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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: We gotta go back?

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Speaker 1: Okay, story time after this, there you go, almost a

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Speaker 1: year ago to the tea. My ex blindsided me by

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Speaker 1: ghosting me, yes, completely ghosting me in.

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Speaker 3: The entire essence.

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Speaker 1: At this point, we were three years in Back then,

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Speaker 1: attention rather than standard, more than standard. She decided I

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Speaker 1: the way, this comes from Gavin on the Arsasha. Okay,

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Speaker 1: story time separate. So three months passed by and she

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Speaker 1: came back in January on her birthday. Where's my birthday present?

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Speaker 1: Did you get it for me? Vegeta? Vegeta, vegeta. Let's

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Speaker 1: just scouter stuff about his powers. Stop going super Sam

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Speaker 1: and pay attention. I'm paying attention. How can you pay

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's too much. Every time, I don't even because I

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Speaker 1: for now. So three months past she came back in

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Speaker 1: was sorry that she did it, sorry that she did it,

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Speaker 1: Foolishly I did accept. I will. I still saw my

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Speaker 1: this fight, being left behind for three months, left to

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Speaker 1: with each other for ten months. Everything was pretty good,

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Speaker 1: chat if you see it. Six months in we book

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Speaker 3: You're there, you're trying to I don't know what's the

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Speaker 3: pun for hinge?

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Speaker 1: Close the door.

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Speaker 3: Are you trying to get a squeaky hinge?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to stop using those hinges. Just lock

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Speaker 1: the door. Never use the hinge again. Are you trying

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Speaker 1: to have pre marital relations? Who is this Dakota? Guys?

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Speaker 1: I don't even know where is he? Where's the hat?

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Speaker 1: When you needed? Right? That's gone anytime? Putting the hat

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Speaker 1: cane yanking someone Like we yank one character and then

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Speaker 1: we put in the hat Dakota backing. I can't cover

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Speaker 1: the logo. We got some tinfoil. But so in our

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Speaker 1: When we get back home. Uh, and the relationship slowly

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Speaker 1: declines again as she gets closer to her departure date

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Speaker 1: for medical school. I'm cheering her on, letting her know

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Speaker 5: Yes, it does seem like but that's too easy, John,

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Speaker 1: To be honest, there's no there's there's billions of Dakotas.

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Speaker 3: I can do the hero voice from my hero so

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Speaker 3: good by he aaa. I'm sorry, you're right, Thank you, Kean.

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Speaker 1: Nice work, nice work. We need a spray bottle like

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Speaker 1: he's a cat like. Actually, I could never do it.

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Speaker 3: It's a respectful one if is it even bad? If

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Speaker 1: Okay. So again, I'm primarily instilling Again, I'm primarily instilling

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Speaker 1: I again, did a lot of the emotional heavy lifting,

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Speaker 1: even knowing what she put me through. Point is, a

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Speaker 1: one hundred times. And guess what it ain't eleven eleven

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So now you just move on, You leave

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Speaker 1: I have some bad news. No, this story is not

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Speaker 6: No? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That title says different, John, I think not.

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Speaker 3: Oh, but I'm not really.

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Speaker 1: A gambling man here, John, But that title says different.

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Speaker 1: Let's roll the dice, hit me with the parlay. Baby.

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Speaker 1: I'm devastated, but not super devastated, crying but not yelling

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Speaker 1: I think I feel what you're saying in your head.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even I'm not really rocking with Opie either.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, brothers the hard way, like this is too funny,

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Speaker 7: Like I mean we've all been there, right.

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Speaker 3: I guess yeah, I'm not even no, not like this.

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Speaker 3: This is this is, this is this is. It's like

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Speaker 3: you know, the kid, He's like, ow I burn myself

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Speaker 1: That's what he's saying.

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Speaker 3: Now, you keep poking the stove with your finger and

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Speaker 3: it's getting burned. Great, stove is a stove.

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Speaker 1: Also, Guys, tell me if I'm wrong in picking this up.

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Speaker 1: But the way he was like I was doing all

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Speaker 1: just like chill out a little bit, right? Is that

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Speaker 1: too much?

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Speaker 3: It's like you're trying to get it. You're trying to

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Speaker 3: was clearly the better one.

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Speaker 7: It's like, well, that's he sounds like the main character.

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Speaker 7: He sounds like I'm the main character and like everything's

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Speaker 7: going my way. You know what I mean, I'm the

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Speaker 7: main character. He technically is the main character this story

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Speaker 7: kind but hey, he's living this He's living this story full.

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Speaker 3: You got him, John, go on that technicality, Let's go

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Speaker 3: boy even eleven.

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Speaker 1: So mind you, this was year four of our relationship.

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize that I spent thousands of dollars to

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Speaker 1: they ate played games. What is it a food kitchen?

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Speaker 1: Point is? I truly did the best I could, but

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Speaker 1: end was too much. Again, Oh, he's like, oh he's

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Speaker 1: super salty, but he's like, I'm not salty. Dude's so blended.

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Speaker 3: Just move on, dude, just do it.

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Speaker 1: Just move on. Come on.

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Speaker 3: You've been with this person for four years and you're

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Speaker 3: you've seen everything you need to see.

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Speaker 1: From this person.

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Speaker 3: They're not the one for you.

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Speaker 1: Be done. I always have respect for her. No, you won't.

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Speaker 1: H she the relationship taught me about love, about spicy, sleep,

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Speaker 1: about respect, about myself, about culture, et cetera. I won't

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Speaker 3: But sorry, I just had to say all those things

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Speaker 3: he just listed.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to be in a.

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Speaker 3: Relationship to learn about that. Just putting that out there.

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Speaker 3: It's like you don't need to be dependent on another

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Speaker 3: about Sorry.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, the way she handled me was terrible, Like he

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Speaker 1: was a prime delivery package just thrown on the doorstep.

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Speaker 1: And she's not relationship material at all, at least for now.

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Speaker 1: That respect that he's talking about, Yeah, right, at least

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Speaker 1: for now we don't know. I truly wholly learned my lesson.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't take back my ex and she was perfect

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Speaker 1: in my eyes. I literally ignored every red flag just

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Speaker 1: to put her on a pedestal. He said, Dude, I

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Speaker 1: want to scream at the top of the mountaintops for

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Speaker 1: this guy.

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, just young me stuff young andy yo yo yo, yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's my wrap. Yeah, guys yo, you don't understand.

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Speaker 1: And it's like it's it's it's why there's no defense.

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Speaker 1: There's no defense. The other one, I can't defend you anymore.

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Speaker 1: It was like mean butt or whatever. And then I

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Speaker 1: got I fell into a trap. Yeah, eleven miles trap trap.

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Speaker 3: You fell into your own trap by but my young

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Speaker 3: butt okay, word is still young okay, worse than saying ass.

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Speaker 3: I think we might need to say that from now on.

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Speaker 1: I think to.

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Speaker 3: Prevent that sentence from ever being said again, you might

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Speaker 7: I love the picture that he's painting. He's like, she's

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Speaker 7: On the high road here. But like you know, I

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Speaker 3: That's right. She's gone, Kean, She's gone, okay, but I

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Speaker 1: To love her like the universe. I understand how tough

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Speaker 1: I tried to tell her, you're burning a bridge that

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Speaker 3: Oh, very growth growth, No, dude, you're.

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Speaker 1: I grew. I'm emotionally matured to coda. Did you know that?

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Speaker 3: Who's growing?

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Speaker 1: This girl who's going to be a doctor.

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Speaker 3: That's true, and and not worrying about the relationship.

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Speaker 1: She's already told you she's not ready to be invested in.

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Speaker 1: Can we do a poll? Who's worse Opie or girlfriend?

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Speaker 3: Opie's I'm curious, feel like OPI has done this self

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Speaker 1: And it's like, dude, I don't look Yeah literally Ming

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Speaker 1: Ming said, I don't want villains. Yeah, bigger exactly here,

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Speaker 3: And it's like, yeah, at this point, I don't think

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's I mean she did ghost him and

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Speaker 3: I meant no, but but after seeing this guy's like,

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Speaker 7: Is this guy sounds like such a I don't know dude,

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Speaker 1: He's like, he's so pompous. That's the word. He's so

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Speaker 7: But the fact is, look at your own relationship, dude,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. Maybe she wasn't even ghosting. Maybe

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Speaker 3: I guarantee you guys her medical exams.

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Speaker 1: Who knows, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: Gives this guy gives advice about relationships, and he's like,

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Speaker 7: it's the it's the most solid advice you'll ever get.

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Speaker 1: Trust me, I truly gave her an unconditional level, no

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Speaker 1: matter the time, situation, or place I was in. Mind you,

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Speaker 1: I never put her down, and I never let her go.

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Speaker 1: down hard lyrics she did never again though, Oh shut up.

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Speaker 1: By the way, do you mean that in general? Count

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Speaker 1: you can always again tap our profile to join us

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Speaker 1: live every single weekday of three pm PSD. Yes, it's simple,

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Speaker 1: it's easy. You can do that. You know what to do.

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Speaker 3: We fully support that behavior.

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Speaker 1: Never let us down, never give us up. But thanks

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Speaker 3: I messed that up twice actually, now that I thought

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Speaker 1: Guys, thanks for listening, and please take it from op

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Speaker 1: Listen to your heart the first time. They really do

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Speaker 3: I should have listened, which actually, let me just say

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Speaker 1: Anyway, moving on, Uh, I should have listened. That's my

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Speaker 1: It will really help you build that shield. I'm warning

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Speaker 3: talking about dating. He's like, I'm never gonna love another

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Speaker 3: I'm a nice guy, exactly, And which is you know

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Speaker 1: In his head? Yeah? I chipped every Yeah, nothing wrong

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this guy at the end, at the end of this,

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you, boy, don't be like me from

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Speaker 1: So here's what happened. OPI is a nice guy, Dakota. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Opie Uh said that his girlfriend ghosted him, you know,

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Speaker 1: So we let her in Dakota. Exactly what do you

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Speaker 3: They live happily ever after on a big island that

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Speaker 1: She ghosted him, ahosted him again, She ghosted him again. Now, Opie,

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Speaker 1: I'm so good. Guys, do you want to see the

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, we were supposed to be the title first

436
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Speaker 3: I forgot.

437
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Speaker 1: Wow, so we can do that now? Yeah yeah could you?

438
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Speaker 6: No?

439
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: No, no, like, so we have our redit, like so

440
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Speaker 1: we like we made it sound like. I looked it up.

441
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Speaker 1: You know what he said? What like how he posted this?

442
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: Oh what was the title of the you don't want

443
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Speaker 1: them reaching out? Trust me?

444
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Speaker 4: Dude?

445
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 3: I you definitely know he said that, like, trust me,

446
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 3: you don't want them trust me?

447
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Speaker 1: But should I read the title again for THEE the R? Yeah, yeah,

448
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Speaker 1: they'll do What time I go to measure my ex

449
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 1: ghost to me just came back and then goes to

450
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Speaker 1: me again, So you should happen exactly. Let's read read

451
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Speaker 1: I love democracy. Look at the voting though, said, op

452
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Speaker 1: is the a hole here? Yeah, and he's the one

453
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Speaker 1: I don't know always one. I like everyone's comments.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, likes that o G.

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Speaker 7: Title is great. I had to look it up. I

456
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Speaker 7: was like, what did he put like if this was

457
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Speaker 7: is this is writing again? I like how he did

458
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Speaker 7: the pause growth?

459
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Speaker 1: Yeah, growth, growth great?

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Speaker 3: I got growth. Yeah, it's not even a high horse.

461
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 3: Let's just get off your horse.

462
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 1: He was so emotionally unregulated.

463
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 3: He can't handle having had a crush on somebody. Yes,

464
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Speaker 3: Kirsten Dedieu, thank you for the fourteen Canadian dollars.

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Speaker 1: Dakota, You're so funny. I love it. Oh, shut up,

466
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: I love you. Stop it. Last names.

467
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 3: Last name means with god. Oh okay, you're so close.

