Speaker 1: All the tea that y'all have on us is because
Speaker 1: we gave it to you. Everything that y'all know about
Speaker 1: us is because we have talked about it on the
Speaker 1: show and we have been vulnerable and honest. You have
Speaker 1: never clocked our tea because you really saw something or
Speaker 1: found something.
Speaker 2: And realistically speaking, ivy curving niggas that you niggas be
Speaker 2: ready to FuG booty whole wid wide open, busted wide
Speaker 2: opens booty like what blown out?
Speaker 1: What's up?
Speaker 3: Y'all?
Speaker 1: Is your girl lix Pete and it's sugar jer in
Speaker 1: the call and you are tuned in to another episode of.
Speaker 3: Poor Mine, where a drunk mind speaks sought.
Speaker 1: We ain't got no gifts today. We ain't got no
Speaker 1: gifts today. Hey you know what? Yeah, let me just
Speaker 1: say this. I have to give us our flowers and
Speaker 1: our things. We just went on a crazy press run
Speaker 1: and we got so much good content that's out right now,
Speaker 1: like we did Roya Mall. Shout out to Roya Mall.
Speaker 1: That was a fire episode. Hopefully by the time this drops,
Speaker 1: EYO will have dropped. I think it should have. I
Speaker 1: think it's gonna drop this week. Actually shot out to
Speaker 1: RuSHA and Troy.
Speaker 3: And we did the name it is wrong with you?
Speaker 3: I'm a little tipsy?
Speaker 1: Who is?
Speaker 3: And that was my fancy lady.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about a trouble queens, but we're gonna
Speaker 1: get to that in a second. But we just did
Speaker 1: a breakfast club.
Speaker 3: With you don't need but however for me, as for
Speaker 3: me and my family?
Speaker 1: Are we? But yeah, we just had breakfast club Royal Man,
Speaker 1: aren't your leisure? And oh my gosh, like we just
Speaker 1: took New York over. We was in the streets stomping around.
Speaker 1: What else is new? And then we did open thoughts
Speaker 1: with Marco Summers. Our episode with him dropped last week.
Speaker 3: Four months we did two open thoughts with Marcos.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Marco Summers. I think we have been doing.
Speaker 3: A great job.
Speaker 1: I just feel like every time people think we have peaked,
Speaker 1: we just keep on push.
Speaker 2: I don't really understand why people think that there's a
Speaker 2: ped Well.
Speaker 1: I think people are mean, Well know people are mean
Speaker 1: to us on Twitter.
Speaker 2: I'm about to deactivate my Twitter person there with well,
Speaker 2: I probably will delete it. To be honest, I just
Speaker 2: feel like real celebrities like real I mean to be honest,
Speaker 2: I think at one point it was like an era
Speaker 2: where like Kim Kardashi and Rihanna negsweet, but Kim Kardashian Rihanna,
Speaker 2: I think jay Z used to be tweeting, quote because
Speaker 2: quote me if I'm wrong, let me know if I'm
Speaker 2: wrong in the comments, y'all.
Speaker 3: But I think jay Z kan Kanye still be tweeting.
Speaker 1: But jay Z did because I remember he said he tweeted.
Speaker 3: He I feel like jay Z had a Twitter.
Speaker 1: He tweeted. He was like, hey, lex follow back and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, what's up?
Speaker 2: Bro?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so he.
Speaker 2: That was a burner. I mean, not even a burner,
Speaker 2: my bad. That was a fake account. A burner be
Speaker 2: actually people, it actually be the person try it.
Speaker 3: That is a fake account up follow back.
Speaker 2: But no, I do I feel like it was a
Speaker 2: point in time maybe like ten years ago, because it's
Speaker 2: twenty twenty five right now. So yeah, ten fifteen years
Speaker 2: ago where celebrities did used to be on Twitter tweeting
Speaker 2: and stuff, and now she used to be monetizing their tweets,
Speaker 2: baking because Kim Kardashi used to make like, I think
Speaker 2: two thousand, three thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: It was more than that.
Speaker 2: It was more than that, but like she used to
Speaker 2: make money from promoting things on Twitter.
Speaker 3: I just think we're in an era now where.
Speaker 2: It's nothing but like troll. I've been on Twitter like
Speaker 2: nothing but miserable people. Don't get me wrong, it's still
Speaker 2: some of some of y'all are nights like. It is
Speaker 2: a lot of people on Twitter who support poor minds,
Speaker 2: who support Lenx and I, but it's also a lot
Speaker 2: of very negative, mean people like bitch, I can't say nothing.
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about what you said in the second
Speaker 1: because I'm.
Speaker 3: In I say what I said.
Speaker 1: But I'm getting a shout out to niny Lee. I'm
Speaker 1: getting attacked right now. I'm getting called all kind of
Speaker 1: N words. Why because I twiteted so Aiden Ross the streamer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he went on a stream the other day. He called
Speaker 1: Meg thee Stallion the B word and was talking about
Speaker 1: free Toy. Then he decides to say that do she
Speaker 1: is unintelligent and she's a beat B word. So I
Speaker 1: was like, he's always speaking on black women and it's
Speaker 1: never positive. Because my thing is, if you always want
Speaker 1: to be in.
Speaker 3: This black these blacks spaces.
Speaker 1: Okay, I get it, you don't have to like every
Speaker 1: person whatever, but at least be positive. Do you ever
Speaker 1: have anything to say about anything with black women? So
Speaker 1: I said, I was like, damn, he's a little too
Speaker 1: comfortable speaking negatively.
Speaker 3: I saw that. Oh, they are in my mentions. You know,
Speaker 3: you went viral. It didn't go viral.
Speaker 1: It didn't go viral, but it has like a thousand
Speaker 1: retweets whatever. But they are in my comments calling me
Speaker 1: everything but a child of God. But guess what, I
Speaker 1: don't give a damn about no streamers.
Speaker 3: I'm not in that world.
Speaker 1: Y'all, don't scare me. I said what I said, stop
Speaker 1: being in these black spaces and speaking on black women.
Speaker 1: Y'all don't know how hard it is for us to
Speaker 1: be in these spaces.
Speaker 3: Because you're a.
Speaker 1: White man who gets to do whatever y'all want to do.
Speaker 1: It's different for us. So again I say, if you're
Speaker 1: gonna be in black spaces, you need to move a
Speaker 1: little better. But of course he doesn't have to because
Speaker 1: you have black men who allow him in these spaces.
Speaker 3: And they be around him and allowing him to.
Speaker 1: Do whatever he wants to do because of his name
Speaker 1: and who he is.
Speaker 3: But I said what I said, Well, I tweeted something
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 2: I tweeted something that was similar to that earlier today
Speaker 2: because it was a particular celebrity who made a post.
Speaker 2: I saw that too, about the Cassie and d D trial,
Speaker 2: Yes or whatever, And this particular celebrity is always on
Speaker 2: the Internet spewing ignorance and misogyny, and people are always
Speaker 2: in our comments saying, oh, y'all need to have this
Speaker 2: person on the show.
Speaker 3: How while I do think that he is a hoots, agreed,
Speaker 3: I would never.
Speaker 2: Care to have him on this show because he's always
Speaker 2: on the Internet saying some bullsheet that I.
Speaker 3: Don't agree with.
Speaker 2: So I said nothing about the particular person, but I
Speaker 2: just made a separate tweet. Well, I did retweet the
Speaker 2: tweet and I put like the little side I faid.
Speaker 2: But after that I made a tweet. I composed a
Speaker 2: tweet and I said, you know, I really wish a
Speaker 2: lot of these celebrity men would ship the fuck up,
Speaker 2: because every time they get on the Internet, they're saying
Speaker 2: some bullshit and needs nothing, and the misogyny is jumping out.
Speaker 2: The misogyny is jumping out these y'all face. Somebody responded
Speaker 2: to me and they said Andrea, which.
Speaker 1: My name is Drea.
Speaker 3: It is Dre and the cold because I hate.
Speaker 1: Because when people call me my first name, me too.
Speaker 2: Bro it pissed it when I say, and it boils
Speaker 2: my blood. Do not call me by my fucking first
Speaker 2: name if you don't know me like that.
Speaker 3: Get you don't know me like that, getting bad.
Speaker 1: You don't know me like in a word. So come
Speaker 1: on and the words of big called bag big give.
Speaker 3: Me fifty feet, Give me fifty feet.
Speaker 1: Because y'all do not know me. I didn't know you
Speaker 1: knew I go.
Speaker 3: You don't know the words.
Speaker 2: Actually, that's why you were trying to low key do
Speaker 2: background box. But you would have made me waste my
Speaker 2: drink on myself shaking his damn who she's shaking the table.
Speaker 3: You made me waste this ship on myself.
Speaker 2: But no, so yeah, so thank you, thank you, because
Speaker 2: I was looking for the tweet where the dude, because
Speaker 2: I retweeted the guy they said something crazy to me.
Speaker 2: He gonna say, He said, Andrea, we know you'd be
Speaker 2: quick today for money and fame to stop. I said,
Speaker 2: I'm already getting the money and the fame too, without
Speaker 2: having to be publicly attached to a man, what's your knicks?
Speaker 1: Argus? Oh clocket?
Speaker 3: Because where do people that?
Speaker 2: And that's why I said I'm gonna take a break
Speaker 2: from Twitter, thank you.
Speaker 3: See, That's why I said I'm just.
Speaker 2: About to deactivate my Twitter because y'all are losers. Respectfully,
Speaker 2: you don't know me. I don't know you. You don't
Speaker 2: know me. All everything you know about me you know
Speaker 2: from poor minds. You don't know nobody y'all dated. You
Speaker 2: don't know none of my friends. You don't know anything
Speaker 2: that I have going on. But you have created this
Speaker 2: opinion about me where you feel like I would date
Speaker 2: for fame and money. If I would date for fame
Speaker 2: and money, why ain't ity a lot of your faves
Speaker 2: be trying to holler turning it down?
Speaker 3: Curry.
Speaker 1: I also say that all the tea that y'all have
Speaker 1: on us is because we gave it to you. Everything
Speaker 1: that y'all know about us is because we have talked
Speaker 1: about it on the show and we have been vulnerable
Speaker 1: and honest. You have never clocked our tea because you
Speaker 1: really saw something or found something.
Speaker 2: And realistically speaking, ivy curving niggas, that you niggas be
Speaker 2: ready to FuG booty whole Why why open busted wide open?
Speaker 3: Oh booty like what blown out? Like a I think
Speaker 3: what juvenile said?
Speaker 2: He said loose booted something something I don't know, but
Speaker 2: if the gangster can't hit it, what you're busting it for?
Speaker 1: But I will be.
Speaker 3: For real, y'all be just saying anything.
Speaker 2: And then I think people love to speak on you
Speaker 2: and I and the things that we said five or
Speaker 2: so years ago. We've evolved into all different people and
Speaker 2: it's like that's that's okay though, because that's a version
Speaker 2: of myself.
Speaker 1: But I ain't never ashamed of any version. All the
Speaker 1: episodes are still Yeah, I'm never.
Speaker 2: Ashamed of any version of me. Cringey at times some
Speaker 2: of the things that I will say, but I'm not ashamed.
Speaker 2: That's why they're still up because we always have the power,
Speaker 2: like you just said, to delete the ship if.
Speaker 1: We don't want it up. Delete for what, but deleted
Speaker 1: for what? It's not that deed.
Speaker 2: So the things that people be thinking is a clockable
Speaker 2: moment or you think you're really saying something profound, you
Speaker 2: ain't really saying shit because you don't know me, and
Speaker 2: you never have receiveds who somebody said you saying all
Speaker 2: of these, but you'll be moving in them circles.
Speaker 3: With who in what circles? Where are the receipts?
Speaker 1: And this is what I have to say. I like,
Speaker 1: like I said, out of all the apps, is the
Speaker 1: one app that you don't make money on, and I
Speaker 1: think this is what it is. Though I think people
Speaker 1: are mad because we graduated from that app and a
Speaker 1: lot of people want to do what we're doing.
Speaker 2: We was on the couch in our house right and
Speaker 2: now we've elevated and y'all still.
Speaker 1: Couch and this is not me just be but y'all
Speaker 1: are be so rude to us on there. It's crazy
Speaker 1: because when when drama goes on with poor Minds retweets
Speaker 1: three thousand, these birds retweets three thousand, but when it's
Speaker 1: something positive retweets eight retweets. Folk which camera is my
Speaker 1: camera for?
Speaker 2: Let me look directly at this camera when I say these,
Speaker 2: because I mean this wholeheartedly. No opinion of anybody that
Speaker 2: is on the X app, the Instagram app, the TikTok app,
Speaker 2: none of these apps.
Speaker 3: Like y'all's opinion don't matter.
Speaker 2: It's not going to ever stop anything from me and
Speaker 2: Lex because this is God.
Speaker 3: Ordained an annoyance. We're annointed.
Speaker 2: Our lives have been annoyed long before y'all ever met us.
Speaker 2: We were supposed to be on the path. This was
Speaker 2: already the past for our life. Y'all can't stop shet.
Speaker 2: All y'all can do is be mad and keep watching
Speaker 2: the elevation.
Speaker 3: And this is for anybody.
Speaker 1: I was on the path of doing hair, doing makeup,
Speaker 1: you know, being a doctor, being a lawyer. Don't let
Speaker 1: nobody talk about you and get you off your path.
Speaker 1: And to all the people that are supported and have
Speaker 1: been positive, I love y'all, I see I love y'all, school, y'all,
Speaker 1: my people, y'all are all people. Because the fact that
Speaker 1: two black women shout out to travel queens. We had
Speaker 1: a great season. The season finale was last week. You
Speaker 1: make sure y'all run it up so we can get
Speaker 1: a season. To the fact that two black women got
Speaker 1: a travel show and having fun because y'all made that happen.
Speaker 1: So to the support orders, thank y'all, because y'all know
Speaker 1: our hearts and y'all see us, and y'all know who
Speaker 1: we are. It's just the people who tune in. It'd
Speaker 1: be people who we don't even get a word out.
