WEBVTT - Men Dancing

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<v Speaker 1>When I say men dancing, what's the first thing you

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<v Speaker 1>think about? What's the first thing that comes to your mind? Reluctance. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's a societal expectation that you stay composed, um,

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<v Speaker 1>or that you should be embarrassed in many situations. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know it bums me out, but it does. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Julie Douglas and this is the Stuff of

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<v Speaker 1>Life today. I'm joined by correspondent and How Stuff Works editor,

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<v Speaker 1>Eve's Jeff Cote, and we're talking about men dancing. And

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<v Speaker 1>for the record, Julie, you're a woman and I'm a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>Yet we're talking about men dancing. Why do we even

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<v Speaker 1>decide to tackle this topic? I believe it all started

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<v Speaker 1>with our male coworkers who we observed mostly head bobbing

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<v Speaker 1>instead of dancing to music at our company holiday party. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and that sent us down a rubbit, all of thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>on what it means for gods to move their bodies

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<v Speaker 1>to a beat. In this episode, Eves explores what it

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<v Speaker 1>means to be a man taking on dance and talks

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<v Speaker 1>with Emory University professor George Stabe. It was just great

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<v Speaker 1>to do things to music, and it can feel really

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<v Speaker 1>authentic and natural to do that. And if we can

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<v Speaker 1>connect to something like oh, I can relate to this

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<v Speaker 1>in one we or another, that's when magic happens. And

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<v Speaker 1>Duke Universities Professor Thomas de France discusses race, identity and dance.

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<v Speaker 1>Black lives are expressed through culture and especially through music

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<v Speaker 1>and dance. We love music and dance, we need it,

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<v Speaker 1>we engage it. And finally, Eaves talks to a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of regular Jo's are co workers Christopher Hessiadas, Dylan Fagan,

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<v Speaker 1>and Jonathan Strickland to find out why they do or

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<v Speaker 1>don't dance. But there's something subversive about about a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of men dancing, right. I mean, as we've we've mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times men dancing. The reason why they

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<v Speaker 1>we're even here talking about this is because the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of men dancing together in American mainstream culture is noteworthy.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you've seen awkward dads and viral videos trying sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>too hard to do the latest dance craze, or fraternity

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<v Speaker 1>members strolling in unison, or your brothers and uncles and

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<v Speaker 1>cousins dancing at family reunions and wedding receptions. But despite

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<v Speaker 1>how common dancing is and how long humans have been

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. Dancing is emotionally complex. It's the departure from normalcy,

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<v Speaker 1>the rope movements that get us from A to B,

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<v Speaker 1>and for men it can be super problematic. Only two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, ABC reportedly nixed idea of two men dancing

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<v Speaker 1>together on Dancing with the Stars, and it may entertainment

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<v Speaker 1>news when two guys share at the floor for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time on the reality show early last year. Now

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<v Speaker 1>DeMarco and Kio Mazepe dancing together starts here and ends there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's twelve seconds of two guys dancing together if you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't counting. So people are uncomfortable with men dancing, especially

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<v Speaker 1>with each other. Who cares? You might say, haven't we

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<v Speaker 1>given enough space to men's grievances? They and all their

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<v Speaker 1>problems have dominated history after all. But this men dancing

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<v Speaker 1>is a matter of acceptance, of freedom, of expression, of equity,

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<v Speaker 1>of living our personal truths, ideals we could all get behind.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you think about it, the actions and characteristics

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<v Speaker 1>that make up gender can be considered their own performances.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's it like to be a dancing man in

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<v Speaker 1>a world that cares so much about upholding the mantle

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<v Speaker 1>of masculinity. What's it like to swivel your hips and

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<v Speaker 1>buck the authority of social norms and a culture that

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<v Speaker 1>often rejects vulnerability and encourages conformity. A scene as basic

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<v Speaker 1>as a man dancing can become a psychological labyrinth, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to enter it here. This is four ish

