1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: First of all, you don't know me. Were all about 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: that high school drama, Girl drama, Girl, all about them 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: high school queens. We'll take you for a ride in 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: our comic girl, cheering drama, queens girl fashion, but you'll 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: tough go. You could sit with us Girl Drama, Queens Drama, 6 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: Queen's Drama, Queen's Drama, John The Queen's Drama, Queen's Okay, friends, 7 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: we just watched episode thirteen, which my brain still trying 8 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: to process this episode because like, all sorts of weird 9 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 1: stuff happened and they didn't necessarily tie together so many levels. Yeah, 10 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,279 Speaker 1: it's I feel like this was the episode where there 11 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: was all this stuff left over on the board in 12 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: the writer's room and they were like, Okay, well it's this. 13 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: It's the winter finale, We're about to go on hiatus. 14 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: Let's just throw all the rest of the stuff into one. 15 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: This is the day after Thanksgiving sandwich of episode The 16 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: crock Pots. The croc Pots episode It's Hanging by a moment. 17 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: It originally aired February tenth, two thousand four. Breakdown is 18 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: on their way to drive Karen home from the airport, 19 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,919 Speaker 1: Keith and Lucas have a collision with an oncoming vehicle, 20 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: leaving Lucas unconscious and fighting for his life. I mean, 21 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: that's like the last two seconds of the episode, truly, 22 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: like so much other stuff happened. Yeah, so this description 23 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: can be a little bit misleading. Um, do we want 24 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: to go back to the beginning of the episode. I 25 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: really hope you guys are watching along with us because 26 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: I like to get into the minutia of this and 27 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 1: I feel like, if you haven't watched it recently, you 28 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: want to join. Yeah, yeah, tune in with us. So 29 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: how does this one start? Hold on, I gotta go 30 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: to my notes. I pulled up my notes, so we 31 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: really dive into Dan. We talked. There's a lot of 32 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: Camilla whitey Camilla stuff that probably was supposed to be 33 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: in the pilot and all that other stuff and never 34 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: worked in Well. The thing that's pretty crazy is in 35 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: the last episode, Lucas and Peyton had this moment and 36 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: Peyton says, ignore it. You know, it didn't mean anything. 37 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: He says it didn't. She says, of course it did, 38 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: but we're not doing this, And and this episode opens 39 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: up with everyone in the hallways walking between classes, and 40 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: when the bell rings in the hallway. Maybe is empty, 41 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: maybe it's not. Lucas just kisses Payton in public at school. 42 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: I have caught for what twenty years now for being 43 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: a bad friend to Brooke, And like, I guess because 44 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: I didn't really pay that much attention to the episodes. 45 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 1: Once they were all cut together, I just accepted it 46 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 1: and I'm like, yoh, yeah, Painting's the worst. She's a 47 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: bad guy. And now that I'm watching it and I 48 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: see how much Lucas is pursuing the situation, I feel vindicated. 49 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: I feel better about the situation. They're really switching places 50 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: Lucas and Nathan. Yeah, And I mean he even says 51 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: it near the end of the episode. It was the 52 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: first time that he ever said out loud that he 53 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: had started the whole thing by messing with Lucas, because 54 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: he had been saying to Haley this whole time, I'm 55 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: a good guy. I misunderstood blah blah blah. You know, 56 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: he was manipulating a lot of it and never admitted it. 57 00:02:58,040 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: So that was the first time he slipped and said, 58 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: you know, so that makes her feel like the whole 59 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,519 Speaker 1: relationship is based on a lie. And I'm interested to 60 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: see where that goes well, And it's almost like now 61 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: that Nathan is finally showing up and stepping up and 62 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: being a good guy, it's it's almost like he's comfortable 63 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: talking about what a bad guy he used to be, 64 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: but it's the first time she's hearing it, and and 65 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: he he almost is proud of himself, like a really 66 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: good guy. And and it's isn't it ironic that now 67 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: Lucas is the bad guy and he doesn't even realize 68 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: that he has revealed what his first motivations were. It's 69 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: especially hard to stomach too, because Haley just had a 70 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: screaming match with Lucas about like what are you talking about? 71 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,119 Speaker 1: You know? And he's yelling at her about the whole 72 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: Nathan relationship and she's like, this is apples to oranges, dude, 73 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: we are not in the same boat and defends Nathan. 74 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: So for him to turn around and be like, oh, yeah, 75 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: that guy's the worst man. This did start off as 76 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: a you know, as a joke. Um is painful. Lots 77 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: of revelation. It's probably payback for you leaven him on 78 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: the doorstep last episode with your Okay, okay, I'm glad 79 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: Hayley finally gave it to lucas somebody had to give 80 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,799 Speaker 1: him a smack. That was so good, so good because 81 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: you said everything we've been talking about and feeling that 82 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: just the way he's behaving in this manipulation in the 83 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: two times. And then he goes into a full gaslighting 84 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: and tells you, you the honest friend who's told him 85 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 1: that you know, who's really been there and who's who's 86 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 1: been frank about her feelings and all of these things. 87 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: He says, you betrayed me. You And it's like, what, 88 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: it's so out of line? How many I mean, this 89 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: is a there's a level of it that's a normal 90 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: human reaction. Our pride goes up when we're in a fight. 91 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: We don't want to be wrong. We want to deflect 92 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: and put it off on somebody else. Okay, that's everybody 93 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: does that in some form or another. Um, there's another 94 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: level of it when it legitimate gas lighting and trying 95 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: to make the other person feel like they're crazy and 96 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong, which I think this borders on, Like 97 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: this is a little bit beyond just defensiveness. This is 98 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: a full turnaround of like let's not talk about me, 99 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: let's talk about you instead. And what I think is 100 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 1: wrong with you. Um, And I love that Haley just 101 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: didn't have it. She wasn't. She didn't get caught up. 102 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 1: I totally got caught up in those conversations in real 103 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 1: life relationships all the time, UM, when things we get 104 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,679 Speaker 1: turned around on me. And I love that Hayley didn't. 105 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: She was just I love her. I love her, so 106 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: I did when I was younger. Well, honestly, like when 107 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: whenever Peyton was like kind of pursuing Haley as like 108 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: be my friend, to be my friend, be my friend, 109 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: it always felt like, Okay, well we've got we've got 110 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 1: brooken Lucas and the scene. So we have to find 111 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: a way to get these two other actors in another scene. 