Speaker 1: Second date Update. Occasionally, we check back in with callers
Speaker 1: months after they come on the show to see how
Speaker 1: their relationship is going love. When we do that, we
Speaker 1: call it a second date update update. Yeah, but today
Speaker 1: we're doing something kind of new. We have a second
Speaker 1: date update Update update. That's a triple update.
Speaker 2: Now we're getting clingy, can you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like, can't we just let people live their lives at
Speaker 3: some point, Jeff, It's second update Square.
Speaker 1: No, we want to be as deeply involved in our listeners'
Speaker 1: lives as possible if we live with them. We're doing
Speaker 1: a trup date today. Yeah, a few of those different
Speaker 1: meaning though, but seriously, one of our listeners, Anthony, reached
Speaker 1: out to us again. So first of all, Anthony, welcome
Speaker 1: back to the show.
Speaker 4: Hey guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm having a hard time placing with Anthony what
Speaker 3: you were on before.
Speaker 1: So last time Anthony was on, you were dating a
Speaker 1: woman named Mallory, and you guys were saying that you
Speaker 1: were happy together, but she was having you pay for
Speaker 1: a lot of her and her friend's activities.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 3: I kind of remember this, and we're like, oh, she's
Speaker 3: using you, And then you're.
Speaker 2: Like No, she's hot. Is that in my remembering night?
Speaker 4: That's pretty close.
Speaker 1: No, Mallory, it's just you today, Anthony. What's going on?
Speaker 4: H So with Mallory? I ran out of money?
Speaker 2: Oh wait, you broke what?
Speaker 1: Just go get a bank alone? Man?
Speaker 4: Did she wait?
Speaker 2: Did she leave you?
Speaker 4: Well? Yeah, she basically dropped me after I stopped paying
Speaker 4: for everything for her and her friends.
Speaker 1: So alexis good.
Speaker 2: Right, I see where she's coming from, Like.
Speaker 1: You go, girl. That sucks, man, But it sounds like
Speaker 1: you're better off.
Speaker 2: Without that, which I think I told you so, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think that.
Speaker 1: Okay, So is that it?
Speaker 2: Guess if you went on have a date with another
Speaker 2: person that you're interested in.
Speaker 4: Yes, that has been happening.
Speaker 1: Okay, who's the new girl?
Speaker 4: I found a new woman named Lisa.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, and what do you like about her?
Speaker 4: Well, the first thing that stands out to me about
Speaker 4: her I find fascinating is that she does private security
Speaker 4: detail for celebrity whoa.
Speaker 1: Wow, one of your employees. Amazing.
Speaker 2: Let's get her on the phone.
Speaker 1: Was that was that like right there on her dating profile?
Speaker 4: No, that's just something that came out after. But she
Speaker 4: won't tell me who these clients are and that's what
Speaker 4: I'm always trying to get out of her.
Speaker 1: Job at least. Yeah privacy.
Speaker 2: Okay, so have you guys been on one day? Two dates?
Speaker 2: Were yet?
Speaker 4: We just got out once?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: How did it go?
Speaker 4: And went pretty well? I mean another thing that I
Speaker 4: thought was pretty funny is one thing I did see
Speaker 4: on her profile is there's like an ad that comes
Speaker 4: up on people's profiles that says today's high flyer of
Speaker 4: the week, like when they're getting a lot of action.
Speaker 3: I guess they call it app that's funny.
Speaker 1: Is that a good thing for you or a red
Speaker 1: flag jury's I don't know, but I mean I was
Speaker 1: calling her the high flyer as as a joke.
Speaker 3: Though. Is that something that she puts on her profile
Speaker 3: or is it something that the app does automatically? Sorry,
Speaker 3: I'm an idiot when it comes to apps.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think the app does that if you're really
Speaker 4: popular on the app.
Speaker 1: That's another interesting talking point though, to bring up on
Speaker 1: the date, like how did it go?
Speaker 4: I was good. At first. I couldn't tell if she
Speaker 4: was gonna be a real person or not, but she
Speaker 4: was exactly how she described herself, So she's real.
Speaker 2: Pretty is what you're saying.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, well she's pretty cas what she showed up
Speaker 4: in Gucci sweats a tupac couldie.
Speaker 1: Okay, she doesn't have a sense of styles.
Speaker 2: Do a magic. I think it's kind of cute.
Speaker 4: But I thought it was pretty cool and we did
Speaker 4: have fun. She talked a lot about this charity where
Speaker 4: she does so she's really big on giving back to
Speaker 4: the community, and I was able to relate because I
Speaker 4: was just involved with the charity with my ex girlfriend
Speaker 4: and her friends.
Speaker 2: So I hoped to say that, yeah, is that how
Speaker 2: you brought it up?
