WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The 'B' Era

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>Seacrest midweek, and we're about to start paying your bills

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<v Speaker 1>as we do on the tents and tomorrow we pay

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<v Speaker 1>bells all day long here at Kiss FM. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>also World Teacher's Day. World Teacher's Day. Teaching is a

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<v Speaker 1>full time job. Is it full time job around the

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<v Speaker 1>clock you think about it. And many teachers are like counselors,

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<v Speaker 1>family advisors, you know, to their students. So National World

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<v Speaker 1>Teacher's Day, and it's also National Pumpkin Seed Day. Now

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<v Speaker 1>why does that strike me? Because my protein powder that

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<v Speaker 1>I found, I don't like way in my protein powder.

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<v Speaker 1>Way gives me exactly what Tanya gets bad gas way

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<v Speaker 1>w h e y. It doesn't do good on my stomach.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't like sugar. I don't like sweetener in

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<v Speaker 1>my protein shakes. Man, you're just a bunch of sensitive,

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<v Speaker 1>gassy bunch. Don't you try walking in these shoes? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>between YouTube get anywhere. The reason I bring it up

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<v Speaker 1>is I found a just pumpkin seed protein powder, one

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<v Speaker 1>ingredient pumpkin seed. I don't believe it. Uh, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of it? Google My pumpkin seed protein powder should

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<v Speaker 1>be in an orange and white bag. Pumpkin seed protein

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<v Speaker 1>powder anyway, not anything in it but the one ingredient,

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<v Speaker 1>pumpkin seed. And how do you so? Then you just

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<v Speaker 1>put it in your shake or whatever. So what I

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<v Speaker 1>do is I put it in my almond milk and

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<v Speaker 1>I shake it up and then I've got it's yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it. It's it's from sprout living, sprout living pumpkin seed.

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<v Speaker 1>You should do a video. I enjoyed your olive oil video. Hey, Alais,

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<v Speaker 1>let's pump in the protein video. Why one ingredient? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I always ever thinks that have less than one ingredient, Guy,

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<v Speaker 1>I should do I should be down to one. I

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<v Speaker 1>should be the one ingredient guy. I found that there's

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<v Speaker 1>a tomato paste from this woman named Maria, just one

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<v Speaker 1>ingredient tomatoes. I found baby food that just had one ingredient,

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<v Speaker 1>the best beech nut. Just I've been trying to find

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<v Speaker 1>dog food with just one ingredient. You know how hard

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<v Speaker 1>that is for dog and one ingredient. But maybe there's

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<v Speaker 1>two ingredients, you know what I mean? But basic bo

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<v Speaker 1>is down to the one main ingredient, not all the additives.

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<v Speaker 1>How hard how hard it is to find like one

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<v Speaker 1>or two ingredient dog food? It's been impossible. She literally

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<v Speaker 1>just eats dehydrated sweet potatoes. Just food for dogs. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the brand. We use a lot of ingredients in there.

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<v Speaker 1>But did you look up just have you seen Georgia.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm no judgment, okay, I'm just telling you, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a beauty. So my dog is just very sensitive

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<v Speaker 1>stomach like me. So I just need like minimal, just

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<v Speaker 1>minimal things. Have you tried the Farmer's Dog? Yes, Now

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of ingredients in there too, but I like, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I basically want to eat George's just food for dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>It's rice, carrots, peas and like meat. Looks like a

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<v Speaker 1>great stir fright. To be honest with you, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the battle. I cannot handle the dog battle ever since

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<v Speaker 1>she got a boyfriend and a dog. It's my my, my, my,

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<v Speaker 1>my tiny's my FM mym that the other day. But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe maybe you know when you go over there to

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<v Speaker 1>my FM and was trying to tell us about bad buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>how she went by her? What did you say, Marion Morris,

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Haley Beverley too. Yeah. Yeah. Marianna comes in

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about how she went to go see bat

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<v Speaker 1>Buddy by herself. Well, my friend Haley Bieber wand you go,

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<v Speaker 1>Haley Bieber, I said, Haley, I think they're my FM

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<v Speaker 1>is calling looking for some Yesterday we were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>flipping text to people and Tanya said, no one says that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, okay, well what do you do? Like

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<v Speaker 1>do you do you do you flip an email? I'll

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<v Speaker 1>flip you an email. Tanya is not saying much today.

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<v Speaker 1>You say lab. You always say lob laba text, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Tanya does. Yeah, well lob. What's the difference in flipping lob? Honestly? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>fair question, Like lob sounds worse than flip a slow

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<v Speaker 1>roll over. But Sydney, you had to suck a text

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<v Speaker 1>back that you flipped, you know how. There's that new

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<v Speaker 1>feature now with the update. Oh yeah, I used it

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<v Speaker 1>for the first time, like in an immerge agency mode.

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<v Speaker 1>So what happened? So I'm on the couch and I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I always have my phone right by me,

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<v Speaker 1>and the kids has come up and they love to

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<v Speaker 1>play with it and they know how to get to

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<v Speaker 1>the camera feature and they take pictures and whatever. It

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<v Speaker 1>usually doesn't really bother me. But I think because it

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<v Speaker 1>was maybe already open. Usually if they're taking pictures, it's

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<v Speaker 1>in lock mode, so I'm not worried about it, and like, really,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing can happen. I guess it wasn't in lock mode.

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<v Speaker 1>So Asa sitting there and she's just snapping, snapping, snap,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not thinking anything of it. I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>on the couch like in a not very pleasant or

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<v Speaker 1>flattering position, and all of a sudden I hear the

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<v Speaker 1>like a text message has been sent and it went

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<v Speaker 1>and it went, and I grabbed my phone and I

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<v Speaker 1>see who she sent the message to, and it's to

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<v Speaker 1>Maxim's hip hop instructor. And I'm like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>what do I do? And I used the feature and

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<v Speaker 1>I sucked back the picture. But you have to suck

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<v Speaker 1>it back before they see it. Right, So the teacher

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<v Speaker 1>did not see it. I don't know if they saw

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<v Speaker 1>it or not. If they didn't do it dropped, right,

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<v Speaker 1>My heart dropped. And I'm hoping they did not see

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping they didn't see the picture. But it said

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<v Speaker 1>for me on my end, this picture has been deleted

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever or been sucked back and then that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you even know to do that? Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't even know how to do It's the new iOS

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<v Speaker 1>feature everybody's talking about. Yeah, how do you do it?

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<v Speaker 1>When you want to execute us? You hold the picture

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<v Speaker 1>down and then it gives you a little menu and

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<v Speaker 1>it says delete photo or edit your post or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always afraid that I when I'm like sending a

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<v Speaker 1>photo and that I do a check check mark. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you get up your photos, you started hitting check

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<v Speaker 1>to you send a bunch of once. I'm always afraid

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<v Speaker 1>that someone I'm gonna slide against the photo on the

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<v Speaker 1>check that I don't want to go. Oh it does

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<v Speaker 1>it deletes it? I know, well, it deletes it. Like

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<v Speaker 1>so I thought, I'm like, okay, I'm in the clear, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But that's only if they've done the update. If they

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<v Speaker 1>haven't done the update, then I think it might have

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<v Speaker 1>gone through to them. And then when I went on

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<v Speaker 1>my comp uter, it's still on my eye messages on

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<v Speaker 1>my computers, I was like, oh, so I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how how accurate this is. But I have seen

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<v Speaker 1>the teacher since then, and I just I literally act

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<v Speaker 1>so awkward and I don't know what to say. And

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<v Speaker 1>why do you go through and clean out your camera too?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you gotta go back? Everyone want to clean it up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's impossible. There's so much just things on there that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to mistakenly have to even suck up.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know that I have many of those.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just more like multiple repeat photos that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't need, right, What do you have on yours that

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<v Speaker 1>you would not want sent out me? I'm asked everyone

