Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Stephen is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and he thinks that his girlfriend, Ashley of two years,
Speaker 1: might be messing around, so we'll see if we can
Speaker 1: help him out. Steven, thanks for coming on the show.
Speaker 1: Sorry it has to be like this, but what's going on?
Speaker 1: Why do you think Ashley's cheating?
Speaker 2: I've been seeing Ashley for like two years, to be honest.
Speaker 2: It's been a little rough recently, and I just I'm
Speaker 2: just wondering if this is like the last straw, you know.
Speaker 3: What I mean, what has been causing all of the
Speaker 3: bumps If you don't mind me like getting kind of personal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, of course, she's just been kind of sketchy lately.
Speaker 2: She so like, lie, it's about dumb, but like, you know,
Speaker 2: so like forget to check in or you know, she
Speaker 2: like promises me like, oh yeah, I'll call you later,
Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden she like just goes
Speaker 2: like ghost protocol and vanishes, and I'm just like, you know,
Speaker 2: it's like and then there's even dumb little like around
Speaker 2: the house, like we'll be you know, sitting on the other
Speaker 2: ends of the couch and I'll see that she's texting someone,
Speaker 2: and then when I ask her about it, she pretends
Speaker 2: like she's not actually texting.
Speaker 4: She was on like Instagram or something.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, I don't care if you're texting someone,
Speaker 2: just don't.
Speaker 5: Lie about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And like when I'll ask her about it, it's
Speaker 2: like she'll like snap too real quick, Like it's it's
Speaker 2: not like, oh yeah, it's nothing. It's like, oh no, no,
Speaker 2: you know, it's one of those things where it's it
Speaker 2: just feels really sketchy. I'm not like, I'm not over controlling.
Speaker 2: I'm like super chill, and I've never had a problem
Speaker 2: with a relationship before where I cheated or my partner cheated.
Speaker 2: But this is like I've been talking to some of
Speaker 2: my buddies about this, and it's like it just feels
Speaker 2: weird and it feels like she's like she's lying.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, she's never been like this before.
Speaker 3: This is the first time that she's kind of she's
Speaker 3: always been honest and open with you.
Speaker 2: I think the thing that's that's hard is that she's
Speaker 2: we're very different, and that she's friends with her exes
Speaker 2: and like like when I say friends, I mean like friends,
Speaker 2: and I can be friendly around people have dated and
Speaker 2: I'll like see.
Speaker 4: You know every once in a while in public, but
Speaker 4: like she's.
Speaker 2: It's like there's one of her axes tie she she.
Speaker 4: Still talks to them all the time.
Speaker 2: And I'm trying to be cool about it. I'm trying
Speaker 2: to like, you know, not be jerk, but but it
Speaker 2: really since lately he's like she'll be they'll be on
Speaker 2: Snapchat together and I'm like, what the hell is going on?
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so, okay, well that is that is weird.
Speaker 4: Well I mean it's not just like that they're like
Speaker 4: snapping each other or whatever.
Speaker 2: I don't do that, but you know, it's like it's
Speaker 2: not just that, it's that she's like he'll post videos
Speaker 2: of like him and Ashley hanging out. I reached out
Speaker 2: to him direct and I thought, you know, I'll just
Speaker 2: shut it down. You know, I was worried she'd get
Speaker 2: all pissy and then she deny it and then like.
Speaker 5: Attack me about it.
Speaker 4: So I was like, you know what, I'm just dude.
Speaker 2: The dude, I can just you know, just message him
Speaker 2: and this sorry, but this guy he flipped out and
Speaker 2: basically like told me.
Speaker 4: To off that they were just friends. I'm jealous as see.
Speaker 2: He got pissed off at me, and then of course
Speaker 2: she comes back. He tells her about it, and then
Speaker 2: she's screaming and yelling at me, and you know, for
Speaker 2: like an hour I had to leave.
Speaker 4: I was just like, this is too much.
Speaker 1: We'll try to figure out you told us at grocery store.
Speaker 1: She's a rewards card Ma Brett. So we'll play a
Speaker 1: song come back, and then call and pretend to be
Speaker 1: from there and say that she's the lucky winners this
Speaker 1: month of free flowers delivered from our flooral department. We'll
Speaker 1: see if he sends those to you or to somebody else. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm good, all right, well place, I'll come back.
