WEBVTT - U Dont Know Me 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:03.320 All the tea that y'all have on us is because 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:06.720 we gave it to you. Everything that y'all know about 0:00:06.800 --> 0:00:08.880 us is because we have talked about it on the 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:11.680 show and we have been vulnerable and honest. You have 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:15.200 never clocked our tea because you really saw something or 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:15.920 found something. 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:19.320 And realistically speaking, ivy curving niggas that you niggas be 0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:23.560 ready to FuG booty whole wid wide open, busted wide 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:28.120 opens booty like what blown out? 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:51.080 What's up? 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:51.400 Y'all? 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:54.080 Is your girl lix Pete and it's sugar jer in 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:57.360 the call and you are tuned in to another episode of. 0:00:57.400 --> 0:01:00.680 Poor Mine, where a drunk mind speaks sought. 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:04.679 We ain't got no gifts today. We ain't got no 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:10.360 gifts today. Hey you know what? Yeah, let me just 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:12.920 say this. I have to give us our flowers and 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.520 our things. We just went on a crazy press run 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:19.680 and we got so much good content that's out right now, 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:22.600 like we did Roya Mall. Shout out to Roya Mall. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:27.160 That was a fire episode. Hopefully by the time this drops, 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:28.960 EYO will have dropped. I think it should have. I 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:33.280 think it's gonna drop this week. Actually shot out to 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:36.040 RuSHA and Troy. 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.680 And we did the name it is wrong with you? 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:41.920 I'm a little tipsy? 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:42.640 Who is? 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:46.720 And that was my fancy lady. 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:51.560 I'm gonna talk about a trouble queens, but we're gonna 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:53.520 get to that in a second. But we just did 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:55.080 a breakfast club. 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:59.600 With you don't need but however for me, as for 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:00.800 me and my family? 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.920 Are we? But yeah, we just had breakfast club Royal Man, 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:07.080 aren't your leisure? And oh my gosh, like we just 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:10.600 took New York over. We was in the streets stomping around. 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:15.120 What else is new? And then we did open thoughts 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:18.560 with Marco Summers. Our episode with him dropped last week. 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.400 Four months we did two open thoughts with Marcos. 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:25.840 Shout out to Marco Summers. I think we have been doing. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:26.440 A great job. 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:30.720 I just feel like every time people think we have peaked, 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:32.560 we just keep on push. 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:35.000 I don't really understand why people think that there's a 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:35.799 ped Well. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:38.520 I think people are mean, Well know people are mean 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:39.480 to us on Twitter. 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:44.240 I'm about to deactivate my Twitter person there with well, 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:47.040 I probably will delete it. To be honest, I just 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:52.080 feel like real celebrities like real I mean to be honest, 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:54.320 I think at one point it was like an era 0:02:54.480 --> 0:03:01.120 where like Kim Kardashi and Rihanna negsweet, but Kim Kardashian Rihanna, 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:04.160 I think jay Z used to be tweeting, quote because 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:07.360 quote me if I'm wrong, let me know if I'm 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:08.440 wrong in the comments, y'all. 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:11.240 But I think jay Z kan Kanye still be tweeting. 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:14.200 But jay Z did because I remember he said he tweeted. 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:15.840 He I feel like jay Z had a Twitter. 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:18.760 He tweeted. He was like, hey, lex follow back and 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:20.080 I was like, oh, what's up? 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:20.280 Bro? 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:21.640 Yeah, so he. 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:23.960 That was a burner. I mean, not even a burner, 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:26.560 my bad. That was a fake account. A burner be 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:30.239 actually people, it actually be the person try it. 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:34.520 That is a fake account up follow back. 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:36.720 But no, I do I feel like it was a 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:39.600 point in time maybe like ten years ago, because it's 0:03:39.600 --> 0:03:43.480 twenty twenty five right now. So yeah, ten fifteen years 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:46.760 ago where celebrities did used to be on Twitter tweeting 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:49.280 and stuff, and now she used to be monetizing their tweets, 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:51.560 baking because Kim Kardashi used to make like, I think 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:53.680 two thousand, three thousand dollars. 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:54.720 It was more than that. 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:56.480 It was more than that, but like she used to 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:59.080 make money from promoting things on Twitter. 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:02.080 I just think we're in an era now where. 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:05.800 It's nothing but like troll. I've been on Twitter like 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:08.400 nothing but miserable people. Don't get me wrong, it's still 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:10.360 some of some of y'all are nights like. It is 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:13.000 a lot of people on Twitter who support poor minds, 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:18.000 who support Lenx and I, but it's also a lot 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:23.039 of very negative, mean people like bitch, I can't say nothing. 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:25.240 We're gonna talk about what you said in the second 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:26.719 because I'm. 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:29.120 In I say what I said. 0:04:29.279 --> 0:04:31.640 But I'm getting a shout out to niny Lee. I'm 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:34.120 getting attacked right now. I'm getting called all kind of 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:40.679 N words. Why because I twiteted so Aiden Ross the streamer. Yeah, 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:42.960 he went on a stream the other day. He called 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:45.960 Meg thee Stallion the B word and was talking about 0:04:46.000 --> 0:04:49.440 free Toy. Then he decides to say that do she 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:52.839 is unintelligent and she's a beat B word. So I 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:55.479 was like, he's always speaking on black women and it's 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:58.280 never positive. Because my thing is, if you always want 0:04:58.320 --> 0:04:58.640 to be in. 0:04:58.600 --> 0:05:01.359 This black these blacks spaces. 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:03.640 Okay, I get it, you don't have to like every 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:06.640 person whatever, but at least be positive. Do you ever 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:09.960 have anything to say about anything with black women? So 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:11.920 I said, I was like, damn, he's a little too 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:13.400 comfortable speaking negatively. 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.080 I saw that. Oh, they are in my mentions. You know, 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.400 you went viral. It didn't go viral. 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:20.279 It didn't go viral, but it has like a thousand 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:23.400 retweets whatever. But they are in my comments calling me 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:26.960 everything but a child of God. But guess what, I 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:28.680 don't give a damn about no streamers. 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:29.679 I'm not in that world. 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:34.520 Y'all, don't scare me. I said what I said, stop 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:37.800 being in these black spaces and speaking on black women. 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.080 Y'all don't know how hard it is for us to 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:41.120 be in these spaces. 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:42.440 Because you're a. 0:05:42.279 --> 0:05:45.320 White man who gets to do whatever y'all want to do. 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:48.080 It's different for us. So again I say, if you're 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:51.919 gonna be in black spaces, you need to move a 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:54.279 little better. But of course he doesn't have to because 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:58.039 you have black men who allow him in these spaces. 0:05:57.560 --> 0:05:59.960 And they be around him and allowing him to. 0:05:59.880 --> 0:06:02.000 Do whatever he wants to do because of his name 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:02.680 and who he is. 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:05.360 But I said what I said, Well, I tweeted something 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:05.720 like that. 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:09.160 I tweeted something that was similar to that earlier today 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:14.200 because it was a particular celebrity who made a post. 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:18.720 I saw that too, about the Cassie and d D trial, 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:23.960 Yes or whatever, And this particular celebrity is always on 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:29.839 the Internet spewing ignorance and misogyny, and people are always 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:32.560 in our comments saying, oh, y'all need to have this 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:33.240 person on the show. 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:36.600 How while I do think that he is a hoots, agreed, 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:38.600 I would never. 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:41.680 Care to have him on this show because he's always 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:44.960 on the Internet saying some bullsheet that I. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:45.800 Don't agree with. 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.440 So I said nothing about the particular person, but I 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:52.279 just made a separate tweet. Well, I did retweet the 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:55.200 tweet and I put like the little side I faid. 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:58.840 But after that I made a tweet. I composed a 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:02.120 tweet and I said, you know, I really wish a 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:05.080 lot of these celebrity men would ship the fuck up, 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:09.000 because every time they get on the Internet, they're saying 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:13.120 some bullshit and needs nothing, and the misogyny is jumping out. 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:18.360 The misogyny is jumping out these y'all face. Somebody responded 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:20.680 to me and they said Andrea, which. 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:23.440 My name is Drea. 0:07:24.800 --> 0:07:27.960 It is Dre and the cold because I hate. 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:33.400 Because when people call me my first name, me too. 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:36.880 Bro it pissed it when I say, and it boils 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:40.000 my blood. Do not call me by my fucking first 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:41.360 name if you don't know me like that. 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:45.600 Get you don't know me like that, getting bad. 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:50.480 You don't know me like in a word. So come 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:55.320 on and the words of big called bag big give. 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:57.640 Me fifty feet, Give me fifty feet. 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:02.840 Because y'all do not know me. I didn't know you 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:04.120 knew I go. 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:10.240 You don't know the words. 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:13.760 Actually, that's why you were trying to low key do 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.280 background box. But you would have made me waste my 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:20.120 drink on myself shaking his damn who she's shaking the table. 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:23.600 You made me waste this ship on myself. 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:27.200 But no, so yeah, so thank you, thank you, because 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:29.120 I was looking for the tweet where the dude, because 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:32.440 I retweeted the guy they said something crazy to me. 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:39.640 He gonna say, He said, Andrea, we know you'd be 0:08:39.720 --> 0:08:43.360 quick today for money and fame to stop. I said, 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:45.840 I'm already getting the money and the fame too, without 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:48.240 having to be publicly attached to a man, what's your knicks? 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:50.600 Argus? Oh clocket? 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:54.200 Because where do people that? 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.040 And that's why I said I'm gonna take a break 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:56.800 from Twitter, thank you. 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:58.600 See, That's why I said I'm just. 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:02.800 About to deactivate my Twitter because y'all are losers. Respectfully, 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.480 you don't know me. I don't know you. You don't 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:08.000 know me. All everything you know about me you know 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.240 from poor minds. You don't know nobody y'all dated. You 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:12.600 don't know none of my friends. You don't know anything 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:15.120 that I have going on. But you have created this 0:09:15.240 --> 0:09:17.839 opinion about me where you feel like I would date 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:20.080 for fame and money. If I would date for fame 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:23.720 and money, why ain't ity a lot of your faves 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:27.319 be trying to holler turning it down? 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:28.600 Curry. 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.319 I also say that all the tea that y'all have 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:35.160 on us is because we gave it to you. Everything 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:37.840 that y'all know about us is because we have talked 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:40.079 about it on the show and we have been vulnerable 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:43.480 and honest. You have never clocked our tea because you 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:45.440 really saw something or found something. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:48.840 And realistically speaking, ivy curving niggas, that you niggas be 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:53.480 ready to FuG booty whole Why why open busted wide open? 0:09:53.960 --> 0:10:00.240 Oh booty like what blown out? Like a I think 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:01.040 what juvenile said? 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:04.200 He said loose booted something something I don't know, but 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:06.400 if the gangster can't hit it, what you're busting it for? 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:08.200 But I will be. 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:12.240 For real, y'all be just saying anything. 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:15.480 And then I think people love to speak on you 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:19.120 and I and the things that we said five or 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:22.760 so years ago. We've evolved into all different people and 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:25.520 it's like that's that's okay though, because that's a version 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:26.000 of myself. 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.360 But I ain't never ashamed of any version. All the 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:30.120 episodes are still Yeah, I'm never. 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:32.920 Ashamed of any version of me. Cringey at times some 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:35.199 of the things that I will say, but I'm not ashamed. 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:37.920 That's why they're still up because we always have the power, 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:40.000 like you just said, to delete the ship if. 