WEBVTT - Second Date Update: High Flyer Liar

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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update. Occasionally, we check back in with callers

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<v Speaker 1>months after they come on the show to see how

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<v Speaker 1>their relationship is going love. When we do that, we

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<v Speaker 1>call it a second date update update. Yeah, but today

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing something kind of new. We have a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update Update update. That's a triple update.

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<v Speaker 2>Now we're getting clingy, can you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, can't we just let people live their lives at

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<v Speaker 3>some point, Jeff, It's second update Square.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we want to be as deeply involved in our listeners'

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<v Speaker 1>lives as possible if we live with them. We're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a trup date today. Yeah, a few of those different

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<v Speaker 1>meaning though, but seriously, one of our listeners, Anthony, reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to us again. So first of all, Anthony, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>back to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm having a hard time placing with Anthony what

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<v Speaker 3>you were on before.

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<v Speaker 1>So last time Anthony was on, you were dating a

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<v Speaker 1>woman named Mallory, and you guys were saying that you

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<v Speaker 1>were happy together, but she was having you pay for

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of her and her friend's activities.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of remember this, and we're like, oh, she's

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<v Speaker 3>using you, And then you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Like No, she's hot. Is that in my remembering night?

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<v Speaker 4>That's pretty close.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Mallory, it's just you today, Anthony. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>H So with Mallory? I ran out of money?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, you broke what?

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<v Speaker 1>Just go get a bank alone? Man?

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<v Speaker 4>Did she wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Did she leave you?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? Yeah, she basically dropped me after I stopped paying

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<v Speaker 4>for everything for her and her friends.

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<v Speaker 1>So alexis good.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I see where she's coming from, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>You go, girl. That sucks, man, But it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you're better off.

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<v Speaker 2>Without that, which I think I told you so, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So is that it?

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<v Speaker 2>Guess if you went on have a date with another

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<v Speaker 2>person that you're interested in.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, that has been happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, who's the new girl?

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<v Speaker 4>I found a new woman named Lisa.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, and what do you like about her?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, the first thing that stands out to me about

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<v Speaker 4>her I find fascinating is that she does private security

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<v Speaker 4>detail for celebrity whoa.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, one of your employees. Amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that was that like right there on her dating profile?

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<v Speaker 4>No, that's just something that came out after. But she

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<v Speaker 4>won't tell me who these clients are and that's what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm always trying to get out of her.

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<v Speaker 1>Job at least. Yeah privacy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so have you guys been on one day? Two dates?

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<v Speaker 2>Were yet?

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<v Speaker 4>We just got out once?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>How did it go?

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<v Speaker 4>And went pretty well? I mean another thing that I

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<v Speaker 4>thought was pretty funny is one thing I did see

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<v Speaker 4>on her profile is there's like an ad that comes

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<v Speaker 4>up on people's profiles that says today's high flyer of

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<v Speaker 4>the week, like when they're getting a lot of action.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess they call it app that's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a good thing for you or a red

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<v Speaker 1>flag jury's I don't know, but I mean I was

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<v Speaker 1>calling her the high flyer as as a joke.

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<v Speaker 3>Though. Is that something that she puts on her profile

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<v Speaker 3>or is it something that the app does automatically? Sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm an idiot when it comes to apps.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think the app does that if you're really

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<v Speaker 4>popular on the app.

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<v Speaker 1>That's another interesting talking point though, to bring up on

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<v Speaker 1>the date, like how did it go?

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<v Speaker 4>I was good. At first. I couldn't tell if she

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<v Speaker 4>was gonna be a real person or not, but she

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<v Speaker 4>was exactly how she described herself, So she's real.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty is what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, well she's pretty cas what she showed up

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<v Speaker 4>in Gucci sweats a tupac couldie.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she doesn't have a sense of styles.

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<v Speaker 2>Do a magic. I think it's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 4>But I thought it was pretty cool and we did

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<v Speaker 4>have fun. She talked a lot about this charity where

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<v Speaker 4>she does so she's really big on giving back to

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<v Speaker 4>the community, and I was able to relate because I

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<v Speaker 4>was just involved with the charity with my ex girlfriend

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<v Speaker 4>and her friends.

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<v Speaker 2>So I hoped to say that, yeah, is that how

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<v Speaker 2>you brought it up?