Speaker 2: You.
Speaker 1: You're to catch cheeter next right in the middle of
Speaker 1: to catch a cheater and if you're just joining us,
Speaker 1: Steven is on the phone and he thinks that his
Speaker 1: girlfriend of two years, Ashley, might be cheating on him.
Speaker 1: So we're about to call from the grocery store that
Speaker 1: she's a rewards card member at and tell her that
Speaker 1: she's this month's lucky winner of free flowers. Delivered to
Speaker 1: anybody that she wants from our flooral apartment, and we'll
Speaker 1: see if she sends them to her boyfriend Steven or
Speaker 1: to somebody else. But before we do that, Stephen, why
Speaker 1: don't you catch us up on your situation.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So, like you said, we've been together for a while now,
Speaker 2: and the last few months I just fell to her
Speaker 2: kind of pulling away. And there's a lot of little
Speaker 2: stuff that she does, like texting and you know, posting
Speaker 2: videos and laughing about things and then not.
Speaker 4: When they share them with me. But mostly I'm on.
Speaker 2: Here because her ex Tie has been posting the snapchats
Speaker 2: and they've been hanging out a lot.
Speaker 4: And when I confronted.
Speaker 5: Him about it, she.
Speaker 2: Tried to rip me a new ass, and then she
Speaker 2: ripped me an even bigger ass.
Speaker 4: It's gotten bad, and uh.
Speaker 2: She denies everything, but the way she denies it and
Speaker 2: the way he's denying it, it's just there's something fishing
Speaker 2: fishy going on here.
Speaker 1: So all right, well, are you ready for us to
Speaker 1: call her?
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm afraid about what the answer might be,
Speaker 4: but yeah, no, little fourth, please here we go.
Speaker 5: Caut me out of my misery.
Speaker 1: Now, Hi, this is Corbin calling from I was looking
Speaker 1: for our rewards card member named Ashley.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 4: Interesting, Hi Ashley.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling to say congratulations. You're this must big winner.
Speaker 1: Thank you for shopping with us.
Speaker 6: When did I win?
Speaker 1: Oh, the flowers. Every single month, we choose one rewards
Speaker 1: card member, completely at random, who gets free flowers delivered
Speaker 1: from our Florida department. You've won thirty six long stim
Speaker 1: red roses, a box of candy or chocolates, and a
Speaker 1: card to be delivered to anybody that you want within
Speaker 1: the United States of America.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, that's so cool.
Speaker 1: Like I said, it's our way of saying thank you.
Speaker 1: There is no charge. You'll get confirmation on everything that
Speaker 1: you're just our like customer of the month.
Speaker 6: Basically, oh my god, that's so fun. Thank you.
Speaker 1: First thing I would need, if you know, you know,
Speaker 1: he wants them to know, is just the first and
Speaker 1: last name of the person you'd like to send them to.
Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah, it's to tie.
Speaker 1: Tie and then agains the last name. Okay, and did
Speaker 1: you want to include a card or anything to tie?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Getting you flowers for one?
Speaker 4: I love you what that is going on, Ashley.
Speaker 1: Actually, this is actually the Jewbil Show. It's a radio show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and we do a segment where it called to catch
Speaker 1: a teeter and your boyfriend Stephen is actually on the.
Speaker 4: Phone, which going on as kidding me. No, he's not
Speaker 4: kidding you.
Speaker 7: You're like trying to like catch me in some wrongdoing.
Speaker 7: You're calling a radio station. But I like frank me
Speaker 7: and trick me.
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to trick you or you Just why
Speaker 2: why are you sending flowers to Tie?
Speaker 6: Because Tie is my friend?
Speaker 4: You see send flowers to all your friends and say
Speaker 4: love you.
Speaker 7: Well, nobody's ever offered me three flowers to send you
Speaker 7: a friend before.
Speaker 4: So no, this is you could also send them to
Speaker 4: your boyfriend. Could you could have sent them to me
Speaker 4: to your boyfriend?
Speaker 7: Yeah, But honestly, would you like something like that? You
Speaker 7: probably just think it was girly and stupid.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, are you serious?
Speaker 2: No, I'd much rather have you send them to Tie,
Speaker 2: your ex.