112 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: And so we're going to just smash them together and 113 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: we'll see what happens. Haley doing this kind of work 114 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,559 Speaker 1: behind Peyton's back and like hauling Lucas out and saying 115 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: this is inappropriate and doing things that a good friend 116 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: would do without even then reporting back to Peyton for 117 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: a pat on the back. Like that's what real friendships about. 118 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: It's about doing the hard stuff and having those uncomfortable 119 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: moments for the benefit of someone you care about and 120 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: it's not like Hayley went and knocked on Peyton's door 121 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 1: and was like you kind of having hard you know. Um, 122 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,799 Speaker 1: she took it to the person who's responsible because Peyton. 123 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: I feel like, and we said this we're watching, I 124 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: feel like Peyton would be okay to let this go, 125 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: like to just let Brooke and Lucas be a thing, 126 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: like we don't need to talk about it. I'm gonna 127 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: go paint in my bedroom and it's gonna be unfun, 128 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: but it's gonna be solitary. Yeah, he's the driving force 129 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: here and for his best friend to recognize that and 130 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: be like whoa whoa wa, Like you're driving this boat. 131 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:01,119 Speaker 1: Let's dock it. Um. Yeah, Haley is a good friend. 132 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: Like it is totally I don't know, validating the Peytons, 133 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: like please hang out with me, Please hanging out me, 134 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: please sing out with me. It's like she knows innately, 135 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: this is the person that I can trust. I love 136 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: that we had a lot of Camilla with this one. Now, 137 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 1: for those of you who have been listening along, you 138 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: know that originally this series, uh started out with Whitey 139 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: as kind of the main voice over the whole thing, 140 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: and he had this wife that he would talk to 141 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: all the time, and then at the end of the 142 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: pilot you find out that she's not alive. She's I 143 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't remember it was it an actual ghost, 144 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: like a woman who was there, but she know, an actress. 145 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 1: It felt like the Wonder Years kind of, you know, 146 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: like the narration in it definitely had like a Wonder 147 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: Years vibe, and so to lose that narration entirely, you know, 148 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: these scenes would take on a very different tone. If like, 149 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: while we're smashing faces in the library, you hear Barry 150 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: Corbyn's voice, like and then these kids Camilla, it turns 151 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: the sexy down a little bit, you know, totally when 152 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: it was nice to see a little bit of that 153 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: I I you know, even though it felt a bit 154 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: haphazard and kind of thrown together, I've still was really 155 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:31,239 Speaker 1: glad to dive into Whitey's own so that he doesn't 156 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 1: just become a caricature of you know, a device of 157 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: a person. You know, he really um got to have 158 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: his own journey and we got to see his own 159 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: emotional experience of being a coach and why he cares 160 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 1: and uh, you know, things that he missed out on 161 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: with his wife and how that affects Nathan was really 162 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: cool too. How old did they think? Barry was like, 163 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: can we just talk about the picture of Camilla because 164 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:02,359 Speaker 1: that's like a woman from the nineteen twenties world of one. Totally. 165 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: I'm looking at Barry, He's like, you know, in this 166 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: show and they've got a wife that's you know, she's 167 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: a flapper. Really funny. Actually, yeah, I don't know if 168 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: this was intended or not, but maybe because you know, 169 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 1: we were watching this in order, it kind of felt 170 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: like after that big crashing generational you know, dinner of 171 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: Nightmares in the last episode that Barry, you know that 172 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: coach Whitey was at, I felt like watching all those 173 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: families be destroyed by basketball. He was kind of in 174 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 1: this episode taking stock of how basketball became such an 175 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: obsession for him that in his mind, he lost out, 176 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: he wasted time with his wife, and I kind of 177 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 1: it was a little wobbly, but I saw an arc 178 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: there from from last episode to the mid season finale, 179 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, this is interesting that that 180 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: being witnessed to that is giving Whitey this moment where 181 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: he's being introspective and and he's letting Nathan in well, 182 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: and then you see dev leave Dan at the end 183 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: of the episode. It's another marriage ruined by what high 184 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: school basketball. High school basketball ruining everyone's life. So so 185 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: I do a charity back home with my high school, 186 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: we were a huge sports high school. We went to 187 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: states and football, like I would say that going like 188 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: that experience of cheering on the sidelines, so like the 189 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: state competition and like a college campus. It was like 190 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 1: the biggest deal ever. And we were in the Washington 191 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: Post every weekend and all our players went to college 192 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: and played and it was such a huge experience. Um. 193 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: And then three years ago, my my high school has 194 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: become a title in high school that doesn't have resources anymore. 195 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 1: You know, it's largely low income and kids that you know, 196 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,599 Speaker 1: apply for three meals a day. Um. And so the 197 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 1: varsity football team didn't exist, like only like sixteen kids 198 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: came out because no one had pleats, no one had equipment, 199 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: no one good four camps. You know, there's a lot 200 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: that goes into it. And so we started this you know, 201 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: Project Patriot, where we supply resources so that kids can 202 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: do extracurricular activities. And just this last week, our high 203 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: school won its first home game in five years. Wow, 204 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, congratulations Patriots. I don't even know who 205 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: we were playing. It doesn't matter, you know, like it 206 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: it's been this really cool thing to work on together 207 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 1: with like old alumni. Shout out to Ashley Gawson and 208 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: Tony Kano. But because Tony listens to this, He's a 209 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: boy who listens to our drum queens. Hi, Hi, Tony. 210 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 1: So I can see the good side of high school sports. 211 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: I can see that camaraderie and that joy that it 212 00:11:54,480 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: brings to the community and the structure and the work ethic. Yeah. Yeah. 213 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,079 Speaker 1: And it's like we made fun of the toxic parents 214 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: when we were in school, you know, like you could 215 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: tell who his dad was an asshole, and and so 216 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: I relish the chance in this show to get back 217 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: to like what that good stuff is because I know 218 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: we get there eventually with like the state championship and 219 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: stuff like that. But it seems like for these first 220 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: thirteen episodes, it's just been like bad, bad, bad drugs, 221 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: you know, drugs, fighting, you know, doing dumb stuff on 222 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: the court, tearing your family of heart, and that's not it. 223 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 1: Like high school sports can be awesome. Did you, Sophia, 224 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: did you have sports at the girls school? You're like 225 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 1: field hockey, like where girls do lacrosse. Now, we didn't 226 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: have that. I mean we had I know there. I 227 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: think there was a tennis team. I know we had 228 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: a soccer team. I don't know. I played volleyball in yeah, 229 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: and junior high. But then I started doing theater and 230 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: then I was like, see you, and I was just 231 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: doing doing plays and you know, teching shows and stuff. 