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:42.679 We don't want it up. Delete for what, but deleted 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.360 for what? It's not that deed. 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:48.000 So the things that people be thinking is a clockable 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:51.440 moment or you think you're really saying something profound, you 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:54.000 ain't really saying shit because you don't know me, and 0:10:54.040 --> 0:10:58.280 you never have receiveds who somebody said you saying all 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:00.800 of these, but you'll be moving in them circles. 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:06.880 With who in what circles? Where are the receipts? 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:09.640 And this is what I have to say. I like, 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:11.959 like I said, out of all the apps, is the 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:14.440 one app that you don't make money on, and I 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.360 think this is what it is. Though I think people 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:18.720 are mad because we graduated from that app and a 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:20.679 lot of people want to do what we're doing. 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:23.280 We was on the couch in our house right and 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:25.640 now we've elevated and y'all still. 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:28.920 Couch and this is not me just be but y'all 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:31.520 are be so rude to us on there. It's crazy 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:34.880 because when when drama goes on with poor Minds retweets 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:39.600 three thousand, these birds retweets three thousand, but when it's 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:44.160 something positive retweets eight retweets. Folk which camera is my 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:44.560 camera for? 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.559 Let me look directly at this camera when I say these, 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:53.560 because I mean this wholeheartedly. No opinion of anybody that 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:58.040 is on the X app, the Instagram app, the TikTok app, 0:11:58.480 --> 0:11:59.480 none of these apps. 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:01.760 Like y'all's opinion don't matter. 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:04.520 It's not going to ever stop anything from me and 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:05.960 Lex because this is God. 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:09.400 Ordained an annoyance. We're annointed. 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:13.200 Our lives have been annoyed long before y'all ever met us. 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:15.480 We were supposed to be on the path. This was 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:18.640 already the past for our life. Y'all can't stop shet. 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:21.240 All y'all can do is be mad and keep watching 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:21.960 the elevation. 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:24.280 And this is for anybody. 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:28.200 I was on the path of doing hair, doing makeup, 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:30.800 you know, being a doctor, being a lawyer. Don't let 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.319 nobody talk about you and get you off your path. 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:35.240 And to all the people that are supported and have 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:39.800 been positive, I love y'all, I see I love y'all, school, y'all, 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:42.679 my people, y'all are all people. Because the fact that 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:46.439 two black women shout out to travel queens. We had 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:49.880 a great season. The season finale was last week. You 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:51.400 make sure y'all run it up so we can get 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:54.520 a season. To the fact that two black women got 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:58.840 a travel show and having fun because y'all made that happen. 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:02.320 So to the support orders, thank y'all, because y'all know 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:04.120 our hearts and y'all see us, and y'all know who 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:06.280 we are. It's just the people who tune in. It'd 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:09.040 be people who we don't even get a word out. 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.120 They look at us and to be like, who are 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:15.920 these ghetto birds? This ghetto bird has a college degree 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:19.760 and I started from nothing. We both started from nothing 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.960 and made something happen. Y'all are mad because the American 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:26.440 dream looks like what these white people told y'all. And 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:29.680 two black not only two women, but two black women 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.800 made the American dream happen and that wasn't in the 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:34.920 cards for what they wanted it to be. But you 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:36.360 don't get me on my woke shit now. 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:40.120 But you know what's interesting to me, instead of being inspired, 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:42.480 it's so crazy to me that people would just rather 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:46.000 tear down black women who came from the same space 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:48.040 as them, because we did start off like on Twitter, 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:51.960 on the program, just on the timeline. And I feel like, 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:56.040 now that we've elevated to this level that a lot 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:59.440 of other people haven't elevated to, it's so much backlash, 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:01.920 it's so much negativt is so much what you said 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:03.240 these five years ago. 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:06.760 He sure was five years ago, five years ago. 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:09.720 Look at what I'm doing now currently, and what are 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:11.440 you doing now talking about what I was doing five 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:11.960 years ago? 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:13.839 But it's so crazy because you don't on the app. 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:16.000 They don't even let you mute stuff anymore. So I 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:19.040 can't even they I mute stuff and you can still see. 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:22.840 But even with and we've been to talk about that. 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:27.280 My friend Diamond shout out to Diamond, mother of Gotti 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:30.080 on Twitter. She went viral recently because she was having 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:32.280 a moment with her grandmother and her grandmother's party. She's 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:36.600 working and dancing. First of all, my friend is West Indian. Okay, 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:39.560 that's her culture. That's what they do. They twork, they dance. 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:42.960 They don't look at it as sexual. Okay, she's dancing 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:44.880 on her grandma. Her grandma is laughing. 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:48.760 And cause it's like the second or third time the 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:49.560 video went. 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:52.320 Viral, right, She's having a good time, her grandmother's laughing, 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:55.920 her grandmother's not discusting. She knows her granddaughter, she says 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:57.960 what she does on social media. She knows what she is, 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:00.440 and she loves her and she accepts her. And she's 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:02.800 having a good time. But instead of seeing this moment, 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:07.160 y'all try to rip her to stress for what because 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:10.600 this is something that you wouldn't do with your grandmother. 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:14.440 Your grannie ain't lead and your granny. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:19.880 Probably dad, just like mine grannie did. 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:21.280 Who am. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:23.000 Well? 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:25.920 You know he is confusing with me. Both of my 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:29.280 biological grannies are alive. My grannies they raise. 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:34.800 But I'm just saying, leave people alone, scroll past things 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:39.360 you don't like. Stop calling people bitches, especially as women 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:41.920 and black women and black men. We need to stop 0:15:41.960 --> 0:15:43.840 speaking to each other like that. We need to stop 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:46.680 letting people in our spaces and talk about each other 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:47.080 like that. 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:48.120 It's just like this. 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:51.600 If I got a problem with what Drea does, I'm 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:54.720 gonna tell her. But public, where are you? Not your wind? 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:56.000 Smell my? 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:57.560 What your wind. 0:15:59.760 --> 0:15:59.840 Is? 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:00.560 Well? 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:04.040 Not the twart because you didn't. Yeah, I smelled it. 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:06.480 I said, you know what I do? Now you know 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:07.000 what it is? 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:07.640 What is it? 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:11.120 So? I've been doing this for years? But okay, my 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:13.400 three best compliments that I get all the time is 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:16.600 I'm funny. My looks in the way I smell. You 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:20.760 know why the girls have stopped powdering, y'all? 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:20.960 Don't? 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:24.280 Oh I powder down? I have. 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:25.280 It's called. 0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:27.720 My beautiful. 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:30.640 Yeah, I've been using it since I've been in high school. 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:32.160 You use that andyodoring? 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:35.320 Yes, So I put my deodorant on, I put my 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:35.840 powder on. 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:38.640 I put the powder on my taties. I put it. 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:42.760 Underneath the booty crack. Sometimes I'll dab it on the 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:44.640 back of my neck. So I have a body oil 0:16:44.680 --> 0:16:47.200 that I use. What's the one that we like the 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:52.160 pink bottle? I can't think of bottle. Pink bottle I got. 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:57.280 I like the no Delena, Oh, the I got the 0:16:57.320 --> 0:16:59.400 body oil. So I put the body oil and it 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:02.520 makes me really really greasy. So well it doesn't. It's 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:04.840 a dry oil, so it drives down. But while it's 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:08.760 still wet, I put that powder on and it makes 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:11.920 my skin matt Then I go in with my leves 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:16.159 Bell lotion. The girls. 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:17.240 Don't y'all need to. 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:17.960 Powder it up? 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:21.080 Now, I personally don't use powder. But what I do 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:23.600 think is a gem that I'm dropping for the girls 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:27.560 is I use booty deodoring, oh and stuff. Now, do 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:29.560 have a body so I have a Yeah, So I 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:31.840 have a I have a body deodorant where it's really 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:33.680 called booty theodoring. 0:17:33.359 --> 0:17:38.280 Booty, booty, booty. 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:41.400 You gotta say booty with so much because we got 0:17:41.440 --> 0:17:43.760 a wee because we got boot No, I don't have 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:44.879 a booty no more, you do. 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:45.679 I have a. 0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:48.080 I have a rear end. 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:52.160 I'm skinny, rump, I have a rump now, I'm thin, 0:17:52.880 --> 0:17:54.080 I'm very skinny. 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:55.160 You are skinny. 0:17:55.160 --> 0:17:57.760 But I do think you still got that thing on. 0:17:58.040 --> 0:18:00.560 I got a little cuff. I do, but I don't 0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:02.520 have to putant under that cup. 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:03.320 I still do. 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:04.159 I put powder. 0:18:04.400 --> 0:18:05.160 That's what I'm saying. 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:08.919 You gotta put something under that cup. Hey, because that crease. 0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:16.359 Oh that do do if you don't oil it down, 0:18:16.640 --> 0:18:17.640 theodoring it down. 0:18:17.640 --> 0:18:19.080 Okay, So what's the powder now? 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:21.600 So I be using the booty the utterant, So you 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:23.879 gotta put it up the crack. 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:25.880 Oh so we can go in there? 0:18:26.000 --> 0:18:29.080 Yeah, okay, so we can go in there. Okay, do 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:31.600 you put it underneath the crease the cuff? 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:32.040 Okay? 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:36.879 Do you put it underneath your breast? You know, I 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:40.600 love the breast. Breast is very mature. 0:18:40.880 --> 0:18:43.800 But I'm also getting very mature, so I should start using. 0:18:44.640 --> 0:18:47.480 I'm thirty four, now I have bredge. You definitely got breast. 0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:50.960 I have bridge. They all this time for a redo. 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:55.000 You got bread. He is ten years old. They definitely breast. 0:18:56.640 --> 0:19:01.679 That was the year or two, not a bren. I 0:19:01.680 --> 0:19:04.080 got my new ones in twenty twenty two. But you 0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:06.800 ain't gotta get them swapped out. No, I don't have 0:19:06.840 --> 0:19:08.760 to do nothing. That's what I gotta do. Though, Yet 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:10.320 it's almost a time. 0:19:11.280 --> 0:19:11.680 I have. 0:19:13.800 --> 0:19:19.639 Brisk So me and my breasts we need a little 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:22.840 extra body. Yeah, we need to be secure. So that's 0:19:22.880 --> 0:19:24.879 what y'all have to start doing. Y'all need to find 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:28.239 some type of layer to put in the creasy. What 0:19:28.320 --> 0:19:31.320 ever works for you, whether it's a powder, whether it's 0:19:31.320 --> 0:19:34.840 a deodory, whether it's you know, a little. 0:19:34.600 --> 0:19:37.600 Spray or something. You need to do something. 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:39.640 Well, no, this is the problem. Y'all are getting out 0:19:39.640 --> 0:19:43.479 the shower, drying off with a towel and just spraying 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:44.240 yourself in lotion. 0:19:44.359 --> 0:19:45.040 That's not enough. 0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:49.680 First, it starts in a shower, so I have it's 0:19:49.680 --> 0:19:53.600 called it's a body wash. It's a neutralizer. What oh, 0:19:53.680 --> 0:19:56.640 I don't have my phone. What's that body company called? 0:19:56.760 --> 0:19:59.080 Nobody got their phone? Anyways, I can't think of the 0:19:59.200 --> 0:20:02.680 name that pitch. Let me see, I'm weak. So it's 0:20:02.680 --> 0:20:07.080 a body wash that neutralizes the body older. So no 0:20:07.119 --> 0:20:10.000 matter what you've been doing, it's gonna clean your body, 0:20:10.000 --> 0:20:13.119 but it's gonna neutralize the older. Right, So after I 0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:16.920 do that. Then I go in with my neo Cinema cinema. 0:20:16.920 --> 0:20:19.400 Did I say it right? I don't know neo cinema 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:20.760 cinema not whatever. 0:20:20.960 --> 0:20:21.760 That what she said. 0:20:21.960 --> 0:20:24.560 It's a vitamin C body wash, so I go in 0:20:24.600 --> 0:20:28.640 with that afterwards. Then on my third wash, that's when 0:20:28.680 --> 0:20:30.600 I go in with my leves Bell. 0:20:32.040 --> 0:20:34.480 Body body. Two washes. 0:20:34.520 --> 0:20:36.320 I don't do three. Well, the only reason I do. 0:20:36.440 --> 0:20:39.520 I do two and then I do two Kuci washes 0:20:39.840 --> 0:20:40.840 with the Kuchi cleaning. 0:20:41.040 --> 0:20:45.879 Only reason I do three is because the the neutralizer. 0:20:46.680 --> 0:20:47.960 I need that older. 0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:54.040 You know how, sometimes your natural pheromones, sometimes people just 0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:58.520 stink naturally. I don't stink naturally, but just in case 0:20:58.560 --> 0:21:00.199 I did, I don't know if I do. I've been 0:21:00.240 --> 0:21:02.560 clean for so long. I don't know what my natural family. 0:21:02.440 --> 0:21:05.040 You know, I disagree. I feel like you would know 0:21:05.080 --> 0:21:08.520 if you do. I think people that think naturally they 0:21:08.640 --> 0:21:10.960 know they ignore it. Oh well, I don't know. 0:21:11.000 --> 0:21:13.520 If I sink I be so clean, I think they 0:21:13.680 --> 0:21:15.160 so fresh and so clean clean. 0:21:15.240 --> 0:21:16.600 Yeah, I feel like that's something. 