1 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome to the Foundation's podcast. I'm your host, 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: Tony Peterson, and this episode is all about how we 3 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: can become more confident and handling dogs, which is a 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: huge component of training. Two weeks ago, I dropped an 5 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: episode of this podcast dedicated to developing confidence in our dogs. 6 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: That matters so much because it flavors a dog's entire 7 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: life in a positive direction. Generally, Well, guess what, the 8 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: same rules apply to us, And often our training efforts 9 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:35,959 Speaker 1: fall flat or just don't have the horsepower they need 10 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: because we don't have confidence in ourselves. That is no 11 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 1: bueno and it's what I'm going to talk about right now. 12 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: A hunting industry friend of mine told me a story 13 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: years ago about a sheep hunt that he went on. 14 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: If any of you know anything about sheep hunting, it's 15 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: not the kind of activity that most outdoorsmen do even 16 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: once in their lives. So getting to go at all 17 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: is pretty incredible big horn sheep. And while most of 18 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: the sheep that are nearly impossible to get a tag 19 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: for these days aren't known for thriving in states like Iowa, 20 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: they live where the earth goes up and down a lot, 21 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: where gravity is a real issue, and things are still 22 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: pretty wild. To get to a sheep, you tend to 23 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: have to board some small planes and often climb on 24 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: the back of a horse for a while. Now, this 25 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 1: friend of mine, at the end of his sheep hunt, 26 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: ended up getting into one of those small planes that 27 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: still utilizes a propeller and can land on nothing more 28 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: than a cleared strip of timber that is pretty far 29 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: from what most of us think is a runway. Well, 30 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: on that flight, his plane didn't make it and they 31 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: made a crash landing. Now, while the pilot, his guide, 32 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: and he all survived, it didn't look great for them. 33 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: I forget now whether they were in Alaska or Canada, 34 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: but I remember him talking about how brutally cold it 35 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: was and how much snow they dealt with. Now, when 36 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: they finally got picked up by a rescue hell, they 37 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: thought they were good to go, as most of us would, 38 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: except that the helicopter suffered the same fate as the plane, which, 39 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 1: if you're keeping track, comes to a total of two 40 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: crash landings on one trip, which we can all agree 41 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: is about too many. They survived that one too, and 42 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,399 Speaker 1: when I asked him what the worst part about it all? 43 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 2: Was. 44 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: He said it was when they were huddled under a 45 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: tarp with a single candle for warmth, and he looked 46 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: at his guide, who was a survival expert and someone 47 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: you generally find comfort in when things get really dicey, 48 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: and he was bawling his eyes out. That my buddy 49 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: said was the hardest to deal with because he saw 50 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: someone who was supposed to be in charge, supposed to 51 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: be conditioned to deal with real life and death adversity, 52 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: and it felt like he had given up. My buddy 53 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: said that was an absolute gut punch. He also said 54 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: climbing into the second rescue helicopter wasn't as joyful as 55 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: you'd expect because he had developed a pretty healthy and 56 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: understandable fear of flying machines in the undefeated gravity that 57 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: they attempt to defy. His guide had lost his confidence, 58 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: and it changed their outlook. It changed their whole situation 59 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 1: for the worse. My friend said, it was terrible. Now, 60 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: confidence is just wildly important to life, even if you're 61 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: not in a life or death situation. Now, if you 62 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: don't believe that, look up self help books that are 63 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 1: supposed to take the average low confidence person and prime 64 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: them up. To fight lions or whatever. The amount of 65 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: those books that are available is mind boggling. 66 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 2: It truly is. 67 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: In fact, just to see I search for self help 68 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: books on Amazon and the results totaled over one hundred thousand. 69 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: Not all of those deal with confidence and self esteem, 70 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: but a lot of them do. It's a big deal, 71 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: and it matters in many facets of our lives. Setting 72 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: boundaries with your lunatic family members, being assertive enough to 73 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: ask for as you think you deserve, or at least 74 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: telling your boss to go kick rocks in the street 75 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: when he asked you to color way outside the lines 76 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: of your job description. Whatever it is, confidence matters, and 77 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: as you probably can guess, it matters with how you 78 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: handle your dog. The energy we project is important, but 79 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: that walks in lockstep with us just being confident in 80 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: what we are asking the dog to do, and then 81 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: what to do when the dog doesn't deliver. You might 82 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: remember that a couple of weeks ago I mentioned that 83 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: I've been training a King Charles Spaniel to give this 84 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 1: woman a hand, since her life is pretty full and 85 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: she didn't ask for that dog. 86 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 2: In her life. 87 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: His name is Nico, and he actually is a really 88 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: good boy. He just has very little connections to human 89 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,919 Speaker 1: after being rehome three times in the first year, mind you, 90 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: and he's pretty comfortable entertaining. 