468
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 3: I love okop stories. Gotta work tonight, saving the rest

469
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Speaker 3: of the stream for my night shift. Thank you for

470
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Speaker 3: all the laughs. Have a good night, you have a

471
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 3: good night to Kirsten. What the heck stop shaws knight

472
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Speaker 3: stuck to me? I'm gonna blush myself to being unlive.

473
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 3: My heart's not gonna be able to pump blood anymore.

474
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 3: It's all gonna be in my face. Oh god, wow,

475
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Speaker 3: that actually did sound disturbing. Flip Switch flip or flip switched,

476
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 3: thank you for being a member for one month. I

477
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 3: love catching y'all's live streams. Thank you so much for

478
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 3: the daily company. Thank you welcome flip switched for being here.

479
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, rab rock King, thank you for the five dollars.

480
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 3: I love y'all. And he should stay away. But I'm

481
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 3: just saying, would you guys feel the same way if

482
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 3: op he was a woman. I feel like genders get

483
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Speaker 3: judged differently.

484
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying, but no, I would still

485
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 1: be massively annoyed. It really all came down to the

486
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Speaker 1: way it was written.

487
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 3: At the beginning, I was on op side, and then

488
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 3: slowly as the story continued, it was like, you're exposing yourself.

489
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Speaker 1: But just from the way that.

490
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Speaker 7: You're writing this, Yeah, I can tell the waitness every time,

491
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Speaker 7: like he's like, I know this is going to reach

492
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 7: out to so many people right now, I'm gonna affect

493
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Speaker 7: so many people.

494
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Speaker 1: They're gonna take my advice.

495
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Speaker 3: You know what's so tragic is it did it was

496
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Speaker 3: the hole Holier than Thou is the vibe of that,

497
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Speaker 3: like what like, I'm perfect creation. I'm good at rock

498
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Speaker 3: with the creature.

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Speaker 9: Uh.

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Speaker 3: Caitlyn van Campen, thank you for the two dollars. Y'all

501
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 3: have me crying laughing today. We like to hear that

502
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 3: little golden guy in the dopamine flow in my brain

503
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 3: saying that to me. Caitlyn, Oh, yeah, I'm addicted to

504
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 3: this in a good way, right, that's positive. I have

505
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 3: a problem, little bird, thank you for being a member

506
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Speaker 3: for three months.

507
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Speaker 1: Uh.

508
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 3: Even a broken clock is right twice a day, which

509
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 3: is the saying that I completely butchered. Even if I

510
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Speaker 3: had used the right meaning of it, it wouldn't have

511
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Speaker 3: worked because I was talking about it in the anyway,

512
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Speaker 3: it doesn't matter.

513
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Speaker 1: We don't have any more time here, but yeah we are.

514
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Speaker 1: We do have some gifts from you, guys.

515
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Speaker 3: We do have to open.

516
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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, well we can give We can give

517
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Speaker 1: one as a little freebie. Okay, it's a little freebie. Okay.

518
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Speaker 1: Also mail time time eat a song for mail time.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 1: We are thirty. I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I haven't checked the number yet, but we are thirty

522
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 7: from a thousand subscribers on the Okay storytime clips channel.

523
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: I think we ah, I think we're very close. Uh

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Speaker 1: oh wow, oh uh huh. Somebody did a thing.

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Speaker 3: Hey hey, hey, hey, hey, well oh my god.

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Speaker 8: Wow aw good Turtle with the one hundred and fifty

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Speaker 8: five dollars says I need more.

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Speaker 6: I need more.

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Speaker 1: What do you get more? And yeah, I think you're

530
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Speaker 1: gonna get more? John, what what what's your delegation year?

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Speaker 1: Should I add the time now? At the time. Okay, wait, okay,

532
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Speaker 1: what should we wait until after the package? What do

533
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Speaker 1: you think John, open the package? Will open it quickly.

534
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Speaker 1: We'll open the package and then add add the at

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Speaker 1: the time. After the package.

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Speaker 3: We're on package time.

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Speaker 6: What is that?

538
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 3: It's ornaments.

539
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 1: Oh that's what was coming out of the That means

540
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Speaker 1: one of them, bro, there's a broken one in there.

541
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Speaker 3: Yeah. Make sure you're careful and not getting cut by

542
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 3: broken glasses. They're cute little snow globe, their little snow ornaments.

543
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: Look think I think they make a they make they

544
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Speaker 1: make a little snow snowman face.

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Speaker 7: Ah.

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00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: Oh, there's a snowman face in there. Like it makes

547
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Speaker 1: it right?

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00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 3: Oh, like it shake it up. Yeah, there's like all

549
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 3: the parts of it's like a melted snowman.

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Speaker 1: In a in a thing, melted snowman. And guys, that's amazing.

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Speaker 1: I think we're picking up our tree soon.

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Speaker 6: So thank you.

553
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: We're picking up a tree. Do we have the US?

554
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: We don't know. There might be a letter in there

555
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Speaker 1: if you want to. I don't know. Are they all

556
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: the same ornaments? Are they all melted snowmen? I need

557
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Speaker 1: to open it more. Be very careful because there's literally

558
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Speaker 1: glass in here. Well, John so strong and I'm not

559
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Speaker 1: knoxing because we have.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, there's more.

561
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: And then there's little.

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Speaker 3: Little who those are four let me see one.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 1: And then oh they're so yo little worm hats.

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Speaker 3: Let's freaking go.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if they're gonna stay though, dude, that's

567
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Speaker 1: that's perfect. There you go.

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Speaker 3: It's pretty good. They assume there for the worms, unless

569
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Speaker 3: they're just for like for us to draw like little

570
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Speaker 3: maybe we should just draw faces on our on our

571
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Speaker 3: hands nice amount.

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Speaker 1: And then and then these, I think, also additional ornaments.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what are those? The beads, the iron,

574
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: the Oh my god, so many memories are flooding back

575
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: into my brain right now. Dakota is having core memories

576
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: on Lock.

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00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 3: Me Out with how much he's freaking I made so

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00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 3: many of those. They're the the beads that you arrange

579
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 3: in a pattern, then you iron them out and they

580
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 3: milk they mixed together.

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00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Oh and here we go, here we go.

582
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 3: Oh my god, how did I forget about this?

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00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 1: Let me see? Here we go? Hey, gang participated in

584
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: an ornament and making event last weekend with friends. I

585
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 1: was putting stuff away. When Sophia was talking about tree decorating,

586
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: so I whipped out a couple of styles for you guys.

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00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: I tried to make sure everyone had a favorite color

588
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 1: in their stocking caps. The melted snowman may shift in

589
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 1: the mail if the face parts are buried. A gentle shake.

590
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: Gently shake them side to side until they are back

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Speaker 1: on top. I also included some snowflake coasters that my

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Speaker 1: daughter made. Have fun decorating, AQ, Yeah, thank you, wake

593
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Speaker 1: you that's great.

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00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:04,719
Speaker 3: A peeler beads, thank you aqd or Pearler beads.

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Speaker 1: Pearler beads, AQ, You're awesome. Yes, thank you is fantastic.

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00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: Safely transports over here, Yes, I can't. I still like

597
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: wait for us. The colors, the little the little capture

598
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: for us. Oh, I'm mine is like the light blue

599
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: one I spent. Yes, no way, seriously, this is my

600
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: favorite colors.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: She did it.

603
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 3: I said purple was my favorite.

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Speaker 1: And then with that, ladies and gentlemen, that's time. Back

605
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Speaker 1: on the clock. That's where get time.

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Speaker 3: I'm on the.

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00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 1: Clock one second while you're getting the next story.

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00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 3: Yes, sir, curler beads, dude, I've made so many creations

609
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 3: with pearler beads.

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00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: But I'm completely about it. Eleven sixty eleven six day,

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Speaker 1: not eleven eleven eleven sixty. Hey, you put some respect

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Speaker 1: on eleven eleven. Sir, Oh my change my hair. I'm

613
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: not gonna stand for it. Oh we get a new

614
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: Dakota now, yeah, yeah, it's a new story, new episode.

615
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: We gotta we gotta change it up. It's a little

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Speaker 1: oh now, it's a little more well while you're doing

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Speaker 1: the new episode, I'm gonna you don't. We're good. What

618
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Speaker 1: is it now?

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Speaker 3: I don't need to use it. This is like a grunge.

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Speaker 1: Dude.

621
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Speaker 3: Tonight will be the night that I will fall yea.

622
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 6: Again.

623
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Speaker 3: Tonight it will be the night then you will fall

624
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Speaker 3: for you.

625
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 6: Again.

626
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Speaker 1: There we go, mine. I couldn't even understand you by

627
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Speaker 1: the end of that. It was so yeah, that's amazing. Okay,

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00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: all right, we're ready to say this next story? You

629
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Speaker 1: have my stepdaughter? Is that the one I do? Okay, yes, sir?

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Speaker 7: Wait wait, getting ready. D Coda is still freshing up

631
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Speaker 7: his hair. He looks like, oh no, it was perfect.

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Speaker 1: It was so perfect. Though he's doing the a venta.

633
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: Oh was that the vegeta look you were trying to

634
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Speaker 1: do earlier, or the one I called the genera again.

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Speaker 1: My god, that scares me a little bit. We should

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Speaker 1: actually like do up your hair with a actually, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Well, Rex or whatever, some

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00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:19,919
Speaker 1: hair clay put me in the back of a rhinoceros. Hell, yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh man, all right, a big dog. Yeah, I'm getting

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Speaker 1: it ready now, Yes, sir, let's hit it. What Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're good. No, great, let's do it. My stepdaughter didn't

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Speaker 1: care at all when I offered her my wedding dress,

643
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Speaker 1: so I'm giving it to my daughter in law.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's just how it goes.

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Speaker 1: Seems reasonable. I, forty two female, got married twenty four

646
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Speaker 1: years ago. I decided that if I had a daughter,

647
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Speaker 1: I would pass down the dress and accessories onto her.

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00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 1: I chose a simple, elegant dress rather than what was

649
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Speaker 1: fashionable at the time, because I wanted something timeless that

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Speaker 1: people could wear for generations to come. I had my son,

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00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: Mark now twenty two male a year after, and his

652
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: father passed away when he was young. Oh my god.

653
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: I raised Mark as a single mom for several years.

654
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Speaker 1: I decided that when Mark was married, I would give

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00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: my dress and accessories to his wife. By the way,

656
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: this comes from temperature overall ninety four on the arslash. Okay,

657
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: story time separated. So when I was thirty three, I

658
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: met Rob now fifty two male. I fell in love

659
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: with him and we quickly got married. He became a

660
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: great father figure to Mark, and I was so excited

661
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: to have a step daughter, Mollie, now twenty four female.

662
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: My relationship with Mollie had a rocky beginning. I've been

663
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: patient and gentle with her. I've offered to take her

664
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 1: shopping or get her nails done. I see a big

665
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: I see you by the way. I don't know if

666
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 1: you guys see it. Ooh, but I see it. Drop

667
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: an I see you.

668
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 3: If you see it, I don't see it.

669
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 1: I asked her about her favorite foods and made sure

670
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: to cook those. She made it clear that she didn't

671
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: see me as her real mom. You're not my mom.

672
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 3: You're not my mom.

673
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: You're not my mom, You're not my dad. Years past,

674
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 1: and I never changed the way I treated Molly. My

675
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: door was always open for her, but she never changed

676
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: the way she thought about me. She called me a

677
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: trophy wife to my face. Wow, I mean she's calling

678
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: you hot.

679
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 3: That is true. At least she's calling you attractive, that

680
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 3: is true.

681
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: If I ever threw a charity event, she would remark, Wow,

682
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: you're so generous with dad's money. Why you're so generous?

683
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:30,919
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

684
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 3: You gotta love people who always gotta say a little

685
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 3: comment about something.

686
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: Come on, it's.

687
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 3: Something.

688
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: Give her a chance. While she didn't say anything explicitly,

689
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: I could tell that she looks down on me for

690
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: not having a college degree. Or maybe you were just stupid.

691
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 1: Just kidding, Yeah, because you don't have to your degree,

692
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: are you? I'm also stupid.