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<v Speaker 1>when Janet Jackson's Pleasure Principle came out. It was my

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<v Speaker 1>after school project every day to memorize that whole video,

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<v Speaker 1>and my sister and I, if we could drink, we

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<v Speaker 1>would have chugged champagne after we figured out this one

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<v Speaker 1>scene where she was in front of a mirror doing

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<v Speaker 1>all this intricate hand stuff that storage State the artistic

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<v Speaker 1>director for State Dance and a senior lecturer in the

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<v Speaker 1>dance program at Emory University in Atlanta. This is which

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<v Speaker 1>is wait. George was born in Tehran, Iran. At age nine,

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<v Speaker 1>I was with my mother picking up our cousin from

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<v Speaker 1>the ballet class, and I remember watching it and thinking, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that looks fun. I want to do it. And I

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<v Speaker 1>asked my mother can I do that? And she said no,

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<v Speaker 1>boys don't do this. Years later, after getting a degree

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<v Speaker 1>in political science in a stint at Georgetown's Law school

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<v Speaker 1>doing legal research, impressive career choices that would appease his parents.

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<v Speaker 1>He says it was an impromptu duet at a freshman

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<v Speaker 1>frat party that inspired him to take modern and ballet classes,

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<v Speaker 1>and upon graduation from college, I remember distinctly telling my parents,

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<v Speaker 1>I did this for you. Now grad school and dance

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be for me. That didn't come without doubts,

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<v Speaker 1>feeling embarrassed as a new dance professor in a room

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<v Speaker 1>full of scientists, his mom telling family members he was

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<v Speaker 1>a French professor. He went from being a stranger and

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<v Speaker 1>one strange and to another. But that was okay because

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<v Speaker 1>he felt liberated in those moments when I'm just lost.

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<v Speaker 1>It could actually feel like, I guess, a drug trip

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<v Speaker 1>where you're completely not aware of stuff, or you are

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<v Speaker 1>aware that I've completely abandoned and let go and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to pull myself back at all, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of crazy. Imagine a tantrum, like when you have

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<v Speaker 1>that tantrum and the breakdown or laughing fit or a

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<v Speaker 1>crying fit um where no one's around to see it

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<v Speaker 1>in the most pristine, sublime way, that's kind of how

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<v Speaker 1>I feel or like to go to. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily I want you to see my passion. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to feel it myself, and if other people notice it,

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<v Speaker 1>that's great to him. Dance class was a place with

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<v Speaker 1>many doorways, a place to explore, make mistakes, and try

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<v Speaker 1>new things. But the line between introspection and perform a

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, you're taking all that emotion and putting it

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<v Speaker 1>on the world stage in front of judgmental eyes. And

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<v Speaker 1>even though it doesn't happen all the time or in

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<v Speaker 1>every culture, George says that sometimes negativity can start to

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<v Speaker 1>creep into spaces that aren't as accepting. There's only one

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<v Speaker 1>clans left, but it happens to be the coolest one

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<v Speaker 1>of all. That way dancing is for girls, well you

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<v Speaker 1>should have gotten near earlier. Okay, steady board taking ballet

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't make you any less of a man. That constant

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<v Speaker 1>reminder that um like, oh you would be thought of

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<v Speaker 1>as a sissy, or this is not a real career,

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<v Speaker 1>or you must be gay, or all of these things

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<v Speaker 1>do creep in and when you're gonna get your real job.

