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Speaker 2: And realistically speaking, ivy curving niggas that you niggas be

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Speaker 2: ready to FuG booty whole wid wide open, busted wide

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 3: Y'all?

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Speaker 1: Is your girl lix Pete and it's sugar jer in

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Speaker 1: the call and you are tuned in to another episode of.

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Speaker 3: Poor Mine, where a drunk mind speaks sought.

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Speaker 1: We ain't got no gifts today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 1: gifts today. Hey you know what? Yeah, let me just

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Speaker 1: say this. I have to give us our flowers and

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Speaker 1: our things. We just went on a crazy press run

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Speaker 1: and we got so much good content that's out right now,

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Speaker 1: like we did Roya Mall. Shout out to Roya Mall.

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Speaker 1: That was a fire episode. Hopefully by the time this drops,

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Speaker 1: EYO will have dropped. I think it should have. I

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Speaker 1: RuSHA and Troy.

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Speaker 3: And we did the name it is wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: Who is?

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Speaker 3: And that was my fancy lady.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about a trouble queens, but we're gonna

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Speaker 1: a breakfast club.

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Speaker 3: With you don't need but however for me, as for

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Speaker 1: Are we? But yeah, we just had breakfast club Royal Man,

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Speaker 1: took New York over. We was in the streets stomping around.

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Speaker 1: What else is new? And then we did open thoughts

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Speaker 3: Four months we did two open thoughts with Marcos.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like every time people think we have peaked,

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Speaker 2: I don't really understand why people think that there's a

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Speaker 1: I think people are mean, Well know people are mean

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Speaker 2: I think at one point it was like an era

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Speaker 2: where like Kim Kardashi and Rihanna negsweet, but Kim Kardashian Rihanna,

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Speaker 2: I think jay Z used to be tweeting, quote because

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Speaker 1: But jay Z did because I remember he said he tweeted.

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Speaker 3: He I feel like jay Z had a Twitter.

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Speaker 1: He tweeted. He was like, hey, lex follow back and

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Speaker 2: That was a burner. I mean, not even a burner,

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Speaker 2: But no, I do I feel like it was a

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Speaker 2: baking because Kim Kardashi used to make like, I think

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Speaker 2: The misogyny is jumping out these y'all face. Somebody responded

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Speaker 1: My name is Drea.

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Speaker 3: It is Dre and the cold because I hate.

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Speaker 1: Because when people call me my first name, me too.

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Speaker 2: Bro it pissed it when I say, and it boils

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Speaker 2: name if you don't know me like that.

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Speaker 3: Get you don't know me like that, getting bad.

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Speaker 1: You don't know me like in a word. So come

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Speaker 3: Me fifty feet, Give me fifty feet.

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Speaker 1: Because y'all do not know me. I didn't know you

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Speaker 2: Actually, that's why you were trying to low key do

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Speaker 3: You made me waste this ship on myself.

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Speaker 2: But no, so yeah, so thank you, thank you, because

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Speaker 1: Argus? Oh clocket?

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Speaker 3: Because where do people that?

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Speaker 2: And that's why I said I'm gonna take a break

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Speaker 3: See, That's why I said I'm just.

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Speaker 2: and money, why ain't ity a lot of your faves

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Speaker 1: I also say that all the tea that y'all have

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Speaker 2: And realistically speaking, ivy curving niggas, that you niggas be

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Speaker 2: ready to FuG booty whole Why why open busted wide open?

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Speaker 3: Oh booty like what blown out? Like a I think

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Speaker 2: He said loose booted something something I don't know, but

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Speaker 2: And then I think people love to speak on you

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Speaker 2: Ashamed of any version of me. Cringey at times some

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Speaker 2: That's why they're still up because we always have the power,

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Speaker 1: We don't want it up. Delete for what, but deleted

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Speaker 1: for what? It's not that deed.

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Speaker 2: So the things that people be thinking is a clockable

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Speaker 2: But you know what's interesting to me, instead of being inspired,

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Speaker 3: He sure was five years ago, five years ago.

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Speaker 2: Look at what I'm doing now currently, and what are

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Speaker 1: But even with and we've been to talk about that.

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Speaker 1: that's her culture. That's what they do. They twork, they dance.

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Speaker 1: They don't look at it as sexual. Okay, she's dancing

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Speaker 3: Your grannie ain't lead and your granny.

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Speaker 1: Probably dad, just like mine grannie did.

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: You know he is confusing with me. Both of my

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Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, leave people alone, scroll past things

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Speaker 3: It's just like this.

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Speaker 1: If I got a problem with what Drea does, I'm

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Speaker 3: Smell my?

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Speaker 1: What your wind.

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Speaker 2: Is?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 3: Not the twart because you didn't. Yeah, I smelled it.

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Speaker 1: I said, you know what I do? Now you know

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Speaker 1: So? I've been doing this for years? But okay, my

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Speaker 1: know why the girls have stopped powdering, y'all?

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Speaker 4: Don't?

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Speaker 3: Oh I powder down? I have.

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Speaker 1: It's called.

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Speaker 3: My beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been using it since I've been in high school.

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Speaker 3: You use that andyodoring?

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Speaker 1: Yes, So I put my deodorant on, I put my

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Speaker 3: I put the powder on my taties. I put it.

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Speaker 1: Underneath the booty crack. Sometimes I'll dab it on the

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Speaker 3: Don't y'all need to.

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Speaker 1: Powder it up?

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Speaker 2: Now, I personally don't use powder. But what I do

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Speaker 2: is I use booty deodoring, oh and stuff. Now, do

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Speaker 2: have a I have a body deodorant where it's really

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Speaker 3: Booty, booty, booty.

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Speaker 2: You gotta say booty with so much because we got

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Speaker 2: a wee because we got boot No, I don't have

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Speaker 1: I have a.

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Speaker 3: I have a rear end.

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Speaker 1: I'm skinny, rump, I have a rump now, I'm thin,

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Speaker 3: You are skinny.

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Speaker 2: But I do think you still got that thing on.

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Speaker 2: I got a little cuff. I do, but I don't

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Speaker 1: I still do.

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Speaker 3: I put powder.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Oh that do do if you don't oil it down,

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Speaker 2: So I be using the booty the utterant, So you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so we can go in there. Okay, do

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Do you put it underneath your breast? You know, I

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Speaker 2: But I'm also getting very mature, so I should start using.

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Speaker 3: I'm thirty four, now I have bredge. You definitely got breast.

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Speaker 3: I have bridge. They all this time for a redo.

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Speaker 1: You got bread. He is ten years old. They definitely breast.

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Speaker 1: That was the year or two, not a bren. I

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Speaker 1: ain't gotta get them swapped out. No, I don't have

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Speaker 3: I have.

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Speaker 2: extra body. Yeah, we need to be secure. So that's

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Speaker 2: what y'all have to start doing. Y'all need to find

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Speaker 2: some type of layer to put in the creasy. What

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Speaker 2: a deodory, whether it's you know, a little.

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Speaker 3: Spray or something. You need to do something.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, this is the problem. Y'all are getting out

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Speaker 1: the shower, drying off with a towel and just spraying

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Speaker 3: That's not enough.

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Speaker 1: First, it starts in a shower, so I have it's

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Speaker 1: called it's a body wash. It's a neutralizer. What oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't have my phone. What's that body company called?

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Speaker 1: name that pitch. Let me see, I'm weak. So it's

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Speaker 1: a body wash that neutralizes the body older. So no

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Speaker 1: but it's gonna neutralize the older. Right, So after I

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Speaker 1: Did I say it right? I don't know neo cinema

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Speaker 3: That what she said.

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Speaker 1: It's a vitamin C body wash, so I go in

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Speaker 3: Body body. Two washes.

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Speaker 1: I don't do three. Well, the only reason I do.

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Speaker 2: I do two and then I do two Kuci washes

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Speaker 1: Only reason I do three is because the the neutralizer.

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Speaker 3: I need that older.

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Speaker 1: You know how, sometimes your natural pheromones, sometimes people just

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Speaker 3: You know, I disagree. I feel like you would know

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Speaker 1: If I sink I be so clean, I think they

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that's something.

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Speaker 2: That we can say about ourselves. We don't have a

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Speaker 2: having bad breads.

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Speaker 1: Do you know that's the number one compliment I get

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Speaker 1: when I hop in the uber every time they'd be like,

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00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 1: you smell so good.

445
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 2: That's my number one compliment to People are always like,

446
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,360
Speaker 2: oh my god, what do you got so?

447
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 3: And then they be saying it to sex one.

448
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 1: I'd be like, hold on now, so listen this. I'm

449
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 1: gonna tell you the next steps.

450
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 3: They're a little too excited.

451
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,399
Speaker 1: The third wash jump. The third wash is always the

452
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 1: perfume stuff. So my third wash, I go in with

453
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 1: my levis Bell body wash because that's just the smell

454
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 1: good I get out. It depends how much time I have.

455
00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:00,359
Speaker 1: But I air dry. I air dry. But what I

456
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 1: do is I put on my Deleaner body oil while

457
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm still wet. I'm still wet, Okay, I let that

458
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 1: lock in. I let that lock in, so I'm still

459
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 1: a little greasy.

460
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 3: Then I go on with my powder, my.

461
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,879
Speaker 1: Estate Loda power on your whole body. I do behind

462
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 1: the knees. I do with my crease. I do with

463
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 1: my little thigh crease right here behind knee. Behind that.

464
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll do it right here. And I do under

465
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 3: my arms.

466
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 2: And let's talk about something real, queen, you cannot be

467
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 2: a bad bitch if you stank behind the ear.

468
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 3: What who's stank behind the ear? That's crazy?

469
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,880
Speaker 1: Do you watch behind your ear? Yes? Every song?

470
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 2: Every time I was just shaking. Well, you know I

471
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 2: got to do because I like to dig in there too. Yeah,

472
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,239
Speaker 2: I be using I use qt ill stay say you're

473
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 2: not opposed to use them.

474
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 3: I still use them.

475
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,719
Speaker 2: Most old school, my old school. I like to make

476
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 2: sure I get sitting there for real.

477
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 1: I got to hear this.

478
00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, I agree.

479
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, I like to hear everything.

480
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 2: I like to hear some so period, so exactly. But

481
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 2: people don't be washing. That's the thing stinking behind your

482
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: ears and your navels thinking, well, I have a I

483
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 2: used to have an audi. Are we too warn to say?

484
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 2: If we say navel, people be saying belly button.

485
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: Well I've always had an audi growing up. But when

486
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 1: I had my what's it called? Remember, what what was

487
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: that surgery?

488
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 2: Head? Well, if it's out, I know, but that's what

489
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

490
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: What was the surgery I had when my belly button

491
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 1: was pushing out?

492
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 3: Hernie hernie?

493
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: I had a hernia surgery. So now I haven't any

494
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 1: but it ain't deep in there, my any not in

495
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,679
Speaker 1: But when it was out, it couldn't stank, it couldn't

496
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,360
Speaker 1: stay because you could just rugby.

497
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but when it's in there, you gotta you gotta

498
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 3: dig in there.

499
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Don't people be having deep belly buttons? Have you seen?

500
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:00,199
Speaker 1: You know?

501
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 3: I think mine kind of deep.

502
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: Yours is kind of deep. I remember when I discovered

503
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 1: that about you, because I thought, why did you discover that?

504
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,879
Speaker 1: Because we were laying in bed one time, and I

505
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 1: think I poked it and you got mad at me.

506
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 2: I can see that I'll be getting mad at you

507
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,879
Speaker 2: about a lot of stuff, but it would just be

508
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 2: doing dumb shit.

509
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: I just thought that deep belly buttons were for thicker people.

510
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: I am thick. No, I'm talking about I don't want

511
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 1: to say the.

512
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 3: F word, what if word?

513
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, but I'm saying but usually So when I

514
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: figured out that you had a naturally a deep diving

515
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 1: pool in that motherfucker, I was like, I have never

516
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 1: seen a thin person with a deep belly button.

517
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 5: No.

518
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,439
Speaker 2: When when it's hot outside, if I'm like laying by

519
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 2: the pool and I'm sweating, it's a pool.

520
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: Work the liquor drive. So yeah, So after all that,

521
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,879
Speaker 1: then my last step is my spray and I always

522
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,880
Speaker 1: wear ooh body teeth, always.

523
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 3: Look at them, my legs. You look good.

524
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 1: So my last spray is my perfume, my loves Belle.

525
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: So if y'all are just getting out of the shower

526
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:19,120
Speaker 1: and just drying off lotion spray, people are not talking

527
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 1: about you want your cent to last.

528
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all when Lex we've been talking about now,

529
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 2: we've been talking about it for ten minutes.

530
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 3: Because when she did that, I said.

531
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: And I've been on set at this point. I've been

532
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: here since What time is it now? What time is it, Shay,

533
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: It's four forty eight. When I got you, I got

534
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: out the shower at ten am. So this is this

535
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 1: is from ten am. This is a ten am spray. Now,

536
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: I know, I know I'm trying to put the girl.

537
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 3: Somebody could ever say my queen listen.

538
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: Ever, I mean somebody probably could. No, I ain't gonna

539
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: hold it. Somebody can probably fall. I'm not gonna lie.

540
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 3: What you've You've never been musky, I've never been mussy.

541
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like.

542
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 1: When I would leave the gym sometimes, not that I'm musty,

543
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: but I don't smell fresh.

544
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 3: I don't see anybody smells fresh when they leave the gym.

545
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: But to me, the gym don't count.

546
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 2: Okay, but that's not fair to judge somebody hygiene off

547
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 2: of when they leave the gym.

548
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair because that's.

549
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 2: When that's when it's okay to be funky, especially if

550
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 2: he was putting that working have think on you.

551
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,360
Speaker 1: You remember when David Banner said.

552
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 2: Why you think Andre three thousand named the album?

553
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: Remember when he remember when no David Banner knows. He said,

554
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: bring it yes, sweaty, because I love it when it's.

555
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:44,640
Speaker 3: Smoky, which is still concerning to me to this day.

556
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 2: We find about things I'm concerned about. But why he said,

557
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: why do you love it when it's funky?

558
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: He said, let me see, it's the fallless funky.

559
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 3: It's the fact that he want.

560
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 1: You to play with your monkey Wallace.

561
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 3: But that's what I be saying. Nobody can convince me.

562
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 2: That's why when I was seeing the tweets about sayings,

563
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 2: they was like, I know it was funky in it.

564
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 3: I know it was, so that's when the room stinks.

565
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 6: But now move pal pal, But no, for real, somebody

566
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 6: tell me.

567
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 1: Him of nothing, but no, for real?

568
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 3: Like you see this movie too now, because I seen

569
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 3: that shit twice.

570
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 2: And that's how you know this ship was good. Because

571
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna see a movie more than once. So

572
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 2: I be fallowing a slop.

573
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: Saying Parlene pussy was phunky. No, I'm not talking about Parlene.

574
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: I'm saying in general, that's where till the rooms think,

575
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: like that's the era that it came.

576
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 1: Out because they was sweating.

577
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 3: You see how sweaty they was. It wasn't no air

578
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 3: conditioner inside, no fan inside.

579
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 1: The fans are not there. And you know when men

580
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 1: get hot. You know when men get hot, they balls

581
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: start to hang more. Yes, so when men get hot,

582
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: they balls hang extra loan. When they cold, they.

583
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 3: Be somebody research department.

584
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 1: When men No, I'm telling you, when men are cold,

585
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 1: their balls are like they're so tight to their body.

586
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 3: When niggas be hot, them balls be long.

587
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: I know it is. I didn't need you to read it.

588
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: I didn't need you to read it. I know what

589
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: my nigga balls do, and they be hanging low when

590
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: he hot and when he cold. I can tell because they.

591
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 3: Be cutting your balls love.

592
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: So I know, and that you're joined them. Balls was

593
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: hanging low them, balls was hanging low, bitch.

594
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 2: I just feel like it was thinking in there back then.

595
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 2: But to me in twenty twenty five, it should never.

596
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: Say, it should never stay. But it's still stinking there.

597
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: It's staking there, in will in there. What's in there?

598
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 5: You know?

599
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: Wait? Wait there, that's mom.