0:21:16.400 --> 0:21:18.439 That we can say about ourselves. We don't have a 0:21:18.480 --> 0:21:21.280 reputation for being Musis baby. We got a reputation or 0:21:21.359 --> 0:21:22.479 having bad breads. 0:21:22.880 --> 0:21:25.120 Do you know that's the number one compliment I get 0:21:25.119 --> 0:21:27.560 when I hop in the uber every time they'd be like, 0:21:27.560 --> 0:21:28.520 you smell so good. 0:21:28.720 --> 0:21:30.920 That's my number one compliment to People are always like, 0:21:30.960 --> 0:21:33.360 oh my god, what do you got so? 0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:35.080 And then they be saying it to sex one. 0:21:35.119 --> 0:21:38.320 I'd be like, hold on now, so listen this. I'm 0:21:38.320 --> 0:21:39.240 gonna tell you the next steps. 0:21:39.760 --> 0:21:41.040 They're a little too excited. 0:21:41.359 --> 0:21:45.399 The third wash jump. The third wash is always the 0:21:46.200 --> 0:21:49.320 perfume stuff. So my third wash, I go in with 0:21:49.400 --> 0:21:53.399 my levis Bell body wash because that's just the smell 0:21:53.480 --> 0:21:56.600 good I get out. It depends how much time I have. 0:21:56.720 --> 0:22:00.359 But I air dry. I air dry. But what I 0:22:00.400 --> 0:22:03.240 do is I put on my Deleaner body oil while 0:22:03.240 --> 0:22:07.080 I'm still wet. I'm still wet, Okay, I let that 0:22:07.200 --> 0:22:09.280 lock in. I let that lock in, so I'm still 0:22:09.320 --> 0:22:10.040 a little greasy. 0:22:10.320 --> 0:22:12.240 Then I go on with my powder, my. 0:22:12.359 --> 0:22:15.879 Estate Loda power on your whole body. I do behind 0:22:15.880 --> 0:22:19.280 the knees. I do with my crease. I do with 0:22:19.359 --> 0:22:22.359 my little thigh crease right here behind knee. Behind that. 0:22:22.760 --> 0:22:25.040 Yeah, I'll do it right here. And I do under 0:22:25.040 --> 0:22:25.639 my arms. 0:22:25.680 --> 0:22:27.760 And let's talk about something real, queen, you cannot be 0:22:27.800 --> 0:22:29.760 a bad bitch if you stank behind the ear. 0:22:30.760 --> 0:22:34.080 What who's stank behind the ear? That's crazy? 0:22:34.880 --> 0:22:37.880 Do you watch behind your ear? Yes? Every song? 0:22:38.440 --> 0:22:40.760 Every time I was just shaking. Well, you know I 0:22:40.840 --> 0:22:44.560 got to do because I like to dig in there too. Yeah, 0:22:44.840 --> 0:22:47.239 I be using I use qt ill stay say you're 0:22:47.240 --> 0:22:48.280 not opposed to use them. 0:22:48.280 --> 0:22:49.359 I still use them. 0:22:49.240 --> 0:22:52.719 Most old school, my old school. I like to make 0:22:52.760 --> 0:22:54.200 sure I get sitting there for real. 0:22:54.240 --> 0:22:54.879 I got to hear this. 0:22:56.359 --> 0:23:04.800 Mm hmm, I agree. 0:23:05.200 --> 0:23:07.200 Hey, hey, I like to hear everything. 0:23:07.320 --> 0:23:14.560 I like to hear some so period, so exactly. But 0:23:14.680 --> 0:23:18.840 people don't be washing. That's the thing stinking behind your 0:23:18.920 --> 0:23:21.760 ears and your navels thinking, well, I have a I 0:23:21.880 --> 0:23:24.640 used to have an audi. Are we too warn to say? 0:23:24.680 --> 0:23:27.080 If we say navel, people be saying belly button. 0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:31.840 Well I've always had an audi growing up. But when 0:23:31.880 --> 0:23:34.359 I had my what's it called? Remember, what what was 0:23:34.359 --> 0:23:34.800 that surgery? 0:23:34.840 --> 0:23:38.879 Head? Well, if it's out, I know, but that's what 0:23:38.880 --> 0:23:39.280 I'm saying. 0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:41.560 What was the surgery I had when my belly button 0:23:41.640 --> 0:23:42.240 was pushing out? 0:23:42.720 --> 0:23:43.560 Hernie hernie? 0:23:43.600 --> 0:23:45.560 I had a hernia surgery. So now I haven't any 0:23:45.600 --> 0:23:48.720 but it ain't deep in there, my any not in 0:23:49.480 --> 0:23:51.679 But when it was out, it couldn't stank, it couldn't 0:23:51.720 --> 0:23:53.360 stay because you could just rugby. 0:23:53.480 --> 0:23:55.960 Yeah, but when it's in there, you gotta you gotta 0:23:56.000 --> 0:23:56.600 dig in there. 0:23:56.680 --> 0:23:59.960 Yeah. Don't people be having deep belly buttons? Have you seen? 0:24:00.000 --> 0:24:00.199 You know? 0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:01.320 I think mine kind of deep. 0:24:01.400 --> 0:24:03.520 Yours is kind of deep. I remember when I discovered 0:24:03.560 --> 0:24:05.879 that about you, because I thought, why did you discover that? 0:24:06.040 --> 0:24:07.879 Because we were laying in bed one time, and I 0:24:07.880 --> 0:24:09.639 think I poked it and you got mad at me. 0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:13.080 I can see that I'll be getting mad at you 0:24:13.160 --> 0:24:14.879 about a lot of stuff, but it would just be 0:24:15.000 --> 0:24:16.080 doing dumb shit. 0:24:16.480 --> 0:24:19.600 I just thought that deep belly buttons were for thicker people. 0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:22.480 I am thick. No, I'm talking about I don't want 0:24:22.480 --> 0:24:23.160 to say the. 0:24:23.520 --> 0:24:27.080 F word, what if word? 0:24:28.440 --> 0:24:35.000 Oh, okay, but I'm saying but usually So when I 0:24:35.160 --> 0:24:40.760 figured out that you had a naturally a deep diving 0:24:40.920 --> 0:24:43.960 pool in that motherfucker, I was like, I have never 0:24:44.000 --> 0:24:46.520 seen a thin person with a deep belly button. 0:24:46.760 --> 0:24:46.800 No. 0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:49.439 When when it's hot outside, if I'm like laying by 0:24:49.480 --> 0:24:51.280 the pool and I'm sweating, it's a pool. 0:24:51.320 --> 0:24:59.240 Work the liquor drive. So yeah, So after all that, 0:24:59.440 --> 0:25:02.879 then my last step is my spray and I always 0:25:02.880 --> 0:25:04.880 wear ooh body teeth, always. 0:25:05.240 --> 0:25:08.760 Look at them, my legs. You look good. 0:25:09.440 --> 0:25:12.639 So my last spray is my perfume, my loves Belle. 0:25:12.680 --> 0:25:14.920 So if y'all are just getting out of the shower 0:25:15.400 --> 0:25:19.120 and just drying off lotion spray, people are not talking 0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:21.439 about you want your cent to last. 0:25:21.600 --> 0:25:24.160 I'm telling y'all when Lex we've been talking about now, 0:25:24.160 --> 0:25:25.560 we've been talking about it for ten minutes. 0:25:25.600 --> 0:25:27.320 Because when she did that, I said. 0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:30.840 And I've been on set at this point. I've been 0:25:30.840 --> 0:25:33.000 here since What time is it now? What time is it, Shay, 0:25:34.760 --> 0:25:37.640 It's four forty eight. When I got you, I got 0:25:37.680 --> 0:25:40.840 out the shower at ten am. So this is this 0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:42.960 is from ten am. This is a ten am spray. Now, 0:25:43.160 --> 0:25:45.320 I know, I know I'm trying to put the girl. 0:25:45.359 --> 0:25:47.440 Somebody could ever say my queen listen. 0:25:47.520 --> 0:25:52.440 Ever, I mean somebody probably could. No, I ain't gonna 0:25:52.440 --> 0:25:54.760 hold it. Somebody can probably fall. I'm not gonna lie. 0:25:54.680 --> 0:25:58.680 What you've You've never been musky, I've never been mussy. 0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:00.359 But what I'm saying is like. 0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:05.680 When I would leave the gym sometimes, not that I'm musty, 0:26:05.720 --> 0:26:07.080 but I don't smell fresh. 0:26:07.119 --> 0:26:09.480 I don't see anybody smells fresh when they leave the gym. 0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:11.200 But to me, the gym don't count. 0:26:11.480 --> 0:26:14.480 Okay, but that's not fair to judge somebody hygiene off 0:26:14.520 --> 0:26:15.520 of when they leave the gym. 0:26:15.600 --> 0:26:17.119 Okay, that's fair because that's. 0:26:16.960 --> 0:26:20.600 When that's when it's okay to be funky, especially if 0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:24.720 he was putting that working have think on you. 0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:26.360 You remember when David Banner said. 0:26:26.160 --> 0:26:31.000 Why you think Andre three thousand named the album? 0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:35.840 Remember when he remember when no David Banner knows. He said, 0:26:36.440 --> 0:26:38.520 bring it yes, sweaty, because I love it when it's. 0:26:38.359 --> 0:26:44.640 Smoky, which is still concerning to me to this day. 0:26:44.840 --> 0:26:48.080 We find about things I'm concerned about. But why he said, 0:26:48.200 --> 0:26:49.840 why do you love it when it's funky? 0:26:50.000 --> 0:26:56.600 He said, let me see, it's the fallless funky. 0:26:56.760 --> 0:26:58.560 It's the fact that he want. 0:26:58.440 --> 0:27:00.440 You to play with your monkey Wallace. 0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:02.960 But that's what I be saying. Nobody can convince me. 0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:05.119 That's why when I was seeing the tweets about sayings, 0:27:05.160 --> 0:27:07.040 they was like, I know it was funky in it. 0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:10.760 I know it was, so that's when the room stinks. 0:27:11.280 --> 0:27:25.280 But now move pal pal, But no, for real, somebody 0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:26.320 tell me. 0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:32.120 Him of nothing, but no, for real? 0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:37.240 Like you see this movie too now, because I seen 0:27:37.280 --> 0:27:38.240 that shit twice. 0:27:39.160 --> 0:27:41.160 And that's how you know this ship was good. Because 0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:43.560 I'm never gonna see a movie more than once. So 0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:44.800 I be fallowing a slop. 0:27:44.720 --> 0:27:48.480 Saying Parlene pussy was phunky. No, I'm not talking about Parlene. 0:27:48.960 --> 0:27:53.320 I'm saying in general, that's where till the rooms think, 0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:55.280 like that's the era that it came. 0:27:55.160 --> 0:27:57.560 Out because they was sweating. 0:27:57.600 --> 0:28:01.560 You see how sweaty they was. It wasn't no air 0:28:01.560 --> 0:28:04.399 conditioner inside, no fan inside. 0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:11.520 The fans are not there. And you know when men 0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:15.120 get hot. You know when men get hot, they balls 0:28:15.160 --> 0:28:18.600 start to hang more. Yes, so when men get hot, 0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:22.399 they balls hang extra loan. When they cold, they. 0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:24.600 Be somebody research department. 0:28:25.840 --> 0:28:28.879 When men No, I'm telling you, when men are cold, 0:28:28.960 --> 0:28:32.399 their balls are like they're so tight to their body. 0:28:32.840 --> 0:28:35.280 When niggas be hot, them balls be long. 0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:42.320 I know it is. I didn't need you to read it. 0:28:43.320 --> 0:28:44.920 I didn't need you to read it. I know what 0:28:44.960 --> 0:28:49.000 my nigga balls do, and they be hanging low when 0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:52.120 he hot and when he cold. I can tell because they. 0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:54.160 Be cutting your balls love. 0:28:54.640 --> 0:28:58.920 So I know, and that you're joined them. Balls was 0:28:59.000 --> 0:29:02.360 hanging low them, balls was hanging low, bitch. 0:29:02.480 --> 0:29:04.840 I just feel like it was thinking in there back then. 0:29:05.440 --> 0:29:08.760 But to me in twenty twenty five, it should never. 0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:11.040 Say, it should never stay. But it's still stinking there. 0:29:12.240 --> 0:29:16.200 It's staking there, in will in there. What's in there? 0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:16.960 You know? 0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:21.560 Wait? Wait there, that's mom. 0:29:21.600 --> 0:29:24.200 When you said that, I was like, Mitch, please, but no, 0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:29.240 for real, doll like in twenty twenty five, wasche thank 0:29:29.280 --> 0:29:32.080 you got booty, you gotta. 0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:34.400 Powder, don't care, don't care, you got it. Let me 0:29:34.440 --> 0:29:36.280 tell you when I walk in the bath millions of 0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:38.880 bath so when I used to I hate to say this, 0:29:38.920 --> 0:29:40.560 but when I used to work in the club and 0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:42.920 I used to walk in the women's bathroom, it smelt 0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:48.560 like what Lotto said, you left your pussy in the bathroom. Y'all, 0:29:48.880 --> 0:29:52.160 y'all please, first of all, let me teach you how 0:29:52.200 --> 0:29:53.520 to watch your kouchie real quick. 0:29:54.000 --> 0:29:54.280 Lex. 0:29:54.400 --> 0:29:56.720 This is not a high before we even got into 0:29:56.720 --> 0:29:57.600 the first time I find. 0:29:57.520 --> 0:29:59.280 To get into it. We're finna get into it because 0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:01.120 we finished gone. We gonna wrap this ship up. 0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:03.160 How we ain't even need to That's not like we're 0:30:03.160 --> 0:30:04.320 gonna get to one of them. 0:30:04.520 --> 0:30:09.600 Tell you get in that shower and stop putting everything 0:30:09.720 --> 0:30:14.080 down there. Use a wash that's specifically for your koochie 0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:17.440 and put it in your hand and get in them folds. 0:30:17.480 --> 0:30:20.360 This is how your fingers should look. This is for 0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:23.120 the middle part, and this is for the side parts. 0:30:23.560 --> 0:30:25.160 Get in there like that. 0:30:25.280 --> 0:30:28.880 You see how I meant that be my favorite part 0:30:28.880 --> 0:30:32.640 of shower. And it be a little surprised. Oh brother, 0:30:33.640 --> 0:30:38.440 this guy know it, don't And that's why because I 0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:39.200 know how to wash. 0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:41.280 She But why are you It's supposed to be a 0:30:41.320 --> 0:30:46.680 rub down, not a rub. But I'm saying you get 0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:50.200 in there with that. You're supposed to wash with your hands, 0:30:50.240 --> 0:30:53.280 your kuchie, and it's supposed to be a wash. What 0:30:53.280 --> 0:30:54.600 what wash you use down there? 0:30:55.640 --> 0:30:57.840 The salt eggs so wash. I've been using that for 0:30:57.880 --> 0:30:58.400 a few years. 0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:02.080 Okay, okay, that's good one. What's the old school one? 0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:04.200 In the pink bottle? I got the big pink bottle. 0:31:04.240 --> 0:31:07.280 You know what I'm talking about? What's that brand? You 0:31:07.320 --> 0:31:11.280 don't wash? Your couchie said, I don't know, No, not 0:31:11.280 --> 0:31:12.160 Summer's summer. 0:31:15.800 --> 0:31:17.880 We don't know because you two damn. 0:31:18.600 --> 0:31:24.280 It's the old school vaginal wash. I don't know, but anyways, 0:31:24.920 --> 0:31:25.960 that's the one I use. 0:31:25.880 --> 0:31:28.080 In a pink bottle. It's in a pink bottle. 0:31:28.560 --> 0:31:33.120 It's the old It's like the first brand Dodge Seal Vegiceal. 0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:38.040 I use vegicel wash. Gudin't the collar just approved? That's 0:31:38.040 --> 0:31:40.280 what the bottles say. And when I tell y'all, my 0:31:40.400 --> 0:31:42.760 coochie always smell like the ocean. 0:31:45.240 --> 0:31:47.960 But which one? 0:31:48.240 --> 0:31:49.960 Let me say that. 0:31:51.000 --> 0:31:58.560 Go to Mexico question bring brown They had a flesh 0:31:58.600 --> 0:31:59.920 eating cia in one. 0:32:00.840 --> 0:32:03.120 Let me say, let me do that again. My couchie 0:32:03.120 --> 0:32:04.680 always smell like water. 0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:11.880 Fiji Fiji, Miss Aqua Fema, you the real miss Aquafeina. 0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:15.760 And you better ask about me because they know, they know, 0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:20.440 they know who should I ask? The people who that 0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:23.160 evil thick bitch all was talking about on Royal Moule show. 0:32:23.200 --> 0:32:27.240 As I wouldn't ask him a motherfucking thing. I wouldn't 0:32:27.240 --> 0:32:28.760 ask him a goddamn thing. 0:32:29.200 --> 0:32:31.960 And he may not ask me for shoot, But yes, y'all, 0:32:32.000 --> 0:32:37.000 please wash your kuchie with a different product honey pots 0:32:37.200 --> 0:32:38.960 salt ex so that. 0:32:39.000 --> 0:32:42.040 You use and the South x SO is black owned. 0:32:42.160 --> 0:32:43.760 Yeah, okay, So I'm gonna start buying this. 0:32:43.960 --> 0:32:46.640 It's black owned. It's so good and it's like. 0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:49.720 When you put it on, it is it makes the 0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:53.160 juicy it do because when you put it down there, 0:32:54.640 --> 0:32:58.200 it's it's kind of like, y'all remember doctor Miracles is 0:32:58.240 --> 0:32:59.600 Doctor Miracles feel cool. 0:33:00.680 --> 0:33:03.680 It gives you that tingling feeling but down there. 0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:07.680 And then they also have an erotic an erotica one 0:33:08.200 --> 0:33:09.720 that you use before you have SIG. 0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:15.640 But I don't really you know, need that, okay, but anyway, 0:33:15.760 --> 0:33:16.080 but I. 0:33:16.040 --> 0:33:16.800 Do like it though. 0:33:16.920 --> 0:33:18.120 It gives you a good feeling. 0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:20.240 But I guess it's supposed to help if you don't 0:33:20.320 --> 0:33:22.240 naturally put produce the juices. 0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:23.960 Yeah, a lot of people don't naturally, and I think 0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:26.320 that's okay too. We don't need to be embarrassed about that. 0:33:27.200 --> 0:33:29.760 Some people don't naturally produce them juices. So if you 0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:30.640 need a little hair, I'm. 0:33:30.520 --> 0:33:31.720 Not embarrassed because it's not me. 0:33:32.160 --> 0:33:36.040 But I don't think that nobody should be embarrassed about it. 0:33:36.120 --> 0:33:39.320 Just the only embarrassing thing is if you stink. So 0:33:39.400 --> 0:33:41.560 I hope y'all learn something today. Wash you coushi with 0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:44.920 your hands. Stop using towels and rags and different things 0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:45.400 down there. 0:33:45.440 --> 0:33:47.400 Okay, and get rid of that cottage cheese. 0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:52.719 Do you like cottage shees? I love cottage cheese actually, 0:33:52.760 --> 0:33:54.959 so I hate when people talk about cottage cheese in 0:33:54.960 --> 0:33:55.880 that manner. 0:33:56.280 --> 0:33:57.680 But that's what it'd be looking like. 0:33:57.840 --> 0:34:01.880 Cottage cheese is very tasty, it's protein, it can help. 0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:04.920 I like cotta cheese. I put it on my toes. 0:34:05.480 --> 0:34:06.680 You could put it in a lot of things. Some 0:34:06.680 --> 0:34:08.640 people put it on their peaches. 0:34:09.840 --> 0:34:12.120 My mom used to eat it like sweet or savory 0:34:12.200 --> 0:34:13.040 with cottage shee. 0:34:13.040 --> 0:34:14.759 My mom used to eat it like that growing up. 0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:18.239 But so now I make an avocado toes, and I 0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:20.920 mean the cotta cheese avocados host So I put the 0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:27.240 avocado spread, cottage cheese, the chili oil, the girl chili oil, 0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:29.040 and then I put a little hot honey. 0:34:29.480 --> 0:34:32.120 Come on, now you need the tray. So when I 0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:34.960 posted my cheat meal yesterday, I had made some pasta 0:34:35.000 --> 0:34:36.960 with some salmon. They said, if this is your cheat meal, 0:34:37.000 --> 0:34:39.600 what do you usually eat? I said, y'all, pasta is 0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:40.280 a cheat meal. 0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:41.279 Yeah. 0:34:41.360 --> 0:34:44.960 Did you use a what is it called cheek bee pasta? 