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Speaker 1: I want to get to the morning hack tubs. Do

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Speaker 1: you argue a lot with your girlfriend? No? No, I

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Speaker 1: don't you and Gabby's Gabby argue with you. Yeah, she

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Speaker 1: argues with me, what do you what do you do? No? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: uh no. We have little we have little things here

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Speaker 1: and there, but you take it to the jojo. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we do usually take it to the mat. They both

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Speaker 1: jujitsu together.

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Speaker 2: All right, So arguments with your partner are inevitable, But

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Speaker 2: marriage counselors say you should avoid using these two words

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Speaker 2: to keep it healthy.

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Speaker 1: The words are always and never.

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Speaker 2: And that is true because you know you say you

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Speaker 2: always do this, you never clean up.

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Speaker 1: It's that it's just not true.

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Speaker 2: For me. The word is always, man, that is something

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Speaker 2: that I need to change because we don't always do

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Speaker 2: it you more often than not or sometimes you And

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Speaker 2: that's what bothers.

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Speaker 1: You always and never are just not true than we

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Speaker 1: need to use.

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Speaker 2: Or sometimes. But when anybody says you always or you never,

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Speaker 2: I say to them, not true, she's not true. She's

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Speaker 2: not factually accurate.

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Speaker 1: And then and then you're defensive, and then you get

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Speaker 1: nowhere because I say, we're about to argue. I need

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Speaker 1: to take a walk. Is that what you do? I

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Speaker 1: take a lot of walks. You grab Jeorgie. Do you

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Speaker 1: get Georgia and you leave?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: I grab Jojo and we take a walk. You're in Jojo. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Judge on the radio.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So that I'm just telling you now, just put

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Speaker 2: in your head.

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Speaker 1: You say it.

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Speaker 2: If you say it, fine, just correct yourself. Yeah you

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Speaker 2: always I should let me correct you. You don't always,

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Speaker 2: But when you do this, it makes me spin. M

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Speaker 2: Today's quote, Monday Quote. Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments.

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Speaker 1: That is a great