was it a band? Yeah, okay,

670
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: let me let me get it right. So the whole,

671
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: the whole like persona that you came in with. I

672
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 1: think people were really maybe had a preconceived had preconceived

673
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: notions about who you are. But I heard that you

674
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: were really just like down with the boys, And I

675
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: think that what was so great to see was in

676
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,399
Speaker 1: last night's episode, we really kind of saw you come

677
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: out of your shells. Like the scarf was off, not

678
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: the gloves were off, the scarf was off, the loafers

679
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: were off and you were ready. You were ready to go.

680
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: And so I guess the question we have is why

681
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: you chose to go after del so hard and the

682
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 1: way that you did, And then why was that moment

683
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: you chose? Why was that the moment you chose to

684
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: do it? Sure, I mean it was really the time.

685
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: It was kind of it was like an avalue. You know,

686
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,760
Speaker 1: I played basketball, I played football growing up. I'm really

687
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: you know, from a down to earth, you know, modest

688
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: background and family always played sports, was super competitive. I've

689
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: got an older brother, a younger brother, Um, you know,

690
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: and I think in any competition, whether you're doing in

691
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: an election, whether it's sports, whether it's just you know business, right, Um,

692
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: you kind of go after the tuck dog, right, and

693
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: you can't be afraid of that. That that's that's the

694
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: man to beat. And I think it was kind of

695
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: clear at that point with you know, Dale, that there

696
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: was a lot of favoritism. You could tell that his

697
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 1: relationship was moving along with cla Claire quite rapidly. And

698
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,399
Speaker 1: you know, I certainly am not one to shy away

699
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: from competition, never scared of anything. I always believe in

700
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 1: myself and you know, my ability to succeed, so you know,

701
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 1: why not go after Dale a little bit more, you

702
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: know than the others? And I think, um, it was

703
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: really an opportunity as well where I had a chance

704
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: to speak up and say some of the things, whether

705
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: there were jokes and jabs and whether they were true. Um,

706
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:46,240
Speaker 1: to go after and j Dale and speak on behalf

707
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: of the guys, not speaking for them, of course, but

708
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 1: maybe say some of that thinks of because I was

709
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: in that position at the Rose to do that and

710
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 1: say some of the things that they would have liked

711
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: to have out there. I will see this watching all

712
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,359
Speaker 1: of you guys at the Roast come at Dale. It

713
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 1: never felt like it crossed the line where it was

714
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 1: inappropriate and like hitting below the belt. It still felt

715
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 1: very like you know, of course you guys had your

716
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:11,919
Speaker 1: jobs in there every now and again, but it never

717
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 1: felt inappropriate. But one of the guys, and I don't

718
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: remember who said it, but one of the guys said,

719
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: you know, like basically Dale never shuts up and he

720
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: never stops talking. Was that the case? Was that true?

721
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 1: Because I feel like there's part like we see such

722
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: a majority of Dale with Claire, like we see small

723
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: bits of interaction with you guys, but it's also like

724
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 1: not extreme in the sense like well him my comments

725
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: like yeah, the best man suited or whatever, but it

726
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: never is very abundant. So I'm sitting there wondering, like,

727
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: is he very very different in the house with the

728
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: men versus when he is with Claire. You know, I

729
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: think to twofold, I will say, you know, I was

730
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: personally very very impressed with Dale night one, and I

731
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: unfortunately did not get the chance to speak with Claire,

732
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: you know, at the cocktail ceremony when the drama sort

733
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 1: of hit and I was this close and then it

734
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 1: didn't happen. Um, But you know, I was being kind

735
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,879
Speaker 1: of quiet, taking things in, um, you know, just sort

736
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: of absorbing, absorbing, excuse me, um, you know, maybe maybe

737
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 1: a little bit of Jay Gatsby and there sneaking through

738
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: the party, not really talking to anyone, just kind of

739
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: taking the scene and not you know, having a care

740
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: in the world, but at the same time, just really

741
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 1: trying to get comfortable with what was going on around me.

742
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 1: And I remember speaking with Dale and I was blown

743
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: away by the guy that this guy is a stud.

744
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: He is beautiful. Have you seen those eyes? He was

745
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: an X and M. He's super articulate. He has a

746
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 1: soft spoken voice. But it's not to love about this guy, um,

747
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: you know. And it also struck me as we're kind

748
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: of get going and just kind of learning the process

749
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: and you know, the how things kind of work around there.