232 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: I completely fell out of any of the world of 233 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: athletics once I started getting really into doing plays. So 234 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 1: it's funny because I don't. I don't. I didn't have 235 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: an experience of sports at our high school, and I 236 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 1: think that was actually part of when I was applying 237 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: to colleges. I really couldn't decide. I was like, do 238 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: I want to go to n y U or do 239 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 1: I want to go to USC. Oh my god, girl, 240 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: you went from zero to A and I was like, 241 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 1: I want to have that experience enjoy Like even when 242 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: you talk about Hailey, you know, trying to figure out 243 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 1: who she is, Like for me, it felt like trying 244 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: on a new costume. I was like, Okay, I did 245 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: the really academic uh nerdy all girls school theater kid 246 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: costume and now I'm going to go do the big 247 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: huge football games and paint our faces and like Queen World, 248 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: like that whole world was a costume, and like you know, 249 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: I was trying to figure out, like where on the 250 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: ends of these spectrums, where where do I fit? What's 251 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: my natural kind of post? And I really feel like 252 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: that took me until I was like thirty. You were 253 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 1: into sports, like I see it, Like any time we 254 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: had like like super Bowls and things like that, you 255 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 1: were kind of at the nexus of those get togethers. 256 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: I just love a Hey, I love any excuse to 257 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: throw a party. So if it's like I'm gonna host 258 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: the Thanksgiving party with like all our friends and family, 259 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: or if I'm gonna Super Bowl, to me, I'm like, 260 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: this is an excuse to watch really generally really creative commercials. 261 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't care so much about the game, 262 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: but you can get forty people in a house and 263 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 1: have good food. So I'm I'm I am a psychotic 264 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: soccer fan, Like I'm a person during the World Cup 265 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: will wake up at four am to watch the women's 266 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: national team play, Like I'm a lunatic about you're an 267 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 1: owner now right a soccer team? So crazy? I can't. 268 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: I keep looking around being like, who's grown up here? 269 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: And I realized it's me. That's fun so great, Joy 270 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 1: you you had to actually do some sports action in 271 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 1: this episode. Are you were you faking it? Can you 272 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: throw a ball? Yeah? No? I'm pretty athletic. I always 273 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: was when I was a kid. I I am not. 274 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:32,479 Speaker 1: I had a harder time with team sports, just coordinating 275 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: with other people. And it was more of the mental 276 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: um mental agility with team sports because I was so 277 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: easily discouraged if I didn't get something right, and you know, 278 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 1: people would would be like come on, joy or whatever. 279 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: It crushed me. I was not. It wasn't easy for 280 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: me to bounce back from that. So I knew I 281 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 1: was really good at theater and so that was my 282 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: sport because that, like I didn't have to deal with 283 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: people telling me bad I was at it like team sports. 284 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: I mean my really only interaction with team sports. I 285 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: think I joined a soccer team for a minute, but 286 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: then I got to play and I was like, I'll 287 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: see you guys later, And then I think I did 288 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 1: like kickball and handball and hockey and jim at school, 289 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 1: and I felt comfortable with it. It was just that 290 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: I didn't know how to interact with other people on 291 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 1: a team with passing the ball or knowing all the 292 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: rules and everything. So I'm really good with like a 293 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 1: single person. I kickbox, I can do tennis really well. 294 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: I'm good at you know, I can play basketball like 295 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 1: one on one or whatever. But team sports were just 296 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: hard for me. Um. Yeah, So as the oldest kid, 297 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: you know, I to have to watch my brothers growing up, 298 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: and so I was always like, oh my god, you won, 299 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: Like I'm so groomed to let the other person win, right. 300 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: That's funny when I think that's why I liked watching sports, 301 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: because it was almost like, I don't know, voyeurism. It's like, 302 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: oh my god, look at those people who want this 303 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 1: so bad. That's so crazy. You. I don't even remember 304 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 1: shooting this though. The free throw stuff. Uh. There. There 305 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 1: was that that one scene on the court when Nathan 306 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: comes out and he's trying to teach me, not at 307 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,360 Speaker 1: his house but out on the river court, and we 308 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:24,679 Speaker 1: were frozen. You can tell because what we're both talking 309 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: at our lips in your face doesn't know exactly we're 310 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: out there. So you couldn't lift your arms because I 311 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 1: was in twelve layers. So what you wear like silks 312 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 1: on the bottom layer, right, So silks are which they 313 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 1: don't make anymore. Now if you ask someone for silks, 314 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 1: they're like, what did you know this? Yes, I've because 315 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: I've been shooting in Canadas so much then i've it's 316 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 1: gotten to a point now where okay, so silks used 317 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: to be made from silk, which was uh in a 318 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 1: particular type of like elastic silk that was a thermal 319 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: layer under your clothes so even in in the cold, 320 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,919 Speaker 1: it would really trap in the heat very well. But 321 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: I guess, um there's like a silkworm shortage or something, 322 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: so it's really hard to find. You have to find 323 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: like vintage silk. So now they have which accomplished the 324 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: same job a little bit less. Well, well, look, I'm 325 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 1: going to start a silkworm farm up in mr Farm. 326 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 1: Now the joy is pointed out the void I had 327 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 1: a lot of layers on. It was that and then 328 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 1: the you know, whatever goes over it, and then the 329 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,439 Speaker 1: T shirt and then the long sleeve T shirt and 330 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: then the um quarter scarf. And quarter. Oh yeah, let's 331 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 1: talk about layers. Sophia has tripled down on the unsexy. 332 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:46,919 Speaker 1: Watch me a turtleneck and I'm gonna wear a scarf 333 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: over said turtleneck. Tigger scarf? Oh my god, are you 334 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: doing the way the post song killed me while we 335 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: watched this episode? Um yeah that. You know, there's something 336 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: so funny about it because I look so goofy in 337 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 1: that little outfit. And it's it's so sweet because this 338 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 1: guirl just is leaning in and telling her best friend 339 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 1: she's falling for this boy, and and starting to tell 340 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 1: this boy about how she feels. It's like that scene 341 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 1: where Brooke and Lucas go for the walk in sud 342 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 1: scarf when they have hot chocolates, Like, she can't even 343 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 1: keep it in, you know, it's falling out of her mouth. 