1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan 2 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: Seacrest midweek, and we're about to start paying your bills 3 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: as we do on the tents and tomorrow we pay 4 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: bells all day long here at Kiss FM. So it's 5 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: also World Teacher's Day. World Teacher's Day. Teaching is a 6 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: full time job. Is it full time job around the 7 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 1: clock you think about it. And many teachers are like counselors, 8 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: family advisors, you know, to their students. So National World 9 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: Teacher's Day, and it's also National Pumpkin Seed Day. Now 10 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: why does that strike me? Because my protein powder that 11 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: I found, I don't like way in my protein powder. 12 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: Way gives me exactly what Tanya gets bad gas way 13 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: w h e y. It doesn't do good on my stomach. 14 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: And I don't like sugar. I don't like sweetener in 15 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 1: my protein shakes. Man, you're just a bunch of sensitive, 16 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: gassy bunch. Don't you try walking in these shoes? I mean, 17 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: between YouTube get anywhere. The reason I bring it up 18 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: is I found a just pumpkin seed protein powder, one 19 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: ingredient pumpkin seed. I don't believe it. Uh, what's the 20 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: name of it? Google My pumpkin seed protein powder should 21 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: be in an orange and white bag. Pumpkin seed protein 22 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: powder anyway, not anything in it but the one ingredient, 23 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: pumpkin seed. And how do you so? Then you just 24 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: put it in your shake or whatever. So what I 25 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: do is I put it in my almond milk and 26 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: I shake it up and then I've got it's yeah, 27 00:01:55,240 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: it's it. It's it's from sprout living, sprout living pumpkin seed. 28 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: You should do a video. I enjoyed your olive oil video. Hey, Alais, 29 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: let's pump in the protein video. Why one ingredient? You know, 30 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:13,119 Speaker 1: I always ever thinks that have less than one ingredient, Guy, 31 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 1: I should do I should be down to one. I 32 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: should be the one ingredient guy. I found that there's 33 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: a tomato paste from this woman named Maria, just one 34 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: ingredient tomatoes. I found baby food that just had one ingredient, 35 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: the best beech nut. Just I've been trying to find 36 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: dog food with just one ingredient. You know how hard 37 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 1: that is for dog and one ingredient. But maybe there's 38 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: two ingredients, you know what I mean? But basic bo 39 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: is down to the one main ingredient, not all the additives. 40 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: How hard how hard it is to find like one 41 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: or two ingredient dog food? It's been impossible. She literally 42 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: just eats dehydrated sweet potatoes. Just food for dogs. That's 43 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: the brand. We use a lot of ingredients in there. 44 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 1: But did you look up just have you seen Georgia. 45 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm no judgment, okay, I'm just telling you, Oh my god, 46 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: she's a beauty. So my dog is just very sensitive 47 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: stomach like me. So I just need like minimal, just 48 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,679 Speaker 1: minimal things. Have you tried the Farmer's Dog? Yes, Now 49 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: there's a lot of ingredients in there too, but I like, yeah, yeah, yeah, 50 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: I basically want to eat George's just food for dogs. 51 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: It's rice, carrots, peas and like meat. Looks like a 52 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 1: great stir fright. To be honest with you, I mean 53 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: the battle. I cannot handle the dog battle ever since 54 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: she got a boyfriend and a dog. It's my my, my, my, 55 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: my tiny's my FM mym that the other day. But 56 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: maybe maybe you know when you go over there to 57 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: my FM and was trying to tell us about bad buddy, 58 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: how she went by her? What did you say, Marion Morris, 59 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: don't know, Haley Beverley too. Yeah. Yeah. Marianna comes in 60 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: to talk about how she went to go see bat 61 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: Buddy by herself. Well, my friend Haley Bieber wand you go, 62 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: Haley Bieber, I said, Haley, I think they're my FM 63 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: is calling looking for some Yesterday we were talking about 64 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: flipping text to people and Tanya said, no one says that, 65 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: and I said, okay, well what do you do? Like 66 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: do you do you do you flip an email? I'll 67 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: flip you an email. Tanya is not saying much today. 68 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: You say lab. You always say lob laba text, Yeah, 69 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: Tanya does. Yeah, well lob. What's the difference in flipping lob? Honestly? Yeah, 70 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: fair question, Like lob sounds worse than flip a slow 71 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: roll over. But Sydney, you had to suck a text 72 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: back that you flipped, you know how. There's that new 73 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 1: feature now with the update. Oh yeah, I used it 74 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,679 Speaker 1: for the first time, like in an immerge agency mode. 75 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: So what happened? So I'm on the couch and I 76 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: you know, I always have my phone right by me, 77 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: and the kids has come up and they love to 78 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: play with it and they know how to get to 79 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: the camera feature and they take pictures and whatever. It 80 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: usually doesn't really bother me. But I think because it 81 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: was maybe already open. Usually if they're taking pictures, it's 82 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: in lock mode, so I'm not worried about it, and like, really, 83 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: nothing can happen. I guess it wasn't in lock mode. 84 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: So Asa sitting there and she's just snapping, snapping, snap, 85 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 1: and I'm not thinking anything of it. I'm sitting there 86 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: on the couch like in a not very pleasant or 87 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: flattering position, and all of a sudden I hear the 88 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 1: like a text message has been sent and it went 89 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: and it went, and I grabbed my phone and I 90 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: see who she sent the message to, and it's to 91 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: Maxim's hip hop instructor. And I'm like, oh my gosh, 92 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 1: what do I do? And I used the feature and 93 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: I sucked back the picture. But you have to suck 94 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 1: it back before they see it. Right, So the teacher 95 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 1: did not see it. I don't know if they saw 96 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: it or not. If they didn't do it dropped, right, 97 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,799 Speaker 1: My heart dropped. And I'm hoping they did not see 98 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 1: I'm hoping they didn't see the picture. But it said 99 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: for me on my end, this picture has been deleted 100 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 1: or whatever or been sucked back and then that was it. 101 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: How do you even know to do that? Like, I 102 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't even know how to do It's the new iOS 103 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: feature everybody's talking about. Yeah, how do you do it? 104 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: When you want to execute us? You hold the picture 105 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 1: down and then it gives you a little menu and 106 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: it says delete photo or edit your post or whatever. 