600
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: When you said that, I was like, Mitch, please, but no,

601
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 2: for real, doll like in twenty twenty five, wasche thank

602
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 2: you got booty, you gotta.

603
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: Powder, don't care, don't care, you got it. Let me

604
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: tell you when I walk in the bath millions of

605
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: bath so when I used to I hate to say this,

606
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: but when I used to work in the club and

607
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: I used to walk in the women's bathroom, it smelt

608
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: like what Lotto said, you left your pussy in the bathroom. Y'all,

609
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 1: y'all please, first of all, let me teach you how

610
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: to watch your kouchie real quick.

611
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 3: Lex.

612
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: This is not a high before we even got into

613
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 2: the first time I find.

614
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: To get into it. We're finna get into it because

615
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: we finished gone. We gonna wrap this ship up.

616
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 3: How we ain't even need to That's not like we're

617
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 3: gonna get to one of them.

618
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: Tell you get in that shower and stop putting everything

619
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: down there. Use a wash that's specifically for your koochie

620
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 1: and put it in your hand and get in them folds.

621
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: This is how your fingers should look. This is for

622
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: the middle part, and this is for the side parts.

623
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: Get in there like that.

624
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 2: You see how I meant that be my favorite part

625
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 2: of shower. And it be a little surprised. Oh brother,

626
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 2: this guy know it, don't And that's why because I

627
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 2: know how to wash.

628
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: She But why are you It's supposed to be a

629
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: rub down, not a rub. But I'm saying you get

630
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: in there with that. You're supposed to wash with your hands,

631
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: your kuchie, and it's supposed to be a wash. What

632
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: what wash you use down there?

633
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 3: The salt eggs so wash. I've been using that for

634
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 3: a few years.

635
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, that's good one. What's the old school one?

636
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: In the pink bottle? I got the big pink bottle.

637
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? What's that brand? You

638
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: don't wash? Your couchie said, I don't know, No, not

639
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: Summer's summer.

640
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 3: We don't know because you two damn.

641
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: It's the old school vaginal wash. I don't know, but anyways,

642
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: that's the one I use.

643
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 3: In a pink bottle. It's in a pink bottle.

644
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: It's the old It's like the first brand Dodge Seal Vegiceal.

645
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: I use vegicel wash. Gudin't the collar just approved? That's

646
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: what the bottles say. And when I tell y'all, my

647
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: coochie always smell like the ocean.

648
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 3: But which one?

649
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: Let me say that.

650
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: Go to Mexico question bring brown They had a flesh

651
00:31:58,600 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 2: eating cia in one.

652
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 3: Let me say, let me do that again. My couchie

653
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 3: always smell like water.

654
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 2: Fiji Fiji, Miss Aqua Fema, you the real miss Aquafeina.

655
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 1: And you better ask about me because they know, they know,

656
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: they know who should I ask? The people who that

657
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: evil thick bitch all was talking about on Royal Moule show.

658
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 2: As I wouldn't ask him a motherfucking thing. I wouldn't

659
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 2: ask him a goddamn thing.

660
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 7: And he may not ask me for shoot, But yes, y'all,

661
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 7: please wash your kuchie with a different product honey pots

662
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 7: salt ex so that.

663
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 3: You use and the South x SO is black owned.

664
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So I'm gonna start buying this.

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Speaker 3: It's black owned. It's so good and it's like.

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Speaker 2: When you put it on, it is it makes the

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Speaker 2: juicy it do because when you put it down there,

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Speaker 2: it's it's kind of like, y'all remember doctor Miracles is

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Speaker 2: Doctor Miracles feel cool.

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Speaker 3: It gives you that tingling feeling but down there.

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Speaker 2: And then they also have an erotic an erotica one

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Speaker 2: that you use before you have SIG.

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Speaker 1: But I don't really you know, need that, okay, but anyway,

674
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Speaker 1: but I.

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Speaker 3: Do like it though.

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Speaker 1: It gives you a good feeling.

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Speaker 2: But I guess it's supposed to help if you don't

678
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Speaker 2: naturally put produce the juices.

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00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people don't naturally, and I think

680
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: that's okay too. We don't need to be embarrassed about that.

681
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: Some people don't naturally produce them juices. So if you

682
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Speaker 1: need a little hair, I'm.

683
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Speaker 3: Not embarrassed because it's not me.

684
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Speaker 2: But I don't think that nobody should be embarrassed about it.

685
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Speaker 1: Just the only embarrassing thing is if you stink. So

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Speaker 1: I hope y'all learn something today. Wash you coushi with

687
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Speaker 1: your hands. Stop using towels and rags and different things

688
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Speaker 1: down there.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and get rid of that cottage cheese.

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Speaker 1: Do you like cottage shees? I love cottage cheese actually,

691
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Speaker 1: so I hate when people talk about cottage cheese in

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Speaker 1: that manner.

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Speaker 3: But that's what it'd be looking like.

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Speaker 1: Cottage cheese is very tasty, it's protein, it can help.

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Speaker 3: I like cotta cheese. I put it on my toes.

696
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: You could put it in a lot of things. Some

697
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: people put it on their peaches.

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Speaker 2: My mom used to eat it like sweet or savory

699
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Speaker 2: with cottage shee.

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Speaker 3: My mom used to eat it like that growing up.

701
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Speaker 2: But so now I make an avocado toes, and I

702
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 2: mean the cotta cheese avocados host So I put the

703
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Speaker 2: avocado spread, cottage cheese, the chili oil, the girl chili oil,

704
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 2: and then I put a little hot honey.

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Speaker 1: Come on, now you need the tray. So when I

706
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 1: posted my cheat meal yesterday, I had made some pasta

707
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: with some salmon. They said, if this is your cheat meal,

708
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Speaker 1: what do you usually eat? I said, y'all, pasta is

709
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Speaker 1: a cheat meal.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Did you use a what is it called cheek bee pasta?

712
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: No? I didn't. That's why I said it was a

713
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Speaker 1: cheat meal.

714
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,440
Speaker 3: I was cheap. I went all the way.

715
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:52,920
Speaker 1: You didn't see me nothing I did it. I only

716
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,320
Speaker 1: made it. You know, I cooked for one or sometimes

717
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: if I cook, you know i'm cooking. I cook for

718
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Speaker 1: whoever in the house at the time. It should have

719
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: showed up, you would have got you a plate.

720
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Speaker 3: Well, how did I know you was cooking?

721
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:06,720
Speaker 1: Sometimes I shouldn't.

722
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Speaker 3: I don't feel like you should call people when they

723
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 3: cook it. I feel like they should call you. You're cooking.

724
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: I cook all the time, so you should be like, hey,

725
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Speaker 1: dre a hooked, No, you live next door. Do you

726
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: want to play plate next time? I will?

727
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Speaker 3: Because that samon was fired.

728
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's get on and see speaking of

729
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Speaker 1: passive aggressive aggressiveness in relationships.

730
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Speaker 2: That was really aggressively. It wasn't passive because I said

731
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Speaker 2: that's okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's passive because it's not okay. It's really not okay.

733
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: But you was saying it was okay. What is that aggressive?

734
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Speaker 2: If I'm being honest, it really is okay because every

735
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 2: time I see that you cooked, if I cared that much,

736
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 2: I would say something. But there was an example of

737
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 2: passive aggressive. It wasn't though because I was kidding.

738
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 1: You were kidding, but I was. I know you.

739
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 3: You wasn't giving an example.

740
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Speaker 1: But if people didn't know you, if this is their

741
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 1: first they don't know me.

742
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:58,280
Speaker 3: That's why they probably think I'm being serious.

743
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 2: They're probably gonna be like, no, Dre, Drea was a

744
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 2: fucking real fuck that beach leak.

745
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 3: She don't like you, no way. And then I'm abos

746
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 3: to make me a burner.

747
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 1: Start agreeing with y'all really cause chaos, and I'm about.

748
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 3: To make me want too and start saying the.

749
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Speaker 1: Thanks, I'm fucking with Okay. So the first top today,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about passive aggressiveness in relationships, Like, you know,

796
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Speaker 1: are you more of a I'm gonna give you the

797
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: solid treatment or I'm setting a boundary? Are you being

798
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 1: distant to protect your peace or are you doing this

799
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: to punish your partner? Like? What how do you look

800
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 1: at passive aggressiveness?

801
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 3: Is it like?

802
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:47,800
Speaker 1: Am I being passive aggressive? Or am I just protecting

803
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 1: my peace?

804
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 3: I'm not a big punisher.

805
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 2: I don't believe in doing it.

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Speaker 1: Who is Oh, big, big pun that's what I was

807
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 1: thinking about.

808
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Speaker 3: You're not a big punisher.

809
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not, okay.

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00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 2: I I don't even give a fuck so much that

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00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 2: I would just stop talking to you. Yeah, I think

812
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 2: that's probably the worst thing about me. If I could say,

813
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: probably my worst trade as a friend as a partner,

814
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 2: it's probably that I won't have a conversation with you

815
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 2: about shit and just stop fucking with you. Even if

816
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 2: we still cool, I'll distance myself from you, like we

817
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 2: still cool, but we probably just don't talk as much.

818
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 2: We probably just don't deal with each other as much.

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Speaker 3: That's my gym.

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Speaker 2: So I don't believe in passive aggressiveness because I'm also

821
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: very vocal. So if I'm having an issue in the

822
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 2: beginning stages, bitch, you know the issue, I'm gonna let

823
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 2: you know the issue. If you don't care to change

824
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 2: it and you keep doing the same thing, it's to

825
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 2: me it's nothing to talk about. Because I saw a

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Speaker 2: clip from Tyler Perio the other day.

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Speaker 3: My Cinema King MEDIAZ.

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Speaker 2: I saw a clip from Taller Perry the other day.

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Speaker 2: He said, my life got exponentially bitter when I started

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Speaker 2: letting people be who they are and I stopped having expectations.

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Speaker 2: And I think that that is the point that I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm almost there. I'm not gonna say I'm fully there,

833
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,879
Speaker 2: but I'm almost there to like where when it come

834
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 2: to people, I'm really cool with just letting you be

835
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 2: who you are because you're showing up is you, and

836
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 2: that's okay. It don't meet my standard, and that's okay too,

837
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Speaker 2: So I just don't deal with you in that capacity

838
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 2: anymore because who you are does not meet the standard

839
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Speaker 2: of what I need as a partner, as a friend, whatever.

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00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, so you know, I have to make the

841
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,439
Speaker 2: choice because you're not showing up. It's who I need

842
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 2: you to be. Do I want to keep you in

843
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 2: my life? Do I want to get rid of you?

844
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 2: Or do I want to deal with you accordingly? And

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Speaker 2: those are the three areas that I put people in

846
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Speaker 2: my life. It's either I'm gonna cut you off, ain't

847
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 2: no dealing with you, I'm gonna still deal with you,

848
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 2: or I'm gonna deal with you accordingly and put you

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Speaker 2: in a certain box. And I think that I'm very

850
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 2: very great and putting people in boxes and them not

851
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Speaker 2: knowing that they're in a box.

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00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 3: Because you, they also don't necessarily need to know.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a beautiful thing of knowing how to

854
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 2: not be passive aggressive because it's like you in a

855
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 2: box and you don't even know it.

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Speaker 1: So I think for me, i'm passive aggressive, but it's

857
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: until I'm ready to talk. So I know in my

858
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: relationship that's something that I struggle with. I'll be like, oh,

859
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Speaker 1: I'm fine, and i'm not, but I'm not ready to

860
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: talk about it right now. So I need to work

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00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: on saying I'm not okay right now, but I'm also

862
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,439
Speaker 1: not ready to talk about it right now, because that's

863
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: something I've been working on.

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Speaker 3: Y'all know I'm still in therapy, but I am.

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Speaker 1: Very passive aggressive just because I I'm trying to learn

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Speaker 1: how I'm trying to learn how to like pick my

867
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: battles wisely, but also still speak on it without it

868
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: being like a conflict, you know what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 1: I think with me, it's like I'll say I'm fine,

870
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: knowing i'm not, but then I want to address it later,

871
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: but I just need time to address it. So I

872
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 1: think with my passive aggressive in that moment, I need

873
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: to say hey instead of saying I'm fine. I need

874
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: to say, hey, you know what, I'm not okay, but

875
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm also not ready to talk about it right now.

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00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: And that's something that I have been practicing. I actually

877
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 1: have been doing an exercise, like I said, with my therapist,

878
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: so being like, you know what, it's okay to create boundaries. Hey, no,

879
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 1: I'm not okay, and I do want to talk about it,

880
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 1: but can we talk about it at a later state,

881
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: at a later date when I am in more of

882
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: a you know, mind frame of receiving this information. You

883
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying Because I think a lot of

884
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 1: times when people are passive aggressive, they're doing it to

885
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 1: kind of I don't want to say protect their peace,

886
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 1: but they're doing it because it's kind of like they're

887
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: shutting down I just like to shut down moment.

888
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 2: From my personal experience with people that are passive aggressive,

889
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: I also think they do it to get a reaction.

890
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 2: Like I think they be wanting to make like, okay,

891
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 2: I'm a beating way because I'm gonna see if he's

892
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 2: gonna make this. Persons react this way, and then if

893
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 2: you don't, then.

894
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: Then they start acting out now or then.

895
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 2: They want to say like or then they want to

896
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 2: have a conversation, but it's like, nah, because I already

897
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 2: seen what you said on Twitter. I already seen what

898
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 2: you said on what you posted on Instagram, So it's like,

899
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 2: why do I want to talk to you now? But

900
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 2: I think people who are passive aggressive they do that

901
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 2: to try to garner a reaction when in reality, to me,

902
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, and.

903
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 3: This is not towards you.

904
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: No, No, I know because I'll do that because I'm

905
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 1: shutting down. This is not that.

906
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is not towards you specifically. But I always

907
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: have wondered, like why do people be I just don't

908
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,399
Speaker 2: really understand being passive aggressive versus just telling people how

909
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:51,959
Speaker 2: you feel outright, Like is it like a fear thing

910
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 2: you don't know how they're gonna react. You're afraid that

911
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 2: like if you say the wrong thing, they may not

912
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 2: talk to you anymore, or if might ruin the relationship

913
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 2: or the bond, Like what's the reason for being passive agreace?

914
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 1: So for me, like I said in that moment, I'm

915
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: shutting down and I'm breaking down and I don't want

916
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 1: to talk about it right now, so I'm just like,

917
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,479
Speaker 1: let's just keep it cool for the moment and we can.

918
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 3: Talk about it later.

919
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: Now, what you're talking about, I see that, and I

920
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 1: have people that do that to me as well, like

921
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: oh no, I'm cool, no, let oh you good, No

922
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: you're good, you're mad, and you're trying to get me

923
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 1: to react. So when I see people doing that, when

924
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: I'm being passive aggressive, I'm not looking for a reaction. No, please, like,

925
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:33,959
Speaker 1: I'm fine right now, we can talk about this later.

926
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: I'm not looking for a reaction because it's gonna actually

927
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: make it worse. So for me, when people do that,

928
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: now that crosses from being passive aggressive to also being manipulative,

929
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 1: because now you're trying to make somebody react, get something

930
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 1: out of them that you couldn't get out of them

931
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: without just having a regular conversation. You know what I'm saying.

932
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:00,919
Speaker 1: So I think what you're saying is one hundred percent

933
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: valid because most of the time, I will honestly say

934
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,280
Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time when people are being passive aggressive,

935
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: they're doing what you're saying, They're trying to get a

936
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: reaction out of people. With me, I'm literally like, I'm

937
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,280
Speaker 1: breaking down. I don't want to I really, I literally

938
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,839
Speaker 1: don't want to talk. I don't want you to react. So,

939
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: like I said, for me, I think it's just learning

940
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 1: how to communicate better. And that's something I've always prided

941
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 1: myself on, but something that I thought I was great at.

942
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 3: But I'm not as good at it as I thought.

943
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,399
Speaker 1: So I think it's all about accountability and awareness too.

944
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I'm aware that I do that.

945
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: People who are passive aggressive, they will lie and be

946
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: like I wasn't being passive aggressive.

947
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 3: I was fine.