693
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 3: We're all stupid.

694
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: Stupid stupid boy. He's a smart play. A couple of

695
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: years ago, I made a final offering to Molly. I

696
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 1: brought her into my closet and showed her to the

697
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: dress and accessories and told her I would love for

698
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: her to wear them at her wedding. Some alterations would

699
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: have to be done. I'm five nine and a size

700
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 1: four and Molly is five to four and a size eight.

701
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,479
Speaker 1: But we could make it work. Molly scoffed and said

702
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: I had archaic values and the dress was trashy and

703
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: walked out.

704
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 3: So she's not getting the dress.

705
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: She doesn't want it. That's what we've you've come.

706
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,959
Speaker 3: She has made it very clear she doesn't want that dress.

707
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: But Dakota, would we not be a proper What was

708
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: that sound? It was like I was a horse? Would

709
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: we not be entitled step bomb if we didn't say, oh,

710
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: you're wearing the dress, You're gonna wear it? I mean

711
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: I like it. I'd be like, I'd like to see

712
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 1: you try to get me to wear that. And then

713
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: Stepmom says, bet, bet you wake up and you're like,

714
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: then the swat team comes in. Maybe you're gonna have

715
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 1: to wear the dress. You're in this dress, or you're

716
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: going to jail for the rest of your life. No,

717
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: So that really hurt because she knew what that dress

718
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: meant to me and she didn't care. After that, I

719
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 1: stopped making as much of an effort to build a

720
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: relationship with her. Two months ago, Mark proposed to his

721
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: college sweetheart Lucy with whom, excuse me, with whom I

722
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: have a great relationship. When Lucy mentioned dress shopping, I

723
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: showed her my dress. Lucy tried it on and it

724
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 1: fit like a glove. She fell in love with it

725
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: and I told her the dress, the shoes, the accessories

726
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: were all hers. She was so happy she literally cried.

727
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 3: And beauty, you got the beautiful moment that you wanted

728
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 3: passing your dress story around. That's it amazing. I'm sure

729
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 3: no one's going to come back and start being annoying

730
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 3: that it's over. Yeah, I'm sure it's over now. I'm

731
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 3: not joking. There's no more to the story. Yeah, oh

732
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 3: you're yeah, So it's done. That's it, and let's back

733
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,360
Speaker 3: it up. Let's uh, we're going in.

734
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: There's more, of course, there's more. So However, a couple

735
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 1: of days ago, Molly reached out to me out of

736
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 1: the blue to ask if the dress was still available.

737
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 3: Hmmm, why are you the trashy dress that you hate, the.

738
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: Trashy dress you hate so much? By the way, I'd

739
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: be remiss if I did not replace.

740
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 3: The hat that I so, Yeah, as you should knocked

741
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 3: off of mister wormy hair, as you should.

742
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: There we go, boooooo. We had it so perfect before.

743
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 3: It's gonna be okay.

744
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: And because of my my, my rashness, you done, because

745
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: of my rashness. I will fix it. There we go, Yeah,

746
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 1: leave your now, it's ours.

747
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 3: You leave your rash talk off the street, John Over,

748
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 3: you're talking about is rational?

749
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,240
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about ra now. Oh yeah, no, sorry anyways,

750
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 1: so I'm guilty. I talked about RASH.

751
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 6: So.

752
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,720
Speaker 1: I told her that I had given it to future

753
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: stepdaughter in law Lucy. She asked if I could get

754
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 1: it back from Lucy since I offered it to her

755
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: first and told her One she said she didn't want it.

756
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: Two it fits Lucy perfectly, and three Lucy is the

757
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: only one getting married within the foreseeable future. Yeah, so

758
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: far as we know, Uh, the step the stepdaughter has

759
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: no prospect Yeah, getting married? I guess not. Now Molly

760
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 1: is saying I'm favoring Lucy over her because she's conforming

761
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 1: to traditional standards of femininity, getting married and being thin.

762
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: That's absolute blowney. But it got me thinking that if

763
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: the roles were reversed and Lucy was the one asking

764
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: for the dress after initially turning it down, would I

765
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: give it to her? Is Molly right that I am

766
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: favored Lucy? And am I the a hole? And we

767
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: have an update? We are not even halfway through, but Dakota,

768
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 1: let's answer the last question first. Is ophole no talk

769
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: to me, why yesterday's.

770
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 3: Price is not two days price. I offered you the dress.

771
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 3: You literally basically spat in my face and told me

772
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 3: that this dress that has a lot of deep sentimental

773
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 3: value to me is trashy and archaic.

774
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: You know I honestly I thought, and I think there's

775
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: still a little bit of this. I thought that the

776
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 1: step mom, I thought the story was heading in the

777
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 1: direction of the step mom is like going to force

778
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 1: her to wear the dress and like go go crazy.

779
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 1: There's still a little bit of I feel like there's

780
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,279
Speaker 1: almost like a little bit of like everyone sucks here?

781
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 1: How does she sucks?

782
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 6: What?

783
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: She's just a little you know what detailed?

784
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 3: John?

785
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 6: Do you know what?

786
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,240
Speaker 3: I wouldn't favor the person telling me that my wedding

787
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 3: dress is trash either.

788
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:04,359
Speaker 1: Everything kind of pre that just there was like a hint,

789
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: a whiff if you will, of like, oh, she's gonna

790
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 1: I wanted to wear the dress. But isn't this like

791
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:13,919
Speaker 1: the initial plan she had?

792
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 3: Because she was like, I never I never had a daughter,

793
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 3: I had a son, so I figured I give the

794
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 3: dress or try to give the dress to my son's wife.

795
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 1: I don't think right, I think she was I think

796
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: she changed the plan to she she thought once she

797
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: had the step daughter, she was like, right, oh, maybe

798
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 1: we'll do that, right, And when.

799
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 3: She got remarried and then now she's, oh, my god,

800
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 3: I have a step daughter, so I can just give

801
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 3: the dress to her. And she was like, no, it

802
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 3: sucks and I hate you. And now she's like, why

803
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 3: don't you like me give me your dress. It's like,

804
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 3: shut up.

805
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 1: It's true. It's true. I could be wrong, could be wrong.

806
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 1: It was just it was just it was a a whiff,

807
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 1: but I could be wrong. I kind of smell wrong.

808
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 1: I had a bad wif, a bad whiff, a bad

809
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: wif ladies and gentleman. So there's an update. Wow, thank

810
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 1: you all of you for your kind words. I wanted

811
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: to give you an update to respond to general questions

812
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 1: and comments. First, I want to say that the fact

813
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: that most of the comments are not the ahole is

814
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 1: very reassuring. That's our comments too. It makes me feel

815
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: better about my decision to not give my dress to Molly.

816
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: I saw some comments suggesting this, so I would like,

817
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 1: so I would like to let you know I already

818
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: gave the dress to Lucy and it's safe in her

819
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: apartment now, Yes, for now, oh, for now. We don't

820
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 1: know what's gonna happen.

821
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 9: For now.

822
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: Molly has already been bugging Lucy about the dress, but

823
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: Lucy told me there's no way in heck that she's

824
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:42,240
Speaker 1: giving it away. Some of you have also been wondering

825
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: about Mark and Rob's response. Mark is currently out of

826
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: town on business and I have had no communication with

827
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 1: him on this matter.

828
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 3: I believe that's the husband and son. Mark is the son,

829
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 3: and I think Mark is the son and Rob is

830
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 3: the husband.

831
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,320
Speaker 1: I think I believe. I'm sure he'll be a supportive

832
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: of Lucy. Though I did not bring this up to Rob,

833
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: because while Molly and I have a difficult relationship, I

834
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: don't want to sew division between her and her father's

835
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 1: Rob is the husband. However, Rob brought it up last night,

836
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: saying Molly had contacted him on this matter. Rob was like,

837
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: you aren't going to give it to her. You aren't

838
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 1: going to give it to her, are you? When I

839
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: said no, he told me to promise him I would

840
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 1: not give the dress to her. Yes, it was very

841
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 1: comforting to know that Rob is on my side.

842
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 3: Rob knows his own daughter. Rob's like, please, tell me

843
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 3: you did not give that to her after what she

844
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 3: said to you?

845
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 1: Not give her that dress? Oh gosh. Another thing I

846
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: want to get clear is I do not expect Molly

847
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:49,800
Speaker 1: to conform to certain standards. When when I refer to

848
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: traditional standards of femininity, getting married, and being thin, I

849
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 1: was paraphrasing words that came out of her mouth. I

850
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 1: was raised in a traditional household, but I understand that

851
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: a lot of women, and especially young women, do not

852
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: share my values. Frankly, Lucy doesn't either. She has an

853
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: engineering degree and openly talks about wanting to prioritize her

854
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: career overstarting a family, at least for the foreseeable future,

855
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: and I couldn't be happier for her. I do realize

856
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 1: that I could have done a better job communicating to

857
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: Molly that I don't that I don't care what she does.

858
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: So long she is a good person and leaves the

859
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: world better than she found it, that's pretty good. I mean,

860
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,919
Speaker 1: that's a pretty enlightened perspective. Pretty light you know, els

861
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: is the most enlightening thing you could ever do in

862
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 1: your life.

863
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 3: I have a feeling I do tapping the profile every weekday,

864
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 3: have three pm PSC to join us.

865
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: On our lives.

866
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 2: Just do it.

867
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 3: Just do it, guys, YouTube, Facebook, Twitch, TikTok and if

868
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 3: you're watching this in the future, we might be live

869
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 3: right now.

870
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 1: You should check it out after this. But let's talk

871
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: a little bit.

872
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 4: Uh.

873
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: I think I was wrong about my again.

874
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 2: It was a with.

875
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:54,800
Speaker 1: It was a wrong with.

876
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 3: Okay, I admit that johns wrong.

877
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: So it seems that she's fine. Oh, France in your

878
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: pants says in the chat she wants to destroy it.

879
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 3: Oh so there is there and then yep, right above it.

880
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 3: Mariam Langdon's like, I think Molly has a thing for

881
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 3: Mark and is trying to sabotage the wedding.

882
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 1: Could that be? Could it be that deep? We haven't

883
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 1: seen a washing machine yet. They are step siblings, right, yeah,

884
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: we haven't seen a we haven't seen a washing machine yet.

885
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 1: Nobody is stuck. Nobody is stuck. Okay, nobody stuck. I'm

886
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: trying to fix him, but I can't fix that. Everyone's

887
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: out of the drive.

888
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 3: I can't fix his brain stuck in any household appliances.

889
00:46:54,880 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: All right. Yeah, so maybe maybe though, maybe maybe there's

890
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,760
Speaker 1: maybe they have a really deep washing machine.

891
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 3: I don't know that she might get, say, John, what

892
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 3: the Florida and came back Florida?

893
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 1: John, it's you can take the boy out of Florida,

894
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: but you can't take the Florida out of the boy.

895
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: Floridau the boy can't do it. But yeah, look.

896
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 3: She's clearly you know, it's the everyone wants what they

897
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 3: can't have type scenario.

898
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: Right.

899
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 3: It's like she didn't want anything to do with that dress,

900
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 3: and now suddenly someone else is getting the dress, and

901
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:32,439
Speaker 3: she's like, where's that dress?

902
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: Oh you're giving it to her?

903
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 3: Oh why? Because you love your son's fiance more than me,

904
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 3: the woman who called you trash garbage.

905
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I do.

906
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:48,439
Speaker 3: Actually, you genius. Look you figured out how social dynamics work.

907
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 3: I like the people who treat me better than you

908
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 3: the person who treats me bad. Yes, I'm gonna double

909
00:47:56,640 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 3: down on that. Yeah, yep, yeah, Hello, I'm sorry. I'm

910
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 3: so broken John.

911
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: So whats anxiety?

912
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 3: Jimmy jam Bojangle says, this is John being controlled by Sam.