Speaker 1: They look at us and to be like, who are
Speaker 1: these ghetto birds? This ghetto bird has a college degree
Speaker 1: and I started from nothing. We both started from nothing
Speaker 1: and made something happen. Y'all are mad because the American
Speaker 1: dream looks like what these white people told y'all. And
Speaker 1: two black not only two women, but two black women
Speaker 1: made the American dream happen and that wasn't in the
Speaker 1: cards for what they wanted it to be. But you
Speaker 1: don't get me on my woke shit now.
Speaker 2: But you know what's interesting to me, instead of being inspired,
Speaker 2: it's so crazy to me that people would just rather
Speaker 2: tear down black women who came from the same space
Speaker 2: as them, because we did start off like on Twitter,
Speaker 2: on the program, just on the timeline. And I feel like,
Speaker 2: now that we've elevated to this level that a lot
Speaker 2: of other people haven't elevated to, it's so much backlash,
Speaker 2: it's so much negativt is so much what you said
Speaker 2: these five years ago.
Speaker 3: He sure was five years ago, five years ago.
Speaker 2: Look at what I'm doing now currently, and what are
Speaker 2: you doing now talking about what I was doing five
Speaker 2: years ago?
Speaker 1: But it's so crazy because you don't on the app.
Speaker 1: They don't even let you mute stuff anymore. So I
Speaker 1: can't even they I mute stuff and you can still see.
Speaker 1: But even with and we've been to talk about that.
Speaker 1: My friend Diamond shout out to Diamond, mother of Gotti
Speaker 1: on Twitter. She went viral recently because she was having
Speaker 1: a moment with her grandmother and her grandmother's party. She's
Speaker 1: working and dancing. First of all, my friend is West Indian. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's her culture. That's what they do. They twork, they dance.
Speaker 1: They don't look at it as sexual. Okay, she's dancing
Speaker 1: on her grandma. Her grandma is laughing.
Speaker 3: And cause it's like the second or third time the
Speaker 3: video went.
Speaker 1: Viral, right, She's having a good time, her grandmother's laughing,
Speaker 1: her grandmother's not discusting. She knows her granddaughter, she says
Speaker 1: what she does on social media. She knows what she is,
Speaker 1: and she loves her and she accepts her. And she's
Speaker 1: having a good time. But instead of seeing this moment,
Speaker 1: y'all try to rip her to stress for what because
Speaker 1: this is something that you wouldn't do with your grandmother.
Speaker 3: Your grannie ain't lead and your granny.
Speaker 1: Probably dad, just like mine grannie did.
Speaker 3: Who am.
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 2: You know he is confusing with me. Both of my
Speaker 2: biological grannies are alive. My grannies they raise.
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, leave people alone, scroll past things
Speaker 1: you don't like. Stop calling people bitches, especially as women
Speaker 1: and black women and black men. We need to stop
Speaker 1: speaking to each other like that. We need to stop
Speaker 1: letting people in our spaces and talk about each other
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 3: It's just like this.
Speaker 1: If I got a problem with what Drea does, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell her. But public, where are you? Not your wind?
Speaker 3: Smell my?
Speaker 1: What your wind.
Speaker 2: Is?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 3: Not the twart because you didn't. Yeah, I smelled it.
Speaker 1: I said, you know what I do? Now you know
Speaker 1: what it is?
Speaker 3: What is it?
Speaker 1: So? I've been doing this for years? But okay, my
Speaker 1: three best compliments that I get all the time is
Speaker 1: I'm funny. My looks in the way I smell. You
Speaker 1: know why the girls have stopped powdering, y'all?
Speaker 4: Don't?
Speaker 3: Oh I powder down? I have.
Speaker 1: It's called.
Speaker 3: My beautiful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been using it since I've been in high school.
Speaker 3: You use that andyodoring?
Speaker 1: Yes, So I put my deodorant on, I put my
Speaker 1: powder on.
Speaker 3: I put the powder on my taties. I put it.
Speaker 1: Underneath the booty crack. Sometimes I'll dab it on the
Speaker 1: back of my neck. So I have a body oil
Speaker 1: that I use. What's the one that we like the
Speaker 1: pink bottle? I can't think of bottle. Pink bottle I got.
Speaker 1: I like the no Delena, Oh, the I got the
Speaker 1: body oil. So I put the body oil and it
Speaker 1: makes me really really greasy. So well it doesn't. It's
Speaker 1: a dry oil, so it drives down. But while it's
Speaker 1: still wet, I put that powder on and it makes
Speaker 1: my skin matt Then I go in with my leves
Speaker 1: Bell lotion. The girls.
Speaker 3: Don't y'all need to.
Speaker 1: Powder it up?
Speaker 2: Now, I personally don't use powder. But what I do
Speaker 2: think is a gem that I'm dropping for the girls
Speaker 2: is I use booty deodoring, oh and stuff. Now, do
Speaker 2: have a body so I have a Yeah, So I
Speaker 2: have a I have a body deodorant where it's really
Speaker 2: called booty theodoring.
Speaker 3: Booty, booty, booty.
Speaker 2: You gotta say booty with so much because we got
Speaker 2: a wee because we got boot No, I don't have
Speaker 2: a booty no more, you do.
Speaker 1: I have a.
Speaker 3: I have a rear end.
Speaker 1: I'm skinny, rump, I have a rump now, I'm thin,
Speaker 1: I'm very skinny.
Speaker 3: You are skinny.
Speaker 2: But I do think you still got that thing on.
Speaker 2: I got a little cuff. I do, but I don't
Speaker 2: have to putant under that cup.
Speaker 1: I still do.
Speaker 3: I put powder.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: You gotta put something under that cup. Hey, because that crease.
Speaker 3: Oh that do do if you don't oil it down,
Speaker 3: theodoring it down.
Speaker 1: Okay, So what's the powder now?
Speaker 2: So I be using the booty the utterant, So you
Speaker 2: gotta put it up the crack.
Speaker 1: Oh so we can go in there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so we can go in there. Okay, do
Speaker 2: you put it underneath the crease the cuff?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 3: Do you put it underneath your breast? You know, I
Speaker 3: love the breast. Breast is very mature.
Speaker 2: But I'm also getting very mature, so I should start using.
Speaker 3: I'm thirty four, now I have bredge. You definitely got breast.
Speaker 3: I have bridge. They all this time for a redo.
Speaker 1: You got bread. He is ten years old. They definitely breast.
Speaker 1: That was the year or two, not a bren. I
Speaker 1: got my new ones in twenty twenty two. But you
Speaker 1: ain't gotta get them swapped out. No, I don't have
Speaker 1: to do nothing. That's what I gotta do. Though, Yet
Speaker 1: it's almost a time.
Speaker 3: I have.
Speaker 2: Brisk So me and my breasts we need a little
Speaker 2: extra body. Yeah, we need to be secure. So that's
Speaker 2: what y'all have to start doing. Y'all need to find
Speaker 2: some type of layer to put in the creasy. What
Speaker 2: ever works for you, whether it's a powder, whether it's
Speaker 2: a deodory, whether it's you know, a little.
Speaker 3: Spray or something. You need to do something.
Speaker 1: Well, no, this is the problem. Y'all are getting out
Speaker 1: the shower, drying off with a towel and just spraying
Speaker 1: yourself in lotion.
Speaker 3: That's not enough.
Speaker 1: First, it starts in a shower, so I have it's
Speaker 1: called it's a body wash. It's a neutralizer. What oh,
Speaker 1: I don't have my phone. What's that body company called?
Speaker 1: Nobody got their phone? Anyways, I can't think of the
Speaker 1: name that pitch. Let me see, I'm weak. So it's
Speaker 1: a body wash that neutralizes the body older. So no
Speaker 1: matter what you've been doing, it's gonna clean your body,
Speaker 1: but it's gonna neutralize the older. Right, So after I
Speaker 1: do that. Then I go in with my neo Cinema cinema.
Speaker 1: Did I say it right? I don't know neo cinema
Speaker 1: cinema not whatever.
Speaker 3: That what she said.
Speaker 1: It's a vitamin C body wash, so I go in
Speaker 1: with that afterwards. Then on my third wash, that's when
Speaker 1: I go in with my leves Bell.
Speaker 3: Body body. Two washes.
Speaker 1: I don't do three. Well, the only reason I do.
Speaker 2: I do two and then I do two Kuci washes
Speaker 2: with the Kuchi cleaning.
Speaker 1: Only reason I do three is because the the neutralizer.
Speaker 3: I need that older.
Speaker 1: You know how, sometimes your natural pheromones, sometimes people just
Speaker 1: stink naturally. I don't stink naturally, but just in case
Speaker 1: I did, I don't know if I do. I've been
Speaker 1: clean for so long. I don't know what my natural family.
Speaker 3: You know, I disagree. I feel like you would know
Speaker 3: if you do. I think people that think naturally they
Speaker 3: know they ignore it. Oh well, I don't know.
Speaker 1: If I sink I be so clean, I think they
Speaker 1: so fresh and so clean clean.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that's something.
Speaker 2: That we can say about ourselves. We don't have a
Speaker 2: reputation for being Musis baby. We got a reputation or
Speaker 2: having bad breads.
Speaker 1: Do you know that's the number one compliment I get
Speaker 1: when I hop in the uber every time they'd be like,
Speaker 1: you smell so good.
Speaker 2: That's my number one compliment to People are always like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, what do you got so?
Speaker 3: And then they be saying it to sex one.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, hold on now, so listen this. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you the next steps.
Speaker 3: They're a little too excited.
Speaker 1: The third wash jump. The third wash is always the
Speaker 1: perfume stuff. So my third wash, I go in with
Speaker 1: my levis Bell body wash because that's just the smell
Speaker 1: good I get out. It depends how much time I have.
Speaker 1: But I air dry. I air dry. But what I
Speaker 1: do is I put on my Deleaner body oil while
Speaker 1: I'm still wet. I'm still wet, Okay, I let that
Speaker 1: lock in. I let that lock in, so I'm still
Speaker 1: a little greasy.
Speaker 3: Then I go on with my powder, my.
Speaker 1: Estate Loda power on your whole body. I do behind
Speaker 1: the knees. I do with my crease. I do with
Speaker 1: my little thigh crease right here behind knee. Behind that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll do it right here. And I do under
Speaker 3: my arms.
Speaker 2: And let's talk about something real, queen, you cannot be
Speaker 2: a bad bitch if you stank behind the ear.
Speaker 3: What who's stank behind the ear? That's crazy?
Speaker 1: Do you watch behind your ear? Yes? Every song?
Speaker 2: Every time I was just shaking. Well, you know I
Speaker 2: got to do because I like to dig in there too. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I be using I use qt ill stay say you're
Speaker 2: not opposed to use them.
Speaker 3: I still use them.
Speaker 2: Most old school, my old school. I like to make
Speaker 2: sure I get sitting there for real.
Speaker 1: I got to hear this.
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, I agree.
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, I like to hear everything.
Speaker 2: I like to hear some so period, so exactly. But
Speaker 2: people don't be washing. That's the thing stinking behind your
Speaker 2: ears and your navels thinking, well, I have a I
Speaker 2: used to have an audi. Are we too warn to say?
Speaker 2: If we say navel, people be saying belly button.
Speaker 1: Well I've always had an audi growing up. But when
Speaker 1: I had my what's it called? Remember, what what was
Speaker 1: that surgery?
Speaker 2: Head? Well, if it's out, I know, but that's what
Speaker 2: I'm saying.
Speaker 1: What was the surgery I had when my belly button
Speaker 1: was pushing out?
Speaker 3: Hernie hernie?
Speaker 1: I had a hernia surgery. So now I haven't any
Speaker 1: but it ain't deep in there, my any not in
Speaker 1: But when it was out, it couldn't stank, it couldn't
Speaker 1: stay because you could just rugby.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but when it's in there, you gotta you gotta
Speaker 3: dig in there.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Don't people be having deep belly buttons? Have you seen?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 3: I think mine kind of deep.
Speaker 1: Yours is kind of deep. I remember when I discovered
Speaker 1: that about you, because I thought, why did you discover that?
Speaker 1: Because we were laying in bed one time, and I
Speaker 1: think I poked it and you got mad at me.
Speaker 2: I can see that I'll be getting mad at you
Speaker 2: about a lot of stuff, but it would just be
Speaker 2: doing dumb shit.
Speaker 1: I just thought that deep belly buttons were for thicker people.
Speaker 1: I am thick. No, I'm talking about I don't want
Speaker 1: to say the.
Speaker 3: F word, what if word?
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, but I'm saying but usually So when I
Speaker 1: figured out that you had a naturally a deep diving
Speaker 1: pool in that motherfucker, I was like, I have never
Speaker 1: seen a thin person with a deep belly button.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 2: When when it's hot outside, if I'm like laying by
Speaker 2: the pool and I'm sweating, it's a pool.
Speaker 1: Work the liquor drive. So yeah, So after all that,
Speaker 1: then my last step is my spray and I always
Speaker 1: wear ooh body teeth, always.
Speaker 3: Look at them, my legs. You look good.
Speaker 1: So my last spray is my perfume, my loves Belle.
Speaker 1: So if y'all are just getting out of the shower
Speaker 1: and just drying off lotion spray, people are not talking
Speaker 1: about you want your cent to last.
Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all when Lex we've been talking about now,
Speaker 2: we've been talking about it for ten minutes.
Speaker 3: Because when she did that, I said.
Speaker 1: And I've been on set at this point. I've been
Speaker 1: here since What time is it now? What time is it, Shay,
Speaker 1: It's four forty eight. When I got you, I got
Speaker 1: out the shower at ten am. So this is this
Speaker 1: is from ten am. This is a ten am spray. Now,
Speaker 1: I know, I know I'm trying to put the girl.
Speaker 3: Somebody could ever say my queen listen.
Speaker 1: Ever, I mean somebody probably could. No, I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: hold it. Somebody can probably fall. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: What you've You've never been musky, I've never been mussy.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like.