344 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: And then she diverts and says she's talking about Karen 345 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: and Keith, and it's just, oh, it's heartbreaking. If Brooke 346 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: is the real life Tigger of this show and Payton 347 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: is clearly the ere, what is Haley Haley? I don't know, 348 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 1: it's Haley pooh or Piglet, probably Piglet, yeah that or 349 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,360 Speaker 1: the rabbit you're the rabbit. That's like, you guys are 350 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:56,439 Speaker 1: so stupid, you're making a fret. I forgot about the rabbit. 351 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 1: So that's actually perfect, so perfect. No Pooh, who's walking 352 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: around like an old dummy? Who's the Pooh? Is it? Keith? 353 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 1: He's so to drink he goes. He's so sweet. I mean, 354 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:18,959 Speaker 1: what an episode for Keith, you know, reminding us that 355 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 1: Karen kissed him at the airport and he said it 356 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: wasn't just a friendly goodbye kiss, it was a kiss kiss. 357 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 1: And and you know, Karen's been gone at cooking school 358 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: in Italy for six weeks because Moira was off having 359 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 1: a baby, and she's finally coming back and he can't 360 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 1: wait to kiss her again, and it's taking Lucas and 361 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: and he has this whole conversation with Lucas about no 362 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: matter what happens in you know, Keith and Karen's relationship 363 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 1: will always be there for him. And they exchange I 364 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: love yous and it's so sweet. And Keith gets distracted 365 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: by Dan, who he's just had this terrible interaction with, 366 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 1: and he does that thing which I think we've all 367 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: I mean, how close have you come to doing that 368 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 1: when you're out of light and it turns green in 369 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh no, my my left arrow is red. 370 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: I don't go, but you start to and then you 371 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 1: stop all the time and it's that moment where you 372 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: really go, oh god, it could have been me. But 373 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 1: the question was how many drinks did he have that 374 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: you don't know? I mean, I guess we'll find out 375 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:22,159 Speaker 1: when we come back. We saw one beer. But but 376 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 1: if he's it's three hours out and he's having a 377 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: beer three hours before he goes together more the story, 378 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 1: kids don't do that. Drink and drive. Just don't drink 379 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 1: and drive. It's not worth it. Yeah, And I'm pretty 380 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,479 Speaker 1: cool for Dan to be there and and you know, 381 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 1: being there to rip the door off the car and 382 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 1: pull Lucas out and have to say, because it's a 383 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 1: life of death situation, he's my son. Um. That was 384 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,239 Speaker 1: a pretty selfless moment, even if you could call the 385 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: heroics of pulling him out of the car selfish, because 386 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: on some level I'm sure that made Dan feel great. Um, 387 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,639 Speaker 1: but being in the hospital, he didn't gain anything by 388 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,679 Speaker 1: saying I'm his father. There's also something so interesting to 389 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 1: me about how a catastrophic event can immediately make you 390 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: drop all your bs, all your nonsense, everything that you've 391 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: been storing up and thinking, and you realize none of 392 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 1: it's real. All it's important are the people who you 393 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: care about. And it's like in that moment when those 394 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: when when Keith and Lucas get hit, Dan sees it 395 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 1: and none of the other nonsense that people fight about 396 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 1: matters anymore. He he's there, he's present, and it it 397 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,400 Speaker 1: felt like a sort of singularity point for his character 398 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: and he had to drop all the pretense and just 399 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 1: tell the truth. And that was wild. Well, and you 400 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: said what you just said, the people you care about. 401 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 1: And up until this point Dan has been adamant I 402 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,959 Speaker 1: don't care about Lucas, I don't care about Keith. And 403 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 1: Deb's just like caught him with beach Horror. When we 404 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: heard the term beach horror used in this episode, we 405 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 1: all gasped and we're like, that's our next pilot, Like 406 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:23,199 Speaker 1: that's the beaches. Um, beach Hore had a great episode. Um, 407 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: but Deb just gave Dan like a look that is 408 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:34,239 Speaker 1: heartbreaking and so beyond anger. Was like, fine, this is 409 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: it was? And it was also everything I saw in 410 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 1: her look was I knew I know you're an ass. 411 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 1: I know you're stubborn and you're selfish, and you broke 412 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 1: in and you have all these problems I have. I've 413 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 1: known it's difficult. I'm working through it. But I didn't 414 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 1: know you were a cheater. And that's what like shuts 415 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,240 Speaker 1: everything down for her, Like I was willing to put 416 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 1: up with so much, but this, no, this is black 417 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,159 Speaker 1: and white. You know, this is clear cut. And so 418 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: I wonder if that total like being alone situation is 419 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,719 Speaker 1: what put Dan in the headspace to show up for 420 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 1: It's like, well, I don't have anybody else, Like I 421 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 1: don't know my son, I don't have my wife, Like 422 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,439 Speaker 1: my son wanted to hang out his girlfriend, you know, 423 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: like these fringe relatives are the only people that he 424 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: has left. And then what else happened? I mean, I'm 425 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: still stuck on beach Horse. That's the most exciting for me. Honestly, 426 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 1: I made two notes this whole episode because I was 427 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,919 Speaker 1: so just like watching it and it's Haley yelling at 428 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 1: Lucas and beach Horse. Those are my tuna. I love that. Actually, 429 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 1: let's talk about music, though, because this episode had two 430 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: songs that I super loved, Tegan and Sarah song Don't Confess, 431 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 1: Don't Confess y'all. I used to drive around in my 432 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 1: car listening to that Tegan and Sarah album on repeat, 433 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:05,360 Speaker 1: just weeping, and every time I every time I hear 434 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 1: it now I think of like the live oak trees 435 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 1: with the moss hanging down on Market Street and Will 436 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: just driving up and down that strip listening to that 437 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 1: whole album, the on the nose of it all with 438 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 1: the don't Confess. Oh, but it was so good, especially 439 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: because Brooks having this moment and she's like, I want 440 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: to remember this forever, and it's it was so well shot. 441 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: Whoever directed this having you look at the stereo so 442 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 1: that you could say, don't confess, and both of our 443 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 1: faces were on camera and your face was turned away 444 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:43,679 Speaker 1: from Chef's kiss beautiful. It also was a sign from 445 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:48,160 Speaker 1: the universe. I believe in signs from the universe constantly. 