913
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: That is very much something Sam would say. Oh man,

914
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 1: but uh getting to this last part lastly, before reading

915
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: the comments, I feared that I painted Molly in a

916
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 1: bad life. I should say that Molly has had a

917
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 1: rough life due to the divorce okay, between Bob and

918
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:39,319
Speaker 1: her biological mother. I have never met her mother, wow,

919
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,320
Speaker 1: And I don't want to go into gross detail on

920
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: the internet about someone's life other than my own, but

921
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: I will say that her relationship with her mother is

922
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: not great. I think Mollie might be projecting aspects of

923
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: that relationship onto me.

924
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 3: That makes a lot of sense and insight. We're all

925
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 3: complicated apes.

926
00:48:56,040 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: We're complicated. It happens. However, your comments have helped me

927
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 1: realize that she isn't the wrong in this situation. I've

928
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 1: also realized that it isn't just on me to build

929
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 1: a relationship with her. She has to work at it too,

930
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 1: and so far she has not go off. Ope. I've

931
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: never I'm never going to shut her out, but at

932
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: this point, if she wants to connect with me, she

933
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:19,919
Speaker 1: has to be the one making the effort. I really

934
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 1: do hope the best. I really hope the best for her.

935
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: But she sure as heck isn't getting that dress. And

936
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: that's all period. Stand on business. Rob doesn't even want

937
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: her having that dress.

938
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:39,720
Speaker 3: Rob's saying, get your showery head here, No dress for dress.

939
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 1: Wow, that cowboy is God says, can we really judge

940
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: John for the washing machine comment? When we all understood it?

941
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: You see, yeah you should.

942
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 3: And then after you get done judging John, you go

943
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 3: look in the mirror and you judge yourself.

944
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:55,280
Speaker 1: No, I'm just kidding.

945
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 3: It was funny, funny, and it was.

946
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: A sleeper like I had to bake.

947
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 3: You all seen somebody stuck in the washing machine, haven't we.

948
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,399
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. I'm just saying it's a funny joke.

949
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 3: I've been Uh never mind, Okay, all right.

950
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: I love this guy. We got any donos?

951
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 6: None?

952
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 3: If you have any idea what I was going to say, so,

953
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 3: don't even pretend like you do.

954
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: Okay, let's put some let's put some comment or dono

955
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: words in Dakota's mouth. Uh nothing over there, but let's okay. Well,

956
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: once again, shout out to Awkward Turtle again for at

957
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: got all of that. Nice Uh.

958
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 3: Josephine Medolo Burquist, thank you for the tea and Sweedish Crowner.

959
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 3: Uh w a y d SB that stands for what

960
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 3: are you doing? Step bro?

961
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: Cool cool.

962
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 3: Certifiably, Jen, thank you for being a member for six months.

963
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:58,240
Speaker 1: Washing machine.

964
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 3: Oh, John, the astronautical amount of platonic love I have

965
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:05,839
Speaker 3: for you is immeasurable. That's and that's the only kind

966
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:07,760
Speaker 3: of love. John excepts that's correct.

967
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. Boom uh Joseph, thank.

968
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 3: You for the twenty seven speedish groner.

969
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: Op does not suck bad wrong take John agreed? Yeah,

970
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: I agreed. You got a new one.

971
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 3: Oh and fresh ginga. Thank you for the five dollars,

972
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 3: and you send a little hype hippo hip hip HiPE

973
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 3: HiPE hi like HiPE okay, uh merca merca weist. I

974
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 3: hope I got that right. Thank you for the two dollars.

975
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,720
Speaker 3: You guys give me hope after being around my family.

976
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: Thank you.

977
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 3: Thank you for being here with us, mirca and we

978
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 3: all know what it's like to get born out by

979
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 3: the family. Oh yeah, h Lulu. Thank you for joining

980
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,879
Speaker 3: the Knights. Well, we don't have this words the sword.

981
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 3: Did we get the sword?

982
00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: Oh, we don't have the sword. This sord is still

983
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:05,360
Speaker 1: the couch. No, thank you for joining the knights. Here's

984
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 1: your battle?

985
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 3: Okay?

986
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: And is that all?

987
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 6: Was that?

988
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 3: Where did that? God? Are you sure? Wait? Go back

989
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 3: up to I think we had one more, didn't.

990
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: We, John, what are you doing? He had one more.

991
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 3: He's getting the sword.

992
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 1: Than you. Yeah, we read that. Okay, and Lulu, you

993
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 1: are now pushing pushing. You are knighted.

994
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 3: Welcome to your Welcome to the Knights, Welcome to Welcome

995
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 3: to the Knights.

996
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 1: Yes, you did it all right, all right to the

997
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: next story, to story next. I didn't even pull it

998
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: up for you. I'm the a hole. Come on, I'm

999
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 1: the a hole in this story. Sorry.

1000
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 3: A dash of starter says we might we need a

1001
00:52:55,080 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 3: sword fight. Pause, pause, I think about it like that

1002
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 3: we had. I did these exclusively these I I was

1003
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 3: not thinking of it in a positively way. Dakota, we

1004
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 3: can have a sword fight that you already hung up

1005
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 3: on the washing machines. We were washing in the washing

1006
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 3: machine mode and I'm in I can't even say that

1007
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 3: out loud. I'm on the writ cycle in yard in

1008
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,919
Speaker 3: the heated dry Yeah.

1009
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: Okay, vix Mix, thank you for the five gifted memberships.

1010
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: Yeah Mix.

1011
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:34,399
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1012
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 1: A lot of people when you had your hair at

1013
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: the beginning of the video, they're comparing you to this.

1014
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 4: Oh what.

1015
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: There's something about me? Have you guy seen that movie?

1016
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 3: I thought you were comparing me to Matt Dylon because

1017
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 3: he's got slicked back hair in that movie.

1018
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: No, I'm look, how do you know all of these

1019
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: Max Matt Dylon? Okay, guys, am I crazy? Or just Dakota?

1020
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: Know the name of everyone who's ever acted in something.

1021
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,360
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people's names. It's crazy.

1022
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 3: I remember a lot of stuff that doesn't matter. It's

1023
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 3: a curse, truly, truly a curs. I remember more completely useless,

1024
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 3: irrelevant information than like my own, like friend's birthdays.

1025
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 1: And that's why we're so good at trivia relevant events.

1026
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: That's true. And that's why it's true. We're really good

1027
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 1: at trivia. And it's really dumb.

1028
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 7: And that's why there's a lot of empty space in here,

1029
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 7: just got unknown stuff that shouldn't be in there.

1030
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:33,800
Speaker 1: God didn't make me to remember your birthday.

1031
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,799
Speaker 3: He made me to remember one obscure trivia fact about

1032
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 3: Cheers from an episode from nineteen eighty seven.

1033
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: And that's why. And I know zero trivia, which makes

1034
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: our our bundle so complete.

1035
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 3: We completely My body is a machine that inputs information

1036
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 3: and outputs uselessness.

1037
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: Oh we got five more gifted story time who.

1038
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 3: Penguin Pirate five x X thank you for five gifted memberships.

1039
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 3: That's five more sweet babies in the chat. Babies. We

1040
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 3: love it.

1041
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: Baby, Ready for the next story to God, I'll do it.

1042
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 1: I I was born, You got my wedding.

1043
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 3: My uncle was iniminated rain my uncle?

1044
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: What you sure that's what I want? Uh? That's the

1045
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 1: third one. Brother, I thought that's the one we were on.

1046
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 3: That bad I didn't.

1047
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,439
Speaker 1: I double shrewed him. I didn't set him up for success. Guys,

1048
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 1: that's me.

1049
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1050
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 1: You put him in the washer and the dryer, and

1051
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 1: you know what, I didn't even put it on the

1052
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 1: gentle cycle. That's foul. I put it on rigorously clean.

1053
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: He's god Cottons, not delicates. That's on me. Look, guys, guys,

1054
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,479
Speaker 1: I gotta take accountability from when when I do that. Okay,

1055
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 1: I did not put it on delicates. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, Dakota.

1056
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: That is that. That is on me. I'll forgive you

1057
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: as long as you don't ever do it ever again.

1058
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't deny that I might give you

1059
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 1: a soil hot wash. Everyone everyone's what you know, Sean?

1060
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: What is his grave? That you were digging yourself hot wash?

1061
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: You know it's heavy soiled, and then oh god, soiled wash.

1062
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,840
Speaker 1: Have you ever read a washing machine knob?

1063
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 7: Sir John went to Florida and really brought it back

1064
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 7: with him. Yes, speaking of Florida, we're gonna try that

1065
00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:18,720
Speaker 7: crocodile jerky.

1066
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,760
Speaker 1: That's right, we'll do it at the end of the episode.

1067
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 1: But you have now. My wedding was a right yes, yes, yes, yes,

1068
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 1: you're good. So are we good?

1069
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 3: My wedding was a constant source of stress. My entitled

1070
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 3: friends didn't make it any easier.

1071
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: Divorce, the divorce, your friends, divorce your husband.

1072
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 7: Everybody, divorce your parents, divorce the wedding were getting divorced

1073
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 7: up in here.

1074
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 3: I twenty nine female, and my husband, thirty one male,

1075
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 3: were recently married earlier this year. He is the love

1076
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 3: of my life and I'm so happy to start this

1077
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 3: chapter in our lives. But our engagement slash wedding was

1078
00:56:57,080 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 3: riddled with drama and issues from the moment we got engaged.

1079
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:03,959
Speaker 3: By the way, This comes from user annoyingly Anonymous nine

1080
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 3: on the r slash okay storytime subreddit. So, my husband's

1081
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:12,800
Speaker 3: longtime coworker and friend, who we will call Fred, was

1082
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:15,280
Speaker 3: upset that my husband did not tell him he planned

1083
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 3: to propose, and was irritated that he was not consulted

1084
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 3: on the type of ring he should buy. My ring

1085
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 3: is gorgeous and my husband didn't need any help. In addition,

1086
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 3: Fred automatically assumed he was going to be the best

1087
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 3: man and did not take it well when my husband

1088
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 3: asked his father to be his best man. After that,

1089
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 3: he started making fun of my husband to his coworkers

1090
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 3: and even joked about my husband's medical issues, and didn't

1091
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 3: stop even after my husband had major surgery, to the

1092
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 3: point where h R had to step in. Dude, Fred

1093
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 3: wants your husband. That's crazy, I think secretly Fred wants it.

1094
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, Fred's like, why aren't you marrying me?

1095
00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe not, but it's like it's like, clearly

1096
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 3: Fred thinks he's like the super best friend number one.

1097
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 3: He thinks he's number one on the MySpace chart. He's

1098
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 3: like naughty, he's like number seven, the top five. Yeah,

1099
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 3: your top five in elementary school. When you like bully,

1100
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,880
Speaker 3: you like bully, the kids, the person you like like

1101
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 3: that kind of vibe. I think, yeah, that's kind of

1102
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 3: where this is at right now. Okay, all right, all right,

1103
00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 3: as if that wasn't enough, here comes all the issues

1104
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 3: with two of my bridesmaids, who we will call Britney

1105
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 3: and Tina.

1106
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 1: Those are um hate them already? Yeah, bringing me issues.

1107
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 1: It's over. It's over for that divorce divorce.

1108
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 3: My husband is an only child whose female cousins are

1109
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 3: more like sisters to him, so we automatically wanted them

1110
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 3: to be a part of our big day. We invited

1111
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 3: them out for a day of shopping slash thrifting, paid

1112
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 3: for lunch, and asked them to be bridesmaids. Britney was

1113
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 3: super excited, but Tina had no reaction and simply said,

1114
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 3: my mother told me to expect this. Uh I call

1115
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 3: told you they sucked. Did I not just say that, Tina?

1116
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 3: Tina is acting mysterious?

1117
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 6: Come on.

