1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer, 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Ready, Steve, yes, Yes, here we go, Andre 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: and silver Lake. 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 2: Right. 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: So things were great with my girlfriend until she said 6 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: she doesn't want to have premarital sex. I'm twenty five 7 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: and not ready for marriage, so I spend time with 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: my girlfriend and I have sex with someone else. Is 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: there a better solution for my dilemma? 10 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 3: I think I think you nailed it, dog, that you 11 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 3: got it. 12 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 2: I don't see know all the way to do this here. 13 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 2: I'm your work here is done. 14 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: Learn it. 15 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,919 Speaker 3: Just hey, man, you get ready for marriage and she 16 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 3: ain't giving up none to marriage. Respect that honor that 17 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 3: praise something for that. You got a good girl, man, 18 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: hang on to that. But now I'm gona tell you 19 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 3: what's gonna happen though the one just over that passing 20 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 3: a little something outcome. 21 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: Be good. 22 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: No, I want you to know it's gonna be gonna 23 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 2: be a mind twister. 24 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 4: Hard regulator in I marrier. 25 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be hard. 26 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 3: To tell y'all that abster this is best and you know, 27 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 3: scripturally speaking of she's correct, and you know, but I'm 28 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 3: I can't tell you to do something I wouldn't able 29 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 3: to do. 30 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 2: So I ain't even gonna sit up here in front 31 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: with you. 32 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 4: I I can't no rocks. 33 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: I can't throw no rocks on this one. 34 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 3: So just yeah, that other girl. But now that's gonna 35 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 3: give me a little piece of advice. 36 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 4: Though okay, sounds serious. 37 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 3: The person that you do try to sneak with, try 38 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 3: to make sure that she has, you know, other qualities, 39 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: because you may find what you're looking for in her. 40 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: So h, I don't I'm in little. Let me just 41 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 3: say this. I don't think it's gonna work out. It's 42 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 3: around him, it's gonna work out. I don't see it. 43 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 4: I just don't know why. 44 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,119 Speaker 2: But the most important thing, I guess I'm to tie 45 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 2: you open. 46 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 3: That's the most see trying to talk. 47 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 4: I don't know. All right, we're gonna move on. 48 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, one second, I think this young man needs to 49 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 3: realize this is not how it works. You can't be 50 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 3: in love with her and doing her. That does not 51 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 3: work out in the long run. Somebody gonna get busted 52 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: because first of all, he will. 53 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 2: You're not really good at cheating, not at twenty five. 54 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 2: Just like good you gonna get busted. So just want 55 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 2: to let you know that. 56 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 1: Go ahead, you all right, next one, Lawrence indicatur rites. 57 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: I'm blessed to have a great job so my wife 58 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: can stay home and live the soft life. But lately 59 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: she's been saying that she wants to get a job. 60 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: None of the other wise in our friend group work. 61 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: So will I look like a failure if my wife 62 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: starts working? I love him? 63 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 2: No, No, you. 64 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 3: Think I think that's the subject that you and your 65 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 3: wife have to deal with. You know, maybe she's just 66 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 3: not cut to be a stay at home mom right now, 67 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: and she wants to pursue her things in the working 68 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 3: class too. 69 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: You gotta let her do that. 70 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: You know, Well, he doesn't want to look like a failure. 71 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: If she goes to work. Then you know his boys 72 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: will be saying, you know, they'll be talking. 73 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: About well, you know, it ain't a business, that's right, 74 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 3: that's u. Let me give you all the suggestion keep 75 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 3: people out your marriage, And now I'm just telling you 76 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 3: that right there, form that two handed circle and go 77 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 3: on by your hisness, keep them other people out your marriage. 78 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 2: This ain't their house. 79 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 3: You know. As long as you and your wife on 80 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 3: the same page, y'all be on the same page, trying 81 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: to do like the Jones is up to Shrek, gonna 82 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 3: hurt you, Yeah. 83 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 4: But I love you. 84 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: I set ain't doing good with that system. 85 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 4: All the wives in his friend group, none of them work. 86 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 2: All right, a lot of work. 87 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 3: You'd be done in two weeks, all. 88 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 4: Right, I know, I know. And women's history months too. 89 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 2: Wow. All right, Uh, we're just finding out about this. 90 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 4: No, no, it happens every year, all right. 91 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: Moving on to Karen in Southfield, Karen writes, I got 92 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: a divorced four years ago and we've had two kids 93 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: together since our divorce. I have no intention of being 94 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: with him long term. It's just good sex and that's it. 95 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,799 Speaker 1: He said he doesn't want me to ever have another 96 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: man around his children. Why is he making this situation 97 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: more complicated than it has to be? 98 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 2: Why did you make it no complicated? 99 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 3: You've divorced a man, and since the divorce, you've had 100 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 3: two children by this man. You don't want the relationship, 101 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 3: but it's good sex. It's such good sex, y'all making 102 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 3: kids good. Now, he'd have told you he don't want 103 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 3: another man around his kids. 104 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 2: Why is he making this situation difficult? You did? 105 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 3: You gave it to him, and you got pregnant, both 106 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 3: of y'all, so deal with it. We don't have no 107 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 3: answer for this foolishness. 108 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 2: Next year the last one. 109 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna twist my brain up trying to 110 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: figure this one out. 111 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's just crazy. 112 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Colo. This is the last one from 113 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: versay in Omaha. Varsha says, I'm having sex with a 114 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: guy in the apartment next to me. He lives with 115 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: his girlfriend, so he has to sneak into my door 116 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: before he goes home. He said he wants to leave 117 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: her and be with me. Will he cheat on me? 118 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: Like he's cheating on his girl old friend. 119 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:10,679 Speaker 3: Right next door, right next door, right next doe. Y'all, 120 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 3: y'all been not having no neighbors. Y'all gonna have to 121 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: move out into a single family dwelling way out like 122 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 3: Arizona somewhere. Get you one of them houses up there 123 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 3: by by the mountain, and just you can't have no 124 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 3: neighbors around him. 125 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 2: And he does what's called convenient cheating. 126 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh, because she's so close in proximity. 127 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, location, we go in yr dough right before he 128 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 3: go next door to his house. 129 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 2: I can't tell you how dangerous that is. I can't. 130 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 3: I can't hell you this boy, this boy here here 131 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 3: a new KINDI. 132 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 4: And are they quiet in the apartment? Are they quiet 133 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 4: in there? He can't make a lot of noise. 134 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 2: She knows him. 135 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 3: You know he can't because he gonna he gotta make 136 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 3: the same sounds he make over there. 137 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 2: But you don't understand. That's how he got over there. 138 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 3: That girl next door and heard all that going on, 139 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 3: and when lo he what is he in there doing? 140 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 3: And then she wanted she wanted to try it. Now 141 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 3: he over there, but he is different. Now he over there. 142 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 3: He gotta be church. 143 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: When I was quiet, what was that? 144 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, they're quiet? 145 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 2: See what got him over there? Was what he doing 146 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 2: over there? 147 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 4: All right, Celo, I think you nailed that one. 148 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we will 149 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: have some four years. 150 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 4: Right after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.