Speaker 1: When I would leave the gym sometimes, not that I'm musty,
Speaker 1: but I don't smell fresh.
Speaker 3: I don't see anybody smells fresh when they leave the gym.
Speaker 1: But to me, the gym don't count.
Speaker 2: Okay, but that's not fair to judge somebody hygiene off
Speaker 2: of when they leave the gym.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair because that's.
Speaker 2: When that's when it's okay to be funky, especially if
Speaker 2: he was putting that working have think on you.
Speaker 1: You remember when David Banner said.
Speaker 2: Why you think Andre three thousand named the album?
Speaker 1: Remember when he remember when no David Banner knows. He said,
Speaker 1: bring it yes, sweaty, because I love it when it's.
Speaker 3: Smoky, which is still concerning to me to this day.
Speaker 2: We find about things I'm concerned about. But why he said,
Speaker 2: why do you love it when it's funky?
Speaker 1: He said, let me see, it's the fallless funky.
Speaker 3: It's the fact that he want.
Speaker 1: You to play with your monkey Wallace.
Speaker 3: But that's what I be saying. Nobody can convince me.
Speaker 2: That's why when I was seeing the tweets about sayings,
Speaker 2: they was like, I know it was funky in it.
Speaker 3: I know it was, so that's when the room stinks.
Speaker 6: But now move pal pal, But no, for real, somebody
Speaker 6: tell me.
Speaker 1: Him of nothing, but no, for real?
Speaker 3: Like you see this movie too now, because I seen
Speaker 3: that shit twice.
Speaker 2: And that's how you know this ship was good. Because
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna see a movie more than once. So
Speaker 2: I be fallowing a slop.
Speaker 1: Saying Parlene pussy was phunky. No, I'm not talking about Parlene.
Speaker 2: I'm saying in general, that's where till the rooms think,
Speaker 2: like that's the era that it came.
Speaker 1: Out because they was sweating.
Speaker 3: You see how sweaty they was. It wasn't no air
Speaker 3: conditioner inside, no fan inside.
Speaker 1: The fans are not there. And you know when men
Speaker 1: get hot. You know when men get hot, they balls
Speaker 1: start to hang more. Yes, so when men get hot,
Speaker 1: they balls hang extra loan. When they cold, they.
Speaker 3: Be somebody research department.
Speaker 1: When men No, I'm telling you, when men are cold,
Speaker 1: their balls are like they're so tight to their body.
Speaker 3: When niggas be hot, them balls be long.
Speaker 1: I know it is. I didn't need you to read it.
Speaker 1: I didn't need you to read it. I know what
Speaker 1: my nigga balls do, and they be hanging low when
Speaker 1: he hot and when he cold. I can tell because they.
Speaker 3: Be cutting your balls love.
Speaker 1: So I know, and that you're joined them. Balls was
Speaker 1: hanging low them, balls was hanging low, bitch.
Speaker 2: I just feel like it was thinking in there back then.
Speaker 2: But to me in twenty twenty five, it should never.
Speaker 1: Say, it should never stay. But it's still stinking there.
Speaker 1: It's staking there, in will in there. What's in there?
Speaker 5: You know?
Speaker 1: Wait? Wait there, that's mom.
Speaker 2: When you said that, I was like, Mitch, please, but no,
Speaker 2: for real, doll like in twenty twenty five, wasche thank
Speaker 2: you got booty, you gotta.
Speaker 1: Powder, don't care, don't care, you got it. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you when I walk in the bath millions of
Speaker 1: bath so when I used to I hate to say this,
Speaker 1: but when I used to work in the club and
Speaker 1: I used to walk in the women's bathroom, it smelt
Speaker 1: like what Lotto said, you left your pussy in the bathroom. Y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all please, first of all, let me teach you how
Speaker 1: to watch your kouchie real quick.
Speaker 3: Lex.
Speaker 2: This is not a high before we even got into
Speaker 2: the first time I find.
Speaker 1: To get into it. We're finna get into it because
Speaker 1: we finished gone. We gonna wrap this ship up.
Speaker 3: How we ain't even need to That's not like we're
Speaker 3: gonna get to one of them.
Speaker 1: Tell you get in that shower and stop putting everything
Speaker 1: down there. Use a wash that's specifically for your koochie
Speaker 1: and put it in your hand and get in them folds.
Speaker 1: This is how your fingers should look. This is for
Speaker 1: the middle part, and this is for the side parts.
Speaker 1: Get in there like that.
Speaker 2: You see how I meant that be my favorite part
Speaker 2: of shower. And it be a little surprised. Oh brother,
Speaker 2: this guy know it, don't And that's why because I
Speaker 2: know how to wash.
Speaker 1: She But why are you It's supposed to be a
Speaker 1: rub down, not a rub. But I'm saying you get
Speaker 1: in there with that. You're supposed to wash with your hands,
Speaker 1: your kuchie, and it's supposed to be a wash. What
Speaker 1: what wash you use down there?
Speaker 3: The salt eggs so wash. I've been using that for
Speaker 3: a few years.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, that's good one. What's the old school one?
Speaker 1: In the pink bottle? I got the big pink bottle.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? What's that brand? You
Speaker 1: don't wash? Your couchie said, I don't know, No, not
Speaker 1: Summer's summer.
Speaker 3: We don't know because you two damn.
Speaker 1: It's the old school vaginal wash. I don't know, but anyways,
Speaker 1: that's the one I use.
Speaker 3: In a pink bottle. It's in a pink bottle.
Speaker 1: It's the old It's like the first brand Dodge Seal Vegiceal.
Speaker 1: I use vegicel wash. Gudin't the collar just approved? That's
Speaker 1: what the bottles say. And when I tell y'all, my
Speaker 1: coochie always smell like the ocean.
Speaker 3: But which one?
Speaker 1: Let me say that.
Speaker 2: Go to Mexico question bring brown They had a flesh
Speaker 2: eating cia in one.
Speaker 3: Let me say, let me do that again. My couchie
Speaker 3: always smell like water.
Speaker 2: Fiji Fiji, Miss Aqua Fema, you the real miss Aquafeina.
Speaker 1: And you better ask about me because they know, they know,
Speaker 1: they know who should I ask? The people who that
Speaker 1: evil thick bitch all was talking about on Royal Moule show.
Speaker 2: As I wouldn't ask him a motherfucking thing. I wouldn't
Speaker 2: ask him a goddamn thing.
Speaker 7: And he may not ask me for shoot, But yes, y'all,
Speaker 7: please wash your kuchie with a different product honey pots
Speaker 7: salt ex so that.
Speaker 3: You use and the South x SO is black owned.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So I'm gonna start buying this.
Speaker 3: It's black owned. It's so good and it's like.
Speaker 2: When you put it on, it is it makes the
Speaker 2: juicy it do because when you put it down there,
Speaker 2: it's it's kind of like, y'all remember doctor Miracles is
Speaker 2: Doctor Miracles feel cool.
Speaker 3: It gives you that tingling feeling but down there.
Speaker 2: And then they also have an erotic an erotica one
Speaker 2: that you use before you have SIG.
Speaker 1: But I don't really you know, need that, okay, but anyway,
Speaker 1: but I.
Speaker 3: Do like it though.
Speaker 1: It gives you a good feeling.
Speaker 2: But I guess it's supposed to help if you don't
Speaker 2: naturally put produce the juices.
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people don't naturally, and I think
Speaker 1: that's okay too. We don't need to be embarrassed about that.
Speaker 1: Some people don't naturally produce them juices. So if you
Speaker 1: need a little hair, I'm.
Speaker 3: Not embarrassed because it's not me.
Speaker 2: But I don't think that nobody should be embarrassed about it.
Speaker 1: Just the only embarrassing thing is if you stink. So
Speaker 1: I hope y'all learn something today. Wash you coushi with
Speaker 1: your hands. Stop using towels and rags and different things
Speaker 1: down there.
Speaker 3: Okay, and get rid of that cottage cheese.
Speaker 1: Do you like cottage shees? I love cottage cheese actually,
Speaker 1: so I hate when people talk about cottage cheese in
Speaker 1: that manner.
Speaker 3: But that's what it'd be looking like.
Speaker 1: Cottage cheese is very tasty, it's protein, it can help.
Speaker 3: I like cotta cheese. I put it on my toes.
Speaker 1: You could put it in a lot of things. Some
Speaker 1: people put it on their peaches.
Speaker 2: My mom used to eat it like sweet or savory
Speaker 2: with cottage shee.
Speaker 3: My mom used to eat it like that growing up.
Speaker 2: But so now I make an avocado toes, and I
Speaker 2: mean the cotta cheese avocados host So I put the
Speaker 2: avocado spread, cottage cheese, the chili oil, the girl chili oil,
Speaker 2: and then I put a little hot honey.
Speaker 1: Come on, now you need the tray. So when I
Speaker 1: posted my cheat meal yesterday, I had made some pasta
Speaker 1: with some salmon. They said, if this is your cheat meal,
Speaker 1: what do you usually eat? I said, y'all, pasta is
Speaker 1: a cheat meal.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Did you use a what is it called cheek bee pasta?
Speaker 1: No? I didn't. That's why I said it was a
Speaker 1: cheat meal.
Speaker 3: I was cheap. I went all the way.
Speaker 1: You didn't see me nothing I did it. I only
Speaker 1: made it. You know, I cooked for one or sometimes
Speaker 1: if I cook, you know i'm cooking. I cook for
Speaker 1: whoever in the house at the time. It should have
Speaker 1: showed up, you would have got you a plate.
Speaker 3: Well, how did I know you was cooking?
Speaker 1: Sometimes I shouldn't.
Speaker 3: I don't feel like you should call people when they
Speaker 3: cook it. I feel like they should call you. You're cooking.
Speaker 1: I cook all the time, so you should be like, hey,
Speaker 1: dre a hooked, No, you live next door. Do you
Speaker 1: want to play plate next time? I will?
Speaker 3: Because that samon was fired.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's get on and see speaking of
Speaker 1: passive aggressive aggressiveness in relationships.
Speaker 2: That was really aggressively. It wasn't passive because I said
Speaker 2: that's okay.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's passive because it's not okay. It's really not okay.
Speaker 1: But you was saying it was okay. What is that aggressive?
Speaker 2: If I'm being honest, it really is okay because every
Speaker 2: time I see that you cooked, if I cared that much,
Speaker 2: I would say something. But there was an example of
Speaker 2: passive aggressive. It wasn't though because I was kidding.
Speaker 1: You were kidding, but I was. I know you.
Speaker 3: You wasn't giving an example.
Speaker 1: But if people didn't know you, if this is their
Speaker 1: first they don't know me.
Speaker 3: That's why they probably think I'm being serious.
Speaker 2: They're probably gonna be like, no, Dre, Drea was a
Speaker 2: fucking real fuck that beach leak.
Speaker 3: She don't like you, no way. And then I'm abos
Speaker 3: to make me a burner.
Speaker 1: Start agreeing with y'all really cause chaos, and I'm about.
Speaker 3: To make me want too and start saying the.
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Speaker 1: Thanks, I'm fucking with Okay. So the first top today,
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about passive aggressiveness in relationships, Like, you know,
Speaker 1: are you more of a I'm gonna give you the
Speaker 1: solid treatment or I'm setting a boundary? Are you being
Speaker 1: distant to protect your peace or are you doing this
Speaker 1: to punish your partner? Like? What how do you look
Speaker 1: at passive aggressiveness?
Speaker 3: Is it like?
Speaker 1: Am I being passive aggressive? Or am I just protecting
Speaker 1: my peace?
Speaker 3: I'm not a big punisher.
Speaker 2: I don't believe in doing it.
Speaker 1: Who is Oh, big, big pun that's what I was
Speaker 1: thinking about.
Speaker 3: You're not a big punisher.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not, okay.
Speaker 2: I I don't even give a fuck so much that
Speaker 2: I would just stop talking to you. Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: that's probably the worst thing about me. If I could say,
Speaker 2: probably my worst trade as a friend as a partner,
Speaker 2: it's probably that I won't have a conversation with you
Speaker 2: about shit and just stop fucking with you. Even if
Speaker 2: we still cool, I'll distance myself from you, like we
Speaker 2: still cool, but we probably just don't talk as much.
Speaker 2: We probably just don't deal with each other as much.
Speaker 3: That's my gym.
Speaker 2: So I don't believe in passive aggressiveness because I'm also
Speaker 2: very vocal. So if I'm having an issue in the
Speaker 2: beginning stages, bitch, you know the issue, I'm gonna let
Speaker 2: you know the issue. If you don't care to change
Speaker 2: it and you keep doing the same thing, it's to
Speaker 2: me it's nothing to talk about. Because I saw a
Speaker 2: clip from Tyler Perio the other day.
Speaker 3: My Cinema King MEDIAZ.
Speaker 2: I saw a clip from Taller Perry the other day.
Speaker 2: He said, my life got exponentially bitter when I started
Speaker 2: letting people be who they are and I stopped having expectations.
Speaker 2: And I think that that is the point that I'm
Speaker 2: I'm almost there. I'm not gonna say I'm fully there,
Speaker 2: but I'm almost there to like where when it come
Speaker 2: to people, I'm really cool with just letting you be
Speaker 2: who you are because you're showing up is you, and
Speaker 2: that's okay. It don't meet my standard, and that's okay too,
Speaker 2: So I just don't deal with you in that capacity
Speaker 2: anymore because who you are does not meet the standard
Speaker 2: of what I need as a partner, as a friend, whatever.
Speaker 2: So yeah, so you know, I have to make the
Speaker 2: choice because you're not showing up. It's who I need
Speaker 2: you to be. Do I want to keep you in
Speaker 2: my life? Do I want to get rid of you?
Speaker 2: Or do I want to deal with you accordingly? And
Speaker 2: those are the three areas that I put people in
Speaker 2: my life. It's either I'm gonna cut you off, ain't
Speaker 2: no dealing with you, I'm gonna still deal with you,
Speaker 2: or I'm gonna deal with you accordingly and put you
Speaker 2: in a certain box. And I think that I'm very
Speaker 2: very great and putting people in boxes and them not
Speaker 2: knowing that they're in a box.