446 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 1: Have you ever had a sign from the universe in 447 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,879 Speaker 1: real life where you're like, oh, I shouldn't tell my 448 00:25:52,920 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 1: best friend that I'm kissing everybody convenience? Also the genius 449 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 1: of Peyton going to Haley and then Haley saying it's 450 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 1: not like Lucas was dating Nathan, God, do you think 451 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 1: that Haley knows what she's saying? Not in that moment? No, 452 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,679 Speaker 1: I don't think so. Haley is the smartest character, do 453 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,360 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Now, I would have read 454 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,439 Speaker 1: it differently. I think the way that I chose to 455 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: play it was just distracted and oblivious. But I think 456 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: now in context, I definitely think them A more interesting 457 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 1: choice would have been for her to say it that way, 458 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 1: and I wish I would have. I thought it was 459 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 1: a loving way for Haley to get that point across 460 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 1: of like you don't you don't want us like being 461 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 1: your friend, and I'm going to say it in a 462 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: way that is gentle for you. That's much more interesting. 463 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,920 Speaker 1: I wish I would have made that choice. That's how 464 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,919 Speaker 1: I took it. I have to say I kind of 465 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,199 Speaker 1: saw it in the middle. I felt like, when you 466 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: said what's this about? Or what's going on? Whatever you 467 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:03,360 Speaker 1: say to Peyton, and then Hillary your responses, oh, it's 468 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: a friend of a friend's stuff. I felt like Haley 469 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 1: was like, what's going on? And then you're like, no, no, 470 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,320 Speaker 1: it's not about me. I just you know, I need 471 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 1: help to advise someone else. And then I almost felt 472 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 1: like you kind of got lost in telling your own 473 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,080 Speaker 1: story and then you crack a joke in this way 474 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: that was sort of irreverence and that that lands so 475 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: hard for me as an audience member. I saw that 476 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: like sucker punch. Peyton and Hayley was just like, I'm 477 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 1: giving great advice in this moment, and I was like, 478 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 1: oh God, everything is bad everywhere. Everything is bad everywhere. 479 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: At a certain point, I need to like somebody get 480 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,439 Speaker 1: their knee off my neck, you know, just because it 481 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 1: feels like every episode. I think that's the that's the 482 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 1: title of the of our podcast episode today, Everything is 483 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: bad everywhere? Do you guys also clocked that Shin song too. 484 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 1: I had to look it up again because I love 485 00:27:55,119 --> 00:28:00,080 Speaker 1: that song. Oh remember over the ramparts you tossed the 486 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 1: scent of your skin and some foreign flowers? Do you 487 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 1: remember this? Tied to a brick? Sweet as a song. 488 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 1: The years have been short, but the days were long, 489 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 1: you know this song? It was like good right huge 490 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 1: in two thousand four, I mean, the Shins were major, 491 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: major friend of mine. A baby onesie with the Shin's 492 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: album art on when they had a kid like God, Yeah, 493 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,640 Speaker 1: they were happening we were getting like bigger and bigger 494 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: bands on our show. We were okay, hey everybody, Scott Patterson, 495 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 1: we are going to have a Milo vent Amelia on 496 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 1: the podcast today and we are dropping the episode immediately. 497 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: We are very excited to have him. He's a he's 498 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 1: an old and dear friend, and he gave us. He 499 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 1: gave us some time, which is he doesn't have any time, 500 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 1: but he gave us some time, and we really really 501 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: really appreciate it. So we're gonna do this interview with Milo, uh, 502 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 1: and we're gonna drop it immediately as soon as we 503 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 1: can get it all cobbled together. This cracked team I 504 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 1: have and we're just very very excited about it. So anyway, 505 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: listen to my podcast I Am All In right now 506 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 1: on I Heart Radio, app, Apple podcast and everywhere you 507 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 1: listen to podcasts. All right, you want to do a 508 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: fan question? Um, yeah, let's do a fan question. Nicole 509 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: is asking about the filming locations. She wants to know 510 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 1: was the show filmed in actual houses or built sets? Yes, 511 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: let's talk about that. Both Hayley's bedroom set, Hayley's house, 512 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 1: exterior house, neighborhood house. I think all of our homes. 513 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 1: The exteriors were actual homes, and all the interiors were well, 514 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 1: I well know, Nathan's house we were on We were 515 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: in there, Nathan's house, We were inside that those people's houses. 516 00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: Peyton's bedroom was on set because we spent so much 517 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: time there, but the entire downstairs and obviously like the 518 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: exterior of the house were a real house that was 519 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 1: right across the street from Hayley's house, which is not 520 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 1: something you know, people who go on the tour and 521 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 1: want me to know that. But we were the girls 522 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: from the rough side of the tracks, um, which I 523 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: think they should have played that up more. You know, 524 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: I think that would have been really cool because what 525 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: we liked in the last episode as you turn around 526 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 1: at Peyton's house and you see the house across the 527 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 1: street and there's like weeds up to the second story. 528 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 1: You know, like nobody tried to make it look posh 529 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 1: or pretty. Woul might have been cool if like Haley 530 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 1: and Peyton actually were like on the same street and 531 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: kind of always saw each other and ignored each other 532 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 1: or whatever, and started to well, did you have people 533 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: like that in real life growing up? Because I definitely did. Yeah, 534 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: for sure. I mean, I remember singing a song to 535 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,479 Speaker 1: our German shepherd in the backyard and like looking up 536 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: and seeing all like the hot middle school dudes walk 537 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: by and being like, oh, but yeah, proximity was our 538 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 1: built in with our locations. I don't know why we 539 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 1: never played that Lucas's house was this was a house 540 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: to the downstairs. His bedroom was on stage. What about 541 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: how much of Brooks. Oh, we didn't see Brooks House. 542 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 1: I was like, Felix, we don't see Brooks house. Gosh, 543 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 1: until we get later into the season there's a big 544 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 1: scandal and you go into Brooks bedroom for the first time, 545 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 1: but there's no house. I don't think Brooke got a 546 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 1: house until season two. But saying the exterior um was 547 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: a real place, and then we would use some of 548 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: the downstairs rooms, but then my bedroom was always on 549 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 1: the side. Anywhere that we were going to be with 550 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: any regularity, aside from the big Dan Scott house, they 551 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: would build on stage because it was just too hard 552 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: to deal with when you could be in the houses, 553 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: you know, getting the folks who lived there out in 554 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: comfortable and such a process. Yeah, it's really hectic for people. 