91 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 2: Himself while ignoring most people. 92 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: But we did some placeboard work, and we did some 93 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: basic obedience stuff and he showed plenty of signs of life. 94 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: Then we worked again on the same stuff and he 95 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: had regressed some, mostly I think because he had been 96 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: cooped up inside for a few days and is not 97 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: really the kind of dog who wants to live the 98 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: life of the average housecat. So just this morning I 99 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: met up with Nico and his owner again and we 100 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: went to work, but this time about halfway through, she 101 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: took the lead and I watched her interact with the pup. 102 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: It was clear that she had been working hard with 103 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: that little dog and that he is way more bonded 104 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: to her than me. It was actually pretty awesome to see, 105 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: and I told her that, and she admitted that she 106 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: was working with him every day and that when she 107 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: knows what to do, she's all about putting the work in. 108 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: But originally she didn't know what to do. She had 109 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: zero confidence in herself as a trainer or her dog's potential, 110 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: and so she didn't do anything. Now, what is really 111 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: cool about that is she will be the one to 112 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: have the most influence on that dog and the one 113 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: who will get the most out of having that dog 114 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: for his whole life. Just her change in affected her 115 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 1: dog's behavior more than my presence had. And that's what 116 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: you really want to see, because it changes all of 117 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 1: the little interactions, the little signals. And what I mean 118 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 1: by that is that when I first watched her with 119 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: that dog, she would praise him and love him up, 120 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: just randomly for no reason, and often when he didn't 121 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: do what she asked him. This is super common because 122 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 1: we naturally want to be really positive around our dogs. 123 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: We can't help it. 124 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: But if you spend time with a professional trainer, you'll 125 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: see an awful lot of like neutral interactions with dogs. 126 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 1: The emotion just doesn't come in until a behavior is delivered. 127 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: Then it's party time. Pros understand that there is value 128 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: to praise and rewards, but those things need to be earned, 129 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: and they are confident they can get that message through 130 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: to dogs. Now, us amateurs have a harder time believing that, 131 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: so we tend to default to the fur baby side 132 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: of things, which is kind of like eating a whole 133 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:00,160 Speaker 1: sleeve of oreos when you're feeling a little snacky. Sure 134 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: they taste amazing, especially with a giant glass of cold milk, 135 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: but it would be hard to argue that, aside from 136 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: the instant pleasure of gnombing on some cookies, that's generally 137 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: not a great decision. So how do you develop confidence 138 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: as a dog trainer? Your first impulse might be to 139 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: watch some YouTube videos or maybe buy into one of 140 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: the master classes that a lot of trainers offer. Now, 141 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: I wouldn't discourage anyone from doing either, because I think 142 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: that filling your head with knowledge is a good thing. 143 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: And maybe you pick up a book at least if 144 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: you're one of those people like me who was born 145 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: way back in the nineteen hundreds, It doesn't really matter. 146 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: There are a lot of ways to learn about this stuff, 147 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: and consuming content is a pretty good way to get there. 148 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: It's not as good as training with someone who is 149 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: better than you, but that's often a hell of a 150 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: lot more difficult to facilitate. Fill that big, beautiful brain 151 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: of yours up. But then remember that learning about a 152 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: subject and then actually engaging in that subject are just 153 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: different things. And also remember that the people who create 154 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: a lot of the content probably just way better at 155 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: training than you, or they might have a style that 156 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: just doesn't jive with your personality or your dog's personality. 157 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: And even if it does perfectly match what you have 158 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: going on, there is the reality of someone explaining how 159 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: to do something in a five minute video or a 160 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: twenty minute podcast and then actually going out and confidently 161 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 1: putting that into practice for weeks until lessons start to stick. 162 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: This is where it gets tricky, and there are a 163 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 1: million examples of other things in life that kind of 164 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 1: create or at least contextualize this concept. So here's one 165 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 1: that stuck with me and changed my life. When I 166 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,559 Speaker 1: was in college, I fished a lot of bass tournaments. 