750
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,959
Speaker 1: Dale was super quick into you know, sort of producer, uh,

751
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: you know, event manager type. Roland was just really outspoken

752
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: and he kind of go on these monologue. I was like,

753
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 1: what was going on? Oh my gosh, And so that

754
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: was you know, kind of took me back, but I

755
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: realized that's totally fair game, absolutely normal. But I was

756
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 1: impressed by both his eloquence and and just kind of

757
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: the way that he stepped up immediately and that sort of,

758
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: you know, kind of nudged me along. It's time to

759
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: you know, find your voice, and you know, it took

760
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: me about it took me twenty four to forty eight

761
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: hours to kind of get there, and then I was

762
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 1: pretty comfortable found it. Yeah, you know, I took a

763
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 1: nice stretch and I was all right, got the scurf

764
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: off exactly exactly? Did the men for the roast? Okay,

765
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: did y'all like have a plan? Did y'all all get

766
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:43,280
Speaker 1: together and say, you know what, we're gonna Roastdale like

767
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,760
Speaker 1: like that or was it? Everyone was on their own

768
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 1: and you were kind of surprised with the material that

769
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: was presented at the roast, very very surprised. And obviously

770
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: you only get you know, a portion, you know in

771
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: the show, right, Um, you know, you were given an

772
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 1: hour to get to get your jokes together and then

773
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: you're performing. Um. You know, I spent a lot of

774
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 1: time just writing and and I this this kind of

775
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 1: came very very natural and easy to me. I was

776
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 1: writing a ton of jokes, a ton of roast, and

777
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: I was really focused on the content. But what you

778
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: discount is that if you're doing stand up, your delivery

779
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: matters one hundred percent. It's like a big, big part

780
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: of it. And so I didn't really spend enough time,

781
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: you know, practicing that. And that was you know that Unfortunately,

782
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: I give my myself, you know, kind of a B

783
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: minus on that. Um, But I think the content was there.

784
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: I know that everyone was trying to roast everyone, and

785
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: you know, I thought in my roast that kind of

786
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 1: came out. I did roast every single person in the house,

787
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: every single person in the in the audience. UM. But

788
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: I did have a few pages on Dale and uh

789
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: and that was three pages, um. And you know what

790
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 1: was really cute is that I don't think that this

791
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: made the edits is that you know, Claire was coming

792
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: around and talking to the guys that were on the

793
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 1: date and checking in on, you know, the roast. We

794
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: had some really really good laughs, and I showed her

795
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: all of my jokes except for three pages, and I

796
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: just sort of held those, you know, in my sleeve

797
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: and brought them you know later. So you know, I

798
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: don't think that there was any surprise that Dale kind

799
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: of got, you know, roasted. I thought that I was

800
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: low hanging fruit to be roasted, simply for the scarf

801
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: and the and the loafers and just the sort of

802
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: Bennett persona in general. And I did take some good

803
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: heat there, but you know, Dale, Dale clearly, you know,

804
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 1: got it the worst. I wouldn't know going into that

805
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 1: night after the roast was over and going into the

806
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: cocktail party, because what we saw is Claire going around

807
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 1: talking to all of you men, but only asking about Dale.

808
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 1: And then were you guys all aware of that, Like,

809
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: were you guys think going back to each other? I

810
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: mean like she only talked about Dale, She only asked

811
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: about Dale. She asked why we roasted so hard? Like

812
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: what was that conversation that evening? Like, yeah, that was

813
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: really frustrating. Um, you know, we were at that point

814
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: where this was our chance to kind of pivot off

815
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: of the roast, not have jokes, and you wanted to

816
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 1: further the relationship with Claire and get to get to

817
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 1: really you know, know her, get to talk about yourself,

818
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: get to talk about her, ask her questions and all

819
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: those you know, things that are really really important and

820
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: impactful for developing a relationship. And she was constantly bringing

821
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: it back to Dale, and so that was really really frustrating,

822
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 1: and I kind of tried to deflect that, you know,

823
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: immediately and say I really appreciate, you know, in the jokes.

824
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,280
Speaker 1: It was good and fun, but we're not the roast anymore.

825
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 1: Not here too. I've never been on a date and

826
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: talked about another guy in my life, and I'm not

827
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: sure why I'm doing that now, And was trying to

828
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: just get away from that as quickly as possible. I know, Ben,

829
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 1: you know, was in the same, you know, similar position,

830
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: and you know, we did come back and when we

831
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: would finish our conversation with Claire and come back to

832
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: the guys, you know, say, that's super frustrating. I don't

833
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: know what we can do here. It seems like, you know,

834
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,399
Speaker 1: no matter what we say, no matter what we try

835
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: to do, and it's always circling back to Dale. It

836
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: was like out of our hands. Yeah, I will say this.