107 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: I'm always afraid that I when I'm like sending a 108 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: photo and that I do a check check mark. You know, 109 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: when you get up your photos, you started hitting check 110 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: to you send a bunch of once. I'm always afraid 111 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: that someone I'm gonna slide against the photo on the 112 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: check that I don't want to go. Oh it does 113 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: it deletes it? I know, well, it deletes it. Like 114 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 1: so I thought, I'm like, okay, I'm in the clear, right, 115 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,600 Speaker 1: But that's only if they've done the update. If they 116 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: haven't done the update, then I think it might have 117 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: gone through to them. And then when I went on 118 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: my comp uter, it's still on my eye messages on 119 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: my computers, I was like, oh, so I really don't 120 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: know how how accurate this is. But I have seen 121 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: the teacher since then, and I just I literally act 122 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: so awkward and I don't know what to say. And 123 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: why do you go through and clean out your camera too? 124 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: Like you gotta go back? Everyone want to clean it up. 125 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: It's impossible. There's so much just things on there that 126 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: you don't want to mistakenly have to even suck up. 127 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: But I don't know that I have many of those. 128 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: But it's just more like multiple repeat photos that we 129 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: don't need, right, What do you have on yours that 130 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: you would not want sent out me? I'm asked everyone 131 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: to capture of photo from who oh, like, um, like 132 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: your body not me? Why are you? Why are you 133 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: so fidgetty? Hasn't haven't you ask your going to take 134 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: a photo of you? And like something? No, I can't 135 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: say that. You never said grab a picture of me 136 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: in this dress? No. Uh, He's not a great photographer, 137 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: so I just kind of usually you do it yourself yourself. 138 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: I have the best pictures of Michael with the kids, 139 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: Like it's literally like I should win medals and awards 140 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: for my photography. And then like you see the pictures 141 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: of him that he takes of me with the kids, 142 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: and it's like, who don't pay attention to It's kind 143 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: It's like point press. You should hurl up Michael text 144 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: right now and let him know like a bad pictures 145 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: take all of minor framers and he are like fling 146 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: him a text. Here's your morning hack and your quote 147 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 1: of the day. What is the first thing you do 148 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 1: when you wake up in the morning. Most successful people 149 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 1: go by this rule. They never start their day answering emails. 150 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: Now it's interesting because I all, we'll set my alarm 151 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: thirty minutes earlier to not answer emails at night, so 152 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: I can do them first thing in the morning. I 153 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: prefer to have my coffee and then flip emails, you know, 154 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: out two people, first thing in the morning, all at once, 155 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: instead of doing it at night. I'm less stressed in 156 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 1: the morning and have a clear mind in the morning, 157 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: and the coffee kicks in and you're kind of a 158 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: good mood. Yeah, he's nice. Is that what this access 159 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 1: to do? I think says don't answer emails When you 160 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: start your day by checking your inbox, you put yourself 161 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 1: into a reactive state, reacting to other people's requests instead 162 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: of setting out to get your own things done. Work 163 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: through the hard stuff early on and save the email 164 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: task for lunch or later. In the day. I just 165 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 1: don't like sending stuff at the end of the day. 166 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: And that's not how our jobs work. If we do 167 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: a morning show, like we have to respond in the morning. 168 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 1: Can you imagine if Mark email doesn't like four am 169 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: and we just were like, well, we're not going to 170 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: respond to this is not like that, I know. So 171 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: when I went to me, heaves us an email we 172 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: have to get back for Yeah, yeah, here's your quote. 173 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: Apply for that job, date that person, buy that plane ticket, 174 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: move to that city. Does well. Tom Brady and Giselle 175 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:24,679 Speaker 1: Bunchin split seems to loom large, as Yahoo confirmed that 176 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: she has hired a divorce lawyer. The longtime couple's relationship 177 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: has been in turmoil since you know, Tom unretired earlier 178 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: this year. It's unclear if he has lawyered up as well. However, 179 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: Page six, which was first to report the news, claims 180 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 1: that the seven times Super Bowl champ has also found 181 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 1: legal representation. That just makes me so sad for them. 182 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 1: The centerpiece for Thanksgiving tables across the country will cost 183 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: more than ever this holiday season. The American Farm Beer 184 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:58,559 Speaker 1: Federation says families can expect to pay a record high 185 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: prices at the grocery store for turkey due to bird 186 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: flu and inflation. Skinless turkey breasts reached a record high 187 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: of six dollars and seventy cents per pound in September, 188 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: which was up a hundred and twelve percent from one 189 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: So be prepared. And it seems like Elon Musk is 190 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: once again buying Twitter. According to sources close to the negotiations, 191 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: Musk is now willing to honor the original deal to 192 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 1: acquire Twitter for fifty four dollars and twenty cents to share, 193 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: valuing Twitter at forty four billion dollars. This latest decision 194 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: from Musk comes after the billionaire announced that he would 195 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,839 Speaker 1: buy the social media platform back in April, and then 196 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: proceeded to try to back out of the binding agreement 197 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: in July. So we shall see if he follows through 198 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: with this deal. Unaired with Ryan Seagrez. Now the weekend 199 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: is coming to l A a cancel Remember he had 200 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: to cancels l A show after just a few songs 201 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: he lost his voice. Rescheduled for Thanksgiving weekend, we got 202 00:11:56,480 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: tickets and now we're gonna play the game or is 203 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: the music game is called weekend X or someone we 204 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: elect weekend X or someone we elect. I prefer the 205 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 1: match game, but we'll play this now. Alright. The mid 206 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 1: term elections are just a month away, so we'll give 207 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 1: you a name. You tell us if it's someone the 208 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: weekend used to date an X or someone running for 209 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: office in California. But we'll see on your ballot when 210 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: it comes in the mail. You gotta get three right 211 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: where you get three wrong. The game is called weekend 212 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,559 Speaker 1: X or someone we elect? Rolls off the tongue. So, 213 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: good morning, Ronica, you are contested, laplane. How are you good? Thanks? 214 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: You're gonna play this game weekend exert someone we elect 215 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: for tickets to go see the weekend? Okay, okay, here's 216 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: the first one. Your Vanna Ventura, Your Vana Ventura, is 217 00:12:55,840 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: that the weekends X or someone we might elect? Oh, 218 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 1: someone you might elect? That is one of the weekends 219 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: xes were spot holding hands in November so long ago, 220 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: Ryan standards and practices. All right, Next one, Angela Jacobs, 221 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: Angela Jacobs, is that weekend X or someone we may elect? 