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Speaker 1: This is the EDS with Eddie Judge and Edwin Aroyave.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the EDS podcast. I'm Eddie Judge and

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Speaker 1: I have my co host, Welcome back Brother, that's good

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Speaker 1: to be bad. And today we have a special guest.

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Speaker 1: Everybody who doesn't know Frank Ktanya. He's a very special guy.

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Speaker 1: Met him a couple of times and we hit it

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Speaker 1: off right from the start. I think I am like

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Speaker 1: a mirror image of him, not physically because he's so

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Speaker 1: much bigger than me, but we have a lot in common.

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Speaker 1: So I'm really excited to get to talk to Frank,

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Speaker 1: and I'm really excited for you guys to get to

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Speaker 1: know him. Frank Katanya is the ex husband of Dolores Katanya.

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Speaker 1: She's from the Real Housewives of New Jersey. They're sure

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Speaker 1: two kids together, Frank Junior and Gabby. And what makes

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Speaker 1: Frank different from other ex husbands is the amazing relationship

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Speaker 1: he has with Dolores and her now partner Paulie. And

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Speaker 1: I know you guys know that we had Paulie on

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Speaker 1: the podcast recently and you got to hear his side.

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Speaker 1: It was so awesome, So I can't wait to hear

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Speaker 1: of Frank's side. Plus, he's part of the Jersey Friendships

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Speaker 1: on the show, and you know how those guys just

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Speaker 1: get along great and put on a show. And I

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Speaker 1: believe Frank is part of a of a show with

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Speaker 1: Joe Gorga, so I can't wait to hear your part

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Speaker 1: of that as well. So welcome Frank Patania.

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Speaker 2: It's my pleasure, it's my honor to be on the edge.

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Speaker 2: So thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're grateful to have you. And first of all,

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Speaker 3: congratulations on getting married.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much.

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Speaker 3: Brittany, I heard that was a big, big surprise, big secret.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, we tried to keep it a secret from everybody

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Speaker 4: because our wedding we did have a destination wedding and

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Speaker 4: the hurricane destroyed that. We rescheduled and they weren't ready.

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Speaker 4: So finally Brittany just said, you know, enough's enough.

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Speaker 2: You know, that was it.

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Speaker 4: So we ended up getting married and we might as

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Speaker 4: well just jump into it. And Brittany and I got married,

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Speaker 4: and we were married all right, by our dame minister,

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Speaker 4: who happens to be Dolores's ex boyfriend, David.

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Speaker 3: This is sexual.

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Speaker 1: Let's back up a little bit. I want to get

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Speaker 1: to know you Frank, where did you grow up? You

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Speaker 1: know and know you're Italian?

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Speaker 2: Right, Italian.

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Speaker 4: I'm a Jersey boy through and through and through, although

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Speaker 4: we may be making the exit from Jersey partly, you know,

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Speaker 4: part of the year. Okay, one more we call over

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Speaker 4: here a snowbird. But I go ahead. Initially grew up

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Speaker 4: I left the city winter, the suburb, and I've been

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Speaker 4: in the suburbs of Jersey, uh, the Jersey Shore as well.

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Speaker 4: You name it everything Jersey and then Guido persona and stereotype.

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Speaker 2: I fit it all.

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Speaker 1: So is Patterson that Guido type? Or how different is

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Speaker 1: Patterson's from Jersey Shore from suburbs.

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Speaker 4: Patterson Patterson itself right now, which Dolores knows like the

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Speaker 4: back of her hand. It is a city, all right,

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Speaker 4: definitely different than the suburbs. You know, I don't know

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Speaker 4: so much if you've got the Guido's maybe at one

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Speaker 4: time coming out of Patterson, but now the Guidos have

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Speaker 4: more more into the suburbs.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's Patterson about now? Because I know there

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Speaker 1: was a subject about Patterson. I just wanted to get

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Speaker 1: to know what Patterson is all about.

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Speaker 4: Patterson is an urban area. Okay, it's an urban area.

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Speaker 4: Back in the day, it was when I tell you

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Speaker 4: it was the silk the factory capital of the world.

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Speaker 2: Right, that's where something.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you still see some of the silk factories

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Speaker 4: now many many years later. They have wouldwork inside these places, guys,

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Speaker 4: which you never when you hear about Patterson, you would

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Speaker 4: It truly is. But it's a city. It is a city.

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Speaker 1: So does it resemble Italian architecture and you know, really

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Speaker 4: Honestly, it's not so much a shithole. But I gotta

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Speaker 2: It's Italians. Italians came here of this. I mean, it

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Speaker 4: We're at the bottom of a total pole. Okay, Patterson

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Speaker 4: you that there was definitely an Italian heritage in Patterson. Everybody,

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Speaker 4: either they or their family came from Patterson.

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Speaker 1: Did you meet the Laurus in Patterson?

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Speaker 4: I met the laurd Now, I didn't meet the Lauris

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Speaker 4: in Patterson. I went to a retirement dinner for a judge.

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Speaker 4: When I was there, Delores and her mom were waitresses

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Speaker 4: all right at this banquet center, and I just said

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Speaker 4: to myself, holy shit, she's fucking gorgeous, all right, in

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Speaker 4: a big pussy that I am. Guys, I didn't approach her, right,

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Speaker 4: I had one of my associate lawyers at that time.

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Speaker 2: I said, go talk to her for me, go talk

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Speaker 4: You know, I got her phone number and ever since

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Speaker 4: then that was it hit it off.

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Speaker 1: So you just hit on something really unique that I

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Speaker 1: wanted to ask about, and that's law. Were you a lawyer,

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Speaker 1: a law clerk, or aolved in law?

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Speaker 2: I was a lawyer. I was a lawyer for yeah,

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Speaker 2: for twenty three years. I was a lawyer.

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Speaker 4: In fact, yeah, I was the head prosecutor for the

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Speaker 2: I was a prosecutor another township I was. I was

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Speaker 4: I did a lot of criminal law. I did a

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Speaker 4: lot of divorced law. I specialized in real estate law,

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Speaker 4: all right, not only closing but also real estate litigation.

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Speaker 1: Awesome.

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Speaker 3: I always wondered as a prosecutor, are you like fearing

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You normally?

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Speaker 4: Possibly, yes, you would have to look at guys. I

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Speaker 4: I love the fact that everybody comes up and says,

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Speaker 4: That's all right, that's truly me, and that passed on

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Speaker 4: to me being a prosecutor as well. If you come

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Speaker 4: to if you come to Jersey, you go down to

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Speaker 4: the Jersey Shore, you got the boardwalk and you're walking

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Speaker 4: when they come up, it's funny because you don't know

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Speaker 4: how to act first, because I don't know whether they

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Speaker 4: to school with them. I don't know if they knew

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Speaker 4: me from the show. Well one, I'm more than a cat,

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Speaker 4: more than a cat. But the one good thing is

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Speaker 4: and guys, it's probably a dozen times I've had people

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Speaker 4: to me, you know, thank you so much. I said,

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Speaker 4: if it wasn't for you, listen, I had an addiction.

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Speaker 4: You didn't put me, you didn't put me in jail.

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Speaker 4: You believed in me, and look, this is my family.

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Speaker 4: They'd introduced me to their kids. Then and I was

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Speaker 4: more than fair. I was more than fair, because guys, listen,

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Speaker 4: there's many times unfortunately I was on the opposite the

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Speaker 4: other end of the law. It's out there, you know,

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Speaker 4: when you get into housewives. I don't have to tell you, guys, it's.

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Speaker 2: Everything's open book, everything comes out.

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 2: I was arrested when I was at law school, all right.

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Speaker 4: So as much as I got lawyer, as much as

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Speaker 4: I got it expunged, I gotta be honest with you.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's still out there.

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Speaker 3: What were you What were you arrested for? I don't

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, I was arrested for. I was arrested

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Speaker 2: for drugs. I was arrested for drugs, and you name it.

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Speaker 4: I was admitted to practice law in New Jersey while

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Speaker 2: I was the first one out there, all right. Not

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Speaker 4: Period of probation with a probation officer, but I also

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Speaker 4: Uh in the attorney aspect, right. So so yes, guys,

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Speaker 4: there's not.

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Speaker 2: One side of me, there's no many sides.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 3: Any side, well, I guess the good news with that

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Speaker 2: One hundred percent.

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Speaker 4: And that's why I was more than fair, because if

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Speaker 4: I would never be where.

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Speaker 2: I was today. I would never be where I was today.

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Speaker 4: And I always tried to, you know, I always tried

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Speaker 4: to give everyone a second chance. I've seen, unfortunately, I've

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Speaker 4: seen the firsthand. I don't care what part of the

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Speaker 4: there's certain areas of Bergen County which have some of

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Speaker 4: the richest townships in the country, which would show up.

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Speaker 4: months that I'm handling this case, you'll you'll see the parents,

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Speaker 4: the parents age aged fifteen years having a child that

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Speaker 4: they could to hireman. All right, but they go through

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Speaker 4: and you know, I'm happy. I'm happy, Listen. I am

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Speaker 4: absolutely no regrets. There's many things I got regrets about,

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Speaker 4: but not anything to do with me being a prosecutor.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: At that moment the catalyst to change your life around,

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Speaker 3: Like just hitting, was that like a rock bottom moment

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Speaker 4: Unfortunately, I've had a lot of those rock bottom because

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Speaker 4: I guys, on a daily basis, I go to the

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Speaker 4: I may be that's my life, guys, all right, that's

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Speaker 4: my life. So yes, it was to a point where

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Speaker 4: you want somebody gave me a second chance, all right?

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Speaker 2: And what am I to do? Put you in jail?

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Speaker 4: Because what we did do sometimes is you know, I

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Speaker 4: Yes, honestly, this Dolores is an incredible person, and an

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Speaker 4: that's exactly it, man, bro. There's no separate vacations, there's

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Speaker 2: It starts the kids were young, all right, when a

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Speaker 4: She put her feelings of personal feelings aside in order

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Speaker 2: Exactly what you mentioned before? Attorneys.