837
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,760
Speaker 1: I think you guys handled it that evening well because

838
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 1: I was even getting frustrated watching the conversations go down

839
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: where she just keeps asking about him, and I thought

840
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: you guys all tried to deflect very well. But I

841
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: told Rachel at the top of this episode, I started

842
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: to feel for you guys. I was like, this is

843
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,319
Speaker 1: just turning into the Dale Show. So you know, it's

844
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: frustrated enough leaving your friends and your family and everything

845
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: that you're used to coming into the show in the

846
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: first place, and then to just have to wait around

847
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: and have all of your attention and conversation fixated on

848
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: one man has got to be so draining. So I mean,

849
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 1: kudos to you for trying to deflect and hang in there.

850
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: So Bennett, I think it was I think it was

851
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 1: the intro package when you were first moving into La Quinta,

852
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: still in quarantine waiting to pass the test. You were

853
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 1: reading up on a book about emotional intelligence. So I

854
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: want to know did you actually own that book? And

855
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 1: b were you able to put any of the learnings

856
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: to good use while while you were on the season. Yeah,

857
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 1: of course, you know, I think emotional intelligence, self awareness,

858
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: you know, all of those components that kind of make

859
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 1: it up are really really important and far more important

860
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 1: than IQ. I think EQ, you know, in relationships is

861
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 1: you know, chiefly important. Um. So I did that book,

862
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: that book I had read you know, already twice and

863
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: was just bringing its kind of another refresher Um. I

864
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: have actually three different books on emotional intelligence and was

865
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: bringing that just as a kind of a quick It's

866
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: an easy quick read with a bunch of different you know, anecdotes,

867
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: And I thought that was good to kind of, you know,

868
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: pound into my head as just you know, helpful learning

869
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: tools for the process. Knowing it's high stress environment, you're

870
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: constantly being challenged, you're constantly being called out, You're in

871
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: this super hyper competitive you know, and I just thought

872
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 1: that was probably one of the best things I could bring,

873
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: um in terms of study material and something just to

874
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,760
Speaker 1: kind of be constantly mind full of throughout the journey.

875
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: And that's that's why I brought it, and it was

876
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: you know, it was serious. Is something I really really

877
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 1: value and I think we can always be trying to become,

878
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 1: you know, more self aware and better with our relationship

879
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: management skills, et cetera. So, yeah, we need more contestants

880
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: like you on the show, like way to raise the

881
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: bar wait execute bringing research material to that bachelor bubble

882
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: so that you can mentally be prepared and self aware.

883
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: My goodness, very good, love to see it. My one.

884
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: My other book that I you know there was the

885
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: kind of the you know, big one was thinking fast

886
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: and thinking slow, you know Daniel conomy, which is very um,

887
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: you know, applicable as well, So why not bring things

888
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: that are going to be relevant to exactly what you

889
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 1: were doing. I had one kind of fast read that

890
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 1: I brought as well and journaled every day to kind

891
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: of get that up, get that out and refine and

892
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: constantly be thinking through everything that you're you know, going through.

893
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 1: But yeah, I thought, you know, being mindful, um, it's

894
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 1: important to all of us, especially when you're in a

895
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: situation like the bachelorette at any point where you like,

896
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 1: you know what, you need this book more than me.

897
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 1: You know, did you think let me let me pass

898
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: these books out because you seem like you need this

899
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 1: to take a deep dive into the thought you know

900
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,799
Speaker 1: ran through my mind. Whether it was a gift to

901
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: a producer or whether it was a gift to you know,

902
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: another contestant. But you're gonna have to I think tune

903
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: in to see that one time. Oh yes, okay, I

904
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: am curious because it's always hard when when you go

905
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,879
Speaker 1: through when you're in the bubble, that's what we call it.

906
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 1: Even before you were in an actual bubble, that's what

907
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,360
Speaker 1: it was referred to. It's one thing to be immersed

908
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: in the entire experience or journey, should I say, it's

909
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: another thing to watch the whole thing play out. Now

910
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 1: you've got family and friends and co workers that know

911
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,439
Speaker 1: that you were on this crazy show. You've seen three

912
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 1: episodes now at this point, what has it been like

913
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: and what what has in the feedback that you've received

914
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 1: from like your close friends, family, and your co workers. Yeah, no,

915
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: I think everyone is super excited about it. Friends, family, Um,

916
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 1: you know, they're they're all equally, you know, nervous and excited.

917
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: It's it's it's COVID, it's quarantine. Everyone's been starved for entertainment.

