1 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: Brooking Jubels second d It's important to be a good friend, unless, 2 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: of course, that friend ruins your chance at getting some action, 3 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: then you should cut them out of your life. That's 4 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: what I think. And in today's second date update, that's 5 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 1: exactly what it sounds like happened to Jay, who's on 6 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: the phone right now. Jay wants to call a girl 7 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: named Michelle and she's not calling him back after one 8 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: of his friends apparently ruined his date. How you doing, Jay, 9 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: I'm doing all right right now, guys, Why don't you 10 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: tell us what happened? Well? I met Michelle online, so 11 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: I saw her profile, and her profile did stand out 12 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: to me a little bit because, like, she just came 13 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 1: off as so I don't willing go down to earth. Okay, sorry, 14 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: I thought you were going. I thought you were going 15 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: willing on that one. But that's what I usually look 16 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: for in a a woman. Dude. It's actually kind of refreshing 17 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: to hear a guy I say that her profile stood 18 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: out not because of how much boob she had in 19 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: the picture. Yeah, you know, it's right, because I like 20 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: the fact that she had like a lot of pictures 21 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: with her family. But the truth is she also had 22 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: a really nice set of boots too, everything that you're 23 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: looking for. So she seems like she's normal, she seems 24 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: like a nice girl. So I messaged her and she 25 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,839 Speaker 1: messaged me back, and we kind of hit it off, 26 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: and we notched back and forth for a couple of 27 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: weeks and we set up a date finally. Now what 28 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 1: you do on the day your email said that your 29 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: friend actually ruined it for you. Well, it was a 30 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: first date. So we decided to do just something like, 31 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: you know, low pressure casual, just to meet up for 32 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: drinks at a bar after work. So I was like 33 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: getting ready to go and meet her, and then one 34 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: of my co workers who's a friend as well, he 35 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: comes and tells me like this awful story about how 36 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: he just got dumb by his girlfriend. Okay, so you 37 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: guys are at work and he's given you a sob story. Yeah, 38 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: I mean he's actually pretty devastating, like he was like 39 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: crying and stuff. So you're like, hey, yeah, yeah, your 40 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: story is cooling everything, But I got a date right 41 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: now with a girl who will hopefully be my girlfriend. Yeah, 42 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:20,399 Speaker 1: you're standing in my way. Well, there's definitely a part 43 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: of me that I was thinking that I know, I 44 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: couldn't leave him. I mean, he was literally crying. I 45 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: just couldn't just like bail on him. So I was 46 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: like panicking a little bit. I'm like, what am I 47 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: gonna do? I can't abandon him. So I texted Michelle 48 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: and I asked her, listen, my friend, you know he 49 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 1: just got dumped. Is it okay if I bring him along? 50 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: You know, why wouldn't you just reschedule with her? That 51 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: seems smart, you know, looking back, maybe, but it's just 52 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: like our schedules were like so conflicting for so long. 53 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: It's taking me two weeks for us to get together, 54 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: so I wouldn't really wanted to happen. And I just 55 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: thought this, like he would come along, we would have 56 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: a few drinks, and we will be able to just 57 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: break away and like he would go home and that 58 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: would be fine, you know, right. Was she cool about 59 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: you bringing him along? She said? Yeah. So we went 60 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: up and we met and we all had some drinks. 61 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: And every time I thought we were going to break 62 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: away and pull the cord and ditch the single loser, yeah, 63 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: just like he was. You know, he just kept breaking down, 64 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: like we could not just help with the sand. We 65 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: just couldn't shake him. So he was like trying. When 66 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: you guys were out drinking, she was sobbing. Yeah, I 67 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 1: mean at this point he was kind of like this 68 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: whimperish sobbing and what do you do? That's awkward? Was 69 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: she trying to comfort him too? She was just trying 70 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: not to say anything that would make things worse, right, Yeah, 71 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: she doesn't know the guy, so she was just trying 72 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: to say, you know, just bee all neutral and just 73 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: be like it's gonna be okay. And I guess you'd 74 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: probably get points because you look like a really caring friend, 75 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: which is always a positive. But were you ever able 76 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: to just talk to her? Yeah? See that's the thing. Like, 77 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: after like two hours, she was pretty much kind of like, 78 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: you know, she just said I gotta get going and 79 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: she needed to go, and I was like, all right, um, 80 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: so I'm guessing your date ended with a passionate kiss 81 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: right in front of this guy. It was like the 82 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: awkward kind of like shoulder bump hug thing. Um like 83 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: it was. It was just a polite hug, good vibe, right, okay, 84 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: And have you heard from her since the date? Well? 85 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: What I did watch when I finally got home that night, 86 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: I sent her a text asking her if we could 87 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: try it again, just hit the reboot button, reset button, 88 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: and just try it again, just the two of us 89 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: this time. Yeah, And she texted back that she didn't 90 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: think it was going to work out or it was 91 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: a good idea. I mean, I mean, that's kind of 92 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: messed up. Though she's blaming you for I mean, it's 93 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: not an ideal situation. I get it. But you think 94 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: that she'd give you another chance? Yeah, I I thought 95 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: she was kind of see the whole thing that I 96 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: was trying to do the right thing for my friend. 97 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: And I even texted her asking her, like, you know, 98 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: is there a reason why? Like if she could just 99 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: like at least tell me why. But she never even 100 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: texted me back after that. So that's all you've heard 101 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: from her. I don't think it's gonna work out? Why? Yeah, 102 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: that was the last thing I heard from her, And 103 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: she never got back to me. And now I'm like, man, 104 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 1: you know, I spent two weeks we really connected online, 105 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: we had the chemistry, and I it's like, I just 106 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: blew it. Have you murdered your coworker yet? Well? You know, 107 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: it's like his girlfriend dumped him like kind of ruined 108 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: two relationships. Yeah, exactly. You two can cry together now 109 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: it's your cubicles at work. All right. Oh that's the thing. 110 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: I really don't want to, you know, I really want 111 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: to make this work. Okay, Well, well play a song, 112 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: come back, call her, and then get your second date update. 113 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: All right, all right, thanks guys. Yeah, man, hold on it. 114 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 1: Five looking cubil in the morning. I'm actually surprised that 115 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: the guy that's on the phone to do a second 116 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: date update today isn't getting a call back because normally 117 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: uncontrollable crying on a first date always works for me. 118 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: But then again, it usually happens in the bedroom, and 119 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: they never made it to the bedroom. They were just 120 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: in a bar. So you should have had your date 121 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: in a bedroom, Jay, and it might have worked out 122 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: better for you. I'll try to keep that in behind 123 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: for the advice if you're just tuning in and don't 124 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. Jay went out with a 125 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 1: girl named Michelle that he met online. The only problem 126 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: was right before he was about to go on his date, 127 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: a coworker friend of his came up to him and 128 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: said that his girlfriend left him and he was like 129 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: in tears and everything else, and so Jay was like, 130 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: all right, well you can come along with me. He 131 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 1: asked the girl if it was okay to bring the dude. 132 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 1: She was like sure, And I think Jay was hoping 133 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: that the guy would eventually get lost, but instead he 134 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: spent two hours with them. On Jay's first date with 135 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: this girl, crying and sobbing and just talking about how 136 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: his life was over because his relationship ended. And she 137 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: hasn't talked to Jay since except for telling him that 138 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 1: is not going to work out. All right, Jay, you're 139 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: ready to get her on the phone? Yes, definitely. Maybe 140 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: she just realized that relationships aren't worth it and it's 141 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: better to be single than put yourself through that heartache. 142 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: Or maybe she got his number instead of yours and 143 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: they've been seeing each other ever since she felt bad 144 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: for him. That'd be a smooth, smooth move by that guy. 145 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: If you could get a date after crying for two hours, 146 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: that sounds like the greatest scheme ever. If you did that, 147 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: I'd let him have her actually come in and for it. 148 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: All right, I'm a dollar phone of her right now? 149 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: Here we go? Helloh, can I speak to Michelle please, 150 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,679 Speaker 1: isn't Michelle. Hey, Michelle, how are you? This is Jewel 151 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, Brook and Jubil 152 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: like the radio show. Yeah, just like that. How are you? 153 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: I'm much better now, you guys me. I'm nothing just 154 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: calling people that. Obviously you listen to the show. That's cool. 155 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: We're just calling a check with people, see how they're doing. 