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, I made that joke in the failed to

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<v Speaker 4>go to further detail about it with their books.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, okay, so we didn't even ask what were

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<v Speaker 3>you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you drinking?

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<v Speaker 1>Eating?

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<v Speaker 2>What was the date about?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we got a couple of drinks. We went to

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<v Speaker 4>a happy hour.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so it's chill. So that's why she could wear

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<v Speaker 3>the sweatshirt and the sweatpants.

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<v Speaker 1>I see you budgeting, that's a idea.

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<v Speaker 4>I think she wanted to meet me in the daylight.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel like you had a good connection with her? Though?

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<v Speaker 4>I did, but yeah, I could definitely tell why she

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<v Speaker 4>is the high flyer Because her phone keeps buzzing the

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<v Speaker 4>whole time we're together. I have a suspicion that she's

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<v Speaker 4>definitely talking to more guys than just me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably, I mean, Jose, if you were out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with someone who was a high flyer, is that

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<v Speaker 1>a red flag to you? No, I would just be happy.

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<v Speaker 2>That I'm on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>You're buying a ticket onto that.

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<v Speaker 3>Point, maybe she wants to take step off the fast.

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<v Speaker 2>Plane, move on to the slope plane with him, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Over overall, though, how do you think the first date

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<v Speaker 1>went good?

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<v Speaker 4>Bad? I think it went good, Okay. I was hoping

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<v Speaker 4>that we're gonna go on another date. But her responses

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<v Speaker 4>are a little spotty.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, and I don't know if you did

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<v Speaker 1>this or not, but did you ever point out, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>your phone is buzzing a lot, or you're getting a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of dudes trying to hit you up right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Come across as weirdly, I didn't think that would be

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<v Speaker 4>a good style on my fire. I played it cool.

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<v Speaker 4>I played it cool.

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<v Speaker 5>It was.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just slightly leading me up inside.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you seem to have answers. Let's find out what

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa has to say for herself. We're gonna call the

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<v Speaker 1>high flyer director.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe as well.

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<v Speaker 1>What's on her chart? Your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Date.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine being out with someone you're very interested in in

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<v Speaker 1>finding out that they do security detail for the rich

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<v Speaker 1>and famous. Cool, but they won't tell you who. Not

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<v Speaker 1>only that they're a verified high flyer on the dating

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<v Speaker 1>app where you met them.

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<v Speaker 2>Which means that they get a lot of action.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I don't know, someone just paid to feature them

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<v Speaker 1>or something like that. And they wear Gucci sweats with

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<v Speaker 1>Tupac hoodies to first dates like it's no big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean they're cool.

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<v Speaker 1>For me personally. This is a very interesting second date

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<v Speaker 1>call because, like jose said before, I really hope that

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<v Speaker 1>she actually answers us because we don't get to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to people like this very often.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he cannot be the one that also like prize

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<v Speaker 3>into who the celebrities are she works for?

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<v Speaker 1>Just ask why.

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<v Speaker 2>I know he already did on the date. She didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to answer her.

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<v Speaker 1>But if she's like standing next to Kim Kardashian right now,

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<v Speaker 1>is like I can't talk. I mean we do want

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of answers from her, but the main thing

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<v Speaker 1>we want to know is why she's not going out

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<v Speaker 1>with Anthony. That's true because this is a very unique

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<v Speaker 1>type of woman and Anthony. The best part is she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't made you pay for anything yet either, but you

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<v Speaker 1>are willing to. Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, oh yeah, wait you paid for the date though, right, Anthony?

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<v Speaker 2>You paid for happy Hour?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I paid for the date at the bar. But

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<v Speaker 4>it wasn't like with Mallory. I wasn't paying for her

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<v Speaker 4>parking and you know the.

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<v Speaker 2>Last girl that you were on the show with.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but you'll pay for he parking on the second

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<v Speaker 1>date at least. Let's let's call her and try and

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<v Speaker 1>figure out where that's going to be and if she'll

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you. Here we go. Hello, Hey is

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<v Speaker 1>this Lisa?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>It is Hey Lisa. What's up? You're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh hi, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Guess I can't project us if you haven't heard us before.