222 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: Mm hmm did you say Angela Jacobs, Angela Jacobs? Yes, 223 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: the Angela Jacobs? Oh um, what is it? Yes? Correct? 224 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: Thank you for taking that in Like, I'm pretty loud 225 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: over there. One second, Ryan, Okay, here we go next. 226 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: So we gotta get Sean. Tell Jeffries, Sean tell Jeffries 227 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: a weekend X or someone we may elect the Weekends X. 228 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: Good guys, that is right, the Weekends X. All right, 229 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: now for the win. Surely Webber, surely Webber, uh someone 230 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: you might elect? Hang on, I'm still typing it in. Yes, 231 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: that's correct. Congratulations, you're going to see the Weekend. It's stadium, Veronica. 232 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: Thank you for playing. Thank you, Thank you Weekend X 233 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: or someone we elect. You have a good time at 234 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: the show. Thank you, You're welcome. I think the match 235 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: game is a little bit more regulated. I too, standards 236 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: and practices, and they do make quieter keyboards. These things 237 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: get in her phone. I don't know. I pulled one 238 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: out from the cabinet that was an old keyboard, Dick 239 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 1: belong do. I'm like, what keyboard are you using? Your 240 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: right now? I know, I know, I know. On air 241 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest, did you have a chance to look 242 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: up Isaiah Garza on TikTok? Listen to this Isaiah just 243 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: walking up to a stranger. How you doing. Oh, not 244 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: too bad. How are you doing? I'm sorry to bother you. Oh, 245 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: I've had a really really rough day. I just wanted 246 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 1: to see if you'd be willing to go to disney 247 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: And with me today. Hey, that's great. You really I 248 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 1: can't believe this. He walks up to this elderly man 249 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: and says, hey, do you want to go to Disneyland 250 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: today with me? Be my friend for the day, and 251 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 1: changes this man's life and they're total strangers. How does 252 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: it feel to be a Disneyland today? Oh? My god, 253 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: one of the best days of my life. Like I've 254 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: I've been dreaming or remember this day. You don't know 255 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: how much I appreciate. So let me bring in Isaiah Garza. 256 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: It's a very very touching and compelling video to watch. 257 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: Isaiah Ryan, how are you brother? Brother? I loved watching 258 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: this video. You put an ad on Craigslist right saying 259 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: that you wanted to make a senior citizen smile and 260 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: the caregiver for a one hundred year old guy. William Good, 261 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: a World War Two veteran, responded, huh yeah, it was 262 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: pretty crazy actually, like it literally was like a fake ad. 263 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 1: Like literally when she called me, I was like, Okay, 264 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. My name Isaiah Garza 265 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 1: and make these like videos but you cannot tell him anything. 266 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,439 Speaker 1: And we set it all up without him knowing, and 267 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: it like was literally like it was insane, Like I 268 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: can't believe it all worked out how it did to 269 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 1: be honest with you know, did you of you guys 270 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 1: go to Anaheim? And it's all captured on video. You 271 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 1: can see it, and it's so moving because he got 272 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: emotional about it being one of the best days of 273 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,640 Speaker 1: his life. Yeah, you know it. I feel like Ryan, 274 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of senior citizens get left 275 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 1: out these days. And he told me literally it was 276 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: the best day of his life. And like, ah man, 277 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: the other things he said that wasn't in the video, 278 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: Like I cried probably like three or four times like 279 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 1: during that day. Yeah, and you approached him in a 280 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: parking Anaheim. And what was it like to take him 281 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 1: to Disneyland? Honestly, Like the best word is magical, like 282 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: it it goes with Disney, you know. But it was 283 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 1: like for me, it was special because it felt like 284 00:17:54,720 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 1: just like a genuine human connection and interaction. And it 285 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: was also special because it was somebody who you could 286 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: tell just really needed it. Like it was the right place, 287 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: the right time, the right person, And it was honestly 288 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:10,679 Speaker 1: magical for me. It gave me more life. Honestly, it 289 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 1: was beautiful. And by the way, Isaiah does this like, um, 290 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: he gives cash to unsuspecting people were falling on hard times, right, 291 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 1: I do this full time. It's amazing. And how do 292 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: you make your money mostly through brand deals? Like that's 293 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 1: how I've made money. It is through brand deals. Um. 294 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: But like any money I make, I usually just like 295 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: give it back to the community or or fundraise for people. 296 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: I probably raised over a million dollars in the last 297 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: year for like homeless families or kids going through chemo 298 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: treatment or you know stuff like that in the last year. 299 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: That's amazing. And did you pitch Disney the idea of 300 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:50,239 Speaker 1: a senior citizens Day at Disney? I did. I did 301 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 1: pitch that. I had a meeting with Disney Parks a 302 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: few days ago, and I did pitch that idea to them. 303 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're gonna happen, but I'm a 304 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 1: great idea. And you know, like grandkids, great grandkids can 305 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 1: take their family their seniors. Yeah, I mean, how incredible 306 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 1: would that be, like a senior's day and like all 307 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: these it would be amazing, you know, and start a 308 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: trend to to take out other seniors. You know. Well, 309 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 1: you're a good man, Isaac Gardisa check him out on TikTok. 310 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: Bro thanks for coming out and sharing the story. I 311 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,920 Speaker 1: appreciate you. Ryan, You guys take care, take care of man. 312 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: What a cool look at some of the stuff he's 313 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 1: been doing. Everybody so cool. So let me grab Jared 314 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: and vanic Ja. Good morning. How you doing, bro geart 315 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 1: about yourself? I'm doing well. Thank you very much for asking. 316 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,640 Speaker 1: How can I help you? So check it. So, we've 317 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 1: got a situation that's a little sticky. I was all 318 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: my girlfriend's computer right and I found an Excel spreadsheet 319 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: of every guy she has ever dated. Look. I understand 320 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,199 Speaker 1: that sometimes people you know, keeps, keep a list of 321 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 1: people who they've slept with something, But Brian, the detail 322 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: was insane. How many people were on the spreadsheet? You 323 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,640 Speaker 1: know what? For for the safety of her and others, 324 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to keep it, but I'll tell you it's 325 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: in the two digits. It's in the high tens, high tens, 326 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: high tens. Hi twenties, high tens, HI high Teenskay, got it. 327 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: So what are the level of details on the spreadsheet? Listen, 328 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 1: we're talking first date, what they did, first kiss, where 329 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 1: it was, when they hate each face. She rated each 330 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: of them on keeping and on how they were in 331 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 1: bed and when the relationship ended the last time that 332 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 1: they heard from each other. Look right, I'm telling you 333 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 1: it was crazy. Wait a minute. What's the difference in 334 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: this in a in a journal? I have this, but 335 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: it's in journal form. Do you rate people in bed? 336 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: I don't rate them, but I have journals of my 337 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: whole past before, Michael, Listen, journal is one thing science. 