WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Escape Room Alpha 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.639 Hey, it's brooking Jeffrey and your Second Date podcast. Thanks 0:00:02.640 --> 0:00:03.240 for being here. 0:00:03.400 --> 0:00:04.480 Yes, I don't know. 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:07.760 That we've ever had a test that someone has done 0:00:07.800 --> 0:00:09.240 on a date on this show that it's. 0:00:09.200 --> 0:00:14.320 Actually worked out. Ever, ever, ever good, and today is 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:15.280 the absolute worst. 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:19.040 Yeah, it's so bad, so bad, you're gonna hear it 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:22.239 in a moment. But first, for all those that checked 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:25.720 out the Weekends podcast, we have been hosting our full 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:30.040 show one episode every Sunday and yesterday, it's like people 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:32.120 are yeah, positive. 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:35.040 Yeah, they are positive. Question to Mark, you can all 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:38.880 read the positive, that's for sure. Yeah, Tristan said, literally 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:41.240 been skipping this episode for the last couple of days 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:44.000 because it was too long, but literally the best one 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:45.120 hour of my wik. 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:49.559 And then because our full episodes are one hour, they 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:51.400 are Yeah, it's a lot of us, we get it. 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:53.480 And then someone else said, Jeffrey totally wanted this post 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:55.440 it so we'd all know it was his birthday, and 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:59.000 I realized we post Jeff's Yeah, do you want to 0:00:59.040 --> 0:00:59.880 hear Jeff's birthday? 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:02.560 Just yesterday? 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:06.319 But right now brand new Second Date. Gonna love your 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:09.240 comments after this one. It starts right now. 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:14.920 Second Date updated. We cover a lot of trends on 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:20.280 this show and weird dating terms like bread crumbing, Darth vadering. 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:23.640 That's where you battle your own son to see who 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:24.920 gets to kiss your sister. 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:26.240 I do not. 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:32.160 Oh yeah, it's big on the East coast right now. 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:35.760 There's definitely some weird ones out there, and one we 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:38.920 came across recently is called the Alpha Challenge. 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:39.640 What's Up? 0:01:40.160 --> 0:01:44.440 And I think our listener might fit underneath that umbrella 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:48.040 because she admits she likes to test men whenever they 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:51.440 go out on a date. She says she feels like 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:54.400 maybe she crossed the line this most recent time. So 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:56.200 let's welcome to the show. Mallory. 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:59.920 How you doing, Mallory, Hi guys, I'm okay. Oh my god. 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:02.080 I'll tell you We've never had a dating test that 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:05.880 hasn't failed on this show. Like every time someone is like, 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:07.960 I'm going to test them, like it never works out 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:10.480 backfires like it works absolutely. 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:13.919 So you said, maybe you feel like you crossed the line. 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:15.519 Why don't you start by telling us the name of 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:16.680 this guy that you met? 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:20.400 Okay, So the guy's name is John and we met 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:24.760 online and so many men's profiles they time act like 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:28.320 their alps like a big fish thing. I'm such a man, 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.440 and it's like, if you got to do the big fish, 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:32.960 I don't know. Look, it's really all okay. 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:37.080 Wow, girl, say that I offended right now here. Now 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:40.080 women hate the fish pictures? Really, Yeah, who are they for? 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:41.160 They're only for you? 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:43.000 These are only for you. 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:45.239 Yeah, okay, Well you don't get to split any of 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:47.280 our fish then after we come and cook it up 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:48.680 for us. 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:50.440 I'm sure you know how to fish. 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:54.079 Yeah, my housekeeper Lucy does, and that's all that matters. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:58.040 Are these the alphas that you're talking about, just like 0:02:58.120 --> 0:02:59.920 Jeffrey exactly? 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:03.320 Okay, okay, anyway back to this guy John, what was 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:03.760 his deal? 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:08.000 John did have his humongous fish picture, and I was like, 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.880 all right, you look kind of manly. So I'm thinking 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.200 like if this is legit, if he's anything like this, like. 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:13.560 We're good. 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:17.639 We're probably gonna make out. Well here, okay, all right, 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:19.200 yeah that too. 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:23.519 She's a fan of this, yeah you were, yes, total. 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:25.280 Fan, total fan. And so for our first date, he 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:28.639 was like, let's do an escape room. And I've done 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:30.880 those before. I've done those with guys on dates, and 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:33.400 I think you see a lot about a person because 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:36.200 there's all this problem solving and puzzle and you really get. 