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<v Speaker 1>to capture of photo from who oh, like, um, like

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<v Speaker 1>your body not me? Why are you? Why are you

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<v Speaker 1>so fidgetty? Hasn't haven't you ask your going to take

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<v Speaker 1>a photo of you? And like something? No, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>say that. You never said grab a picture of me

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<v Speaker 1>in this dress? No. Uh, He's not a great photographer,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just kind of usually you do it yourself yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I have the best pictures of Michael with the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's literally like I should win medals and awards

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<v Speaker 1>for my photography. And then like you see the pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of him that he takes of me with the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, who don't pay attention to It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>It's like point press. You should hurl up Michael text

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<v Speaker 1>right now and let him know like a bad pictures

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<v Speaker 1>take all of minor framers and he are like fling

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<v Speaker 1>him a text. Here's your morning hack and your quote

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<v Speaker 1>of the day. What is the first thing you do

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<v Speaker 1>when you wake up in the morning. Most successful people

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<v Speaker 1>go by this rule. They never start their day answering emails.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's interesting because I all, we'll set my alarm

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minutes earlier to not answer emails at night, so

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<v Speaker 1>I can do them first thing in the morning. I

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<v Speaker 1>prefer to have my coffee and then flip emails, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>out two people, first thing in the morning, all at once,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of doing it at night. I'm less stressed in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning and have a clear mind in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and the coffee kicks in and you're kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>good mood. Yeah, he's nice. Is that what this access

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<v Speaker 1>to do? I think says don't answer emails When you

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<v Speaker 1>start your day by checking your inbox, you put yourself

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<v Speaker 1>into a reactive state, reacting to other people's requests instead

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<v Speaker 1>of setting out to get your own things done. Work

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<v Speaker 1>through the hard stuff early on and save the email

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<v Speaker 1>task for lunch or later. In the day. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't like sending stuff at the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's not how our jobs work. If we do

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<v Speaker 1>a morning show, like we have to respond in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you imagine if Mark email doesn't like four am

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<v Speaker 1>and we just were like, well, we're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>respond to this is not like that, I know. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I went to me, heaves us an email we

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<v Speaker 1>have to get back for Yeah, yeah, here's your quote.

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<v Speaker 1>Apply for that job, date that person, buy that plane ticket,

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<v Speaker 1>move to that city. Does well. Tom Brady and Giselle

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<v Speaker 1>Bunchin split seems to loom large, as Yahoo confirmed that

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<v Speaker 1>she has hired a divorce lawyer. The longtime couple's relationship

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<v Speaker 1>has been in turmoil since you know, Tom unretired earlier

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<v Speaker 1>this year. It's unclear if he has lawyered up as well. However,

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<v Speaker 1>Page six, which was first to report the news, claims

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<v Speaker 1>that the seven times Super Bowl champ has also found

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<v Speaker 1>legal representation. That just makes me so sad for them.

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<v Speaker 1>The centerpiece for Thanksgiving tables across the country will cost

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<v Speaker 1>more than ever this holiday season. The American Farm Beer

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<v Speaker 1>Federation says families can expect to pay a record high

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<v Speaker 1>prices at the grocery store for turkey due to bird

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<v Speaker 1>flu and inflation. Skinless turkey breasts reached a record high

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<v Speaker 1>of six dollars and seventy cents per pound in September,

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<v Speaker 1>which was up a hundred and twelve percent from one

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<v Speaker 1>So be prepared. And it seems like Elon Musk is

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<v Speaker 1>once again buying Twitter. According to sources close to the negotiations,

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<v Speaker 1>Musk is now willing to honor the original deal to

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<v Speaker 1>acquire Twitter for fifty four dollars and twenty cents to share,

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<v Speaker 1>valuing Twitter at forty four billion dollars. This latest decision

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<v Speaker 1>from Musk comes after the billionaire announced that he would

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<v Speaker 1>buy the social media platform back in April, and then

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<v Speaker 1>proceeded to try to back out of the binding agreement

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<v Speaker 1>in July. So we shall see if he follows through

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<v Speaker 1>with this deal. Unaired with Ryan Seagrez. Now the weekend

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<v Speaker 1>is coming to l A a cancel Remember he had

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<v Speaker 1>to cancels l A show after just a few songs

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<v Speaker 1>he lost his voice. Rescheduled for Thanksgiving weekend, we got

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<v Speaker 1>tickets and now we're gonna play the game or is

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<v Speaker 1>the music game is called weekend X or someone we

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<v Speaker 1>elect weekend X or someone we elect. I prefer the

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<v Speaker 1>match game, but we'll play this now. Alright. The mid

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<v Speaker 1>term elections are just a month away, so we'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you a name. You tell us if it's someone the

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<v Speaker 1>weekend used to date an X or someone running for

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<v Speaker 1>office in California. But we'll see on your ballot when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes in the mail. You gotta get three right

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<v Speaker 1>where you get three wrong. The game is called weekend

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<v Speaker 1>X or someone we elect? Rolls off the tongue. So,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning, Ronica, you are contested, laplane. How are you good? Thanks?

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna play this game weekend exert someone we elect

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<v Speaker 1>for tickets to go see the weekend? Okay, okay, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the first one. Your Vanna Ventura, Your Vana Ventura, is

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<v Speaker 1>that the weekends X or someone we might elect? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>someone you might elect? That is one of the weekends

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<v Speaker 1>xes were spot holding hands in November so long ago,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan standards and practices. All right, Next one, Angela Jacobs,

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<v Speaker 1>Angela Jacobs, is that weekend X or someone we may elect?

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm did you say Angela Jacobs, Angela Jacobs? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the Angela Jacobs? Oh um, what is it? Yes? Correct?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for taking that in Like, I'm pretty loud

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<v Speaker 1>over there. One second, Ryan, Okay, here we go next.

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<v Speaker 1>So we gotta get Sean. Tell Jeffries, Sean tell Jeffries

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<v Speaker 1>a weekend X or someone we may elect the Weekends X.

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<v Speaker 1>Good guys, that is right, the Weekends X. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>now for the win. Surely Webber, surely Webber, uh someone

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<v Speaker 1>you might elect? Hang on, I'm still typing it in. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's correct. Congratulations, you're going to see the Weekend. It's stadium, Veronica.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for playing. Thank you, Thank you Weekend X

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<v Speaker 1>or someone we elect. You have a good time at

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<v Speaker 1>the show. Thank you, You're welcome. I think the match

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<v Speaker 1>game is a little bit more regulated. I too, standards

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<v Speaker 1>and practices, and they do make quieter keyboards. These things

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<v Speaker 1>get in her phone. I don't know. I pulled one

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<v Speaker 1>out from the cabinet that was an old keyboard, Dick

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<v Speaker 1>belong do. I'm like, what keyboard are you using? Your

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<v Speaker 1>right now? I know, I know, I know. On air

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<v Speaker 1>with Ryan Seacrest, did you have a chance to look

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<v Speaker 1>up Isaiah Garza on TikTok? Listen to this Isaiah just

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<v Speaker 1>walking up to a stranger. How you doing. Oh, not

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<v Speaker 1>too bad. How are you doing? I'm sorry to bother you. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had a really really rough day. I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to see if you'd be willing to go to disney

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<v Speaker 1>And with me today. Hey, that's great. You really I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe this. He walks up to this elderly man

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<v Speaker 1>and says, hey, do you want to go to Disneyland

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<v Speaker 1>today with me? Be my friend for the day, and

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<v Speaker 1>changes this man's life and they're total strangers. How does

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<v Speaker 1>it feel to be a Disneyland today? Oh? My god,

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<v Speaker 1>one of the best days of my life. Like I've

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<v Speaker 1>I've been dreaming or remember this day. You don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how much I appreciate. So let me bring in Isaiah Garza.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very very touching and compelling video to watch.

