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Speaker 1: Lavender Hayes. That's Taylor Swift on Kiss FM. Sissany is

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Speaker 1: going through it. We need to find out what what's

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Speaker 1: at the root of this is a family meeting, guards

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Speaker 1: family meeting. My parents just to always play that before

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Speaker 1: we have a family meeting. They get on that. That's exciting.

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Speaker 1: They get on the cassette record and they play that

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Speaker 1: sound cross family. Well, they'd have to have that cute

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Speaker 1: up because you have it ready for me, always ready

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Speaker 1: for a meeting. Pads were passed out writing utensils number

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Speaker 1: two pencils off for a meeting. So Sisany has uh Tony.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you know about this, but Sisney

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Speaker 1: is not getting invited to stuff. Well, I myself am

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Speaker 1: getting invited to things by myself. But what I'm starting

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Speaker 1: to realize is that I'm not getting invited to things

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Speaker 1: as a family of five. You're not getting invited to

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Speaker 1: things as a family of five. You're getting invited individually

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Speaker 1: like like girls it out things like that. That's that's

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Speaker 1: not an issue. You are gets Yes, that's not an issue.

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Speaker 1: What I noticed and I noticed it for Super Bowl

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Speaker 1: parties because there was a handful of my circle of

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Speaker 1: friends that I know had get togethers or parties if

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Speaker 1: you want to call them that, and I never got

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Speaker 1: an invitation to the point where I was actually somewhere

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Speaker 1: else where we were all kind together and I overheard

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Speaker 1: someone saying to someone else, like, oh, are you going

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Speaker 1: to someone's house later? And and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I didn't get in, you know. And I think it's

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Speaker 1: because I'm a family of five, Like I think we're

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Speaker 1: just it's a lot like I have three kids. Are

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Speaker 1: we talking about the whole family? Think the whole family

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Speaker 1: being invited because other families are smaller. It's like it's

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Speaker 1: like just like the parents with even two kids, I

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Speaker 1: think is easier than me. It's like I have the

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Speaker 1: twins and the baby, and it's like, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I'm maybe I'm being insecure. No, you're being paranoid insecurity.

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Speaker 1: But I know that when I is single, or when

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Speaker 1: I even when my phone, because I did think it.

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Speaker 1: When Michael and I were newly wet and we would

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Speaker 1: have Super Bowl parties and we would do the invite,

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Speaker 1: I totally thought it. I was like, well, I don't

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Speaker 1: really want to invite them because they have three kids

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Speaker 1: and of a certain age, not only kids, but of

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Speaker 1: certain ages totally, and I'm like to know I am

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Speaker 1: in that category now, it's probably legit. I can't say

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Speaker 1: I haven't done that before. And I also have a

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Speaker 1: very close friend that has two kids that are rambunctious,

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Speaker 1: and I will be honest with my buddy and be like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I want to hang sands kids. Yeah, and the kids

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Speaker 1: not this time, Sands kids. This time. We do things

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Speaker 1: with the kids. But like, I have to make it clear,

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Speaker 1: you're not and even uh, other people who are with

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Speaker 1: us and I was not bringing their kids. Are they

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Speaker 1: because different for you because you don't even have kids.

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Speaker 1: But like the majority of these the majority of these

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Speaker 1: circle of friends all had kids and they all are

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Speaker 1: the same age. They're all friends with my kids, so

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Speaker 1: is interesting. It was just really funny. It's a difference

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Speaker 1: between just going to Ralph's and having to go to Costco.

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Speaker 1: You need that big juga salza And I'm like, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, the reason you feel it and know it's

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Speaker 1: because you did it. I did it about this person,

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Speaker 1: and now you're being banned. This is my karma. It's fine.

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Speaker 1: I had my own little Super Bowl party by my

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Speaker 1: five My family is it gonna just be party of

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Speaker 1: five forever? Is it gonna be party six? No, it's

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Speaker 1: just gonna be party of five. This is it. But

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Speaker 1: they cut you off for already? Go for six or seven? Right?

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Speaker 1: The shop is closed waiting for you guys to catch up.

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Speaker 1: Shops shut down. Yeah, closed, they moved out all the

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Speaker 1: baby I'm saving all my baby stuff for you guys.

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Speaker 1: Please do in line? Next in line? Are we do

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Speaker 1: we put money on this? I'm gonna bed Tanya? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What are you getting engaged? Should I ask me about that?

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Speaker 1: Would you? I bet you chicken out? But I would

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Speaker 1: ask him, Yeah, of course i'd ask him. You're going

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Speaker 1: to ask him You're gonna chicken out? Why would I

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Speaker 1: checking out? What do I You can't ask him that

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Speaker 1: you're to chill? You asked Rubies fiance or boyfriend? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was told to ask Ruby's fiance her boyfriend by Mark.

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Speaker 1: You were told told by him. But I think because

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Speaker 1: you've I think because you've like hung with Robbie and

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Speaker 1: you I think you're chicken out. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: might invite him over to the pad. No, okay, that's different.

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Speaker 1: I say, I say you chicken out asking him on

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Speaker 1: the air. Why mean the problem? The only reason I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't do is if Tiny tells me no. But she

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Speaker 1: hasn't said no. Yeah. I love sitting here saying no.

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Speaker 1: Now she said no? Clear you have to be chill

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Speaker 1: big brother, like cool bro, like can you text me

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Speaker 1: his cell? I need to put it in my phone. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll text you. So thanks. You have a lot a

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Speaker 1: lot of wages with no payoffs around this show. You

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Speaker 1: ever noticed that this one's gonna pay off? So we

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Speaker 1: have two bets running right who's gonna get engaged first?

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Speaker 1: And who's gonna have a baby first. My money's on Tanya. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well no, you wasn't. Actually you said Ruby before? While

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Speaker 1: are we bringing Ruby into this? Now? I'm fine. My

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Speaker 1: money's on Tanya. Yeah, Ruby, Okay, great, Well now we're

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Speaker 1: all Tanya. What she's Tanya has given off like all

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Speaker 1: these clues that it better be soon. So I've shifted

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Speaker 1: gears a little bit here. Yeah, I'm a vibe right now.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that you can say that about yourself yourself, Kanya.

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Speaker 1: Tanya is a vibe right now. I'm Tanya. Get your

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Speaker 1: Soup for the Soul Mind book out and read the

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Speaker 1: chapter about not saying that all right. Coming up next,

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Speaker 1: we have a warning act I test to tell if

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