948
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: I really was okay. I didn't give a fuck bit.

949
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: Yes she did cap Yeah you care?

950
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,399
Speaker 3: You mad? Yeah?

951
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know.

952
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 3: I feel like you could tell.

953
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 2: I think it's just like indicators, like you know, I mean,

954
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 2: if I'm being completely honies, I hear you. But I

955
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 2: think anybody is being paid massive aggressive care.

956
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: Oh you don't not care like you care.

957
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 2: You don't know how to express yourself, so you're exacting

958
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 2: yourself in a passively aggressive way because you don't know

959
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 2: how to really vocalize your real feelings. So you're going

960
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 2: in a roundabout way of trying to make it seem like, oh,

961
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 2: I'm cool, I'm okay. I don't think that you don't

962
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 2: it's no way to be passive aggressive and not really care.

963
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: Being pass aggressive because you care. Yeah, my mind, I'm

964
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,240
Speaker 1: trying to gather my thoughts. I'm shutting down. I'm hurt

965
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: for whatever it is. I'm hurt. I want to I

966
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: don't know what to say. I'm shot, whatever it is.

967
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 2: And so the I'm saying nothing versus being passive aggressive.

968
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: No, but that's what I'm saying, because it'd be if

969
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: somebody asked me, what's wrong? You good? Okay?

970
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 3: I'm fine. I don't want to talk about it. But

971
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 3: I don't think that's passive aggressive.

972
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: How they passive aggressive is it's when you say you're

973
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: fine when you're not.

974
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 2: But to me, that's not I guess when I think

975
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 2: of passive aggressiveness, I think of making slurs, making comments

976
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:00,760
Speaker 2: like if some you and somebody get in to it, right,

977
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 2: and then they get on Twitter and they tweet some

978
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 2: shit about like a situation that's similar to what y'all

979
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 2: just had, and then you say something to them about

980
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 2: it and they're.

981
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: Like, oh no.

982
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 2: To me, somebody, if I asked ty if you're okay?

983
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 2: If I asked you, are you okay? And you just like,

984
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 2: oh no, I'm fine. I don't receive that as a

985
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 2: because what's aggressive about that? What's passive aggressive about that?

986
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 2: To me, passive aggressiveness is more when people try to

987
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 2: say I'm cool, and then their actions are reactions say otherwise, Well,

988
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 2: I think.

989
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 3: Very you telling me that you're good.

990
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 2: But then I'm getting on the internet and I'm like, bitch,

991
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 2: I think you subbing me. Right, this post is about me.

992
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 2: This tweet is about me. You said something that has

993
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 2: to do with what I just said or what me

994
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 2: and you just went through, but you're telling me.

995
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 3: That you're good.

996
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,320
Speaker 2: We got into this an hour ago, this tweet is

997
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:55,399
Speaker 2: from ten minutes ago.

998
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 3: Let's see.

999
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: But you gotta say passive aggressive passive aggressive outside of

1000
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: like social media, in real life, you think somebody just

1001
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: if I ask, like if I'm saying I'm fine, but

1002
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: look at my body language, look at the way I'm

1003
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 1: acting and the way you know what I'm saying. So

1004
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: if I say, Drea, are you okay? You like, I'm fine,

1005
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 1: but you kind of just like maybe sitting in the.

1006
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,359
Speaker 3: Corner or you're not talking or you're not so.

1007
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: I think there's different ways to show passive aggressiveness. So

1008
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: you're not necessarily being like like I said, outside of

1009
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: the internet, in a real life situation, if I say

1010
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm fine, but I'm not being my normal, bubbly self,

1011
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: that's being passive aggressive. That's fine.

1012
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 2: But then I also think to it be more emotional

1013
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 2: manipulation to like communication with all these sicks, with holding

1014
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 2: like different things. You're saying you're cool, but like you're

1015
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: not communicating with me, like you know what you do.

1016
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 3: You don't want to.

1017
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 2: Have sex with me. It's a distance in a household.

1018
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 2: I always with you, you know, that's okay, okay, well,

1019
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 2: but affection all of these things, like to me, that's

1020
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 2: more of past now aggressive. But I just don't think

1021
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 2: somebody telling me they find because I look at it.

1022
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 3: If something, oh yeah, let's take a shot.

1023
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 2: I look at it like if you tell me that

1024
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,280
Speaker 2: you're okay, even if I know that you're not okay,

1025
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 2: I don't look at that as passive aggressiveness. I look

1026
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 2: at that more as you not wanting to talk about

1027
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 2: it right now, Like maybe you gotta find maybe you

1028
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 2: gotta find your mojo, maybe you gotta find when you

1029
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 2: ready be in the headspace to have the conversation with

1030
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 2: me because I feel like it's things that you've been

1031
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 2: through where I've asked you, are you okay, and you

1032
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I'm good, friend, I don't want to

1033
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 2: talk about it. And then I talked to you two

1034
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 2: days later and you was ready to let me know

1035
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 2: what was going on, and it doesn't it and it

1036
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 2: has been things that hasn't had anything to do with me.

1037
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 2: It's been personal things, but like at that moment, you

1038
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 2: didn't want to talk about it. Now two days later,

1039
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 2: I'm in a different space. I don't have time to

1040
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 2: think reflects. I know how I want to let you

1041
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 2: know what's going on. So, okay, friend, this is what's

1042
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 2: going on. No, I don't look at that. It's passive.

1043
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 1: Well, the reason it is because, and I'll tell you

1044
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: the difference between that. If I if you ask me

1045
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: if I'm fine, and I say I'm fine, and I'm

1046
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: really not, and then two days later you find out

1047
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with you, I'm not being

1048
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: passive aggressive towards you because they had nothing to do

1049
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 1: with you. If you ask me if I'm fine, and

1050
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 1: I'm not fine, and it has something to do with you,

1051
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: I'm being passive aggressive. But that's the definition of it.

1052
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 2: But if your body language and stuff is not giving that, nobody,

1053
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 2: it's still I hear you. But nobody can think you're

1054
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 2: being passive aggressive if they don't know you get what.

1055
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying.

1056
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 2: I get what you're saying, like if you like, oh,

1057
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 2: I'm cool, and then you seem like you cool versus

1058
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 2: I'm cool.

1059
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 3: I get what you're saying.

1060
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,879
Speaker 1: Right, But if i'm if I'm not talking, if I'm

1061
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: not saying what it is, I'm just I'm being passive.

1062
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. The issue is when you start withholding things, sex,

1063
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 1: you not calling me? Yeah, Now, once you start doing that, now,

1064
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: I will say this with my passive aggressiveness, I don't

1065
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 1: do that. I don't be like, oh well, I'm not

1066
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: calling her, I'm not talking to her. I just do

1067
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 1: it whenever I'm ready or if like me and my

1068
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:20,839
Speaker 1: man are into it. I'm definitely not withhold, no sex, no, no,

1069
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: I was done?

1070
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 3: Are you where are you?

1071
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1072
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 2: Go ahead, Okay, I'm not even trying to be funny.

1073
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 2: Nobody cannot not talk to me because I'm gonna just

1074
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 2: be like, okay.

1075
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 3: Oh I know, because you be not giving a fun

1076
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 3: you could just not I mean, we could just not talk.

1077
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 1: Man, It's just up.

1078
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 2: To you if we reconcile, because I just especially if

1079
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 2: I'm not in the wrong.

1080
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I was about to say. When you not, like,

1081
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 1: when you are in the wrong, wah, you definitely be

1082
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 1: like okay, But when you feel like you're one hundred

1083
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: percent not the wrong, you be like, fuck it, I

1084
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. We don't have to talk.

1085
00:51:56,200 --> 00:52:00,840
Speaker 2: Then I'm burning at the stakes. Honestly, I'm just saying

1086
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 2: the facts. Yeah, So it's kind of both of It's

1087
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 2: what both of y'all are saying. The definition or passive

1088
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 2: aggressive behavior is a pattern of indirectly expressing negative emotions

1089
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 2: through subtle acts of resistance, defiance, or neglect, and then

1090
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 2: when they go into like different signs of passive aggressiveness.

1091
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 3: What you were saying as far.

1092
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:28,399
Speaker 2: As like like okay, nice of you to finally show up,

1093
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 2: like that's being kind of passive aggressive. But for what

1094
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 2: you were saying, silent treatment or evading issues is also

1095
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 2: another sign of passive aggressiveness.

1096
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:36,880
Speaker 3: Okay.

1097
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 2: So I think it's just like to your point where

1098
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 2: you were saying, it's about like kind of your tone

1099
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 2: and how you're saying. I'm fine like that is a

1100
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 2: little more making it more passive.

1101
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 3: Okay, I see what you're saying, and I.

1102
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: Agree with you.

1103
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:49,359
Speaker 3: Lex.

1104
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 2: I'm the same way, like I shut down. Yeah, I

1105
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 2: just need my time. I'm not trying to be passive aggressive,

1106
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 2: but I'm non confrontational, right And I don't want to

1107
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,879
Speaker 2: create a bigger issue without me being able to lie

1108
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 2: articulate my thoughts and what I want to say, because

1109
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 2: I really want you to understand how I feel. But

1110
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 2: I'm so pissed off in that moment or her or

1111
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 2: emotional that I can't really articulate that in that moment.

1112
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 2: I kind of lean more towards how Lex puts it

1113
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 2: out there. Maybe I need to be more like that

1114
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 2: because I can put it on a beach. What it is,

1115
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 2: let's put it, Let's.

1116
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:22,760
Speaker 3: Put it on the floor. This is how I feel

1117
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 3: right now.

1118
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:23,720
Speaker 1: Beach.

1119
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 3: You got me fucked up?

1120
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: You know what we no. No, but I will say.

1121
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 3: One thing that.

1122
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 1: I've loved about your growth too, is that you have

1123
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: learned to approach situations a lot more delicately than you

1124
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 1: used to.

1125
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:41,399
Speaker 2: So now it's your delicacy what that's not like a meal.

1126
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 1: Raise that toys and you be jumping out love a

1127
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:53,839
Speaker 1: good meal. No, but I will say like versus our

1128
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: relationship when we first became friends versus now, like you're

1129
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: so much more easier to talk now you are, like,

1130
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 1: I don't mind bringing like if I be like Drea friend, like,

1131
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 1: I don't mind saying that now. In the beginning, I

1132
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:08,239
Speaker 1: used to be like, I'm just not even gonna say nothing,

1133
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: because I know how she's finna react, and I know

1134
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:10,360
Speaker 1: how she finna do.

1135
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,240
Speaker 2: Like what how would I used to react in the past,

1136
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 2: So in the past, if.

1137
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 3: I would be like, I'm trying to think of an example,

1138
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 3: like with a man or something.

1139
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: No, okay with me, let's just use a man for example.

1140
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 1: That's not true. This is not real, but that's what

1141
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:25,839
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

1142
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:27,880
Speaker 2: Let's use a more true example, because I think I've

1143
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,400
Speaker 2: always been understanding about.

1144
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: Like, okay, okay, I'll say something like about let's say,

1145
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 1: like about you being late or something I feel like

1146
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 1: when we first became friends of our friend, come on now,

1147
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 1: like you need to work on your time, like you

1148
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 1: be late. You'd be like, well, lex, I don't care,

1149
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:47,400
Speaker 1: like if I'm not I'm trying. I got shit to do.

1150
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: I'd be like, so, I'm gonna get here when I

1151
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 1: get here, So I'm here now though, That's how you

1152
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: used to be. Now i'd be like, friend, you'd be like,

1153
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: you be like, I'm sorry, friend, i know I'm trying.

1154
00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 3: I'm working on it. I'm running behind.

1155
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: Like that's how more you be like more receiving to

1156
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: like things that if somebody has a problem. You used

1157
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: to be like if somebody approached you with a problem,

1158
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: you would be very aggressive about it, and you wouldn't

1159
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 1: just take it. And because how dare you have a

1160
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: problem with me? But now you have a problem with

1161
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: the queen. I'm fucking but now.

1162
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 3: Because well i'll say this too with legs. That was

1163
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 3: a terrible example. We were just using any only because.

1164
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:32,919
Speaker 2: You always fucking late, not no more. Then it would

1165
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 2: be like, no more, legs, bitch, you got here five

1166
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 2: minutes ago, and you telling me that, I'm like, you

1167
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 2: were here five minutes earlier or ten minutes earlier, you

1168
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:46,839
Speaker 2: still wasn't here at one o'clock. That was the thing,

1169
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 2: the old thing.

1170
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 1: Now I'll be on I'm on time, queen now. But

1171
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 1: I was just using that for an example. We just

1172
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 1: use it for an example. But like I said, for anything,

1173
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: I feel like you're more.

1174
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 3: See what I'm gonna see my drinks today has to aggress.

1175
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 2: We was just it's not you know, I'm trying to

1176
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 2: I'm trying to move on.

1177
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: We were just using a random example. But like I said,

1178
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 1: even if it was like a man like back in

1179
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: the day, you probably would be more But now you'd

1180
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 1: be like I hear you friends, you're just more like

1181
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: receptive of things and you understand what people are saying.

1182
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 1: Like You're not so like I don't understand you be

1183
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:25,360
Speaker 1: more so like I see where you're coming from.

1184
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 2: Because the thing about it right, and I really feel

1185
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 2: like people.

1186
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 3: I hope this gives people more of.

1187
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: An insight to me, cause I feel like I've said

1188
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 2: this before on poor minds. It's not even that I

1189
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 2: don't be trying to be receptive to what people be

1190
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 2: going through.

1191
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,280
Speaker 3: I just be wanting better for people.

1192
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,799
Speaker 2: Like sometimes when people tell me certain stuff, I'd be like,

1193
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 2: what the fuck, why are you dealing with that?

1194
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 3: Why are you putting up with it? Why are you

1195
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:56,320
Speaker 3: leaving yourself in that situation?

1196
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 2: And I don't want it to ever come off judgy,

1197
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 2: just be wanting more for people that I care about.

1198
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 2: But I think that people take it in a way

1199
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,879
Speaker 2: of like you be feeling like, oh you, it could

1200
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:10,919
Speaker 2: never be you. It could never and respectfully, I hope

1201
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 2: this doesn't sound bad, but like in certain situations, I

1202
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:15,839
Speaker 2: do be feeling like it could never be me because

1203
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna deal with it.

1204
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna because different people want different things

1205
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: out of life, and that's fine.

1206
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 2: But I go based off of, to be fair, what

1207
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 2: people tell me that they want. If we're talking about

1208
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 2: people that I'm close to, I'm also going based off

1209
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 2: of what you're telling me you want, the type of

1210
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 2: relationship you say you want, the type of life you

1211
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 2: say you want, and it's nigga or the situation that

1212
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,440
Speaker 2: you're putting yourself in. It's not conducive to what you're

1213
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 2: saying you want. So then if you're coming to me

1214
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 2: complaining to me all the time about it, the first

1215
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 2: few times, I'm gonna be like okay, but.

1216
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 3: Then after that it'd be like bitch, please.

1217
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 2: And then I also hate when people come to me

1218
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 2: telling me things about myself that they also do, so

1219
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 2: it's kind of like, you can't come to me telling

1220
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 2: me I'm late when you be late, you just seeing

1221
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 2: me in this earlier If that makes sense.

1222
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I feel like that's why.

1223
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 2: It would be different if you was getting there at

1224
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 2: twelve forty five and then you're like, okay, beat you

1225
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 2: pulled up at one fifteen, you got there at one

1226
00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 2: oh five.

1227
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 3: We're supposed to be there at one. Cool.

1228
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 2: So I think more so that's where when I was

1229
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 2: younger the aggressiveness. The aggressiveness came from. As I'm older,

1230
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 2: it's just more so kind of like okay, I'm in

1231
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 2: my okay era. People got it, like that's where you

1232
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 2: be sen seen. I'm not arguing with you. It's cool.

1233
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 1: It is what it is. Boom.

1234
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 3: That was a good topic though it was it was

1235
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 3: all right.

1236
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 2: So this one, I'm gonna call this one a sinner's

1237
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 2: spirit because I am obsessed with sinners being a multiple times.