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.160 To see, Yeah, it's a good chance for him to 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:40.360 show off all of his alpha skills in order to 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:41.640 escape you from the room. 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:43.400 Yeah, like, let me see what you got. 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:43.760 Okay. 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:47.200 We met at a bar near by first, and he 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:51.920 walks in looking real good. He's sefy, he's tall, and 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:53.080 I was I was all about it. 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:53.480 Okay. 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:57.600 So he's like man's man and you're you're totally digging it. 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:00.720 Totally digging it. So I figured, okay, how do I 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:02.840 test this guy? Like, how am I going to figure 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:05.440 out if he's really an alpha in this escape room? 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:08.840 So we went to the first room and he actually 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:11.920 surprised me because it was like this kind of creepy 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:14.600 room and he's like, oh, I recognize this place. I 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:15.760 think my ex limbd here. 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:21.480 I was like, okay, so he's funny too, Okay, yeah exactly, 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:22.520 So that could go either way. 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:24.280 Are you funny or you know, can you own it? 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:26.640 So then we go to the second room and there's 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:30.320 this like closet thing, and so he goes in and 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:33.440 I just closed the door behind him and I locked it. 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:36.520 Wait, whoa, whoa? What you locked it in a closet. 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.560 I locked him in the clouse, and I'm like, all right, 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:40.880 this is the perfect test. Can this man be a 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:42.240 man and get himself out of there? 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:44.040 I don't know. I feel like it's a red flag 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:45.200 if a guy can pick a lock. 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:48.920 Yeah, no, I think I think I'd be like this 0:04:49.000 --> 0:04:50.520 man knows how to be a man. I think I 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:51.479 would have I would have done it. 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:53.320 Okay, So what happened? 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:56.280 So he's in there like fumbling around for like about 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:56.839 ten minutes? 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:58.360 WHOA was not? Wait? 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:01.320 What was his mood? Was he geting angry at you? 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:03.800 At the very beginning, he was laughing, he thought it 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:07.440 was a joke, But as the minutes went on, he 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:10.080 was not as playful. He was kind of pissed, and. 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:14.520 There was imagine what the person who's watching your room 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:17.640 is thinking. 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:20.720 Yeah, I don't know. A real alpha would have taken 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:22.960 out his fish from his pocket, picked the bones and 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:25.640 turned them into a key and unlocked the door. 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:27.800 That's the kind of man I want. 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:29.840 Yeah, exactly, I see where you're coming from. 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:31.000 Do you feel bad at all? 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:32.200 Not at all. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:34.520 I feel like this was a really solid test, and 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:37.440 I feel like I gave the guy a really you know, 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:39.800 like an opportunity to prove himself. So I think I 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.440 was doing a good thing. And then the guy that 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:45.000 ran the escape room he like walked in. He's like, 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:49.480 is everything okay in here? He's like, you want me 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:50.120 to unlock it? 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:53.320 And I'm like no, no, no, no, this was the 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:53.800 whole test. 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:56.280 I can't let him out, and we're wondering why he's 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:57.120 not calling you back? 0:05:58.240 --> 0:06:01.760 How does the escape aprom experience and did he figure 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:02.440 it out? 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:04.360 So we give him a few more minutes and then 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:07.640 I let the guy let him out and he was 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:11.520 super salty. Yeah, you know what, It's fine because at 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:13.520 that point I already know like we're not a match. 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:15.520 This guy couldn't get out by his felt so he's 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:16.720 not for me anyway. 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:19.000 Yeah, this is confusing then. 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.440 Well so wait, so then we leave and I'm like, okay, 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:24.359 can you just take me home? And he goes, no, 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:25.960 why don't you go uber yourself home? 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:26.320 Yeah? 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:29.760 I mean yeah, And I was like, that's my kind 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:32.800 of man. So that once, once he wanted me to 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:35.480 take my own Uber and driving home, I was like, 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:37.359 that's the alpha man I'm looking for. 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:41.640 He stood up for himself. He finally took a stand against. 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.840 This is so strange to me because it's like you 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:48.360 push him to a brink and then he finally pushes back. 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:50.880 And that's the type of relationship you're looking for. 