0:34:45.480 --> 0:34:47.040 No? I didn't. That's why I said it was a 0:34:47.120 --> 0:34:47.799 cheat meal. 0:34:48.239 --> 0:34:50.440 I was cheap. I went all the way. 0:34:50.640 --> 0:34:52.920 You didn't see me nothing I did it. I only 0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:55.320 made it. You know, I cooked for one or sometimes 0:34:55.480 --> 0:34:58.440 if I cook, you know i'm cooking. I cook for 0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:01.360 whoever in the house at the time. It should have 0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:02.759 showed up, you would have got you a plate. 0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:04.200 Well, how did I know you was cooking? 0:35:05.760 --> 0:35:06.720 Sometimes I shouldn't. 0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:08.520 I don't feel like you should call people when they 0:35:08.600 --> 0:35:11.320 cook it. I feel like they should call you. You're cooking. 0:35:11.440 --> 0:35:14.040 I cook all the time, so you should be like, hey, 0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:17.960 dre a hooked, No, you live next door. Do you 0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:19.680 want to play plate next time? I will? 0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:21.000 Because that samon was fired. 0:35:21.000 --> 0:35:24.120 Okay, all right, let's get on and see speaking of 0:35:24.239 --> 0:35:28.640 passive aggressive aggressiveness in relationships. 0:35:27.760 --> 0:35:31.040 That was really aggressively. It wasn't passive because I said 0:35:31.080 --> 0:35:31.720 that's okay. 0:35:31.920 --> 0:35:35.520 Yeah, that's passive because it's not okay. It's really not okay. 0:35:35.560 --> 0:35:39.200 But you was saying it was okay. What is that aggressive? 0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:42.040 If I'm being honest, it really is okay because every 0:35:42.040 --> 0:35:44.239 time I see that you cooked, if I cared that much, 0:35:44.280 --> 0:35:46.480 I would say something. But there was an example of 0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:49.600 passive aggressive. It wasn't though because I was kidding. 0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:52.360 You were kidding, but I was. I know you. 0:35:52.360 --> 0:35:53.560 You wasn't giving an example. 0:35:53.560 --> 0:35:55.719 But if people didn't know you, if this is their 0:35:55.719 --> 0:35:56.719 first they don't know me. 0:35:56.760 --> 0:35:58.280 That's why they probably think I'm being serious. 0:35:58.280 --> 0:36:01.040 They're probably gonna be like, no, Dre, Drea was a 0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:02.799 fucking real fuck that beach leak. 0:36:02.960 --> 0:36:05.360 She don't like you, no way. 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So make sure y'all tune in September. 0:38:15.760 --> 0:38:17.000 Second it's going down. 0:38:17.280 --> 0:38:26.759 Thanks, I'm fucking with Okay. So the first top today, 0:38:26.760 --> 0:38:31.440 we're gonna talk about passive aggressiveness in relationships, Like, you know, 0:38:31.560 --> 0:38:33.120 are you more of a I'm gonna give you the 0:38:33.200 --> 0:38:36.080 solid treatment or I'm setting a boundary? Are you being 0:38:36.160 --> 0:38:38.840 distant to protect your peace or are you doing this 0:38:38.920 --> 0:38:42.680 to punish your partner? Like? What how do you look 0:38:42.719 --> 0:38:44.120 at passive aggressiveness? 0:38:44.160 --> 0:38:44.600 Is it like? 0:38:44.640 --> 0:38:47.800 Am I being passive aggressive? Or am I just protecting 0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:48.320 my peace? 0:38:48.520 --> 0:38:49.759 I'm not a big punisher. 0:38:50.400 --> 0:38:53.320 I don't believe in doing it. 0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:55.719 Who is Oh, big, big pun that's what I was 0:38:55.760 --> 0:38:56.239 thinking about. 0:38:56.760 --> 0:38:57.960 You're not a big punisher. 0:38:58.360 --> 0:39:00.960 I'm like, I'm not, okay. 0:39:01.400 --> 0:39:07.000 I I don't even give a fuck so much that 0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:09.239 I would just stop talking to you. Yeah, I think 0:39:09.239 --> 0:39:12.160 that's probably the worst thing about me. If I could say, 0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:16.160 probably my worst trade as a friend as a partner, 0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:18.920 it's probably that I won't have a conversation with you 0:39:19.000 --> 0:39:22.040 about shit and just stop fucking with you. Even if 0:39:22.040 --> 0:39:25.000 we still cool, I'll distance myself from you, like we 0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:27.640 still cool, but we probably just don't talk as much. 0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:29.759 We probably just don't deal with each other as much. 0:39:30.440 --> 0:39:31.280 That's my gym. 0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:37.840 So I don't believe in passive aggressiveness because I'm also 0:39:38.040 --> 0:39:41.600 very vocal. So if I'm having an issue in the 0:39:41.640 --> 0:39:45.000 beginning stages, bitch, you know the issue, I'm gonna let 0:39:45.040 --> 0:39:47.520 you know the issue. If you don't care to change 0:39:47.560 --> 0:39:49.719 it and you keep doing the same thing, it's to 0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:51.640 me it's nothing to talk about. Because I saw a 0:39:51.640 --> 0:39:53.640 clip from Tyler Perio the other day. 0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:55.840 My Cinema King MEDIAZ. 0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:57.759 I saw a clip from Taller Perry the other day. 0:39:57.800 --> 0:40:01.960 He said, my life got exponentially bitter when I started 0:40:02.040 --> 0:40:05.799 letting people be who they are and I stopped having expectations. 0:40:05.920 --> 0:40:08.239 And I think that that is the point that I'm 0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:11.759 I'm almost there. I'm not gonna say I'm fully there, 0:40:12.320 --> 0:40:14.879 but I'm almost there to like where when it come 0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:18.400 to people, I'm really cool with just letting you be 0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:21.560 who you are because you're showing up is you, and 0:40:21.600 --> 0:40:25.680 that's okay. It don't meet my standard, and that's okay too, 0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:28.200 So I just don't deal with you in that capacity 0:40:28.239 --> 0:40:31.560 anymore because who you are does not meet the standard 0:40:31.640 --> 0:40:36.400 of what I need as a partner, as a friend, whatever. 0:40:36.600 --> 0:40:40.680 So yeah, so you know, I have to make the 0:40:40.760 --> 0:40:43.439 choice because you're not showing up. It's who I need 0:40:43.480 --> 0:40:45.560 you to be. Do I want to keep you in 0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:47.600 my life? Do I want to get rid of you? 0:40:47.880 --> 0:40:50.600 Or do I want to deal with you accordingly? And 0:40:51.040 --> 0:40:53.640 those are the three areas that I put people in 0:40:54.000 --> 0:40:56.359 my life. It's either I'm gonna cut you off, ain't 0:40:56.360 --> 0:41:00.120 no dealing with you, I'm gonna still deal with you, 0:41:00.560 --> 0:41:03.319 or I'm gonna deal with you accordingly and put you 0:41:03.360 --> 0:41:06.319 in a certain box. And I think that I'm very 0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:08.880 very great and putting people in boxes and them not 0:41:08.960 --> 0:41:10.280 knowing that they're in a box. 0:41:10.040 --> 0:41:12.160 Because you, they also don't necessarily need to know. 0:41:13.040 --> 0:41:16.120 I think that's a beautiful thing of knowing how to 0:41:16.160 --> 0:41:18.360 not be passive aggressive because it's like you in a 0:41:18.360 --> 0:41:19.480 box and you don't even know it. 0:41:20.440 --> 0:41:23.200 So I think for me, i'm passive aggressive, but it's 0:41:23.280 --> 0:41:25.759 until I'm ready to talk. So I know in my 0:41:25.840 --> 0:41:28.040 relationship that's something that I struggle with. I'll be like, oh, 0:41:28.040 --> 0:41:30.640 I'm fine, and i'm not, but I'm not ready to 0:41:30.640 --> 0:41:33.200 talk about it right now. So I need to work 0:41:33.200 --> 0:41:35.960 on saying I'm not okay right now, but I'm also 0:41:36.040 --> 0:41:38.439 not ready to talk about it right now, because that's 0:41:38.480 --> 0:41:39.560 something I've been working on. 0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:42.440 Y'all know I'm still in therapy, but I am. 0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:47.160 Very passive aggressive just because I I'm trying to learn 0:41:47.239 --> 0:41:50.560 how I'm trying to learn how to like pick my 0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:53.560 battles wisely, but also still speak on it without it 0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:56.319 being like a conflict, you know what I'm saying. So 0:41:56.560 --> 0:42:00.880 I think with me, it's like I'll say I'm fine, 0:42:00.960 --> 0:42:04.000 knowing i'm not, but then I want to address it later, 0:42:04.040 --> 0:42:05.880 but I just need time to address it. So I 0:42:05.880 --> 0:42:08.719 think with my passive aggressive in that moment, I need 0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:11.600 to say hey instead of saying I'm fine. I need 0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:13.160 to say, hey, you know what, I'm not okay, but 0:42:13.200 --> 0:42:15.080 I'm also not ready to talk about it right now. 0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:17.680 And that's something that I have been practicing. I actually 0:42:17.800 --> 0:42:20.320 have been doing an exercise, like I said, with my therapist, 0:42:20.400 --> 0:42:24.200 so being like, you know what, it's okay to create boundaries. Hey, no, 0:42:24.360 --> 0:42:26.880 I'm not okay, and I do want to talk about it, 0:42:26.920 --> 0:42:29.040 but can we talk about it at a later state, 0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:32.160 at a later date when I am in more of 0:42:32.200 --> 0:42:37.120 a you know, mind frame of receiving this information. You 0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:38.480 know what I'm saying Because I think a lot of 0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:41.440 times when people are passive aggressive, they're doing it to 0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:44.319 kind of I don't want to say protect their peace, 0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:46.759 but they're doing it because it's kind of like they're 0:42:46.800 --> 0:42:49.600 shutting down I just like to shut down moment. 0:42:50.080 --> 0:42:52.920 From my personal experience with people that are passive aggressive, 0:42:53.040 --> 0:42:55.080 I also think they do it to get a reaction. 0:42:55.719 --> 0:42:59.440 Like I think they be wanting to make like, okay, 0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:01.200 I'm a beating way because I'm gonna see if he's 0:43:01.200 --> 0:43:03.839 gonna make this. Persons react this way, and then if 0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:05.400 you don't, then. 0:43:05.760 --> 0:43:07.880 Then they start acting out now or then. 0:43:07.760 --> 0:43:10.120 They want to say like or then they want to 0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:14.080 have a conversation, but it's like, nah, because I already 0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:17.600 seen what you said on Twitter. I already seen what 0:43:17.760 --> 0:43:20.640 you said on what you posted on Instagram, So it's like, 0:43:20.719 --> 0:43:22.960 why do I want to talk to you now? But 0:43:23.160 --> 0:43:25.840 I think people who are passive aggressive they do that 0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:29.759 to try to garner a reaction when in reality, to me, 0:43:31.040 --> 0:43:32.120 I don't know, and. 0:43:32.080 --> 0:43:33.080 This is not towards you. 0:43:33.239 --> 0:43:35.040 No, No, I know because I'll do that because I'm 0:43:35.040 --> 0:43:37.359 shutting down. This is not that. 0:43:37.440 --> 0:43:40.640 Yeah, this is not towards you specifically. But I always 0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:46.239 have wondered, like why do people be I just don't 0:43:46.280 --> 0:43:49.399 really understand being passive aggressive versus just telling people how 0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:51.959 you feel outright, Like is it like a fear thing 0:43:52.120 --> 0:43:54.480 you don't know how they're gonna react. You're afraid that 0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:56.440 like if you say the wrong thing, they may not 0:43:57.040 --> 0:44:01.440 talk to you anymore, or if might ruin the relationship 0:44:01.600 --> 0:44:05.320 or the bond, Like what's the reason for being passive agreace? 0:44:05.520 --> 0:44:07.359 So for me, like I said in that moment, I'm 0:44:07.400 --> 0:44:10.160 shutting down and I'm breaking down and I don't want 0:44:10.160 --> 0:44:11.640 to talk about it right now, so I'm just like, 0:44:11.760 --> 0:44:13.479 let's just keep it cool for the moment and we can. 0:44:13.400 --> 0:44:14.160 Talk about it later. 0:44:14.400 --> 0:44:17.759 Now, what you're talking about, I see that, and I 0:44:17.920 --> 0:44:19.840 have people that do that to me as well, like 0:44:19.920 --> 0:44:22.239 oh no, I'm cool, no, let oh you good, No 0:44:22.360 --> 0:44:25.200 you're good, you're mad, and you're trying to get me 0:44:25.239 --> 0:44:27.799 to react. So when I see people doing that, when 0:44:27.840 --> 0:44:31.680 I'm being passive aggressive, I'm not looking for a reaction. No, please, like, 0:44:31.719 --> 0:44:33.959 I'm fine right now, we can talk about this later. 0:44:34.239 --> 0:44:36.360 I'm not looking for a reaction because it's gonna actually 0:44:36.360 --> 0:44:41.160 make it worse. So for me, when people do that, 0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:46.799 now that crosses from being passive aggressive to also being manipulative, 0:44:47.719 --> 0:44:51.360 because now you're trying to make somebody react, get something 0:44:51.400 --> 0:44:55.080 out of them that you couldn't get out of them 0:44:55.120 --> 0:44:58.080 without just having a regular conversation. You know what I'm saying. 0:44:58.480 --> 0:45:00.919 So I think what you're saying is one hundred percent 0:45:01.040 --> 0:45:03.560 valid because most of the time, I will honestly say 0:45:03.640 --> 0:45:06.280 ninety percent of the time when people are being passive aggressive, 0:45:06.600 --> 0:45:09.520 they're doing what you're saying, They're trying to get a 0:45:09.560 --> 0:45:12.399 reaction out of people. With me, I'm literally like, I'm 0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:14.280 breaking down. I don't want to I really, I literally 0:45:14.320 --> 0:45:16.839 don't want to talk. I don't want you to react. So, 0:45:17.360 --> 0:45:19.680 like I said, for me, I think it's just learning 0:45:19.719 --> 0:45:22.840 how to communicate better. And that's something I've always prided 0:45:22.880 --> 0:45:25.520 myself on, but something that I thought I was great at. 0:45:25.520 --> 0:45:27.239 But I'm not as good at it as I thought. 0:45:28.000 --> 0:45:30.399 So I think it's all about accountability and awareness too. 0:45:30.920 --> 0:45:32.680 Yeah, like I'm aware that I do that. 0:45:32.719 --> 0:45:36.160 People who are passive aggressive, they will lie and be 0:45:36.280 --> 0:45:38.719 like I wasn't being passive aggressive. 0:45:38.760 --> 0:45:39.560 I was fine. 0:45:39.800 --> 0:45:42.520 I really was okay. I didn't give a fuck bit. 0:45:42.600 --> 0:45:46.200 Yes she did cap Yeah you care? 0:45:46.600 --> 0:45:48.399 You mad? Yeah? 0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:49.319 I mean I don't know. 0:45:49.400 --> 0:45:50.640 I feel like you could tell. 0:45:50.719 --> 0:45:54.520 I think it's just like indicators, like you know, I mean, 0:45:54.520 --> 0:45:58.759 if I'm being completely honies, I hear you. But I 0:45:58.760 --> 0:46:00.960 think anybody is being paid massive aggressive care. 0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:04.600 Oh you don't not care like you care. 0:46:04.760 --> 0:46:07.480 You don't know how to express yourself, so you're exacting 0:46:07.520 --> 0:46:10.719 yourself in a passively aggressive way because you don't know 0:46:10.760 --> 0:46:13.279 how to really vocalize your real feelings. So you're going 0:46:13.320 --> 0:46:16.840 in a roundabout way of trying to make it seem like, oh, 0:46:16.920 --> 0:46:20.879 I'm cool, I'm okay. I don't think that you don't 0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:23.720 it's no way to be passive aggressive and not really care. 0:46:23.760 --> 0:46:26.960 Being pass aggressive because you care. Yeah, my mind, I'm 0:46:27.000 --> 0:46:30.240 trying to gather my thoughts. I'm shutting down. I'm hurt 0:46:30.360 --> 0:46:33.040 for whatever it is. I'm hurt. I want to I 0:46:33.040 --> 0:46:35.160 don't know what to say. I'm shot, whatever it is. 0:46:35.160 --> 0:46:38.440 And so the I'm saying nothing versus being passive aggressive. 0:46:38.560 --> 0:46:40.520 No, but that's what I'm saying, because it'd be if 0:46:40.600 --> 0:46:43.480 somebody asked me, what's wrong? You good? Okay? 0:46:43.520 --> 0:46:45.239 I'm fine. I don't want to talk about it. But 0:46:45.280 --> 0:46:46.719 I don't think that's passive aggressive. 0:46:46.800 --> 0:46:49.520 How they passive aggressive is it's when you say you're 0:46:49.560 --> 0:46:50.360 fine when you're not. 0:46:50.600 --> 0:46:52.799 But to me, that's not I guess when I think 0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:57.160 of passive aggressiveness, I think of making slurs, making comments 0:46:57.200 --> 0:47:00.760 like if some you and somebody get in to it, right, 0:47:01.120 --> 0:47:02.960 and then they get on Twitter and they tweet some 0:47:03.000 --> 0:47:07.440 shit about like a situation that's similar to what y'all 0:47:07.480 --> 0:47:10.560 just had, and then you say something to them about 0:47:10.560 --> 0:47:11.160 it and they're. 0:47:11.040 --> 0:47:11.680 Like, oh no. 0:47:13.160 --> 0:47:16.440 To me, somebody, if I asked ty if you're okay? 0:47:16.680 --> 0:47:18.960 If I asked you, are you okay? And you just like, 0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:22.920 oh no, I'm fine. I don't receive that as a 0:47:23.000 --> 0:47:26.319 because what's aggressive about that? What's passive aggressive about that? 0:47:26.640 --> 0:47:29.920 To me, passive aggressiveness is more when people try to 0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:35.440 say I'm cool, and then their actions are reactions say otherwise, Well, 0:47:35.480 --> 0:47:36.000 I think. 0:47:36.080 --> 0:47:38.480 Very you telling me that you're good. 0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:40.319 But then I'm getting on the internet and I'm like, bitch, 0:47:40.360 --> 0:47:43.759 I think you subbing me. Right, this post is about me. 0:47:44.280 --> 0:47:47.279 This tweet is about me. You said something that has 0:47:47.320 --> 0:47:49.160 to do with what I just said or what me 0:47:49.200 --> 0:47:50.799 and you just went through, but you're telling me. 0:47:50.760 --> 0:47:51.440 That you're good. 0:47:51.960 --> 0:47:54.320 We got into this an hour ago, this tweet is 0:47:54.400 --> 0:47:55.399 from ten minutes ago. 0:47:55.880 --> 0:47:56.319 Let's see. 0:47:56.440 --> 0:47:59.640 But you gotta say passive aggressive passive aggressive outside of 0:47:59.680 --> 0:48:02.000 like social media, in real life, you think somebody just 0:48:02.200 --> 0:48:04.680 if I ask, like if I'm saying I'm fine, but 0:48:05.239 --> 0:48:07.600 look at my body language, look at the way I'm 0:48:07.719 --> 0:48:09.840 acting and the way you know what I'm saying. So 0:48:09.960 --> 0:48:12.960 if I say, Drea, are you okay? You like, I'm fine, 0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:15.560 but you kind of just like maybe sitting in the. 0:48:15.560 --> 0:48:18.359 Corner or you're not talking or you're not so. 0:48:18.440 --> 0:48:21.600 I think there's different ways to show passive aggressiveness. So 0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:24.759 you're not necessarily being like like I said, outside of 0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:27.319 the internet, in a real life situation, if I say 0:48:27.360 --> 0:48:30.080 I'm fine, but I'm not being my normal, bubbly self, 0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:32.520 that's being passive aggressive. That's fine. 0:48:32.560 --> 0:48:35.440 But then I also think to it be more emotional 0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:39.680 manipulation to like communication with all these sicks, with holding 0:48:39.840 --> 0:48:42.640 like different things. You're saying you're cool, but like you're 0:48:42.640 --> 0:48:44.640 not communicating with me, like you know what you do. 0:48:44.880 --> 0:48:45.520 You don't want to. 0:48:45.440 --> 0:48:48.000 Have sex with me. It's a distance in a household. 