1238
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 2: I know a lot of us have NBJ okay, So

1239
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 2: this one you could use any spirit of choice. We

1240
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:59,560
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1241
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 2: tiny two so it's a little bit more tart, a

1242
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: little bit citrus in there. And then we have a

1243
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 2: little bit of lemon juice, like a splash of lemon juice.

1244
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 2: We added a little bit of sweeteners like samgave, and

1245
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 2: then we top it off with a rose and cactus

1246
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:16,200
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1247
00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 2: grapefruit and then just a little bit of mint spread

1248
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:21,080
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1250
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,840
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1254
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm praying a call and I'm lex Pi, and

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Speaker 2: thirty eight on VEZ Here. I asked the question before

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Speaker 2: we get into the next topic. Do y'all think directive

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01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 2: niece is a bad thing though, because I feel like

1300
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Speaker 2: me being very directed, like me being very direct and

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Speaker 2: blood is also perceived as a bad thing. Sometimes.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's a bad thing.

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01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: I just think it depends on how the person that

1304
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 1: you're talking to can perceive it. I don't think nothing

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Speaker 1: is wrong with being direct. If you're being honest, honest,

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Speaker 1: you see, it's never a bad thing. Yeah, I agree.

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01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: I think that people people who don't like directiveness are

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01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: people who can't handle real shit.

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01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 3: That's in my opinion.

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01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 1: Like I think that people who are direct, They're saying

1311
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 1: how they feel. How can you get mad.

1312
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 3: At somebody for being honest about their feelings?

1313
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 2: I agree, But do you think it's like I think

1314
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 2: it's levels to be in direct though, like I think

1315
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:24,919
Speaker 2: you can still be. I think you can still be

1316
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 2: the blunt, direct person but still be careful about not

1317
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 2: hurting somebody's feelings. And I think I try to do that,

1318
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 2: Like I think it's I don't never try to say

1319
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 2: things to people to go for the jugglar, like I

1320
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 2: don't never want to like hurt your feelings. But bingach,

1321
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you know how I feel, and I'm

1322
01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 2: gonna tell you what the real shit is versus Sometimes

1323
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 2: I think people try to use that as a cape

1324
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 2: of like, oh.

1325
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 3: I'm blunt, I'm direct, but then.

1326
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 2: You mean as fucking you saying rude, hurtful shit all

1327
01:02:56,800 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 2: the time to your friends or to your family members

1328
01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 2: are to people that you hear about what you put

1329
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 2: the kp on.

1330
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 3: Of blunt mes and being direct you get what I'm saying.

1331
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: I hate people like that first of all, because I

1332
01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 1: always say, it's not about what you say, it's how

1333
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: you say it. I don't want no mean ass friend.

1334
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I don't need you.

1335
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 1: I'm not saying sugarcoat shit, but I don't need you

1336
01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: being like. It's a difference between like, if I got

1337
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:23,920
Speaker 1: something tacky on, is it? Lex?

1338
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 3: You look fucking awful?

1339
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1340
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: Like what the fuck?

1341
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 3: Why would you wear that?

1342
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 1: Versus somebody being like, ooh, Lex, this don't compliment you

1343
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: as well?

1344
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 3: Did you try on?

1345
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: Or maybe oh remember that spanceshot we had bought the

1346
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 1: other day. It's a difference on how you say shit.

1347
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: I don't like that mean shit because I don't talk

1348
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 1: to people like that, so don't talk to me like that.

1349
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 1: I definitely believe in being direct, but it's all about

1350
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 1: how you say it to people like I have friends

1351
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:52,920
Speaker 1: from all different walks of life, like you, Lauren Kiler,

1352
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: be Leanne and my sister are all so different. But

1353
01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm very direct with each one of you in the

1354
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:01,160
Speaker 1: same way when I talk to y'all, because it's easy

1355
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 1: to be nice but also tell somebody how you feel,

1356
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: and it's easy just to be understanding, because sometimes you

1357
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 1: gotta understand why this person made this decision to put

1358
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 1: that dress on. Maybe they thought that they felt sexy

1359
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: in it. Okay, well, let's spruce it up a little bit,

1360
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 1: or let let's let it if you want to wear

1361
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 1: this dress so bad, you go some sprank friend, you

1362
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: got a little sprink. You know what I'm saying, Like,

1363
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,919
Speaker 1: it's just a way to say things. So I've never

1364
01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: been that friend. I hate people who disguise being blunt

1365
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 1: with being a bitch. I don't like bitchy people. I

1366
01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 1: don't like mood people. Keep that shit away from me

1367
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 1: and my family.

1368
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:40,720
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. I don't like that she either. No,

1369
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 2: I don't like that she either. But I ask that

1370
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 2: because I think sometimes people try to feel like that's

1371
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:48,360
Speaker 2: how I be being, but I don't. I feel like

1372
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 2: I just be saying how I feel.

1373
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think sometimes when people.

1374
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 3: And people don't like you, like sometimes people don't like honey.

1375
01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:02,080
Speaker 1: Well, I think sometimes stands you or get your tone

1376
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: of things. They don't understand, like it don't be that deep.

1377
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:08,320
Speaker 1: But people who don't know you, they'd be like, oh

1378
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 1: my god, Drea's a bitch. They don't not a bitch,

1379
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: but they just be like why she liked, Well, you're

1380
01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: not but you're not wrong. You're not wrong. People do

1381
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 1: be thinking.

1382
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 2: I think also, what makes it worse is that I

1383
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 2: don't really give a fuck.

1384
01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 1: That's gonna be like, look at them, but I don't.

1385
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 2: But but to be fair and time, maybe let let

1386
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 2: me let Tad chime in on these be cause she

1387
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 2: be here with us.

1388
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 3: She's been with us for what to two.

1389
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 2: Years now and a half two and a half years now,

1390
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 2: we've been.

1391
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 3: In this studio for a minute.

1392
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 2: But I feel like not giving a fuck is not

1393
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 2: a bad thing, because why should I give a fuck

1394
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 2: about what people think that don't know me personally? Like,

1395
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 2: I don't know, how do you feel about what I

1396
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 2: just said? You still have empathy? And I think that's

1397
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 2: what when you're talking about like mean girls or people

1398
01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:59,760
Speaker 2: that are just blatantly mean, I think they're lacking empathy.

1399
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 2: I still care, but you don't care enough for it

1400
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 2: to stress you out, you know what I mean?

1401
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 3: Like it's a I think it's a difference.

1402
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 2: When I'm I feel like I'm very direct, for sure,

1403
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 2: but I really direct.

1404
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: When it comes to my business.

1405
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:15,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm not negotiating on that with my friends.

1406
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,919
Speaker 2: You got to have a little bit of emotional intelligence

1407
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:20,919
Speaker 2: to deal with them, because you love these people, right

1408
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 2: and you want to respect them or you still respect them,

1409
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:27,040
Speaker 2: but you also have your boundaries for yourself that are

1410
01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:30,960
Speaker 2: personal to you that hey, I have this level of care, but.

1411
01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 1: All right, cool, you don't care. I don't care either.

1412
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm good, like I'm chilling. But I don't think you're

1413
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:39,880
Speaker 2: a bitchy, mean, direct person. You still care and you

1414
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 2: still have empathy for people.

1415
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so too.

1416
01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:44,720
Speaker 2: I think when it comes to people I care about,

1417
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 2: I have a lot of empathy.

1418
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 3: I think I'm very empathetic, but when.

1419
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:52,320
Speaker 2: It comes to people that I don't know, I don't

1420
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 2: necessarily really care that much. But I'm also just being honest.

1421
01:06:57,000 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 2: I think that sometimes the space that we're in with us.

1422
01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 3: Being like public figures, no.

1423
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 2: I think sometimes with us be in the face that

1424
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 2: we're in of being public figures or influencers. I think

1425
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 2: you can say something and then it will hit home

1426
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 2: for somebody and then they take it really really personal,

1427
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 2: and then they're like, well, bitch, you a bitch and

1428
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 2: you don't understand or you feel like it could never

1429
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:26,240
Speaker 2: be you.

1430
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 1: But I don't even know you.

1431
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 2: I don't even know your situation specifically, so I wasn't

1432
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 2: talking specifically to you, but you took it like I

1433
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 2: was talking specifically to you.

1434
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 3: But anogo like, that's what it be.

1435
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 2: A lot of the time people, I'll say something that

1436
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 2: people be feeling like, oh, this resonates with my upbringing

1437
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 2: or my situation with my dad, or my situation with

1438
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 2: my mom, or my situation with my men, my baby.

1439
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 3: Daddy, my child whatever.

1440
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 2: So she said this and bitch, I'm taking it personal

1441
01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:00,000
Speaker 2: because bitch, fuck you.

1442
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 1: But I don't even know you.

1443
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 2: I'm just speaking in general on what I think in

1444
01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:08,520
Speaker 2: my opinion. Plus I also feel like opinion shouldn't matter

1445
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 2: that much. I said my opinion by the watch the

1446
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:12,240
Speaker 2: other day, people was.

1447
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:13,840
Speaker 1: In oh you brought that.

1448
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:19,760
Speaker 3: They was so mad uproar. People were in such an uproar.

1449
01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 3: But I love that for me.

1450
01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:26,240
Speaker 2: Because we have to talk about I think people got

1451
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:28,439
Speaker 2: to get stopped giving me so much power, because to

1452
01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 2: understand the Taurus is to understand that I sometimes revel

1453
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 2: in the fact.

1454
01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:37,320
Speaker 3: That y'all get so mad.

1455
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:39,519
Speaker 2: At the things I say, because I'd be like, Wow,

1456
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 2: I'm really that powerful that I can what was the

1457
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:49,200
Speaker 2: tweet again, that I can make the whole timeline getting

1458
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:49,799
Speaker 2: the uproar.

1459
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:54,280
Speaker 3: Okay, So I just basically said that let me go

1460
01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 3: look at my.

1461
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:59,080
Speaker 2: Go look at somebody's messages because they sent it to me.

1462
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 3: And me, see, I am so weak.

1463
01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 1: Because I've never seen you want an Apple watch on

1464
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:18,000
Speaker 1: asking what's wrong with an Apple? Oh? Brother? But read

1465
01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: this tweek but no, you.

1466
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 3: See laugh because exactly.

1467
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:27,720
Speaker 2: But anyways, y'all be adding that gold band on y'all

1468
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 2: Apple watches and thinking that me, you could wear it

1469
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 2: to dinner?

1470
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:36,519
Speaker 3: No, okay? And I said what I said, and it

1471
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 3: was me looking at my goal Watch like, oh, you

1472
01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:41,679
Speaker 3: be wearing it to dinner? I'll wear it whatever I don't.

1473
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:43,559
Speaker 2: But I also didn't read that like, oh my god,

1474
01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 2: Drea hates me either.

1475
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:45,320
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?

1476
01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 2: Like, I laughed at it and moved on.

1477
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 1: That's what I okay, So let me say this is

1478
01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:53,760
Speaker 1: how I felt about it as a person who I

1479
01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:54,800
Speaker 1: wear my Apple.

1480
01:09:54,560 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 3: Watch a lot.

1481
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:58,960
Speaker 1: I change out these bands, but y'all know I'm serious

1482
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:01,400
Speaker 1: about my Apple y but this is my thing.

1483
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 3: Y'all be like, why do.

1484
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:07,600
Speaker 1: Y'all you think? Because first of all, if you like

1485
01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:09,840
Speaker 1: your Apple Watch, how you wear, why do you care

1486
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 1: what this complete stranger is saying about what you have

1487
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 1: on Do you know how many times I have put

1488
01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 1: on something onward something and this person or this person

1489
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I think that tall bitches who wear

1490
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 1: platform heels. It looks crazy, because why you walking around

1491
01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:26,599
Speaker 1: looking like sasquatch? Because I'm a bad bitch and that's

1492
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:33,400
Speaker 1: what I did. Well, you can never tell me about

1493
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 1: shit that I like, and I'm not gonna lie. Did

1494
01:10:36,439 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 1: I think the tweet was funny? Yes, but I thought

1495
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: it was so funny. How y'all are sending things to

1496
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:45,240
Speaker 1: her mention trying to prove that your watch looks good.

1497
01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:48,759
Speaker 1: That's for you to enjoy, not her. She thinks it's tacky,

1498
01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:52,600
Speaker 1: and that's okay. Y'all have stopped. Y'all have got to

1499
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:55,720
Speaker 1: stop trying to get approval from people who don't care

1500
01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:57,720
Speaker 1: or know you exist. It's a joke. It's supposed to

1501
01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 1: be lighthearted, funny. Y'all got butt her because you are

1502
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: wearing your Apple watch to dinner, and that's okay.

1503
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 2: No, they got butt hurt because it was Drea from

1504
01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 2: poor mind. If somebody random as hell hey tweet that

1505
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 2: on Twitter and it went.

1506
01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:12,759
Speaker 3: Viral, nobody would have cared.

1507
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 2: I know, people always get very defensive when they see

1508
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 2: it's me or you and it goes viral and we

1509
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:21,720
Speaker 2: said something and they'd be like, oh, you got a

1510
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:23,280
Speaker 2: lot of nerves. It was y'all when I say it

1511
01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:28,400
Speaker 2: with so many people in my comments, like yeah, everybody

1512
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 2: not a big baller like you. Everybody can't have a

1513
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:34,160
Speaker 2: ten fifteen thousand dollars watch.

1514
01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:37,960
Speaker 3: Everybody can't do X, Y and Z.

1515
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:40,559
Speaker 2: And my watch was eight hundred dollars, so you right,

1516
01:11:40,760 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 2: it was one thousand dollars.

1517
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 3: I'm a wear it every day.

1518
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 2: The thing is, though nobody some of them, yeah, But

1519
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 2: the thing is, nobody made it about money. I never

1520
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 2: said nothing about money.

1521
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 3: For me. It's more about like the esthetics.

1522
01:11:57,560 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 2: To me, if you have on a ball gown or

1523
01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 2: you have on a tuxedo, are you out at a

1524
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:03,759
Speaker 2: fancy dinner?

1525
01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 3: Even if you have on a cute little two piece.

1526
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 2: Save and you out at dinner at Hell's with your man,

1527
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 2: I don't feel like you should have on an Apple watch.

1528
01:12:14,040 --> 01:12:14,600
Speaker 3: I feel like you.

1529
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 2: But it's so many cute, dainty watches that you could

1530
01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:21,879
Speaker 2: get JBW. It's so many of the influencer girls Alia's

1531
01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 2: face Kyra Aminique shout out to them. They be always

1532
01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:28,920
Speaker 2: promoting JBW watches. Those watches are like two hundred three

1533
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 2: hundred dollars. They're cute, little dainty watches. Nobody said it

1534
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:35,639
Speaker 2: has to be a rolex An ap a potect.

1535
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 3: Y'all made it.

1536
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 2: About that because y'all saw who tweeted it. I never

1537
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:41,840
Speaker 2: said nothing about money.

1538
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 1: So I'll say this. You know, I think I'm not

1539
01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 1: gonna lie me personally, like the like the band that

1540
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:50,519
Speaker 1: Ty has on, I think that's cute.

1541
01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:51,360
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

1542
01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I had one of them, but no, this

1543
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:57,439
Speaker 1: is my problem because I agree with her on this end.

1544
01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:00,360
Speaker 1: Changing the bands, that's not an issue to me because

1545
01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 1: I think if you have your Apple Watch on there

1546
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: are like the gold band like that, I'll be seeing

1547
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 1: cue bands. I've seen somebody they had a Cuban link with.

1548
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 1: It was a fake bust down. That's that's tacking to me.

1549
01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 1: If you have a cute little gold band something like that,

1550
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 1: it matches what she have on a Cuban link. To me,

1551
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:23,800
Speaker 1: a fat Cuban link is just a lot anyway. But

1552
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:26,360
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's an opinion. If

1553
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 1: you like your Cuban link on your Apple Watch, that's fine.

1554
01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:30,120
Speaker 3: I just want to say these.

1555
01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:32,920
Speaker 2: I think people, even you, I think missing the point

1556
01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:35,600
Speaker 2: I never said nothing with even if you want to

1557
01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:36,520
Speaker 2: wear the Cuban.

1558
01:13:36,240 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 3: Link, that's fine.