Speaker 3: Because you, they also don't necessarily need to know.
Speaker 2: I think that's a beautiful thing of knowing how to
Speaker 2: not be passive aggressive because it's like you in a
Speaker 2: box and you don't even know it.
Speaker 1: So I think for me, i'm passive aggressive, but it's
Speaker 1: until I'm ready to talk. So I know in my
Speaker 1: relationship that's something that I struggle with. I'll be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm fine, and i'm not, but I'm not ready to
Speaker 1: talk about it right now. So I need to work
Speaker 1: on saying I'm not okay right now, but I'm also
Speaker 1: not ready to talk about it right now, because that's
Speaker 1: something I've been working on.
Speaker 3: Y'all know I'm still in therapy, but I am.
Speaker 1: Very passive aggressive just because I I'm trying to learn
Speaker 1: how I'm trying to learn how to like pick my
Speaker 1: battles wisely, but also still speak on it without it
Speaker 1: being like a conflict, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: I think with me, it's like I'll say I'm fine,
Speaker 1: knowing i'm not, but then I want to address it later,
Speaker 1: but I just need time to address it. So I
Speaker 1: think with my passive aggressive in that moment, I need
Speaker 1: to say hey instead of saying I'm fine. I need
Speaker 1: to say, hey, you know what, I'm not okay, but
Speaker 1: I'm also not ready to talk about it right now.
Speaker 1: And that's something that I have been practicing. I actually
Speaker 1: have been doing an exercise, like I said, with my therapist,
Speaker 1: so being like, you know what, it's okay to create boundaries. Hey, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not okay, and I do want to talk about it,
Speaker 1: but can we talk about it at a later state,
Speaker 1: at a later date when I am in more of
Speaker 1: a you know, mind frame of receiving this information. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying Because I think a lot of
Speaker 1: times when people are passive aggressive, they're doing it to
Speaker 1: kind of I don't want to say protect their peace,
Speaker 1: but they're doing it because it's kind of like they're
Speaker 1: shutting down I just like to shut down moment.
Speaker 2: From my personal experience with people that are passive aggressive,
Speaker 2: I also think they do it to get a reaction.
Speaker 2: Like I think they be wanting to make like, okay,
Speaker 2: I'm a beating way because I'm gonna see if he's
Speaker 2: gonna make this. Persons react this way, and then if
Speaker 2: you don't, then.
Speaker 1: Then they start acting out now or then.
Speaker 2: They want to say like or then they want to
Speaker 2: have a conversation, but it's like, nah, because I already
Speaker 2: seen what you said on Twitter. I already seen what
Speaker 2: you said on what you posted on Instagram, So it's like,
Speaker 2: why do I want to talk to you now? But
Speaker 2: I think people who are passive aggressive they do that
Speaker 2: to try to garner a reaction when in reality, to me,
Speaker 2: I don't know, and.
Speaker 3: This is not towards you.
Speaker 1: No, No, I know because I'll do that because I'm
Speaker 1: shutting down. This is not that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is not towards you specifically. But I always
Speaker 2: have wondered, like why do people be I just don't
Speaker 2: really understand being passive aggressive versus just telling people how
Speaker 2: you feel outright, Like is it like a fear thing
Speaker 2: you don't know how they're gonna react. You're afraid that
Speaker 2: like if you say the wrong thing, they may not
Speaker 2: talk to you anymore, or if might ruin the relationship
Speaker 2: or the bond, Like what's the reason for being passive agreace?
Speaker 1: So for me, like I said in that moment, I'm
Speaker 1: shutting down and I'm breaking down and I don't want
Speaker 1: to talk about it right now, so I'm just like,
Speaker 1: let's just keep it cool for the moment and we can.
Speaker 3: Talk about it later.
Speaker 1: Now, what you're talking about, I see that, and I
Speaker 1: have people that do that to me as well, like
Speaker 1: oh no, I'm cool, no, let oh you good, No
Speaker 1: you're good, you're mad, and you're trying to get me
Speaker 1: to react. So when I see people doing that, when
Speaker 1: I'm being passive aggressive, I'm not looking for a reaction. No, please, like,
Speaker 1: I'm fine right now, we can talk about this later.
Speaker 1: I'm not looking for a reaction because it's gonna actually
Speaker 1: make it worse. So for me, when people do that,
Speaker 1: now that crosses from being passive aggressive to also being manipulative,
Speaker 1: because now you're trying to make somebody react, get something
Speaker 1: out of them that you couldn't get out of them
Speaker 1: without just having a regular conversation. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I think what you're saying is one hundred percent
Speaker 1: valid because most of the time, I will honestly say
Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time when people are being passive aggressive,
Speaker 1: they're doing what you're saying, They're trying to get a
Speaker 1: reaction out of people. With me, I'm literally like, I'm
Speaker 1: breaking down. I don't want to I really, I literally
Speaker 1: don't want to talk. I don't want you to react. So,
Speaker 1: like I said, for me, I think it's just learning
Speaker 1: how to communicate better. And that's something I've always prided
Speaker 1: myself on, but something that I thought I was great at.
Speaker 3: But I'm not as good at it as I thought.
Speaker 1: So I think it's all about accountability and awareness too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I'm aware that I do that.
Speaker 1: People who are passive aggressive, they will lie and be
Speaker 1: like I wasn't being passive aggressive.
Speaker 3: I was fine.
Speaker 1: I really was okay. I didn't give a fuck bit.
Speaker 1: Yes she did cap Yeah you care?
Speaker 3: You mad? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know.
Speaker 3: I feel like you could tell.
Speaker 2: I think it's just like indicators, like you know, I mean,
Speaker 2: if I'm being completely honies, I hear you. But I
Speaker 2: think anybody is being paid massive aggressive care.
Speaker 1: Oh you don't not care like you care.
Speaker 2: You don't know how to express yourself, so you're exacting
Speaker 2: yourself in a passively aggressive way because you don't know
Speaker 2: how to really vocalize your real feelings. So you're going
Speaker 2: in a roundabout way of trying to make it seem like, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm cool, I'm okay. I don't think that you don't
Speaker 2: it's no way to be passive aggressive and not really care.
Speaker 1: Being pass aggressive because you care. Yeah, my mind, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to gather my thoughts. I'm shutting down. I'm hurt
Speaker 1: for whatever it is. I'm hurt. I want to I
Speaker 1: don't know what to say. I'm shot, whatever it is.
Speaker 2: And so the I'm saying nothing versus being passive aggressive.
Speaker 1: No, but that's what I'm saying, because it'd be if
Speaker 1: somebody asked me, what's wrong? You good? Okay?
Speaker 3: I'm fine. I don't want to talk about it. But
Speaker 3: I don't think that's passive aggressive.
Speaker 1: How they passive aggressive is it's when you say you're
Speaker 1: fine when you're not.
Speaker 2: But to me, that's not I guess when I think
Speaker 2: of passive aggressiveness, I think of making slurs, making comments
Speaker 2: like if some you and somebody get in to it, right,
Speaker 2: and then they get on Twitter and they tweet some
Speaker 2: shit about like a situation that's similar to what y'all
Speaker 2: just had, and then you say something to them about
Speaker 2: it and they're.
Speaker 1: Like, oh no.
Speaker 2: To me, somebody, if I asked ty if you're okay?
Speaker 2: If I asked you, are you okay? And you just like,
Speaker 2: oh no, I'm fine. I don't receive that as a
Speaker 2: because what's aggressive about that? What's passive aggressive about that?
Speaker 2: To me, passive aggressiveness is more when people try to
Speaker 2: say I'm cool, and then their actions are reactions say otherwise, Well,
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 3: Very you telling me that you're good.
Speaker 2: But then I'm getting on the internet and I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 2: I think you subbing me. Right, this post is about me.
Speaker 2: This tweet is about me. You said something that has
Speaker 2: to do with what I just said or what me
Speaker 2: and you just went through, but you're telling me.
Speaker 3: That you're good.
Speaker 2: We got into this an hour ago, this tweet is
Speaker 2: from ten minutes ago.
Speaker 3: Let's see.
Speaker 1: But you gotta say passive aggressive passive aggressive outside of
Speaker 1: like social media, in real life, you think somebody just
Speaker 1: if I ask, like if I'm saying I'm fine, but
Speaker 1: look at my body language, look at the way I'm
Speaker 1: acting and the way you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: if I say, Drea, are you okay? You like, I'm fine,
Speaker 1: but you kind of just like maybe sitting in the.
Speaker 3: Corner or you're not talking or you're not so.
Speaker 1: I think there's different ways to show passive aggressiveness. So
Speaker 1: you're not necessarily being like like I said, outside of
Speaker 1: the internet, in a real life situation, if I say
Speaker 1: I'm fine, but I'm not being my normal, bubbly self,
Speaker 1: that's being passive aggressive. That's fine.
Speaker 2: But then I also think to it be more emotional
Speaker 2: manipulation to like communication with all these sicks, with holding
Speaker 2: like different things. You're saying you're cool, but like you're
Speaker 2: not communicating with me, like you know what you do.
Speaker 3: You don't want to.
Speaker 2: Have sex with me. It's a distance in a household.
Speaker 2: I always with you, you know, that's okay, okay, well,
Speaker 2: but affection all of these things, like to me, that's
Speaker 2: more of past now aggressive. But I just don't think
Speaker 2: somebody telling me they find because I look at it.
Speaker 3: If something, oh yeah, let's take a shot.
Speaker 2: I look at it like if you tell me that
Speaker 2: you're okay, even if I know that you're not okay,
Speaker 2: I don't look at that as passive aggressiveness. I look
Speaker 2: at that more as you not wanting to talk about
Speaker 2: it right now, Like maybe you gotta find maybe you
Speaker 2: gotta find your mojo, maybe you gotta find when you
Speaker 2: ready be in the headspace to have the conversation with
Speaker 2: me because I feel like it's things that you've been
Speaker 2: through where I've asked you, are you okay, and you
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I'm good, friend, I don't want to
Speaker 2: talk about it. And then I talked to you two
Speaker 2: days later and you was ready to let me know
Speaker 2: what was going on, and it doesn't it and it
Speaker 2: has been things that hasn't had anything to do with me.
Speaker 2: It's been personal things, but like at that moment, you
Speaker 2: didn't want to talk about it. Now two days later,
Speaker 2: I'm in a different space. I don't have time to
Speaker 2: think reflects. I know how I want to let you
Speaker 2: know what's going on. So, okay, friend, this is what's
Speaker 2: going on. No, I don't look at that. It's passive.
Speaker 1: Well, the reason it is because, and I'll tell you
Speaker 1: the difference between that. If I if you ask me
Speaker 1: if I'm fine, and I say I'm fine, and I'm
Speaker 1: really not, and then two days later you find out
Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with you, I'm not being
Speaker 1: passive aggressive towards you because they had nothing to do
Speaker 1: with you. If you ask me if I'm fine, and
Speaker 1: I'm not fine, and it has something to do with you,
Speaker 1: I'm being passive aggressive. But that's the definition of it.
Speaker 2: But if your body language and stuff is not giving that, nobody,
Speaker 2: it's still I hear you. But nobody can think you're
Speaker 2: being passive aggressive if they don't know you get what.
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying.
Speaker 2: I get what you're saying, like if you like, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm cool, and then you seem like you cool versus
Speaker 2: I'm cool.
Speaker 3: I get what you're saying.
Speaker 1: Right, But if i'm if I'm not talking, if I'm
Speaker 1: not saying what it is, I'm just I'm being passive.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. The issue is when you start withholding things, sex,
Speaker 1: you not calling me? Yeah, Now, once you start doing that, now,
Speaker 1: I will say this with my passive aggressiveness, I don't
Speaker 1: do that. I don't be like, oh well, I'm not
Speaker 1: calling her, I'm not talking to her. I just do
Speaker 1: it whenever I'm ready or if like me and my
Speaker 1: man are into it. I'm definitely not withhold, no sex, no, no,
Speaker 1: I was done?
Speaker 3: Are you where are you?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Go ahead, Okay, I'm not even trying to be funny.
Speaker 2: Nobody cannot not talk to me because I'm gonna just
Speaker 2: be like, okay.
Speaker 3: Oh I know, because you be not giving a fun
Speaker 3: you could just not I mean, we could just not talk.
Speaker 1: Man, It's just up.
Speaker 2: To you if we reconcile, because I just especially if
Speaker 2: I'm not in the wrong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I was about to say. When you not, like,
Speaker 1: when you are in the wrong, wah, you definitely be
Speaker 1: like okay, But when you feel like you're one hundred
Speaker 1: percent not the wrong, you be like, fuck it, I
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. We don't have to talk.
Speaker 2: Then I'm burning at the stakes. Honestly, I'm just saying
Speaker 2: the facts. Yeah, So it's kind of both of It's
Speaker 2: what both of y'all are saying. The definition or passive
Speaker 2: aggressive behavior is a pattern of indirectly expressing negative emotions
Speaker 2: through subtle acts of resistance, defiance, or neglect, and then
Speaker 2: when they go into like different signs of passive aggressiveness.
Speaker 3: What you were saying as far.
Speaker 2: As like like okay, nice of you to finally show up,
Speaker 2: like that's being kind of passive aggressive. But for what
Speaker 2: you were saying, silent treatment or evading issues is also
Speaker 2: another sign of passive aggressiveness.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: So I think it's just like to your point where
Speaker 2: you were saying, it's about like kind of your tone
Speaker 2: and how you're saying. I'm fine like that is a
Speaker 2: little more making it more passive.
Speaker 3: Okay, I see what you're saying, and I.
Speaker 1: Agree with you.
Speaker 3: Lex.
Speaker 2: I'm the same way, like I shut down. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: just need my time. I'm not trying to be passive aggressive,
Speaker 2: but I'm non confrontational, right And I don't want to
Speaker 2: create a bigger issue without me being able to lie
Speaker 2: articulate my thoughts and what I want to say, because
Speaker 2: I really want you to understand how I feel. But
Speaker 2: I'm so pissed off in that moment or her or
Speaker 2: emotional that I can't really articulate that in that moment.