1118
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 3: As the weeks go on, I am group chatting all

1119
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 3: four of my girls with updates and ideas to get

1120
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 3: no oh, and I get no happy or excited responses

1121
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 3: from Tina. At one of the family barbecues, she even

1122
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 3: had the audacity to ask me if I can send

1123
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 3: her the link to the dress on Amazon as she

1124
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 3: didn't want to go dress shopping. I told her no,

1125
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 3: as all of my bridesmaids have different body types, and

1126
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 3: I wanted to make sure they all looked good in

1127
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 3: the chosen dress. Things continued to progress with the odd

1128
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 3: comments from them here or there, to a point where

1129
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 3: the day before we were going dress shopping, I called

1130
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 3: Tina and my husband was with me and made sure

1131
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 3: she was okay and still wanted to be a bridesmaid,

1132
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 3: as there were other ways to be involved if she

1133
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 3: was uncomfortable, and she assured me that she just didn't

1134
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 3: like dress shopping but was very excited to be a bridesmaid.

1135
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 6: Out it.

1136
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:02,920
Speaker 3: I think she's gonna be difficult, you.

1137
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 7: Know what I'm excited about. Aiden just donating ten Okay,

1138
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,560
Speaker 7: storytime membership, Aiden Ah.

1139
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 3: Aiden, Aiden Ah aid, that's an aiden Ah move right there,

1140
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 3: donating ten babers to the chat, doing God's work, doing God.

1141
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 3: We love it.

1142
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 1: We appreciate you, okay Yah.

1143
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 3: On the dress shopping day, Brittany calls me all upset

1144
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 3: as she recently had a sinus infection which is no

1145
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 3: longer contagious, but was told by Tina to stay home anyway. Tina,

1146
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 3: shut up, it's not you don't get to decide who

1147
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 3: gets to go dress shopping. You didn't even want to go.

1148
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: Listen. John called it. I call it.

1149
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 3: He did call it.

1150
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: Sorry, I told the truth. My bad arrest me, he

1151
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 1: calls it as he sees it. Take me away off, sir,

1152
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: go ahead. He may be unhinged, but he's taking me

1153
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: away to the prison where everyone's right about everything. I

1154
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 1: belong there.

1155
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 3: Old Brittany that if she felt up to it, she could,

1156
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 3: and Tina had no business telling her what to do.

1157
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 3: We shop for dresses and found a beautiful one hundred

1158
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 3: and thirty dollars dress that looked nice on everyone. Going

1159
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 3: up to the register, Britney started to cry as she

1160
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 3: wasn't prepared to purchase the dress that day, as she's

1161
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 3: in her early twenties with a minimum wage job. I

1162
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 3: assured her that I was going to cover it, and

1163
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 3: she was very thankful and said that she would pay

1164
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 3: us off little by little, fast forward a few months, which,

1165
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 3: by the way, that was super wholesome. Love that like

1166
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 3: that look. Not everyone in their young not everyone in life,

1167
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 3: is ready to drop one hundred thirty dollars on a dress.

1168
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 1: Going to debt, John go into debt for the bridle

1169
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 1: John Worria.

1170
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 3: John get out in prison where everyone's right now, you're

1171
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 3: going to the one where you're wrong about financial decision.

1172
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 7: Florida John is unhinged, guys, John John is on one

1173
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 7: right now. No, that's not John, that's Florida John. There

1174
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:55,480
Speaker 7: suit John and Florida John, Florida John.

1175
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:59,240
Speaker 1: Right now. So my dress. Fast forward a few months,

1176
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 1: my dress comes in stained and had to be fixed.

1177
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 1: I called and told all the bridesmaids to watch their

1178
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 1: dresses carefully, just in case. Tina picked up her dress

1179
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 1: without notifying anyone it was in, but Brittany called me

1180
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 1: and wanted.

1181
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 3: Me to go with her. Upon receiving it, her dress

1182
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 3: was covered in stains that did not come out, so

1183
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 3: a new one had to be ordered.

1184
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 1: What is this Worthyes? What they're just like? Are theyins dresses?

1185
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: Just like having like paintball fights.

1186
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 3: They're just wearing somebody who the person at the shipping

1187
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 3: them out is just like the you know, the old

1188
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 3: grizzled like I'm picturing like the ras from Monsters inc.

1189
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 3: I don't know if anyone's gonna remember that off the

1190
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 3: lady like, yeah, that dress is covered in stained. He

1191
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 3: just wanted to bended out anyway.

1192
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: He wanted to make that voice. He just wanted to

1193
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: do that one. That's true. That was just an excuse.

1194
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 1: There was no point for that. That's sends out the dresses.

1195
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 1: I think it was both at once. I think he

1196
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 1: sees the opportun you need to do the voice, but

1197
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: it also does thematically fit.

1198
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks John, You're going back to the prison where

1199
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 3: they're right about it.

1200
01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 1: Reason. Thank you Devil's advocate. Right now, I told you

1201
01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 1: you were right, but both of you were wrong.

1202
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, if we picked up our dresses from the

1203
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 3: stain factory, apparently, thankfully the reordered dress and no other dresses, Uh,

1204
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 3: we're supposedly fine.

1205
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 1: Wait what.

1206
01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 3: Okay, thankfully all of the reordered dresses were fine, and

1207
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 3: all of the other dresses were also supposedly fine. I

1208
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 3: have a feeling I know whose dress is gonna be

1209
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 3: messed up. It's gonna be Tina's.

1210
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 1: Tina.

1211
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 3: Tina's gonna have a big old stain dress that she

1212
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:44,840
Speaker 3: doesn't even look at. Calling it put her in jail,

1213
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 3: call it put her in dirty stain dress jail.

1214
01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: Yeah it.

1215
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 3: Anyway, Brittany chooses to leave her dress with my sister

1216
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 3: as she has cats and doesn't want to risk it

1217
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 3: getting dirty. Leading up to the bridle shower, I decided,

1218
01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 3: instead of doing a traditional bachelorette party that I want,

1219
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 3: whe did something everyone could enjoy. So I chose a

1220
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:05,880
Speaker 3: private paint and sip with all the important women in

1221
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 3: my life. Wow, my my number one bridesmaid was too

1222
01:04:10,760 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 3: young to go to the tow bars. Britney is artistic,

1223
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 3: Tina is a homebody, and my sister, a maid of honor,

1224
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:20,320
Speaker 3: was up for anything, so I thought this would be

1225
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 3: a great idea all around. My maid of honor had

1226
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 3: to call me to help with the shower arrangements as

1227
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 3: both Tina and Britney were not responding to her emails

1228
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 3: or texts. Typical Tina Britney behavior.

1229
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: She can't respond if she's in jail. We're just laying

1230
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: out all there. Yes, you are the gift that keeps

1231
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: on giving. That's correct, said John. We're all thankful for

1232
01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 1: you in your Florida, in their energy today.

1233
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:51,120
Speaker 3: The morning of the shower, Tina was two hours late

1234
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 3: for setup and told Brittany to sit down when she

1235
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 3: got there and proceeded to laugh at my maid of

1236
01:04:57,520 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 3: honor struggling to do things without help.

1237
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what While opening up gifts.

1238
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:05,520
Speaker 3: Britney faked being sick and ran out of the room

1239
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 3: because she couldn't stand not being the center of attention.

1240
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 3: Whoa wow, I was kind of on Brittany. I was

1241
01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:15,040
Speaker 3: like a little bit on team Brittany. Now I'm like

1242
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 3: team Brittany and Tina. They both suck. Wait so well,

1243
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 3: Brittany was the one who was like, couldn't pay for

1244
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:21,320
Speaker 3: the dress, and it was like we'll cover it, and

1245
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 3: you got it and it's okay. And now they're just

1246
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 3: both being trash can But is she is she running

1247
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 3: out of the room to get rid of get away

1248
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 3: from Tina being like no, she was just running out

1249
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 3: of the room like, oh my god, I'm going to

1250
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 3: be sick.

1251
01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: Attention.

1252
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 3: You know, he's just being She just wanted the attention.

1253
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 3: She just wanted attention for them. Okay, okay, unless they

1254
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 3: really maybe they actually just were sick.

1255
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 1: Who knows, Maybe there's plenty of cells in the jail. Anyway.

1256
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 3: Anyway, after the shower, they both, along with their mothers,

1257
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 3: decide to leave and not stay for the paint and sip.

1258
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 3: As per Tina, they had more important things to do. Wow,

1259
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 3: real real classy, Tina. I was so upset that my

1260
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 3: husband ended up changing his plans and crashing the bachelorette

1261
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 3: party and painting with us since we had already paid

1262
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 3: for the canvases. After this, his whole side blows up,

1263
01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 3: with the bridesmaids calling me names and my husband sticking

1264
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 3: up for me, all around lies and all around lies

1265
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 3: being spread, including the lie that I was holding Britney's

1266
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:33,960
Speaker 3: dress hostage. After this, my husband and I sat down

1267
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 3: with Brittany and told her mom to air things out

1268
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 3: and advise and advise her mom of the truth regarding

1269
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 3: the dress, as it still wasn't even paid for by Brittany,

1270
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 3: which was a major waste of time. My husband fully

1271
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:50,560
Speaker 3: believes that that was just a tactic for them to

1272
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 3: try to convince him to call off the wedding to

1273
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 3: smooth things over. My husband and I decided to let

1274
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 3: things calm down as all the fighting was upsetting my

1275
01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 3: husband's mom, who I adore. The morning of the wedding,

1276
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,080
Speaker 3: the girls meet me at the hotel to get dressed,

1277
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 3: slash hair and makeup, and both Tina and Britney looked

1278
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 3: and acted miserable. My mom had to quickly fix Britney's

1279
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:17,720
Speaker 3: cleavage because it was too deep and Tina's dress was

1280
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 3: covered in stay.

1281
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 1: Tina's dress covered in stay? Why not?

1282
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 3: I mean, just why make these people be in your

1283
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 3: bridal party if they're so awful.

1284
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:31,160
Speaker 1: You know what you can stain without worrying about it,

1285
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 1: an orange dumpsuit. Yeah, you can stain them.

1286
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 3: Stain the floor of your jail cell Tina in Brittany.

1287
01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds crazy. Well, hey, listen, I might be

1288
01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 1: to John, but I draw lines hthing, No, not like that.

1289
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, do we want Do we really want to

1290
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 1: bring up that line earlier? John?

1291
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:51,440
Speaker 3: No, not saying it.

1292
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:56,920
Speaker 1: That's right, Dot, But you know what I will say,

1293
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:59,440
Speaker 1: your hat fell off. I know it's not time to

1294
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:01,800
Speaker 1: spill that, but we have a wheelspin and will sing

1295
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 1: that out loud a little bit. Okay, we go wheels Okay.

1296
01:08:08,680 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 3: They leave to go to the church to set up

1297
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 3: the pew flowers and proceeded to annoy my husband and

1298
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:17,439
Speaker 3: act sad for him that he was getting married.

1299
01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 6: These are.

1300
01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:23,960
Speaker 1: The people out Are they all in love with the husband?

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01:08:24,120 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 3: I guess that's what they're acting like. Dude, you're kicked

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Speaker 3: out of my wedding. Even the photographer had to keep

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01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 3: subtly reminding Tina to smile because she was just standing

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Speaker 3: there for all the photos. At the reception, Brittany tried

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Speaker 3: to run over my sixteen year old cousin to catch

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01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:42,640
Speaker 3: the bouquet and then cried when she didn't catch it.

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Speaker 3: Tina told my aunt that she would only dance when

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Speaker 3: the best man did. My father in law, as has Parkinson's,

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01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 3: so did not feel up to dancing, but he did

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Speaker 3: do a couple slow songs while she never touched the

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Speaker 3: dance floor. That's that's crazy because she knows that he's

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01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 3: not going to do it. Crazy dude, It's crazy, dude.