Speaker 4: No, No, I made that joke in the failed to
Speaker 4: go to further detail about it with their books.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, so we didn't even ask what were
Speaker 3: you guys doing?
Speaker 2: Were you drinking?
Speaker 1: Eating?
Speaker 2: What was the date about?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we got a couple of drinks. We went to
Speaker 4: a happy hour.
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's chill. So that's why she could wear
Speaker 3: the sweatshirt and the sweatpants.
Speaker 1: I see you budgeting, that's a idea.
Speaker 4: I think she wanted to meet me in the daylight.
Speaker 1: Did you feel like you had a good connection with her? Though?
Speaker 4: I did, but yeah, I could definitely tell why she
Speaker 4: is the high flyer Because her phone keeps buzzing the
Speaker 4: whole time we're together. I have a suspicion that she's
Speaker 4: definitely talking to more guys than just me.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Probably, I mean, Jose, if you were out on a
Speaker 1: date with someone who was a high flyer, is that
Speaker 1: a red flag to you? No, I would just be happy.
Speaker 2: That I'm on a date.
Speaker 1: You're buying a ticket onto that.
Speaker 3: Point, maybe she wants to take step off the fast.
Speaker 2: Plane, move on to the slope plane with him, and
Speaker 2: I'm definitely.
Speaker 1: Over overall, though, how do you think the first date
Speaker 1: went good?
Speaker 4: Bad? I think it went good, Okay. I was hoping
Speaker 4: that we're gonna go on another date. But her responses
Speaker 4: are a little spotty.
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I don't know if you did
Speaker 1: this or not, but did you ever point out, hey,
Speaker 1: your phone is buzzing a lot, or you're getting a
Speaker 1: lot of dudes trying to hit you up right now?
Speaker 4: Come across as weirdly, I didn't think that would be
Speaker 4: a good style on my fire. I played it cool.
Speaker 4: I played it cool.
Speaker 5: It was.
Speaker 4: It was just slightly leading me up inside.
Speaker 1: Okay, you seem to have answers. Let's find out what
Speaker 1: Lisa has to say for herself. We're gonna call the
Speaker 1: high flyer director.
Speaker 2: Maybe as well.
Speaker 1: What's on her chart? Your second date update right after this.
Speaker 4: Date.
Speaker 1: Imagine being out with someone you're very interested in in
Speaker 1: finding out that they do security detail for the rich
Speaker 1: and famous. Cool, but they won't tell you who. Not
Speaker 1: only that they're a verified high flyer on the dating
Speaker 1: app where you met them.
Speaker 2: Which means that they get a lot of action.
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't know, someone just paid to feature them
Speaker 1: or something like that. And they wear Gucci sweats with
Speaker 1: Tupac hoodies to first dates like it's no big deal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean they're cool.
Speaker 1: For me personally. This is a very interesting second date
Speaker 1: call because, like jose said before, I really hope that
Speaker 1: she actually answers us because we don't get to talk
Speaker 1: to people like this very often.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he cannot be the one that also like prize
Speaker 3: into who the celebrities are she works for?
Speaker 1: Just ask why.
Speaker 2: I know he already did on the date. She didn't
Speaker 2: want to answer her.
Speaker 1: But if she's like standing next to Kim Kardashian right now,
Speaker 1: is like I can't talk. I mean we do want
Speaker 1: a lot of answers from her, but the main thing
Speaker 1: we want to know is why she's not going out
Speaker 1: with Anthony. That's true because this is a very unique
Speaker 1: type of woman and Anthony. The best part is she
Speaker 1: hasn't made you pay for anything yet either, but you
Speaker 1: are willing to. Yes.
Speaker 3: Wait, oh yeah, wait you paid for the date though, right, Anthony?
Speaker 2: You paid for happy Hour?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I paid for the date at the bar. But
Speaker 4: it wasn't like with Mallory. I wasn't paying for her
Speaker 4: parking and you know the.
Speaker 2: Last girl that you were on the show with.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you'll pay for he parking on the second
Speaker 1: date at least. Let's let's call her and try and
Speaker 1: figure out where that's going to be and if she'll
Speaker 1: go out with you. Here we go. Hello, Hey is
Speaker 1: this Lisa?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 1: It is Hey Lisa. What's up? You're on the radio
Speaker 1: right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Lisa.
Speaker 5: Oh hi, I.
Speaker 1: Guess I can't project us if you haven't heard us before.
Speaker 1: We're low key Bougie, the lowest key.
Speaker 3: I feel like he's wearing a free show shirt.
Speaker 5: Okay, what is it all about? I don't get it.