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:54.200 On the first date, he was able to muster that energy. 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:56.640 You know, why, why waste the time? Let's see exactly 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:58.720 how we click and like, now I know he's the 0:06:58.800 --> 0:06:59.640 kind of guy I want. 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:04.640 Wow, this is going to be an interesting like. 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:08.400 I mean, we obviously know why he's not calling you back, right, 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:13.080 I mean we. 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:15.360 Think we know why, but we won't know until we 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:18.880 call this alpha directly and ask him what's going on 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:20.000 between you and Mallory. 0:07:20.120 --> 0:07:21.960 Oh man, is it going to be like Alpha VI 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:24.040 Alpha Jeff with you and him on the phone. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:25.160 Is it going to be really hard? 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:28.840 I mean, I think we just let this alpha shine first. 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:30.160 Alpha. 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:33.119 You'll be able to tell when the two alphas square 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:35.560 off because the dominant album you. 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:38.240 Actually hearing their voice who has more chest terror. 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.400 Be careful, Mallory, you might get a little bit too 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:45.160 turned on when we come back later. Ultra Alpha Second 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:50.360 date update coming up right after this second date update. 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:53.920 If you're just joining us for the second date update. 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:58.280 Mallory knows what she wants. She wants to date a 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:03.000 real man who can pass her alpha test and prove 0:08:03.480 --> 0:08:06.800 he deserves to go out with her. And her test 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:10.000 for John recently was to lock him in the closet 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:13.000 of an escape room and told him a true alpha 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:15.120 could figure out a way to get out of this 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:16.120 all on his own. 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:18.480 I think you should have just dropped him in the 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:20.880 middle of the woods, fifty miles away and just seeing 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:22.120 if he found his way back to you. 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:24.400 I'll be back in a week. That's a good option 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:29.280 for day two coming up. Because the thing is John 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:31.880 did not figure out a way out of that closet. 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:34.559 He mostly begged and complained the entire. 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:36.280 Time, did not find the challenge fun. 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:40.160 But his shining moment came after the escape room when 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:42.400 she said, Hey, John, why don't you give me a 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:45.400 ride home? And he said, no, you get newber Yeah 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:49.680 alpha move, I mean not exactly like that. Yeah, well 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:53.240 something along those lines. It was enough to convince her, Oh, 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.480 he really is able to stand up for himself, and 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.040 now she wants us to call him. 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:58.120 That's what she liked. 0:08:58.160 --> 0:08:59.520 It actually like turned her on. 0:08:59.760 --> 0:09:02.160 I think all of this is going to be shocking 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:02.600 to him. 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:05.240 Yeah, I mean I would personally feel like if I 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.320 got locked in the closet, it would be because they 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:08.280 didn't like Mallory. 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:10.559 Do you think that John is going to be totally 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:12.720 shocked when we're reaching out to him right here? 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:16.360 I mean, I get it. I mean, he's definitely not 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:19.640 happy with me right now after everything that happened. But 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:22.440 what I didn't get to tell him is that he 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:25.600 did pass the alpha test. Is not in the way 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:27.400 that I initially intended. 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:30.439 No, did he know that an alpha test was happening. 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:32.560 Yeah, he may have had no clue that he was 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:35.160 being tested at any point. He just thought you were 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:36.199 being you crazy. 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:36.960 This would be good news. 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:37.760 Yeah. 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:40.240 Look at this point, I've only seen him do that 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:42.360 one thing, and that one thing was great, But like, 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:45.640 there's a lot more to show, so he's truly alpha material. 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:50.360 There's more tests, Okay, yeah, yes, yeah, And this call 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:52.120 is going to be a total curveball to him too, 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:54.800 So let's see how he handles it in an alpha manner. 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:56.160 Hopefully, yeah, hopefully. 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:58.360 Up on us. She is just going to be so excited. 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:05.400 Yeah, I'm gonna be excited too. If that happens. Already, 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:07.600 here we go. I'm gonna John's number. Let's see if 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:18.560 he answers. Hello, Hey, is this is this John? Yes? 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:18.920 It is. 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:28.720 This isn't what I was expecting. Hey, Man, you're yeah, 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:33.240 Man's just excuse me, I'm talking. This is a show. 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:35.480 We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. You're on 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:36.080 it right now. 