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Speaker 4: More like she's my younger, my younger sister, right where

437
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 4: I protect her, I will, I will. She calls me

438
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 4: at three o'clock in the morning, she needs me, I

439
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,679
Speaker 4: will go. And I can tell you right now, Brittany

440
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:06,639
Speaker 4: wouldn't have a problem with it.

441
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:11,160
Speaker 2: Brittany. Brittany saw Mina Dolores's relationship like eight years before

442
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:12,880
Speaker 2: you know we got serious.

443
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:18,199
Speaker 1: You were friends, right, yes, yes, exactly. There's a lot

444
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 1: of history there.

445
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 4: So she saw, she saw the relationship with Dolores and I,

446
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 4: so she knew that there was nothing to worry about.

447
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 4: So that's when when Polly came around initially, all right,

448
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,360
Speaker 4: And one thing about Paulie, I can tell you something

449
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 4: place in Paulie and I are in the same certain ways,

450
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 4: but we're different. You don't have to guess where you

451
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,919
Speaker 4: staying with Polly, right, paul Polis is straightforward as they come.

452
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 2: Man, he's got an issue. He'll tell you, all right,

453
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 2: he'll tell you. That's one good thing about him.

454
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:45,239
Speaker 3: Man.

455
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, So I kept saying, just let Holy be

456
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 4: around us when we're all together, so little, but little

457
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 4: by little, all right, he did. And now, honestly, guys,

458
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 4: the relationship amongst all of us is great.

459
00:21:58,600 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

460
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 1: It was surprising to hear his side, and he said

461
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,120
Speaker 1: exactly the same thing. He was a little apprehensive at first,

462
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,120
Speaker 1: but the minute he got comfortable. I mean, he loves

463
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 1: the entire family, including you, including your family, her family, everybody.

464
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,199
Speaker 1: It's just incredible family.

465
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 4: He's got incredible boys. He's got great, two great sons.

466
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:19,239
Speaker 2: All right.

467
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

468
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 2: Good, So I said to them all the time. You

469
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 2: know the fact, if they didn't, they weren't so irish.

470
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 4: All right, Yeah, I said to Paulie, I didn't check

471
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 4: the DNA because I don't believe they're yours.

472
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 2: Way too nice.

473
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,480
Speaker 3: So I have an interesting question for you. So obviously

474
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 3: you met Dolores. You, you were obviously very attracted to her.

475
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 3: You like, who is this I need to talk to

476
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 3: the scroaches, the most gorgeous gro I've ever seen, probably

477
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,440
Speaker 3: at the time, right, at what point did you go

478
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 3: more towards friend zone, like did you were you still

479
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 3: married or was it after that you started seeing her

480
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 3: as a friend or was it during the marriage that

481
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 3: you guys sort of became friends and then that's what

482
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 3: ultimately led you to, you know, start doing your thing.

483
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 2: Delorius.

484
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 4: I always to this day I think Delorius is a

485
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,880
Speaker 4: beautiful woman, attractive, you name it all, right.

486
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 2: A right.

487
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 4: It was the point in time where I think where

488
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 4: said I can't come home, I can't pretty metre of fact,

489
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 4: I can't hurt you yet, I can't hurt you again,

490
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 4: and and and then and then and then it then

491
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 4: it changed right then it then it changed so and again.

492
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 4: You know, it's just I still absolutely care for her,

493
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 4: love her like the way I did when we're married

494
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 4: and everything.

495
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 2: It's just a different love guys.

496
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I totally understand that. Yeah, very selfless

497
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 1: of you.

498
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, most would just keep on doing it if they

499
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 3: get the chance to just continue to do that, just

500
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 3: keep on doing it. It was very selfless of you

501
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 3: to actually walk away at that point, because that's you know,

502
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 3: when you can get the best of all.

503
00:23:56,359 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 4: The worlds it, you know, the Lawyusser, the Wrus doesn't cry, right,

504
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 4: the lorus doesn't cry.

505
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 2: Oh no, man, you have no idea.

506
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 4: I think I think, I think I know like maybe

507
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 4: three instances that the ruses ever crist all right, and

508
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 4: and I knew how upset you know, our relationship, and

509
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 4: and and and me being unfaithful hurt her. Guys, I

510
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 4: just couldn't. I couldn't do it again. I couldn't do

511
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 4: it again, all right, me, honestly, I'm different. You know,

512
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 4: I watched Extreme Makeover on TV. I start crying, right,

513
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 4: I'm a pussy, Guys, I'm gonna emotional. And as you

514
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 4: get older, you get.

515
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 1: More and more. Oh, by the way, Frank, I wanted

516
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: to before I forget to mention this nice teeth like them,

517
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 1: we got the same teeth.

518
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 2: Exactly.

519
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: I love those guys. They did such a great job.

520
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 1: You guys went to the same people Texas.

521
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're awesome. Let me tell you, I have nothing

522
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 2: but great things to say about that.

523
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed being with, you know, just meeting them,

524
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,439
Speaker 1: getting to know them, and how they take care of us.

525
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 1: And you know, they did tell me they took really

526
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 1: good care of you too.

527
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 4: Well. Listen that Eddie and Eddie both of you is

528
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 4: all right. Listen, Like I said, I'm an open book.

529
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 4: I don't know if they told you this down smile Texas.

530
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 4: All right now I told you before I'm gonna win,

531
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 4: all right, So you got to put me under, all right?

532
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 1: Oh you went under?

533
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: Oh I went under. I went up. Oh dude, yeah yeah,

534
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 2: I'm a pussy bro.

535
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 4: So next day, so next thing, you know, now, Britt, Britt,

536
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 4: we went together, right, we went one time, and we

537
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 4: knew we had to come back in two weeks. So

538
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 4: the first time we come down, they do the grinding

539
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 4: and everything else. They make the molds. You know, Britt

540
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 4: stays awake all right, she can handle pain. It's amazing me.

541
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: And I'm okay.

542
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 2: They put me under. All right, we wake up. Brittany's

543
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 2: already up standing next to me. I get up, all right,

544
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 2: wake it up. This and that.

545
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 4: Lady says to me, I'm sorry, I spilled you know,

546
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 4: water all over you. Brittany said, no, no, no, tell

547
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 4: the truth.

548
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 2: All right. I pissed myself okay while I'm under. So

549
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 2: now we got to come back in two weeks.

550
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 4: So the lady says to me, you know, you do

551
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 4: you get like those male diapers, you know, you don't

552
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 4: even know.

553
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 2: So next time we fly back down to Houston, we're

554
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 2: driving there. We stopped at either wal Grade or CVS.

555
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 2: So I look at brit I said, Brittin, I'm not

556
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 2: going in, all right. She goes, I'm not going in.

557
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 2: I said, no, you need to go in at least

558
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 2: at least if you get them, all.

559
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: Right, like you're buying tampons, bro at least if you buy.

560
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 4: Them, they know they're not for you, all right. So

561
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 4: she goes inside. She comes back in the car. She

562
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 4: tossed them at me.

563
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 2: All right, she was really I thought it was gonna

564
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: be at least twenty five years before I had to

565
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 2: do this for you, all right. Anyway, I got him,

566
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 2: and this time I was under and I didn't even

567
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 2: pissed myself. It was a waste, right, better be sorry exactly.

568
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's why. But they were still they were

569
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 2: They felt so bad for me. They won't to even

570
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 2: tell me the truth. Yeah right, got a smile.

571
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: Texts amazing. Yeah, I always recommend them. They just the

572
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: way they take care of you, the hospitality and everything

573
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 1: about Texas. I really enjoy it. But people were super,

574
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 1: super good to us.

575
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 2: So, yeah, for sure, for sure, I didn't know that Eddie,

576
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 2: I didn't know he learned something along the way.

577
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:24,479
Speaker 1: So we talked about a little bit about you growing up.

578
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: Do you have siblings? I do?

579
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 2: I do I have a sister.

580
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 4: She's shoking at me, all right, she's a doctor, all right.

581
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 4: At my initially growing up, because I get into my

582
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,479
Speaker 4: children as well. I wanted to be a vetinaryan, all right.

583
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 4: I wanted to be a vetnaariry and I always worked

584
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 4: for vetinary in high school. My dad pulled every string

585
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 4: he could and got me into Cornell, all right. At

586
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 4: that time was the number one veterinary school.

587
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 2: Yeah right, now.

588
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 4: My father, my father was a lawyer, all right, well respected,

589
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 4: and I got there the guys, when I tell you,

590
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 4: I fit in like a whore in church, okay, all right,

591
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 4: that's put it lightly right.

592
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: So I'm dad, I'm leaving. I gotta get out of here. No,

593
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 2: you got to state here in this way. I said,

594
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,160
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't want to even be a veniry, naymore,

595
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 2: I don't want to be a lawyer. Oh my god,

596
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 2: don't be a lawyer. I'm a lawyer. That's not what

597
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 2: he used to be.

598
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,479
Speaker 4: I ended up believe I ended up leaving, all right.

599
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 4: I went to the University of Delaware. My dad didn't

600
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 4: even talk to me. I didn't even see him for

601
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 4: like six months, all right. So anyway, is that Dad's

602
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 4: why I went there, ended up becoming a lawyer that way.

603
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 4: But my daughter basically finished what I couldn't do, and

604
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 4: he became a veterinarian.

605
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 3: That's very cool.

606
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: That's a great story. What does your son do?

607
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 2: My son? One thing? I have both my children, all right,

608
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 2: which to both work on pollocks.

609
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 4: My son, my son works up Park Avenue, New York,

610
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 4: all right, for a huge a huge investment in fact,

611
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 4: I think believe it's the second largest in the country.

612
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 4: It's it's a large investment firm of which he's there.

613
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 4: He's part of a very elite group there, and he's

614
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 4: he's doing great. Both and then knockout one guys. Both

615
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 4: my children, you know, both my children are doing fabulous.