156 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: It's part of our servant. Yeah right, I'm actually calling 157 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: you because somebody emailed us about you. Oh god, telling 158 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: me this is not a freaking second date update. I'd 159 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: love to do that, but it is a second date update. 160 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: Oh god. And you recently went out with a guy 161 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: named Jay. Oh my god, you're calling me about ja. Yes, 162 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: I am. Jay emailed us and told us about your date, 163 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 1: said that it was really awkward because his co worker 164 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: came along, And then after the date he texted you like, hey, 165 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that. We should try it again, and 166 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: you texted him back that you weren't interested. Yeah, that's 167 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 1: I can't believe that he told you all that. Well, 168 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 1: he obviously liked you a lot and wants to see 169 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: you again, So what's the reason that you told him 170 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: it wouldn't possibly work? Well, he told you how the 171 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: friend came along, right, Yes he did. He said his 172 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 1: co worker showed up and cried pretty much the time. Yeah, 173 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: that is that not enough? So is that the only 174 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: reason that you're not calling him back because of his 175 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 1: co worker? No, the co worker cried the whole time, 176 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,839 Speaker 1: and to comfort him, he started saying horrible things about 177 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: the girl. I mean, she wasn't even there to defend herself. 178 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: And he's like, well, you know, she was kind of fat, 179 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 1: so you can do better. And well it was there 180 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: he was trash talking his co workers X. Yes, he's like, oh, 181 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: you can do better. I mean she has a nice 182 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 1: set of boobs, that's all. And he was saying this 183 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: in front of you, and what were you doing? I 184 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I hope it gets better for you. 185 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 1: There's more out there, can't you give him? I mean 186 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 1: you could throw up a bone on that one. It's 187 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: not like you've never comforted a girlfriend by talking about 188 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: what a loser her X was on a date. Yeah, 189 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. I wouldn't say that in front 190 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:53,839 Speaker 1: of another girl, be like, oh dude, she's a waste, 191 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: saying horrible like she had man hands. You don't want her. 192 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: And then the part where I was like, Okay, I 193 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: need to leave is when they started asking me for friends, 194 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 1: because the best way to get over if I wanted 195 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: to get under someone else. So he was asking if 196 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 1: you had any friends that his buddy could hook up day, 197 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: can you call somebody and get them here right away 198 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: so that maybe he can sleep with someone. Really, when 199 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'm going to see you later, 200 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 1: he actually asked you if you had a friend that 201 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: would sleep with him, yes, and could I get them 202 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: on the phone right now. What was your response to that? 203 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: I was horrified and disgusted, and I tried to extricate 204 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: myself from the situation and said I need to Was 205 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: there like anything enjoyable about the date? I mean, it 206 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: was funny on the outside, and I wasn't, you know, 207 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 1: emotionally involved at that point. Did you ever for once 208 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: think about a friend You're like, oh, I bet you 209 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 1: she'd do it, and then almost call them. No, no, no, 210 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: not at all. Can't even go there. Okay, So, Michelle, 211 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 1: I know that it sounds like you're listening to the show, 212 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 1: and I don't know how many second date updates you 213 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 1: listen to but maybe you forgot that. Jay is actually 214 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: on the other line listening right now. No, I figured 215 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: that was coming. I'm glad that he got to hear 216 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 1: all that. Oh okay, Jay, you know there. Yeah, I'm here, 217 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 1: pretty harsh recap. Jay listening to what she just said. 218 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:24,079 Speaker 1: I can't believe she's like saying this kind of stuff. 