0:48:48.000 --> 0:48:52.279 I always with you, you know, that's okay, okay, well, 0:48:53.239 --> 0:48:57.799 but affection all of these things, like to me, that's 0:48:58.080 --> 0:49:01.839 more of past now aggressive. But I just don't think 0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:05.200 somebody telling me they find because I look at it. 0:49:05.280 --> 0:49:07.040 If something, oh yeah, let's take a shot. 0:49:07.280 --> 0:49:09.880 I look at it like if you tell me that 0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:12.280 you're okay, even if I know that you're not okay, 0:49:12.760 --> 0:49:15.239 I don't look at that as passive aggressiveness. I look 0:49:15.239 --> 0:49:18.200 at that more as you not wanting to talk about 0:49:18.239 --> 0:49:21.560 it right now, Like maybe you gotta find maybe you 0:49:21.600 --> 0:49:24.920 gotta find your mojo, maybe you gotta find when you 0:49:25.080 --> 0:49:28.239 ready be in the headspace to have the conversation with 0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:30.040 me because I feel like it's things that you've been 0:49:30.040 --> 0:49:33.040 through where I've asked you, are you okay, and you 0:49:33.160 --> 0:49:35.400 was like, oh, I'm good, friend, I don't want to 0:49:35.400 --> 0:49:37.040 talk about it. And then I talked to you two 0:49:37.120 --> 0:49:38.920 days later and you was ready to let me know 0:49:38.960 --> 0:49:42.319 what was going on, and it doesn't it and it 0:49:42.360 --> 0:49:45.040 has been things that hasn't had anything to do with me. 0:49:45.719 --> 0:49:48.920 It's been personal things, but like at that moment, you 0:49:48.960 --> 0:49:51.760 didn't want to talk about it. Now two days later, 0:49:52.120 --> 0:49:54.040 I'm in a different space. I don't have time to 0:49:54.080 --> 0:49:57.120 think reflects. I know how I want to let you 0:49:57.200 --> 0:49:59.759 know what's going on. So, okay, friend, this is what's 0:49:59.760 --> 0:50:02.040 going on. No, I don't look at that. It's passive. 0:50:02.120 --> 0:50:05.480 Well, the reason it is because, and I'll tell you 0:50:05.480 --> 0:50:08.440 the difference between that. If I if you ask me 0:50:08.480 --> 0:50:10.560 if I'm fine, and I say I'm fine, and I'm 0:50:10.600 --> 0:50:13.120 really not, and then two days later you find out 0:50:13.120 --> 0:50:14.799 it has nothing to do with you, I'm not being 0:50:14.840 --> 0:50:16.759 passive aggressive towards you because they had nothing to do 0:50:16.800 --> 0:50:19.480 with you. If you ask me if I'm fine, and 0:50:19.520 --> 0:50:22.279 I'm not fine, and it has something to do with you, 0:50:23.080 --> 0:50:26.880 I'm being passive aggressive. But that's the definition of it. 0:50:26.920 --> 0:50:30.800 But if your body language and stuff is not giving that, nobody, 0:50:31.960 --> 0:50:34.839 it's still I hear you. But nobody can think you're 0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:37.279 being passive aggressive if they don't know you get what. 0:50:37.360 --> 0:50:38.520 I get what you're saying. 0:50:38.800 --> 0:50:40.520 I get what you're saying, like if you like, oh, 0:50:40.560 --> 0:50:44.480 I'm cool, and then you seem like you cool versus 0:50:45.040 --> 0:50:45.600 I'm cool. 0:50:46.640 --> 0:50:48.600 I get what you're saying. 0:50:48.719 --> 0:50:51.879 Right, But if i'm if I'm not talking, if I'm 0:50:51.880 --> 0:50:54.640 not saying what it is, I'm just I'm being passive. 0:50:54.719 --> 0:50:59.600 I'm not saying. The issue is when you start withholding things, sex, 0:51:00.239 --> 0:51:05.480 you not calling me? Yeah, Now, once you start doing that, now, 0:51:05.520 --> 0:51:08.120 I will say this with my passive aggressiveness, I don't 0:51:08.120 --> 0:51:10.640 do that. I don't be like, oh well, I'm not 0:51:10.719 --> 0:51:12.239 calling her, I'm not talking to her. I just do 0:51:12.280 --> 0:51:14.359 it whenever I'm ready or if like me and my 0:51:14.360 --> 0:51:20.839 man are into it. I'm definitely not withhold, no sex, no, no, 0:51:21.080 --> 0:51:21.640 I was done? 0:51:21.960 --> 0:51:23.040 Are you where are you? 0:51:23.120 --> 0:51:23.319 Yeah? 0:51:23.440 --> 0:51:25.800 Go ahead, Okay, I'm not even trying to be funny. 0:51:25.880 --> 0:51:27.960 Nobody cannot not talk to me because I'm gonna just 0:51:27.960 --> 0:51:29.560 be like, okay. 0:51:29.760 --> 0:51:32.160 Oh I know, because you be not giving a fun 0:51:32.280 --> 0:51:34.719 you could just not I mean, we could just not talk. 0:51:35.560 --> 0:51:37.120 Man, It's just up. 0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:40.879 To you if we reconcile, because I just especially if 0:51:40.880 --> 0:51:41.840 I'm not in the wrong. 0:51:42.400 --> 0:51:44.360 Yeah, that's what I was about to say. When you not, like, 0:51:44.400 --> 0:51:47.279 when you are in the wrong, wah, you definitely be 0:51:47.400 --> 0:51:50.000 like okay, But when you feel like you're one hundred 0:51:50.040 --> 0:51:54.080 percent not the wrong, you be like, fuck it, I 0:51:54.160 --> 0:51:56.160 don't give a fuck. We don't have to talk. 0:51:56.200 --> 0:52:00.840 Then I'm burning at the stakes. Honestly, I'm just saying 0:52:02.320 --> 0:52:07.560 the facts. Yeah, So it's kind of both of It's 0:52:07.600 --> 0:52:10.600 what both of y'all are saying. The definition or passive 0:52:10.600 --> 0:52:14.480 aggressive behavior is a pattern of indirectly expressing negative emotions 0:52:14.800 --> 0:52:18.200 through subtle acts of resistance, defiance, or neglect, and then 0:52:18.200 --> 0:52:21.960 when they go into like different signs of passive aggressiveness. 0:52:22.239 --> 0:52:23.960 What you were saying as far. 0:52:23.800 --> 0:52:28.399 As like like okay, nice of you to finally show up, 0:52:28.719 --> 0:52:31.400 like that's being kind of passive aggressive. But for what 0:52:31.520 --> 0:52:34.840 you were saying, silent treatment or evading issues is also 0:52:34.880 --> 0:52:36.640 another sign of passive aggressiveness. 0:52:36.600 --> 0:52:36.880 Okay. 0:52:37.040 --> 0:52:38.719 So I think it's just like to your point where 0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:41.520 you were saying, it's about like kind of your tone 0:52:41.680 --> 0:52:44.719 and how you're saying. I'm fine like that is a 0:52:44.719 --> 0:52:46.400 little more making it more passive. 0:52:46.960 --> 0:52:48.680 Okay, I see what you're saying, and I. 0:52:48.640 --> 0:52:49.080 Agree with you. 0:52:49.160 --> 0:52:49.359 Lex. 0:52:49.400 --> 0:52:51.520 I'm the same way, like I shut down. Yeah, I 0:52:51.600 --> 0:52:54.000 just need my time. I'm not trying to be passive aggressive, 0:52:54.040 --> 0:52:57.120 but I'm non confrontational, right And I don't want to 0:52:57.160 --> 0:52:59.879 create a bigger issue without me being able to lie 0:53:00.120 --> 0:53:02.160 articulate my thoughts and what I want to say, because 0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:04.520 I really want you to understand how I feel. But 0:53:04.600 --> 0:53:07.080 I'm so pissed off in that moment or her or 0:53:07.120 --> 0:53:10.880 emotional that I can't really articulate that in that moment. 0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:14.319 I kind of lean more towards how Lex puts it 0:53:14.360 --> 0:53:16.400 out there. Maybe I need to be more like that 0:53:16.520 --> 0:53:19.440 because I can put it on a beach. What it is, 0:53:19.520 --> 0:53:21.440 let's put it, Let's. 0:53:21.280 --> 0:53:22.760 Put it on the floor. This is how I feel 0:53:22.880 --> 0:53:23.239 right now. 0:53:23.440 --> 0:53:23.720 Beach. 0:53:23.840 --> 0:53:25.120 You got me fucked up? 0:53:26.320 --> 0:53:28.160 You know what we no. No, but I will say. 0:53:28.200 --> 0:53:28.759 One thing that. 0:53:28.760 --> 0:53:31.920 I've loved about your growth too, is that you have 0:53:32.120 --> 0:53:35.520 learned to approach situations a lot more delicately than you 0:53:35.640 --> 0:53:35.960 used to. 0:53:37.080 --> 0:53:41.399 So now it's your delicacy what that's not like a meal. 0:53:45.680 --> 0:53:48.840 Raise that toys and you be jumping out love a 0:53:48.920 --> 0:53:53.839 good meal. No, but I will say like versus our 0:53:53.920 --> 0:53:56.799 relationship when we first became friends versus now, like you're 0:53:56.920 --> 0:53:59.920 so much more easier to talk now you are, like, 0:54:00.200 --> 0:54:04.200 I don't mind bringing like if I be like Drea friend, like, 0:54:04.280 --> 0:54:06.719 I don't mind saying that now. In the beginning, I 0:54:06.840 --> 0:54:08.239 used to be like, I'm just not even gonna say nothing, 0:54:08.239 --> 0:54:09.680 because I know how she's finna react, and I know 0:54:09.680 --> 0:54:10.360 how she finna do. 0:54:11.000 --> 0:54:13.240 Like what how would I used to react in the past, 0:54:13.360 --> 0:54:14.520 So in the past, if. 0:54:14.480 --> 0:54:16.680 I would be like, I'm trying to think of an example, 0:54:17.120 --> 0:54:18.560 like with a man or something. 0:54:18.840 --> 0:54:23.200 No, okay with me, let's just use a man for example. 0:54:23.440 --> 0:54:25.480 That's not true. This is not real, but that's what 0:54:25.480 --> 0:54:25.839 I'm saying. 0:54:25.880 --> 0:54:27.880 Let's use a more true example, because I think I've 0:54:27.880 --> 0:54:29.400 always been understanding about. 0:54:29.160 --> 0:54:32.960 Like, okay, okay, I'll say something like about let's say, 0:54:33.000 --> 0:54:35.480 like about you being late or something I feel like 0:54:36.400 --> 0:54:39.600 when we first became friends of our friend, come on now, 0:54:39.680 --> 0:54:41.239 like you need to work on your time, like you 0:54:41.360 --> 0:54:44.160 be late. You'd be like, well, lex, I don't care, 0:54:44.360 --> 0:54:47.400 like if I'm not I'm trying. I got shit to do. 0:54:47.560 --> 0:54:50.080 I'd be like, so, I'm gonna get here when I 0:54:50.120 --> 0:54:53.719 get here, So I'm here now though, That's how you 0:54:53.800 --> 0:54:55.759 used to be. Now i'd be like, friend, you'd be like, 0:54:55.800 --> 0:54:57.640 you be like, I'm sorry, friend, i know I'm trying. 0:54:57.640 --> 0:54:58.960 I'm working on it. I'm running behind. 0:54:59.000 --> 0:55:02.640 Like that's how more you be like more receiving to 0:55:02.920 --> 0:55:06.080 like things that if somebody has a problem. You used 0:55:06.120 --> 0:55:08.080 to be like if somebody approached you with a problem, 0:55:08.120 --> 0:55:10.680 you would be very aggressive about it, and you wouldn't 0:55:11.200 --> 0:55:13.440 just take it. And because how dare you have a 0:55:13.480 --> 0:55:17.640 problem with me? But now you have a problem with 0:55:17.680 --> 0:55:21.480 the queen. I'm fucking but now. 0:55:21.480 --> 0:55:26.080 Because well i'll say this too with legs. That was 0:55:26.120 --> 0:55:29.800 a terrible example. We were just using any only because. 0:55:29.880 --> 0:55:32.919 You always fucking late, not no more. Then it would 0:55:32.960 --> 0:55:37.360 be like, no more, legs, bitch, you got here five 0:55:37.480 --> 0:55:40.360 minutes ago, and you telling me that, I'm like, you 0:55:40.600 --> 0:55:43.839 were here five minutes earlier or ten minutes earlier, you 0:55:43.880 --> 0:55:46.839 still wasn't here at one o'clock. That was the thing, 0:55:46.960 --> 0:55:47.640 the old thing. 0:55:47.840 --> 0:55:50.799 Now I'll be on I'm on time, queen now. But 0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:52.520 I was just using that for an example. We just 0:55:52.560 --> 0:55:54.960 use it for an example. But like I said, for anything, 0:55:54.960 --> 0:55:55.920 I feel like you're more. 0:55:56.160 --> 0:55:59.160 See what I'm gonna see my drinks today has to aggress. 0:55:59.239 --> 0:56:02.520 We was just it's not you know, I'm trying to 0:56:02.520 --> 0:56:04.560 I'm trying to move on. 0:56:05.160 --> 0:56:08.000 We were just using a random example. But like I said, 0:56:08.040 --> 0:56:09.799 even if it was like a man like back in 0:56:09.840 --> 0:56:11.680 the day, you probably would be more But now you'd 0:56:11.680 --> 0:56:14.440 be like I hear you friends, you're just more like 0:56:14.680 --> 0:56:18.560 receptive of things and you understand what people are saying. 0:56:18.760 --> 0:56:23.000 Like You're not so like I don't understand you be 0:56:23.000 --> 0:56:25.360 more so like I see where you're coming from. 0:56:26.040 --> 0:56:30.240 Because the thing about it right, and I really feel 0:56:30.239 --> 0:56:30.800 like people. 0:56:31.520 --> 0:56:33.200 I hope this gives people more of. 0:56:33.160 --> 0:56:35.680 An insight to me, cause I feel like I've said 0:56:35.719 --> 0:56:40.279 this before on poor minds. It's not even that I 0:56:40.320 --> 0:56:42.880 don't be trying to be receptive to what people be 0:56:43.000 --> 0:56:43.520 going through. 0:56:43.600 --> 0:56:45.280 I just be wanting better for people. 0:56:45.320 --> 0:56:47.799 Like sometimes when people tell me certain stuff, I'd be like, 0:56:48.800 --> 0:56:51.680 what the fuck, why are you dealing with that? 0:56:52.360 --> 0:56:54.680 Why are you putting up with it? Why are you 0:56:54.800 --> 0:56:56.320 leaving yourself in that situation? 0:56:56.880 --> 0:56:59.640 And I don't want it to ever come off judgy, 0:57:00.160 --> 0:57:02.600 just be wanting more for people that I care about. 0:57:02.920 --> 0:57:05.000 But I think that people take it in a way 0:57:05.040 --> 0:57:07.879 of like you be feeling like, oh you, it could 0:57:07.880 --> 0:57:10.919 never be you. It could never and respectfully, I hope 0:57:10.960 --> 0:57:14.000 this doesn't sound bad, but like in certain situations, I 0:57:14.040 --> 0:57:15.839 do be feeling like it could never be me because 0:57:15.840 --> 0:57:17.040 I'm not gonna deal with it. 0:57:18.200 --> 0:57:21.120 But I'm not gonna because different people want different things 0:57:21.200 --> 0:57:23.200 out of life, and that's fine. 0:57:22.960 --> 0:57:26.200 But I go based off of, to be fair, what 0:57:26.360 --> 0:57:28.800 people tell me that they want. If we're talking about 0:57:28.800 --> 0:57:32.000 people that I'm close to, I'm also going based off 0:57:32.000 --> 0:57:33.960 of what you're telling me you want, the type of 0:57:34.000 --> 0:57:36.120 relationship you say you want, the type of life you 0:57:36.160 --> 0:57:39.000 say you want, and it's nigga or the situation that 0:57:39.040 --> 0:57:41.440 you're putting yourself in. It's not conducive to what you're 0:57:41.440 --> 0:57:43.600 saying you want. So then if you're coming to me 0:57:43.720 --> 0:57:46.280 complaining to me all the time about it, the first 0:57:46.320 --> 0:57:49.560 few times, I'm gonna be like okay, but. 0:57:49.480 --> 0:57:52.240 Then after that it'd be like bitch, please. 0:57:52.800 --> 0:57:54.760 And then I also hate when people come to me 0:57:54.880 --> 0:57:58.120 telling me things about myself that they also do, so 0:57:58.240 --> 0:58:01.240 it's kind of like, you can't come to me telling 0:58:01.240 --> 0:58:03.439 me I'm late when you be late, you just seeing 0:58:03.480 --> 0:58:05.080 me in this earlier If that makes sense. 0:58:05.160 --> 0:58:07.520 Yeah, No, I feel like that's why. 0:58:08.160 --> 0:58:09.560 It would be different if you was getting there at 0:58:09.560 --> 0:58:11.360 twelve forty five and then you're like, okay, beat you 0:58:11.440 --> 0:58:13.120 pulled up at one fifteen, you got there at one 0:58:13.120 --> 0:58:13.560 oh five. 0:58:13.760 --> 0:58:15.840 We're supposed to be there at one. Cool. 0:58:16.280 --> 0:58:19.400 So I think more so that's where when I was 0:58:19.480 --> 0:58:23.920 younger the aggressiveness. The aggressiveness came from. As I'm older, 0:58:24.080 --> 0:58:27.120 it's just more so kind of like okay, I'm in 0:58:27.120 --> 0:58:30.560 my okay era. People got it, like that's where you 0:58:30.680 --> 0:58:35.120 be sen seen. I'm not arguing with you. It's cool. 0:58:35.360 --> 0:58:38.160 It is what it is. Boom. 0:58:38.240 --> 0:58:41.240 That was a good topic though it was it was 0:58:41.880 --> 0:58:42.320 all right. 0:58:42.400 --> 0:58:45.720 So this one, I'm gonna call this one a sinner's 0:58:45.800 --> 0:58:49.040 spirit because I am obsessed with sinners being a multiple times. 0:58:49.040 --> 0:58:53.640 I know a lot of us have NBJ okay, So 0:58:53.680 --> 0:58:56.240 this one you could use any spirit of choice. We 0:58:56.400 --> 0:58:59.560 have a grapefruit basio shrub and it's also like a 0:58:59.640 --> 0:59:02.160 tiny two so it's a little bit more tart, a 0:59:02.160 --> 0:59:05.160 little bit citrus in there. And then we have a 0:59:05.160 --> 0:59:07.680 little bit of lemon juice, like a splash of lemon juice. 0:59:07.800 --> 0:59:10.440 We added a little bit of sweeteners like samgave, and 0:59:10.480 --> 0:59:12.600 then we top it off with a rose and cactus 0:59:12.600 --> 0:59:16.200 sparkling water, and then we're garnishing it with a dehydrated 0:59:16.240 --> 0:59:18.400 grapefruit and then just a little bit of mint spread 0:59:18.560 --> 0:59:21.080 just to kind of make it cute, colorful and perfect 0:59:21.120 --> 0:59:24.080 for the spritzy spring and summer that's approaching. 0:59:24.440 --> 0:59:26.840 This is tasty like it, And we're gonna shout out 0:59:26.920 --> 0:59:28.840 Michael b joor N till he comes sit his ass. 0:59:28.880 --> 0:59:31.120 You know it every episode. 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It would be fun. 1:01:24.880 --> 1:01:27.640 Do it take me to incredible destinations with a special 1:01:27.680 --> 1:01:31.200 focus on the black experience, Sue Queens One. 1:01:31.080 --> 1:01:35.520 Glow, Endless Possibility Travel Queens Serious premiere Wednesday, April twenty 1:01:35.520 --> 1:01:38.120 thirty eight on VEZ Here. I asked the question before 1:01:38.120 --> 1:01:40.680 we get into the next topic. Do y'all think directive 1:01:40.720 --> 1:01:42.760 niece is a bad thing though, because I feel like 1:01:42.840 --> 1:01:46.400 me being very directed, like me being very direct and 1:01:46.520 --> 1:01:50.520 blood is also perceived as a bad thing. Sometimes. 1:01:50.760 --> 1:01:51.960 I don't think it's a bad thing. 1:01:52.000 --> 1:01:54.680 I just think it depends on how the person that 1:01:54.720 --> 1:01:57.640 you're talking to can perceive it. I don't think nothing 1:01:57.720 --> 1:02:00.000 is wrong with being direct. If you're being honest, honest, 1:02:00.000 --> 1:02:02.480 you see, it's never a bad thing. Yeah, I agree. 1:02:02.600 --> 1:02:05.960 I think that people people who don't like directiveness are 1:02:05.960 --> 1:02:07.360 people who can't handle real shit. 1:02:07.680 --> 1:02:08.680 That's in my opinion. 1:02:09.240 --> 1:02:12.320 Like I think that people who are direct, They're saying 1:02:12.320 --> 1:02:13.960 how they feel. How can you get mad. 1:02:13.840 --> 1:02:16.080 At somebody for being honest about their feelings? 1:02:16.920 --> 1:02:20.600 I agree, But do you think it's like I think 1:02:20.640 --> 1:02:22.800 it's levels to be in direct though, like I think 1:02:22.840 --> 1:02:24.919 you can still be. I think you can still be 1:02:24.960 --> 1:02:31.560 the blunt, direct person but still be careful about not 1:02:31.720 --> 1:02:34.080 hurting somebody's feelings. And I think I try to do that, 1:02:34.200 --> 1:02:36.120 Like I think it's I don't never try to say 1:02:36.160 --> 1:02:39.040 things to people to go for the jugglar, like I 1:02:39.080 --> 1:02:41.280 don't never want to like hurt your feelings. But bingach, 1:02:41.280 --> 1:02:43.640 I'm gonna let you know how I feel, and I'm 1:02:43.640 --> 1:02:47.120 gonna tell you what the real shit is versus Sometimes 1:02:47.120 --> 1:02:49.280 I think people try to use that as a cape 1:02:49.320 --> 1:02:51.120 of like, oh. 1:02:51.000 --> 1:02:53.200 I'm blunt, I'm direct, but then. 1:02:53.120 --> 1:02:56.760 You mean as fucking you saying rude, hurtful shit all 1:02:56.800 --> 1:02:59.120 the time to your friends or to your family members 1:02:59.160 --> 1:03:00.960 are to people that you hear about what you put 1:03:00.960 --> 1:03:01.600 the kp on. 1:03:01.640 --> 1:03:05.680 Of blunt mes and being direct you get what I'm saying. 1:03:06.400 --> 1:03:09.560 I hate people like that first of all, because I 1:03:09.560 --> 1:03:11.200 always say, it's not about what you say, it's how 1:03:11.240 --> 1:03:14.480 you say it. I don't want no mean ass friend. 1:03:14.640 --> 1:03:16.480 I'm sorry, I don't need you. 1:03:16.520 --> 1:03:19.120 I'm not saying sugarcoat shit, but I don't need you 1:03:19.200 --> 1:03:21.560 being like. It's a difference between like, if I got 1:03:21.560 --> 1:03:23.920 something tacky on, is it? Lex? 1:03:24.000 --> 1:03:25.160 You look fucking awful? 