616
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 4: So it goes to show you that divorce children do

617
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:15,719
Speaker 4: not need to be offended by divorce.

618
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 3: I think, what do you think instilled that work ethic

619
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 3: in them to succeed on their own? Obviously you were,

620
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 3: you were already successful and you know a lot of

621
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 3: people that's one of the hard things. When you're successful

622
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 3: and you're bringing up your kids. A lot of times

623
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 3: they feel like they don't have to work for it

624
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 3: because they sort of get everything right. What do you

625
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 3: think you did to instill that mindset for both of them,

626
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 3: because again, both of those careers aren't easy to get.

627
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly right. And there's three things with respect to that.

628
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 4: Number one, Dolores has always worked more than one job

629
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 4: since she was fourteen years old, but always worked, all right.

630
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 4: But education in her family was not a big thing,

631
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 4: all right. That was the decided to go to you know,

632
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 4: the college great if not, you know, not a big

633
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 4: deal all right. In my family, education was everything, all right.

634
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 4: So I think between on her side, all right, being

635
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 4: the work ethic, and on my side being the education

636
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 4: all right. And then also Dolorus and I at the

637
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 4: same point is my kids growing up pretty much did

638
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 4: not want for anything but for one second, all right,

639
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 4: if you act spoiled, if you ever act like when

640
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 4: we'll spoil children, we will take everything away from it.

641
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 4: We'll take everything away from you, all right. And Delorus

642
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 4: is more to displaying every than I am. All right,

643
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 4: not that I won't yell and scream like a normal Italian.

644
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 4: And five minutes I'm back to normal, all right. But

645
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 4: they're afraid of them, they're afraid of the laws. Delrius

646
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 4: is a badass. I'm not gonna lirie to you.

647
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 2: She's tough. She's tough, all right.

648
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 4: She after we met, she became a correction officer, all right,

649
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 4: in the jail into jail, transporting prisoners.

650
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: Wow.

651
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 2: Eight months, eight months into.

652
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 4: Her pregnancy for our daughter, I get a call from

653
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 4: her chief Frankie got to get her out of here.

654
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 4: He goes, I can't be responsible, all right, she's an animal,

655
00:30:58,400 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 4: all right.

656
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: But that was it. The Lauria stopped working at that point.

657
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: Wow, that's amazing.

658
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 2: We got some good story. Wait, we got some good stories.

659
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 4: Maybe one day, Bonzie, when when all maybe all four

660
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 4: of us will come on, the Laurus will tell you

661
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 4: some of the stories along the way. When when, oh yeah,

662
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 4: when I got caught cheating, Guys, everybody gets everybody gets accused, all.

663
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 2: Right, not me.

664
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: I want to hear her side.

665
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 2: Bro, you don't have to.

666
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 4: Say, because the Lorius, the Laurius can be more absolutely normal. Guys,

667
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 4: She'll kiss you hug you even if she suspects anything,

668
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 4: because she's building a case against you, right, And when

669
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 4: the Laurus confronted me, all right, back then, it was

670
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 4: the VHS tapes, right, she had she had me dead

671
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 4: to right here, debt to right there.

672
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: And you know, do it guys, listen, did she play

673
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 2: the video for you? No, not the video, she.

674
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 4: Played the videos because when she put the first video in,

675
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 4: and I, guys, I'm stunned, I'm like, funk, what do

676
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 4: I do now? I'm like that that's not me?

677
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 2: She was, Are you really gonna try this?

678
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 4: This is not you? I said, no, I mean it

679
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 4: looks like maybe that's not me. Sounds did you put

680
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 4: you in the next VHS? All right, that's not you again?

681
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: All right? Well that whoever it isn't you was driving

682
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 2: your fucking car, all right, dude.

683
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 4: So I remember she grew up in a family of

684
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 4: all cops, all right, so she knew she had me

685
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 4: dead to write. And I never suspected anything because I

686
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 4: would come home and she kissed me, hugged me while

687
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 4: she's investigating me.

688
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 3: Man, she should have been a lawyer. So did she

689
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 3: take those tapes to the court? You said it was

690
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 3: a messy divorce court. Did she show up with the tapes?

691
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 4: She would have in a second. But the thing about

692
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 4: New Jersey, I'm like California, all right, where what's called

693
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 4: an equital distributions. It's a no full no full divorce,

694
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 4: all right. So if you're getting divorced, it's fifty to fifty. Yeah, okay,

695
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 4: you no matter who's right, who's wrong, you name it,

696
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 4: all right, thank god?

697
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 2: All right? Or I would have to defend myself way

698
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 2: beyond that.

699
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny.

700
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 3: That's funny.

701
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: So I wanted to ask you another question that I

702
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: really really enjoyed. I mean, Paulie and I were laughing

703
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: her ass off. But he when he was talking about

704
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: you and how amazing you guys are together, he mentioned

705
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: that you came up with a nickname for him.

706
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 2: And oh, buzz light Year, that's the light Year.

707
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 4: Come on, bro, guys, guys, tell me the truth when

708
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 4: you're when you guys are having a podcast, when you're.

709
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 2: At you're telling me. Once you mentioned it, he don't look.

710
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: Like yes, it made a lot of sense.

711
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: He's a good looking guy.

712
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 4: Man, he's a good looking guy. Listen, one thing, one thing,

713
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 4: paul He's got on me. All right, Well, you got

714
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 4: your teeth, I got teeth.

715
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 2: I do everything, all right, I got much first of all,

716
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,479
Speaker 2: I got much more uch, bigger legs than he does too. Right,

717
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 2: But the one thing I can't, guys, I can be honest,

718
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: is that fucking hair his he's got hair. You got

719
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 2: a beautiful head of hair. Bround myself next week or something,

720
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 2: you know.

721
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: But now that makes sense now because he actually came

722
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: back and said, he calls you potato, mister potato head,

723
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: and mister h has no hair.

724
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 2: He's got no hair. Bro, You ever see you ever

725
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 2: see mister potato heads arms and legs?

726
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 3: Come on?

727
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 2: I was like, bro, come on, man, I give you

728
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 2: something better than that. But can I tell you something.

729
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 2: I think that that almost opened up.

730
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 4: Opening his eyes a little bit, right when he realized

731
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 4: honestly busting his balls, he started busting back in the sea,

732
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 4: you know. And you know so as much as as

733
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 4: much as it was a little bit serious both ways,

734
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 4: all right, it was joking, and I think it opened

735
00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 4: up some avenues for me and him.

736
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: Well, I think anytime you can laugh about anything, you know,

737
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 1: just make light of things, even some serious things. You

738
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: just have to be able to laugh about them, because

739
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: life doesn't that be that serious. It really doesn't.

740
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 3: Since you and Delores are obviously great, great friends, did

741
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 3: you get to give approval on who she dated or

742
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 3: do you give a ship for guys that she dated?

743
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 3: Like why are you dating that loser? Why are you

744
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,399
Speaker 3: dating this guy? Or did you stay out of the way.

745
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 1: It's a great question, Edwin.

746
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 2: Can I tell you something.

747
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 4: Listen, Delorius Delriss. She's very very strong will all right,

748
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 4: very strong will. All right.

749
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,399
Speaker 2: So she was dating this one guy at one time,

750
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 2: all right, and I know they had to a fight

751
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 2: and he said something or another which was not nice.

752
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: All right, all right, So I call him, I call

753
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 2: him up, all right, I.

754
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 4: Said, this is me, right, you treat her respect. I

755
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,359
Speaker 4: swear to God, I will suck you up. All right,

756
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 4: all right, I sure it.

757
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 5: I got to call out of my relationship. That's all

758
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 5: you had to say. No more last time I got approval,

759
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 5: last time I was asked. I didn't even get involved anymore.

760
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 5: If you need me, I'm here, all right.

761
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 3: I thought I was.

762
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 4: I thought I was doing a good thing. And I

763
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 4: got screaming, yelled at by her. And there are two

764
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 4: people I don't like being screamed and yelled at by dolorous.

765
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 1: And my daughter, all right, I bett, is your daughter

766
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: a lot like Dolores.

767
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:30,280
Speaker 4: My daughter is a lot like Dolorous And I right, okay,

768
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 4: she when it comes to humans, she is so non sympathetic.

769
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, come doing animal animals, guys. Is our house.

770
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 2: Our house is a free dolorous old houses, a free

771
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 2: for all.

772
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 4: But she's everything's about animals, and everything's about animals. But

773
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 4: at the same time, this my daughter, guys, you know

774
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 4: iticed I got a story for everything, all right. So

775
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 4: we just don't gyms, all right, We just dont big gems,

776
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 4: you know, the golden gyms, the powerhouse gyms. And we

777
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 4: had one real big gym, and in there we had

778
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 4: the mma training, right. So as soon as we opened

779
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 4: up and we had the hands of Gracie jiu jitsu

780
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 4: in there, now my daughter wants to get involved. So

781
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 4: she's there and next thing, you know, look, there's no

782
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 4: teenagers in the class. There's no females in the class,

783
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 4: all right. So she's sporn with grown ass men, all right,

784
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 4: disocated he elbow, dissipated her shoulder. You know, she don't

785
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 4: care my daughter is. She's tough, all right. So now

786
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 4: we start seeing her doing the jiu jitsu, all right,

787
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 4: I go and bring this guy in from Russia, all right,

788
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 4: to start down with the takedowns, all right.

789
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 2: Then we do it.

790
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 4: Then we do the way tie with the kicking. Now

791
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 4: we got a guy striking. So my daughter's a badass,

792
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 4: all right, he really is before, all right. So we're talking,

793
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 4: Me and Dolores are talking to her, and we say, listen, gab,

794
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 4: this is for more your protection. You don't ever go

795
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 4: out in sight a fight with somebody and use this,

796
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 4: all right. So as I'm explaining to her, Dolors is

797
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 4: there and say, you know, someone starts with your gab,

798
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 4: you you make sure that they know, all right, you

799
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 4: get them down you don't, and you'll tell them don't

800
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 4: screw with you again, all right.