219 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:26,439 Speaker 1: I can't believe that I was on the first date 220 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: with you and you solicited one of my friends for sex. No, 221 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: that's not what I did. That's not what I did. 222 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: I was consoling my friend. That's what I was doing 223 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: about It was not in a nice way. You have 224 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 1: to know your audience, and I was there. It wasn't 225 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:47,199 Speaker 1: just the guys talking. And I'm glad that I got 226 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: to see that side of you before I ventured in 227 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: on a real date. So, well, haven't you ever had 228 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 1: a friend who just got dumped? I mean, haven't you 229 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: ever broken up with you? And we watched a sad 230 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: movie and I say, oh, sweetie, you'll get better. There 231 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: are better ones out there. Just wait a minute, though, 232 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: But like you, you're telling me you've never had and 233 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: you don't know any of your friends who've ever had 234 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: a casual just a hook up after breaking up just 235 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 1: to feel better about themselves. Told me you might end 236 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: up doing that, but you don't go on a first 237 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: date and ask your date to help you on that mine. 238 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 1: I was just trying to get you involved so you 239 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: didn't feel left out, that's all. I did not feel 240 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: left out, So thank you. Don't you just want to 241 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: maybe apologize though, and just say the timing was bad? No, 242 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: I mean, this is like, we got to be realistic. 243 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: She knows what's going on out there. I mean, don't 244 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: be such a prud Okay, Well, you're being at jacks 245 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: and I don't want to have anything to do with you. 246 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: Weren't I made for each other great? And you were 247 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: just a jack? So I hope nobody goes out with 248 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 1: you ever again. Yay, Well, this would be a perfect 249 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 1: time for me to ask Michelle, would you like to 250 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: go on a second date with Jay? Let me think, no, No, 251 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: are you sure? I'm very sure? Okay, Michelle, do you 252 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: have a friend who's a little loose on the moral 253 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: side that would want to go out with him? Will 254 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: you guys seem very loose on the moral side? One? 255 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: All right? Hey, Jay, I'm sorry you didn't get a 256 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: second date. But it is like you just went through 257 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 1: a breakup and I will sleep with you to help 258 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: you feel better. I'm gonna have to say that that's 259 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: a no. I just got turned down too. Everybody's getting 260 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 1: turned down and nobody's getting laid over it in the morning. 261 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 1: Quick word of advice for all the gentlemen out there dating. 262 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 1: If you're out on a date, do not bad mouth 263 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: women the whole time, and then ask your date if 264 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: she has a friend who's pretty easy and would hook 265 00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: up with one of your friends. Shouldn't have to say that. 266 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: I should not have to say that, but unfortunately I do. 267 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: It's broken Jewel in the morning. I'm talking about today's 268 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: second date update. This guy Jay wanted us to call 269 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 1: a girl Michelle that he went out on a date with. 270 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 1: The problem with his date was that right before he 271 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:15,599 Speaker 1: was going on it, one of his buddies that he 272 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 1: works with came up to him pretty much sobbing heartbroke 273 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: and he had just broken up with his girlfriend and 274 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: he's like, right before he was leaving, so he asked 275 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: his date, hey, can I bring my coworker along. He'll 276 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: just be there for a little while, and then he'll 277 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: go on his way, but he's having a tough time, 278 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: and she was cool about it, she was like, sure, 279 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: bring him along. Well, it turns out after we got 280 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: her on the phone and she told us the story 281 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: that during that time, while they were trying to console 282 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: his coworker, he actually was just like bad mouthing the 283 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: guy's ex girlfriend, like saying horrible things about her in 284 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 1: front of this girl, and then also stopped to ask 285 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: the girl that he was on a date with if 286 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: she had a friend who was, you know, easy enough 287 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: and willing to sleep with this dude in order to 288 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 1: help him get over his girlfriend, Like, hey, you know, 289 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: the best way to get over somebody's to hook up 290 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: with somebody, right, So, do you have any friends out 291 00:14:58,200 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: there who might just you can call him up right now. 292 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: They'll come over the restaurant, they can know the bathroom 293 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: real quick and get things done. And I surprisingly she 294 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: didn't like that. Yeah, I mean, it wasn't a look 295 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: into what could happen if they ever broke up or anything, 296 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 1: or how he handled his own relationships at all, And 297 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: he didn't understand why she didn't want to go out 298 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: with him again. But a lot of people texting in 299 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 1: at seven eighty five to nine two understand exactly why 300 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: she didn't want to go out with him again. Remember, 301 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: if you want to go out with somebody, if you've 302 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: went out with somebody and they haven't called you back, 303 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: just email the show Brook and Jewil at moving nine 304 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: to five dot com. We will call the person who 305 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 1: didn't call you back.