1559
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 2: I don't think it's anything wrong with how Ty has

1560
01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:42,120
Speaker 2: her watch on. But Ty does not have on a

1561
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 2: formal outfit.

1562
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 3: She not going to a wedding.

1563
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:47,720
Speaker 1: You don't know she might even go a little too.

1564
01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 3: I do, ah, she not at a wedding.

1565
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 2: She's not going on a date night with a beautiful

1566
01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:57,879
Speaker 2: dress on, like she's here at poor mind's count on herself.

1567
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 2: That's fine, even with her out feed like she worthy

1568
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:03,680
Speaker 2: shit for the episode.

1569
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1570
01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 2: I don't see nothing wrong with that. I think people

1571
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:10,559
Speaker 2: were missing the point that I'm saying. All I was saying,

1572
01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 2: which maybe I should have articulated myself better. Maybe I

1573
01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:15,640
Speaker 2: should have made the tweet more extensive. But I'm a

1574
01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 2: person I don't think tweets should be there long.

1575
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 3: It's a tweet. A tweet.

1576
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 2: I just think that shit is still to me, a

1577
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:27,599
Speaker 2: tweet is a brain fart. Like it's short, it's not long,

1578
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 2: So maybe I should have articulated myself better. But what

1579
01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm more so meant was I don't think that it

1580
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:39,639
Speaker 2: doesn't matter if you change your Apple watch band out

1581
01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:42,879
Speaker 2: for a gold man, it still doesn't make it appropriate

1582
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:44,559
Speaker 2: to word with a tuxedo. Now you look like a

1583
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:49,480
Speaker 2: spy kid. Now you're looking like you are mission impossible.

1584
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 2: I just don't think that goes together. Same thing with

1585
01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:57,880
Speaker 2: a woman with a beautiful date night dress. You actually

1586
01:14:57,880 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 2: a nice little dress from fashion Over?

1587
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:01,720
Speaker 1: That be me?

1588
01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:05,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got you a nice little dress com fashion Over.

1589
01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 2: You and your man is going out for dinner. Y'all

1590
01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:11,120
Speaker 2: want Marcel, let me say something that's more universal that

1591
01:15:11,200 --> 01:15:14,679
Speaker 2: people know about. Y'all want to know, boob, you got

1592
01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:18,720
Speaker 2: on this beautiful dress with your Apple watch and then

1593
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 2: you switched out to bend for a gold being, and

1594
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 2: you think that make it appropriate to wear. Just get

1595
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,400
Speaker 2: you a cute little dainty watch. Nobody is saying it

1596
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 2: has to be your row legs. Go get your little

1597
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:30,439
Speaker 2: three hundred dollars cute gold watch.

1598
01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:33,360
Speaker 3: That's a dinner. Why.

1599
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:36,639
Speaker 1: I think it's more like, if I'm being honest, maybe

1600
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 1: I'm a little biased. I guess I'll never pay I

1601
01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:42,120
Speaker 1: don't be paying attention like that.

1602
01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:44,240
Speaker 3: Well, I seen somebody in New York.

1603
01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 2: That's what made me tweety okay, because we was out

1604
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 2: at dinner and I seen a lady with a silk

1605
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 2: dress on and then she had on her Apple watch

1606
01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:55,599
Speaker 2: with a gold Man I don't pay attention like that neither,

1607
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 2: because I don't really give a fuck what people be waring.

1608
01:15:57,880 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, I feel like if you got it on

1609
01:15:59,520 --> 01:16:00,720
Speaker 1: your wrist and that's what you like.

1610
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:02,840
Speaker 3: It was a thought. I tweeted it.

1611
01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:05,639
Speaker 2: I hate the fact that people think I care them much.

1612
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:09,519
Speaker 2: We're elaborating on it because we're just talking about it.

1613
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 1: Somebody do out a watch with I will say this.

1614
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 1: Stop letting people affect how you feel about yourself. That's

1615
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:19,559
Speaker 1: how I know y'all don't have no confidence. And guess

1616
01:16:19,600 --> 01:16:21,080
Speaker 1: what if I put a bag out on with my

1617
01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:23,960
Speaker 1: Apple Watch on, I don't give fuck what this whole thing.

1618
01:16:24,080 --> 01:16:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm still working that room bad as bitch, and who

1619
01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:31,440
Speaker 1: gonna tell me anything. Y'all have confidence in yourself? Who cares?

1620
01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:33,839
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying, though lex.

1621
01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:34,760
Speaker 3: Will take their watch off.

1622
01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 1: Don't listen to Yeah I am, I am, But what

1623
01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:41,479
Speaker 1: I'm saying is give you example, perfect example. I went

1624
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:45,479
Speaker 1: to DC last year. I went to a w NBA game.

1625
01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:48,599
Speaker 1: We sitting courtside in the section. I had to hurry

1626
01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:50,680
Speaker 1: up and pack my bags last minute because he was like, hey,

1627
01:16:50,680 --> 01:16:54,120
Speaker 1: bab we couldn't do it. I left my watch, but

1628
01:16:54,160 --> 01:16:55,720
Speaker 1: guess what I had on? My Apple Watch on with

1629
01:16:55,760 --> 01:16:58,640
Speaker 1: my outfit, and I didn't care because when you have

1630
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 1: that confidence about how you look at your swag and

1631
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:03,559
Speaker 1: you who you are. It was a tweet. It was

1632
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:05,760
Speaker 1: meant to be funny. Stop taking shit so hard because

1633
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:07,719
Speaker 1: if you that girl, you're gonna beat that girl apple

1634
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 1: watch or not.

1635
01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 2: But that's the thing that I This goes back to

1636
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:13,920
Speaker 2: what I was just saying. I feel like people always like.

1637
01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 1: What you say the heart personally I was playing it

1638
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:20,920
Speaker 1: really wasn't that seriod Like it was really a joke

1639
01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 1: because y'all know.

1640
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 3: I don't play by my steps.

1641
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:23,599
Speaker 1: I wear my.

1642
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:24,639
Speaker 3: Apple Watch every day.

1643
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:26,840
Speaker 2: That's also why I laugh because I'm like, no, she'd

1644
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 2: be wearing her Apple Watch, but it was let me.

1645
01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:30,960
Speaker 3: Get it, but I'm not. But I'm not gonna wear

1646
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 3: it to Leg's wedding.

1647
01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 1: If you was beefing that they're with, you should have

1648
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:39,400
Speaker 1: been at that wedding. But honestly, I will say this,

1649
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 1: and y'all gonna be mad at me. The watchers, y'all

1650
01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:43,280
Speaker 1: was sitting in her mentions, wasn't putting up a good fight.

1651
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:45,800
Speaker 1: If y'all was gonna put up a good fight, y'all

1652
01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:47,400
Speaker 1: should have did better than that. Because I was trying

1653
01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 1: to be on y'all side.

1654
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 2: You wasn't because she didn't say she one thing I

1655
01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 2: love about my bes friend Lean, she don't be trying

1656
01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 2: to be on nobody's side of mind because.

1657
01:17:54,840 --> 01:17:57,599
Speaker 3: She retweeted that she and she put that little meanness head.

1658
01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:06,720
Speaker 2: Lean always what people about my girl, she gonna have

1659
01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:08,920
Speaker 2: my back and in Twitter stream.

1660
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,840
Speaker 1: Okay, honestly, I didn't even know it was vile.

1661
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:15,280
Speaker 3: I didn't even know when viral because.

1662
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:18,840
Speaker 1: I've seen it first on a spiritual world and I.

1663
01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 3: Said, what the hell is this?

1664
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:25,160
Speaker 1: And when I tell you, I'm sorry, But the first

1665
01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:27,879
Speaker 1: the first thing I seen was the one with the cuban.

1666
01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 1: That was the first tweet.

1667
01:18:29,880 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 2: I saw, and then I retweeted it and I just said, Okay.

1668
01:18:33,400 --> 01:18:36,679
Speaker 3: Then everybody was even more mad because what I told God,

1669
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:38,720
Speaker 3: why would you do that?

1670
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 1: Why?

1671
01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 2: I'm really in my own y'all gotta understand this about

1672
01:18:44,240 --> 01:18:47,240
Speaker 2: me y'all gonna see twenty twenty five. It's a new

1673
01:18:47,320 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 2: meaning not going back and forth with you niggas. I

1674
01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 2: never was the type to really go back and forth,

1675
01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 2: but sometimes I think we'll interact with people on Twitter

1676
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 2: like iry just say something else will get made.

1677
01:18:58,000 --> 01:18:58,839
Speaker 3: We might respond.

1678
01:18:58,920 --> 01:19:01,760
Speaker 1: I called out somebody's I know, we said you are

1679
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 1: aurful white man in America. You can't talk about what

1680
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 1: black women do. This world was handed to you.

1681
01:19:08,400 --> 01:19:10,320
Speaker 2: One thing about me and Lex. We will get upset

1682
01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 2: on Twitter and we will responding to people. But I'm

1683
01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:19,240
Speaker 2: trying to practice a new mantra going forward. Okay, because

1684
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 2: all you gotta do is hit the beach with an okay.

1685
01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:22,519
Speaker 3: It's simple and effected.

1686
01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:26,360
Speaker 4: It makes people feel so stupid if you if they

1687
01:19:26,600 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 4: if they put an elaborate post out and all you

1688
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:35,280
Speaker 4: say is okay, that post got ten k tweets, three tweets, Okay, yes,

1689
01:19:36,080 --> 01:19:36,559
Speaker 4: I don't.

1690
01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:40,840
Speaker 2: Even Everybody was cracking up in the comedy Damn because

1691
01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 2: she was like, she said, yeah, because my apple watch

1692
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 2: looks like this.

1693
01:19:47,360 --> 01:19:49,920
Speaker 1: You gotta stop right off.

1694
01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:54,160
Speaker 3: She hit the tax my apple wash looks like it.

1695
01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:58,800
Speaker 2: Was given what is it called q QC QB TV QBC,

1696
01:19:59,080 --> 01:20:04,280
Speaker 2: qb CC. She thought she was on that fucking TV channel.

1697
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:09,599
Speaker 2: She said, my Apple Watch was like the hell hell

1698
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,480
Speaker 2: a wait, and everybody was in the comments like exactly

1699
01:20:13,120 --> 01:20:14,960
Speaker 2: because what the fuck was she talking about?

1700
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:17,680
Speaker 1: They was like in her watch too, don't do that.

1701
01:20:17,920 --> 01:20:18,960
Speaker 1: It was people complimenting.

1702
01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:21,120
Speaker 2: No, I said, they were saying exactly what the fuck

1703
01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:23,720
Speaker 2: was I talking about? And then I was just like,

1704
01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 2: it's just the whole community of Tay people. It's crazy, okay,

1705
01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:31,880
Speaker 2: and I'm about to get cutsed out in these comings.

1706
01:20:32,479 --> 01:20:35,240
Speaker 1: But again, I don't.

1707
01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:40,760
Speaker 3: Like I said, where what you? I love flow Key.

1708
01:20:41,920 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 2: I probably shouldn't even put this out there, but I

1709
01:20:44,560 --> 01:20:46,400
Speaker 2: love being the building of poor minds.

1710
01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:46,920
Speaker 1: I feel like.

1711
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:51,680
Speaker 2: Everybody loved feet and everybody hates me. It is true

1712
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:54,559
Speaker 2: if you look at the comments. I say, everybody hates me,

1713
01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:58,840
Speaker 2: but I feel like everybody loves you.

1714
01:20:59,439 --> 01:21:01,800
Speaker 3: And then with me, they be like the people that

1715
01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:02,639
Speaker 3: love you.

1716
01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:05,760
Speaker 1: The people up, the people that love Drea. They have

1717
01:21:05,840 --> 01:21:08,400
Speaker 1: found their way to hate me. They have snuck over.

1718
01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:10,800
Speaker 3: To love Lex because they never say nothing about me.

1719
01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:14,280
Speaker 2: The people for them from your stand accounts, they're going

1720
01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:17,720
Speaker 2: to mention you in my sheep, my people, even if

1721
01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:19,080
Speaker 2: they like me and don't like you.

1722
01:21:19,160 --> 01:21:20,559
Speaker 3: Nobody ever be on your page.

1723
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:24,480
Speaker 1: You're talking about my supporters are the minaces.

1724
01:21:24,160 --> 01:21:28,240
Speaker 2: Yes, because your supporters be the ones that be like, yeah,

1725
01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 2: because I love les Drea stupid.

1726
01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:34,720
Speaker 3: My supporters don't say that to you.

1727
01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:35,240
Speaker 1: They don't be.

1728
01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:37,559
Speaker 2: They might not, people might not like you, but they

1729
01:21:37,560 --> 01:21:39,920
Speaker 2: don't be in your commedist talking about me, is what

1730
01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:40,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1731
01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:44,000
Speaker 1: They do. Oh, you're talking about my YouTube page.

1732
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:45,439
Speaker 3: I'm talking about in general.

1733
01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:48,439
Speaker 1: On no, in general, they definitely do. They be like

1734
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:53,360
Speaker 1: dre is so educated, so smart, she's so so that

1735
01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:56,479
Speaker 1: she got a smart bitch somebody. They be talking about

1736
01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 1: the way I look. Dreya needs to tell Lexi she

1737
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: can't dress d you're a liar. Oh I put this

1738
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 1: on my mother.

1739
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:08,800
Speaker 3: I'm not lying.

1740
01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:11,240
Speaker 1: They'd be like, Drea needs to be honest with lex

1741
01:22:11,280 --> 01:22:13,800
Speaker 1: about the way she dressed. She needs to tell her.

1742
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,080
Speaker 1: They do be saying that. Nobody probably don't see them

1743
01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:18,320
Speaker 1: because I delete them my ac.

1744
01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 2: I just be leaving them up because I be like whatever,

1745
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 2: somebody left the or sometimes I can't leave them. Somebody

1746
01:22:23,560 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 2: left the comment under the Brexfeast Club interview and they

1747
01:22:26,320 --> 01:22:30,679
Speaker 2: was like yeah, somebody said, uh, Drea, I mean Lex

1748
01:22:30,720 --> 01:22:35,280
Speaker 2: has always been my star. Drea will used to be boring.

1749
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:39,840
Speaker 2: I'm glad she caught on. Somebody left the comment and said, yeah,

1750
01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:42,840
Speaker 2: that's what I be saying. Lex is the star in

1751
01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:45,200
Speaker 2: the personality, Drea is boring.

1752
01:22:45,640 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 8: Misses me too, because I'm.

1753
01:22:56,800 --> 01:22:58,320
Speaker 3: Be y'all so sorry.

1754
01:22:58,680 --> 01:23:02,080
Speaker 2: But anytime people say anything like that about me and Les,

1755
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:03,599
Speaker 2: I have a good.

1756
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:07,080
Speaker 3: Key, because beach, are you hous dumb?

1757
01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:12,400
Speaker 2: We been two separate people our whole life, but' and

1758
01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 2: we came together indeed something amazing. I didn't need Lecks

1759
01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:19,519
Speaker 2: for for me to become who I was gonna become.

1760
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:22,519
Speaker 2: She didn't need me for me to for her to

1761
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:25,000
Speaker 2: become who she was gonna become. We were going to

1762
01:23:25,320 --> 01:23:27,960
Speaker 2: shine our lights regardless. We was gonna be straight in

1763
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:28,960
Speaker 2: life regardless.

1764
01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:32,840
Speaker 1: But it's not about that. It's more so that y'all

1765
01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:35,720
Speaker 1: see No, no, no, no, it's not about that. What it

1766
01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:38,719
Speaker 1: is about is y'all see two black women who come together,

1767
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:42,360
Speaker 1: who have different personalities, who made it work, and this

1768
01:23:42,439 --> 01:23:45,080
Speaker 1: chemistry is undeniable. That's why y'all are here. That's why

1769
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:46,760
Speaker 1: we were able to go on Breakfast Club that's why

1770
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 1: we have tribal queens. That's why we have all these

1771
01:23:48,960 --> 01:23:51,920
Speaker 1: endeavors that are working out for us. And the thing is,

1772
01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:56,800
Speaker 1: there's like look at the growers, TLC and drunk today.