338 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: It fixed spreadsheet. It's way too technical. Does she know 339 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 1: that you found this? No, I was snooping and I 340 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 1: was kind of not minding her her business. So why 341 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 1: were you snooping in the first place. It's one of 342 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 1: those things. I stumbled upon it. I was just curious 343 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 1: to see, you know, what it is? And then I 344 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 1: stumbled upon and I couldn't get my eyes off. I 345 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,159 Speaker 1: kept reading and and seeing all these notes, and it 346 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: got so specific I had to stop. But it was crazy. 347 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:31,399 Speaker 1: At least I got a rating of eight for you know, 348 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,120 Speaker 1: kissing and eight the fiving bed, which is not bad, 349 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: but it wasn't the highest either. That also here two 350 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 1: and then it's like, should I come? Should I confront 351 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 1: her about this? I mean, I don't know, it's gonna 352 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: bother me, but you know what I'm saying, Yeah, I don't. Look, 353 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know why she needs to keep 354 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 1: it right, if you guys are together, why should it 355 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 1: keep a spreadsheet? Like? Why is it on her desk? 356 00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 1: It's like computer desktop whatever. I'm I mean, here, here's 357 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: the thing. I kind of blame you. You You snoop you 358 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 1: you know when you start snooping, Like every time I think, oh, 359 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna snoop through someone's phone, I'm like, I don't 360 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 1: want to snoop through something. You're gonna find something and 361 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,640 Speaker 1: it's gonna make you nuts. And so this is kind of, 362 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: you know, self inflicted. But you either got to put 363 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: it out of your mind or tell her like lose 364 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,679 Speaker 1: the spreadsheet program. But besides that, what am I just 365 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 1: another statistic on the spreadsheet? Or am I the last one? 366 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 1: Why don't you work on being the best? I mean, 367 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 1: but it wasn't you could long play. You could long 368 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: play write a screenplay about it, don't use real names. 369 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,639 Speaker 1: Then the movie premiere, take her to go see you. 370 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 1: I mean that is aggressive insider information you know about 371 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: all these relationships, enterprising Jared, good luck on this one. 372 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: But I do think like you opened up the can 373 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 1: of worms because you start going through her stuff, you 374 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: know darn well that there is a chance you're gonna 375 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: see something you don't want to fall. Ryan Seacres the 376 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: Middle of the week, seacrests and Tanya here Sunshine, this 377 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: morning eyes in the low eighties and mid nineties. We're 378 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: gonna pay your bills again here in just a second. 379 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 1: And Tani is a trending report on the way. Tanya, 380 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 1: what are we getting into in a moment? Well, m 381 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: Rada is taking a stand for women and entering her 382 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: b era. I'm here for it. I'm subscribing, and I'll 383 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: explain who em Rada Emily Radachowski. Okay, I need full names. 384 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 1: I'm Rada. Everybody calls her m Rada. That I don't 385 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 1: think everybody calls her Randa. Everybody everybody may When she 386 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: says em Rada, I have a friend named Rada Aurora, 387 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:59,120 Speaker 1: I was like, what about Rada? No? Rata. I didn't 388 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 1: know who she was talking, aren't. So if you know 389 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 1: who Emily, Well, that's my point. That's why I'm saying, 390 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 1: use the full name. Let's not exclude tops from knowing 391 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: who were talking. Now, I only want to know if 392 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 1: she's dating Brett Pitt. Well, yeah, Thisy've been on a 393 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:17,160 Speaker 1: few days. This could give you some clues. Okay, So 394 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: that's coming up in just a moment. Earlier this morning 395 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 1: on This World Teacher's Day, we were talking about the 396 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: morning hack and that most successful people never start their 397 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,159 Speaker 1: day by reading emails or replying to emails. And I 398 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 1: find that so interesting that some of the most successful 399 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 1: people in the world don't do it. First thing. I 400 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: find that, as we said in the morning, it's the 401 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,679 Speaker 1: best time for me to reply. We're playing at night, 402 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: I'm tired and like y'all send a bunch of emails 403 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: about people come up on the show and movies to 404 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,880 Speaker 1: talk about and things like that, and I think, sissony, 405 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 1: I didn't read them. I just saw the reply in 406 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 1: the one line that was like, yes, I loved it. 407 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: I think right. But there was a chain that came 408 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 1: through last night and I thought, you know, no one 409 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: needs to deal with that till morning, but now successful 410 00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 1: people deal with it at night, which is why you 411 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 1: guys probably replied, I didn't read the chain. Is everything sorted? 412 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: I think that's where I was left off. So who 413 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: knows the time? Amy wants like one response and then 414 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 1: she runs with it. Yeah, I actually think Amy doesn't 415 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 1: even care about our responses, and maybe there are times 416 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: like that. Okay, let's get to the trending report. So 417 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 1: Emily Rooski, yes, So she is weighing in on the 418 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: controversy surrounding the Netflix movie Blonde. So there's been a 419 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:31,119 Speaker 1: lot Yes, I've seen it. Friends of mine we're telling 420 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: me about. So there's a lot of criticism surrounding this movie, 421 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:41,160 Speaker 1: in particular for filming Maryland's death scene. And without getting 422 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 1: into much detail, she says that this is fetishizing, fetishizing 423 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: Marilyn monrose death. So Emily Rotatowski is she's not taken 424 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 1: this lightly, and she went off on her TikTok about it, 425 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: and she said, another movie fetishizing female pain, even in death. 426 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: We love to fetishize female pain. We obsess over Diana's death. 427 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 1: Watch any c s I episode and it's like this 428 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:07,359 Speaker 1: crazy fetis fetishization of female pain and death. That's a 429 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 1: really hard word to say, really is, and I've never 430 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 1: heard it conjugated like I know. Um. So she is 431 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 1: suggesting that we as women need to stop this and 432 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 1: we need to get angry, because she's like, you can't 433 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 1: fetishize anger. And so she proclaimed this as her era 434 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,640 Speaker 1: and she wants other women to join her in this movement. 