555 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: So so they liked building sets so that we could 556 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 1: kind of make our own schedules. Well, so for Peyton's house, 557 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 1: in the midst of our shooting, the house sold right 558 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 1: so there was no guarantee that they were going to 559 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 1: let us keep filming there. And the young family that 560 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 1: moved in was John Jeremiah Sullivan, who is a really 561 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 1: accomplished writer. He's a writer for g Q and I 562 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,719 Speaker 1: think form like Rolling Stone, a bunch of books. Um 563 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: cool guy, and so I ended up kind of making 564 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 1: friends with them, and I stayed in touch with him 565 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: and his family. Their daughter was born, like like, they 566 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 1: moved in when his wife was pregnant. Their daughter was 567 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 1: born right after we, you know, signed our agreement with them, 568 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 1: and they were like, oh, we get to go stay 569 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: in the river View Sweets for a couple of days 570 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,160 Speaker 1: here and there and make some money and it pays 571 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 1: our mortgage. What they didn't realize is that, like our 572 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 1: set dressing wallpapered the house the way we wanted it, 573 00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 1: not the way they wanted it. But they only went 574 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 1: halfway up this airs. So for like years they had 575 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 1: to live with the halfway wallpaper, which doesn't sound bad 576 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 1: at first, and then you're like six months into your 577 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 1: house and you're like, I'm kind of um, he wrote 578 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: an article about it. I was gonna ask I remember 579 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,560 Speaker 1: that article kind of broke my heart. I really felt 580 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 1: for them. It was a painful situation. And so as 581 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: their daughter got older, she grew up with people in 582 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 1: their front yard and on their steps. And then when 583 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 1: she was old enough to watch this television show that 584 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: you know, she's she might be in college now or 585 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 1: either she's like in late high school or college now. Um, 586 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: she watches the show and in the later seasons when 587 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: we get to the Psycho Deeric stuff in the basement 588 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,800 Speaker 1: for her to watch all of that, like trauma happened 589 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 1: and what's supposed to be her house was so weird, 590 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: so weird. So for any of you who go through 591 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 1: Wilmington's and like go buy the houses and stuff, these 592 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 1: are real people and they're lovely, Like please be so 593 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: so so nice to them. You should leave like flowers 594 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: and you know, press it's on their doorstep because they've 595 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: been Yeah, it does. It does also feel worth repeating. 596 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 1: I I I love and I know we all love that. 597 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 1: Our show means as much to all of you guys 598 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,760 Speaker 1: as it does. It means a lot to us. But Hillary, 599 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,919 Speaker 1: you just said the most perfect thing. These are real 600 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 1: people I get like the tours and wanting to take photos. 601 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: Please do it from the sidewalk. Please don't just like 602 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 1: walk onto people's front porches and lean on their front doors. 603 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 1: And like I've seen, I've seen some people who obviously 604 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: means so well, but you know, who are kind of 605 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 1: climbing all over these homes. And and when when the 606 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 1: writer you're referring to wrote this piece, he talked about 607 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,360 Speaker 1: how terrifying it would be for his little girl to 608 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,360 Speaker 1: just have like strangers peeking in the front windows and 609 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,520 Speaker 1: outside her front door. Did they try and sell the 610 00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 1: house and then couldn't because it was a TV show houses? 611 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 1: That what happened. That's what happened to the people who 612 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,439 Speaker 1: own Lucas and Karen's. Oh that's right, they couldn't sell 613 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:07,400 Speaker 1: the house because there's always people climbing all over it. 614 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 1: So I think it would be really loving if we 615 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 1: as a community, as this great big one Tree Hill 616 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,479 Speaker 1: family could kind of try to set a boundary and say, 617 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: if you're going to go visit the homes, take pictures 618 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 1: from the sidewalk. If you happen to meet the person 619 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:25,640 Speaker 1: who lives there, and and they say, oh today, you're 620 00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 1: welcome to whatever. Take their lead, but just don't like, 621 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 1: don't go climb on people's porches, and you know, by 622 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: just treat loving and remember that, like if you were 623 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 1: in your house and suddenly, oh my god, peeking in 624 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,400 Speaker 1: your front window, you'd probably be pretty freaked out. So 625 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 1: so let's let's all lovingly. Yeah. I mean, people are 626 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 1: really lucky they didn't get shot because it's it's a 627 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 1: south And also, like, soody's walking on my property, I 628 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 1: gotta be begun. If you're looking at my window, believe me, 629 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm shooting your eye out. Started. You can't go to 630 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,799 Speaker 1: someone's house without bringing a trinket or a casserole or 631 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,759 Speaker 1: like a thing. And so I don't know, maybe we 632 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,000 Speaker 1: need to have a toll, you know, like either you 633 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 1: need to bring a bouquet of flowers or some seashells 634 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 1: or some candles, bottle of champagne. Something we should ask. 635 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,240 Speaker 1: We should ask the people who live in each house 636 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 1: what their favorite thing is, and then we'll publish a 637 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 1: guide of like you have to pay to go. We're 638 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:35,720 Speaker 1: gonna do a told just just for energetic niceness because 639 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 1: because truly, these families they have put up with God 640 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,400 Speaker 1: so much over the years, and they are so kind. 641 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:47,280 Speaker 1: And I think that, you know, Jeremiah being so honest 642 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,719 Speaker 1: about the stuff that so many people probably never considered, 643 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:55,080 Speaker 1: really opened my eyes and our eyes and anyway, loving boundaries, 644 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 1: everyone loving you? Or what's the next question? Okay? Um, 645 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: what was something your characters went through or did that 646 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: made you see your character in a new light and 647 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 1: maybe even had a new admiration for um? Should we 648 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 1: just stick to what we've seen so far in the 649 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 1: in the first twelve that's smart? Yeah, go Joy? Well, 650 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 1: I think what what I've been noticing? Um, As I 651 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: just said, I love Haley so much more now than 652 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 1: I did back then. I think she was just all 653 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 1: the character of her was all tangled up with my 654 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: young confusion of what who I wanted to be and 655 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,279 Speaker 1: what I wanted life to be, and how I wanted 656 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 1: to play the character and what I thought was uh 657 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 1: important to portray all those kinds of things like responsibilities 658 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 1: to younger women and all that stuff. So now looking 659 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 1: back at Haley, I love that she was just so 660 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 1: ballsy and brave, and um, I think I always felt 661 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 1: I always felt really insecure, and then sometimes I would 662 00:37:56,719 --> 00:38:00,799 Speaker 1: overcompensate that by being really stubborn because I didn't know 663 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 1: who I could trust. So I just felt like, oh, 664 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,440 Speaker 1: I can't trust anybody, so I just I'm going to 665 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: dig my heels in um. And So what I love 666 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:12,400 Speaker 1: about watching Haley now is that somehow I managed to 667 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 1: let my insecurities go to be her and and I 668 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,440 Speaker 1: just love how brave she was and um willing to 669 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 1: contribute to the conversation and confident in her own skin 670 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 1: and all the things that all the best parts of 671 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 1: her make me really proud of her. Haley is so 672 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 1: incredibly likable, and everyone's being loathsome in different ways, and 673 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 1: Haley is just like the voice of integrity. Yeah, and 674 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 1: it's also really I have to say, it's so fun 675 00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:44,880 Speaker 1: for me to watch. I mean, to watch all of 676 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,560 Speaker 1: this with the two of you is such a dream. 