1773
01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:58,200
Speaker 3: It ain't no such thing.

1774
01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:01,960
Speaker 1: T bars and left time and chili. They were a

1775
01:24:02,080 --> 01:24:06,719
Speaker 1: unit together. Baby, this is a unit, y'all have to understand. Yes,

1776
01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:09,840
Speaker 1: Drea is an entity on her own, Lexp is an

1777
01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:13,120
Speaker 1: entity on her own, but in no world, in any side,

1778
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 1: I don't care.

1779
01:24:13,560 --> 01:24:15,400
Speaker 3: Where do we not do this shit together?

1780
01:24:16,000 --> 01:24:16,160
Speaker 1: No?

1781
01:24:16,160 --> 01:24:18,679
Speaker 3: No, no, did I needed you?

1782
01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:21,920
Speaker 1: I don't care how. I know I'm a star, but

1783
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:25,200
Speaker 1: I needed I could not have done poor. There's no

1784
01:24:25,280 --> 01:24:26,679
Speaker 1: poor minds without Dre and the car.

1785
01:24:26,760 --> 01:24:27,639
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

1786
01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:30,320
Speaker 2: That's what I but that's literally what I just No, No,

1787
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:32,679
Speaker 2: you said no, that's not the point.

1788
01:24:32,760 --> 01:24:35,000
Speaker 3: I said, Yes I would.

1789
01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:37,400
Speaker 2: I don't be giving a fuck about what people be

1790
01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:40,280
Speaker 2: saying in the comments about you being a personality or

1791
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:42,800
Speaker 2: you being whatever, bach I being raw, my whole life,

1792
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:45,439
Speaker 2: check my resume. Let's go back to high school, let's

1793
01:24:45,439 --> 01:24:48,360
Speaker 2: go back to college, long before our met leaks. No disrespect,

1794
01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:51,559
Speaker 2: but I'm just saying respect. But I'm just saying, because

1795
01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:53,400
Speaker 2: I don't want it to seem that way, but it's

1796
01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:57,559
Speaker 2: like me and Lex are our own people. Neither one

1797
01:24:57,600 --> 01:25:00,240
Speaker 2: of us need each other to be nothing. He was

1798
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:03,080
Speaker 2: going to be amazing without me, regardless, because she's an

1799
01:25:03,080 --> 01:25:03,880
Speaker 2: amazing person.

1800
01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:07,240
Speaker 3: That's who God created her to be. Same thing with me.

1801
01:25:07,360 --> 01:25:10,360
Speaker 2: I was gonna be an amazing person regardless, because that's

1802
01:25:10,400 --> 01:25:13,280
Speaker 2: who God created me to be. We came together and

1803
01:25:13,320 --> 01:25:16,400
Speaker 2: we built something really special because that was obviously also

1804
01:25:16,720 --> 01:25:18,719
Speaker 2: again ordained in the past.

1805
01:25:19,120 --> 01:25:20,599
Speaker 3: This is what we were supposed to do.

1806
01:25:21,360 --> 01:25:25,240
Speaker 2: But when y'all be trying to throw shade and try

1807
01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:27,439
Speaker 2: to put us against each other, y'all not really doing

1808
01:25:27,479 --> 01:25:29,920
Speaker 2: it because me and Lex really having a good key.

1809
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:32,520
Speaker 1: Adding because if y'all go back to the older episodes,

1810
01:25:32,600 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 1: what I always said, you know how many and this

1811
01:25:35,280 --> 01:25:37,400
Speaker 1: is no shade to nobody. You know how many people

1812
01:25:37,439 --> 01:25:39,320
Speaker 1: in my life that I used to be friends with

1813
01:25:39,360 --> 01:25:41,720
Speaker 1: that I'm no longer friends with now wanted to do

1814
01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:43,840
Speaker 1: something with me and wanted to do this with me.

1815
01:25:43,880 --> 01:25:45,479
Speaker 1: I always felt like I just want to do something

1816
01:25:45,560 --> 01:25:47,160
Speaker 1: on my own, or maybe I'm just figuring out I

1817
01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:49,559
Speaker 1: don't know. When I met Drew, I was like Oh,

1818
01:25:49,600 --> 01:25:51,120
Speaker 1: we can do something together for real.

1819
01:25:51,280 --> 01:25:52,240
Speaker 3: I always said that.

1820
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:55,799
Speaker 1: Of course, when we started out, Drea wasn't as open

1821
01:25:55,880 --> 01:26:00,679
Speaker 1: because she's a private person. Never gave boring, were gay boring?

1822
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:03,800
Speaker 1: But I knew y'all didn't know what I knew and

1823
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:06,320
Speaker 1: what I saw, what I knew was gonna happen. We

1824
01:26:06,400 --> 01:26:09,200
Speaker 1: always talked about that in the older episode.

1825
01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:13,880
Speaker 2: But also to be fair, I also in early episodes,

1826
01:26:13,960 --> 01:26:16,640
Speaker 2: we've always talked about how you didn't even want to

1827
01:26:16,680 --> 01:26:19,639
Speaker 2: show your personality. You used to be like, I don't

1828
01:26:19,680 --> 01:26:21,400
Speaker 2: know if I should say these or don't. I don't

1829
01:26:21,439 --> 01:26:22,920
Speaker 2: know if I should do these because I don't know

1830
01:26:22,920 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 2: if people are gonna perceive me the right way. I'm

1831
01:26:25,439 --> 01:26:27,880
Speaker 2: not sure are people gonna feel about my personality. And

1832
01:26:27,920 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 2: I was always like, beat your funny. You have to

1833
01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:32,639
Speaker 2: start posting more content. You need to start showing more

1834
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:35,320
Speaker 2: of your personality. So it's not even to say that

1835
01:26:35,920 --> 01:26:36,599
Speaker 2: I mean nobody.

1836
01:26:36,600 --> 01:26:39,040
Speaker 3: It is to say we pushed each other. That's what

1837
01:26:39,040 --> 01:26:41,280
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Like, what do y'all be talking about?

1838
01:26:42,040 --> 01:26:45,240
Speaker 1: I just think they'd like to create a narrative because

1839
01:26:45,320 --> 01:26:48,200
Speaker 1: maybe they came in three years, in four years in

1840
01:26:48,240 --> 01:26:49,360
Speaker 1: we been doing now be sh'ld be.

1841
01:26:49,479 --> 01:26:52,000
Speaker 3: People from the beginning may be just weird.

1842
01:26:53,000 --> 01:26:56,559
Speaker 1: But you can't say that because people love you. I

1843
01:26:56,600 --> 01:26:57,519
Speaker 1: don't know, do they?

1844
01:26:57,840 --> 01:27:03,160
Speaker 2: Yes, shut up, Yes, I'm not playing the victim. I

1845
01:27:03,240 --> 01:27:06,360
Speaker 2: just feel like, but let me say this, and I

1846
01:27:06,360 --> 01:27:09,280
Speaker 2: feel like I've always said this. I be cool with

1847
01:27:09,400 --> 01:27:13,520
Speaker 2: she though, because I almost kind of like feel vindicated

1848
01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:15,439
Speaker 2: in effects that people like.

1849
01:27:15,560 --> 01:27:17,200
Speaker 3: I love the fact that people.

1850
01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:18,920
Speaker 2: Just be feeling some type of way about me and

1851
01:27:18,960 --> 01:27:20,880
Speaker 2: I do nothing, but exactly, I don't think they feel

1852
01:27:20,880 --> 01:27:21,760
Speaker 2: some type of way about you.

1853
01:27:21,960 --> 01:27:24,559
Speaker 1: They do. Some people don't understand you, but people who

1854
01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:27,720
Speaker 1: have whatever it is, they love you. Whatever it is,

1855
01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:30,719
Speaker 1: it's fine, they still have you.

1856
01:27:32,400 --> 01:27:35,120
Speaker 2: I just feel like I've been feeling that way my

1857
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:37,040
Speaker 2: whole life. I think that's where me and you have

1858
01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:40,639
Speaker 2: have differences. Like you've been liked your whole life.

1859
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:43,160
Speaker 3: Oh I'm the girl, Yeah about everybody.

1860
01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:45,720
Speaker 1: You've to do.

1861
01:27:49,240 --> 01:27:54,519
Speaker 2: Right, You've been liked since you were like in middle school, yeah,

1862
01:27:54,600 --> 01:27:56,519
Speaker 2: elementary school. Because I feel like you have more of

1863
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:59,960
Speaker 2: an underdog story. That's not my story. So I feel

1864
01:27:59,960 --> 01:28:02,200
Speaker 2: like that it makes it easier for people to like

1865
01:28:02,400 --> 01:28:05,000
Speaker 2: dislike me because I'm not really an underdog.

1866
01:28:04,760 --> 01:28:05,479
Speaker 3: Like I don't.

1867
01:28:05,600 --> 01:28:09,040
Speaker 2: I'm not as relatable and that's fine too, but it's

1868
01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:11,320
Speaker 2: always been that way since like high school.

1869
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:13,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know it's cool.

1870
01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:15,080
Speaker 1: I think the people who get it and get it

1871
01:28:15,120 --> 01:28:17,440
Speaker 1: and that people who don't don't and they understand the chemistry,

1872
01:28:17,439 --> 01:28:22,160
Speaker 1: but I don't. I will disagree with you. People fucking love.

1873
01:28:22,160 --> 01:28:24,400
Speaker 2: I don't think, don't give me. I think the people

1874
01:28:24,479 --> 01:28:26,719
Speaker 2: that fuck with me fuck with me. We both started

1875
01:28:26,800 --> 01:28:29,000
Speaker 2: separate ventures, and I feel like a lot of people

1876
01:28:29,040 --> 01:28:33,080
Speaker 2: support me too. On my own personal YouTube channel, them

1877
01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:38,120
Speaker 2: cell Set said it's at all but so people definitely fuck.

1878
01:28:39,560 --> 01:28:42,280
Speaker 3: Okay shot period.

1879
01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:45,679
Speaker 2: But yeah, I just think that, you know, I think

1880
01:28:45,800 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 2: you get a little more what I've said before, on

1881
01:28:50,200 --> 01:28:53,920
Speaker 2: the show, you get a little bit more understanding and

1882
01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:58,760
Speaker 2: reception than I think I get because I think people.

1883
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:01,439
Speaker 3: Just love to feel like I'm that's okay.

1884
01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:04,200
Speaker 2: I also think you like being a villain, though I

1885
01:29:04,280 --> 01:29:06,600
Speaker 2: don't you think I like I think you kind of like,

1886
01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:08,479
Speaker 2: why do you think I like you? I gotta kink

1887
01:29:08,520 --> 01:29:11,680
Speaker 2: a villain king like it's nothing bad, but I think

1888
01:29:11,720 --> 01:29:12,280
Speaker 2: you kind of.

1889
01:29:12,280 --> 01:29:15,040
Speaker 3: Like being that villain. Why do you think I like you?

1890
01:29:15,080 --> 01:29:16,080
Speaker 1: Because you're good at.

1891
01:29:15,960 --> 01:29:20,040
Speaker 2: It and I feel like because you don't care what

1892
01:29:20,160 --> 01:29:22,599
Speaker 2: people think, like that stuff be rolling off your shoulders,

1893
01:29:22,600 --> 01:29:25,160
Speaker 2: like you don't be really taking that in and wearing

1894
01:29:25,200 --> 01:29:27,760
Speaker 2: all these people comments. So it's really like, but y'all

1895
01:29:27,760 --> 01:29:30,000
Speaker 2: got thirty k on my wrists? What are you talking about? Like,

1896
01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:32,479
Speaker 2: I'm still a baddie like you. You know that you

1897
01:29:32,520 --> 01:29:35,160
Speaker 2: wear your confidence and that's beautiful. Yeah, but I think

1898
01:29:35,200 --> 01:29:38,200
Speaker 2: that's why people don't like sometimes they make it want

1899
01:29:38,200 --> 01:29:40,200
Speaker 2: to be not as confident because I be like, damn,

1900
01:29:40,320 --> 01:29:41,920
Speaker 2: I gotta be less confident for y'all to like me.

1901
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:45,800
Speaker 1: That's a beautiful thing about you, That's all I'm saying.

1902
01:29:45,880 --> 01:29:47,760
Speaker 1: That's why I be like, I hear you, but I

1903
01:29:47,800 --> 01:29:51,120
Speaker 1: don't feel you. I don't feel you. That's beautiful. That's

1904
01:29:51,120 --> 01:29:56,920
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing about you. Being unapologetic, unapologetically yourself is

1905
01:29:56,960 --> 01:30:01,320
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing. Like that's good. That's a good thing

1906
01:30:01,360 --> 01:30:04,160
Speaker 1: because it doesn't matter. There's a lane for everybody, and

1907
01:30:04,240 --> 01:30:08,160
Speaker 1: you have created a space for the bad bitches. It's

1908
01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:10,000
Speaker 1: so many bad bitches that want to get on the mike.

1909
01:30:10,040 --> 01:30:12,320
Speaker 2: I didn't even be liking to be categorized as a

1910
01:30:12,360 --> 01:30:14,320
Speaker 2: bad beach because like, what is the.

1911
01:30:15,800 --> 01:30:19,040
Speaker 1: It's whatever you Whatever you think it is a bad

1912
01:30:19,080 --> 01:30:22,160
Speaker 1: bitch is different to everybody. But what I'm saying is

1913
01:30:22,160 --> 01:30:27,120
Speaker 1: for this space, for this particular I don't because that's

1914
01:30:27,200 --> 01:30:31,200
Speaker 1: what it is. It's okay, that's okay. Because women who

1915
01:30:31,240 --> 01:30:34,400
Speaker 1: look like us, they were looked at as a certain way.

1916
01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:37,040
Speaker 1: We just talked about this on the Breakfast Club. I'm

1917
01:30:37,040 --> 01:30:39,800
Speaker 1: not trying to be funny. Now. Women who look like us,

1918
01:30:39,960 --> 01:30:42,800
Speaker 1: the BBL girls, the now, they'd be like, okay, let

1919
01:30:42,840 --> 01:30:47,439
Speaker 1: me show far let me show my personality. I'm so goofy,

1920
01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:51,360
Speaker 1: I'm so silly. Who told you to do that? Drain

1921
01:30:51,439 --> 01:30:55,880
Speaker 1: the colon XP And that's okay. You're supposed to be yourself.

1922
01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:59,080
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful thing. I think that people love you

1923
01:30:59,160 --> 01:31:02,160
Speaker 1: and people love you silently though, because to agree with

1924
01:31:02,240 --> 01:31:05,919
Speaker 1: Dryanda Cole, you're agreeing to be the Joker, you're agreeing

1925
01:31:05,960 --> 01:31:09,600
Speaker 1: to be bane. It's okay to agree with Batman. We

1926
01:31:09,680 --> 01:31:13,000
Speaker 1: can agree with Batman publicly, but guess how many people

1927
01:31:13,040 --> 01:31:16,840
Speaker 1: agree with Joker silently? Why do you think the Joker

1928
01:31:16,920 --> 01:31:19,400
Speaker 1: is literally one of the most popular villains because he's

1929
01:31:19,400 --> 01:31:21,840
Speaker 1: low key be right? Mm hmm.

1930
01:31:23,200 --> 01:31:26,280
Speaker 3: If Batman is sorry without the Joker.

1931
01:31:26,280 --> 01:31:29,320
Speaker 1: If we're being honest, I'm not that. I'm not sorry,

1932
01:31:29,320 --> 01:31:31,200
Speaker 1: but you know what, I'm strong. No, no, no, no,

1933
01:31:31,920 --> 01:31:34,160
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. You get what I'm getting at.

1934
01:31:34,240 --> 01:31:38,240
Speaker 2: But I think too again, I appreciate all of everything

1935
01:31:38,280 --> 01:31:40,960
Speaker 2: that you just said, but I think the worst, probably

1936
01:31:41,160 --> 01:31:43,639
Speaker 2: dealingiche thing about me is that I don't really give

1937
01:31:43,640 --> 01:31:44,160
Speaker 2: a fuck.

1938
01:31:44,000 --> 01:31:45,800
Speaker 1: For real, whether they agree with me or nice.