Speaker 2: I kind of lean more towards how Lex puts it
Speaker 2: out there. Maybe I need to be more like that
Speaker 2: because I can put it on a beach. What it is,
Speaker 2: let's put it, Let's.
Speaker 3: Put it on the floor. This is how I feel
Speaker 3: right now.
Speaker 1: Beach.
Speaker 3: You got me fucked up?
Speaker 1: You know what we no. No, but I will say.
Speaker 3: One thing that.
Speaker 1: I've loved about your growth too, is that you have
Speaker 1: learned to approach situations a lot more delicately than you
Speaker 1: used to.
Speaker 2: So now it's your delicacy what that's not like a meal.
Speaker 1: Raise that toys and you be jumping out love a
Speaker 1: good meal. No, but I will say like versus our
Speaker 1: relationship when we first became friends versus now, like you're
Speaker 1: so much more easier to talk now you are, like,
Speaker 1: I don't mind bringing like if I be like Drea friend, like,
Speaker 1: I don't mind saying that now. In the beginning, I
Speaker 1: used to be like, I'm just not even gonna say nothing,
Speaker 1: because I know how she's finna react, and I know
Speaker 1: how she finna do.
Speaker 2: Like what how would I used to react in the past,
Speaker 2: So in the past, if.
Speaker 3: I would be like, I'm trying to think of an example,
Speaker 3: like with a man or something.
Speaker 1: No, okay with me, let's just use a man for example.
Speaker 1: That's not true. This is not real, but that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Let's use a more true example, because I think I've
Speaker 2: always been understanding about.
Speaker 1: Like, okay, okay, I'll say something like about let's say,
Speaker 1: like about you being late or something I feel like
Speaker 1: when we first became friends of our friend, come on now,
Speaker 1: like you need to work on your time, like you
Speaker 1: be late. You'd be like, well, lex, I don't care,
Speaker 1: like if I'm not I'm trying. I got shit to do.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, so, I'm gonna get here when I
Speaker 1: get here, So I'm here now though, That's how you
Speaker 1: used to be. Now i'd be like, friend, you'd be like,
Speaker 1: you be like, I'm sorry, friend, i know I'm trying.
Speaker 3: I'm working on it. I'm running behind.
Speaker 1: Like that's how more you be like more receiving to
Speaker 1: like things that if somebody has a problem. You used
Speaker 1: to be like if somebody approached you with a problem,
Speaker 1: you would be very aggressive about it, and you wouldn't
Speaker 1: just take it. And because how dare you have a
Speaker 1: problem with me? But now you have a problem with
Speaker 1: the queen. I'm fucking but now.
Speaker 3: Because well i'll say this too with legs. That was
Speaker 3: a terrible example. We were just using any only because.
Speaker 2: You always fucking late, not no more. Then it would
Speaker 2: be like, no more, legs, bitch, you got here five
Speaker 2: minutes ago, and you telling me that, I'm like, you
Speaker 2: were here five minutes earlier or ten minutes earlier, you
Speaker 2: still wasn't here at one o'clock. That was the thing,
Speaker 2: the old thing.
Speaker 1: Now I'll be on I'm on time, queen now. But
Speaker 1: I was just using that for an example. We just
Speaker 1: use it for an example. But like I said, for anything,
Speaker 1: I feel like you're more.
Speaker 3: See what I'm gonna see my drinks today has to aggress.
Speaker 2: We was just it's not you know, I'm trying to
Speaker 2: I'm trying to move on.
Speaker 1: We were just using a random example. But like I said,
Speaker 1: even if it was like a man like back in
Speaker 1: the day, you probably would be more But now you'd
Speaker 1: be like I hear you friends, you're just more like
Speaker 1: receptive of things and you understand what people are saying.
Speaker 1: Like You're not so like I don't understand you be
Speaker 1: more so like I see where you're coming from.
Speaker 2: Because the thing about it right, and I really feel
Speaker 2: like people.
Speaker 3: I hope this gives people more of.
Speaker 2: An insight to me, cause I feel like I've said
Speaker 2: this before on poor minds. It's not even that I
Speaker 2: don't be trying to be receptive to what people be
Speaker 2: going through.
Speaker 3: I just be wanting better for people.
Speaker 2: Like sometimes when people tell me certain stuff, I'd be like,
Speaker 2: what the fuck, why are you dealing with that?
Speaker 3: Why are you putting up with it? Why are you
Speaker 3: leaving yourself in that situation?
Speaker 2: And I don't want it to ever come off judgy,
Speaker 2: just be wanting more for people that I care about.
Speaker 2: But I think that people take it in a way
Speaker 2: of like you be feeling like, oh you, it could
Speaker 2: never be you. It could never and respectfully, I hope
Speaker 2: this doesn't sound bad, but like in certain situations, I
Speaker 2: do be feeling like it could never be me because
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna deal with it.
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna because different people want different things
Speaker 1: out of life, and that's fine.
Speaker 2: But I go based off of, to be fair, what
Speaker 2: people tell me that they want. If we're talking about
Speaker 2: people that I'm close to, I'm also going based off
Speaker 2: of what you're telling me you want, the type of
Speaker 2: relationship you say you want, the type of life you
Speaker 2: say you want, and it's nigga or the situation that
Speaker 2: you're putting yourself in. It's not conducive to what you're
Speaker 2: saying you want. So then if you're coming to me
Speaker 2: complaining to me all the time about it, the first
Speaker 2: few times, I'm gonna be like okay, but.
Speaker 3: Then after that it'd be like bitch, please.
Speaker 2: And then I also hate when people come to me
Speaker 2: telling me things about myself that they also do, so
Speaker 2: it's kind of like, you can't come to me telling
Speaker 2: me I'm late when you be late, you just seeing
Speaker 2: me in this earlier If that makes sense.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I feel like that's why.
Speaker 2: It would be different if you was getting there at
Speaker 2: twelve forty five and then you're like, okay, beat you
Speaker 2: pulled up at one fifteen, you got there at one
Speaker 2: oh five.
Speaker 3: We're supposed to be there at one. Cool.
Speaker 2: So I think more so that's where when I was
Speaker 2: younger the aggressiveness. The aggressiveness came from. As I'm older,
Speaker 2: it's just more so kind of like okay, I'm in
Speaker 2: my okay era. People got it, like that's where you
Speaker 2: be sen seen. I'm not arguing with you. It's cool.
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Speaker 2: thirty eight on VEZ Here. I asked the question before
Speaker 2: we get into the next topic. Do y'all think directive
Speaker 2: niece is a bad thing though, because I feel like
Speaker 2: me being very directed, like me being very direct and
Speaker 2: blood is also perceived as a bad thing. Sometimes.
Speaker 3: I don't think it's a bad thing.
Speaker 1: I just think it depends on how the person that
Speaker 1: you're talking to can perceive it. I don't think nothing
Speaker 1: is wrong with being direct. If you're being honest, honest,
Speaker 1: you see, it's never a bad thing. Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1: I think that people people who don't like directiveness are
Speaker 1: people who can't handle real shit.
Speaker 3: That's in my opinion.
Speaker 1: Like I think that people who are direct, They're saying
Speaker 1: how they feel. How can you get mad.
Speaker 3: At somebody for being honest about their feelings?
Speaker 2: I agree, But do you think it's like I think
Speaker 2: it's levels to be in direct though, like I think
Speaker 2: you can still be. I think you can still be
Speaker 2: the blunt, direct person but still be careful about not
Speaker 2: hurting somebody's feelings. And I think I try to do that,
Speaker 2: Like I think it's I don't never try to say
Speaker 2: things to people to go for the jugglar, like I
Speaker 2: don't never want to like hurt your feelings. But bingach,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you know how I feel, and I'm
Speaker 2: gonna tell you what the real shit is versus Sometimes
Speaker 2: I think people try to use that as a cape
Speaker 2: of like, oh.
Speaker 3: I'm blunt, I'm direct, but then.
Speaker 2: You mean as fucking you saying rude, hurtful shit all
Speaker 2: the time to your friends or to your family members
Speaker 2: are to people that you hear about what you put
Speaker 2: the kp on.
Speaker 3: Of blunt mes and being direct you get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I hate people like that first of all, because I
Speaker 1: always say, it's not about what you say, it's how
Speaker 1: you say it. I don't want no mean ass friend.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I don't need you.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying sugarcoat shit, but I don't need you
Speaker 1: being like. It's a difference between like, if I got
Speaker 1: something tacky on, is it? Lex?
Speaker 3: You look fucking awful?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like what the fuck?
Speaker 3: Why would you wear that?
Speaker 1: Versus somebody being like, ooh, Lex, this don't compliment you
Speaker 1: as well?
Speaker 3: Did you try on?
Speaker 1: Or maybe oh remember that spanceshot we had bought the
Speaker 1: other day. It's a difference on how you say shit.
Speaker 1: I don't like that mean shit because I don't talk
Speaker 1: to people like that, so don't talk to me like that.
Speaker 1: I definitely believe in being direct, but it's all about
Speaker 1: how you say it to people like I have friends
Speaker 1: from all different walks of life, like you, Lauren Kiler,
Speaker 1: be Leanne and my sister are all so different. But
Speaker 1: I'm very direct with each one of you in the
Speaker 1: same way when I talk to y'all, because it's easy
Speaker 1: to be nice but also tell somebody how you feel,
Speaker 1: and it's easy just to be understanding, because sometimes you
Speaker 1: gotta understand why this person made this decision to put
Speaker 1: that dress on. Maybe they thought that they felt sexy
Speaker 1: in it. Okay, well, let's spruce it up a little bit,
Speaker 1: or let let's let it if you want to wear
Speaker 1: this dress so bad, you go some sprank friend, you
Speaker 1: got a little sprink. You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: it's just a way to say things. So I've never
Speaker 1: been that friend. I hate people who disguise being blunt
Speaker 1: with being a bitch. I don't like bitchy people. I
Speaker 1: don't like mood people. Keep that shit away from me
Speaker 1: and my family.
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. I don't like that she either. No,
Speaker 2: I don't like that she either. But I ask that
Speaker 2: because I think sometimes people try to feel like that's
Speaker 2: how I be being, but I don't. I feel like
Speaker 2: I just be saying how I feel.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think sometimes when people.
Speaker 3: And people don't like you, like sometimes people don't like honey.
Speaker 1: Well, I think sometimes stands you or get your tone
Speaker 1: of things. They don't understand, like it don't be that deep.
Speaker 1: But people who don't know you, they'd be like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, Drea's a bitch. They don't not a bitch,
Speaker 1: but they just be like why she liked, Well, you're
Speaker 1: not but you're not wrong. You're not wrong. People do
Speaker 1: be thinking.
Speaker 2: I think also, what makes it worse is that I
Speaker 2: don't really give a fuck.
Speaker 1: That's gonna be like, look at them, but I don't.
Speaker 2: But but to be fair and time, maybe let let
Speaker 2: me let Tad chime in on these be cause she
Speaker 2: be here with us.
Speaker 3: She's been with us for what to two.
Speaker 2: Years now and a half two and a half years now,
Speaker 2: we've been.
Speaker 3: In this studio for a minute.
Speaker 2: But I feel like not giving a fuck is not
Speaker 2: a bad thing, because why should I give a fuck
Speaker 2: about what people think that don't know me personally? Like,
Speaker 2: I don't know, how do you feel about what I
Speaker 2: just said? You still have empathy? And I think that's
Speaker 2: what when you're talking about like mean girls or people
Speaker 2: that are just blatantly mean, I think they're lacking empathy.
Speaker 2: I still care, but you don't care enough for it
Speaker 2: to stress you out, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like it's a I think it's a difference.
Speaker 2: When I'm I feel like I'm very direct, for sure,
Speaker 2: but I really direct.
Speaker 1: When it comes to my business.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm not negotiating on that with my friends.
Speaker 2: You got to have a little bit of emotional intelligence
Speaker 2: to deal with them, because you love these people, right
Speaker 2: and you want to respect them or you still respect them,
Speaker 2: but you also have your boundaries for yourself that are
Speaker 2: personal to you that hey, I have this level of care, but.
Speaker 1: All right, cool, you don't care. I don't care either.
Speaker 2: I'm good, like I'm chilling. But I don't think you're
Speaker 2: a bitchy, mean, direct person. You still care and you
Speaker 2: still have empathy for people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so too.
Speaker 2: I think when it comes to people I care about,
Speaker 2: I have a lot of empathy.
Speaker 3: I think I'm very empathetic, but when.
Speaker 2: It comes to people that I don't know, I don't
Speaker 2: necessarily really care that much. But I'm also just being honest.
Speaker 2: I think that sometimes the space that we're in with us.
Speaker 3: Being like public figures, no.
Speaker 2: I think sometimes with us be in the face that
Speaker 2: we're in of being public figures or influencers. I think
Speaker 2: you can say something and then it will hit home
Speaker 2: for somebody and then they take it really really personal,
Speaker 2: and then they're like, well, bitch, you a bitch and
Speaker 2: you don't understand or you feel like it could never
Speaker 2: be you.
Speaker 1: But I don't even know you.
Speaker 2: I don't even know your situation specifically, so I wasn't
Speaker 2: talking specifically to you, but you took it like I
Speaker 2: was talking specifically to you.
Speaker 3: But anogo like, that's what it be.
Speaker 2: A lot of the time people, I'll say something that
Speaker 2: people be feeling like, oh, this resonates with my upbringing
Speaker 2: or my situation with my dad, or my situation with
Speaker 2: my mom, or my situation with my men, my baby.
Speaker 3: Daddy, my child whatever.
Speaker 2: So she said this and bitch, I'm taking it personal
Speaker 2: because bitch, fuck you.
Speaker 1: But I don't even know you.
Speaker 2: I'm just speaking in general on what I think in
Speaker 2: my opinion. Plus I also feel like opinion shouldn't matter
Speaker 2: that much. I said my opinion by the watch the
Speaker 2: other day, people was.
