1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: We could. 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: Be reading your letter live on the air, just like 7 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now. 8 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: Never know, it could be yours. 9 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 3: You never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We 10 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 3: got it for you here. It is a Strawberry letter. 11 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 2: Thank you. 12 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: Nephew's subject a masterpiece without piece or a piece. Okay, 13 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,319 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm writing in for my twenty nine 14 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: year old brother and hopes you can help him out. 15 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: He calls his girlfriend a masterpiece, and I have to 16 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: agree that she's almost perfect and the prettiest girl he's 17 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: ever dated. He fell in love for superficial reasons and 18 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: has not taken the time to get to know her. 19 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: His girlfriend works as a model and an Instagram influencer, 20 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: and she makes great money. She's got a natural body 21 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: and curly red hair with big pretty eyes. She is 22 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: a stunning woman. But she's turned my brother into a 23 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: different man. He's been sleeping on my couch for a 24 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: week because she put him out of his own house. 25 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: He's a techie, so he makes great money and that's 26 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: what attracted her. He's given her money for skin and 27 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: teeth enhancement, so he helped create that masterpiece here. Recently, 28 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: she stopped having sex with him and told him her 29 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: body is a temple for her husband, and since he 30 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 1: won't marry her, then he can't touch her. I agreed 31 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: with her on that, So I'm in the middle of 32 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: something that I have no business being in. My brother said, 33 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 1: there is no peace living with this woman. Her life 34 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: is taking photos, going out to clubs and restaurants and 35 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: traveling to make money. He's in love with the idea 36 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: of her, and quite honestly, I. 37 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: Think she's cheating on him. 38 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: I want him to get a backbone and put her 39 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: out of his house if she's that bad. Being the 40 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: gym that he is, he said he can't just uproot 41 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: her like that. He remains faithful to his masterpiece, but 42 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: he can't even get a piece. 43 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 2: One day he. 44 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: Wants to break up with her, and another day he 45 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: wants to buy a ring and ask her to marry him. 46 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: I feel bad for him, but I want him off 47 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: my couch. This woman has to hold on This woman 48 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 1: has a hold on him. So how can I make him, 49 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: help him make the right decision. Well, you can't, you can't. 50 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: This really has nothing to do with you. But he's 51 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: your brother. You care what happens to him, and he's 52 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: on your couch, so you are involved by default. But 53 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: he's really not being a man in this situation. I mean, 54 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: clearly you said in a letter he's in love with her, 55 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: Your brother sprung on his so called masterpiece girlfriend. I mean, 56 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: who is this fine that they can make you leave 57 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 1: your own house, your own house that you pay the 58 00:02:55,560 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: mortgage for. H Okay, So in this case, not until 59 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: he's had enough, and can he stand up to her 60 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,839 Speaker 1: or catches her cheating like you think she is, will 61 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: he be able to break up with her? I mean, 62 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: it's just as simple as that, because he's got it 63 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: real bad. I mean, you said she's beautiful, she's got curves, 64 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: big pretty eyes, curly hair, all of that. You know, 65 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: as his sibling, you could shake things up and try 66 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: putting him out of your house, which would force him 67 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: to go back home. But please know that he'll be 68 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: mad at you for a while, and when he should 69 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,839 Speaker 1: be mad at his girl, the masterpiece, but again. 70 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 2: He sprung, so I just wouldn't count on that. 71 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: You know, Try giving him a deadline of when he 72 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: has to be out of the house and see what happens. 73 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 2: I mean, he's a grown man. He's not your responsibility. 74 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: I think you should let him figure this out in 75 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: his own house. 76 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 4: Steve his boy twenty nine years old. Twenty nine, that 77 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 4: ain't old enough, y'all. That ain't old enough to do 78 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 4: all the things that I'm about to tell him he 79 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 4: needed to do, because he twenty nine and he can't 80 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 4: believe what has happened to him. This boy is so 81 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 4: messed up because he cause his girlfriend a masterpiece. 