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<v Speaker 1>Isaiah Ryan, how are you brother? Brother? I loved watching

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<v Speaker 1>this video. You put an ad on Craigslist right saying

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<v Speaker 1>that you wanted to make a senior citizen smile and

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<v Speaker 1>the caregiver for a one hundred year old guy. William Good,

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<v Speaker 1>a World War Two veteran, responded, huh yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty crazy actually, like it literally was like a fake ad.

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<v Speaker 1>Like literally when she called me, I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be honest with you. My name Isaiah Garza

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<v Speaker 1>and make these like videos but you cannot tell him anything.

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<v Speaker 1>And we set it all up without him knowing, and

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<v Speaker 1>it like was literally like it was insane, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe it all worked out how it did to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you know, did you of you guys

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<v Speaker 1>go to Anaheim? And it's all captured on video. You

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<v Speaker 1>can see it, and it's so moving because he got

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<v Speaker 1>emotional about it being one of the best days of

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<v Speaker 1>his life. Yeah, you know it. I feel like Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of senior citizens get left

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<v Speaker 1>out these days. And he told me literally it was

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<v Speaker 1>the best day of his life. And like, ah man,

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<v Speaker 1>the other things he said that wasn't in the video,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I cried probably like three or four times like

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<v Speaker 1>during that day. Yeah, and you approached him in a

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<v Speaker 1>parking Anaheim. And what was it like to take him

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<v Speaker 1>to Disneyland? Honestly, Like the best word is magical, like

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<v Speaker 1>it it goes with Disney, you know. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>like for me, it was special because it felt like

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<v Speaker 1>just like a genuine human connection and interaction. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was also special because it was somebody who you could

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<v Speaker 1>tell just really needed it. Like it was the right place,

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<v Speaker 1>the right time, the right person, And it was honestly

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<v Speaker 1>magical for me. It gave me more life. Honestly, it

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<v Speaker 1>was beautiful. And by the way, Isaiah does this like, um,

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<v Speaker 1>he gives cash to unsuspecting people were falling on hard times, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I do this full time. It's amazing. And how do

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<v Speaker 1>you make your money mostly through brand deals? Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I've made money. It is through brand deals. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But like any money I make, I usually just like

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<v Speaker 1>give it back to the community or or fundraise for people.

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<v Speaker 1>I probably raised over a million dollars in the last

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<v Speaker 1>year for like homeless families or kids going through chemo

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<v Speaker 1>treatment or you know stuff like that in the last year.

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<v Speaker 1>That's amazing. And did you pitch Disney the idea of

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<v Speaker 1>a senior citizens Day at Disney? I did. I did

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<v Speaker 1>pitch that. I had a meeting with Disney Parks a

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<v Speaker 1>few days ago, and I did pitch that idea to them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you're gonna happen, but I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>great idea. And you know, like grandkids, great grandkids can

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<v Speaker 1>take their family their seniors. Yeah, I mean, how incredible

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<v Speaker 1>would that be, like a senior's day and like all

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<v Speaker 1>these it would be amazing, you know, and start a

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<v Speaker 1>trend to to take out other seniors. You know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a good man, Isaac Gardisa check him out on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro thanks for coming out and sharing the story. I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you. Ryan, You guys take care, take care of man.

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<v Speaker 1>What a cool look at some of the stuff he's

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<v Speaker 1>been doing. Everybody so cool. So let me grab Jared

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<v Speaker 1>and vanic Ja. Good morning. How you doing, bro geart

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself? I'm doing well. Thank you very much for asking.

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<v Speaker 1>How can I help you? So check it. So, we've

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<v Speaker 1>got a situation that's a little sticky. I was all

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriend's computer right and I found an Excel spreadsheet

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<v Speaker 1>of every guy she has ever dated. Look. I understand

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<v Speaker 1>that sometimes people you know, keeps, keep a list of

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<v Speaker 1>people who they've slept with something, But Brian, the detail

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<v Speaker 1>was insane. How many people were on the spreadsheet? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what? For for the safety of her and others,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to keep it, but I'll tell you it's

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<v Speaker 1>in the two digits. It's in the high tens, high tens,

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<v Speaker 1>high tens. Hi twenties, high tens, HI high Teenskay, got it.

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<v Speaker 1>So what are the level of details on the spreadsheet? Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking first date, what they did, first kiss, where

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<v Speaker 1>it was, when they hate each face. She rated each

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<v Speaker 1>of them on keeping and on how they were in

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<v Speaker 1>bed and when the relationship ended the last time that

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<v Speaker 1>they heard from each other. Look right, I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 1>it was crazy. Wait a minute. What's the difference in

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<v Speaker 1>this in a in a journal? I have this, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's in journal form. Do you rate people in bed?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't rate them, but I have journals of my

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<v Speaker 1>whole past before, Michael, Listen, journal is one thing science.

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<v Speaker 1>It fixed spreadsheet. It's way too technical. Does she know

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<v Speaker 1>that you found this? No, I was snooping and I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of not minding her her business. So why

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<v Speaker 1>were you snooping in the first place. It's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things. I stumbled upon it. I was just curious

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<v Speaker 1>to see, you know, what it is? And then I

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<v Speaker 1>stumbled upon and I couldn't get my eyes off. I

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<v Speaker 1>kept reading and and seeing all these notes, and it

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<v Speaker 1>got so specific I had to stop. But it was crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>At least I got a rating of eight for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>kissing and eight the fiving bed, which is not bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't the highest either. That also here two

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's like, should I come? Should I confront

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<v Speaker 1>her about this? I mean, I don't know, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>bother me, but you know what I'm saying, Yeah, I don't. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know why she needs to keep

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<v Speaker 1>it right, if you guys are together, why should it

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<v Speaker 1>keep a spreadsheet? Like? Why is it on her desk?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like computer desktop whatever. I'm I mean, here, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. I kind of blame you. You You snoop you

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<v Speaker 1>you know when you start snooping, Like every time I think, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna snoop through someone's phone, I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to snoop through something. You're gonna find something and

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna make you nuts. And so this is kind of,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, self inflicted. But you either got to put

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<v Speaker 1>it out of your mind or tell her like lose

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<v Speaker 1>the spreadsheet program. But besides that, what am I just

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<v Speaker 1>another statistic on the spreadsheet? Or am I the last one?

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you work on being the best? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't you could long play. You could long

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<v Speaker 1>play write a screenplay about it, don't use real names.

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<v Speaker 1>Then the movie premiere, take her to go see you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that is aggressive insider information you know about

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<v Speaker 1>all these relationships, enterprising Jared, good luck on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do think like you opened up the can

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<v Speaker 1>of worms because you start going through her stuff, you

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<v Speaker 1>know darn well that there is a chance you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>see something you don't want to fall. Ryan Seacres the

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<v Speaker 1>Middle of the week, seacrests and Tanya here Sunshine, this

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<v Speaker 1>morning eyes in the low eighties and mid nineties. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna pay your bills again here in just a second.