167 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: I was eaten up with it, even though the travel 168 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: and stress and expense nearly killed me. But I did 169 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: enjoy it for many reasons, but one was that I 170 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: just got to fish with people who were really good 171 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: at it. Now, if you know anything about bass, you 172 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: know they love cover and they love structure, small mouth 173 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: and large mouth alike. Rocks true use weed lines, and 174 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: of course docks. Docks provide overhead cover from avian predators. 175 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 1: They're full of hard structure to use to their advantage 176 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: when trying not to get eaten and also while trying 177 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: to eat something, And they often create really harsh shade lines, 178 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: which are perfect if one of your primary strategies for 179 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 1: eating is to ambush smaller fish, you just hide in 180 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 1: the shadows. A lot of people fish docks by casting 181 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: to each side with a spinner bait or some other 182 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: chunk and wine lure. But when you learn how to 183 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: skip underneath docks, everything changes. And I thought I was 184 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: pretty good at skipping senkos and tube jigs and swimming 185 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: jigs and whatever else under docks until I drew a 186 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: pro and a championship tournament on Lake Minnetonka here in 187 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: the Cities one time. Then I got a lesson in 188 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: skipping docks, and it changed everything for me. He was 189 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 1: so much better at it than I was. It wasn't 190 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: even funny. It made me realize how much better I 191 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: could be, and I started working on it to the 192 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: point now where I'm very confident in that strategy. But 193 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: I can also tell you I wouldn't have gotten there 194 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: by just reading an article or listening to a podcast 195 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: or watching a video. I had to see it in action, 196 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: but most importantly, had to put it into practice in 197 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 1: different conditions for a long time. Dog training is like that. 198 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 1: You can read about treat training your dog to do something, 199 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: which is great, but until you spend days or weeks 200 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: treat training a dog to do something, it's just a 201 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:38,679 Speaker 1: different thing. And I know this is simple, but I'm 202 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: going to go somewhere with this. Let's say you have 203 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: a one year old Labrador Retriever that you've done a 204 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: pretty good job with as far as obedience is concerned. 205 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: He doesn't pull too hard on the leash when you 206 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: walk him, he sits on command, he doesn't beg and 207 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: he heals just like you want him to. If you 208 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:57,679 Speaker 1: make him sit and you toss a bumper, he'll go 209 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: get it, and if you've done a really good job, 210 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: he'll deliver it to hand. Honestly, that's better than a 211 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: hell of a lot of dogs already. So that's great. 212 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: But what about double retrieves, what about long distance retres 213 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,319 Speaker 1: what about water work or some other environment that he's 214 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 1: unfamiliar with. Well, I can tell you this. Make believe 215 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: pup can do all of those things if you make 216 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: them happen. And if you did all of that earlier stuff. 217 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 1: You probably have the confidence to try to make that happen. 218 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: But what if you didn't. What if you didn't work 219 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: the basics first, so that when you ask your dog 220 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: to sit, he sometimes does and he sometimes just ignores you. 221 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: Or what if you just couldn't get him to not 222 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 1: pull on the leash NonStop while you walked him. Will 223 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: you have the confidence to try the upper level stuff? 224 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: Probably not. This is a process that feeds itself, and 225 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: the momentum can swing one way or the other depending 226 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: on what you put in and how patient you are. 227 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: We preach the message of training a puppy from the 228 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 1: moment you bring it home with. The idea is that 229 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: the dog needs to learn and you're the one who 230 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: will teach him. And without a doubt, that's absolutely true. 231 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: You want to train your dog from the jump. But 232 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: it's not just to have a better dog. It's also 233 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: a way for you to see the results of a 234 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: training plan, positive results, because that matters a lot. And 235 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: while it's pretty dang easy to treat train most puppies 236 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: to do a few basic things, and that's great, it's 237 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: also not just for them. It's a starting point for you. 238 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: Think about it this way. If you can take an 239 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:35,079 Speaker 1: eight week old puppy and get him sitting pretty consistently 240 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: on command after a few days, why can't you do 241 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: the harder stuff later. Because usually there's a breakdown in 242 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 1: confidence somewhere in between there, and that's when things get tough. 243 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 1: This is where the pros earn their money and why 244 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: they deserve their money. When your dog is struggling with 245 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 1: some task, it's easy to think all kinds of things, 246 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:56,359 Speaker 1: he's not smart enough. 247 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 2: He's too stubborn, whatever. 