82 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 3: God, I don't think if y'all know what that is. 83 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 4: But then this other woman says, and I God agree, 84 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 4: because she almost perfect, prettiest girl he's ever dated, she said, 85 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 4: prettiest girl she's ever seen. 86 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 3: CLIs said that. 87 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 4: He fell in love for superficial reasons and has not 88 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 4: taken the time to get to know her. 89 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 3: Now that is all true. 90 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 4: What he fell in love with was I will share 91 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 4: with you later on, in love with the concept, Oh 92 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 4: my god, look at her, Oh God. 93 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 3: And she won't me. Oh, this is too much. 94 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 4: His girlfriend works as a model Instagram influence. She makes 95 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 4: great money, she's got a natural body, curly red hair, 96 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 4: big pretty eyes. 97 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 3: Who ain't in? Who ain't signing up for this? He 98 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: twenty nine? All of us on this radio show is 99 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 3: older than that of all the fellas. This description right here, 100 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 3: twenty nine. We signing up for that? 101 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 5: We single. 102 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 3: In like fleeing. 103 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 4: She's a stunning woman, but she's turned my brother into 104 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 4: a different man. He's been sleeping on my couch for 105 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 4: a week because she put him out of his own house. 106 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 4: He's a techie, so he makes great money and that's 107 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 4: what attracted her. Okay, so everybody's attracted for superficial reasons. 108 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 4: He's giving her money for skin and teeth enhancements, so 109 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 4: he helped create the masterpiece. Now, she said recently she 110 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 4: stopped having sex with him and told him her body 111 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 4: is a template for her husband. And since he won't 112 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 4: marry her, then she can't. He can't touch her. And 113 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,559 Speaker 4: I agree with her on that. And now who side 114 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 4: you on? Now you're on your brother's side of the 115 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 4: girl's side. So I'm in the middle of something that 116 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 4: I have no business being there. Why you're in the 117 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 4: middle of him, because your brother is telling you this stuff. 118 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 4: You know why telling you that because he got time 119 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 4: to tell the story, because he on your couch. We'll 120 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 4: get into that when we come back. I have an 121 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 4: answer for you. He's not gonna do I right, not gonna. 122 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 3: Do it, imot. 123 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: We will have part two of Steve's response to today's 124 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is a masterpiece without peace or 125 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: a piece. Steve's responds, Part two coming up at twenty 126 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening 127 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: Steve's Hardy Morning Show. 128 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 5: Hey, is Carla Ferroll kick that old moping bucket aside? 129 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 5: Are you ready for a moping bucket clean in half 130 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 5: the time? Make the swap to Swiffer Power Mop. The 131 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 5: all in one cleaning Hero has a built in solution 132 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 5: that breaks down dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds 133 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 5: of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes 134 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 5: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 135 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 5: hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter with 136 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 5: the Swiffer Power Mop. 137 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter, 138 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: the subject a masterpiece without peeth or a piece. 139 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 4: Hmm, Well, this woman is writing for her twenty nine 140 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 4: year old brother that's falling in love with this masterpiece. 141 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 4: Supermodel influence on Instagram, pretty hell, pretty eyes, red current, 142 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 4: natural body, the prettiest girl he's ever dated. He didn't 143 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 4: have some flowers though, but this one right here top 144 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 4: the cake. She likes him because he's a tech and 145 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 4: he make great money, and that's what attracted her. So 146 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 4: both of them are attracted for superficial reasons. He's giving 147 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 4: her money for skin chief enhancement, so he's helped create 148 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 4: this masterpiece. Now, she didn't stop having sex with him 149 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 4: because she said her body's a temple for her husband 150 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 4: and since he won't marry her, he can't touch her. 151 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 4: The lady had wrote the letter, say I agree with 152 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 4: her on that. So I'm in the middle of something 153 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 4: I have no bus as being in. Well you're really 154 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 4: not in the middle of it. You allowed yourself to 155 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 4: be drugging into the middle of it, but really not 156 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 4: your business. 157 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 3: This is your brother business. 158 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 4: Now I'm gonna get to what the brothers should do 159 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 4: and you should do, but your brother not gonna do 160 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 4: what I'm about to do it, because you got to 161 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 4: be a little bit older to do what I'm about 162 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 4: to tell you to do. And he twenty nine, and 163 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 4: he sprung, he not gonna be able. 164 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 3: To do it. 165 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 4: She too fine for him, She's way too fine. My 166 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 4: brother said, there's no peace living with this woman. Her 167 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 4: life is taking photos, going out to clubs, restaurants, and 168 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 4: traveling to make money. He's in love with the idea 169 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 4: of her. And quite honestly, see right there, she said, 170 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 4: he's in love with. 171 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 3: The idea of her. It's the concept. I got her. 172 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:10,839 Speaker 3: Everybody want her, but I got her. 173 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 4: But what you have, dog is nothing because you don't 174 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 4: even like your life with her, because it's taking photos, 175 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 4: going to clubs and restaurants, traveling to make money. I 176 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 4: want him to get a backbone and put her out 177 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 4: of his house if she's that bad. Being the gentleman 178 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 4: he is, he says he can't just uproot her like that. 179 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 4: Now here's a problem you're saying that. And did I 180 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 4: read the part in the letter about he's been sleeping 181 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 4: on my couch for a week because she put him 182 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 4: out of his own house. Now that's interesting to me 183 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 4: because it's more to this story than you let known too. 184 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 4: She put him out the house. If y'all not sleeping together, 185 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 4: he could just sleep on his own couch. 186 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 3: I'm assuming that their house has a couch. 187 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 4: That's one of the primary articles of furniture that you 188 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 4: buy with the first vent. 189 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 3: Everybody want a couch. 190 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 4: I don't hear nobody talking about apartment without a couch. 191 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 4: First thing you need is a bed. Right after that bed, 192 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 4: you need a couch. You got to have somewhere to 193 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 4: sit other than that bed. That couch normally is in 194 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 4: front of a TV. This just in every house I've 195 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 4: ever been here. If it's TV up on the wall, 196 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 4: I can promise you a couch in. 197 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 3: Front of it. 198 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 4: If it ain't something wrong, ain't nobody just putting no 199 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:37,319 Speaker 4: TV on the wall. Ain't got no couch? 200 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 3: Now? 201 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 4: Why am I saying that he got a couch at 202 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 4: his house? Why he didn't just go sleep on the 203 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 4: couch while they worked through this. Her body is a 204 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 4: temple thing. Why did he get put out. 205 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 3: Of his own house? 206 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 4: That was her seeing how much power she had over him, 207 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 4: and he gave it to her. 208 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 3: Now he at your house. 209 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 4: He remains faithful to his masterpiece, but he can't even 210 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 4: get a piece. Then you say, one day wants to 211 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 4: break up with it, the other day he wants to 212 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 4: buy ring and ask him to marry him. I feel 213 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 4: bad for him, but I want him off my couch. Well, 214 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 4: put him off your couch. If you put him off 215 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 4: the couch, what are you gonna do? You say, you 216 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 4: make good money, go back and live on your own couch. 217 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 3: See him and her gotta work this out. 218 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 4: The woman has a hole on him, So how can 219 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 4: I help him make the right decision? All right, here's 220 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 4: what you could say to your brother, or you can 221 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 4: record my voice and play this back to your brother. 222 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 4: First of all, I would tell your brother that he 223 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 4: sprung and he's in love with the concept of this 224 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 4: supermodel Instagram influenza, fine chick with the red curly hair. 225 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 4: That's got him all messed up. He's tatter taste of 226 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 4: the forbidden fruit, and now she just snatched it away 227 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 4: from him. He wants the fruit back. That's power. She 228 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 4: handling her beds, and she controlled them. Now I would 229 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 4: ask him, do you you really want more of this life? 230 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 3: Because if you marry this girl, this is the life 231 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 3: you gonna get. 232 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 4: Because she's not gonna stop being who she is cause 233 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 4: she making money and she not gonna stop for you. 234 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 4: She not gonna stop now and she not gonna stop then. 235 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 4: So you have to ask your brother, who one day 236 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 4: wants to break up with it, another day wants to 237 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 4: buy a ring? Is this the life you really want? 238 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 4: Do you want more of it? Because I have news 239 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 4: for you, sir. Nothing changes after marriage. You have to 240 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 4: understand this. Nothing changes after marriage. Everything that's wrong before 241 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 4: the marriage will be magnified after the marriage. So all 242 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 4: these problems you have in right now this don't touch me. 243 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 4: Is you gonna live over your sister house? This you 244 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 4: get out this? I like club and I like photos, 245 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 4: I like traveling, I like money. All that's gonna stay 246 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 4: the state gonna stay the same, Your young. 247 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 3: Brother, here's what you have to do. 248 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 4: You're gonna have to muster the stript to play offense, 249 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 4: because right now you on defense. First of all, I'm 250 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 4: not leaving my house. I'm sleeping on this couch. I'm 251 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 4: not gonna touch you, even though I want you, dally, 252 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna touch you. 253 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 3: But I'm twenty nine and I'm single. 254 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 4: I'm gonna touch somebody, all right, Steve, thank you. 255 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 3: He's not gonna do none of that because. 256 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,839 Speaker 2: He's doing love. He's run, all right. 257 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 1: Leave us your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram 258 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 1: at Steve BARBFM, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast 259 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: on demand 260 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show