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<v Speaker 1>And Tani is a trending report on the way. Tanya,

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<v Speaker 1>what are we getting into in a moment? Well, m

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<v Speaker 1>Rada is taking a stand for women and entering her

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<v Speaker 1>b era. I'm here for it. I'm subscribing, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>explain who em Rada Emily Radachowski. Okay, I need full names.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Rada. Everybody calls her m Rada. That I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think everybody calls her Randa. Everybody everybody may When she

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<v Speaker 1>says em Rada, I have a friend named Rada Aurora,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what about Rada? No? Rata. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know who she was talking, aren't. So if you know

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<v Speaker 1>who Emily, Well, that's my point. That's why I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>use the full name. Let's not exclude tops from knowing

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<v Speaker 1>who were talking. Now, I only want to know if

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<v Speaker 1>she's dating Brett Pitt. Well, yeah, Thisy've been on a

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<v Speaker 1>few days. This could give you some clues. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>that's coming up in just a moment. Earlier this morning

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<v Speaker 1>on This World Teacher's Day, we were talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>morning hack and that most successful people never start their

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<v Speaker 1>day by reading emails or replying to emails. And I

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<v Speaker 1>find that so interesting that some of the most successful

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<v Speaker 1>people in the world don't do it. First thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>find that, as we said in the morning, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>best time for me to reply. We're playing at night,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tired and like y'all send a bunch of emails

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<v Speaker 1>about people come up on the show and movies to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about and things like that, and I think, sissony,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't read them. I just saw the reply in

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<v Speaker 1>the one line that was like, yes, I loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think right. But there was a chain that came

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<v Speaker 1>through last night and I thought, you know, no one

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<v Speaker 1>needs to deal with that till morning, but now successful

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<v Speaker 1>people deal with it at night, which is why you

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<v Speaker 1>guys probably replied, I didn't read the chain. Is everything sorted?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's where I was left off. So who

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<v Speaker 1>knows the time? Amy wants like one response and then

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<v Speaker 1>she runs with it. Yeah, I actually think Amy doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>even care about our responses, and maybe there are times

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Okay, let's get to the trending report. So

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<v Speaker 1>Emily Rooski, yes, So she is weighing in on the

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<v Speaker 1>controversy surrounding the Netflix movie Blonde. So there's been a

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<v Speaker 1>lot Yes, I've seen it. Friends of mine we're telling

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<v Speaker 1>me about. So there's a lot of criticism surrounding this movie,

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<v Speaker 1>in particular for filming Maryland's death scene. And without getting

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<v Speaker 1>into much detail, she says that this is fetishizing, fetishizing

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<v Speaker 1>Marilyn monrose death. So Emily Rotatowski is she's not taken

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<v Speaker 1>this lightly, and she went off on her TikTok about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, another movie fetishizing female pain, even in death.

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<v Speaker 1>We love to fetishize female pain. We obsess over Diana's death.

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<v Speaker 1>Watch any c s I episode and it's like this

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<v Speaker 1>crazy fetis fetishization of female pain and death. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>really hard word to say, really is, and I've never

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<v Speaker 1>heard it conjugated like I know. Um. So she is

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<v Speaker 1>suggesting that we as women need to stop this and

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<v Speaker 1>we need to get angry, because she's like, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>fetishize anger. And so she proclaimed this as her era

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<v Speaker 1>and she wants other women to join her in this movement.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm totally here for it. I am with you

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<v Speaker 1>and Rata. I loved everything that she was saying. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But an interesting little fact about this, Brad Pitt is

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<v Speaker 1>a one of the producers of this movie Blonde. It's

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<v Speaker 1>interesting that she's kind of going off on this. She's

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<v Speaker 1>being that she's quote unquote dating him, yeah or not,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, if you're dating, subliminal response to I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not being together. Not subliminal, but like a response back

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:54.959
<v Speaker 1>without a clapp back. I haven't seen the movie. I

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:58.480
<v Speaker 1>had heard some people have seen it and they made

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<v Speaker 1>up things like it wasn't all based, like there were

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 1>not there was not documentation of certain things that might

0:27:04.000 --> 0:27:06.040
<v Speaker 1>have happened in the movie. So things weren't made up

0:27:06.280 --> 0:27:07.720
<v Speaker 1>in parts of the movie. But what did you think

0:27:07.720 --> 0:27:10.639
<v Speaker 1>of the movie, you know, as a movie in itself.

0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:14.000
<v Speaker 1>It is. There's it's very very dark because it does

0:27:14.240 --> 0:27:17.760
<v Speaker 1>show you Maryland's life and it's not pretty, Like it's

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:22.200
<v Speaker 1>very sad the way that movie portrays her life. And

0:27:22.240 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's NC seventeen, so that gives you a

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<v Speaker 1>little does not even mean I didn't even get the

0:27:29.160 --> 0:27:33.040
<v Speaker 1>R rating. Yeah, it's yeah, it's like a little. It's

0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:36.320
<v Speaker 1>graphic and there's there's maybe too intense for some people

0:27:36.359 --> 0:27:42.520
<v Speaker 1>to um digest, I guess, And I think overall, like cinematically,

0:27:42.720 --> 0:27:46.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I appreciate it as an art so watch it.

0:27:46.400 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 1>It may not be for you, but I did appreciate

0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:51.080
<v Speaker 1>it as a movie. I tell you. I saw the

0:27:51.200 --> 0:27:55.879
<v Speaker 1>documentary that Jessica Chastain narrated about Marilyn Monroe. Have you

0:27:55.920 --> 0:27:58.720
<v Speaker 1>seen that. I think it might have been a CNN documentary,

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:03.840
<v Speaker 1>but it was very interesting and she narrates the whole thing.

0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.119
<v Speaker 1>So I've not seen the movie, but I saw the

0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:10.000
<v Speaker 1>documentaries a series. It was a short series about Maryland Monroe.

0:28:10.080 --> 0:28:13.879
<v Speaker 1>But try watch Blonde. I will. I just want to

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:17.439
<v Speaker 1>point out the bright star in this moment, the person

0:28:17.480 --> 0:28:24.439
<v Speaker 1>delivering this information who had to say, did you practice that.

0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:34.320
<v Speaker 1>I can't even read the word fetish, fetish, fetis, fetisization, fetisiza,

0:28:36.720 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 1>Hold on, let's start with fetish, okay, fetish, and then fetishizing,

0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:46.560
<v Speaker 1>fetish size, fetis. Yeah, I don't think it's fetis, fetis,

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>fetishizing female pain, fetishizing, and fetishization. Good on you for

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 1>getting that. I wanted to do what her TikTok, and

0:28:55.600 --> 0:28:57.360
<v Speaker 1>I was like trying to. I was like, forget it.

0:28:57.960 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 1>I thought, I mean, if it were me, I just said,

0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:02.400
<v Speaker 1>could someone else please try and read this? And thank

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:04.840
<v Speaker 1>you for doing it? All right? It was a CNN

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:07.440
<v Speaker 1>reframed mell monroute March tell me was the doc I

0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:10.800
<v Speaker 1>saw drink. You should see that too, after you saw Blonde.

0:29:11.040 --> 0:29:13.960
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, Ali mccowski is joining us here on zoom.

0:29:14.000 --> 0:29:15.120
<v Speaker 1>But I just want to have her hold for a

0:29:15.160 --> 0:29:16.520
<v Speaker 1>minute because I got to bring you back up the

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 1>speed on this. She started on our show when I

0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 1>first started here in two thousand four, doing a call

0:29:21.760 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 1>crank calls under the name low Ali. And here's what

0:29:26.440 --> 0:29:28.480
<v Speaker 1>they sounded like, Yeah, can I get a wake up

0:29:28.480 --> 0:29:32.480
<v Speaker 1>call for tomorrow morning? Where? Yeah, I'm in bed? What

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 1>do you mean? Where? Am I at? Where am I

0:29:35.760 --> 0:29:37.920
<v Speaker 1>going to give you a wake up call? Oh? My house?

0:29:38.480 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 1>So she was calling a hotel. But I remember like

0:29:42.640 --> 0:29:44.479
<v Speaker 1>being out in Los Angeles and people go, I love

0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:46.360
<v Speaker 1>low Ali, She's my favorite thing. I've been looking for

0:29:46.400 --> 0:29:49.640
<v Speaker 1>an auto insurance policy. What is your name? My name

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 1>is Ali. My dad said it would be too expensive. Okay,

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 1>how old are you? I'm ten? Well, then you can't

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 1>get an auto quote. You don't you don't have a

0:29:58.560 --> 0:30:01.880
<v Speaker 1>driver's license. Will you lied to me? Then? What do

0:30:01.920 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 1>you mean? Because for Christmas I asked for the new

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 1>Barbie Corvette and he said I couldn't get it because

0:30:09.760 --> 0:30:15.840
<v Speaker 1>the insurance was too much. So she was doing that

0:30:15.960 --> 0:30:17.680
<v Speaker 1>way back when she was ten or eleven years old.