435 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,919 Speaker 1: And I'm totally here for it. I am with you 436 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: and Rata. I loved everything that she was saying. Um. 437 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: But an interesting little fact about this, Brad Pitt is 438 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: a one of the producers of this movie Blonde. It's 439 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,360 Speaker 1: interesting that she's kind of going off on this. She's 440 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 1: being that she's quote unquote dating him, yeah or not, 441 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: because I'm like, if you're dating, subliminal response to I'm 442 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 1: not being together. Not subliminal, but like a response back 443 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,959 Speaker 1: without a clapp back. I haven't seen the movie. I 444 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 1: had heard some people have seen it and they made 445 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 1: up things like it wasn't all based, like there were 446 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: not there was not documentation of certain things that might 447 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: have happened in the movie. So things weren't made up 448 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 1: in parts of the movie. But what did you think 449 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 1: of the movie, you know, as a movie in itself. 450 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 1: It is. There's it's very very dark because it does 451 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 1: show you Maryland's life and it's not pretty, Like it's 452 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:22,200 Speaker 1: very sad the way that movie portrays her life. And 453 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: I mean it's NC seventeen, so that gives you a 454 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 1: little does not even mean I didn't even get the 455 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: R rating. Yeah, it's yeah, it's like a little. It's 456 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 1: graphic and there's there's maybe too intense for some people 457 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: to um digest, I guess, And I think overall, like cinematically, 458 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I appreciate it as an art so watch it. 459 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: It may not be for you, but I did appreciate 460 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: it as a movie. I tell you. I saw the 461 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 1: documentary that Jessica Chastain narrated about Marilyn Monroe. Have you 462 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 1: seen that. I think it might have been a CNN documentary, 463 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: but it was very interesting and she narrates the whole thing. 464 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,119 Speaker 1: So I've not seen the movie, but I saw the 465 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: documentaries a series. It was a short series about Maryland Monroe. 466 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,879 Speaker 1: But try watch Blonde. I will. I just want to 467 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 1: point out the bright star in this moment, the person 468 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:24,439 Speaker 1: delivering this information who had to say, did you practice that. 469 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 1: I can't even read the word fetish, fetish, fetis, fetisization, fetisiza, 470 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 1: Hold on, let's start with fetish, okay, fetish, and then fetishizing, 471 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: fetish size, fetis. Yeah, I don't think it's fetis, fetis, 472 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 1: fetishizing female pain, fetishizing, and fetishization. Good on you for 473 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: getting that. I wanted to do what her TikTok, and 474 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: I was like trying to. I was like, forget it. 475 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: I thought, I mean, if it were me, I just said, 476 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: could someone else please try and read this? And thank 477 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 1: you for doing it? All right? It was a CNN 478 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: reframed mell monroute March tell me was the doc I 479 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: saw drink. You should see that too, after you saw Blonde. 480 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, Ali mccowski is joining us here on zoom. 481 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 1: But I just want to have her hold for a 482 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: minute because I got to bring you back up the 483 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 1: speed on this. She started on our show when I 484 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: first started here in two thousand four, doing a call 485 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 1: crank calls under the name low Ali. And here's what 486 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 1: they sounded like, Yeah, can I get a wake up 487 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 1: call for tomorrow morning? Where? Yeah, I'm in bed? What 488 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: do you mean? Where? Am I at? Where am I 489 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 1: going to give you a wake up call? Oh? My house? 490 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 1: So she was calling a hotel. But I remember like 491 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,479 Speaker 1: being out in Los Angeles and people go, I love 492 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 1: low Ali, She's my favorite thing. I've been looking for 493 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: an auto insurance policy. What is your name? My name 494 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 1: is Ali. My dad said it would be too expensive. Okay, 495 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 1: how old are you? I'm ten? Well, then you can't 496 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 1: get an auto quote. You don't you don't have a 497 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: driver's license. Will you lied to me? Then? What do 498 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 1: you mean? Because for Christmas I asked for the new 499 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 1: Barbie Corvette and he said I couldn't get it because 500 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: the insurance was too much. So she was doing that 501 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: way back when she was ten or eleven years old. 502 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: Now she's twenty seven and she's a successful stand up comedian, 503 00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,719 Speaker 1: and she's got a show in Irvine tonight, so you 504 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 1: can see her perform live. Here is some of her 505 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: stand ups. I learned a lot from watching murder shows 506 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 1: I worked recently that I should never start my day 507 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 1: like any other. I don't know if you've seen a 508 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: murder show, but what normally happens is that a white 509 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 1: woman starts her day like any other. She murder. How 510 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 1: did you meet her? Where do we put the microphone 511 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: in the back of the other room from hest? Um? Oh, 512 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 1: that's why her cadence is great. I don't I have 513 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: to ask her. I think maybe she called into the show. 514 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: It had been that she called into the show, and 515 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,360 Speaker 1: she just was so charming that we thought, let's try 516 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 1: and have a segment born out of it. And she 517 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 1: did it for years and was brilliant and people loved it. 518 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: I mean it made me laugh every time, and she 519 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: did these calls on a regular basis and people loved 520 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: hearing low Ali. And she was ten or eleven years 521 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: old back then. Now she's twenty seven and a stand 522 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: up comedian joining us. I know, right. I can't even 523 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: believe it, Ali, how are you? I'm good. As soon 524 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: as you said seven, I was like, oh my goodness, No, 525 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 1: What do you remember about making those calls at such 526 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 1: a young age? You were like famous here at ten 527 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: years old? Yeah, I mean I was. I think I 528 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 1: was six when I first called you guys and ended 529 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 1: up getting the job completely randomly, and I have such 530 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: vivid memories of all of it. Um. Yeah, I remember 531 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,479 Speaker 1: getting picked up from school early and getting to go 532 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: to the studio and I felt like such a superstar. 533 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 1: And I was like everyone at school was like, Ali's 534 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 1: going to Hollywood. Al's going to Hollywood to talk to Ryan, 535 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 1: and I was like, you're right, and I'm not doing 536 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 1: my homework. We were talking about how it all started, 537 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: and I think it started organically because you had called 538 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: in early on, and then we're like, this girl is 539 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 1: so charming and so funny, and then we just started 540 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 1: these calls and they really worked. I remember you guys, 541 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 1: uh described me using the word precocious, and I was like, 542 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 1: I'm six years old. I don't know what that means. 