677 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:50,560 Speaker 1: So thanks again to the fans for tuning in. But 678 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: but like I don't know, I remember at the time 679 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,399 Speaker 1: how hard it was. Is just like twenty one year 680 00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:01,839 Speaker 1: old girls as our characters, as Brooke and Peyton were, 681 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,800 Speaker 1: you know, on either end of this big secret and 682 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 1: this big betrayal. In this love triangle, people were really 683 00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:11,600 Speaker 1: mean to me into Hillary kind of in defense of 684 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:16,799 Speaker 1: each other's characters, and it was really are, well, yeah, 685 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 1: but now now we're we're grown ladies and we don't 686 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 1: give it. But at the time, I was really like 687 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,719 Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do about it. And now 688 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, that's cute that you think you 689 00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: could love her more than I do. L O l um. 690 00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:37,279 Speaker 1: But it's actually really cool because I realized how insecure 691 00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 1: and and kind of like bullied I felt as a 692 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:46,920 Speaker 1: young girl doing this show. Now, like I don't know, 693 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 1: I was so in the brook and Peyton of it all. 694 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm I'm loving watching Haley. I'm like, dude, I forgot, 695 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 1: Like there's just things I forgot, and to see her 696 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,400 Speaker 1: be so true blue have such a clear sense of 697 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:03,800 Speaker 1: right and wrong. I think for so long, especially young women, 698 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,319 Speaker 1: we get encouraged to be like, yeah, but what was 699 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 1: he feeling? You know, why do you think he might 700 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:12,239 Speaker 1: have done that bad thing? And yeah, there was a 701 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 1: there was a lot of like justify for love nonsense, 702 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,799 Speaker 1: and Haley was like, we're not justifying anything, And so 703 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,920 Speaker 1: now I'm watching her just being like this is the 704 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 1: friend we all deserved. Yeah, she's handling. And now the 705 00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 1: question is specifically did the characters go through something. I mean, 706 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,960 Speaker 1: like I said, again, it's just watching the progression of 707 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 1: all the circumstances that are happening and seeing how, you know, 708 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:39,520 Speaker 1: we're handling everything. But I think just Haley blossoming in 709 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 1: this relationship with Nathan and being more comfortable in her 710 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 1: own skin and discovering who she is and what she likes, 711 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 1: and it's really fun to watch. What about you guys, Well, 712 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:51,759 Speaker 1: I just want to say it makes sense that the 713 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,239 Speaker 1: one with the parents and like the family unit is 714 00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: the one who is navigating the best. Yeah, yeah, it 715 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:06,400 Speaker 1: does yea. I UM. I have struggled with Peyton for 716 00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:11,319 Speaker 1: a long time because you know, she was vilified and 717 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,239 Speaker 1: I didn't really pay attention to why and it was 718 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,000 Speaker 1: just like fine, you know whatever. Um. And there have 719 00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,320 Speaker 1: been some really sweet kids who listened to the not 720 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,719 Speaker 1: kids were all like older now, um, but people who 721 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: listen to our podcast and who come online and they're 722 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,319 Speaker 1: like just so, you know, like I liked you, so 723 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 1: thank you for that. That's really nice. But seeing a 724 00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:36,560 Speaker 1: girl who should probably be in therapy, seeing a girl 725 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,560 Speaker 1: who should have an aunt or an uncle or a 726 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 1: grandparent or anybody check in on her, and doesn't watching 727 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:50,560 Speaker 1: her get manipulated by a boy. I never thought to 728 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 1: characterize the relationship that way, because it does end up 729 00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: becoming the happy ending by the time I left the show, right, 730 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,399 Speaker 1: But I think it's a important to acknowledge that when 731 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,760 Speaker 1: we're kids and we're sorting out how to have relationships, 732 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,759 Speaker 1: and maybe we haven't necessarily had examples of that, there 733 00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,800 Speaker 1: are going to be mistakes and Lucas is making major 734 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 1: mistakes here. Peyton's paying for it. Brooks going to end 735 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,719 Speaker 1: up paying for it. Um. But it never occurred to 736 00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:21,400 Speaker 1: me before that it wasn't Peyton's fault. I think I assumed, 737 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 1: like I say, I assumed, but I think Peyton assumed 738 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:29,360 Speaker 1: ownership of the chaos, certainly for me for like eighteen years. 739 00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,359 Speaker 1: And so to watch it now as an adult, like, 740 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,839 Speaker 1: I'm watching it as a third person. It's not me, 741 00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,760 Speaker 1: you know, the character or the actress. I'm a totally 742 00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:41,560 Speaker 1: different human now and I can watch it and be like, oh, bunny, 743 00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 1: funny a person you know you need an older lady 744 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,319 Speaker 1: to brush your hair and say, oh no, no, no, 745 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,439 Speaker 1: So that's I mean, that's the thing that watching back 746 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:58,000 Speaker 1: for me, I just feel this kind of relief of like, oh, 747 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:03,359 Speaker 1: it wasn't her fault. That's yeah, that's a relief. Well 748 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:10,879 Speaker 1: you yeah, I love that. It's interesting, you know. I 749 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 1: I have liked in these first thirteen episodes seeing Brooke 750 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 1: put the defense down, the like how hard she pushes 751 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,560 Speaker 1: to be like charming or sexy or say the thing 752 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,840 Speaker 1: that's going to get the laugh. It's all about outside 753 00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,839 Speaker 1: validation and like really trying to look like she has 754 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:35,359 Speaker 1: it together, and and seeing her get softer, seeing her 755 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:39,919 Speaker 1: admit things. I mean, even her saying on that hot 756 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 1: chocolate walk and talk with Lucas, I'm not close with 757 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 1: my mom. It would be really cool if I hit 758 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: it off with yours. She is she wants her family, Yeah, 759 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,280 Speaker 1: she just like she wants a safe place. She's never 760 00:43:55,360 --> 00:44:00,360 Speaker 1: felt safe. And and I think it's really interesting to 761 00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:04,960 Speaker 1: understand how, like you said, you know, people who don't 762 00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:08,799 Speaker 1: have a family unit can suffer a lot. People who 763 00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,240 Speaker 1: don't have a safe place, even with a chosen family, 764 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,400 Speaker 1: can kind of suffer a lot. And and Brooke and 765 00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,000 Speaker 1: Peyton have been each other's chosen family, but they're just 766 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,960 Speaker 1: two sixteen year olds, Like no one can be the 767 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,360 Speaker 1: leader because they're both little girls. So that's a great point. 