0:30:17.680 --> 0:30:21.280
<v Speaker 1>Now she's twenty seven and she's a successful stand up comedian,

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:24.719
<v Speaker 1>and she's got a show in Irvine tonight, so you

0:30:24.760 --> 0:30:28.560
<v Speaker 1>can see her perform live. Here is some of her

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.400
<v Speaker 1>stand ups. I learned a lot from watching murder shows

0:30:31.920 --> 0:30:34.920
<v Speaker 1>I worked recently that I should never start my day

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:44.320
<v Speaker 1>like any other. I don't know if you've seen a

0:30:44.440 --> 0:30:48.320
<v Speaker 1>murder show, but what normally happens is that a white

0:30:48.320 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 1>woman starts her day like any other. She murder. How

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:01.720
<v Speaker 1>did you meet her? Where do we put the microphone

0:31:01.720 --> 0:31:04.760
<v Speaker 1>in the back of the other room from hest? Um? Oh,

0:31:04.760 --> 0:31:08.520
<v Speaker 1>that's why her cadence is great. I don't I have

0:31:08.600 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 1>to ask her. I think maybe she called into the show.

0:31:11.240 --> 0:31:12.840
<v Speaker 1>It had been that she called into the show, and

0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:15.360
<v Speaker 1>she just was so charming that we thought, let's try

0:31:15.400 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 1>and have a segment born out of it. And she

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:20.200
<v Speaker 1>did it for years and was brilliant and people loved it.

0:31:20.480 --> 0:31:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean it made me laugh every time, and she

0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:24.600
<v Speaker 1>did these calls on a regular basis and people loved

0:31:24.600 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>hearing low Ali. And she was ten or eleven years

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:30.680
<v Speaker 1>old back then. Now she's twenty seven and a stand

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 1>up comedian joining us. I know, right. I can't even

0:31:33.440 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 1>believe it, Ali, how are you? I'm good. As soon

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 1>as you said seven, I was like, oh my goodness, No,

0:31:41.040 --> 0:31:44.640
<v Speaker 1>What do you remember about making those calls at such

0:31:44.640 --> 0:31:47.240
<v Speaker 1>a young age? You were like famous here at ten

0:31:47.320 --> 0:31:50.520
<v Speaker 1>years old? Yeah, I mean I was. I think I

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 1>was six when I first called you guys and ended

0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:58.960
<v Speaker 1>up getting the job completely randomly, and I have such

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:03.680
<v Speaker 1>vivid memories of all of it. Um. Yeah, I remember

0:32:03.680 --> 0:32:06.479
<v Speaker 1>getting picked up from school early and getting to go

0:32:06.520 --> 0:32:10.000
<v Speaker 1>to the studio and I felt like such a superstar.

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:12.160
<v Speaker 1>And I was like everyone at school was like, Ali's

0:32:12.240 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 1>going to Hollywood. Al's going to Hollywood to talk to Ryan,

0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:18.160
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you're right, and I'm not doing

0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:21.120
<v Speaker 1>my homework. We were talking about how it all started,

0:32:21.160 --> 0:32:23.120
<v Speaker 1>and I think it started organically because you had called

0:32:23.160 --> 0:32:25.360
<v Speaker 1>in early on, and then we're like, this girl is

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:28.480
<v Speaker 1>so charming and so funny, and then we just started

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:31.240
<v Speaker 1>these calls and they really worked. I remember you guys,

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:35.640
<v Speaker 1>uh described me using the word precocious, and I was like,

0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm six years old. I don't know what that means.

0:32:38.080 --> 0:32:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I hope that's a good thing. Um, But yeah, I

0:32:41.720 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 1>remember I called randomly. I asked my sister what to

0:32:45.480 --> 0:32:47.360
<v Speaker 1>say on the radio, and she was like, asked for

0:32:47.400 --> 0:32:50.920
<v Speaker 1>Britney Spears tickets, But I asked, you made me sing

0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:54.320
<v Speaker 1>a song, I say, toxic at six years old, I'm

0:32:54.360 --> 0:32:59.320
<v Speaker 1>singing about the taste of your lips and uh. And

0:32:59.360 --> 0:33:02.160
<v Speaker 1>then you said that you had American Idol tickets, not

0:33:02.200 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 1>Britney Spearce tickets, and I was like, I'll only go

0:33:04.360 --> 0:33:06.880
<v Speaker 1>up there, v I p or I am like that

0:33:07.000 --> 0:33:10.920
<v Speaker 1>exactly six years old and then you're like, You're like,

0:33:10.960 --> 0:33:13.080
<v Speaker 1>where are your parents? And I was like, I don't know.

0:33:13.160 --> 0:33:17.280
<v Speaker 1>It's seven in the morning. I'm like, who cares? So

0:33:17.360 --> 0:33:22.440
<v Speaker 1>when did you start stand up? So, um, I blame

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 1>it all on on you. I didn't realize that there

0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:28.840
<v Speaker 1>was a career opportunity out of making prank phone calls

0:33:28.880 --> 0:33:33.680
<v Speaker 1>and you can't become a lawyer after that. So I

0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:36.640
<v Speaker 1>I got the idea in high school. I started watching

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 1>a lot of comedy. I would use my sister's ID

0:33:38.920 --> 0:33:42.200
<v Speaker 1>to get into the comedy clubs and uh, and I

0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:43.840
<v Speaker 1>just fell in love with it. So I did my

0:33:43.880 --> 0:33:46.680
<v Speaker 1>first open mic right after high school, and I knew

0:33:46.720 --> 0:33:48.880
<v Speaker 1>that that's what I wanted to do. I'm gonna play

0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:51.560
<v Speaker 1>a little clip of some of your stand up here

0:33:51.680 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 1>to the pharmacy the other day and they said my

0:33:53.440 --> 0:33:59.760
<v Speaker 1>prescription was going to be seventy three dollars. I was like,

0:33:59.800 --> 0:34:06.800
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I kind of like the seas infection. Wow,

0:34:08.080 --> 0:34:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I've heard that yet. I've grown off, Bryan. I'm not

0:34:12.080 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 1>he puts up. I mean, it's like so true to I. Yeah,

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:22.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a little Alley anymore. I'm very much adult Alley.

0:34:22.040 --> 0:34:24.399
<v Speaker 1>Now A right, there's some more adult alley. I don't

0:34:24.400 --> 0:34:27.600
<v Speaker 1>know what this clip is. Murder shows on my computer.

0:34:28.080 --> 0:34:34.520
<v Speaker 1>That's all I do. Yeah, I would love murder when

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:39.719
<v Speaker 1>it's not happening to us one of our favorite girls.

0:34:40.960 --> 0:34:42.640
<v Speaker 1>So how do you come up with the material? Just

0:34:42.719 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 1>real life? Just real life? Yeah, I'm I'm starting to

0:34:46.440 --> 0:34:48.640
<v Speaker 1>talk a lot about my family. I don't know if

0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:51.320
<v Speaker 1>you remember my dad, but he's a very interesting guy.

0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:55.200
<v Speaker 1>So just trying to pull from real things and feelings

0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:58.480
<v Speaker 1>and uh and yeah, it's it's a weird process. But

0:34:58.600 --> 0:35:01.399
<v Speaker 1>sometimes I'll just say something in conversation and someone will

0:35:01.480 --> 0:35:06.279
<v Speaker 1>laugh and I'll be like, maybe there's also your delivery.