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<v Speaker 1>Because the body, as it twists, spins twirls in jar

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<v Speaker 1>rates is the focus. Dance can often reinforce or negate

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<v Speaker 1>perceptions about gender in sexuality. For men dancing at a party,

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<v Speaker 1>whether they are married or single, it's amazing ritual in

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<v Speaker 1>a way. And even in Greek culture, Persian culture, Armenian culture,

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<v Speaker 1>there often be the men who danced together and then

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<v Speaker 1>the women dance together, and then if they do I

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<v Speaker 1>mean by gender, and if they do connect with different genders,

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<v Speaker 1>it's in a sort of benign circle. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost like a peacock streading, you know. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think you might even find that in country western lined.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that happens there. I'm not very familiar with that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I almost think there's like, hey, watch me do

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<v Speaker 1>this fancy foot thing and TOAs my cowboy had around.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope I'm not offending anyone, but I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that stuff. But I think it that's what it

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<v Speaker 1>isn't if you go to clubs, it is that either

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<v Speaker 1>the men or in the background just kind of watching

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<v Speaker 1>and praying on the women there, or they're going to

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<v Speaker 1>go out there and kind of show off a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>And in that respect, it's okay. I think the moment

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<v Speaker 1>you put it on stage and put a weird costume

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<v Speaker 1>on and try to express yourself in a different way

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<v Speaker 1>other than sexually. Then it's a bit naughty, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>or not naughty but taboo. Sure, dancing is often visceral,

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<v Speaker 1>igniting hormones and firing up our most basic desires. But

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<v Speaker 1>it isn't just a physical act. It's a process of

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<v Speaker 1>learning and discovery. The body becomes a means of discourse.

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<v Speaker 1>Movements become questions, gestures become demands, and interactions become statements.

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<v Speaker 1>It peels back the layers of assumptions and perspectives that

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<v Speaker 1>we hold. You know everybody, and I don't. I see

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes like just because if you let yourself connect to

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<v Speaker 1>something abstract, you might find out more about yourself as

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<v Speaker 1>opposed to being fed a story, kind of like those

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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood blockbusters. You might want to go to see one

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't want to to think so much. But

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<v Speaker 1>when we're invited to think and explore uncomfortable territory, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what dance can do. And if you're patient enough and

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<v Speaker 1>let yourself be in the room for the hour or

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<v Speaker 1>so that you're watching the thing, that's when it speaks

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<v Speaker 1>and not to mention bringing community together, to move together,

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<v Speaker 1>to share stories through their bodies. It's so valuable. George

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<v Speaker 1>is a pro. He's trained in the art of dancing,

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<v Speaker 1>performs in front of crowds and as a dancer with

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<v Speaker 1>the capital D. But sometimes the spotlight is on guys

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<v Speaker 1>who aren't so well skillful. Could you describe your typical

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<v Speaker 1>dance style? Uh, I do the t rex. That's Donathan Strickland,

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<v Speaker 1>the host of Ford Thinking. That's where you get a

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<v Speaker 1>little the foe arms up and like you got your

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<v Speaker 1>your hands kind of curled into fists and you're just

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<v Speaker 1>sort of bouncing up and down a little bit to

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<v Speaker 1>the beat. You're not really doing anything in particular because again,

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<v Speaker 1>as I said, awkward, And here's an awkward dance story

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<v Speaker 1>recounting about Dylan, producer at how Stuff Works. When I

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<v Speaker 1>was in college, I had a radio show with um

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<v Speaker 1>my friend, and we had a green screen and decided

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to make some promotional videos for our radio

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<v Speaker 1>show and put it on Facebook. And I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do, so we thought, well, how we dance,

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<v Speaker 1>And so we'd danced for like three minutes at a time,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'd find a song that fitted we we

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<v Speaker 1>would not have a song beforehand. Um, So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there was one video that was Technotronics Pump Up the Jam,

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<v Speaker 1>and that just like lined up perfectly, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>put that there and I realized halfway through it I

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<v Speaker 1>was really feeling it, and I did what I called

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<v Speaker 1>the spitting dinosaur, which is like this, like it's more

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<v Speaker 1>fluid than that, but Dylan's putting his hands behind his

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<v Speaker 1>ears and waving them around. It was from growing up

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<v Speaker 1>watching Jurassic Parks. The Jurassic period is great with the

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<v Speaker 1>frill dinosaur. The frill dinosaur that's that spits poison. Yeah, that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, hey, look look guys, it's the spit