768 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,799 Speaker 1: Where's the leader? We don't have one. We're just we're 769 00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: a team. But like I don't know, we're out like 770 00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 1: trolling around like feral cats. We don't know anything. We 771 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 1: needed like a cool like student government teacher, you know, 772 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,640 Speaker 1: like a cool teacher, because I had cool teachers in 773 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:45,439 Speaker 1: school that definitely would like wasn't it like a cool 774 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:51,240 Speaker 1: kind of rock and roll vibe like like we needed 775 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:53,400 Speaker 1: when we were all the kids at tree Hill High 776 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 1: to have the teacher slash guidance counselor that Hayley James 777 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,799 Speaker 1: becomes later in the show. We never had. We never 778 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,360 Speaker 1: had that. Yeah. Plus back then there was such a 779 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 1: big separation between the parents and the kids with fashion, 780 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,719 Speaker 1: and it was like very clear who was like mom 781 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:18,719 Speaker 1: like soccer moms, and then who were the kids tan pants? 782 00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 1: But really it really created a big divide I think 783 00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,560 Speaker 1: between the adults and the kids. And I don't know 784 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 1: what your experiences, Ben Hill as a mom of um, 785 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:35,880 Speaker 1: well preteen I guess almost, but um, there's less of 786 00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 1: a divide, like there's much more of a I mean, 787 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:42,000 Speaker 1: maybe I'm just a really cool mom. But you know, 788 00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:46,440 Speaker 1: it seems like there's less of a divide between the 789 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 1: parents and the kids. It seems like, I don't know, 790 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,359 Speaker 1: and is that just my world? I think that we 791 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 1: hang out with our kids in a different way than 792 00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,879 Speaker 1: like our parents generation did. Yeah, you know, that's what 793 00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 1: it is. It's there's we're the communicator. Um. But I 794 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:05,839 Speaker 1: would say that when I was in school, the there 795 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:07,680 Speaker 1: were a number of teachers who were really young, like 796 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 1: right out of college, so they weren't necessarily that much 797 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,600 Speaker 1: older than us, and that made it really easy to 798 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:16,120 Speaker 1: communicate with them. And so I wish that our girls 799 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:20,240 Speaker 1: had had a woman in their twenties, you know that 800 00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,080 Speaker 1: that would have been good for us on set to 801 00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:26,799 Speaker 1: have somewhere a little bit older man, and and good 802 00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 1: for us in the narrative because we were just floating. 803 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,919 Speaker 1: They wouldn't have known how to write for them. Yeah, 804 00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,280 Speaker 1: all the boys got to have mentors. What the heck? 805 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:38,160 Speaker 1: They had multiple mentors. It's actually really interesting too, thinking 806 00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 1: about how intense the divide was. Even with our wardrobe. 807 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:46,000 Speaker 1: Something just clicked for me where I'm like, oh, but 808 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:50,200 Speaker 1: we were all twenty one three. You know, aside from 809 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,840 Speaker 1: sweet Baby James, who was eighteen this this first season, 810 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:57,680 Speaker 1: but you know, everyone playing our parents was only like 811 00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 1: fifteen years older than us. They were actually old enough 812 00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:06,120 Speaker 1: to be our real parents. So I think they also 813 00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:10,120 Speaker 1: tried to age them up in dressing them more kind 814 00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:15,600 Speaker 1: of like parental conservative Khaki, Like they didn't want they 815 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,719 Speaker 1: didn't want Deb to be the cool mom because then 816 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:23,920 Speaker 1: everyone would know she wasn't that much older than us, right, true. Well, 817 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:28,080 Speaker 1: Deb went through it this episode, Peyton and bro are 818 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 1: going through it. It's a big, big episode, and it 819 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,279 Speaker 1: was I think this was our winter finale, So I 820 00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 1: think this was the hiatus one that we come We 821 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 1: stopped like November, what you know or something, and then 822 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:47,280 Speaker 1: come back January seven. These episodes that were airing in February. 823 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 1: Do you guys remember back in the first years of 824 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 1: our show, we would take March off because every week 825 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 1: in March was a rolling spring break and the network 826 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 1: had this obsession shin I guess or this some person 827 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:06,280 Speaker 1: there was convinced that if we aired episodes over spring break, 828 00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,400 Speaker 1: the ratings would go down. Well that's so weird, So 829 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,520 Speaker 1: they would take us off the air for all of 830 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:15,200 Speaker 1: March and then we'd come back on you. I totally 831 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,400 Speaker 1: forgot about that. It was so weird. That's so weird. 832 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:20,560 Speaker 1: Well now you all can strain it. Now you can 833 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,200 Speaker 1: watch it in like two days. Just watched Whatever you 834 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: want is our March hiatus, and it's we go out 835 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 1: on Lucas flat lining, flat lining scary as if the 836 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 1: surgery wasn't like a dramatic enough point, they were like, 837 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,560 Speaker 1: we really got to go out on this button. By 838 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,680 Speaker 1: the way, when he shows up and the and the 839 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,799 Speaker 1: surgeon has to say, he takes one look at him 840 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,640 Speaker 1: and he goes, he's going to need surgery. I'm like, 841 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 1: you haven't even examined it. You don't know. Maybe he's 842 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,880 Speaker 1: just got a concussion. He might be fine. He's dramatic, 843 00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:55,040 Speaker 1: you guys, calmed down, he's going to need surgery. I 844 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 1: mean nothing against the actor, but he had to say 845 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,720 Speaker 1: that line. All, Let's do him most likely to huh. Okay, 846 00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:12,880 Speaker 1: let's to it now now most likely to win Jeopardy. Okay, 847 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,760 Speaker 1: So hold on, let's we have to find a character 848 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 1: in a real life person with mouth win Jeopardy. I 849 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,720 Speaker 1: feel like mouth would win Jeopardy absolutely God, you nailed 850 00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 1: that joy so quickly. I also weirdly feel like Lee 851 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:29,800 Speaker 1: Norris would win Jeopardy. Yeah, actually that's don't. He'd really 852 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,239 Speaker 1: be focused. He'd be in like a great suit with 853 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,960 Speaker 1: a cool tie, and he'd just be going in on facts. 854 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,439 Speaker 1: I see it fine, as long as they have LaVar 855 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 1: Burton hosting. I'm I'm all for leaving on Jeopardy, you 856 00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,640 Speaker 1: and me both. That's my dream petition. The more you 857 00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:53,759 Speaker 1: know that's it, folks, it has been a weird, meandering episode. 858 00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:56,359 Speaker 1: I'm glad you stuck with us through it because this 859 00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,919 Speaker 1: was a grab bag of all sorts of emotional car 860 00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:03,960 Speaker 1: accidents to beach awesome. Stick around and uh and next 861 00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 1: week we'll have more fun for you. And if you 862 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:11,319 Speaker 1: haven't bought your tickets for our live event day, bring 863 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,400 Speaker 1: it on. We're gonna have a blast and I'm probably 864 00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,920 Speaker 1: gonna wear something inappropriate. Hey where that silver bikini from 865 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:21,120 Speaker 1: the Entertainment Weekly photo shoot? Girl, I'm someone's mother. Calm down, 866 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:25,879 Speaker 1: beach hoars, beach hoars, I like it? Should we all 867 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:30,480 Speaker 1: wear turtle necks and silver bikini boys just to really 868 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:35,520 Speaker 1: convince confuse people. Yeah, that's our uniforms. Well, we love 869 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,920 Speaker 1: you guys. Thank you. We'll see you next time. I 870 00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:41,520 Speaker 1: love you all. Hey, thanks for listening. 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