918
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 1: They never thought that, certainly I would be doing something

919
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: like this, So it's it's kind of a shock value

920
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: and it's weird, you know, personally to see yourself on TV,

921
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 1: of course, that is that is super weird. And you know, my, my,

922
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:35,240
Speaker 1: your mannerisms, your expressions, all those things that are caught

923
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 1: that you cannot control at times are there, right, It's

924
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:42,919
Speaker 1: very very real that first episode, I was sweating through

925
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: my button up that I could totally totally sweat through it,

926
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: like I looked like I just came out of a

927
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: basketball game, um and had a little you know zoom

928
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: with friends afterwards to say hello, and I was drenched.

929
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I was so embarrassed and just you know,

930
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: excited at the same time. But it's all part of

931
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 1: the fun. You know, you gotting brace it and just

932
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: kind of roll with the punches and know that you know,

933
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: hopefully you own your your behavior and what you put

934
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 1: out there and what you did you know on the journey,

935
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: and as as long as you know, stay confident and

936
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: true to who you are. I think you know, you

937
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: can't go too wrong knock on wood hopefully. I feel

938
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 1: like you have a very good head on your shoulder,

939
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: So I'm not worried like in past season. So I'm

940
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 1: always like, I don't know how these guys are gonna

941
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 1: fair after this, but i will say this, Claire had

942
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 1: probably the best group of guys that we've seen. So

943
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: what is one thing that you learned about yourself that

944
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: you didn't know before after going through all of filming? Yeah,

945
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: you know, Um, honestly, I've always been pretty outgoing, but

946
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 1: I had no idea that I had all this built up,

947
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 1: pent up social energy from being in quarantine that just

948
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,919
Speaker 1: needed to come out in a crazy way. And and

949
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: you know, it's funny, I think even going into it,

950
00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 1: every sort of work zoom, every work call, and that's

951
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: you know, a big part of my job. Of course,

952
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 1: you know everyone and everyone's on the phone, but I

953
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 1: would get off, Oh that was such a good call.

954
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: I'm re energized. That felt so good, And it's just

955
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: simple because I was in this like you know, cell

956
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: right and my Manhattan apartment, so it really really needed that. Um.

957
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: I would say that I feel, you know, very very

958
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: comfortable with myself and in terms of having conversations that

959
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 1: are I don't know, I don't know, um, force isn't

960
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: the right word, but advanced conversations with relationships that you

961
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: know sometimes are uncomfortable and tough to you know, bring

962
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: out when you're talking about, you know, the menu at

963
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: a Japanese restaurant and like working through your just sort

964
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: of first third date bant or whatever it may be.

965
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 1: You know, I have no problem with just kind of coming,

966
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: you know, with it, bringing the wood right immediately and

967
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 1: just kind of jumping into things right. I think, um,

968
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: that is a life lesson that I think really suits

969
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 1: you well for relationships going forward. I think, um, just

970
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,360
Speaker 1: kind of the way that you approach relationships, whether it

971
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: be you know, family, friends, loved ones, etc. You're much

972
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: better suited to have in depth personal conversations at will

973
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 1: without hesitation. And that's probably you know, one of the

974
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 1: best things I took away from as well as you know,

975
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 1: the friends and the relationships built both among you know,

976
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: contestants and producers and everyone. You know, that's something that

977
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 1: I will take with me always. Yeah, I love that

978
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: you said that, because that's one thing from my time

979
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 1: on The Bachelor than my own season. The main takeaway,

980
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: you know, like I found love for a short amount

981
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,879
Speaker 1: of time, but those friendships are lasting, and I'm glad

982
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,399
Speaker 1: that you found that not only with the other men,

983
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: but with producers too, because some of them become your

984
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 1: your lifelongers. Absolutely, I mean I'm so. I mean, you know,

985
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,920
Speaker 1: texting them now, calling them now, speaking with them, like

986
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, they're they're they're living your life. They're

987
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: in your shoes right for that time, and there's no

988
00:50:56,280 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 1: experience like that, you know, and in reality, So that

989
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 1: is absolutely something I'm incredibly appreciative of. I mean, I

990
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,240
Speaker 1: owe those guys so much. Yeah. Yeah, We're still close

991
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 1: with several producers as well, so we understand it not

992
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: just because we do this podcast like in real life. Okay,

993
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 1: so we're going to ask you this question and then

994
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: we're going to switch gears a bit. But usually at

995
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 1: the end of every episode, we give or we ask

996
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: whoever our guest is on the show to give us

997
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: a rose and a thorn at the end of the episode.