Speaker 1: In oh you brought that.
Speaker 3: They was so mad uproar. People were in such an uproar.
Speaker 3: But I love that for me.
Speaker 2: Because we have to talk about I think people got
Speaker 2: to get stopped giving me so much power, because to
Speaker 2: understand the Taurus is to understand that I sometimes revel
Speaker 2: in the fact.
Speaker 3: That y'all get so mad.
Speaker 2: At the things I say, because I'd be like, Wow,
Speaker 2: I'm really that powerful that I can what was the
Speaker 2: tweet again, that I can make the whole timeline getting
Speaker 2: the uproar.
Speaker 3: Okay, So I just basically said that let me go
Speaker 3: look at my.
Speaker 2: Go look at somebody's messages because they sent it to me.
Speaker 3: And me, see, I am so weak.
Speaker 1: Because I've never seen you want an Apple watch on
Speaker 1: asking what's wrong with an Apple? Oh? Brother? But read
Speaker 1: this tweek but no, you.
Speaker 3: See laugh because exactly.
Speaker 2: But anyways, y'all be adding that gold band on y'all
Speaker 2: Apple watches and thinking that me, you could wear it
Speaker 2: to dinner?
Speaker 3: No, okay? And I said what I said, and it
Speaker 3: was me looking at my goal Watch like, oh, you
Speaker 3: be wearing it to dinner? I'll wear it whatever I don't.
Speaker 2: But I also didn't read that like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: Drea hates me either.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 2: Like, I laughed at it and moved on.
Speaker 1: That's what I okay, So let me say this is
Speaker 1: how I felt about it as a person who I
Speaker 1: wear my Apple.
Speaker 3: Watch a lot.
Speaker 1: I change out these bands, but y'all know I'm serious
Speaker 1: about my Apple y but this is my thing.
Speaker 3: Y'all be like, why do.
Speaker 1: Y'all you think? Because first of all, if you like
Speaker 1: your Apple Watch, how you wear, why do you care
Speaker 1: what this complete stranger is saying about what you have
Speaker 1: on Do you know how many times I have put
Speaker 1: on something onward something and this person or this person
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I think that tall bitches who wear
Speaker 1: platform heels. It looks crazy, because why you walking around
Speaker 1: looking like sasquatch? Because I'm a bad bitch and that's
Speaker 1: what I did. Well, you can never tell me about
Speaker 1: shit that I like, and I'm not gonna lie. Did
Speaker 1: I think the tweet was funny? Yes, but I thought
Speaker 1: it was so funny. How y'all are sending things to
Speaker 1: her mention trying to prove that your watch looks good.
Speaker 1: That's for you to enjoy, not her. She thinks it's tacky,
Speaker 1: and that's okay. Y'all have stopped. Y'all have got to
Speaker 1: stop trying to get approval from people who don't care
Speaker 1: or know you exist. It's a joke. It's supposed to
Speaker 1: be lighthearted, funny. Y'all got butt her because you are
Speaker 1: wearing your Apple watch to dinner, and that's okay.
Speaker 2: No, they got butt hurt because it was Drea from
Speaker 2: poor mind. If somebody random as hell hey tweet that
Speaker 2: on Twitter and it went.
Speaker 3: Viral, nobody would have cared.
Speaker 2: I know, people always get very defensive when they see
Speaker 2: it's me or you and it goes viral and we
Speaker 2: said something and they'd be like, oh, you got a
Speaker 2: lot of nerves. It was y'all when I say it
Speaker 2: with so many people in my comments, like yeah, everybody
Speaker 2: not a big baller like you. Everybody can't have a
Speaker 2: ten fifteen thousand dollars watch.
Speaker 3: Everybody can't do X, Y and Z.
Speaker 2: And my watch was eight hundred dollars, so you right,
Speaker 2: it was one thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: I'm a wear it every day.
Speaker 2: The thing is, though nobody some of them, yeah, But
Speaker 2: the thing is, nobody made it about money. I never
Speaker 2: said nothing about money.
Speaker 3: For me. It's more about like the esthetics.
Speaker 2: To me, if you have on a ball gown or
Speaker 2: you have on a tuxedo, are you out at a
Speaker 2: fancy dinner?
Speaker 3: Even if you have on a cute little two piece.
Speaker 2: Save and you out at dinner at Hell's with your man,
Speaker 2: I don't feel like you should have on an Apple watch.
Speaker 3: I feel like you.
Speaker 2: But it's so many cute, dainty watches that you could
Speaker 2: get JBW. It's so many of the influencer girls Alia's
Speaker 2: face Kyra Aminique shout out to them. They be always
Speaker 2: promoting JBW watches. Those watches are like two hundred three
Speaker 2: hundred dollars. They're cute, little dainty watches. Nobody said it
Speaker 2: has to be a rolex An ap a potect.
Speaker 3: Y'all made it.
Speaker 2: About that because y'all saw who tweeted it. I never
Speaker 2: said nothing about money.
Speaker 1: So I'll say this. You know, I think I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie me personally, like the like the band that
Speaker 1: Ty has on, I think that's cute.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I mean, I had one of them, but no, this
Speaker 1: is my problem because I agree with her on this end.
Speaker 1: Changing the bands, that's not an issue to me because
Speaker 1: I think if you have your Apple Watch on there
Speaker 1: are like the gold band like that, I'll be seeing
Speaker 1: cue bands. I've seen somebody they had a Cuban link with.
Speaker 1: It was a fake bust down. That's that's tacking to me.
Speaker 1: If you have a cute little gold band something like that,
Speaker 1: it matches what she have on a Cuban link. To me,
Speaker 1: a fat Cuban link is just a lot anyway. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's an opinion. If
Speaker 1: you like your Cuban link on your Apple Watch, that's fine.
Speaker 3: I just want to say these.
Speaker 2: I think people, even you, I think missing the point
Speaker 2: I never said nothing with even if you want to
Speaker 2: wear the Cuban.
Speaker 3: Link, that's fine.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's anything wrong with how Ty has
Speaker 2: her watch on. But Ty does not have on a
Speaker 2: formal outfit.
Speaker 3: She not going to a wedding.
Speaker 1: You don't know she might even go a little too.
Speaker 3: I do, ah, she not at a wedding.
Speaker 2: She's not going on a date night with a beautiful
Speaker 2: dress on, like she's here at poor mind's count on herself.
Speaker 2: That's fine, even with her out feed like she worthy
Speaker 2: shit for the episode.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I don't see nothing wrong with that. I think people
Speaker 2: were missing the point that I'm saying. All I was saying,
Speaker 2: which maybe I should have articulated myself better. Maybe I
Speaker 2: should have made the tweet more extensive. But I'm a
Speaker 2: person I don't think tweets should be there long.
Speaker 3: It's a tweet. A tweet.
Speaker 2: I just think that shit is still to me, a
Speaker 2: tweet is a brain fart. Like it's short, it's not long,
Speaker 2: So maybe I should have articulated myself better. But what
Speaker 2: I'm more so meant was I don't think that it
Speaker 2: doesn't matter if you change your Apple watch band out
Speaker 2: for a gold man, it still doesn't make it appropriate
Speaker 2: to word with a tuxedo. Now you look like a
Speaker 2: spy kid. Now you're looking like you are mission impossible.
Speaker 2: I just don't think that goes together. Same thing with
Speaker 2: a woman with a beautiful date night dress. You actually
Speaker 2: a nice little dress from fashion Over?
Speaker 1: That be me?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got you a nice little dress com fashion Over.
Speaker 2: You and your man is going out for dinner. Y'all
Speaker 2: want Marcel, let me say something that's more universal that
Speaker 2: people know about. Y'all want to know, boob, you got
Speaker 2: on this beautiful dress with your Apple watch and then
Speaker 2: you switched out to bend for a gold being, and
Speaker 2: you think that make it appropriate to wear. Just get
Speaker 2: you a cute little dainty watch. Nobody is saying it
Speaker 2: has to be your row legs. Go get your little
Speaker 2: three hundred dollars cute gold watch.
Speaker 3: That's a dinner. Why.
Speaker 1: I think it's more like, if I'm being honest, maybe
Speaker 1: I'm a little biased. I guess I'll never pay I
Speaker 1: don't be paying attention like that.
Speaker 3: Well, I seen somebody in New York.
Speaker 2: That's what made me tweety okay, because we was out
Speaker 2: at dinner and I seen a lady with a silk
Speaker 2: dress on and then she had on her Apple watch
Speaker 2: with a gold Man I don't pay attention like that neither,
Speaker 2: because I don't really give a fuck what people be waring.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, I feel like if you got it on
Speaker 1: your wrist and that's what you like.
Speaker 3: It was a thought. I tweeted it.
Speaker 2: I hate the fact that people think I care them much.
Speaker 2: We're elaborating on it because we're just talking about it.
Speaker 1: Somebody do out a watch with I will say this.
Speaker 1: Stop letting people affect how you feel about yourself. That's
Speaker 1: how I know y'all don't have no confidence. And guess
Speaker 1: what if I put a bag out on with my
Speaker 1: Apple Watch on, I don't give fuck what this whole thing.
Speaker 1: I'm still working that room bad as bitch, and who
Speaker 1: gonna tell me anything. Y'all have confidence in yourself? Who cares?
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying, though lex.
Speaker 3: Will take their watch off.
Speaker 1: Don't listen to Yeah I am, I am, But what
Speaker 1: I'm saying is give you example, perfect example. I went
Speaker 1: to DC last year. I went to a w NBA game.
Speaker 1: We sitting courtside in the section. I had to hurry
Speaker 1: up and pack my bags last minute because he was like, hey,
Speaker 1: bab we couldn't do it. I left my watch, but
Speaker 1: guess what I had on? My Apple Watch on with
Speaker 1: my outfit, and I didn't care because when you have
Speaker 1: that confidence about how you look at your swag and
Speaker 1: you who you are. It was a tweet. It was
Speaker 1: meant to be funny. Stop taking shit so hard because
Speaker 1: if you that girl, you're gonna beat that girl apple
Speaker 1: watch or not.
Speaker 2: But that's the thing that I This goes back to
Speaker 2: what I was just saying. I feel like people always like.
Speaker 1: What you say the heart personally I was playing it
Speaker 1: really wasn't that seriod Like it was really a joke
Speaker 1: because y'all know.
Speaker 3: I don't play by my steps.
Speaker 1: I wear my.
Speaker 3: Apple Watch every day.
Speaker 2: That's also why I laugh because I'm like, no, she'd
Speaker 2: be wearing her Apple Watch, but it was let me.
Speaker 3: Get it, but I'm not. But I'm not gonna wear
Speaker 3: it to Leg's wedding.
Speaker 1: If you was beefing that they're with, you should have
Speaker 1: been at that wedding. But honestly, I will say this,
Speaker 1: and y'all gonna be mad at me. The watchers, y'all
Speaker 1: was sitting in her mentions, wasn't putting up a good fight.
Speaker 1: If y'all was gonna put up a good fight, y'all
Speaker 1: should have did better than that. Because I was trying
Speaker 1: to be on y'all side.
Speaker 2: You wasn't because she didn't say she one thing I
Speaker 2: love about my bes friend Lean, she don't be trying
Speaker 2: to be on nobody's side of mind because.
Speaker 3: She retweeted that she and she put that little meanness head.
Speaker 2: Lean always what people about my girl, she gonna have
Speaker 2: my back and in Twitter stream.
Speaker 1: Okay, honestly, I didn't even know it was vile.
Speaker 3: I didn't even know when viral because.
Speaker 1: I've seen it first on a spiritual world and I.
Speaker 3: Said, what the hell is this?
Speaker 1: And when I tell you, I'm sorry, But the first
Speaker 1: the first thing I seen was the one with the cuban.
Speaker 1: That was the first tweet.
Speaker 2: I saw, and then I retweeted it and I just said, Okay.
Speaker 3: Then everybody was even more mad because what I told God,
Speaker 3: why would you do that?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: I'm really in my own y'all gotta understand this about
Speaker 2: me y'all gonna see twenty twenty five. It's a new
Speaker 2: meaning not going back and forth with you niggas. I
Speaker 2: never was the type to really go back and forth,
Speaker 2: but sometimes I think we'll interact with people on Twitter
Speaker 2: like iry just say something else will get made.
Speaker 3: We might respond.
Speaker 1: I called out somebody's I know, we said you are
Speaker 1: aurful white man in America. You can't talk about what
Speaker 1: black women do. This world was handed to you.
Speaker 2: One thing about me and Lex. We will get upset
Speaker 2: on Twitter and we will responding to people. But I'm
Speaker 2: trying to practice a new mantra going forward. Okay, because
Speaker 2: all you gotta do is hit the beach with an okay.
Speaker 3: It's simple and effected.
Speaker 4: It makes people feel so stupid if you if they
Speaker 4: if they put an elaborate post out and all you
Speaker 4: say is okay, that post got ten k tweets, three tweets, Okay, yes,
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 2: Even Everybody was cracking up in the comedy Damn because
Speaker 2: she was like, she said, yeah, because my apple watch
Speaker 2: looks like this.
Speaker 1: You gotta stop right off.
Speaker 3: She hit the tax my apple wash looks like it.
Speaker 2: Was given what is it called q QC QB TV QBC,
Speaker 2: qb CC. She thought she was on that fucking TV channel.
Speaker 2: She said, my Apple Watch was like the hell hell
Speaker 2: a wait, and everybody was in the comments like exactly
Speaker 2: because what the fuck was she talking about?
Speaker 1: They was like in her watch too, don't do that.
Speaker 1: It was people complimenting.
Speaker 2: No, I said, they were saying exactly what the fuck
Speaker 2: was I talking about? And then I was just like,
Speaker 2: it's just the whole community of Tay people. It's crazy, okay,
Speaker 2: and I'm about to get cutsed out in these comings.
Speaker 1: But again, I don't.
Speaker 3: Like I said, where what you? I love flow Key.
Speaker 2: I probably shouldn't even put this out there, but I
Speaker 2: love being the building of poor minds.