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone's like that. I like that movie if it

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<v Speaker 1>works for you going in. Yeah, I remembered from my

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<v Speaker 1>high school days, from my college days, where dancing, engaging

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<v Speaker 1>in that activity was unless you were amazing, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just considered something that was lame or stupid, or or

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<v Speaker 1>you felt lame or stupid for wanting to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's something subversive about about a bunch of men dancing, right.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Christopher editor at How Stuff Works. As we've we've

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned a couple of times men dancing. The reason why

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<v Speaker 1>they we're even here talking about this is because the

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<v Speaker 1>idea of men dancing together in American mainstream culture is noteworthy,

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<v Speaker 1>is not necessarily the standard mode of operating. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you're already in a culture where you feel kind of

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<v Speaker 1>set aside, whether it's nerd culture, gay culture, nerdy gay culture, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>the act of dancing is you're embracing the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you're sort of accepting your status as an outsider and saying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, let's celebrate this. Let's let's yeah, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be outsiders that uncomfortable territory. Those moments of surprise are

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<v Speaker 1>a border something Thomas Defrance called slippage. It's the place

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<v Speaker 1>where things don't quite work. It's the if we think

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<v Speaker 1>of it as a physical space, it's the spot on

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<v Speaker 1>the ground where a literal slip happens. And it's also

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<v Speaker 1>the remains of that slipping. When you slip, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>slippage that's left behind. So I love this word because

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a noun, but it's all so an

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<v Speaker 1>adjective and and something of an adverb. It has all

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<v Speaker 1>of these different balances, and it implies this this kind

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<v Speaker 1>of place where things don't quite add up, something doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>quite shive the way you think it's going to. He's

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<v Speaker 1>a professor of African and African American Studies and Dance

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<v Speaker 1>at Duke University. Queerness and dance, to de France, is

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<v Speaker 1>that slippery, unpredictable, and sometimes unsettling place between what we

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<v Speaker 1>assume about gender and dance and how certain dances buck

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<v Speaker 1>those notions. You know, your little niece who you've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen really move, suddenly bust bust the dance out at

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<v Speaker 1>the birthday party with all this fierce power and energy,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe she slides to the floor in a vogue

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<v Speaker 1>astraw like. There's something queer about that moment because it

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<v Speaker 1>surprises us. And that's what I mean by queer when

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<v Speaker 1>I use it in terms of queer gesture. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>physical movement that suggests something really unexpected, so emboyant probably

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<v Speaker 1>and also unusual and non noormative. We need queer gestures

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<v Speaker 1>in our lives because they remind us that there's there's

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<v Speaker 1>more to learn, there's more to do, there's explorations to

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<v Speaker 1>have among each other and with ourselves, that we're not

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<v Speaker 1>stuck in our jobs and stuck in our kind of

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<v Speaker 1>every day now is that we have the capacity to

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<v Speaker 1>express and explore corporeal rature your body telling a story,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what that phrase means, telling a story with

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<v Speaker 1>your body without words, but through gesture and doing it

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<v Speaker 1>in a queer way, in a way that surprises the

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<v Speaker 1>people who are receiving a story or witnessing your dance.

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<v Speaker 1>Queer corporeal gesture is a way to narrate our possibility.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a way to perform how we can surprise ourselves

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<v Speaker 1>and keep learning things. Think of it as a sort

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<v Speaker 1>of resistance or subversion of norms, but it's more than

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<v Speaker 1>just a statement. It's surviving through expression. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>concept is really important when we're thinking in any way

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<v Speaker 1>about African American expressive, expressive arts and black lives in

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<v Speaker 1>the United States. There's a way that how our lives

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<v Speaker 1>are organized and circumscribed. Things almost work, but they don't quite.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is why I think we have this amazing

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<v Speaker 1>social justice movement right now, because we're still trying to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with the legacies of the path that have created

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<v Speaker 1>this um circumstance where it's very hard for Black Americans

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of find ourselves and find our way forward,