0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 1>Your delivery in a way, is you have the same

0:35:09.160 --> 0:35:11.880
<v Speaker 1>sort of delivery as you always cadence from when you

0:35:11.920 --> 0:35:14.839
<v Speaker 1>were a little girl. Yeah, yeah, there's something like a

0:35:14.840 --> 0:35:18.680
<v Speaker 1>little bit, a little bit slow, little mumbly. Everyone always

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:20.640
<v Speaker 1>asked me where I'm from, and I'm like, I'm from

0:35:20.680 --> 0:35:22.480
<v Speaker 1>Long Beach and they're like, we tell you from like

0:35:22.520 --> 0:35:25.880
<v Speaker 1>the Midwest or something. I don't know what it is.

0:35:25.920 --> 0:35:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I just yeah, there's it's an interesting delivery. You've got

0:35:30.160 --> 0:35:33.879
<v Speaker 1>to show at the Irvine Improv tomorrow night. Tickets at

0:35:33.920 --> 0:35:38.080
<v Speaker 1>ali A l I mckowski m A c o F

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<v Speaker 1>s k Y dot com. Are you doing a lot

0:35:40.760 --> 0:35:44.520
<v Speaker 1>of different shows? Yeah, I'm I'm going everywhere. I'm going

0:35:44.560 --> 0:35:48.920
<v Speaker 1>to be in New York. I'm gonna be in Seattle. UM,

0:35:48.960 --> 0:35:51.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of stuff on the East Coast coming up. Yeah,

0:35:51.360 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of everywhere. Congratulations, it's so cool to be

0:35:55.960 --> 0:35:57.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm literally sitting in the same place I've been sitting

0:35:57.880 --> 0:36:01.080
<v Speaker 1>for twenty years. You've made a whole life and career

0:36:01.160 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 1>out of what you started here. I'm so happy for you.

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:08.759
<v Speaker 1>I am so happy for you where I am thank you. Yeah,

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 1>I love getting to have that story. It's like you

0:36:12.200 --> 0:36:14.239
<v Speaker 1>know when people you first meet someone and they're like,

0:36:14.280 --> 0:36:16.520
<v Speaker 1>what's the fun fact about you? I'm like, oh, I

0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:22.359
<v Speaker 1>got a good one. I got a good one. Well,

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:25.200
<v Speaker 1>well we should have keep following you and stay close

0:36:25.280 --> 0:36:27.200
<v Speaker 1>and you know, keep it up badly. It's so great

0:36:27.239 --> 0:36:31.600
<v Speaker 1>to see you. Congratulations. Good to see you too. By

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's amazing. She was six years old, calls in.

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:40.960
<v Speaker 1>Then she does that segment. I guess for years and

0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:45.720
<v Speaker 1>now literally all riding around material and she's funny. She

0:36:45.800 --> 0:36:49.439
<v Speaker 1>should have a special, Yeah, a stand up special. Yeah.

0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Like on Netflix, right, like Taylor Tomlinson. Taylor Tomlinson one

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:59.080
<v Speaker 1>of my favorites. They're like the same age, does it

0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Taylor talking about being twenty five or twenty six? Well,

0:37:03.920 --> 0:37:06.040
<v Speaker 1>it'd be cool to have like a little documentary behind it,

0:37:06.080 --> 0:37:08.480
<v Speaker 1>because is there any like video of her going into

0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:10.719
<v Speaker 1>the studio and recording those She's get checked out of

0:37:10.800 --> 0:37:13.960
<v Speaker 1>school before there, you know what I mean? Like the

0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:15.880
<v Speaker 1>fact that she couldn't record that stuff from home like

0:37:15.920 --> 0:37:18.840
<v Speaker 1>he had. She had a drive to Hollia from Long Actually,

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:20.880
<v Speaker 1>not only that, I think we picked her up. I

0:37:20.920 --> 0:37:23.279
<v Speaker 1>think we sent car services sometimes to pick her up

0:37:23.320 --> 0:37:25.000
<v Speaker 1>to come in and it always be like we have

0:37:25.040 --> 0:37:27.799
<v Speaker 1>to talk to her dad to get the On air

0:37:27.920 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>with Ryan Seacrest, Tubbs, bring in your favorite guest of

0:37:33.080 --> 0:37:36.680
<v Speaker 1>the day on Hunt Day, help her day. So we

0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:41.560
<v Speaker 1>got in this conversation about romance in your relationships and

0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:46.600
<v Speaker 1>wondering do we know what we're doing or do we

0:37:46.640 --> 0:37:48.360
<v Speaker 1>just take it all from TV and movies and assume

0:37:48.400 --> 0:37:50.800
<v Speaker 1>we're doing it right? And well right, we can always

0:37:50.800 --> 0:37:54.520
<v Speaker 1>in the students, well, I think you know, we're taught

0:37:54.600 --> 0:37:56.960
<v Speaker 1>so many things, but one of the most important things

0:37:57.120 --> 0:38:01.600
<v Speaker 1>in life is being connected with your part and making

0:38:01.640 --> 0:38:07.359
<v Speaker 1>the smile difficult to talk about this on the air.

0:38:10.320 --> 0:38:13.839
<v Speaker 1>This is what keeps this is what keeps relationships together, right,

0:38:14.239 --> 0:38:19.080
<v Speaker 1>the intimacy and the communication of the intimacy. And Evan

0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:21.640
<v Speaker 1>mark Katz is joining us right now. He's a dating

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 1>coach as part of our hump Day Helper segment, which

0:38:25.560 --> 0:38:29.200
<v Speaker 1>is clearly later in the morning after school starts. Uh, coach,

0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 1>how are you great to be here? Bryan? I'm I'm

0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:35.880
<v Speaker 1>really excited. I got some good questions to answer for

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:38.920
<v Speaker 1>you today. Okay, good, Well these are from people listening now.

0:38:38.960 --> 0:38:42.320
<v Speaker 1>You call yourself a personal trainer for smart, successful, strong

0:38:42.440 --> 0:38:47.600
<v Speaker 1>women over women have graduated from love you. What is that?

0:38:49.040 --> 0:38:51.160
<v Speaker 1>It's the six months of course that I have for

0:38:51.239 --> 0:38:54.480
<v Speaker 1>women who are struggling to fix their broken man. Picker,

0:38:55.440 --> 0:39:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Man picker, you mean they're choosing the wrong guys. You could,

0:39:00.280 --> 0:39:02.680
<v Speaker 1>you could be the world's greatest person, but if you

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:06.160
<v Speaker 1>shack up with the wrong person, you have no future.

0:39:06.280 --> 0:39:08.560
<v Speaker 1>So getting the decision right early on, it's going to

0:39:08.600 --> 0:39:10.279
<v Speaker 1>save you a lot of trouble in the future. And

0:39:10.280 --> 0:39:13.279
<v Speaker 1>how is it you know all this a lot of

0:39:13.280 --> 0:39:16.440
<v Speaker 1>trial and aaron practice. Uh. Dating in l a for

0:39:16.520 --> 0:39:19.520
<v Speaker 1>about ten years, as now married for six team years,

0:39:19.600 --> 0:39:21.839
<v Speaker 1>coaching for twenty, so I've helped a lot of women.