801
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 2: And that's basically where I stopped. Right Then Dolores, you know,

802
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 2: jumps in and then you stomp on their head like

803
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 2: they're around fire. All right, right.

804
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 6: I was like, that goes to show you the difference

805
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 6: of personality the Laurus and I all right, yeah, And

806
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 6: it also it also goes over into the Housewives of

807
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 6: New Jersey don't push the lris, all right, but the

808
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 6: ones who know.

809
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,320
Speaker 2: Her know not to get her beyond that point because

810
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:29,760
Speaker 2: the laws.

811
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 4: Listen, guys, the hardest I haven't been many many fights

812
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 4: in my life, and the hardest I've ever been punched

813
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:34,720
Speaker 4: is by the worse.

814
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: Well, let's talk about the real Housewife experience since you

815
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 1: mentioned it. How was the experience going on the show? Like,

816
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: how did you guys find out? You guys were cast

817
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: or invited to be on the show.

818
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 4: And when the New Jersey initially started, all right, Delorus

819
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,879
Speaker 4: is part of that initial group, okay, right, And even

820
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 4: we weren't married, as I said, we were very close.

821
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 4: She came to me and asked me, and she basically

822
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 4: said our kids were too young.

823
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 2: Okay, all right? That she passed on it, all right.

824
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 4: But for the first I think it was seven seasons,

825
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 4: Dolores was almost a friend of or she'd appear as

826
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 4: because she was friends with everybody on there, all right,

827
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 4: whether it be Teresa, whether it be Dina, you name it,

828
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 4: all right. And my kids, my kids were on little

829
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 4: by little, so they came back to her, I think

830
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 4: it was season seven or season eight, and then they

831
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 4: asked her again and she said yes. All right, she

832
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 4: said yes because our kids were now older. All right, guys,

833
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 4: how I got involved? I have absolutely no idea. She's

834
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 4: my ex wife at the time. She had a boyfriend

835
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 4: at the time, all right. And when I first came on,

836
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 4: you know, because I was building a house for her. Guys,

837
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 4: I got hit pretty hard social media. Right, Thank god,

838
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 4: they listen. I told my kids everything beforehand. My kids

839
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 4: knew everything about me. They've always known it, all right.

840
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 4: So now comes out that I'm arrested. Now comes out

841
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 4: that I'm You're gonna get this bored?

842
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 2: All right? You name it? Guys said everything everything.

843
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, wow, this isn't for me. Man,

844
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 4: get my ass kicked you, all right. I made the

845
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 4: mistake and what you guys understand of responding to people.

846
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 2: On social media. Okay, but you can never win.

847
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 4: All right, you can never win. So then, you know what,

848
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 4: I just started acting myself. I just started acting myself.

849
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 4: And then it turned. It turned dramatically, where, oh what

850
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 4: a nice guy Frank is?

851
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: Wow, this and that? Why doesn't Polly like him? All right?

852
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 2: You name it. So for the most part after that,

853
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 2: it's been ninety five percent, all right, good. It's been

854
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 2: ninety five percent good. And guys, let me tell you,

855
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 2: you know, you do cameo cameo.

856
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 4: I've done over five thousand cameos because I enjoy it,

857
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 4: all right, I enjoy it. Some people call me who

858
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 4: tell me, oh, my friend so who her mom passed? Guys,

859
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 4: And I'm true, I'm true. I'm doing a cameo for somebody.

860
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 4: I start crying. I start crying.

861
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 2: They almost like, oh, man, so, and it's me. It's

862
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 2: really what you see is what you get. So for

863
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 2: the most part, I gotta be honest. There's nothing.

864
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 4: I love with the consequences that have come from the

865
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 4: Real Housewives, all right, And we found out no matter

866
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 4: where you go anywhere in the world. You know, we

867
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 4: went down to the Bahamas down down there, and guys,

868
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 4: you could have walked fifty feet without being approached and

869
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 4: everything else. And Brittany's great that way because it's normally

870
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 4: very very respectful. Yeah, so, you know, I try to

871
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 4: keep it nice every morning still to this point. And

872
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 4: then britt has total access to my phone. I get DMS,

873
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 4: I get videos where like, guys, you know, you gotta

874
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 4: like turn the phone like like, what the hell is this.

875
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: And then I realized, you know, is Brittany on the show.

876
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 4: Brittany's been on the show many of times, all right,

877
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 4: but Brittany, Brittany is just a good, happy person, all right,

878
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 4: and you know, just a nice person. So they've asked

879
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 4: her to come on more and more, all right. Well,

880
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 4: I basically limit her on the show coming to good

881
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 4: events where I know there's gonna be a free for

882
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 4: all breakdown, right because she's she's doesn't have a thin

883
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 4: skin anymore. And then one good thing about it, which

884
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 4: is a great storyline, is the ex wife protecting a

885
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 4: new wife.

886
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she sticks up for her, right, she sticks

887
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 2: up for her. But anybody on the show she got

888
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 2: break kids alone, basically everybody on the show, all right.

889
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 4: And our experience, our experience on the show, and a

890
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 4: lot of it has to do with the guys on

891
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 4: our show. I think it takes a step further than

892
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 4: all of the other franchises.

893
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: Guys.

894
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 4: We we always even if our wives had problems or

895
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 4: ex wives or whatever, it normally would not allow that

896
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 4: to get in the way of us.

897
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 1: Okay, and that's a normal thing. That's what a normal

898
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 1: guy does experience. I have experience on our show, exactly

899
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 1: what you're getting at. My friendship with David and David

900
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: and I were probably one of the only ones that

901
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: got along on the show the many years that have

902
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 1: been on. Now you know, I've grown to like Terry.

903
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: He's he's actually a really cool, down earth stateforward guy.

904
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: And then Shane of course again straight shooters. It goes

905
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: back to being authentic and real, just being themselves. That's

906
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: that's all you need to avoid or kind of skate

907
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 1: through all the stupidity of the show where people say, Hey,

908
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: your hair's not long enough, your eyes aren't blue enough,

909
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: you're you know, your smile is not big enough. You're

910
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: never gonna make everybody happy. But the relationships you guys

911
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: have in Jersey, I've always talked about that, always said,

912
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:48,760
Speaker 1: you guys, there's a dynamic there where you have a history.

913
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 1: You guys really know each other, and that's why you're

914
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 1: having so much fucking fun.

915
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 4: You know, I enjoy I get the cool anytime I

916
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 4: have the guys night where if the guys are going

917
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 4: to be involved, they would say, you know, I get

918
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 4: to call from Dolores, Brittany will call me it. Do

919
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,359
Speaker 4: not like Joe, do not like Joe and next thing,

920
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 4: you know, it's as carrying me out. Here's Joe's the

921
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 4: littlest one on the show. And Joe he could just

922
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 4: drink and drink and drink.

923
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 2: I don't know. Oh my god. I was Joe's lawyer.

924
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 2: I've known Joe probably close to thirty five years.

925
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: Wow.

926
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: I used to be his lawyer.

927
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 4: And you know, now we have a comedy show together

928
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 4: the guys, which I never planned on whatsoever?

929
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: You got to tell us about that? Because I know

930
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: you guys did a skid at the Bravo Khan two

931
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 1: years ago and you your shirts off.

932
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 4: And here's how he says, well, let me remember Bravo

933
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 4: Bravo Khan when it was in New York. All right,

934
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 4: So Joe is he's a comedian, and I gotta be

935
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 4: honest with me. Bro he's kind of funny. He's kind

936
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:50,320
Speaker 4: of funny.

937
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 2: He is funny.

938
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

939
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 2: So anyway, listen, I.

940
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 4: Know the guy choosing me, and I tell him. I

941
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 4: tell him all the time. So now he's appearing at Carolines.

942
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 4: He's got two shows at Carolines, which every comedian wants

943
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 4: to get to. I was like, how the hell did

944
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 4: he get the Caroline. I wake up and I wake

945
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 4: up in the morning and I'm I'm going through Instagram

946
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 4: laying in bed, and you know, every day you see

947
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 4: Joe Gorga's Instagram all right, where normally he's got a

948
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 4: shirt off, all right, and he gives you your your

949
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 4: life advice.

950
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 2: Okay, you know the usual.

951
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 3: You know, do keep you does that too once. I

952
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 3: need to learn. I need to take the shirt off

953
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 3: more often.

954
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 2: That's what Joe's always got the shirt off.

955
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 3: That's what I'm missing. I needed. I need to take

956
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 3: off the shirt off all the time.

957
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 4: Bro. Listen, Joe Gorgan takes off the shirt so it

958
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 4: takes your attention off of his height, right, So now

959
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 4: I see his thing, Joe.

960
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 2: Gorga appearing at Carolines.

961
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 4: All right, Bravo kan blah blah blah, all right, the

962
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 4: guy's true story, all right. Then I see featuring Frank

963
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 4: Contana that I called you, Joe, Hey man, what's going on?

964
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 4: I said, I said you yeah, oh yeah, you're gonna

965
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 4: come out. You're gonna introduce me beat You're like five

966
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 4: ten minutes introduce me? I said, Bro, you think you

967
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 4: should have asked me? Am I getting paid? Am I

968
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,760
Speaker 4: doing anything, So, guys, I gotta be honest. That's probably

969
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 4: about that's probably about thirty shows ago. We've been to

970
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 4: three countries. I can't even tell you how many different cities.

971
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 4: So now my I come out before him and go

972
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 4: on from maybe like fifteen to twenty minutes, right, and

973
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 4: Joe comes out, And I never planned on it.

974
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 2: I gotta be honest.

975
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 4: I never planned being a comedian. I was scarce shit

976
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 4: of it, all right, but that's how I started. We

977
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 4: just had one not too long ago, and they're not big.

978
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 2: Listen. We we had some in Atlantic City where we

979
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,760
Speaker 2: had like twelve thirteen hundred people. Most of our venues

980
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 2: are anywhere from maybe one fifty to two fifty. But

981
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: it's nice. It's nice, usually sell out and it's a

982
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 2: housewife crowd.

