1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: I don't give an f if they're toddlers, on evicting 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,359 Speaker 1: them and taking them to the streets. 3 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 2: Forget about potty training. You need to learn about life. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 2: Yeah you say life training. You gotta get some gutter training. 5 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 2: Living the gutters for a little bit. Spend time with 6 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: that it clown, and then maybe you'll be a come 7 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 2: a mile, come on little to me. 8 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: I twenty three female in my roommate twenty three male 9 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: have lived in our apartment complex since July. It's a 10 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: generally peaceful area, sort of between the suburbs and the city, 11 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: and the. 12 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 3: Place itself is rather nice. Good for you, be good 13 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 3: for you. 14 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 1: However, we are considering moving and even saving up to 15 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: break our lease because of some absolutely terrible neighbors. 16 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 3: Sounds bad, sounds terrible. 17 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 1: Our upstairs neighbors have three kids, and the youngest spends 18 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: every moment screaming like this. 19 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 3: Ah. 20 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: I'm not talking just usual toddler cries. I mean this 21 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: kid is screaming like their arms are being ripped off. 22 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 1: It's highly disturbing. Which now I'm like, yo, you should 23 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: maybe you should check on check don't Is that toddler okay? Literally, 24 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: is that taller getting at the arms ripped off. I 25 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: don't know, bro, I mean we should check. I hear 26 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: the two parents yelling slash arguing at each other loudly 27 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: at a godly hours as well, So like toddler like parent. 28 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: I guess we have a noise rule at the complex 29 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: quiet hours between nine pm and seven am. These kids 30 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: will be screaming full volume like they're in pain at 31 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: like twelve to three am every single night. Geez, that's 32 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: not normal. 33 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 4: No, it's not. 34 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: Also like one of those kids getting sleep well to three. Yeah, 35 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:29,199 Speaker 1: and they're going to school. 36 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 4: Maybe toddlers. They could be sleeping during the day. It's 37 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 4: possible year old. Yeah, toddlers. I mean, but they have 38 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 4: five kids. Wait wait, let me see I remember three kids. 39 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 4: They have three kids. I guess maybe all of them 40 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 4: could be babies. Yeah, damn scream and bloody murder. 41 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 3: That sucks a lot. 42 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: I live with chronic fatigue, probably because screaming toddlers as 43 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: part of my disability and having enough sleep is really 44 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: important to me. Even if you didn't have a disability, 45 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: I feel like it's import to everyone. I truly struggle 46 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: to function at all if I miss lots of sleep. 47 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: They're screaming is affecting my school, my work life, and 48 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: my physical health. There's more to this story. I want 49 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: to know what y'all would do in this situation, John, 50 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: what do you think op should do? 51 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 4: Goop up the babies fly to the Amazon rainforest, drop 52 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 4: them in the jungle. They become Tarzan and get discovered 53 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:16,399 Speaker 4: by a scientist years later. 54 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 3: That's perfect. It's kind of a solution. That is a solution. 55 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 3: You know. 56 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: In ancient Rome, the old fashioned way of a boarding 57 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 1: your child was to just leave it in the forest 58 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 1: m and then the gods would choose whether or not 59 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: the baby would live. 60 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 4: They took like maligned babies back as like forest like 61 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 4: beast soldiers. 62 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, My goodness, sure it is a true thing. 63 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 3: Back to the story. 64 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: On top of this, their kids will open other tenants, 65 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: male slash packages and leave garbage cups, waters, bottles, candy wrappers, 66 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: tissues all over our grass and often throw it out 67 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: through windows where it lands on my air conditioning. 68 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 3: Why little like freaking Uh? What's that in loony tunes? 69 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: The Tasmanian devil like tearing through I've made at least 70 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: thirty complaints to management. I swear I'm calling them all 71 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 1: the time. They always say they'll send out a notice, 72 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: but the problem never stops. It's crazy that, like you 73 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: can't they can get away with this. I feel like 74 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 1: most tenants, it's like, oh, dude, if you're if you're 75 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: fit up for the community, Like do you want to 76 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: keep the other tenants? 77 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 78 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 3: Like what last night? I took matters into my own hands. 79 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: Around eleven PMO is getting ready for bed and trying 80 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: to wind down after work, and then they started screaming 81 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: right above my bedroom. I knocked the ceiling with a 82 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: broom and their father stopped back so hard the apartment 83 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: shook and bits of my ceiling started falling out. 84 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 3: Geese. 85 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: So they're kind of like having like they're like, hey, 86 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: you like our opius, Like, hey, can you like quiet downies? 