248 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: But most of that is projection on our part, because 249 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: we've already seen that we can ask them to do 250 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: things and they'll deliver, but at some point, for some reason, 251 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: they won't, and that can get really frustrating fast. This 252 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: is where the timeline often shifts and it's easier to 253 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 1: decide that training has gone far enough. But mostly it's 254 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: because we aren't confident enough to help them through whatever 255 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: we are asking. This happens for plenty of reasons, but 256 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: it's so important to remember that you have to get 257 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: those early wins and sometimes revert to the easy wins 258 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 1: to keep your training momentum going in the right direction 259 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: and your confidence growing. This is also why when you 260 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 1: watch pros work, they might dedicate a little time to 261 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: some type of training with a dog and then switch 262 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 1: gears ten or twenty minutes later to work on a 263 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: different task. It's not that they couldn't push through the 264 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: original one, but if the wheels start to fall off, 265 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,960 Speaker 1: or they see the dog has just moved enough in 266 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: a certain direction maybe with their attention, they consider it 267 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: time to do something else. Plus, they are generally pretty 268 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: confident that they can offer up situations where the dog 269 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 1: will eventually have success, and that matters in a major, 270 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: major way. They're not going to let the dogs fail, 271 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: and in that process, they won't fail at training even 272 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: if something they wanted to check off the list just 273 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 1: didn't get there on a specific day. They also know 274 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: that all of this stuff helps them be confident and 275 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: is recognizable by the dog. If you think that's not true, 276 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: you need to work with dogs more, because they can 277 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: read us very very well. A calm, assertive, and confident 278 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: trainer is one who can ask a lot of dogs 279 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 1: because dogs generally respond very well to that energy. A 280 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: person who isn't confident, who is an assertive will watch 281 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: a dog make its own decisions because it knows it can. 282 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: This is kind of like in grade school when you're 283 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: usual teacher who took absolutely no shit is out and 284 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: a sub is in, and the sub was working in 285 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: the mortgage industry until weeks ago, and they have no 286 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: business teaching kids because they don't know what the hell 287 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: they are doing. Do you think the classroom behavior will 288 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: be the same then with that sub it won't, because 289 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 1: kids are just like dogs, and that they can sense 290 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: things about authority figures and that flavors their interactions in 291 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: a palpable way. If they get a whiff of uneasiness, 292 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 1: then they'll test your boundaries. It's nature, honestly, and dogs 293 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: understand that game very well. So not only is it 294 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: just generally a good idea to work on something like 295 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 1: training until you're more confident, but it's also necessary to 296 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: get the results you really want out of the task. Now, 297 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: of course, I should probably say this, confidence can be 298 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: a double edged sword. If you're over confident, you can 299 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: ruin a dog pretty quickly, and likely will, because that's 300 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 1: the kind of situation that can lead the best of 301 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: us to absolutely lose our shit when things go wrong. 302 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: Confidence should ideally manifest itself in a bend. There done 303 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: that attitude, not a know it all attitude, if that 304 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 1: makes sense. So I'll say this just to reiterate it 305 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 1: one last time. If you aren't overly confident in your training, 306 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 1: consume whatever content you need, get around the right people, 307 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: but also just go for it. Train your dog on 308 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: the simple stuff, get those easy wins. Then train that 309 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: simple stuff over and over while you slowly add in 310 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: more challenging things. Your confidence level should move in lockstep 311 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: with your dog or be so damn close you can't 312 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: tell who is in the lead. Now if you hit 313 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: a roadblock, make sure you're incorporating other training tasks to 314 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: give the dog a win no matter what, every time 315 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: you train, and then figure out how to navigate those 316 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: troubled waters. Believe in yourself. Dog training in many ways 317 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:59,239 Speaker 1: isn't that hard, and I say that followed by a gigantic, 318 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: super huge, But it certainly can be really difficult, and 319 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,360 Speaker 1: it only gets more difficult the less confident we are, 320 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: which often leads to a good enough attitude, and the 321 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 1: dogs that are trained to that level often are barely 322 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 1: trained at all. Work on yourself in this category and 323 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 1: the dog and you will be way better off for it. 324 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 1: Do that and come back in two weeks because I'm 325 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 1: going to talk about genetics, like really really dive into 326 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:32,159 Speaker 1: the topic and explain why it's so important to the 327 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 1: dog world, way beyond the usual ways in which we 328 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: think about canine genetics. That's it for this episode of Houndations. 329 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Tony Peterson. Thank you so much for 330 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 1: listening and for all your support. 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