1939
01:31:46,320 --> 01:31:50,080
Speaker 2: But I was saying, I hate the bad bitch like

1940
01:31:50,400 --> 01:31:56,920
Speaker 2: aesthetic thing you're just because do you mean? I yeah, me,

1941
01:31:57,000 --> 01:31:59,320
Speaker 2: because this is who God created me to be. I'm

1942
01:31:59,320 --> 01:32:00,559
Speaker 2: not trying to be and steady.

1943
01:32:00,800 --> 01:32:03,160
Speaker 1: They're not an aesthetic. It's just what you are, though,

1944
01:32:03,720 --> 01:32:08,639
Speaker 1: It's just what you know. We're baddies. We are. We're

1945
01:32:08,680 --> 01:32:11,280
Speaker 1: beautiful women. That's why a lot of times people will

1946
01:32:11,320 --> 01:32:12,560
Speaker 1: see us.

1947
01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:14,840
Speaker 3: Before we look like the Joker and then coming.

1948
01:32:14,960 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn because they say, what y'all

1949
01:32:17,680 --> 01:32:22,160
Speaker 1: y'all cheekbones. Let me tell y'all something. Check the gaddy bitch,

1950
01:32:22,680 --> 01:32:27,720
Speaker 1: check the geddy. Do you know I really giddy?

1951
01:32:28,320 --> 01:32:28,639
Speaker 3: Okay?

1952
01:32:28,720 --> 01:32:31,679
Speaker 1: That ain't that? Ain't you? Was there? You? Was there?

1953
01:32:31,880 --> 01:32:32,439
Speaker 1: Come on? Now?

1954
01:32:32,800 --> 01:32:33,519
Speaker 3: It was a song.

1955
01:32:33,600 --> 01:32:36,320
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but that's because I'm the one

1956
01:32:36,360 --> 01:32:39,120
Speaker 1: who really giddy. But what I'm saying is the face

1957
01:32:39,200 --> 01:32:41,439
Speaker 1: cards are there. Y'all want us to feel so bad.

1958
01:32:41,680 --> 01:32:43,800
Speaker 1: Y'all call me loud. But as much as y'all say

1959
01:32:43,840 --> 01:32:47,000
Speaker 1: about Dre, y'all call me loud. Y'all be talking about

1960
01:32:47,120 --> 01:32:50,840
Speaker 1: I'm big, I'm overweight, I'm just this, and that, I

1961
01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:51,800
Speaker 1: don't I'm here though.

1962
01:32:51,960 --> 01:32:54,720
Speaker 2: They just be saying I'm stoopid and I'm having no,

1963
01:32:54,880 --> 01:32:59,000
Speaker 2: not stupid. They be saying Drea is such a fucking bitch.

1964
01:32:59,360 --> 01:33:03,719
Speaker 2: She always tries to purposely disagree with lex. She thinks

1965
01:33:03,760 --> 01:33:06,360
Speaker 2: that she knows everything, and she acts like she can't relate.

1966
01:33:06,400 --> 01:33:08,320
Speaker 2: That's what I always see the most about me. So

1967
01:33:08,320 --> 01:33:09,759
Speaker 2: that's why people like, oh, I'm a villain.

1968
01:33:10,000 --> 01:33:11,360
Speaker 3: Well, I think a lot of time it don't never

1969
01:33:11,400 --> 01:33:12,080
Speaker 3: be about my look.

1970
01:33:12,200 --> 01:33:15,080
Speaker 1: With the breakfast club interview, even with Roy and Mam,

1971
01:33:15,320 --> 01:33:17,639
Speaker 1: they looked at the comp they before they even started

1972
01:33:17,640 --> 01:33:20,200
Speaker 1: the episode. I'm seeing as soon as the episode drop,

1973
01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:21,320
Speaker 1: its comments already who.

1974
01:33:21,240 --> 01:33:23,759
Speaker 3: Are these birds? Who are these people?

1975
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:30,959
Speaker 1: Would can you listen? I'm educated, we both graduated from college.

1976
01:33:31,040 --> 01:33:33,160
Speaker 1: We've been doing this ship for second line.

1977
01:33:33,479 --> 01:33:41,360
Speaker 2: No, I'm lying don't look, but I love a good

1978
01:33:41,439 --> 01:33:42,320
Speaker 2: lie sometimes.

1979
01:33:42,439 --> 01:33:44,040
Speaker 1: We've been doing this for seven years. You know how

1980
01:33:44,040 --> 01:33:46,320
Speaker 1: many podcasts we've seen start and stop. But we did it.

1981
01:33:46,920 --> 01:33:50,479
Speaker 1: Can we just give some accolades and some hand claps

1982
01:33:50,840 --> 01:33:54,120
Speaker 1: for women who start businesses and keep going and don't

1983
01:33:54,160 --> 01:33:54,599
Speaker 1: give up.

1984
01:33:54,720 --> 01:33:58,479
Speaker 3: At the hand club being uh, what's his name? Hurricane Creuse?

1985
01:33:58,640 --> 01:33:59,920
Speaker 3: Let me get their hand club?

1986
01:34:00,160 --> 01:34:03,240
Speaker 1: Let me if I'm fum fum fum fum fum.

1987
01:34:03,120 --> 01:34:06,720
Speaker 3: Fum way or was that little bootsy? No that was

1988
01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:07,959
Speaker 3: let me get that handcloud?

1989
01:34:08,080 --> 01:34:12,439
Speaker 1: Was that was? That was Hurricane? I just said maybe

1990
01:34:13,120 --> 01:34:17,360
Speaker 1: maybe he did a remix little boosy. What the hell?

1991
01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:21,559
Speaker 1: My own boy Dick down in selling you did not.

1992
01:34:21,520 --> 01:34:25,280
Speaker 2: Have to and he thought it was okay to tell men.

1993
01:34:25,600 --> 01:34:28,160
Speaker 3: But you was on the phone like this, Now what happened?

1994
01:34:28,160 --> 01:34:28,320
Speaker 1: Then?

1995
01:34:30,000 --> 01:34:33,160
Speaker 3: Now what you did after that? You be liking that tea?

1996
01:34:33,760 --> 01:34:37,320
Speaker 2: This is not an Orthodoxy episode because we didn't even

1997
01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:38,880
Speaker 2: get into none of the topics.

1998
01:34:39,040 --> 01:34:41,639
Speaker 3: My homeboy sell it.

1999
01:34:41,680 --> 01:34:44,200
Speaker 1: So for the bad topic this week. If you have

2000
01:34:44,240 --> 01:34:46,800
Speaker 1: a homeboy who is Dick down to selly, right us

2001
01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:52,360
Speaker 1: in and let's talk about it on next week's episode. Okay, Now, uh,

2002
01:34:52,560 --> 01:34:55,000
Speaker 1: if you have a home. Was that dick down is Sealey?

2003
01:34:55,080 --> 01:34:57,080
Speaker 1: I want to know what went down in that sell it?

2004
01:34:57,160 --> 01:34:57,519
Speaker 1: Tell me?

2005
01:34:57,600 --> 01:34:59,800
Speaker 2: I don't want to know that actually because I feel

2006
01:34:59,800 --> 01:35:03,120
Speaker 2: like it's definitely smelling like but this in there it's.

2007
01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:06,760
Speaker 1: Lex p you got sell mats one, two, three, it

2008
01:35:06,840 --> 01:35:10,120
Speaker 1: went down? I want to know who suck hadn't gave

2009
01:35:10,200 --> 01:35:11,719
Speaker 1: the meat?

2010
01:35:12,240 --> 01:35:19,599
Speaker 3: That eight's girl the nick down her selling.

2011
01:35:20,040 --> 01:35:22,959
Speaker 1: Okay, now it's time to.

2012
01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:29,479
Speaker 3: Get and she about to get what you got?

2013
01:35:29,520 --> 01:35:35,680
Speaker 2: What I said, I'm coating broomsticking by the leaking broomsticking

2014
01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:37,639
Speaker 2: that's going in jail?

2015
01:35:37,680 --> 01:35:41,639
Speaker 1: Do they the women prison? Nobody talks about that. They

2016
01:35:41,640 --> 01:35:43,519
Speaker 1: don't talk about the struggles of women prison.

2017
01:35:43,640 --> 01:35:46,960
Speaker 2: We should have a whole a woman sale mate, look

2018
01:35:47,040 --> 01:35:48,200
Speaker 2: up a woman.

2019
01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:49,920
Speaker 1: Who has been in jail for like five years to

2020
01:35:49,920 --> 01:35:50,479
Speaker 1: come on the show.

2021
01:35:50,560 --> 01:35:51,799
Speaker 3: But somebody that's not gonna.

2022
01:35:51,600 --> 01:35:55,799
Speaker 2: Like somebody that's been released. And we're not like no murders,

2023
01:35:56,120 --> 01:35:57,240
Speaker 2: y'all a sugarl xp.

2024
01:35:57,640 --> 01:36:00,479
Speaker 1: And is sugarld the call y'all know we have a

2025
01:36:00,520 --> 01:36:03,120
Speaker 1: segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But

2026
01:36:03,240 --> 01:36:04,960
Speaker 1: do you have a product or something that you want

2027
01:36:04,960 --> 01:36:07,160
Speaker 1: to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds.

2028
01:36:07,280 --> 01:36:09,519
Speaker 1: Your opportunity is here period.

2029
01:36:09,960 --> 01:36:12,040
Speaker 2: If you have an item or you have a business

2030
01:36:12,040 --> 01:36:14,080
Speaker 2: and you want to get it promoted. We are now

2031
01:36:14,120 --> 01:36:17,439
Speaker 2: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

2032
01:36:17,439 --> 01:36:19,760
Speaker 2: you would like to get your product featured for Item

2033
01:36:19,840 --> 01:36:22,080
Speaker 2: of the Week, all you need to do is send

2034
01:36:22,120 --> 01:36:25,360
Speaker 2: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

2035
01:36:25,400 --> 01:36:26,080
Speaker 2: dot com.

2036
01:36:26,240 --> 01:36:28,360
Speaker 3: That's I T E M O.

2037
01:36:28,720 --> 01:36:32,839
Speaker 2: F T H E W E E K PM at

2038
01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:36,599
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. Send us an email and we'll work

2039
01:36:36,640 --> 01:36:38,920
Speaker 2: it out. We gonna figure it out, get your product,

2040
01:36:39,000 --> 01:36:42,479
Speaker 2: get your business sponsored, and yeah, make you some money.

2041
01:36:43,479 --> 01:36:44,320
Speaker 1: We love to more.

2042
01:36:44,360 --> 01:36:47,560
Speaker 3: A small business man and a black business said that,

2043
01:36:47,760 --> 01:36:48,120
Speaker 3: but I.

2044
01:36:48,080 --> 01:36:51,040
Speaker 1: Mean a scramminade.

2045
01:36:51,160 --> 01:36:53,240
Speaker 3: Any businesses welcome.

2046
01:36:55,880 --> 01:36:58,160
Speaker 1: What's up y'all? As your girl XP and it's your

2047
01:36:58,200 --> 01:37:01,000
Speaker 1: girl drain a call and we have a very exciting

2048
01:37:01,120 --> 01:37:04,599
Speaker 1: announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. Yes,

2049
01:37:04,920 --> 01:37:05,639
Speaker 1: we have a brand.

2050
01:37:05,439 --> 01:37:07,360
Speaker 3: New shower dropping y'all on Patreon.

2051
01:37:07,479 --> 01:37:10,440
Speaker 2: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.

2052
01:37:10,479 --> 01:37:12,439
Speaker 2: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're

2053
01:37:12,439 --> 01:37:15,599
Speaker 2: gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bill

2054
01:37:15,640 --> 01:37:17,479
Speaker 2: and Roche, where the hell could you go.

2055
01:37:18,680 --> 01:37:22,639
Speaker 1: If you can't go to Bellanche, What the hell we're

2056
01:37:22,640 --> 01:37:23,200
Speaker 1: gonna be doing.

2057
01:37:23,600 --> 01:37:25,680
Speaker 3: Talk to me, chit chat with me. We're gonna be

2058
01:37:25,680 --> 01:37:27,080
Speaker 3: speeling a little tea.

2059
01:37:27,840 --> 01:37:30,759
Speaker 1: Oh my god, No you didn't.

2060
01:37:33,000 --> 01:37:35,840
Speaker 2: God, everything y'all been wanting to see, We're gonna be

2061
01:37:35,840 --> 01:37:37,839
Speaker 2: doing it right here on Patreon.

2062
01:37:38,040 --> 01:37:40,439
Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been

2063
01:37:40,479 --> 01:37:44,000
Speaker 1: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's

2064
01:37:44,000 --> 01:37:46,880
Speaker 1: gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Minds has grown

2065
01:37:47,120 --> 01:37:49,559
Speaker 1: into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a

2066
01:37:49,680 --> 01:37:53,600
Speaker 1: lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles. So

2067
01:37:53,680 --> 01:37:55,480
Speaker 1: make sure y'all tune in September.

2068
01:37:55,800 --> 01:37:56,200
Speaker 3: Second.

2069
01:37:56,240 --> 01:37:57,840
Speaker 1: It's going down, says.

2070
01:38:04,800 --> 01:38:06,639
Speaker 3: My bop of the week. My bop of the week.

2071
01:38:06,800 --> 01:38:09,080
Speaker 1: I do have to say this because I was riding

2072
01:38:09,479 --> 01:38:11,479
Speaker 1: to work today and I just wanted to have some

2073
01:38:11,520 --> 01:38:13,640
Speaker 1: throwback music because I'm not gonna lie. I'm tired of

2074
01:38:13,680 --> 01:38:18,320
Speaker 1: this era of music record labels. Let's stop with a tick.

2075
01:38:18,800 --> 01:38:21,920
Speaker 1: Stop only signing people if they have a TikTok hit.

2076
01:38:22,439 --> 01:38:26,599
Speaker 1: This ship is trash. The TikTok thirty second clip be fired,

2077
01:38:26,680 --> 01:38:29,320
Speaker 1: but the whole song be trash. You know what I

2078
01:38:29,360 --> 01:38:32,000
Speaker 1: listened to Today on the way here, I let you

2079
01:38:32,080 --> 01:38:36,840
Speaker 1: come on money Baby. You remember that that was Hey Camp,

2080
01:38:37,000 --> 01:38:40,599
Speaker 1: k Camp, Yeah, fucking Fatty wid We don't get hits

2081
01:38:40,640 --> 01:38:47,320
Speaker 1: like that no more. We can't dance in the club

2082
01:38:47,439 --> 01:38:53,160
Speaker 1: no more. Man, k Camp got soft. I'll let you

2083
01:38:53,240 --> 01:38:57,920
Speaker 1: come my money baby, you my honey, man. We don't

2084
01:38:57,920 --> 01:39:00,519
Speaker 1: get songs like that. They always looking like, yeah right,

2085
01:39:00,960 --> 01:39:04,320
Speaker 1: I'm telling you Camp featuring Fatty.

2086
01:39:04,439 --> 01:39:05,000
Speaker 3: Get on the train.

2087
01:39:05,120 --> 01:39:07,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have like a poor mind single. So you

2088
01:39:07,439 --> 01:39:09,200
Speaker 2: know what I'm doing for my birthday? Right, You're going

2089
01:39:09,240 --> 01:39:12,200
Speaker 2: to stud where I'm gonna get a studio. That's what

2090
01:39:12,200 --> 01:39:15,479
Speaker 2: we're doing. And everybody gotta write your best verse. I'm

2091
01:39:15,479 --> 01:39:20,040
Speaker 2: not gonna write. I'm gonna be like l Wayne, Oh no, please.

2092
01:39:19,720 --> 01:39:20,760
Speaker 3: Write a verse.

2093
01:39:21,160 --> 01:39:26,719
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Okay, we gonna need you to write.

2094
01:39:27,200 --> 01:39:29,760
Speaker 3: I'm right, okay, it's gonna be so off.

2095
01:39:29,800 --> 01:39:31,639
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get somebody to write my verse. I'm gonna

2096
01:39:31,640 --> 01:39:33,080
Speaker 1: act like I wrote it, and it's gonna be so

2097
01:39:33,120 --> 01:39:35,400
Speaker 1: y'all gonna be like, oh.