983
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 3: Do you think he'll uh, you'll ever he'll ever open

984
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:52,320
Speaker 3: for you?

985
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? Never bow yeah, Joe listen.

986
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 4: And I let him do that because obviously, you know,

987
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 4: God God shorted him when I came to his height,

988
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 4: so I feel bad for him.

989
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 2: All right. So we're saying at and you'll be honest.

990
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 4: I want part of my part of my skin. I

991
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 4: come out there, I said, listen, guys, you think you

992
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 4: feel bad about your life. I said, let me just

993
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 4: tell you something, all right. I'm driving here tonight, all right,

994
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 4: And I used to dress up. I used that these

995
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 4: tailor made suits and I looked pretty good man. I

996
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,280
Speaker 4: was jack backdad everything. I'm in front of a judge,

997
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 4: I was a pretty damn good attorney, and I was

998
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 4: Joe Gorga's attorney. All right, I said, since then, I

999
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 4: fucking got this bored, and now I'm the opening act

1000
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:32,240
Speaker 4: for Joe Gorgon.

1001
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 2: You think your life is bad?

1002
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 3: I said, mind, I have a question for you, Frank.

1003
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 3: But I wanted before I forget, you mentioned Brittany has

1004
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 3: access to your phone and access to your DM's access

1005
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 3: to all that good stuff. Was that your idea or

1006
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 3: her idea?

1007
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:49,839
Speaker 4: Dude?

1008
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 2: Can I tell you something?

1009
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 4: It was my idea because when we go out and

1010
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 4: I'm always getting you know, the people coming up, And

1011
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:00,720
Speaker 4: that's the one good thing about the Housewives. My buddy,

1012
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 4: my buddy who moved away, who's still one of my

1013
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 4: best friends, came to Jersey walking down the boardwalk and

1014
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:06,879
Speaker 4: he said to me, one day, he goes bro first,

1015
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 4: I hate the fact that people recognize you, all right,

1016
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 4: because he grew up on me, all right, but he

1017
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 4: goes after you take a picture with him, they walk

1018
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 4: away and they're smiling.

1019
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 2: It's any unit you guys, deal.

1020
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 4: It's it's like a big thing for them to meet you,

1021
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 4: all right, but it's just as big for me and

1022
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 4: to see that you make them happy like that, all right.

1023
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 4: So but then you get a little bit beyond where

1024
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 4: you get women who had something to drink. If you

1025
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 4: get a group of women, you know, and they get

1026
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 4: very touchy feely in your name it all right? So

1027
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 4: what happened is you know at that point, guys, I

1028
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 4: wanted her to make sure she felt comfortable.

1029
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 2: So be honest.

1030
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 4: Britt has access to everything through my phone, all right,

1031
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 4: but she never goes guys, as far as I know,

1032
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 4: probably when I'm sleeping, she goes through everything, all right.

1033
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, she just walked in the house. She just

1034
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 2: walked in from shopping. Was it?

1035
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 3: Would you say? It's a form of uh what was it?

1036
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 3: A form of accountability for you as well? And then

1037
00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 3: the show help with accountability?

1038
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 2: Is well?

1039
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 3: I know, like for me that was a huge like

1040
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 3: it helped me a ton. When we came out on

1041
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 3: the show, it was like oh shit, Like, now you

1042
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:13,320
Speaker 3: the most random person will know who you are and

1043
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 3: is someone going to try to blackmail you for some stuff?

1044
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 2: Right?

1045
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:20,399
Speaker 4: Always if in fact I know something, if whoever they're

1046
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 4: blackmailing you with already knows.

1047
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: About it, Yeah, well I got I got my wife

1048
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 1: got a private DM on social media saying hey, I

1049
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: saw Eddie at the beach having lunch with a friend.

1050
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: And that's when the light went off. I'm like, oh shit,

1051
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 1: there goes my privacy. I mean you not that I

1052
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 1: have anything to hide, but I can't do anything now.

1053
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 4: No, It's crazy, isn't it. It's crazy, you know, and listen,

1054
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 4: it's I don't care how cool you got cool partners,

1055
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 4: and you know it's nice and I consider myself to

1056
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 4: have one as well, you know. But at the same time,

1057
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,959
Speaker 4: when you got people just I don't understand why people

1058
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 4: do it, all right, I guys, let me ask you

1059
00:49:57,840 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 4: guys a question. If you look at an Instagram, remember

1060
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 4: you look Instagram. If you see a post and you

1061
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:05,360
Speaker 4: don't like that post, all right, do you even nasty comment?

1062
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 2: I just keep scrolling.

1063
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:10,240
Speaker 1: He just sort of on, Yeah, why why do people.

1064
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 4: Find it necessary? And then usually it's somebody who's got

1065
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 4: no pictures has like four followers, okay, exactly, which I can't.

1066
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate the keyboard Warriors. I hate the keyboard Warriors.

1067
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it also at this stage in this

1068
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:32,879
Speaker 1: world of social media and reality TV, I think there's

1069
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: a kind of a conspiracy going on out there with

1070
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: certain cast members that are putting stupid shit stories out there.

1071
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 1: And that's what those take accounts are for, right, Combine

1072
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 1: that with the bots, and then they just hire a

1073
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 1: bot to keep repeating you know, stupid posts. It's just dumb.

1074
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: But I mean I know that that's part of the

1075
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 1: or maybe the biggest reason Jersey was shut down because

1076
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 1: of what happened with you know, the bloggers and the

1077
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: stupidity of what happened over there. But on that note,

1078
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 1: let me ask you if if Jersey was to be

1079
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 1: asked back and Brittany was asked to be a housewife,

1080
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: would you sign on for that or what would you do?

1081
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 2: Get? Truthfully, guys, I think that is entirely her choice.

1082
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 4: That's a great answer, babe, They ask you, what would

1083
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 4: you say, She's like, I don't know, I don't know. Yeah,

1084
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 4: Like she just said, she goes I think I'm too nice,

1085
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 4: all right, which I got to be honest with.

1086
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 2: You, so do I right. And our relationship, guys, our

1087
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 2: relationship is close to perfect as it comes. It really does.

1088
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 2: We don't ever fight. We have a big age discrepancy,

1089
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 2: which nobody's ever made an issue of.

1090
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 4: I laugh more heart than I've ever laughed with any

1091
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,279
Speaker 4: of the corner ever in my life. They have more

1092
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 4: in common, all right, and in less drama than anything.

1093
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,759
Speaker 4: And worried she's worried morey about it if we go

1094
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 4: on the show, because there's been great relationships. Was gone

1095
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 4: to ship when you go in the show, So I

1096
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 4: don't have to tell you guys that deal.

1097
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know my experience has been, you know,

1098
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 1: putting us in a room with four or five other

1099
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 1: people that we have never met in our life and

1100
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: say do a show. And that's why I go back

1101
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 1: to the Jersey thing, Like you guys don't knew each

1102
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,879
Speaker 1: other before, and you have some history, and you guys

1103
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 1: can actually talk about stuff, and you know, having that

1104
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:26,439
Speaker 1: mentality of getting over it because it's just the show.

1105
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 1: You know, it's it's easier.

1106
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 3: What's the age difference between you and Brittany By the

1107
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 3: way twenty five years. Twenty five years. Okay, twenty five Bro,

1108
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:36,440
Speaker 3: I just.

1109
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 2: Turned sixty one, Bro, sixty one.

1110
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 3: There's no way you're seventy one years old.

1111
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I believe you. Fortunately, Yes, for you, Thank you, man.

1112
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 3: Wow, I'm blown away. I had no idea you were

1113
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 3: sixty one, Bro. If you saw me in the morning,

1114
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 3: only fifty is worst case.

1115
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 2: Thank you, bro. Honestly, I knew I liked you. Bro.

1116
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 2: I believe me.

1117
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:57,959
Speaker 4: If you saw me getting out of bed in the morning,

1118
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 4: I say, ship that motherfucker's sixty one years vault.

1119
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 3: All right, Yeah, speaking of that was your How your

1120
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 3: daughter and son take it that you married someone so young?

1121
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 3: Were they like, dad, what are you doing?

1122
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:12,919
Speaker 2: Let's go to my son. My son is the most

1123
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 2: non confrontational person. Do whatever me. Okay.

1124
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 4: Remember they both knew Brittany beforehand, all right. And my

1125
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 4: son was fine, all right. My daughter, I got to

1126
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 4: be honest with my daughter had a little bit of issue.

1127
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 2: All right.

1128
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 4: They would have had a little bit, because guys, they're

1129
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 4: basically five years apart.

1130
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 3: Oh yes, and I was gone and my daughter has a.

1131
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 4: Very very strong personality. But now, guys, I be honest.

1132
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 4: The two of them are like best friends. They joke around,

1133
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 4: they laugh. You know when I tell you, guys, I

1134
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 4: knock on wood. Probably have between the X between my

1135
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 4: beautiful wife, now between my kids, I probably have the

1136
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 4: closest thing to a perfect life. Well, and it's good,

1137
00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 4: you know my daughter. And my daughter is funny and

1138
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 4: now she busts our chops right like people around. Hey,

1139
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:01,920
Speaker 4: I want to introduce you. Step off right, Brittany.

1140
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: I love those dynamics, brother, I really do admire that,

1141
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:10,720
Speaker 1: you know, And I can sense and see the beauty

1142
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: of it and and the harmony, and I can tell

1143
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,760
Speaker 1: why you're so happy and just having a great life.

1144
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: You have such good people around you. Man.

1145
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 2: That's it makes all the difference, guys, doesn't it.

1146
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 4: Man?

1147
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:24,400
Speaker 2: Listen, I think God can call my number tomorrow. You

1148
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 2: know I'm not. I'm not gonna be one of those

1149
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 2: people that it could have should have.

1150
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:28,320
Speaker 3: Man. I did it.