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:41.360 Okay, why that's a great question, John. 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.319 Yeah. The reason is because we do this segment it's 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:47.880 called a second Date Update, where we try to help 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:50.440 listeners get in touch with people again after they've gone 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:52.920 out on one date and are getting a follow up 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:55.200 for a second mm hmm. 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:59.400 Okay, yeah, yeah, I understand. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:04.560 Okay, So recently you may or may not remember this, 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:07.120 but you went out with a woman named Mallory. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:11.240 Oh yeah I did. 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:12.920 Okay. 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:15.600 I can't wait to hear how this date went for you. 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:18.680 Because we are bold why you aren't calling her back? 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:20.319 And that was their first hangout? 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:22.320 A lot of schasm in Jeff's voice. 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:23.120 So hold on you. 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:25.520 You don't know anything that happened. 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:28.880 We know a few things, you know. I don't want 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:32.320 to give everything away, but I understand it's probably not 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:36.200 your typical first date. That you've gone on, you know. 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:38.080 Getting locked in a closet not at all? 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:42.920 Yeah, yeah, I mean that's kind of the whole thing, right, Yeah, that. 0:11:42.920 --> 0:11:46.680 Was not pleasant at all. I experienced the roller coaster 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:48.880 of emotions during the lock in. 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:52.400 At what point did you realize she wasn't joking? 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:56.520 Probably after the third time she banged on the door 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:58.720 and said, hey, dummy, are you you figured it out yet? 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:02.160 Who these words? 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:03.959 I'm pretty sure. 0:12:03.760 --> 0:12:04.840 That's about what she said. 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:09.480 Yeah, okay, would you say that this whole locking in 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:11.480 the closet thing, that was the main reason that you're 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:12.320 not calling her back? 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:15.400 I mean yeah, I mean we argued about it. I 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:18.040 just I honestly, I just wanted to get the heck 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:18.640 out of there. 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.360 I think we all can understand why you would feel 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:24.000 that way. But I will say, on the other side 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:27.640 of it, sometimes when two people spark like that, that 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:29.320 could be a sign of a good thing. 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:29.680 Wow. 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:34.440 I mean, I don't know if sparks the word yeah, right, passion. 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:38.559 Okay, at any point did you want to kiss her? 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:40.480 That's I think what Jeff is getting at. 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:43.720 I mean I might have thought about it in the beginning, Yeah, 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:47.240 but after I heard that the third or fourth. Did 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:49.120 you figure it out yet? I was done. 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:52.640 Yeah. I don't think anyone blames you for that. 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:55.280 Look, not every woman is going to challenge you like 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:58.240 this on a first date. Some women just sip wine. 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:01.200 They want to be showered and compliment. And this woman 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:03.760 is pushing you to be the greatest man you can be. 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:06.120 I don't know that you're hearing him, Jeff. 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:07.960 Yeah, I don't think he is there. 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:12.160 There is a tiger inside of you waiting to be unleashed, 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:15.280 and I'd like to open the cage right now as 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.360 we tell you that Mallory is on the other line 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:23.640 wanting to talk to you. No, yeah, no, she is, oh. 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:26.080 My no, locked on the other phone line. 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:29.600 Right well, I mean she deserves to be locked somewhere. 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:31.400 Mallory. 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:34.840 You're out, Hi, John, Hi? 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:37.800 Well, first of all, I just I want you to 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.400 know I really appreciate that you took the call and 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:41.319 that you're here to talk. 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:43.880 This is almost like getting locked in the closet. I 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:45.040 was forced to they called me. 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:46.920 Yeah. 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:50.720 Okay, Well listen, John. That whole thing was to kind 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:52.400 of just see, you know, if we click and see 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:55.520 what you're made of and see if you have that 0:13:55.640 --> 0:13:59.000 kind of help energy that I'm really looking for a man. 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:04.240 And when you told me to go get an uber, 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:08.280 when you wouldn't drive me home, that was the biggest 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:12.280 turn on the way your voice that was so serious, 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:18.560 you like and at that moment, seriously, John, I would 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:20.560 have done anything for. 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:25.080 You to get in an uber and me walking away 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:28.840 turned you on. You are very sick lady. Oh did you. 