543 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: I hope that's a good thing. Um, But yeah, I 544 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 1: remember I called randomly. I asked my sister what to 545 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: say on the radio, and she was like, asked for 546 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 1: Britney Spears tickets, But I asked, you made me sing 547 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 1: a song, I say, toxic at six years old, I'm 548 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: singing about the taste of your lips and uh. And 549 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 1: then you said that you had American Idol tickets, not 550 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 1: Britney Spearce tickets, and I was like, I'll only go 551 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: up there, v I p or I am like that 552 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 1: exactly six years old and then you're like, You're like, 553 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: where are your parents? And I was like, I don't know. 554 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: It's seven in the morning. I'm like, who cares? So 555 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: when did you start stand up? So, um, I blame 556 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 1: it all on on you. I didn't realize that there 557 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: was a career opportunity out of making prank phone calls 558 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: and you can't become a lawyer after that. So I 559 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 1: I got the idea in high school. I started watching 560 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: a lot of comedy. I would use my sister's ID 561 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 1: to get into the comedy clubs and uh, and I 562 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: just fell in love with it. So I did my 563 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 1: first open mic right after high school, and I knew 564 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 1: that that's what I wanted to do. I'm gonna play 565 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 1: a little clip of some of your stand up here 566 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 1: to the pharmacy the other day and they said my 567 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 1: prescription was going to be seventy three dollars. I was like, 568 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 1: you know what, I kind of like the seas infection. Wow, 569 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 1: I've heard that yet. I've grown off, Bryan. I'm not 570 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 1: he puts up. I mean, it's like so true to I. Yeah, 571 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 1: I'm not a little Alley anymore. I'm very much adult Alley. 572 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,399 Speaker 1: Now A right, there's some more adult alley. I don't 573 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 1: know what this clip is. Murder shows on my computer. 574 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: That's all I do. Yeah, I would love murder when 575 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 1: it's not happening to us one of our favorite girls. 576 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 1: So how do you come up with the material? Just 577 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,400 Speaker 1: real life? Just real life? Yeah, I'm I'm starting to 578 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 1: talk a lot about my family. I don't know if 579 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,320 Speaker 1: you remember my dad, but he's a very interesting guy. 580 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 1: So just trying to pull from real things and feelings 581 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 1: and uh and yeah, it's it's a weird process. But 582 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,399 Speaker 1: sometimes I'll just say something in conversation and someone will 583 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 1: laugh and I'll be like, maybe there's also your delivery. 584 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 1: Your delivery in a way, is you have the same 585 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 1: sort of delivery as you always cadence from when you 586 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,839 Speaker 1: were a little girl. Yeah, yeah, there's something like a 587 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 1: little bit, a little bit slow, little mumbly. Everyone always 588 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 1: asked me where I'm from, and I'm like, I'm from 589 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 1: Long Beach and they're like, we tell you from like 590 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 1: the Midwest or something. I don't know what it is. 591 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: I just yeah, there's it's an interesting delivery. You've got 592 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,879 Speaker 1: to show at the Irvine Improv tomorrow night. Tickets at 593 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 1: ali A l I mckowski m A c o F 594 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 1: s k Y dot com. Are you doing a lot 595 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 1: of different shows? Yeah, I'm I'm going everywhere. I'm going 596 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:48,920 Speaker 1: to be in New York. I'm gonna be in Seattle. UM, 597 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,319 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff on the East Coast coming up. Yeah, 598 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:55,799 Speaker 1: I'm kind of everywhere. Congratulations, it's so cool to be 599 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm literally sitting in the same place I've been sitting 600 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 1: for twenty years. You've made a whole life and career 601 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 1: out of what you started here. I'm so happy for you. 602 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 1: I am so happy for you where I am thank you. Yeah, 603 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 1: I love getting to have that story. It's like you 604 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,239 Speaker 1: know when people you first meet someone and they're like, 605 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: what's the fun fact about you? I'm like, oh, I 606 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:22,359 Speaker 1: got a good one. I got a good one. Well, 607 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 1: well we should have keep following you and stay close 608 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 1: and you know, keep it up badly. It's so great 609 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 1: to see you. Congratulations. Good to see you too. By 610 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:37,880 Speaker 1: I mean, that's amazing. She was six years old, calls in. 611 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 1: Then she does that segment. I guess for years and 612 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:45,720 Speaker 1: now literally all riding around material and she's funny. She 613 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:49,439 Speaker 1: should have a special, Yeah, a stand up special. Yeah. 614 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: Like on Netflix, right, like Taylor Tomlinson. Taylor Tomlinson one 615 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 1: of my favorites. They're like the same age, does it 616 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 1: Taylor talking about being twenty five or twenty six? Well, 617 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 1: it'd be cool to have like a little documentary behind it, 618 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 1: because is there any like video of her going into 619 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 1: the studio and recording those She's get checked out of 620 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 1: school before there, you know what I mean? Like the 621 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:15,880 Speaker 1: fact that she couldn't record that stuff from home like 622 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,840 Speaker 1: he had. She had a drive to Hollia from Long Actually, 623 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 1: not only that, I think we picked her up. I 624 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: think we sent car services sometimes to pick her up 625 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 1: to come in and it always be like we have 626 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 1: to talk to her dad to get the On air 627 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:33,040 Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest, Tubbs, bring in your favorite guest of 628 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:36,680 Speaker 1: the day on Hunt Day, help her day. So we 629 00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:41,560 Speaker 1: got in this conversation about romance in your relationships and 630 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:46,600 Speaker 1: wondering do we know what we're doing or do we 631 00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,360 Speaker 1: just take it all from TV and movies and assume 632 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,800 Speaker 1: we're doing it right? And well right, we can always 633 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: in the students, well, I think you know, we're taught 634 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 1: so many things, but one of the most important things 635 00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:01,600 Speaker 1: in life is being connected with your part and making 636 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:07,359 Speaker 1: the smile difficult to talk about this on the air. 637 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,839 Speaker 1: This is what keeps this is what keeps relationships together, right, 638 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 1: the intimacy and the communication of the intimacy. And Evan 639 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 1: mark Katz is joining us right now. He's a dating 640 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 1: coach as part of our hump Day Helper segment, which 641 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 1: is clearly later in the morning after school starts. Uh, coach, 642 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 1: how are you great to be here? Bryan? I'm I'm 643 00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 1: really excited. I got some good questions to answer for 644 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 1: you today. Okay, good, Well these are from people listening now. 645 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,320 Speaker 1: You call yourself a personal trainer for smart, successful, strong 646 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 1: women over women have graduated from love you. What is that? 647 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 1: It's the six months of course that I have for 648 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,480 Speaker 1: women who are struggling to fix their broken man. Picker, 649 00:38:55,440 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 1: Man picker, you mean they're choosing the wrong guys. You could, 650 00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 1: you could be the world's greatest person, but if you 651 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: shack up with the wrong person, you have no future. 