1151
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 2: I did it. I did good, bad, and different, you

1152
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 2: name it so and I live it.

1153
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 3: I live it, bro, I love it. Frank. Your energy

1154
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 3: is contagious. Man, You're full of energy, full of enthusiasm. Man,

1155
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 3: I can see why you landed such a young girl. Man,

1156
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 3: I can see it.

1157
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 2: She keeps me honestly, she keeps me young.

1158
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 4: And the thing is, she places these freaking tiktoks on

1159
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,440
Speaker 4: me all right, like well, I'll be eating and.

1160
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,320
Speaker 2: She scares the ship out of me. What don't stuck

1161
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 2: next to you and her?

1162
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 4: You see her in a TikTok laughing, and then you

1163
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:15,280
Speaker 4: have comments, Oh my god, he needs anger management.

1164
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god, he must be her all right, going.

1165
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 2: Going down to day. She keeps me up. I gotta

1166
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 2: be honest, keeps me young. Guys, when I tell you,

1167
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 2: we laugh all the time, all right.

1168
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 4: I can't remember the last time either one of us

1169
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 4: raised our voice of bad or yeah, you know cool

1170
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 4: it is, man, it.

1171
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,320
Speaker 1: Is, and they do. I know we didn't touch on this,

1172
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 1: but it just hit me. Does she have kids or

1173
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 1: do you guys plan on having kids?

1174
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 2: She doesn't. That's that's that's the one sort of subject

1175
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 2: a little bit there.

1176
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 4: So now we we we talked about that in depth

1177
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 4: many and many of times, many times. You know, we

1178
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 4: have we have our two rescue dogs. Basically they can't

1179
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 4: they can't even sleep in the bed with us anymore

1180
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 4: because my Moe's snores so.

1181
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:01,399
Speaker 1: Loud like man of animals too, but I can't live

1182
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 1: with them right exactly.

1183
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 2: Oh, I saw my bro, you got you got a

1184
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 2: pity pity rescue.

1185
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: He's right here, right here, you know. Yeah, he's just

1186
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: the biggest love bug.

1187
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I see a Rams fan, bro, all right,

1188
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 2: big time?

1189
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:20,239
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1190
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 2: Who's your What happened to Cooper Cup? Come on, man?

1191
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 3: Why did you get the man? I know that that

1192
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 3: one hurt. He was one of my favorites.

1193
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that one was one of my favorites. So for sure,

1194
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 2: are you a Rams fan? I listen, I'm I'm an

1195
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 2: everybody fan, honestly.

1196
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 3: I like.

1197
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,320
Speaker 2: I like rooting for teams with some good people on it,

1198
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 2: all right, And.

1199
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 4: If I see something good, you know that that somebody

1200
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 4: did something nice with a fan or something like that

1201
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 4: for them that week. You know. I was always a

1202
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 4: Tom Brady fan and followed him. You know, we watch

1203
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 4: his games, whether be in New England down to Tampa.

1204
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,760
Speaker 4: Then when he left, uh Britain Bridge A huge, huge

1205
00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 4: Dallas fan.

1206
00:56:58,000 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 3: All right, cool? All right, Well, whenever you want to

1207
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 3: come down to a Rams game, you would love to.

1208
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 3: I have a ton of tickets. We have tickets, Yeah,

1209
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:06,800
Speaker 3: we have nine season tickets.

1210
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 2: Here man in the house.

1211
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 3: They're literally the best seats in the now. Yeah, no,

1212
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 3: hit us up, like whenever you want, any game will

1213
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 3: have fun. I love your energy, man, I would love

1214
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 3: to hang dude, I do man.

1215
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: So last question, you guys go into Brava kan this year.

1216
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:28,480
Speaker 4: I listen, there's only four people from Jersey, all right

1217
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 4: and their spouses who are going. All right, from what

1218
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 4: I understand, you know, it's I think it's only Dolores, Melissa,

1219
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 4: Margaret and Teresa. I don't know if that's an insight

1220
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 4: into the future or not. All right, so they basically,

1221
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 4: you know, I didn't expect it to be invited this year,

1222
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 4: but guys, I get down.

1223
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: I love Yeah, it was funny.

1224
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 2: I got I know you guys, but I.

1225
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 4: Get hollered at all the time my production because when

1226
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:57,479
Speaker 4: we walk out the building and like all the people

1227
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 4: are behind the barricades, did you know I got to

1228
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 4: go and take a picture, and everybody wants They're.

1229
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 2: Like, oh, Frank, Frank, let's go Frank. I was like, no, man,

1230
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 2: these people waiting here for an hour? Yes, you're serious,

1231
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,880
Speaker 2: Well you guys can wait fifteen twenty minutes. You come on. Well,

1232
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 2: I love you know vis Oh my god, she goes

1233
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 2: yes you you just said, yes, I do, I don't.

1234
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 2: I love it. You know, first of all, this this

1235
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 2: coul this could all be gone tomorrow.

1236
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 4: You all know that, all right, Yeah, But at the

1237
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 4: same time, while it's here due it needs so much

1238
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:29,560
Speaker 4: to these people and say.

1239
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 1: That's exactly why we do it. You know, it's not

1240
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: because it makes us feel it feels our ego or

1241
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: anything like that. It feels our feeling to help other

1242
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 1: people feel happy. If it makes them feel happy and

1243
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:44,920
Speaker 1: they just want a simple picture. It's not hard, right,

1244
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 1: It's not that hard.

1245
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 3: Not that hard.

1246
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 2: It takes more energy. It takes more energy to be mean, yes, okay, right,

1247
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 2: I'm sing. There was a There was a beef between

1248
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 2: Ramona from New York and Dolores. Okay, all right, I

1249
00:58:59,160 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 2: get that.

1250
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 4: So to watch what Happens Live, okay, and Ramona they

1251
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 4: did some kind of dating games. So Ramona didn't know

1252
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 4: who the three guys were, and I was one of them,

1253
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 4: all right, so she didn't pick me, thank god. Right,

1254
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 4: But anyway, afterwards, you know, you know, I basically we're

1255
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 4: all leaving and Ramona is not taking pictures with anybody.

1256
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 2: I didn't know that.

1257
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 4: I told him looking to take a picture, all right.

1258
00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 4: Next thing, you know, she's like hendon hoard all right.

1259
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 4: So after that somebody must have said something to her,

1260
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 4: well that's frank, you know, that's.

1261
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 2: Dolorus's ex husband. So then she goes you know, they no,

1262
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 2: come on back, we take a picture, right, So.

1263
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 4: Now I'm going back to I'm going back to take

1264
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 4: a picture. And in the background you hear the loorus.

1265
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 4: Get the fuck away from her, don't you dare?

1266
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 2: All right? I was like, oh sorry, but that that's

1267
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 2: the point I'm being is man, I don't care who

1268
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 2: it is.

1269
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 4: Guys, I've always been talve. You treat you the same

1270
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 4: as you treat the janitor. Right then you're going back

1271
00:59:58,320 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 4: down that ladder. And I've gone down that ladder man

1272
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 4: of times seeing people. Are you shore going up?

1273
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1274
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:05,439
Speaker 1: Hmm, I agree, one hundred percent for sure.

1275
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 2: I listen, guys, I do across my back. I got tattooed,

1276
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 2: and I'm not even kidding.

1277
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 4: I used to be a big Nickelback fan, all right,

1278
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 4: and that every day, every day is a gift, not

1279
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 4: a given right.

1280
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 2: And that's not a cliche. I live by that. Wake

1281
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 2: up in the morning. I said, I'm grumpy.

1282
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 4: Man. There sometimes I'm grumpy and Britt just pulls me

1283
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 4: out of it. And you really, guys, you when you

1284
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 4: said I enjoyed life.

1285
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 1: I'm just glad you didn't see you had a picture

1286
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:30,959
Speaker 1: of his face tattooed to your back.

1287
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 2: Hold out, hold out, bro, there's got to be now

1288
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 2: that that goes to a story again.

1289
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 4: We're going We're going to the NBC building in the

1290
01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 4: New York all right, So we had some kind of event.

1291
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 4: I forgot what it was. In fact, Britt was with me.

1292
01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 4: And so now when you go there, you got to

1293
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 4: go to security first and they give you a tag. Right.

1294
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 4: But while I'm standing there, I look next to me,

1295
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:55,840
Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's Chad all right, the lead singer

1296
01:00:56,040 --> 01:01:00,400
Speaker 4: from the Now I look at him. Everybody coming over

1297
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 4: by me and taking pictures with me. So I see

1298
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 4: him looking, say who's this guy right now? I'm seeing him,

1299
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 4: and I'm like starstruck.

1300
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 2: Coming yeah, I'm like stuttering. I'm like, hey, hey man,

1301
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 2: I'm a huge fan. Bro.

1302
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 4: I said, I even got you on my back. I said, no, no, no,

1303
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I got one of your verses on my

1304
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 4: back one of your songs. He's like, okay, thanks, so yeah,

1305
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 4: but I did have a picture of him on my back.

1306
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 3: That's too, buddy, That's very cool. Oh sure.

1307
01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 1: Anyways, you know, it's been great, Frank. I know we

1308
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 1: can go on for hours and hours.

1309
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 3: But that was one of my favorite interviews.

1310
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 2: Man.

1311
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love to hear I love you. It's been

1312
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: a lot of fun. I'm finally connected and hopefully we

1313
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 1: get to see each other soon.

1314
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 2: Guys, I would love to. I would love to. You know,

1315
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 2: for sure, any you're still doing that would say you're

1316
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 2: still doing your motocross.

1317
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 1: I am, I am. You know I'm still doing the

1318
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: Harley thing too. I I gotta I had an idea

1319
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 1: that I wanted to pass by you, because that's why

1320
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 1: I asked you about Bravo Con. But we'll talk offline.

1321
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 1: It's a Harley Davidson deal that I really I got

1322
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 1: to put together if you guys are interested in doing it.