1:03:25.440 --> 1:03:25.640 Yeah? 1:03:25.760 --> 1:03:26.520 Like what the fuck? 1:03:26.560 --> 1:03:27.480 Why would you wear that? 1:03:27.680 --> 1:03:29.800 Versus somebody being like, ooh, Lex, this don't compliment you 1:03:29.840 --> 1:03:30.200 as well? 1:03:30.280 --> 1:03:30.960 Did you try on? 1:03:31.440 --> 1:03:33.840 Or maybe oh remember that spanceshot we had bought the 1:03:33.880 --> 1:03:36.320 other day. It's a difference on how you say shit. 1:03:36.480 --> 1:03:40.040 I don't like that mean shit because I don't talk 1:03:40.080 --> 1:03:42.120 to people like that, so don't talk to me like that. 1:03:42.760 --> 1:03:45.840 I definitely believe in being direct, but it's all about 1:03:45.920 --> 1:03:48.640 how you say it to people like I have friends 1:03:48.680 --> 1:03:52.920 from all different walks of life, like you, Lauren Kiler, 1:03:53.160 --> 1:03:56.720 be Leanne and my sister are all so different. But 1:03:56.960 --> 1:03:58.960 I'm very direct with each one of you in the 1:03:59.000 --> 1:04:01.160 same way when I talk to y'all, because it's easy 1:04:01.200 --> 1:04:03.760 to be nice but also tell somebody how you feel, 1:04:04.360 --> 1:04:08.280 and it's easy just to be understanding, because sometimes you 1:04:08.320 --> 1:04:11.240 gotta understand why this person made this decision to put 1:04:11.280 --> 1:04:14.200 that dress on. Maybe they thought that they felt sexy 1:04:14.200 --> 1:04:17.160 in it. Okay, well, let's spruce it up a little bit, 1:04:17.280 --> 1:04:18.960 or let let's let it if you want to wear 1:04:19.000 --> 1:04:21.800 this dress so bad, you go some sprank friend, you 1:04:21.800 --> 1:04:24.200 got a little sprink. You know what I'm saying, Like, 1:04:24.640 --> 1:04:26.919 it's just a way to say things. So I've never 1:04:26.960 --> 1:04:31.360 been that friend. I hate people who disguise being blunt 1:04:31.400 --> 1:04:33.800 with being a bitch. I don't like bitchy people. I 1:04:33.800 --> 1:04:36.280 don't like mood people. Keep that shit away from me 1:04:36.320 --> 1:04:36.960 and my family. 1:04:37.240 --> 1:04:40.720 I agree, I agree. I don't like that she either. No, 1:04:40.760 --> 1:04:42.640 I don't like that she either. But I ask that 1:04:42.680 --> 1:04:46.120 because I think sometimes people try to feel like that's 1:04:46.120 --> 1:04:48.360 how I be being, but I don't. I feel like 1:04:48.360 --> 1:04:49.720 I just be saying how I feel. 1:04:50.480 --> 1:04:52.440 Yeah, I think sometimes when people. 1:04:52.240 --> 1:04:56.000 And people don't like you, like sometimes people don't like honey. 1:04:56.840 --> 1:05:02.080 Well, I think sometimes stands you or get your tone 1:05:02.280 --> 1:05:05.240 of things. They don't understand, like it don't be that deep. 1:05:05.760 --> 1:05:08.320 But people who don't know you, they'd be like, oh 1:05:08.360 --> 1:05:11.720 my god, Drea's a bitch. They don't not a bitch, 1:05:11.760 --> 1:05:13.840 but they just be like why she liked, Well, you're 1:05:13.880 --> 1:05:17.200 not but you're not wrong. You're not wrong. People do 1:05:17.320 --> 1:05:17.720 be thinking. 1:05:18.400 --> 1:05:20.720 I think also, what makes it worse is that I 1:05:20.760 --> 1:05:21.800 don't really give a fuck. 1:05:24.080 --> 1:05:26.600 That's gonna be like, look at them, but I don't. 1:05:26.800 --> 1:05:30.480 But but to be fair and time, maybe let let 1:05:30.480 --> 1:05:32.240 me let Tad chime in on these be cause she 1:05:32.360 --> 1:05:33.000 be here with us. 1:05:33.160 --> 1:05:35.600 She's been with us for what to two. 1:05:35.480 --> 1:05:38.160 Years now and a half two and a half years now, 1:05:38.560 --> 1:05:39.000 we've been. 1:05:38.880 --> 1:05:40.080 In this studio for a minute. 1:05:40.920 --> 1:05:43.000 But I feel like not giving a fuck is not 1:05:43.080 --> 1:05:44.960 a bad thing, because why should I give a fuck 1:05:44.960 --> 1:05:48.040 about what people think that don't know me personally? Like, 1:05:48.600 --> 1:05:50.280 I don't know, how do you feel about what I 1:05:50.360 --> 1:05:53.400 just said? You still have empathy? And I think that's 1:05:53.400 --> 1:05:55.800 what when you're talking about like mean girls or people 1:05:55.800 --> 1:05:59.760 that are just blatantly mean, I think they're lacking empathy. 1:06:00.000 --> 1:06:02.280 I still care, but you don't care enough for it 1:06:02.320 --> 1:06:04.160 to stress you out, you know what I mean? 1:06:04.240 --> 1:06:07.080 Like it's a I think it's a difference. 1:06:06.920 --> 1:06:09.760 When I'm I feel like I'm very direct, for sure, 1:06:09.840 --> 1:06:11.040 but I really direct. 1:06:10.840 --> 1:06:11.880 When it comes to my business. 1:06:11.920 --> 1:06:15.280 Yeah, yeah, I'm not negotiating on that with my friends. 1:06:15.320 --> 1:06:17.919 You got to have a little bit of emotional intelligence 1:06:18.360 --> 1:06:20.919 to deal with them, because you love these people, right 1:06:20.960 --> 1:06:23.040 and you want to respect them or you still respect them, 1:06:23.080 --> 1:06:27.040 but you also have your boundaries for yourself that are 1:06:27.080 --> 1:06:30.960 personal to you that hey, I have this level of care, but. 1:06:31.160 --> 1:06:33.480 All right, cool, you don't care. I don't care either. 1:06:33.520 --> 1:06:36.080 I'm good, like I'm chilling. But I don't think you're 1:06:36.240 --> 1:06:39.880 a bitchy, mean, direct person. You still care and you 1:06:39.920 --> 1:06:41.080 still have empathy for people. 1:06:41.640 --> 1:06:42.840 Yeah, I think so too. 1:06:42.880 --> 1:06:44.720 I think when it comes to people I care about, 1:06:44.800 --> 1:06:46.200 I have a lot of empathy. 1:06:46.240 --> 1:06:49.840 I think I'm very empathetic, but when. 1:06:49.640 --> 1:06:52.320 It comes to people that I don't know, I don't 1:06:52.400 --> 1:06:56.840 necessarily really care that much. But I'm also just being honest. 1:06:57.000 --> 1:07:01.400 I think that sometimes the space that we're in with us. 1:07:01.160 --> 1:07:05.720 Being like public figures, no. 1:07:07.120 --> 1:07:09.080 I think sometimes with us be in the face that 1:07:09.120 --> 1:07:12.280 we're in of being public figures or influencers. I think 1:07:12.320 --> 1:07:16.680 you can say something and then it will hit home 1:07:17.000 --> 1:07:20.240 for somebody and then they take it really really personal, 1:07:20.320 --> 1:07:23.120 and then they're like, well, bitch, you a bitch and 1:07:23.560 --> 1:07:25.880 you don't understand or you feel like it could never 1:07:25.920 --> 1:07:26.240 be you. 1:07:26.920 --> 1:07:28.200 But I don't even know you. 1:07:28.720 --> 1:07:32.480 I don't even know your situation specifically, so I wasn't 1:07:32.520 --> 1:07:36.080 talking specifically to you, but you took it like I 1:07:36.200 --> 1:07:37.720 was talking specifically to you. 1:07:38.000 --> 1:07:39.760 But anogo like, that's what it be. 1:07:39.800 --> 1:07:41.640 A lot of the time people, I'll say something that 1:07:41.720 --> 1:07:45.080 people be feeling like, oh, this resonates with my upbringing 1:07:45.680 --> 1:07:48.400 or my situation with my dad, or my situation with 1:07:48.520 --> 1:07:50.880 my mom, or my situation with my men, my baby. 1:07:50.720 --> 1:07:52.960 Daddy, my child whatever. 1:07:53.840 --> 1:07:58.280 So she said this and bitch, I'm taking it personal 1:07:58.400 --> 1:08:00.000 because bitch, fuck you. 1:08:00.080 --> 1:08:01.720 But I don't even know you. 1:08:02.120 --> 1:08:05.240 I'm just speaking in general on what I think in 1:08:05.320 --> 1:08:08.520 my opinion. Plus I also feel like opinion shouldn't matter 1:08:08.560 --> 1:08:11.160 that much. I said my opinion by the watch the 1:08:11.200 --> 1:08:12.240 other day, people was. 1:08:12.200 --> 1:08:13.840 In oh you brought that. 1:08:14.800 --> 1:08:19.760 They was so mad uproar. People were in such an uproar. 1:08:21.240 --> 1:08:22.599 But I love that for me. 1:08:22.680 --> 1:08:26.240 Because we have to talk about I think people got 1:08:26.360 --> 1:08:28.439 to get stopped giving me so much power, because to 1:08:28.520 --> 1:08:33.280 understand the Taurus is to understand that I sometimes revel 1:08:33.360 --> 1:08:34.160 in the fact. 1:08:34.560 --> 1:08:37.320 That y'all get so mad. 1:08:37.160 --> 1:08:39.519 At the things I say, because I'd be like, Wow, 1:08:41.200 --> 1:08:44.320 I'm really that powerful that I can what was the 1:08:44.360 --> 1:08:49.200 tweet again, that I can make the whole timeline getting 1:08:49.200 --> 1:08:49.799 the uproar. 1:08:50.400 --> 1:08:54.280 Okay, So I just basically said that let me go 1:08:54.320 --> 1:08:54.800 look at my. 1:08:55.760 --> 1:08:59.080 Go look at somebody's messages because they sent it to me. 1:09:00.960 --> 1:09:04.120 And me, see, I am so weak. 1:09:10.120 --> 1:09:13.000 Because I've never seen you want an Apple watch on 1:09:13.200 --> 1:09:18.000 asking what's wrong with an Apple? Oh? Brother? But read 1:09:18.040 --> 1:09:19.439 this tweek but no, you. 1:09:19.479 --> 1:09:22.920 See laugh because exactly. 1:09:23.840 --> 1:09:27.720 But anyways, y'all be adding that gold band on y'all 1:09:27.720 --> 1:09:29.880 Apple watches and thinking that me, you could wear it 1:09:29.920 --> 1:09:30.360 to dinner? 1:09:31.400 --> 1:09:36.519 No, okay? And I said what I said, and it 1:09:36.640 --> 1:09:38.880 was me looking at my goal Watch like, oh, you 1:09:39.000 --> 1:09:41.679 be wearing it to dinner? I'll wear it whatever I don't. 1:09:41.840 --> 1:09:43.559 But I also didn't read that like, oh my god, 1:09:43.600 --> 1:09:44.559 Drea hates me either. 1:09:44.600 --> 1:09:45.320 You know what I'm saying? 1:09:45.400 --> 1:09:48.400 Like, I laughed at it and moved on. 1:09:48.600 --> 1:09:50.439 That's what I okay, So let me say this is 1:09:50.479 --> 1:09:53.760 how I felt about it as a person who I 1:09:53.800 --> 1:09:54.800 wear my Apple. 1:09:54.560 --> 1:09:55.519 Watch a lot. 1:09:55.640 --> 1:09:58.960 I change out these bands, but y'all know I'm serious 1:09:59.000 --> 1:10:01.400 about my Apple y but this is my thing. 1:10:02.400 --> 1:10:03.240 Y'all be like, why do. 1:10:03.320 --> 1:10:07.600 Y'all you think? Because first of all, if you like 1:10:07.720 --> 1:10:09.840 your Apple Watch, how you wear, why do you care 1:10:09.840 --> 1:10:13.400 what this complete stranger is saying about what you have 1:10:13.479 --> 1:10:15.400 on Do you know how many times I have put 1:10:15.439 --> 1:10:18.840 on something onward something and this person or this person 1:10:18.880 --> 1:10:21.400 be like, oh, I think that tall bitches who wear 1:10:21.520 --> 1:10:24.000 platform heels. It looks crazy, because why you walking around 1:10:24.080 --> 1:10:26.599 looking like sasquatch? Because I'm a bad bitch and that's 1:10:26.600 --> 1:10:33.400 what I did. Well, you can never tell me about 1:10:33.680 --> 1:10:36.439 shit that I like, and I'm not gonna lie. Did 1:10:36.439 --> 1:10:38.840 I think the tweet was funny? Yes, but I thought 1:10:38.880 --> 1:10:42.040 it was so funny. How y'all are sending things to 1:10:42.120 --> 1:10:45.240 her mention trying to prove that your watch looks good. 1:10:45.320 --> 1:10:48.759 That's for you to enjoy, not her. She thinks it's tacky, 1:10:48.800 --> 1:10:52.600 and that's okay. Y'all have stopped. Y'all have got to 1:10:52.640 --> 1:10:55.720 stop trying to get approval from people who don't care 1:10:55.880 --> 1:10:57.720 or know you exist. It's a joke. It's supposed to 1:10:57.760 --> 1:11:00.880 be lighthearted, funny. Y'all got butt her because you are 1:11:00.880 --> 1:11:03.240 wearing your Apple watch to dinner, and that's okay. 1:11:03.400 --> 1:11:05.720 No, they got butt hurt because it was Drea from 1:11:05.720 --> 1:11:09.880 poor mind. If somebody random as hell hey tweet that 1:11:10.080 --> 1:11:11.400 on Twitter and it went. 1:11:11.280 --> 1:11:12.759 Viral, nobody would have cared. 1:11:13.200 --> 1:11:16.840 I know, people always get very defensive when they see 1:11:16.880 --> 1:11:19.280 it's me or you and it goes viral and we 1:11:19.360 --> 1:11:21.720 said something and they'd be like, oh, you got a 1:11:21.720 --> 1:11:23.280 lot of nerves. It was y'all when I say it 1:11:23.320 --> 1:11:28.400 with so many people in my comments, like yeah, everybody 1:11:28.439 --> 1:11:31.760 not a big baller like you. Everybody can't have a 1:11:31.880 --> 1:11:34.160 ten fifteen thousand dollars watch. 1:11:34.800 --> 1:11:37.960 Everybody can't do X, Y and Z. 1:11:38.240 --> 1:11:40.559 And my watch was eight hundred dollars, so you right, 1:11:40.760 --> 1:11:41.880 it was one thousand dollars. 1:11:41.880 --> 1:11:43.080 I'm a wear it every day. 1:11:43.520 --> 1:11:47.360 The thing is, though nobody some of them, yeah, But 1:11:47.400 --> 1:11:52.040 the thing is, nobody made it about money. I never 1:11:52.120 --> 1:11:53.439 said nothing about money. 1:11:53.800 --> 1:11:57.080 For me. It's more about like the esthetics. 1:11:57.560 --> 1:12:00.400 To me, if you have on a ball gown or 1:12:00.479 --> 1:12:02.960 you have on a tuxedo, are you out at a 1:12:03.000 --> 1:12:03.759 fancy dinner? 1:12:03.800 --> 1:12:06.360 Even if you have on a cute little two piece. 1:12:06.040 --> 1:12:10.200 Save and you out at dinner at Hell's with your man, 1:12:10.800 --> 1:12:13.920 I don't feel like you should have on an Apple watch. 1:12:14.040 --> 1:12:14.600 I feel like you. 1:12:14.720 --> 1:12:17.519 But it's so many cute, dainty watches that you could 1:12:17.560 --> 1:12:21.879 get JBW. It's so many of the influencer girls Alia's 1:12:21.880 --> 1:12:25.200 face Kyra Aminique shout out to them. They be always 1:12:25.200 --> 1:12:28.920 promoting JBW watches. Those watches are like two hundred three 1:12:29.000 --> 1:12:32.120 hundred dollars. They're cute, little dainty watches. Nobody said it 1:12:32.160 --> 1:12:35.639 has to be a rolex An ap a potect. 1:12:36.200 --> 1:12:36.960 Y'all made it. 1:12:36.920 --> 1:12:40.519 About that because y'all saw who tweeted it. I never 1:12:40.600 --> 1:12:41.840 said nothing about money. 1:12:42.000 --> 1:12:45.280 So I'll say this. You know, I think I'm not 1:12:45.320 --> 1:12:48.200 gonna lie me personally, like the like the band that 1:12:48.520 --> 1:12:50.519 Ty has on, I think that's cute. 1:12:50.560 --> 1:12:51.360 I'm not gonna lie. 1:12:51.400 --> 1:12:53.880 I mean, I had one of them, but no, this 1:12:53.960 --> 1:12:57.439 is my problem because I agree with her on this end. 1:12:58.320 --> 1:13:00.360 Changing the bands, that's not an issue to me because 1:13:00.360 --> 1:13:02.280 I think if you have your Apple Watch on there 1:13:02.280 --> 1:13:04.400 are like the gold band like that, I'll be seeing 1:13:04.439 --> 1:13:10.320 cue bands. I've seen somebody they had a Cuban link with. 1:13:10.640 --> 1:13:14.000 It was a fake bust down. That's that's tacking to me. 1:13:14.040 --> 1:13:16.479 If you have a cute little gold band something like that, 1:13:16.680 --> 1:13:20.160 it matches what she have on a Cuban link. To me, 1:13:20.280 --> 1:13:23.800 a fat Cuban link is just a lot anyway. But 1:13:24.439 --> 1:13:26.360 at the end of the day, it's an opinion. If 1:13:26.400 --> 1:13:29.040 you like your Cuban link on your Apple Watch, that's fine. 1:13:29.160 --> 1:13:30.120 I just want to say these. 1:13:30.160 --> 1:13:32.920 I think people, even you, I think missing the point 1:13:33.400 --> 1:13:35.600 I never said nothing with even if you want to 1:13:35.600 --> 1:13:36.520 wear the Cuban. 1:13:36.240 --> 1:13:37.400 Link, that's fine. 1:13:37.720 --> 1:13:40.280 I don't think it's anything wrong with how Ty has 1:13:40.320 --> 1:13:42.120 her watch on. But Ty does not have on a 1:13:42.160 --> 1:13:43.080 formal outfit. 1:13:43.640 --> 1:13:45.080 She not going to a wedding. 1:13:45.320 --> 1:13:47.720 You don't know she might even go a little too. 1:13:47.800 --> 1:13:50.960 I do, ah, she not at a wedding. 1:13:51.160 --> 1:13:54.080 She's not going on a date night with a beautiful 1:13:54.200 --> 1:13:57.879 dress on, like she's here at poor mind's count on herself. 1:13:58.720 --> 1:14:02.160 That's fine, even with her out feed like she worthy 1:14:02.160 --> 1:14:03.680 shit for the episode. 1:14:04.160 --> 1:14:04.920 I'm not gonna lie. 1:14:04.960 --> 1:14:08.040 I don't see nothing wrong with that. I think people 1:14:08.040 --> 1:14:10.559 were missing the point that I'm saying. All I was saying, 1:14:10.560 --> 1:14:13.400 which maybe I should have articulated myself better. Maybe I 1:14:13.439 --> 1:14:15.640 should have made the tweet more extensive. But I'm a 1:14:15.640 --> 1:14:17.479 person I don't think tweets should be there long. 1:14:18.000 --> 1:14:22.160 It's a tweet. A tweet. 1:14:22.200 --> 1:14:24.080 I just think that shit is still to me, a 1:14:24.120 --> 1:14:27.599 tweet is a brain fart. Like it's short, it's not long, 1:14:28.120 --> 1:14:31.120 So maybe I should have articulated myself better. But what 1:14:31.160 --> 1:14:36.080 I'm more so meant was I don't think that it 1:14:36.120 --> 1:14:39.639 doesn't matter if you change your Apple watch band out 1:14:39.880 --> 1:14:42.879 for a gold man, it still doesn't make it appropriate 1:14:42.920 --> 1:14:44.559 to word with a tuxedo. Now you look like a 1:14:44.560 --> 1:14:49.480 spy kid. Now you're looking like you are mission impossible. 1:14:50.080 --> 1:14:54.160 I just don't think that goes together. Same thing with 1:14:54.320 --> 1:14:57.880 a woman with a beautiful date night dress. You actually 1:14:57.880 --> 1:14:59.559 a nice little dress from fashion Over? 1:15:01.240 --> 1:15:01.720 That be me? 1:15:02.200 --> 1:15:05.360 Yeah, you got you a nice little dress com fashion Over. 1:15:05.840 --> 1:15:08.240 You and your man is going out for dinner. Y'all 1:15:08.240 --> 1:15:11.120 want Marcel, let me say something that's more universal that 1:15:11.200 --> 1:15:14.679 people know about. Y'all want to know, boob, you got 1:15:14.680 --> 1:15:18.720 on this beautiful dress with your Apple watch and then 1:15:18.720 --> 1:15:20.800 you switched out to bend for a gold being, and 1:15:20.880 --> 1:15:22.960 you think that make it appropriate to wear. Just get 1:15:23.000 --> 1:15:25.400 you a cute little dainty watch. Nobody is saying it 1:15:25.439 --> 1:15:27.080 has to be your row legs. Go get your little 1:15:27.080 --> 1:15:30.439 three hundred dollars cute gold watch. 1:15:29.840 --> 1:15:33.360 That's a dinner. Why. 1:15:32.120 --> 1:15:36.639 I think it's more like, if I'm being honest, maybe 1:15:36.640 --> 1:15:40.280 I'm a little biased. I guess I'll never pay I 1:15:40.280 --> 1:15:42.120 don't be paying attention like that. 1:15:42.840 --> 1:15:44.240 Well, I seen somebody in New York. 1:15:44.240 --> 1:15:46.720 That's what made me tweety okay, because we was out 1:15:46.760 --> 1:15:49.040 at dinner and I seen a lady with a silk 1:15:49.160 --> 1:15:52.120 dress on and then she had on her Apple watch 1:15:52.560 --> 1:15:55.599 with a gold Man I don't pay attention like that neither, 1:15:55.600 --> 1:15:57.800 because I don't really give a fuck what people be waring. 1:15:57.880 --> 1:15:59.479 Yeah, like, I feel like if you got it on 1:15:59.520 --> 1:16:00.720 your wrist and that's what you like. 1:16:00.880 --> 1:16:02.840 It was a thought. I tweeted it. 1:16:03.439 --> 1:16:05.639 I hate the fact that people think I care them much. 1:16:05.760 --> 1:16:09.519 We're elaborating on it because we're just talking about it. 1:16:09.640 --> 1:16:12.320 Somebody do out a watch with I will say this. 1:16:13.240 --> 1:16:17.240 Stop letting people affect how you feel about yourself. That's 1:16:17.240 --> 1:16:19.559 how I know y'all don't have no confidence. And guess 1:16:19.600 --> 1:16:21.080 what if I put a bag out on with my 1:16:21.160 --> 1:16:23.960 Apple Watch on, I don't give fuck what this whole thing. 1:16:24.080 --> 1:16:27.040 I'm still working that room bad as bitch, and who 1:16:27.040 --> 1:16:31.440 gonna tell me anything. Y'all have confidence in yourself? Who cares? 1:16:31.840 --> 1:16:33.839 That's all I'm saying, though lex. 1:16:33.680 --> 1:16:34.760 Will take their watch off. 1:16:34.840 --> 1:16:38.760 Don't listen to Yeah I am, I am, But what 1:16:38.800 --> 1:16:41.479 I'm saying is give you example, perfect example. I went 1:16:41.479 --> 1:16:45.479 to DC last year. I went to a w NBA game. 1:16:45.600 --> 1:16:48.599 We sitting courtside in the section. I had to hurry 1:16:48.640 --> 1:16:50.680 up and pack my bags last minute because he was like, hey, 1:16:50.680 --> 1:16:54.120 bab we couldn't do it. I left my watch, but 1:16:54.160 --> 1:16:55.720 guess what I had on? My Apple Watch on with 1:16:55.760 --> 1:16:58.640 my outfit, and I didn't care because when you have 1:16:58.720 --> 1:17:01.360 that confidence about how you look at your swag and 1:17:01.400 --> 1:17:03.559 you who you are. It was a tweet. It was 1:17:03.600 --> 1:17:05.760 meant to be funny. Stop taking shit so hard because 1:17:05.760 --> 1:17:07.719 if you that girl, you're gonna beat that girl apple 1:17:07.720 --> 1:17:08.240 watch or not. 1:17:08.840 --> 1:17:11.080 But that's the thing that I This goes back to 1:17:11.120 --> 1:17:13.920 what I was just saying. I feel like people always like. 1:17:14.040 --> 1:17:17.200 What you say the heart personally I was playing it 1:17:17.960 --> 1:17:20.920 really wasn't that seriod Like it was really a joke 1:17:21.000 --> 1:17:21.800 because y'all know. 1:17:21.880 --> 1:17:23.040 I don't play by my steps. 1:17:23.080 --> 1:17:23.599 I wear my. 1:17:23.560 --> 1:17:24.639 Apple Watch every day. 1:17:24.920 --> 1:17:26.840 That's also why I laugh because I'm like, no, she'd 1:17:26.880 --> 1:17:29.040 be wearing her Apple Watch, but it was let me. 1:17:28.960 --> 1:17:30.960 Get it, but I'm not. But I'm not gonna wear 1:17:30.960 --> 1:17:31.840 it to Leg's wedding. 1:17:32.520 --> 1:17:34.360 If you was beefing that they're with, you should have 1:17:34.360 --> 1:17:39.400 been at that wedding. But honestly, I will say this, 1:17:39.439 --> 1:17:41.000 and y'all gonna be mad at me. The watchers, y'all 1:17:41.080 --> 1:17:43.280 was sitting in her mentions, wasn't putting up a good fight. 