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Speaker 1: is election day. Please Georgia, come on now, we gotta

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Speaker 1: do this. Vote for Reverend Rafael Warnock and John ass Off. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we need those two individuals in the Senate, all right,

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Speaker 1: so Joe Biden, president elect, can get his bills through,

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Speaker 1: can get done what he needs to do. Okay, that's

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Speaker 1: what this is all about. That's what it's all about,

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Speaker 1: all right, Part two both, Yes, you've got to do this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: our work isn't done. All right, we're gonna switch gears.

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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice

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Speaker 1: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit

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Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click

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Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

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Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one

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Speaker 1: right here right now. I don't worry about I gotta Tommy.

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Speaker 1: I know, I'm sure I'm introduced you. Tommy can't take

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Speaker 1: it because he found out he needs six. He's man laugh,

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Speaker 1: so he will be missing a lot. Dear ladies, jem

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Speaker 1: is time for a Strawberry letter with my good friend

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Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry Michael B. Jordan's nephew Tommy, just saying. Subject

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Speaker 1: I have three boyfriends, but something's missing is a subject.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen, Shirley, I'm a twenty nine year old woman

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Speaker 1: with a great job and a great body, pretty face,

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Speaker 1: and three boyfriends. One boyfriend is thirty eight and he's

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Speaker 1: an oil company executive. One is thirty nine years old

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Speaker 1: he's a police detective. The third one is only twenty

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Speaker 1: one and he's a manager at a retail store. They

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Speaker 1: are all good financial providers, and the youngest one is

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Speaker 1: muscular and very handsome. The two older unspoil me and

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Speaker 1: I travel extensively with one of them, but there's no

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Speaker 1: real physical attraction to the two older ones. I'm five

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Speaker 1: nine and all the men are around my height. I

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Speaker 1: would love a much taller man, but tall men don't

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Speaker 1: wondering if I'm having sex with all three and I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm only having sex with the twenty one year old.

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Speaker 1: My friends don't believe that the other two men are

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Speaker 1: spoiling me without having sex, but I'm proof that it

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Speaker 1: can happen. I thought I was going to start falling

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Speaker 1: but I didn't. The only thing I'm feeling is empty.

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Speaker 1: I want one man that is a good provider, makes

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Speaker 1: me feel safe, travels with me, and is great in bed.

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Speaker 1: I've been juggling these three guys for two years because

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be alone. I'm at that age

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Speaker 1: where all of my friends will probably end up getting

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Speaker 1: married before me. I've asked my two older boyfriends if

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Speaker 1: they plan to settle down, and they're still not ready

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Speaker 1: or maybe I'm not the one for them. I've tried

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Speaker 1: men date more than one woman at a time, and

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Speaker 1: then pick one to settle down with. So why isn't

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Speaker 1: it working out for me? Please advise? There's way too

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Speaker 1: much going on in this letter, way too much, and

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Speaker 1: I think what's missing here is you because you don't

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Speaker 1: have time for yourself, and I'm not quite sure what

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Speaker 1: you want. I'm not quite sure. You mentioned marriage. Of course,

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Speaker 1: you mentioned not being alone. You have all these men,

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Speaker 1: but you don't sound happy. You don't you know. You

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Speaker 1: just sound confused. You sound like you might be ready

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Speaker 1: three different guys who have equalities you want, and just

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Speaker 1: one man. But the truth is, if the man you

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Speaker 1: want comes along right now, how is he going to

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Speaker 1: fit into your life. That's the question you have to

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Speaker 1: ask yourself, because you have no room or time with him.

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Speaker 1: For him, You're already juggling three guys. You said it,

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Speaker 1: and you've been doing this for two years. Guys you're

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Speaker 1: You're not attracted to the two older guys, but you

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Speaker 1: they don't want to change things. They sound married to me,

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Speaker 1: although you didn't say that in this letter. The twenty

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Speaker 1: probably can't afford you or travel with you on his

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Speaker 1: retail manager's salary. I get that, but again, you leave

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Speaker 1: no room for your ideal men, and I think it's

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Speaker 1: So I think you need to drop all of them

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Speaker 1: and concentrate on yourself. That's what I think, Steve. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: appreciate you righting in a lady, but I don't think

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Speaker 1: I have proof, because look, you're twenty nine year old woman.