Speaker 1: I feel like.
Speaker 2: Everybody loved feet and everybody hates me. It is true
Speaker 2: if you look at the comments. I say, everybody hates me,
Speaker 2: but I feel like everybody loves you.
Speaker 3: And then with me, they be like the people that
Speaker 3: love you.
Speaker 1: The people up, the people that love Drea. They have
Speaker 1: found their way to hate me. They have snuck over.
Speaker 3: To love Lex because they never say nothing about me.
Speaker 2: The people for them from your stand accounts, they're going
Speaker 2: to mention you in my sheep, my people, even if
Speaker 2: they like me and don't like you.
Speaker 3: Nobody ever be on your page.
Speaker 1: You're talking about my supporters are the minaces.
Speaker 2: Yes, because your supporters be the ones that be like, yeah,
Speaker 2: because I love les Drea stupid.
Speaker 3: My supporters don't say that to you.
Speaker 1: They don't be.
Speaker 2: They might not, people might not like you, but they
Speaker 2: don't be in your commedist talking about me, is what
Speaker 2: I'm saying.
Speaker 1: They do. Oh, you're talking about my YouTube page.
Speaker 3: I'm talking about in general.
Speaker 1: On no, in general, they definitely do. They be like
Speaker 1: dre is so educated, so smart, she's so so that
Speaker 1: she got a smart bitch somebody. They be talking about
Speaker 1: the way I look. Dreya needs to tell Lexi she
Speaker 1: can't dress d you're a liar. Oh I put this
Speaker 1: on my mother.
Speaker 3: I'm not lying.
Speaker 1: They'd be like, Drea needs to be honest with lex
Speaker 1: about the way she dressed. She needs to tell her.
Speaker 1: They do be saying that. Nobody probably don't see them
Speaker 1: because I delete them my ac.
Speaker 2: I just be leaving them up because I be like whatever,
Speaker 2: somebody left the or sometimes I can't leave them. Somebody
Speaker 2: left the comment under the Brexfeast Club interview and they
Speaker 2: was like yeah, somebody said, uh, Drea, I mean Lex
Speaker 2: has always been my star. Drea will used to be boring.
Speaker 2: I'm glad she caught on. Somebody left the comment and said, yeah,
Speaker 2: that's what I be saying. Lex is the star in
Speaker 2: the personality, Drea is boring.
Speaker 8: Misses me too, because I'm.
Speaker 3: Be y'all so sorry.
Speaker 2: But anytime people say anything like that about me and Les,
Speaker 2: I have a good.
Speaker 3: Key, because beach, are you hous dumb?
Speaker 2: We been two separate people our whole life, but' and
Speaker 2: we came together indeed something amazing. I didn't need Lecks
Speaker 2: for for me to become who I was gonna become.
Speaker 2: She didn't need me for me to for her to
Speaker 2: become who she was gonna become. We were going to
Speaker 2: shine our lights regardless. We was gonna be straight in
Speaker 2: life regardless.
Speaker 1: But it's not about that. It's more so that y'all
Speaker 1: see No, no, no, no, it's not about that. What it
Speaker 1: is about is y'all see two black women who come together,
Speaker 1: who have different personalities, who made it work, and this
Speaker 1: chemistry is undeniable. That's why y'all are here. That's why
Speaker 1: we were able to go on Breakfast Club that's why
Speaker 1: we have tribal queens. That's why we have all these
Speaker 1: endeavors that are working out for us. And the thing is,
Speaker 1: there's like look at the growers, TLC and drunk today.
Speaker 3: It ain't no such thing.
Speaker 1: T bars and left time and chili. They were a
Speaker 1: unit together. Baby, this is a unit, y'all have to understand. Yes,
Speaker 1: Drea is an entity on her own, Lexp is an
Speaker 1: entity on her own, but in no world, in any side,
Speaker 1: I don't care.
Speaker 3: Where do we not do this shit together?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: No, no, did I needed you?
Speaker 1: I don't care how. I know I'm a star, but
Speaker 1: I needed I could not have done poor. There's no
Speaker 1: poor minds without Dre and the car.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: That's what I but that's literally what I just No, No,
Speaker 2: you said no, that's not the point.
Speaker 3: I said, Yes I would.
Speaker 2: I don't be giving a fuck about what people be
Speaker 2: saying in the comments about you being a personality or
Speaker 2: you being whatever, bach I being raw, my whole life,
Speaker 2: check my resume. Let's go back to high school, let's
Speaker 2: go back to college, long before our met leaks. No disrespect,
Speaker 2: but I'm just saying respect. But I'm just saying, because
Speaker 2: I don't want it to seem that way, but it's
Speaker 2: like me and Lex are our own people. Neither one
Speaker 2: of us need each other to be nothing. He was
Speaker 2: going to be amazing without me, regardless, because she's an
Speaker 2: amazing person.
Speaker 3: That's who God created her to be. Same thing with me.
Speaker 2: I was gonna be an amazing person regardless, because that's
Speaker 2: who God created me to be. We came together and
Speaker 2: we built something really special because that was obviously also
Speaker 2: again ordained in the past.
Speaker 3: This is what we were supposed to do.
Speaker 2: But when y'all be trying to throw shade and try
Speaker 2: to put us against each other, y'all not really doing
Speaker 2: it because me and Lex really having a good key.
Speaker 1: Adding because if y'all go back to the older episodes,
Speaker 1: what I always said, you know how many and this
Speaker 1: is no shade to nobody. You know how many people
Speaker 1: in my life that I used to be friends with
Speaker 1: that I'm no longer friends with now wanted to do
Speaker 1: something with me and wanted to do this with me.
Speaker 1: I always felt like I just want to do something
Speaker 1: on my own, or maybe I'm just figuring out I
Speaker 1: don't know. When I met Drew, I was like Oh,
Speaker 1: we can do something together for real.
Speaker 3: I always said that.
Speaker 1: Of course, when we started out, Drea wasn't as open
Speaker 1: because she's a private person. Never gave boring, were gay boring?
Speaker 1: But I knew y'all didn't know what I knew and
Speaker 1: what I saw, what I knew was gonna happen. We
Speaker 1: always talked about that in the older episode.
Speaker 2: But also to be fair, I also in early episodes,
Speaker 2: we've always talked about how you didn't even want to
Speaker 2: show your personality. You used to be like, I don't
Speaker 2: know if I should say these or don't. I don't
Speaker 2: know if I should do these because I don't know
Speaker 2: if people are gonna perceive me the right way. I'm
Speaker 2: not sure are people gonna feel about my personality. And
Speaker 2: I was always like, beat your funny. You have to
Speaker 2: start posting more content. You need to start showing more
Speaker 2: of your personality. So it's not even to say that
Speaker 2: I mean nobody.
Speaker 3: It is to say we pushed each other. That's what
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Like, what do y'all be talking about?
Speaker 1: I just think they'd like to create a narrative because
Speaker 1: maybe they came in three years, in four years in
Speaker 1: we been doing now be sh'ld be.
Speaker 3: People from the beginning may be just weird.
Speaker 1: But you can't say that because people love you. I
Speaker 1: don't know, do they?
Speaker 2: Yes, shut up, Yes, I'm not playing the victim. I
Speaker 2: just feel like, but let me say this, and I
Speaker 2: feel like I've always said this. I be cool with
Speaker 2: she though, because I almost kind of like feel vindicated
Speaker 2: in effects that people like.
Speaker 3: I love the fact that people.
Speaker 2: Just be feeling some type of way about me and
Speaker 2: I do nothing, but exactly, I don't think they feel
Speaker 2: some type of way about you.
Speaker 1: They do. Some people don't understand you, but people who
Speaker 1: have whatever it is, they love you. Whatever it is,
Speaker 1: it's fine, they still have you.
Speaker 2: I just feel like I've been feeling that way my
Speaker 2: whole life. I think that's where me and you have
Speaker 2: have differences. Like you've been liked your whole life.
Speaker 3: Oh I'm the girl, Yeah about everybody.
Speaker 1: You've to do.
Speaker 2: Right, You've been liked since you were like in middle school, yeah,
Speaker 2: elementary school. Because I feel like you have more of
Speaker 2: an underdog story. That's not my story. So I feel
Speaker 2: like that it makes it easier for people to like
Speaker 2: dislike me because I'm not really an underdog.
Speaker 3: Like I don't.
Speaker 2: I'm not as relatable and that's fine too, but it's
Speaker 2: always been that way since like high school.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know it's cool.
Speaker 1: I think the people who get it and get it
Speaker 1: and that people who don't don't and they understand the chemistry,
Speaker 1: but I don't. I will disagree with you. People fucking love.
Speaker 2: I don't think, don't give me. I think the people
Speaker 2: that fuck with me fuck with me. We both started
Speaker 2: separate ventures, and I feel like a lot of people
Speaker 2: support me too. On my own personal YouTube channel, them
Speaker 2: cell Set said it's at all but so people definitely fuck.
Speaker 3: Okay shot period.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I just think that, you know, I think
Speaker 2: you get a little more what I've said before, on
Speaker 2: the show, you get a little bit more understanding and
Speaker 2: reception than I think I get because I think people.
Speaker 3: Just love to feel like I'm that's okay.
Speaker 2: I also think you like being a villain, though I
Speaker 2: don't you think I like I think you kind of like,
Speaker 2: why do you think I like you? I gotta kink
Speaker 2: a villain king like it's nothing bad, but I think
Speaker 2: you kind of.
Speaker 3: Like being that villain. Why do you think I like you?
Speaker 1: Because you're good at.
Speaker 2: It and I feel like because you don't care what
Speaker 2: people think, like that stuff be rolling off your shoulders,
Speaker 2: like you don't be really taking that in and wearing
Speaker 2: all these people comments. So it's really like, but y'all
Speaker 2: got thirty k on my wrists? What are you talking about? Like,
Speaker 2: I'm still a baddie like you. You know that you
Speaker 2: wear your confidence and that's beautiful. Yeah, but I think
Speaker 2: that's why people don't like sometimes they make it want
Speaker 2: to be not as confident because I be like, damn,
Speaker 2: I gotta be less confident for y'all to like me.
Speaker 1: That's a beautiful thing about you, That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's why I be like, I hear you, but I
Speaker 1: don't feel you. I don't feel you. That's beautiful. That's
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing about you. Being unapologetic, unapologetically yourself is
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing. Like that's good. That's a good thing
Speaker 1: because it doesn't matter. There's a lane for everybody, and
Speaker 1: you have created a space for the bad bitches. It's
Speaker 1: so many bad bitches that want to get on the mike.
Speaker 2: I didn't even be liking to be categorized as a
Speaker 2: bad beach because like, what is the.
Speaker 1: It's whatever you Whatever you think it is a bad
Speaker 1: bitch is different to everybody. But what I'm saying is
Speaker 1: for this space, for this particular I don't because that's
Speaker 1: what it is. It's okay, that's okay. Because women who
Speaker 1: look like us, they were looked at as a certain way.
Speaker 1: We just talked about this on the Breakfast Club. I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to be funny. Now. Women who look like us,
Speaker 1: the BBL girls, the now, they'd be like, okay, let
Speaker 1: me show far let me show my personality. I'm so goofy,
Speaker 1: I'm so silly. Who told you to do that? Drain
Speaker 1: the colon XP And that's okay. You're supposed to be yourself.
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful thing. I think that people love you
Speaker 1: and people love you silently though, because to agree with
Speaker 1: Dryanda Cole, you're agreeing to be the Joker, you're agreeing
Speaker 1: to be bane. It's okay to agree with Batman. We
Speaker 1: can agree with Batman publicly, but guess how many people
Speaker 1: agree with Joker silently? Why do you think the Joker
Speaker 1: is literally one of the most popular villains because he's
Speaker 1: low key be right? Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: If Batman is sorry without the Joker.
Speaker 1: If we're being honest, I'm not that. I'm not sorry,
Speaker 1: but you know what, I'm strong. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. You get what I'm getting at.
Speaker 2: But I think too again, I appreciate all of everything
Speaker 2: that you just said, but I think the worst, probably
Speaker 2: dealingiche thing about me is that I don't really give
Speaker 2: a fuck.
Speaker 1: For real, whether they agree with me or nice.
Speaker 2: But I was saying, I hate the bad bitch like
Speaker 2: aesthetic thing you're just because do you mean? I yeah, me,
Speaker 2: because this is who God created me to be. I'm
Speaker 2: not trying to be and steady.
Speaker 1: They're not an aesthetic. It's just what you are, though,
Speaker 1: It's just what you know. We're baddies. We are. We're
Speaker 1: beautiful women. That's why a lot of times people will
Speaker 1: see us.
Speaker 3: Before we look like the Joker and then coming.
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn because they say, what y'all
Speaker 1: y'all cheekbones. Let me tell y'all something. Check the gaddy bitch,
Speaker 1: check the geddy. Do you know I really giddy?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 1: That ain't that? Ain't you? Was there? You? Was there?
Speaker 1: Come on? Now?
Speaker 3: It was a song.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but that's because I'm the one
Speaker 1: who really giddy. But what I'm saying is the face
Speaker 1: cards are there. Y'all want us to feel so bad.
Speaker 1: Y'all call me loud. But as much as y'all say
Speaker 1: about Dre, y'all call me loud. Y'all be talking about
Speaker 1: I'm big, I'm overweight, I'm just this, and that, I
Speaker 1: don't I'm here though.
Speaker 2: They just be saying I'm stoopid and I'm having no,
Speaker 2: not stupid. They be saying Drea is such a fucking bitch.
Speaker 2: She always tries to purposely disagree with lex. She thinks
Speaker 2: that she knows everything, and she acts like she can't relate.
Speaker 2: That's what I always see the most about me. So
Speaker 2: that's why people like, oh, I'm a villain.
Speaker 3: Well, I think a lot of time it don't never
Speaker 3: be about my look.
Speaker 1: With the breakfast club interview, even with Roy and Mam,
Speaker 1: they looked at the comp they before they even started
Speaker 1: the episode. I'm seeing as soon as the episode drop,
Speaker 1: its comments already who.