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Speaker 3: These people are awful and you shouldn't have put them

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Speaker 3: in your wedding party. But I want all of you

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Speaker 3: to be in our wedding party that we have every

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Speaker 3: weekday at three pm PST. When we go live on

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Speaker 3: YouTube and Facebook and Twitch and Instagram, I mean TikTok

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01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:26,639
Speaker 3: brain fart. And if you're watching this in the future,

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Speaker 3: you know what we might even be live right now,

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01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 3: so after this story you might want to go check

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01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 3: that out see where we are. But anyway, let's coalesce

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Speaker 3: our thoughts here because there's a little bit more of

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Speaker 3: the story left. Let this be a lesson. If you

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Speaker 3: are a wife or a groom and you have a

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Speaker 3: bridal party or a group of is that what's the

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Speaker 3: the groomsman party? The grooms party?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If you've got problematic people intricately involved in your wedding, hey,

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01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:07,840
Speaker 3: don't involve them. If you realize these people are like

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01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:11,799
Speaker 3: gonna just be a constant source of stress and headache

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01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:17,080
Speaker 3: for you. Don't have them be a bridesmaid. They could

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Speaker 3: just be there and be upset, not intricately involved in

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Speaker 3: your wedding.

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Speaker 1: You can that's allowed. John's just gonna tell you to

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Speaker 1: send them to jail.

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Speaker 3: I can already tell I knew it.

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01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:36,040
Speaker 1: He says, plenty of cold jail cells. That's all I'm saying, guys,

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Is it. Do they have a chance of parole? I

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01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 3: don't care as long as they're behind bars. And that's

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01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:47,840
Speaker 3: the moral of the story. Is that how they do

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Speaker 3: it in Florida? Yeah, basically, if her dress has five

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01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:56,000
Speaker 3: to ten yeah, years, there we go. If she's hitting

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01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:57,679
Speaker 3: on your husband, life, sense.

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Speaker 1: To jail, life straight to jail. Put her under the jail.

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01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:02,679
Speaker 7: If she's got stains on her dresses, straight to jail,

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01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:05,080
Speaker 7: if she's trying to take the attention, straight to jail,

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01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 7: if she's I gotta think of if she's flirting with

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01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:08,879
Speaker 7: your husband, straight.

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Speaker 1: The jail, jail.

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01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:10,880
Speaker 3: I was right?

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01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 4: Was I wrong?

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01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:12,599
Speaker 3: Oh?

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01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 1: Oh, you are not wrong, John, you are? You are right,

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01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 1: my good friend. Thank you.

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01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 3: Stains on the dresses charges, I'm a pressing.

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01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:29,759
Speaker 1: Boo. No, don't give it support. I give you five seconds,

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01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 1: right now, come up with a rhyme for that. If

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01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:36,519
Speaker 1: you got on your dresses, I don't know.

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01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, Kean, You're exactly.

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Speaker 1: You're just exctly. You should down. You should clean up

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01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:45,880
Speaker 1: the messes. If you have seen on your dresses, you

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01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 1: should clean up the messes. I guess that works. Yeah better.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it doesn't have anything to do with going

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01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 3: to jail. Idiot. That was the whole point of the joke.

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01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 3: It's a joke about It was about going to jail.

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01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,559
Speaker 3: If you if you're dress, I'm pressing charges.

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Speaker 1: If your dress is looking like the crown, you got

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01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:06,160
Speaker 1: to serve the time. If your dress has stains, you

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01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 1: have it? What what do you mean?

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01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't like it.

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01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:15,280
Speaker 1: If the dress has stains, you should feel the pain

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01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 1: of present. I rest my case.

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01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:24,640
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, let's finish this story here before we go

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01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 3: to jail. We have not spoken to either of them

1376
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 3: since and have no plans to do so as they

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01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 3: have shown their true colors, which John would probably say

1378
01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:37,560
Speaker 3: is orange.

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01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:39,960
Speaker 1: Orange because of the prison jumpsuit. Definitely.

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01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 3: Other issues for our big day include the photographer canceling

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01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:46,360
Speaker 3: two hours before our ceremony.

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01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 1: We did end up finding another one last minute. Wow,

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01:12:49,240 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 1: that's actually super.

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01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 3: Impressive, flowers being wrong, the wrong cake, and the DJ

1385
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:58,800
Speaker 3: completely ignoring our song genre requests. But five ish months later,

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01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 3: my husband and I are so happy to be married

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01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 3: and have no desire to ever plan another one. And

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01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:07,680
Speaker 3: that's the end of that story. Here you go, Hell yeah,

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01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:11,839
Speaker 3: I love hearing about getting married and staying married. It's

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01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 3: five months, Okay, I'm not We're not even thinking about

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01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 3: Brittany and Tina because they're in jail.

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01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:19,840
Speaker 1: They're gone, Daron, bridesmaid jail. You know what, Ellie Ellie

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01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 1: had the best one. If your dress is stained, you

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01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 1: will be detained.

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01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:28,479
Speaker 3: That's fire, Wallie Ellie got it dressed, is stained, you

1396
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 3: will be arraigned.

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01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 1: Why you gotta do it like that?

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01:13:32,040 --> 01:13:32,200
Speaker 3: Huh?

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01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:35,439
Speaker 1: Well, because this is gave me a cheat.

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01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 3: Staining equals arraignment, and I said, so if you've it's

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01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 3: fifth stained, you will be arraigned. I was doing. I

1402
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:45,360
Speaker 3: was riffing. I was riffing, and now you've killed the

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01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 3: riff keeps.

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01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:47,760
Speaker 4: Killed?

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01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 6: Do it?

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01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 3: You did? Dang?

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01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:52,960
Speaker 1: You might be right about that. You know what can

1408
01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:53,720
Speaker 1: bring us back to life?

1409
01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 3: Though?

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01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:58,280
Speaker 1: A spin on the wheel spain? That will.

1411
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 6: You?

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01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 1: You're finally disintegrated. I told Riley about Oh oh, get

1413
01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 1: your hat.

1414
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:07,559
Speaker 3: Oh wait, is that a new one?

1415
01:14:08,479 --> 01:14:13,360
Speaker 1: No, it's so we updated the wheelspin. This is Sam.

1416
01:14:13,520 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 7: By the way, Sam, Sam updated the wheel spin. So

1417
01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 7: if you're upset with it, you upset with Sam. If

1418
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 7: you don't, if you love it, you be in love

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01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:20,519
Speaker 7: with Sam.

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01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:21,639
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 1: A lot of people are awkward turtle. What the awkward turtle?

1422
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:34,520
Speaker 3: Just the love with them? I can't even condone that behavior.

1423
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:38,719
Speaker 3: But I'm here for it, my god, John, awkward turtle,

1424
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:43,360
Speaker 3: You're unstoppable at all? Right, all right, we're spinning right now.

1425
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:49,280
Speaker 1: I need more. I need more. You ask for amazing.

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01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:52,240
Speaker 3: It's that's it's you gotta refresh it.

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01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:55,599
Speaker 7: Yeah, wait wait, wait wait it is no can oh

1428
01:14:55,640 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 7: wait wait never mind, You're right, I get.

1429
01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 3: Awkward turtle hands? Please also more time.

1430
01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:01,800
Speaker 1: What's it's like this?

1431
01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:02,200
Speaker 3: Oh?

1432
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:04,439
Speaker 4: What is that?

1433
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:05,799
Speaker 3: Awkward turtle?

1434
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:08,559
Speaker 1: That doesn't look awkward at all? It's why it's an

1435
01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 1: awkward turtle. Doesn't look awkward. This looks like a turtle

1436
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:14,599
Speaker 1: to you? Can but like you do it with someone right?

1437
01:15:15,080 --> 01:15:17,920
Speaker 3: Better than no, It's just it looks awkward. See.

1438
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 1: Look the thumbs are all all wrong.

1439
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, we're spinning a spinner spin.

1440
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 1: Give it to me?

1441
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 3: Ooh that what is it? I don't know what that means?

1442
01:15:36,760 --> 01:15:40,599
Speaker 1: Do you know how to and I don't I don't

1443
01:15:40,640 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 1: know what. I don't know either of that? What's hard?

1444
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 1: Oh you don't want to know? Uh? Ken? Do you

1445
01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:48,800
Speaker 1: know how to do? I do not know how to do?

1446
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:52,680
Speaker 1: Who we call it? Are we calling? We're calling ghostbusters?

1447
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:55,400
Speaker 1: Are we calling a lot of viewer?

1448
01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:56,960
Speaker 4: That is?

1449
01:15:57,479 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 1: I think that's what. Indeed, that's so cool. We will

1450
01:16:03,760 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 1: call up our boy, We'll call up technical.

1451
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 3: In the meantime, could you guys message I believe Riley

1452
01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:12,479
Speaker 3: aka keon right now on discord?

1453
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 1: Uh if you want to hop on and give us

1454
01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:21,280
Speaker 1: a very quick tal dr short story that we can

1455
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 1: react to. Could be my husband of thirty years just

1456
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:27,760
Speaker 1: ran away last night.

1457
01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 3: Cool, it could be that. Did you text Riley let

1458
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:32,240
Speaker 3: us know message? Yeah, I'm texting right now.

1459
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:35,400
Speaker 1: Okay, while we're doing that, you're messaging Riley. Yes, we're

1460
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:37,640
Speaker 1: going to look at stoneations.

1461
01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:43,080
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, we got Awkward Turtle with one hundred and

1462
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:50,759
Speaker 3: twenty seven dollars. You're I'm speechless, so I'm speechless. Awkward Turtle,

1463
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:55,760
Speaker 3: get your single handedly keeping us going truly, I mean,

1464
01:16:56,280 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 3: except for Yoko pel Here who donated twenty five dollars.

1465
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 3: I need to watch the live more often. You can

1466
01:17:03,280 --> 01:17:05,720
Speaker 3: watch the live every weekday.

1467
01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:06,960
Speaker 1: We say it.

1468
01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 3: Every single every single story, and Joco gets more blueprint

1469
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 3: and you have the tools and guess what you use them.

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01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 3: I mean, it's what there's members The member stream is

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01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:23,200
Speaker 3: what Monday. There's always a stream, but there always.

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01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:28,320
Speaker 1: Get maybe get one of those membership donotes.

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01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:33,160
Speaker 3: Uh Ani Moon, thank you for five dollar donation, and

1474
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:37,000
Speaker 3: that's your third one. Wewsers, a group of crows is

1475
01:17:37,040 --> 01:17:40,280
Speaker 3: called a murder. Turtles can breathe out of their butt

1476
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 3: like fingerprints. All tongue prints are unique. Enjoy these facts.

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01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:49,880
Speaker 3: I love y'all, I love you. Yeah, I knew, uh,

1478
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:52,599
Speaker 3: I knew two of those. I did not know turtles

1479
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 3: can breathe out of their button. I will have to

1480
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:54,920
Speaker 3: do a little bit of.

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01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: Research on that. What do you mean, you just gotta

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01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:00,679
Speaker 1: do a little, just a little.

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01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:03,640
Speaker 3: I just got a double check, Josephine, thank you for

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01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 3: the twenty seven Swedish Cruel innerd boxing fight. Florida John

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01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:07,879
Speaker 3: versus Suit.

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01:18:07,760 --> 01:18:08,439
Speaker 1: John, Florida.

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01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:11,479
Speaker 3: John wins Florida John Suit John Florida John in a

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01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:14,599
Speaker 3: in a boxing in a street fight Florida Your street

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01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 3: Fight Florida John wins Florida John John the jail dude

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01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:21,720
Speaker 3: suit John Suit John did boxing at Yale. Dude Suit

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01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:27,080
Speaker 3: John was on the boxing team at like Cambridge, the greatest,

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01:18:27,240 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 3: you know. Yeah, and whatever higher institution you studied at,

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01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:33,640
Speaker 3: you've had, you had some chops.

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01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:36,560
Speaker 1: But it's Balder's Gate three times. I support that.

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01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 3: See you in a.

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01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:43,120
Speaker 1: Hundred years, that's how long you'll be playing. Uh Yo,

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01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:43,519
Speaker 1: go Bell.

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01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:45,760
Speaker 3: Thanks for being a member for six months. It's been

1499
01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:47,920
Speaker 3: a hot minute since I caught the live. Y'all make

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01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:48,519
Speaker 3: my day.

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01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:50,040
Speaker 1: You make our dag.

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01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 3: Bell shucks, shucks and eight and ah. Thank you for

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01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 3: the ten gifted storytime members. Boo, we love it. We

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01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 3: always love when the family expands and Awkward Turtle member

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01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 3: for two months, John, you weren't there, but I finished

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01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:12,240
Speaker 3: all the lives in videos. It took me eight weeks,

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01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:17,559
Speaker 3: thirteen and thirty three. I rechecked my work over y'all's break.