652 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,560 Speaker 1: So getting the decision right early on, it's going to 653 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,279 Speaker 1: save you a lot of trouble in the future. And 654 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 1: how is it you know all this a lot of 655 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,440 Speaker 1: trial and aaron practice. Uh. Dating in l a for 656 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,520 Speaker 1: about ten years, as now married for six team years, 657 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 1: coaching for twenty, so I've helped a lot of women. 658 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,439 Speaker 1: All right, let's get to some of the questions, because 659 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna do these hump day helper segments about anything 660 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:32,600 Speaker 1: in your romance, anything in your intimacy category department they 661 00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 1: think you want to ask about we're talking to somebody 662 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,279 Speaker 1: want to answer it. So this is from the six 663 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,319 Speaker 1: One says, my X and I ended very badly two 664 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 1: years ago, but I still have his location on my phone. 665 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 1: I check it often and then spiral about who he 666 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 1: might be with, if he's at dinner or a movie 667 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 1: or something. Why am I like this? How do I 668 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,919 Speaker 1: move on? Good question? Yeah? I mean I think there's 669 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 1: no great value beating yourself up for being human. Wondering 670 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 1: about the past is normal, but it's going to go 671 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:04,240 Speaker 1: online and cyberstock and X. I think the key phrase 672 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 1: from what you wrote is my X and I ended 673 00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 1: very badly, right, So to to invest a lot of 674 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:14,479 Speaker 1: trans fantasizing about something where you already know it's dead 675 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 1: in the water, Her best move would be to try 676 00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,719 Speaker 1: to look forward and find someone else. And when you 677 00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 1: have a happy relationship, you're not going to be obsessing 678 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:26,120 Speaker 1: about your ex workings. Add it badly. M that's true, 679 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,600 Speaker 1: and remove him from your location. But that's the thing. 680 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,040 Speaker 1: When you have that there, or you're still following them 681 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 1: look at their Instagram, it's towards self torture. This is 682 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,399 Speaker 1: from Leah in Eagle Rock. I need advice on how 683 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,360 Speaker 1: to stop having a giant crush on a coworker. We 684 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,120 Speaker 1: work in a classroom all day together and get along 685 00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 1: so well. We're both married. I would never act on this, 686 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:52,319 Speaker 1: but I find myself fantasizing about him. I would never 687 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,799 Speaker 1: jeopardize my marriage and act on it, but I can't 688 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 1: stop thinking about it. This is this is um. I'm 689 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,400 Speaker 1: sort of sensing to see you um with these questions 690 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 1: where people want things that are not meant to be, 691 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 1: things that are that are taboo and so uh. You know. 692 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 1: Le also needs to recognize it's it's human to have 693 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 1: crushes on other people. Just because you're married doesn't mean 694 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 1: you stop having eyes. That doesn't mean you stop having feelings. 695 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,360 Speaker 1: At the same time, if you're presumably happily married, you 696 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,360 Speaker 1: have to recognize that having a crush on someone is easy. 697 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,680 Speaker 1: I think of the dozen hundreds of people that you've 698 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,480 Speaker 1: had crushes on, none of them had the happy ending 699 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,359 Speaker 1: that you wanted, except for the person you're married. So 700 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:34,759 Speaker 1: what we have to do is kind of killed the 701 00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,400 Speaker 1: fantasy that if she did anything with this guy that 702 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: it would go anywhere. Would it would be an obvious 703 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:42,400 Speaker 1: disaster if she would act on it. That she's already recognized, 704 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 1: So just realize it's like it's just a dopamine spike 705 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,440 Speaker 1: to have a crush on someone. She could even enjoy 706 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,759 Speaker 1: it as long as she recognizes it for what it is. 707 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,759 Speaker 1: So is there guilt in what she's feeling right now? 708 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 1: You think or not? I think she's probably feeling guilt. 709 00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 1: Guilt is also like a self imposed emotion. You only 710 00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 1: feel guilty if you think you're doing something wrong. So 711 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: you're lighting up around someone who you find attractive, Uh, 712 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,120 Speaker 1: that's okay. I think the key is whether you're going 713 00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,320 Speaker 1: to act on it. And it sounds like her morality 714 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,279 Speaker 1: is in the right place, so you know, in the 715 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,840 Speaker 1: best case scenarios, she could avoid temptation. Right, but she 716 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,919 Speaker 1: says she's in a classroom with them all day. I don't, 717 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think she needs to go to 718 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:21,880 Speaker 1: the higher ups and quit her job because of this. 719 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 1: So I think she could probably channel this into enjoying 720 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,239 Speaker 1: the crush and recognizing it for what it is, sort 721 00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 1: of something that reminds her of this part of her 722 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 1: that was single once upon a time. Um, I don't know. 723 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:38,920 Speaker 1: I feel like people tend to pathologize crushes and turn 724 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,319 Speaker 1: them into something bad. They're only bad if you act 725 00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:45,719 Speaker 1: on them. Hump helper. Evan mark Kat's with us, all right, Well, 726 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: I know he's got more, but we're out of time 727 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 1: for this segment. So thank you very much for coming on. 728 00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 1: Personal trainer, he says, for smart, strong, successful women over 729 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 1: women have graduated from his Love You six month course. 730 00:42:56,040 --> 00:43:00,480 Speaker 1: It helps women understand men and find love. Evan mark 731 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,800 Speaker 1: Kats dot com. But if you're listening to this segment 732 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: and there are any questions you have for a segment 733 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,319 Speaker 1: like this will rotate different people. You can text us 734 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,080 Speaker 1: four one or two seven, But I would imagine that 735 00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 1: with every situation and story that we've talked about, somebody 736 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 1: listenings in that situation as well. Thank you, coach having 737 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:20,880 Speaker 1: for coming on. Thank you appreciate it. Right, So do 738 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 1: you agree secsany do you can have eyes for someone. 739 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,359 Speaker 1: I don't. That was that. I was very taken aback 740 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 1: from that. You don't have my feelings. But also like 741 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,920 Speaker 1: you still recognize attractive men. It's fine to recognize as 742 00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,840 Speaker 1: someone is attractive. I don't know about having a crush 743 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 1: on somebody and not acting on it, like especially someone 744 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,040 Speaker 1: that you work with every single day. And I don't 745 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,799 Speaker 1: think healthy. I don't think that's healthy. It's not like 746 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 1: the celebrity whatever list, right, I mean that's like too 747 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 1: close for comfort. I agree, I mean I don't think. 