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:30.760 Call me very sick? John? Yes? 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:33.680 Yeah, he did, and he said it with that deep, 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:34.640 husky voice of his. 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:38.480 You know what, that's exactly what a non alpha would say. 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:43.240 That's all sigma right there. You're follower. You don't even 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:47.680 own this. Okay, Yeah, you. 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:50.840 Don't like to be bad mouthed. Is that what you're saying? 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:53.280 You're gonna bad mouth me? You can do a little 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:56.800 bit more than sick. That was sick. That's that's no sigma. 0:14:56.920 --> 0:14:57.840 You can't even come up with. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:01.920 More than natural challenge issue, John, go harder? Okay. 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:07.480 So so if it's sick, isn't the right word then demented? Twisted? Maybe? 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:09.440 I don't know, but this is you know what, you 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:12.000 know what? And if you don't like me, you don't 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:13.360 have to Okay. 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:14.840 No, I don't and you know what, John, I should 0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:16.480 have trusted my instincts when you couldn't get out of 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:18.360 that closet, because you know what else you don't know? 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:20.760 I hooked up with the escape room guy. 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:23.800 Okay, what do you mean when? 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:24.480 Yes? 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:26.840 When is exactly the right question. 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:29.480 When John left me there to get my own uber, 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:32.440 that guy came out, and that guy took advantage of 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:34.840 the situation. And he is the kind of alpha I 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:35.400 was looking for. 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:38.520 Oh after, he saw you. 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:41.400 Like a guy in a closet and liked it. 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:45.200 Apparently, So there are men that are alphas actually out there, 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:45.920 and that's the truth. 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:49.080 Like y the twenty something working part time is the 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:51.800 escape room is the alpha that you're looking for? 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:54.800 Yeah, that's the alpha she's looking That's the alpha she deserves. 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:57.200 Did you just did you just do this whole thing 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:59.040 to use us so you could tell him that? 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:01.520 No? I mean I would give that one more shot 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.440 to truly be an alpha, but you just don't have 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:03.840 it in you. 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:05.480 This is great. 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:08.400 I don't think that he's upset by that. Mallory. 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:11.240 Of course he's not, because he's not an alpha. So 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:13.640 he troubles it in and he doesn't stick up for 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:16.400 anything not strong buddy. 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:19.080 Okay, all right, well, you know, like I said, this 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:21.000 is me and you don't do it. 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:26.240 Again. You know. 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:29.760 You know what, lady, I really don't appreciate you labeling 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:31.640 me because I am who I am? 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:35.040 Yeah, John, are you are you telling me what to 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:37.480 think right now? Because that actually that that's kind of 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:38.080 doing it for me. 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:40.520 Okay, tell me what. 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:44.080 The thing is and I will off the right. Ye, 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:45.920 get me off the right. 0:16:46.000 --> 0:16:46.880 Hold on, I'm staying on. 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:49.280 Just can John get off the right as well? 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:52.600 We can't get off until I ask you, John, would 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:54.880 you like to go out on one more date with Mallory? 0:16:55.280 --> 0:17:00.560 And we would pay for absolutely not. It's a true 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:03.240 alpha move to turn down three gifts. 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:06.399 Like that final test said and done. Yep, So not 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:08.600 on alpha total that's coming or whatever. 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:11.560 Okay, I don't know. 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:17.000 I'm stop asking questions, but just. 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:19.280 Set him up. We just gave him the freaking ball 0:17:19.359 --> 0:17:21.000 to go run with it and he just dropped it 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:21.520 once again. 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:23.840 I don't know. 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:25.080 I don't want to be on this. 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.600 I guess now that only leaves one alpha in the 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:30.119 room as there always was. 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:31.480 Jeff, how are you talking about me? 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:38.720 I was like risk action on the ground really didn't 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:43.159 have Jeffrey in the morning. Some people just aren't a 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:46.720 good match. Even when you try over and over and 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:49.480 over to force it, it just doesn't work out. 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:51.280 That is a big lesson for you, Jeff. 0:17:51.400 --> 0:17:51.800 Yeah. 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:53.800 Yeah, yeah, it's a big one. 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:56.280 You don't got to learn it at some point. Not yet. 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:59.640 Is there a man that isn't frightened of her though? 0:18:00.000 --> 0:18:03.399 Well? Escape room guy, Yeah, it worked out for him 0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:04.679