Speaker 3: Are these birds? Who are these people?
Speaker 1: Would can you listen? I'm educated, we both graduated from college.
Speaker 1: We've been doing this ship for second line.
Speaker 2: No, I'm lying don't look, but I love a good
Speaker 2: lie sometimes.
Speaker 1: We've been doing this for seven years. You know how
Speaker 1: many podcasts we've seen start and stop. But we did it.
Speaker 1: Can we just give some accolades and some hand claps
Speaker 1: for women who start businesses and keep going and don't
Speaker 1: give up.
Speaker 3: At the hand club being uh, what's his name? Hurricane Creuse?
Speaker 3: Let me get their hand club?
Speaker 1: Let me if I'm fum fum fum fum fum.
Speaker 3: Fum way or was that little bootsy? No that was
Speaker 3: let me get that handcloud?
Speaker 1: Was that was? That was Hurricane? I just said maybe
Speaker 1: maybe he did a remix little boosy. What the hell?
Speaker 1: My own boy Dick down in selling you did not.
Speaker 2: Have to and he thought it was okay to tell men.
Speaker 3: But you was on the phone like this, Now what happened?
Speaker 1: Then?
Speaker 3: Now what you did after that? You be liking that tea?
Speaker 2: This is not an Orthodoxy episode because we didn't even
Speaker 2: get into none of the topics.
Speaker 3: My homeboy sell it.
Speaker 1: So for the bad topic this week. If you have
Speaker 1: a homeboy who is Dick down to selly, right us
Speaker 1: in and let's talk about it on next week's episode. Okay, Now, uh,
Speaker 1: if you have a home. Was that dick down is Sealey?
Speaker 1: I want to know what went down in that sell it?
Speaker 1: Tell me?
Speaker 2: I don't want to know that actually because I feel
Speaker 2: like it's definitely smelling like but this in there it's.
Speaker 1: Lex p you got sell mats one, two, three, it
Speaker 1: went down? I want to know who suck hadn't gave
Speaker 1: the meat?
Speaker 3: That eight's girl the nick down her selling.
Speaker 1: Okay, now it's time to.
Speaker 3: Get and she about to get what you got?
Speaker 2: What I said, I'm coating broomsticking by the leaking broomsticking
Speaker 2: that's going in jail?
Speaker 1: Do they the women prison? Nobody talks about that. They
Speaker 1: don't talk about the struggles of women prison.
Speaker 2: We should have a whole a woman sale mate, look
Speaker 2: up a woman.
Speaker 1: Who has been in jail for like five years to
Speaker 1: come on the show.
Speaker 3: But somebody that's not gonna.
Speaker 2: Like somebody that's been released. And we're not like no murders,
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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? As your girl XP and it's your
Speaker 1: girl drain a call and we have a very exciting
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Speaker 2: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.
Speaker 2: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're
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Speaker 1: If you can't go to Bellanche, What the hell we're
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, No you didn't.
Speaker 2: God, everything y'all been wanting to see, We're gonna be
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Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been
Speaker 1: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's
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Speaker 3: Second.
Speaker 1: It's going down, says.
Speaker 3: My bop of the week. My bop of the week.
Speaker 1: I do have to say this because I was riding
Speaker 1: to work today and I just wanted to have some
Speaker 1: throwback music because I'm not gonna lie. I'm tired of
Speaker 1: this era of music record labels. Let's stop with a tick.
Speaker 1: Stop only signing people if they have a TikTok hit.
Speaker 1: This ship is trash. The TikTok thirty second clip be fired,
Speaker 1: but the whole song be trash. You know what I
Speaker 1: listened to Today on the way here, I let you
Speaker 1: come on money Baby. You remember that that was Hey Camp,
Speaker 1: k Camp, Yeah, fucking Fatty wid We don't get hits
Speaker 1: like that no more. We can't dance in the club
Speaker 1: no more. Man, k Camp got soft. I'll let you
Speaker 1: come my money baby, you my honey, man. We don't
Speaker 1: get songs like that. They always looking like, yeah right,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you Camp featuring Fatty.
Speaker 3: Get on the train.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have like a poor mind single. So you
Speaker 2: know what I'm doing for my birthday? Right, You're going
Speaker 2: to stud where I'm gonna get a studio. That's what
Speaker 2: we're doing. And everybody gotta write your best verse. I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna write. I'm gonna be like l Wayne, Oh no, please.
Speaker 3: Write a verse.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Okay, we gonna need you to write.
Speaker 3: I'm right, okay, it's gonna be so off.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get somebody to write my verse. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: act like I wrote it, and it's gonna be so
Speaker 1: y'all gonna be like, oh.
Speaker 2: Oh, I got some I do have somebody that I
Speaker 2: will write my verse. So mm, I can't tell you
Speaker 2: what I might be thinking about the same person.
Speaker 1: No, I'm definitely thinking about somebody different cause mine is
Speaker 1: like nobody knows that he can really really rap. He
Speaker 1: never became famous, he never did nothing, but he got
Speaker 1: them bored. Oh you gonna hear him?
Speaker 3: You got a direct Oh you do, got a direct line?
Speaker 3: I have his number? Is okay?
Speaker 1: What's your Papa the Week?
Speaker 3: What's your bob? Seeing Green?
Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of oh my god, speaking of all school songs. Well,
Speaker 2: only because I'm gonna tell y'all why I love this song. Right,
Speaker 2: niggas was really trying to count Lil Wayne out. Y'all
Speaker 2: was really trying to play on his top, like he
Speaker 2: is not the greatest of our generation.
Speaker 1: That's a fact.
Speaker 3: And it's just no shade to.
Speaker 2: Someone else because I'm not gonna say no name, but
Speaker 2: y'all was trying to say somebody else is gonna be
Speaker 2: the new Lil Wayne, And it's like, okay, but like
Speaker 2: Lil Wayne is really that cold. And I feel like
Speaker 2: when he came out with the Seeing Green, well that
Speaker 2: was Nikki song first and foremost, But when Sea and
Speaker 2: Green came out, I really think it showed.
Speaker 3: Niggas that, like, lot lo Wayne's still here.
Speaker 2: You know why I keep them and he could really
Speaker 2: pop out when he wants to. He choose to be
Speaker 2: ducks off in the cut. He choose to live a humble,
Speaker 2: low key lifestyle. But when he want to pop out,
Speaker 2: he can. And I think seeing Green showed us that
Speaker 2: that was a great summer. That was with Summer twenty
Speaker 2: twenty one. That was when I turned thirty. That was
Speaker 2: a year I turned thirty.
Speaker 1: We had a great year.
Speaker 3: What do we do for your thirty year?
Speaker 1: What's man? You know what I listened to yesterday?
Speaker 3: I got a few things. I listened to that song
Speaker 3: the other day.
Speaker 1: You know, I keep that White Girl, that Lindsey's Low Huh.
Speaker 3: You got Christina at your liver?
Speaker 1: Man? That was I remember that. That was how you know,
Speaker 1: we don't but we don't get music like that no more.
Speaker 1: That Gezy era in the Strip Club, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it was life change. Jane God. I feel like when.
Speaker 2: Jez and Gucci and all the started getting oh, that's when.
Speaker 3: It died.
Speaker 1: It died. Oh, y'all have to something has to happen
Speaker 1: that Gez era. Y'all don't get it. Y'all was too
Speaker 1: young when Jeez was dropping this music in the Strip Club.
Speaker 1: My life changed when that right to.
Speaker 3: Lord knows to stay.
Speaker 1: But when that came on, the dancers would run to
Speaker 1: the and they would shake and pop that pussy like
Speaker 1: their life depended on it.
Speaker 3: Gonna shake that ass, beach, I'm gona throw this many.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, y'all don't get it.
Speaker 3: Y'all, don't get y'all will never get it.
Speaker 1: All right, moving on, moving on, All right, it's time
Speaker 1: to get into our favorite segment of the week. Pour
Speaker 1: your heart out.
Speaker 3: One question.
Speaker 1: Let's do one.
Speaker 3: Let's do one.
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Speaker 2: Drea, Hey, Drea and Lex. I love y'all show so
Speaker 2: much and proud of everything you have all accomplished together
Speaker 2: and individually. You all inspired me every week to chase
Speaker 2: after my dreams.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Okay, so here's where I need some advice. I lost
Speaker 2: my job about two months ago. At first, I felt
Speaker 2: defeated and worth least because I've never been unemployed before.
Speaker 2: But God knew I didn't want to be there, and
Speaker 2: I was ready for a change. Fast forward two months
Speaker 2: and I'm still unemployed in trying to figure things out
Speaker 2: as a hairstylist. I've loved hair since I can remember,
Speaker 2: and I went to cosmetology school, graduated, and became licensed
Speaker 2: about a year ago.
Speaker 3: This transition has been hard.
Speaker 2: And I often feel like giving up because I don't
Speaker 2: know where to start. I've reached out to more established
Speaker 2: stylists and salons to help me grow and master my skills,
Speaker 2: but haven't had much luck. I'm unsure if I should
Speaker 2: keep going or pivot. Y'all's advicesppreciated. Oh, go ahead, you
Speaker 2: want to go first, you go first.
Speaker 3: I just think.
Speaker 1: That's a little a different area because when you're giving
Speaker 1: a service to someone I know what that field is
Speaker 1: hard because again I talk about d D all the time,
Speaker 1: and she's been in that field for a long time
Speaker 1: and it took her. She was telling me how long
Speaker 1: she's been doing it and how long it took her
Speaker 1: to get her footing in it. But I think that
Speaker 1: if you're passionate about something, you have to show your passion,
Speaker 1: you know, like it'll happen for you. I know it
Speaker 1: sounds so cliche, but it's like you and you have
Speaker 1: to get creative too, but you if you give good service.
Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all something.
Speaker 1: When I say I found d D off of like
Speaker 1: a random post that went by all of hers like
Speaker 1: six years ago, and I've been going to this girl
Speaker 1: for six years. And people in the industry who are
Speaker 1: heavy hitters like a When I told Alonzo Hou did
Speaker 1: my hair, he was.
Speaker 3: Like, oh, you know DD, like I'm at d D.
Speaker 1: Like. So, when you're good at what you do and
Speaker 1: you don't need the accolades a million followers and this,
Speaker 1: and just give good service to people, and when you're
Speaker 1: good at what you do, you will excel and if
Speaker 1: you keep consistent at it. Sometimes, though I talked to
Speaker 1: somebody about this the other day, sometimes you know what
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do somebody here for fifty dollars,
Speaker 1: you might have to do somebody here for free. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm much shit that we did that. We didn't get
Speaker 1: paid for, but it paid off because we made these connections.
Speaker 1: I understand rent do. I'm not saying do everything for free,
Speaker 1: but sometimes you gotta make connections and do things you
Speaker 1: never know. But when you treat somebody, well, give them
Speaker 1: good service. Guess what, when people come to get their
Speaker 1: hair done, if you can wash and break their hair down,
Speaker 1: you already won because people be wanting you can wash
Speaker 1: and break down anyway. You doing that off the rip,
Speaker 1: you gonna win. So I just think in this day
Speaker 1: and age, people have forgot the meaning of being a
Speaker 1: good person and giving people good service. So I think
Speaker 1: if you focus on that, the transition is hard, but
Speaker 1: keep going. Because I had that transition of trying to
Speaker 1: figure out who I was and what I wanted to do,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, I know, I'm funny,
Speaker 1: I know I'm entertaining, and all I want to do
Speaker 1: is make people feel good. I'm not gonna stop until
Speaker 1: I make people fucking feel good. So when you're really
Speaker 1: passionate about something, you're not gonna let anything get in
Speaker 1: your way. I agree, period. Can I say something absolutely, I.
Speaker 2: Feel like, for when you're in a service industry, whether
Speaker 2: it's so saturated, because here is a saturated industry, bartending
Speaker 2: is a saturated industry, I think you need to find
Speaker 2: ways to be innovative in your craft and stand out
Speaker 2: amongst everyone else. And that's something that I had to
Speaker 2: do as being a bartender and starting my own bar
Speaker 2: catering company, Like I had to put in those ten
Speaker 2: thousand hours to be to get in front of some
Speaker 2: of the mentors or some of the people that I
Speaker 2: looked up to and wanted them to become my mentors,
Speaker 2: because why would they just want to mentor someone that's
Speaker 2: fresh out of whatever program and haven't tried as much,
Speaker 2: you know, or haven't had those opportunities yet. They need
Speaker 2: you got to be able to showcase your talent, your
Speaker 2: passion and why you're here and why they should give
Speaker 2: you a chance to. But I really think as a
Speaker 2: business person, just finding creative ways that that's gonna set
Speaker 2: you apart from anybody else in your field, in your industry.
Speaker 1: Own that.
Speaker 2: Learn that and be open to continuously learning and being
Speaker 2: educated in what you're doing, and that's what's going to
Speaker 2: like propel you a little bit more too. But give
Speaker 2: yourself some grace and give yourself some time.
Speaker 3: To grow in your profession. Agree, because you got to
Speaker 3: be pay shipped.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that's what people be thinking, Oh,
Speaker 1: I've been doing this for three years, that's not enough.
Speaker 1: Three years ain't nothing that's light work all right, All right, y'all,
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Speaker 5: How to get to know if I could be.
Speaker 1: The can up girl you could be down for cause
Speaker 1: when I look at you, I see something tell me
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Speaker 5: And if I don't let you know, then I won't
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Speaker 3: The more I see, the more that it becomes so true.
Speaker 3: There ain't no other for me.
Speaker 1: Only I won't to mean well, what you go through,
Speaker 1: I wont to read. I want to be now, no
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Speaker 5: I want to be now knowing anybody he's gonna be lone.
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Speaker 1: Maybe babe, you need a shoulder to cry on.
Speaker 3: If that's up that thing, I'll be money you.
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Speaker 5: If all you need is my time, that I got plenty,
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Speaker 3: It's time to go, bitch. We'll see y'all next week.
Speaker 5: Hm h