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<v Speaker 1>and especially for our youngest, our youngest family members, um

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<v Speaker 1>are always having a hard time figuring out how to

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<v Speaker 1>be a black person. In the concept of the US

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<v Speaker 1>for Black men in America, he says, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>dance is simply about navigating how to exist, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>science to back that up. Some research says that because

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<v Speaker 1>there's evidence of humans dancing in cave paintings from thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>thousand years ago, it has a genetic basis that dance

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<v Speaker 1>likely popped up around the tom Homo sapience did and

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<v Speaker 1>is linked to good social communication, a hand equality to

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<v Speaker 1>have when your survival depends on bonding, and community support.

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<v Speaker 1>Black Americans have also always had to monitor our physicality.

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<v Speaker 1>We turned that into dance, and we've always turned that

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<v Speaker 1>into dance. In the nineties twenties we called it eccentric dance,

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<v Speaker 1>and now in the twenty tens, there's a form of

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<v Speaker 1>movement called bone breaking, and this is a physicalization of

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of shifting body, a body that can do

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<v Speaker 1>unusual things. So we're turning that need to corral or

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<v Speaker 1>physicality in order to survive in a relatively hostile environment

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<v Speaker 1>and hostile daily environment, and we turn that into expression

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<v Speaker 1>and turn it into dance. And that's what we see

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<v Speaker 1>in bone breaking. We see this this kind of physicalization

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<v Speaker 1>of how to be shifty and odd with the body

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<v Speaker 1>to suggest something really unusual and and expressive a creator. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not talking about actual bone breaking. It's a social dance,

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<v Speaker 1>which is one that involves group participation that has roots

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<v Speaker 1>in bed mooin and dance battles. Dancers can tot their

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<v Speaker 1>limbs into apparently impossible and painful poses, dislocating their shoulders

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<v Speaker 1>and realigning their arms, pushing the limits of their bodies

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<v Speaker 1>and creativity. In this case, pain depicted is pain internalized,

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<v Speaker 1>and that coping through movement isn't just limited to dance

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<v Speaker 1>floors or social dance. It can extend into other realms

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<v Speaker 1>of expression, like protesters who raise their hands in an

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<v Speaker 1>outcry against Michael Brown's shooting, or celebratory end zone dances

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<v Speaker 1>on the football field. We have a penalty marker on

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<v Speaker 1>the field. Here's John Perry's fun Sports from like conduct

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<v Speaker 1>of the excessive celebration of her twenty two. That penalty

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<v Speaker 1>will be forced there Go Defrance calls this the policing

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<v Speaker 1>of black culture. Or imagine the opposing postures of President

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<v Speaker 1>Donald Trump and former President Barack Obama when they met

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<v Speaker 1>in the Oval Office. Legs spread, lips taught back stiff,

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<v Speaker 1>our brows furrowed. Our bodies often betray our thoughts even

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<v Speaker 1>when we don't say, let alone understand them. But dance

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<v Speaker 1>isn't passive. It's a deliberate channeling of emotion that takes

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<v Speaker 1>courage and audacity, a willingness to be outside of the

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<v Speaker 1>everyday experience. As Defrance puts it, an impulse to dance

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<v Speaker 1>is a desire to speak with the primal, essential language,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not easy to be bare stripped to our

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<v Speaker 1>essence when our identities are exposed. The great things about

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<v Speaker 1>Black social dance is that it always challenges the space

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<v Speaker 1>for jender nor maturity. It always does so even if

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<v Speaker 1>we have Chicago steppanding, which is built upon two roles

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<v Speaker 1>leader and a follower, Well, in Black social dance, that

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<v Speaker 1>follower role done an awful lot of leading to. So

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<v Speaker 1>we can call these roles masculine and feminine, or the

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<v Speaker 1>male role or female role, but in practice that's not

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<v Speaker 1>really how they play out. There's always going to be

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<v Speaker 1>places where um, the female role or the feminine spaces

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<v Speaker 1>leading the interaction, and there's going to be places where

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<v Speaker 1>the woman, if you will, is shining and she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to do something really extraordinary and amazing. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>one of the reasons we love social dance so much.