1:17:44.200 --> 1:17:45.800 If y'all was gonna put up a good fight, y'all 1:17:45.840 --> 1:17:47.400 should have did better than that. Because I was trying 1:17:47.400 --> 1:17:48.280 to be on y'all side. 1:17:48.320 --> 1:17:51.120 You wasn't because she didn't say she one thing I 1:17:51.160 --> 1:17:53.160 love about my bes friend Lean, she don't be trying 1:17:53.160 --> 1:17:55.080 to be on nobody's side of mind because. 1:17:54.840 --> 1:17:57.599 She retweeted that she and she put that little meanness head. 1:18:02.400 --> 1:18:06.720 Lean always what people about my girl, she gonna have 1:18:07.040 --> 1:18:08.920 my back and in Twitter stream. 1:18:09.000 --> 1:18:11.840 Okay, honestly, I didn't even know it was vile. 1:18:13.600 --> 1:18:15.280 I didn't even know when viral because. 1:18:15.080 --> 1:18:18.840 I've seen it first on a spiritual world and I. 1:18:18.800 --> 1:18:20.000 Said, what the hell is this? 1:18:21.560 --> 1:18:25.160 And when I tell you, I'm sorry, But the first 1:18:25.360 --> 1:18:27.879 the first thing I seen was the one with the cuban. 1:18:28.280 --> 1:18:30.120 That was the first tweet. 1:18:29.880 --> 1:18:33.280 I saw, and then I retweeted it and I just said, Okay. 1:18:33.400 --> 1:18:36.679 Then everybody was even more mad because what I told God, 1:18:37.439 --> 1:18:38.720 why would you do that? 1:18:39.560 --> 1:18:39.800 Why? 1:18:39.880 --> 1:18:44.240 I'm really in my own y'all gotta understand this about 1:18:44.240 --> 1:18:47.240 me y'all gonna see twenty twenty five. It's a new 1:18:47.320 --> 1:18:51.080 meaning not going back and forth with you niggas. I 1:18:51.120 --> 1:18:52.840 never was the type to really go back and forth, 1:18:52.880 --> 1:18:55.320 but sometimes I think we'll interact with people on Twitter 1:18:55.360 --> 1:18:57.519 like iry just say something else will get made. 1:18:58.000 --> 1:18:58.839 We might respond. 1:18:58.920 --> 1:19:01.760 I called out somebody's I know, we said you are 1:19:01.840 --> 1:19:06.080 aurful white man in America. You can't talk about what 1:19:06.120 --> 1:19:08.160 black women do. This world was handed to you. 1:19:08.400 --> 1:19:10.320 One thing about me and Lex. We will get upset 1:19:10.360 --> 1:19:13.400 on Twitter and we will responding to people. But I'm 1:19:13.520 --> 1:19:19.240 trying to practice a new mantra going forward. Okay, because 1:19:19.280 --> 1:19:21.040 all you gotta do is hit the beach with an okay. 1:19:21.120 --> 1:19:22.519 It's simple and effected. 1:19:23.520 --> 1:19:26.360 It makes people feel so stupid if you if they 1:19:26.600 --> 1:19:29.360 if they put an elaborate post out and all you 1:19:29.439 --> 1:19:35.280 say is okay, that post got ten k tweets, three tweets, Okay, yes, 1:19:36.080 --> 1:19:36.559 I don't. 1:19:36.400 --> 1:19:40.840 Even Everybody was cracking up in the comedy Damn because 1:19:40.840 --> 1:19:44.599 she was like, she said, yeah, because my apple watch 1:19:44.640 --> 1:19:45.320 looks like this. 1:19:47.360 --> 1:19:49.920 You gotta stop right off. 1:19:50.360 --> 1:19:54.160 She hit the tax my apple wash looks like it. 1:19:54.200 --> 1:19:58.800 Was given what is it called q QC QB TV QBC, 1:19:59.080 --> 1:20:04.280 qb CC. She thought she was on that fucking TV channel. 1:20:04.400 --> 1:20:09.599 She said, my Apple Watch was like the hell hell 1:20:09.680 --> 1:20:12.480 a wait, and everybody was in the comments like exactly 1:20:13.120 --> 1:20:14.960 because what the fuck was she talking about? 1:20:15.720 --> 1:20:17.680 They was like in her watch too, don't do that. 1:20:17.920 --> 1:20:18.960 It was people complimenting. 1:20:19.000 --> 1:20:21.120 No, I said, they were saying exactly what the fuck 1:20:21.280 --> 1:20:23.720 was I talking about? And then I was just like, 1:20:23.840 --> 1:20:28.960 it's just the whole community of Tay people. It's crazy, okay, 1:20:29.360 --> 1:20:31.880 and I'm about to get cutsed out in these comings. 1:20:32.479 --> 1:20:35.240 But again, I don't. 1:20:37.040 --> 1:20:40.760 Like I said, where what you? I love flow Key. 1:20:41.920 --> 1:20:44.519 I probably shouldn't even put this out there, but I 1:20:44.560 --> 1:20:46.400 love being the building of poor minds. 1:20:46.439 --> 1:20:46.920 I feel like. 1:20:46.880 --> 1:20:51.680 Everybody loved feet and everybody hates me. It is true 1:20:51.720 --> 1:20:54.559 if you look at the comments. I say, everybody hates me, 1:20:55.080 --> 1:20:58.840 but I feel like everybody loves you. 1:20:59.439 --> 1:21:01.800 And then with me, they be like the people that 1:21:01.960 --> 1:21:02.639 love you. 1:21:02.800 --> 1:21:05.760 The people up, the people that love Drea. They have 1:21:05.840 --> 1:21:08.400 found their way to hate me. They have snuck over. 1:21:08.240 --> 1:21:10.800 To love Lex because they never say nothing about me. 1:21:11.160 --> 1:21:14.280 The people for them from your stand accounts, they're going 1:21:14.320 --> 1:21:17.720 to mention you in my sheep, my people, even if 1:21:17.760 --> 1:21:19.080 they like me and don't like you. 1:21:19.160 --> 1:21:20.559 Nobody ever be on your page. 1:21:21.120 --> 1:21:24.480 You're talking about my supporters are the minaces. 1:21:24.160 --> 1:21:28.240 Yes, because your supporters be the ones that be like, yeah, 1:21:28.320 --> 1:21:30.960 because I love les Drea stupid. 1:21:32.600 --> 1:21:34.720 My supporters don't say that to you. 1:21:34.760 --> 1:21:35.240 They don't be. 1:21:35.439 --> 1:21:37.559 They might not, people might not like you, but they 1:21:37.560 --> 1:21:39.920 don't be in your commedist talking about me, is what 1:21:39.960 --> 1:21:40.360 I'm saying. 1:21:40.400 --> 1:21:44.000 They do. Oh, you're talking about my YouTube page. 1:21:44.320 --> 1:21:45.439 I'm talking about in general. 1:21:45.520 --> 1:21:48.439 On no, in general, they definitely do. They be like 1:21:48.600 --> 1:21:53.360 dre is so educated, so smart, she's so so that 1:21:53.439 --> 1:21:56.479 she got a smart bitch somebody. They be talking about 1:21:56.479 --> 1:21:59.960 the way I look. Dreya needs to tell Lexi she 1:22:00.080 --> 1:22:07.439 can't dress d you're a liar. Oh I put this 1:22:07.479 --> 1:22:08.080 on my mother. 1:22:08.160 --> 1:22:08.800 I'm not lying. 1:22:09.040 --> 1:22:11.240 They'd be like, Drea needs to be honest with lex 1:22:11.280 --> 1:22:13.800 about the way she dressed. She needs to tell her. 1:22:13.960 --> 1:22:16.080 They do be saying that. Nobody probably don't see them 1:22:16.080 --> 1:22:18.320 because I delete them my ac. 1:22:18.560 --> 1:22:20.439 I just be leaving them up because I be like whatever, 1:22:20.760 --> 1:22:23.479 somebody left the or sometimes I can't leave them. Somebody 1:22:23.560 --> 1:22:26.240 left the comment under the Brexfeast Club interview and they 1:22:26.320 --> 1:22:30.679 was like yeah, somebody said, uh, Drea, I mean Lex 1:22:30.720 --> 1:22:35.280 has always been my star. Drea will used to be boring. 1:22:35.360 --> 1:22:39.840 I'm glad she caught on. Somebody left the comment and said, yeah, 1:22:39.880 --> 1:22:42.840 that's what I be saying. Lex is the star in 1:22:42.920 --> 1:22:45.200 the personality, Drea is boring. 1:22:45.640 --> 1:22:56.960 Misses me too, because I'm. 1:22:56.800 --> 1:22:58.320 Be y'all so sorry. 1:22:58.680 --> 1:23:02.080 But anytime people say anything like that about me and Les, 1:23:02.320 --> 1:23:03.599 I have a good. 1:23:03.479 --> 1:23:07.080 Key, because beach, are you hous dumb? 1:23:07.960 --> 1:23:12.400 We been two separate people our whole life, but' and 1:23:12.439 --> 1:23:16.840 we came together indeed something amazing. I didn't need Lecks 1:23:16.960 --> 1:23:19.519 for for me to become who I was gonna become. 1:23:19.920 --> 1:23:22.519 She didn't need me for me to for her to 1:23:22.560 --> 1:23:25.000 become who she was gonna become. We were going to 1:23:25.320 --> 1:23:27.960 shine our lights regardless. We was gonna be straight in 1:23:28.000 --> 1:23:28.960 life regardless. 1:23:29.000 --> 1:23:32.840 But it's not about that. It's more so that y'all 1:23:32.840 --> 1:23:35.720 see No, no, no, no, it's not about that. What it 1:23:35.760 --> 1:23:38.719 is about is y'all see two black women who come together, 1:23:38.760 --> 1:23:42.360 who have different personalities, who made it work, and this 1:23:42.439 --> 1:23:45.080 chemistry is undeniable. That's why y'all are here. That's why 1:23:45.080 --> 1:23:46.760 we were able to go on Breakfast Club that's why 1:23:46.800 --> 1:23:48.880 we have tribal queens. That's why we have all these 1:23:48.960 --> 1:23:51.920 endeavors that are working out for us. And the thing is, 1:23:52.600 --> 1:23:56.800 there's like look at the growers, TLC and drunk today. 1:23:56.960 --> 1:23:58.200 It ain't no such thing. 1:23:58.840 --> 1:24:01.960 T bars and left time and chili. They were a 1:24:02.080 --> 1:24:06.719 unit together. Baby, this is a unit, y'all have to understand. Yes, 1:24:06.840 --> 1:24:09.840 Drea is an entity on her own, Lexp is an 1:24:09.960 --> 1:24:13.120 entity on her own, but in no world, in any side, 1:24:13.120 --> 1:24:13.519 I don't care. 1:24:13.560 --> 1:24:15.400 Where do we not do this shit together? 1:24:16.000 --> 1:24:16.160 No? 1:24:16.160 --> 1:24:18.679 No, no, did I needed you? 1:24:19.240 --> 1:24:21.920 I don't care how. I know I'm a star, but 1:24:22.000 --> 1:24:25.200 I needed I could not have done poor. There's no 1:24:25.280 --> 1:24:26.679 poor minds without Dre and the car. 1:24:26.760 --> 1:24:27.639 That's what I'm saying. 1:24:27.760 --> 1:24:30.320 That's what I but that's literally what I just No, No, 1:24:31.000 --> 1:24:32.679 you said no, that's not the point. 1:24:32.760 --> 1:24:35.000 I said, Yes I would. 1:24:35.280 --> 1:24:37.400 I don't be giving a fuck about what people be 1:24:37.400 --> 1:24:40.280 saying in the comments about you being a personality or 1:24:40.280 --> 1:24:42.800 you being whatever, bach I being raw, my whole life, 1:24:42.880 --> 1:24:45.439 check my resume. Let's go back to high school, let's 1:24:45.439 --> 1:24:48.360 go back to college, long before our met leaks. No disrespect, 1:24:48.640 --> 1:24:51.559 but I'm just saying respect. But I'm just saying, because 1:24:51.600 --> 1:24:53.400 I don't want it to seem that way, but it's 1:24:53.439 --> 1:24:57.559 like me and Lex are our own people. Neither one 1:24:57.600 --> 1:25:00.240 of us need each other to be nothing. He was 1:25:00.280 --> 1:25:03.080 going to be amazing without me, regardless, because she's an 1:25:03.080 --> 1:25:03.880 amazing person. 1:25:03.920 --> 1:25:07.240 That's who God created her to be. Same thing with me. 1:25:07.360 --> 1:25:10.360 I was gonna be an amazing person regardless, because that's 1:25:10.400 --> 1:25:13.280 who God created me to be. We came together and 1:25:13.320 --> 1:25:16.400 we built something really special because that was obviously also 1:25:16.720 --> 1:25:18.719 again ordained in the past. 1:25:19.120 --> 1:25:20.599 This is what we were supposed to do. 1:25:21.360 --> 1:25:25.240 But when y'all be trying to throw shade and try 1:25:25.240 --> 1:25:27.439 to put us against each other, y'all not really doing 1:25:27.479 --> 1:25:29.920 it because me and Lex really having a good key. 1:25:30.040 --> 1:25:32.520 Adding because if y'all go back to the older episodes, 1:25:32.600 --> 1:25:35.200 what I always said, you know how many and this 1:25:35.280 --> 1:25:37.400 is no shade to nobody. You know how many people 1:25:37.439 --> 1:25:39.320 in my life that I used to be friends with 1:25:39.360 --> 1:25:41.720 that I'm no longer friends with now wanted to do 1:25:41.800 --> 1:25:43.840 something with me and wanted to do this with me. 1:25:43.880 --> 1:25:45.479 I always felt like I just want to do something 1:25:45.560 --> 1:25:47.160 on my own, or maybe I'm just figuring out I 1:25:47.200 --> 1:25:49.559 don't know. When I met Drew, I was like Oh, 1:25:49.600 --> 1:25:51.120 we can do something together for real. 1:25:51.280 --> 1:25:52.240 I always said that. 1:25:53.000 --> 1:25:55.799 Of course, when we started out, Drea wasn't as open 1:25:55.880 --> 1:26:00.679 because she's a private person. Never gave boring, were gay boring? 1:26:00.720 --> 1:26:03.800 But I knew y'all didn't know what I knew and 1:26:03.880 --> 1:26:06.320 what I saw, what I knew was gonna happen. We 1:26:06.400 --> 1:26:09.200 always talked about that in the older episode. 1:26:08.840 --> 1:26:13.880 But also to be fair, I also in early episodes, 1:26:13.960 --> 1:26:16.640 we've always talked about how you didn't even want to 1:26:16.680 --> 1:26:19.639 show your personality. You used to be like, I don't 1:26:19.680 --> 1:26:21.400 know if I should say these or don't. I don't 1:26:21.439 --> 1:26:22.920 know if I should do these because I don't know 1:26:22.920 --> 1:26:25.400 if people are gonna perceive me the right way. I'm 1:26:25.439 --> 1:26:27.880 not sure are people gonna feel about my personality. And 1:26:27.920 --> 1:26:30.200 I was always like, beat your funny. You have to 1:26:30.200 --> 1:26:32.639 start posting more content. You need to start showing more 1:26:32.680 --> 1:26:35.320 of your personality. So it's not even to say that 1:26:35.920 --> 1:26:36.599 I mean nobody. 1:26:36.600 --> 1:26:39.040 It is to say we pushed each other. That's what 1:26:39.040 --> 1:26:41.280 I'm saying, Like, what do y'all be talking about? 1:26:42.040 --> 1:26:45.240 I just think they'd like to create a narrative because 1:26:45.320 --> 1:26:48.200 maybe they came in three years, in four years in 1:26:48.240 --> 1:26:49.360 we been doing now be sh'ld be. 1:26:49.479 --> 1:26:52.000 People from the beginning may be just weird. 1:26:53.000 --> 1:26:56.559 But you can't say that because people love you. I 1:26:56.600 --> 1:26:57.519 don't know, do they? 1:26:57.840 --> 1:27:03.160 Yes, shut up, Yes, I'm not playing the victim. I 1:27:03.240 --> 1:27:06.360 just feel like, but let me say this, and I 1:27:06.360 --> 1:27:09.280 feel like I've always said this. I be cool with 1:27:09.400 --> 1:27:13.520 she though, because I almost kind of like feel vindicated 1:27:13.680 --> 1:27:15.439 in effects that people like. 1:27:15.560 --> 1:27:17.200 I love the fact that people. 1:27:17.040 --> 1:27:18.920 Just be feeling some type of way about me and 1:27:18.960 --> 1:27:20.880 I do nothing, but exactly, I don't think they feel 1:27:20.880 --> 1:27:21.760 some type of way about you. 1:27:21.960 --> 1:27:24.559 They do. Some people don't understand you, but people who 1:27:24.560 --> 1:27:27.720 have whatever it is, they love you. Whatever it is, 1:27:28.080 --> 1:27:30.719 it's fine, they still have you. 1:27:32.400 --> 1:27:35.120 I just feel like I've been feeling that way my 1:27:35.160 --> 1:27:37.040 whole life. I think that's where me and you have 1:27:37.560 --> 1:27:40.639 have differences. Like you've been liked your whole life. 1:27:41.160 --> 1:27:43.160 Oh I'm the girl, Yeah about everybody. 1:27:44.760 --> 1:27:45.720 You've to do. 1:27:49.240 --> 1:27:54.519 Right, You've been liked since you were like in middle school, yeah, 1:27:54.600 --> 1:27:56.519 elementary school. Because I feel like you have more of 1:27:56.560 --> 1:27:59.960 an underdog story. That's not my story. So I feel 1:27:59.960 --> 1:28:02.200 like that it makes it easier for people to like 1:28:02.400 --> 1:28:05.000 dislike me because I'm not really an underdog. 1:28:04.760 --> 1:28:05.479 Like I don't. 1:28:05.600 --> 1:28:09.040 I'm not as relatable and that's fine too, but it's 1:28:09.080 --> 1:28:11.320 always been that way since like high school. 1:28:11.760 --> 1:28:13.599 Yeah, so you know it's cool. 1:28:13.760 --> 1:28:15.080 I think the people who get it and get it 1:28:15.120 --> 1:28:17.440 and that people who don't don't and they understand the chemistry, 1:28:17.439 --> 1:28:22.160 but I don't. I will disagree with you. People fucking love. 1:28:22.160 --> 1:28:24.400 I don't think, don't give me. I think the people 1:28:24.479 --> 1:28:26.719 that fuck with me fuck with me. We both started 1:28:26.800 --> 1:28:29.000 separate ventures, and I feel like a lot of people 1:28:29.040 --> 1:28:33.080 support me too. On my own personal YouTube channel, them 1:28:33.400 --> 1:28:38.120 cell Set said it's at all but so people definitely fuck. 1:28:39.560 --> 1:28:42.280 Okay shot period. 1:28:43.240 --> 1:28:45.679 But yeah, I just think that, you know, I think 1:28:45.800 --> 1:28:50.160 you get a little more what I've said before, on 1:28:50.200 --> 1:28:53.920 the show, you get a little bit more understanding and 1:28:54.000 --> 1:28:58.760 reception than I think I get because I think people. 1:28:58.560 --> 1:29:01.439 Just love to feel like I'm that's okay. 1:29:01.640 --> 1:29:04.200 I also think you like being a villain, though I 1:29:04.280 --> 1:29:06.600 don't you think I like I think you kind of like, 1:29:06.720 --> 1:29:08.479 why do you think I like you? I gotta kink 1:29:08.520 --> 1:29:11.680 a villain king like it's nothing bad, but I think 1:29:11.720 --> 1:29:12.280 you kind of. 1:29:12.280 --> 1:29:15.040 Like being that villain. Why do you think I like you? 1:29:15.080 --> 1:29:16.080 Because you're good at. 1:29:15.960 --> 1:29:20.040 It and I feel like because you don't care what 1:29:20.160 --> 1:29:22.599 people think, like that stuff be rolling off your shoulders, 1:29:22.600 --> 1:29:25.160 like you don't be really taking that in and wearing 1:29:25.200 --> 1:29:27.760 all these people comments. So it's really like, but y'all 1:29:27.760 --> 1:29:30.000 got thirty k on my wrists? What are you talking about? Like, 1:29:30.400 --> 1:29:32.479 I'm still a baddie like you. You know that you 1:29:32.520 --> 1:29:35.160 wear your confidence and that's beautiful. Yeah, but I think 1:29:35.200 --> 1:29:38.200 that's why people don't like sometimes they make it want 1:29:38.200 --> 1:29:40.200 to be not as confident because I be like, damn, 1:29:40.320 --> 1:29:41.920 I gotta be less confident for y'all to like me. 1:29:42.240 --> 1:29:45.800 That's a beautiful thing about you, That's all I'm saying. 1:29:45.880 --> 1:29:47.760 That's why I be like, I hear you, but I 1:29:47.800 --> 1:29:51.120 don't feel you. I don't feel you. That's beautiful. That's 1:29:51.120 --> 1:29:56.920 a beautiful thing about you. Being unapologetic, unapologetically yourself is 1:29:56.960 --> 1:30:01.320 a beautiful thing. Like that's good. That's a good thing 1:30:01.360 --> 1:30:04.160 because it doesn't matter. There's a lane for everybody, and 1:30:04.240 --> 1:30:08.160 you have created a space for the bad bitches. It's 1:30:08.200 --> 1:30:10.000 so many bad bitches that want to get on the mike. 1:30:10.040 --> 1:30:12.320 I didn't even be liking to be categorized as a 1:30:12.360 --> 1:30:14.320 bad beach because like, what is the. 1:30:15.800 --> 1:30:19.040 It's whatever you Whatever you think it is a bad 1:30:19.080 --> 1:30:22.160 bitch is different to everybody. But what I'm saying is 1:30:22.160 --> 1:30:27.120 for this space, for this particular I don't because that's 1:30:27.200 --> 1:30:31.200 what it is. It's okay, that's okay. Because women who 1:30:31.240 --> 1:30:34.400 look like us, they were looked at as a certain way. 1:30:34.439 --> 1:30:37.040 We just talked about this on the Breakfast Club. I'm 1:30:37.040 --> 1:30:39.800 not trying to be funny. Now. Women who look like us, 1:30:39.960 --> 1:30:42.800 the BBL girls, the now, they'd be like, okay, let 1:30:42.840 --> 1:30:47.439 me show far let me show my personality. I'm so goofy, 1:30:47.680 --> 1:30:51.360 I'm so silly. Who told you to do that? Drain 1:30:51.439 --> 1:30:55.880 the colon XP And that's okay. You're supposed to be yourself. 1:30:56.000 --> 1:30:59.080 It's a beautiful thing. I think that people love you 1:30:59.160 --> 1:31:02.160 and people love you silently though, because to agree with 1:31:02.240 --> 1:31:05.919 Dryanda Cole, you're agreeing to be the Joker, you're agreeing 1:31:05.960 --> 1:31:09.600 to be bane. It's okay to agree with Batman. We 1:31:09.680 --> 1:31:13.000 can agree with Batman publicly, but guess how many people 1:31:13.040 --> 1:31:16.840 agree with Joker silently? Why do you think the Joker 1:31:16.920 --> 1:31:19.400 is literally one of the most popular villains because he's 1:31:19.400 --> 1:31:21.840 low key be right? Mm hmm. 1:31:23.200 --> 1:31:26.280 If Batman is sorry without the Joker. 1:31:26.280 --> 1:31:29.320 If we're being honest, I'm not that. I'm not sorry, 1:31:29.320 --> 1:31:31.200 but you know what, I'm strong. No, no, no, no, 1:31:31.920 --> 1:31:34.160 I get what you're saying. You get what I'm getting at. 1:31:34.240 --> 1:31:38.240 But I think too again, I appreciate all of everything 1:31:38.280 --> 1:31:40.960 that you just said, but I think the worst, probably 1:31:41.160 --> 1:31:43.639 dealingiche thing about me is that I don't really give 1:31:43.640 --> 1:31:44.160 a fuck. 1:31:44.000 --> 1:31:45.800 For real, whether they agree with me or nice. 1:31:46.320 --> 1:31:50.080 But I was saying, I hate the bad bitch like 1:31:50.400 --> 1:31:56.920 aesthetic thing you're just because do you mean? I yeah, me, 1:31:57.000 --> 1:31:59.320 because this is who God created me to be. I'm 1:31:59.320 --> 1:32:00.559 not trying to be and steady. 