748 00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,279 Speaker 1: I don't think that's I don't know. I don't think 749 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 1: I could do it. I'm uncomfortable during these segments. No, 750 00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 1: this is good because who knows. That's why it's good. Yeah, 751 00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 1: I'm so, I'm saying I liked it. I liked it too. 752 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,560 Speaker 1: But it's the same thing of like, oh no, what's 753 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 1: how does he know? But he's telling us how does 754 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 1: he know? Take it with a grain of salt. Yeah, well, 755 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 1: next week talks, feel free to text in four one 756 00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,080 Speaker 1: or two seven. He made it seem like every married 757 00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 1: person has a crush and I was like, well, he's yes, generalizing, 758 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,359 Speaker 1: I guess. Mikayla on our staff was interested in trying 759 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,360 Speaker 1: different dating apps try and meet somebody here in l A. 760 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 1: Then we saw this one and we thought, let's understand 761 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: this first before she tries this one. It's called Field 762 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:44,080 Speaker 1: F E E L D correct. What's the concern? Well, 763 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 1: I feel like this hour is kind of like the 764 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 1: risk ay hour at this point, Hey, it's umpting help her. 765 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:52,479 Speaker 1: It's the kinky hour. Um So, Field is a dating 766 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,319 Speaker 1: now that's kind of similar to I guess you can 767 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:58,920 Speaker 1: say Tinder and Bumble, but with one major difference. It's 768 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,319 Speaker 1: designed for or than just I guess we can say 769 00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 1: Vanila Dating if you're single or if you're a couple 770 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 1: looking to explore and invite others into the bedroom. Field 771 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,840 Speaker 1: maybe the app for you. And who's on Field? People 772 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,399 Speaker 1: who want to Singles and couples are on fields third 773 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: wheel and the couple that wants the third wheel. Correct. 774 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:26,399 Speaker 1: So we were like, MICHAELA, maybe she were like, maybe 775 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:32,239 Speaker 1: don't try this one as a married woman. I can 776 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,799 Speaker 1: never imagine Michael and I ever like deciding like to 777 00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,799 Speaker 1: ever jump on an app like this, being like bored 778 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,640 Speaker 1: enough to invite somebody into our bedroom. But if you're 779 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 1: single and you're interested in a couple, you can see 780 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,719 Speaker 1: they're both of their profiles, so you both create a 781 00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,520 Speaker 1: profile and then you basically it'll show that you guys 782 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,520 Speaker 1: are a couple, but you also have individual profiles, and 783 00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,760 Speaker 1: then you will show a potential match with another person 784 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,080 Speaker 1: that wants to join in your rule essentially, And how 785 00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 1: do you measure whether people are on this and it's popular? 786 00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,880 Speaker 1: Ready or not? What do you mean it's popular? How 787 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,319 Speaker 1: do you know how many people are doing this? It's 788 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:09,200 Speaker 1: based on bigger cities, You're gonna have more success rate 789 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 1: versus a smaller town. But have any of us gotten 790 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,439 Speaker 1: into it and gotten on it to see what's really 791 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:17,799 Speaker 1: happening on it? But the article that I've researched last night, 792 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,640 Speaker 1: this person tried it for six months and so they 793 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:25,279 Speaker 1: really did kind of get into it, like they actively Yeah, 794 00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: they actively were trying and what they realized was that 795 00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 1: when you're in a big city, you actually have more 796 00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,200 Speaker 1: success rate versus a small town because they're not going 797 00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,400 Speaker 1: to have many people. Yeah, exactly. So, because this person 798 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 1: that did the investigative journalism went and followed through with 799 00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 1: the opportunities and and said that felt very safe, and 800 00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,239 Speaker 1: you know and it was it was It says it's 801 00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,840 Speaker 1: just like tender or bumble, but it's just a different 802 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 1: type of thinkiness. If that's what you're into. To each 803 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,759 Speaker 1: their own sort of speak to each their own, not 804 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,880 Speaker 1: for me, not for me, but field your own adventure, 805 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 1: play on player, probably very quiet download the Uh you 806 00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 1: think people would want to do it anonymously too? Can 807 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:19,239 Speaker 1: you do that? I don't know. You couldn't do it anonymously. 808 00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:22,600 Speaker 1: I think if probably because there was the more I read. 809 00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 1: You could make it so that you don't connect it 810 00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,680 Speaker 1: to like your social media accounts, Like you couldn't make 811 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 1: it so that he doesn't connect to your Facebook, and 812 00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:31,759 Speaker 1: you do kind of like keep those people out of 813 00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,280 Speaker 1: this because if you I feel like this is so 814 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,200 Speaker 1: you might want to keep this a secret, if this 815 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,880 Speaker 1: is love life that you want to explore better way 816 00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,400 Speaker 1: than like doing it in real life and like approaching 817 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,719 Speaker 1: somebody rogue because I remember there's this couple at the 818 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,840 Speaker 1: gym a few years ago and they were like I 819 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 1: feel like they were like scouting me out, and it 820 00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:51,799 Speaker 1: was very weird. And so it's like, if there's a 821 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:53,319 Speaker 1: place like do you feel that way or is that 822 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:58,839 Speaker 1: really happening. It was like really happening sometimes, like people 823 00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:02,280 Speaker 1: check you out. I think there's coping me this couple 824 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 1: and they were like it was very obvious, but um, 825 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,520 Speaker 1: I think it's better to have like an app So like, 826 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,640 Speaker 1: you know, if you're going on there, this is like 827 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,160 Speaker 1: what you're you know, you're down. So there's I guess 828 00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,560 Speaker 1: there's a universal sign that I have heard that if 829 00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 1: you put your pineapple upside down in your grocery cart, 830 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,200 Speaker 1: that means you're interested in this. Yep, I know that's 831 00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:22,640 Speaker 1: right about that. Yeah, upside down and that means you're 832 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,440 Speaker 1: scouting a third wheel. Yeah. Like I really used to 833 00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,960 Speaker 1: love pineapples and it really like killed them for me. 834 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,800 Speaker 1: And I still can enjoy a pineapple, yeah, but like 835 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:35,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to like to decorate with them now. 836 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:39,680 Speaker 1: I absolutely, yeah, it is. Garden gnomes too, are like 837 00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:45,719 Speaker 1: a thing gardens upside down in your Yeah, when you're 838 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,600 Speaker 1: walking the neighbors stuff, think about that when you're pushing 839 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 1: the stroller in your neighborhood and you see garden of 840 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what do you say about wheel barrels? 841 00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:59,919 Speaker 1: Wheel barrels? I'm just asking I heard the wheel barrel 842 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 1: No you did not on air On Air with Ryan Seacrest. 843 00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:09,120 Speaker 1: That's it for us. Join us tomorrow morning. We're back 844 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,239 Speaker 1: at early Painter bills all day long, and we have 845 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 1: a Ryan's roses tomorrow. 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