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<v Speaker 1>It gets it gives us a chance to explore alternative

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<v Speaker 1>ways of being, to explore, for you know, really powerful

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<v Speaker 1>men to explore our feminine sort of abilities, and for

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<v Speaker 1>women to explore their power if those are hard of

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<v Speaker 1>what masculine and feminine um contained. So Black social dances

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<v Speaker 1>are always kind of getting into that space where it's

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<v Speaker 1>not one or the other, but it's a both and

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<v Speaker 1>course defined tradition doesn't come without backlash. Take Elvis, a

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<v Speaker 1>performer who was controversial for different reasons in different circles.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea that this performance of round was

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<v Speaker 1>going to call it such a round. I still can't

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what round. To his fans, he was a rebellious,

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<v Speaker 1>pioneering sex symbol. To his detractors, his dancing was inappropriate

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<v Speaker 1>or even animalistic, and too many black people, Elvis the

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<v Speaker 1>pelvis was yet another symbol of appropriation, acclaimed for moves

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<v Speaker 1>he seemingly lifted from black artists like Jackie Wilson. The

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<v Speaker 1>problem wasn't the invitation, per se. The problem was Elvis

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<v Speaker 1>getting cultural credit for elevating a sexualized performance style that

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<v Speaker 1>black artists had already been doing. And we're shamed or

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<v Speaker 1>simply I'm recognized. For historian Eric Lott says in the

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<v Speaker 1>book Love and Theft quote, what appears, in fact to

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<v Speaker 1>have been appropriated were certain kinds of masculinity. To put

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<v Speaker 1>one of the cultural forms of blackness was to engage

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<v Speaker 1>in a complex affair of manly mimicry. The Elvis debate

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<v Speaker 1>goes deeper, as he's perhaps one of the most contentious

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<v Speaker 1>figures of so called edginess or unorthodoxy and performance. But

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<v Speaker 1>there's another huge factor that causes people to get riled

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<v Speaker 1>up when dance questions norms, the way that norm ativity

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<v Speaker 1>or gender normalcy is about being afraid, being afraid of

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<v Speaker 1>the unknown or the unexpected. I mean, the only reason

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<v Speaker 1>to be afraid of something is because you're not sure

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<v Speaker 1>what it will mean for you in some in some

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<v Speaker 1>weird way, although that happens a lot less than social dance.

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<v Speaker 1>He points out, we're at a party, for example, the

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<v Speaker 1>excitement of the moment of dance is most important. Think

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<v Speaker 1>of popular dances you may have seen go viral, quant ETCETERA.

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<v Speaker 1>Flamboyance doesn't get much flak. It's often celebrated and for

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<v Speaker 1>black folks, especially to Francis, dancing is like air and water.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always been a part of life. We danced at

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<v Speaker 1>the high school reaunion. We dance at the graduation party.

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<v Speaker 1>We dance at the birth, we dance at the coming home.

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<v Speaker 1>We dance. Dance is important to us. We dance in church. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>We even have movement things that we executed in times

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<v Speaker 1>of morning. There's a way that music and movement are

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<v Speaker 1>important to our practice of morning as well, so for

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<v Speaker 1>us dances everywhere. He mentions the Nicholas brothers who jumped, twisted,

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<v Speaker 1>and tap danced their way into people's hearts from the

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<v Speaker 1>stage and screen in the early nineteen hundreds, and he

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<v Speaker 1>talks about the high energy, dramatic street dance styles crumping

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<v Speaker 1>and clowning, which grew out of the desire for an

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<v Speaker 1>alternative to gangs and violence and for an outlet for aggression.