0:39:22.600 --> 0:39:24.439
<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get to some of the questions, because

0:39:24.440 --> 0:39:27.080
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do these hump day helper segments about anything

0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:32.600
<v Speaker 1>in your romance, anything in your intimacy category department they

0:39:32.600 --> 0:39:34.640
<v Speaker 1>think you want to ask about we're talking to somebody

0:39:34.680 --> 0:39:36.279
<v Speaker 1>want to answer it. So this is from the six

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<v Speaker 1>One says, my X and I ended very badly two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, but I still have his location on my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I check it often and then spiral about who he

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<v Speaker 1>might be with, if he's at dinner or a movie

0:39:48.239 --> 0:39:50.120
<v Speaker 1>or something. Why am I like this? How do I

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<v Speaker 1>move on? Good question? Yeah? I mean I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>no great value beating yourself up for being human. Wondering

0:39:58.200 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 1>about the past is normal, but it's going to go

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<v Speaker 1>online and cyberstock and X. I think the key phrase

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<v Speaker 1>from what you wrote is my X and I ended

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<v Speaker 1>very badly, right, So to to invest a lot of

0:40:10.680 --> 0:40:14.479
<v Speaker 1>trans fantasizing about something where you already know it's dead

0:40:14.480 --> 0:40:16.960
<v Speaker 1>in the water, Her best move would be to try

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<v Speaker 1>to look forward and find someone else. And when you

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<v Speaker 1>have a happy relationship, you're not going to be obsessing

0:40:22.239 --> 0:40:26.120
<v Speaker 1>about your ex workings. Add it badly. M that's true,

0:40:26.600 --> 0:40:29.600
<v Speaker 1>and remove him from your location. But that's the thing.

0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:32.040
<v Speaker 1>When you have that there, or you're still following them

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<v Speaker 1>look at their Instagram, it's towards self torture. This is

0:40:36.000 --> 0:40:38.399
<v Speaker 1>from Leah in Eagle Rock. I need advice on how

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<v Speaker 1>to stop having a giant crush on a coworker. We

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<v Speaker 1>work in a classroom all day together and get along

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<v Speaker 1>so well. We're both married. I would never act on this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I find myself fantasizing about him. I would never

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<v Speaker 1>jeopardize my marriage and act on it, but I can't

0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:58.960
<v Speaker 1>stop thinking about it. This is this is um. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sort of sensing to see you um with these questions

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<v Speaker 1>where people want things that are not meant to be,

0:41:05.520 --> 0:41:09.040
<v Speaker 1>things that are that are taboo and so uh. You know.

0:41:09.120 --> 0:41:12.080
<v Speaker 1>Le also needs to recognize it's it's human to have

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:14.920
<v Speaker 1>crushes on other people. Just because you're married doesn't mean

0:41:14.960 --> 0:41:17.600
<v Speaker 1>you stop having eyes. That doesn't mean you stop having feelings.

0:41:18.320 --> 0:41:21.360
<v Speaker 1>At the same time, if you're presumably happily married, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to recognize that having a crush on someone is easy.

0:41:24.920 --> 0:41:27.680
<v Speaker 1>I think of the dozen hundreds of people that you've

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<v Speaker 1>had crushes on, none of them had the happy ending

0:41:30.640 --> 0:41:33.359
<v Speaker 1>that you wanted, except for the person you're married. So

0:41:33.440 --> 0:41:34.759
<v Speaker 1>what we have to do is kind of killed the

0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:37.400
<v Speaker 1>fantasy that if she did anything with this guy that

0:41:37.400 --> 0:41:39.480
<v Speaker 1>it would go anywhere. Would it would be an obvious

0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:42.400
<v Speaker 1>disaster if she would act on it. That she's already recognized,

0:41:42.760 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 1>So just realize it's like it's just a dopamine spike

0:41:45.640 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 1>to have a crush on someone. She could even enjoy

0:41:47.480 --> 0:41:49.759
<v Speaker 1>it as long as she recognizes it for what it is.

0:41:50.080 --> 0:41:52.759
<v Speaker 1>So is there guilt in what she's feeling right now?

0:41:52.840 --> 0:41:56.640
<v Speaker 1>You think or not? I think she's probably feeling guilt.

0:41:57.040 --> 0:42:00.319
<v Speaker 1>Guilt is also like a self imposed emotion. You only

0:42:00.320 --> 0:42:03.160
<v Speaker 1>feel guilty if you think you're doing something wrong. So

0:42:03.520 --> 0:42:06.600
<v Speaker 1>you're lighting up around someone who you find attractive, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. I think the key is whether you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to act on it. And it sounds like her morality

0:42:11.320 --> 0:42:14.279
<v Speaker 1>is in the right place, so you know, in the

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:16.840
<v Speaker 1>best case scenarios, she could avoid temptation. Right, but she

0:42:16.880 --> 0:42:18.919
<v Speaker 1>says she's in a classroom with them all day. I don't,

0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:20.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't think she needs to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the higher ups and quit her job because of this.

0:42:22.000 --> 0:42:25.080
<v Speaker 1>So I think she could probably channel this into enjoying

0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 1>the crush and recognizing it for what it is, sort

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<v Speaker 1>of something that reminds her of this part of her

0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:34.279
<v Speaker 1>that was single once upon a time. Um, I don't know.

0:42:34.280 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I feel like people tend to pathologize crushes and turn

0:42:38.960 --> 0:42:41.319
<v Speaker 1>them into something bad. They're only bad if you act

0:42:41.360 --> 0:42:45.719
<v Speaker 1>on them. Hump helper. Evan mark Kat's with us, all right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>and there are any questions you have for a segment

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<v Speaker 1>like this will rotate different people. You can text us

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<v Speaker 1>four one or two seven, But I would imagine that

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<v Speaker 1>with every situation and story that we've talked about, somebody

0:43:13.719 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 1>listenings in that situation as well. Thank you, coach having

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:20.880
<v Speaker 1>for coming on. Thank you appreciate it. Right, So do

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<v Speaker 1>you agree secsany do you can have eyes for someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. That was that. I was very taken aback

0:43:27.400 --> 0:43:31.920
<v Speaker 1>from that. You don't have my feelings. But also like

0:43:32.000 --> 0:43:35.920
<v Speaker 1>you still recognize attractive men. It's fine to recognize as

0:43:35.920 --> 0:43:38.840
<v Speaker 1>someone is attractive. I don't know about having a crush

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<v Speaker 1>on somebody and not acting on it, like especially someone

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:47.040
<v Speaker 1>that you work with every single day. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think healthy. I don't think that's healthy. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>the celebrity whatever list, right, I mean that's like too

0:43:53.239 --> 0:43:56.040
<v Speaker 1>close for comfort. I agree, I mean I don't think.

0:43:56.080 --> 0:43:58.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's I don't know. I don't think

0:43:58.320 --> 0:44:02.120
<v Speaker 1>I could do it. I'm uncomfortable during these segments. No,

0:44:02.280 --> 0:44:05.040
<v Speaker 1>this is good because who knows. That's why it's good. Yeah,

0:44:06.440 --> 0:44:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm so, I'm saying I liked it. I liked it too.

0:44:09.640 --> 0:44:11.560
<v Speaker 1>But it's the same thing of like, oh no, what's

0:44:12.600 --> 0:44:15.600
<v Speaker 1>how does he know? But he's telling us how does

0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:18.560
<v Speaker 1>he know? Take it with a grain of salt. Yeah, well,

0:44:18.560 --> 0:44:21.160
<v Speaker 1>next week talks, feel free to text in four one

0:44:21.239 --> 0:44:23.080
<v Speaker 1>or two seven. He made it seem like every married

0:44:23.120 --> 0:44:27.600
<v Speaker 1>person has a crush and I was like, well, he's yes, generalizing,

0:44:27.680 --> 0:44:30.359
<v Speaker 1>I guess. Mikayla on our staff was interested in trying

0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:32.360
<v Speaker 1>different dating apps try and meet somebody here in l A.

0:44:33.360 --> 0:44:35.440
<v Speaker 1>Then we saw this one and we thought, let's understand

0:44:35.520 --> 0:44:38.640
<v Speaker 1>this first before she tries this one. It's called Field

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<v Speaker 1>F E E L D correct. What's the concern? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this hour is kind of like the

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<v Speaker 1>risk ay hour at this point, Hey, it's umpting help her.