1:32:00.800 --> 1:32:03.160 They're not an aesthetic. It's just what you are, though, 1:32:03.720 --> 1:32:08.639 It's just what you know. We're baddies. We are. We're 1:32:08.680 --> 1:32:11.280 beautiful women. That's why a lot of times people will 1:32:11.320 --> 1:32:12.560 see us. 1:32:12.360 --> 1:32:14.840 Before we look like the Joker and then coming. 1:32:14.960 --> 1:32:17.240 I don't give a damn because they say, what y'all 1:32:17.680 --> 1:32:22.160 y'all cheekbones. Let me tell y'all something. Check the gaddy bitch, 1:32:22.680 --> 1:32:27.720 check the geddy. Do you know I really giddy? 1:32:28.320 --> 1:32:28.639 Okay? 1:32:28.720 --> 1:32:31.679 That ain't that? Ain't you? Was there? You? Was there? 1:32:31.880 --> 1:32:32.439 Come on? Now? 1:32:32.800 --> 1:32:33.519 It was a song. 1:32:33.600 --> 1:32:36.320 I know, I know, but that's because I'm the one 1:32:36.360 --> 1:32:39.120 who really giddy. But what I'm saying is the face 1:32:39.200 --> 1:32:41.439 cards are there. Y'all want us to feel so bad. 1:32:41.680 --> 1:32:43.800 Y'all call me loud. But as much as y'all say 1:32:43.840 --> 1:32:47.000 about Dre, y'all call me loud. Y'all be talking about 1:32:47.120 --> 1:32:50.840 I'm big, I'm overweight, I'm just this, and that, I 1:32:50.880 --> 1:32:51.800 don't I'm here though. 1:32:51.960 --> 1:32:54.720 They just be saying I'm stoopid and I'm having no, 1:32:54.880 --> 1:32:59.000 not stupid. They be saying Drea is such a fucking bitch. 1:32:59.360 --> 1:33:03.719 She always tries to purposely disagree with lex. She thinks 1:33:03.760 --> 1:33:06.360 that she knows everything, and she acts like she can't relate. 1:33:06.400 --> 1:33:08.320 That's what I always see the most about me. So 1:33:08.320 --> 1:33:09.759 that's why people like, oh, I'm a villain. 1:33:10.000 --> 1:33:11.360 Well, I think a lot of time it don't never 1:33:11.400 --> 1:33:12.080 be about my look. 1:33:12.200 --> 1:33:15.080 With the breakfast club interview, even with Roy and Mam, 1:33:15.320 --> 1:33:17.639 they looked at the comp they before they even started 1:33:17.640 --> 1:33:20.200 the episode. I'm seeing as soon as the episode drop, 1:33:20.240 --> 1:33:21.320 its comments already who. 1:33:21.240 --> 1:33:23.759 Are these birds? Who are these people? 1:33:24.640 --> 1:33:30.959 Would can you listen? I'm educated, we both graduated from college. 1:33:31.040 --> 1:33:33.160 We've been doing this ship for second line. 1:33:33.479 --> 1:33:41.360 No, I'm lying don't look, but I love a good 1:33:41.439 --> 1:33:42.320 lie sometimes. 1:33:42.439 --> 1:33:44.040 We've been doing this for seven years. You know how 1:33:44.040 --> 1:33:46.320 many podcasts we've seen start and stop. But we did it. 1:33:46.920 --> 1:33:50.479 Can we just give some accolades and some hand claps 1:33:50.840 --> 1:33:54.120 for women who start businesses and keep going and don't 1:33:54.160 --> 1:33:54.599 give up. 1:33:54.720 --> 1:33:58.479 At the hand club being uh, what's his name? Hurricane Creuse? 1:33:58.640 --> 1:33:59.920 Let me get their hand club? 1:34:00.160 --> 1:34:03.240 Let me if I'm fum fum fum fum fum. 1:34:03.120 --> 1:34:06.720 Fum way or was that little bootsy? No that was 1:34:06.920 --> 1:34:07.959 let me get that handcloud? 1:34:08.080 --> 1:34:12.439 Was that was? That was Hurricane? I just said maybe 1:34:13.120 --> 1:34:17.360 maybe he did a remix little boosy. What the hell? 1:34:17.880 --> 1:34:21.559 My own boy Dick down in selling you did not. 1:34:21.520 --> 1:34:25.280 Have to and he thought it was okay to tell men. 1:34:25.600 --> 1:34:28.160 But you was on the phone like this, Now what happened? 1:34:28.160 --> 1:34:28.320 Then? 1:34:30.000 --> 1:34:33.160 Now what you did after that? You be liking that tea? 1:34:33.760 --> 1:34:37.320 This is not an Orthodoxy episode because we didn't even 1:34:37.360 --> 1:34:38.880 get into none of the topics. 1:34:39.040 --> 1:34:41.639 My homeboy sell it. 1:34:41.680 --> 1:34:44.200 So for the bad topic this week. If you have 1:34:44.240 --> 1:34:46.800 a homeboy who is Dick down to selly, right us 1:34:46.840 --> 1:34:52.360 in and let's talk about it on next week's episode. Okay, Now, uh, 1:34:52.560 --> 1:34:55.000 if you have a home. Was that dick down is Sealey? 1:34:55.080 --> 1:34:57.080 I want to know what went down in that sell it? 1:34:57.160 --> 1:34:57.519 Tell me? 1:34:57.600 --> 1:34:59.800 I don't want to know that actually because I feel 1:34:59.800 --> 1:35:03.120 like it's definitely smelling like but this in there it's. 1:35:03.040 --> 1:35:06.760 Lex p you got sell mats one, two, three, it 1:35:06.840 --> 1:35:10.120 went down? I want to know who suck hadn't gave 1:35:10.200 --> 1:35:11.719 the meat? 1:35:12.240 --> 1:35:19.599 That eight's girl the nick down her selling. 1:35:20.040 --> 1:35:22.959 Okay, now it's time to. 1:35:22.720 --> 1:35:29.479 Get and she about to get what you got? 1:35:29.520 --> 1:35:35.680 What I said, I'm coating broomsticking by the leaking broomsticking 1:35:36.320 --> 1:35:37.639 that's going in jail? 1:35:37.680 --> 1:35:41.639 Do they the women prison? Nobody talks about that. They 1:35:41.640 --> 1:35:43.519 don't talk about the struggles of women prison. 1:35:43.640 --> 1:35:46.960 We should have a whole a woman sale mate, look 1:35:47.040 --> 1:35:48.200 up a woman. 1:35:47.960 --> 1:35:49.920 Who has been in jail for like five years to 1:35:49.920 --> 1:35:50.479 come on the show. 1:35:50.560 --> 1:35:51.799 But somebody that's not gonna. 1:35:51.600 --> 1:35:55.799 Like somebody that's been released. 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As your girl XP and it's your 1:36:58.200 --> 1:37:01.000 girl drain a call and we have a very exciting 1:37:01.120 --> 1:37:04.599 announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. Yes, 1:37:04.920 --> 1:37:05.639 we have a brand. 1:37:05.439 --> 1:37:07.360 New shower dropping y'all on Patreon. 1:37:07.479 --> 1:37:10.440 It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. 1:37:10.479 --> 1:37:12.439 We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're 1:37:12.439 --> 1:37:15.599 gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bill 1:37:15.640 --> 1:37:17.479 and Roche, where the hell could you go. 1:37:18.680 --> 1:37:22.639 If you can't go to Bellanche, What the hell we're 1:37:22.640 --> 1:37:23.200 gonna be doing. 1:37:23.600 --> 1:37:25.680 Talk to me, chit chat with me. We're gonna be 1:37:25.680 --> 1:37:27.080 speeling a little tea. 1:37:27.840 --> 1:37:30.759 Oh my god, No you didn't. 1:37:33.000 --> 1:37:35.840 God, everything y'all been wanting to see, We're gonna be 1:37:35.840 --> 1:37:37.839 doing it right here on Patreon. 1:37:38.040 --> 1:37:40.439 Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been 1:37:40.479 --> 1:37:44.000 to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's 1:37:44.000 --> 1:37:46.880 gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Minds has grown 1:37:47.120 --> 1:37:49.559 into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a 1:37:49.680 --> 1:37:53.600 lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles. So 1:37:53.680 --> 1:37:55.480 make sure y'all tune in September. 1:37:55.800 --> 1:37:56.200 Second. 1:37:56.240 --> 1:37:57.840 It's going down, says. 1:38:04.800 --> 1:38:06.639 My bop of the week. My bop of the week. 1:38:06.800 --> 1:38:09.080 I do have to say this because I was riding 1:38:09.479 --> 1:38:11.479 to work today and I just wanted to have some 1:38:11.520 --> 1:38:13.640 throwback music because I'm not gonna lie. I'm tired of 1:38:13.680 --> 1:38:18.320 this era of music record labels. Let's stop with a tick. 1:38:18.800 --> 1:38:21.920 Stop only signing people if they have a TikTok hit. 1:38:22.439 --> 1:38:26.599 This ship is trash. The TikTok thirty second clip be fired, 1:38:26.680 --> 1:38:29.320 but the whole song be trash. You know what I 1:38:29.360 --> 1:38:32.000 listened to Today on the way here, I let you 1:38:32.080 --> 1:38:36.840 come on money Baby. You remember that that was Hey Camp, 1:38:37.000 --> 1:38:40.599 k Camp, Yeah, fucking Fatty wid We don't get hits 1:38:40.640 --> 1:38:47.320 like that no more. We can't dance in the club 1:38:47.439 --> 1:38:53.160 no more. Man, k Camp got soft. I'll let you 1:38:53.240 --> 1:38:57.920 come my money baby, you my honey, man. We don't 1:38:57.920 --> 1:39:00.519 get songs like that. They always looking like, yeah right, 1:39:00.960 --> 1:39:04.320 I'm telling you Camp featuring Fatty. 1:39:04.439 --> 1:39:05.000 Get on the train. 1:39:05.120 --> 1:39:07.400 Yeah, we have like a poor mind single. So you 1:39:07.439 --> 1:39:09.200 know what I'm doing for my birthday? Right, You're going 1:39:09.240 --> 1:39:12.200 to stud where I'm gonna get a studio. That's what 1:39:12.200 --> 1:39:15.479 we're doing. And everybody gotta write your best verse. I'm 1:39:15.479 --> 1:39:20.040 not gonna write. I'm gonna be like l Wayne, Oh no, please. 1:39:19.720 --> 1:39:20.760 Write a verse. 1:39:21.160 --> 1:39:26.719 Yeah yeah, Okay, we gonna need you to write. 1:39:27.200 --> 1:39:29.760 I'm right, okay, it's gonna be so off. 1:39:29.800 --> 1:39:31.639 I'm gonna get somebody to write my verse. I'm gonna 1:39:31.640 --> 1:39:33.080 act like I wrote it, and it's gonna be so 1:39:33.120 --> 1:39:35.400 y'all gonna be like, oh. 1:39:34.760 --> 1:39:36.519 Oh, I got some I do have somebody that I 1:39:36.560 --> 1:39:40.479 will write my verse. So mm, I can't tell you 1:39:40.520 --> 1:39:42.719 what I might be thinking about the same person. 1:39:42.800 --> 1:39:46.160 No, I'm definitely thinking about somebody different cause mine is 1:39:46.240 --> 1:39:48.760 like nobody knows that he can really really rap. He 1:39:48.840 --> 1:39:52.040 never became famous, he never did nothing, but he got 1:39:52.080 --> 1:39:56.080 them bored. Oh you gonna hear him? 1:39:56.640 --> 1:39:58.840 You got a direct Oh you do, got a direct line? 1:39:59.439 --> 1:40:06.559 I have his number? Is okay? 1:40:06.560 --> 1:40:07.400 What's your Papa the Week? 1:40:07.439 --> 1:40:09.360 What's your bob? Seeing Green? 1:40:10.920 --> 1:40:15.479 Yeah, speaking of oh my god, speaking of all school songs. Well, 1:40:15.520 --> 1:40:18.040 only because I'm gonna tell y'all why I love this song. Right, 1:40:20.240 --> 1:40:25.519 niggas was really trying to count Lil Wayne out. Y'all 1:40:25.640 --> 1:40:28.280 was really trying to play on his top, like he 1:40:28.439 --> 1:40:30.680 is not the greatest of our generation. 1:40:31.040 --> 1:40:31.599 That's a fact. 1:40:31.760 --> 1:40:33.680 And it's just no shade to. 1:40:33.680 --> 1:40:35.519 Someone else because I'm not gonna say no name, but 1:40:35.600 --> 1:40:37.479 y'all was trying to say somebody else is gonna be 1:40:37.680 --> 1:40:46.400 the new Lil Wayne, And it's like, okay, but like 1:40:46.960 --> 1:40:50.760 Lil Wayne is really that cold. And I feel like 1:40:50.840 --> 1:40:52.920 when he came out with the Seeing Green, well that 1:40:53.040 --> 1:40:56.200 was Nikki song first and foremost, But when Sea and 1:40:56.240 --> 1:40:59.480 Green came out, I really think it showed. 1:40:59.200 --> 1:41:02.880 Niggas that, like, lot lo Wayne's still here. 1:41:03.439 --> 1:41:05.360 You know why I keep them and he could really 1:41:05.400 --> 1:41:08.840 pop out when he wants to. He choose to be 1:41:09.280 --> 1:41:12.400 ducks off in the cut. He choose to live a humble, 1:41:12.479 --> 1:41:14.840 low key lifestyle. But when he want to pop out, 1:41:15.360 --> 1:41:18.680 he can. And I think seeing Green showed us that 1:41:18.680 --> 1:41:21.040 that was a great summer. That was with Summer twenty 1:41:21.080 --> 1:41:23.519 twenty one. That was when I turned thirty. That was 1:41:23.520 --> 1:41:24.439 a year I turned thirty. 1:41:24.439 --> 1:41:25.479 We had a great year. 1:41:26.040 --> 1:41:27.240 What do we do for your thirty year? 1:41:27.520 --> 1:41:31.040 What's man? You know what I listened to yesterday? 1:41:31.120 --> 1:41:34.639 I got a few things. I listened to that song 1:41:34.680 --> 1:41:35.240 the other day. 1:41:35.920 --> 1:41:39.880 You know, I keep that White Girl, that Lindsey's Low Huh. 1:41:39.920 --> 1:41:41.840 You got Christina at your liver? 1:41:42.240 --> 1:41:45.400 Man? That was I remember that. That was how you know, 1:41:45.439 --> 1:41:48.120 we don't but we don't get music like that no more. 1:41:48.600 --> 1:41:52.599 That Gezy era in the Strip Club, Oh my god, 1:41:52.680 --> 1:41:56.040 it was life change. Jane God. I feel like when. 1:41:57.360 --> 1:42:01.959 Jez and Gucci and all the started getting oh, that's when. 1:42:03.800 --> 1:42:04.400 It died. 1:42:05.680 --> 1:42:11.679 It died. Oh, y'all have to something has to happen 1:42:12.640 --> 1:42:14.800 that Gez era. Y'all don't get it. Y'all was too 1:42:14.840 --> 1:42:18.200 young when Jeez was dropping this music in the Strip Club. 1:42:18.880 --> 1:42:21.880 My life changed when that right to. 1:42:23.680 --> 1:42:24.559 Lord knows to stay. 1:42:24.800 --> 1:42:28.680 But when that came on, the dancers would run to 1:42:28.760 --> 1:42:32.439 the and they would shake and pop that pussy like 1:42:32.479 --> 1:42:34.040 their life depended on it. 1:42:34.080 --> 1:42:36.200 Gonna shake that ass, beach, I'm gona throw this many. 1:42:38.080 --> 1:42:40.800 Oh my god, y'all don't get it. 1:42:41.680 --> 1:42:43.400 Y'all, don't get y'all will never get it. 1:42:43.680 --> 1:42:45.559 All right, moving on, moving on, All right, it's time 1:42:45.600 --> 1:42:48.320 to get into our favorite segment of the week. Pour 1:42:48.400 --> 1:42:51.080 your heart out. 1:42:51.280 --> 1:42:51.800 One question. 1:42:52.080 --> 1:42:52.639 Let's do one. 1:42:53.160 --> 1:42:53.680 Let's do one. 1:42:53.720 --> 1:42:55.240 Pour your heart out if you want your question to 1:42:55.240 --> 1:42:56.760 answer on the show, and make sure you email us 1:42:57.040 --> 1:42:59.200 and ask poor minds at gmail dot com. If you're 1:42:59.200 --> 1:43:01.280 a Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline. 1:43:01.400 --> 1:43:02.679 You get to skip the line. Go ahead. 1:43:02.760 --> 1:43:06.640 Drea, Hey, Drea and Lex. I love y'all show so 1:43:06.760 --> 1:43:09.960 much and proud of everything you have all accomplished together 1:43:10.080 --> 1:43:13.320 and individually. You all inspired me every week to chase 1:43:13.400 --> 1:43:14.439 after my dreams. 1:43:14.840 --> 1:43:15.280 Thank you. 1:43:15.800 --> 1:43:19.040 Okay, so here's where I need some advice. I lost 1:43:19.080 --> 1:43:21.519 my job about two months ago. At first, I felt 1:43:21.520 --> 1:43:24.439 defeated and worth least because I've never been unemployed before. 1:43:24.560 --> 1:43:26.840 But God knew I didn't want to be there, and 1:43:26.920 --> 1:43:30.720 I was ready for a change. Fast forward two months 1:43:31.160 --> 1:43:33.840 and I'm still unemployed in trying to figure things out 1:43:33.840 --> 1:43:37.200 as a hairstylist. I've loved hair since I can remember, 1:43:37.439 --> 1:43:41.400 and I went to cosmetology school, graduated, and became licensed 1:43:41.400 --> 1:43:42.240 about a year ago. 1:43:42.840 --> 1:43:44.840 This transition has been hard. 1:43:45.479 --> 1:43:48.160 And I often feel like giving up because I don't 1:43:48.160 --> 1:43:51.440 know where to start. I've reached out to more established 1:43:51.439 --> 1:43:54.599 stylists and salons to help me grow and master my skills, 1:43:54.600 --> 1:43:57.400 but haven't had much luck. I'm unsure if I should 1:43:57.479 --> 1:44:05.960 keep going or pivot. Y'all's advicesppreciated. Oh, go ahead, you 1:44:06.000 --> 1:44:07.439 want to go first, you go first. 1:44:07.600 --> 1:44:08.520 I just think. 1:44:10.320 --> 1:44:14.080 That's a little a different area because when you're giving 1:44:14.120 --> 1:44:19.800 a service to someone I know what that field is 1:44:19.800 --> 1:44:22.439 hard because again I talk about d D all the time, 1:44:22.600 --> 1:44:24.439 and she's been in that field for a long time 1:44:24.479 --> 1:44:26.280 and it took her. She was telling me how long 1:44:26.320 --> 1:44:28.160 she's been doing it and how long it took her 1:44:28.160 --> 1:44:29.840 to get her footing in it. But I think that 1:44:29.840 --> 1:44:33.280 if you're passionate about something, you have to show your passion, 1:44:34.360 --> 1:44:36.400 you know, like it'll happen for you. I know it 1:44:36.479 --> 1:44:40.000 sounds so cliche, but it's like you and you have 1:44:40.040 --> 1:44:43.680 to get creative too, but you if you give good service. 1:44:44.200 --> 1:44:45.280 Let me tell y'all something. 1:44:45.800 --> 1:44:49.040 When I say I found d D off of like 1:44:49.120 --> 1:44:51.360 a random post that went by all of hers like 1:44:51.439 --> 1:44:53.320 six years ago, and I've been going to this girl 1:44:53.360 --> 1:44:58.960 for six years. And people in the industry who are 1:44:59.040 --> 1:45:01.800 heavy hitters like a When I told Alonzo Hou did 1:45:01.840 --> 1:45:02.400 my hair, he was. 1:45:02.400 --> 1:45:05.040 Like, oh, you know DD, like I'm at d D. 1:45:05.240 --> 1:45:07.519 Like. So, when you're good at what you do and 1:45:07.560 --> 1:45:09.880 you don't need the accolades a million followers and this, 1:45:09.960 --> 1:45:13.400 and just give good service to people, and when you're 1:45:13.439 --> 1:45:16.200 good at what you do, you will excel and if 1:45:16.200 --> 1:45:20.360 you keep consistent at it. Sometimes, though I talked to 1:45:20.360 --> 1:45:22.559 somebody about this the other day, sometimes you know what 1:45:22.720 --> 1:45:24.599 you're gonna have to do somebody here for fifty dollars, 1:45:24.840 --> 1:45:26.600 you might have to do somebody here for free. You know, 1:45:26.600 --> 1:45:28.559 I'm much shit that we did that. We didn't get 1:45:28.560 --> 1:45:31.720 paid for, but it paid off because we made these connections. 1:45:31.960 --> 1:45:34.639 I understand rent do. I'm not saying do everything for free, 1:45:34.720 --> 1:45:38.880 but sometimes you gotta make connections and do things you 1:45:39.000 --> 1:45:42.800 never know. But when you treat somebody, well, give them 1:45:42.800 --> 1:45:45.559 good service. Guess what, when people come to get their 1:45:45.560 --> 1:45:48.679 hair done, if you can wash and break their hair down, 1:45:48.720 --> 1:45:51.840 you already won because people be wanting you can wash 1:45:51.880 --> 1:45:54.280 and break down anyway. You doing that off the rip, 1:45:54.320 --> 1:45:57.120 you gonna win. So I just think in this day 1:45:57.120 --> 1:46:01.160 and age, people have forgot the meaning of being a 1:46:01.160 --> 1:46:04.639 good person and giving people good service. So I think 1:46:04.680 --> 1:46:08.120 if you focus on that, the transition is hard, but 1:46:08.280 --> 1:46:11.280 keep going. Because I had that transition of trying to 1:46:11.320 --> 1:46:13.160 figure out who I was and what I wanted to do, 1:46:13.200 --> 1:46:15.400 and I was like, you know what, I know, I'm funny, 1:46:15.400 --> 1:46:17.080 I know I'm entertaining, and all I want to do 1:46:17.120 --> 1:46:19.519 is make people feel good. I'm not gonna stop until 1:46:19.560 --> 1:46:22.280 I make people fucking feel good. So when you're really 1:46:22.360 --> 1:46:25.400 passionate about something, you're not gonna let anything get in 1:46:25.400 --> 1:46:32.760 your way. I agree, period. Can I say something absolutely, I. 1:46:32.680 --> 1:46:35.840 Feel like, for when you're in a service industry, whether 1:46:35.920 --> 1:46:41.760 it's so saturated, because here is a saturated industry, bartending 1:46:41.840 --> 1:46:44.120 is a saturated industry, I think you need to find 1:46:44.120 --> 1:46:47.040 ways to be innovative in your craft and stand out 1:46:47.080 --> 1:46:49.160 amongst everyone else. And that's something that I had to 1:46:49.200 --> 1:46:51.760 do as being a bartender and starting my own bar 1:46:51.800 --> 1:46:54.800 catering company, Like I had to put in those ten 1:46:54.800 --> 1:46:57.640 thousand hours to be to get in front of some 1:46:57.680 --> 1:46:59.519 of the mentors or some of the people that I 1:46:59.560 --> 1:47:02.240 looked up to and wanted them to become my mentors, 1:47:02.240 --> 1:47:05.080 because why would they just want to mentor someone that's 1:47:05.120 --> 1:47:09.719 fresh out of whatever program and haven't tried as much, 1:47:09.960 --> 1:47:12.439 you know, or haven't had those opportunities yet. They need 1:47:12.520 --> 1:47:14.280 you got to be able to showcase your talent, your 1:47:14.320 --> 1:47:16.200 passion and why you're here and why they should give 1:47:16.200 --> 1:47:18.360 you a chance to. But I really think as a 1:47:18.400 --> 1:47:22.320 business person, just finding creative ways that that's gonna set 1:47:22.360 --> 1:47:25.439 you apart from anybody else in your field, in your industry. 1:47:25.560 --> 1:47:26.040 Own that. 1:47:26.760 --> 1:47:29.639 Learn that and be open to continuously learning and being 1:47:29.760 --> 1:47:31.800 educated in what you're doing, and that's what's going to 1:47:31.920 --> 1:47:33.639 like propel you a little bit more too. But give 1:47:33.640 --> 1:47:36.280 yourself some grace and give yourself some time. 1:47:36.360 --> 1:47:39.479 To grow in your profession. 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