998
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 1: But since last night we had a roast, we have

999
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: to ask you to give a rose and a roast

1000
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: for the episode. So how this is going to work

1001
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: is you need to choose a person and you're going

1002
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: to give a rose too from this episode, and then

1003
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 1: the other person you're going to give a rose to them,

1004
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:48,880
Speaker 1: and then you know what to do because you do

1005
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: it so well. I mean, nobody else dropped the mic

1006
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: at the end of their roast. All right, hang on,

1007
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to think about this one. You know

1008
00:51:56,160 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: fairly roasted out wasn't ready for this, and I'm kind

1009
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: of recalibrating, you know, the third episode. Um, you know

1010
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: the the I mean, it's tough not to give you know,

1011
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:18,240
Speaker 1: Dale both rose and roast, but he's kind of received

1012
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 1: enough you know, attention at this point, I'd rather go

1013
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: another direction. Um, can I offer a suggestion somebody who

1014
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 1: wasn't in the room who really deserved to be roast in?

1015
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: And we didn't ask you about this person as Joseph,

1016
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 1: so by all means, if you'd like to roast him,

1017
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 1: we'd be more than welcome to it, and I think

1018
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:38,319
Speaker 1: our listeners would appreciate it as well. Yeah, you know,

1019
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: I think the way that that's totally fair. For the

1020
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: first we can start with, I'd like to I guess

1021
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: we can start with the roast if you like, UM, yes,

1022
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: that's an easy and the roast, you know, I think

1023
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:53,319
Speaker 1: is probably should kind of go to Joseph. Um. He

1024
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 1: unfortunately wasn't there right at the roast, and just the

1025
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: way that he kind of went about the whole thing

1026
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 1: with Claire was really unfortunate. You know, I don't think

1027
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: that I honestly don't think that he intended to come

1028
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 1: out that way. I think he had some beef that

1029
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 1: he wanted to uh air, and probably got a little

1030
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: worked up, and just some true colors kind of came out.

1031
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't think that, you know, I don't I don't

1032
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:24,240
Speaker 1: have any ill will against him. Is actually a very earnest,

1033
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: you know, Southern guy who talks a lot and just

1034
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: kind of, um got really caught up. And I don't

1035
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: think there's ever a place to be, you know, yelling

1036
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,239
Speaker 1: and screaming and ranting and raving you know, at a

1037
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: woman or in any relationship, much less when you know

1038
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 1: that you're on TV and you know, and and dating

1039
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: a girl that a bunch of other guys are dating. UM.

1040
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,920
Speaker 1: So that came across and just looked really really poorly,

1041
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:51,240
Speaker 1: especially for the way that um, you know, he always

1042
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 1: just talking about his daughter. And you know, the last

1043
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:55,719
Speaker 1: thing I know that YO wants with you know, his

1044
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 1: daughter's her to be in some relationship like that in

1045
00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,720
Speaker 1: the future where she's got some guy harrassing and yelling

1046
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 1: and calling your names and all those things. Right, So

1047
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: that was tough. You know, that struck a chord with me.

1048
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 1: I didn't really appreciate that. Um, you know, haven't seen

1049
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: Josepher has spoken with him, you know, since the journey,

1050
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 1: but UM, I imagine he's got some regrets you know

1051
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 1: about that one. Um as far as uh, you know arose, Um,

1052
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 1: you know, I think I'll maybe have to give it

1053
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: to a guy who has kind of been a little

1054
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: bit off camera you know up until this point. Okay,

1055
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 1: And that's that's why it's you know, one of those

1056
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 1: you wouldn't see it. You haven't seen it thus far.

1057
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: He hasn't had a lot of airtime. But there's a

1058
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 1: reason he's around and he continues, you know, on his

1059
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: journey as a reason he's continued. But I think he

1060
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: was sort of a you know, house favorite and someone

1061
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: that everyone loved and um, you know, kept everyone laughing constantly.

1062
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: Is Ed and Ed's Miami Ed. Miami Ed very very

1063
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 1: overlooked um you know in the early episodes, but he

1064
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 1: starts coming out and breaking out. But he was always

1065
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 1: full forced in the house. And I think every single

1066
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 1: guy would say that Ed was probably the most hilarious

1067
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: person in the house. Um, straight comedy constantly and just

1068
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 1: someone that you know, maybe maybe he would come after you,

1069
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:17,439
Speaker 1: you know, if he had some beef, but he wasn't

1070
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: afraid and he'd go straight to it and just constant

1071
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: love and sincere like hilarious, Like he's the funniest guy.

1072
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,439
Speaker 1: I love this insight. I know, I can't. We never

1073
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 1: would have know. We never, I never would have guessed

1074
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: Ed exactly. Ed. Ed is one of the biggest characters

1075
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: in the show. And I think you know he is

1076
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 1: in terms of, you know, just his humor and personality.