Speaker 1: Well, we're one of those weird shows that helps listeners
Speaker 1: with their dating lives. When they go out with someone
Speaker 1: and they're not getting a return callback, we reach out
Speaker 1: and try and help figure out the reason why. Okay,
Speaker 1: I know, pretty pathetic on our part, but people get
Speaker 1: paid to do it.
Speaker 2: Thanks Jeff. I kind of like this segment.
Speaker 1: But I like it too. My parents are really ashamed
Speaker 1: of it. But that's not it's not about us. We're
Speaker 1: trying to ask about you and your relationship with a
Speaker 1: guy named Anthony.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, you guys went to a happy hour? Yeah
Speaker 5: we did.
Speaker 1: Okay, pretty great guy, huh.
Speaker 5: I mean yeah, he's a nice guy, good looking.
Speaker 3: Oh what was your thoughts on the date?
Speaker 5: I mean it was really chill. We just had a
Speaker 5: couple of drinks at happy hour and it was just
Speaker 5: a date.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, nothing to write home about.
Speaker 1: Okay. I mean, was there any like big red flags
Speaker 1: to you for why you're not going out with him again?
Speaker 1: Because he said he's been trying to organize a second
Speaker 1: meet up and it's not quite happening.
Speaker 5: I mean no, there weren't any red flags when we
Speaker 5: were sitting there talking. I mean, he was very interesting.
Speaker 5: He was interested in me, asked me a lot of questions.
Speaker 1: Can I offer something up that he told us? Because sure,
Speaker 1: he said he was worried he may have offended you
Speaker 1: by prying too much into your job because he found
Speaker 1: out you helped organize security for big time celebrities.
Speaker 5: My gosh, yeah, I just made that up to sound
Speaker 5: Wait what.
Speaker 1: Man, I was interested even us. We were prepared with
Speaker 1: all these questions to try and get you to reveal
Speaker 1: who you do security for.
Speaker 3: Usually when somebody lies on a date, there's like shame
Speaker 3: and stuff.
Speaker 2: You're laughing like a joke to you.
Speaker 5: Well, I couldn't tell him what my real job is.
Speaker 1: What can you tell us your real job?
Speaker 5: I guess at this point if I'm not going to
Speaker 5: see him again, and sure, I'll tell you what my
Speaker 5: real job is.
Speaker 1: What do you do?
Speaker 5: So I am actually part owner of the dating site?
Speaker 1: Wait way, wait a minute, you met Anthony?
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, some friends had the idea and we were
Speaker 5: just talking about stuff and it's just an idea. Well,
Speaker 5: they moved forward and they asked if I wanted to
Speaker 5: be an early investor, and so let's do it, and
Speaker 5: it just kind of blew up.
Speaker 3: So it says when it says high flyer on your
Speaker 3: dating app, that just means like CEO or something.
Speaker 1: Modeling pretty much.
Speaker 5: I mean, we were looking for trying to like do
Speaker 5: a feature like on the app, and I just said
Speaker 5: I'll do it. I'm single, I don't care about the
Speaker 5: attention whatever.
Speaker 3: Wow, market research apparently it makes an impact.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess.
Speaker 3: So Okay, So wait, why did you just tell him
Speaker 3: that you were the app owner?
Speaker 5: Well, to be honest, I go on a lot of dates,
Speaker 5: and I mean eventually I would tell people what the
Speaker 5: deal is, but also it would be a little creepy.
Speaker 5: I would think in.
Speaker 1: The beginning, we're trying to help him figure out what's
Speaker 1: the reason that you're not going out again. That's what
Speaker 1: he's confused about. Okay, okay, is it so many men?
Speaker 1: Just so many men you can't choose one.
Speaker 5: No, that is not the reason. So as an ad men,
Speaker 5: I can tell that he's been messaging other women, and
Speaker 5: when we are on a date and talking, he told
Speaker 5: me in conversation that it was just him and I talking.
Speaker 2: That feels like invasion.
Speaker 5: Listen when you check off on the agreement, I mean,
Speaker 5: it says any co founder or manager can monitor your
Speaker 5: account in your activity, So well, am I right to
Speaker 5: do that?
Speaker 1: That's crazy and it.
Speaker 5: Just proves that men are pigs.
Speaker 1: Oh, Anthony, what do you think about hearing all that?
Speaker 5: Wow?
Speaker 1: Hi Lisa, Yeah, yeah, I forgot to tell you, Lisa,
Speaker 1: it's down way way deep in our agreement when you
Speaker 1: come on the phone listening, Okay, we've got you're chill.
Speaker 4: I'm a little shocked, but I totally understand like that
Speaker 4: you can that why you had to put that in
Speaker 4: your profile.
Speaker 3: And feels like the last time you were on the show,
Speaker 3: like you just agree with women no matter what they
Speaker 3: do to you. Woman's been light, she like invaded your
Speaker 3: privacy and you're just chill still.