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Speaker 1: Doing it in eight weeks is like astounding. Guess what,

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Speaker 1: Awkward Turtle, I believe you. I believe you one hundred percent.

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01:19:27,439 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 3: He believes you.

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01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:30,639
Speaker 1: I believe you, and that's that's trust. It's not easy

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01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:33,800
Speaker 1: to earn, as we well know. I doubt everyone who

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01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:36,559
Speaker 1: tells me they've watched every episode, which I also love

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Speaker 1: that it's not becoming a thing of people saying that

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01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:42,120
Speaker 1: they've watched every episode with their receipts exactly. That makes

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01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:44,800
Speaker 1: me happy. You need, we need, we need recordings. Yeah,

1517
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 1: we need the recording. I need a ten thousand hour

1518
01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:51,400
Speaker 1: like single we have. We have joked in the past,

1519
01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 1: like should we just like get an intern and their

1520
01:19:54,080 --> 01:19:57,520
Speaker 1: one and only task is to stitch together every episode

1521
01:19:57,600 --> 01:20:01,320
Speaker 1: we've ever done to launch the mega nuclear making a

1522
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:07,160
Speaker 1: nuclear episode, you just straight up full blown nine hundred

1523
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:14,600
Speaker 1: hours four twenty seven hours of okay storytime. Yeah, it's required.

1524
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:17,680
Speaker 7: While we're while we're waiting for Riley to come up here,

1525
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,320
Speaker 7: I say we continue to the next story.

1526
01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:24,479
Speaker 1: I guess we'll put the call on hold potentially. Oh,

1527
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 1: speaking of which, typically with the like goals, we do

1528
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:32,559
Speaker 1: typically also open another uh oh packaging. Oh, we're going

1529
01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:37,920
Speaker 1: to open that little packaging. Also, someone said they love

1530
01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 1: Baldersgate three and their favorite companions. I love.

1531
01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:43,840
Speaker 7: It's gonna be pretty obvious. I love shadow Heart, and

1532
01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 7: I love Carlac. That's it, and that's that's my take.

1533
01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:49,800
Speaker 3: I haven't been able to play balders Gate because I

1534
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:52,639
Speaker 3: know if I started to play Balder's Gate, I would

1535
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:57,360
Speaker 3: become a hermit that doesn't leave his gate seven months.

1536
01:20:57,840 --> 01:21:01,280
Speaker 3: So I have not bought Balderskate, and I mean that

1537
01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:04,439
Speaker 3: I would. My entire life would fall apart if I

1538
01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 3: got balter Skate. Straight up, I don't know. We're we're

1539
01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:17,280
Speaker 3: now we're opening mail package time, package time.

1540
01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:22,880
Speaker 1: This has excellent penmanship. Hey guys, I lurk most of

1541
01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 1: the time, but just want to reach out and say

1542
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:27,160
Speaker 1: thank you for all that you do for us. The

1543
01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 1: okay fam is really one of the most welcoming communities

1544
01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: I've ever had the pleasure of being a part of.

1545
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:35,920
Speaker 1: If you all find yourselves in Alaska, hit me up.

1546
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 1: I'd love to be your tour guide. Insert laughing crying emoji.

1547
01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:45,240
Speaker 1: Thanks again. Uh. Mariah from Alaska. I think I believe

1548
01:21:45,280 --> 01:21:49,720
Speaker 1: so Riyah not Maria. Yeah, Ma, Riah not Maria Mariah.

1549
01:21:49,880 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 1: She literally spelled it out before. Yes, yes, that was

1550
01:21:56,040 --> 01:22:00,759
Speaker 1: me from Mariah. Incredible penmanship. I see Yah right from Alaska.

1551
01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: Special requests Dakota a not hungry polar bear. Yes, oh,

1552
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:11,840
Speaker 1: I think Riley a large hoodie Northern Lights in a

1553
01:22:11,920 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 1: bottle that way? What the F That's the best I

1554
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 1: can do? Lol. Sorry, So we have Dane Day. It

1555
01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:25,800
Speaker 1: is dude, This is wow. Is crap.

1556
01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:29,639
Speaker 3: If it's this is to be in Alaska, it's gotta

1557
01:22:29,680 --> 01:22:30,080
Speaker 3: be warm.

1558
01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:32,600
Speaker 1: This was dude, made for Riley to wear it.

1559
01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 9: I am so freaking excited. I love Alaska and I'm

1560
01:22:37,280 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 9: kind of cold right now, and I'm kind of right now.

1561
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:44,000
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, dude, we have timing mother. My mother

1562
01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:45,599
Speaker 9: would never let me wear white is a game because

1563
01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:46,880
Speaker 9: she thought I'd get it dirty, and she was right.

1564
01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:48,960
Speaker 1: But now I can wear white because I'm a responsible adult.

1565
01:22:50,240 --> 01:22:52,920
Speaker 1: How long have you been holding that in Riley? Okay,

1566
01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:55,200
Speaker 1: guys for years? How long have you been waiting to

1567
01:22:55,240 --> 01:22:58,519
Speaker 1: see this? This is an insanely amazing care package. I'm

1568
01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:03,439
Speaker 1: just going to walk you through everything that's Alaskan pure birch, syrup, fire,

1569
01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:09,400
Speaker 1: Alaska's best King salmon jerky. Oh my god, there's more jerky,

1570
01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:15,439
Speaker 1: Alaskan kelp and Cayenne dark chocolate. Alaskan kelp is actually

1571
01:23:15,439 --> 01:23:21,120
Speaker 1: supposed to be really good. Alaska hunter sticks with reindeer

1572
01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:28,400
Speaker 1: meat at it hunter Sticks, Alaskan sour wild huckleberry, gummy bears.

1573
01:23:29,720 --> 01:23:30,280
Speaker 6: What the.

1574
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:35,720
Speaker 1: Official activity guide? Yeah, or Alaska It's every page is

1575
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:46,080
Speaker 1: just get get bears, bear, trees, bear, Oh, hand carved figurine?

1576
01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:48,720
Speaker 1: Is that the not hungry poly bear?

1577
01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:51,840
Speaker 6: Is that?

1578
01:23:52,800 --> 01:23:52,840
Speaker 3: Is?

1579
01:23:52,920 --> 01:23:55,200
Speaker 6: That? Is that? It? Well?

1580
01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 1: I gotta be very careful. I'm gonna oh my god,

1581
01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:11,960
Speaker 1: oh my good, Dakota, I bequeathed this to you in

1582
01:24:12,120 --> 01:24:14,240
Speaker 1: the box. Is so nice? Yeah, this is what?

1583
01:24:14,760 --> 01:24:16,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god? This whoa?

1584
01:24:18,000 --> 01:24:23,200
Speaker 1: This is amazing. And then as micro puzzle of bears

1585
01:24:23,760 --> 01:24:27,440
Speaker 1: eating salmon in a tube, Hungry bears.

1586
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 3: Hungry bears in a tube and not hungry bears in

1587
01:24:30,160 --> 01:24:35,040
Speaker 3: a box, this fishy sticker, oh and this fire Alaska

1588
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:39,400
Speaker 3: northern Lights. Yeah, well northern lights in a cup. That's

1589
01:24:39,479 --> 01:24:41,960
Speaker 3: for I think that was right, Riley. Didn't you ask

1590
01:24:42,000 --> 01:24:43,920
Speaker 3: for the northern lights? Who asked for the Northern lights?

1591
01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 3: Well they got one on a little shot glass there now,

1592
01:24:47,240 --> 01:24:49,719
Speaker 3: buddy water shots.

1593
01:24:50,160 --> 01:24:52,800
Speaker 1: I want to try it all the food. Oh god,

1594
01:24:52,960 --> 01:25:00,320
Speaker 1: I almost Maria from Alaska has literally delivered Riah. Yeah,

1595
01:25:00,520 --> 01:25:08,599
Speaker 1: and I literally literally say it. I'm sorry. Straight to jail, John,

1596
01:25:08,720 --> 01:25:09,280
Speaker 1: go to jail.

1597
01:25:10,080 --> 01:25:10,640
Speaker 3: John's going to.

1598
01:25:12,439 --> 01:25:18,759
Speaker 1: Maria. You're literally the great city again. Dude, it's Mariah

1599
01:25:18,840 --> 01:25:25,200
Speaker 1: like Mariah Carey, Mariah, Mariah. I'm gonna call you June,

1600
01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:29,000
Speaker 1: Mariah from Alaska. Hey, what's up, June. Thank you so much.

1601
01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:31,840
Speaker 1: I would like I would like to say I am

1602
01:25:31,920 --> 01:25:37,840
Speaker 1: disgusted with myself. Yeah, me too, so disappointed. Sometimes the

1603
01:25:37,920 --> 01:25:41,479
Speaker 1: brain doesn't brain, my brain the braining. But literally, look,

1604
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:45,880
Speaker 1: look she said, dude. I know, dude, I am on

1605
01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:49,400
Speaker 1: bend and knee, but I don't do I deserve it?

1606
01:25:49,479 --> 01:25:53,680
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I'm gonna no, I know that's not what

1607
01:25:53,760 --> 01:25:57,040
Speaker 1: I said. John. The sword is now, No, you don't

1608
01:25:57,040 --> 01:25:59,320
Speaker 1: get this is a threat. This is a threat.

1609
01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:00,400
Speaker 2: Is here?

1610
01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:02,920
Speaker 1: The pen is mighty your name, the pen is mightier

1611
01:26:02,960 --> 01:26:11,479
Speaker 1: than Maria Marie. No, no, no, I'm sorry. Okay, I

1612
01:26:11,560 --> 01:26:14,400
Speaker 1: can't say it anymore. See my brain, my brain, you do.

1613
01:26:14,960 --> 01:26:18,680
Speaker 1: My brain is sorry. It's because it's because now you're

1614
01:26:18,720 --> 01:26:20,760
Speaker 1: saying it's now short circuiting, and it's gonna keep telling

1615
01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:22,960
Speaker 1: me to say the wrong thing, and I'm gonna question, like, no,

1616
01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:24,720
Speaker 1: it's not the right thing, but that I switched back,

1617
01:26:24,760 --> 01:26:27,080
Speaker 1: and then when I say it, I can't say it anymore. June.

1618
01:26:27,360 --> 01:26:29,000
Speaker 1: All I can do is apologize. That's why I was

1619
01:26:29,040 --> 01:26:31,720
Speaker 1: trying to apologize and stay away from saying apologize, and

1620
01:26:31,880 --> 01:26:33,720
Speaker 1: you do it again. I knew I would do it.

1621
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:37,519
Speaker 1: I can't. I'm so sorry. It's Mariah say it Mariah,

1622
01:26:37,680 --> 01:26:44,120
Speaker 1: Maria times, Mariah, Mariah, Mariah, Mariah, Mariah al Riah Mariah.

1623
01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:45,240
Speaker 5: June.

1624
01:26:46,280 --> 01:26:49,680
Speaker 1: Oh, that was really funny, though. I'm so sorry. We

1625
01:26:49,840 --> 01:26:52,240
Speaker 1: do have a calluse it's we do have a call

1626
01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:56,400
Speaker 1: with Sky Sky out of Guy Sky out of We're

1627
01:26:56,400 --> 01:26:58,320
Speaker 1: gonna Adams should should I just.

1628
01:27:01,080 --> 01:27:01,240
Speaker 6: Oh?

1629
01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:04,280
Speaker 1: Sky Adams has a short. She has a story. I

1630
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:06,160
Speaker 1: found out my ex was cheating on me because the

1631
01:27:06,280 --> 01:27:11,200
Speaker 1: other girl picked up the face time. Whoa, whoa, Sky?

1632
01:27:11,360 --> 01:27:14,400
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Sky? Are you ready to start? Cauld?