1077
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 1: Everyone loves Ed. And I think that'll that'll that'll pop

1078
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: out as we continue here gets out of orb and

1079
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 1: the bubble wrap, and you know, all he seeing, he'll move,

1080
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: he'll move out of his figurative bubble, you know, sooner

1081
00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 1: than later. I expect a lot from Miami. I just

1082
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 1: move from there, so I appreciate it. That's what his

1083
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: personality is I get what this is why I love

1084
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 1: having you guys on this because you give us such

1085
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,720
Speaker 1: a different insight than what we see each week after

1086
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 1: only two hours. So I can't wait to see what

1087
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: Ed brings to the table. But Ben, we love our

1088
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: games on this podcast, and so we couldn't let you

1089
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 1: go without playing one. And it's obviously no secret that

1090
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 1: you have mentioned Harvard. And while we don't know a

1091
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 1: ton about Harvard, we've learned enough about it from Legally Blonde,

1092
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: and we know all about our girl, Claire. So with

1093
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:38,280
Speaker 1: that combined knowledge, we've built a little game for you. Okay,

1094
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: So obviously to get into Harvard, I'm assuming you have

1095
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 1: to have impeccable study skills. We're gonna put those skills

1096
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,399
Speaker 1: to the test by seeing how well you were able

1097
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 1: to study Claire. Okay. This game is called Harvard Grad

1098
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,759
Speaker 1: or Batcherette Hat. So here's how it's gonna work. We're

1099
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: gonna go through some different quotes. We're gonna throw them

1100
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: at you and you have to guess whether they were

1101
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: spoken by l Woods in Legally Blonde or Claire during

1102
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 1: pre season. Okay, Okay, so just for some clarity or clarification,

1103
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 1: if you will. These quotes are all from either the

1104
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 1: Legally Blonde movies or any season that Claire has appeared on.

1105
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 1: So you know, she's been on Paradise, she was on

1106
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, and obviously her own season. So I think

1107
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 1: there's five season seasons total that we can choose from here. Um,

1108
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 1: so we'll throw them at you and you have to

1109
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 1: give us which one you which woman you thought said it?

1110
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: Okayet ready, you seem legally blonde, right of course, Okay, okay,

1111
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 1: good Rachel. Do you want to start it out? Oh? Yeah, sure, Okay,

1112
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: here's the first quote. Do you remember when we spent

1113
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 1: those four amazing hours in the hot tub? This is

1114
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: so much better than that. Oh yeah, that was good? Correct?

1115
00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have to watch this movie now. Um, okay,

1116
00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 1: I don't need backups. Claire. M oh wait, let me

1117
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 1: keep telling that was Elwoods. Okay, I'm gonna keep scoring. Okay,

1118
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 1: I would have thought that was Claire too, by the way,

1119
00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: All right, next quote, you can't deny the fact that

1120
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: everybody just loves love. That's tough. Um, I'm gonna go Claire.

1121
00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 1: Claire's correct. Nice, Okay, I don't want to sit alone

1122
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: every night and watch Golden Girls for the rest of

1123
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: my life Old Woods. No, Claire Clari, I hear her saying,

1124
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: that's hilarious. Also, watching the Golden Girls for the rest

1125
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 1: of your life isn't a bad thing. It is, that's

1126
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,640
Speaker 1: all you're doing. That's really really funny. Um did she

1127
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: say that with one Pablo? I don't. I don't. I

1128
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 1: didn't watch I didn't watch watch poplo. Did you were

1129
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 1: you a fan of the show or did you watch

1130
00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 1: the show before you want it? I had watched zero

1131
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: prior to going on this show. You guys are gonna

1132
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: love answer. You love this answer. And then once I

1133
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 1: click submit, I immediately watched Claire in one Pablo and

1134
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 1: then you two. Oh no, well we help. It helped.

1135
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I haven't learned this sequence, you know. And

1136
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 1: I think it was a combination of you guys being

1137
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 1: on you know it was it was on your seasons

1138
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: were readily available on Prime or Hulu or something. You know.

1139
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, between between watching the past seasons and

1140
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: catching up on emotional intelligence. You really put in the

1141
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 1: work for this. I tried, you know, I think you

1142
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: got to do your due diligence when you get into

1143
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: something that is this, that's for sure. Okay, nice quote.

1144
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: You must always have faith in people, and most importantly,

1145
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: you must always have faith in yourself. Man, this game

1146
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 1: is hard. Um legally blon would yep yep. She says

1147
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:02,919
Speaker 1: it in her spee and a graduation when she's giving

1148
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: her final argument type see yeah, which is always so

1149
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: funny because it was such a quick speech. And I

1150
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 1: feel like, if you're sitting through graduation, it's going to

1151
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 1: be longer than that. But law school isn't a law school.