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<v Speaker 1>We're low key Bougie, the lowest key.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like he's wearing a free show shirt.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, what is it all about? I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're one of those weird shows that helps listeners

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<v Speaker 1>with their dating lives. When they go out with someone

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<v Speaker 1>and they're not getting a return callback, we reach out

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<v Speaker 1>and try and help figure out the reason why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, pretty pathetic on our part, but people get

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<v Speaker 1>paid to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks Jeff. I kind of like this segment.

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<v Speaker 1>But I like it too. My parents are really ashamed

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<v Speaker 1>of it. But that's not it's not about us. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to ask about you and your relationship with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Anthony.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, you guys went to a happy hour? Yeah

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<v Speaker 5>we did.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, pretty great guy, huh.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean yeah, he's a nice guy, good looking.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh what was your thoughts on the date?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it was really chill. We just had a

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<v Speaker 5>couple of drinks at happy hour and it was just

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<v Speaker 5>a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, nothing to write home about.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. I mean, was there any like big red flags

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<v Speaker 1>to you for why you're not going out with him again?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he said he's been trying to organize a second

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<v Speaker 1>meet up and it's not quite happening.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean no, there weren't any red flags when we

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<v Speaker 5>were sitting there talking. I mean, he was very interesting.

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<v Speaker 5>He was interested in me, asked me a lot of questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I offer something up that he told us? Because sure,

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<v Speaker 1>he said he was worried he may have offended you

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<v Speaker 1>by prying too much into your job because he found

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<v Speaker 1>out you helped organize security for big time celebrities.

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<v Speaker 5>My gosh, yeah, I just made that up to sound

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<v Speaker 5>Wait what.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, I was interested even us. We were prepared with

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<v Speaker 1>all these questions to try and get you to reveal

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<v Speaker 1>who you do security for.

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<v Speaker 3>Usually when somebody lies on a date, there's like shame

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<v Speaker 3>and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>You're laughing like a joke to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I couldn't tell him what my real job is.

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<v Speaker 1>What can you tell us your real job?

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<v Speaker 5>I guess at this point if I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 5>see him again, and sure, I'll tell you what my

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<v Speaker 5>real job is.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do?

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<v Speaker 5>So I am actually part owner of the dating site?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait way, wait a minute, you met Anthony?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, oh, some friends had the idea and we were

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<v Speaker 5>just talking about stuff and it's just an idea. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>they moved forward and they asked if I wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>be an early investor, and so let's do it, and

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<v Speaker 5>it just kind of blew up.

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<v Speaker 3>So it says when it says high flyer on your

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<v Speaker 3>dating app, that just means like CEO or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Modeling pretty much.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, we were looking for trying to like do

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<v Speaker 5>a feature like on the app, and I just said

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<v Speaker 5>I'll do it. I'm single, I don't care about the

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<v Speaker 5>attention whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, market research apparently it makes an impact.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>So Okay, So wait, why did you just tell him

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<v Speaker 3>that you were the app owner?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, to be honest, I go on a lot of dates,

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<v Speaker 5>and I mean eventually I would tell people what the

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<v Speaker 5>deal is, but also it would be a little creepy.

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<v Speaker 5>I would think in.

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<v Speaker 1>The beginning, we're trying to help him figure out what's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that you're not going out again. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>he's confused about. Okay, okay, is it so many men?

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<v Speaker 1>Just so many men you can't choose one.

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<v Speaker 5>No, that is not the reason. So as an ad men,

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<v Speaker 5>I can tell that he's been messaging other women, and

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<v Speaker 5>when we are on a date and talking, he told

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<v Speaker 5>me in conversation that it was just him and I talking.

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<v Speaker 2>That feels like invasion.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen when you check off on the agreement, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>it says any co founder or manager can monitor your

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<v Speaker 5>account in your activity, So well, am I right to

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<v Speaker 5>do that?

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy and it.

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<v Speaker 5>Just proves that men are pigs.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Anthony, what do you think about hearing all that?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Lisa, Yeah, yeah, I forgot to tell you, Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>it's down way way deep in our agreement when you

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<v Speaker 1>come on the phone listening, Okay, we've got you're chill.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a little shocked, but I totally understand like that

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<v Speaker 4>you can that why you had to put that in

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<v Speaker 4>your profile.

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<v Speaker 3>And feels like the last time you were on the show,

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<v Speaker 3>like you just agree with women no matter what they

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<v Speaker 3>do to you. Woman's been light, she like invaded your

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<v Speaker 3>privacy and you're just chill still.