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<v Speaker 1>During the aftermath of Rodney King's beating in Los Angeles,

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<v Speaker 1>in if I hadn't start from him, I would be

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<v Speaker 1>in jail for sure, or I would have got caught

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<v Speaker 1>up in something that I would have him killed. Very

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<v Speaker 1>early in my life because I was around a drama

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<v Speaker 1>in violent but dance and always kept me away or

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<v Speaker 1>sent nigger time from ritualistic and ceremonial dance like the

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<v Speaker 1>hula tow line dancing to country Western music, dance holds

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<v Speaker 1>a mirror to the social climate as a sign of

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<v Speaker 1>the times. Dance can be as important to cultural documentation

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<v Speaker 1>as records of war, policy and technology. It's an uninhibited

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<v Speaker 1>declaration of self, showing us as we are, for who

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<v Speaker 1>we are in every fleeting moment. As father of modern

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<v Speaker 1>American dance, Ted Sean, who performed with an all male

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<v Speaker 1>dance company throughout the US in the thirties and forties,

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<v Speaker 1>put it, you see, a peter can paint something that

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<v Speaker 1>it goes on the wall, or a sculptor makes something

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<v Speaker 1>and it stays there. But this is the most ephemeral

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<v Speaker 1>art you see. You do it, and it's born and

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<v Speaker 1>dies in the very second you're doing it. We engage it.

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<v Speaker 1>We let it be unusual, we let it be weird,

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<v Speaker 1>we let it be queer, and we learned from it.

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<v Speaker 1>We need society, yet so many of us feel left

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<v Speaker 1>out and yearned to be understood and recognized. When you're

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<v Speaker 1>struggling to be seen, especially when you're part of a

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<v Speaker 1>marginalized group, asserting your existence through dance can be cathartic,

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<v Speaker 1>powerful and pleasurable. And for anybody, dance can be a

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<v Speaker 1>means of release that they often don't get to or

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<v Speaker 1>want to say with words, for fear of being embarrassed, moralized, dismissed,

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<v Speaker 1>or simply ignored. It gives men a chance to be genuine, creative,

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<v Speaker 1>and present. And what more do we need now than

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<v Speaker 1>open and honest communication. Maybe try dancing sometime. There's something

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<v Speaker 1>about when you finally get out there and everyone around

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<v Speaker 1>you is encouraging you that really, um, it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the best feelings. It's just like yeah, like when you

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<v Speaker 1>get that head and no, like yeah, yeah, I like that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like look what you're doing, Like yeah, like what you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing too. And you don't have to dance with anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>You can just dance by yourself. You know, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>a guy and you're not sure if you like to dance,

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<v Speaker 1>going to a go into your bedroom, closed the door,

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<v Speaker 1>put on hot Pants by James Brown, the the song

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<v Speaker 1>and or the article of clothing, and and see if

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<v Speaker 1>you you know and and just try dancing a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit and moved to the beat. And if you dig it,

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<v Speaker 1>keep doing it. And if you feel like you want

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<v Speaker 1>to test it out, go to and go to another

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<v Speaker 1>town where there's a dance club and go dance are

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<v Speaker 1>and see what happens. Or go crash a wedding where

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know anyone and try that and uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do not actually take that. Thank you to Eve's Jeff Cote,

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<v Speaker 1>who wrote and produced this episode. You can find more

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<v Speaker 1>of her work on Eve's jeff cote dot com. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you to Thomas de France and George Stabe for the

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<v Speaker 1>political and personal breakdown of dance. And thank you to

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<v Speaker 1>Dylan Fagan, Christopher Hessiadas, and Jonathan Strickland for bearing your

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<v Speaker 1>dancing souls. The Stuff of Life is written an executive

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<v Speaker 1>produced by me Julie Douglas and co produced by Noel Brown.

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<v Speaker 1>Original music is by Noel Brown, and editorial oversight is

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<v Speaker 1>provided by contributing producer Dylan Fagin and Head of Production

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<v Speaker 1>Jerry Rowland. This episode also featured music by Tristan McNeil,

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