1152
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: Graduation is quick. Ready to get over there? Yeah done?

1153
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm talking to two. He went to Harvard.

1154
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 1: I just went to law school. He um, okay, next up?

1155
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: Where are we? This is just like c Span, except

1156
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 1: I'm not bored. I would love to say, Claire, but

1157
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go out woods all right. Next one, it's

1158
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 1: not about being fair, It's about what's in your heart. Claire. Yeah,

1159
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: m hmm. You are in a role. Okay, I'm not

1160
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: checked out, but I'm not going to sit here and

1161
01:00:54,920 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: be fake Clara. M hm. Nice, all right. Last one

1162
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy and happy

1163
01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: people just don't kill their husbands line, all right, So

1164
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: on a one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight nine, Bennett,

1165
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 1: you've got seven on a nine. That's all right, it's

1166
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 1: pretty good. That's good. You pass. You pass the test.

1167
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 1: I guess I passed. Yeah. Yeah, it's not stellar. No,

1168
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 1: you're not getting to say you're not getting good. Oh, Bennett,

1169
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 1: this has been really great. It's it's so nice when

1170
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:42,120
Speaker 1: we get these opportunities where we watch you on the

1171
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 1: TV screen, but then we get to have these conversations

1172
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 1: where it's so much more personal and we get a

1173
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 1: little bit more insight into who you are, how you

1174
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 1: even got here and became a part of this crazy world.

1175
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 1: But we're glad that we did get to talk to you.

1176
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:59,040
Speaker 1: We hope you stay in. It's not your family, You're

1177
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:02,439
Speaker 1: you're part of that's nation now or not, you're stuck

1178
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 1: with us. Yeah, thank you. I'm happy to be a

1179
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,920
Speaker 1: part of it. It was phenomenal experience. I wouldn't trade

1180
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 1: it for the world. A dute again tomorrow, So let's

1181
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 1: you know, talk and hang out. Oh that was great.

1182
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 1: That's great, Bennett. I told you. They said, they say, Ben,

1183
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,400
Speaker 1: it's the coolest guy in the house. And you know

1184
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 1: probably why because you thought he was one way and

1185
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 1: then he turns out to be something different, really wholesome,

1186
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 1: clearly a great head on his shoulders. I mean, how

1187
01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: impressive is he so impressive? And that's like a plane

1188
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 1: into you always think you know somebody, Like we go

1189
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 1: off of these bios that are five sentences and totally

1190
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: just judge them right away, and it's so refreshing having

1191
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 1: them on for this hour to talk to them and

1192
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 1: actually get to know them away from the cameras and

1193
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 1: the big screen and all the drama. And yeah, he's

1194
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 1: just a great guy. I remember you did say, Rachel,

1195
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: when we were going through the bios, you said you

1196
01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 1: only had room for one Bennett, and I know who

1197
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: you're talking about because it's one of the producers. But

1198
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 1: I think we have room for two. Yeah, maybe we'll

1199
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: call this Spinne by his middle name. But you know

1200
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: what I also learned talking about it. Okay, he might

1201
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: have been playing into a persona, but he can definitely

1202
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 1: afford a rolls Royce, Chateau de ban and it is

1203
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: the scarf, the loafers, all of it. He can actually

1204
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:23,919
Speaker 1: afford all of it after hearing what he's about what

1205
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 1: he does for a living. I mean, it's truly good.

1206
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 1: Shout out to casting because what an impressive man. And

1207
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 1: let's let's let's continue in this lane. Let's continue bringing

1208
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:38,200
Speaker 1: you on men like this. I like it. I love

1209
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 1: the fact too that he like he seems like he

1210
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 1: was finding his life, like had a great job, a

1211
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 1: great apartment, but he's like, I was just stuck in quarantine.

1212
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 1: Like I wanted human interaction. I needed that in my life.

1213
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 1: And so kudos to him for just throwing it all

1214
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 1: out there and see like, whatever happens happens, and so

1215
01:03:55,600 --> 01:04:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that the show was able to find him. Yeah, ladies,

1216
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: the lesson here get you a man who can do

1217
01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 1: both but then can also roast the shit out of

1218
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 1: someone on The Bachelor. That is a man that can

1219
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 1: do both. So Bennett, we appreciate it, and he knows

1220
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 1: about skincare. Okay, okay, Bacca. Before we get off this podcast,

1221
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 1: we have to address how this episode ended. Okay, I

1222
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 1: need your thoughts because you know, vast Nation has a

1223
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 1: love hate relationship with me, so I don't want to

1224
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 1: say necessarily the wrong thing. So I'm curious to think.