Speaker 4: You spend way too much time with.
Speaker 2: You put out videos of you guys like laughing and
Speaker 2: giggling together.
Speaker 7: So it's like illegal to laugh when you have a
Speaker 7: boyfriend to like laugh at somebody else's jokes or like
Speaker 7: have friends on you.
Speaker 4: You're not.
Speaker 7: I'm not allowed to have friends outside of this relationship.
Speaker 6: That's crazy.
Speaker 4: Really, So you're just friends?
Speaker 6: Yes, we're just friends. I've said that like a million times.
Speaker 7: Like it's embarrassing how insecure you are about me having
Speaker 7: a friend who is somebody that I used to date.
Speaker 3: Well, you think it is weird actually that you're not
Speaker 3: understanding where he's coming from, Like that's your ex though,
Speaker 3: Like and he's telling you he's uncomfortable though, and you're
Speaker 3: dismissing at all.
Speaker 7: Because he's just making it out to be something that
Speaker 7: it's not. Like we have time and I haven't been
Speaker 7: together forever, like it's been so long. We're just friends?
Speaker 3: Is that true?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 7: And it's like all I hear, all I hear is
Speaker 7: like why this and why that.
Speaker 6: It's just like, oh my god, you're like obsessed with him?
Speaker 4: Is he?
Speaker 6: Are you? I? Honestly, I think this is like Stephen's issue.
Speaker 7: Like I never bring I never bring tie up, and
Speaker 7: he always has something to say about it and like
Speaker 7: always some like foul things to accuse me of.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you never bring him up because you're always too
Speaker 4: busy texting him.
Speaker 2: Okay, So then if if I was cool with one
Speaker 2: of my exes and actually hung out with them, you'd
Speaker 2: be totally fine with me sending her flowers and saying
Speaker 2: I love you.
Speaker 7: If you told me that you were just friends and
Speaker 7: there was nothing romantic going on, I would trust that.
Speaker 6: I would trust my boyfriend to not lie to me.
Speaker 7: And I don't know why you can't just trust me
Speaker 7: and have to make everything some sort of like deception.
Speaker 2: So so I can I can go ahead and call
Speaker 2: up Rebecca and send her some flowers today, and you're totally.
Speaker 4: Fine with that just thinking of you. I love you?
Speaker 6: Yeah, sure, it was just thinking of you.
Speaker 7: No, it's different because it's not like you guys have
Speaker 7: said friends.
Speaker 6: It's not like you.
Speaker 7: Guys like remain friends and friends and have like a
Speaker 7: good friendship the way to tie and I did.
Speaker 4: But that's so you're sending him flowers.
Speaker 6: I don't understand why you that would be coming from.
Speaker 7: Such a different place. That would be like you trying
Speaker 7: to rekindle something with her versus like we never stopped
Speaker 7: being friends after we broke up.
Speaker 3: But Ashley, what about like bringing your man into the
Speaker 3: situation too? So like you can all be friends because
Speaker 3: having it so separate makes everybody uncomfortable. So instead of
Speaker 3: like drawing such a hard line like this is my
Speaker 3: friend and you can't be friends with him too, like
Speaker 3: I mean, you know what I mean, just because if
Speaker 3: somebody is uncomfortable that you love, then you should care
Speaker 3: to try to help them feel better.
Speaker 7: I just think it's Tie and even are such different people,
Speaker 7: Like I just don't think that they would honestly hit
Speaker 7: it off have friends.
Speaker 2: You know what, if you really want to just if
Speaker 2: you want to hang out with him so much, why
Speaker 2: don't you just go back to.
Speaker 7: Because why I just don't know why or nothing's wrong.
Speaker 6: With him person.
Speaker 2: We just just want to have it both ways, you
Speaker 2: know what, you can just go on and do that
Speaker 2: with Tie.
Speaker 4: I'm I can't just sit here on the radio and
Speaker 4: talk to you about this. This is this is too much.
Speaker 4: I'm done.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, you.
Speaker 7: Can't sit and talk to me on the radio that
Speaker 7: you sabotage and because.
Speaker 2: You're lying, You're like, all right, I'm gonna I'm gonna go,
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, guys.
Speaker 5: I gotta go.
Speaker 3: Sorry, good luck.
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