2098
01:39:34,760 --> 01:39:36,519
Speaker 2: Oh, I got some I do have somebody that I

2099
01:39:36,560 --> 01:39:40,479
Speaker 2: will write my verse. So mm, I can't tell you

2100
01:39:40,520 --> 01:39:42,719
Speaker 2: what I might be thinking about the same person.

2101
01:39:42,800 --> 01:39:46,160
Speaker 1: No, I'm definitely thinking about somebody different cause mine is

2102
01:39:46,240 --> 01:39:48,760
Speaker 1: like nobody knows that he can really really rap. He

2103
01:39:48,840 --> 01:39:52,040
Speaker 1: never became famous, he never did nothing, but he got

2104
01:39:52,080 --> 01:39:56,080
Speaker 1: them bored. Oh you gonna hear him?

2105
01:39:56,640 --> 01:39:58,840
Speaker 3: You got a direct Oh you do, got a direct line?

2106
01:39:59,439 --> 01:40:06,559
Speaker 3: I have his number? Is okay?

2107
01:40:06,560 --> 01:40:07,400
Speaker 1: What's your Papa the Week?

2108
01:40:07,439 --> 01:40:09,360
Speaker 3: What's your bob? Seeing Green?

2109
01:40:10,920 --> 01:40:15,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of oh my god, speaking of all school songs. Well,

2110
01:40:15,520 --> 01:40:18,040
Speaker 2: only because I'm gonna tell y'all why I love this song. Right,

2111
01:40:20,240 --> 01:40:25,519
Speaker 2: niggas was really trying to count Lil Wayne out. Y'all

2112
01:40:25,640 --> 01:40:28,280
Speaker 2: was really trying to play on his top, like he

2113
01:40:28,439 --> 01:40:30,680
Speaker 2: is not the greatest of our generation.

2114
01:40:31,040 --> 01:40:31,599
Speaker 1: That's a fact.

2115
01:40:31,760 --> 01:40:33,680
Speaker 3: And it's just no shade to.

2116
01:40:33,680 --> 01:40:35,519
Speaker 2: Someone else because I'm not gonna say no name, but

2117
01:40:35,600 --> 01:40:37,479
Speaker 2: y'all was trying to say somebody else is gonna be

2118
01:40:37,680 --> 01:40:46,400
Speaker 2: the new Lil Wayne, And it's like, okay, but like

2119
01:40:46,960 --> 01:40:50,760
Speaker 2: Lil Wayne is really that cold. And I feel like

2120
01:40:50,840 --> 01:40:52,920
Speaker 2: when he came out with the Seeing Green, well that

2121
01:40:53,040 --> 01:40:56,200
Speaker 2: was Nikki song first and foremost, But when Sea and

2122
01:40:56,240 --> 01:40:59,480
Speaker 2: Green came out, I really think it showed.

2123
01:40:59,200 --> 01:41:02,880
Speaker 3: Niggas that, like, lot lo Wayne's still here.

2124
01:41:03,439 --> 01:41:05,360
Speaker 2: You know why I keep them and he could really

2125
01:41:05,400 --> 01:41:08,840
Speaker 2: pop out when he wants to. He choose to be

2126
01:41:09,280 --> 01:41:12,400
Speaker 2: ducks off in the cut. He choose to live a humble,

2127
01:41:12,479 --> 01:41:14,840
Speaker 2: low key lifestyle. But when he want to pop out,

2128
01:41:15,360 --> 01:41:18,680
Speaker 2: he can. And I think seeing Green showed us that

2129
01:41:18,680 --> 01:41:21,040
Speaker 2: that was a great summer. That was with Summer twenty

2130
01:41:21,080 --> 01:41:23,519
Speaker 2: twenty one. That was when I turned thirty. That was

2131
01:41:23,520 --> 01:41:24,439
Speaker 2: a year I turned thirty.

2132
01:41:24,439 --> 01:41:25,479
Speaker 1: We had a great year.

2133
01:41:26,040 --> 01:41:27,240
Speaker 3: What do we do for your thirty year?

2134
01:41:27,520 --> 01:41:31,040
Speaker 1: What's man? You know what I listened to yesterday?

2135
01:41:31,120 --> 01:41:34,639
Speaker 3: I got a few things. I listened to that song

2136
01:41:34,680 --> 01:41:35,240
Speaker 3: the other day.

2137
01:41:35,920 --> 01:41:39,880
Speaker 1: You know, I keep that White Girl, that Lindsey's Low Huh.

2138
01:41:39,920 --> 01:41:41,840
Speaker 3: You got Christina at your liver?

2139
01:41:42,240 --> 01:41:45,400
Speaker 1: Man? That was I remember that. That was how you know,

2140
01:41:45,439 --> 01:41:48,120
Speaker 1: we don't but we don't get music like that no more.

2141
01:41:48,600 --> 01:41:52,599
Speaker 1: That Gezy era in the Strip Club, Oh my god,

2142
01:41:52,680 --> 01:41:56,040
Speaker 1: it was life change. Jane God. I feel like when.

2143
01:41:57,360 --> 01:42:01,959
Speaker 2: Jez and Gucci and all the started getting oh, that's when.

2144
01:42:03,800 --> 01:42:04,400
Speaker 3: It died.

2145
01:42:05,680 --> 01:42:11,679
Speaker 1: It died. Oh, y'all have to something has to happen

2146
01:42:12,640 --> 01:42:14,800
Speaker 1: that Gez era. Y'all don't get it. Y'all was too

2147
01:42:14,840 --> 01:42:18,200
Speaker 1: young when Jeez was dropping this music in the Strip Club.

2148
01:42:18,880 --> 01:42:21,880
Speaker 1: My life changed when that right to.

2149
01:42:23,680 --> 01:42:24,559
Speaker 3: Lord knows to stay.

2150
01:42:24,800 --> 01:42:28,680
Speaker 1: But when that came on, the dancers would run to

2151
01:42:28,760 --> 01:42:32,439
Speaker 1: the and they would shake and pop that pussy like

2152
01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:34,040
Speaker 1: their life depended on it.

2153
01:42:34,080 --> 01:42:36,200
Speaker 3: Gonna shake that ass, beach, I'm gona throw this many.

2154
01:42:38,080 --> 01:42:40,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, y'all don't get it.

2155
01:42:41,680 --> 01:42:43,400
Speaker 3: Y'all, don't get y'all will never get it.

2156
01:42:43,680 --> 01:42:45,559
Speaker 1: All right, moving on, moving on, All right, it's time

2157
01:42:45,600 --> 01:42:48,320
Speaker 1: to get into our favorite segment of the week. Pour

2158
01:42:48,400 --> 01:42:51,080
Speaker 1: your heart out.

2159
01:42:51,280 --> 01:42:51,800
Speaker 3: One question.

2160
01:42:52,080 --> 01:42:52,639
Speaker 1: Let's do one.

2161
01:42:53,160 --> 01:42:53,680
Speaker 3: Let's do one.

2162
01:42:53,720 --> 01:42:55,240
Speaker 1: Pour your heart out if you want your question to

2163
01:42:55,240 --> 01:42:56,760
Speaker 1: answer on the show, and make sure you email us

2164
01:42:57,040 --> 01:42:59,200
Speaker 1: and ask poor minds at gmail dot com. If you're

2165
01:42:59,200 --> 01:43:01,280
Speaker 1: a Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline.

2166
01:43:01,400 --> 01:43:02,679
Speaker 3: You get to skip the line. Go ahead.

2167
01:43:02,760 --> 01:43:06,640
Speaker 2: Drea, Hey, Drea and Lex. I love y'all show so

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Speaker 2: much and proud of everything you have all accomplished together

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Speaker 2: and individually. You all inspired me every week to chase

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Speaker 2: after my dreams.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so here's where I need some advice. I lost

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Speaker 2: my job about two months ago. At first, I felt

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Speaker 2: defeated and worth least because I've never been unemployed before.

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Speaker 2: But God knew I didn't want to be there, and

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Speaker 2: I was ready for a change. Fast forward two months

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Speaker 2: and I'm still unemployed in trying to figure things out

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Speaker 2: as a hairstylist. I've loved hair since I can remember,

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Speaker 2: and I went to cosmetology school, graduated, and became licensed

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Speaker 2: about a year ago.

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Speaker 3: This transition has been hard.

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Speaker 2: And I often feel like giving up because I don't

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Speaker 2: know where to start. I've reached out to more established

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Speaker 2: stylists and salons to help me grow and master my skills,

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Speaker 2: but haven't had much luck. I'm unsure if I should

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Speaker 2: keep going or pivot. Y'all's advicesppreciated. Oh, go ahead, you

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Speaker 2: want to go first, you go first.

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Speaker 3: I just think.

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Speaker 1: That's a little a different area because when you're giving

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Speaker 1: a service to someone I know what that field is

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Speaker 1: hard because again I talk about d D all the time,

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Speaker 1: and she's been in that field for a long time

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Speaker 1: and it took her. She was telling me how long

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Speaker 1: she's been doing it and how long it took her

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Speaker 1: to get her footing in it. But I think that

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Speaker 1: if you're passionate about something, you have to show your passion,

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Speaker 1: you know, like it'll happen for you. I know it

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Speaker 1: sounds so cliche, but it's like you and you have

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Speaker 1: to get creative too, but you if you give good service.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all something.

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Speaker 1: When I say I found d D off of like

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Speaker 1: a random post that went by all of hers like

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Speaker 1: six years ago, and I've been going to this girl

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Speaker 1: for six years. And people in the industry who are

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Speaker 1: heavy hitters like a When I told Alonzo Hou did

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Speaker 1: my hair, he was.

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, you know DD, like I'm at d D.

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Speaker 1: Like. So, when you're good at what you do and

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Speaker 1: you don't need the accolades a million followers and this,

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Speaker 1: and just give good service to people, and when you're

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Speaker 1: good at what you do, you will excel and if

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Speaker 1: you keep consistent at it. Sometimes, though I talked to

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Speaker 1: somebody about this the other day, sometimes you know what

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do somebody here for fifty dollars,

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Speaker 1: you might have to do somebody here for free. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm much shit that we did that. We didn't get

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Speaker 1: paid for, but it paid off because we made these connections.

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Speaker 1: I understand rent do. I'm not saying do everything for free,

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Speaker 1: but sometimes you gotta make connections and do things you

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Speaker 1: never know. But when you treat somebody, well, give them

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Speaker 1: good service. Guess what, when people come to get their

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Speaker 1: hair done, if you can wash and break their hair down,

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Speaker 1: you already won because people be wanting you can wash

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Speaker 1: and break down anyway. You doing that off the rip,

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Speaker 1: you gonna win. So I just think in this day

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Speaker 1: and age, people have forgot the meaning of being a

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Speaker 1: good person and giving people good service. So I think

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Speaker 1: if you focus on that, the transition is hard, but

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Speaker 1: keep going. Because I had that transition of trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out who I was and what I wanted to do,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, I know, I'm funny,

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Speaker 1: I know I'm entertaining, and all I want to do

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Speaker 1: is make people feel good. I'm not gonna stop until

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Speaker 1: I make people fucking feel good. So when you're really

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Speaker 1: passionate about something, you're not gonna let anything get in

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Speaker 1: your way. I agree, period. Can I say something absolutely, I.

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Speaker 2: Feel like, for when you're in a service industry, whether

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Speaker 2: it's so saturated, because here is a saturated industry, bartending

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Speaker 2: is a saturated industry, I think you need to find

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Speaker 2: ways to be innovative in your craft and stand out

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Speaker 2: amongst everyone else. And that's something that I had to

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Speaker 2: do as being a bartender and starting my own bar

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Speaker 2: catering company, Like I had to put in those ten

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Speaker 2: thousand hours to be to get in front of some

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Speaker 2: of the mentors or some of the people that I

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Speaker 2: looked up to and wanted them to become my mentors,

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Speaker 2: because why would they just want to mentor someone that's

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Speaker 2: fresh out of whatever program and haven't tried as much,

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Speaker 2: you know, or haven't had those opportunities yet. They need

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Speaker 2: you got to be able to showcase your talent, your

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Speaker 2: passion and why you're here and why they should give

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Speaker 2: you a chance to. But I really think as a

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Speaker 2: business person, just finding creative ways that that's gonna set

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Speaker 2: you apart from anybody else in your field, in your industry.

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Speaker 1: Own that.

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Speaker 2: Learn that and be open to continuously learning and being

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Speaker 2: educated in what you're doing, and that's what's going to

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Speaker 2: like propel you a little bit more too. But give

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Speaker 2: yourself some grace and give yourself some time.

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Speaker 3: To grow in your profession. Agree, because you got to

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Speaker 3: be pay shipped.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that's what people be thinking, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I've been doing this for three years, that's not enough.

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Speaker 1: Three years ain't nothing that's light work all right, All right, y'all,

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Speaker 2: stay tuned and see where we at next.

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Speaker 2: See that's what they call you, y'all.

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Speaker 3: That good stuff.

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Speaker 1: And let me say this before we close off, y'all,

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Speaker 1: there is one Twitter account that is connected to pour minds.

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Speaker 1: It's p O. You are underscore in my nds. Y'all

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Speaker 1: are tagging the wrong poor minds page. If you see

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Speaker 1: at poor minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,

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Speaker 1: do not follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea

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Speaker 1: and the poor Minds page on both so we only

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Speaker 1: have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

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Speaker 3: It is p O. You are underscore in my nds,

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Speaker 3: all right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page.

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Speaker 3: The Facebook page, our Facebook.

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Speaker 2: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

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Speaker 2: least amount of follow So if you're on Facebook one

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Speaker 2: that's ours, y'all.

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Speaker 1: The least amount of f.

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Speaker 3: One that's not a It's got like two hundred and

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Speaker 3: fifty thou.

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Speaker 1: Make if you actually look at the content because the

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Speaker 1: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English because

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Speaker 1: their captains are like bumba clade.

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Speaker 3: Should men?

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Speaker 1: Should men pay? Bill? Should men pay bill yes, no

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Speaker 1: check answer.

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Speaker 2: Below block block pullo pollo poio like that's literally what

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Speaker 2: the captions.

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Speaker 3: I'm like you, what that DG is?

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Speaker 1: Bumba claude, bamba claude.

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Speaker 3: Hey do you want to be down? Are you down?

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Speaker 1: Dre and the cold with three e's Oh my hair

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Speaker 1: got in your thing?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, hit it, hit it, give it to him

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Speaker 3: just like that.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: How to get to know if I could be.

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Speaker 1: The can up girl you could be down for cause

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Speaker 1: when I look at you, I see something tell me

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Speaker 1: the sure the kind of guy that I should make

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Speaker 1: him more.

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Speaker 5: And if I don't let you know, then I won't

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Speaker 5: be for real.

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Speaker 1: Roland feel like something good be going on.

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Speaker 3: The more I see, the more that it becomes so true.

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Speaker 3: There ain't no other for me.

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Speaker 1: Only I won't to mean well, what you go through,

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Speaker 1: I wont to read. I want to be now, no

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Speaker 1: matter time of dagging night. It's true.

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Speaker 5: I want to be now knowing anybody he's gonna be lone.

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Speaker 3: Without the reason they Hey, you got someone to care for?

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Speaker 1: Maybe babe, you need a shoulder to cry on.

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Speaker 3: If that's up that thing, I'll be money you.

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Speaker 1: E's a dream.

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Speaker 5: If all you need is my time, that I got plenty,

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Speaker 5: our dad, a kat on, my love.

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Speaker 1: To you, only paper. I wanna stay by Guessa, be

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Speaker 1: there to cool you out and let you know every Yeah,

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Speaker 1: with what you're going through, I want. I mean down.

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Speaker 1: I won't. I mean down in no matter time.

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Speaker 3: I'm dagging night extre I won't.

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Speaker 1: I mean now. Okay, all right, we're gonna see it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna you know what, got got the cameras, got

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Speaker 1: the cameras.

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Speaker 3: It's time to go, bitch. We'll see y'all next week.

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Speaker 5: Hm h