1633
01:27:14,400 --> 01:27:25,880
Speaker 1: I just call him all right, and then hello, hello guy,

1634
01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 1: can you hear us? I can amazing, and we'll try

1635
01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:34,120
Speaker 1: to get you out there we go. Uh So, Sky,

1636
01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:37,960
Speaker 1: uh we just heard an insane title. Please explain.

1637
01:27:39,760 --> 01:27:42,720
Speaker 3: Okay, The.

1638
01:27:44,200 --> 01:27:47,160
Speaker 4: Sentence I sent in was I found out my ex

1639
01:27:47,320 --> 01:27:49,559
Speaker 4: was cheating on me because the other girl picked up

1640
01:27:49,720 --> 01:27:50,439
Speaker 4: the face time.

1641
01:27:52,120 --> 01:27:53,880
Speaker 1: It's a pretty bold thing for her to do.

1642
01:27:55,600 --> 01:28:00,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's multiple layers to the story, and I didn't

1643
01:28:00,520 --> 01:28:02,360
Speaker 4: know exactly what the title is, so.

1644
01:28:02,479 --> 01:28:03,880
Speaker 6: I titled it this way.

1645
01:28:04,439 --> 01:28:06,640
Speaker 1: That's great, give us, give us, give us the walk through,

1646
01:28:06,680 --> 01:28:08,400
Speaker 1: what what what led up to the event, and then

1647
01:28:08,439 --> 01:28:11,040
Speaker 1: give us what actually happened at that moment, walk us

1648
01:28:11,080 --> 01:28:11,320
Speaker 1: through it.

1649
01:28:11,920 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 6: So.

1650
01:28:12,960 --> 01:28:16,360
Speaker 4: So I was always kind of like the weird kid

1651
01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:18,960
Speaker 4: in school and everything, because I'm autistic and everything.

1652
01:28:20,360 --> 01:28:21,439
Speaker 1: Uh So, like.

1653
01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:27,400
Speaker 4: I was never really looked at. And so this was,

1654
01:28:27,520 --> 01:28:32,920
Speaker 4: you know, in grade school and everything. And and so

1655
01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:35,880
Speaker 4: there's this one guy. I didn't really know him, but

1656
01:28:36,040 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 4: he came to me for math like questions and stuff

1657
01:28:39,360 --> 01:28:42,519
Speaker 4: like that because I was always good at math. And

1658
01:28:42,800 --> 01:28:46,759
Speaker 4: we started talking and we kind of started becoming friends,

1659
01:28:47,240 --> 01:28:49,720
Speaker 4: and he like even introduced me to like his like

1660
01:28:50,120 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 4: friend group and everything, and they kind of started laughing

1661
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:53,200
Speaker 4: at me.

1662
01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:55,040
Speaker 6: But he offended me, and so.

1663
01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:57,800
Speaker 4: Like if I thought it was like a really tight

1664
01:28:58,000 --> 01:29:04,439
Speaker 4: like friendship and everything, but I didn't really like see

1665
01:29:05,760 --> 01:29:07,960
Speaker 4: like flags or anything like that. And then he said

1666
01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:10,200
Speaker 4: he asked me out, like towards the end of the

1667
01:29:10,280 --> 01:29:15,439
Speaker 4: school year, and I was like, you know, I'm.

1668
01:29:15,320 --> 01:29:16,360
Speaker 6: Starting to get to know you.

1669
01:29:16,560 --> 01:29:21,400
Speaker 4: I admittedly I didn't really have strong feelings for him,

1670
01:29:22,000 --> 01:29:25,519
Speaker 4: but you know, I was young, and I was like,

1671
01:29:25,640 --> 01:29:25,920
Speaker 4: you know what.

1672
01:29:26,000 --> 01:29:28,960
Speaker 6: I want a relationship. So I started dating him, and

1673
01:29:29,960 --> 01:29:34,000
Speaker 6: like I at least I agreed, and.

1674
01:29:36,960 --> 01:29:42,479
Speaker 4: Uh, like sometimes passes about like two months and I

1675
01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:45,040
Speaker 4: was out of the state because I was visiting my

1676
01:29:45,120 --> 01:29:48,720
Speaker 4: family over summer break and I had woken up from

1677
01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:50,880
Speaker 4: a nightmare and so I called him.

1678
01:29:51,560 --> 01:29:57,440
Speaker 6: Oh no, he FaceTime and this girl.

1679
01:29:58,640 --> 01:30:10,760
Speaker 3: Naked Nikki nak the birthday suit okay, okay, And what

1680
01:30:10,880 --> 01:30:12,240
Speaker 3: did she have to say for herself?

1681
01:30:13,400 --> 01:30:14,320
Speaker 6: She was like who are you?

1682
01:30:14,720 --> 01:30:19,240
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm sorry, but I have to ask,

1683
01:30:19,439 --> 01:30:22,880
Speaker 1: is this like how much of her was visible? Like

1684
01:30:23,360 --> 01:30:26,320
Speaker 1: answering a call like that on someone else's phone is

1685
01:30:26,600 --> 01:30:29,439
Speaker 1: so beyond crazy. She knew what she's doing.

1686
01:30:30,640 --> 01:30:33,560
Speaker 6: I saw bazoonkas. That's about it.

1687
01:30:34,920 --> 01:30:40,920
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, please continue please Yeah, someone used too gets sad.

1688
01:30:41,920 --> 01:30:44,200
Speaker 6: I had to I had to think of I had

1689
01:30:44,280 --> 01:30:46,040
Speaker 6: to think of a YouTube friendly.

1690
01:30:45,800 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 1: Way, great one. Thank you. You're better than saying that

1691
01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:51,960
Speaker 1: this already. Yeah. So what happened next?

1692
01:30:54,320 --> 01:30:57,040
Speaker 6: I was like, and then after I was like, oh,

1693
01:30:57,160 --> 01:31:03,280
Speaker 6: I'm sky, she goes, oh you're that little place, like

1694
01:31:03,400 --> 01:31:07,040
Speaker 6: that little playting girl that he's been talking to right,

1695
01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:07,680
Speaker 6: Oh no.

1696
01:31:09,400 --> 01:31:09,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1697
01:31:13,080 --> 01:31:17,679
Speaker 2: Basically, after like she picked up and everything, she basically

1698
01:31:17,920 --> 01:31:22,320
Speaker 2: just revealed that like he didn't really care about me

1699
01:31:22,439 --> 01:31:24,600
Speaker 2: at all, and he was just trying to like.

1700
01:31:26,520 --> 01:31:31,439
Speaker 4: Like essentially like with later context here, what happened was

1701
01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:34,960
Speaker 4: he was trying to impress this girl who wasn't given

1702
01:31:35,040 --> 01:31:35,880
Speaker 4: him the time of day.

1703
01:31:36,400 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 6: And then when he was like, I'm in.

1704
01:31:37,920 --> 01:31:42,840
Speaker 10: A relationship and everything, she was like, you know what,

1705
01:31:43,680 --> 01:31:45,720
Speaker 10: I kind of want, you know, and so.

1706
01:31:45,800 --> 01:31:47,080
Speaker 6: They started to seeing each other.

1707
01:31:47,439 --> 01:31:48,800
Speaker 2: I was literally just a pawn.

1708
01:31:49,479 --> 01:31:55,439
Speaker 3: No, man, that's some cold water, but yeah, you're actually

1709
01:31:55,920 --> 01:32:02,240
Speaker 3: a queen. Queen a queen okay, and Uh, that guy,

1710
01:32:03,040 --> 01:32:06,080
Speaker 3: he's just he's he's the table. Yeah, he's just a

1711
01:32:06,560 --> 01:32:07,160
Speaker 3: piece of wood.

1712
01:32:07,240 --> 01:32:09,040
Speaker 1: He's just a he's nothing.

1713
01:32:09,280 --> 01:32:12,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, they did you in a in a way, it's

1714
01:32:12,800 --> 01:32:16,960
Speaker 3: a favor done because you know, now, okay, trash, take

1715
01:32:16,960 --> 01:32:20,599
Speaker 3: a scanned person not associating with that, Load him onto

1716
01:32:20,600 --> 01:32:23,560
Speaker 3: the trebu sha, launch him out of the Earth's atmosphere.

1717
01:32:23,680 --> 01:32:25,360
Speaker 1: There we go. Get him out of here, get him

1718
01:32:25,360 --> 01:32:28,880
Speaker 1: in the part to the or to the orc cloud.

1719
01:32:29,520 --> 01:32:32,120
Speaker 1: Let him just hang over. I don't even care nowhere.

1720
01:32:32,360 --> 01:32:36,200
Speaker 1: I don't even deserve the abyss for eternity loading around. Yeah,

1721
01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:41,400
Speaker 1: I mean, like, no, that is that the appropriate punishments?

1722
01:32:41,400 --> 01:32:41,519
Speaker 2: Guy?

1723
01:32:41,600 --> 01:32:43,600
Speaker 1: Do you think that would do it justice for you?

1724
01:32:44,400 --> 01:32:49,040
Speaker 4: I think they got enough fatherishment from life because this

1725
01:32:49,200 --> 01:32:50,400
Speaker 4: happened in grade school.

1726
01:32:50,520 --> 01:32:56,840
Speaker 10: I have graduated college by now. She got pregnant in

1727
01:32:57,680 --> 01:33:03,200
Speaker 10: about sixteen, so like seventeen. I think, so this is

1728
01:33:04,320 --> 01:33:06,000
Speaker 10: already struggling.

1729
01:33:07,600 --> 01:33:07,960
Speaker 3: Wow.

1730
01:33:08,600 --> 01:33:11,559
Speaker 1: Well, hey, Sky says life, that bad karma hit. Wait,

1731
01:33:11,920 --> 01:33:15,880
Speaker 1: I've punished him enough. Well Sky, Uh my god, thank

1732
01:33:15,920 --> 01:33:20,280
Speaker 1: you for sharing a jaw dropping story today. And uh,

1733
01:33:20,479 --> 01:33:22,920
Speaker 1: I hope that the rest of your life goes the

1734
01:33:23,000 --> 01:33:26,040
Speaker 1: exact opposite way that that story was. Which is phenomenal.

1735
01:33:26,120 --> 01:33:30,840
Speaker 6: Yes, I've been in a love and relationship for six years.

1736
01:33:30,880 --> 01:33:32,400
Speaker 6: At this point, there we go.

1737
01:33:33,760 --> 01:33:38,400
Speaker 1: There we freaking go. Whoa. Well, Sky, thank you so much,

1738
01:33:38,560 --> 01:33:39,680
Speaker 1: and have a great rest of your day.

1739
01:33:39,720 --> 01:33:41,679
Speaker 3: Thanks for joining us, Thank you, thank.

1740
01:33:41,560 --> 01:33:44,640
Speaker 1: You, Thanks Sky, Bye bye bye, Sky. I have a

1741
01:33:44,720 --> 01:33:48,640
Speaker 1: good one, Sky. All right. Wow. I wasn't ready for that.

1742
01:33:49,520 --> 01:33:52,639
Speaker 1: My body was not prepared for the insanity that turns

1743
01:33:53,160 --> 01:33:54,559
Speaker 1: my goodness great. Yeah.

1744
01:33:54,600 --> 01:33:58,800
Speaker 3: Also Bbie memes, Yeah, grade school. I don't know if

1745
01:33:58,840 --> 01:34:00,800
Speaker 3: that was like somehow that was a callback to that

1746
01:34:00,880 --> 01:34:06,040
Speaker 3: one joke. Yeah, somehow we still had to go back

1747
01:34:06,120 --> 01:34:06,320
Speaker 3: to that.

1748
01:34:08,960 --> 01:34:14,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Anyways, No, yeah, I mean it doesn't.

1749
01:34:14,720 --> 01:34:18,880
Speaker 3: You're the capability of being a complete a hole is

1750
01:34:19,520 --> 01:34:24,599
Speaker 3: really it's transcends. It transcends any notion of time or space.

1751
01:34:25,479 --> 01:34:28,360
Speaker 3: At any moment, you could be a complete garbage person,

1752
01:34:28,560 --> 01:34:29,120
Speaker 3: got it.