0:44:48.560 --> 0:44:52.479
<v Speaker 1>It's the kinky hour. Um So, Field is a dating

0:44:52.520 --> 0:44:54.319
<v Speaker 1>now that's kind of similar to I guess you can

0:44:54.360 --> 0:44:58.920
<v Speaker 1>say Tinder and Bumble, but with one major difference. It's

0:44:58.960 --> 0:45:02.319
<v Speaker 1>designed for or than just I guess we can say

0:45:02.360 --> 0:45:05.600
<v Speaker 1>Vanila Dating if you're single or if you're a couple

0:45:06.200 --> 0:45:11.600
<v Speaker 1>looking to explore and invite others into the bedroom. Field

0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:14.840
<v Speaker 1>maybe the app for you. And who's on Field? People

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:18.399
<v Speaker 1>who want to Singles and couples are on fields third

0:45:18.440 --> 0:45:22.000
<v Speaker 1>wheel and the couple that wants the third wheel. Correct.

0:45:22.440 --> 0:45:26.399
<v Speaker 1>So we were like, MICHAELA, maybe she were like, maybe

0:45:26.440 --> 0:45:32.239
<v Speaker 1>don't try this one as a married woman. I can

0:45:32.280 --> 0:45:34.799
<v Speaker 1>never imagine Michael and I ever like deciding like to

0:45:34.800 --> 0:45:36.799
<v Speaker 1>ever jump on an app like this, being like bored

0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:39.640
<v Speaker 1>enough to invite somebody into our bedroom. But if you're

0:45:39.680 --> 0:45:42.600
<v Speaker 1>single and you're interested in a couple, you can see

0:45:42.640 --> 0:45:44.719
<v Speaker 1>they're both of their profiles, so you both create a

0:45:44.719 --> 0:45:47.520
<v Speaker 1>profile and then you basically it'll show that you guys

0:45:47.520 --> 0:45:50.520
<v Speaker 1>are a couple, but you also have individual profiles, and

0:45:50.560 --> 0:45:53.760
<v Speaker 1>then you will show a potential match with another person

0:45:53.800 --> 0:45:57.080
<v Speaker 1>that wants to join in your rule essentially, And how

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<v Speaker 1>do you measure whether people are on this and it's popular?

0:46:00.000 --> 0:46:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Ready or not? What do you mean it's popular? How

0:46:02.880 --> 0:46:05.319
<v Speaker 1>do you know how many people are doing this? It's

0:46:05.360 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 1>based on bigger cities, You're gonna have more success rate

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:11.480
<v Speaker 1>versus a smaller town. But have any of us gotten

0:46:11.480 --> 0:46:13.439
<v Speaker 1>into it and gotten on it to see what's really

0:46:13.440 --> 0:46:17.799
<v Speaker 1>happening on it? But the article that I've researched last night,

0:46:18.080 --> 0:46:20.640
<v Speaker 1>this person tried it for six months and so they

0:46:20.680 --> 0:46:25.279
<v Speaker 1>really did kind of get into it, like they actively Yeah,

0:46:25.280 --> 0:46:28.120
<v Speaker 1>they actively were trying and what they realized was that

0:46:28.480 --> 0:46:30.560
<v Speaker 1>when you're in a big city, you actually have more

0:46:30.560 --> 0:46:33.200
<v Speaker 1>success rate versus a small town because they're not going

0:46:33.239 --> 0:46:36.400
<v Speaker 1>to have many people. Yeah, exactly. So, because this person

0:46:36.440 --> 0:46:39.640
<v Speaker 1>that did the investigative journalism went and followed through with

0:46:39.680 --> 0:46:43.440
<v Speaker 1>the opportunities and and said that felt very safe, and

0:46:43.960 --> 0:46:46.239
<v Speaker 1>you know and it was it was It says it's

0:46:46.280 --> 0:46:48.840
<v Speaker 1>just like tender or bumble, but it's just a different

0:46:48.840 --> 0:46:52.759
<v Speaker 1>type of thinkiness. If that's what you're into. To each

0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:55.759
<v Speaker 1>their own sort of speak to each their own, not

0:46:55.840 --> 0:46:59.880
<v Speaker 1>for me, not for me, but field your own adventure,

0:47:00.000 --> 0:47:11.200
<v Speaker 1>play on player, probably very quiet download the Uh you

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<v Speaker 1>think people would want to do it anonymously too? Can

0:47:15.239 --> 0:47:19.239
<v Speaker 1>you do that? I don't know. You couldn't do it anonymously.

0:47:19.280 --> 0:47:22.600
<v Speaker 1>I think if probably because there was the more I read.

0:47:22.920 --> 0:47:24.759
<v Speaker 1>You could make it so that you don't connect it

0:47:24.800 --> 0:47:26.680
<v Speaker 1>to like your social media accounts, Like you couldn't make

0:47:26.680 --> 0:47:28.520
<v Speaker 1>it so that he doesn't connect to your Facebook, and

0:47:28.960 --> 0:47:31.759
<v Speaker 1>you do kind of like keep those people out of

0:47:31.800 --> 0:47:34.280
<v Speaker 1>this because if you I feel like this is so

0:47:35.640 --> 0:47:37.200
<v Speaker 1>you might want to keep this a secret, if this

0:47:37.280 --> 0:47:40.880
<v Speaker 1>is love life that you want to explore better way

0:47:41.000 --> 0:47:43.400
<v Speaker 1>than like doing it in real life and like approaching

0:47:43.400 --> 0:47:45.719
<v Speaker 1>somebody rogue because I remember there's this couple at the

0:47:45.760 --> 0:47:47.840
<v Speaker 1>gym a few years ago and they were like I

0:47:47.840 --> 0:47:50.160
<v Speaker 1>feel like they were like scouting me out, and it

0:47:50.239 --> 0:47:51.799
<v Speaker 1>was very weird. And so it's like, if there's a

0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:53.319
<v Speaker 1>place like do you feel that way or is that

0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:58.839
<v Speaker 1>really happening. It was like really happening sometimes, like people

0:47:58.920 --> 0:48:02.280
<v Speaker 1>check you out. I think there's coping me this couple

0:48:02.360 --> 0:48:05.440
<v Speaker 1>and they were like it was very obvious, but um,

0:48:05.480 --> 0:48:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I think it's better to have like an app So like,

0:48:07.560 --> 0:48:09.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, if you're going on there, this is like

0:48:09.680 --> 0:48:12.160
<v Speaker 1>what you're you know, you're down. So there's I guess

0:48:12.160 --> 0:48:14.560
<v Speaker 1>there's a universal sign that I have heard that if

0:48:14.600 --> 0:48:16.920
<v Speaker 1>you put your pineapple upside down in your grocery cart,

0:48:16.960 --> 0:48:19.200
<v Speaker 1>that means you're interested in this. Yep, I know that's

0:48:19.239 --> 0:48:22.640
<v Speaker 1>right about that. Yeah, upside down and that means you're

0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:25.440
<v Speaker 1>scouting a third wheel. Yeah. Like I really used to

0:48:25.440 --> 0:48:27.960
<v Speaker 1>love pineapples and it really like killed them for me.

0:48:28.040 --> 0:48:31.800
<v Speaker 1>And I still can enjoy a pineapple, yeah, but like

0:48:31.800 --> 0:48:35.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to like to decorate with them now.

0:48:34.120 --> 0:48:39.680
<v Speaker 1>I absolutely, yeah, it is. Garden gnomes too, are like

0:48:39.719 --> 0:48:45.719
<v Speaker 1>a thing gardens upside down in your Yeah, when you're

0:48:45.719 --> 0:48:48.600
<v Speaker 1>walking the neighbors stuff, think about that when you're pushing

0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:51.279
<v Speaker 1>the stroller in your neighborhood and you see garden of

0:48:51.560 --> 0:48:53.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, what do you say about wheel barrels?

0:48:55.320 --> 0:48:59.919
<v Speaker 1>Wheel barrels? I'm just asking I heard the wheel barrel

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