Speaker 4: So wait a second. You could actually go into my
Speaker 4: app and see all the messages, like everything that I've
Speaker 4: ever written on there?
Speaker 5: Yes, I can.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: I know Anthony's thinking of like three things said.
Speaker 1: Hope you keep a PG on overbody. I'll tell you know.
Speaker 1: She cares.
Speaker 4: You can't see pictures, right, Yes, I can, So you
Speaker 4: can zoom in on them too. I don't know if
Speaker 4: you'll have to zoom in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why do I doubt that?
Speaker 1: I doubt that let's go down a bad path.
Speaker 3: Does that mean that you weren't talking to anybody else either,
Speaker 3: because I.
Speaker 5: Mean, yeah, I'm talking to some people. Oh, I was
Speaker 5: honest about that on the day he implied that I
Speaker 5: was the only person he was talking to you.
Speaker 1: But you wouldn't have cared if you had said, but
Speaker 1: see that.
Speaker 2: Why why did you say that, Anthony?
Speaker 4: Well, you're the only person that I've met on the
Speaker 4: app that I actually like and respect.
Speaker 1: Oh, you don't respect.
Speaker 3: You don't respect any other person you're talking about?
Speaker 4: What good? I mean, I came out wrong, maybe, but
Speaker 4: you're the only one I have really found interested in
Speaker 4: and I haven't met anybody like you, whether it was
Speaker 4: on the app or not.
Speaker 5: Well, I have your profile pulled up right now, and
Speaker 5: it looks like that you're trying to set up something
Speaker 5: with somebody named Clarissa.
Speaker 1: Oh, respect her, Lisa. You said a little bit jealous
Speaker 1: of that, even I don't.
Speaker 5: Know about jealous. But look, I would have been totally
Speaker 5: kind if he had said, yeah, I'm talking to other
Speaker 5: people too. I get it. It's not a big deal.
Speaker 4: I'm blocking I'm blocking Clarissa right now.
Speaker 3: Wow, it just sounds like you need to be truthful
Speaker 3: about everything another app.
Speaker 1: Definitely, something is happening here for sure, and it feels good.
Speaker 1: It does feel good. And I'd like to offer to
Speaker 1: send you guys out on another date that we will
Speaker 1: pay for once once again.
Speaker 4: Can I just reiterate that I'm serious. You are the
Speaker 4: only one I've taken serious that I've met on there,
Speaker 4: and I'm really hoping that you're going to say yes.
Speaker 2: That's cute.
Speaker 5: Well, that's very sweet, Anthony, I appreciate that. Yeah, I
Speaker 5: mean I'm a yes. I would say yes, start over,
Speaker 5: fresh slate, start from the beginning. Now that everything's on
Speaker 5: the table, we start over.
Speaker 1: Okay, And we also have fourteen other guys who want
Speaker 1: to know if you'll go out with them. What would
Speaker 1: you like to say to them?
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, if I'm being honest, I am still
Speaker 5: talking to the other guys fourteen on the other side
Speaker 5: for me.
Speaker 1: But how many of those guys do you respect?
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 1: Well, more research with the second day on our bill,
Speaker 1: We're going to pay for it.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm good.
Speaker 1: Before you go, can you force matches because there's a
Speaker 1: couple of girls that aren't responding to me that.
Speaker 3: I don't know that's creepy.
Speaker 5: That's a hard no, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know. The thing that I'm coming to terms with
Speaker 1: what is we just have to get it through our
Speaker 1: heads that people lie on dates. It can be small,
Speaker 1: little white lies or big giant ones. But people do
Speaker 1: it all the time, whether it's to make themselves look
Speaker 1: better or for whatever reason, and we don't all.
Speaker 2: Have the access to fact check them like she did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and it's not so much if you lie,
Speaker 1: it's what you lie about that's really important. She lied
Speaker 1: about what her job was out of boredom from all
Speaker 1: the dates that she goes on. He lied saying that
Speaker 1: she was the only girl that he was talking to
Speaker 1: on the dating app, and she found out that was untrue.
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't he even offer it up? You know, like
Speaker 2: just don't know.
Speaker 1: It sounds like one of those nice lies that you
Speaker 1: tell someone that they're the only one that you like,
Speaker 1: or it's like.
Speaker 3: I never do this when you know that that person
Speaker 3: always does it, you're really good at it.
Speaker 1: I never feel like society has really progressed because they
Speaker 1: were both totally okay with each other's lies.
Speaker 2: In the end, well, we put each other out Yeah.
Speaker 1: That's how lies work. Yes, make a right Yes, No
Speaker 1: matter what, no lie. You can always email the show
Speaker 1: for help. We're willing to call that person who isn't
Speaker 1: calling you back. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,
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