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<v Speaker 4>So wait a second. You could actually go into my

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<v Speaker 4>app and see all the messages, like everything that I've

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<v Speaker 4>ever written on there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I can.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I know Anthony's thinking of like three things said.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope you keep a PG on overbody. I'll tell you know.

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<v Speaker 1>She cares.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't see pictures, right, Yes, I can, So you

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<v Speaker 4>can zoom in on them too. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>you'll have to zoom in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why do I doubt that?

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<v Speaker 1>I doubt that let's go down a bad path.

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<v Speaker 3>Does that mean that you weren't talking to anybody else either,

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<v Speaker 3>because I.

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<v Speaker 5>Mean, yeah, I'm talking to some people. Oh, I was

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<v Speaker 5>honest about that on the day he implied that I

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<v Speaker 5>was the only person he was talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you wouldn't have cared if you had said, but

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<v Speaker 1>see that.

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<v Speaker 2>Why why did you say that, Anthony?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you're the only person that I've met on the

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<v Speaker 4>app that I actually like and respect.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you don't respect.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't respect any other person you're talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>What good? I mean, I came out wrong, maybe, but

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<v Speaker 4>you're the only one I have really found interested in

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<v Speaker 4>and I haven't met anybody like you, whether it was

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<v Speaker 4>on the app or not.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I have your profile pulled up right now, and

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<v Speaker 5>it looks like that you're trying to set up something

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<v Speaker 5>with somebody named Clarissa.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, respect her, Lisa. You said a little bit jealous

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<v Speaker 1>of that, even I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Know about jealous. But look, I would have been totally

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<v Speaker 5>kind if he had said, yeah, I'm talking to other

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<v Speaker 5>people too. I get it. It's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm blocking I'm blocking Clarissa right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, it just sounds like you need to be truthful

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<v Speaker 3>about everything another app.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely, something is happening here for sure, and it feels good.

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<v Speaker 1>It does feel good. And I'd like to offer to

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<v Speaker 1>send you guys out on another date that we will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for once once again.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I just reiterate that I'm serious. You are the

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<v Speaker 4>only one I've taken serious that I've met on there,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm really hoping that you're going to say yes.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cute.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, that's very sweet, Anthony, I appreciate that. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>mean I'm a yes. I would say yes, start over,

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<v Speaker 5>fresh slate, start from the beginning. Now that everything's on

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<v Speaker 5>the table, we start over.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And we also have fourteen other guys who want

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<v Speaker 1>to know if you'll go out with them. What would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to say to them?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean, if I'm being honest, I am still

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<v Speaker 5>talking to the other guys fourteen on the other side

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<v Speaker 5>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>But how many of those guys do you respect?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, more research with the second day on our bill,

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Before you go, can you force matches because there's a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of girls that aren't responding to me that.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that's creepy.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a hard no, Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. The thing that I'm coming to terms with

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<v Speaker 1>what is we just have to get it through our

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<v Speaker 1>heads that people lie on dates. It can be small,

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<v Speaker 1>little white lies or big giant ones. But people do

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<v Speaker 1>it all the time, whether it's to make themselves look

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<v Speaker 1>better or for whatever reason, and we don't all.

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<v Speaker 2>Have the access to fact check them like she did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, and it's not so much if you lie,

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<v Speaker 1>it's what you lie about that's really important. She lied

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<v Speaker 1>about what her job was out of boredom from all

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<v Speaker 1>the dates that she goes on. He lied saying that

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<v Speaker 1>she was the only girl that he was talking to

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<v Speaker 1>on the dating app, and she found out that was untrue.

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<v Speaker 2>Why wouldn't he even offer it up? You know, like

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<v Speaker 2>just don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like one of those nice lies that you

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<v Speaker 1>tell someone that they're the only one that you like,

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<v Speaker 1>or it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>I never do this when you know that that person

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<v Speaker 3>always does it, you're really good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>I never feel like society has really progressed because they

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<v Speaker 1>were both totally okay with each other's lies.

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<v Speaker 2>In the end, well, we put each other out Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how lies work. Yes, make a right Yes, No

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<v Speaker 1>matter what, no lie. You can always email the show

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<v Speaker 1>for help. We're willing to call that person who isn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning