1 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: Good morning, peeps, and welcome to ook F Daily with 2 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: Me your Girl, daniel Moody recording pre recording from the 3 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 1: home bunker, Folks, I am taking a few days away, 4 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,319 Speaker 1: but you know that I'm never too far away, so 5 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: make sure that you are following me on social media 6 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: at D two sense Danielle Moody underscore on TikTok, Folks, 7 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: I am very excited to welcome to the show. Transgender 8 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: rights activist Dominique Morgan. Dominique is the first transgender woman 9 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: Black woman to have a street named after her in 10 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: the entire country in Omaha, where she grew up. And 11 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: in this conversation, we talk about you know what block 12 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: black trans women face in this country. We talk about 13 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: you know, her as a role model, and the work 14 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: that is still needed to be done for trans people 15 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: to be able to live free and safe in their bodies, 16 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 1: and the horrendous laws that are being introduced to limit 17 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: their humanity. And so this conversation was recorded prior to 18 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: the seismic shift that we've had in our politics with 19 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: a switch in candidates for the Democratic Party. But nonetheless, 20 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: the issues and the stakes still remain the same. So 21 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: coming up next, my conversation with transgender activists Dominique Morgan, Folks, 22 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: I am so very happy to welcome to WOKF Daily, 23 00:01:54,080 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: the director of Fund for Transgenerations, a activist, a warrior 24 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: for justice in so many different ways, and I think 25 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: still to this point, the first black trans woman to 26 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: have a street named after them in the entirety of 27 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: the United States. Dominique Morgan, talk to us about that honor. 28 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: I mean, in all of the streets in all of 29 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: the United States. In Almaha, Nebraska, there is a street 30 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: that is named after you in a historically black neighborhood. 31 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: Walk us through how we got there. 32 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 2: You know, the short answer is black women. And the 33 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 2: background of that is Miss Kathy Tyree, who has been 34 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 2: in community back home for years, activists and an actress 35 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 2: and a musician. And one day she was just like, 36 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 2: do you think they would do this? And you know, 37 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 2: she was like, I'm going to pick up the application, 38 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 2: I'm going to put it in. And there were multiple 39 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: black women who pushed this forward. The city council person. 40 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 2: It needed to be a unanimous vote or they would 41 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 2: have had to go door to door for people to 42 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 2: say they wanted to happen. So Miss Jackson, I be 43 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 2: Black Girl. It had to be sponsored by a nonprofit organization. 44 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 2: So it was these multiple moments where black women were 45 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 2: saying this was important. And as a street I grew 46 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: up on in North Omaha, and Simone Sanders is a 47 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 2: good friend of mine, I know, you know Samone. So 48 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 2: Simone had gotten her street renaming earlier that year back 49 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 2: in our hometown of Omaha, Nebraska, and it was just really, 50 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 2: I don't have the words for to understand how it feels, 51 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 2: because there are moments it just feels very surreal in 52 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 2: regards to just what it means. That's the same street 53 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 2: that I got arrested on when I was twelve years old, 54 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 2: the first time that I had an interaction with the 55 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: police system. And that day my juvenile judge, who is 56 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: a person who sentenced me to juve, now, she was 57 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 2: there at the street naming, and so that street for 58 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 2: many reasons, both of my parents have passed on. But 59 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 2: the house I grew up in is the house my 60 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 2: grandmother owned. It was a beautiful not a period to 61 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 2: the end of that sentence. But and I my brain 62 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 2: is I'm with these journalism folks. Whatever the symbol is 63 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 2: that tells you that there's more to the paragraph, but 64 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 2: it makes it clear. 65 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, ellipses the ellips yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. 66 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 2: It was. It was very much that for a life 67 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: that has already I've already been very privileged and blessed, 68 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 2: but it was a clear it was ellipses for anyone 69 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 2: who's been through the things that I've been through, that 70 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 2: there's more. 71 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: I love that and you know the fact that you 72 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: ended that with with there's more, right, Because what I 73 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: find is when we are talking about the lgbt Q 74 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: plus community, but when we're talking specifically about black queer people, 75 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: black trans folks, it is almost as if everything is 76 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: a period and not an ellipses, that there isn't more 77 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: behind the stats, behind the stereotypes, behind the trauma. So 78 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 1: can you talk about what it even means to say 79 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 1: that you've had so many points of privilege in a 80 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: community that we don't normally equate with having any privilege 81 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 1: at all, and what that means to you to be 82 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: able to say that in comparison and in conjunction with 83 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: other people's experience inside of the community. 84 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 2: It's so important for me to inventory one if I 85 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: focus on the pieces of my identity that are marginalized 86 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 2: and the way they're marginalized, and I don't look at 87 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 2: my access. It just internally doesn't allow me to acknowledge 88 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 2: my journey and what I've done and what I've accomplished 89 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 2: and what I really have. I think it doesn't allow 90 00:05:59,960 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: me to be thoughtful and weaponize what I have in 91 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 2: the best way. Right. And then on the other side, 92 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 2: I never have a fear around calling people into their 93 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 2: privilege and access because I'm doing the same work and 94 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 2: I know if I can do that work when I'm 95 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: looking at a white man and asking him to do 96 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 2: that work, when I am sitting in a room with 97 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 2: a white woman and they start crying. It's like, if 98 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 2: I can look at my journey from prison, ten years 99 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 2: in prison, eighteen months in solitary confinement, literally six months 100 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 2: being housed on death row, and I can talk about 101 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 2: where I am now, what that means. It means that 102 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 2: I don't want any sort of excuses from anyone else. 103 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 2: More importantly, it is important as a black trans woman 104 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 2: for me to figure out how I disenter myself in 105 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 2: opportunities that come to black trans women because so many 106 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 2: folks talk about divesting from scarcity. If your cup is full, 107 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 2: if you know your cup is full, even if you 108 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: want more poured into it, it just that's a rule. 109 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: And so if I am not thinking about what level 110 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 2: my cup is a naturally I'm gonna want more and 111 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 2: more and more. But if I'm thinking about it, I 112 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 2: can have all I need and I can be thoughtful 113 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 2: about making sure that my siblings have what they need, 114 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 2: and not by me sacrificing. Like being thoughtful means I 115 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: don't have to do the work from sacrifice. I can 116 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 2: do the work because I'm like, oh, you're good, and 117 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 2: we can make sure that other people are good. 118 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: At the same time, I love that by saying that 119 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: we don't have to do the work from sacrifice, because 120 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: there has in many ways. I feel that a lot 121 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: of people inside of movement, particularly the LGBTQ movement, though, 122 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: believe that in order for there to be any achievements 123 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: that there must be suffering attached to that. Can you 124 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: speak to that point about how one can embody activism 125 00:07:55,640 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: center justice. Let's just say whole justice, whole life justice, 126 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: this and it not come from a trauma lens that 127 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: I don't need to suffer in order to be able 128 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: to be in solidarity that there can be again more 129 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: than the period at the end of the sentence. Can 130 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: you speak to that. 131 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: I tell people often that a lot of the skills 132 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: and ways of knowing that I have that allow me 133 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 2: to navigate spaces and still kind of be grounded come 134 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 2: from my incarceration. And I say that because one it's 135 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 2: not I'm not saying that the walls and the institutions 136 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 2: gave me those moments. It's the people. It was me 137 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 2: having access to these people that people have said have 138 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 2: nothing to offer, that taught me some of the most 139 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 2: powerful moments. And I used to sit with this Arch Kirby. 140 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,319 Speaker 2: My prison number was five six eight ninety two and 141 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 2: that was issued to me in like two thousand and one. 142 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: Artist number was like two three zero zero zero something, 143 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 2: So that's how long he was incarcerated. He was doing life, 144 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 2: and he worked in the laundry room, and he did 145 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 2: the same things every day, and he should be like, Arch, 146 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 2: aren't you tired? And he used to be like, I 147 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 2: can choose to be tired, or I can choose to 148 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 2: figure out how to find joy in what's in front 149 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 2: of me. And I think in activism. We are given 150 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: these kind of cars that we're dealt. Right, it's like 151 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 2: planning spades. Sometimes you don't get a hand and you 152 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: might not have no spades at all. 153 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: Baby, we still got to get well. 154 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 2: And if you've really been in it, you can't even 155 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 2: if you're defeated, you can't act like you're defeating. Right, 156 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 2: How to make you think this to a diamonds is 157 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 2: aasu spade? Come on? And I think that culture, I 158 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: think that mentality. The riches already have the riches because 159 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: I get to do this with my people. If you've 160 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 2: ever been an activist for yourself alone, which is what 161 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 2: incarceration is for a lot of people, there's a loneliness 162 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 2: to it. When I learned that there was something called abolition, 163 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 2: when I became the executive director of SO I can 164 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 2: pink and realize ten fifty people will get into a 165 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 2: room and move, I'm like, that's dope. Just the people 166 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 2: coming together is the gift. And I think an outcome 167 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 2: of white supremacy is putting us in that mindset of scarcity, 168 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 2: and not just scarcity from access to things, but scarcity 169 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: in the belief that we didn't accomplish what we wanted 170 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 2: to accomplish, and a lot of that is because they 171 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 2: position us to try to set goals like end world hunger. 172 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 2: I ain't got that, baby. My grace quotient can't hold that. 173 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 2: I can feed the block, though, And if I focus 174 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 2: on attainable goals, I more times than not get to 175 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 2: sit in the abundance of accomplishing the thing. I think 176 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 2: when you look at philanthropy and we look at dollar investment, 177 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 2: and I said this today, so we were talking to 178 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 2: some philanthropists. We will fund somebody for one year to 179 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 2: address the issue that's been happening for thirty years with 180 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: a staff that couldn't even handle the issue on that block. 181 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: And so how are we distributing dollars? How are we 182 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 2: being in community as philanthropists in a way that support 183 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 2: people in success and saying, you know what, job well 184 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 2: done funding them multiple years for that anxiety, so that stress, 185 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 2: The idea that someone can innovate while being stressed about 186 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 2: where the next dollar is coming from is ridiculous. And 187 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 2: last when not least, what we can name that they're 188 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 2: the experts and mean it. Those are the things that 189 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 2: as an executive director and even in this role, that 190 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 2: I've been in for about two years that have given 191 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 2: me abundance even in the time of scarcity. I know 192 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 2: what I'm talking about. I do the work well, and 193 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 2: I have a proven track record holding on to those 194 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 2: things even when I'm in a time where my god, 195 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 2: where's this funding gonna come for next year? Right? I 196 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 2: raise every dollar I give out. It lets me know 197 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 2: the room I have to grow, But it never makes 198 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:04,359 Speaker 2: me feel like the room is empty. If that makes. 199 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 1: What are the ways in which you think that philanthropy 200 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: needs to be disrupted in order to really serve and 201 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: be of service? Because you know, I sit on the 202 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 1: board of the Misfoundation for Women which I have been 203 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: a part of for several years now. 204 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 2: Shout out to. 205 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: Shout yes, yes, And I will say that Teresa's mindset 206 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: has been about disrupting this idea of, you know, a 207 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,839 Speaker 1: philanthropy which is pretty much built on white people feeling 208 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 1: very good about what has been stolen and giving back 209 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: what has been stolen from community, right like with the 210 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: name of grant in increments and in the name of grants. 211 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: But then we get to control how you're going to 212 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 1: use the money that was stolen, right, And so I 213 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: feel like in many ways philanthropy has experience and has 214 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: experienced a disruption. But in a moment when we are 215 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: seeing that these two political parties, one wants to eviscerate 216 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: any social safety, that wants to eviscerate all things that 217 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: government should provide to its citizens, philanthropy will have a 218 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: bigger role. Do you think one that this kind of 219 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: legacy space can be disruptive and are they prepared do 220 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: you think for the role that is going to be needed. 221 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: It's so funny you say this. We were talking about 222 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 2: this at lunch a little bit one of our colleagues 223 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 2: where we were talking about the pandemic and we were 224 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 2: looking at my workbook and it's called Discovering Your Power, 225 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 2: and they were like, you know, they tapped into their power. 226 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't think they tapped into 227 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 2: their power. I think I think of the Titanic, the 228 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 2: things that no one could have access to that live 229 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: below board, No one cared about it because the ship 230 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 2: was sinking. And I feel like philanthropy moved that way 231 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 2: in the pandemic. We didn't know if we were going 232 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,199 Speaker 2: to what was going to happen, so people were, oh 233 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 2: my god, I get to be radical, I get to 234 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 2: be excited. I think there was a rush to it. 235 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 2: I think it was a way for them to feel 236 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 2: valid and to be a part of things. People enjoy 237 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: oppression who have never had to be oppressed more than 238 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 2: people talk about. It is a kink. It is a kink, 239 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 2: and I'm not here yucking anybody's young, come on, but 240 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 2: it is a kink. And so I say that to 241 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 2: say we've done it because in the pandemic we did 242 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 2: disrupt it. The reporting processes changed. You would just get 243 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 2: a phone call, we got one hundred thousand, we got 244 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 2: a extra this, all those things happened. And I said, 245 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 2: I don't want a lot of people to have to 246 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 2: be dying for us to figure out how to show up. 247 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 2: And I think what we can be thoughtful of going 248 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: forward is one, let's be reflective about the pandemic, not 249 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 2: in a let's create a strategy to where we don't 250 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 2: get back there. But let's not throw away everything. And 251 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 2: that's the same mentality I talk about my incarceration a lot, 252 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 2: because that was almost ten years of my life. If 253 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 2: I threw away everything that happened there, I would be 254 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 2: throwing away some of the pieces that allow me to 255 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 2: go into a room and ask four million dollars with 256 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 2: my chestyle. Right, it's the same thing that made me 257 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 2: go Boston when I didn't really have it in my 258 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 2: hand and still get it. You understand me, And so 259 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: we can disrupt it because we've done it. People have 260 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 2: to be excited to not be essential anymore in philanthropy, 261 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 2: and that is as someone who joined the ranks of philanthropy. 262 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 2: I would be lying if I said a piece of 263 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 2: the privilege of the cachet wasn't a part of Like, 264 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm tired. I want to be in 265 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 2: this space and have some of that. But when I 266 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 2: got over here, I realized the more of that I had, 267 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 2: it meant the further our way I was from my people. 268 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 2: So to think of how gagged I am to be 269 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 2: in philanthropy and be as tired as I was when 270 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,479 Speaker 2: I was running bell support programs every day is interesting. 271 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 2: But we know how to do it. And so Danielle, 272 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 2: what I'm saying is we can. We have to lock in. 273 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 2: And the last thing is get rid of the language 274 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 2: that tricks people into thinking that we're doing something we're not. 275 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 2: Stop saying trust base we don't trust people. Stop saying right, right, 276 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 2: that's right now, But it's true. Right. A lot of 277 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 2: the disappointment of community is predicated on we've given them 278 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 2: a false sense of how we move, and then we 279 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 2: don't move in that way, and then they're hurt, and 280 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 2: then we don't want to be held accountable. And that's 281 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 2: the last thing. Unless philanthropy has a system for us 282 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 2: to be held accountable, power will never it will never 283 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 2: be any sort of flat power, power dynamic. As long 284 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 2: as we're in touchable. As long as we can do 285 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 2: what we want to do and not have to answer 286 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 2: to anyone, things will stay the same. And I don't 287 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 2: want to live a life where I can mess up 288 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 2: and someone can't tell me I messed up. 289 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Another question for you. You know, as time marches 290 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 1: on to this upcoming election, there are a lot of 291 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 1: people that I talk to who are losing faith, right, 292 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: They're losing faith in possibility, faith in the possibility that 293 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: we can because we have made things better. What has 294 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 1: your time both being incarcerated and outside of the system, 295 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 1: How has it grown your faith, challenged your faith? And 296 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 1: what kind of advice can you provide to others who 297 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 1: haven't even experienced those types of lows or moments, but 298 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 1: they find themselves in a place of struggle. 299 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,360 Speaker 2: It is heartbreaking and will often move me to tears 300 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 2: to know that people have tricked us as black folks 301 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 2: into not realizing that we are literally superhuman in regards 302 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 2: to We are brilliant. We love each other in ways 303 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:50,359 Speaker 2: that people wish they could right these love stories that 304 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 2: we see are taken from We have so much in us, 305 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 2: and then we'll have these moments when it's like, oh, 306 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 2: I don't know how we will get to the other side. 307 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 2: And in my lived experience, in my faith, in my existence. 308 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 2: I'm a forty two year old black trans woman with 309 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 2: I'm still a year from being able to get a 310 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 2: part in almost fifteen years post release, with eight felonies 311 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 2: on her record, that lives in Atlanta in the Perimeter 312 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 2: in a three bedroom house with two baths, has two 313 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 2: paid cars cars. There are savings. I can call my 314 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 2: aunt and she will use the pronouns that are affirming 315 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 2: to me. I can call my cousin who live in 316 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 2: the hood, and he's gonna ask me about I saw 317 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 2: Laverne Cox on TV today. My nephews and nieces call 318 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 2: me and they know that I'm still here and they 319 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 2: want me to come to their events. That I walk 320 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 2: in rooms with black people and they embrace me. I'm 321 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 2: taking my black ass to the White House tomorrow, and 322 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 2: it's not about who's in the White House. It's about 323 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:54,400 Speaker 2: the journey from there. I walk down a street named 324 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 2: after me, and so in my story, like that's those 325 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 2: are nuggets, right. You look at a miss Major. If 326 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 2: you lean into the brilliance and the pageantry of blackness 327 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 2: in a real way, it is everywhere. It's in the 328 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 2: bus driver, it's in the person who brings your mail, 329 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 2: it's in your child. I think a lot of the 330 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 2: struggle that I see black folks have is that they 331 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 2: really don't love their blackness as much as they say 332 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:26,120 Speaker 2: they do. Because the love that I've had to work 333 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 2: for in my blackness amplified whatever my trans experience brought 334 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:34,719 Speaker 2: to me. Being trans is cute, being trans in black. 335 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 2: The girls can't quantify it, right, And I know this 336 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:41,159 Speaker 2: seems like someone who's listening, like, oh my god, this 337 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: seems us out there. This is really what my rooting 338 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 2: is about. Every day I look at my people and 339 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,680 Speaker 2: I'm just like well, there's no way we're not gonna 340 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 2: be okay. And if I'm really honest, those systems have 341 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 2: never saved us or benefited us. Have they been less 342 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:01,199 Speaker 2: harmful at times? But I I was really thinking about 343 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 2: who was gonna help me pay my bills. I would 344 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 2: not be looking for a stimulus. I would be like, hey, Angelica, 345 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 2: since let me get alone. And it seems common sense. 346 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 2: But the common sense is telling us that we will 347 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 2: always be our own liberators. And due to that mindset, 348 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 2: I won't let them capture me with fear going into 349 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 2: this fall. That's not me saying I'm divesting. It's not 350 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 2: me saying that I'm not aware. It's saying that if 351 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 2: we're if we're focused on fear, we don't get to 352 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 2: be strategic. And focusing on my blackness always ensures that 353 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 2: I get to be strategic. 