1225
01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 1: I'm curious to know, am I crazy and how I'm thinking.

1226
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:38,880
Speaker 1: But at the end of this episode, we get a

1227
01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 1: preview of what is to come, and we see a

1228
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 1: woman rise out of the pool and an orange bikini

1229
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 1: looking stunning, and that woman is Tasia and she stares

1230
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 1: directly into the camera, and that's how it is, your thoughts.

1231
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 1: I was not expecting that, to be honest, I was

1232
01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: very verry caught off guard. I mean, every episode we

1233
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: see it end with and coming next week, and I

1234
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: did not expect them to have Titia come out of

1235
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 1: the pool. To me, that one scene felt kind of

1236
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 1: awkward and very choppy, like, Oh, let's just slap it

1237
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 1: in there real quick and call it a day, because

1238
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,480
Speaker 1: we gotta like let our viewers know what's about to come.

1239
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 1: Like I wish it, like if we're gonna announce a

1240
01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 1: new woman coming on, I want to give her the

1241
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: time and the respect and you know, like the proper intro,

1242
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:35,080
Speaker 1: and that I think fell very flat. Yeah, maybe this

1243
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 1: is what I'm hoping. I agree with you wholeheartedly. And

1244
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 1: what I'm hoping is they just gave that to us

1245
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 1: as a tease and then when it actually, you know,

1246
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 1: we see how it all plays out, then we'll see

1247
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 1: a true introduction, you know, like when we meet her

1248
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 1: and we see her come on the scene. Hopefully it's

1249
01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 1: not like popping out of a pool because there's snow denied. Like,

1250
01:05:56,240 --> 01:06:01,000
Speaker 1: we both agree, she looked beautiful, it was hot. You know,

1251
01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 1: she stole the scene. It got our attention. But and

1252
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 1: it was a great tease. So let's just hope, like,

1253
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: you know, when it actually happens, we get just a

1254
01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: little bit more, little bit more not yeah, yeah, not

1255
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: just a taste test. But I mean, Dan, when I

1256
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 1: watched her come out of the pullups, like, ay, how

1257
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 1: do you look that good walking out of the water,

1258
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 1: how is your makeup not running? Like your hair's perfectly

1259
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 1: flip flicked back? Like she didn't look flawless, But she's

1260
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 1: there's also so much more than just like this sexy woman.

1261
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 1: So I want to see more. I want to you know,

1262
01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 1: you don't want it to be that she deserves, yes,

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Speaker 1: but she did look like a bond girl. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying they're like like a true Bond girl. And

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Speaker 1: maybe it's because when Hallie Berry was coming out of

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Speaker 1: the water, which maybe that's what they were trying to imitate.

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Speaker 1: When Hallie Berry's coming out of the water, I'm pretty

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Speaker 1: sure she had on an orange bikini. I'm not you know,

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Speaker 1: correct me if I'm wrong, but I think she had

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Speaker 1: on an orange bikini, and I think that's what they

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Speaker 1: were trying to imitate. Now like Kita was in the

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Speaker 1: back instead of the ocean, But well, we'll take it.

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Speaker 1: We'll still take it. Was it orange, I'm let's see,

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Speaker 1: oh uh huh, well orange or pink with a white belt? Yeah? Orange,

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Speaker 1: it's orange. You're right, right. I wish I could like

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Speaker 1: be all sexy, like, yeah, let's Taia. That must be

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Speaker 1: what they were tapping into. And yes, on a hotness level,

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Speaker 1: Tasia was a ten plus plus plus plus, but we

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Speaker 1: shall see. At least at least we're finally acknowledging Tasha

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Speaker 1: Becca Claire's season is truly the gift that keeps on giving.

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Speaker 1: So you guys, make sure you're following along every Tuesday

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Speaker 1: night eight seven pm Center on ABC, and that you're

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Speaker 1: tuning into the podcast the next morning, because you already know,

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Speaker 1: as witnessed over these last three weeks, we've got the

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Speaker 1: best guests and the best recaps in town. And let

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Speaker 1: me just tell you, people are geeked up about this season.

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Speaker 1: I have people messaging me no Lie that have never

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Speaker 1: watched The Bachelorette. So it's the Whatever the promotion is

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Speaker 1: for this season is drawing a brand new audience and

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Speaker 1: I'm here for it. I love it. Make sure you,

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Speaker 1: the show. Yes, Rachel, and you know we got to

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Speaker 1: say it until we're blue in the face. But everybody,

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