87 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 3: Boom boom boom five. 88 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: I went upstairs and knocked and I couldn't even get 89 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: a high. I'm sorry to bother you, but do you mind? 90 00:03:54,760 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: Before their father went absolutely nuclear. He started screaming in 91 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: my face. This is a grown ass man screaming, this 92 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: is a house. I don't care. No sleep, no sleep 93 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: to you, no sleep for you my house. I love 94 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: like the like the broken sentence my house be lowed, 95 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 1: you take before slamming the door in my face. At 96 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: this point, I'm worried if I do call management and 97 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: consequences do happen, that I'll face retaliation from my neighbors. 98 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: I don't know as a small cute girl. I also 99 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 1: didn't even realize that OPI was a small cute girl, 100 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: A lady, A lady. There's something about a much larger 101 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: man raising their voice aggressively like that that really scares me. 102 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: And I can tell you it's probably scary if you're 103 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: a dude too. 104 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 3: Yep. 105 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: However, I feel guilty. These are three kids with their mom, dad, 106 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: and grandmother in a tiny, two bedroom apartment. I hate 107 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 1: to be a snitch, and I hate the thought that 108 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: if they get consequences like heavy fines or eviction, I'm 109 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: effing up their life more. 110 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. Am I the a hole? 111 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 4: I'm sure many people watching have run into this scenario before. 112 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like noise tenants, you know, like it's 113 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 1: just like a thing of living. Yes, yes, and I 114 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: am that noisy. 115 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 3: Sam's on the other side of the corner. 116 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: We were throwing parties non stop in our apartment. 117 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 4: I remember sitting there at three am watching them literally 118 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 4: five grown men jumping in unison, and I was just like, 119 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 4: how are we getting away with this? 120 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,799 Speaker 1: We had the DJ deck going and like like speakers 121 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: blasting that you could hear. 122 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 3: One hundred people back in Like so to wrap all. 123 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: Of this up, please tell me what you would do 124 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: in the situation. But in terms of the a holes 125 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: in this story, OHP, not the A hole. I mean, 126 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 1: you're just trying to get some sleep, literally children. I 127 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: don't think the a hole. Yeah, take it. Parents, huge 128 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: a holes. One for for not, like I guess, helping 129 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: their kids not scream, and then two for yelling themselves. 130 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 1: Yeah right, they're yelling all the time like that, they're 131 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: contributing to the noise. So I say, oh, P has 132 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: every right to to you know, complain and to also 133 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: just see those kids are okay. 134 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, checking in on them. Honestly, I think that's it. 135 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: Okay, entitled parent does it like the taste of her 136 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: own medicine? 137 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 3: Gross medicine? 138 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 4: You thought Roba Tussin was nasty? Yeah, Roba busting. 139 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're busting that booty out of this town, because 140 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: get that out of here, all right? 141 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 4: Uh? 142 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: When my kids were preschoolers, we spent every summer morning 143 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 1: at the pool. Sounds relaxing, beautiful. I had a bag 144 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: full of toys, not sex toys, that I took with 145 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: us so that they could keep for themselves. 146 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 3: Abused. 147 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: That sounds worse now that I they did. It wasn't 148 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: sex toys, That's what I'm saying. 149 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 3: Yikes. In about July, a mom and her preschooler started 150 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 3: coming to the pool. My kids were cool sharing their toys. 151 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 3: I just can we cannot, God, what have we done? 152 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 3: What have we done? Children? Thinking of the children, but 153 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 3: not that way, you creep. Uh. 154 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: My kids were cool of sharing their toys since this 155 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: kid had none with him, until after about two weeks 156 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: he started demanding my kids. He started demanding my kids 157 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: special toysm just the story my special toys that they 158 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: were playing with. 159 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 3: Bad. It makes it so much better. It makes it 160 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,239 Speaker 3: so much better, and so much. 161 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: The entitled mom looks up from her book and starts 162 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: berating my children for being me and not sharing. Sharing 163 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: is caring, I guess, yeah, but not if fear you're 164 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:57,119 Speaker 1: getting gunk all over your toys because boogers, you know, yeah, bugs, liquid, Yeah. 165 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: She tells me to give the toy to her son 166 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:05,239 Speaker 1: right now. I reached over and took her a book. 167 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: When she asked me, what on earth are you doing 168 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: and told me to give it back to her, I 169 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: responded with her own words, why was she being so mean? 170 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: She should share? Yes, Oh, get that medicine. Take it down. 171 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 3: That was actually pretty good. She lost her freaking mind. 172 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: I just kept on responding that what is good for 173 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: adults should also be good for kids. 174 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 3: Damn, that's so. That's a bar. 175 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: Kanye said that. So if she believes my kids are 176 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:42,599 Speaker 1: not entitled to the private use of their own property 177 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 1: and our man to share with others, then she believes 178 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: the same goes for her. Take that book to the bank. 179 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: She couldn't have it both ways. I asked her to 180 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:59,319 Speaker 1: choose a way she wanted to live, which she packed 181 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: up in a huff and we never saw her again. 182 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 4: That's Mike, drop boom, that's right, boom baby, see u soon, 183 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 4: See you soon.