354 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I will go to whatever 355 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 1: church you preach out. I will go. I will I 356 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 1: will walk down whatever path because I am a said 357 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: person that loses faith on a regular basis. I am 358 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 1: said person who is just like, this whole place is 359 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 1: fucked up, you know, But you reminding us that you 360 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: know what these systems that are indeed fucked up. Were 361 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: never created for our safety, for our resilience, for our audaciousness. 362 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: Everything about these systems were created to keep us small, 363 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 1: and to keep our dreams dark, and to keep our 364 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: spirits low. And so I just you know, I want 365 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: to thank you. I want to thank you for the 366 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 1: work that you do, for the life that you continue 367 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: to live and share with so many people, and just 368 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: for the spirit and the passion that you bring to 369 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,959 Speaker 1: everything that you do, because it is just such, it 370 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: is such a gorgeous reminder of the magic that we have. 371 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 1: And I just I greatly appreciate you making the time 372 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 1: for us today. 373 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 2: Thank you. And I want to say I met you 374 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 2: the first time. It was twenty nineteen. It was right 375 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 2: before I was starting my transition. No one knew this, 376 00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 2: and it was a dinner for the tenth in d C. 377 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 2: Oh my god. And so I have loved you since. 378 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 2: And I watch a show and I follow you and 379 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 2: when they they said, oh this was a thing. I'm 380 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,639 Speaker 2: big on full circle moment. I'm a piscey. Yeah, And 381 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 2: I was just like, oh, this is this is beautiful 382 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 2: because I just I love the conversations you bring. But 383 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 2: I remember being in that very quiet space of knowing 384 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 2: something bigger was coming from me, but not knowing how 385 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 2: to tell the world. And that was the last you know, 386 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 2: a small house in DC, having a dinner. That was 387 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 2: the last time we saw each other. So I'm excited 388 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 2: to see you tomorrow. Oh my God, for this opportunity. 389 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 1: Oh I love thank you so much for that, for 390 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: that reminder that dinner was so special. Yeah, was was 391 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: so special. Oh beautiful, wonderful. Well, tell people how they 392 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: can be involved, how they can continue to show up 393 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: in the ways in what you do. 394 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 2: Yes, one piece, we're launching this huge cultural capital project 395 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 2: with TS Madison where she's given us her mansion and 396 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 2: we're bringing in ten black trans women who lead organizations 397 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 2: across the country to build this housing project in Atlanta, 398 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 2: the TS Madison Starter House. So please go to Instagram, 399 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:24,919 Speaker 2: to Madison's instagram, to mind to name them in aesm 400 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 2: inc in Atlanta and you can get information there. Please 401 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 2: follow us at Borealis And most importantly, I know y'all 402 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 2: are thinking will Dominique, where do I get some coins? 403 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,880 Speaker 2: The Fund for Transgenerations. Our open way that we move 404 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 2: dollars is through our rapid response, We move dollars monthly. 405 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 2: If you go to Borealis Philanthropy dot org and you 406 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 2: look for the Fund for Transgenerations page, it will tell 407 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 2: you how to apply the other. Great thing for you 408 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 2: leaders who are like, we're talking about blackness, what about 409 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 2: black folks who are not trans We have eight other 410 00:23:55,880 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 2: sibling funds, the Black Movement Fund, Communities Transforming Police saying 411 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 2: there are dollars there. We move sixty six million dollars 412 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 2: a year. Every director at Borealis is currently a black 413 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 2: woman that is raising that money, that is moving that money, 414 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 2: and so I'll be dogging if it don't go to 415 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 2: black people. So please lock in with us and let's 416 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 2: focus on how we can get each other free and 417 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 2: stop waiting for permission from our presses. 418 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 1: Amen to that, Thank you, thank you, appreciate you so 419 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:30,160 Speaker 1: very much. That is it for me today, Dear friends 420 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 1: on wokef as always power to the people and to 421 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 1: all the people. Power, Get woke and stay woke as fuck.