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Speaker 1: Listen to this description. I have three boyfriends with something special.

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty nine year old woman with a great

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Speaker 1: and I have three boyfriends. Now, okay, cool, you sound ideal,

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Speaker 1: and now here's where we get I can't believe it.

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Speaker 1: One boyfriend thirty eight all companies act. Another one is

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Speaker 1: thirty nine Police detectment. Thirty is twenty one. He's a

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Speaker 1: and the youngest one is much Okay, Well, why am

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Speaker 1: I a good financial provider for you? Knowing what I

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Speaker 1: know about men that we don't do nothing. We don't

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Speaker 1: do anything for nothing. We don't do nothing without a

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Speaker 1: two years. He's an oil exact and a police detective.

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Speaker 1: These are not stupid men, and so for two years

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Speaker 1: they've been providing you financial assistance and they're very good

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Speaker 1: at it. For what? For what? Because she's not having

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Speaker 1: play this game with you? Come back, I'll tell you

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Speaker 1: the rest of it. We'll have part two of Steve's

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Speaker 1: morning show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter, this subject, I have three boyfriends, but something's missing.

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Speaker 1: You know, I found a lot of holes in this letter,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know how y'all feel about it. His

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Speaker 1: trying to tell me what you about to tell me

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Speaker 1: in this letter coming up, the two older ones spoiled me,

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Speaker 1: and I traveled extensively with one novel. Now this woman

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Speaker 1: right here, the two older ones spawl me, and I

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Speaker 1: you to where? What? Where y'all traveling to extensively? What

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Speaker 1: man keeps buying you an airline ticket, and y'all travel extensively.

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Speaker 1: Where when you get to where you go? Where do

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Speaker 1: keep taking you on these trips? Are you kidding me? Ladies?

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Speaker 1: Because she's got a great body in a pretty face

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Speaker 1: and a great job and he don't want that. So

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna spend all this money traveling with you and

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Speaker 1: You ain't that damn fine, Tommy Junior. We're doing something.

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Speaker 1: This is not every time we together. I'm trying. Don't

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Speaker 1: listen to me. It's not. It doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 1: You've convinced two well paid me and to do this

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Speaker 1: line is you ain't got that great body your face?

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Speaker 1: Ain't that damn pretty? Something wrong in this letter? You

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Speaker 1: know they're taking you for counseling to help you better something,

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Speaker 1: But something in this letter is a lot? All right?

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Speaker 1: Now here we go, I'm five n and I'm five nine,

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Speaker 1: and then all the men are around my height. I

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Speaker 1: I'm just telling you it's too much in this letter

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Speaker 1: that they're adding up to me. But tall men don't

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Speaker 1: if I'm having said anywhere. I'm only I'm only having

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Speaker 1: That work out the retail stove. And he's a good

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Speaker 1: financial provider. How heah Walmart? He can't take care of

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Speaker 1: himself and whoever he responded, he got no money for you.

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Speaker 1: My friends don't believe that the other two men are

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Speaker 1: spoiling me without having sex. Duh, oh they don't. Your

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Speaker 1: that it can happen. No, Okay. I thought I was

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Speaker 1: you'd have made another badass decision. The only thing I'm

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Speaker 1: it's good and bad. Excuse me. You keep wanting and

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Speaker 1: expecting something that you're not willing to yill. You want

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Speaker 1: but you ain't being one woman to no man, so

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Speaker 1: you keep expecting something that you're not willing to gill.

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Speaker 1: Ain't nobody fit to make you? There are yours? If

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Speaker 1: making alone type decisions. Girl. I'm at an age where

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Speaker 1: maybe I'm not the one for them. You don't sound

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Speaker 1: one man at time, but I get bored. Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: you miss excitement. You need more than one man. Keep

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