1323
01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 4: But absolutely, And I can tell you something. Some of

1324
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 4: the best time Brittany and I spend. You know, I

1325
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 4: have a full dresser now and she loves just sitting

1326
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 4: on a back and relaxing. I'le go out for a

1327
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 4: ride some of the best quality time that we spend.

1328
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 2: Do you have a ride with Joe uh with Joe Banango?

1329
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: Yes?

1330
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:31,440
Speaker 4: Yes, In fact, Brittany and I went with Margaret and

1331
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 4: Joe and it was a beautiful sunday here. We went

1332
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 4: up into upstate New York, stopped for a bite, t

1333
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 4: eat and everything else there.

1334
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, non living.

1335
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm close with pretty much everybody on the

1336
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:43,919
Speaker 4: show except for maybe one person, all right. But other

1337
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 4: than that, you know, Joe and Joe, Joe Gorga, I'm

1338
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 4: very good friends with. He lives right down the block

1339
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 4: for me up north. He lives right right down the

1340
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 4: block for me down at the Jersey Shore. And but

1341
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 4: Joe Banango were close, honestly, and me and Joe were

1342
01:02:57,760 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 4: also very close.

1343
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 3: And he loves the Yeah.

1344
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 1: No, I I love Joe Binninga and they're great people.

1345
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 1: Is anybody else fried over there? Do you know on

1346
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:08,439
Speaker 1: the show?

1347
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:10,920
Speaker 4: I know, listen, I know, I know the doc doesn't

1348
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 4: all right, I know Doctor Aiden, all right, Jennifer's husband

1349
01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 4: doesn't all right.

1350
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think you know, Nate Daniel's husband, I

1351
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:19,919
Speaker 2: know he doesn't either.

1352
01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: And Joe, Joe Gorga doesn't either, right, stop broke.

1353
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 2: He can't reach the ground. He can't reach the ground.

1354
01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 1: Get him a little bike.

1355
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I get it. I got him like one

1356
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 2: of those eighty eighty c C.

1357
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: Hondas well, right, they got They have strikes too. You know,

1358
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:37,919
Speaker 1: you don't have to put your feet down on listen.

1359
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 4: The thing with Joe Gorga, is this all right? If

1360
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:42,640
Speaker 4: you want Joe Gorgan to do anything a right, you

1361
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 4: don't call Joe. You might as well just call Melissa directly.

1362
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, he's not allowed to do anything unless he stays.

1363
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, And we all know that, we all

1364
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 3: know that's right.

1365
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 4: But the best is there because because Joe, Joe always

1366
01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 4: thinks he's like, yeah, he's the man, he's Tarzan.

1367
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, yeah, towards any aloud out of the

1368
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 2: house without saying.

1369
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:07,680
Speaker 1: Okay, let him think he does you know, you know

1370
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 1: it for sure.

1371
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 2: I love Hey guys. I had a great time, man,

1372
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:13,360
Speaker 2: I had a great time.

1373
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Frank, and uh definitely hopeful to

1374
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: see you soon.

1375
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 2: Hey guys, it's been a pleasure.

1376
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:26,919
Speaker 1: Manwise, likewise, brother, you can't care yourself, Frank. That was fun.

1377
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:30,480
Speaker 3: That was a lot of fun. Oh man, great interview.

1378
01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 1: He is so much fun.

1379
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, he was great. I think he might

1380
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 3: be my favorite interview of all time.

1381
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. He has so much energy. And that's

1382
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 1: part think part of the reason why I don't think

1383
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 1: he's sixty or sixty one however old. He can't be

1384
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 1: in his sixties. He's awesome. But you know, he does

1385
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 1: work out, so that has a lot.

1386
01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:55,760
Speaker 3: Of help with so put you in a good mood. Man. Yeah.

1387
01:04:56,080 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, So let me ask you this, you know, because

1388
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,080
Speaker 1: while we're having this conversation, I can't I couldn't help

1389
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 1: but think about what you're going through obviously in your divorce,

1390
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 1: and how what you can take away, if anything, from

1391
01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: the the dynamics and you know, of what we just

1392
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:17,920
Speaker 1: learned about him. Do you think you can do like

1393
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 1: things like they did.

1394
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 3: Well, it's very interesting because as he was saying it,

1395
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is a lot like Teddy and I

1396
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 3: right now, we're just you know, we're great friends, and

1397
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 3: you know, I want to make sure she's she's taken

1398
01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 3: care of, and you know, but it's we we've maintained

1399
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 3: that great relationship. So even though we're separated and we're

1400
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 3: strange and you know, we're you know, still planning on divorcing,

1401
01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:47,400
Speaker 3: like we're still like friends, yeah, you know, and I

1402
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:49,480
Speaker 3: still see her as a friend, Like this is probably

1403
01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 3: the best we got along that we've gone along in

1404
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 3: a while. We always got along, but we're like really

1405
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 3: getting along really well.

1406
01:05:55,480 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm really hoping that that is true for

1407
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 1: you guys, that you guys can just maintain that friendship

1408
01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 1: and able to amicallee you know, go your separate ways,

1409
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 1: but still maintain that relationship for the sake of the kids.

1410
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 3: And well, it's interesting. I think he mentioned something about

1411
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 3: like the kids not even knowing when they were separated,

1412
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 3: and I kind of feel like, you know that we're

1413
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 3: you know, we we when when we stay at the house,

1414
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 3: even before she got sick, it was just like the

1415
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 3: kids never left and they're not really seeing anything different,

1416
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 3: Like we're not fighting. It's great energy in the house.

1417
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 3: So you know, it's very it's it's it's interesting you

1418
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 3: asked that question because as he was talking, I'm like, Wow,

1419
01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:39,640
Speaker 3: this is a lot like what I'm going through.

1420
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:43,600
Speaker 1: So can you see yourself ever having like Christmas dinner

1421
01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:47,400
Speaker 1: with your girlfriend or wife and then her.

1422
01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:52,919
Speaker 3: Yeaheah. I mean we've so you know, I have a daughter,

1423
01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 3: my oldest daughter, right, yeah, and we've hung out with

1424
01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 3: her mom, her step who's a great, great man. I mean,

1425
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 3: I couldn't have picked a better step dad. And yeah,

1426
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 3: I mean we've we've hung out for Mother's Day. So

1427
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,400
Speaker 3: I'm all about that. Yeah, you know, it's all about Yeah,

1428
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 3: I'm all about leading with love and all that. So yeah,

1429
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 3: to totally see that vacations together.

1430
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 1: They can't wrap my head around it, but it sounds

1431
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 1: so ideal, like I could.

1432
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 3: Totally do that right now, you know if obviously you

1433
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 3: have to respect your significant other, right and sometimes you

1434
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 3: know that's not something that you do right away, you know.

1435
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 3: With with Bella's mom, I mean I think that took

1436
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 3: thirteen years to happen. Yeah, that took a while. That

1437
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 3: wasn't just like you know, but that took thirteen years.

1438
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 3: But then it happened. But you were younger too, lot, Yeah,

1439
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 3: we were younger. Yeah, I was younger and all that,

1440
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 3: But I mean I could have done it at you know,

1441
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 3: you're two. You know, like I've just always been very

1442
01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 3: cool that way. But again, you have to you have

1443
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:04,960
Speaker 3: to respect your significant other and just you can't push it.

1444
01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 3: It's just got to be when the time is right,

1445
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 3: it's right. And but yeah, I mean ideally it's great

1446
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 3: for the children and if you know, and I think

1447
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 3: when you really that's why I ask that question about

1448
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,800
Speaker 3: when did you really become friends? Right, because I think

1449
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 3: that's when you can do it makes I think when

1450
01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 3: one person still has feelings for the other, you can't

1451
01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:29,720
Speaker 3: do or resentment exactly. It's you got to get over

1452
01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:31,560
Speaker 3: the resentment and you got to get over the like

1453
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:33,479
Speaker 3: you have to really now be on the friend zone,

1454
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 3: and then you could easily do it because you just

1455
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,479
Speaker 3: don't look at each other that way anymore. You literally

1456
01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 3: look at each other like friends.

1457
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:44,280
Speaker 1: You know how long that's going to take, you know?

1458
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it depends right that that you know,

1459
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 3: it can be pretty short, you know.

1460
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 1: I mean you've heard of relationships where they they break up,

1461
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 1: they get divorced, and they have sex, they get remarried,

1462
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:01,080
Speaker 1: and then they break up again and they get divorced,

1463
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,519
Speaker 1: they have sex, and they get married again. It's crazy, crazy.

1464
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:09,760
Speaker 1: But my point is is that for me, when I

1465
01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:15,960
Speaker 1: have those you know, passionate feelings with the woman, I

1466
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 1: don't know if I could turn them off.

1467
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 3: You know, ever.

1468
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 1: Me like, well, if you break up like for me,

1469
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 1: my motto has always been, you know, once we're broken up,

1470
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:30,559
Speaker 1: we're broken up, because obviously there were.

1471
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 3: Some attraction and you don't see each other anymore.

1472
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 1: God, and you don't see each other anymore. Even with

1473
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 1: one of my relationships when I was younger, it was

1474
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:39,280
Speaker 1: I was very much in love and it broke my

1475
01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 1: heart and everything. And it was a very mature conversation

1476
01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:44,560
Speaker 1: that I had with her, and it was you know,

1477
01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: I love you, and I know that you know this

1478
01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 1: is not going to be a forever relationship, and I

1479
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 1: have the respect that we're going our separate ways. And

1480
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 1: it was one of the hardest things I've ever done,

1481
01:09:55,000 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 1: but it taught me like, yeah, I can't have just

1482
01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:03,160
Speaker 1: a friendly relationship with a woman I love this much. Right.

1483
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:07,719
Speaker 1: I don't know if that could happen with camera, although

1484
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:11,080
Speaker 1: you know, I guess when you when you've been with somebody.

1485
01:10:11,160 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 1: This is my experience so far. It's not that the

1486
01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,920
Speaker 1: passion is not there or the desire is not there.

1487
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 1: But we've been together, gosh, fifteen years now, and it's

1488
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 1: it's more of a I can see myself with this

1489
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:27,000
Speaker 1: woman for the rest of my life. I can do

1490
01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 1: anything with her, and we're friends, we're like partners, were

1491
01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 1: everything together. So if maybe twenty years from now that

1492
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,000
Speaker 1: was to change, maybe that would be a different perspective,

1493
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, because I have that friendship, I have that connection,

1494
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 1: and you know, I could probably see it happening. But

1495
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 1: young when I was younger, like done, I don't want

1496
01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 1: to see you again.

1497
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:51,680
Speaker 3: I think the key point is when that if one

1498
01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:55,479
Speaker 3: person still loves the other, it's really hard. But I

1499
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 3: think when the love is over that you know, the

1500
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 3: passion and all that stuff. I think that is when

1501
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 3: you can probably do it, and especially if you have

1502
01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 3: a like I've always had a very short memory, Like no,

1503
01:11:10,960 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 3: I've never held remorse, Like there's not one person right

1504
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:16,479
Speaker 3: now that I could say I'm pissed off at right

1505
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:20,280
Speaker 3: I think that's been a little bit of a gift

1506
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:23,200
Speaker 3: of mine, because that's not easy for me. It's always

1507
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 3: been I'm not saying I never get mad, like I've

1508
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 3: been mad for two three months. Then once once I'm

1509
01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 3: over it, I'm over it, and I don't I don't

1510
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 3: hold any grudges, and it's just easy for me to

1511
01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:41,559
Speaker 3: just forget and then move forward. And I think that's

1512
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 3: what I mean. I'm still friends with girls I.

1513
01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:46,479
Speaker 1: Used to date. Oh you are okay? Yeah?

1514
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like I'm friends. I'm still friends. In fact,

1515
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:53,600
Speaker 3: you know when I when all that stuff happened, I

1516
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 3: you know, some of them started texting me back just

1517
01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:58,799
Speaker 3: just to check up on me, not trying to connect

1518
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 3: in a let's get back together, but just you know, hey,

1519
01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:06,679
Speaker 3: how you doing. Hope you're doing well. And it's funny.

1520
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 3: I was having a conversation with with a good friend

1521
01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 3: of mine actually today and he was just saying, how,

1522
01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 3: you know I've always had good relationships. I've always ended

1523
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 3: things well, you know, and how he never ended things well.

1524
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:21,920
Speaker 3: So he was like, man, people always reach out to

1525
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 3: you because you've always ended things well, whereas I always

1526
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 3: ended badly. And you know, I have no friends that

1527
01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:31,680
Speaker 3: I used to date, you know.

1528
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's sort of me. I don't.

1529
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:34,719
Speaker 2: I don't.

1530
01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:37,400
Speaker 1: I'm not friends with anybody any of my day, any

1531
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:38,200
Speaker 1: of my exes.

1532
01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1533
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 1: Two reasons, you know. First is the reason I just explained,

1534
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 1: like when you've had sexual relationships or attractions to that

1535
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 1: other person, it's hard to turn those off unless you

1536
01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:54,280
Speaker 1: know there's something, you know, major that caused to break up,

1537
01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 1: like infidelity or something. But there's there's always going to

1538
01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 1: be that attraction. I think the other is out of

1539
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 1: respect for my current relationship, so that she doesn't feel

1540
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 1: like there's something there right. And that's why I couldn't

1541
01:13:11,080 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 1: understand the dynamics with Paulie and Frank and the whole

1542
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:20,720
Speaker 1: relationship with the families and how they don't have those insecurities.

1543
01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:23,720
Speaker 1: If he will, but after he explained it to us

1544
01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:27,439
Speaker 1: the way he explained it to us, you know, he

1545
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 1: respects her so much that even though she said I'm sorry,

1546
01:13:32,280 --> 01:13:34,680
Speaker 1: you know, I forgive you and I'm willing to go

1547
01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:37,640
Speaker 1: past this. He had so much respect for her that

1548
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: he elevated her to a point where it's more than

1549
01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 1: just a sexual attraction with this person. It's a respect,

1550
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 1: it's an admiration. It's like, I don't want to hurt

1551
01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 1: this person. And I could see that. I could totally

1552
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:55,000
Speaker 1: see having a relationship with a woman like that, like,

1553
01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:59,560
Speaker 1: you know what, it's not you, it's me, and I

1554
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:02,240
Speaker 1: I respect you so much I don't want to put

1555
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 1: you through this ever again. So it made sense.

1556
01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,120
Speaker 3: But I think that the key thing that he said

1557
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:14,000
Speaker 3: as well is that he brought Dolores's husband around when

1558
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 3: they were around, and then that made everything, you know,

1559
01:14:17,160 --> 01:14:19,559
Speaker 3: work because then he got to see it for himself

1560
01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 3: that there wasn't any you know, things going on behind

1561
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 3: the scenes, because you know, you could very easily think

1562
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:32,720
Speaker 3: differently if you're not really there, But once you bring

1563
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 3: them on and they get to see each other, you're like, okay,

1564
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 3: there's there's definitely nothing happening. This is a legitimate just

1565
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:44,160
Speaker 3: friendship because it can very easily be interpreted. The interpretation

1566
01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:48,439
Speaker 3: of that could be easily different. Yeah. So but again

1567
01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 3: I think it takes to you, you know, and and

1568
01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:52,240
Speaker 3: that's why it's so hard to do. That's why you

1569
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,880
Speaker 3: don't have too many people. That's why you don't have

1570
01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:55,360
Speaker 3: too many.

1571
01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 1: People pull that off, right, because both people.

1572
01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 3: Have to feel the same way, andally that's not the

1573
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:03,400
Speaker 3: case because one typically has a grudge.

1574
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I also think it's a maturity thing. I

1575
01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 1: think the older you get, the more you realize that that's.

1576
01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 3: I mean.

1577
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:19,800
Speaker 1: I followed this account on Instagram that does all these

1578
01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:22,599
Speaker 1: funny videos, and they did one recently where the guy

1579
01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:24,719
Speaker 1: and the girl are just walking down the street holding hands,

1580
01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:27,479
Speaker 1: and they run into the girl's ex boyfriend and she

1581
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 1: totally gets excited, jumps on his lap, and the guy

1582
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:33,320
Speaker 1: that's holding her hand, that current boyfriend's looking over. They're

1583
01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:36,200
Speaker 1: imagining all these things, and the ex picks her up,

1584
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 1: you know, kisses her and makes her you know, this princess.

1585
01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:42,320
Speaker 1: He's just looking at her, starts crying, and the next

1586
01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 1: scene is, oh, let me introduce you to my ex boyfriend.

1587
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:51,639
Speaker 1: It's hilarious, but that's you know, how young men's minds work,

1588
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 1: Like what the fuck? Yeah, anyways, it was great catching

1589
01:15:57,600 --> 01:16:00,519
Speaker 1: up brother. Likewise, I'm so happy it's you and hear

1590
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:02,840
Speaker 1: from you. How are things good going with you?

1591
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:07,519
Speaker 3: Going well? I mean, yeah, Teddy's obviously doing better, so

1592
01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:11,320
Speaker 3: she's improving, so that's good news there. The kids are great.

1593
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:15,080
Speaker 3: You know. I'm working a ton and I just came

1594
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:17,439
Speaker 3: back from Europe. That was a great trip. Now he

1595
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 3: took a break. Yeah, I went to Central pay for

1596
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 3: unfortunately only for a day. But then I went to

1597
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:26,519
Speaker 3: Capri for about six days and it was sort of

1598
01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:29,040
Speaker 3: a last minute trip that I went on. And it

1599
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 3: was the first time in sixteen years being by myself. Yeah,

1600
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:35,280
Speaker 3: so I found myself fourth of July just doing nothing

1601
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:38,320
Speaker 3: and my kids were out of town, a lot of

1602
01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:41,560
Speaker 3: my friends were out of town. And it was the

1603
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:43,519
Speaker 3: first time on a fourth of July I did not

1604
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 3: have plans, like you know, normally there's someone having a

1605
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 3: cool party whatever, or I was always with the kids

1606
01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:50,760
Speaker 3: for a lot of for a lot of years. And

1607
01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:53,080
Speaker 3: a buddy of mine who was in Central Page just

1608
01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:55,720
Speaker 3: called me and said, hey, I got this yacht. It

1609
01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 3: was a three hundred foot yacht, fifty million dollar yacht,

1610
01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 3: which I've never been on, and it's just like, hey,

1611
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:04,760
Speaker 3: grab a flight. I got everything covered and uh, you know,

1612
01:17:04,880 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 3: we're only going to be here for one more day

1613
01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 3: in santro Pe, but come down and then we'll go

1614
01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:12,000
Speaker 3: to Capri. And it was so spontaneous. I'd never done

1615
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:14,760
Speaker 3: something like that in a long long time, where I

1616
01:17:14,960 --> 01:17:18,560
Speaker 3: literally literally bought the trip on fourth of July, I

1617
01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:20,519
Speaker 3: mean the ticket to go to Central Pe, got there

1618
01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:22,680
Speaker 3: on the fifth, and and then I was there for

1619
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:25,800
Speaker 3: for a week. Fun, fun time. Yeah, it was a

1620
01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 3: good time.

1621
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 1: Those are the best, the spontaneous ones. You just let's go.

1622
01:17:30,120 --> 01:17:30,320
Speaker 4: Yep.

1623
01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:33,760
Speaker 1: So I'll good there good for you brother, Yeah for

1624
01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:37,519
Speaker 1: you man. That's all yeah, all right, all right, my

1625
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:41,360
Speaker 1: man was our show. Looking forward to our next one,

1626
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:43,960
Speaker 1: and uh we'll see you soon.

1627
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:45,240
Speaker 3: Well, we'll see you soon.

1628
01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:45,479
Speaker 1: Ed